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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Saturday. We know you need your fix. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's Brooke and Jeffrey and you found the Second Date

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Speaker 1: Update podcast. Maybe you're doing laundry, catching up on chores,

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Speaker 1: going for a run. That's why we're gonna give you

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Speaker 1: double the second date today. We got to the second date.

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Speaker 2: Second, Yes, second second date. There we go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got two back to back classics for you

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Speaker 1: to enjoy today and hopefully it makes your day a

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Speaker 1: little bit better. It all starts right now.

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Speaker 2: I think people get a lot of credit for all

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Speaker 2: the good things that they do, but should don't we

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Speaker 2: also deserve credit for the bad things that we didn't do. Oh, Jay,

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Speaker 2: I agree. I definitely think so. Because one of our

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Speaker 2: listeners went on a beach date with a beautiful woman

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Speaker 2: and you're gonna hear the one thing he did not do.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're gonna applaud him for it.

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Speaker 2: Well, he deserves kudos for that. We're still gonna judge

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Speaker 2: him for even thinking it. In fact, our audience might

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Speaker 2: freak out once they hear what it was. But bottom line,

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Speaker 2: he did not do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes it feel like he did. Jeff, you

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Speaker 1: keep saying that.

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Speaker 2: Promise you he did, and you can be the judge

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Speaker 2: when you hear it in your second date.

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Speaker 3: Update, next second date updated, Brook.

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Speaker 2: Do you believe people deserve second chances?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why do you think I'd be here with you if

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Speaker 1: I didn't?

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Speaker 2: Does that mean.

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Speaker 5: Chance?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know what I did. I'm serious though,

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Speaker 2: If somebody makes a mistake, are you willing to let

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Speaker 2: bygones be bygones and give him a fair shake?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know,

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Speaker 1: like if you talk things out. I think you can

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Speaker 1: always work through something.

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Speaker 2: Is amazing. We have a return caller on the phone

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Speaker 2: today named Scott, who you were not too happy with

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Speaker 2: the last time he was on the second if you

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Speaker 2: have an apology ready, because he put a little blue

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Speaker 2: pill into his own drink at the dinner table and

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Speaker 2: you use the word creep to describe him, So maybe

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Speaker 2: we need to start with an apology from Brook to Scott. Here,

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Speaker 2: go ahead, Broke, you said you believed in second chance.

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Speaker 1: Especially here's my question.

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Speaker 2: Have you yes?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Communication, I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not

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Speaker 1: gonna happen. But what will happen is if you have

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Speaker 1: stopped sneaking those pills into your drink at the first date.

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Speaker 2: Your drink.

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Speaker 1: Still not cool, Jeff?

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Speaker 2: Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott?

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Speaker 4: You know, I think I've gotten a lot better since

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Speaker 4: the last time we talked.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, now does he get the apology for what

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Speaker 2: he was big enough to look past all the mean

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Speaker 2: things that we called him on the show and give

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Speaker 2: us another chance. I think we should give him another

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Speaker 2: chance with his dating life here. Okay, Well, a little

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Speaker 2: bit of a rough room, but welcome back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're good, man, You're good.

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Speaker 2: I think you should. Okay, Well, so apparently you've reached

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Speaker 2: out because there's a new woman that you met.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is Mandy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, how'd you meet Mandy?

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Speaker 4: I was shopping at a hardware store. She comes up

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Speaker 4: looking at, like she needs help. Maybe I looked like

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Speaker 4: maybe just.

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Speaker 3: Being a guy.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you're wearing a polo shirt in one

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Speaker 4: Fake, Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white Polo shirt.

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Speaker 2: Well this is I mean, it's given you the perfect

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Speaker 2: chance to talk to her, So what do you do?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I thought she was cute and I

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Speaker 4: was like, look, I don't know it works. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: I barely know what i'm looking at here.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 5: But I thought she was cute.

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Speaker 4: And I told her that, and I asked if she

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Speaker 2: She said yeah, wow, that was really quick. So did

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Speaker 2: you end up seeing her for an actual date?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing something stupid.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that should always be That is such a good

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what was the date?

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Speaker 5: Like, we went to the beach.

