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Speaker 1: Hi everyone, I'm Rachel Zoe and you're listening to Work

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Speaker 1: for Us, where we talk to people about what works

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Speaker 1: for them in their relationships and of course what doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Today's guest maybe the most stunning yet down to earth

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Speaker 1: couple that ever was. Curtis Stone is a Michelin starred

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Speaker 1: chef who owns restaurants Maud and Gwen Here in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: He's of course known for TLC's Take Home Chef, Top

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Speaker 1: Chef Masters, and Crime Scene Kitchen, and Lindsay Price, his

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Speaker 1: beautiful wife, has lent her talents to shows like a Typical,

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Speaker 1: Splitting Up Together, Blackish and Hawaii Fivo. Curtis and Lindsay

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Speaker 1: have been married since twenty thirteen and have two adorable boys,

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Speaker 1: Emerson and Hudson. Welcome to Works for Us YouTube. We're

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Speaker 1: very excited because you know, Roger and I are very

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Speaker 1: lucky and that you know, we've realized we have some

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Speaker 1: very interesting friends, very compelling friends, so that meaning like

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Speaker 1: that we've wanted to really talk to you on the

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Speaker 1: podcast and as well as we know some of our friends,

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Speaker 1: we literally just always learned so much when we when

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Speaker 1: we do this, because it's obviously focused on relationships. Um,

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Speaker 1: all different kinds of relationships, and you guys are just

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Speaker 1: one of our most favorite couples. We love nadore you so. Um.

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Speaker 1: We always like to start from the beginning because I

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Speaker 1: actually I heard from Lindsay when we first became friends,

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Speaker 1: but UM, I kind of want to hear how you

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Speaker 1: met because I feel like it's probably very cute origin story. Please,

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Speaker 1: origin story, origin story. Um. Okay, Well, it was a

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Speaker 1: blind date. Should I should preface this by saying that

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Speaker 1: neither one of us thought that we needed to be

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Speaker 1: set up. We didn't, you know, like we were doing okay,

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Speaker 1: And it was back before blind dates were kind of normal, right,

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Speaker 1: look back before right, right, that's before, right. I mean

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Speaker 1: it probably was internet dating, but it was probably super creepy.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy. Yeah. By the way, I think you're

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Speaker 1: probably correct. I think you're probably correct about that before

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Speaker 1: bumble and all of that. Yeah, but we were both

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Speaker 1: you know, in the thick of our careers, and to

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Speaker 1: be honest, you know, I think we were both sort

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Speaker 1: of putting work first at that point, at least I was.

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Speaker 1: You were probably I think when you and I were

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Speaker 1: introduced to be a email, I think you were on

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Speaker 1: your way to Colombia or something. Yeah, I was really

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Speaker 1: enjoying my single life. But as as as we do

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Speaker 1: as we do, all good things must come to an end.

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Speaker 1: The mutual print that set us up was like, I've

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Speaker 1: got a blind date for you, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not kind on a blind date. And then she

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Speaker 1: showed me Busi's photo and I was like, I'm going

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Speaker 1: on that and it's not blind, and it's not blind.

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Speaker 1: By the way, that was not I did not Google.

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Speaker 1: I was sort of like I had been in the

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Speaker 1: place in my life where I knew that putting work first,

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Speaker 1: it was time for me to sort of focus on

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Speaker 1: more meaningful things, you know, things. It was sort of

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Speaker 1: like deepen and enrich in my life. So I was

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Speaker 1: looking for someone meaningful, but I did. My ego told

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Speaker 1: me I didn't need to be set up. And I

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Speaker 1: remember being on the phone with her and she's like, look,

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Speaker 1: just your picker's broken. You can't pick for yourself anymore.

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Speaker 1: About him, Okay, he's not like a struggling artist, like

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Speaker 1: you know, you don't have to. He's a real man.

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Speaker 1: He's Australian and he's artistic in the sense that he

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Speaker 1: can like cook and he's a chef, but he you surf,

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Speaker 1: you love food, he makes food like perfect. I'm like fine,

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Speaker 1: I'm going we're growing. So then we set up his date.

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Speaker 1: I had just moved back to La on it and

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Speaker 1: and Curtis, you were here for a while, I think, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: four years. Yeah. Yeah, So we make we make plans

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Speaker 1: about them the good forty minutes. See, I know, I

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Speaker 1: just was My mind was like where was the date?

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Speaker 1: Where was the date? Where were you meeting? We met

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Speaker 1: at RONI yeah, sure on third good good restaurant. Like

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Speaker 1: where did the chef take I'm in I don't have

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Speaker 1: a date, right, And it's too forward at that point

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Speaker 1: I walk in and it was like a nineties rom com.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I can kind of see him sitting

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Speaker 1: trouble right. So anyway, I approached. I approached the bar

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Speaker 1: and then about Sander says, what would you like to drink?

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Speaker 1: And she's like, what single mark whiskeys do you have?

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Speaker 1: I quickly distanced myself from the gloss of rose and

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Speaker 1: I have a bar. Oh, I like Single Mark whiskeys,

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Speaker 1: so what So that's amazing appearance. So basically what you're

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Speaker 1: saying is there is physical attraction on both sides. You know,

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Speaker 1: Lindsay's more of the man and Curtis the tall, strapping,

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Speaker 1: handsome Australia. The guys kind of like drinking Rose at

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Speaker 1: iron The irony is, you know, you know, don't don't,

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Speaker 1: don't judge the package. But I love it. But that's why.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I said, Lindsay would hold a snake.

