1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I gave my husband an ultimatum, quit your job or 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: on divorcing you. 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:06,279 Speaker 2: Maybe his job was lame. 4 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: Lame enough to divorce. Obviously this comes from Accurate Rays 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: six four to four zero, and they say, let's preface 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: by saying that's I love him. I don't want to 7 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: leave him, but I can't keep seeing the man I 8 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: love running himself into the ground for a company that 9 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: doesn't value him. My husband got promoted to sales director 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: last year, and we were very happy about it. 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: At first, Oh good, But then his. 12 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: Life and my own became hell. 13 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 4: No. 14 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: The company is struggling and is dealing with numerous lawsuits 15 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: from clients. My husband knew nothing of this when he 16 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: was brought in as a director. 17 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: It was a trap. 18 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: It was a trap. He works every singlefing day from 19 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: eight am and comes home late, even past midnight. Couldn't imagine. 20 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 5: I couldn't imagine where I could have as midnight working 21 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 5: from eight am till midnight. 22 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: That would be a hell hole. 23 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: Would I would probably have to leave that job. 24 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: We had a stream last night till last midnight. 25 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 3: Ah. 26 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Often he works full saturdays as well. 27 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: Oh oh god. 28 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: He has lost weight and his hair is already gray. 29 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 3: Oh. 30 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: One night he didn't come back home and I panicked. 31 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: I called his company and they wouldn't tell me where 32 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: he was. He reached out to me midday and I 33 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: learned he had been hospitalized for heart palpitations. Doctors advise 34 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: him to take more exams because he risks a heart attack, 35 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: probably had like a stress induced heart attack. Literally, this 36 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: job is killing him. 37 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 2: It's killing him. 38 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: He's killing him. 39 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: Oh, he is just thirty six but ten years old. 40 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: This is like a presidency. 41 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 5: This is like what happens to like presidents Barack Obama 42 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 5: after his Barack Obama before. 43 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: And after, but then but then like now now he. 44 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: Looks great, like immediately after. 45 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's like immediate laughter. But like if you 46 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 5: look at him and Michelle, now they're glowing. 47 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: What was that silver fox? 48 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 2: Like he's glowing. Look at him glowing. 49 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: Getting back to it. He is just thirty six but 50 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 1: looks ten years older. His company uses and abuses him. 51 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: I heard him talking to his bosses on phone calls, 52 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: and the way those people talk to him. 53 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 4: Say, the way those people doctor him gave and said, 54 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 4: gave it saying, and he's too beaten down to leave 55 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 4: I'm friends with his deputy director. 56 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: Funny thing. I suspected they were having an affair first 57 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: are they though? But she became a great friend for 58 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: me and she's actively looking to leave. 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 4: Whoa. 60 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: We tried to drill this into my husband, but my 61 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: husband just drilled into his deputy director. All right, no 62 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: kidding to know about No. I have been polite, I 63 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: have been rude. Now I'm just done. I don't want 64 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: to watch him die. 65 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: That's fair. 66 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: I gave him the ultimatum, quit this effing job or 67 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: I am gone. He's worried about the money, but I 68 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: work and I can be a bread winner while he 69 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: recuperates and looks for a new job. Which great wife. 70 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 5: Honestly, I feel like this be the thing that he 71 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 5: needs to snap him out of it. 72 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a great wife move. Shadow op for 73 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: being a great wife. 74 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: Shadow op for the great wife move. 75 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: He seemingly took me seriously. But for now he hasn't quit. 76 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: He has taken sick days, and he has really fallen sick. 77 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: Now I can't take this anymore. I love this man, 78 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: and I am watching him unlive himself for people that 79 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire, piss 80 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: on him, and there are some relevant comments and a thick, 81 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: juicy update. But Sophia and also all of chat, actually 82 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: all of chat. First, have you ever had a partner 83 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: that has like had a job that you saw was 84 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: murdering their soul? 85 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? Really, butcher in that soul. 86 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: Butcher in that soul, cutting up to little tiny pieces. 87 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: I've dated something once that was like really really hated 88 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: their job, and I feel like it's really it's like hard, 89 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: it's hard for them, It's hard for the partner. 90 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, it's just not fun to 91 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 5: hate your job. 92 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: I feel like you got to enjoy it a little bit. 93 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, ideally, ideally you should enjoy your job just a 94 00:03:59,040 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 5: little bit. 95 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: But what advice would you give? Ope, and like trying 96 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: to communicate to it's her husband, like this is not 97 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: is not this is bad for you, this is bad 98 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: for us as a family, Like what do you what 99 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: do you say? 100 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: Well, it seems like op has tried the route of 101 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 2: talking and saying, hey, you're dying. You need to stop 102 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: stop dying. You need to stop it right now. 103 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 5: I think that they've tried everything that they can in 104 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 5: terms of just talking about it, and I think that 105 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 5: there this is their last resort. 106 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: There needs to be action. Yeah, And I wonder, like, 107 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,799 Speaker 1: what are the reasons that he's doing it right, because, 108 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: like he said, he's worried about money. Yeah, but it 109 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: seems like OPI says that they can handle this is probably. 