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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest with You, Tanya, Patty, Sissy.

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Speaker 1: Good to have you guys back. Hello, You've been catching

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Speaker 1: up all week this week on each other. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of follow on Instagram. But I have

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Speaker 1: to admit sometimes I don't look at Yall's Instagram head

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Speaker 1: on over red Rover given because it's it's because then

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Speaker 1: it blows my curiosity when I'm here because I know

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Speaker 1: everything you're doing, right, So I wanted I want it

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Speaker 1: to be all fresh when I get in here this morning.

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Speaker 1: But you just off Instagram com pretty much, Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: how could you not see us? They would just pop

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Speaker 1: up on you. I just don't. I post my stuff

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Speaker 1: and then I close out. Yeah that's good, Good for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to I'm still trying to stick to

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Speaker 1: my limits on Instagram, and it always tells me you've

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Speaker 1: reached your limit for today you want to continue, And

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what's your limit right now? Forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: a day, and I think a break every Yeah, be

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Speaker 1: not having the app open, whether it's scrolling, whether it's posting.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I always break it every day, Patty, if

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Speaker 1: you understand if you mastered this crypto world yet, because

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Speaker 1: I think that's what we got to get into this year. Well,

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Speaker 1: I bought some crypto and I bought my first n

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Speaker 1: f T s. I bought four What did you what?

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Speaker 1: You buy? Just some images just so I can understand

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Speaker 1: the process and how it works. And I was able

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Speaker 1: to bid on a few things. And now I have

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Speaker 1: four n f T s that I own, including my name,

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Speaker 1: that I bought on the E T H domain. Whatever

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Speaker 1: that means. At somebody, at some point, school was too

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Speaker 1: much for me, and I just dropped out. I think

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Speaker 1: life and all that stuff you're speaking about is too

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Speaker 1: much for me. I I talked. I called an n

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Speaker 1: in Silicon Valley. I did one on one call just

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Speaker 1: to explain it to me, explain the n f T

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Speaker 1: world to me. And he did, and some of it

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Speaker 1: made sense and a lot of it didn't m hm.

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Speaker 1: And then he said, you know, you should have your

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Speaker 1: own n f T. So I'm thinking, what would my

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Speaker 1: n f TV like. That's what I told Sierra Um

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Speaker 1: over the weekend, that we should have had our our

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Speaker 1: own n f T for the show. For the show,

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Speaker 1: had an artist create an n f T of me.

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Speaker 1: We had this great picture on our on air with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrist Instagram that I thought would be a perfect

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Speaker 1: n f T. Well, why don't we do it? Wait,

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Speaker 1: you just do it. You're the one that's in the world.

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Speaker 1: The happy holidays, uh Christmas card would have been a

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Speaker 1: perfect what's stopping us from making that an n f T.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not the person involved in social media,

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Speaker 1: so I made the suggestions. That was my look at that.

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Speaker 1: I brought the idea and I ran away from it. Wait,

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Speaker 1: my favorite thing about this this story, I would have

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Speaker 1: great ideas. Ryan can't just kick back with a puzzle.

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Speaker 1: He like needs to on his time off. He's like

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Speaker 1: calling some n f T. I feel you, Ryan, I

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Speaker 1: get it. I have to ask these questions. Honestly, I'll

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Speaker 1: read about the metaverse and it doesn't make it doesn't

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Speaker 1: register with me. I have to talk to somebody in

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Speaker 1: the metaverse, whatever the verse, outside of the verse, in

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Speaker 1: the verse, whatever it is, to explain these new condominiums

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Speaker 1: they're selling in looking I was looking at buying the

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Speaker 1: digital land to last night and I looked at the price.

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Speaker 1: The lowest price was fourteen dollars and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: well maybe not because you're buying a computer game. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. It's over my head. Like I said, I

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Speaker 1: dropped out. I'm gonna drop out right now. I'm dropping

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Speaker 1: out again. Right here? Ye Air with Ryan Seacres. When

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Speaker 1: was cron talking about all this Monday? Monday? This week?

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Speaker 1: It's all running together? Agree? So I think one of

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Speaker 1: our digital team staff members who has worked here then

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Speaker 1: still works here, but she didn't for a while, correct.

