Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just gonna say it. We had an epic
Speaker 2: Mother's Day, and as I've talked about it, it's a
Speaker 2: big month for me. It was my unanniversary, Mother's Day
Speaker 2: and my birthday, and yeah, Mother's Day, I was just like, okay,
Speaker 2: my first Mother's Day single, going through a divorce, you know,
Speaker 2: with my five kids. And typically I would plan something
Speaker 2: like for years and I don't know. I guess we're
Speaker 2: conditioned to think you're supposed to have Mother's Day brunch.
Speaker 2: So I don't even know where that even initiated. And
Speaker 2: I'm I'm just gonna say right now, I fucking hate breakfast.
Speaker 2: Like breakfast food is my least fa I love a
Speaker 2: good Eggs, but other than that, I hate breakfast, like
Speaker 2: the whole notion of making me breakfast in bed and
Speaker 2: do all that. Like no, like, you know, make me
Speaker 2: a Lasagni in bed and like feed it to me.
Speaker 2: That's what I want, but no desire. So but every
Speaker 2: year I felt the pressure like, oh, it's Mother's Day,
Speaker 2: We're supposed to go to a brunch. And I would
Speaker 2: find some like great place and do that and then
Speaker 2: The rest of the day was all about the kids,
Speaker 2: and I was always on edge, like, oh, it's a
Speaker 2: time thing. We can't relax. We have set plans. I
Speaker 2: I'm the mother, can't relax and this year Stella who
Speaker 2: what is it? So if Ruthanna, I'm the matriarch of
Speaker 2: the family, what would Stella be technically aside from the
Speaker 2: other mother, the adult in the family. Oh my gosh, sorry,
Speaker 2: Stella is the matriarch in the family.
Speaker 1: What am I one of the kids?
Speaker 2: I like to call her Cinderella though, like Cinderella, Cinderella
Speaker 2: make everything happen. Anyway, this isn't a fairy tale. We
Speaker 2: know that. But yes, so Stella had said, and I
Speaker 2: had previously said this on the show, that you know,
Speaker 2: what do you want to do? And I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I wanted to go to Little Tokyo
Speaker 2: and do all that. And then how it unfolded is
Speaker 2: the day before she said, okay, so what do you
Speaker 2: want to do? And I was like, huh, I no
Speaker 2: longer want to go to Little Tokyo. And She's like, okay,
Speaker 2: what do you want to do? We can do anything
Speaker 2: you want to do? And I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: want and then before I could finish that sentence, she said, no,
Speaker 2: I don't want you to plan it. I know what
Speaker 2: you want. Let me handle it. I said, really, you're
Speaker 2: going to plan something. Oh my gosh, that takes so
Speaker 2: much pressure. All these I plan something that's supposed to
Speaker 2: be for myself, but it was really about my family
Speaker 2: and my kids and all the amazing Instagram photos I
Speaker 2: would take of the food, even though I was like, uh,
Speaker 2: hate breakfast. Do you hate breakfast? Do you like breakfast?
Speaker 1: I like breakfast. I'm a breakfast person.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't like brunch.
Speaker 1: Because I feel like it takes up too much of
Speaker 1: the day. But I like eating breakfast at breakfast.
Speaker 2: Guy, I do love a good seafood tower at a
Speaker 2: brunch place. I'm not gonna lie. And I appreciate a buffet,
Speaker 2: but I mean, I'm more like I would like every year,
Speaker 2: I was like, I have to live up to expectations.
Speaker 2: We have reservations at the four Seasons, and it's like
Speaker 2: everyone's dressed to the nines and everyone there's so much pressure.
Speaker 2: But I love a good buffet. But I'm more like,
Speaker 2: if I had my drothers, I'd be like I'd be
Speaker 2: at a hometown buffet. I'd be oh sizzler, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: remembers soup plantation. They had the best I'm all about
Speaker 2: a salad bar. Okay, I'm getting distracted. I guess I'm
Speaker 2: hungry anyway, So it would be all planned. So she
Speaker 2: was like, I know what you want to do. Let
Speaker 2: me just take care of this. So I slept in,
Speaker 2: and I never sleep in. I was the type of
Speaker 2: girl like I was up very early every morning for
Speaker 2: nine oh two, one oh on the weekends before I
Speaker 2: had kids. I mean, I would sleep on the weekends
Speaker 2: till I've won two o'clock. And then once you have kids,
Speaker 2: I feel like you just get into a rhythm and
Speaker 2: they're up early europe early. And so now I wake
Speaker 2: up without fail six seven in the morning. I mean,
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, I will stay in bed and
Speaker 2: groll on Instagram, put things in my cart that I
Speaker 2: don't need from Oh my god, all the products look
Speaker 2: so good. But then I abandon the cart. I get
Speaker 2: the fixed, and then I don't have to get the debt.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I woke up late, and all the kids
Speaker 2: up late, and I got to say, my kids are great.
Speaker 2: They're not early risers as they're getting older, that's nice.
Speaker 2: So we slept in and then I was like, okay, still,
Speaker 2: what are the plans and she's like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: it's it's easy. You have time, and so we just
Speaker 2: went with it and we are in the process of moving.
Speaker 2: So I, you know, didn't have the cute outfit. I
Speaker 2: didn't have and I was like, okay, well I have jeans.
