1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Welcome to Good Game with Sarah Spain, where our attention 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: is being stolen away from women's sports by the trophy 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: for the Pop Tart Bowl. It's an actual functioning toaster, y'all. 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't care about the game. I don't care about 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: the teams. I do care about the toaster trophy and 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: that sexy ass Pop Tart mascot. It's Tuesday, December seventeenth, 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: and if you think me lusting after a Pop Tart 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: mascot is unhinged. Buckle up for today's show because we 9 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: got a hilarious and occasionally off the rails group chat 10 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: with actor and podcast host er Fight Master and comedy 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: writer and stand up Aaron Foley. Plus the BWHL is back, 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: the WNBA is going international kind of, and a tip 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: for all those links you click but haven't gotten to yet, 14 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: it's all coming up right after this welcome back. Here's 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: what you need to know today. The WNBA announced on 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: Monday that the league's first ever international regular season game 17 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: will be played next season between the Atlanta Dream and 18 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: Seattle Storm in Vancouver, British Columbia. Rogers Arena will host 19 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: the two teams for a game on August fifteenth, and 20 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: while it's technically international, it'll still be Seattle's closest away 21 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 1: game of the season. Vancouver's just over one hundred miles 22 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: north of Climate Pledge Arena in Seattle. In college hoops, 23 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: we've got some movement in the AP rankings following a 24 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: couple big matchups last week. Ucla is still locked in 25 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: at the number one spot, but notre Name climbed five 26 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: spots to number three thanks to their win over Yukon. 27 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: And speaking of Yukon, in the Huskies face another tough 28 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: opponent tonight in Iowa State. Iowa State just fell out 29 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: of the top twenty five after losing to Iowa in 30 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: the Iowa Corns Syhawk series, so you know the Cyclones 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: will be looking to make the most out of playing 32 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: another ranked opponent. By the way, I've said Syhawk multiple 33 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: times and I just realized it's Cyclones plus Hawks Syhawk. 34 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: Cool to three x three basketball, the team USA women 35 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: won silver at the PHOEBA three x three AmeriCup in 36 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: Porto Rico over the weekend after winning their group and 37 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: defeating Chile and Puerto Rico in the quarterfinals and semifinals. 38 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: The US team of Abby Sue Matty segrest Azare Stevens 39 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: and Britney Sykes fell to Canada in the final nineteen eighteen. 40 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: In overtime. Sykes was named the Al Tournament Team, while 41 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: Canadian player Paige Crozen was named MVP. To Hockey, The 42 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,839 Speaker 1: PWHL is back in action tonight following a week long 43 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: international break. The Boston Fleet hosts the Ottawa Charge tonight. 44 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: We'll link to the full upcoming PWHL schedule in our 45 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: show notes to Soccer Across the Pond. Prize money for 46 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: the twenty twenty five Women's European Championship is set to 47 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: double following a pledge from UEFA, the European soccer governing body. 48 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: Now there's still a long way to go. The sixteen 49 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: women's teams that compete next July in Switzerland will share 50 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: a prize pool of forty one million euros that's about 51 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: forty three million US dollars, while the men's championship has 52 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: a total purse of three hundred thirty one million euros. 53 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, ways to go. The European Championship is held 54 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: once every four years, and the last time the attorney 55 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 1: was held it broke attendance record after attendance record, concluding 56 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: with more than eighty seven thousand fans squishing into Wembley 57 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: Stadium to watch England defeat Germany in extra time. Quick 58 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: me a kolpa from yours truly. Last week we shouted 59 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: out the books in our Good Game book Club, from 60 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: interviews we've done with authors to books we've recommended when 61 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: we've talked about different athletes and leagues and issues, and 62 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: I forgot one. David Barry and Nefwalker came on the 63 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: show in mid November for a great convo about their 64 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: book Slaying the Trolls, Why the Trolls are very, very 65 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: wrong about women and sports. It was a fantastic conversation 66 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: and it's a fantastic book and such a great holiday 67 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: present for anyone who cares about women's sports, understanding their 68 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: potential and economic opportunity, their history, and why the future 69 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: looks so bright. So my apology is to David Neff. 70 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: But now I got your own little shout out, So 71 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: all's forgiven by the book local bookstore. Please, We're going 72 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: to take a quick break slices when we come back. 73 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: Genderless Gap Ads, Ron Swanson and Low Bunny. It's time 74 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: for group Chat with the hilarious Er and erin It's 75 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: time for another edition of group Chat where we take 76 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: the t from the text and we put it on 77 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: the airwaves. Joining us. They're an actor known for work 78 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 1: on Gray's Anatomy and Shrill, one of three co hosts 79 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: of the hilarious podcast Jocular, and a musician. Last year, 80 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: they released their debut EP Violence through their solo music 81 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: project fight Master. They love to take a perve minute 82 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: for a rock climber's hands. It's Er fight Master. What's up? 83 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: Er? 84 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: Wow? 85 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: What an intro? Thank you so much. 86 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: You're welcome. Joining Er. She's a comedy writer, stand up comedian, 87 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: and the host of the hur Lights podcast. Her writing 88 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: credits include two seasons of that ninety show, One Day 89 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: at a Time, and the sb Award. She's a massive 90 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: sportsman and she probably dated your ex girlfriend. It's Aaron Boley. 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 3: Oh my god, nailed it, nailed it. 92 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: If you remember Aaron's past appearance. We went to the 93 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: bar at the WNBA All Star Game and connected with 94 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: her snow sister snowballs. What's that called again? 95 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 3: Oh god, I don't even know. 96 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: Is that term for like when you both the same 97 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: people snowball snowball sisters. 98 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 3: I have so many snowballs sisters that I bet you 99 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 3: do everywhere I go, just another snowball sister. 100 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: Thanks for joining. How do you all know each other? 101 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: Because Aaron, you helped wrangle er because I didn't have 102 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: R's number, but you did. 103 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 3: We just met actually at a UCLA basketball I don't 104 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: know what would you call that? A fundraiser? Fundraiser and 105 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 3: we were sitting next to each other. I was like, Hey, 106 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 3: what's going on? And then we were fast friends because 107 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 3: we're just ripping on everything. 