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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,

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Speaker 1: it's not good. Steve har to mother for stunt joy.

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Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn ar. You gotta turn to

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Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn got to turn them out to

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Speaker 1: turn turn the water the water. Come come on your back.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. I shall will a good heart to everybody.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now

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Speaker 1: want it on to Steve Harvey got a radio show. Um.

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Speaker 1: Five things that I know successful people have to do

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Speaker 1: to be successful. The principles are the same. You can

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Speaker 1: apply it to anything, you know, if you want to

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Speaker 1: be happily married, you know, whatever it is. The principles

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Speaker 1: of success are the same. There are a series of

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Speaker 1: things that you have to do. You cannot skip the

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Speaker 1: steps of success. If you do, you're going to have

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Speaker 1: to go back and step on them anyway. So here's

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Speaker 1: here's here's here's a part man that I want you

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Speaker 1: all to understand about me and and and about how

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Speaker 1: to look at it. You know, you cannot underestimate faith

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Speaker 1: and prayer. You just can't. You cannot underestimate the power

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Speaker 1: of faith and the power of prayer. See for me,

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Speaker 1: this is just for me. Now, this ain't in the

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Speaker 1: scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered. What prayer

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Speaker 1: did for me was was it tied me to my creator.

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Speaker 1: It gave me a sense and I'm describing it this way,

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Speaker 1: but I'm telling you it's deeper than this. But it

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Speaker 1: gave me a sense that I wasn't alone and an actuality.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. But prayer helped connect me to the power

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Speaker 1: source that was available to me to get through, get around,

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Speaker 1: whether it was just a period I stretched, I had

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Speaker 1: to go through hard work. It had a period I

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Speaker 1: had to go through to learn some less since some

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Speaker 1: periods I had to go through from having to pay

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Speaker 1: for some of the mistakes I've made. Whatever the case

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Speaker 1: may be, prayer gave me a decided advantage, especially oh,

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Speaker 1: here we go, Especially over my enemies. Now, the majority

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Speaker 1: of people in my life that were my enemies, I

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Speaker 1: didn't want them to be my enemies, Make no mistake

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Speaker 1: about this. But through the thing called life, some things

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Speaker 1: went down, Some things happened from here and then went

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Speaker 1: The majority of enemies I had came out of nowhere.

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Speaker 1: I have no reason to even see why they are

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Speaker 1: my enemies. But you know, life goes on, man. It

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Speaker 1: happens from time to time. Some people just won't let

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Speaker 1: and some of them may be lies about you, and

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Speaker 1: that can't prohibit you from going forward. So what I'm

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Speaker 1: how I could have made it. Without faith and without prayer,

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Speaker 1: My partners that I grew up with, that used to

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Speaker 1: them though. If it was not for the faith, which

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Speaker 1: My my spirit had gotten low. I had gotten tired

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Speaker 1: And when I was watching Bishop Jakes, he preached this sermon.

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Speaker 1: He was talking about so busy looking at where you

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Speaker 1: just yesterday, just yesterday, I heard this and I text him.

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Speaker 1: I text Bishop Jakes, and I thanked him because it

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Speaker 1: you told me Man, something that I that I'll always

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Speaker 1: remember that whatever you're going through, that he's there with

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Speaker 1: don't take notice or where he at. God is always there,

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Speaker 1: He's always available, And the best way to tap into

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Speaker 1: that and know it is you got to pray. Prayer

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Speaker 1: has changed my life. Prayer can change your life. You

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Speaker 1: can become something if you just pray. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: here we are are we now were in it, ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, that it is the call of the greatest

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Speaker 1: morning show on Earth. Ringling Brothers once said, the greatest

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Speaker 1: Because the Steve Harvey Marty show his own baby. You

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry, good morning, see yeah, Pla Farrell,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Steve, what's up? Crew? What's up? Junior? Morning?

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Speaker 1: Up morning everybody, Ladies and gentlemen. Thomas Miles. I thought

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Speaker 1: it would be by thank you so kindly, sir. Are

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Speaker 1: you hearing ready for what you? Well? Yeah? Fun day, Thursday, Yeah, man, Thursday, Monday, Sunday, Friday.

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Speaker 1: for you and or and everyone who likes ice cream.

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Speaker 1: It's National Vanilla ice Cream Day's blue bell I love

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Speaker 1: ice cream? Blue Blue Belly? You like homemade? Yeah? The

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Speaker 1: I like homemade all day. Hogging Dogs has a new

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Speaker 1: ice cream conversation now now, hogging dogs does hell or

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Speaker 1: Bourbon Bourbon and Pecan or Bourbon and pray leagues? One

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Speaker 1: a little? Ben and Jerry's cole Stone hurt my feelings

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Speaker 1: oh cookie dope? All No, it's not a favorite of mine. No, girl,

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Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do Steve's favorite segment. It's called ass the CLLO,

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Speaker 1: the Chief Love Officer. Right after this, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the stow coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: Harvey is here and this one. Steve is from Corey

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Speaker 1: four months and we are college singer seniors. I'm a

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Speaker 1: She says she's falling from me and I'm perfect marriage material.

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Speaker 1: about valor victoria. Very few cute men are value victorious.

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Speaker 1: to you? Bro? Is you marriage material? But you're not popular?

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Speaker 1: She don't. She ain't really flouncing with you in front

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Speaker 1: I my mom used to tell me that all the time.

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Speaker 1: Is you checking me? Now? I was just talking to

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Speaker 1: flouncing the word? Yes, ignorant. Let's get to Raven in Dover, Delaware, Clo.

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Speaker 1: She says, my best friend and our and I are

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Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Mornin Show. You just got freaked. Dude,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I really want to dig in, and sometimes television

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Speaker 1: doesn't allow you to the intimacy that you have that

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Speaker 1: you have on radio quite honestly, that you have on

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Speaker 1: a podcast where you can really talk to people and

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Speaker 1: they let their guard down because that scary camera is

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Speaker 1: not right in front of their faith, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I wanted to drill down on these topics,

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Speaker 1: especially now after George Floyd's death, after COVID, where people

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Speaker 1: are sitting at home and they feel vulnerable and everybody

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Speaker 1: in some way can kind of relate to each other

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Speaker 1: through that vulnerability. And I said, now is the time

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Speaker 1: to do it? And I was. I had picked up

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Speaker 1: the phone to call the head of digital and I

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Speaker 1: opened my email and he sent me an email saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's do a podcast. And I went, well, it was

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Speaker 1: meant to happen. That was That's God. Yeah, yeah, hey,

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Speaker 1: And you know your stance, man, do you do you

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Speaker 1: get major support from CNN with the stance that you

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Speaker 1: take on so many different issues? Black Lives Matter? Is

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump? How do you feel the network behind you?

