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Speaker 2: I mean, in related news, my truck has been stolen.

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Speaker 3: I just was not not ready to I'm not vaccinated yet.

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Speaker 4: Can't you star in this?

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Speaker 3: I'll never go on cameo despite how much money people make.

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Speaker 2: To be honest. Who was on it?

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Speaker 3: Well, John, you know it's so funny because I really

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Speaker 4: But no, I just that kind of I think it's weird.

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Speaker 3: But it seems like it's mostly the virtual version of

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Speaker 3: And then I think it's people that have expensive lives.

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Speaker 3: Is weird that you're like you agree to be the

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Speaker 3: going to pretend I know who you are, Like happy birthday, Bridger, Like,

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Speaker 2: I suppose. Yeah, my boyfriend sent his mom has had

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Speaker 2: was it? Wow? Good call. My boyfriend got her a

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Speaker 4: See, so that's a good advertisement.

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Speaker 2: I guess. I mean, I still find the thing entirely strange,

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Speaker 3: And I guess that person knows who you are for

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Speaker 4: Person that you write you have always known who they are.

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Speaker 4: They now know who you are.

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Speaker 2: You crossed their mind for a second. Yeah, this guy

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Speaker 3: Well, I wonder if he does it from the set,

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Speaker 3: because then he's like you just sonny Yoh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was in like a tank top. Oh, he was.

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Speaker 3: Still holding it up, holding it down, Sonny. I should say,

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Speaker 3: I swatch General Hospital after school and like you know,

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Speaker 4: You have your pre dinner when you're a t You know.

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Speaker 2: Isn't that a wonderful time in life to just have

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Speaker 2: meal after meal after meal. It doesn't you have a

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Speaker 3: You've you've had lunch at presumably at twelve or one,

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Speaker 4: At six thirty. What was your snack in Utah as a.

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Speaker 2: I mean this will come no surprise to.

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Speaker 3: Well, how much white flour and how much sugar did it?

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Speaker 4: Did it involve?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was always a cookie, almost entirely between well,

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Speaker 2: Between three thirty and five o'clock, I was eating countless

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Speaker 4: What were your cookies of choice? Like store bought cookies or.

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Speaker 2: My mom would make chocolate chip cookies, or she would

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Speaker 2: and having cookies. I don't maybe a cake. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm about to say fruit, and that's just not true.

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Speaker 2: It's never just having a nice light fruit. It was cookies.

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Speaker 4: It was always so nasty. If your mother was like,

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Speaker 4: why don't you have an apple?

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Speaker 2: You hate me? I don't. I don't have an idea.

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Speaker 2: Who I am? Have you?

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Speaker 4: Have you been to the grocery store? Do you see

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Speaker 4: what else they have? Like apples? Outrageous? How many kids

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Speaker 4: in your family?

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Speaker 2: Four? Four children? How about how many some six in

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Speaker 2: my family? I beat you, which is really.

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Speaker 4: Unusual for Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow, are you younger? I knew, I knew we.

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Speaker 4: Were better than you, and I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't quite. But now, well, how many of your

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Speaker 3: Well, I can tell you how many should be, but

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Speaker 3: but none of them are at the moment.

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Speaker 2: That was a sensitive question. What if all of your

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Speaker 3: I know what if I was like too for male

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Speaker 3: Froud Genshaw, which we did. We did have a little

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Speaker 2: Which right, I am.

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Speaker 4: So into this. It was just what I needed.

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Speaker 2: So you and I both we both watch Real Housewives

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Speaker 2: of Salt Lake City, you know Genshaw. Hopefully everyone's caught

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Speaker 3: My friend said a very funny thing when she said,

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Speaker 3: I wonder I hope Coach Shaw has a pep talk

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Speaker 3: for prison.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that Coach Shaw had any idea? Of course,

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Speaker 2: but he's always away. Do you think he's trying to

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Speaker 2: get away to kind of absolve himself, try to keep

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Speaker 3: She's well, you know, I believe Coach Shaw has a

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Speaker 2: He has girlfriends in every city.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I believe Coach Shaw has girlfriend That's what I believe.

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Speaker 2: He's a good looking man, successful, and he can dance.

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Speaker 2: He can dance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I don't think he picked up that routine.

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Speaker 2: I think he's been doing salsa lessons in other cities.

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Speaker 3: Well, it turned out that the various part there's that yes,

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Speaker 3: been dancing more recently than that, didn't He He wasn't

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Speaker 3: as excited as someone who's made to wait eighteen years

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Speaker 3: to go selic dance.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this legal trouble, if he has managed

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Speaker 4: Oh you mean that somebody's going to take her off

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Speaker 2: Right, he can finally just say enough is enough, goodbye.

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Speaker 3: Jen. I just think she was obviously. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: clothes and us to be the game, right, But they

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Speaker 2: They did not have life. She was furious when that

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Speaker 2: and he was.

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Speaker 4: He's a coach. I mean he can only make so

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Speaker 2: Coach, right, football coach. I mean maybe they they probably

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Speaker 3: He's not the head coach. He's like the special teams

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Speaker 3: he makes a very nice living, but not that kind

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Speaker 2: No way. I mean that house is beautiful. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: they're throwing these parties. They're getting her hair.

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Speaker 4: Oh, those incredible parties.

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Speaker 3: Never if I wanted to an attend a party less

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Speaker 3: than you know, but the idea of go party now

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Speaker 3: is absolutely absurd to me anyway, But the that's not

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Speaker 3: the one I would pick.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean every one of them has some shirtless

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Speaker 2: loser serving a horrible looking appetizer. The food is.

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Speaker 4: The food just terrible in Park City.

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Speaker 2: What's the what's the scoop? I don't know. I think

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Speaker 2: there's good food in Park City. There's good food in Utah,

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Speaker 2: But then they had like that party at what essentially

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Speaker 3: Oh his party, Yes, his birthday, which which was a

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Speaker 3: like a Dave and Buster's basically right.

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Speaker 2: There was like a golf range attached to it, yes,

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Speaker 2: and they had kind of been pushed off into a

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Speaker 2: little corner of it for their party. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't need to go to any party where you

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Speaker 3: give me a stack full of tokens, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're parties. I mean gen Shaws and every other

442
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 2: one of the Salt like Housewives parties. Every room in

443
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 2: their ine just looks extremely drafty to me. I always

444
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 2: just think everyone needs to have a jacket on.

445
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 3: It looks uncomfortable, underdecorated, hallow and drafty, yes, hollow, sort

446
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 3: of right, But including Jen's house.

447
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 4: Where she always removes the furniture to you know.

448
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 2: That's the other weird thing. What the furniture is always missing?

449
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 2: Uh in h what's her name? The tequila person's name, Lisa, Lisa.

