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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Good to have you with us. Happy

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Speaker 1: birthday this morning to the University of Southern California USC

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Speaker 1: opened its doors on this day today, October six in

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Speaker 1: eighty when l A was a frontier town, had no

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Speaker 1: paved streets, electric lights, or telephones. Do you ever look

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Speaker 1: back at the history like the map books, the history

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Speaker 1: books of Los Angeles and see what l A used

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Speaker 1: to look like with dirt roads. It's fascinating. Just a

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Speaker 1: bunch of farmlands and yeah. And when you now fly

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Speaker 1: into l A X and you see how populated the homes,

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Speaker 1: incredible to think how fast it grew, right, so fast.

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Speaker 1: Was just a bunch of oaks like oak trees. That's

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Speaker 1: why we can't cut down any of the oak trees.

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Speaker 1: Did you try? I mean, you should not even be

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Speaker 1: asking about very illegal in California. You cannot cut down

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Speaker 1: an oak tree, be fine. Like Burbank a bunch of banks.

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Speaker 1: You can't rob a bank in Burbank. You cannot rob

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Speaker 1: a bank anywhere in the world, actually, yes, but especially there,

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Speaker 1: especially in Burbank. That's where they were all centralized at

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Speaker 1: one point bank. It was so cold the morning that

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Speaker 1: And you're not supposed to be seen in Encino? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: not eno. We were talking about that dating app fleet

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Speaker 1: Field Field Fleet seems like a more appropriate name. Why

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Speaker 1: do you always switch letters? I think I have that thing.

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Speaker 1: Are you dyslexic? I think I have a version of it,

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Speaker 1: like really, like did you diagnosed? I'm diagnosing myself. But

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Speaker 1: I'll see a word and I'll make another word of

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Speaker 1: it because it looks like a word. I think dyslexia

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Speaker 1: isn't necessarily like one diagnosis of it. There are versions

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Speaker 1: and degrees of it. But I will see a word

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Speaker 1: and Kelly RiPP and I talked about this. I'll see

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Speaker 1: a word in the teleprompter and I the word in

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Speaker 1: the top prompter is not the word I see. It's

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Speaker 1: another word that looks like that word, and I'll do

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Speaker 1: it with like Channing Tatum, Channing Tatum. That's another one.

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Speaker 1: I see what's his name, Tanning Channing? It's Channing Tatum.

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Speaker 1: But you Channing Channing Tatum, No chadeum Tanning. Hold on, guys,

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Speaker 1: This is where it gets screw in my head. His

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Speaker 1: name is Channing Tatum, but I call him Tanning Chatum

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Speaker 1: because that's what I see. I know, I was thought

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Speaker 1: it was less dyslexic for you and more um half listening. No,

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Speaker 1: I think it's maybe that. But it's also when I

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Speaker 1: see a word, my brain associates the word before it

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Speaker 1: and like uh, loud luxury, I see Brian Lord. There's

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Speaker 1: the agent named Brian Lord. And when I see Loud,

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Speaker 1: I see Lord. When I see the word loud, I

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Speaker 1: see Lord. Right. But because it's just I don't know

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Speaker 1: what happens there. Maybe a doctor's listening to tell me

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Speaker 1: why I have problems. But anyway, problem well, Channing Tatum,

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Speaker 1: Danning chant them is a problem. I can't call the

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Speaker 1: guy Danning Chatum. These are just opportunities, opportunities to what

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Speaker 1: get it right? Sure, But anyway, we're talking about Fleet,

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Speaker 1: the dating app field field the dating. See that's the

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Speaker 1: reason because there's two ease. So I see fleet, not field.

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Speaker 1: It's spelled wrong. It's spelled f e e l D Field.

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Speaker 1: But when you look down on it looks like Fleet.

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Speaker 1: Anybody field, it looks like Fleet over here. Anyway, we're

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Speaker 1: not on it. But it was a it was a

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Speaker 1: third party third wheel dating app for couples you're looking

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Speaker 1: for singles. And it got me thinking about this article

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Speaker 1: I saw about dating in the real world, not on

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Speaker 1: an app. And there's a farmer's market, and I think

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Speaker 1: the farmers market. Similar support local businesses. Studio City, Laurel Canyon.