Speaker 2: And then I was like, wait, let me realign that
Speaker 2: in my brain, I have jeans. That's what I want
Speaker 2: to wear. I don't want to get all fancied up
Speaker 2: like I want to be in my jeans. I want
Speaker 2: to be in my crop top. You know me. I
Speaker 2: love a good crop top nowadays. Just full circle. So
Speaker 2: we went the five kids to night and they took
Speaker 2: me to dim Sum, which I'm a huge fan of
Speaker 2: dim Sum, and they come out with the carts, which
Speaker 2: is my version of like a buffet, and it's like,
Speaker 2: you know, they have the carts and you get to
Speaker 2: shoose and they're all shareables. I love sharing is caring
Speaker 2: and it was really great and we had a great
Speaker 2: time and we had tea and all of that, and
Speaker 2: I had some Soaki and I was a happy, happy,
Speaker 2: happy mama. And guess what we played on the way
Speaker 2: my playlist for iHeart. So I got this opportunity to
Speaker 2: do a playlist for Mother's Day. And this is funny
Speaker 2: because my iHeart family doesn't know this. But I am
Speaker 2: beyond not a music person. Like it's almost comical. I
Speaker 2: was the girl and now I'm gonna date myself and
Speaker 2: make myself look old. I am old. I'm not old.
Speaker 2: I'm getting better agent like a fine wine, powering up
Speaker 2: level fifty one now. But in you know, high school,
Speaker 2: everyone would have their I just blanked on the word
Speaker 2: what's the word CEB? Nope, that wasn't even CDs back then.
Speaker 1: A cassette player.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys am embarrassed. Someone cracked me.
Speaker 1: I know, so music I'm getting before your time, that's
Speaker 1: almost before my time.
Speaker 2: It was a cassette tape. You guys, you didn't put
Speaker 2: that in your car?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And a cassette player.
Speaker 2: In the car. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I was the girl that Like when I got
Speaker 2: my first car at sixteen, I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: my friends are like, we can play music. And I
Speaker 2: was like, ooh, now I'm going to date myself again.
Speaker 2: The first song I ever heard on the radio, which
Speaker 2: was still one oh two point seven, was video Killed
Speaker 2: the Radio Star. And I listened to that as my
Speaker 2: nanny was driving me in our station wagon, not the limo.
Speaker 2: That's only when my parents went to school on like
Speaker 2: open house night. But I went in our family station wagon,
Speaker 2: you know, way back when, where you could like sit
Speaker 2: in the back and they didn't have seatbelts and no
Speaker 2: one cared, and you would be like the back window
Speaker 2: and everyone would be like, don't do that to drivers
Speaker 2: in the back. And I heard that song video Killed
Speaker 2: the Radio Star, and that was the first time I
Speaker 2: was like, ah, I like music. I love this song,
Speaker 2: so anyway, it's on my playlist. That's my first song
Speaker 2: that I listened to on the radio and had an
Speaker 2: interest in music and was super psyched. But I would
Speaker 2: have cassette tapes and people would be making your mixtapes
Speaker 2: and everything back then. Now you have a playlist, but
Speaker 2: back then a mixtape and I had nothing. You guys,
Speaker 2: I was just like my friends would be like I
Speaker 2: would like get so embarrassed, and I would do interviews
Speaker 2: for like teen Beat magazine and Tiger Beat and teen
Speaker 2: and all that, and they'd be like, what's your favorite music?
Speaker 2: What are your favorite songs? And I would be like
Speaker 2: on my landline, hello to all my friends, what do
Speaker 2: you think is cool? And then like I'd write back.
Speaker 3: Then you could like write it in on paper, and
Speaker 3: then they put that in the magazine, so it was
Speaker 3: your writing.
Speaker 2: Like it would be like Tory Spelling, Donna nine on
Speaker 2: two and zero, like favorite food, favorite color, favorite artist.
Speaker 2: You know, all that music was just not my thing. Anyway.
Speaker 2: I did love a good soundtrack though. I had like
Speaker 2: the soundtrack from like Top Gun, and I had the
Speaker 2: soundtrack and a Tom Cruise poster on my wallpt that's
Speaker 2: a whole other story. And I used to love him.
Speaker 2: And there was this movie with Jodie Foster and William
Speaker 2: McNamara and it was the best and it was about
Speaker 2: like she was the babysitter and he was in high
Speaker 2: school and she was supposed to be going off to
Speaker 2: college and they fell in love. But I had like
Speaker 2: that soundtrack, and then when I got a little older,
Speaker 2: I had like League of their Own soundtrack and all
Speaker 2: these things that my friends would like, bust my balls
Speaker 2: mine have ball, bust my tits and be like like
Speaker 2: that is so lame, and rap was like super in
Speaker 2: in high school. So I'd be like, oh, yeah, I
Speaker 2: run DMC. I'm totally into this. Oh bec boys cool, cool, cool,
Speaker 2: which I appreciate now, but at the time we'd be
Speaker 2: like blasting in my car and I'd be like, I
Speaker 2: have no idea. My point is I always stuck with
Speaker 2: that story, like I don't know music, I don't have
Speaker 2: an opinion sound like me. But I went in to
Speaker 2: do this playlist and it was freaking life changing, you guys,
Speaker 2: because guess what, I had an opinion. Lorraine backed me
Speaker 2: up here. I was asked to do seventy five songs
Speaker 2: on my playlist correct.
Speaker 3: True, It's a lot.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my gosh, do I admit
Speaker 2: to them that I'm not like a music person like
Speaker 2: I have to ask people now when I do Instagram,
Speaker 2: you do the reels and the reels I just age
Speaker 2: myself again. We do reels because old people put the
Speaker 2: like Ruthian, you probably say the Instagram correct now?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 2: Is it because I preface that with the old No damn.
