1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: The Sunday Hang is brought to you by Chalk Natural Supplements. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 2: For guys, gals, and nothing in between. Fuel your day 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 2: at Chalk dot com, Bold reverence and occasionally random. 4 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 3: The Sunday Hang with Playin' Buck podcast and it starts now. 5 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 1: I also want to remind you that with the iHeart 6 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: app you can do a push to talk. There's a 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: little microphone. When you have the iHeart app in your hand, 8 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: you press push to talk and you can send us 9 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: here at the show. You go to the Clay and 10 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: Buck page on the iHeart app a little microphone you 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: press it you can record a message for us. So 12 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: if you want to call in and just be like Buck, 13 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: you are so brilliant and wonderful, or Clay, is it 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: true that you really got h par on the golf 15 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: course today or whatever it is, you can call in 16 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: leave us. That message is really convenient, really easy. 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So 22 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: I highly highly recommend. 23 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: That Sunday hang with playing Buck. 24 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: My take on leaf blowers, as I put it on 25 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 2: social media after I set it on the show, it 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: has provoked a firestorm in the In the mentions, people 27 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: are just metaphorically pulling out their axes and taking chops 28 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: at each other. Let me just be clear, if you 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 2: disagree with me on this issue, you are flat out wrong. 30 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 2: There should be no leaf blowing before nine am, definitely 31 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: before nine am on the weekends. And people out there 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 2: are like, I wake up earlier. I got up at 33 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: four twenty in the morning for six years. All right, 34 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: I understand some of you get up early in the morning. 35 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: That doesn't mean the first thing you need to do 36 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 2: is go get your flipping the leaf blower and start 37 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 2: running it all over the place and waking up the 38 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: whole neighborhood. Nine am is a civilized hour nationwide. I 39 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: think that if you want to go blow your leaves 40 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: after nine am and somebody's upset, that's on them. Pre 41 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: nine am, you were not the good guy here. You 42 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: are the evil leaf blowing monster of your neighborhood. 43 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: I like when I can, in good conscience stand to 44 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: thwart Clay's pronouncements and try to push back on a 45 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: clay ism. I cannot do that here. I totally agree 46 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,239 Speaker 1: with him. So if some of you want to take 47 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: up the side of Big leaf Blower, if you want 48 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: to be on team Big leaf Blower, you can do 49 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: that right into us Clayanbuck dot com if you're VIP. Also, 50 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: if you want to send us and you know this 51 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: is easier for you for a lot of folks. If 52 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: you're on the iHeart app, you can press go to 53 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:31,839 Speaker 1: Clay and Buck. On the iHeart app, there's a little 54 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: microphone like what is that. You can press it and 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,119 Speaker 1: record a message to us, and it will go to us, 56 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: and the team will play it for us, and we 57 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: can even play it on the air. But Clay, I 58 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: cannot disagree with you on this one. I was hoping 59 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: that there was a little daylight here to just give 60 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: you a hard time, but Leafblowers got the terror of you. 61 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: Leaf Blowers pre nine am needs to stop. 62 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 3: I can't look there. 63 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: I'm big on this, and I understand some of you 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 2: live in Florida places like that. 65 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 3: When I'm at my Florida place. 66 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna sound like the biggest deva on the planet. 67 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 2: They start with the leaf blowing there even in first 68 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: of all, it can't be that effective. All right, let's 69 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 2: start with can we bring back the rake? I would 70 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 2: submit to you that the rake has been unfairly maligned 71 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: and was actually effective in a huge way for a 72 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: very long time. A lot of what you guys do 73 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 2: is just blow leaves back and forth at each other's yard, 74 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: so you don't actually clean anything up. You just push 75 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: them into your neighbor's yard, and then he gets up 76 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 2: and then he pushes them. 77 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: Back into your yard. 78 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: And it's like the Magno lines constantly getting redefined. Here 79 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: you're not actually producing anything of value. We got leaf 80 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: trench warfare. Back in the day, you had the rake, 81 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 2: and you'd have a big pile of leaves which the 82 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: kids could all run and jump in, and everybody enjoyed it. 83 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: And maybe you burned it, maybe you bagged it up, 84 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: whatever you did. 85 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 86 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: Is it like anti climate change now to burn leaves. 