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Speaker 1: Don't you think hosting a singles window is great? I

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Speaker 1: And when you are and you're single and you're there,

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Speaker 1: you're like, whoever else is there? Well, if you're buying

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Speaker 1: or maybe you have a spare dollar, and because you're

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Speaker 1: the prow like you're always just looking like are you single?

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Speaker 1: Except I never looked cute at the Farmer's Market. I'm

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Speaker 1: just throwing it out there. The Farmer's Market place in

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Speaker 1: like Farmers Market. That's a good one. Tuesdays they do

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Speaker 1: I met a guy Mr. Whole Foods at Whole food Well,

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Speaker 1: was passing up Jeff Bezos, Mr Hoole food But then

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Speaker 1: the story. It's okay. I tried. You took a swing,

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Speaker 1: gonna miss Tanning chanting. That's did I get right? No?

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Speaker 1: All right? So how many times have you heard these

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Speaker 1: help tips? Turns out there not true. Drink eight glasses

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Speaker 1: They say everyone's different and how much hydration they need varries.

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Speaker 1: our lives. It's just not true. Is eating before bed

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Speaker 1: causes weight gain? They say, calories are calories, no matter

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Speaker 1: and that is true, But when you eat them does matter,

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Speaker 1: not burning it off. Well, you can argue with these doctors.

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Speaker 1: think scientifically, the fact is calories in, calories out. That's

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Speaker 1: the math for weight loss. Now, transferring muscle and fat

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Speaker 1: we now know Elon Musk is first sure reviving his

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Speaker 1: offer to buy Twitter. We were talking about this yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Disney's Main Street Story and Holiday Time at the Disneyland Resort,

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Speaker 1: Guests can book guided tours up to sixty days in advance.

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Speaker 1: the Black Eyed Peas. How cool is that? Tickets are

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Speaker 1: She got a random d M on Phase Book asking

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Speaker 1: We're gonna see what we can find out. We're calling

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Speaker 1: hoping that you like our services and then refers to

423
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Speaker 1: friends and family. Is that something you'd be interested? You

424
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: may have purchased something online in the last six to

425
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: eighteen months and selected to receive promotional offers from local vendors.

426
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: That's how we have our database. So you're saying I

427
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: signed up for something and included my name and cell

428
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: phone number. Because that doesn't sound like something I do.

429
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you we did. That's

430
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: that's what we have here, sir. Is this something you'd

431
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: be interested in? We just need the name in the

432
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: and a note of who you want to send it

433
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:22,199
Speaker 1: to to. Just free flowers. They are free. Uh okay, yeah, okay,

434
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 1: I haven't got my wife flowers in a while. You

435
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,479
Speaker 1: can send them to her and we'll see what happens.

436
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 1: What's her name, Tessa Testa s A t E S

437
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 1: s A. And then we have a card. You can

438
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,360
Speaker 1: write something on the note. What would you like to put?

439
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: Let's say, um, I love you. I hope you're having

440
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: a great day. Oscar, Oscar. I'm gonna just jump in

441
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: here your voice of being broadcast in the radio. I

442
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: need you to know that my name is Ryan Seacrest.

443
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: We have your wife Tessa on the line, and we're

444
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: here like Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest, Well, usually just say

445
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: it once, but yes, so that I went something, what's

446
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: going on? Not really, But the thing is that Tessa

447
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: reads out to us because she's concerned about um, your relationship,

448
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: and a woman named a Vette contacted her asking if

449
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: you were married or not, which led your wife to

450
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: believe if you're seeing another woman named you Vette. Can

451
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: you clarify? Yeah, I don't know. I don't know an Evett. So,

452
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: but why would this woman right directly to your wife

453
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: asking about your marriage? I don't know that, That's what

454
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling I don't know. I didn't know what she

455
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,880
Speaker 1: asked me earlier. I don't know now. I mean, I've

456
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 1: I've never heard of in a vet. I've never met

457
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: an a vet. I don't know why she would message

458
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 1: my wife. So, I mean, that's that's all I can

459
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: say about it. Man, tessaid, do you want to chime in?

460
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: I mean, babe, I have no idea. I just I honestly,

461
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: like I told you before, I didn't know she was is.