450
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 2: Her house. There's no art on the walls, there's maybe

451
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: a couch in the house they have, like a couch

452
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 2: in beds. Every one of these housewives looks like they're

453
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 2: they need to get out of town quick. Yeah, I

454
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 2: imagine Jen will probably be going to prison. Who knows

455
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 2: what happened to Stuart. I mean Stewart was the first

456
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 2: red flag. It was like, who is this man? Or

457
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: why is he spending all of his time with her? Yeah,

458
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: and obviously we know now that they were just they

459
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: had some sort of criminal enterprise.

460
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 4: Well, the poor Shaw squad, how are they going to be?

461
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: Well, tell you what I heard this morning. There rumors

462
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: are members of the Shaws squad may have been undercover.

463
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 2: She may have had you know, somebody turned. Someone texted

464
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 2: me this this this morning. I mean, it's all hearsay.

465
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: I didn't look into it, as I never do.

466
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 4: I mean they were informants.

467
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: Informants, Yeah, maybe like whoever one of the nine people

468
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 2: that was doing her hair, or various people who were

469
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 2: just kind of standing around at all times. One of

470
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 2: them was probably wearing a wire. Yeah. Look, I don't

471
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: want to I never want to get off the topic

472
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 2: of the housewives, but I know I feel bad.

473
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 4: You can cut any of that of course, because we've

474
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 4: done nothing but bore your audience to death with the.

475
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 2: But there's just a more important issue here. There's a

476
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 2: much more important issue that I have to approach you about.

477
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 2: So you agreed to be on this podcast a couple

478
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: of weeks ago. I was very excited day I had

479
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 2: been on Ask Grana. We had had a wonderful time.

480
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,239
Speaker 2: I feel like we had been built some level of

481
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 2: trust between the two of us. You emailed asking for

482
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 2: my address. I gave it to you. You know, at

483
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,239
Speaker 2: some point, hopefully I'll learn my lesson. But what are

484
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:11,719
Speaker 2: you going to do?

485
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 4: Did I steal the truck?

486
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 3: We don't know yet, right, I mean, yeah, I know whatah,

487
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 3: And obviously nothing else to do. As I mentioned, I

488
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 3: I've not been jetting off on my usual jaunts to

489
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 3: movie sets.

490
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 2: And you know, you're obviously in a desperate place. Yeah yeah,

491
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 2: And crime in my neighborhood suddenly spikes. I mean, it's

492
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: god knows what's going on. If I could take it back,

493
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: if I could say, go back to the day that

494
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 2: I gave you my address, would I no question? I mean, obviously,

495
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 2: especially now that uh we're going to get into this.

496
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 2: This podcast is called. I said, no gifts. You know that.

497
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 2: I know that the world at large is aware that

498
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: this podcast has a rule. So I was a little

499
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 2: surprised this morning when I get a text from you

500
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 2: me get you my phone number. Of side. I don't

501
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 2: know what I was thinking, but he said, I'm outside,

502
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 2: could you send your boyfriend out to get something? And

503
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: I immediately thought, I'm not sending Jim out there. Why

504
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 2: is she here at ten o'clock in the morning in

505
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: the first place.

506
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, so who knows what she's got for me?

507
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: Right? So I masked up. I come outside, but you're

508
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 2: sitting there in your car. You say, you who over here?

509
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 2: I come over and you hand me a little basket

510
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: and so a beautiful little basket with it kind of

511
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: a burlap sack inside, kind of a lovely smell coming

512
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: from it. And are these some herbs on the outside?

513
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: Is that what I'm looking at?

514
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 3: It's just a sprig of drying spring flowers, that's all

515
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: it is.

516
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: Just well, it's very beautiful, And I mean, obviously things

517
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: went through my mind, and she think this was mine,

518
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 2: and she had forgotten she was bringing me something that

519
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 2: she mistakenly thought was mine. Then it occurred to me. Oh, no, yep,

520
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: it's a gift.

521
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 5: Yep.

522
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: So I have to ask you, am I are my

523
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 2: suspicions correct? Is this a gift for me?

524
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 4: It is a gift for you.

525
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 5: It is.

526
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 3: It's a token of my appreciation. I wouldn't call it

527
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 3: a gift. It's a token appreciation for coming on the show.

528
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 2: Finding some loopholes has never helped anybody. Ask Joshaw, ask,

529
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 2: ask Stewart. Well, I don't know. Do you think I

530
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 2: should open it here on the show. I'm happy to wait.

531
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 2: It's up to you.

532
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 3: I would because it's perishable, and in fact, it may

533
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 3: already be best.

534
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 4: It's past its best moment.

535
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let me open it up, much like you

536
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 2: and I rapidly aging.

537
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 4: Butter that's been left on the counter just an hour

538
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 4: or two long.

539
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: I'm very excited to see whatever's happening here. I'm going

540
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 2: to reach in Phoenix. Oh oh, okay, I've now removed

541
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 2: a muffin from the bag. It looks like there are

542
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: multiple muffins in this bag. This is a beautiful, beautiful

543
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: Is this a blueberry muffin?

544
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 3: That is a home baked blueberry muffin that I made

545
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 3: this morning, so hopefully it's still a little warm.

546
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 4: In the center.

547
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 2: Is this? Did you make this from scratch?

548
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 4: I did, and it is from the recipe.

549
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 3: And people that know me in my various forms, either

550
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 3: as Me or as Rana or whatever, know that I

551
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 3: often talk about. There was a department store in Boston

552
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 3: called Jordan Marsh and they sold just these beautiful, fresh

553
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 3: baked blueberr muffins when you would walk through the door.

554
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 3: They were in that Boston not very cold place, obviously,

555
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 3: and this was late downtown crossing, which is sort of

556
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: like an outdoor at the time anyway, an outdoor mall space.

557
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 3: But where the train stations there was a busy train station.

558
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 3: There was a lot of foot traffic, and you would walk.

559
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 4: In on a cold winter day and the windows were all,

560
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 4: you know, not frosted over. What's the you know.

561
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,239
Speaker 2: I feel like frosted What do you call it? When

562
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: the window was hot on the inside instead oh, kind

563
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 2: of foggy, fogged up fog.

564
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 3: No I called frost instead of fogged. But it was

565
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 3: really fogged over from the heat of the baking. And

566
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: the bakery was right in the front.

567
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 2: At the store.

568
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 3: Dream And so anyone that grew up in Boston, knows

569
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 3: the Jordan Marsh sadly closed, but knows about these muffins,

570
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 3: and so those that is the Jordan Marsh blueberry muffin recipe.

571
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 2: Where did you get the recipe?

572
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 3: Actually Channel five WCVB a few years ago they went

573
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: and found the guy that ran the bakery for however

574
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: long thirty years or something, and they filmed him and

575
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: he gave them the recipe and his sort of tips

576
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 3: and tricks of the recipe. And I just one day

577
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 3: was it's a thing that people kind of like, you know, oh,

578
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: do you remember the muffins?