Speaker 1: I don't say the Instagram saying the Instagram but not no.
Speaker 3: Jen used to say that okay, far wrong friend, Okay.
Speaker 2: On reels, I would still be calling people and be like,
Speaker 2: what's the current song I should put on? What's this?
Speaker 2: But anyway, I went back. I went to do my
Speaker 2: playlist and I did a real deep dive and I
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm not gonna ask people.
Speaker 2: There's some songs in there that people have played for
Speaker 2: me that I actually really responded to that I did
Speaker 2: get from them, and it was only because I liked it.
Speaker 2: But I went back and I did a deep dive
Speaker 2: and I'm telling you, I'm good at this. Like I
Speaker 2: can't believe my whole life. I was like, I don't
Speaker 2: know music. I'm not a mute musick person. I am
Speaker 2: a music person. I'm that girl that's seeings so loud
Speaker 2: in the car when something's on. I'm that girl that
Speaker 2: will park. And I've done this since I was young.
Speaker 2: Park and like, oh my god, I remember my first car,
Speaker 2: which was a champagne colored BMW and mom dad got
Speaker 2: me that for my sixteenth birthday. I know, rich girl problems,
Speaker 2: gotta shook up that, uh, And then they made Donna
Speaker 2: Martin's car the exact same car. But I used to
Speaker 2: put that on, put my sunglasses on, and I would
Speaker 2: drive down Pch and I would be belting out like
Speaker 2: hungry like the wolf, like oh my god, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I have the tiger like ough ah Bengals. Sorry, I
Speaker 2: just got super excited. See. So what I came to realize,
Speaker 2: thank you. iHeart that I've been sticking with the same story,
Speaker 2: which is also you know, finding yourself again, the same
Speaker 2: story that's not doing me just listening because it's not true.
Speaker 2: I have an opinion. I love music and I picked
Speaker 2: the radest playlist. I mean it's very uniquely tory. There's
Speaker 2: like a little mermaid in there. Oh my gosh, there's
Speaker 2: the never ending story, the never ending story.
Speaker 1: Sorry, you might want to make some more current references
Speaker 1: as you describe your playlist. Right now, it's just the
Speaker 1: never ending story and the little Mermaid.
Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to tell them how rad that it's like.
Speaker 2: So it's not like I was like, hey, AI, create
Speaker 2: me a playlist. I was like, no, this is like
Speaker 2: I worked so hard on this and I feel like
Speaker 2: it's amazing. And here's why I know it's amazing. My
Speaker 2: kids seventeen, fifteen, twelve, eleven and seven. They were like,
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, can we put on Usually we listen
Speaker 2: to their playlist and I'm like, whatever you want, whatever
Speaker 2: you want. I was like, guys, Mother's Day, can we
Speaker 2: play my playlist? And we played it and I look
Speaker 2: over and the kids are jamming out to my tunes.
Speaker 2: That was the best. They were like, Mom, Mom, this
Speaker 2: is so cool. Yes, I have current stuff in there
Speaker 2: that I like, like huge fan of air and Pat
Speaker 2: Benattar is still referencing old stuff. There's there's some cool
Speaker 2: new stuff I know I have. I have like Olivia
Speaker 2: Rodrigo and like stuff that speaks to me. And I
Speaker 2: was concerned it was too much of like quote unquote
Speaker 2: chick playlist. But my seventeen year old he has amazing
Speaker 2: music taste and he has such eclectic taste. I mean
Speaker 2: everything from like old school like my Godfather. He'll have
Speaker 2: Dean Martin on there all the way from there to
Speaker 2: like heavy metal. Like he's just has great taste. And
Speaker 2: he I was like, Mom, this is cool. I'm like
Speaker 2: a dude likes this. He's like, yeah, you got some
Speaker 2: great stuff. And then there are ones like poor some
Speaker 2: sugar on me, and then he's like, oh, I love
Speaker 2: this song, and I wanted to be like, oh, I
Speaker 2: used to like troll on like the stripper pool to that.
Speaker 2: Wait does sound weird? Remember when pole dancing classes came in?
Speaker 2: That was like a fad. I did that and that
Speaker 2: was my song. Oh and slash dance anyway, love my playlist.
Speaker 2: We played it the whole way. The kids were obsessed
Speaker 2: with it. They're still playing it. Love it anyway, had
Speaker 2: our dim sum and then afterwards Stella's like, okay, mom,
Speaker 2: we're doing this is a very un Mother's day Mother's Day,
Speaker 2: which I call it Motherfucker's Day anyway, so she was like,
Speaker 2: we did the anti Mother's Day, Like it wasn't like
Speaker 2: prim and proper and brunch and like all that. We went.
Speaker 2: So we did my playlist, which rocked the mic. Right,
Speaker 2: you guys, I think I want to take it. I
Speaker 2: want to be a DJ. Is this possible, Loraine?
Speaker 1: Are there any open slots that iHeartRadio for Torita? You
Speaker 1: know have a station?
Speaker 3: Let me look into it.
Speaker 2: What do you mean, like, no, I want to be
Speaker 2: a DJ?
Speaker 1: What oh you mean like Paris Hilton like live events?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right, well what about Tory in the morning.