87 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: I don't even know what the latest is on that 88 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: the leaf blower is not making the world a better place. 89 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: And if you're up early in the morning with the 90 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 2: leaf blower, you are a bad person. You are destroying 91 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: the sleep patterns of Americans everywhere. 92 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: I cannot disagree with you here. I will tell you. 93 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: I also had someone sitting next to me on the 94 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: plane last night who had a child of maybe four 95 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: or five years old, and the this is you're wrong 96 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: on that. You are a chad no no headphones, no headphones. 97 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: So I'm sitting here, I'm trying to prepare for the 98 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: radio show. I've got my noise canceling headphones in not 99 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: good enough. I've got to hear like Paw Patrol on 100 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: volume eleven for two hours of the flight yesterday. Clay, really, 101 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: you really think that the no headphones for the kids 102 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: is an acceptable state of affairs. I just want to 103 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: fight with them. 104 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: I'm just telling you, when you have kids, all your 105 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 2: kid takes are gonna flip. 106 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 4: Clay and Buck, your argument against leaf blowing before nine 107 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 4: am is fundament flawed. If you've ever had a neighbor 108 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 4: that plays basketball till midnight or beyond, there needs to 109 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 4: be justice. I urge you to reconsider your argument. 110 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 3: Sundays with Clay and Buck. 111 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: The leaf blowing community both thro and con absolute uproar. 112 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: You thought abortion religion third rails that you could not 113 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 2: touch the leaf blowing. Opinions are rampant. It's like buck 114 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: and I'm very strong, a very strong opinion on this too. 115 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 2: What you should do about reclining seats on airplanes, I 116 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: would ban them. I think that all of you who 117 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: recline your seats are evil. I think partly this has 118 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: to do with what size you are of a human. 119 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 2: If you are anywhere near six feet and you are 120 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: find flying coach on an airplane, if someone reclines their 121 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: seat in any way, it's like they're basically sitting in 122 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: your lap. 123 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 3: Other people of you. My wife's five two. 124 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: I look over sometimes on airplane flights and it's like 125 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 2: she's got a huge luxury seat to be hanging out in. 126 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: If you are a decent sized man in an airplane 127 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 2: and someone reclines in your vicinity, I understand why you 128 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: are filled with rage. Strong opinion there. I don't think 129 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,799 Speaker 2: that should be allowed either. I'm looking out for everyone, 130 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: trying to bring common courtesy the world and bring everyone together. 131 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 2: We will take some of your responses there. 132 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: Early morning, leaf flowers and flute players coming for Clay. 133 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: Once again he has he has kicked over the leaf pile. 134 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: He is getting a lot of heat. And here we 135 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: have a leaflow This is from our talkback San Antonio listener. 136 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: Ben owns a landscape company. Let's play this one. 137 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 5: I use leaf flowers whenever I have to. I own 138 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 5: a landscape company and I do lawn maintenance. I have 139 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 5: ten to fifteen lons per day on Thursdays and Fridays. 140 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 5: And if I don't get started at seven, then I'm 141 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 5: going to have an issue finishing before it gets dark 142 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 5: out now, but even before I'll be up until I'll 143 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 5: be working until eight thirty in the summer. And if 144 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 5: I don't get started early, so that's my issue. 145 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: What say you, Clay, Should he get night vision goggles? 146 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 147 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want him out after dark. I appreciate the 148 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 2: fact that he works hard. Man, sleep in a little 149 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 2: bit in the morning and come out a little bit later. 