579
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 4: Do you remember the muffins?

580
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 3: So, I don't know, maybe five or six years ago

581
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: I googled it and there it was from an old

582
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 3: news story and so it appears the New.

583
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 4: York Times recipe has it. There's a Yankee magazine recipe,

584
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 4: but this is the one that came straight from the guys.

585
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: So that's what you've got to trust the source. Yeah, wait,

586
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: I mean should I'm going to try it right now?

587
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: Oh?

588
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 4: I would be I'll walk out if you don't.

589
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: What if I review state? What do you care if

590
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 2: I walk out?

591
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 6: Talk to somebody else for the next Oh my god,

592
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 6: that is delightful.

593
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: Well, I know you like sweets, and I sort of

594
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 3: guessed that because it was funny when we were talking

595
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: about the cookies, because I wondered about that. I wondered

596
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 3: if your mother. I was sort of wondering what is

597
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: Mormon cuisine? And my guess was that they're baker's the Mormons,

598
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 3: because that's a very a very frontierish thing to be, right,

599
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 3: and that I was trying to think what is their cuisine?

600
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 3: And obviously there's only certain things that you're allowed, but

601
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 3: sugar seems to be one of them.

602
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

603
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 3: My guess was that these people are flour and butter

604
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 3: and sugar people. And so I said, well, let me

605
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 3: make you something personal that I.

606
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 4: Love and that people usually I'll say, you won't always,

607
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 4: but usually respond to who doesn't want a basket of

608
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 4: fresh muffins left on their door?

609
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: I can't. I mean, this is it's like a cartoon dream,

610
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: a fantasy, right, It's an amazing thing.

611
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 4: I can't wait till you.

612
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 3: When I leave, I want you to stay on for

613
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 3: an extra thirty seconds to talk about what shit these

614
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 3: muffins did.

615
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: Listen.

616
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 3: I had to spit it out there's five more doorstops here, Jim,

617
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 3: if you're.

618
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: Interested, you know, now, is this a hard recipe to make?

619
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 4: No, No, it's it's not. It's not at all.

620
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: Is cooking and baking something you enjoy doing?

621
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 3: I do, but it's not. I I really do it

622
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: purely for joy or to show love to other people.

623
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 3: But I'm not a person who's like I have to

624
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 3: make dinner every night.

625
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 4: I don't have I don't.

626
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: Have any uh, you know, any domestic drive in that way.

627
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 3: It's not like, oh, I've got to make sure there's

628
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 3: a hot meal on the table for you know. It's

629
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 3: not it's it's a it's a thing in my life,

630
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 3: which is like.

631
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 4: Probably what makes me who I am.

632
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 3: And also, uh, something that I would change about myself

633
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 3: if I could, which is often you know, whatever's that

634
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 3: our essence or at our core is this thing that

635
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 3: sort of defines us, but we also either resent or

636
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: it's our our greatest this is often our greatest weakness,

637
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 3: if you know, and which is that I don't like

638
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 3: to do anything I'm supposed to do or that I

639
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 3: have to do. But if I choose to do something,

640
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 3: then I love doing it. And probably most people are

641
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 3: like that. But also that's a very I've gotten a

642
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 3: little better as I've gotten older.

643
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 4: It's very immature, you know, like to procrastinate because you

644
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 4: don't write.

645
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: And it's like, well, maybe you don't mind doing it.

646
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 3: The whether it's expected if you or not. If you

647
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 3: don't mind doing it, what's the big deal?

648
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: Right? Who cares if you're being told to do it?

649
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:34,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's not like I have.

650
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 3: My life is not set up in such a way

651
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 3: that there's someone who expects me to serve them hot

652
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 3: food or to make anything for them. The thing with

653
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 3: me in cooking and baking and food is it is

654
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:53,479
Speaker 3: about feeling connected to other people, and it is about relaxing. So,

655
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 3: for instance, we're in the pandemic still, of course, and

656
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 3: Passover was this past weekend, and so I was not

657
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 3: I will often either have a big pass over or

658
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: throw it with my one of my best friends from

659
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 3: growing up lives down the street for me, and we'll

660
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 3: kind of like she'll make one thing and I'll make

661
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,760
Speaker 3: another thing, and we'll, you know, we'll do the meal together.

662
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 3: And so we didn't do any of that this year.

663
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 3: But I found myself I was sort of like, well,

664
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 3: I'll just.

665
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: Make my soup, which you know what type of soup.

666
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 3: Motzo ball soup, but really it's chicken soup, you know,

667
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 3: the chicken stock, and then you make the mots mos, right,

668
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 3: So it's like, I'm just gonna make the soup, like, well,

669
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 3: then I you know what, I think, I'll make a brisket. Well,

670
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 3: if I'm going to make the bro I have to

671
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 3: make the liver because I have to.

672
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: You know.

673
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 3: There's just these things. But basically it makes me feel

674
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 3: connected to my mother and also to being a Jews

675
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 3: on some level, I suppose, like back generations. And that

676
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 3: is how it's sort of funny that I enjoyed chop

677
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 3: liver because I actually think the idea of it seems disgusting,

678
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 3: but it's delicious.

679
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 2: Is it textually? Is it? What is it like? Text?

680
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 2: Like a pate?

681
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 4: If you ever read pate?

682
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 2: I actually don't think I have. Maybe I think I've

683
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: had it on bond me, but that's a different situation

684
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 2: where it's kind of that's more like.

685
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 3: A spam probably right. Oh no, is it a spread?

686
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think they'll on some they'll like spread it.

687
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 2: But it's also then there are various other things so

688
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: it's harder to really determine what I think.

689
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 4: A spread is the best way to think of it.

690
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 3: So it's like a it's like a purade or a

691
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 3: milled food that is still kind of, you know, solid,

692
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: So it's like a cheese spread or you know, it's

693
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 3: just happens to be a meat spread basically.

694
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: And are you putting it on bread?

695
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 3: Well, not during passover, you're yeah, of course, Cracker, You're

696
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: putting it.

697
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 4: On matsa during passover, right.

698
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: But I make it at Russia, Shan, I make it

699
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 3: in the fall, and then I make it now. And

700
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: there's about four or five people in my life who

701
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 3: like it, and so I drop it off to them.

702
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: And yesterday I was outside the alley of CBS Studio,

703
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 3: Radford waiting for someone to meet me in the alley

704
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 3: so I can hand them their chop liver.

705
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 4: But the uh. And then I have this other great friend.

706
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 3: Who I love dearly named Dan Sweimer, who is a

707
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 3: writer and who was just nominated for the Borat movie.

708
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 2: Excuse me for.

709
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 3: Whether or not our friendship will be continuing as themselves

710
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 3: of his Academy Award nomination, I don't know, but he

711
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 3: is a Manchester jew and it's like two of my

712
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 3: favorite times of year are passover at Rustashana. When he'll come,

713
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 3: he will just come and sit at my kitchen table.

