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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just gonna say it. We had an epic

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Speaker 2: Mother's Day, and as I've talked about it, it's a

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Speaker 2: big month for me. It was my unanniversary, Mother's Day

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Speaker 2: and my birthday, and yeah, Mother's Day, I was just like, okay,

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Speaker 2: my first Mother's Day single, going through a divorce, you know,

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Speaker 2: with my five kids. And typically I would plan something

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Speaker 2: like for years and I don't know. I guess we're

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Speaker 2: conditioned to think you're supposed to have Mother's Day brunch.

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Speaker 2: So I don't even know where that even initiated. And

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm just gonna say right now, I fucking hate breakfast.

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Speaker 2: Like breakfast food is my least fa I love a

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Speaker 2: good Eggs, but other than that, I hate breakfast, like

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Speaker 2: the whole notion of making me breakfast in bed and

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Speaker 2: do all that. Like no, like, you know, make me

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Speaker 2: a Lasagni in bed and like feed it to me.

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Speaker 2: That's what I want, but no desire. So but every

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Speaker 2: year I felt the pressure like, oh, it's Mother's Day,

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Speaker 2: We're supposed to go to a brunch. And I would

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Speaker 2: find some like great place and do that and then

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Speaker 2: The rest of the day was all about the kids,

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Speaker 2: and I was always on edge, like, oh, it's a

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Speaker 2: time thing. We can't relax. We have set plans. I

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Speaker 2: I'm the mother, can't relax and this year Stella who

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Speaker 2: what is it? So if Ruthanna, I'm the matriarch of

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Speaker 2: the family, what would Stella be technically aside from the

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Speaker 2: other mother, the adult in the family. Oh my gosh, sorry,

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Speaker 2: Stella is the matriarch in the family.

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Speaker 1: What am I one of the kids?

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Speaker 2: I like to call her Cinderella though, like Cinderella, Cinderella

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Speaker 2: make everything happen. Anyway, this isn't a fairy tale. We

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Speaker 2: know that. But yes, so Stella had said, and I

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Speaker 2: had previously said this on the show, that you know,

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Speaker 2: what do you want to do? And I was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I wanted to go to Little Tokyo

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Speaker 2: and do all that. And then how it unfolded is

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Speaker 2: the day before she said, okay, so what do you

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Speaker 2: want to do? And I was like, huh, I no

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Speaker 2: longer want to go to Little Tokyo. And She's like, okay,

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Speaker 2: what do you want to do? We can do anything

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Speaker 2: you want to do? And I was like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: want and then before I could finish that sentence, she said, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't want you to plan it. I know what

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Speaker 2: you want. Let me handle it. I said, really, you're

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Speaker 2: going to plan something. Oh my gosh, that takes so

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Speaker 2: much pressure. All these I plan something that's supposed to

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Speaker 2: be for myself, but it was really about my family

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Speaker 2: and my kids and all the amazing Instagram photos I

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Speaker 2: would take of the food, even though I was like, uh,

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Speaker 2: hate breakfast. Do you hate breakfast? Do you like breakfast?

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Speaker 1: I like breakfast. I'm a breakfast person.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't like brunch.

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like it takes up too much of

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Speaker 1: the day. But I like eating breakfast at breakfast.

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Speaker 2: Guy, I do love a good seafood tower at a

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Speaker 2: brunch place. I'm not gonna lie. And I appreciate a buffet,

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Speaker 2: but I mean, I'm more like I would like every year,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I have to live up to expectations.

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Speaker 2: We have reservations at the four Seasons, and it's like

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Speaker 2: But I love a good buffet. But I'm more like,

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Speaker 2: if I had my drothers, I'd be like I'd be

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Speaker 2: at a hometown buffet. I'd be oh sizzler, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: remembers soup plantation. They had the best I'm all about

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Speaker 2: a salad bar. Okay, I'm getting distracted. I guess I'm

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Speaker 2: was like, I know what you want to do. Let

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Speaker 2: me just take care of this. So I slept in,

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Speaker 2: don't need from Oh my god, all the products look

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Speaker 2: so good. But then I abandon the cart. I get

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Speaker 2: the fixed, and then I don't have to get the debt.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I woke up late, and all the kids

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Speaker 2: They're not early risers as they're getting older, that's nice.