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Speaker 1: But that always confuses me when you guys leave and

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Speaker 1: like ignorance is bliss a little bit, which I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean like knowing what the experience is going to

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Speaker 1: would have been a lot more scared knowing what happens

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Speaker 1: to your body when you have a baby. That way. Well,

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Speaker 1: Carolina is on the line here and she's a midwife, Carolyn,

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Speaker 1: and thanks for calling in. Hi, Hi guys. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: having me. So what's your two cents? You know, I

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Speaker 1: I'm just what's happening? Why are we falling behind other countries?

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Speaker 1: often in America? They do. That's definitely true. The dessarian

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Speaker 1: not necessarily that c sections are bad. C sections save

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Speaker 1: If you're Sierra, who was the impetus to this whole conversation,

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Speaker 1: it's just it's one of those things. Even hiring a doulah,

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Speaker 1: because there's a lot that you just unloaded that is,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's very thoughtful, but Kearlen, we we have

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Speaker 1: They say, the smell of this food. We'll reduce the

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Speaker 1: Don't even get me started on shallots. Hey. Today's quote

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Speaker 1: somewhere out there is a person looking for everything you're

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Speaker 1: giving to someone who doesn't appreciate. On Air with Ryan Seacrest, Caitlyn,

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Speaker 1: good morning. How you doing, go Hi, I'm doing good. Good.

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Speaker 1: So tell me your fiance. What what's going with your fiance? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you guys have heard about like the great resignation thing, right,

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Speaker 1: so like everybody's quick in their job. It's like they're

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Speaker 1: not being treated for really or if they're not getting

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Speaker 1: paid enough. Well, my fiance is talking about quitting his job,

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Speaker 1: moves are dramatic, and I think that's the power in them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like my problem is like with with him quitting,

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Speaker 1: it more and more, and I just I'm concerned because, like,

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Speaker 1: with us. We gotta roll with the punches, don't you. Absolutely,

424
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: Here's the seventh grade teacher. We roll with punches every day.

425
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Speaker 1: You're calling. You want to do a lesson about one

426
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Speaker 1: word for the year? Tell me more? Yeah. So, I'm

427
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 1: a big follower of Scrubbing in UM podcast, and I

428
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: love that Tanya and Becker are always talking about their

429
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: one word and so I wanted to know what y'all's

430
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: one word was and kind of your reasoning behind it,

431
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: because here UM at school we're going to talk about

432
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: our one word and kind of set goals for our

433
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: year and the second semester here at school. So Tony

434
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: reframe what the one word is the premise. Every year

435
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 1: when I make my vision board, I kind of pick

436
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: a word that goes in the center of it, and

437
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: that's kind of the word that I want to center

438
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 1: all my decisions around personally and professionally, and so I

439
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: kind of just think about what I experienced the past

440
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,959
Speaker 1: year and then what I want to bring into the

441
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: new year. So sometimes, like I use the word love,

442
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: it's two words, but I used level up because I

443
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: wanted to just kind of enhance everything that I was

444
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 1: doing the following year. I didn't want to be complacent. Um.

445
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: I chose radiate one year because I wanted to I

446
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: wanted to pick things and do things because they brought

447
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,199
Speaker 1: me joy or brought other people joy. And so this

448
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: year I chose the word perseverance. I was choosing between

449
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: perseverance and unclenched because I feel like I need to

450
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 1: just kind of let loose again and know that I

451
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 1: can do difficult things and just kind of always have

452
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: that word in the back of my head. This year,

453
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: as I go through all my challenges, you know, Angie,

454
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: the hardest part about this is there are I mean,

455
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 1: like and there's so many words in my head. It's

456
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: getting down to the one word because you know, as

457
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,640
Speaker 1: time as talking, I'm thinking about words for me might

458
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: be intent or priority or edit is good for you?

459
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: Or intent and priority or priority intent, you know, like

460
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: to use your to steal from your one word two words.

461
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: But the hard part is what is the what's the

462
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: one word on the short list? Tone? Do you have one?