110 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 5: A high paying job, and he's thinking, maybe, oh, well, 111 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 5: it's worth it if I am able to support my family. Yeah, 112 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 5: but it's not if you're so unhappy that you can't 113 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 5: be there for your family mentally, and if. 114 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: It's that high paying. I mean, hopefully you guys don't 115 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: have like a crazy lifestyle or any thing where you're 116 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: you got that lifestyle creep. But maybe it sounds like, 117 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 1: again what your wife is saying is true. What OP 118 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: is saying, like, take some time off, find a new 119 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: job that you can actually really enjoy, and then I 120 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: can take care of things. 121 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 122 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: Also, this is a terrible advice, but I have a 123 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: friend that currently is working six jobs and doing the 124 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: minimum amounts at each of those jobs, and is making 125 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: between one hundred to two hundred K at each of 126 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: those jobs. Wait, telling you. 127 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: What, what is he? 128 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: Crazy? 129 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: Software engineering? 130 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: That's what I thought. 131 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: I was like a bunch of jobs that like he 132 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: calls it milking the corporate teat and he just does 133 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: get man minimum amount. And so I'm saying, like what 134 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying is what I'm saying is with this, with this, 135 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: with this kind of job, if you're truly just trying 136 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: to optimize or selling your soul for money, there are 137 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: better ways than with this guy. 138 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 2: There better way six job, get six job live stream 139 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: never ok yeah, and then you'll be fine. 140 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have some relevant comments get him. He's 141 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: also like gummy smart, like of. 142 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 6: Course, well was he a part of the like r 143 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 6: slash over employed? 144 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay, that's kind of that's kind of 145 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: what he's what he's been up to do. Good for him, Yeah, 146 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: honestly relevant comments. Embarrassed Guy three one eight says, you 147 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: are right, but he can't hear you right now, keep pushing. 148 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: Would it help to have the deputy to come over 149 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: and they both agree to leave. It's possible they are 150 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 1: appropriately close, possibly trauma bonded, and he doesn't want to 151 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: leave her behind. Yeah yeah, Opie responds, we already had 152 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: this talk with him. She says that if he walks, 153 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: she's walking with him, he won't budge and says he 154 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: doesn't want her to lose her job. 155 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: She wants to leave her job. 156 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: Sounds like they both want to leave. 157 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: He's like, I don't want to leave. You don't want 158 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 2: to leave, and she's like, well I want to leave it. 159 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: You want to leave, and they're just going in loops. 160 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: No you hang up first? No you yeah, unfair Finger 161 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: five to five three one says I don't blame you 162 00:06:55,720 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: like that one. I don't like ultimatums, but sometimes they 163 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: are needed. You can't just stand by and watch him 164 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: work himself to death. I hope he's at least getting 165 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: some rest on his sick days. And OPI responds, I 166 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: had to take his phone away because they kept pestering 167 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: him for every little thing. I am angry and I 168 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: am scared. I can't live like this, but I know 169 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: that if I leave, those people might end up killing him. 170 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: And then OPI gives a little update in the comments, 171 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: and then a bigger update outside of the comments. Let's 172 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: go into a little update well bybe update. Here's the plan. Tonight, 173 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: his deputy will come over and we will draft the resignations. 174 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: I decided to take this off my husband's hands. WHOA, 175 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: I'm quitting his job for it? 176 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 2: WHOA, we won't. 177 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of I mean, honestly, delegation. 178 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: We won't. 179 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: We won't forward the resignations right away because first I 180 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: want to collect proof of the mistreatment and psychological abuse. 181 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: If my husband gets better, I will be all too 182 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: happy to forget about those people. But if he has 183 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: a heart attack or dies, I am suing the crap 184 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: out of them. Is that Can you do that? Because like, 185 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: we don't like investment bankers, they're like investment He's get 186 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: sued all the time. Yeah, I don't think. I don't 187 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: think you can do that. 188 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 5: Maybe maybe if you have enough proof that they've been mistreating. 189 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: And this treatment just like well you could. 190 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: Say there are stress health problems. 191 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. But if he 192 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: has a heart attack or dies, I am soon the 193 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: crap out of them. I am sitting beside him. He's 194 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: been sleeping. Non snop, he's sleeping. You always do that 195 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: to me. 196 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: No, snop the man. He's not snop the jury. 197 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: Why are you. 198 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 2: Stop, gentlemen of the jury. 199 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. 200 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 2: Are you aware that. 201 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: We're making his treat nice anyway? I am sitting beside him. 202 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: He's a sleeping non stop, and I check he's breathing 203 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: because I am so effing scared he might die in 204 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: his sleep. Doctor says, just a fever. But if he's 205 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: not getting better by tomorrow, I am taking him to 206 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: the hospital. Those people are killing him. And there is 207 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: an update. But what do we think about this plan? 208 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 2: I'm a little bit worried because she's kind of resigning 209 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 2: for him. 210 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like he's not fully on board. 211 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, However, I understand what she's doing. 