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Speaker 2: So we slept in and then I was like, okay, still,

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Speaker 2: So I, you know, didn't have the cute outfit. I

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, wait, let me realign that

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Speaker 2: in my brain, I have jeans. That's what I want

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Speaker 2: to be in my crop top. You know me. I

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Speaker 2: love a good crop top nowadays. Just full circle. So

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Speaker 2: we went the five kids to night and they took

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Speaker 2: me to dim Sum, which I'm a huge fan of

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Speaker 2: dim Sum, and they come out with the carts, which

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Speaker 2: you know, they have the carts and you get to

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Speaker 2: shoose and they're all shareables. I love sharing is caring

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Speaker 2: and it was really great and we had a great

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Speaker 2: time and we had tea and all of that, and

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Speaker 2: I had some Soaki and I was a happy, happy,

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Speaker 2: happy mama. And guess what we played on the way

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Speaker 2: my playlist for iHeart. So I got this opportunity to

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Speaker 2: do a playlist for Mother's Day. And this is funny

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Speaker 2: because my iHeart family doesn't know this. But I am

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Speaker 2: beyond not a music person. Like it's almost comical. I

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Speaker 2: was the girl and now I'm gonna date myself and

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Speaker 2: make myself look old. I am old. I'm not old.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting better agent like a fine wine, powering up

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Speaker 2: level fifty one now. But in you know, high school,

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Speaker 2: everyone would have their I just blanked on the word

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Speaker 2: what's the word CEB? Nope, that wasn't even CDs back then.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys am embarrassed. Someone cracked me.

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Speaker 1: I know, so music I'm getting before your time, that's

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Speaker 1: almost before my time.

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Speaker 2: It was a cassette tape. You guys, you didn't put

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And a cassette player.

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Speaker 2: In the car. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I was the girl that Like when I got

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Speaker 2: The first song I ever heard on the radio, which

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Speaker 2: was still one oh two point seven, was video Killed

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Speaker 2: the Radio Star. And I listened to that as my

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Speaker 2: That's only when my parents went to school on like

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Speaker 2: open house night. But I went in our family station wagon,

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Speaker 2: you know, way back when, where you could like sit

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Speaker 2: was like, ah, I like music. I love this song,

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Speaker 2: interest in music and was super psyched. But I would

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Speaker 2: have cassette tapes and people would be making your mixtapes

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Speaker 2: for like teen Beat magazine and Tiger Beat and teen

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Speaker 2: and all that, and they'd be like, what's your favorite music?

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Speaker 3: Then you could like write it in on paper, and

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Speaker 3: then they put that in the magazine, so it was

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Speaker 2: Like it would be like Tory Spelling, Donna nine on

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Speaker 2: You know, all that music was just not my thing. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: I did love a good soundtrack though. I had like

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Speaker 2: a whole other story. And I used to love him.

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Speaker 2: And there was this movie with Jodie Foster and William

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Speaker 2: I had like League of their Own soundtrack and all

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Speaker 2: these things that my friends would like, bust my balls

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Speaker 2: that is so lame, and rap was like super in

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Speaker 2: run DMC. I'm totally into this. Oh bec boys cool, cool, cool,

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Speaker 2: which I appreciate now, but at the time we'd be

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Speaker 2: like blasting in my car and I'd be like, I

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Speaker 2: that story, like I don't know music, I don't have

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Speaker 2: because guess what, I had an opinion. Lorraine backed me

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Speaker 2: up here. I was asked to do seventy five songs

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Speaker 3: True, It's a lot.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my gosh, do I admit

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Speaker 2: I have to ask people now when I do Instagram,

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Speaker 2: you do the reels and the reels I just age

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Speaker 2: myself again. We do reels because old people put the

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Speaker 2: like Ruthian, you probably say the Instagram correct now?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Is it because I preface that with the old No damn.

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Speaker 1: I don't say the Instagram saying the Instagram but not no.

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Speaker 3: Jen used to say that okay, far wrong friend, Okay.

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Speaker 2: On reels, I would still be calling people and be like,

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Speaker 2: what's the current song I should put on? What's this?