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Speaker 1: O interesting?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I didn't. You didn't do that.

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Speaker 5: I didn't do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you had the thought, but you didn't follow through

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Speaker 4: You know, I want you guys to know all the

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Speaker 4: bad ideas I didn't do.

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Speaker 3: This is growth.

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Speaker 2: This is exactly what we wanted from you.

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Speaker 6: Hard for.

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Speaker 2: Your thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Okay, a worse idea that you had than that?

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Speaker 2: What else didn't you do?

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Speaker 5: All?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 4: So, like the sun started to set and I brought

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Speaker 4: I started to photograph the sunset. Okay, okay, what I

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Speaker 4: wanted to do was ask for a model for me.

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Speaker 5: Didn't do that?

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Speaker 2: Oh you didn't.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not too bad. I mean some women would

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Speaker 2: Different. Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking

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Speaker 2: them to model. Hey, get out of my frame. Trying

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Speaker 2: to capture the sunset.

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Speaker 4: Don't make me get more in my head. I tried

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a good thing. Anything else.

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Speaker 4: I also didn't tell her about the camera because, like,

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Speaker 4: I'm a big camera nerd, and I was like, I

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Speaker 2: Camerapt Alexis are not hot.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You don't know what to do. Just talking about the

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Speaker 2: different of the camera. That was a good choice. Don't

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Speaker 2: tell her about the details of your camera. Good call.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices.

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Speaker 4: Didn't bring that up.

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Speaker 1: Are you focused on the date? Did you talk much?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What did you talk about?

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Speaker 1: What did you do?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 4: I mean we talked about like our recent dating history.

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Speaker 4: I've been on a lot of dates she's only been

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Speaker 2: Do you think did that rubb her the wrong way

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Speaker 4: Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, Yeah, you don't want tound that.

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Speaker 4: I didn't tell her that I was on the radio

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Speaker 1: For your last ones.

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Speaker 2: You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how

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Speaker 4: Walked her? Actually she walked me to my car first.

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Speaker 4: I guess we gave each other a hug. Okay, I

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Speaker 4: consider taking out the guitar from my trunk to play

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Speaker 4: a song, but I did not do it. Did I

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Speaker 4: learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that. Women

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Maybe not till like the third or fourth day.

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Speaker 1: Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty sound.

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Speaker 4: Overall?

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Speaker 2: That sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then?

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Speaker 4: I thought it went well too, but nothing radio silence.

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Speaker 4: Haven't heard a thing.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Interesting if you were just like two up in

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Speaker 1: you know, like I feel like the whole time, you're

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Speaker 1: telling yourself what not to do, not how great you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you should bust out those blue pillars again

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Speaker 2: and see how it goes. It's back on board. Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, you guys made me think that maybe

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Speaker 1: So we didn't think that, No, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: He made me good, tossed her out.

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Speaker 1: Well, how's a bad assumption to make on a first.

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Speaker 2: Date, as he redeemed himself from the creep label in

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Speaker 1: So far, Yeah, we haven't talked to her.

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Speaker 2: Yet, Jeff, all right, so so far it's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get the rest of the story when we

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Speaker 2: call Mandy for you and try and get you your

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Speaker 2: second date update right after this. Okay, sounds good. All right,

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Speaker 2: don't move, you creep. Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: If you missed the first part of the second date,

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Speaker 2: we got a returning listener to the show, Scott back

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Speaker 2: with us. He went down a lit of things he

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Speaker 2: including he didn't ask her to rate the other women

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Speaker 2: on the beach on a scale of one to ten.

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Speaker 2: He thought about it, but to his credit, didn't do it.

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Speaker 1: You did credit when you think about it.

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Speaker 2: Still, I guess we're taking baby steps with Scott here. Also,

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Speaker 2: when they went to the parking lot for their goodbye hug,

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Speaker 2: he considered taking out his guitar for a little John

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Speaker 2: Mayer serenade, but said, no, Brooke wouldn't like me to

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Speaker 1: I actually probably would have felt for that if I

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Speaker 1: was the one on the date for him. Well, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm a sucker for a guitar. That was a stereotype.

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Speaker 1: I really am.