212 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: It, And it also could be like he's like, yes, 213 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: I want to resign, but I just can't imagine like 214 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: all of the headache having to do everything that needs 215 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: to be done to do that. 216 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, So maybe she's just like what if he's like 217 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 6: friends with these people and he works twenty four to 218 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 6: seven with him, and like in a way he. 219 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 7: Kind of lives with them, Like, yeah, how is he 220 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 7: able he's like even like related to them, Yeah, Like 221 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 7: how is he able to leave that work environment? You know, 222 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,079 Speaker 7: like it seems like it's impossible to do that. 223 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 2: Damn straight, you're not off the payrolls saying up. 224 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: There, So I thought and I'm convinced that if I leave, 225 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: he might die, so I decided to take the action 226 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: into my hands. Tonight is DeBie director came over. We 227 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: drafted my husband and her resignations, so they went through 228 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: the plan. Yeah, we decided to not submit them right away, 229 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 1: but to use their email and accounts to find proof 230 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: of the company's mistreatments and abuses. They had him work 231 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: sixteen hours a day, pressured him to the point of 232 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: giving him heart problems. Now he has taken sick leave 233 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: and barely gets out of bed. He just sleeps, and 234 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: I have to check he's breathing because at this point 235 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: I'm scared he might dine to sleep. The doctor says 236 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: it's just fever, but there's also physical and mental exhaustion 237 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: and he needs to rest. I wake him up to 238 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: get him a drink and some water and eat something. 239 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: I have to help him get up and walk to 240 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: the bathroom. Wow, tonight, I made it clear he is 241 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: not going back to the job, and he agreed. Finally, 242 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: his debuty director spoke with him too and told him. 243 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: Hearsay is that the company is going to collapse and 244 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: close down by next fall, so they need to get 245 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: out now. 246 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 2: Whoa dude. 247 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: It is very demoralizing working for a failing company. Yeah, 248 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: I've only worked for one ish, I've never. 249 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 2: Worked for a failing company. But I can only imagine. 250 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, imagine if everything's all the time. 251 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 3: Dang. 252 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 6: I I kind of did, and it was. It was 253 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 6: hard going to work every day because everyone felt defeated. 254 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but hey, lucky, that atos let's go. 255 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: Yeah that's true. Okay, gang, okay, gang, it's strong. The 256 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 3: pigeon army is growing. 257 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 1: We'll beat the worm ARTI suit. 258 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 5: No. 259 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: Anyway, there's not much to add. I spent the evening 260 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: with her and wrote the resignations and went through his emails, 261 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: but we didn't find much. I broke down a bit 262 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: and cried on her shoulder. I was so bottled up 263 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 1: I needed to let some out. That's all for now. 264 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: I wish to thank everyone whom gave me advice and 265 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: compassion for a situation. I will be taking care of 266 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: my husband, but I am so angry and sad those 267 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: people destroyed the man of my life. I want to 268 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: be hopeful, but I'm not sure he will go back 269 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: to how he was before. Wish us luck and relevant comments. 270 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: Hey Nanni, Mooss says best wishes that he can recover 271 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: from this. He will need to recover his health and 272 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: figure out why he was complacent in their abuse. You 273 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: will have to figure out how to trust your husband 274 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: not to martyr himself again. I hope you can both 275 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: heal and perhaps get counseling. And Opie responds, thank you. 276 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't know when or if I'll trust him to 277 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: have a healthy work life balance. I mean it's clear 278 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: to him he's staying home for at least a month now. 279 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: It's pretty awesome how much she cares. 280 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's really on top of it. 281 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think it like brings a good 282 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: question like how do you how do you make sure 283 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: that you don't like just murder your soul? 284 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 2: I think that yeah, yeah. 285 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 5: I think that people often get stuck in jobs as 286 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 5: we see here, not just because it's it's something that 287 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 5: they know. Yeah, it's not that there aren't other jobs 288 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 5: out there that you know, could pay them enough and 289 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 5: they would be happy, and it's just it's hard to leave, 290 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 5: you know. 291 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: And it's also I feel it's like it's it's hard 292 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: to know what jobs are out there, and it's hard 293 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: to know how to even access those. 294 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 2: Jobs or how do you know what to research? What 295 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: to look up? 296 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know kind of what you or some 297 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 5: people don't know what they want either. 298 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like and like some people don't what they 299 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: want for sure. But even if you're like, oh I 300 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 1: want to get into let's say. 301 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: YouTube, Yeah, how do I do that? 302 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: How do you do that? And often it's not through 303 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: like going on LinkedIn and jobs there. I mean Riley 304 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: perfect example, he just reached out to us on TikTok 305 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, I want to work for you guys. 306 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 5: You guys should just like I don't know, find a 307 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 5: brother of yours that. 308 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 2: I worked for this job. Sam made me apply. 309 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, stiff competition. 310 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it made me one day to make a 311 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 5: TikTok and I didn't even know how to edit. 312 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,439 Speaker 1: Also, to be fair, so Sophia, I mean, yes, she's 313 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: an EPO. 314 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 2: Baby, but I'm a YouTube baby. 315 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: But she she worked for me on my other company 316 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: for like. 317 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 2: For free for three years for three years. 318 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she was great. 319 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 2: I had to learn everything. 320 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: Did you lead a team I did? 321 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was the audio editor lead. 322 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: Or were you an audio team leader? You were producer? 