463
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Speaker 1: Have you gone through this for this year? I haven't

464
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Speaker 1: really gone through the exercise. Last year my word was flourished, um,

465
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: and so it kind of I want to stick to

466
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: that same type of theme maybe for this year. Which

467
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: this sounds aggressive. But the word that comes to mind

468
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: right now is attack. That is so aggressive I cannot

469
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: even hear it. I know, I know it is no,

470
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: but it is that it's kind of a scary word.

471
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to attack people. Know, it's good, attack

472
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: your dreams, attack your goals, attack you're not your family,

473
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 1: but attack no, exactly, no attacks attack life, you know.

474
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: And so that's kind of like Andy, what's on your

475
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: short list? Well? So that's just so hard with these

476
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 1: these kids because I feel like they're so narrow minded.

477
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: They think of one word, UM, for me my list

478
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: this year. Um, we're kind of sticking of smaller words.

479
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: But for my one word, I'm going to do present,

480
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: so like living in the present, um, not focusing on

481
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: too much of the future, and kind of just living

482
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: in the moment. But I know in the past these

483
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 1: kids have gotten really stuck on smaller words. So that's

484
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: why it's kind of hard to get them to understand

485
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: this word is for your year, not for today. Mm

486
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: hmm my word. You know, my word might be bad

487
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: B B A T. Yeah, because I'm going to take

488
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: a bat to the rear view mirror and not look back.

489
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: I think rear rear, right, So there's a that's a

490
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,959
Speaker 1: smaller word, be a T, but it's it's for me.

491
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: It's triggering because it says, oh, don't look back, take

492
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: the bat, crack open your goal, crack open the you

493
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: know the kind of attack right right. Yep, those are

494
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: all really good ones. I think that they will definitely

495
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: have some good options because I didn't even think of

496
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: some of those. Flourish that was a great one, um

497
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: and so we're going to try to come up with

498
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: a good list for them. But it's really good to

499
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: hear about the reasoning why behind we choose the word

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00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: and kind of run with it a year in our well.

501
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Speaker 1: Thank you very much for scrubbing in the podcast at

502
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: Tanya and Becca host, and thank you for listening to

503
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: us here on kiss FM. ANGI good luck with the lesson.

504
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: After you teach it, calls back and tell us how

505
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 1: it went, I'll tell you the best five words appropriate.

506
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: You're your very good students. Alright, Okay, thank you so much.

507
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 1: Sometimes I will. You're gonna get to this story about

508
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: Instagram and should we make it more casual again, sissony,

509
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,919
Speaker 1: But sometimes I will. And I'm just thinking back to

510
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: actually New York City. I was in Times Square for

511
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: the New Year's Eve show and it was the day

512
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: before New Year's Eve, and I saw an individual like

513
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: with their legs crossed and these huge heeled boots and

514
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 1: they were rolling their head around in the air and

515
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: it looked bizarre, and then I realized they were doing

516
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: a photo shoot for themselves for Instagram. Right, it looks

517
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: like in the wild when you see it in isolation,

518
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 1: you don't see the person significant other filming them or

519
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: shooting out, You're like, what are they rolling their head about?

520
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,959
Speaker 1: And why are they doing that with their legs for them?

521
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: And it's for the Instagram. It's an Instagramma bowl. So

522
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: you're saying, there's this new concept, should we make it

523
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: more casual only because it's kind of naturally already happening

524
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: at the start of the pandemic. I think people were

525
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: going out weigh less, and so it shifted a little

526
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: bit from these extravagant type of photos to just more

527
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: casual ones, just more in the moment. And it actually

528
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: was a trend that started in TikTok because TikTok, when

529
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: you think about it, people are not going above and

530
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,479
Speaker 1: beyond when they're making these videos. They're just kind of

531
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: like in their normal clothes, making fun of themselves almost.

532
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: It's not like they're a little bit you know. So

533
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: it's kind of spilling into Instagram with people now doing

534
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 1: like the photo dumps of a vacation, which no that

535
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: we started on. Like the name photo dump bugs me.

536
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: I don't know why, I know I can't do it either.

537
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: A photo dump is where like let's say I went

538
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: to like arrowhead over. What's a name? Photo dump? A

539
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,959
Speaker 1: name photo dump? Then you say a name, Oh I

540
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: don't like the name. Yeah, I don't like the name.