Speaker 2: Toy is not good in the morning, Tory, Tory at night,
Speaker 2: Tory after dark, peach Pit after dark, get it, Tory
Speaker 2: after dark.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: So Stella's like, uh, I have a really major surprise
Speaker 2: for you now. I always say I hate surprises new
Speaker 2: me gut check. Nah, that's my old story. Sorry too,
Speaker 2: Maybe I like surprises. Cool. Let's proceed. So she takes
Speaker 2: my ways. She puts in the address and she's like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to see where we're going. We go
Speaker 2: from dim Sum, we park down this alley and I'm like,
Speaker 2: where are we going?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Now I know where we are. One of my favorite
Speaker 2: tattoo and piercing places. This is where my kids take me.
Speaker 2: Just my jam cool Nathan's. Nathan's is in Canoga Park
Speaker 2: and it's been there since nineteen ninety three. It's one
Speaker 2: of like the coolest places. I've gotten multiple piercings over
Speaker 2: the years. I trust them. My daughter Stella when she
Speaker 2: got her ears, peeris she got one. They've done it.
Speaker 2: They're just top of the top. But she goes and
Speaker 2: not only are you going in you can get a piercing,
Speaker 2: but Nathan him self is coming in. And I've known
Speaker 2: Nathan for years, love him, but like wow, Nathan himself
Speaker 2: is coming in on Mother's Day, but he just asked.
Speaker 2: He was like, his wife was saying, they have to
Speaker 2: get somewhere. They have Mothers Day dinner and so we
Speaker 2: have to be there. And I was so excited. So
Speaker 2: we go in and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: what am I going to get? Because I've told you
Speaker 2: guys before, I didn't get my ears peers till I
Speaker 2: was forty something. I waited till Stella said to me
Speaker 2: because I wasn't allowed to get my ears piers till
Speaker 2: I was eighteen. By eighteen, I was like, I don't
Speaker 2: even like ear rings, not into it. And then I
Speaker 2: was like, one day, if I have a daughter, we'll
Speaker 2: do it together when she's ready. And I waited and Stella,
Speaker 2: when she was I believe six, said to me, Mom,
Speaker 2: I'm ready and I was like, okay, let's do it.
Speaker 2: So we did it. And my second daughter, Hattie, I've
Speaker 2: always said, like, you know, let me know when you
Speaker 2: want to get your ears peers. She's twelve and she
Speaker 2: was always scared, so you know, we would go and
Speaker 2: then she'd be like, I don't want to do it,
Speaker 2: and I was like, no problem, you don't ever have
Speaker 2: to do it, just when you want to do it.
Speaker 2: We'll do it together. Mom, you'll get another piercing. So
Speaker 2: we're doing it together. So as we're entering Hotty goes,
Speaker 2: I'm ready. I want to get my ears pierced. And
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh. Tried to play it down.
Speaker 2: I was like, cool, that's great. Are you sure, like,
Speaker 2: no pressure, it's not about me, this is about you,
Speaker 2: and she's like, no, I want to do it. I
Speaker 2: was like yes, And then do you guys know what
Speaker 2: dermals are?
Speaker 3: I feel like you kind of explained it once, but
Speaker 3: I think you should tell us again.
Speaker 1: And then it like a same process as getting a tattoo,
Speaker 1: but it doesn't last something like that.
Speaker 2: It's called Hannah. It's a similar process, says as getting
Speaker 2: a piercing, but it's on the skin and it's anchored
Speaker 2: in and they say they don't last. And it's the
Speaker 2: type of thing that your body takes it or it
Speaker 2: doesn't take it. It's not like a piercing where it
Speaker 2: it stays and you can kind of get them wherever.
Speaker 2: Like I had one on my neck, a little bumble
Speaker 2: bee and anyway, I was like, you know, what I
Speaker 2: want to get a dermal. I'm going to get a dermal,
Speaker 2: and of course, you know I love a good title.
Speaker 2: So it was like dim sum and dermals, let's proceed.
Speaker 2: And so then I was like, oh my gosh, my
Speaker 2: best friend Jess is going to freak out because the
Speaker 2: last time I got a dermal, she told me I
Speaker 2: was having a midlife crisis. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: so I haven't told her. We're going to bring her
Speaker 2: on and I'm gonna tell her and show her where
Speaker 2: I got my dormal. She's actually going to come in
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 3: I'm so anxious about this. I told her I took
Speaker 3: a Xanax before I went to bed.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not what you took a Xamax but cool
Speaker 2: kind of.
Speaker 3: Okay, fine there, but that was my excuse.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're gonna need a Xamax after She's not.
Speaker 2: I know. That's why I was like, you guys, she's
Speaker 2: been through everything with me. She knows every sort of
Speaker 2: detail of my life, like, uh, yeah, there's way crazier stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah there, I mean there's stuff that I'm like, there's
Speaker 3: no way you would ever share it that I know,
Speaker 3: Like you share everything, but some of these things like
Speaker 3: not a chance. No, I know all the dirty secrets.
Speaker 1: This is new yess just definitely.
Speaker 3: I know. That's what she said. And I'm scared because
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, so be pregnant. I don't know if
Speaker 3: you get another pig, Like.
Speaker 2: Wait, fuck you? You like, why can't I be pregnant?
Speaker 2: I'm fifty one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you haven't had a period in like years
Speaker 3: and we wouldn't allow it that too.
Speaker 2: So so when I'm being proper and this sends her
Speaker 2: over the edge, I'll be like Jessica Lee and she's.
Speaker 3: Like, it gives me the worst anxiety.
Speaker 2: Right, that's like you calling me Tori. I'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 2: well I was going to tell you I'm doing this
Speaker 2: on my own.
