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Speaker 1: What's up this slip service. I'm into the ye, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm g G maguire, I'm Gloria and we got Faith

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you, this is so exciting because I

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Speaker 1: we do, all right, So now lip service. We always

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Speaker 1: start off with the question of the day, and today's

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Speaker 1: question is what tip of the day? How do you

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Speaker 1: deal with a friend who likes you? And what's the

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Speaker 1: day too? But you're not interested in them, but they're

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Speaker 1: your friend, but they keep saying, you know, one day

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Speaker 1: we're gonna you know, I actually dealt with that very recently,

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Speaker 1: um with Stevie. But you did date them then. But

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Speaker 1: there was a long period of time where I couldn't

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Speaker 1: even fathom that thought. Well I never thought of that thought.

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Speaker 1: do you manage months of convincing on his end for

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Speaker 1: me to even think like m hm. He seemed like

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Speaker 1: going hard. He was going really hard. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: to y'all y'all don't know the hard he before. Y'all

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Speaker 1: even you know he was real hard, but even you

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Speaker 1: know consider and then actually, you know, start dating him

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Speaker 1: after having such a great friendship that was platonic for

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Speaker 1: so many years. Why did you say no? Like, why

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Speaker 1: did you not look at him that way at all? Ever?

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Speaker 1: Before that? Well, I've always had a lot of male friends,

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Speaker 1: think I should have been a boy like that what

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Speaker 1: and then by default I ended up getting like really

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Speaker 1: So what made you finally say, like, what was the really, Stephanie?

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Speaker 1: I want to get out of this friend zone. I

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Speaker 1: my adult life. I didn't really date much until in

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Speaker 1: But then he's like, no, for real, like I I

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Speaker 1: for me. I mean, he was reiterating things that were

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Speaker 1: really said your ground and you never was gonna make

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, no, people ain't gonna think it was

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Speaker 1: But I don't even I've never thought of him in

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Speaker 1: Can he get back in? What do you mean? Can

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Speaker 1: bullshit I learned my lesson. UM, I wouldn't really know

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Speaker 1: I mean, we have a history that and that is

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Speaker 1: totally platonic friendship. Try to come at you. No, she

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Speaker 1: knows who the fun I don't say that because I'm not. No,

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Speaker 1: you know, here's the thing, here's the thing. No, let

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Speaker 1: me say this. In this money. Nobody's ever asked me

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Speaker 1: You know, because Stevie and I were always friends. I

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Speaker 1: always actually supported them to be quite but that she

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm not into being with you and someone

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Speaker 1: when we're talking about things that I know people want

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Speaker 1: Right what Luria? But I'm not gonna say what is

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Speaker 1: when I'm putting now, tell me about this sex party

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Speaker 1: and what is it like? And this is something that

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Speaker 1: me he was invited to one. He told me how

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Speaker 1: it all went down. It's confidential. They make you sign stuff,

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Speaker 1: bowls of condoms everywhere. And he was invited through another girl.

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Speaker 1: go there. And I heard about it and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy. He told me the whole story hole Rundown.

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Speaker 1: I was like, wow, you just people fucking everywhere. He

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Speaker 1: could come by yourself. Somebody in the room. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna say who. He's shaking his head, yes, so obviously

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Speaker 1: and then today somebody actually sent me an invitation, Like

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Speaker 1: if you get STD and I'm not gonna lie this.

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Speaker 1: This one was a sleepover party. The other one that

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Speaker 1: just like a private situation. Yeah, I don't know anything

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Speaker 1: about any of this. I'm never gonna go. So so

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Speaker 1: you said you haven't been to that, but what have

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Speaker 1: you been to? Sex party? Yeah, y'all know my story

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Speaker 1: about the five girls and one guy. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that's a sex party. That's not a sex party,

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Speaker 1: though that had a good time as one. That would

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Speaker 1: never be one of those girls. Min that's funny. Oh mean,

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Speaker 1: we just all have sex. So went to a sex

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Speaker 1: party before. I went to a swingers club before. So

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Speaker 1: what's the difference between a sex party and the swingers

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Speaker 1: is everything you just describe, except it happens every night

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Speaker 1: him knowing that I'm not that one. He's not like, oh,

426
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: nobody's ever going, But I mean, you know that there's

427
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: a certain that's only gonna okay now. I faith. I'm

428
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 1: not even speaking about harrassing of people thinks, because I

429
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: don't even do, not even make not even to say

430
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: that you should do. I'm just explaining where I was

431
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: coming from with him knowing me and the level the

432
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: woman that I am. You know what I mean. I'm

433
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm even being mature enough to say, all right, you

434
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 1: know you kind of got but I know there's a

435
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: chair I had to still understand. It ain't like I'm

436
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: you know, pay attention. But how has your relationship changed

437
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: as friends now? Like it's it different? Um, I really

438
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: don't want it to be if we are still friends.