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Speaker 2: Well, so, Scott, if we call her and she says

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Speaker 2: that you whipped it out, I'm gonna be slightly disappointed

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Speaker 2: because I thought you made significant growth here. And that's

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Speaker 2: not a little blue pill joke. That's just an honest

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Speaker 1: No, there is something wrong in my head head. I

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Speaker 1: just saying that you're saying with a clean thought.

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Speaker 2: That's you projecting what you want to hear. That has

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Speaker 2: nothing to do with what I'm saying. I'm saying that

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Speaker 2: Scott has turned a page. The only weird part is

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Speaker 2: his date, Mandy has completely ghosted afterwards. So let's find

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Speaker 2: out what that's about. Scott. You ready to do this.

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Speaker 5: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Look at that you did the whole first half not

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Speaker 1: getting shamed for anything. Scott. I think this is already

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Speaker 1: a good sign of how this.

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Speaker 2: He's only said three words. If anything, Brooke is the

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Speaker 2: creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts. So there we go.

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Speaker 1: I keep the thoughts inside. Jack just said that that's

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Speaker 1: a win.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Mandy?

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Speaker 5: Yes speaking, Hey Mandy.

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Speaker 5: On the vote.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't a nice time.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an

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Speaker 2: Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his

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Speaker 7: Yeah, hey, man, going hied it on. I just loven't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone

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Speaker 1: You can date for fun. That's okay too.

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is

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Speaker 7: What was the feeling, just that I could see myself

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Speaker 8: You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating

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Speaker 7: Right exact, And I'm not looking to get her so

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Speaker 1: Up on it? I know.

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Speaker 2: Well, you were turned off because you thought that he's

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if it's me, it's me.

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Speaker 4: Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should just go right to this then and

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Speaker 2: If he says right now he is willing to commit

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: I feel like you're a little laughing at me.

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Speaker 4: But like that is what i'd like.

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Speaker 5: Why not?

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Speaker 4: Let's give it a shot.

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Speaker 1: That's why not? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean why not?

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Speaker 1: He has no other options right now?

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't commit

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Speaker 2: Isn't that nice?

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Speaker 1: Excited?

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Speaker 7: I'm glad you said that you were really open and

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Speaker 2: Wait, what my god?

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Speaker 7: That's why I need the commitment. That's why I need

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Speaker 1: Him on what was your explanation? Why?

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Speaker 7: Like, that's why I need to know if he's in

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Speaker 1: Your engage because she needs to know if the backup

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Speaker 2: Is that what's happening?

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Speaker 7: She's crazy, But Scott, you don't need to listen to them.

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Speaker 7: I'm just really excited to spend time with you.

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Speaker 4: No, we're not hanging out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe, Scott, Now you should tell you wanted to

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Speaker 4: I did, No, you wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, the good news is, Scott, at the end

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Speaker 3: He did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 2: He just ended up with a strict, controlling, pre engaged

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Speaker 1: Very engaging?

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Speaker 2: Gage, you have fun, you too.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who

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Speaker 2: Doesn't he sound so in love? He sounds like he's

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Speaker 1: Scott, good work freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, with that woman on the phone. Now it

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Speaker 2: all makes sense how she's only been with one man

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh God together, But aren't we applauding her for

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Speaker 2: Just go went on this one. But again, that is

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Speaker 2: We're engaged right now.

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Speaker 1: I see, that's all.

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Speaker 2: I'm just looking for a backup. How did we miss that?

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Speaker 7: Brooke?

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Speaker 2: Where were you on that question?

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Speaker 1: My head is not in the game today.

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Speaker 2: Step it up on these calls going here on out.

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Speaker 2: That would have saved us a whole lot of time.

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Speaker 2: But in the end, happy ending kind of for who. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean she's got the big of a letter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for her. She's got commitments from not one,

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Speaker 2: textboard that want her to Yes, but we can have

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Speaker 2: you living here happily ever after. If you email the show,

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Speaker 2: we'll call that person who's not calling you back and

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Speaker 2: go check out all of our second Day podcast wherever

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Speaker 2: you get yours at Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The skeptics in this studio are saying today's second date

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Speaker 2: is one of the greatest scams ever pulled in dating history.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to say who those people are, but

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Speaker 2: I'm more open hearted. All my body parts are open.

