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Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 1: It could be yours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, muggle lop, But hold on tight, we got it

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Speaker 2: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject he won't stay out of my stuff.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty six year old married

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Speaker 1: woman and this is my second marriage. When I was

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Speaker 1: dating my new husband, he'd love wearing my house shoes

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Speaker 1: around the house, even though his feet hang off the back.

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Speaker 1: Then he started wearing my bathrobe until I got him

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Speaker 1: a big, comfy one like I have. I'm not even

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Speaker 1: moment we moved in together, he was in everything of mine.

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Speaker 1: He plunders and goes through my stuff, and I'll find

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Speaker 1: important things misplaced because he's used them. I can't ever

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Speaker 1: find my nail clippers and files because he takes them

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Speaker 1: to work with him, or they're left in his car.

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Speaker 1: He's growing his hair out, so he wears these little

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Speaker 1: annoying twists in his head, and he uses all of

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Speaker 1: my shampoo, conditioner, and styling products because he needs his

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Speaker 1: hair moisturizers moisturized, or so he says. I have encouraged

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Speaker 1: him many times to go to Walmart and get his

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Speaker 1: own things, but he's stubborn and says it's easier to

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Speaker 1: use mine. When I started a diet, he ate all

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Speaker 1: of the meal prep I did. He has no limits,

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Speaker 1: and no matter how much I yell and scream at him,

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Speaker 1: it's like living with a child. My own kids don't

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Speaker 1: touch my things, and I need him to learn to

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Speaker 1: keep his hands to himself. This leads me to the

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Speaker 1: biggest problem. He likes to spoon every night, and it

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Speaker 1: was cute at first, but now it's a problem because

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Speaker 1: once again he's in my stuff. Yes, he has to

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Speaker 1: imagine how awkward this is for me? He's all in

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Speaker 1: do I get some sort of separation from him without

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Speaker 1: causing a big rift in my marriage? I should have

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Speaker 1: stopped it from the beginning. What do I do now?

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Speaker 2: Holy? Holy?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you should have stopped it in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. At first I thought this letter was

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Speaker 1: going to be about cross dressing, and then it just

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Speaker 1: kind of changed for me. You didn't stop him in

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Speaker 1: the beginning. But how could you have known it would

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Speaker 1: things in life, but he is like a spoil brack kid.

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Speaker 1: He's all over the place. What did he bring to

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Speaker 1: the marriage? Did he have any Does he have anything?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like he do he does. He's also lazy,

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Speaker 1: he's disrespectful, he's inconsiderate. He's selfish. I mean lazy because

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Speaker 1: he won't get his own hair products. That's simple, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you say, just go down to the walmart and

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Speaker 1: pick yourself up something. Disrespectful. He's in your things without

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Speaker 1: looking for him. You've asked him to stop. He won't.

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Speaker 1: He's in considerate, selfish, he doesn't care how this makes

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Speaker 1: What is with this guy? He needs to understand that

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Speaker 1: even in marriage, there are boundaries. They're just there's boundaries everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Your spouse needs to still be respectful and ask you

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Speaker 1: to use your things. I mean, it is very childish

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Speaker 1: until he can leave your stuff alone. No spooning, No

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Speaker 1: and you have to mean it this time. I say,

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Speaker 1: stop putting yourself second, stand up for yourself.

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Speaker 2: You gotta.

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Speaker 1: You know, you screaming, yell at him, but he doesn't

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Speaker 1: hear you, but you you gotta make him hear you.

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Speaker 1: Your husband is wrong. You're letting him get away with

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Speaker 2: Steve, surely you said something.

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Speaker 3: You said when you first read the letter, you thought

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Speaker 3: it was about cross dressing, and I did too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And after reading the whole letter, I still

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Speaker 3: I thought initially that what the hell I'm going, that's

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Speaker 2: Something going on here.

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Speaker 3: Now, you forty six year old married woman, this is

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Speaker 3: your second marriage, this to your new husband, and before

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Speaker 3: this is a small woman, regular size. You know she

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Speaker 3: ain't no big girl what she's saying. But so you

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Speaker 3: got small feet. I can't even put my toes in

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Speaker 3: Marjorie's house shoes. I can't even get my toes in now,

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Speaker 2: Now, somehow he didn't.

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Speaker 3: Manage to slide in your house shoes and where they

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Speaker 3: just hanging off the back. So I'm assuming this ain't

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Speaker 3: a big man either, wall he's bigger than you.

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Speaker 2: Then he started.

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Speaker 3: Wearing your bath robe until I got him a big

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Speaker 3: so it had to be uncomfortable. So now he can

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Speaker 3: house shoes. Okay, Then you said, I'm not even a

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Speaker 3: big woman, so it had to be uncomfortable. The moment

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Speaker 3: we moved in together, he has everything of mine. He

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Speaker 3: plunders and goes through my stuff. I'll find important things

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Speaker 3: misplaced because he's used them. This cross dressing, he plunders

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Speaker 3: through my things. This don't sound familiar to you.

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Speaker 2: This don't sound like a story we've heard in the

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Speaker 2: news recently. Over the years.

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Speaker 3: It started like that at they house too, just little

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Speaker 3: wearing dresses and stuff, and next thing you know, Yeah, he.

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Speaker 2: Was a major news item.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not even gonna get into it because of

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Speaker 3: political correct correctness. And nobody's gonna be able to say

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Speaker 3: Steve was bashing anybody, because I'm not. I'm just making

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Speaker 3: you are a familiar story you may have heard.