Speaker 3: I got a.
Speaker 2: Sarrogate shut up, you did. It's a trade out because
Speaker 2: I can't afford it. But anyway, a trade off and
Speaker 2: I'm having a baby.
Speaker 3: Shut up and tell me the truth. There is no
Speaker 3: way in hell that is the truth.
Speaker 2: Stop Okay, you're lying.
Speaker 3: I know you. There is not a chance in hell
Speaker 3: for a very very lot of reasons.
Speaker 2: Stop.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I love to rile her up, so I like, is
Speaker 2: their way.
Speaker 3: But no, not a chance.
Speaker 2: Okay, fine, Like it's so funny because Jess, like I'm
Speaker 2: blonde and like bright, and she's brunette and we're it's
Speaker 2: dark clothing, and so we would always try to be like,
Speaker 2: oh well, what makes sense, you know, like I'm the
Speaker 2: angel like ethereal and she's the devil. But it's actually
Speaker 2: the reverse, she's the angel, I'm the devil ish.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's ish ish.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, pretty both, Yeah we are. We're pretty dead
Speaker 2: on exactly alike in many ways in some ways.
Speaker 3: In some ways okay, other ways were the exact opposite.
Speaker 2: But now and it works. Okay. Do you remember a
Speaker 2: time you told me I was having a midlife crisis?
Speaker 2: Do you remember what that was about?
Speaker 3: Because I still think maybe you are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So what happened when you said I had a
Speaker 2: midlife crisis?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: You got your nipples pierced? You got wait before that, no,
Speaker 3: but it was like, you know, I have a memory
Speaker 3: of a goldfish. So don't believe I'm fun You're warm?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, no, you got your clip piers like
Speaker 3: years ago, Like what was it for you? It was
Speaker 3: a Christina and it was above like the belly button thing.
Speaker 2: It was not the clip.
Speaker 3: Okay, that is not a Your belly button and your
Speaker 3: Christina very different.
Speaker 2: I understand. But belly buttons they go like above. It's
Speaker 2: not like they go into the belly button.
Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't get a clip pearis Okay, fine, I
Speaker 3: got the little right above meaty part right above.
Speaker 2: Okay, Ruthan, I call Ruthan a prude.
Speaker 1: Can't see me. I'm shaking my head and crinkling my nose.
Speaker 3: Oh I see you.
Speaker 2: She'd be like, edit this, and I'll be like, no,
Speaker 2: I love it now.
Speaker 1: This is me.
Speaker 2: It involved a type of piercing, but it's called something else.
Speaker 2: I don't remember a dormal damn it here?
Speaker 3: Oh yes, that's it. Yes, I remember. Okay, but that
Speaker 3: was I feel like that's better than your nipple for
Speaker 3: being fifty I agree, right Like, I feel like that's
Speaker 3: nothing that's like could be cute and chic.
Speaker 4: So I'm okay with that.
Speaker 2: So I decided that fifty one. And you know, I've
Speaker 2: been wearing a lot of crop tops lately. I'm feeling
Speaker 2: really good about my stomach. I've had five babies. I'm
Speaker 2: really proud at my stomach. That's you know, it's gone
Speaker 2: in and out five times and it's good, thank you,
Speaker 2: and I feel like, you know, my thing back in
Speaker 2: the day, like full Circle, was my belly. I always
Speaker 2: showed off my belly because that was one of my
Speaker 2: favorite parts of me. And now I do it again
Speaker 2: and people are like, stop dressing like a teenager. Oh people, that.
Speaker 3: Was you and no, no, no, go ahead.
Speaker 2: Would you say the other day?
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it wasn't like a teenager.
Speaker 3: Oh it kind of. I said, you look like you're
Speaker 3: trying to be in high school, but not a cute way.
Speaker 3: So and then she's and then.
Speaker 2: She told me, oh, lose the skater girl look.
Speaker 4: Not even like the skater girl.
Speaker 3: Look. That could be really cute, but I'm trying to be.
Speaker 2: Nice, don't be Why do you start now? As I
Speaker 2: took that to heart, I looked back over the years
Speaker 2: I always had that and dressed that way.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, you recently you've taken it to like a
Speaker 4: whole different level.
Speaker 3: The crap tops like. It wasn't even about that. It
Speaker 3: was like some of the like choices very recently, especially.
Speaker 2: The dolls kills stuff. That's my favorite. No, that's I mean,
Speaker 2: you and I both love that.
Speaker 3: But some of that's fine, but like it's a little
Speaker 3: like there's a way I feel like you could make
Speaker 3: it look chic, or there's a way where you overdo
Speaker 3: it and it's like you look like a high school kid.
Speaker 3: I hear you. Not a great way.
Speaker 2: But here's my thing. And I have a big problem
Speaker 2: with this, probably because I'm doing it and living in
Speaker 2: so I have a problem with it. I don't get
Speaker 2: why people you know what that reminds me of the
Speaker 2: statement like, oh, once you're past a certain age, you
Speaker 2: have to have short hair, you can have long hair,
Speaker 2: you can't wear red lips anymore. I disagree with that.
Speaker 3: Like I don't disagree.
Speaker 4: I disagree too.
Speaker 2: Look at Helen Mirren. No, I mean she has short hair,
Speaker 2: but she like looks hot. She flaunts it like she
Speaker 2: she's got it going on. She's sexy. But like, it
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what other people think. What if it makes
Speaker 2: me happy, if I like the clothing, what does it
Speaker 2: matter because you feel like people talk bad about me?