462
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 1: She sent me this message then never replied. I don't

463
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: know why she's saying that. So what was this awesome test? What? No? Babe, Look,

464
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: I don't know who event is. I was not aware

465
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: that she was writing you a message I don't know

466
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 1: why some stranger would write you a message. Look, I

467
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: don't know how to make this better, okay, But I

468
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:33,719
Speaker 1: promise you I don't know who that is, okay, and

469
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: whatever is going on, we can deal with it. So

470
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: why don't you guys track her down together and find

471
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: out why she's reaching out to U? Tessa about Oscar

472
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. I mean I wrote her back

473
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: like asking her, you know, like why would you message

474
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: me and then not reply? And she never got back

475
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: to that either. She left that too, so I know

476
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: she read that some spam butt who cares? Why? Why

477
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: waste our time dealing with I know, random stranger. I know,

478
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just I couldn't stop thinking about it,

479
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 1: and I just you know, with these flowers, I just

480
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that you would send him to

481
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: me and him my girl. Come on, it sounds like

482
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 1: we need a little stronger communication about feelings here in

483
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: this relationship and to help build little security between you guys,

484
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: Test and Oscar. I'm gonna let you guys run. Thank

485
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: you very much for coming on and talking with us,

486
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: Oscar and Tessa. Good luck. Thank you so much. Relie,

487
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: UH need your reaction to that. I think he's telling

488
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 1: the truth. I think so too, But also we could

489
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: do a little bit more of a deep dive with

490
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 1: this girl. It was a d M like, let's yeah,

491
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: I think they should investigate that investigating seems like they're

492
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: not communicating enough in their relationship. That's why there's question.

493
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: So we had a situation where Tessa, the wife of Oscar,

494
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: got d M by another woman named Ivette asking if

495
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: he's married now. All signs would indicate that she's like

496
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: worried that the guy she's seeing Oscar all of a

497
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 1: sudden might be married, but he's not telling her. We

498
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: got him on the line. He said he doesn't know

499
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: who that is. He actually called her a spambot, and

500
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: I believed him. I just believed him. I think that

501
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: they need to work on this strengthening of the communication

502
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: and their relationship, but I believed him. And when you

503
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: get to a place in your marriage where something like

504
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: that happens and you don't give your significant other the

505
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt or you don't believe them, then

506
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: you've got issues already. You've got trust issues and common issues.

507
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: Do we think that there's an issue with him kind

508
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 1: of like being defensive about the flowers in general, like

509
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: how did you get my info? I don't know. Naturally

510
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: doing that, I'd probably just hang up on you. I mean,

511
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: for real, the same I think when those people call

512
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: and the night and want to talk to you, I

513
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: just hang up. You know. I don't get many like

514
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 1: wrong numbers. And I got a wrong number the other

515
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: day and I ended up like talking to the girl

516
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: for a while, and I felt really bad for her

517
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: because she was she was a wrong number or scam. No,

518
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: she was looking for like some she was looking for

519
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: like a Kathy, and she was calling from like a university,

520
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: and so she was conferences. She wasn't though, and she

521
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: was trying to look for her, and I was like, oh, no,

522
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: you have the wrong numbers. She was like okay, But

523
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I hope you find her like by But

524
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: that was it. But I just actually felt bad for her.

525
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm so cynical. I think that's a scam. Who is Kathy? Really?

526
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: Let me get Kat on the line in full of

527
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: thin Kay, you heard the Ryan's roses? What did you think? Uh? So,

528
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: I have a lot to say. This was way too

529
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: familiar to me. Um Well, I know she's really right now,

530
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: but I do think she needs to dig deeper because

531
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: the thing happened to me, this kind of thing happened

532
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: to me. It was actually from a text from a

533
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: number I didn't know, but this person seemed to know

534
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: about me. So I did a reverse search on that

535
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: number and I got a name, and then I searched

536
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: that name, and I know I was digging, but I

537
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: found out that she worked for a consulting firm and

538
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: it's not from where we live, and it was I

539
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: looked on their website and one of their clients was

540
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: the company that my husband was working for. So finally,

541
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: when I brought all that information to him, finally he

542
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: admitted everything. Okay, so you think that Tessa needs to

543
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: dig a little bit deeper and not take him for

544
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: what he's saying, No, I do. I mean, I think

545
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 1: I think she needs to dig deeper because this was

546
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: enough to cause, like we, a separation in in my marriage.

547
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: I think she's going to dig deeper and find more clues.