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Speaker 2: I am. I am so open for this right now,

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Speaker 2: and I want you to text into seven eight five

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Speaker 2: nine two as the second date is running. Are you

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Speaker 1: Room people are committing to something else? Answer? And if

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Speaker 1: our managers checked the textboard later in the day and

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Speaker 1: didn't listen to this, they are going to be burying

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Speaker 2: Let your thoughts fly free and open as you hear

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Speaker 2: what happens in your brand new second date.

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Speaker 3: Update, next second date, update date.

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Speaker 2: We don't normally hear about this on second dates, or

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Speaker 2: did together, and then after doing all of that, wouldn't

455
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:06,080
Speaker 2: she know it? She's not getting a call back. How

456
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 2: does it feel to be a guy, all that effort

457
00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:10,640
Speaker 2: for no reward.

458
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:11,680
Speaker 1: Why would the guy.

459
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 2: At least do one thing.

460
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

461
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 1: If she's the one that set the date up, then

462
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 1: it's her responsibility.

463
00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. Yeah, before we jumped to any conclusions here,

464
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 2: let's talk to Michelle and find out what happened. Michelle,

465
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:25,360
Speaker 2: how you doing?

466
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 1: Hi?

467
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 6: I'm good. How are you guys doing good?

468
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 1: It's a good start. Since you're on the phone with us.

469
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 1: Some people come in a little bit more fragile.

470
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:38,120
Speaker 2: You seem like you're in good spirits, but clearly something's

471
00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 2: going wrong if this guy isn't calling you back. So

472
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 2: tell us about the situation. Who is he?

473
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Speaker 6: Well, his name is Calvin. We met on a dating

474
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Speaker 6: appay and yeah, I mean.

475
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Speaker 1: My first question is are you the one that initiated

476
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 1: all the contact?

477
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,919
Speaker 6: And it was pretty mutual in the beginning when we

478
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 6: exchange numbers. We were just going back and forth, and

479
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 6: we spoke on fall a few times and face timed.

480
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 6: But I had the topic of self care had came

481
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 6: up during one of our conversations.

482
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Speaker 1: You say self care, Yeah.

483
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 6: Self care, Yeah, okay, And so I asked him if

484
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,479
Speaker 6: he ever had a manny and Petty and he and

485
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 6: he said, no, oh, ever.

486
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Speaker 8: Makes sense why I've heard that my best friend gets

487
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,680
Speaker 8: manny's and petties, but I've never done it.

488
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 1: They feel so good.

489
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 2: I had a guy friend going for a manny Petty

490
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 2: lost his foot.

491
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 3: File.

492
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 8: They had fill back all yeah, Petty, well yeah, the

493
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,240
Speaker 8: place that he went wasn't accredited, but in this bucket,

494
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 8: I'm assuming that you probably took him to more reputable place.

495
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:51,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So was there any indecision about who was

496
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 2: going to pay for this part of the date the Yeah.

497
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Speaker 6: Well we didn't discuss it ahead of time, but I

498
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,440
Speaker 6: paid for the whole thing because he didn't have his wallet.

499
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 6: He didn't know where it was, So, I mean, it

500
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 6: wasn't It wasn't a big deal to me.

501
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 2: Who wallet?

502
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 1: What do you mean like you read the scene like

503
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 1: you don't find this out till what you're standing at

504
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 1: the register.

505
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 5: Yeah.

506
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,199
Speaker 6: So we got to the counter and he looked like

507
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 6: he was attempting to pay, like he was padding down

508
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 6: his pockets and stuff like that, and he's like, oh, man,

509
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 6: I don't I don't have my wallet. It looks like

510
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 6: I don't even.

511
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 2: Have my wallet.

512
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 8: It hit him.

513
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 3: Like girls of the bars.

514
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 1: We're like, I've never tried to kilos. If somebody buys you,

515
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: I've never had my nails done. Then I'm so smart.

516
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: I was, and she's like, exactly, And whose phone isn't

517
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: connected these days to your credit card? You know what

518
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 1: I mean?