Speaker 4: No, No, I one hundred percent agree with you.
Speaker 2: Because your Xamax doesn't work at night and you're scrolling
Speaker 2: through my Instagram looking at comments and getting all fired up.
Speaker 4: No, I see pictures you send me.
Speaker 3: It's not even about your Instagram.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's great.
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, should I wear this?
Speaker 4: No, Like last weeks and Stella was saying the same thing.
Speaker 2: Fine, fine, like that agree anyway, I agree.
Speaker 3: You so great wear it. But but you even admitted
Speaker 3: there was a reason you were wearing it, And I
Speaker 3: think there's a way to do it where you look great.
Speaker 3: But some of the it's not even everything by any means,
Speaker 3: it's just a few choice pieces. I was like, what
Speaker 3: the fuck is she thinking? I send me those pictures? Absolutely? Yeah, No.
Speaker 2: Woman who wears like a rock tea, a black rock
Speaker 2: and roll tea and black biker shorts or leggings, that's everything.
Speaker 3: I literally yeah, And that's it. Anything that's like easy
Speaker 3: and comfortable, that's all I were. I'll go shopping and
Speaker 3: then I'll buy like five new black shirts.
Speaker 2: We'll be texting, like because when we go out we
Speaker 2: like to like be cohesive, right as best friends do.
Speaker 2: And we'll be like, what are you wearing? What are
Speaker 2: you wearing?
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, are you wearing your uniform? And she's like, duh,
Speaker 3: are you wearing yours? I'm like, and she means a
Speaker 3: crop top and jeans. I'm like, duh, yeah, and that's
Speaker 3: not it. The crop top and jeans is totally fine.
Speaker 3: Like that's like your look now, that's like what you're
Speaker 3: super into, right, and you'll caught.
Speaker 4: It's the like sometimes you take it over the edge
Speaker 4: with like.
Speaker 3: The really crazy skater, but like not even skaters, like
Speaker 3: the wrong word.
Speaker 4: I don't even have a word for it.
Speaker 3: I wish I did. It's just you. I mean maybe
Speaker 3: it is. Maybe it's a New York and if it is,
Speaker 3: then I'll love it.
Speaker 2: No, always tell me what do you mean? You need
Speaker 2: that person in your life that's like you look like shit,
Speaker 2: like that doesn't work and like you yeah, always like
Speaker 2: thank god. Being in the business I'm in, sometimes you
Speaker 2: have people that come in and out of your lives
Speaker 2: that are yes people. It just happens. Both Ruth Anne
Speaker 2: and Jess are both the two friends that'll be like nope, nope,
Speaker 2: and I need that. Okay, So I'm I'm skirting around
Speaker 2: the issue. Okay, So I got dermals Okay more more,
Speaker 2: remember the bumble Bee pushed itself out after six months?
Speaker 3: You got them on Sunday. You got them Sunday or Monday.
Speaker 2: I got them Sunday on Mother's Day. Oh so my
Speaker 2: kids know me so well. Stella surprise me. She took
Speaker 2: me to dim Sum and a piercing place which did dermals,
Speaker 2: because not all piercing places do dermals.
Speaker 4: I think dermals are like the one.
Speaker 3: I love piercings, you know that, and I like dermals.
Speaker 2: We do love piercings. What do we do every year
Speaker 2: on Mother's Day? Typically we get Yeah.
Speaker 3: We get an extra piercing.
Speaker 2: Somewhere, we get matching piercing somewhere, and yeah, we still
Speaker 2: have to get ours this year. Yeah, haven't done it yet. Okay,
Speaker 2: so I'm going to reveal it ready.
Speaker 3: Yeah wait should I guess? Oh yeah, your foot?
Speaker 2: Oh no, but add that to my list. Then where
Speaker 2: my point is full circle. I was always proud of
Speaker 2: my stomach. When I was young, I warlow crop tops.
Speaker 2: I'm fifty one, I wear crop tops. Now I'm super
Speaker 2: proud of it. The reality is I'm not going to
Speaker 2: be able to show my stomach off forever. That's just
Speaker 2: that's a fact. You'll have to stop me. When I'm seventy,
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to do it and you'll be like Nope,
Speaker 2: you will.
Speaker 4: If you look good, then do it.
Speaker 2: It did bruise around because it was a major thing,
Speaker 2: so there might be there's some bruising, so no one
Speaker 2: look at that. But I just got it a few
Speaker 2: days ago, obviously.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me see it's bruised owl.
Speaker 2: I mean, oh my god, I'm scared of her reaction.
Speaker 3: I mean, I like Jessica, if it was like one,
Speaker 3: it's kind.
Speaker 2: Of well like if you don't numbers, you know, like
Speaker 2: everything in pairs.
Speaker 3: Always say this. I'm like, if you love it, then
Speaker 3: then great. And I'm I thought it was going to
Speaker 3: be just like one, or like even like two next
Speaker 3: to each other like a cluster or like.
Speaker 2: No, take the bruising out. It's a bigger one and
Speaker 2: then it goes up to a smaller one.
Speaker 4: Can't believe you waited to tell me this.
Speaker 3: I've kind of shocked you because while you were there,
Speaker 3: I'm a producer in my head and a broadcaster, and
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm going to reveal this to
Speaker 3: my best friend on the podcast.