541
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: For the name photo dump basically is what people have

542
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: dubbed it. And so I just don't like the word

543
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: dump in your caption. Just post um. And then people

544
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: are posting blurry photos things like that. So I was

545
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: kind of just thinking about this for a second. And

546
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,959
Speaker 1: you know who really does a perfect balance of this

547
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: on their I g. Is you Ryan? Like No, I

548
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: mean balance of of of nice pictures that are like,

549
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: you know, you look good and you know you're posting

550
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: it because you feel good and you know you look up.

551
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: But then you also post pictures of like you with

552
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: a big old plate of French fries and like a

553
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: burger and like fighting into it, and you don't really

554
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: care what you look like per se. Well, at some

555
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: point you realize you can't care. If you do care,

556
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: you'll never or post something. So you kind of just

557
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: get to that, you get to that place in your life,

558
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: I will just I'm gonna let you in behind a

559
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: curtain here. I think I'm gonna redirect my Instagram a

560
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: little bit more to do and I know that it's oversaturated,

561
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna do it because it's what I love.

562
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go more of the provisioning and food route.

563
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go more of when it gets to be spring,

564
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to show you the art of the perfect

565
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: picnic basket. I started boarding. I don't know if you've

566
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: seen any of my boards, but I got a big

567
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: which could reboard cheese board for Christmas, and I'm starting

568
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: to just serve meals off the board. And it can

569
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: be cheese, it can be cold cuts, it could be

570
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: a warm meal. So just a little preview here, you're

571
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: probably gonna start seeing a lot more of these casual

572
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: shots in the provision the food world, uh, and also

573
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: my farming. I'm you know, I'm getting into farming, so

574
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: you'll see a little bit of that. But casual. I

575
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: like it because it means you don't have to do

576
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: anything to set it up and do it, which is

577
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: really what I'm about. And it captures your pure joy.

578
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: I think when you post these pictures of you eating,

579
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: that is your true self and you're just so happy

580
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: in them, and you see it through the picture, like

581
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: that burger you thought I ordered that burger. No, no no, no,

582
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: I just posed for the picture with the burger and

583
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: then I had a chicken Samma. Rachel is on the line.

584
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing in I'm doing great.

585
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: How are you doing well? We're here, we made it,

586
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: we've started. We're not sure where it's going, but we're hopeful. No. Right,

587
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: So you they're telling me you you're calling because you

588
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:47,479
Speaker 1: have too many New Year's resolutions. Well, I don't think so,

589
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: but my boyfriend says that I do. So I don't know,

590
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: maybe I do. What's wrong with having too many goals?

591
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any problems, but he's he's telling

592
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: me that know some of them they're not really really resolutions,

593
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: or he just has zero at all. And I think

594
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: he's just maybe slightly jealous, but he can't come up

595
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: with any I struggle with this often when it gets

596
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,959
Speaker 1: to be what's your resolution? And I find it so

597
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: cliche that I don't participate. But we were talking about,

598
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: you know, why is it that you've just got to

599
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: have your resolution or your goal or whatever it is

600
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: you're going to look forward to doing in the new year.

601
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: Why not just think about the entire year? And also

602
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: I think Davon Franklin was saying, if you set these

603
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: up like you got to hit the mark, then you're

604
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: setting yourself up to not do it for failure, for

605
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: scoring yourself, right, Tanya, that what he was saying. Yeah,

606
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: he basically says resolutions just set you up because if

607
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: you say I'm gonna drink water every single day and

608
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: then you miss it a day or two and you're

609
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: the towel for the year instead of just like saying

610
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: I want to hydrate more, or you know what I mean,

611
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: like in not making yourself like a failure? What are

612
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: your resolutions that your boyfriend is Uh? One of them

613
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: would be, um, keeping our apartment clean all the time,

614
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: like everybody benefits? Who loses? All? Right? Well, what else

615
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: is on the list? Keep going? Uh? Read more books?

616
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: I definitely need to be doing that. Uh. I want

617
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 1: to lose twenty pounds, eat out less, cook more meals

618
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: at home. Um, I want to get a consistent getting

619
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: care routine, keep all of our plants alive throughout the year.

620
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: I really want to and everyone wants to clean apartment.