519
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 2: My phone is not connected to my credit card.

520
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: By the way, you don't pay for anything.

521
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: It's called a life pack. So thank you for lunch

522
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 2: after this.

523
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 6: And I thought of that too. I was like, oh,

524
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 6: you can just cash up if you want or whatever.

525
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 6: And he's like, he doesn't do that because if someone

526
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 6: had stole his credit card information at one.

527
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: Point, you have to cash out.

528
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 6: And he said no, well he didn't have he didn't

529
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 6: have any links.

530
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 2: Okay, this guy he's had a rough he's had a

531
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 2: rough go with the payment stuff in his past, so

532
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 2: let's give him a break on that. Okay. So but

533
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 2: there was more after the manny petty it sounds like, yeah, so.

534
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 6: He loved it. And then after the nail salon, we

535
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 6: went to a bar and then all of a sudden,

536
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 6: he found his wallet. I guess he didn't realize, oh.

537
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 8: My gosh, right after it is a guy you don't

538
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 8: even have a purse.

539
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 1: I know, maybe he was wearing cargo pants. There are

540
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: so many things.

541
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Speaker 6: It was like in a pocket within a pot. It

542
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 6: was like the secret for.

543
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: Suddenly I found my ID so I can go into

544
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: drink in this.

545
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 2: That's fate smiling on your date right there.

546
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: So I mean at that point he should pay for

547
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: the drinks?

548
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, did he pay for the drinks at least?

549
00:23:59,359 --> 00:23:59,479
Speaker 5: Well?

550
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 6: Mind a little bit? So he had his ID in

551
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 6: the wallet, but he didn't have any money in his

552
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 6: wallet because he had just made a payment rifle before

553
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 6: he left his house. And I can understand like he

554
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 6: was nervous about the date.

555
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 1: There's no understanding. Why are we calling him? I mean,

556
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: look is scamming her?

557
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 2: Well, Alexis doesn't trust the guy unless he leaves the

558
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: credit card at ale house. Guys have we thought? And

559
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 2: I don't want to make this sad, but he doesn't.

560
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: Have a lot of money. It's embarrassing.

561
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 2: You don't just tell someone I have three dollars in

562
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 2: my bag. I've been there.

563
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 1: Take a date where you can afford something, then sure?

564
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: But what if this is all true? Though? What if

565
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 2: he actually couldn't find his wallet and he was really

566
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 2: nervous about a date with a great girl and was

567
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 2: just making mistakes.

568
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,679
Speaker 1: Okay, if it was true, Jeff, I would think that

569
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: he would call her for a second date to you know,

570
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: even the even if even if he wasn't super interested.

571
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 1: If it was true, he'd be like, let's go out

572
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: again so I can treat you next time I know

573
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 1: you and to get home.

574
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,239
Speaker 2: Yes, but the embarrassment and the shame of having to

575
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 2: do that is really overwhelming for somebody. I mean, my

576
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 2: heart drops just thinking about that.

577
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. She sounds pretty nice. She sounds like

578
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: it didn't bother her one bit.

579
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 2: I mean, how did you feel about it, Michelle?

580
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 6: Well, you know everything what really is great? On our date,

581
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 6: I didn't mind paying. Things happen in life, and I

582
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 6: went into it was an open mind and just wanted

583
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 6: to get to know him. We had great conversation, so

584
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 6: I was for it.

585
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but at this point after the date, he's

586
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 2: not calling you back.

587
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 6: Right like I'll text and sometimes he doesn't respond at all,

588
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 6: and sometimes he does and it's kind of like, sure, yeah,

589
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 6: that's right with Brook.

590
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: Why is he not taking you out to.

591
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: Respond? No, maybe he just forgot what pocket his phone

592
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 2: was in, and he was like, oh, I usually in

593
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 2: this pocket. Now it's in my jacket pocket.

594
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: Where are they finding all of these clothes with tiny

595
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: hidden pockets?

596
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 6: I mean I kind of gathered that maybe he's like

597
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 6: embarrassed about it, and yeah, that could be it him.

598
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 6: I did. I just want to know what's up, what's

599
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 6: the deal. I can't wait forever, but I do.