548
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: I think he's cheating on her. Interesting I didn't think

549
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: so well, Kate. I mean, thank you for sharing your

550
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: story and thank you for listening and calling you take care,

551
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: Thank you you too. He did know who you were

552
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: really quickly. Well, yeah it's Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, but like

553
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: not everybody knows who is that. Can hear you on

554
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: air with Ryan Seacrest. So we talked about dating a

555
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: lot on the show. We've all done it. We've all

556
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: done a lot of it. Yeah, And now Sisney is

557
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: saying that the new way of connecting is voice connection,

558
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: which is the old way of connecting. You used to

559
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: meet someone, call them on a land line and talk

560
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: to them over the phone, and if they give you

561
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: good phone, yeah, you'd have conversations that would either work

562
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: or not work. You fall asleep on the phone, or

563
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: like your mom would pick up the middle of the

564
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: night with those who are way back in the day,

565
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: way back in the day, Ryan John, dinner is ready,

566
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: chicken salad. Come down for chicken salad? Okay, mother, you

567
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: used to announce it to you know how. My mom

568
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: would not be that nice because it would be like

569
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: in the nice Yeah, yeah, I know. I only would

570
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: keep my line open all night when I was in

571
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: a like a like a relationship. Your line, your your

572
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: own phone line. I did, oh, must be nice, you guys.

573
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: I had to share with the whole family. Well, I

574
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: was working at Star Nintie four in high school by

575
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 1: my own line. My parents fax machine must have connected

576
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: the phone to it. It's kind of awesome. Always wanted

577
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: my podcast. I always wanted my own line. I had

578
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: a few friends that had and I was like, Wow,

579
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: you guys are so cool. So what's the voice connection thing? Anyways? Okay, So,

580
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: like usually when you're first attracted to somebody, it's like, oh,

581
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: their eyes or they're tall or whatever. It is. The

582
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: new dating trend is leaving all those obvious choices behind,

583
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: and it's more about someone's voice and how they speak

584
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: so much so that him was like, we're onto something here.

585
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: And they were the first app to adapt this to

586
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: their their app basically and the voice notes, and so

587
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: they actually did this because they realize a lot of

588
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: their users were complaining how when they finally when they

589
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: match with somebody, when they finally met in real life,

590
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: they often were annoyed or even disgusted at times by

591
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: the person's voice. When they actually went out on a date,

592
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: they're like, oh my gosh, I can I can't do it.

593
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: I can't be with this person because of their voice.

594
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: So they added the features that way people can kind

595
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: of just go back and forth. But what's happening now

596
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: is voice fishing. So people are calling as other people

597
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: half fishing, but not necessarily as other people. But what

598
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: they're doing is they're like creating accents or like making

599
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: their voice sound different, like not really truly how they talk,

600
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: but they're making themselves sound sexier than like how they

601
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: it's not really like how they talk, I understand. So

602
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: if I were to leave this voice thing, yeah, I

603
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: would alter my sound to make myself sound better, but

604
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: it's still me. It's still you. Like you would change

605
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: your dialect a little bit, like just like the way

606
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: you say or mesa like you know you're like you would,

607
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: or the way I talked with like sports sometimes exactly,

608
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: or like if you had like Tubs has like a

609
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: hot voice too, Like you could just tell Tubs what

610
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: to say and he would say it, but it would

611
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: be like a hot voice. I'm just using that as

612
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: an example. Well, we're gonna go around the room here

613
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: and see for the second, but you would like I'm

614
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: gonna come back to it. There's no pin this is

615
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: gonna be real time. But wait, so but putting on

616
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: a British acset. People will do that when they have

617
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: ye people don't why, what's the point? It's to lure

618
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: them in and then they like, you know, then then

619
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: they still go on the day and they realized they

620
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: were voice fished. So a good way to figure it

621
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: out is if they're just doing the voice notes throughout

622
00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: the entire time. You guys are kind of chatting, that's

623
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: probably a tell sign that you might be being voice fish,

624
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: so just be aware. Okay, Well, let's let's hear, like,

625
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: what would your voice sound like, Tanya if you're leaving

626
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: the voice note on a dating app? Um, you know,

627
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: throw it out there. Okay, So let's say he said,

628
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: what are you doing tonight? Right? What are you gonna prerecorded? No,

629
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 1: like he would send it. He would ask me a question, right,

630
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: and then you record it back. Okay, sound like I'm

631
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: gonna watch hocus Pocus too, already watched a couple of

632
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 1: nights ago, loved it so much. Maybe get a couple

633
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 1: of pumpkins, how about you? So when you string out

