1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Okayop, am I the a hole if I send my 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: parents to jail? 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god? Yeah, yes, maybe, yeah. 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 3: I mean I've just said your parents, well hold on, 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 3: hold on, let's yeah, but you're not winning any awards 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 3: for like best son. 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 2: Or daughter here if you said your parents to jail. 8 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: My twenty nine female parents have always been in financial trouble, 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: something that I have never been able to understand because 10 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: they both have a really generous salary, more than three 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: times my own salary. 12 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 2: That could be big, that could be big A lot, right, yeah, 13 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: I mean, well it depends. I don't know. 14 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: There's like twenty nine year olds that are janitors and 15 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 3: then there's twenty nine year olds that are lawyers that. 16 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: Are Yeah, so so there's somewhere between a janitor. 17 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 4: Probably safe to say it's it's a lot. 18 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: Because of these financial troubles, my aunts, uncles and grandma 19 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: have all asked my parents to lend them money. We 20 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: were evicted a couple of times that I know, and 21 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: we've had the water, electricity, and internet cut. 22 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: Wait what that's no good? No bueno, no no no. 23 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: And many of. 24 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: These things over the year, I admit, have affected my 25 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: emotional and mental health. 26 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 4: I get it op, Like, bro, if your. 27 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 2: Water's gonna shift her, I'm gonna raise being evicted. 28 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 4: Yeah. Child. 29 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: All of this understandably made my relationship with my parents 30 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: very difficult over the years, and even more so when 31 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: they would take advantage of me paying for things with 32 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: the money that I was earning during the holidays to 33 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: pay for college, or making me call my grandma to 34 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: ask her for money. 35 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 2: Oh, so they're. 36 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: Sending the ope out basically begged the family, exactly beg 37 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: for the family, and all of this while my mom 38 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: used to spend money on whatever she wanted pursus jewelry. 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: Bro, that's why they're having financial trouble. They're making three 40 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 2: times their salary. Yeah, they're buying those Gucci bags. 41 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 5: The. 42 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 4: Louis Bata. 43 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: So the moment I became an adult, they started to 44 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: sign bills under my name without my permission. 45 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 2: Bruh. 46 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 4: And this was most Can you imagine your parents doing that? 47 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 3: I can, and well, I mean not that I can, like, no, no, no, 48 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 3: my parents would never do that, But in imagining it 49 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: makes me very sad. 50 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: I can empathize they did this because their credit was 51 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: so bad the companies literally wouldn't allow them to sign 52 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: their own names. When I figured this out, I asked 53 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: them to stop, but they just lied and just told 54 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: me to let it go because I couldn't deal with it. 55 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 4: Let it go. Excuse me, you let it go? Uh? 56 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 2: You go? I have two lines for you. Let it go. 57 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: Let it go away, lock the door. 58 00:02:48,440 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 5: I don't care anyway. 59 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: H what a great song. 60 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 4: Fast forward to the present. 61 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 1: Because of the whole Rona situation, I was looking forward 62 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: to the money from my tax return because my salary 63 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: has gone down because of the whole situation, so this 64 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: money would help a lot. But instead of getting my 65 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: tax return, guess what I got? 66 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,559 Speaker 2: What? 67 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: By the way, editors, yeah, I know you already hate us. 68 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: Just connect the last paragraph to uh look at the notion. 69 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 4: Just figure it out. 70 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: Bruh. 71 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: Not only did I not get the return, I received 72 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: a letter from the courthouse saying that my money has 73 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: been confiscated. 74 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: No. 75 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: I immediately phoned my mom and she said that she 76 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: didn't know anything about it. 77 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: These are the worst parents. 78 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 3: They remind me of freaking Harry Potter step parents, you know, 79 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 3: like like like the Dursley's forced Harry Potter to. 80 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 4: Live under That was foul. 81 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: That was foul, that was wicked, bug a bull shit. 82 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: Since I didn't trust my mom, I called the court 83 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: myself and they explained to me that during the last 84 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: year there has been a process against me by a 85 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: company that I owe money from unpaid bills. All the 86 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: papers had been sent to my parents and they had 87 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: them sign it, not me. The debt was not paid 88 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: from the money from my tax income return, so now 89 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: part of my salary will be confiscated until the debt 90 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: is fully paid. My parents stole my identity to contract 91 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: a bill under my name, didn't pay for it, and 92 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: when the company tried to claim the debt through lawyers 93 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: and a judge, they literally kept all of the papers 94 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: from me, which is illegal, apparently waiting for it to 95 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: be fixed all by itself. So they were basically like, 96 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: let's just put it under the rug as much as 97 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: we can until it all gets sorted magically. Bish, where's 98 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: that money coming from your daughter? And my mother said 99 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: that it was her right to put my name under 100 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: their bills because I am her daughter and it is 101 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 1: my duty to help with the family burdens. 102 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: But bro, you're creating the burden. 103 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: Since then, and after really nasty words, from her side, 104 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: and my sisters, who, by the way, says I'm ungrateful 105 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: and selfish. I haven't spoke to them, and I'm in 106 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: the middle of a global pandemic, with my salary already low, paying. 107 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 4: A debt that is not mine. 108 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: My friends and boyfriends say that I should talk with 109 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: the police and stop all of this. Otherwise they're just 110 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: gonna keep doing it, and honestly, I'm afraid they will. 111 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole if I speak with 112 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: the court to put my parents in jail. Even though 113 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: my parents seventy and sixty three would go to the clinker. 114 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 3: I think you gotta put them in the clink. Someone 115 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: in the chat says, no, push, ninja, what are you 116 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: talking about. 117 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,799 Speaker 2: You're not gonna thick it to the parents. 118 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: Well, you some kind of mama's butt, mama's b b. 119 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 4: Hey my, where's the fan of Geenie? 120 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: Come on, ma, come on, I want my cor console. 121 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 4: I've been moving boxes all day. 122 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: My fifty pounds of meats Pemberoni. 123 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 2: Where's the cup of gool? 124 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 4: Well that's one episode. 125 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 2: We forgot the claps think at the beginning, Yeah, we 126 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: do three one br 127 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, hit the guys, hit the freaking liky likey button