150 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 2: And look in particular all of you non professional leaf blowers, 151 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: because his full time job is that right, A lot 152 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: of you with your own leaf blowers are running around 153 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: on the weekend at seven am, destroying the sleep habits 154 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: of Americans everywhere. And you know who agrees with me, 155 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: Buck Sexton's fabulous mother. She has great taste in the 156 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 2: leaf blowing issue as well. 157 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 6: I agree. I'll stand with my lawnmower eight fifty five 158 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 6: on a Saturday morning, and what's what's the clock go 159 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 6: down to or up to nine o'clock nine am, and 160 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 6: then I'll pull the cord. Same thing with me. 161 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: Flowers Sunday drop with Clay and Buck. 162 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: We've also got a listener talk back clip here and 163 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: this is I, guys, I'm not sure this is Phoenix 164 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: listener Paul. So can we hear from Phoenix listener Paul? 165 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what the number is on this one. 166 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 7: Clay Buck love your show. There is one exception to 167 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 7: the leaf lower thing here in Arizona. In Phoenix at 168 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 7: seven o'clock in the morning, people started early with their 169 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 7: yardwork in the summertime because it's already one hundred degrees 170 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 7: by nine o'clock, it's one hundred and five hundred and 171 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 7: eight by noon it's one hundred and fifteen. So Arizona, 172 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 7: especially the Phoenix metro area, you know, that is the 173 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 7: one exception to the rule. But outside of that, I'm 174 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 7: in full agreement with. 175 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: You, Clay, you leaf blower tyrant, do you make this 176 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: exception for extreme heat in the early morning leaf blowing community. 177 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 7: I do not. 178 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: I think you should put on like a liquid filled suit, 179 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: air condition yourself and let people sleep. Let me just 180 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 2: say this, you leaf blowers have come at me. You're 181 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: all wrong. I will stick to this the same way 182 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 2: I stick to it. We have a basketball court in 183 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: my backyard. I tell my boys, you cannot play basketball 184 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 2: before nine am, and you can't play after nine am, 185 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: because I am a civilized person concerned about everyone who 186 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 2: lives around PM nine pm. Yes, they have twelve hour 187 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: window when normal people are awake. That is the hour 188 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: in which we can play basketball or leaf blow. 189 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 8: You guys are some of the biggest babies. Sometimes the 190 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 8: reason people get out early to do leaves is because 191 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 8: as the sun gets going and by noontime, it's usually 192 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 8: very wind and that's a pain in the butt, especially 193 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 8: in the northeast where the leaves are. I don't even 194 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 8: know why there's leaf blowing being done in South Florida 195 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 8: except for grass blowing. Anyways, stumpying babies. 196 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,959 Speaker 9: I hate to tell you that you're wrong play. I'm 197 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 9: a mother of four, and I pride myself on teaching 198 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 9: them good manners. That child definitely should have had headphones on. 199 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 9: You're right, Buck, teach your kids how to have good manners. 200 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 5: You can't go wrong. 201 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 3: On Sunday Sizzle with Clay and Buck. 202 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 2: Happy eightieth birthday to my dad norm Travis, turning eighty 203 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: years old today. We have got dinner. He broke his 204 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,839 Speaker 2: hip recently, he is recovering. He listens to the show 205 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: every single day. Fabulous Dad. I'm a lucky kid who 206 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: have been raised by him as good of a dad 207 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 2: as there could be anywhere on the planet. And all 208 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: six of his grandkids are going to be a dinner 209 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 2: tonight along with my sister and me, so he will 210 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 2: have a fun dinner tonight. But happy eightieth birthday to him. 211 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 2: We got a couple of different reactions that are funny. 212 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: Let's start with Judy, who wanted to fire away at me. 213 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 2: Here's what Judy had to. 214 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 10: Say, Clay, this is a response to your airline reclining 215 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 10: seat issue. I hope someday that I am able to 216 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 10: sit in front of you on a long cross country 217 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 10: flight and I will recline my seat the whole way 218 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 10: because that's what I do. I like to recline. Sorry 219 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 10: that you don't like it, but anyway, you guys are great. 