714
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 3: He's supposed to come pick it up and take it

715
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 3: home because he and his wife both love like liver,

716
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 3: and he's supposed to take it home, and he'll just

717
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: sit at the kitchen table and he'll eat like, I

718
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 3: don't know, a quarter of a pound of liver, and

719
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 3: we'll just and we'll just gossip for like two hours,

720
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: like two old yentas, and it's a it's amazing, you know.

721
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 4: We just that kind of thing where you're telling a

722
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 4: story that has absolutely no importance.

723
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 3: But it's just like then I said to this guy

724
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 3: and then I walked in they and they closed the

725
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 3: place and I said, it's not you know, open the

726
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 3: place up.

727
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: We got to get into you know.

728
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 3: It's it's like some sort of like a rhythm or

729
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 3: a dance. It's wonderful. So I'm like a thematic cooker.

730
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: Right, And it reminds me a bit of our mutual

731
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 2: friend Jessica Gow who has a similar thing, who loves

732
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: to cook for other people. She will make a huge

733
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: me feast for people have them over. She brought us

734
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 2: uh oxtail soup. She's really she goes all out.

735
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 4: Well, she's never had me over for dinner. I can

736
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 4: tell you.

737
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 2: The brag here was that I've been to Jessica's for dinner.

738
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 3: Well, I'm allergic to no, I'm not allergic to cats,

739
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 3: I'm allergic to admiral whiskers. So I've never been to No.

740
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 3: But she's brought her wonderful dumplings that she'll make with

741
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 3: her family and no. Jessica Ga is one of my

742
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 3: fit all time favorite. We have a very funny relationship

743
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 3: where she calls me sir and I call her little sister,

744
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 3: Like where did that come from?

745
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 2: Sir?

746
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 4: Is like Marcy and peppermint Patty?

747
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 2: Oh of course I love like, oh.

748
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 4: Sir, please sir? Yes you know, and I because I

749
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 4: basically am.

750
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: I mean, if if you hadn't heard.

751
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 3: It before, if you stop and hear it now, you'll

752
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: hear that I'm peppermint Patty, which is you know.

753
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 2: You do have a little peppermint patty.

754
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 4: Hey, Chuck, well, Chuck, I guess you know. I guess

755
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 4: that's the way the cookie crumbles.

756
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 2: Chuck.

757
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 3: Come on, we're all, you know, we're all going you know,

758
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 3: it's like the saddest character of the world, Charlie Brown.

759
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: Someone tell me Peppermint Patty's in love with Charlie Brown.

760
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: I found that surprising. I find that very surprising. I've

761
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 2: always felt like Peppermint Patty was a little uh, you know,

762
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 2: she's not interested in sex.

763
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,720
Speaker 4: Or man or boys or whatever.

764
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean she's either she's either lesbian or kind

765
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 2: of just you know, asexual or something. Yeah, but I

766
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: mean she can do whatever she wants. She's maybe my

767
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: favorite character.

768
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's great. Peppermint Patty a real bulldozer.

769
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, she knows what she wants.

770
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 4: She does and she's going to get it.

771
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 3: I was watching that Thanksgiving special this year, and I

772
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 3: was like, the balls on her. She makes him and

773
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: Snoopy throw that whole popcorn Thanksgiving feast and Charlie Brn's

774
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: supposed to go supposed to go to his grandmother's house

775
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 3: and then they all have to go to the grand

776
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 3: They give invited to the grandmother's house too.

777
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 4: She didn't have plans and she just.

778
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 2: Made it happen. Yeah. She and Lucy are the two

779
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 2: characters in the show that just have a drive and

780
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 2: goals that they achieve. Yeah, and I feel like that

781
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: they people look down on them for that, and I

782
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: think that they're fantastic. You know. Charlie Brown is kind

783
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 2: of listless and depressed. Yeah, and Lucy and Peppermint Patty.

784
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 2: Lucy's out there giving free advice or no charging for

785
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 2: it advice. She's a working woman. It's great. Yeah, Look,

786
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: it's time to play a game. No, I'm going to

787
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: say to this is nothing for later. I'm not chewing

788
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 2: on the mic. Do you want to play a game

789
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 2: called gift or a curse or a game called Gift Master?

790
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 4: Either one you pick.

791
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: Let's play Gift Master. Okay, I need a number between

792
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: one and ten eight. Okay, I have to do some

793
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 2: light calculating to get what we're playing with here. So

794
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: you can promote something, you can recommend something, you can

795
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 2: share a recipe, do whatever you want. I'll be right back.

796
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 3: I would like to encourage people to listen to the

797
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 3: ask Arana podcast. Ask Rona with Brana and Brian comes

798
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 3: out every Tuesday wherever you get your podcasts.

799
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 4: It is an advice show.

800
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 3: I'd call it comedic advice where we take real questions

801
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:59,760
Speaker 3: from real listeners write into us and we give real advice.

802
00:40:59,760 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 2: And.

803
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 3: You know, either it's good advice or it isn't. But

804
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 3: the advice is not a joke. We're just funny while

805
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 3: we give it. That is really something that someone else

806
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 3: should take a pass at. That paraup.

807
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 2: No that you know, that is the part of the

808
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 2: podcast that the guest is kind of just thrown in

809
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 2: the deep end. They don't see it coming.

810
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna give the I was going to

811
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 3: give the muffin recipe, which I could have, but I

812
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 3: was a little worried I would get.

813
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: You decided to withhold. You decided to withhold.

814
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 3: You have to if you're a real baker or a

815
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 3: real cook. I would never call myself a chef, so

816
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 3: a real cook, you have to guard your recipes carefully because.

817
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 4: Otherwise people will get them from other people.

818
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 3: Right, they can google WCVB.

819
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 4: Jordan Marsh muffins if they want to.

820
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: This is how you play. I'm going to name three gifts,

821
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: three potential things to give and three celebrities. The other

822
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 2: till me which gift you'll give way celebrity? And why

823
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 2: does that make sensek Yep?

824
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 3: Very easy if I can if I can hold that

825
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 3: much information in my brain for long enough.

826
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 2: Yes, right, and I'm always happy to remind to circle

827
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: back this kind of thing. These are the three gifts

828
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 2: you're going to be giving. First, a rubber were wolf mask.

829
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 2: So that's kind of a mask that I I guess

830
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 2: makes you look like a were wolf Halloween Halloween, right, an,

831
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 2: you can wear it. Let's let's not put rules on

832
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 2: when you wear a were wolf mask. You can wear

833
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 2: that anytime of the year. Throw it on Christmas morning, okay.

834
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Second gift is a pipe organ, so that's you know,

835
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 2: an organ. You'll an expensive organ with the pipes, the works.