621
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: So I don't think that he should be up in

622
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: arms about any of these. But if there's too many

623
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: on your list and you can't focus on one. Maybe

624
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: eliminate the clutter, prioritize, and then goal shift throughout the year. Yeah. Smart, Yeah,

625
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: I think he's really just being it as these are

626
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: just regular things and he doesn't understand why I have

627
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: them for my New Year's resolutions. Um No, but there

628
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 1: they're great and you should not let him influence you

629
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: setting your personal goals. Good luck, happy New Year, and

630
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: thank you so much Rachel for listening and for calling.

631
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: You know, it is a good point when you do set.

632
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: It's such a slippery slope when you do set the

633
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: mile mark or the scorecard, the goal. If you don't

634
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 1: do it, like I beat myself up, like I'm the

635
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: broth diet right, like, for example, the broth diet. I'll

636
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Speaker 1: tell you last night, I broke the broth diet. I

637
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: was so hungry. I broke the broth diet. Yeah, and

638
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: then I torture myself that I broke the diet right,

639
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Speaker 1: And I didn't make it that far at all? Really, no,

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00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: no, no no, I did it three days before New Year's

641
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: and then I started. I started Monday, So I didn't

642
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Speaker 1: do that much. I guess not. But The point is

643
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: I set the goal which motivated me, and I didn't

644
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Speaker 1: do it, and now I beat myself up over it.

645
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: And that's not good either. But why could end up

646
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Speaker 1: in you can do the broth, but then you could

647
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Speaker 1: have a cheat meal, like does it have to be?

648
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Speaker 1: So that's another problem. I'm so rigid with myself. No,

649
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Speaker 1: that's the you're to the extremes, like you go one

650
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Speaker 1: way or the other, and I feel like you should

651
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Speaker 1: maybe just find a happy middle ground, like I go.

652
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: I went from the melted cheese in the fondo, you

653
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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like what what? Where is that?

654
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Speaker 1: What is that? Maybe like throw a salad in there

655
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: and call her to day? You know, on air with

656
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrets craziness, you couldn't believe it when you saw

657
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Speaker 1: these uh stranded drivers in Virginia where it was it

658
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Speaker 1: was there. I guess what happened. Was it a really

659
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: bad accident? There was bad weather and a truck jack

660
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: knife and it caused this massive chain reaction that blocked

661
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Speaker 1: traffic in both directions in this blizzard right blizzard like

662
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: conditions for a long time, like a full day day.

663
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Speaker 1: I was hearing some people would they would start their

664
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Speaker 1: car to warm them up a little bit. Then they

665
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: shut it off to save gas and they try and sleep.

666
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,959
Speaker 1: But how can you can you sleep? What about water?

667
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: What about food? Uh? Last night they finally got all

668
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: the cars off the road and they reopened that roadway.

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Speaker 1: But gian Carlo Ga is a trucker truck drum is

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Speaker 1: actually coming to us right now from his cab. I

671
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: can see, got the curtain pulled the window. He is

672
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Speaker 1: skyping us right in from his cab. He was stuck

673
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Speaker 1: for more than twenty seven hours. So, Jancaro, how are

674
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: you doing? Man? You feel free now? I'm doing great.

675
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. Yeah, I'm here part that a

676
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: truck stops, so finally out of traffic from yesterday? Bro,

677
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: what walk us through the hours that you were at?

678
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: So I was stopped from one am to nine thirty am,

679
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: and it was just ten miles before the standstill traffic.

680
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: It was a blanket of snow with black ice underneath.

681
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: I just saw semi trucks and cars continuing to speed

682
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 1: past me every now and then, So I just knew

683
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 1: there's gonna be something bad up ahead. Eventually one am

684
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: till am the next day, right, yes, plus plus what

685
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: were people doing to spend the time. So the guy

686
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Speaker 1: in the video that that was in the breakfast video,

687
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: he he took his dog out to walk about three times.

688
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: He saw people getting out to stretch. And at the

689
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: four hour mark that we were in Sandsill traffic, I

690
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: saw two people just walking in the on the ramp

691
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: wide opened, someone could speed and run them over. So

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Speaker 1: I just really dangerous people abandoning their vehicles because they

693
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: ran out of gas and they would have no heat

694
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: in the in the car. Oh gosh, And you made

695
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Speaker 1: a Jimmy Dean breakfast ball for the driver in front

696
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: of you. You do you because you're a mean You

697
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: live in a truck, so you've got all kinds of stuff.