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Speaker 1: Huh, All right, hang on, stuff.

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Speaker 3: I have no ways of bring it about. I'll be

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Speaker 3: dropping more clues right after that.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject he won't stay

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Speaker 1: out of my stuff. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: dot com. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter and so we can finish up your response.

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Speaker 1: He won't stay out of my stuff, He is the subject.

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Speaker 3: He won't stay out of my stuff. This sounds like

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Speaker 3: a very familiar story. This ain't common for us. That's

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Speaker 3: in marriages and relationship, but when you hit this, it

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Speaker 3: reeks a familiarity. It's your husband. He loves walking around

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Speaker 3: the house in your stuff. Now, Shirley said, at first

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Speaker 3: she thought this letter was about cross dressing, and then

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Speaker 3: she went on news about other stuff. I'm thinking it's

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Speaker 3: about cross dressing. The whole dog Onna let her through,

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Speaker 3: and I'm explaining it to you. Why he got your

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Speaker 3: house shoes on. Somehow he can fit his toes in

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Speaker 3: there and they just hang off the back. Then he

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Speaker 3: he goes he wears everything in yours. He plunders and

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Speaker 3: goes through my stuff and I'll find important things misplaced.

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Speaker 2: He shoeses them. I've heard of men who wear their

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Speaker 3: I've heard of men who put they wife's dresses on

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Speaker 3: just said he plunges through everything you got. It's more

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Speaker 3: to this story right here, lady. I can't even find

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Speaker 3: my nail clippers and files because he take him to

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Speaker 3: work with him.

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Speaker 2: Who do that?

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Speaker 3: What man take his wife's nail clippers and files to

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 3: Ooh? I ain't never heard that before, but I know

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Speaker 3: someone who did it. This story is sounding familion, while

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Speaker 3: I have more clues. He's growing his how oh, that's

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Speaker 3: the other sign. He's growing his hal So he wears

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Speaker 3: these little annoying twisting his head. And he used all

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Speaker 3: his hair moisturizers. So he says he's growing his hal

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Speaker 3: He using your nail products, he wear your clothes, and

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Speaker 3: he growing his hair.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna be able to write in on, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: I'm too smart for this here.

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Speaker 3: But all I am asking you is this don't sound familion.

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Speaker 2: I bet your husband probably real athletic too. You know

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Speaker 3: Still still got these hot shoes on in these growing

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Speaker 2: Nail products and all this here, and you know it

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm not getting in trouble with this hair because

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Speaker 3: I would never what I'm not finna do say nobody's name,

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Speaker 3: but be talking about nobody lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: That ain't my bis. You do what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: But once you in your wife's closet.

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Speaker 3: And growing your hair and doing your nails, all this here,

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, now, let's try to move on. Now

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Speaker 3: you've encouraged him to go to Walmart and get his

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Speaker 3: own things, but he's stubborn. He says, it's easy to

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Speaker 3: use mind when I started a diet. Now, hold up, now,

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Speaker 3: just said you weren't a big girl. Now when I

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Speaker 3: started the diet. Now's some truth starting to come out. Now,

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Speaker 3: maybe these house shoes is a little bit bigger than

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Speaker 3: I thought. Maybe he could wear this robe. I'm just saying,

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Speaker 3: started a diet, you just said you wasn't a big girls,

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Speaker 3: I don't know all of a sudden, now we only

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Speaker 3: diet now and he ate all the meal preps I did.

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Speaker 3: He has no limits, and no matter how much I

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Speaker 3: my own kids do not touch my things. I need

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Speaker 3: him learn to keep his hands himself. And then here

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Speaker 2: He likes to spoon every night.

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Speaker 3: And it was cute at first, but now it's a

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Speaker 3: problem because once again he's in my stuff. Yes, he

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Speaker 3: Cast got to be very uncomfortable. You know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: tell you, I'm right now. Somebody tried to put their

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to sleep here hanging nails cutting across me.

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Speaker 3: If you don't get your hands over there on yourself,

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Speaker 3: what you're not finna.

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Speaker 2: Do is be fottling me. And I'm trying to goils finger,

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Speaker 3: It kind of hard to go to sleep and breathe

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Speaker 3: is around me, and you're here, yeah, following me, and

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to go to sleep. You got finger nails,

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Speaker 3: Get your nails, Get your nails. I kind of like,

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Speaker 3: can you imagine how awkward this he is for me?

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Speaker 3: He's all in my space and in my stuff all

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Speaker 3: separation from him without causing a big riff in my marriage?

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Speaker 3: I should have stopped this from the beginning, But what

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Speaker 3: do I do now?

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Speaker 2: Well, you said this is your second marriage.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking probably gonna have to start looking at a third.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking right now after listening and reading this letter,

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Speaker 3: if you don't get away from this man, he gonna

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Speaker 3: be up at y'alls church doing church at church.

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Speaker 2: Announcements as someone else.

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Speaker 3: Whoa because you know, after they do put all the

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Speaker 3: clothes on and grow, they have you know, they do

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Speaker 3: get invited places to speak. So you're gonna look up

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Speaker 3: at church and your husband gonna be doing church announcements

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Speaker 3: instead of Sister Rossny all right.

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Speaker 2: Letter, Same dress. Sister Rosny.

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Speaker 2: I can't call it.

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Speaker 2: That my doubt.

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