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I went back. I went to do my

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Speaker 2: playlist and I did a real deep dive and I

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Speaker 2: There's some songs in there that people have played for

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Speaker 2: me that I actually really responded to that I did

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Speaker 2: get from them, and it was only because I liked it.

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Speaker 2: But I went back and I did a deep dive

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Speaker 2: and I'm telling you, I'm good at this. Like I

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Speaker 2: can't believe my whole life. I was like, I don't

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Speaker 2: know music. I'm not a mute musick person. I am

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Speaker 2: a music person. I'm that girl that's seeings so loud

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Speaker 3: I'm so anxious about this. I told her I took

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's not what you took a Xamax but cool

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Speaker 2: I know. That's why I was like, you guys, she's

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Speaker 3: Yeah there, I mean there's stuff that I'm like, there's

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Speaker 3: Like you share everything, but some of these things like

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Speaker 1: This is new yess just definitely.

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Speaker 2: I'm fifty one.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's like you calling me Tori. I'd be like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Sarrogate shut up, you did. It's a trade out because

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Speaker 2: I'm having a baby.

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Speaker 2: Stop Okay, you're lying.

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Speaker 3: I know you. There is not a chance in hell

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Speaker 2: I love to rile her up, so I like, is

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Speaker 3: But no, not a chance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fine, Like it's so funny because Jess, like I'm

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's ish ish.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, pretty both, Yeah we are. We're pretty dead

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Speaker 3: In some ways okay, other ways were the exact opposite.

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Speaker 2: But now and it works. Okay. Do you remember a

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Speaker 2: Do you remember what that was about?

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Speaker 3: Because I still think maybe you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So what happened when you said I had a

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: but it was like, you know, I have a memory

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, no, you got your clip piers like

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Speaker 2: It was not the clip.

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Speaker 2: I understand. But belly buttons they go like above. It's

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00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 2: not like they go into the belly button.

431
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't get a clip pearis Okay, fine, I

432
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 3: got the little right above meaty part right above.

433
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 2: Okay, Ruthan, I call Ruthan a prude.

434
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: Can't see me. I'm shaking my head and crinkling my nose.

435
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 3: Oh I see you.

436
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 2: She'd be like, edit this, and I'll be like, no,

437
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 2: I love it now.

438
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: This is me.

439
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: It involved a type of piercing, but it's called something else.

440
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: I don't remember a dormal damn it here?

441
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 3: Oh yes, that's it. Yes, I remember. Okay, but that

442
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,199
Speaker 3: was I feel like that's better than your nipple for

443
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 3: being fifty I agree, right Like, I feel like that's

444
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 3: nothing that's like could be cute and chic.

445
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 4: So I'm okay with that.

446
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: So I decided that fifty one. And you know, I've

447
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: been wearing a lot of crop tops lately. I'm feeling

448
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: really good about my stomach. I've had five babies. I'm

449
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: really proud at my stomach. That's you know, it's gone

450
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 2: in and out five times and it's good, thank you,

451
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 2: and I feel like, you know, my thing back in

452
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 2: the day, like full Circle, was my belly. I always

453
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 2: showed off my belly because that was one of my

454
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 2: favorite parts of me. And now I do it again

455
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 2: and people are like, stop dressing like a teenager. Oh people, that.

456
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 3: Was you and no, no, no, go ahead.

457
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 2: Would you say the other day?

458
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it wasn't like a teenager.

459
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 3: Oh it kind of. I said, you look like you're

460
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 3: trying to be in high school, but not a cute way.

461
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 3: So and then she's and then.

462
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 2: She told me, oh, lose the skater girl look.

463
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 4: Not even like the skater girl.

464
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 3: Look. That could be really cute, but I'm trying to be.

465
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 2: Nice, don't be Why do you start now? As I

466
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 2: took that to heart, I looked back over the years

467
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 2: I always had that and dressed that way.

468
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 4: No, no, no, you recently you've taken it to like a

469
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 4: whole different level.

470
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 3: The crap tops like. It wasn't even about that. It

471
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 3: was like some of the like choices very recently, especially.

472
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 2: The dolls kills stuff. That's my favorite. No, that's I mean,

473
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: you and I both love that.