836
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 2: It's like right right. And finally, the third gift is

837
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 2: a premium docuseries with full editorial control. So this will

838
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: be a docuseries about the person and they get the

839
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 2: final say. Usually with a premium docuseries, You're on HBO,

840
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: You're on Showtime.

841
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 4: Billy Eil, this is my life for whatever that.

842
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of pop stars are doing

843
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 2: that now an unvarnished look. Okay. The people you're going

844
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:16,720
Speaker 2: to be giving them to are Janelle Monet, okay, Brooke Hogan,

845
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:23,439
Speaker 2: daughter of Hulk, and number three it's none other than

846
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 2: Degenerous herself, Ellen Ellen Degenerous. So those are the three people.

847
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 4: Interesting?

848
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: Love it? Okay?

849
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: Well of mask, the pipe organ and the docuseries.

850
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 2: Right full editorial control.

851
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: I knew for sure who I was giving the docuseries too,

852
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 3: and now I'm not sure.

853
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 4: Oh boy, so I was. Let's okay.

854
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 3: I don't like that I've been painted into a corner

855
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 3: now because the way I was gonna do this is

856
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 3: not the way.

857
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 4: I'm going to do it now.

858
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 3: Anyone would expect me to say that I'm going to

859
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 3: give the werewolf mask to Brok Coogan.

860
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 4: Anyone would exact. But I really had been planning on

861
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 4: giving her the docu series.

862
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, okay.

863
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 3: But then when you threw Ellen in the truth is

864
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,720
Speaker 3: the thing that's interesting about the person having creative control

865
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 3: is that that that's who they want you to believe

866
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 3: they are, right, and so that's how they see themselves. Yes,

867
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 3: and so I think it would be really interesting actually

868
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 3: to see I think Ellen is a person in the

869
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 3: last year who has struggled with this concept of her

870
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 3: persona versus controlling. Yeah, right, and again I never worked

871
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 3: on that show.

872
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 4: I don't know what happened there.

873
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 3: I just know that there was a kerfuffle during the

874
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 3: pandemic about how people felt about the work environment, and

875
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 3: now they've been treating right, and.

876
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 4: So I think it would be really interesting.

877
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 3: Generally I wouldn't want to watch to docu series about Ellen,

878
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 3: but after a year like this, it would be sort

879
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 3: of interesting to see what the curated version of her,

880
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 3: what she thinks is, giving an all access look at

881
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 3: her life, because I think no matter how much control

882
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 3: she had, there would be stuff, much like jen Shaw,

883
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 3: where you would be like, Wow, you thought that was

884
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 3: a good thing to keep in.

885
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 2: That's always the most interesting when the person has control

886
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 2: and there's still something whe're like, oh, you let that

887
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 2: pass through the You could have taken that out and

888
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:32,240
Speaker 2: you thought that that's okay.

889
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: Behavior that tells you everything about what a person is about, right,

890
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 3: So I think that that would actually probably be more

891
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: interesting than I normally, I'd be more interested in it

892
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 3: than normal given the events of the last year. Though,

893
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: Brook Hogan, let's be honest, and there can't be there

894
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 3: can't be a dull moment.

895
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 2: There's not never what's happening in the life of a

896
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: brook Hogan.

897
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 4: We're gonna find I mean, it's a lot of smoothies.

898
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: I think smoothies, a lot of road rage, a lot

899
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: of like parking horizontally, a lot of.

900
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 3: Right yeah, and then like phone calls with Hulk which

901
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 3: are just like totally you know's what's Terry like as

902
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 3: a dad? That's his real name, and the mother would

903
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: make an appearance and you know all of that stuff.

904
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,919
Speaker 4: Janelle money the predictable. But I would give her.

905
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 3: The organ because she has a beautiful voice, and I'd

906
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 3: like to see her hire somebody to play that organ.

907
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 4: With, you know, backing her kind of thing.

908
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see that being kind of part of

909
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 2: a show or maybe our next album is all just

910
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 2: a full organ.

911
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 5: Though.

912
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 3: If we gave her the werewolf mask, she could do

913
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 3: like a thriller.

914
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 2: Video, Oh, thriller reborn.

915
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I could see a Thriller two point zero

916
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 3: for her. I I feel like she could.

917
00:46:59,400 --> 00:46:59,959
Speaker 2: Pull that off.

918
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 4: It's kind of like the Girl and the Thriller video.

919
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,720
Speaker 2: But let's see her take on it. Yeah, she becomes

920
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 2: the werewolf. Oh that's not a bad idea.

921
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 3: That's a sort of modern feminist tone, you know, take

922
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 3: on thriller a reinvention, and that leaves us.

923
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 4: Of course, that's everybody. I guess, right, but I don't.

924
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: I feel like you didn't. I think Brook is getting Yeah,

925
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 2: you didn't commit to the final too. Is Brooke getting

926
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: a were wolf mask or an organ?

927
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 3: We really everyone wants to see Brooks show, right, We

928
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 3: want to watch all Ellen. We get enough exposure from Ellen. Right, Okay,

929
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 3: let's give brook the show because let's give Ellen the mask,

930
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 3: and let's give no, let's give Janelle the mask, and

931
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 3: let's give Ellen the organ, and we're going to chain

932
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 3: her to it and she's gonna have to learn how

933
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: to play it, and that's her her penance for whatever

934
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 3: she may or may not have done wrong in this world.

935
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 2: I will say my mind first went to the organ

936
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 2: for Ellen. I felt like a cape on Ellen. She's

937
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 2: probably got a giant cathedral on her property. She's blaring

938
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 2: on that. That appeels to me what we're learning about her.

939
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: She's on the organ, and you hear that kind of

940
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: floating through the air outside her property brings sort of

941
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 2: doom the you. I think that Ellen would be come.

942
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,320
Speaker 2: She would take very naturally to a pipe organ.

943
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 4: I agree, Okay, So I think I think you.

944
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 2: Did a very good job there. And I think Jenelle

945
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 2: Money is someone who appreciates, you know, a good scare, yeah,

946
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: and dressing up this kind of thing.

947
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 4: I would like to see her do thriller. I think

948
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 4: she could pull that off.

949
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 2: I think that's a great idea. I really think that

950
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: the entire, the whole Michael Jackson catalog should be sold

951
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 2: for parts at this point. You know, there are a

952
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: lot of great things there that I think, let's just

953
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: take those old songs and let other people have them.

954
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 2: Take the concept hard, It's.

955
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 3: So hard because you'll be especially when that documentary came out,

956
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 3: right in a store, one of his songs come on

957
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,439
Speaker 3: and they're just like they're undeniable.

958
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: Right, So if we just get let's give Janelle the songs.

959
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's see Janelle makes something of those.

960
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 3: And who doesn't want to see Brooke Bellia or Blea,

961
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 3: however you say their last name, Let's see that.

962
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 4: Let's see Brooke Hogan.

963
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 3: They did have a mini they did have a reality

964
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 3: show for a little while.