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Speaker 1: Things weren't feeling good. I might have been in my

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Speaker 1: steaking glass of rose, maybe my third um. So when

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Speaker 1: I think that's just part of being my husband. I

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Speaker 1: think it's just part of being like literally attached to

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Speaker 1: what happens, right, it's like a scam. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I say, you know which for sure? Close memory? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll say, honey, do you remember this guy we met?

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Speaker 1: We were in Italy on the enough cash and she's like,

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Speaker 1: creative brain, though. It's like it's like you have to

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Speaker 1: and then what happens? You have mault whisky? Do you

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Speaker 1: close the bar down? That is the first question. Well,

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Speaker 1: we have, we have our drinks. And then it was

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Speaker 1: so wait for our listeners. They can't see the beautiful

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Speaker 1: to know they are, in fact, really beautiful. But I

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Speaker 1: put his very long Australian arm that's like seven feet

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Speaker 1: by the way he looks right and started to feel like,

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Speaker 1: And it didn't. He didn't. He felt the opposite of smarmie.

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Speaker 1: I ordered for you? So of course, knowing that he

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Speaker 1: Now if I pulled that move, Richel like what are

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why don't you just order for me too?

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Speaker 1: And then I kicked back because she's gonna tell me

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Speaker 1: what I mean any day. So you can only have

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Speaker 1: one in the relationship though, that's a thing. You can

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Speaker 1: really only have one of those, okay, So hold on.

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Speaker 1: So this is like twenty thirteen. How long were you

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Speaker 1: together before you were like? This is it? This is

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Speaker 1: the one. No, I want to hear about the first

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Speaker 1: date still because we're still on the first date. Stay

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Speaker 1: app all night and talk like how did this work?

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Speaker 1: So this this is actually two thousand. This is January

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Speaker 1: two thousand and ten, two thousand time you got married

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Speaker 1: in thirteen. I think, yep, pre uber, preuber just pre

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Speaker 1: dating apps. And then we close the breast down, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I see where he's going. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you why, okay, And then what happened when I closed down?

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Speaker 1: Then I'm like, you know, having come from New York,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well that's that's dinner. So where are we

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Speaker 1: going for drink next? You know? And we go out

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Speaker 1: to the sidewalk and I'm like where, you know, what

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Speaker 1: And he's like, it was so nice to meet you. Um,

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Speaker 1: maybe we'll do it again sometime then you can walks

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Speaker 1: Did you think about I know you had Hudson early,

422
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Speaker 1: but were you like, Okay, I know we want more.

423
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Speaker 1: I know we want to be parents because you're both

424
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Speaker 1: work really really hard, both of you. To be honest,

425
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Speaker 1: we haven't spoken about a time we did. Do you

426
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Speaker 1: remember a flight? Okay, listen, here's is when we first met.

427
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Speaker 1: We went from like you know, we were so super

428
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Speaker 1: attracted to each other and we had the best time.

429
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Speaker 1: We went all the time, we stayed up to the

430
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Speaker 1: middle of the night to the best dancing at his

431
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Speaker 1: kitchen and like just eating food and it was so great.

432
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Speaker 1: And then we were all surprised to me, He's like,

433
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Speaker 1: I'm going to take you on a on a trip.

434
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Speaker 1: And we're on those planets, like our first trip somewhere

435
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Speaker 1: and we're flying crops. We were flying from LA to

436
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Speaker 1: Miami and then we were going on to Turksikekos and

437
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Speaker 1: somewhere over between Miami and Triks and Kegos. He said

438
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Speaker 1: to me, we were talking about a friend of his

439
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: who was like thirty two and gonna break up with

440
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Speaker 1: her boyfriend because he didn't want to have kids. And

441
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Speaker 1: I said, well, what do you think of that? And

442
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Speaker 1: he's like, well, if she doesn't want to have if

443
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Speaker 1: he doesn't want to have kids, like they're not meant

444
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Speaker 1: to be together. And I said, do you want to

445
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Speaker 1: have kids? He said, no, I'm not. I'm not really

446
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Speaker 1: I don't want kids, Like I don't even know if

447
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Speaker 1: I really believe in marriage. And I'm sitting there like

448
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Speaker 1: I'd like I got to stay in the call, but

449
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Speaker 1: I'm like you because I knew at that point that

450
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Speaker 1: I really wanted to have them. And wow, Curtis, Curtis,

451
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: that's a zinger. I was really pro Curtis this whole time.

452
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Speaker 1: Now I'm even mad at myself right now, I mean yours,

453
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: by the way, imagine life without your kids right now.

454
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Speaker 1: And also he I also would like to say for

455
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Speaker 1: our listeners, like he's like a super dad too. He's

456
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Speaker 1: like when he's not working, he's like surfing with his kids.

457
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Speaker 1: He's like cooking for them, even though one is a

458
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Speaker 1: picky eater like my son and like hud since like

459
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Speaker 1: my older son who doesn't stop eating and loves food

460
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Speaker 1: the more the better and wants to try new things

461
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Speaker 1: all the time. And um, and I think it's it's

462
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Speaker 1: a I don't know, I've seen you as a dad.