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Speaker 1: I do, but I still worry. Trust me every Listen.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of social media because, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, it was great in the beginning, but it's

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Speaker 1: become so toxic, right, you know, you know, when I

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Speaker 1: get off the air, I'll tech social media. It's like,

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Speaker 1: oh am, I canceled. Now I'll look and I'm like

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Speaker 1: that I go too far. But I listen, I've had

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Speaker 1: I haven't had support from any employer, any employee that

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Speaker 1: I've ever worked for more than I've had now and

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Speaker 1: our you know, our boss. We've Jest Sucker here, who

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Speaker 1: is just news a news person to the core, and

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Speaker 1: he is very supportive of his people and he understands that. Look,

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Speaker 1: everybody has a point of view, everybody has a lens.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that you're biased. I bring my particular

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Speaker 1: expertise to the to the to the audience. And I'm

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Speaker 1: a black man who grew up in America, and if

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Speaker 1: I wasn't speaking the truth, especially now in this moment,

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Speaker 1: I would be derelict in my duties as a journalist

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Speaker 1: and as a black person telling that story in America.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, I see that. I see that in you.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, you okay. Now, this podcast it's called Silence

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Speaker 1: is not an option. And uh and uh, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have today's podcast. You're gonna have on Kareem Abdul Jabbar, who,

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Speaker 1: by the way, one of my all time favorite basketball

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Speaker 1: players when I was a kid. I'm putting them at

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Speaker 1: thirty three on my sneakers. So I wanted to be him,

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Speaker 1: and I had the same lips he had, so I figured, cool,

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Speaker 1: let's go. Wow, I just do that just for color.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you smile yeah, yeah, So kind of

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Speaker 1: what did you all kind of cover on the podcast

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Speaker 1: What Can People Aspect Today? Well, you know he's brilliant. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you just said that he's brilliant and he's an intellectual,

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Speaker 1: and you think, like, well, you know he's a sports

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Speaker 1: that he is an intellectual. He's one of the smartest

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Speaker 1: people I've ever interviewed. And after this whole thing started,

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Speaker 1: you know, he became a Muslim. He converted back in

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Speaker 1: at late sixties I think are early seventies. I forget,

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Speaker 1: I forget the exact day. Don't quote me on that,

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Speaker 1: but he converted because you know, you live in America

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Speaker 1: religious freedom, and so he had heard had been hearing

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Speaker 1: all these comments when people like Nick Cannon from the

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Speaker 1: Sean Jackson, Steven Jackson and so on and so on,

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Speaker 1: and they've apologized now so and listen, we believe in

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Speaker 1: redemption in America. But he was hearing all these things,

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Speaker 1: and so he wrote something and op ed telling people, hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: we cannot expect people to support us as marginalized people

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Speaker 1: and to understand black lives matter and racism if we

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Speaker 1: are going to make remarks that are insensitive to other

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Speaker 1: people of differentess the cities of different religions, and he

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Speaker 1: wrote this fantastic out ed. I called him up and

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Speaker 1: asked him to be on, and he had some really

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Speaker 1: profound things to say about it, about his relationship to

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Speaker 1: the Jewish community, about how he understands why people may

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Speaker 1: be saying anything, and how we need to move forward

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Speaker 1: and more importantly, have relationships with people and understand our connection,

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Speaker 1: our similarity to the Jewish people's flight. He is Kareem

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Speaker 1: abdul Jabar. He is a legend, and as I said,

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Speaker 1: he is brilliant. Hey, hey, don hang on one second. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with more from Don Lemon right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, everybody, We're back with

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Speaker 1: the compelling D D D Dad damn Don limon. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this whole thing about the relationship between Blacks and Jews,

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Speaker 1: the one thing you said just a second Agod has

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Speaker 1: always kind of resonated with me. I just I don't

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Speaker 1: understand the division. And I guess some people have their reasoning,

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Speaker 1: but I just don't get it, because I think that

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Speaker 1: if any two people should be able to resonate with

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Speaker 1: one another and understand one another's feelings is it should

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Speaker 1: be our two communities, because between slavery and the Holocaust,

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Speaker 1: we're talking to the great atrocities against the human human kind.

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Speaker 1: And I just I don't, I don't, I don't even

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Speaker 1: understand how it started to begin with. So I'm going

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Speaker 1: to tune in because maybe Kareem can help put some

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Speaker 1: light on that subject. Yeah, well he will help you Listen,

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Speaker 1: genocide a genocide. Slavery's no doubt what genocide. The Holocaust,

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Speaker 1: the genocide. But you should tune in not only for Kareem.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's a good reason, but also I had

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Speaker 1: the professor Mark Doling of the San Franciscocto University, who

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Speaker 1: is a professor of Jewish studies. He talks, he talks

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Speaker 1: about why there is this, you know, tension sometimes between

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Speaker 1: Jewish and black the black community because and he goes

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Speaker 1: into it again better than I can. He talks about

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Speaker 1: white Jews and how Jewish people basically assimilated and became

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Speaker 1: white in the late nineteen fifties and nineteen sixties, meaning

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Speaker 1: they could take advantage of education. People didn't necessarily know

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Speaker 1: that they were Jewish. They started living in suburban neighborhoods

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Speaker 1: and so on and so forth, opportunities that were not

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Speaker 1: afforded to African Americans because we're black or black people,

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Speaker 1: because you can see that we're black, we were red line.

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Speaker 1: Not that they didn't face discriminations, but discriminations started to

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Speaker 1: be different because we were all kind of the same

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Speaker 1: living in the same quote unquote ghettos, facing the same discrimination.

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Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, Jewish people started to

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Speaker 1: assimilate more. And I think on some level, African Americans,

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Speaker 1: some African Americans are some black quotes may resent that

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Speaker 1: and think that Jewish people cannot relate to their plights.

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Speaker 1: So again, the Professor Mark Dollinger explains it a lot

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Speaker 1: better than I do. But you're going to learn a

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Speaker 1: lot about how what he says about that and how

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Speaker 1: that has to change and even Jewish people, he said,

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Speaker 1: especially when I'm quoting him white Jews, he says, have

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Speaker 1: to um really that they have to learn that and

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Speaker 1: there are some things that they need to unlearn. Interesting, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's really you know, Hey, don look, I got you

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Speaker 1: on here for a couple of reasons. Yeah, talk about

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Speaker 1: the podcast. Get it out there. I think you deserve

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Speaker 1: to be heard on several platforms. Okay, so we're doing that. Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: don hang on one second, man, hang on, hang on,

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Speaker 1: stay right there. We'll be right back. Everybody with the

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Speaker 1: compelling D D D dad, damn don limit you're listening. Hi, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we're back. Uh Okay, here it is here. Why I

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00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: really want you on this show. Let's go Trump and Biden.

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Speaker 1: Let me start with this question. Right here is the

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Speaker 1: Democratic Party, dude, they have the right messaging right now

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Speaker 1: as you see it is Biden getting his message out

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Speaker 1: there the right way. Listen. I'm not a Democratic Republican

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Speaker 1: or political strategists, but I will tell you these are

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Speaker 1: unusual times, obviously because we're in the middle of a pandemic.