323 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 1: I don't think you were ever team lead. 324 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 5: Maybe it was just producer. You were a producer because 325 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 5: I was under I was still under Yeah, yeah. 326 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: I we like operate in a lot of projects before 327 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: this one. 328 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 2: So I was only a little bit and I was 329 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 2: a podcast that if if he has sucked, I wouldn't have. 330 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 2: Like it's true, he kept testing me. 331 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 6: I do have a question, what do you do with 332 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 6: people that people that have to work jobs provide for 333 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 6: their family. How can they still do something that I 334 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 6: guess they're passionate about might not have some time because 335 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 6: I know a lot of people that work in like 336 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 6: factories or work jobs that like, I don't know how 337 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 6: it's it, blue collar jobs for example, What do you 338 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 6: what do people do in that scenario? 339 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: I think it's one it's hard. 340 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 5: It's really hard when you don't have that time, when 341 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 5: you're start trying to support a family, you don't have 342 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 5: the time to actually go out and look for another job. 343 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Like obviously if he and I, like, you know, 344 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: we we grew up and were able to go to 345 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: like college and stuff, and so like there's there's a 346 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: lot of privilege there. But I think, like, really it 347 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: just comes down to do you have time to acquire a. 348 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 2: Skill, yeah, because some people don't. 349 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 5: Some people have to support families and don't don't even 350 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 5: have time to like aake dinner for you know. 351 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: Yes, And there's those people, and there's a lot of 352 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: people that like we'll spend time just like watching TikTok 353 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: or like watching movies and TV shows. And I understand, 354 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: like you got to relax and yeah and chill, but 355 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: if you really want something, there has to be certain Yeah. 356 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 5: I think you just have to look at your circumstances 357 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 5: and you're like, am I in do I have the 358 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 5: time to branch out? And am I unhappy in this job? 359 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: You know, there's like plenty of stories of people working 360 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: their way out of like poverty, and it just creates 361 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: like a better it just because of a better society 362 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: when you have social mobility, because that's like so yeah, 363 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: well that's just like hope, Like America's built off hope. Yeah, 364 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: you know, and like, well that's the whole thing of. 365 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 5: Being able to pull yourself up by your dad to 366 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 5: American or dream, except they make it extremely hard to 367 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 5: do that. 368 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: Well, it's actually just dependent on So this ties into 369 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: my piece of advice. Look up social mobility of different 370 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: towns and try to move there. Yeah, there's like places 371 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: in North Dakota that are like sixteen percent eighteen percent Wow, 372 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: something like something crazy like that. Yeah, which I guess 373 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: cities that have more integrated communities there would be more 374 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: ability to escape those caps. 375 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 2: Anyway, that was a stage done done. 376 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 1: It's educational, educational. It is an education and it will 377 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: show now. Yeah, but if you love us, make sure 378 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: to subscribe. 379 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 2: We love you as sinamorrow. 380 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 381 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 3: Time for okop relash. My husband swears he won't cheat again. 382 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 3: I believed him, but now I'm not so sure. 383 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what he's not a bucket time when 384 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: you should have already been not sure on the first time. 385 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 3: Wow. My ex, who will call Mike hate Mike and 386 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 3: I were together since we were fourteen and got married 387 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: at twenty two. Wow. We have two kids together, fifteen 388 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 3: female and eleven male. My ex's work takes him all 389 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 3: over the country for a week every quarter, and on 390 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: one of those trips, guess what he did, Sam, what 391 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 3: do you do? He bought gifts for the family. Just kidding. 392 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 3: He hooked up with one of his coworkers. This is 393 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 3: OKOPI yikes, yikes, no family gifts today. No. 394 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: You know, when he said to he was gonna, you know, 395 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: just take some time off work. I think he met 396 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: to say he was taking some time while getting off 397 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: at work. 398 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 3: You know, I think that's exactly what happened. I never 399 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 3: thought he could do something like that because a relationship 400 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 3: was really solid. He confessed immediately after he got home. 401 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: I actually would have never found out if he didn't. 402 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 3: He begged me for forgiveness and said that he still 403 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 3: loved me, and it was a lapse in judgment, but 404 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 3: he said he would understand if I wanted a divorce, 405 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 3: which is what eventually happened. It was very amicable and 406 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 3: he actually gave me more than I expected house, child support, alimony, 407 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 3: et cetera. 408 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 1: Okay, so at least he's like treating her right a 409 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: little bit. 410 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 3: You know. It sounds like he made a big mistake 411 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 3: and now everything's fine, and now it's all good rights 412 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 3: at least stoning up to it. We'll give him that. 413 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 3: We'll give him that and doing like well, I guess 414 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 3: you should. In that scenario, it was a slope process. 415 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 3: But over the years we became friends again and have 416 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 3: a very good co parenting dynamic. Mike's a great father 417 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 3: and the kids still love him. I got married three 418 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 3: years after and he. 419 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: Was like, okay, so she got married. 420 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 3: Okay, there we go, there we go, and Mike was 421 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: very supportive. That is good. Now. I divorced my second 422 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 3: husband two years ago, so we're on divorce numero dose here. 423 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 3: This was because he changed his mind on kids. I 424 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 3: wanted one last baby, and I guess. 