463
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: I mean, you're an incredible dad. But I think, listen,

464
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Speaker 1: I think there's this I've always been this like mama.

465
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Speaker 1: I've always been a mama to everyone in my life.

466
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Speaker 1: And I always knew I was going to have kids.

467
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Speaker 1: But there I was. I woke up at like, she's

468
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: not good at math, though, I just life was going

469
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Speaker 1: to math problematically, you gotta do it if you want kids.

470
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Speaker 1: I do want kids. Well, mathematically, you gotta have kids.

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Speaker 1: And then sky was like a happy accident. And then

472
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Speaker 1: all of a sudden I wished I had four. I

473
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Speaker 1: was like, you know, I thought I was having one.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, now I wish I had four,

475
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: so as soon as we had, I could have kept going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I still try, you know, yeah, yeah, just give

477
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Speaker 1: me one more. Yeah. Crazy Plenty's like are you okay? Yeah?

478
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: Every day, like one Tuesday, he's like, let's get you dogs.

479
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Speaker 1: Uh should we mention the dogs because that's like having

480
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Speaker 1: four children. They're as tall as Curtis standing up on

481
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Speaker 1: the back leg. Dogs of all time. They are the

482
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Speaker 1: largest dogs of all times. You guys like, really, how

483
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: much do they weigh up? They're like, well, they're big.

484
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Speaker 1: It's really it's really circus around here. And if all

485
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Speaker 1: they're all male, they're super embarrassing dogs. I'm not going

486
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Speaker 1: to lie. The Golden Doodles, right, but I mean I

487
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: think we got jipped because they're pretty much poodles. Yeah,

488
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: they're just like stand like Barbie and kenned poodles essentially down.

489
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Speaker 1: There's not a lot of golden in them, is what

490
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Speaker 1: you're saying. Grandfathers might have been related somehow with friends

491
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: with a gold but there's not much golden in our poodle.

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Speaker 1: You can imagine me trying to walk these two floppy poodles.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Curtis You're the only one that can

494
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Speaker 1: walk these dogs. Actually, can you imagine me walking those dogs?

495
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Speaker 1: don't go bankrupt. But so just going back to food

539
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Speaker 1: real quick. So yeah, Linda, did you ever cook? I? Okay,

540
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: so you know, growing up and we're getting a no nod,

541
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Speaker 1: we're getting a shake. No no, I tell you the

542
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Speaker 1: group on set, you know what I mean. And like

543
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: when I met Curtis, I had I always tell people

544
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: like I had a bottle of champagne and like a

545
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: thing of takeout or something from Whole Food, right, which

546
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Speaker 1: like right, But also you know, I went out to

547
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Speaker 1: eat and I was super sotle. I was not in

548
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: the home very often, right, that's fair. You know, when

549
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: you first out dating someone, you go under their house

550
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: and you kind of have a peek in their food

551
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: when they've got he does that, you know, And I

552
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: remember peeking in there the first time and seeing like

553
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: some guacamali and some salsa, bottle of champagne and you

554
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 1: know the stuff you get from trade to Joe's. You

555
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: can just snack her. And then I was back there

556
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: like two weeks later, and she went to the bathroom

557
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: and I thought, I don't what's happ right now? So

558
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: I had another look. Thanks stuff like the avocado might

559
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: have gone a little brown on the top, you know,

560
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, she ate or she doesn't like

561
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: was like really available? But yeah, she was more a snack.

562
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: She's like Eminem's or Emin Tramex. What are you talking about?

563
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: She needed she needed my help, she did. And listen

564
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: to this Like early on, I was like, I'm going

565
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: to cook for him a lot. Are you okay? Linda?

566
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: Are you okay? I just know I think I just

567
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: wanted to show him that. But you could do it? Yeah,

568
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: that I could. And I decided to make Coco Vaughan,

569
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: which is so stupid. Really you actually like, what what

570
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: about like a milanaise? That would have been easier, It

571
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: would have been much easier, But for me, I was like,

572
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: follow the directions, I can do it. No, It's much

573
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: like laughting. You like you take the pieces and you

574
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: take your time. Different so then that my friend came

575
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: and she like, oh my god, this little onions through

576
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: the tiny little onions that I've never seen before, the

577
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: pearl onions, the little pearl ones. I didn't I didn't

578
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: take the skins off, so she would pull him out.

579
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: We were like taking the stands off in the kitchen. Yeah,

580
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: and you put it into sandwich roll. I think that delicious. Oh,

581
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't know anyone that puts things in a sandwich troll.

582
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: Everything needs to be he does, Everything ends up, and

583
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: if it's if it's passed, if you eat it for

584
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: a night, pass if he goes forward again two hours later,

585
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: it's in a sandwich roll. The next day, it's in

586
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: everything in a sandwich when I'm eating as well. But

587
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: I also find that most things need more crunch. So

588
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of for a carb chips, Like

589
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: I need like some sort of carbohydrate chips, substance or

590
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: pretzel into sandwiches to get that proper. Curtis is like,

591
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: you're killing myself. You might actually have like a really

592
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 1: sophisticated path because I'm like the rain word like crunch,

593
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: and you know he does, Roger does. That's where Skyler

594
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: gets it. From it's not for me. Yeah, I Roger

595
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: would be the best customer. I already thought. He's also

596
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: in New York too, so he thinks about the next

597
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: meal while he's eating the current meal. So what are

598
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: we doing? You know? Like I like for me, I

599
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: like Asian a lot Asian food, and uh so I'm like,

600
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: you know, obviously Chinese on Sundays, and then you've got

601
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: to just work around the other things like when's a

602
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: good night to throw some Thai food in there, you know,

603
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: or maybe just do soup dumplings, which isn't really Chinese,

604
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: it's more of like another situation. So yeah, so those

605
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: are the things I think about often. Okay, so I

606
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: want to go into some of my favorite things really quick.