965
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:25,919
Speaker 2: Though, oh don't.

966
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 4: Of course they did, but she was like a teenager then.

967
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 2: Now that she's in her late sixties, Yeah, yeah, I

968
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 2: think the reality of the docu series is what Brook

969
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 2: needs to be doing. I want to give her like

970
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 2: editorial control to the point that she's on iMovie editing it.

971
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 2: I want to see what that looks like. Boy oh boy,

972
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 2: just a slap together. Okay, we've got to move on.

973
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: You did an excellent job. You didn't lose. This is

974
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 2: the part of the podcast called I said no emails,

975
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 2: and I think you're going to be very good at

976
00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,439
Speaker 2: this because I've asked Grana. People are right in they're

977
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: asking about gifts, situations, gifts to give people, this kind

978
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 2: of thing they're writing into. I said, no gifts at

979
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. I should be clear, we do.

980
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 4: A lot of gifts.

981
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 3: That's a big part of what we do on Ask

982
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 3: Grana because that's another thing we were talking about the

983
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 3: food thing before. But right, I just think it's cool

984
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 3: when you can give someone a gift that's specific to

985
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 3: them and addresses their needs at a point.

986
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 2: It just a little hole in their life. You, by

987
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 2: the way, gave me some coffee, yes, of course.

988
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 3: But also we do a giveaway every week when we

989
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,919
Speaker 3: pick one question that just speaks to us, uh huh,

990
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 3: and then we do a giveaway for that person that

991
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 3: we feel like just needs a little something.

992
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 2: I think that's wonderful. I would steal that if you

993
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 2: didn't do it already. Well, this is the podcast about

994
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 2: gifts that does not give gifts, So don't come asking

995
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 2: for a gift.

996
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 3: It only receives them.

997
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 2: Okay, let's answer some questions here. This first one says

998
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 2: deer Bridge are an esteemed guest. I'm desperate. I've been

999
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: fish sitting for a friend while she's in Hawaii. Earlier today,

1000
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 2: I showed up at her place to find that one

1001
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 2: of her fish has died. I texted her immediately, interrupting

1002
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: her beach time with the sad news. She kindly said

1003
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 2: I should provide a respectful toilet side service, and she

1004
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 2: was grateful for my reverence in the matter. I flushed

1005
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 2: the fish and then turned my attention to the surviving

1006
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 2: two bridger. I swear I'm not making this up, but

1007
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 2: another fish died in the meantime. Again, my friend was

1008
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 2: kind and understanding, and she went so far as to

1009
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 2: say perhaps the fish pals had waited for her to

1010
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: leave before dying, to protect her from the pain of

1011
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 2: their deaths. But the upshot for me is that I

1012
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 2: feel like a murderer. This is getting very complicated, and

1013
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 2: dare I say, confusing, I'm going to use it off. Okay,

1014
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 2: you keep the clear mind here while I finished this thing.

1015
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 2: I want to get her gift when she returns. Obviously

1016
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 2: not to fish, right, but our flowers sufficient. Please advise

1017
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 2: it earliest convenience, Thanks in advance. That's from Susan. So, okay,

1018
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:08,959
Speaker 2: Susan has killed two pets and there's some emotional things

1019
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 2: happening here.

1020
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know if it's Susan's fault, because there's

1021
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 3: a thing with the ecosystem of an aquarium is very important,

1022
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 3: how much how oxygenated the air is, and that's a thing,

1023
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 3: so I don't know. Again, we don't know the tank

1024
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 3: set up here, So it may be that it was

1025
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 3: Susan's job to put some drops in the water or

1026
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,240
Speaker 3: not or whatever, so she may have killed these fish.

1027
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 3: But it may also be that like the air hose

1028
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 3: to the aquarium is not right, or the water wasn't

1029
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 3: changed or something like that. So I'm not going to

1030
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 3: give Susan full culpability for these fish.

1031
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 4: I'm just going to say that they died on her watch.

1032
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 2: Right, and we can't rule out the possibility that she

1033
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 2: was set up. Maybe this friend went out of town

1034
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 2: with that yes, knowing.

1035
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 3: That she could collect the insurance money for the vicious

1036
00:52:55,760 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 3: deaths she got back. Normally I would say that's the

1037
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 3: way the cookie crumbles. This woman's lucky that you took

1038
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 3: care for fish and these things happened. And sure it's

1039
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 3: a bummer and you feel bad. But because of the

1040
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 3: dramatic response. The idea, which is a thing of course,

1041
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 3: that for sentient beings that sometimes people cannot they can't

1042
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 3: have their loved ones around them when they pass away

1043
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,760
Speaker 3: because they are worried about staying there for those people,

1044
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 3: and they need the they need the permission, permission to go. Basically, yes,

1045
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 3: I actually think a little bouquet of flowers on the

1046
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 3: table with a note sort of tongue in cheek, you know,

1047
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 3: I'm sorry for your loss or whatever.

1048
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 4: Would be well received.

1049
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:48,760
Speaker 2: Yes. Otherwise, you can.

1050
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 3: Do a donation to the Jacques cous Do Society.

1051
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: Those are excellent. You could also maybe a painting of

1052
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 2: the fish. That might be a little more expensive. I mean,

1053
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 2: I guess it depends on how attached this person became

1054
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 2: to the fish. And I don't know that anyone ever

1055
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 2: gets that attached to fish. Do you know somebody who's been,

1056
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 2: you know, really emotional.

1057
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 3: Attached to a fish. Yeah, it's usually children.

1058
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 4: Right where they.

1059
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 3: Write they're attached to the idea of having a pet.

1060
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 3: But you know then they of course don't feed them

1061
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 3: and they die. Or but a fish painting is very

1062
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 3: funny and nice.

1063
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,760
Speaker 4: But I don't know, you're to me, you're feeding into

1064
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 4: the drama of this.

1065
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 2: And this person is placing way too much on the

1066
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 2: inner lives of these fish. You may have.

1067
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 3: Taken some photos of the fish though, to send her

1068
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 3: like I don't know if over the week you said

1069
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:43,439
Speaker 3: to photo.

1070
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 2: I thought you were saying she had taken them of them.

1071
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 3: Of the ceremony in the toilet, the flushing ceremony. Obviously

1072
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 3: this woman has lost fish before. If she was like

1073
00:54:55,000 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 3: a tasteful toilet side ceremonies, fine, But I think if

1074
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 3: you had, if you took some pictures this week and

1075
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: they were good, you could also do that. You could

1076
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 3: do like there's that site whatever it is, framebridge dot

1077
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 3: com or something where you can send a picture and

1078
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 3: then they send a thing back.

1079
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 2: But I think a puzzle, yeah's put too much weight

1080
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 2: on it. Susan, you did her a favor, and for

1081
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 2: all we know, she wanted the fish dead and that

1082
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 2: may be the gift all around.

1083
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't rule that dateline aspect out of this.