220 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: What about Judy Buck just teeing off on me. She 221 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: wants to fly cross country and just put her seat 222 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 2: right in my lap? 223 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: Well you got that. And then also from our VIP's Clay, 224 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: Wayne writes the pronunciation police pulling Clay over writing him 225 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: a ticket. They're failing, or rather they are citing him 226 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: for failure to do a number of things. Here, Clay, 227 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: it is not Ethel. It is Ethel. My ears hurt 228 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: hearing you mispronounce it. Go Trump, Wayne does not want 229 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: When did you even say this? 230 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: I think I might have said ethel. That's an old 231 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 2: no offense to the Ethel or Ethel's or whatever. 232 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: You are a lot of ethyls. Listen, you better mind 233 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: your p's and q's, Sir. 234 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: I don't know that I've ever met anybody named Ethel. 235 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I think you had to be born in 236 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: like eighteen eighty four to be named Ethel. By the way, 237 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 2: Brian says, here's the complication to what Clay was asserting. 238 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: He's right, meaning guys are lying and voting for Trump. 239 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 2: What do the guys do to fake disappointment when Trump wins? 240 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 3: Big trouble? 241 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: No, no, no, When Trump wins, you get to feel 242 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 2: great inside. But you take your wife or your girlfriend, 243 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 2: you say, honey, I'm so sorry about this. You give 244 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: him a hug and you try to make out with 245 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: them to make them feel better. 246 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 3: Double win for you. 247 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: Come on chess, not checkers. 248 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 3: Boys. 249 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: Sunday Hang is brought to you by Chalk Natural Supplements 250 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: for guys, gals, and nothing in between. Fuel your day 251 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: at Chalk dot Com. 252 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: Sunday Hang with Clay and Buck. 253 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 1: We're joined by Ali Beth Stuckey. Notebook Toxic Empathy. How 254 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: progressives exploit Christian compassion all grit to have you back 255 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: on the show. 256 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, thanks so much for having me. 257 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: I actually can ask you before we get into toxic empathy. 258 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw I was on Bill Maher. 259 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 1: We talked about toxic masculinity, which is also just known 260 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: to democrats as masculinity. Seems to me like hating men 261 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: might have electoral consequences. What do you think, Oh, you 262 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: know what? 263 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 12: I think the tide is turning on that book. I mean, 264 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 12: you saw that amazing ad where they had those six 265 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 12: or five really macho guys that were complete manly men, 266 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 12: totally organic support of Kamala Harris there. 267 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 11: I'm sure that probably even made you question. 268 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 12: Whether or not you were going to vote for Donald 269 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 12: Trump just based on their manly man at alone. 270 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 11: And so I don't know. 271 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 12: I think Democrats have basically nailed this whole masculinity thing 272 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 12: based on what I'm seeing from Kamala. 273 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, when they said that they had that one 274 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: guy who said I eat carburetors for breakfast, I was like, 275 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: no guy who has ever even opened the hood of 276 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: a car ever in his life says I eat carburetors 277 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: for breakfast. 278 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 11: Yeah, you know, I'm a woman. 279 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 12: I won't even pretend to know what that means. But 280 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 12: I don't think it's something you're supposed to digest. 281 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm pretty gather that that's pretty it's pretty fair toxic empathy. 282 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: Let's dive into this actually, because I think you see 283 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: this a lot with the way the Democrat campaign is 284 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: going right now. I mean, you talk about in the 285 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: book there's five primary lies, and you have them listened 286 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: as lies. Abortion is healthcare is one of the centerpieces 287 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: of Kamala's campaign, but also really at the Democrat Party overall, 288 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: there are some of us ally who worry that if 289 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: Kamala is able to squeak across the finish line. Is 290 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: it just because of this issue and its resonance? What 291 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: do you make of it? 292 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 10: Yeah? 293 