607
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. You guys, you've been together now

608
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Speaker 1: eleven plus years, right, you're obviously madly in love. I've

609
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: seen you guys together. You have a beautiful relationship. I

610
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: think one of the things we really like to kind

611
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: of delve into, like what do you think is the

612
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: like magic, Like what is your secret sauce? What is

613
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: the thing that makes it work? And the reason we

614
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: started doing this podcast was because we got asked like

615
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: ten times a day. How on earth does this work?

616
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: You're together thirty years, your parent together, you work together,

617
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: you live together, you like every single thing we do together.

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Speaker 1: There really is in a lot of separation and I

619
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Speaker 1: don't know, so how it works for us works for us?

620
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Speaker 1: It works for us. So I think I think we

621
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Speaker 1: want to understand why do you think your relationship works

622
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: so beautifully? Like what is that thing that you could

623
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Speaker 1: share with people? Like this is why we work? You know?

624
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: Come on, baby convinced me. I feel like she's going

625
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: to have a great answer. For some reason, I think

626
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: two things came to mind immediately. The first one was

627
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: probably your cliche, but like the real deal is a communication, Yeah,

628
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: which is really hard is to be honest. I'm I've

629
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Speaker 1: heard in a family that nobody else, nobody nobody, UM.

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Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes didn't talk about you know, video right about

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00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: things that should have UM, but we were very verbal

632
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: about everything. And I'm obviously you know, with my work,

633
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm always like, why do you feel about that? Like

634
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm all about feeling right where it heard us grew up.

635
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: You know, Australian culture, as much as it seems like

636
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: they would be like us, it's a very different culture.

637
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: So and it's start plastic and it's a little bit

638
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: brash in front. The technis infantantial yell. And our communication

639
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 1: was not easy, I'm telling you, Like today we feel

640
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: it's like we're speaking different languages, and it can it

641
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: can take us down really fast. Right, We had to

642
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: find our way of communicating with each other and allowing

643
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: the other person to have the space to be who

644
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: they are, right, can't change who someone is in the

645
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: way that they expect themselves or process emotions or whatever.

646
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: So that's the first thing. But the second thing, which

647
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: actually is probably more important for us, is how the humor,

648
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like not that bad?

649
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: Like you got to laugh about Yes, you have to

650
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: enjoy in like the quirks of your partner. You need

651
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 1: to lovingly tease them or give them the space to

652
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: like mess up or be you know, like I am

653
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: terrible with schedule and details and it drives him crazy.

654
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: But he's gotten himself to play where he'd like he

655
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: can expect it and cheat me about it, right, and

656
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean, it couldn't get any worse.

657
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 1: That's how That's how fire it's gone. When you kind

658
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: of like I'm out here. It's three times a day

659
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 1: or to day. Okay, look, let me call you rom

660
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: Beth Um, yes, yes, no, no, I do remember, I do.

661
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: Remember said. I'm like, oh my god, this poor girl.

662
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: She makes so many plans because he's such a good

663
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: human being. You can't keep a track of them. And

664
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: it's adorable to be it really is, especially when I'm

665
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: just standing on the street corner somewhere, I think, you know,

666
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna come, you know, like I think, well,

667
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: you shouldn't know when you were getting into the first thing, right,

668
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: you're right, right, Well, she didn't change, she didn't change, right, Yeah,

669
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 1: you know what we have. She's the funniest person I know.

670
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: She makes me laugh all the time, and hopefully I'll

671
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: make you laugh once in a while. So I think

672
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:26,280
Speaker 1: that that we laugh a lot. That's that's so important,

673
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: so important. It is so important. Yeah, because life gets

674
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: very real. Life gets very real, and I would say

675
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: in the last few years even more so. And I

676
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: think as working parents and career driven parents and very

677
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: hands on parents, I think life gets real. And I

678
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: think there's just those moments where like you just have

679
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: to laugh through things sometimes because it's so insane. It's

680
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: almost like it just gets you through it, Like you

681
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 1: just sort of look at each other like like I'm

682
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 1: losing my mind. Okay, me too. Okay, let's figure out

683
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: how to how to deal with that function as part

684
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: of the fun it is, it is what is normal?

685
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: You guys? What is normal? I don't know. The rushing

686
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: and like it's just sort of Lindsay's an actor, you're

687
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: a chef, you're from Australia, you're from New York and

688
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: late like, of course there's gonna be chaos. Like, of

689
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: course there's gonna be chaos. We've chaos all the time.

