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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm just gonna say it. We had an epic

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<v Speaker 2>Mother's Day, and as I've talked about it, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>big month for me. It was my unanniversary, Mother's Day

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<v Speaker 2>and my birthday, and yeah, Mother's Day, I was just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>my first Mother's Day single, going through a divorce, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>with my five kids. And typically I would plan something

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<v Speaker 2>like for years and I don't know. I guess we're

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<v Speaker 2>conditioned to think you're supposed to have Mother's Day brunch.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't even know where that even initiated. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm just gonna say right now, I fucking hate breakfast.

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<v Speaker 2>Like breakfast food is my least fa I love a

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<v Speaker 2>good Eggs, but other than that, I hate breakfast, like

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<v Speaker 2>the whole notion of making me breakfast in bed and

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<v Speaker 2>do all that. Like no, like, you know, make me

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<v Speaker 2>a Lasagni in bed and like feed it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I want, but no desire. So but every

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<v Speaker 2>year I felt the pressure like, oh, it's Mother's Day,

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<v Speaker 2>We're supposed to go to a brunch. And I would

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<v Speaker 2>find some like great place and do that and then

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<v Speaker 2>The rest of the day was all about the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was always on edge, like, oh, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>time thing. We can't relax. We have set plans. I

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the mother, can't relax and this year Stella who

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<v Speaker 2>what is it? So if Ruthanna, I'm the matriarch of

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<v Speaker 2>the family, what would Stella be technically aside from the

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<v Speaker 2>other mother, the adult in the family. Oh my gosh, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>Stella is the matriarch in the family.

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<v Speaker 1>What am I one of the kids?

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<v Speaker 2>I like to call her Cinderella though, like Cinderella, Cinderella

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<v Speaker 2>make everything happen. Anyway, this isn't a fairy tale. We

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<v Speaker 2>know that. But yes, so Stella had said, and I

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<v Speaker 2>had previously said this on the show, that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you want to do? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I wanted to go to Little Tokyo

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<v Speaker 2>and do all that. And then how it unfolded is

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<v Speaker 2>the day before she said, okay, so what do you

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<v Speaker 2>want to do? And I was like, huh, I no

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<v Speaker 2>longer want to go to Little Tokyo. And She's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you want to do? We can do anything

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do? And I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>want and then before I could finish that sentence, she said, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to plan it. I know what

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<v Speaker 2>you want. Let me handle it. I said, really, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to plan something. Oh my gosh, that takes so

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<v Speaker 2>much pressure. All these I plan something that's supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be for myself, but it was really about my family

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<v Speaker 2>and my kids and all the amazing Instagram photos I

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<v Speaker 2>would take of the food, even though I was like, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>hate breakfast. Do you hate breakfast? Do you like breakfast?

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<v Speaker 1>I like breakfast. I'm a breakfast person.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I don't like brunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like it takes up too much of

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<v Speaker 1>the day. But I like eating breakfast at breakfast.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, I do love a good seafood tower at a

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<v Speaker 2>brunch place. I'm not gonna lie. And I appreciate a buffet,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean, I'm more like I would like every year,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I have to live up to expectations.

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<v Speaker 2>We have reservations at the four Seasons, and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>everyone's dressed to the nines and everyone there's so much pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>But I love a good buffet. But I'm more like,

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<v Speaker 2>if I had my drothers, I'd be like I'd be

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<v Speaker 2>at a hometown buffet. I'd be oh sizzler, Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>remembers soup plantation. They had the best I'm all about

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<v Speaker 2>a salad bar. Okay, I'm getting distracted. I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 2>hungry anyway, So it would be all planned. So she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I know what you want to do. Let

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<v Speaker 2>me just take care of this. So I slept in,

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<v Speaker 2>and I never sleep in. I was the type of

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<v Speaker 2>girl like I was up very early every morning for

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<v Speaker 2>nine oh two, one oh on the weekends before I

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<v Speaker 2>had kids. I mean, I would sleep on the weekends

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<v Speaker 2>till I've won two o'clock. And then once you have kids,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you just get into a rhythm and

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<v Speaker 2>they're up early europe early. And so now I wake

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<v Speaker 2>up without fail six seven in the morning. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>don't get me wrong, I will stay in bed and

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<v Speaker 2>groll on Instagram, put things in my cart that I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need from Oh my god, all the products look

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<v Speaker 2>so good. But then I abandon the cart. I get

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<v Speaker 2>the fixed, and then I don't have to get the debt.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I woke up late, and all the kids

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<v Speaker 2>up late, and I got to say, my kids are great.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not early risers as they're getting older, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 2>So we slept in and then I was like, okay, still,

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<v Speaker 2>what are the plans and she's like, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's easy. You have time, and so we just

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<v Speaker 2>went with it and we are in the process of moving.

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<v Speaker 2>So I, you know, didn't have the cute outfit. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have and I was like, okay, well I have jeans.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, wait, let me realign that

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<v Speaker 2>in my brain, I have jeans. That's what I want

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<v Speaker 2>to wear. I don't want to get all fancied up

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<v Speaker 2>like I want to be in my jeans. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be in my crop top. You know me. I

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<v Speaker 2>love a good crop top nowadays. Just full circle. So

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<v Speaker 2>we went the five kids to night and they took

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<v Speaker 2>me to dim Sum, which I'm a huge fan of

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<v Speaker 2>dim Sum, and they come out with the carts, which

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<v Speaker 2>is my version of like a buffet, and it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they have the carts and you get to

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<v Speaker 2>shoose and they're all shareables. I love sharing is caring

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<v Speaker 2>and it was really great and we had a great

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<v Speaker 2>time and we had tea and all of that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I had some Soaki and I was a happy, happy,

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<v Speaker 2>happy mama. And guess what we played on the way

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<v Speaker 2>my playlist for iHeart. So I got this opportunity to

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<v Speaker 2>do a playlist for Mother's Day. And this is funny

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<v Speaker 2>because my iHeart family doesn't know this. But I am

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<v Speaker 2>beyond not a music person. Like it's almost comical. I

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<v Speaker 2>was the girl and now I'm gonna date myself and

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<v Speaker 2>make myself look old. I am old. I'm not old.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting better agent like a fine wine, powering up

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<v Speaker 2>level fifty one now. But in you know, high school,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone would have their I just blanked on the word

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<v Speaker 2>what's the word CEB? Nope, that wasn't even CDs back then.