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Speaker 1: I think Joe Biden is getting his message out obviously

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Speaker 1: to the best that he thinks he can, to the

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Speaker 1: best of his ability. He's doing the right thing, I

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Speaker 1: think personally, by socially distancing, wearing a mask and not

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Speaker 1: going to places that draw large crowds. That that's what

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Speaker 1: any responsible person and especially responsible leaders, should do. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: if Trump had his brothers, we would have been back

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Speaker 1: in church in April. He would have had major rallies,

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Speaker 1: which he did, and then you know, the number of

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Speaker 1: positive people started going up, and he's going to hot

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Speaker 1: spots all wrong. Now he's having to changes soon. I

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Speaker 1: think it's the right strategy for Joe Biden right now,

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Speaker 1: because when your opponent is doing the damage to themselves

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Speaker 1: themselves to themselves, you don't have to do it. At

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Speaker 1: some point, though, he's going to have to step up

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Speaker 1: and and come back the messaging coming from the president,

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Speaker 1: because the President has a fully quoll pit and Joe

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Speaker 1: Biden doesn't have that luxury. So at some point, in

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Speaker 1: some way, he's going to have to figure out how

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Speaker 1: to get his way his message out more forcefully and

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Speaker 1: to more people, rather than just on social media and

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Speaker 1: doing an interview here and there. And I think that

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Speaker 1: that time is going to come. He's gonna have to

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Speaker 1: do that the closer we get to the conventions, and

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Speaker 1: obviously the closer we get to the election. Okay, he

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Speaker 1: should come out after Trump gives a press conference and

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Speaker 1: says something about him, especially if he doesn't, if he

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Speaker 1: doesn't tell the truth about Joe Biden or his plan

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Speaker 1: or what have you, he should come out right away.

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Speaker 1: They need a rapid response team, like the Trump people

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Speaker 1: have to be able to come back that because people will.

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Speaker 1: If you tell a lie enough times, people believe it,

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Speaker 1: and if you tell it with conviction, people will believe it.

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Speaker 1: Oh and he on a daily basis, he just shoveled

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Speaker 1: doses of it down that throat. Man. It's like miss

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Speaker 1: and here's here's the thing. I'm curious about it, and

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Speaker 1: tell me your opinion in this right here. I would

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Speaker 1: think there's a group of former Trump supporters who have

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Speaker 1: looked at him over the past four years and went

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Speaker 1: and said to themselves, this is ridiculous. I can't keep

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Speaker 1: this up. Do you get a sense of that. I

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Speaker 1: do get a sense of that, and is that I

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Speaker 1: think there's a small group of people within that group

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Speaker 1: that will change over and neither vote for the other

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Speaker 1: candidate meeting Biden or just won't show up for the falls.

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Speaker 1: But for the most part, what they will say is

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Speaker 1: I don't like him, I don't like what he does,

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Speaker 1: but I'm voting for him because of the judges, because

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Speaker 1: of abortion. I don't like him, I don't like what

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Speaker 1: he does, but I'm voting for him because of the economy.

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Speaker 1: I don't like him, I don't like what he does

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Speaker 1: because I'm afraid that my streets are going to turn

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Speaker 1: into war zones with Joe Biden in, and you're gonna

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Speaker 1: start defunding the police. I don't like him, but I

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Speaker 1: like the policies he supports. That's what you hear from people,

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Speaker 1: and it's hard to get them to change, especially when

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Speaker 1: you want them to vote for a Democrat. And the

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Speaker 1: longer the president can come out and beat Joe Biden

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Speaker 1: down with his rhetoric and tell his truths about him,

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Speaker 1: it's going to work on some of those people. And

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Speaker 1: quite honestly, the more people who are out there in

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Speaker 1: our cities who are shooting each other and killing each other,

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Speaker 1: it's it's gonna have an effect, and Trump knows it.

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Speaker 1: On suburban especially women, suburban families who may be prone

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Speaker 1: to vote for Joe Biden, they're gonna say, Joe Biden

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Speaker 1: is not going to be the same with law and orders.

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Speaker 1: I don't law and order. I don't want, you know,

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Speaker 1: these people coming to my neighborhood. I don't want my

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Speaker 1: neighborhood to turn into that. He's going to play on

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Speaker 1: that and watch you on YouTube. I watch your between

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Speaker 1: in the break segments for inspiration. So don't get it twisted.

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Speaker 1: I am a huge fan of yours. I will always

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Speaker 1: support you and I love you brother. Thank you. I

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Speaker 1: love you too, man, Hey Man, keep telling the truth

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Speaker 1: and keep being you because we need more people like you.

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Speaker 1: The podcast Everybody's called Silence is not an option. I

633
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: love you guys to y'all. Take it. Evey, thank you

634
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: so much for inviting me that day. I'm done. Thank you.

635
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Speaker 1: You're listening to say morning show coming up at the

636
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Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's

637
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, the subject why can't we

638
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: both have a side piece? Okay, why can't we both

639
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 1: have a side piece? All right, but right now the

640
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone. Call you. What's up, nephew?

641
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: What you got your daughter? Bait my son? Your daughter?

642
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: Bit my son? Now, come on, come on kat hell Hello, hello,

643
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 1: sweet to Kira, this is this is Look do you

644
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 1: do you do your daughter? Go to the little academy? Yes?

645
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 1: Who's this? And her name is? Yes? Who's this? Listen

646
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: your daughter? Then bit my son? Uh, Joshua went on

647
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: the back. This is Wilton, your daughter, the bit my son.

648
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: You can't just call my house and tell me my

649
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: daughter bit your say and be cussing at me. Lady,

650
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: I just said, your daughter Sakira bit my son Joshua

651
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 1: on the back, and I just I just said, no,

652
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: two things. One my daughter wouldn't bite nobody, and two,

653
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: don't call my house with this tone. I called with

654
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: any kind of tone when I want to call with

655
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is your daughter then bit my son

656
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: in the back, and I'm gonna tell you I'm saying

657
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: is don't call my house with this add to saying

658
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: some that my daughter bait your child in the back.

659
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: My chadder has manners and she wouldn't be biting nobody

660
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: in the back. Somebody, how the hell you know what

661
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: your daughter gonna be doing? If you ain't there my

662
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: daughter you're raising? Ain't you just come in one month

663
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: and trying to do some kind of daddy work your

664
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: daughter at but four years old? How the hell you

665
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: do you know how that damn well, I've been with

666
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: her for four years. What you being? My daughter does

667
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: not be biting people around in the back of the

668
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: neck or anything like that. What the hell is wrong

669
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: with you? Don't call my house with his attitude? Were

670
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: you where I get how the hell you figure I'm

671
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: a weekend daddy. I'm calling you about what's going on

672
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: with my child. But I don't think you got your

673
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: facts straight. So next time you call somebody to tell

674
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: them about their child, figure out everything about your child first.

675
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is that the people at the academy says, so, Carol,

676
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: bit my son Joshua were in the back. Well, I

677
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: can't understand what you're saying because I don't like your tongue.

678
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: So don't call me all my baby. Have her mama

679
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: called me? It don't make no difference if a mama

680
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: or daddy called long with somebody, call hello, call her

681
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: back down. Hello is this Carol? This is why you

682
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: ain't up on me. Why are you still calling me?

683
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: And why are you yelling at me? My child didn't

684
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: bite your child in the back. When I picked up

685
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: my child, they didn't say to me your child is

686
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: fighting in the back. My child with my child every day.