108 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: But I also I also believe that it's a bit 109 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 2: of vanity because I think we kind of look alike, 110 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: and so I think we were like, should we be friends? Yeah, 111 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 2: there was a real ease of communication. And actually I 112 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: remember watching your stand up God and the person I 113 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 2: was with at the time, they're like, Jesus, y'all could 114 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: be related. And then so then when we met it, 115 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 2: the thing I had a really deep like went through 116 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: a like a tunnel of like recollection, which is why 117 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: I think you said your name and I kind of 118 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,679 Speaker 2: held like your hand and shook it for too long. 119 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: I was back here. I was having a that' so 120 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: raven moment. 121 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: I could see it. I could see it for sure. Yer, 122 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: I want you to tell us. Speaking of names, I'm 123 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: sure you've said this a million times, but for our 124 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: listeners that haven't heard it, can you explain your social 125 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: media name genderless gap Ad. 126 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: I came into a theater rehearsal one time dressed in 127 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 2: all denim and a white hat, and my director at 128 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 2: the time went, you look like a genderless gap Ad 129 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: and I said, I'm changing my handle right now. 130 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it is very appropriate. I've never asked or 131 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: wondered about an origin story. It just felt right. 132 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: No, And sometimes, like I'm walking around, people will say, like, 133 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 2: I think I have a memorable real name, but people 134 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 2: will be like, genderous gap Pad. It's kind of awesome. 135 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, fight master is your real name, so 136 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: you'd think anyone at any time would go for that one. 137 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: But there is a really nice ring to genderless gap Ad. 138 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: I think people think I'm I think people think I'm 139 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: talking with them with the fight master thing, and so 140 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 2: sometimes I think people avoid saying it because they're like, 141 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 2: you're not going to get me, Like everybody else might 142 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: believe this, but not me. 143 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 3: That's funny genderless gap pad just rolls off the tongue. Yeah, 144 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 3: does just look at you and I'm like, okay, yeah. 145 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: That's like there was a certain time where any photo 146 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: that had a diverse group of people in it, we 147 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: would always say it looked like a Benetton ad. Do 148 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: you remember that? Oh yeah, I'm aging myself. Maybe er 149 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: doesn't remember. Aaron and I are closer in age, but yeah, 150 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: that was like you do. That was the go too. 151 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: Is it looks like a Benetton ad? Okay, Aaron, you 152 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: were on before. This is your triumphant return to group chat. 153 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: But for those who might have missed it, give us 154 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: a quick summary of her lights and why people should 155 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: watch and listen to it. 156 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: Well, I've been obsessed with women's sports since nineteen twelve, 157 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 3: and so I just decided I started it actually ten 158 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 3: years ago and when no one was paying attention, which 159 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: is always good timing, and then I took a couple 160 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 3: of years off, did a rebrand. So it's just basically 161 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 3: like a weekly deep dive conversation in the world of 162 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: women's sports for like an athlete, coach, reporter, journalist, And 163 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 3: it's just like kind of you know, trying to elevate 164 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 3: them as a human, elevate the sport, and yeah, just 165 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 3: getting to know them as like human beings versus like 166 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 3: x's and o's. I mean, sometimes it gets nerdy, but 167 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 3: I just love like hearing people's origin stories and how 168 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 3: they got into what they're doing. And yeah, I just 169 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: love meeting people. Literally I could talk to like a 170 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 3: new person for like an hour and a half about nothing, 171 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 3: so pretty much it's pretty fun and nerdy and yeah, 172 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 3: and I try to keep it light and fun. There's 173 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: there's no like hard hitting journalist questions. 174 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: You ever on the phone and the other person drops 175 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: out and you wonder how long you were talking before 176 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: you realize that they weren't there anymore. Because that's me 177 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: with both new people and like walls, Like I could 178 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: talk to like inanimate objects for a good hour before 179 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, we're not talking. You did some interviews 180 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: on the road lately with like Rene Stubbs and Anti Costable. 181 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: What are those? Are those a specific kind of episode 182 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: or a different kind of tour? 183 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 3: I think I think what it is is like when 184 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 3: you start something new and you get really excited and 185 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 3: then you just put five live tour dates on your 186 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 3: calendar and you have no idea what's going to happen. 187 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 3: I would encourage everybody to crawl outside of their comfort 188 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 3: zone and then also drink. But it was it was 189 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 3: really fun. I just was like, what if I just 190 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 3: tried to combine and stand up comedy in a live podcast. 191 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it was a cute, it was I 192 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 3: would tweak the format. Yeah, just honestly talking like with 193 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 3: Annie about Chicago Sky and WNB and like her life 194 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 3: as a reporter and how she got into it in 195 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 3: front of a live, you know, a live audience. It 196 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 3: was so much fun. It was fantastic, you know. So 197 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 3: and then Renee, you know, I've known her forever. We 198 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: met at a comedy club a long time ago, randomly 199 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 3: and then I stalked her gently. So yeah, we talked 200 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,199 Speaker 3: about like, you know, tennis, and she's a big Liberty 201 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 3: fan and so it was just it was just so fun. 202 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 3: I had like the time of my life. So hopefully 203 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: we do some I try to get you. You were 204 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: my first ask and chicken, I know, and I. 205 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: Was so bummed to miss because the night that you 206 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: had it was my big Halloween night party. So I 207 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: was dressed like Ellie the Elephant, and it would have 208 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 1: been a perfect time to crash your event. It just 209 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: was complete other side of town. So we're gonna do 210 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: it another time. Once you tweak, I'll just be like 211 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: the debut episode of the better and nearly tweaked version, 212 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: perfect perfect Er. I'm obsessed with jocular as you know, 213 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: I was recently on the podcast, so everyone can go 214 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: find the episode, right, guest, Thank you. It was so 215 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: much fun. It makes me laugh so much. It's my 216 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: It's one of two podcast that when I listen walking 217 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: down the street, I'm fully aware that I look like 218 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: a lunatic because I'm just walking alone laughing. And it's 219 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: probably not clear I AirPods. And what was the genesis 220 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: for that podcast? What inspired it? Uh? 221 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 2: The genesis was twenty twenty Actually we were, you know, 222 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 2: Katie