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<v Speaker 1>A cassette player.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you guys am embarrassed. Someone cracked me.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, so music I'm getting before your time, that's

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<v Speaker 1>almost before my time.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a cassette tape. You guys, you didn't put

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<v Speaker 2>that in your car?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And a cassette player.

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<v Speaker 2>In the car. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was the girl that Like when I got

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<v Speaker 2>my first car at sixteen, I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>my friends are like, we can play music. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, ooh, now I'm going to date myself again.

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<v Speaker 2>The first song I ever heard on the radio, which

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<v Speaker 2>was still one oh two point seven, was video Killed

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<v Speaker 2>the Radio Star. And I listened to that as my

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<v Speaker 2>nanny was driving me in our station wagon, not the limo.

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<v Speaker 2>That's only when my parents went to school on like

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<v Speaker 2>open house night. But I went in our family station wagon,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, way back when, where you could like sit

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<v Speaker 2>in the back and they didn't have seatbelts and no

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<v Speaker 2>one cared, and you would be like the back window

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone would be like, don't do that to drivers

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<v Speaker 2>in the back. And I heard that song video Killed

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<v Speaker 2>the Radio Star, and that was the first time I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, ah, I like music. I love this song,

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<v Speaker 2>so anyway, it's on my playlist. That's my first song

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<v Speaker 2>that I listened to on the radio and had an

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<v Speaker 2>interest in music and was super psyched. But I would

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<v Speaker 2>have cassette tapes and people would be making your mixtapes

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<v Speaker 2>and everything back then. Now you have a playlist, but

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<v Speaker 2>back then a mixtape and I had nothing. You guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like my friends would be like I

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<v Speaker 2>would like get so embarrassed, and I would do interviews

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<v Speaker 2>for like teen Beat magazine and Tiger Beat and teen

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<v Speaker 2>and all that, and they'd be like, what's your favorite music?

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<v Speaker 2>What are your favorite songs? And I would be like

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<v Speaker 2>on my landline, hello to all my friends, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think is cool? And then like I'd write back.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you could like write it in on paper, and

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<v Speaker 3>then they put that in the magazine, so it was

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<v Speaker 3>your writing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it would be like Tory Spelling, Donna nine on

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<v Speaker 2>two and zero, like favorite food, favorite color, favorite artist.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, all that music was just not my thing. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>I did love a good soundtrack though. I had like

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<v Speaker 2>the soundtrack from like Top Gun, and I had the

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<v Speaker 2>soundtrack and a Tom Cruise poster on my wallpt that's

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<v Speaker 2>a whole other story. And I used to love him.

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<v Speaker 2>And there was this movie with Jodie Foster and William

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<v Speaker 2>McNamara and it was the best and it was about

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<v Speaker 2>like she was the babysitter and he was in high

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<v Speaker 2>school and she was supposed to be going off to

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<v Speaker 2>college and they fell in love. But I had like

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<v Speaker 2>that soundtrack, and then when I got a little older,

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<v Speaker 2>I had like League of their Own soundtrack and all

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<v Speaker 2>these things that my friends would like, bust my balls

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<v Speaker 2>mine have ball, bust my tits and be like like

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<v Speaker 2>that is so lame, and rap was like super in

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<v Speaker 2>in high school. So I'd be like, oh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>run DMC. I'm totally into this. Oh bec boys cool, cool, cool,

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<v Speaker 2>which I appreciate now, but at the time we'd be

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<v Speaker 2>like blasting in my car and I'd be like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have no idea. My point is I always stuck with

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<v Speaker 2>that story, like I don't know music, I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>an opinion sound like me. But I went in to

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<v Speaker 2>do this playlist and it was freaking life changing, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>because guess what, I had an opinion. Lorraine backed me

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<v Speaker 2>up here. I was asked to do seventy five songs

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<v Speaker 2>on my playlist correct.

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<v Speaker 3>True, It's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh my gosh, do I admit

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<v Speaker 2>to them that I'm not like a music person like

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<v Speaker 2>I have to ask people now when I do Instagram,

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<v Speaker 2>you do the reels and the reels I just age

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<v Speaker 2>myself again. We do reels because old people put the

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<v Speaker 2>like Ruthian, you probably say the Instagram correct now?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it because I preface that with the old No damn.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't say the Instagram saying the Instagram but not no.

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<v Speaker 3>Jen used to say that okay, far wrong friend, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>On reels, I would still be calling people and be like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the current song I should put on? What's this?

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, I went back. I went to do my

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<v Speaker 2>playlist and I did a real deep dive and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, I'm not gonna ask people.

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<v Speaker 2>There's some songs in there that people have played for

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<v Speaker 2>me that I actually really responded to that I did

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<v Speaker 2>get from them, and it was only because I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I went back and I did a deep dive

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm telling you, I'm good at this. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>can't believe my whole life. I was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know music. I'm not a mute musick person. I am

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<v Speaker 2>a music person. I'm that girl that's seeings so loud

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<v Speaker 2>in the car when something's on. I'm that girl that

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<v Speaker 2>will park. And I've done this since I was young.