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 12: You know, people say that this is such an unpopular 294 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 12: issue for Republicans, that being pro life is an unpopular position, 295 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 12: But it's really that the lies that are constructed by 296 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 12: the pro abortion side, the billion dollar lobby that they 297 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 12: have over there, those might be popular, but the truth 298 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 12: about what abortion is is not actually popular, which is 299 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 12: exactly why Kamala Harris's campaign and the Democrats actually rely 300 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 12: on euphemisms, They rely on deceit to push their point 301 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 12: across and to take this across the finish line. That's 302 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 12: why they're conflating miscarriages, which is a tragic incident that happens, 303 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 12: you know, not by the fault of anyone, an abortion, 304 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 12: which is the purposeful killing of a child. They're trying 305 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 12: to tell you that voting for Kamala is going to 306 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 12: protect miscarriage care. They're trying to say that this is 307 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 12: saving the lives of women by supporting Kamala Harris. They're 308 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 12: not actually saying, hey, abortion is great, here is how 309 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 12: it works. 310 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 11: This is what you should vote for. 311 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 12: Because they understand that the barberism that is abortion is 312 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 12: actually very unpopular, so they have to lie and use 313 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 12: this toxic empathy to manipulate people. 314 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: It also bothers me, Alex, because I think that there's 315 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: a general trend among Democrats and this is something that 316 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: I think that Trump right has recognized and effectively refuses 317 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: to play the game by these rules where they try 318 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: to use your decency, your sense of kindness, and your 319 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: sense of getting along with your fellow Americans as a 320 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: weapon against you. I know that's something you get into 321 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: in toxic empathy. 322 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, that's the perfect way to say it. 323 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 12: Because most of us, especially those of us who are Christians, 324 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 12: we have not only a natural but a spiritual inclination 325 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 12: and towards helping those who need help and lifting others up. 326 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 12: And we're naturally compassionate, especially women. We're natural nurtures. That 327 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 12: empathy muscle is really strong and that can be used 328 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 12: in a really good way. The problem is when it's 329 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 12: exploited for toxic or harmful means, and how toxic empathy 330 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 12: is employed. They take your natural compassion towards someone that 331 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 12: they hoist up as a victim. Say it's an illegal immigrant, 332 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 12: say it's a poor woman who is pregnant, and they 333 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 12: take you through this heartrending story and by they, I 334 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,479 Speaker 12: mean the left wing media, and they lead you to 335 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 12: the conclusion that the only righteous, compassionate, and moral position 336 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 12: to take is the progressive one. So if you really 337 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 12: love women, then you will support her choice to have 338 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 12: an abortion. If you really love the immigrant and the 339 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 12: sojourner and the foreigner, then you. 340 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 11: Will open up the border. 341 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 12: And it goes like that on every issue, whether it's 342 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 12: criminal justice or whether it's the transgender issue. 343 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 11: They pull at your heart strings and make you think 344 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 11: that the. 345 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 12: Only righteous position to take is theirs, and unfortunately that 346 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 12: dupes a lot of people. 347 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 1: Well, I think we've seen that progression ali, particularly on 348 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: the trans rights issue, which has moved very, you know, 349 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: very aggressively in recent years, including under the bidenministration. Right 350 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: Biden's supposed to be the old school blue dog Democrat or whatever. 351 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: Biden Whitehouse was putting out stuff about gender transition for 352 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: teenagers and how this is medical care and all this. 353 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: But if you go back and look at that progression, 354 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 1: it starts out with just what's the big deal, Just 355 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: use the preferred pronunce. Don't be a jerk, use the 356 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: preferred pronounce what's the big deal? Don't be a jerk. 357 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,199 Speaker 1: Let the guy who says he's a girl use the 358 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 1: locker room. What's it to you if somebody who's actually 359 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,239 Speaker 1: a guy, you know, competes on the girls sports team, right? 