687
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: Like I said in the first, lady, you must be

688
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: some kind of weekend daddy. How can I know my child?

689
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm with my child every day? How you are you

690
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: I'm with I don't even know who joshua Is. She

691
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: should have just hit him in the head. Ain't what

692
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do and city and talk about my

693
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: baby like you asked me to lower my child. You

694
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna hang up one

695
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: lay Hello, Hello called back? Don call her back? Cat Hello,

696
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: don't hang up on me no more lady number again.

697
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you until you tell me why you

698
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: your child and beat me just bite my child in

699
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: the back. I am not in the mood to play

700
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: with you right now. You're gonnas. Did you and your

701
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: child shoop? You and your child? Who you don't? Whoa whoa? Whoa?

702
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: Guess what Shakira got her? Daddy? You talking about whipping somebody? Daddy? No,

703
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 1: you have else to say. You can't call my house

704
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: and threaten me and my jold if my child beat

705
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: you up, child, what that's what your child deserved? He

706
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: got whoops? Daughter whooped? Your sounds just probably want me

707
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: to last trying the little fast not in those kids

708
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna be talking about when the fake facts she

709
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: didn't bite them in the back. She might have whoked it,

710
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: but my daughter don't play now, why keep talking? You

711
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: found my phone number, find my address and have kids. Daddy,

712
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,439
Speaker 1: beat your you what I said, bring your son over again,

713
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: my babies, care with your babies. My baby. Daddy gonna

714
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: whip you'll bring it on. I'm gon over and beat

715
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: you and your child for the day. You don't call

716
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 1: a woman and tell her you coming over to behind

717
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: a child. You come up here and beat her. Daddy.

718
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: Come over here and beat sakis. Daddy. He don't he

719
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: don't want nothing to me. You don't want it. I'm

720
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: on my way over without now. Bring it on. Somebody

721
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: gonna get day. Daddy home week. He ain't got no

722
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: damn job. He got a job. Y'all gonna make me

723
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: come over out a night. Bring it on right now.

724
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: You know you know what. I'm gonna tell you something

725
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: up to tell me something else. You're gonna get bit

726
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: and your baby gonna get bit too. You gonna my

727
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: baby sha gonna whoop? Yo? Can I say something to you?

728
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: Say something to me then, Nephew timing from the Steve

729
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: Harvid Morning Show. You just got prk there. Oh I

730
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: am shame, I am ya just got prank. Your sister

731
00:48:56,680 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: Glenda said I couldn't get me. She said get She said,

732
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: you always never get me. We had that wouldn't happen

733
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 1: to me. But you can't call somebody talk about that, baby.

734
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: That's that's where it killman. Don't don't call nobody about that. Now,

735
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: you got my heart hearted? Look, can I ask you something?

736
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,479
Speaker 1: Let me ask you what is the baddest radio show

737
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show? You and then

738
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: you have it your daughter? Bit my damn son. You

739
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: ain't gonna just trust me out about it. But I'm

740
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: just leaving you know what did you say? I see

741
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: air Carlin? This was obviously pre COVID. Yeah, baby's got

742
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 1: to take the mask down and it won't be happen

743
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 1: this year because ain't nobody going to school? Isn't this crazy? Yes?

744
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: In such a short period of time too, that's gonna

745
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: crush my kids if they can't go to school. They

746
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: want to go to school, man, Yeah, my kids want

747
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: to go to school. How do you feel about it? Though?

748
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: I want them to be healthy. I don't want to

749
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: be putting my kids out there. They can catch anything

750
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 1: and come home and they say rather, I'd rather them

751
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: be here until we know. How are you though? Tommy?

752
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: As a home school teacher. Oh, I'm oh, they're not

753
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: gonna pass nothing that what you're talking struggling with that?

754
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 1: So they just gonna be safe. They're gonna be safe.

755
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: They't nobody for in the pass. Not No, this boy

756
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: going back to the third grade. If it's up to me, repeat,

757
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:51,439
Speaker 1: you find to repeating their heads listening to this. Yeah,

758
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 1: Tommy getting mad at Jodan because he wouldn't listen what

759
00:50:53,960 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: the teacher say. I can't help and math changed too.

760
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: I can't help you man. Yeah, yeah, you're the one.

761
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: I remember years ago you told me that they didn't

762
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:11,919
Speaker 1: carry the one anymore your younger. Yeah, yeah, you gotta

763
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: carry the one. She said, where we can? I said,

764
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: you can't it to the next column. She said, I don't.

765
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 1: I don't understand what. I don't know how you add

766
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 1: without that one? Daughters in all AP classes? Yeah, what

767
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:39,760
Speaker 1: does that mean? Honest honest side like GT Gifted and Talented,

768
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: those type of classes. Once again, I didn't know what

769
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: Valley Victoria was. And three years I had twelve credits

770
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: in three years? Yeah graduate? So you took three three

771
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 1: uh credits each semester? H no, no, no, you took

772
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: eighteen hours in college three years but old, Yeah six weeks.

773
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: I mean most of us do We took what fifteen hours? Yeah? Eighteen?

774
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, my whole plan was to make up.

775
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: Oh all right, listen, we gotta get into the Strawberry Letter.

776
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. Coming up Strawberry Letter subject why can't

777
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: we both have a side piece? We'll get into it

778
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Well, guys,

779
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

780
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more,

781
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

782
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be reading

783
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,959
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna

784
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Buggle up and

785
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It

786
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. What are you doing? All right? Hit

787
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 1: but thank you nephew. Subject why can't we both have

788
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 1: a side piece? Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I.

789
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 1: I know. My husband and I have been married for

790
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: three years. Our marriage was good. It was going good

791
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 1: until a year ago when he told me he was

792
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: having an affair. Shortly after we met. He told me

793
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: about a female friend of his that lives out of

794
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: town and she's like a little sister to him. I

795
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: met her five days ago when she came to town

796
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: for homecoming. We got along great, but I don't trust

797
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: any females around my man. He and this woman texted

798
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: and called each other often, and when I asked what's

799
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: up with her or what they had talked about, he

800
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: would say it was just small talk. Last June, she

801
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 1: moved to our city, and my husband was so excited.

802
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: Last July, I found a ten pack of condoms in

803
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 1: his car and there were really and there were only

804
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: two left in the pack. My female intuitions mmmmmmmm, my

805
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: female intimi intuition told me that he was messing with

806
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 1: this woman that he called his little sister. I asked

807
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 1: him about the condoms, and he admitted that he was

808
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: having sex with her. He told me to say have

809
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: a history and he can't get her out of his system.

810
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 1: I told him that he needed to stop the affair

811
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 1: and we could go to counseling to fix our marriage.

812
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 1: He said there was no need for counseling because he

813
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 1: wants us both. I haven't had sex with him in

814
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: over a year, but we still keep up appearances in

815
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: public like we're a happy couple. His affair is still

816
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: going on, and I don't plan to leave him because

817
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: I love seeing him stressed out trying to keep two

818
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: women happy. My only problem now is that I've started

819
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 1: dating a new guy and my husband is being overly

820
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 1: possessive and tried to fight him. If he can have

821
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: a side piece, shouldn't I be allowed to please advise? Well,

822
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't that just be perfect if we lived in a

823
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: perfect world, you know, where we could do whatever we

824
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: wanted to do and you know whatever. But it's not

825
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: like that. And you know that you already know there's

826
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: a double standard in the world, and that they're just

827
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: things that men do that are acceptable in the world.