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<v Speaker 2>Park and like, oh my god, I remember my first car,

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<v Speaker 2>which was a champagne colored BMW and mom dad got

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<v Speaker 2>me that for my sixteenth birthday. I know, rich girl problems,

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<v Speaker 2>gotta shook up that, uh, And then they made Donna

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<v Speaker 2>Martin's car the exact same car. But I used to

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<v Speaker 2>put that on, put my sunglasses on, and I would

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<v Speaker 2>drive down Pch and I would be belting out like

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<v Speaker 2>hungry like the wolf, like oh my god, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I have the tiger like ough ah Bengals. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 2>just got super excited. See. So what I came to realize,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. iHeart that I've been sticking with the same story,

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<v Speaker 2>which is also you know, finding yourself again, the same

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<v Speaker 2>story that's not doing me just listening because it's not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I have an opinion. I love music and I picked

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<v Speaker 2>the radest playlist. I mean it's very uniquely tory. There's

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<v Speaker 2>like a little mermaid in there. Oh my gosh, there's

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<v Speaker 2>the never ending story, the never ending story.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, you might want to make some more current references

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<v Speaker 1>as you describe your playlist. Right now, it's just the

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<v Speaker 1>never ending story and the little Mermaid.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm trying to tell them how rad that it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not like I was like, hey, AI, create

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<v Speaker 2>me a playlist. I was like, no, this is like

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<v Speaker 2>I worked so hard on this and I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it's amazing. And here's why I know it's amazing. My

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<v Speaker 2>kids seventeen, fifteen, twelve, eleven and seven. They were like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, can we put on Usually we listen

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<v Speaker 2>to their playlist and I'm like, whatever you want, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you want. I was like, guys, Mother's Day, can we

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<v Speaker 2>play my playlist? And we played it and I look

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<v Speaker 2>over and the kids are jamming out to my tunes.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the best. They were like, Mom, Mom, this

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<v Speaker 2>is so cool. Yes, I have current stuff in there

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<v Speaker 2>that I like, like huge fan of air and Pat

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<v Speaker 2>Benattar is still referencing old stuff. There's there's some cool

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<v Speaker 2>new stuff I know I have. I have like Olivia

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<v Speaker 2>Rodrigo and like stuff that speaks to me. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was concerned it was too much of like quote unquote

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<v Speaker 2>chick playlist. But my seventeen year old he has amazing

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<v Speaker 2>music taste and he has such eclectic taste. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>everything from like old school like my Godfather. He'll have

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<v Speaker 2>Dean Martin on there all the way from there to

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<v Speaker 2>like heavy metal. Like he's just has great taste. And

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<v Speaker 2>he I was like, Mom, this is cool. I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>a dude likes this. He's like, yeah, you got some

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<v Speaker 2>great stuff. And then there are ones like poor some

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<v Speaker 2>sugar on me, and then he's like, oh, I love

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<v Speaker 2>this song, and I wanted to be like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>used to like troll on like the stripper pool to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait does sound weird? Remember when pole dancing classes came in?

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<v Speaker 2>That was like a fad. I did that and that

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<v Speaker 2>was my song. Oh and slash dance anyway, love my playlist.

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<v Speaker 2>We played it the whole way. The kids were obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with it. They're still playing it. Love it anyway, had

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<v Speaker 2>our dim sum and then afterwards Stella's like, okay, mom,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing this is a very un Mother's day Mother's Day,

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<v Speaker 2>which I call it Motherfucker's Day anyway, so she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>we did the anti Mother's Day, Like it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 2>prim and proper and brunch and like all that. We went.

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<v Speaker 2>So we did my playlist, which rocked the mic. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, I think I want to take it. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to be a DJ. Is this possible, Loraine?

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<v Speaker 1>Are there any open slots that iHeartRadio for Torita? You

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<v Speaker 1>know have a station?

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<v Speaker 3>Let me look into it.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like, no, I want to be

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<v Speaker 2>a DJ?

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<v Speaker 1>What oh you mean like Paris Hilton like live events?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, well what about Tory in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Toy is not good in the morning, Tory, Tory at night,

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<v Speaker 2>Tory after dark, peach Pit after dark, get it, Tory

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<v Speaker 2>after dark.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>So Stella's like, uh, I have a really major surprise

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<v Speaker 2>for you now. I always say I hate surprises new

0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.520
<v Speaker 2>me gut check. Nah, that's my old story. Sorry too,

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I like surprises. Cool. Let's proceed. So she takes

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<v Speaker 2>my ways. She puts in the address and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to see where we're going. We go

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<v Speaker 2>from dim Sum, we park down this alley and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>where are we going?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Now I know where we are. One of my favorite

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<v Speaker 2>tattoo and piercing places. This is where my kids take me.

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<v Speaker 2>Just my jam cool Nathan's. Nathan's is in Canoga Park

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<v Speaker 2>and it's been there since nineteen ninety three. It's one

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<v Speaker 2>of like the coolest places. I've gotten multiple piercings over

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<v Speaker 2>the years. I trust them. My daughter Stella when she

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<v Speaker 2>got her ears, peeris she got one. They've done it.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just top of the top. But she goes and

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<v Speaker 2>not only are you going in you can get a piercing,

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<v Speaker 2>but Nathan him self is coming in. And I've known

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<v Speaker 2>Nathan for years, love him, but like wow, Nathan himself

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<v Speaker 2>is coming in on Mother's Day, but he just asked.

0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.600
<v Speaker 2>He was like, his wife was saying, they have to

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<v Speaker 2>get somewhere. They have Mothers Day dinner and so we

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<v Speaker 2>have to be there. And I was so excited. So

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<v Speaker 2>we go in and I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>what am I going to get? Because I've told you

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<v Speaker 2>guys before, I didn't get my ears peers till I

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<v Speaker 2>was forty something. I waited till Stella said to me

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<v Speaker 2>because I wasn't allowed to get my ears piers till

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<v Speaker 2>I was eighteen. By eighteen, I was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even like ear rings, not into it. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, one day, if I have a daughter, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>do it together when she's ready. And I waited and Stella,

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<v Speaker 2>when she was I believe six, said to me, Mom,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready and I was like, okay, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So we did it. And my second daughter, Hattie, I've

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<v Speaker 2>always said, like, you know, let me know when you

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<v Speaker 2>want to get your ears peers. She's twelve and she

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<v Speaker 2>was always scared, so you know, we would go and

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<v Speaker 2>then she'd be like, I don't want to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, no problem, you don't ever have