and Tiana and I were all in our respective 223 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 2: homes and we were all sending these memes back and forth, 224 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: and you know, like twenty twenty months obviously the year 225 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: where all of these people that were otherwise not watching 226 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: women's sports had no option but to start watching women's sports, 227 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 2: and so you were starting to see all the dialogue 228 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 2: start to happen, and in some graceful ways and some 229 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 2: ungraceful ways about women and the color of their skin 230 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: and the amount they were making and whether or not 231 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 2: they had children and all this stuff. And and Tienna 232 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 2: and I are all very like activist based, we're big 233 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 2: old feminists, and we were just kind of, you know, 234 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: we're so fascinated by the sports themselves, but really becoming 235 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 2: fascinated with Oh, this is going to be the come 236 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 2: together point for so many important cultural conversations that we're 237 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 2: not willing to have, and we want to be there 238 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 2: for that conversation, and we want to do it in 239 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: a funny way. And so that was the genesis of it, 240 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: and it's mutated in a beautiful way into this very fun, 241 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: lighthearted queer thing. And our goal is always to bring 242 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: in listeners that have felt excluded from the sports space 243 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 2: and people that maybe did not play sports or don't 244 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 2: know anything about sports at all, who don't want to 245 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: hear anything about statistics. 246 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 1: They want to come. 247 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 2: They want to hear us talk and joke about the 248 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 2: women and queer people who play sports and do it beautifully, 249 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 2: and then they get to feel like they are supporting 250 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: all of these leagues full of women that are all 251 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 2: on their margins, you know, And so I think I 252 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 2: think the listeners feel good, we feel good doing it, 253 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 2: and it's just been a great experience. 254 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am really waiting for the seminal work that 255 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 1: someone writes about twenty twenty, because I'm sure there's been 256 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: so many think pieces and like shorter things, but it's 257 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: really fascinating how much came out of stillness or a 258 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: forced just slowing down. And so for a lot of people, 259 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: it's been really hard to go back, and a lot 260 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: of people really struggled with like getting back up to 261 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: speed after they finally slowed down. But also so many 262 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: people finally like looked around and like created a new business, 263 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: created a company, started a podcast, wrote a book, did 264 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: all these things that like all they really needed was 265 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: enough time to like stop for one second and listen 266 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: to their own thoughts. And same goes with like all 267 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: of our collective reckonings around so many major issues. It's like, 268 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: if we're busy enough, let's just keep avoiding talking about 269 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: institutional racism and women getting the shaft. Not literally no 270 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: perf moment there, but yeah, and then instead we have 271 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: this opportunity and the question is are we actually going 272 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: to learn from that at all going forward and try 273 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: to incorporate more of that stillness and time and space 274 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: into what we do so we can more creative and 275 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: fine possibility, or are we immediately rushing back to like 276 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 1: that was a little scary and much so let's fill 277 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: every second of our day again. You know what the. 278 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: Bravest thing to me about twenty twenty, it was either 279 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 2: twenty twenty or twenty twenty one where we had the 280 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: WNBA bubble twenty twenty right twenty twenty, I think, and 281 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: we had we had the bubble, and these women who 282 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: are in this league that was like largely unwatched by 283 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 2: most of America, all of these like a league that's 284 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 2: like eighty percent black women, they finally have the mic 285 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 2: that people are finally watching their games. And at the 286 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: same time, the BLM movement is happening in full force, 287 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 2: and those women without missing ab are like, we're going 288 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: to use this as an opportunity to do activism and 289 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 2: to speak up about you know, police violence and what 290 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 2: we believe in. And there was I was just like, whoa, Like, 291 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: the camera's finally on you, and none of you are like, okay, wait, 292 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: you guys, this is our time to be really palatable. 293 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: This is the time to win the hearts. Mind they 294 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 2: fully were coming in with those like T shirts, everyone. 295 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: Wear half shirts, your hair up, cute. 296 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: Big bikinis. Hid the lesbianism. They were fully like no, 297 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 2: like say her name, like I don't know. 298 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: I found it so brave. 299 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 3: And then played the Best Basketball Hours lead. It was 300 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 3: mind blowing. I mean, par the dream that documentary. If 301 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 3: you haven't seen it, you have to. Everybody has to 302 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 3: see that. 303 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it also was like yet another lesson of 304 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: like actually leaning into authenticity and standing for something. Is 305 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: the women's sports space. It is the women's sports space. 306 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: It is what drives and interests people in addition to 307 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: great sport. And yes, some people are just there to 308 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: watch great sport. Awesome, and so many other people. To 309 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: your point, here are the people who listen to your 310 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: podcast want to be a part of something they've never 311 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: been invited to before. And the way to do that 312 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: is to stop thinking about what the average man wants 313 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: and instead thinking about what matters to you and how 314 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: you want. I have a friend who has never been 315 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: interested in sports, and she saw Megan Repina do an 316 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: interview saying We're not going to the fucking White House, 317 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: and she was like, who is this? What's happening? I'm 318 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: interested right, this queer friend of mine, I like this, 319 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: what's happening? Decided to go to a US Women's National 320 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: team watch party in the park in Chicago. We have 321 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: these big like screens and bars and setups when there's 322 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: big moments like that here in Chicago. But she brought 323 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: a book because she was like, I think I'm going 324 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: to be bored, and then a little picnic blanket and 325 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: like sat really far away from everybody else and then 326 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: was like by the end of it, booking flights to 327 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: go to friendlies in other cities and like buying merchant 328 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, whatever this is, I'm obsessed 329 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: with it, and like that's it. I asked her I 330 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: wanted to interview her after that for a espnW story 331 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: because I was so intrigued, and I was like, when 332 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 1: was the last time you were at a sports stadium, like, 333 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: because she went to Soldier Field for one of the 334 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: US Women's National team games and she said, does Taylor 335 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: Swift count And I was like, no, it doesn't count 336 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: as a sporting event that you last went to. Anyway, 337 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 1: I think that is fascinating earon that they lean and 338 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: so hard and it worked. 