828
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 1: But if a woman were to do the same thing,

829
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: she'd be talked about and judged harshly. And that's when

830
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: this is one of those things. This is one of

831
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: those times. Okay, the double standard. That's why he tried

832
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: to fight your so called side piece. Okay, because he

833
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 1: can do it, but he doesn't want you doing it.

834
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: You know, I do give him credit, I guess for

835
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: coming clean finally, you know, I mean after he got

836
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 1: busted out with the tim packet condoms and only two

837
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 1: in there. But I mean, your husband's way out of

838
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: line here. You know that he has no plans of

839
00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: giving her up after only three years marriage. He's already

840
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,320
Speaker 1: lying and cheating and won't stop. But but to you,

841
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: I just say, this is not a joke. I mean,

842
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: you say you just want to stick around because you

843
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 1: love seeing him stressed out. I mean, I suppose you

844
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 1: can get some sort of satisfaction and seeing that since

845
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 1: of the way he's treating because of the way he's

846
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: treating you. But I mean, you know this is this

847
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: is a crazy arrangement here. I think, don't you think

848
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: it would be better if you just left him and

849
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: went on with your man that you have now and

850
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 1: lived a happier life. You know, two wrongs do not

851
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: make a right, you know, I guess don't you want

852
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: a happier life? I don't get this. Why why you're

853
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 1: still there doing this? You know you could just move

854
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: on and do better with your life and let him

855
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: to do her and to be miserable. That's my response,

856
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 1: Steve Well, surely great response. The problem. The woman asked

857
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: a question of why can't we both have a side piece? Well,

858
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 1: let's just try this. Your first sentence is the answer

859
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: to that my husband and I have been married for

860
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: three years? Subject, Why can't we both have a side piece? Answer?

861
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: Because you and your damn husband have been married for

862
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: three years? Yea, our marriage was going good till a

863
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: year ago. Oh no, no, it wasn't. You thought it

864
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 1: was when he told me he was having an affair.

865
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: Now that's interesting. Why would he do that? And I'm

866
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why. Shortly shortly after we met, he

867
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: told me about a female friend of his that lives

868
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: out of town, and she's like a little sister to him.

869
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 1: Most regular people ain't sleeping with their little sister. I

870
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 1: just want to throw that out there as to why

871
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: this whole letter reeks of false information? Why can't we

872
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: both have a side piece? Because we've been mad three years?

873
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: Madge was going good till a year ago. He told

874
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: me he's had a female friend out of town and

875
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: she's like a little sister to him. That's what he

876
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: told you. I met her five years ago when she

877
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 1: came to town for homecoming. We got along great, But

878
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't trust any females around my mad here and

879
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: this woman text and called each other often, and when

880
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: I asked what's up with her? What they talked about?

881
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: He would just saying small talk. Okay. Last June she

882
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: moved out city and my husband was so excited. Last

883
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: July she only been here a month. Right, you found

884
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 1: a ten pack of condoms in this car, Tommy said

885
00:58:56,240 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: out loud. Condom coming to twelve Path, and it's two

886
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: left in the pack. In thirty days, they've been together

887
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: at least ten damn times. Whoa this out? Yeah? From

888
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: she got here in June. In July he was down

889
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: ten bam. All right, hang on, hang on, Steve, because

890
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: I got most of you when we come back this

891
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 1: high long I've been on this show. That's right at

892
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the our subject today? Why can't

893
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: we both have a side piece? We'll get back into

894
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

895
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today strawberry letter.

896
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: Why can't we both have a side piece? Well, the

897
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 1: reason you can't have a side piece, first of all,

898
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: because y'all been married three years. Side pieces don't ever

899
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: work out. I'm just sharing something with you. The marriage

900
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: you thought was good till a year ago when he

901
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: told you he was having another fact. He just came

902
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: out and told you that, I'm we're gonna get to that.

903
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: Shortly after we met, he told me about a female

904
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 1: friend of his and live out of town, and she

905
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:12,439
Speaker 1: like a little sister to him. I met her five

906
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: years ago when she came to town for home coming.

907
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: We got along great, but I don't trust any female around.

908
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 1: My man here and this woman text and called each

909
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: other often. When I asked him what's up and what

910
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 1: they talked about, he would say, small talk. What you want?

911
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: You know what I want? That's small talk. You got it,

912
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: you want it, that's small talk. Last I asked, what's up?

913
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: Small talk? Last June she moved to the city, and

914
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: your husband was so excited. Last July you found a

915
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: ten pack of condoms in his car. Tommy pointed out

916
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 1: that condoms coming to twelve pack. I happened to agree

917
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 1: that was only two left in the pack, which mean

918
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: ten times who in thirty days. That's every three days.

919
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: He over there with his little sistem, small talking, small

920
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 1: talking chatting. Huh. My female intuition told me he was

921
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: messing with this woman that he called his little sister.

922
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: Pump your brakes, your female intuition, you know what told

923
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 1: me he was messing with him, And I don't have

924
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: female intuition. That twelve pack of columns you found that

925
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: ain't had but two left? You ain't got to have

926
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: intuition and know that all you gotta do is be

927
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: able to count. Yeah. Now, if you got a twelve

928
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: packer in your car, fellas and your girl find a

929
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: twelve pack still in now you picked him up for

930
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: your boy, or your boy left him in the car

931
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 1: when you picked him up, and you threw it in

932
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: your glove compartment till you see him again. That's a

933
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 1: conversation you can have. What you can't do is have

934
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: an open box of condom and they mix it? Who

935
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: put them in the car? Stupid as you dumb, Let

936
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 1: me explain this part to you. That's really gonna throw

937
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: you into something. Come on, my female intuition told me

938
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: he was messed with this woman. I asked him about

939
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: the condoms. He admitted that he was having sex with her.

940
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: Just like that. You just came out with that information

941
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 1: because just because we found some condoms. Oh, naw, Pardner. Oh,

942
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: I got a list of stuff I'm gonna throw out

943
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: at you for I tell y'all was having sex with somebody,

944
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: and I care about you and I man, but he

945
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: just flat out and told you he hav another fair

946
01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: because he don't care that, you know, because of that,

947
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: that affair obviously means something to him. He told me.

948
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: He told me that they have a history, which means

949
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,959
Speaker 1: they've been doing this for a long time. He can't

950
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: get out of her system. When she came from home coming,

951
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: she was in the system. When he introduced you, he

952
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 1: was in that. She was in the system. I told

953
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: him he needed to stop the affair. We could go

954
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: to counseling to fix our marriage. This where you got

955
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: in trouble. You know what he said after you told

956
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 1: him that, He said, ain't no need for counseling because

957
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: I want both of y'all. What counseling go help that? None?