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<v Speaker 2>to do it, just when you want to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do it together. Mom, you'll get another piercing. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing it together. So as we're entering Hotty goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready. I want to get my ears pierced. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my gosh. Tried to play it down.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, cool, that's great. Are you sure, like,

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<v Speaker 2>no pressure, it's not about me, this is about you,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, no, I want to do it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like yes, And then do you guys know what

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<v Speaker 2>dermals are?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you kind of explained it once, but

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<v Speaker 3>I think you should tell us again.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it like a same process as getting a tattoo,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't last something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called Hannah. It's a similar process, says as getting

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<v Speaker 2>a piercing, but it's on the skin and it's anchored

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<v Speaker 2>in and they say they don't last. And it's the

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<v Speaker 2>type of thing that your body takes it or it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't take it. It's not like a piercing where it

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<v Speaker 2>it stays and you can kind of get them wherever.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I had one on my neck, a little bumble

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<v Speaker 2>bee and anyway, I was like, you know, what I

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<v Speaker 2>want to get a dermal. I'm going to get a dermal,

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<v Speaker 2>and of course, you know I love a good title.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was like dim sum and dermals, let's proceed.

0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:46.119
<v Speaker 2>And so then I was like, oh my gosh, my

0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:50.399
<v Speaker 2>best friend Jess is going to freak out because the

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<v Speaker 2>last time I got a dermal, she told me I

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<v Speaker 2>was having a midlife crisis. And I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so I haven't told her. We're going to bring her

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<v Speaker 2>on and I'm gonna tell her and show her where

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<v Speaker 2>I got my dormal. She's actually going to come in

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so anxious about this. I told her I took

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<v Speaker 3>a Xanax before I went to bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's not what you took a Xamax but cool

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<v Speaker 2>kind of.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fine there, but that was my excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you're gonna need a Xamax after She's not.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. That's why I was like, you guys, she's

0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:29.480
<v Speaker 2>been through everything with me. She knows every sort of

0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:34.080
<v Speaker 2>detail of my life, like, uh, yeah, there's way crazier stuff.

0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:37.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah there, I mean there's stuff that I'm like, there's

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<v Speaker 3>no way you would ever share it that I know,

0:21:40.400 --> 0:21:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Like you share everything, but some of these things like

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<v Speaker 3>not a chance. No, I know all the dirty secrets.

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<v Speaker 1>This is new yess just definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>I know. That's what she said. And I'm scared because

0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:55.479
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, okay, so be pregnant. I don't know if

0:21:55.520 --> 0:21:56.760
<v Speaker 3>you get another pig, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, fuck you? You like, why can't I be pregnant?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fifty one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you haven't had a period in like years

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:09.640
<v Speaker 3>and we wouldn't allow it that too.

0:22:10.800 --> 0:22:14.359
<v Speaker 2>So so when I'm being proper and this sends her

0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:17.320
<v Speaker 2>over the edge, I'll be like Jessica Lee and she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, it gives me the worst anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's like you calling me Tori. I'd be like, Okay,

0:22:24.200 --> 0:22:26.919
<v Speaker 2>well I was going to tell you I'm doing this

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<v Speaker 2>on my own.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a.

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<v Speaker 2>Sarrogate shut up, you did. It's a trade out because

0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I can't afford it. But anyway, a trade off and

0:22:38.160 --> 0:22:39.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm having a baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Shut up and tell me the truth. There is no

0:22:42.760 --> 0:22:44.399
<v Speaker 3>way in hell that is the truth.

0:22:45.240 --> 0:22:48.479
<v Speaker 2>Stop Okay, you're lying.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you. There is not a chance in hell

0:22:52.080 --> 0:22:54.720
<v Speaker 3>for a very very lot of reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to rile her up, so I like, is

0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:04.120
<v Speaker 2>their way.

0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:05.280
<v Speaker 3>But no, not a chance.

0:23:05.320 --> 0:23:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, fine, Like it's so funny because Jess, like I'm

0:23:09.080 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 2>blonde and like bright, and she's brunette and we're it's

0:23:14.400 --> 0:23:18.719
<v Speaker 2>dark clothing, and so we would always try to be like,

0:23:18.840 --> 0:23:22.199
<v Speaker 2>oh well, what makes sense, you know, like I'm the

0:23:22.320 --> 0:23:25.479
<v Speaker 2>angel like ethereal and she's the devil. But it's actually

0:23:25.480 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 2>the reverse, she's the angel, I'm the devil ish.

0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:30.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah that's ish ish.

0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, pretty both, Yeah we are. We're pretty dead

0:23:38.400 --> 0:23:42.800
<v Speaker 2>on exactly alike in many ways in some ways.

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 3>In some ways okay, other ways were the exact opposite.

0:23:46.880 --> 0:23:51.320
<v Speaker 2>But now and it works. Okay. Do you remember a

0:23:51.400 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 2>time you told me I was having a midlife crisis?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember what that was about?

0:23:55.280 --> 0:23:56.800
<v Speaker 3>Because I still think maybe you are.

0:23:56.920 --> 0:24:00.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So what happened when you said I had a

0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:01.800
<v Speaker 2>midlife crisis?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>You got your nipples pierced? You got wait before that, no,

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 3>but it was like, you know, I have a memory

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:14.679
<v Speaker 3>of a goldfish. So don't believe I'm fun You're warm?

0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:19.760
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, no, you got your clip piers like

0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:23.919
<v Speaker 3>years ago, Like what was it for you? It was

0:24:24.000 --> 0:24:27.440
<v Speaker 3>a Christina and it was above like the belly button thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It was not the clip.

0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:31.159
<v Speaker 3>Okay, that is not a Your belly button and your

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:32.479
<v Speaker 3>Christina very different.

0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I understand. But belly buttons they go like above. It's

0:24:35.840 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 2>not like they go into the belly button.

0:24:37.880 --> 0:24:41.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I didn't get a clip pearis Okay, fine, I

0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 3>got the little right above meaty part right above.

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:48.399
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Ruthan, I call Ruthan a prude.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't see me. I'm shaking my head and crinkling my nose.

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:51.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh I see you.