339 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: I will say we did cover the eras to her 340 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: as a sporting event on Jocular because of it, because 341 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 2: being three hours long and running for months and months 342 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 2: and months, and so that's all I'll say for the 343 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 2: swifties out there. 344 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and Taylor inspired a lot of other people 345 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: to start running on the treadmill trying to do what 346 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: she did for three hours and realizing that she is 347 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: literally superhuman. Okay, let's talk Caitlyn Clark. This Time magazine 348 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: interview was incredible. Also, wish it had run I don't know, 349 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: six months ago. Yeah, it's a lot of time and conversation. 350 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: But of course, the inevitable is the reaction from the 351 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: folks who are saying they will now stop rooting for 352 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: and watching her. The die hard basketball fans who were 353 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: very much there for the basketball will now stop watching 354 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: and rooting for her because she mentioned the word privilege, 355 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: and she talked about how great it would be if 356 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 1: we acknowledge and lifted up black players who helped make 357 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: the league what it is and continue to do so. Aaron, 358 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: this is predictable potentially even just parroting conversations other people 359 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: are seeing there. It might not even be people that 360 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: believe this, they're just like, Oh, I want to be 361 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 1: a part of this anti woke thing, so let me 362 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: copypaste that. I'm not watching Caitlin anymore. But what is 363 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: your reaction to her finally saying the thing that a 364 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: lot of people were sort of waiting for her to articulate, 365 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: and what that means going forward for the league, whether 366 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: it can actually help repair some of the stuff that 367 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: we saw so terribly manifest la last season. 368 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, first of all, my reaction to people saying 369 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 3: they're not going to watch her again or watch the WNBA, great, 370 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 3: bye bye, Masia. Just put slide that manhole cover over, 371 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 3: crawl back in to your humanity adjacent life. You obviously 372 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 3: had no experience any of the mission statements from day 373 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 3: one about the w what the WNBA stands for, you know, 374 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 3: just inclusion and equity and social justice. They obviously have 375 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 3: missed that for the last twenty eight seasons, so good 376 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 3: riddance to that. We got to wed those out anyway. 377 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 3: So but yeah, yeah, I mean, you know, she was 378 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: under so much pressure every single time. Like it's just 379 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 3: I felt like, God, we needed to give we have 380 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 3: a little a little bit more patience, you know that 381 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you can play the highest level 382 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 3: of basketball, what is she you know, fifteen and then 383 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 3: speak eloquently about race and inclusion and equit, you know 384 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 3: what I mean. So, but obviously she has a responsibility too. 385 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 3: So I think the article and I you know, I'm 386 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 3: I'm kind of blown away by her first of all, 387 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 3: long time coming, but like also gave her a lot 388 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 3: of like leeway to have those learning curve for sure, 389 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 3: But I'm just so impressed, like how comfortable she is 390 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 3: in her own skin, Like that's pretty amazing that, you know, 391 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 3: for her just to kind of sit back and be 392 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 3: like this is who I am and blah blah blah. 393 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 3: And it seemed really sincere and not like a pr move. 394 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 3: And so yeah, I'm hoping we just get back to like, 395 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 3: you know, awesome basketball in twenty twenty five and not 396 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 3: have these like idiots, you know, trolling around saying the 397 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 3: dum miss shit. 398 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 1: Well, she also provided some really good sort of antidotes 399 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: to some of the things that people were pissed about 400 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 1: like Danna Tarrossi saying, like, you know, get ready, rook, 401 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: this is gonna be a tough league. And then here 402 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: we have Kaitlyn Clark literally saying, I was blown away 403 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: by how shitty the other college players were. They were 404 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: terrible at guarding me. Were they even trying. That's not 405 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: a direct quote, but essentially she came hard with it 406 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: and honest, and she's allowed to say that, and more 407 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: power to her. But that's the kind of stuff that 408 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: other players were saying, and they were accused of bullying 409 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:34,120 Speaker 1: and not being welcoming and hating her and resenting her, 410 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 1: and it's like, no, this is just how basketball players 411 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: talk about basketball, and now that she's doing it too, 412 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: can we stop with that garbage? And like, er, that's 413 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: I think you know, you were just mentioning people feeling 414 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: welcome to talk about sports or at least dip a 415 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: toe into sports on your show. A lot of people 416 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: dipped a toe into the WNBA because of Caitlyn Clark, 417 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: and for some of them when they got there, it 418 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: was a disappointment to see like that lady that will 419 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 1: never forget with the fake and nails that she put 420 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: on her her hands to try to attack djan A 421 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: Carrington and make the space something that it hadn't been 422 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 1: at all, And I think like, hopefully this can get 423 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: us back to some of the ways we felt about 424 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: going to a WNBA game and women's sports space, where 425 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: it isn't so like everyone's at odds. 426 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: I think that you're right, Aaron, in the sense of like, 427 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 2: these conversations that we are having now because we have 428 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: people like Kitten and we have people like Angel Reese, 429 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 2: they are conversations that actually needed to happen. And when 430 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 2: I see people trolling the league, I feel very blessed 431 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 2: that they've made themselves so apparent so that we don't 432 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 2: have to invite them to anything or give a shit 433 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 2: about what they think at all. I loved this article 434 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 2: with Caitlin because I loved that how when they said 435 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:53,640 Speaker 2: that she lacked any false humility, she really did. There 436 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,919 Speaker 2: was like She's like, I'm a great player. This is 437 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: what I've done for the league, this is the visibility 438 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 2: I got. So when she says like, yeah, like I'd 439 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 2: love to say I worked for all of it, but 440 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 2: I am. You know, I do have privilege, I was like, yeah, 441 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 2: well that if you let line up every other thing 442 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,439 Speaker 2: that she said in that interview, and how honest it 443 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 2: was there, there would be no reason why that one 444 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: would not also be honest and off the cuff, even 445 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 2: if it was rehearsed. But I think she's also had 446 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:27,239 Speaker 2: time to watch other white players handle these discussions, Like 447 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 2: I think Paige Becker's has done a really remarkable job 448 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: kind of always saying, you know, yes, great, thank you 449 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 2: so much for the attention, and here's all the black 450 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 2: women that helped me get here. And so I think 451 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 2: I think Caitlyn has been able to watch people and 452 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 2: kind of soak that information in so that when she 453 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: says these things now about like yeah, God love to 454 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 2: say I'd worked for it, but it is partially privileged, 455 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 2: it feels very natural. 