439
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 1: I think because, um, you know, because he has so

440
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: much going on at all times. But you know what

441
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm the one that knows how to step back,

442
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna still be here. I'm gonna still be

443
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: the same friend when you hit me. I'm gonna still

444
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: be there if you need me, you know what I mean.

445
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 1: So it's I don't I would say that it hasn't

446
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: in that sense. But do I feel like I'm gonna

447
00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: go so so super super hard for defense? Right, I'm

448
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: gonna be honest. I'm I'm still defending him because he

449
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 1: is a good person. But I know that he understands

450
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: that too. He not he know what it is, you

451
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: know what it is? All right? Now? People have been

452
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: asking questions that they want to say address they want

453
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 1: to know about this topic. Climaxing while sleeping. How do

454
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: you do it? I've done it several times and I

455
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: had a dream. No, I've done it several times, and

456
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: I know it's not a gream because I wake up

457
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: shaking with my coach vibrating. Has anybody ever here came

458
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: in her sleep? I think I did? Hey, come on, yeah,

459
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: I think I did. I think I did, so okay,

460
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 1: I feel like that's an incredible experience. It's like no

461
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: effort to have an orgasm. I feel like she's the

462
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: one I should ask about anything about. So what was that?

463
00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:59,719
Speaker 1: Like you woke up? I was? I think I might

464
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: have been like dreaming about sex and woke up, like

465
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, with a little But did you come after me?

466
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: And I felt like I did? It's hard to town right, Yeah,

467
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: it happened to me before. I had a dream where

468
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: I was having sex and like when I woke up

469
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: and like, did I have sex? Because like you did,

470
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: it does feel like you really did, like a wet

471
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: dream or a woman. It's crazy, Stefanitely, you never experienced it. No,

472
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm never come in my sleep for wear my dreams

473
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 1: to the worst. If you're not alone in bed and

474
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: you do that, Oh my god, that's embarrassing. Right, you

475
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: didn't make me come last night, but I made myself

476
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: coming and my dream that I came and I did

477
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 1: I have But you suck? And often would you say

478
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: that you come during sex internally or externally? What's the difference?

479
00:25:53,040 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: Difference stimulate a novice, but all of my teenage promiscuity.

480
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: Just tell me what you're talking about. External orgasm? You

481
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: mean like work work or like what external orgasm is

482
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: when you have an orgasm from being aroused by clearly

483
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 1: like your tonal stimulation, right, and internal orgasm is when

484
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: you're um climaxing from penetration so uterus or well, Okay,

485
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: I have experienced, but I just never I just go

486
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: coming by, okay, Faith? How often would you say you

487
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: come during sex? Um? Nine girls? Even if I have

488
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: be the one to make sure I do come. You know,

489
00:26:53,680 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: I just recently started squating. I thought I couldn't. I

490
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: squired it in the past, like I squired it in

491
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: the past couple of months, like three times, and I

492
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,679
Speaker 1: was sorry to ax I was listening that I didn't

493
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: have sex with it. Like did you know when I

494
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: tell you it happened out of nowhere? Nowhere, like I

495
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: nothing different, nothing anything, like I just squirted and I've

496
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: never squired it before, and I used to always talk

497
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: about it like, oh my god, I want to square.

498
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I want to square, like I wanted to learn how

499
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: to do it, and then out of nowhere, like I

500
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: believe that's what you gotta Yeah, you got it right. Yeah,

501
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, universe, you let it out in the university,

502
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 1: you got your squirre. Let me start one? He please?

503
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: Do you know how good I felt after that? And

504
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: then in a while I felt like no, I don't

505
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: want nobody to feel like, oh I made her square

506
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: and they felt good about their house. So it's like

507
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: a gift and a curse, Like no, you should want

508
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: to try to feel that I've never squirted. I would

509
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: love to, but I'm fine with having an orgasm. You

510
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: can't control it, like I swear to guy, like when

511
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: I used to think it with you can't control it.

512
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: It's crazy, Like I swear to guy, My new boyfriend

513
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 1: makes me squirrel with his mouth and it's just so terrible.

514
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: I get so upside listen and he loves it, not

515
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 1: hate it, now you don't, Yes, I do hate it

516
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: because I have to sleep in the puddle before you. Right,

517
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: is there such thing as an internal squirter? So what

518
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: does it mean? Like you, what would you think that was?

519
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm confused. So if you internally square, it's like just

520
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: extra heavy volume of interior, meaning like your extra at

521
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: basically yeah, yeah, I would just just extra well no

522
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: after come like you know what I mean, like you,

523
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: because I know the whole point of squirting is supported

524
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: to be come out. Yeahs up in the anchor. It

525
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: didn't find way off the cheese. Oh yeah, that is

526
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: that's squirting internally when you get the mates, it's like,

527
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: oh yeah, cheese noise. I don't know what that noise up?