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:54.399
<v Speaker 2>She'd be like, edit this, and I'll be like, no,

0:24:54.600 --> 0:24:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I love it now.

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<v Speaker 1>This is me.

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<v Speaker 2>It involved a type of piercing, but it's called something else.

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember a dormal damn it here?

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:15.399
<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, that's it. Yes, I remember. Okay, but that

0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:18.199
<v Speaker 3>was I feel like that's better than your nipple for

0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:21.920
<v Speaker 3>being fifty I agree, right Like, I feel like that's

0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 3>nothing that's like could be cute and chic.

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:25.439
<v Speaker 4>So I'm okay with that.

0:25:34.440 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 2>So I decided that fifty one. And you know, I've

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 2>been wearing a lot of crop tops lately. I'm feeling

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 2>really good about my stomach. I've had five babies. I'm

0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:51.080
<v Speaker 2>really proud at my stomach. That's you know, it's gone

0:25:51.080 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 2>in and out five times and it's good, thank you,

0:25:55.640 --> 0:25:59.240
<v Speaker 2>and I feel like, you know, my thing back in

0:25:59.280 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 2>the day, like full Circle, was my belly. I always

0:26:02.320 --> 0:26:04.119
<v Speaker 2>showed off my belly because that was one of my

0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 2>favorite parts of me. And now I do it again

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:10.440
<v Speaker 2>and people are like, stop dressing like a teenager. Oh people, that.

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Was you and no, no, no, go ahead.

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Would you say the other day?

0:26:16.080 --> 0:26:17.680
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, it wasn't like a teenager.

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:19.919
<v Speaker 3>Oh it kind of. I said, you look like you're

0:26:19.960 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 3>trying to be in high school, but not a cute way.

0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:26.880
<v Speaker 3>So and then she's and then.

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:31.040
<v Speaker 2>She told me, oh, lose the skater girl look.

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 4>Not even like the skater girl.

0:26:32.840 --> 0:26:39.160
<v Speaker 3>Look. That could be really cute, but I'm trying to be.

0:26:39.200 --> 0:26:45.679
<v Speaker 2>Nice, don't be Why do you start now? As I

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:48.679
<v Speaker 2>took that to heart, I looked back over the years

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:52.080
<v Speaker 2>I always had that and dressed that way.

0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:55.639
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, you recently you've taken it to like a

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:56.639
<v Speaker 4>whole different level.

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 3>The crap tops like. It wasn't even about that. It

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:06.359
<v Speaker 3>was like some of the like choices very recently, especially.

0:27:06.040 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 2>The dolls kills stuff. That's my favorite. No, that's I mean,

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:10.960
<v Speaker 2>you and I both love that.

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 3>But some of that's fine, but like it's a little

0:27:13.640 --> 0:27:15.600
<v Speaker 3>like there's a way I feel like you could make

0:27:15.640 --> 0:27:18.439
<v Speaker 3>it look chic, or there's a way where you overdo

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 3>it and it's like you look like a high school kid.

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:24.400
<v Speaker 3>I hear you. Not a great way.

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:27.639
<v Speaker 2>But here's my thing. And I have a big problem

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:29.639
<v Speaker 2>with this, probably because I'm doing it and living in

0:27:29.760 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 2>so I have a problem with it. I don't get

0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:36.119
<v Speaker 2>why people you know what that reminds me of the

0:27:36.200 --> 0:27:38.879
<v Speaker 2>statement like, oh, once you're past a certain age, you

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 2>have to have short hair, you can have long hair,

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:46.520
<v Speaker 2>you can't wear red lips anymore. I disagree with that.

0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't disagree.

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 4>I disagree too.

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.640
<v Speaker 2>Look at Helen Mirren. No, I mean she has short hair,

0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 2>but she like looks hot. She flaunts it like she

0:27:57.560 --> 0:28:01.159
<v Speaker 2>she's got it going on. She's sexy. But like, it

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.439
<v Speaker 2>doesn't matter what other people think. What if it makes

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:08.400
<v Speaker 2>me happy, if I like the clothing, what does it

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 2>matter because you feel like people talk bad about me?

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 4>No, No, I one hundred percent agree with you.

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Because your Xamax doesn't work at night and you're scrolling

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:19.880
<v Speaker 2>through my Instagram looking at comments and getting all fired up.

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 4>No, I see pictures you send me.

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 3>It's not even about your Instagram.

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's great.

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:28.120
<v Speaker 3>It's like, hey, should I wear this?

0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:33.000
<v Speaker 4>No, Like last weeks and Stella was saying the same thing.

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Fine, fine, like that agree anyway, I agree.

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 3>You so great wear it. But but you even admitted

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:43.120
<v Speaker 3>there was a reason you were wearing it, And I

0:28:43.120 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 3>think there's a way to do it where you look great.

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 3>But some of the it's not even everything by any means,

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:53.960
<v Speaker 3>it's just a few choice pieces. I was like, what

0:28:54.000 --> 0:29:01.000
<v Speaker 3>the fuck is she thinking? I send me those pictures? Absolutely? Yeah, No.

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Woman who wears like a rock tea, a black rock

0:29:05.600 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 2>and roll tea and black biker shorts or leggings, that's everything.

0:29:11.640 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 3>I literally yeah, And that's it. Anything that's like easy

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:16.520
<v Speaker 3>and comfortable, that's all I were. I'll go shopping and

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:18.800
<v Speaker 3>then I'll buy like five new black shirts.

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 2>We'll be texting, like because when we go out we

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:26.400
<v Speaker 2>like to like be cohesive, right as best friends do.

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.800
<v Speaker 2>And we'll be like, what are you wearing? What are

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 2>you wearing?

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, are you wearing your uniform? And she's like, duh,

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 3>are you wearing yours? I'm like, and she means a

0:29:36.640 --> 0:29:40.440
<v Speaker 3>crop top and jeans. I'm like, duh, yeah, and that's

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:42.920
<v Speaker 3>not it. The crop top and jeans is totally fine.