474
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: But some of that's fine, but like it's a little

475
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 3: like there's a way I feel like you could make

476
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 3: it look chic, or there's a way where you overdo

477
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 3: it and it's like you look like a high school kid.

478
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 3: I hear you. Not a great way.

479
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 2: But here's my thing. And I have a big problem

480
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 2: with this, probably because I'm doing it and living in

481
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: so I have a problem with it. I don't get

482
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: why people you know what that reminds me of the

483
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 2: statement like, oh, once you're past a certain age, you

484
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 2: have to have short hair, you can have long hair,

485
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: you can't wear red lips anymore. I disagree with that.

486
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: Like I don't disagree.

487
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 4: I disagree too.

488
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 2: Look at Helen Mirren. No, I mean she has short hair,

489
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: but she like looks hot. She flaunts it like she

490
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 2: she's got it going on. She's sexy. But like, it

491
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what other people think. What if it makes

492
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 2: me happy, if I like the clothing, what does it

493
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: matter because you feel like people talk bad about me?

494
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 4: No, No, I one hundred percent agree with you.

495
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 2: Because your Xamax doesn't work at night and you're scrolling

496
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 2: through my Instagram looking at comments and getting all fired up.

497
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 4: No, I see pictures you send me.

498
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 3: It's not even about your Instagram.

499
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's great.

500
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, should I wear this?

501
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 4: No, Like last weeks and Stella was saying the same thing.

502
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 2: Fine, fine, like that agree anyway, I agree.

503
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 3: You so great wear it. But but you even admitted

504
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 3: there was a reason you were wearing it, And I

505
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: think there's a way to do it where you look great.

506
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 3: But some of the it's not even everything by any means,

507
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 3: it's just a few choice pieces. I was like, what

508
00:28:54,000 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 3: the fuck is she thinking? I send me those pictures? Absolutely? Yeah, No.

509
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: Woman who wears like a rock tea, a black rock

510
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: and roll tea and black biker shorts or leggings, that's everything.

511
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: I literally yeah, And that's it. Anything that's like easy

512
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 3: and comfortable, that's all I were. I'll go shopping and

513
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 3: then I'll buy like five new black shirts.

514
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: We'll be texting, like because when we go out we

515
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: like to like be cohesive, right as best friends do.

516
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: And we'll be like, what are you wearing? What are

517
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 2: you wearing?

518
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, are you wearing your uniform? And she's like, duh,

519
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 3: are you wearing yours? I'm like, and she means a

520
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 3: crop top and jeans. I'm like, duh, yeah, and that's

521
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 3: not it. The crop top and jeans is totally fine.

522
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 3: Like that's like your look now, that's like what you're

523
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: super into, right, and you'll caught.

524
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 4: It's the like sometimes you take it over the edge

525
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 4: with like.

526
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 3: The really crazy skater, but like not even skaters, like

527
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: the wrong word.

528
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 4: I don't even have a word for it.

529
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 3: I wish I did. It's just you. I mean maybe

530
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 3: it is. Maybe it's a New York and if it is,

531
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 3: then I'll love it.

532
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 2: No, always tell me what do you mean? You need

533
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 2: that person in your life that's like you look like shit,

534
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 2: like that doesn't work and like you yeah, always like

535
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: thank god. Being in the business I'm in, sometimes you

536
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 2: have people that come in and out of your lives

537
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: that are yes people. It just happens. Both Ruth Anne

538
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 2: and Jess are both the two friends that'll be like nope, nope,

539
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 2: and I need that. Okay, So I'm I'm skirting around

540
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: the issue. Okay, So I got dermals Okay more more,

541
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 2: remember the bumble Bee pushed itself out after six months?

542
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 3: You got them on Sunday. You got them Sunday or Monday.

543
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 2: I got them Sunday on Mother's Day. Oh so my

544
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: kids know me so well. Stella surprise me. She took

545
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: me to dim Sum and a piercing place which did dermals,

546
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 2: because not all piercing places do dermals.

547
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 4: I think dermals are like the one.

548
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 3: I love piercings, you know that, and I like dermals.

549
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: We do love piercings. What do we do every year

550
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 2: on Mother's Day? Typically we get Yeah.

551
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: We get an extra piercing.