425 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: It's interesting that like one more kid is the deal breaker. Yeah, 426 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: Like I feel like that's an interesting deal breaker. Like 427 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 1: I understand, like, oh I want kids, yeah, but I 428 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: want like three kids now. Since the lockdown, Mike has 429 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: been over frequently, and at this point our relationship is 430 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: so good that we don't need to enforce any of 431 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: the set visits and things like that. 432 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 3: Well, things have been getting hot and steamy between tell 433 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 3: but this has been going down between us for the 434 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:59,400 Speaker 3: last few months, and then we started doing it. I'm 435 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 3: a woman with needs too, And to be very honest 436 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 3: with you, guys, he's still the best guy I've been 437 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: with after all these years. It's like our bodies were 438 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 3: made for each other. He's always jokes that we were 439 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 3: prime Pippin and Jordan in a sack, and it felt 440 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 3: like we were back ten years ago when we were 441 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 3: still together. Just a few hours ago, Big Mike brought 442 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 3: up the idea of us getting back together. Big Mike, 443 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: he gave me the most genuine speech about how stupid 444 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 3: he was the night he cheated, and how he had 445 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 3: never stopped loving me in the past ten years. I 446 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 3: was speechless and couldn't say anything, so he just gave 447 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 3: me his usual toothy smile and said, it's okay, I'll 448 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 3: wait before driving home. My main a smooth yoh. Now 449 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 3: I'm lying here in bed, typing this out. 450 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 1: Yes, she is. 451 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 3: I would be lying to you, guys, if I said 452 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 3: I didn't love him, I'd be lying. If I said 453 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 3: the last few months weren't the happiest I'd been in years, 454 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 3: And I'd be lying if I said I never forgave 455 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 3: him for cheating. If I had to decide right now, 456 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 3: I jump out of bed, drive to his house and 457 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 3: bring you for your house home. It's taking all my 458 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 3: willpower not to do so. I love him, However, I 459 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 3: also want to be thinking with my brain here quick 460 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 3: pros and cons he's a great dad and the kids 461 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 3: would have him around more. He's a great provider. He 462 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 3: says he still wants kids and I still love him. 463 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 3: The cons I don't know yet, but maybe there's something 464 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 3: you can help me with. Any advice on how to proceed. 465 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: I mean, the cons are maybe cheats on you again. 466 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 3: It's been a few days now since I've posted, and 467 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: Reddit has given me some solid advice. 468 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: What's that advice? Reddit? 469 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 3: I'm very grateful because this helped me calm down and 470 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 3: not give into my impulses. I think he's gonna draw 471 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 3: it out on us. The morning after I posted, I 472 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 3: texted Big Mike saying that I needed some time and 473 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 3: space to think about everything. He then replied with I've 474 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 3: waited ten years. I can wait a bit long. 475 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: Man is smooth as fuck. 476 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 3: Oh smoothest, but oh. When the kids woke up, our 477 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 3: son was looking for his big daddy. There's no way, 478 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 3: oh that he's at the gate now and he's pretty 479 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 3: much idolized as dad. I get why, though. Mike is 480 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 3: an amazing dad, and our daughter gave me the stink 481 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 3: eye all morning, so I guess they know what time 482 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 3: it is, They know what's happening right now. After lunch, 483 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 3: when our son was in his room playing video games, 484 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 3: my daughter confronted me about Mike post now. She basically 485 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,959 Speaker 3: said how she knew that there was something going on. 486 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 3: She said that she didn't want our fighting to affect 487 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 3: Yeah me. 488 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: Daddy, I hear you yelling. 489 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 3: All yeah, yeah, she thought we were fighting now. The 490 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 3: divorce affected her, but not as badly as expected. We 491 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 3: made sure to get her counseling immediately after and made 492 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 3: extra sure that her life was as normal as possible. 493 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 3: I'm not going to delude myself and think that she 494 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 3: wasn't hurt by it, but I'm pretty confident in saying 495 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 3: that we've dealt with it pretty well. I then had 496 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 3: the conversation about how we weren't fighting, but. 497 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: Uh, quite the opposite, little lady, We. 498 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 3: Were thinking about getting back together. Oh. She thought about 499 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 3: it for a while and said that she was happy 500 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 3: for us and hoped it was forever this time. The 501 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 3: next day, I dropped my kids off at my parents' 502 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 3: house so I could talk to Mike at his place. 503 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 3: We had a long talk about how we felt and 504 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 3: about each other, what we planned to do about it 505 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 3: going forward, and what he planned to do next time 506 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 3: we hit a rough patch, especially since we plan on 507 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 3: having a third kid. He told me that night he 508 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 3: cheated still haunted him ten years later. He told me 509 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 3: how it wasn't worth it one bit, and how it 510 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 3: was the biggest mistake of his life. He said, if 511 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 3: he ever hit a rough patch again, we would talk 512 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 3: about it like adults. We even suggested we do couples 513 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 3: counseling every now and then, even when times are good. 514 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 3: I liked this idea. There are some details about the 515 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 3: conversation that I want to keep private, but long story short, 516 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 3: we got back together. We're going to take it slow, 517 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 3: and in every step we take. We both agreed that 518 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 3: our children would take priority over everything. He's not going 519 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 3: to move in yet, but he would spend a few 520 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 3: nights a week with us at home. Later that night, 521 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 3: we sat the kids down and broke the news. Daughter 522 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 3: didn't say much because she already but our son was 523 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 3: over the move. 524 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure he's like, my parents are getting back together. 