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 3>Like that's like your look now, that's like what you're

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:48.320
<v Speaker 3>super into, right, and you'll caught.

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:51.320
<v Speaker 4>It's the like sometimes you take it over the edge

0:29:51.360 --> 0:29:51.800
<v Speaker 4>with like.

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:56.120
<v Speaker 3>The really crazy skater, but like not even skaters, like

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 3>the wrong word.

0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 4>I don't even have a word for it.

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 3>I wish I did. It's just you. I mean maybe

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 3>it is. Maybe it's a New York and if it is,

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:06.000
<v Speaker 3>then I'll love it.

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 2>No, always tell me what do you mean? You need

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 2>that person in your life that's like you look like shit,

0:30:15.040 --> 0:30:19.000
<v Speaker 2>like that doesn't work and like you yeah, always like

0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 2>thank god. Being in the business I'm in, sometimes you

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:26.360
<v Speaker 2>have people that come in and out of your lives

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 2>that are yes people. It just happens. Both Ruth Anne

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:35.360
<v Speaker 2>and Jess are both the two friends that'll be like nope, nope,

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 2>and I need that. Okay, So I'm I'm skirting around

0:30:40.280 --> 0:30:45.720
<v Speaker 2>the issue. Okay, So I got dermals Okay more more,

0:30:45.840 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 2>remember the bumble Bee pushed itself out after six months?

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:52.760
<v Speaker 3>You got them on Sunday. You got them Sunday or Monday.

0:30:53.120 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 2>I got them Sunday on Mother's Day. Oh so my

0:30:56.920 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 2>kids know me so well. Stella surprise me. She took

0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:06.440
<v Speaker 2>me to dim Sum and a piercing place which did dermals,

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:09.200
<v Speaker 2>because not all piercing places do dermals.

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:11.120
<v Speaker 4>I think dermals are like the one.

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 3>I love piercings, you know that, and I like dermals.

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 2>We do love piercings. What do we do every year

0:31:18.800 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 2>on Mother's Day? Typically we get Yeah.

0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:24.040
<v Speaker 3>We get an extra piercing.

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 2>Somewhere, we get matching piercing somewhere, and yeah, we still

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 2>have to get ours this year. Yeah, haven't done it yet. Okay,

0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 2>so I'm going to reveal it ready.

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:37.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah wait should I guess? Oh yeah, your foot?

0:31:37.920 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, but add that to my list. Then where

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 2>my point is full circle. I was always proud of

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:49.160
<v Speaker 2>my stomach. When I was young, I warlow crop tops.

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm fifty one, I wear crop tops. Now I'm super

0:31:52.560 --> 0:31:55.560
<v Speaker 2>proud of it. The reality is I'm not going to

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 2>be able to show my stomach off forever. That's just

0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 2>that's a fact. You'll have to stop me. When I'm seventy,

0:32:02.720 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll be trying to do it and you'll be like Nope,

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 2>you will.

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 4>If you look good, then do it.

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 2>It did bruise around because it was a major thing,

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:13.080
<v Speaker 2>so there might be there's some bruising, so no one

0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 2>look at that. But I just got it a few

0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 2>days ago, obviously.

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let me see it's bruised owl.

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:25.240
<v Speaker 2>I mean, oh my god, I'm scared of her reaction.

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:29.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I like Jessica, if it was like one,

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 3>it's kind.

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Of well like if you don't numbers, you know, like

0:32:32.520 --> 0:32:33.960
<v Speaker 2>everything in pairs.

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 3>Always say this. I'm like, if you love it, then

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 3>then great. And I'm I thought it was going to

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 3>be just like one, or like even like two next

0:32:44.480 --> 0:32:46.640
<v Speaker 3>to each other like a cluster or like.

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 2>No, take the bruising out. It's a bigger one and

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:52.360
<v Speaker 2>then it goes up to a smaller one.

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 4>Can't believe you waited to tell me this.

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:57.280
<v Speaker 3>I've kind of shocked you because while you were there,

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm a producer in my head and a broadcaster, and

0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, I'm going to reveal this to

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:06.200
<v Speaker 3>my best friend on the podcast.

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:08.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, she's expecting you to get matching ones.

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, And you can't see past the brothing. No, no,

0:33:13.120 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 3>I can't see the bruising on camera. I'm just trying

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:19.680
<v Speaker 3>to decide if I like it or not. I feel

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:22.840
<v Speaker 3>like I love you. Okay, did Hattie and Stella get

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:25.320
<v Speaker 3>them or Hattie won't get a piercing? Or did she

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 3>do it?

0:33:26.360 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 2>Had he got her earsppearance? She did it? She finally okay,

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 2>good and they look so good and oh it was

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 2>a great moment and she was so happy and she

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:43.960
<v Speaker 2>was terrified and then she was like, but I'm ready. Yeah,

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 2>and she did it and they look great, and I

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 2>was like, welcome to the club. Because so the shocking one.

0:33:52.520 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 2>The shocking one is Bo got his ear pierced.

0:33:55.520 --> 0:33:55.800
<v Speaker 3>Did he?

0:33:56.040 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.880
<v Speaker 4>Wait, he should have done it with Sophia. Sophia's been

0:33:58.960 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 4>begging me. She would have love to.

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, I wanted Sophie and Hattie to do it together.

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 2>But then it and this was spontaneous Stella and I

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.880
<v Speaker 2>was I was saying, before this, it's you know, Nathan's

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:15.120
<v Speaker 2>in the Valley, which is uber famous. Nathan himself came

0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:17.799
<v Speaker 2>in to do this for us for Mother's say, as

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:20.720
<v Speaker 2>a gift to me, and it was very very kind

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 2>and he's like old like it's old school, and he's

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:29.800
<v Speaker 2>like one of the best. So I was like, okay,

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 2>and not everyone does dermals now, yeah, so and he

0:34:34.160 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 2>does them amazing. He did Hattie's ears anyway. Bo, it

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 2>was a spontaneous thing. He's like, I want my ear

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 2>peerist and if you remember, this felt very similar to

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 2>when Stella and I went to get our ears Puris

0:34:52.760 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 2>when she was six and she was ready. Liam was

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 2>there and he was seven, and he said, can I

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:02.879
<v Speaker 2>get one of your peers? And I wanted to be like, no, no,

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 2>my god, you can't do that yet when you get older.