958
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: I want both of y'all. Now hear where you started me,

959
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: I haven't had sexual with him in over a year. Well,

960
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 1: how many condoms you think he didn't went through in

961
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: a year. Let's just go eight in a month, times, twelve,

962
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: seventy two times whoa dud that mask seventy two damn time,

963
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 1: you're brilliant because you ain't having sex with him. But

964
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: guess why you ain't having a sex with him, because

965
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: you didn't meant a new dude that you're dating. Why

966
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: can't we both have side pieces? Because y'all two foods

967
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: is married now, but when you're in public, you act

968
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: like a happy couple. His affair still going on? This

969
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: one a letter get twisted like Shirley said, I don't

970
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: plan to leave him because I love seeing him stressed out.

971
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: He that damn stressed out. He ain't that damn stressed

972
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: out because he ain't moved out and he's still seeing her. Yeah,

973
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: he ain't that damn stressed out stress trying to keep

974
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: two women happy. He don't give a damn if you're happy.

975
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: He keeping one woman happy. He just trying to keep

976
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:40,959
Speaker 1: the other one quiet, which is you got He ain't

977
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 1: tripping with try nothing. He just wants you to shut

978
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: the hell up so he can going back over there.

979
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 1: The only problem now is ill to start dating the

980
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: new guy, and my husband is being overly possessed and

981
01:04:54,160 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 1: tried to fight him. He want it all, he does. Yeah,

982
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:03,640
Speaker 1: they're young because they're still going home coming and all that. Yeah,

983
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: he's being possessive and tried to fight him. If he

984
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: can have a side piece, should not be allowed to

985
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: please advise? Of course you can. If he got a

986
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: side piece, you have your side piece. Now he going

987
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: with his ass every time you see double standard? Why

988
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: don't you jump on home one time? Even we got

989
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: to get out of here. Listen, Thank you, Steve. Post

990
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 1: your comments on today's trade at Steve Harvey on Instagram

991
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: and Facebook. Please check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.

992
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: Why don't y'all get a divorce and then just go

993
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 1: see who you want to see? Yes, let's be free

994
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,959
Speaker 1: with it. Thank you. Coming up at forty six after

995
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:45,960
Speaker 1: the hour, our girl from the Talk, the one and

996
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: Only Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening to Steve

997
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,

998
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: it's Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce

999
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: our girl from the Talk. Sure, that's what I'm talking

1000
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 1: about now. Listen, people need to understand why this election

1001
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: is more important than any election in our lifetime because

1002
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 1: the president is of him wilding out, don't know what

1003
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 1: he's talking about. When you don't know what you're talking

1004
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: about on Fox News and they supposed to be your backups.

1005
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, your team, that's your team. Man.

1006
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: Did you see Chris Wallace? His daddy would have been

1007
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 1: proud of him? Mike Wallace? Yes? Or whatn't he? Whatn't

1008
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: he he was? He was roping open them questions. I

1009
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 1: ain't never seen nothing like that since boxing back when

1010
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:46,600
Speaker 1: me and Joe Frazier you hang out us, we already

1011
01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: knew that the police had been militarized. We already knew

1012
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 1: that white supremacy had infiltrated law enforcement on all levels.

1013
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 1: We already know that we want good police in our community.

1014
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: Now the press as it dead with his eye alone

1015
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: can fix it. I believe he's violated the constitution when

1016
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 1: you decide that you're gonna send some federal troops in,

1017
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 1: but you also sending people don't have no insignia, don't

1018
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: have no name tag, You don't know what's really going on.

1019
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: And yes, the president has an authority under the Department

1020
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: of Homeland Security and everything to protect federal land. They

1021
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: can protect federal things, but that's all they can do.

1022
01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 1: But when you start wilding out like some of these

1023
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: things that we're seeing in Portland, and then you say

1024
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna send troops to Abuquerque, New Mexico, You're gonna

1025
01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 1: send troops to Chicago. You are now violated not just

1026
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:43,680
Speaker 1: the First Amendment, Peace for protests, what's the Fourth Amendment?

1027
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 1: You do not have to subject yourself to unnecessary or

1028
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: illegal search and seize her. That's why he's violated the

1029
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: Constitution and need to be in peach again. Okay, And

1030
01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: I like Maya Lightfoot. I like her. She said, listen,

1031
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 1: We're not gonna have tyranny here. We don't need our

1032
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: troops to be out here. We don't need We didn't

1033
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: ask you for this help, So why are you sending

1034
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 1: this help? And my thing is, does the mayor's gotta

1035
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: stand strong? The governor's gotta stand strong, and we must

1036
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 1: be ready to vote Trump out of office. I'm saying

1037
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:18,560
Speaker 1: this as a Republican. I am a never Trumper. He

1038
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 1: is violating the Constitution, the First Amendment, and the Fourth Amendment,

1039
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 1: so he can no longer be the commander in chief.

1040
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 1: He could no longer be the President of the United States.

1041
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 1: Get ready, because we vote you out? Did I say that, right, Carla?

1042
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: For First and fourth Amendment violation of the Constitution. Anybody

1043
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 1: else they would have rolled him out on the rail. Well,

1044
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 1: Trump got to go, You got to go, all right, Cheryl.

1045
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 1: If Carla's reality update that's coming up right after this,

1046
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, Temmy, let's go. Let's get to it. Baby,

1047
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 1: she is here. It is third Carla Farrell with what

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Speaker 1: reality update? All right? Thank you, nephew. Well, let's just

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Speaker 1: talk about a reality star. Kim Kardashian West and her husband,

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Speaker 1: Kanye West. They've been in the news all week, you know,

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Speaker 1: talking about his campaign rally, his Harriet Tubman's statement, those

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Speaker 1: Twitter rants. Dave Chappelle flew to Wyoming to check in

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Speaker 1: on him. Well, yesterday, Kim broke her silence and released

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Speaker 1: a statement about Kanye's mental health, especially with all of

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Speaker 1: those hurtful comments that he has made about her, her mom,

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Speaker 1: you know, and just the family altogether. Kim, she talked

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Speaker 1: about Kanye's struggle with bipolar and she and the family

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Speaker 1: are struggling with him, and she asked for compassion and empathy.

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Speaker 1: Kim posted, as many as you know, Kanye has bipolar disorder.

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Speaker 1: Anyone who has or has a loved one in their

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Speaker 1: life who knows exactly incredibly complicated and aiful it is

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Speaker 1: to understand. She went on to say that those that

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Speaker 1: understand mental illness know that the family is powerless unless

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Speaker 1: the member is a minor. Kim said that Kanye is brilliant,

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Speaker 1: but complicated, and on top of being a black man

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Speaker 1: and an artist who has experienced the painful loss of

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Speaker 1: his mother, Donda West back in two thousand and seven,

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Speaker 1: he has to deal with the pressure and isolation that

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Speaker 1: is heightened by his bipolar disorder. She went on to

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Speaker 1: say how the media and the public have to have

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Speaker 1: compassion and empathy when it comes to mental health issues,

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Speaker 1: and she thinks those that express concern, you know, true

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Speaker 1: genuine concern of Kanye's well being and that's it. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's just really really sad. Yeah, you know, yeah, it

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Speaker 1: is in the whole Fami everyone everyone. Yeah, you don't

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Speaker 1: want to see her husband go through things like that.