690
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: We live in chaos. And as much as we don't

691
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: align on some things, I think where we do come

692
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,439
Speaker 1: together is we're just good people. You know, I don't

693
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: that sounds really arid. I don't know. We say it

694
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 1: all the time. And Lindsay's of course, she's an amazing

695
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: human being. It doesn't matter if she's your best friend

696
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: or someone she's just running too at the airport, has

697
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: genuine love and care for human beings. And she she's

698
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 1: a beautiful soul. And that's that's so nice to be

699
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: around someone, Like, how does it feel to be married

700
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: to someone like that. Oh no, but you know what, Curtis,

701
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: we actually say the same thing all the time because

702
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 1: Roger and I are actually very differ We approach things

703
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: so differently, but ultimately, at our core we're exactly the

704
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: same same values. The way we treat people, the way

705
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: we think about people, the way the same things matter

706
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: to us ultimately, right like how you parent, what you

707
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: teach your kids, the values, your morals, trust, honestly, all

708
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: of those things. And I think, ultimately it doesn't matter

709
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: how different you are. I actually think that's what makes

710
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: relationships actually work, because if you're too much alike, you

711
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: don't want to be married to yourself. I certainly do

712
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: not want to be married to myself. Oh good god,

713
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: that's my point. So I think that's why it works too,

714
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: if you actually outside looking in, it actually does work.

715
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: You guys make perfect sense to me, totally, Empis. I

716
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: think we should do one more question and then move

717
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: on with let's do it with our newly red game. Hey, oh,

718
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: that's going to be fun with them, Yeah, I think so.

719
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: So twenty years from now, what are we doing? Are

720
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: you guys in la? Like, what's happening? Australia. Yeah, well

721
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: where's like, where's the maybe what's the dream or maybe

722
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: you don't talk about it, but you know, what are

723
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 1: you thinking? In twenty years we'd probably both love to

724
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: be a little on the road, you know, and have

725
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: a couple of couple of homes, a couple of places

726
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: we call home. Of course, for me, Australia is close

727
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: to my heartlands. Liked it out there as well. We

728
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: love La. Sometimes we hate La, sometimes we love you know,

729
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: we we love the East Coast, we love Europe. You know.

730
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: I think if we could bounce around in twenty years

731
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: and people'll follow our kids around them and wherever they are,

732
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: we'll just you know, they'll be like, oh, mom and

733
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: dad bought a house next door. No, they're gonna love it.

734
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: Their boys, don't forget. They want us near them. If

735
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 1: not there not, if their wife Linday not, if their

736
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: wife does. We have to have our own conversations for

737
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: this process. You got to be nice to the wife.

738
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we definitely want to have the freedom to

739
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: you know, travel. I mean, the truth is like in

740
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: the pandemic, Yeah, it was the first time that we

741
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: were ever in the same home day after day which

742
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: ensure all the couples. Yeah, b off, it was like, okay,

743
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: we actually really like being together. Yes, and we don't

744
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: get breaks from one another. Yes, this is good. Yeah,

745
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: you can kind of picture what the future would look

746
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: like when it's just the kids are out of the

747
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: house and you know, work isn't is insane right now?

748
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: Work is insane and saying I love the idea and

749
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: getting too that plates we're hopefully not right now. But yeah,

750
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: wants to make Juliana beach like in the south of France.

751
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: That's what I want to do. Perfect, Okay, I'll see

752
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: you there, yeah, yeah, yeah, And Curtis will make us yes, yes,

753
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: I'll be late to dinner. Roger will supply everyone with

754
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: everything they need. He'll make sure everyone's warm and taken

755
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: care of and providing the provider, you know, the things

756
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: he provides provider exactly exactly, exactly that. Okay, so this

757
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 1: this is actually funny, you guys. We're just going to

758
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: ask you like three funny questions where Curtis you answer

759
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: for Lindsay. Lindsay you answer for Curtis. So this is

760
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: actually some of these are even more funny just because

761
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: of what you do. Um, okay, okay, okay, okay, all right,

762
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: lindsay what would Curtis's last meal be on Earth? It

763
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: would start with, um, it's really hard, okay, it would

764
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: It would start with something like from home, like a

765
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: vegemite on toast with with ter okay, right, just basic,

766
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: and then it would go into um, probably some sort

767
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,879
Speaker 1: of caveatar situation. Okay, we'll go. We'll go really nice,

768
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: and then crab like keep the crab guy for like

769
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: fresh crab, right, a crab maybe with like a curry.

770
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: And then it would end with something very very chocolate

771
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: e like chocolate ganash cake or like souflet or something. Yeah, right,

772
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 1: I like that. I can look at every the bottle

773
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 1: of what a bottle of Pinfolds grange big one. No,

774
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: she got the one parangl wrong But that's ok Why

775
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: would you want red with all that crab? But it's okay, right,

776
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: you're right. I was just picturing your favorite things. Oh,

777
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. There was some kind of steak. It's

778
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: fine where as a kid, but when I want to

779
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: hear Curtis that we realize as Curtis likes food. Okay, okay,

780
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: so Curtis, what's Lindsay's last meal on Earth that you're

781
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 1: making believe it or not, I think she just described.

782
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: She described is actually so I know what to send

783
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: you for Christmas. Of caviar VI caviar girl, I got it.

784
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: Champagne in the fridge. I love that all Vincy champagne

785
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: with lots of caviar and definitely some crab or maybe lobstuff.

786
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: She loves lobster the worst than lobstuff. What do you eat?