552
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: Somewhere, we get matching piercing somewhere, and yeah, we still

553
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: have to get ours this year. Yeah, haven't done it yet. Okay,

554
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: so I'm going to reveal it ready.

555
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 3: Yeah wait should I guess? Oh yeah, your foot?

556
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: Oh no, but add that to my list. Then where

557
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 2: my point is full circle. I was always proud of

558
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 2: my stomach. When I was young, I warlow crop tops.

559
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 2: I'm fifty one, I wear crop tops. Now I'm super

560
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 2: proud of it. The reality is I'm not going to

561
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 2: be able to show my stomach off forever. That's just

562
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: that's a fact. You'll have to stop me. When I'm seventy,

563
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to do it and you'll be like Nope,

564
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: you will.

565
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 4: If you look good, then do it.

566
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: It did bruise around because it was a major thing,

567
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: so there might be there's some bruising, so no one

568
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 2: look at that. But I just got it a few

569
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: days ago, obviously.

570
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me see it's bruised owl.

571
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: I mean, oh my god, I'm scared of her reaction.

572
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I like Jessica, if it was like one,

573
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: it's kind.

574
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 2: Of well like if you don't numbers, you know, like

575
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 2: everything in pairs.

576
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 3: Always say this. I'm like, if you love it, then

577
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 3: then great. And I'm I thought it was going to

578
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 3: be just like one, or like even like two next

579
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 3: to each other like a cluster or like.

580
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: No, take the bruising out. It's a bigger one and

581
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 2: then it goes up to a smaller one.

582
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 4: Can't believe you waited to tell me this.

583
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 3: I've kind of shocked you because while you were there,

584
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 3: I'm a producer in my head and a broadcaster, and

585
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm going to reveal this to

586
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 3: my best friend on the podcast.

587
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: Yes, she's expecting you to get matching ones.

588
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And you can't see past the brothing. No, no,

589
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: I can't see the bruising on camera. I'm just trying

590
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 3: to decide if I like it or not. I feel

591
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 3: like I love you. Okay, did Hattie and Stella get

592
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: them or Hattie won't get a piercing? Or did she

593
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 3: do it?

594
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 2: Had he got her earsppearance? She did it? She finally okay,

595
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: good and they look so good and oh it was

596
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 2: a great moment and she was so happy and she

597
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 2: was terrified and then she was like, but I'm ready. Yeah,

598
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: and she did it and they look great, and I

599
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: was like, welcome to the club. Because so the shocking one.

600
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 2: The shocking one is Bo got his ear pierced.

601
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 3: Did he?

602
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 2: Oh?

603
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 4: Wait, he should have done it with Sophia. Sophia's been

604
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 4: begging me. She would have love to.

605
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted Sophie and Hattie to do it together.

606
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 2: But then it and this was spontaneous Stella and I

607
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 2: was I was saying, before this, it's you know, Nathan's

608
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 2: in the Valley, which is uber famous. Nathan himself came

609
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: in to do this for us for Mother's say, as

610
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,720
Speaker 2: a gift to me, and it was very very kind

611
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: and he's like old like it's old school, and he's

612
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 2: like one of the best. So I was like, okay,

613
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: and not everyone does dermals now, yeah, so and he

614
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: does them amazing. He did Hattie's ears anyway. Bo, it

615
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: was a spontaneous thing. He's like, I want my ear

616
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 2: peerist and if you remember, this felt very similar to

617
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: when Stella and I went to get our ears Puris

618
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: when she was six and she was ready. Liam was

619
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: there and he was seven, and he said, can I

620
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 2: get one of your peers? And I wanted to be like, no, no,

621
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 2: my god, you can't do that yet when you get older.

622
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: And then in my head I'm like, wait, wait, wait,

623
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 2: I'm having that reaction because it's a boy with a girl,

624
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 2: like we don't even think, like they pierced baby's ears,

625
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: you know girls when they're born, like you know that happens.

626
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: So I had to like bite my tongue, which is

627
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: hard for me because I say everything. And I was like,

628
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. I was like, how can I say no?