525 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 3: Very nice. Since we divorced when he was a baby, 526 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 3: the concept of both of his parents being together is 527 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 3: still quite new to him. They obviously asked questions and 528 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 3: we answered them. We're also planning on doing family counseling 529 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 3: to make the transition easier for everybody. 530 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 2: Overall. 531 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 3: I'm really happy right now. Mike made a mistake ten 532 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 3: years ago, but I don't hold it against him, and 533 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 3: I've completely forgiven him for it. I know he loves 534 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 3: me now and won't shoot on me anymore. I'm back 535 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 3: together now with the love of my life, the father 536 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 3: of my kids. Wow, and I couldn't be any happier. 537 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: Good for you. Ohp OKAYOPI all right, So the first 538 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: story has already got me laughing before I've even started, 539 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: like actually going through it, very excited to share. 540 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 3: It's gonna be a good one, I can tell already. 541 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 3: I'm buckled in today. 542 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 1: I effed up. 543 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 3: Say it, you can't even say it. 544 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: Today. I fed up by taking double my normal dose 545 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 1: of adderall at eight pm, then masturbating for nine hours straight. 546 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 3: That's amazing, right. 547 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: This is honestly one of the stupidest and most embarrassing 548 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: things I've ever done, and I just feel like confessing 549 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: will help me feel like less of an idiot, not 550 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: really still pretty dump. So for context, I take twenty 551 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: five milligrams of adderall XR on most mornings and had 552 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: taken it yesterday also. Okay, Well, the day was coming 553 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: to an end and I could tell my mads had 554 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: mostly worn off. But I don't really have anything to 555 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: do until Monday, and there was a book that I 556 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: had been meaning to read, so I figured I would 557 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,360 Speaker 1: stay up reading just because I could. 558 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, stop, this all started because he wanted to 559 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 3: read a book book. 560 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you had noble intentions. 561 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 3: Bro, This guy's an idiot. I'm sorry. 562 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 1: It goes downhill fast. The problem is that it's hard 563 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,239 Speaker 1: for me to read without my meds, so I just 564 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: thought that I would take some in the evening, stay 565 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: up all night, then fix my sleep schedule over the weekend, 566 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 1: which is a terrible idea, Like, yeah, I don't know 567 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: why to. 568 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 3: Do something, use like a a use a flash card 569 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 3: or something. 570 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah you read, Yeah, I don't know what you're doing. Man. 571 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 1: Where I messed up, though, is for some reason, I 572 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: thought it would be a good idea to take double 573 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: my normal dose, which would make it fifty milligrams, which 574 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,199 Speaker 1: is pretty close to the max that is prescribed and 575 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 1: way higher than I'm. 576 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 3: Used to it. Yeah, that's that'll do it. 577 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: So I took fifty milligrams at eight pm and it 578 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 1: kicked in around nine pm. Then at about ten pm 579 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: I started masturbata. The plan. I love how you I 580 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: has a plan, the plan, the masturbation plan, the master plan, 581 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: the master the master plan. 582 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 3: I just got that. 583 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: The plan was to masturbate for maybe thirty minutes max, 584 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: take a shower, read for a couple hours, then either 585 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: watch a movie or go to sleep. 586 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 3: Thirty minutes, that's that's long time. That's a long time 587 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 3: to masturbate, Like you need a break. Maybe, I mean, 588 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 3: maybe he's a workhorse, but thirty minutes masturbating good. 589 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 1: So if you've ever taken these types of stimulant meds, though, 590 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: you know that whatever you're doing when it kicks in, 591 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna be doing for a while. It 592 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: was even worse now because I took twice what I 593 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: usually take. 594 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 595 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: I ended up edging myself for literally about five or 596 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 1: six hours, masturbating normally for about three which I've. 597 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 3: Been masturbating normally. No, what does normally? No, there's no normally. 598 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,360 Speaker 3: First of all, Also, like you know all the biagra commercials, 599 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 3: they're like if you're hard for four hours. Your doctor, bro, 600 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: he needs a whole surgeon team in this. 601 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, you need like the whole o R. You got 602 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,959 Speaker 1: the emergency room, all the staff coming in because you 603 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 1: have been hard for nine hours. That is not normal. 604 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 1: Please consult the doctor if you are experiencing that. 605 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 3: Wow. 606 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 1: So I think the adderall kind of kept me from finishing, 607 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: so I could just keep going, and it was probably 608 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: the most hyper focused moment. 609 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 3: Of my life. Just so up man. 610 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: Sorry, all good things must come to an end. I 611 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: finally finished about two hours before making this post. Oh 612 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 1: and my dick just hurts, definitely because I kind of 613 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: agitated the skin because a portion of it was done 614 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: without any lube. Which why, why, dude, you're giving yourself 615 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: an Indian burn? Did you ever get an Indian burn 616 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,679 Speaker 1: when you were like in middle school, high. 617 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 3: School or whatever? Of course on your freaking penis. 618 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you got that needs recovery time. 619 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 3: Gosh. 620 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: Also, I just generally feel like shit, which most people 621 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,959 Speaker 1: probably would from either masturbating for nine hours of course, 622 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: are having a bunch of emphetamines in their system, let alone. 623 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 3: And staying up all night and staying up all night, 624 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 3: stay all night. 625 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 1: I don't think I'm going to masturbate for the next month, 626 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 1: and I'm not taking adderalls for a few days either, 627 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: My guy, that is the prescription that you should have 628 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: no masturbating, no adderall. 