456 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just proud of her. I was proud of her. 457 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,199 Speaker 1: But I think it also, like to Aaron's point, like 458 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 1: giving her enough grace to get there organically made sense 459 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: because Paigeers grew up in a mixed family, like you 460 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: just had a whole life of figuring out and being 461 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 1: right up next to all this stuff. And Kaylin's just 462 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: a white girl from Iowa, who sure could she gotten 463 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: there faster through any number of ways, but she didn't, 464 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: and here she is and it's and it's you know, 465 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: she's twenty two years old and I think still. 466 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 3: In the calendar year. I mean she was raised in 467 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: like a cornstalk, you know, like, how how are you 468 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 3: supposed to get so eloquent? I mean, you want everybody 469 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 3: we're like projecting our own experience and how we would 470 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 3: handle things and saying she should have done it this way. 471 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 3: But then you take a second and you're like, she 472 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 3: is a kid, right, like from the whitest of white, 473 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 3: you know, just concentrating head down, just wanted to play basketball. 474 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: And when when male athletes are that kind of neurotic 475 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: obsessive about their their skill, we allow it in a 476 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 1: way that we never do with women athletes, because, like 477 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: with everything else, we expect the people who are the 478 00:23:56,280 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: most marginalized to speak to their victimization and expect the 479 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: people doing the victimizing to have zero clue that they're 480 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 1: even doing it or any thoughts on it. And so 481 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: with male athletes, we're like, oh, my gosh, she's just 482 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: single minded and it's all he cares about. And with women, 483 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, she's pretending not to know, so she 484 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: doesn't have to speak on it, right, it's just such 485 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: a different treatment. 486 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 2: Yes, er well, I was thinking about that savage line 487 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 2: that she had because it's it jumped out to me too. 488 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 2: But she says, she says those girls like don't have 489 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 2: any basketball IQ and those those women will never play 490 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 2: basketball again. And I was like, oh my god, yeah. 491 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you get great, and like it's up 492 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: to everybody to decide for themselves. Do I want to 493 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: be Michael Jordan or do I want to you know, 494 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: figure out some balance. But it shouldn't be working out 495 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: for her right now. Caitlin Clark and Alone mar were 496 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: two of the like big breakout stars of this year. 497 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: Do y'all see any parallels? Are there ways we can 498 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: look at their appeal beyond sport? Anything we can learn 499 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: about their explosive popularity that can inform how we market 500 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: or present women's sports and athletes, because in a lot 501 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: of ways they are very different. 502 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I was just thinking that, like a 503 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 3: like a quick parallel is really what we came back to, 504 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 3: Like comfortable in your own skin, you know, which is 505 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 3: like a radical act when all of society is just 506 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 3: trying to make you feel uncomfortable every minute of the day, 507 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 3: and then you feel so uncomfortable about everything, then you 508 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 3: start buying everything. I mean, you know, there's no feel 509 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 3: good in capitalism, you know. So these these two women 510 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 3: at the top of their game, so young, but at 511 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 3: the top of their game, they've achieved success, and you 512 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 3: feel like you know them, you know, you feel comfortable. 513 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 3: They're so comfortable. And I'm not saying they don't have like, 514 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 3: you know, self esteem moments or whatever, but I don't know, 515 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 3: it just it just feels like they're so authentic. They're 516 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 3: comfortable in their own skin, and it's empowering, you know. 517 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 3: And I think if we market that for like, you know, 518 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,120 Speaker 3: women and athletes and women's sports, of just letting them 519 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 3: be themselves. You know. I used to get so uncomfortable 520 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: watching the WIBA fits because it's like my worst nightmare 521 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 3: to put on address and it can but it's so 522 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 3: awesome to see everybody just go into the arena just 523 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 3: perfect like how they want to be. So I think 524 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 3: it's just leaning into that. Authenticity is just huge, and 525 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 3: it's as you can see, like in all these new 526 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 3: leagues and all this like fervor around women's sports I 527 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 3: think that is a very you know, true connection. 528 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yard, do you see parallels? 529 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 2: I do, But my the parallel that I see is 530 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 2: as a little harsh. I think that America really loves 531 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 2: a white girl that feels like family, and and part 532 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 2: of that is that they are desexualized. And Caitlin is 533 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: not a particularly like she's not leaning into any type 534 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 2: of hyper femininity. And all of the conversations about Alonemar 535 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 2: are about her weight and her height and her broad 536 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 2: shoulders and all these things. And so they're kind of 537 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 2: these women that are we almost are feeling protective of them. 538 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 2: Of course in that like you know, white supremacist way 539 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 2: that we do feel protective of white women. I think 540 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 2: we're also feeling like we are like rallying around. They're 541 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 2: not getting the vitriol that women who identify and focus 542 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 2: on being hot would get. Right. So, even Angel Reese 543 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 2: is a person who's like, you know, wearing nails and 544 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 2: getting her hair laid like edges laid for these games, 545 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 2: and is putting on makeup, and she's getting the vitriol 546 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 2: that we give women on a daily basis for. 547 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: Simply were trying. 