600
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 5: I like his vibe.

601
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 2: Okay, well, maybe his ego is a little bit down

602
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 2: right now, but I think just the fact that we

603
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 2: call him and tell him that you're still interested would

604
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 2: be a huge boost to it. Oh for sure, So

605
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,959
Speaker 2: let's do that. We'll come back. We're gonna call Calvin

606
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: for you and try and get you a second date.

607
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 3: Update right after this second date update.

608
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 2: Are we just a jaded, cynical bunch of radio sleees

609
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: bags judging people on the surface.

610
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: Wa question, Of course we are.

611
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 2: We shouldn't take that much pride in it, because for

612
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: the first time in probably over two years, a woman

613
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 2: has come on the show and said she paid for

614
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 2: everything on a first date because the guy forgot his

615
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 2: wallet or you know, misplaced it for a second at least,

616
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 2: and most of us instantly thought, Oh, this guy's a

617
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 2: total scam artist who doesn't deserve a date, let alone

618
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 2: any love in his life.

619
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: But I don't know that we went that far. Is

620
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: that what you were thinking in your head?

621
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: I heard Alexis say, why do you even want to

622
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 2: call this guy's?

623
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: Okay? Keep going with the story, though it gets worse.

624
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 9: Why The bottom line is Michelle says she had a

625
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 9: great time with him, felt the connection, and thought maybe

626
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 9: his nervousness just caused him to make a few bonehead mistakes,

627
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 9: have a lot.

628
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 1: Of money, said he found his wallet, just his credit card.

629
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. The thing is Michelle is willing to

630
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 2: give him the benefit of the doubt in that situation.

631
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 2: Can we do the same find the good in him?

632
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: Sounds a little scammy, but we'll try well.

633
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: I guess the weird part is afterwards, Calvin isn't offering

634
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: to repay her or even reaching out for another day.

635
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: That's the weird part. Are at is maybe nervousness and embarrassment.

636
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 2: Where are you at? Michelle?

637
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

638
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 6: I feel like he was nervous and embarrassed. I mean,

639
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 6: you guys weren't there s Yes.

640
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 2: And we also make light of stuff.

641
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: We're half joking.

642
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you feel like he's a good guy deep down.

643
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm all about the person and not money.

644
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: So Alexis just rolled her eyes at you.

645
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: So sorry about that.

646
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 2: You know, let's just get Let's just call Calvin though,

647
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 2: because I do want to hear what he has to

648
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 2: say about this. So here we go. I'm dialing his

649
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: number right now.

650
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 5: Hello.

651
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: Hey is this Calvin?

652
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 5: Yeah? This Calvin was going on.

653
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: Hey, hey Calvin, we're a radio show and we're hoping

654
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: to talk to you about your dating life a little bit.

655
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 5: What what are you talking about?

656
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it sounds a little bit weird, but

657
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: it's a segment that we do called a second Date Update,

658
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: and that's where we help our listeners reconnect with somebody

659
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 2: that they went out on a date with if they're

660
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 2: not able to get a second one.

661
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 5: Yeah okay, So what's going on?

662
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: Someone's interested in you? Is that surprising at all to you? Calvin?

663
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 5: The way my life going, and yes, that's very surprising.

664
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: Hold on, don't get doubt on yourself, because this is Michelle.

665
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: You guys went and got like manicure pedicure stuff together.

666
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 5: Oh my god?

667
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: Oh ok, because I was like, a very much.

668
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: If he's embarrassed by the date, that's a natural reaction.

669
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: We heard a little from Michelle about it. We heard

670
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: that she like, misplaced your wallet and couldn't pay and

671
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 2: then found it later. Bro, it sounded like a mess

672
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: and it didn't paint you in the best light.

673
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: I mean. And then there was like the you so

674
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: you don't do any cash app.

675
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: Sorry, we're not trying to pile on you here, but

676
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 2: I mean and also your name.

677
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 3: I'm kidding.

678
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: How did you feel about the wallet situation?

679
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 5: I'll be ready with you.