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Speaker 1: Then they're meltdown. No, no, no, no quoting its history.

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Speaker 1: That's just wrong, though, Jesus, it's just a lot, he said,

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Speaker 1: a lot of her for things about her. He you know,

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Speaker 1: yesterday or the day before yesterday, he was talking about

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Speaker 1: divorcing her, saying she had a private meeting with Meek

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Speaker 1: Mill to talk about prison reform. And then she came

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Speaker 1: back and said the meeting wasn't private, it was public.

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Speaker 1: He talked about wanting to divorce her. So it is heavy.

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Speaker 1: It is heavy. What is going on with them? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just dude. But see, I don't know anything about bipolar.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything about it. So maybe it causes

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Speaker 1: you to do some things that I think is not smart.

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Speaker 1: But I don't see discussing your private life publicly on

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Speaker 1: social media repeatedly. That's not smart. Has what they got

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Speaker 1: to do with anything? I mean, look, man, that's got

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Speaker 1: to be not the place to vent. I mean who

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Speaker 1: you trying to prove it to? You know, and you

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Speaker 1: got to take care of your business at home. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't care who you are. Yeah, And it's just unexcusable.

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Speaker 1: It's a sad thing. I mean, you know, like Don

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Speaker 1: Lemon talked about earlier, you know, to social media used

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Speaker 1: to be a good thing then all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: became toxic. So since we all who have good sense

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Speaker 1: not that it's toxic, why are you putting your life

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Speaker 1: on the toxic platform. And then Kim got to come

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Speaker 1: in and say, please be understanding. Well, women hold up,

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Speaker 1: women hold up. I understand what she's saying that that's

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Speaker 1: perfectly right. But this ain't the social media ain't a

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Speaker 1: place of understanding. Yeah, that ain't what that is. People

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Speaker 1: can be harsh again very much. Ye judgment, they don't

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Speaker 1: stop to they tell you completely down, then they go

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Speaker 1: on to the next target. Yeah, yeah, for sure. So

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Speaker 1: we're praying for them, praying for Kanye as well. You know,

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Speaker 1: we don't see nobody going through that. And finally, before

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Speaker 1: I run out of town, I run out of time,

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Speaker 1: let me shout out the Real Housewives Ode of Town,

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Speaker 1: the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. It was so cool

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Speaker 1: to see them against their boss, Andy Cohen on Celebrity

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Speaker 1: Family Feud. Posted by Mary on Steve Harvey. I watched

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Speaker 1: that episode. It was so cool and Andy Cohen and

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Speaker 1: Big Sisters of America. So make sure you watch Celebrity

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Speaker 1: Family Feud Sunday nights, eight pm, seventh Central, hosted by

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Speaker 1: my boss, Steve Harvey. We'll be back at twenty afters.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show all right

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Speaker 1: time now for Steve Harvey celebrity birthdays. M Junior, take

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Speaker 1: it away because this is near and dear to your heart.

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Speaker 1: Right here, I'm gonna let you do your thing. Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: Oh do my birthdays celebrity birthdays. Oh, y'all already know

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Speaker 1: what to day is? What do tell us? Mister down

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Speaker 1: and Joda is what this is? This actually, Joda is

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Speaker 1: the whole birthday today as a group, as a group,

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Speaker 1: we celebrate as a group. Fact, matter of fact, many

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Speaker 1: concerts right now, just for y'all. Hitty, I've been watching

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Speaker 1: you so so very long, trying to give him a

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Speaker 1: nerve build up to be so strong. I really won't

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Speaker 1: to meet you, but I'm kind of scared. You're a

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Speaker 1: kind of lady ass. We're so much class. I'm getting

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Speaker 1: my thoughts to get the the very next day. But

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Speaker 1: when I see you, lady, I forgid what to say

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Speaker 1: your eyes and have. It's a beautiful tune. The way

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Speaker 1: you're dressing walk today. It really turns me. Oh oh, Joe,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on, come on, everybody, come and come

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Speaker 1: home to me. I can't duds no more, Jonah saying

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Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show and

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Speaker 1: some trending news coming up at thirty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Have you birthday? Mister Dalvin from Don't scow

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Speaker 1: me back right after this you're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Hey, listen up to everybody joining us

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Speaker 1: this morning. As promise, we're having the steam Emmy Award

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Speaker 1: winning journalists don Lemon, let's go Trump and Biden. Let

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Speaker 1: me start with this question. Right here is the Democratic Party?

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Speaker 1: Do they have the right messaging? Right now as you

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Speaker 1: see it is Biden getting his message out there the

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Speaker 1: right way. Look, I'm not a I'm not a Democratic

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Speaker 1: Republican our political satadast, but I will tell you these

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Speaker 1: are unusual times, obviously because we're in the middle of

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Speaker 1: a pandemic. I think Joe Biden is getting his message out,

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Speaker 1: obviously to the best that he thinks he can, to

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Speaker 1: the best of his ability. He's doing the right thing,

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Speaker 1: I think personally by socially distancing, wearing a mask and

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Speaker 1: not going to places that draw large crowds. That's what

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Speaker 1: any responsible person and especially responsible leaders, should do. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: if Trump had his brothers, we would have been back

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Speaker 1: in church in April. He would have had major rallies,

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Speaker 1: which he did, and then you know, the number of

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Speaker 1: positive people started going up, and he's going to hotspots

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Speaker 1: all wrong. Now he's having to change his tune. I

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Speaker 1: think it's the right strategy for Joe Biden right now,

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Speaker 1: because when your opponent is doing the damage to themselves

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Speaker 1: themselves to themselves, you don't have to do it. At

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Speaker 1: some point, though, he's going to have to step up

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Speaker 1: and come back the messaging coming from the president, because

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Speaker 1: the president has a fully full pit and Biden doesn't

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Speaker 1: have that luxury. So at some point, in some way,

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Speaker 1: he's going to have to figure out how to get

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Speaker 1: his way his message out more forcefully and to more people,

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Speaker 1: rather than just on social media and doing an interview

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Speaker 1: here and there. And I think that that time is

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Speaker 1: going to come. He's gonna have to do that the

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Speaker 1: closer we get to the conventions, and obviously the closer

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Speaker 1: we get to the election. Okay, he should come out

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Speaker 1: after after truth is a press conference he says something

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Speaker 1: about him, especially if he doesn't if he doesn't tell

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Speaker 1: the truth about Jill Biden or his plan or what

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Speaker 1: have you. He should come out right away. They need

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Speaker 1: a rapid response team like the Trump people have to

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Speaker 1: be able to come back that because people will If

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Speaker 1: you tell a lie enough times, people believe it, and

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Speaker 1: if you tell it with conviction, people will believe it.

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Speaker 1: Oh and he on a daily basis. He just shoved

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Speaker 1: the doses of it down that throat. Man. It's like

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Speaker 1: vill And here's here's the thing. I'm curious about it,

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Speaker 1: and tell me your opinion in this right here. I

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Speaker 1: would think there's a group of form Trump supporters who

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Speaker 1: have looked at him over the past four years and

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Speaker 1: went and said to themselves, this is ridiculous. I can't

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Speaker 1: keep this up. Do you get a sense of that.