548 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 2: Yes, any any woman that tries and enjoys like the 549 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 2: presentation of like being a hot girl whatever, like that's 550 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 2: when we get mad. And of course when Alona did 551 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: the the swimsuits, yeah, that was when there was any 552 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 2: like the most of course negative like trolls come out 553 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: of the woodwork for that kind of thing, because this 554 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 2: is her attempt at, like, you know, trying that version 555 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 2: of femininity. But I don't know, I think they've both 556 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 2: got this like sister thing where we've decided that they're there, 557 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 2: they are respectfully de sexualized, and so we can treat 558 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 2: them like we would any woman in our family that 559 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 2: we don't want to have sex with. 560 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: I mean, and. 561 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 2: That's why I think that white America, specifically white males 562 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: have come around Caitlin like like every every man I 563 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 2: talked to you about Caitlin Clark, you would think that 564 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 2: she grew up in their hometown. 565 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 1: Right right. 566 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 567 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: It's it's interesting too because there's there's also and definitely 568 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: more so before we've evolved into more disparate presentations of 569 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: women that are acceptable. But it used to be that 570 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:08,239 Speaker 1: only the sexualized women athletes got love and attention, and 571 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: it was the ones that were like Caitlin or alone 572 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: who weren't leaning enough into their sexuality that were presented 573 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 1: as why women's sports is n't attractive were not what 574 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: we want because they're not feminine enough. But now it's 575 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: like there's these different spaces in which we allow women 576 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: to exist and yeah, it's in you hadn't thought of 577 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: that about them, of the sort of girl next door, 578 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: but not the Alex Morgan type of girl next door. 579 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 2: Well, and I think we can like traditionally for American 580 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: gay gay people are invisible in this beautiful. 581 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 3: Sense, like right here where I'm right here over here, 582 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 3: and I. 583 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 2: Say beautiful sense because in like a truly mocking way 584 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: where you know, like people thinking that being gay is 585 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: like people think that being trans is new, right, They're 586 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 2: like four years all of these and you're like, oh 587 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 2: my god in the water. Yes, like it truly truly. 588 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 3: Invisible mind milk. 589 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: Yes, So we have to don't give them that suggestion. 590 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: I promise you that will be a headline next week. 591 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 2: If you well, it might be the almond milk. We 592 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 2: can't rule it out, but we don't know. But it 593 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 2: was like when when the w NBA was I think 594 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 2: one of the reasons it hasn't done well is because 595 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: we they were not pandering to the male gaze in 596 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 2: so many ways, and when they did, it was like 597 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 2: kind of clownish because they're all so just energetically butch, 598 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: even if they're straight, they're energetically but we can't we 599 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 2: can't avoid that. And and gay people are invisible. And 600 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 2: so it was truly men being like, what is the 601 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 2: w NBA, right, Like, so it's gay women were invisible. 602 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 2: And then hot women are the subject of vitriol because 603 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: we just for some reason we hate femininity, and we 604 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,880 Speaker 2: also hate an absence of femininity, and it's just impossible 605 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 2: to be a woman. 606 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: Well also, if we if we find you very attractive, 607 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: we don't want you to ruin it. What they've said 608 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 1: for years two about comedy, right, we're uncomfortable with women 609 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 1: who are hot making themselves less hot in pursuit of 610 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: a laugh. So we like women who are not like 611 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: the hottest person in the movie to be the funny ones. 612 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: Otherwise it's offensive that they're taking away their best and 613 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 1: most important virtue, which is the same with hot female athletes. 614 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: It's like, we like you in the ads, but once 615 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: you're on the field, please don't take away from your 616 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: hotness by being aggressive or physical or otherwise. 617 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: Like I just had this this vision er when you 618 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 3: were talking about everything was invisible. How men watch the WNBA. 619 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 3: All they can just see is a ball. They just 620 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 3: see the ball going down the court, but they can't 621 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 3: see anything. It's like ghost. 622 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 1: It's like ghost when like he was making the inanimate 623 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: stuff move to show her there. 624 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 3: Yes, that's how they watched it. That's how men watch. 625 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: The WS podcast is only for people over forty. I'm 626 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: so sorry. So far I've been referencing Ghost and Benetton 627 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: really keeping it tightly into. 628 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 2: You're bringing culture to the young people. 629 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. Speaking of culture, I have to 630 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: ask y'all, do you have one like prime complaint about 631 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: the way TV shows, movies, or comedians get things wrong 632 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: when they're joking or making content about female athletes and 633 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: women's sports. Mine is always that somehow, if they decide 634 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: to throw in a woman on the co ed team 635 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: just for like like hang time or space jam, there's 636 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 1: like token woman. She never wears the uniform everyone else wears. 637 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: She's always in a bra top like a sports bra 638 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: or a crop top. Like why doesn't she wear the 639 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: same uniform. Ever, Oh, cast they have one. They casted 640 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: the cartoon and they could only find a cartoon who 641 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: wore exclusively crop tops. 642 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 2: Well, if I had that body, I would be wearing 643 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 2: that too. 644 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Lola Banish, Yeah. 645 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 3: I just think there's no in between. It's either the 646 00:32:55,680 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 3: woman is like yeah, like ultra femme and she can't 647 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 3: play and she's like, oh my boob, and it's like 648 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 3: if she's playing, it's like to get the guy, and 649 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 3: she's just like, you know, throwing like a toddler, you know, 650 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,719 Speaker 3: and you're just like, I can't who is this person? 651 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 3: Or it's the butchiest of butch Lesbo's that's just like 652 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 3: it's just a scene where she's walking through the house 653 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 3: and like tackling her furniture, you know, and you're like, what, 654 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 3: none of none of this happens, Like how about the 655 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 3: in between? 656 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair, So say the extremes. 657 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 2: My my my least favorite misconception. I think that this 658 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 2: happens because of bend Attle, Like Beckham is, when there's 659 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 2: any like plot line or joke about like a coach 660 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 2: and a player having sexual likes. Always I can't express 661 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 2: the people who don't play sports the relationship with you 662 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 2: you have with your coach is like if you had 663 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 2: a third parent that you hated but you weren't allowed 664 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 2: you like, you can't get estranged from them at any point. Yeah, 665 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 2: And they're also they're also like a leader of a 666 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 2: dictatorship that you're living under in silence. And there's somehow 667 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 2: even if they're forty years old, they are elderly to you, 668 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 2: and so there's just there's like it's the very opposite. 