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Speaker 10: I feel really bad about the whole night, buddy. I'm

681
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Speaker 10: just not at a really good point right now financially,

682
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Speaker 10: which makes dating hard. Yeah, so you know, I really

683
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Speaker 10: do feel bad about the whole night.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you don't feel bad. She's still really interested in you.

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Speaker 8: She brought that up to her like he may not have,

687
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Speaker 8: and she did not text is free.

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Speaker 10: So I.

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Speaker 2: Don't take that from the woman who has her mom

690
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Speaker 2: pay her cell phone back. Okay, so looks not Selvin.

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Speaker 2: We know that we know that you ended up finding

692
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Speaker 2: your wallet right before you got to the bar. Was

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Speaker 2: that just so that you could get your ID to

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Speaker 2: get in.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, because I just didn't know how to tell her

696
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Speaker 10: I didn't have any money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean the thing is like, she sounds so open

699
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: and cool, like you should have just suggested a date

700
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Speaker 1: that didn't cost as much.

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Speaker 2: She knows that we all go through tough times. So

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Speaker 2: let's say that she was still interested after the disaster

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Speaker 2: of your first date.

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Speaker 1: I think we just said that.

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Speaker 2: What is your take on that.

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Speaker 10: I mean, honestly, I would probably say no because she's

707
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Speaker 10: just too good for me.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to waste her time.

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Speaker 1: Dude, Why would you say that everybody goes through hard times?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but I don't want to bring that into my

712
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 10: drama and all my life.

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Speaker 1: Are you not single?

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Speaker 2: Before you answer that, we get too deep into this.

715
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Speaker 2: I want to bring on someone who's more important than

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Speaker 2: any of us in this room, and that's Michelle, who's

717
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: been waiting patiently on the other line, listening to this call,

718
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 2: wanting to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Hey, what are you talking about, Seana Fauma.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them listening Michelle.

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 6: Hi? Calvin, Hi Michelle. I mean I haven't heard from you,

723
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 6: so I'm really happy to hear your voice.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I just want to apologize up front. I'm just

725
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 10: going through a lot right now. I don't have a job,

726
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 10: so I just don't want to waste well, I'm honestly, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean that just means you're you're an entrepreneur. I think

728
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 6: you're just looking at this whole thing wrong.

729
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: What do you do that looking at it wrong? Interesting?

730
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Speaker 6: I mean, every business owner goes through this in the beginning,

731
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Speaker 6: you know, I'm sure even the YouTube owners struggled. Airbnb

732
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 6: owners struggled in the beginning. This is just and I'm

733
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Speaker 6: I'm willing to stick by his side, you.

734
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 2: Know, working out of his page.

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Speaker 1: He was already rich.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, well, I mean, Calvin, she's willing to give

737
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Speaker 2: you the benefit of the doubt. I'm having no job.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but I'm like fully broke man, like I have

739
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 10: no money, and I'm.

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Speaker 5: Really I'm serious. I feel like she's such a good person.

741
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 5: I just feel like I'll be wasting time.

742
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 6: It's not that you don't have any You're not materialistic.

743
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 6: It's not about money with.

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00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 2: You, oh god, everything you guys live together.

745
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: Some of my best relationships they were men who didn't

746
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Speaker 1: have home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, them the moment. Okay, honestly, we'll tell your husband

748
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: to give up the house and move into your.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just saying that it's a hard.

750
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,479
Speaker 2: Husband to hear the best relationships are with the homeless.

751
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: He's obviously my best. Why do you have to compare everything, Jesus,

752
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: it's like talking to my husband right now. I had relationships.

753
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 2: You're hearing a happy relationship on the phone right these people?

754
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 2: Excuse me? Sorry, continue, Michelle.

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Speaker 6: He's not homeless. He has a home if he needs

756
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 6: to come here.

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Speaker 2: Wow, is that offered you?

758
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Speaker 3: Just girl?

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00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: Calvin?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I never about it anything like that. Honestly,

761
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 5: be real with you. I felt like.

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Speaker 10: Even at night, I was kind of getting on her

763
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 10: nerves because I was talking a lot of junk about

764
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Speaker 10: my ex girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Oh, don't bring it up now, obviously, did you not

766
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: learn anything for the last thirty seconds of my life?