Speaker 1: Yes, she's expecting you to get matching ones.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And you can't see past the brothing. No, no,
Speaker 3: I can't see the bruising on camera. I'm just trying
Speaker 3: to decide if I like it or not. I feel
Speaker 3: like I love you. Okay, did Hattie and Stella get
Speaker 3: them or Hattie won't get a piercing? Or did she
Speaker 3: do it?
Speaker 2: Had he got her earsppearance? She did it? She finally okay,
Speaker 2: good and they look so good and oh it was
Speaker 2: a great moment and she was so happy and she
Speaker 2: was terrified and then she was like, but I'm ready. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and she did it and they look great, and I
Speaker 2: was like, welcome to the club. Because so the shocking one.
Speaker 2: The shocking one is Bo got his ear pierced.
Speaker 3: Did he?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Wait, he should have done it with Sophia. Sophia's been
Speaker 4: begging me. She would have love to.
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted Sophie and Hattie to do it together.
Speaker 2: But then it and this was spontaneous Stella and I
Speaker 2: was I was saying, before this, it's you know, Nathan's
Speaker 2: in the Valley, which is uber famous. Nathan himself came
Speaker 2: in to do this for us for Mother's say, as
Speaker 2: a gift to me, and it was very very kind
Speaker 2: and he's like old like it's old school, and he's
Speaker 2: like one of the best. So I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: and not everyone does dermals now, yeah, so and he
Speaker 2: does them amazing. He did Hattie's ears anyway. Bo, it
Speaker 2: was a spontaneous thing. He's like, I want my ear
Speaker 2: peerist and if you remember, this felt very similar to
Speaker 2: when Stella and I went to get our ears Puris
Speaker 2: when she was six and she was ready. Liam was
Speaker 2: there and he was seven, and he said, can I
Speaker 2: get one of your peers? And I wanted to be like, no, no,
Speaker 2: my god, you can't do that yet when you get older.
Speaker 2: And then in my head I'm like, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 2: I'm having that reaction because it's a boy with a girl,
Speaker 2: like we don't even think, like they pierced baby's ears,
Speaker 2: you know girls when they're born, like you know that happens.
Speaker 2: So I had to like bite my tongue, which is
Speaker 2: hard for me because I say everything. And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. I was like, how can I say no?
Speaker 2: He's seven, like his six year old sister is getting
Speaker 2: her ears piers And I'm gonna say no, you can't
Speaker 2: because you're a boy, right, And so he did. And
Speaker 2: Bo doesn't even know any of this, and Finn, you know,
Speaker 2: he doesn't want anything to do with any piercings any
Speaker 2: you know, we got the permanent jewelry this weekend where
Speaker 2: they put on and he I was like, hey, Finn,
Speaker 2: do you want to get a permanent bracelet or not?
Speaker 2: Like Nope, nope, nope, nothing nothing to do with piracings.
Speaker 2: Not his jam cool fine, but Bo said, mom can I?
Speaker 2: And I looked at him and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: he's such a baby, and oh my gosh, he was
Speaker 2: the exact same age when Leam asked to get his
Speaker 2: ear purist.
Speaker 3: That's funny.
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which Bo seems so much younger to me, but
Speaker 2: I think it's because he's my baby and my last one,
Speaker 2: so I'm like holding onto the little baby. Anyway. He
Speaker 2: also said well can I pick it out? And he's
Speaker 2: gotten very rock and roll as you know. You know,
Speaker 2: he has long hair, and he used to you know,
Speaker 2: paint his nails like green and blue because he was
Speaker 2: like superhero colors. And now he's like, oh, he wants
Speaker 2: them black and he wants skulls on them and rock
Speaker 2: and roll cool. What you know. I'm I'm very into
Speaker 2: everything in moderation, letting my kids experiment with stuff with
Speaker 2: me because it'll you know, save things for later. Like
Speaker 2: you know, you weren't allowed to do stuff and then
Speaker 2: you hadn't got your tongue piers.
Speaker 3: So yep, fact that's true.
Speaker 2: Fact. Yeah, I mean she doesn't have it anymore. But
Speaker 2: when you're repressed from doing something or like you can't
Speaker 2: do something, sometimes that makes you want to do it
Speaker 2: when you get out there and can. So I said, sure,
Speaker 2: what do you want, buddy, And he went to the
Speaker 2: case and he goes, I want that black cross I like,
Speaker 2: and it was you know, it's it's titanium, so it's
Speaker 2: super safe and a little tiny black cross. Now I'm
Speaker 2: a Jewish girl, and I was like, I don't wear crosses.
Speaker 2: I've never worn crosses, but I'm not, you know, pulling
Speaker 2: religion into this, right and then right, So you know,
Speaker 2: nowadays it's cool. You know, the kids kind of mixed
Speaker 2: stuff back and forth and it's like a nice thing.
Speaker 2: And also I would I couldn't say no because I
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, it reminded me of Donna Martin.
Speaker 2: Like Donna Martin always wore crosses and stuff, and that
Speaker 2: was like my jam on nine oh two, whent no anyway,
Speaker 2: he took it like a champ. He did one ear.
Speaker 2: Which side he did the left side?
Speaker 3: Okay, cute, which there used.
Speaker 2: To be a controversy of like you know, if you're
Speaker 2: a straight male, you do the left, if you're a
Speaker 2: gay male you do the right yep. And then then guys,
Speaker 2: because I remember like Brian Austin Green had his ears
Speaker 2: peeris he did both and it was just like, you know,
Speaker 2: it was in so I was trying to be like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to guide him. And there's occasions when
Speaker 2: people will say at school like to bo oh, you
Speaker 2: have long hair, you're a girl, or will be out
Speaker 2: and people think it's a girl. It the child I
Speaker 2: carried for nine months.