629
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 2: He's seven, like his six year old sister is getting

630
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 2: her ears piers And I'm gonna say no, you can't

631
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: because you're a boy, right, And so he did. And

632
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 2: Bo doesn't even know any of this, and Finn, you know,

633
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: he doesn't want anything to do with any piercings any

634
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: you know, we got the permanent jewelry this weekend where

635
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,760
Speaker 2: they put on and he I was like, hey, Finn,

636
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: do you want to get a permanent bracelet or not?

637
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: Like Nope, nope, nope, nothing nothing to do with piracings.

638
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 2: Not his jam cool fine, but Bo said, mom can I?

639
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: And I looked at him and I was like, oh,

640
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 2: he's such a baby, and oh my gosh, he was

641
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 2: the exact same age when Leam asked to get his

642
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: ear purist.

643
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 3: That's funny.

644
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that.

645
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, which Bo seems so much younger to me, but

646
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 2: I think it's because he's my baby and my last one,

647
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 2: so I'm like holding onto the little baby. Anyway. He

648
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 2: also said well can I pick it out? And he's

649
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 2: gotten very rock and roll as you know. You know,

650
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 2: he has long hair, and he used to you know,

651
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 2: paint his nails like green and blue because he was

652
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 2: like superhero colors. And now he's like, oh, he wants

653
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 2: them black and he wants skulls on them and rock

654
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 2: and roll cool. What you know. I'm I'm very into

655
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 2: everything in moderation, letting my kids experiment with stuff with

656
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 2: me because it'll you know, save things for later. Like

657
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 2: you know, you weren't allowed to do stuff and then

658
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 2: you hadn't got your tongue piers.

659
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 3: So yep, fact that's true.

660
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 2: Fact. Yeah, I mean she doesn't have it anymore. But

661
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 2: when you're repressed from doing something or like you can't

662
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: do something, sometimes that makes you want to do it

663
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 2: when you get out there and can. So I said, sure,

664
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: what do you want, buddy, And he went to the

665
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 2: case and he goes, I want that black cross I like,

666
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: and it was you know, it's it's titanium, so it's

667
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: super safe and a little tiny black cross. Now I'm

668
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: a Jewish girl, and I was like, I don't wear crosses.

669
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: I've never worn crosses, but I'm not, you know, pulling

670
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 2: religion into this, right and then right, So you know,

671
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: nowadays it's cool. You know, the kids kind of mixed

672
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: stuff back and forth and it's like a nice thing.

673
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: And also I would I couldn't say no because I

674
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, it reminded me of Donna Martin.

675
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: Like Donna Martin always wore crosses and stuff, and that

676
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 2: was like my jam on nine oh two, whent no anyway,

677
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: he took it like a champ. He did one ear.

678
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: Which side he did the left side?

679
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 3: Okay, cute, which there used.

680
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 2: To be a controversy of like you know, if you're

681
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: a straight male, you do the left, if you're a

682
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: gay male you do the right yep. And then then guys,

683
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 2: because I remember like Brian Austin Green had his ears

684
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 2: peeris he did both and it was just like, you know,

685
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: it was in so I was trying to be like,

686
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 2: I don't want to guide him. And there's occasions when

687
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: people will say at school like to bo oh, you

688
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: have long hair, you're a girl, or will be out

689
00:38:55,080 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 2: and people think it's a girl. It the child I

690
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 2: carried for nine months.

691
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 3: You're a little baby, my baby.

692
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: It anyway, and he's used to it. And Finn had

693
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 2: the same thing when he was younger. And by the way,

694
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 2: people were like, cut your kid's hair. They've done this

695
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: with all three of my boys. Yeah, And I was

696
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: like yeah, And I was like it was always a

697
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: thing with me because I was like, you know what,

698
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: when they're ready to cut their hair, they'll cut their hair.

699
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 2: I'm not making that decision. And I only do that

700
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 2: because when I was young. You know, I went to

701
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 2: like the fanciest like place in Beverly Hills, jose Ebert,

702
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 2: who sadly has passed. But he was like the it

703
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 2: guy back in the day because I'm old and my

704
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 2: mom would have him cut my hair and she was

705
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: always like, oh, I think it looks good here. And

706
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 2: so I was young and back then, you know, parents dictated,

707
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: and I was always like, oh, I wanted to grow

708
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: it out. So that was always in the back of

709
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: my mind. So I said, you know, my kids, when

710
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 2: they want to do something in their hair, I'll let

711
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 2: them do it. And always Liam went through a stage.