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 2>And then in my head I'm like, wait, wait, wait,

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:11.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm having that reaction because it's a boy with a girl,

0:35:11.800 --> 0:35:15.280
<v Speaker 2>like we don't even think, like they pierced baby's ears,

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:18.080
<v Speaker 2>you know girls when they're born, like you know that happens.

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:22.520
<v Speaker 2>So I had to like bite my tongue, which is

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 2>hard for me because I say everything. And I was like,

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh. I was like, how can I say no?

0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:31.440
<v Speaker 2>He's seven, like his six year old sister is getting

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:34.080
<v Speaker 2>her ears piers And I'm gonna say no, you can't

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 2>because you're a boy, right, And so he did. And

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:42.120
<v Speaker 2>Bo doesn't even know any of this, and Finn, you know,

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 2>he doesn't want anything to do with any piercings any

0:35:45.280 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, we got the permanent jewelry this weekend where

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:52.760
<v Speaker 2>they put on and he I was like, hey, Finn,

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 2>do you want to get a permanent bracelet or not?

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Like Nope, nope, nope, nothing nothing to do with piracings.

0:35:59.120 --> 0:36:03.799
<v Speaker 2>Not his jam cool fine, but Bo said, mom can I?

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.200
<v Speaker 2>And I looked at him and I was like, oh,

0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:08.480
<v Speaker 2>he's such a baby, and oh my gosh, he was

0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:10.640
<v Speaker 2>the exact same age when Leam asked to get his

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 2>ear purist.

0:36:12.960 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 3>That's funny.

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:14.640
<v Speaker 4>I didn't realize that.

0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which Bo seems so much younger to me, but

0:36:19.080 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it's because he's my baby and my last one,

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:26.799
<v Speaker 2>so I'm like holding onto the little baby. Anyway. He

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 2>also said well can I pick it out? And he's

0:36:30.320 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 2>gotten very rock and roll as you know. You know,

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:36.200
<v Speaker 2>he has long hair, and he used to you know,

0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:38.719
<v Speaker 2>paint his nails like green and blue because he was

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 2>like superhero colors. And now he's like, oh, he wants

0:36:42.120 --> 0:36:44.879
<v Speaker 2>them black and he wants skulls on them and rock

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:48.440
<v Speaker 2>and roll cool. What you know. I'm I'm very into

0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 2>everything in moderation, letting my kids experiment with stuff with

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:57.400
<v Speaker 2>me because it'll you know, save things for later. Like

0:36:57.480 --> 0:37:00.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, you weren't allowed to do stuff and then

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:01.440
<v Speaker 2>you hadn't got your tongue piers.

0:37:01.520 --> 0:37:04.879
<v Speaker 3>So yep, fact that's true.

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Fact. Yeah, I mean she doesn't have it anymore. But

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 2>when you're repressed from doing something or like you can't

0:37:11.560 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 2>do something, sometimes that makes you want to do it

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:16.919
<v Speaker 2>when you get out there and can. So I said, sure,

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 2>what do you want, buddy, And he went to the

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:26.880
<v Speaker 2>case and he goes, I want that black cross I like,

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 2>and it was you know, it's it's titanium, so it's

0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:35.440
<v Speaker 2>super safe and a little tiny black cross. Now I'm

0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:40.560
<v Speaker 2>a Jewish girl, and I was like, I don't wear crosses.

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 2>I've never worn crosses, but I'm not, you know, pulling

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:50.759
<v Speaker 2>religion into this, right and then right, So you know,

0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 2>nowadays it's cool. You know, the kids kind of mixed

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:57.520
<v Speaker 2>stuff back and forth and it's like a nice thing.

0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 2>And also I would I couldn't say no because I

0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh my gosh, it reminded me of Donna Martin.

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Like Donna Martin always wore crosses and stuff, and that

0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:12.840
<v Speaker 2>was like my jam on nine oh two, whent no anyway,

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.120
<v Speaker 2>he took it like a champ. He did one ear.

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Which side he did the left side?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, cute, which there used.

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 2>To be a controversy of like you know, if you're

0:38:26.880 --> 0:38:30.520
<v Speaker 2>a straight male, you do the left, if you're a

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 2>gay male you do the right yep. And then then guys,

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.280
<v Speaker 2>because I remember like Brian Austin Green had his ears

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:41.319
<v Speaker 2>peeris he did both and it was just like, you know,

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 2>it was in so I was trying to be like,

0:38:46.400 --> 0:38:49.839
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to guide him. And there's occasions when

0:38:50.280 --> 0:38:52.920
<v Speaker 2>people will say at school like to bo oh, you

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:55.040
<v Speaker 2>have long hair, you're a girl, or will be out

0:38:55.080 --> 0:39:00.839
<v Speaker 2>and people think it's a girl. It the child I

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:02.840
<v Speaker 2>carried for nine months.

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 3>You're a little baby, my baby.

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 2>It anyway, and he's used to it. And Finn had

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing when he was younger. And by the way,

0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:17.000
<v Speaker 2>people were like, cut your kid's hair. They've done this

0:39:17.080 --> 0:39:19.239
<v Speaker 2>with all three of my boys. Yeah, And I was

0:39:19.280 --> 0:39:22.040
<v Speaker 2>like yeah, And I was like it was always a

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:23.600
<v Speaker 2>thing with me because I was like, you know what,

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:26.640
<v Speaker 2>when they're ready to cut their hair, they'll cut their hair.