Speaker 3: You're a little baby, my baby.
Speaker 2: It anyway, and he's used to it. And Finn had
Speaker 2: the same thing when he was younger. And by the way,
Speaker 2: people were like, cut your kid's hair. They've done this
Speaker 2: with all three of my boys. Yeah, And I was
Speaker 2: like yeah, And I was like it was always a
Speaker 2: thing with me because I was like, you know what,
Speaker 2: when they're ready to cut their hair, they'll cut their hair.
Speaker 2: I'm not making that decision. And I only do that
Speaker 2: because when I was young. You know, I went to
Speaker 2: like the fanciest like place in Beverly Hills, jose Ebert,
Speaker 2: who sadly has passed. But he was like the it
Speaker 2: guy back in the day because I'm old and my
Speaker 2: mom would have him cut my hair and she was
Speaker 2: always like, oh, I think it looks good here. And
Speaker 2: so I was young and back then, you know, parents dictated,
Speaker 2: and I was always like, oh, I wanted to grow
Speaker 2: it out. So that was always in the back of
Speaker 2: my mind. So I said, you know, my kids, when
Speaker 2: they want to do something in their hair, I'll let
Speaker 2: them do it. And always Liam went through a stage.
Speaker 2: He has long hair now, but he had long hair
Speaker 2: and then one day he was like, I want to
Speaker 2: like cut it all off, and he did and Finn
Speaker 2: Finn had gorgeous long curls, and then one day he
Speaker 2: said he wanted a faux hawk. He called it because
Speaker 2: he had seen some rocker habit. I was like, cool,
Speaker 2: let's do it. And now it's back to being long
Speaker 2: and bo I've always said like, you know, dude, what
Speaker 2: do you want to do with your hair? And he's like,
Speaker 2: I love my lung. He's super proud of his hair. Anyway,
Speaker 2: it's his decision, and I'm happy for that. But anyway,
Speaker 2: we were deciding left or right, and I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to make that judgment, so you know again,
Speaker 2: and then he organically picked his left. And that's not
Speaker 2: a thing anymore that you know. Men can pierce either
Speaker 2: side they want. Women can pierce whatever they want, you know,
Speaker 2: especially in all it's like who cares? You do what
Speaker 2: you want exactly. So he got it, and I was
Speaker 2: like waiting, like, oh, is he gonna cry? You're gonna
Speaker 2: cry totally. My son high pain tolerance, like no emotion.
Speaker 2: He was like yep. I was like, wow, rockstar, it
Speaker 2: looks so good. Immediately afterwards, he's like, I want them
Speaker 2: both pierced. I was like, dude, let's wait and see
Speaker 2: how it heals, and then we can always like you know,
Speaker 2: little by little starts slow.
Speaker 3: Oh, I can't see it.
Speaker 2: It's adorable. Sure enough, he went to school and I
Speaker 2: was happy. Only one person said you have an earring.
Speaker 2: One kid goes, you have an earring. That's for girls,
Speaker 2: and he was like, I'm so proud of him. He goes,
Speaker 2: I'm a boy and I can do whatever I want.
Speaker 2: Oh good. I was like that's so cool because we
Speaker 2: have always been like, I'm a girl and I can
Speaker 2: do whatever I want, So it's cool that boys can
Speaker 2: be like Yeah, but that night he did come home
Speaker 2: and say, Mom, I want a haircut, and I got okay,
Speaker 2: that's cool, and so I cut his hair. You did, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I always cut their hair, but like short, his hair
Speaker 2: is like below your shoulders, and yeah, he wanted it.
Speaker 2: It's like above his shoulders now and he looks great.
Speaker 2: And I gotta tell you that, you know me pain
Speaker 2: like piercings. I have to get my blood drawn like nothing,
Speaker 2: nothing hurts me, like I'm I'm a tough mother. Yeah
Speaker 2: uh yeah, this one not for the week if you Yeah,
Speaker 2: I forgot of course, or self sabotage that in the
Speaker 2: process of moving, you know, it's like end of the year,
Speaker 2: doing all the school projects with the kids, like doing stuff.
Speaker 2: I'm bending over so much, so much. Oh oh yeah, baby.
Speaker 3: Like bump it.
Speaker 2: Yeah a little bit. That has to hurt, Yeah, a
Speaker 2: little bit.
Speaker 4: So they probably aren't gonna last long.
Speaker 2: If they're pooled on a lot, you'd be happy with that. No, no, no, I'm.
Speaker 3: Trying to be nice. But whatever, I mean, you look good.
Speaker 3: You do what you want. It doesn't matter what I think,
Speaker 3: like it truly does not matter.
Speaker 2: Well, it matters what you think, and then I do
Speaker 2: it anyway. So but anyway, yeah, and I want to
Speaker 2: get more? Is that there? You over the edge?
Speaker 3: It depends where you don't do like your face.
Speaker 2: Like my face is already. You think I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Matter, it'll send me over the edge?
Speaker 2: Nope? Okay. On that note, do you want your tongue
Speaker 2: piercing back? Why don't we do that together?
Speaker 4: As long as it's not like hanging out of my mouth.
Speaker 2: That's what makes us best friends. It makes me TMT
Speaker 2: too much, toy. Okay. On that note, you heard it here.
Speaker 2: My best friend and I are going to get our
Speaker 2: tongue pierced next, so stay tuned.
Speaker 3: By bye bye