1084
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 2: Never. That's the one thing you must never do is

1085
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 2: rule out a dateline angle, because there's always a dateline

1086
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 2: angle totally. Let's answer one more question. Let's see here.

1087
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 2: This one says dear Bridger and guest, what in the

1088
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 2: hell am I supposed to get my sister's fiance for

1089
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 2: his birthday. I'm visiting their house for a few days

1090
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 2: after my sister's birthday and her fiances. We're getting a

1091
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: lot of connections there and her fiance birthday.

1092
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 3: This is always with our questions. It's always a word problem.

1093
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: Always. Yeah, I need like a family tree. Two sentences in,

1094
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 2: and it's very confusing. I'm visiting her house a few

1095
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: days after my sister's birthday, and her fiance's birthday is

1096
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 2: shortly after that, so I feel obligated to bring a

1097
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,839
Speaker 2: gift for him as well. He's turning thirty one, likes

1098
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 2: video games and plays music. For Christmas, I got him

1099
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 2: a gift card to a local convenience store and some

1100
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 2: beer Okay, this man is not even my brother in

1101
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: law yet, and I'm already out of gift ideas for

1102
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 2: him now that I think about it. He didn't even

1103
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 2: tell me Happy Birthday this year. Oh okay, now we're

1104
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 2: just digging in. Must I get him a birthday gift?

1105
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 2: Let me know your thoughts, love, Alison. Okay, I mean,

1106
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 2: short answer, Alison, of course you don't have to get

1107
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: him a gift now. I mean it sounds like you

1108
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 2: got him a gift card to a convenience store. You've

1109
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 2: been phoning it in from the moment you met this

1110
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: person that said you. Obviously there's something going on in

1111
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 2: her mind that she feels like she needs to get

1112
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 2: him something. Do you get like in laws or anybody

1113
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 2: a gift?

1114
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 3: I get my brother's wife things, Okay, because I like

1115
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 3: her very much, and because she appreciates a nice gift,

1116
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:10,280
Speaker 3: and that's a nice.

1117
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 4: Part of our relationship.

1118
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 3: It's a way for I don't see her that often,

1119
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 3: but she's a terrific person and a great mom and

1120
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 3: a great you know, partner with for my brother, and

1121
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 3: I just like her.

1122
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 4: So I guess it's more like buying a friend a gift.

1123
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, and so it's.

1124
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 4: Fun to buy her presence because she appreciates them, and

1125
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 4: it's fun and she likes good stuff.

1126
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 3: But as I said, there's six kids in my family

1127
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 3: and I can't think of anybody else in anybody else's life,

1128
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 3: actually my brother probably she's Yeah, there isn't anyone else

1129
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 3: that I buy anything for or at Christmas anything like that.

1130
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 4: What am I?

1131
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 3: As I said, my earning power has gone way down

1132
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 3: this year. No, I haven't been able to launch my perview.

1133
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 3: I haven't been able to star in the new uh,

1134
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 3: you know, Death on the Nile that I was supposed

1135
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 3: to be in.

1136
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: And you were supposed to have play the Army Hammer

1137
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 2: role and.

1138
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 3: I was supposed to be replacing Armie Hammer, but then

1139
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 3: the studio decided that the picture was taking too much

1140
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 3: eat and Galgadote was not available for reshoots. So okay,

1141
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 3: But back to this brother in law in law, I

1142
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 3: really think this is about Allison. I don't know why

1143
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 3: Alison thinks that she needs to get this guy who's

1144
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 3: maybe maybe going to stay not stay in the picture

1145
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 3: a gift.

1146
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 4: I also think for the most part.

1147
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 3: Boys don't care about gifts and so and if they

1148
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 3: do there's something weird about that, Like you're describing You're

1149
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 3: describing a like smelly video game playing boy.

1150
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 2: He's in a bean bag chair.

1151
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, like what does he need? Like something for the

1152
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 3: carpal tunnel and his thumbs? You know, like they it

1153
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 3: just doesn't occur to them to want anything other than

1154
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 3: they fetishize the stuff they want and they get it

1155
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 3: for themselves. A great gift that I often do, which

1156
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 3: you could do if you want to, but it does

1157
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 3: require you going back to the convenience store is scratch tickets.

1158
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 2: That's an excellent that covers everybody.

1159
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 3: So when it's someone's birthday, you get them. However, many

1160
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 3: thirty one scratch tickets right, and people love.

1161
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 4: To scratch scratch tickets and they think it's funny.

1162
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean my big fear with giving a scratch

1163
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 2: ticket is what if they win big and it just.

1164
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 4: I'd be so mad. Yeah, I mean, but you can

1165
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 4: always joke we're fifty to fifty on this. You could

1166
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 4: be a little joke.

1167
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, scratchers take some more beer. I don't think he

1168
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 2: I mean, he's not gonna notice. Just show up.

1169
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,439
Speaker 4: It's your sister's job to get him a gift.

1170
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 2: Right. You could write a card if.

1171
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 3: You want to, I mean, if you just want to

1172
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 3: acknowledge the day. But you're your sister is your sister,

1173
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 3: of course you're going to get her something. If this

1174
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 3: guy expects you to get something just because you got

1175
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 3: your sister or something, there's already another problem.

1176
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 2: He didn't tell her Happy birthday, and you're alone, Yes, set.

1177
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 3: Up these expectations now, which is like, what do you

1178
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:15,800
Speaker 3: want to give this guy gifts for the rest of

1179
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 3: your life?

1180
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: Forgetting right? Escalating and soon? I mean, you're already out

1181
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 2: of ideas. You don't want to be trapped in that

1182
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 2: never ending loop. Now, Alison, I think you know in

1183
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 2: your heart, even before you began writing this email, that

1184
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 2: you didn't need to get him a gift, and so

1185
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 2: just don't do it.

1186
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 4: Just uh, I know? But Alison can't not do anything.

1187
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 2: Well, she's now been given she's been given the go away.

1188
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 3: Well, she's worried about this is the guy that didn't

1189
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 3: say happy birthday to her. But she's the kind of

1190
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 3: person who is worried that people will say, did you

1191
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 3: know Alison didn't get him anything on his birthday?

1192
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 4: She doesn't want to be talked about in that way.

1193
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 2: Do you think that she's worried that he didn't say

1194
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 2: Happy Birthday because he doesn't like her and she's trying

1195
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 2: to win him over, So it is a desperate attempt

1196
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 2: to get in his good graces.

1197
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 4: It would be more about sticking it to him, I

1198
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:07,919
Speaker 4: think than winning him over.

1199
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 2: That makes sense. It's kind of a spie gift, but.

1200
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 3: I think Alison cares a little bit about appearances inside

1201
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 3: of the family. On the other hand, as mentioned, she

1202
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 3: got him a six pack of beer and a gift

1203
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 3: card to seven eleven so, which, by the way, was

1204
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: probably his favorite gift he got that year.

