1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of my Heart Radio. 2 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to embrace work life integration, especially if 4 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: you are still working from home at least some of 5 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: the time. There is real happiness to be gained by 6 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: being a little more flexible about when things happen. I 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: am writing podcast scripts at ten am on Sunday morning. 8 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: My todd learns off somewhere else right now, so it 9 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: was possible to get a little focused work time. I 10 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 1: am making the most of it. I also worked what 11 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: I call a split shift a few nights this week, 12 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: doing work after the toddler went to bed. But the 13 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: reason was that I did a lot of non work 14 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: stuff between the hours of nine to five. Over the 15 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 1: last few work days, I went in the pool in 16 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: the afternoon when a family friend came over. I spent 17 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: some time playing with the toddler while our sitter took 18 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: the older kids to something else. I went for a run. 19 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 1: During the day, I had a long phone conversation with 20 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: an old friend. I know from years of studying people's 21 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: schedules that some people prefer strict separation between work and home. 22 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: If they ever have to do anything professional during random 23 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: non work hours, it makes them feel like something is 24 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: greatly wrong. And correspondingly, when something non work related happens 25 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: during the work day, it feels terrible and awful, like 26 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: a huge distraction from everything. Or people do their absolute 27 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: best to make sure this scenario never comes up. But 28 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: is that the only approach. There are a lot of 29 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: fun things that can happen during the work day and 30 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: that are hard to pull off at other times. Personally, 31 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: I would rather go in the pool at three pm 32 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: and then work at nine pm, then not go in 33 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: the pool out of some sense that it is wrong 34 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: to be in the pool at three pm and wrong 35 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: to be working at nine pm. I mean, why is 36 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: it wrong time? It's time. We can use it for anything, 37 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: as long as the work gets done. Now, to be clear, 38 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: I know I work for myself. I have control over 39 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: my schedule. But with millions more people working from home 40 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: than did a few years ago, a great many more 41 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: people have similar levels of control over their time. Once 42 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: you remove the commute, you remove a great many of 43 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: the time norms that keep people at their desks from 44 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: nine to five. Work and effectiveness in general have to 45 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: be measured in terms of ta asks rather than time, 46 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: and once that's the case, you see that time can 47 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: be a lot more malleable. Now, I don't recommend flitting 48 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: back and forth constantly. Much work does require concentration, and 49 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: that means ours when you are not trying to do 50 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: something else. It is also nice to spend long stretches 51 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: of time on a weekend not thinking about anything work related. 52 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: But even with the broad standard structure in place, we 53 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: can be a bit more flexible on the margins. So 54 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: if there is something that you would like to do 55 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: during the work day that you haven't considered doing in 56 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: the past, why not try it just one day, just 57 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: this once. Go for a run in the middle of 58 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: the work day, take a long lunch with a kid 59 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: who is home from school, Go out to lunch with 60 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: your spouse, Go for a quick trip to an art museum. 61 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: That is this at four pm. Just make sure that 62 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: you get done what needs to get done. That means 63 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: being clear on what needs to be done, figure out 64 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: your priorities, figure out deadlines, be on track, get ahead. 65 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 1: But when you are feel free to embrace work life integration. 66 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: It is the best way to put in the time 67 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: you need to at work while having a full life 68 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: as well. In the meantime, This is Laura. Thanks for 69 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: listening and here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody, 70 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. You can send me 71 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: your tips, your questions, or anything else. 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