698
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: You were prepared more so than others. What did most

699
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Speaker 1: people do? They didn't have food and water. Um. I

700
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: guess is they're just waiting it out. And also prior

701
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Speaker 1: to that, so I do UM. I use the ways

702
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: that for traffic um. Sand stills like that, and it's

703
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: a great source of communication in those situations. So people

704
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: were saying, hey, we're running out of gas. Truckers were

705
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Speaker 1: going to sleep in their cabs just because it was

706
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Speaker 1: Sandsill traffic. For hours, and that's when I reached out.

707
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, truckers have water, food, heat in the cab,

708
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: just all the resources you need in that type of situation.

709
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: So comes in very handy to help people lie. It's

710
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Speaker 1: just really unbelievable to think that could be trapped for

711
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 1: twenty seven hours. Well kind of riggy drive bro drive

712
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 1: a ballbo Oh, dude, flat front? I don't know. It

713
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: doesn't have a flat front. Mhm. What year is it

714
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: looks new on the inside. Thank you. What about your family?

715
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: Were they concerned? Yeah, they were reaching out and all

716
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 1: the once I was during the interviews are pulled up

717
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Speaker 1: into the exit. I mean, they knew I was fine,

718
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: but being in the truck was ten times better than

719
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Speaker 1: people in the cars. I felt really bad for people

720
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Speaker 1: that were stuck in cars for that long, and I

721
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Speaker 1: understand why they were just leaving their vehicles at some point.

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Speaker 1: You just can't fathom. Do you think when we get

723
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Speaker 1: stuck for a few minutes, we're going we go crazy?

724
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Speaker 1: Magine you're on your way home in l A all

725
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Speaker 1: the time, you get stuck for an extra hour, and

726
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Speaker 1: do you think that at the end of the world,

727
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: and now you stack up all these hours. Is that

728
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Speaker 1: an eighteen wheeler? Yeah, I mean yeah, it's an eighteen wheeler.

729
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: And the longest traffic jam I was in before this

730
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: was probably three or four hours. It was, um it

731
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Speaker 1: was a fatal semitruck multi vehicle accident. And yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I said, three hours, they cleaned it up. Flow of

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Speaker 1: traffic kept going. But in this situation, like I said,

734
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Speaker 1: there was snow and ice on the ground beforehand and

735
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: when we were stamped, so we were still on top

736
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Speaker 1: of that, still in Nice. So it was one thing

737
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: just evacuating the vehicles off the highway and then getting

738
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: a be dot clear the roads afterwards. What's your payload

739
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: right now? I'm about five thousand pounds behind me for

740
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: a really light load. And how far did this set

741
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 1: you back? This is so I was busy interviewing yesterday. Um,

742
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: so the load is quite delay. But my company understood

743
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: they were being famous yesterday. I was. There was one

744
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 1: thing like I was like, hey, national news like traffic

745
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: stand still for more than a day, But yeah I did.

746
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah does he with interviews yesterday? Well, I'm sure you gotta.

747
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 1: You gotta get back on track and uh meet your deadlines.

748
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: It's great to meet you. Thanks for being such a

749
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,479
Speaker 1: good person. All those people in need out there. Bro, Yes,

750
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 1: thank you, you're looking at all right, see you later.

751
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 1: Thank you. Carlo got shake. Truck Driver could also star

752
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: on One Tree Hill the reboot. He's cute for sure, right, dud,

753
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 1: just chilling. I mean, honestly, that sky is pretty cool.

754
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: Bro's just chilling the back of a brand new Volvo

755
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: eighteen wheeler cab. He literally looks like Nate from One

756
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: Tree Hill. Right. I think get my deliveries in because

757
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: I was doing some press all my interviews yesterday with

758
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: Ryan st Johnny mentioned a trending report. Before we get

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00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: into fifty minutes five zero of NonStop back to back

760
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: kiss music, she said, we love a modern woman move

761
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 1: and Diane Krueger is speaking some truths. We should all hear.