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Speaker 2: Everything is good, Michelle. Did you have a problem with

768
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: him talking about his ex the whole night?

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 6: I took it as it means that he's really passionate

771
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 6: about love and he still believes in it.

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Speaker 1: You cannot bring her down. No, I need to call

773
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: her every time I'm having a bad day. So she

774
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: could spin it.

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00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 2: Fam I mean, I think Brook she sees this little

776
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: lump of coal and spots of diamond.

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Speaker 1: Dude, he's Aladdin right now.

778
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, And there's nothing wrong with wanting to change a

779
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 2: man to be better.

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00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 6: I don't want to change him. I don't need to

781
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 6: change him.

782
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 7: He perfect the way he is.

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Speaker 2: That's really nice.

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Speaker 1: Don't pass this up, Calvin. This is like once a

785
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: lifetime you meet a person like this.

786
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Speaker 2: I mean, we would love to offer you, guys, to

787
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 2: go out on another date, and we would pay for

788
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 2: it if you're willing to at least give it a shot. Calvin.

789
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: That way, you don't have to worry.

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Speaker 6: No no, no, no, no no no no. Listen, guys, this

791
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 6: is my money, my choice. I want to pay for

792
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 6: the date and let him know I am by his side.

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00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

794
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 8: I wouldn't feel bad for Tgi Friday the more financial decisions.

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Speaker 2: Calvin, I mean, what are you going to say? Are

796
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 2: you willing to give her a chance to pay for

797
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: your next day?

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00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:41,439
Speaker 5: She's offering the honor to Michelle. Thank you for even

799
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 5: just understanding what I'm going through and wanting to be

800
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 5: there for me. So yes, I would love to.

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Speaker 8: Go on, are man, this turned out so good?

802
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: It like chipped away at my little jaded heart.

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00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations you too.

804
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Speaker 5: You're going to meet up Michelle for real? Are you

805
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 5: sure you want to go out with me? After all?

806
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 10: It is because you know every time on the day,

807
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 10: I'm just talking about myself.

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00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 1: Wait, what what is that a rule? Or maybe we

809
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: could not do that?

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00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 6: I mean I just looked at it like you're opening

811
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 6: up to me. You feel comfortable opening up to me.

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Speaker 2: Just not as Wallace.

813
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: We're got a lot of texts coming in at seventy

815
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: five night or two about this second date. Someone said,

816
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 2: we absolutely have to get an update update from these two.

817
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 2: She is the most understanding woman in the world.

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00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: I know. I'm actually like, I'm worried about her, not

819
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: necessarily in this relationship, but just in life. Is she

820
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 1: gonna get taken advantage of can you live? Can you live?

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Speaker 1: That opening kind?

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Speaker 8: She's gonna be a guy who's like, yeah, I murdered

823
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 8: a bunch of people, and she's like, you.

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00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: Sound very passionate.

825
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 6: Ye.

826
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: Another text says it's funny Brook called the guy a

827
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: scammer in the first part and by the end, her

828
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: heart was melting with shame.

829
00:36:58,400 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: Shame.

830
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's not fair. Brooks heart was not melting

831
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: with shame. It was melting thinking about her homeless ex boyfriends.

832
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: Let's give her some credit on that.

833
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: Listen, you guys, it's not that I still love them.

834
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: They just say it was a fun relationship.

835
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Speaker 4: You know we're doing.

836
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: We stayed at my house all the time.

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00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: That was the only option. Alexis, maybe did you learn

838
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 2: anything from this second date update? Anything you want to

839
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 2: put into your own dating life?

840
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: Was I supposed to No?

841
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,919
Speaker 2: No, never should have asked.

842
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

843
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 2: What I should be asking is if you have any

844
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 2: issues in your love life that you want a little

845
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 2: help with, we can be that person to step.

846
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Speaker 5: In for you.

847
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: This makes me feel like we can do good things,

848
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:36,720
Speaker 1: truly

849
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Speaker 2: Want to help with Out email the show, We'll call

850
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 2: that person who's not calling you back and go check

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00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 2: out all of our Second Day podcasts wherever you get

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Speaker 2: yours at Brook and Jeffrey