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Speaker 1: much and pumpkins, I'm out on we're gonna end in

635
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: pumpkins like I'm out. That's called something By the way,

636
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: when people do that, I don't know what it's called,

637
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: but I am out. Yeah, okay, So how would you

638
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: leave your message? Um? Okay, I'd be like, I think

639
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a bath and then make some dinner

640
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 1: and probably just watch a little TV. Interesting how you

641
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: chose a bath as a lead, because it's like sexually

642
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: sounds sexy, right right right? Who's next? Tops? So what

643
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,760
Speaker 1: would you say? I'm just gonna stay in and relax,

644
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: get some rest. I'm out. It's like deep and mysterious.

645
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: I don't even thinking about this. Huh no, but I

646
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: don't see anything wrong with Wait, let's give you go ahead.

647
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: Where are you? Um? I would probably try and call

648
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: either later in the evening or early in the morning,

649
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: so my voice was extra deep, like you don't explain it,

650
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: just go hey, it's Ryan. You know I always say

651
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: it's Ryan. Hi, it's me Hi. Conversation. I'm just wondering

652
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: if you wanted to grab a bite on Friday night.

653
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: You know we can meet. This is great new Italian place. Local. Uh,

654
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: nobody's really heard of it yet. But if you want

655
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: to grab a bite, let me know. Hit me back, No,

656
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: hit me that's cute. I don't like to hit me back. Okay,

657
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: maybe I wouldn't save me back. I also probably say

658
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: also paying your bills on the tents? Wait? Can we

659
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: try for Roosa? Mark? I just need to hear everybody,

660
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: this is mine. If you'd like to go to the fair,

661
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: get some French fries, Mark, Mark go, I would bring

662
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: it down, bring it down there right around here. Yeah.

663
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:27,399
Speaker 1: Maybe said it makes some dinner, not dinner dinner. Where

664
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: are you going? Let go? Let him go? Okay, God,

665
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna make some dinner and call it an

666
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: early night. Maybe watch the little TV fishing. He's like,

667
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch Wait, He's I'm gonna watch Jeffrey Dahmer

668
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: tonight an episode three. You know, like to watch to sleeve.

669
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: It's like, oh man one, yeah, Tubs one. I don't

670
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: want to to that. I don't concede that. Mark and

671
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: Iron in the running what I thought I was second

672
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: really wants Tubs to win this, So let's just let

673
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: her have her moment. No, I agree with Tubs winning. Wow,

674
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: guys turn all right. So it's been determined that tub

675
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Tubbs, our engineer, has the sexiest voice on this show.

676
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: Now you feel free to text to agree four one

677
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: two seven or disagree four one two seven. Tanya is

678
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: in the running, Sisney's in the running, unfortunately all on

679
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: the running. I wouldn't say I'm sexy, really, you probably yeah,

680
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: more bubbly, like I'm not like sitting here saying like

681
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shave my legs and yeah, I agree. I

682
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't say I'm sexy. I'd say I'm high strung. Yeah,

683
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: you had a lot of detail. You were like to

684
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: the point and direct. Well, I thought that's what you're

685
00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 1: supposed to do when you're leaving these voice notes. Hey,

686
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: uh well I got condemned for saying, hey, it's me, Hey,

687
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 1: it's Ryan. Can't Are you supposed to introduce yourself when

688
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: you leave a message because they know it to you?

689
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: How do they know? It's a mere profile? It's like

690
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: a text message, like you know, you're just like you

691
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: say hey it's Ryan every time you text. When I text, actually,

692
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 1: but when I call and leave a message, I'm like, hey,

693
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: it's Ryan. Always sorry that you heard that. Do you

694
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: say it there with your mom? Hey it's me? Nah,

695
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: I say, hey, it's it's not a voicemail it's just

696
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: a it's like a text message wrought me a lot

697
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: of joy. Guys, where's joy here on the lines. Let's

698
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 1: go to Mallory. Mallory just found out that her boyfriend

699
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,760
Speaker 1: has a matching tattoo with his ex. Okay, Mallory, it's funny.