0:39:26.680 --> 0:39:29.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm not making that decision. And I only do that

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<v Speaker 2>because when I was young. You know, I went to

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:38.800
<v Speaker 2>like the fanciest like place in Beverly Hills, jose Ebert,

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:41.400
<v Speaker 2>who sadly has passed. But he was like the it

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:46.319
<v Speaker 2>guy back in the day because I'm old and my

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 2>mom would have him cut my hair and she was

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 2>always like, oh, I think it looks good here. And

0:39:52.040 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 2>so I was young and back then, you know, parents dictated,

0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:58.200
<v Speaker 2>and I was always like, oh, I wanted to grow

0:39:58.239 --> 0:39:59.680
<v Speaker 2>it out. So that was always in the back of

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.600
<v Speaker 2>my mind. So I said, you know, my kids, when

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:03.160
<v Speaker 2>they want to do something in their hair, I'll let

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:06.239
<v Speaker 2>them do it. And always Liam went through a stage.

0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:08.400
<v Speaker 2>He has long hair now, but he had long hair

0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:10.440
<v Speaker 2>and then one day he was like, I want to

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 2>like cut it all off, and he did and Finn

0:40:15.160 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Finn had gorgeous long curls, and then one day he

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:21.759
<v Speaker 2>said he wanted a faux hawk. He called it because

0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:24.680
<v Speaker 2>he had seen some rocker habit. I was like, cool,

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:27.399
<v Speaker 2>let's do it. And now it's back to being long

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 2>and bo I've always said like, you know, dude, what

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:32.880
<v Speaker 2>do you want to do with your hair? And he's like,

0:40:33.000 --> 0:40:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I love my lung. He's super proud of his hair. Anyway,

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 2>it's his decision, and I'm happy for that. But anyway,

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.440
<v Speaker 2>we were deciding left or right, and I was like,

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to make that judgment, so you know again,

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 2>and then he organically picked his left. And that's not

0:40:51.680 --> 0:40:54.840
<v Speaker 2>a thing anymore that you know. Men can pierce either

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:58.239
<v Speaker 2>side they want. Women can pierce whatever they want, you know,

0:40:59.239 --> 0:41:01.319
<v Speaker 2>especially in all it's like who cares? You do what

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:05.239
<v Speaker 2>you want exactly. So he got it, and I was

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:07.439
<v Speaker 2>like waiting, like, oh, is he gonna cry? You're gonna

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 2>cry totally. My son high pain tolerance, like no emotion.

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:16.480
<v Speaker 2>He was like yep. I was like, wow, rockstar, it

0:41:16.560 --> 0:41:21.399
<v Speaker 2>looks so good. Immediately afterwards, he's like, I want them

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:23.399
<v Speaker 2>both pierced. I was like, dude, let's wait and see

0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 2>how it heals, and then we can always like you know,

0:41:26.680 --> 0:41:28.840
<v Speaker 2>little by little starts slow.

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:30.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I can't see it.

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:36.560
<v Speaker 2>It's adorable. Sure enough, he went to school and I

0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:39.920
<v Speaker 2>was happy. Only one person said you have an earring.

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:43.759
<v Speaker 2>One kid goes, you have an earring. That's for girls,

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 2>and he was like, I'm so proud of him. He goes,

0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm a boy and I can do whatever I want.

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh good. I was like that's so cool because we

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:56.239
<v Speaker 2>have always been like, I'm a girl and I can

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:58.359
<v Speaker 2>do whatever I want, So it's cool that boys can

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 2>be like Yeah, but that night he did come home

0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:04.720
<v Speaker 2>and say, Mom, I want a haircut, and I got okay,

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:10.399
<v Speaker 2>that's cool, and so I cut his hair. You did, Yeah,

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I always cut their hair, but like short, his hair

0:42:13.760 --> 0:42:17.640
<v Speaker 2>is like below your shoulders, and yeah, he wanted it.

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:21.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like above his shoulders now and he looks great.

0:42:21.640 --> 0:42:24.880
<v Speaker 2>And I gotta tell you that, you know me pain

0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 2>like piercings. I have to get my blood drawn like nothing,

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:33.240
<v Speaker 2>nothing hurts me, like I'm I'm a tough mother. Yeah

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:40.440
<v Speaker 2>uh yeah, this one not for the week if you Yeah,

0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I forgot of course, or self sabotage that in the

0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 2>process of moving, you know, it's like end of the year,

0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:52.120
<v Speaker 2>doing all the school projects with the kids, like doing stuff.

0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:56.919
<v Speaker 2>I'm bending over so much, so much. Oh oh yeah, baby.

0:42:57.600 --> 0:42:58.359
<v Speaker 3>Like bump it.

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:03.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah a little bit. That has to hurt, Yeah, a

0:43:03.719 --> 0:43:04.160
<v Speaker 2>little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>So they probably aren't gonna last long.

0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:11.160
<v Speaker 2>If they're pooled on a lot, you'd be happy with that. No, no, no, I'm.

0:43:12.760 --> 0:43:15.799
<v Speaker 3>Trying to be nice. But whatever, I mean, you look good.

0:43:15.880 --> 0:43:18.280
<v Speaker 3>You do what you want. It doesn't matter what I think,

0:43:18.400 --> 0:43:20.000
<v Speaker 3>like it truly does not matter.

0:43:20.840 --> 0:43:22.759
<v Speaker 2>Well, it matters what you think, and then I do

0:43:22.840 --> 0:43:28.800
<v Speaker 2>it anyway. So but anyway, yeah, and I want to

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:30.880
<v Speaker 2>get more? Is that there? You over the edge?

0:43:31.160 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 3>It depends where you don't do like your face.

0:43:34.000 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 2>Like my face is already. You think I'm gonna.

0:43:37.080 --> 0:43:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Matter, it'll send me over the edge?

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:44.320
<v Speaker 2>Nope? Okay. On that note, do you want your tongue

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 2>piercing back? Why don't we do that together?

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:49.320
<v Speaker 4>As long as it's not like hanging out of my mouth.

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 2>That's what makes us best friends. It makes me TMT

0:43:52.840 --> 0:43:56.319
<v Speaker 2>too much, toy. Okay. On that note, you heard it here.

0:43:56.520 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 2>My best friend and I are going to get our

0:43:58.080 --> 0:43:59.960
<v Speaker 2>tongue pierced next, so stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 3>By bye bye