629 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 3: Where is that doctor? Where is that doctor? Don't masturbate 630 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 3: for nine hours? Very simple. It shouldn't have to be 631 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 3: a prescription a rule. 632 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: There shouldn't be a rule that you did. But I guess, 633 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: all right, in our ten commands we go, that's number eleven. 634 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's number eleven. 635 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: Do not masturbate for nine hours on adderall? 636 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 3: So, oh god, all right? What to even say about 637 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:50,719 Speaker 3: this one? 638 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I think I'll just leave it 639 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: at that. Don't masturbate for that long and too long? 640 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: It's too long, honestly, Like, like, what, what's the average 641 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: masturbation time? Let's look it up? 642 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 3: Around or less than five minutes? 643 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: How you got that so quick? Do you have that 644 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: in your brain? 645 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 3: I'm guessing I'm guessing. 646 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 1: Okay, he's like arounder five minutes. I researched this. Masturbation 647 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: experts are in that's me, okay. Seventy eight percent of 648 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 1: all Americans age fourteen and older have said they masturbated 649 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: fun fact apparently the laboratory. Okay, so I'll just read this. 650 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,239 Speaker 1: The ejaculation latency sign was highest during intercourse and then 651 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: the lowest was in during masturbation median four point eight 652 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: nine minutes. 653 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 3: I was pretty spot on. 654 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, masturbation experts come at me. So Journey masturbation 655 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 8: facts gos we got to cover. 656 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: I think I need to take a shower. 657 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: I know, even after reading that, dude, too much, too 658 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: much thinking about masturbasic're doing over nine hours. 659 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 3: Okay, I do not care if you have cancer. My 660 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 3: child deserves a saint. 661 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: Uh wow, swinging. 662 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 3: Coming out swinging. This one's a little backstory. About a 663 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 3: year ago, I was diagnosed with the cancer in the 664 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 3: naval cavity stage two. The tumor was quite large, but 665 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 3: thankfully it is contained. Basically it's not spreading anymore. Okay, 666 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 3: so that's good. Good, good to get it removed. I 667 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 3: first had to undergo aggressive chemo therapy to make it smaller. 668 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 3: Thanks to the chemo, I had severe alopecia hair loss, 669 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 3: which made most of my hair and even eyebrows and 670 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 3: eyelashes fall out. That sucks. At some point I had 671 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 3: to go bald, but I wore a wig because I 672 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 3: didn't want to look like a skinhead slash neo Nazi. 673 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 3: Note I'm six four and pretty muscular, so I thought 674 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 3: people would assume that. 675 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: Subtle flex, okay, subtle flex sera. 676 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 3: I didn't even think about that. 677 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know if it's even a subtle flex. 678 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: Like I'm super buff, but people think, come into you 679 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: a Nazi. 680 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 3: I guess it's a mixed flex. A mix mixed flex, 681 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 3: A makes flex mixed flex. 682 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: I like that. 683 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 3: So once, after a long chemo session in the hospital, 684 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 3: took the bus home. There's only one bus that goes 685 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 3: from the hospital to where I live, so I took 686 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 3: that one, only to see it was absolutely packed. I 687 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 3: felt like ish thanks to the chemo, so I asked 688 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: a middle aged dude to let me sit. He was 689 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 3: very understanding and gave me a spot without complaining. Two 690 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 3: stops later, enter entitled mom, a lovely whale within ah, 691 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 3: A lovely whale Rose, a lovely whale with an I demand, 692 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 3: a parley with the CEO haircut, and a twelve some 693 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 3: year old kid. 694 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love all those descriptions. All those 695 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: descriptions are just purpose super solid. 696 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 3: It took her roughly five seconds to see that the 697 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 3: bus was packed and started looking for a free seat, 698 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 3: spot me and start marching towards me, or in her case, 699 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 3: just trying to squeeze through the aisles while shoving others aside. 700 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 3: When I saw her, I knew I was screwed. She 701 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 3: then stood next to me and decided to talk to me. 702 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 3: This is the conversation that followed. Let's hear it, Hey, 703 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: could you let my child sit down? You mean me? 704 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: Who else? Me? Oh, I'm sorry, but I'm on my 705 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 3: way to the hospital. And she cuts him off, so 706 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 3: are we, which was nonsense because the stop was a 707 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 3: few kilometers away from the hospital, so there's no way 708 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,479 Speaker 3: they could have been coming from the hospital. 709 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: Ridiculous. 710 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,680 Speaker 3: My boy just broke his leg and we're coming straight 711 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 3: from the er and her kid was standing next to 712 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 3: her without any support and he was clearly embarrassed. 713 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 1: Which, honestly like, if you have a mom like that, 714 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: your life is going to be embarrased. 715 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 3: That honestly sucks. I feel bad for the children of 716 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 3: the entitled parents that aren't the same some of the at. 717 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: Least eighteen years of just subjugation under a dumb dictator 718 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: also shout out to my mom, I love you mom. 719 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 3: Yes, not an evil dictator. 720 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 721 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 3: So the kid was standing there slightly embarrassed me. He's 722 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 3: standing next to you completely fine titled mom. Look here boy, 723 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 3: I'm twenty one years old. Then my kid deserves to 724 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 3: sit down me. Look, ma'am, I'm sorry, but I just 725 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 3: got back from a chemo session in the hospital and 726 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 3: I need to sit down and rest. And then I 727 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 3: moved my wig a little bit so she could see 728 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 3: my bald head. The entitlement then started straight up yelling 729 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 3: in my face, stop making excuses and get off the 730 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 3: effing seats, you effing skinhead piece of ish. 731 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: No, she hit him right where hers. He just didn't 732 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: want to be known as his skinhead. Seriously, he showed 733 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: this vulnerable moment where he's like, see, I don't have 734 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: any hair underneath here, and she just ripped him to shreds. 