669 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I had one hot coach, so I 670 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: kind of get it. I hadn't I had a hot coach, 671 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 1: my high school track coach. Everybody knew he was hot. 672 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: During Valentine's Day, you could buy a singing telegram Valentine 673 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: for people and like someone would walk into their class 674 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: and be like, hey, Sarah. I wouldn't know because no 675 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 1: one bought me any But in theory it would have 676 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: gone that someone a handful of people from the chorus 677 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 1: would walk in and be like, Hey, Sarah, this is 678 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: from you know, Todd, and it would be like, you 679 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: know something about why can't I be a teenager in 680 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: love or whatever whatever that song is. And I was 681 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: in class. So he was also an econ teacher, and 682 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,759 Speaker 1: he had like nine of them. So they just said, 683 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: mister Clagg, you got nine of these. They're all anonymous. 684 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,240 Speaker 1: We're just gonna sing them all at once. 685 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah, like that that was his vibe. 686 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm not saying it's he was young, so 687 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: like when he started teaching, he was like mid to 688 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: late twenties, so he's not that far off from the 689 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: people he's like teaching and coaching. Anyway, My point is 690 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 1: it is conceivable that you might want to have sex 691 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: with your coach, but it's best, because of a million reasons, 692 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: to not always have the storyline be that the woman 693 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 1: bones her coach, because, first of all, that happens too 694 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 1: much in real life, and usually it's because of an 695 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,320 Speaker 1: imbalance of power that's caused by the coach being toxic 696 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: and abusive, so let's not make it a cool storyline. Also, 697 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: Pure Knightley was like twelve in every movie where she 698 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 1: was actually active, she was like seventeen in love. 699 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 2: Actually, Sarah, have you ever considered freestyle wrapping? You speak 700 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 2: so quickly off the dome, sorry, so elegantly. I'm like, 701 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 2: let's put it to music. 702 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: You know what, people have always said we need another 703 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: white rapper. 704 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 2: I've been saying that for years. 705 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Even my mother says that, yes. 706 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: I need to fill the space. 707 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 3: It is true, though, I will second because I obviously 708 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 3: I listen to you, well both do your shows, but 709 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,800 Speaker 3: I can't sometimes I stop. And I've gotten my partner, Sarah, 710 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 3: to listen. 711 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 1: To your show too. 712 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 3: Sarah, I go, it's so she speaks so quickly, and 713 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 3: it's like a plus. It's like and then and I'm like, 714 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 3: wait what And then normal podcasts I do like one 715 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 3: point five or one point twenty five. For you, it's 716 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 3: almost like point seventy five. 717 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 1: I wouldn't recommend it, just wouldn't recommend it very fast. 718 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 3: No, but it's amazing You're you're so good at it. 719 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, here's my No. I've got to give you one 720 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 2: more compliment. When when I got home from the recording 721 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 2: of the interview, you to a jocular, I was like, 722 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 2: I was talking to my partner and I was like, 723 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 2: it was so she's so powerful. It was like, I 724 00:36:53,800 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 2: feel like I need to go to the gym. 725 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: Big gym energy. I don't know if that's a compliment, 726 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: to be honest. 727 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 2: I did I went to the gym. I went to 728 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 2: the gym and I thought about all your accomplishments and 729 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 2: I did cardio. 730 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,360 Speaker 1: That's my king good about that? Yeah? Yeah, I feel 731 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,399 Speaker 1: I mean, I told you last time that you said 732 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: I was funny at the SPNW Seve, and I've told 733 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: so many people that. Now I'm going to tell people 734 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 1: I inspired you to lift. Yes, and they can read 735 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: whatever they want into that. Okay, we're running out of time, 736 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,439 Speaker 1: but we have to go a little bit over because 737 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 1: I really need your answers for this next question, because 738 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 1: I think they're going to be good. We need your 739 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: favorite women's sports reference and pop culture. For example, Out 740 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: of Nowhere, Parks and rec Ron Swanson says, you know, 741 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 1: an ideal night out for me is stepping onto my 742 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: poor chariot, grilling a thick slab of something's flesh, and 743 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 1: then popping in a highlight reel of the WNBA like 744 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,839 Speaker 1: it's a surprising moment on that show. You don't see 745 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: it coming. Gloria, the Paul Pell character on Girls, Girls 746 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 1: I've Ever, says I'm bad at letting go. I have 747 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: a Sims character named Val who's been shooting hoops for 748 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: twenty years. 749 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 3: I love that show so much. 750 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,279 Speaker 1: It's the best show. Liz Lemon was part of the 751 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 1: Timeless Torches WNBA dance team for The Liberty on thirty Rock. 752 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: There's some good ones. So do you have one that like, 753 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,759 Speaker 1: maybe he surprised you or you just didn't see coming, 754 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: or one that you just particularly love. 755 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 2: I I'm sure that this is going to make it 756 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 2: into a TV show at some point. But my my 757 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 2: like thing that I think about is that, you know, 758 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 2: when we were when I was a kid, we used 759 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 2: to crush, you know, paper and throw it into a 760 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 2: trash can and you'd yell Kobe. And now all the 761 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 2: kids are yelling Caitlin Yes, And I'm like, man, the 762 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 2: minute that enters the TV show, I might laugh, but 763 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 2: I also might cry. Yeah. 764 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 1: I feel like Abbot Elementary is the prime show for that. 765 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 766 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: Abbot Elementary gets a lot of sports references and very deftly, 767 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: and I feel like I could see them pulling a 768 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 1: Caitlin talk Caitlin, this is how we close on Jocular. 