712
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 2: He has long hair now, but he had long hair

713
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 2: and then one day he was like, I want to

714
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 2: like cut it all off, and he did and Finn

715
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: Finn had gorgeous long curls, and then one day he

716
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: said he wanted a faux hawk. He called it because

717
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 2: he had seen some rocker habit. I was like, cool,

718
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 2: let's do it. And now it's back to being long

719
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: and bo I've always said like, you know, dude, what

720
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: do you want to do with your hair? And he's like,

721
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: I love my lung. He's super proud of his hair. Anyway,

722
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: it's his decision, and I'm happy for that. But anyway,

723
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 2: we were deciding left or right, and I was like,

724
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to make that judgment, so you know again,

725
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 2: and then he organically picked his left. And that's not

726
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 2: a thing anymore that you know. Men can pierce either

727
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 2: side they want. Women can pierce whatever they want, you know,

728
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 2: especially in all it's like who cares? You do what

729
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 2: you want exactly. So he got it, and I was

730
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,439
Speaker 2: like waiting, like, oh, is he gonna cry? You're gonna

731
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: cry totally. My son high pain tolerance, like no emotion.

732
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 2: He was like yep. I was like, wow, rockstar, it

733
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 2: looks so good. Immediately afterwards, he's like, I want them

734
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,399
Speaker 2: both pierced. I was like, dude, let's wait and see

735
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: how it heals, and then we can always like you know,

736
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 2: little by little starts slow.

737
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 3: Oh, I can't see it.

738
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 2: It's adorable. Sure enough, he went to school and I

739
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: was happy. Only one person said you have an earring.

740
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: One kid goes, you have an earring. That's for girls,

741
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 2: and he was like, I'm so proud of him. He goes,

742
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm a boy and I can do whatever I want.

743
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 2: Oh good. I was like that's so cool because we

744
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: have always been like, I'm a girl and I can

745
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: do whatever I want, So it's cool that boys can

746
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: be like Yeah, but that night he did come home

747
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 2: and say, Mom, I want a haircut, and I got okay,

748
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 2: that's cool, and so I cut his hair. You did, Yeah,

749
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 2: I always cut their hair, but like short, his hair

750
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: is like below your shoulders, and yeah, he wanted it.

751
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 2: It's like above his shoulders now and he looks great.

752
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 2: And I gotta tell you that, you know me pain

753
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: like piercings. I have to get my blood drawn like nothing,

754
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,240
Speaker 2: nothing hurts me, like I'm I'm a tough mother. Yeah

755
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 2: uh yeah, this one not for the week if you Yeah,

756
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: I forgot of course, or self sabotage that in the

757
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 2: process of moving, you know, it's like end of the year,

758
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: doing all the school projects with the kids, like doing stuff.

759
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:56,919
Speaker 2: I'm bending over so much, so much. Oh oh yeah, baby.

760
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 3: Like bump it.

761
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah a little bit. That has to hurt, Yeah, a

762
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 2: little bit.

763
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 4: So they probably aren't gonna last long.

764
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: If they're pooled on a lot, you'd be happy with that. No, no, no, I'm.

765
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 3: Trying to be nice. But whatever, I mean, you look good.

766
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 3: You do what you want. It doesn't matter what I think,

767
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 3: like it truly does not matter.

768
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 2: Well, it matters what you think, and then I do

769
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 2: it anyway. So but anyway, yeah, and I want to

770
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 2: get more? Is that there? You over the edge?

771
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 3: It depends where you don't do like your face.

772
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 2: Like my face is already. You think I'm gonna.

773
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: Matter, it'll send me over the edge?

774
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 2: Nope? Okay. On that note, do you want your tongue

775
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 2: piercing back? Why don't we do that together?

776
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 4: As long as it's not like hanging out of my mouth.

777
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 2: That's what makes us best friends. It makes me TMT

778
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 2: too much, toy. Okay. On that note, you heard it here.

779
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: My best friend and I are going to get our

780
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 2: tongue pierced next, so stay tuned.

781
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 3: By bye bye