787
00:42:54,200 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 1: I would probably eat white truffles. Truffles as god, you

788
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: gotta cook for my dad. They'd be so happy. Those

789
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 1: are his like two favorite things. Um, oh my god. Okay,

790
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: you guys, I don't know if this is um a

791
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: opera pope to what you actually do. But Lindsay, what's

792
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: Curtis's go to karaoke song? Oh god, we just talked

793
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 1: about this. We talked about you guys talk about this.

794
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 1: They do. She's very intellectual, like why she just does

795
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: because she wants to know, as you knew. It's like

796
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 1: an intellectual actor. But was she like it's like Jeopardy,

797
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: let's study for the question. Probably they had like a

798
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: they had like a year long monopoly game going in

799
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 1: on the living room table. That was like a yeah,

800
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: with like properties, we never get to the properties. No

801
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: one can focus that long. That's sorry, I feel like

802
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: it's come shoot, like this is really upsetting me. But

803
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: if meat load, it's something meat load that's such a

804
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: big karaoke song. By the way, meat load anything, yeah, yeah,

805
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: hell yeah, Okay, what's Lindsay's terrible singer? You don't want it?

806
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: So it's Roger. And by the way, isn't that song

807
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: like eleven minutes long? Like so we have to listen

808
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: to we have to listen to cartis just sing badly

809
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: for a lot? Right? You did not want to hear

810
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: me sing? I mean, look a shorter song. Curse. I'm

811
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: just saying. Yeah. Lindsay's mom said to me not that

812
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: long ago, I was like, you know, whistling in the

813
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: kitchens to some music, and she said she said, of

814
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 1: like cringed a little, and she looked at me and

815
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: she's like, can you whistle in tune? Even whistling is attitude.

816
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: And by the way, Lindsay probably has a voice of

817
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: an angel, right, she's a song Oh my god. So

818
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 1: for her it's actually not karaoke. It's actually just she

819
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: sings a song, her karaoke song for right now. I

820
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: don't know if Whitney Houston should be and it'd be Whitney,

821
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: or it might be that Lady Gaga song, Oh my god,

822
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: the one with Bradley Cooper. Go on, Bradley Cooper. Just

823
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: another couple of buzz for a Lindsay sing a verse,

824
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: sing something, Lindsay, Lendy, Lendy. Listen. I think for her

825
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: kids every night, and I sing in the shower. Um,

826
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't think I would. Well you

827
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: got she has. She actually released to a U s

828
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: d SO listen, listen. She released about the song. She's

829
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: a songwriter and you can go find her music. Wait,

830
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: it's that really true. Curtis, Oh my god, Lindsay, why

831
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: did I do it? Curtis works? Do you guys? She's

832
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: like an amazing thing. Lindsay, just sing something, just sing something,

833
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: hit something, sing me something as we kick off. For

834
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: like the album Let's Go it's a wedding right now.

835
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: I took a little hiatus from act date and I

836
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: wrote like twenty songs of course she does a year,

837
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: of course, and then I recorded an EP. There's like

838
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: five it's called someone like me. You can find it

839
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: on IUE. This is nope. By the way, you guys,

840
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: this is embarrassment. This is a very organic wait, this

841
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: is I just would like our listeners to know this

842
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: is a very organic plug because we've been friends a

843
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: long time. I actually didn't know this because she's like

844
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: a closet singer apparently, but not because she actually has,

845
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 1: you know, albums out. So kids found there on Spotify

846
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: and they've taught all their mates, and she's waterfied because

847
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: all these moms are calling from school band like, I

848
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: didn't know you had an album out. We've found it

849
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: on Roger Rogers pulling it up on his phone right now,

850
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: so I'm looking for Roger, but I don't see it's

851
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: someone like me. It's very it's an obscure because you know,

852
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: I sold like four you are going to sell more now,

853
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: So we're going to sell more now because then I'm

854
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 1: plugging it when we hang out to someone like me. Okay, okay,

855
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: And also now I'm going to make Lincy sing when

856
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: that's friends like this is stone You've got like, that's amazing.

857
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: But I don't think it is no rage. I think

858
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 1: it's actually not amazing at all. Do you know what

859
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm here to say. It's amazing. I'm here to say

860
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: you're going to be opening for Oh okay, so on

861
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: Amazon Music, okay on and Apple Music. I was like, okay,

862
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: I was going to do it. Okay, okay, all right,

863
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: so last so last one okay, because I think this

864
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: is very appropriate. Who is it will be the most

865
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:28,399
Speaker 1: hungover after a wedding? Lindsay R. Curtis doesn't mean well,

866
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: she's significantly smaller than you, Curtis, and all fairness, A

867
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 1: lot about more years, a little experience you know, in

868
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 1: the nightclubs of London and whatnot? You do it? Um? Wait,

869
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: can I ask one more thing you guys? I have

870
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: one more because it's my favorite and I can't leave

871
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: you guys without because I actually think there will be

872
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: funny answers to this. Curtis, what would Lindsay get arrested for?

873
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: If she got arrested? We've had some very funny answers

874
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: to these questions. I had one more question too, Oh

875
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: no furniture. That's a good girl. I kind of think

876
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: of what she get arrested for. Really, it could be

877
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: something funny, though, I mean, she's a horrific driver, She say, taste.