1205
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 2: I wasn't aware you could get a gift card to

1206
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 2: a convenience store, but you know, we're always learning.

1207
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 4: I think you can get a gift card to anything. Now.

1208
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 3: That's my favorite on whatever it is. Door Dash one

1209
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 3: of these things that they will you make your order

1210
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 3: and they say you do you need anything from seven

1211
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 3: to eleven? You have nine minutes to decide. I've never

1212
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 3: done it, but I'm always like mostly because I'm like,

1213
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:52,479
Speaker 3: I don't want to make the driver go into seven.

1214
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 2: You know, it's so they have another stop on the

1215
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 2: way to bring in your food.

1216
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 4: I think they just leave the house a little early.

1217
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 3: That is very But I'm like mom, some gatorade and

1218
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 3: some cheetos, I mean tobacco.

1219
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know what I need. Yeah, switch your sweets.

1220
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what I need.

1221
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 4: A light bulb. But I kind of love that they offer.

1222
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 4: I've never taken them.

1223
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 2: Up on it, but right, look, I've had a wonderful

1224
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 2: time and now I have a basket of muffins I

1225
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 2: can enjoy.

1226
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,439
Speaker 3: I hope you will enjoy them. Please don't tell Jim

1227
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 3: about them.

1228
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 2: Whatever you do, I'm going to hide them away. I'm

1229
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 2: going to put them in the covert. No, he's going

1230
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: to demand one, and I will think about it.

1231
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 4: They are best eaten on the day, I'll say.

1232
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 2: I think that's true of almost every baked good outside

1233
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 2: of you know, I like a peanut butter cookie the

1234
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 2: second day. I think that the flavor comes out more

1235
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 2: the second day in a peanut butter cookie.

1236
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 3: Do you like a pure peanut butter cookie or do

1237
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 3: you like the ones that have the like that are

1238
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 3: sort of gourmet nutter butters.

1239
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll take either. I love any form of a

1240
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 2: nutter butter. So if one's made a home. I think

1241
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 2: that's still a sh.

1242
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 4: Near where you live.

1243
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 3: There is a store called and you can bleep it

1244
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 3: out if you want to. Again, I don't want you

1245
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 3: to be you know, I don't want someone else stealing

1246
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 3: your neighbor's truck.

1247
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 4: I've already done that, So.

1248
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 2: That truck is going to pass through a lot of

1249
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 2: hands at this point. Is there's a store called Cookbook.

1250
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 2: Have you been there?

1251
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 4: Oh?

1252
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 2: I've been tempted to go in, and only recently have

1253
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 2: I been, like, maybe it's starting to be safe to

1254
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 2: go in.

1255
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 3: Oh, well, it's very safe to go in there because

1256
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 3: they and I will tell you just now that I

1257
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 3: have not been in almost any I send my beloved

1258
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,479
Speaker 3: into the fire to get everything, and and I get

1259
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 3: and I don't, but he has been there many times.

1260
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 3: And they have a two person rule in the store.

1261
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 3: Oh so when you see the line outside you to you,

1262
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 3: I think you get ten minutes in the store, which

1263
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 3: actually is better than normal. I used to live in

1264
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 3: Echo Park and that was where their first location was,

1265
01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 3: and I love it. It's basically like a farmer's market

1266
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 3: that they go get the stuff for you, and so

1267
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 3: they have incredible your cheese person they have incredible Jesus, right,

1268
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 3: And one of the baked goods that they have is

1269
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 3: a peanut butter cookie that is really two peanut butter

1270
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 3: cookies with like a peanut butter cream in the middle.

1271
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 3: But it's it's more like a peanut butter than a frosting.

1272
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 2: Right, I think, And I think that's the key. You

1273
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 2: don't want it to be too sweet.

1274
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, And so if you love a peanut butter cookie,

1275
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 4: this is the peanut butter cookie for you.

1276
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: Oh, once these muffins are gone, maybe I'll have to go.

1277
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 2: Yeah there, that's an incredible hint. So there you go, Tip,

1278
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 2: I suppose, Jess. It's been so fun having you here.

1279
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 2: It's just been a delight.

1280
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 3: It's been a pleasure. And I'm so glad I wasn't

1281
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 3: in Monte Carlo.

1282
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 2: That's next week you'll be jetting off in I'll be back. Yeah.

1283
01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1284
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 2: Well, this is the end of the podcast and I

1285
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 2: always have a hard time wrapping it up. People know that,

1286
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: and they're getting used to it. The hate mail is

1287
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 2: slowing down, and so I now have my muffins. That's

1288
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 2: something I have to take care of today. And I

1289
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 2: if you somewhere out there, have something you need to

1290
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 2: take care of. I hope you can do that. Maybe

1291
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 2: make yourself some muffins. Look up this recipe from Jessica

1292
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: and go listen to ask Rana, which I love. And

1293
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 2: it's just a It was.

1294
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 4: Such a pleasure to have you on the show.

1295
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 2: It was one of my faint It's a pleasure to

1296
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: be on it.

1297
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 3: Because we didn't know each other before, which was funny

1298
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 3: this morning when you said, oh, it's nice to meet you,

1299
01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 3: and I was alarmed by because I was already convinced

1300
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 3: we were best friends, and I was alarmed.

1301
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 4: That you would dare pull such a power move on me.

1302
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 3: And then I remembered that not only had we never

1303
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 3: met in person, I had never Only Rana had met you,

1304
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 3: and I had not.

1305
01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 4: So I guess that shows people a little bit about

1306
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,520
Speaker 4: just how thin my process is.

1307
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 2: Well, from here on out, every time I see you,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say nice to meet you. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to keep this dynamic as long as I possibly can. Oh,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much for being here, Thanks for granting it. Okay, listener,

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Speaker 2: get out of here, do what you need to do,

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Speaker 2: take care of yourself. I said, no, Gifts is an

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Speaker 2: exactly right production. It's engineered by our dear friend Annalise

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Speaker 2: Nelson and the theme song is by miracle worker Amy Mann.

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Speaker 2: You must follow the show on Instagram at I said

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Speaker 2: no Gifts, that's where you're going to see pictures of

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Speaker 2: all these wonderful gifts I'm getting. Listen and subscribe on

1318
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Speaker 2: Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or wherever you found me, and why

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Speaker 2: not leave a review while you're there. It's really the

1320
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Speaker 2: least you could do. And if you're interested in advertising

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Speaker 2: on the show, go to midroll dot com slash ads

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Speaker 2: hell man, did you hear.

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Speaker 1: Funa Man? Myself perfectly clear? But you're a guess, Tom.

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Speaker 4: You gotta come to.

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Speaker 2: Me empty And I said no guests.

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Speaker 1: Your own presences presents enough that I already had too

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Speaker 1: mutch stuff, So how do you dare to surbey me?