528
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Like you're stirred? Like I got it

529
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: before you put in the mash potatoes. I didn't make

530
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: this alright, So I'm a mac and cheese. So you

531
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: don't get externally squirting, yeah, because I go squear it,

532
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,719
Speaker 1: but I get really wet and I come. But I've

533
00:29:52,760 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: never squirted. I'm an audio squirter. That's the noise internally

534
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: like that. That is another thing that we were talking about.

535
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: If you get pregnant, right and you decided not to

536
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: keep it, should you tell Do you have to tell

537
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: the guy? Are you obligated because it's kind of your

538
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: decision your body. I don't think you're armigating what you

539
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: should you think? So, yeah, I don't think you have

540
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: in a healthy relationship, you should discuss with your partner.

541
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: But if you're in an unhealthy relationship and you're doing

542
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: what you gotta do for you, yeah, if you're just

543
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: getting fogged and you got pregnant, then you know you

544
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: should probably just handle your business and keep it quiet.

545
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: Really like, I never had that question before. I'm saying, like,

546
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: if it was that situation where you because they were

547
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: just like a buddy situation and you know, you don't

548
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: see it going to weird, you don't want to have

549
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: you shouldn't get pregnant by your you're seeing condoms you

550
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: should you know, besides your boyfriend, and you just feel

551
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: like my career it's out popping, like I need to focus. Yeah,

552
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: would you do that? That was my man? I would

553
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: definitely tell him. What if it was like I want

554
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: you to keep it. I mean that depends on what

555
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: the real But you already knew you didn't want to,

556
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: that's all right. Yeah, then I probably would do it

557
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: and not tell him. Ship if it was to the

558
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: yeah where I had to really touch you with myself

559
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: emotionally about it, I wouldn't tell him because doesn't make

560
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: a difference. If a guy is like, hey, I want

561
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: you to keep it, I don't think you should do that.

562
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: That's not that fucking decision. I mean, like I like,

563
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: I never had nobody. I think if pregnant and the

564
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: guy wants you to keep it, you should consider You

565
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: should think about you should think he wants it depends

566
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: on the relationship because not just because they think about

567
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, but the reason why I think you because

568
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: it's his child too. It's you know, you're you know

569
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: because they say with a guy, if you're with a

570
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: guy and you know he doesn't believe an abortion, he

571
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: might think that you're killing his kid. You know what

572
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: I mean. You should think about it, just as considering

573
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: another person, you know what I mean? Right, and then

574
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: you have the baby and he's like, I don't want to.

575
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: I mean I'm just saying, you know, I mean, it

576
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: is it is you know, it is two people, right,

577
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: It is two people making a baby. It's not it's not.

578
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it's just a woman's decision whether

579
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: but a lot of the responsibility falls on the women regardless,

580
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: like you always have to think. I feel like when

581
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: you have a baby, if you're not with that person,

582
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: like that, if you're not married, they might not be around.

583
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: You don't really know what's gonna happen sometimes, you know.

584
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like it is more on the woman,

585
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: just because no matter what you're you gotta be there

586
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: just in case he changes his mind. I mean, I agree,

587
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: I agree the final decision is on the woman, but

588
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: I don't think it's something that the man shouldn't be,

589
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: you know, shouldn't be involved in that decision. I don't

590
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: think that's fair. All right now, if somebody but you

591
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: a gift, would you check to make sure it's real?

592
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: Kind of give a jewelry jewelry? Yeah, if I mean,

593
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: if you're if you're accepted, and give it. If you're accepted.

594
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: I get from somebody who is suspect, yeah, if the

595
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: person is suspect. If it's not a suspect person, I mean,

596
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: if I'm open up opening a watch box, yeah, yeah,

597
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: Like if I'm opening the box and it's red, you know,

598
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: the red cardier box, and it has the all of

599
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: the little you know, the cards and serial numbers and

600
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: you know, all of that stuff that comes along with

601
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: the Yeah, all of that stuff that seuse me. I've

602
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: assume that it was real. But if he gave me

603
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: a watch, and he just give it to me, I'm

604
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: gonna be like, that's a girl who obviously That's my

605
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: point I was gonna make is you know, kind of

606
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: already knowing the difference, which right and that's not the same.

607
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 1: I got that. But I'm just saying, if you know

608
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: the difference, then you might be looking for those things

609
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: because you know that it's not going to come in

610
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: a box. And I happen to know that there's some

611
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: great a a class designer imposters that come with all

612
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: of those things the same you like, let me just

613
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: see how would probably get it a praise, But I

614
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: would probably notice a certain things that, Yeah, I think

615
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: if somebody gave me a knock off, I will know.