878
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: I think she would get arrested contempt of court for

879
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: forgetting her court date. Oh, you're right, you're right, definitely

880
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: contempt of course, Jerry Duty. Have you ever gone to

881
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: Jerry Duty and they chasing you down? What's Curtis getting

882
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: arrested for? Lence? I know she's like, don't talk about

883
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: Jerry d She's scared. See, I could tell the r

884
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: the sky okay, fresh Curtis. Curtis would for sure get

885
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: arrested for like a bar fight. Like really, so you

886
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: really are that like strappy dude in the bar that

887
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: like suf I love. I mean, my Australians are like

888
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 1: the most peaceful, kind, funny, hilarious population. She was a

889
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: prison Rachel. Oh god stop, they want to fight. They're

890
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: like a little like you know, Oh, I love my Aussies.

891
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: My Assies are like the sweetest, mushiest people. They're so

892
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: friendly and you know what they say. All the times

893
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: I've been to Australia, they always go, I'm sorry, we're

894
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: so far away. We're still like they apologize right away

895
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 1: for being so far from everything. Don't apologize. This is

896
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: a beautiful place. It's pretty funny. I love it because

897
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: they went they were they were sent there. That's why

898
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying it was a prison. That's why they fight.

899
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: It's I love them. I'm just saying I love AlSi

900
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 1: Um okay, So I think this is an interesting question,

901
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: and then we're really lighting you down because you're an

902
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: actress and it could call store well, oh sorry, what

903
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: do they call people actor? What's the non what's a

904
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: nine binary way to call people these days? Like, isn't

905
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: you're an actor? I supposed to say actor because you

906
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: don't say correct, you say doctor, you don't say doctress, right,

907
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: best actress? Differentiate Now you're best actress and the oscars

908
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: is now I think I don't know doctress for sure,

909
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: it is. I'm fine with actress. We're best actor. That

910
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: happens too, But I think technically now I just call

911
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: all my friends that act actor period. All right, yeah, okay.

912
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: Regardless of the technicalities, if someone was going to do

913
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: the biopic on you, Lindsay asking you this question, Lindsay

914
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: can't play herself. Oh this is gonna d him so

915
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: much trouble. Who would play Lindsay? Such a good one

916
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: for them. That's why I asked it. Okay, you're gonna

917
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: get a lot of trouble. It's better be someone so hot.

918
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's hard to find because she's kind

919
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 1: of hot with actors with people's names. But let me

920
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 1: just subscribe. This person needs to be okay, and then

921
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: you can help me find her. She's got to be gorgeous, right,

922
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: She's gotta be hilarious. She could be deep and complex, supersensitive.

923
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: She's got a thing like an angel, doesn't want anyone

924
00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: to hear her. Wait, it's her. You got to play

925
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: yourself lends Oh no, no, no, I think I'm thinking

926
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: question disaster. That's why I asked, See, I know who

927
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: could play Curtis thought Lindsay's question, Lindsay. No, I want

928
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: to see if she agrees with Lindsay. Who's I'm not

929
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: going to say he failed at this question. We're moving on, Lindsay. Um,

930
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: what about Curtis. Who's going to play him in his

931
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: own story? He's a bit easier. Well, we'll see. Yeah, yeah,

932
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: you either get someone who has an ausey accent or

933
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: someone who's actually an audi. Isn't it like those brothers

934
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: looked up? I know, I said, that's probably not the one. Yeah,

935
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: he didn't know who anybody is, okay, which is charming.

936
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: It's charming charming. He's like, who's that actress? By the way,

937
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: by the way, Curtis, Roger doesn't either. I don't know.

938
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: Roger doesn't either unless he knows them personally, has no idea.

939
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: But I'm always like, i'mm was like, well do they

940
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 1: know me? Yeah? I know them? You know what I mean? Wait, Okay,

941
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: So to answer this question, it's at lindsay, doesn't it

942
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 1: have to be those like those like tall gorgeous AUSI brothers,

943
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: Thank Yousthall. That was like even I knew that one

944
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: list and I knew that I gotta be a Hemsworth Worth.

945
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 1: Doesn't matter. They're both gorgeous. Who cares that's the one. Yeah,

946
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: he's got like a thor vibe because he's tall and

947
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: he's yeah he's man, right, I mean it's really good casting. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

948
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: He was a bit easier. He's a little less challenging.

949
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: No offense, Curtis, I don't know standardized tests. I don't

950
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: know how they would have done. Well. You guys, we

951
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: honestly love you both so much. You guys are honestly

952
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: one of our absolute most favorite couples. We like fell

953
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: in love at first sight. We met through our kids,

954
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: funny enough, through like mutual friends and um, you guys

955
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,800
Speaker 1: are just a beautiful family. We love you and I

956
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: don't know, we just love you all around. You might

957
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: be added to our dinner guest list. I'm I'm taking names.

958
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: I'm taking I am not cooking for Curtis, so whatever

959
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 1: it is, rabah chef. Okay, well, whoever he tells me,

960
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm allowed to get catered. That's what I'm doing, chef,

961
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: he said. If it's not good, then the responsibility you

962
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: know what I mean, chice stressful. I'm adding them to

963
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: our You're always invited. We just always invite you, apparently

964
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 1: because we don't like that many people. I really like it.

965
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: I think some people actually like so you might you

966
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: might pass, okay, cross all right, We love you guys. Listen,

967
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 1: have the must beautiful holidays. You haven't been invited to

968
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: a dinner party in a decade. We haven't had one.