700
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: I was just having this conversation about fake tattoos. Now

701
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 1: fun it would be for Halloween, just to spice it

702
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: up a little bit, you know, the ones that you

703
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: can I think I would keep mine on the inside

704
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: of my bicep, but then remove of it. Yeah, it's

705
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: good to try it out, see if you like it. Yeah,

706
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: and then you come along with this story about your

707
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: ex having the same tattoo. What is the tattoo? So

708
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: it is a moon and she has one happening as

709
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: the other well has it's a son. Here's here's a situation. Okay. So, like,

710
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: he has a lot of tattoos, right, but he has

711
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: this specific one and it's a moon. And I've asked

712
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: him a story behind all of his tattoos, like including

713
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: that one, and he told me that he just liked

714
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: the idea of having a moon, right right, Well, his

715
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend and I we have mutual friends. Um, so

716
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 1: someone I followed tagged her in a picture on Instagram,

717
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 1: so of course I went to a profile and I

718
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: was just looking around and I saw that she had

719
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: a son tattoo in the exact same spot that he

720
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: has his right, it's on her arm, like the same style,

721
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: same shading. So I'm like, Okay, this is not just

722
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: like coincidence, like they have matchic tattoos. Solarcist the match. Yeah,

723
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: so yeah, why did he did? He just not want

724
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: to get into it with you, And I figured you

725
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: would never find out about the sun in the moon.

726
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: I guess so, because like I've asked him before and

727
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: and I finally confronted him and I did say, wait,

728
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: is this a matching tattoo? And he was like yes,

729
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: Like we did get it on a whim, but it

730
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: was meant to be, like, um, she's the sun to

731
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: his moon and like the other way around. Yeah, I

732
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: just bring you can easily make that something else. I

733
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: would want it to be changed, I think, especially if

734
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: it bothered me, like it's bothering you, yes, and like

735
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: he doesn't think it's a big deal at all, And

736
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, but now I have to look at it

737
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: all the time, and that's what I think about you.

738
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Speaker 1: But that's the thing he needs to know. It's a

739
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: big deal. It's a big deal to you. It's got

740
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: to be a big deal to him because that's what

741
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: you're thinking about every time you see it. So I

742
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: would push for the change, push for the edit, Kenny.

743
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: It doesn't have a bunch like it'll be an easy

744
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:55,399
Speaker 1: like he can cover it up Flower. That is true. Yeah,

745
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: he's just trying to make it seem like it's not

746
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: a big deal. But yeah, I'll suggest that I do

747
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: like that for the edit completely. Thanks for the call, Mallory. Okay,

748
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: I do I do this once a year where I think, gosh,

749
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: you should have one permanent No, I shouldn't because then

750
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: when I get older, I won't want it. No, you're

751
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: never gonna not want it, I think so. I think

752
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 1: me at ninety with skin hanging down and a tattoo

753
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 1: that you don't ninety you're not going to care where

754
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: you're doing. Really, you don't think I'm gonna care with

755
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: my shirt off along the beach when I'm ninety. No,

756
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna be like living your life. I'm happy to

757
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: know I didn't realize you visualize so much about being nineties,

758
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: where will I be. I think when you're ninety, you're

759
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: gonna be like just grateful to be having breathing in

760
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: that day, just to see the sunrise, not gonna care

761
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: about your hanging tattoo. Ryans joining us now one of

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00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: our favorite people. Freed Zakaria from c n N Free,

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00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: thanks for coming back on. There's every time you're on,

764
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: there's like a list of things I want to ask

765
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: you about. And we're gonna talk about the CNN special

766
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: that I know that it's coming up. But just to start,

767
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 1: I was watching you maybe it was last weekend, and

768
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: I almost emailed you, and I thought, let me not

769
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 1: bother him with an email about this question. It's naive,

770
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: but you were talking about the nuclear um sword rattling

771
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: from Putin and how with desperation this is, you know,

772
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: something that we all have to think about around the world,

773
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 1: and you commented about if he were to use nuclear

774
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: weapons there would be a response that is equal. What

775
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: does that mean? I'm just curious. Yeah, so you know,

776
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,479
Speaker 1: this is a big problem, which is what do you do.

777
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 1: The beasts in the world rests on the on something

778
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: called mad which it sounds weird, but it's mutually a

779
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:52,919
Speaker 1: short destruction. So the idea is, the Russians have these

780
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: crazy nuclear weapons that can reach the US and wipe

781
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: out old cities, and the reason they don't use them

782
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: is because we have the same missiles and we would

783
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 1: be able to fire them at the Russians, so that

784
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 1: kind of deters each other. Um. Unfortunately, the Russians also

785
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 1: have some very small nuclear weapons which they could use.