762
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: What do you have? Okay? So she is a forty

763
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: five year old actress. She has a three year old

764
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: kid with Norman Ritas. Remember him from The Walking Dead.

765
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: We love him, He's been on the show. He's just

766
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 1: like super cool. Um. She was also in the National

767
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: Treasure Movies, among many others. But she was opening up

768
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Speaker 1: about her decision to have a kid in her forties,

769
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Speaker 1: and I think it's really transparent and honest, and I

770
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: wanted to show what she said because I think a

771
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: lot of people feel this way, but they feel shame

772
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: for maybe saying it out loud. She said, I'm so

773
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Speaker 1: glad I did not have a kid at thirty. I

774
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: think I would have absolutely resented it for all the

775
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: things that you have to give up, because today I

776
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: am happy to do. So. I've been to every party,

777
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,439
Speaker 1: I've been to every country that I wanted to visit.

778
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: So I'm one percent and ready and willing to give

779
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: my kid that attention. And I feel like this is

780
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: a conversation that I'm having with my friends a lot

781
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: these days because I know, in particular, you know, um,

782
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: me and my best friend, like, we have a girlfriend

783
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: who had kids in her twenties and now she's our age,

784
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: and she feels like she missed out on all these

785
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: things in her life. And it's not to say she

786
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: regrets it, but she's kind of having this like quarter

787
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: life crisis where she wants to now like go out

788
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: and rage and do all the stuff that we did

789
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: in our twenties because we didn't have kids. And so

790
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: I just think it's really transparent of her and cool

791
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: to say, because I think we can decide on our

792
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: own what age we want to do it. And I

793
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: feel like there's all this pressure from not necessarily society,

794
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: but even like our parents to have grandkids, and you

795
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,439
Speaker 1: know your friends are all doing it, so you should

796
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: just do it. But I think it's such an important

797
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: decision to make on your own and what feels good

798
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: to you and your heart and your gut, and so

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00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 1: I just love that she's sharing it because and good

800
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: for her that she's done all the things like that.

801
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: She says, she's like, what a dream, because I'm sitting

802
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: here thinking, well, yeah, but there's a lot of the

803
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: world we've never had a chance to see, and I

804
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: know because we work every we're on the area. But

805
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: it also doesn't have to be that extreme, do you

806
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I think, But also, having kids

807
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: does not like stop you from doing all It's like,

808
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it's it's the other worlds is over

809
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 1: and you can never travel. It's like you'll just have

810
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: these experiences later in life and maybe with your children,

811
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: and it'll be like, I can't wait to go to

812
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 1: Europe and discover new cities. With my kids one day,

813
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: you know, like I look forward to those trips. Yeah,

814
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: it would have been cool to maybe being miconos in

815
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: my twenties, but I'll just be in it with in

816
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: my forties, with my children. I have to say I

817
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 1: do agree with and and maybe maybe this is my

818
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: wrong thinking, but I do agree. Like I feel like

819
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Speaker 1: if I were going to have kids, I would want

820
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: to be doing less. I'd want to put more of

821
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: my energy and attention into it. And so that maybe

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Speaker 1: why I've looked the other way for so long. So

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Speaker 1: when she says I'm ready only to get my kids

824
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: all that attention, that I really get what she's saying.

825
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: If you can right now, if you do need help

826
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Speaker 1: getting your grandparents to lay off the pressure. I broke

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00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: Connie Seacrests from the pressure, Okay, and I I can't

828
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Speaker 1: say that I have some good guys, But man, if

829
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Speaker 1: you can break connie secrets from the pressure of getting

830
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: married earlier and having kids earlier than anyone can be broken.

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Speaker 1: Anyone can be broken. So just bear that in mind. Yeah,

832
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Speaker 1: wrapping it up here this morning on this Wednesday for

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00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: Kiss FM. Tomorrow's in all New Ryan's roses, they had

834
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Speaker 1: a lot to drink up early at a friend's wedding,

835
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Speaker 1: but it wasn't until a few days later that she

836
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Speaker 1: suspected something went wrong. What happened in that time period

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Speaker 1: seven forty tomorrow. We pay your bills all day too.

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00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

839
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