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Speaker 1: I do get a sense of that, And is that

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Speaker 1: I think there's a small group of people within that

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Speaker 1: group that will change over and either vote for the

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Speaker 1: other candidate meeting Biden, or just won't show up for

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Speaker 1: the poll. But for the most part, what they will

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Speaker 1: say is I don't like him. I don't like what

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Speaker 1: he does, but I'm voting for him because of the judges,

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Speaker 1: because of abortion. I don't like him, I don't like

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Speaker 1: what he does, but I'm voting for him because of

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Speaker 1: the economy. Coming up, it's our last break of the day,

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Speaker 1: last break of the day, and we'll have some clothing

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Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey coming up

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Speaker 1: in forty nine minutes after the hour. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Rvey Morning Show. All right, here we

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Speaker 1: are our last break of the day, and the one

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Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey is here with some closing remarks for Steve.

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Speaker 1: You know what I've been talking about voting, and I

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Speaker 1: said I wasn't gonna stop, and I'm not. But I

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Speaker 1: want to say something else too, because doing times like these,

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Speaker 1: the thing that keeps me afloat with all of the

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Speaker 1: challenges that's in front of me, that's in front of you,

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Speaker 1: with all of the bits and pieces of good news

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Speaker 1: and bad news that you receive from time to time,

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Speaker 1: because this thing is called life. And you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't care what you've planned, what your dreams are, you

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Speaker 1: can be going along and up pops this incredible thing

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Speaker 1: called life that goals, you know, kind of just awry.

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Speaker 1: And so what I try to do is I try

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Speaker 1: to remember some things about my faith in moments like this,

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Speaker 1: because God never changes. He just never does. He was

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Speaker 1: this way before we got here, he'll be this way

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Speaker 1: before after we leave. He was here before all of this.

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Speaker 1: And God gives us some things that can really help

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Speaker 1: us in times like this, and I think the thing

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Speaker 1: that He's provided for me the most that has helped

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Speaker 1: me is just comfort. I mean there are days, man,

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Speaker 1: where you can really really feel completely unsettled. I have

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Speaker 1: news for you, a conversation with God and an incredible

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Speaker 1: sit down. Just open up, give him all you all

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Speaker 1: you all you, all your troubles, give him all your thoughts,

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Speaker 1: all of your challenges, hand them over to him. It's

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Speaker 1: amazing the comfort level that comes with that. It's called prayer.

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Speaker 1: It really is a comforting thing. And you know, for

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Speaker 1: people who are not believers, I feel sorry for you,

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Speaker 1: but nothing against you. And I'm not talking to you

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Speaker 1: because I'm not really in the conversion business, but I

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Speaker 1: am in the strong suggestion business when it comes to

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Speaker 1: your faith. Whatever you choose or whatever you want to

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Speaker 1: call God is cool. But man, what a comfort prayer

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Speaker 1: is because it's the one thing that I can do

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Speaker 1: and I can get results instantly. See, let me tell

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Speaker 1: you what happens if I have a problem and I

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Speaker 1: take it to God. He may not solve the problem

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Speaker 1: for me the day I give it to him, which

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Speaker 1: is how I would love for it to go. But

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Speaker 1: what He provides for me in the interim is he

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Speaker 1: gives me such a calm peace that it's gonna be okay,

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Speaker 1: that I have now the mind set to wait and

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Speaker 1: trust and realize that God is coming, that he will

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Speaker 1: fix it for me eventually, even if it's not on

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Speaker 1: the time frame that I want. Do you know how

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Speaker 1: cool that is to know that it's coming even when

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Speaker 1: it's not here. But the stress factor that we created

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Speaker 1: in our lives is when we never take it to

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Speaker 1: God and we just try to deal with it on

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Speaker 1: our own, day after day after day, and sometimes we

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Speaker 1: just ain't got no answers, no solutions, we don't know

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Speaker 1: where the next one coming from. And then on top

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Speaker 1: of all of that, here comes something else. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: you have got to start unloading some of this to

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Speaker 1: your companion, to your creator, to your savior, to your

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Speaker 1: heavenly Father, and allow him to carry this. See. I

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Speaker 1: read a slogan nor time somebody sent me months ago

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Speaker 1: that says it ain't ain't the load that breaks you down.

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Speaker 1: It's the way you carry it. See if if you're

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Speaker 1: carrying it wrong, that's what breaks you down. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's so many things that you get from prayer, It's

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Speaker 1: so many things that it provide. But if as long

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Speaker 1: as God steals me, just makes me be steal that's

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Speaker 1: what helped. Look. I got some bad news the other day,

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Speaker 1: and let me tell you something. When I first got it,

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Speaker 1: I was rocking and reeling with it. But you know

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Speaker 1: what I did, man, I took it to God and

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Speaker 1: I gave it to him. It was nothing I could fix,

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Speaker 1: It was nothing I could do about it at the

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Speaker 1: particular moment. But as soon as I turned it over

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Speaker 1: to Him and said, hey, this is what I need.

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Speaker 1: I need your help Lord, because I ain't got no

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Speaker 1: answer for this one right here, but I bet you do,

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Speaker 1: he put my mind at ease immediately. And guess what,

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it wasn't as daunting as it was.

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Speaker 1: It didn't. It didn't it didn't seem like there was

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Speaker 1: no answer, because God got an answer for you for

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Speaker 1: whatever it is. Because I ain't got no problem bigger

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Speaker 1: than my God. I just don't. I just don't, man,

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Speaker 1: And I'm just strongly suggesting it to you all, especially

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Speaker 1: during this time. Look, we're dealing with the COVID, we're

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Speaker 1: dealing with the administration. We're dealing with unemployment, We're dealing

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Speaker 1: with with with with with with people being sick of quarantine.

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Speaker 1: We're dealing with people not wearing masks. We're dealing with

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Speaker 1: Black Lives Matter, We're dealing with a rise in white supremacy.

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Speaker 1: We're dealing with the death of Floyd, the depth of

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Speaker 1: all breath of death of Brianna. We got all this,

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Speaker 1: we're dealing with. We've been screaming about this for years.

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Speaker 1: And on top of all that, on top of all that,

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Speaker 1: some of us got to wake up and have color

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Speaker 1: on us, on top of all that, and then guess what, then,

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Speaker 1: your president just told you you got sending your babies

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Speaker 1: back down to the school and it ain't even safe.

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Speaker 1: All that all of that, Man, you better hand some

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Speaker 1: of that to God. You really do need some help,

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Speaker 1: all right. That's just a strong suggestion, now that I've

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Speaker 1: said that, when we all vote dot org, ye Scott

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Speaker 1: to happen, y'all register go now to we all vote

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Speaker 1: dot org and register to vote and tell everybody you know,

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Speaker 1: the vote. Those are my clothes remarks. Keep the faith, y'all.

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Speaker 1: God would love to hear from you, He really would.

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Speaker 1: That's it, well all right, thank you Sang Junior singer

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