969
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 1: We haven't had one, so we haven't had one since

970
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: we moved, or actually we did. They were there my birthday.

971
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: That was our dinner party. Delicious. Um, oh good that's fun.

972
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming to that. Thank God, Happy holidays. We

973
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: always want to leave you with a little highlight and

974
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: low light from our week, because in relationships, the bad

975
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: comes with the goods. So this is our time to

976
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: mention a little bit of both of those things. Okay,

977
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: my highlight. I have two highlights, you both, and because

978
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: one of them is me, mine, so get off. Okay,

979
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: I have two highlights. One is our children started a

980
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: new school this year and they just ended their first

981
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: semester with the most beautiful, most beautiful report cards. I'm

982
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: so incredibly proud of them, and you know, they acclimated

983
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: so quickly. Just this is just mom proud, being a

984
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: proud mom moment. And also that we are taking our

985
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: children on a trip this holiday to see my family

986
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: and have some quality time and then have a loane

987
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 1: time with us as a family, which we haven't had

988
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,800
Speaker 1: like somewhere else but in LA in two years, and

989
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: we are. I'm just very very excited. And the low

990
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:11,760
Speaker 1: light for me would be that I personally know maybe

991
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: a hundred people between New York, Florida in LA that

992
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: currently have COVID, and there's a massive surge in COVID

993
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 1: and it's just terrifying because it just shows me that

994
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: this is nowhere near over. It also puts a little

995
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: bit of a damper on the first highlight, which is

996
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,919
Speaker 1: going away, because now I'm going with major apprehension. Yes, yeah,

997
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:35,240
Speaker 1: so that's definitely a low light. I'm going to also

998
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: have a highlight here with our children, or regarding our children.

999
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: So our little son Chius that qutbut in our school,

1000
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: at his school, excuse me to have flagline and every kid,

1001
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: if they want, they could request to give a thought

1002
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 1: of the day. And our little son Caius felt that

1003
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 1: he wanted to give everyone a thought of the day,

1004
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: and he wrote it down and got permission to do it.

1005
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 1: And then this morning he stood in front of the

1006
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: whole school and mumbled through his mask words that we

1007
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 1: really couldn't hear, but it was the thought of the

1008
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: day and it was the cutest thing. They're gonna send

1009
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: around a video, and I was so proud of them also,

1010
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: So I think kids being proud of our children is

1011
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: probably the highlight of just, you know, the day of

1012
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: the year, because they're really just giving us so much joy.

1013
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 1: Lowlight for me, I think the low light for me

1014
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: is I just feel really tired and burnt out. I'm

1015
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: just great. And I think that goes back to I

1016
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: really need to shut down for a bit. I feel

1017
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: it this this year, it's getting hard. So we hope

1018
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: that we can enjoy, energize, and come back after New Year.

1019
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 1: And more importantly, we wish all of you a happy, healthy, safe,

1020
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: COVID free holiday that you all deserve. And let's all

1021
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: be friendly and nice to each other because that will

1022
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: be amazing. So wait, do you remember, like a couple

1023
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 1: of years ago when we were like, you know, we

1024
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: really need some new friends in our mix, we really

1025
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 1: need some new people that we love and like excite

1026
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: us and like whatever. We had that like an inflection point,

1027
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: remember that, like four or five years ago, And I said,

1028
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: you know, and you go, put Rachel, you hate new friends.

1029
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: I go, you hate new people. I know, I know,

1030
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: And I said, but you know what, I'm going to

1031
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: make some new friends. And I actually really feel like

1032
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: I've done a really good job of making us some

1033
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: really good new friends. Well, we love um Curtis and Lindsay,

1034
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: I just love it might have been one of my

1035
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 1: favorite episodes. You know why. It could have just kept

1036
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: going it's just very authentic. They're very real. I also

1037
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: loved how candid they were about how different they are,

1038
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: and that they can go to the mat about their differences,

1039
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: but they've learned to kind of like, well, it sounds

1040
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,919
Speaker 1: like they're still working on communications. And by the way,

1041
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: just so everyone knows, it's thirty years later and I

1042
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: still can't talk to Rachel apparently, so I want everyone

1043
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: to know the communication channels they always need work. I

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Speaker 1: can't you know, I'm not giving any plugs out here,

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Speaker 1: but you can advertise on our podcast. I'm sorry anyway,

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Speaker 1: But um, they are a very dynamic couple, I think

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Speaker 1: it's just a nice It's like you want to just

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Speaker 1: they just put you at ease. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: just it's for me. It's an energy thing. How they,

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Speaker 1: you know, talk, how they talk to each other, how

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Speaker 1: they talk to us. They're just nice people. I agree,

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Speaker 1: and I do go back to my original theory. Great

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Speaker 1: parents have great kids. Oh yeah, their kids are amazing,

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Speaker 1: and I do want to invite them to our very

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Speaker 1: when covid calms down again. Okay, if you like what

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Speaker 1: We also want you to know that there's an exciting

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Speaker 1: us a message with your very own relationship stories. We

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Speaker 1: are planning to share our favorites on the podcast. So again,

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Speaker 1: if you want to share a message your own relationship,

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Speaker 1: we can maybe share it on our podcast. You can

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Speaker 1: also ask relationship advice, although clearly we don't know what

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