360 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: I mean, at every stage, it's you don't want to 361 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 1: make this person feel bad, you don't want to be unkind, 362 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 1: and then it turns into federal policy. 363 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 11: Exactly. 364 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 12: It always starts out with, well, how does this hurt you? 365 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 12: And I know this is controversial to say, even among 366 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 12: some conservative audiences, but it goes back further than the pronouns. 367 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 11: It goes back to a Bergefell. 368 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 12: It goes back to redefining marriage because love is love 369 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 12: is the same math as trans women are women. It's 370 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 12: the same kind of circular mantra that goes into the 371 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 12: idea that men and women are interchangeable, that there's nothing 372 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 12: special about male and female husband and wife, mom and dad. 373 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 12: These are just social constructs that we can exchange, interchange 374 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 12: as we see fit. And that's how we got this 375 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 12: idea that a man can become a woman and vice versa. 376 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 11: But You're absolutely right. 377 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 12: It capitalizes on our desire to not be seen as bad, 378 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 12: to not be seen as rude, to not be seen 379 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 12: as a Karen, to be tolerant, to be loving, And 380 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 12: then once they've gotten in with that kind of emotional manipulation, 381 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 12: they can go a little bit further, in a little 382 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 12: bit further until you're saying, well, the empathetic and loving 383 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 12: and righteous thing to do is to subsidize child sex changes. 384 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 12: And unfortunate, that's where we are. But hopefully we can 385 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 12: call our way back with some good old fashioned truth. 386 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I want to ask you. What is 387 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 1: the I know you're you're laying out and dissecting some 388 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: of the big lies that manipulate And I really feels 389 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: something demonic about manipulating people's goodness as a means of 390 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: getting bad things to happen, right, I mean that it 391 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 1: seems very I don't know, luciferian, But how do you 392 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 1: try to fortify people for the fight ahead on issues 393 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: like this and and how do you deal with that? 394 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 1: I'm a good person. I want to be a good person, 395 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean just going along with with whatever 396 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 1: moral blackmail the left is offering. 397 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 12: Yeah, so I wanted to make the argument not that hey, empathetic, 398 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 12: empathy might seem tempting, but don't be empathetic. And sure, 399 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 12: being progressive is compassionate, but don't be compassionate. 400 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 11: That's not the route that I take in the book. 401 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 12: I actually give a lot of credit to the heartstring 402 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 12: pulling strategy that the last very often employees to get 403 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 12: people to vote for them. But then I look at 404 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 12: the other side of the story. So I tell a 405 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 12: story from their perspective of an illegal alien who fled 406 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 12: here from Mexico with her children got deported. Obviously, the 407 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 12: Washington Post when they told that story they wanted us 408 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 12: to be against deportation. But then I tell an equally 409 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 12: heartrending story of Kate Steinley, who, of course was shot 410 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 12: in the back by an illegal alien in San Francisco 411 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 12: thirty two years old, died in her dad's arm, saying 412 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 12: help me, daddy. 413 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 11: That was a preventable murder. 414 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 12: She should be alive today, she should be a mother, married, thriving, 415 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 12: but she's not because of the intentional and deliberate open 416 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 12: border policies that we have. So there are people on 417 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 12: both sides of every issue that should get our empathy 418 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 12: and compassion. But then we have to ask ourselves what 419 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 12: is true and what is right, What is true and 420 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 12: right morally, what is true and right logically, scientifically, but 421 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,679 Speaker 12: also as a Christian, what is true and right biblically, 422 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 12: And that should be our guide in policy making, not 423 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 12: how we feel. 424 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 1: Ali Beth stucky everybody. She has this great book, Toxic 425 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: Empathy How Progressives exploit Christian compassions. You can see right here. 426 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: I've got my copy. I'm actually getting on a flight. 427 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read it. Ali, thank you so much, great 428 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: to have you