786
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: They're called tactical nuclear weapons, which they could use on

787
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: the battlefield in Ukraine if they felt like their backs

788
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: were against the wall, if they felt like they were losing,

789
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: they had no option. So the question becomes, what do

790
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: you do about that. Let's say, you know, they use

791
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: a nuclear weapon. It doesn't destroy a whole city, but

792
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: it crosses that bar of of no use of nuclear

793
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: weapons that has been in place for seventy five years.

794
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: It's devastating. It does cause a lot of radiation. Uh,

795
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: those those blocks in the city would be uninhabitable probably

796
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: for years, you know, kind of chernobyl like thing. So

797
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 1: the U. S Military, I believe, on the basis of

798
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: the reporting I've done, is thinking of not responding with

799
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: a nuclear attack of our own so sort of sending

800
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: the signal the Russians can behavior irresponsibly, we won't, but

801
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: instead to do a kind of devastating conventional strike. So

802
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: to give you an example, one thing the U. S.

803
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: Military could do was, you know, an air campaign that

804
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 1: would just destroy every Russian troop position in Ukraine, which

805
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: would essentially end the war. You know, the Ukrainians would

806
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 1: then basically just walk through those those positions take over

807
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: that land. So I think that's a smart way to

808
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: think about it because and the Biden administration is doing

809
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: it smartly, because what you're saying to the Russians is

810
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: if you do that, the war's over. Brain wins, we

811
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: will end it. So the other thing I wanted to

812
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: get your reaction to or the protests in Iran after

813
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: the death of the woman, like the police there, Um,

814
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: we've seen those protests. Where do you think this goes?

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00:44:56,200 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: You know, so far, the best rules, sad Lee has

816
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: been to bet uh that repression works, that if you're

817
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: really willing to use force, you know, think about the theory.

818
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, think about Russia, think about China. You know,

819
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,320
Speaker 1: the people at the end of the day under totally

820
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: understandably people don't want to die. They've got families to

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00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: look after. Um. But what I have to say is

822
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: the bravery of these women. It's just amazing. You know,

823
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: you get jailed for not wearing your headscar in Iran,

824
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: and these women are saying, you know, publicly and their

825
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: videotaping themselves and they're going out. So what I think

826
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: they're trying to do is to force a debate within

827
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Speaker 1: the regime that says, we gotta we've gotta drop this requirement.

828
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Speaker 1: But the problem is it's been so central to their

829
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: to the regime and to the the ideology of control.

830
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: But maybe they'll find a crack here in the regime,

831
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: we hope. So it's tough to see Freezia where it's

832
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: got a new scene and special supreme power are inside

833
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: the highest court in the land. What's the purpose of

834
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: this one? I think one of the things that worries

835
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: me most about America these days is we don't believe

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00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 1: in anything. We don't have faith in anything. We don't

837
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:15,959
Speaker 1: have faith in the you know, Congress, the presidency, big companies,

838
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:20,240
Speaker 1: big media, big tech. Right, one of the few things

839
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Speaker 1: that we all respected was the Supreme Court. UM used

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Speaker 1: to be like the Army, the Supreme Court, maybe the

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Speaker 1: Federal Reserve. Right like, at this point, you're left with

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Speaker 1: What I was struck by was this gallopole of Americans.

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Speaker 1: Three out of every four Americans say they no longer

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Speaker 1: is the Court has been behaving in very political ways,

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Speaker 1: not judicial legal ways. Everybody understands the Court will come

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Speaker 1: to decisions that you don't agree with, but you can.

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Speaker 1: You always thought it was because the judges, we're using

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Speaker 1: helping every conservative cause that the Republican Party has been challenged,

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Speaker 1: what is this? Is this just politics? Is this just

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Speaker 1: judicial temperament. Interesting to see all of it. In the

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Speaker 1: special coming up, one of the great thinkers on our planet,

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Speaker 1: Power inside the highest court in the land. And if

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Speaker 1: I just really look forward to your take on things.

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Speaker 1: When you open your show and you give your perspective

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Speaker 1: and your view, it's so in sightful and for me

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Speaker 1: it's it's really the best part of that hour. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for having your Good to see you again,

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Speaker 1: pal be well take it. You gotta watch his show

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Speaker 1: on Sundays on CNN. So interesting, all the different curiosity

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