769 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: You ask every guest who they would like to be 770 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 1: power slapped by, and our twist on that relates to 771 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 1: our sign off, and at the end of every show, 772 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 1: we say a good game, good game, pew. We give 773 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 1: two people good games, and then we say few to 774 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 1: something that deserves our wrath. So I need to hear 775 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 1: your biggest few in women's sports. It can be a person, 776 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 1: a team of ethos, whatever it is. 777 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 3: I'm going to say fu to seven hundred and sixty 778 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 3: five million to one Soto, because my brain immediately goes 779 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 3: to you could fund a women's softball league, a women's 780 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 3: baseball league, and I'm I grew up a big baseball fan, 781 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 3: but now I quit my fantasy baseball league. When the 782 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 3: announcer came out. I'm so irate because I'm so invested 783 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 3: in women's sports that one man to catch fly balls 784 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 3: can hit sixty five million when you could fund like 785 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 3: eight women's leagues. So fu to all of. 786 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 1: That, but not to Juan Soto, because we have to 787 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 1: hate the game, not the player. 788 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,280 Speaker 3: No, take it one soo. But also, deer Juan Soto, 789 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,360 Speaker 3: I'm sure he's listening. Take that money and invest it 790 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 3: in women's sports, and then I'll be fine with it. 791 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: Let's all start writing letters to one. 792 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 3: So excuse me, sir, long hand, I do longhandersive yes, 793 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 3: dearest one, do something good. 794 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 2: Eric, you are, I'm gonna say you to the LPGA 795 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 2: oh I and I recently wore one of their like 796 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 2: hats on the on the show, and I was like 797 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 2: getting excited about golf and wanting to talk about this, 798 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 2: and then they came out with their guidelines. Uh, I 799 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 2: think a month ago, and it's you know, all like 800 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 2: biological sex and gender ship and very trans exclusive, and 801 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 2: I think think specifically for a sport like golf, it's 802 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 2: it just feels like such a silly stretch to pretend 803 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,760 Speaker 2: that that transness is going to be the big difference 804 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 2: between players, Like you know that there's going to be 805 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 2: this vast space between the talent of a trans woman 806 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 2: and a sis woman. And my I think the big 807 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 2: few that goes in there underneath of all of my 808 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:32,720 Speaker 2: complaints is every time we exclude trans women, the actual 809 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:38,319 Speaker 2: message is that men are better than women, because these 810 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 2: people are not thinking of trans women as women, They're 811 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,080 Speaker 2: thinking of trans women as men. And so we're saying, well, 812 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 2: we can't have trans women involved because we don't want 813 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 2: men interacting with women's women athletes. And every time we 814 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 2: say it, and every time we believe it, we are 815 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,720 Speaker 2: saying we believe that men are better in every way. 816 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 2: Even the most mediocre man is better than the best woman. 817 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 2: And so you, LPGA, you had an opportunity to not 818 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 2: be this way. Everyone's rooting for you. Shut the up. 819 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 3: Mast LPG Aaron, Aaron here, listen. I need you to 820 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 3: take that golf club and shove it up your ass. 821 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,680 Speaker 3: Me and Wan Soto. 822 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: Sincerely, the nearest Sandpit and yeah name. 823 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 2: I'd love to be proven wrong. I will say that 824 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,880 Speaker 2: I'd love for them to be like you guys. We 825 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,799 Speaker 2: came up with that letter and we were like, what 826 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:36,319 Speaker 2: were we were? 827 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,799 Speaker 1: We were drinking. I felt the same way about their 828 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 1: rollout of a barstool merch collab. 829 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 2: My god. 830 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,760 Speaker 1: So maybe we just need to revisit who's in charge 831 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,320 Speaker 1: over there. On the number of levels, it's probably Carl. 832 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,919 Speaker 1: It's always Carl, that guy. 833 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 3: I tell you, he's just making one bad decision after another. 834 00:42:58,640 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: You guys are the best. I can talk to you 835 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,520 Speaker 1: for hours, and this is already quite long, and people 836 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 1: will enjoy every single minute of it and have no 837 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 1: idea They've spent four hours listening to us talk. Thank 838 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: you so much for coming on. 839 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 2: Thank you for having us big fans of both of you. 840 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 3: Thank you so fun, You're the best both of you. 841 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,439 Speaker 1: Thanks again to Aaron and Er for taking the time 842 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: we got to take another break. When we come back, 843 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 1: we indulge in one of the greatest pleasures of the 844 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: modern Internet, welcome back slices. We love that you're listening, 845 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 1: but we want you to get in the game every 846 00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 1: day too. So here's our good game play of the day. 847 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:43,440 Speaker 1: It's real easy. Just subscribe to both Jocular and her Lights. 848 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: We'll link to both podcasts in our show notes. Also, 849 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: we want to hear from you. Do you have a 850 00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: favorite women's sports pop culture reference? Ron Swanson Deaf has 851 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 1: front row seats to Indiana Fever games these days, But 852 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 1: what about characters from other shows? And if you don't 853 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: have a favorite reference, what shows would you like to 854 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: see one? 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We love the feeling that a company's 863 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 1: closing out all of the open tabs from your work day. 864 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,799 Speaker 1: And it's not just your email or your calendar. It's 865 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 1: all those little side projects that you got interested in 866 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: looking into, so you opened a new tab to investigate 867 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,879 Speaker 1: I don't know how oatmeal soap is made. But then 868 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,320 Speaker 1: a new email arrives, so you say to yourself, nerdy 869 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 1: farmwife dot com, I'm just gonna minimize you for a minute, 870 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: and then later you're like, what was the name of 871 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: the hot priest in fleabag? And then you catch yourself 872 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: halfway down inn Andrew Scott Wormhole, And do you come 873 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: back to your soap and your priest lusting? No, you don't, 874 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 1: And that's okay, because closing out those tes will probably 875 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 1: bring you just as much joy as making that soap 876 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 1: would have, but maybe not as much as that Andrew 877 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: Scott wormhole. So if you really can't say goodbye, put 878 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,320 Speaker 1: it in pocket. Pocket is a lifesaver, y'all, Pocket dot 879 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 1: com You're welcome. This is not an ad but it 880 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 1: could be call us pocket Now it's your turn, rate 881 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: and review. Thanks for listening, See you tomorrow. Good Game, Er, 882 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: Good Game, Aaron you Fleabag being only two seasons, incredible show. 883 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: We needed more. Good Game with Sarah Spain is an 884 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 1: iheartwomen's sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. 885 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,800 Speaker 1: You can find us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 886 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,320 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts. Production by Wonder Media Network, 887 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,520 Speaker 1: our producers are Alex Azzie and Misha Jones. Our executive 888 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: producers are Christina Everett, Jesse Katz, Jenny Kaplan, and Emily Rudder. 889 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 1: Our editors are Emily Rudder, Britney Martinez, Grace Lynch, and 890 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 1: Lindsay Cradowell. Production assistant from Lucy Jones and I'm Your 891 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: Host Sarah Spain