735 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 3: And just please imagine, you just learned, like you want 736 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 3: to sit the down down somewhere on a bus. You 737 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 3: just learned someone has cancer. 738 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: And that's your h that's your response, that's your response. 739 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 3: This could be the worst entitled parent that we've seen 740 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 3: yet at this point I was baffled. I would be too. 741 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 1: Also, I don't know how anyone on the bus has 742 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,720 Speaker 1: it been like, lady, come come down. 743 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, our hero is our hero is approach. Yes, 744 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 3: my hero. So at this point I was baffled. I 745 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 3: didn't know what to say. The kid was trying to 746 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 3: make his mother stop, and we had the attention of 747 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 3: the entire bus. She then grabbed me and tried to 748 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,879 Speaker 3: yank me from my seat. You you just grab someone 749 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 3: who's going through chemotherapy with cancer and tries to yank 750 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 3: them out of her seat. Come on? 751 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 5: What? 752 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 3: I held on tight and thankfully didn't fall off. Now 753 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 3: does inter old gentleman, my savior, Old gentlemird, Old gentleman. 754 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 4: You are entering and you are saving the day, my 755 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 4: night and shining armor. 756 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 3: He has now into the chat o G will you 757 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,800 Speaker 3: please shut the f up? You don't cow. 758 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: Heardie. 759 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 3: You think you're talking to og with an ice cold voice. 760 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 3: Stop assaulting our passengers or I will be forced to 761 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 3: step in. Also, every dumb moron can see that this 762 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 3: man has cancer. Wow, No, he's just an effing skinhead. 763 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:29,240 Speaker 3: He's got no eyebrows. You twat seems like he really 764 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: offended the title mom with that one, because she's spun 765 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 3: around on the spot, and threw a falcon punch at 766 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 3: Old Gent's face. I was shocked and in disbelief. The 767 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,360 Speaker 3: whole bus was flabberg acid, and the kid probably wished 768 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 3: he'd never been born. 769 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: I probably went to yeah. 770 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:55,760 Speaker 3: Old Gent then said something unbelievable, and a golden sweet 771 00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:01,720 Speaker 3: karma moment followed Old Gent. Okay, that does it. Harassing 772 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 3: passengers on the bus, physical assault against a passenger, and 773 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:11,799 Speaker 3: now assaulting an officer. No, you're in deep. 774 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: Trouble, undercover cop. 775 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 2: That's right. 776 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 3: Old Gent then pulled out a badge and told her 777 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 3: to stay where she was. Then he pulled out his 778 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 3: phone and called someone and told her that she was 779 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 3: being arrested. I couldn't believe it. 780 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 1: Wow, the Old Gent was literally a cop, an undercover 781 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: bus cop con. 782 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 3: You imagine, like seriously, at this point, entitled Mom was 783 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,760 Speaker 3: white as a wall, as. 784 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,960 Speaker 1: She should be. You should be scared out of your 785 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:49,959 Speaker 1: bageebus right now. 786 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 3: You should. The bus had just come to a stop, 787 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 3: so she decided she'd make a run for it, but 788 00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 3: other passengers more heroes, blocked her way. She then got 789 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 3: charged with resisting arrest. Thanks to this and extra charge. 790 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,800 Speaker 1: I love it. He's like, thanks to this, more charges. 791 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 3: Cracking it up, baby, making it rain with these charges. 792 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 3: Three stops later, a police car was waiting for the 793 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 3: entitled mom and kid. The entitled kid told me he 794 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 3: was so sorry for his mother's behavior, and I honestly 795 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 3: felt really sorry for the kid. He wasn't a bad child, 796 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 3: but his mother was a hell spawn. 797 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: And I just again the kid, dude, he's like, the 798 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: poor kid, I'm sorry my mom, Like it's probably He's like, 799 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, my mom's doing this again, Like this isn't 800 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: the first. 801 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh oh, definitely this is repeat behavior. Definitely never 802 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,399 Speaker 3: probably never assaulted an officer. 803 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: Though hopefully she learned her lasses. 804 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 3: We can only pray. 805 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,359 Speaker 1: Here's the slammer. 806 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 3: Og then talked to me and asked me if I 807 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 3: wanted to press charges, to which I gladly said yes, 808 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 3: as you should. He took a statement and thankfully was 809 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 3: kind enough to let me solve everything on the phone 810 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 3: so I didn't have to come into the police station 811 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 3: for questioning. That was awesome, you know, doing him a solid. 812 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 3: In the end, entitled mom got some jail time, although 813 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,720 Speaker 3: I think it was only a few months and community service. 814 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 3: I in return, got a good story to tell At 815 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 3: the sweet taste of instant karma. I should also note 816 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 3: that the surgery went really well. I was declared cancer 817 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 3: free in November and my hair is starting to slowly return. 818 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 1: Happy endings. 819 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 3: Also, I don't need to work so good. Absolutely, And 820 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 3: to top cherry on the cake, he doesn't need a 821 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 3: wig anymore. Wow. 822 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah that look at that. Karma will always balance out, 823 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: the good will always win. 824 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 3: This was This was definitely a roller coaster. 825 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 826 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: So if you're having a bad week, just know things 827 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 1: are gonna turn around. 828 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,880 Speaker 3: That's right. You could be you could be attacked by 829 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:44,720 Speaker 3: a whale. 830 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 1: You could be attacked by a whale. But then at 831 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,840 Speaker 1: the end of that whale attack will be a beautiful rainbow. 832 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,320 Speaker 1: That's right, and you'll be bathing in it. 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