616
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: I would know, like I got, I would have to

617
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: like ask an expert. I don't think I would know.

618
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't definitely if it was something that I don't

619
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: already have. I would look online for sure, because you

620
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: know they tell you everything anything. There's fake Rolexes that

621
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: come with the box everything. I don't frud like that.

622
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: That would be like, oh, let me get this bitch

623
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 1: of fake as he could have got got too. I see,

624
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: that's definitely. I don't even think a man even they're

625
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: giving me a knock off. I've spotted a mile away.

626
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if I spotting a mile away, but

627
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: I don't think. Don't play that ship with me. I

628
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: don't think I want. Yeah, don't let me find out

629
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: about no fake ship your mother if they gave you

630
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: something fake, like what if he gave you something you

631
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: found out it wasn't real? Then way, why do you

632
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 1: tell me listening? So what is it turns jumped in

633
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: the pool with it. There was gonna work. You shouldn't

634
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: want me to go in the pool. I'm not gonna lie.

635
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: Like when I got my right, when I got my

636
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: first Rolex, I wasn't aware like that you could get

637
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: in the water with it and ship. So my axtal

638
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: like took. He was like, you got something. Now you're

639
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: watching he put it under one. I'm like No, it's

640
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: like bitch, it's like, yeah, I just take no watch

641
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: off at the beach. It needs to be like it's

642
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: a real boy. You can get Yeah, you can getting

643
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: the water with it. I didn't know that. How was that?

644
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: How anything about? I was scared to ask because I

645
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: was like I was embarrassed, you know, like you don't

646
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: know ship. If you don't know that your rolex can't

647
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: get wet, I should I try to put my rolex

648
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: under the water and see what happened. That's work, girl,

649
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you can put it Like the other day I

650
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: had on under the water, was making sure my ship

651
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: was good. Like if they don't do that, then it's

652
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: a wrap that's not real. So would you so if

653
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,919
Speaker 1: it ticks, all right, so let's just say you found

654
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: out it's not real, you would tell you, man, it's

655
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 1: over or what is this a me question? Yeah? Definite

656
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: for that, we would have to have a serious conversation.

657
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: I supposed to be on a different level that first.

658
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: I don't even want to know if he should be

659
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: able to really talk to me about what if he's

660
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: like faith, but you're a celebrity and I'm a regular guy,

661
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: and I just can't sat in that. Don't try to

662
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: buy me one day, buy me some fresh kicks. We

663
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: can talk, but that's the conversation we would have like easy, mean,

664
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: I'm real simple, I'm gonna swap me girl. You know

665
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's cool now you always fly stopping,

666
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: but I get my jury from the swap. Really swap me,

667
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: don't people? Yeah, I do. See. That's what happens when

668
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: you know that you you up to a certain statue.

669
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: People look at it and be like, oh, that ship

670
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: is real. Sudden Tiffany, when he and stuff with the

671
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: best of time, I mix it up that next it

672
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: all up together that faith. Are you okay with dating

673
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 1: like a guy who is nowhere near your level? I

674
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 1: don't know what you mean by that. Yeah, but also

675
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: just maybe just making ends meet and stuff like that,

676
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: because I know sometimes we feel like we worked so

677
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: hard to get to where we get to. Can I

678
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: be with somebody that can't do the things to me

679
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: that I could do for myself? Well, I already know

680
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 1: that I could be with someone that is not you know,

681
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: as um and not on the same in the same

682
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: tax bracket as me. I know that I've already proven

683
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: that to much if I don't want to anymore, No,

684
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: you learned your lesson. My heart knows that I could,

685
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: but I've already you know, I don't have to prove

686
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: that to anyone. You know, God knows my heart. All

687
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: of people I've been with my heart. But at this

688
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: point in my life, I would certainly want to be

689
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: with someone that, even if they're not, you know, in

690
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: the same tax bracket, just that has their own and

691
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: that's doing their own thing. That I respect. Somebody that

692
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 1: just knows that they have to hustle just on their own,

693
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: whether I'm in their life or not. I mean, I

694
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: respect just people that's go getters and that know that

695
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: this is part of my life. Means I got to

696
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: make stuff happen for me and the people that are

697
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: in my life. So it's not so much from what

698
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: you do for a living type of thing, but you

699
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: out there serious about getting it. Not just don't get me.

700
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: No shade to the people who are, but I mean,

701
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 1: you know, I definitely have going through the just making

702
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: ends meet part of my life. Hopefully I don't have,

703
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if he's like thirty,

704
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: like I still want to rap five, haven't made it

705
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: yet and still want to be a rapper. I haven't

706
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: met that guy, but I have some friends that you

707
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: know that might be that little situation, And I'm like, gal, you, now,

708
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: won't you tell him to hang it up? Hang up

709
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: his microphone? I mean, I don't know. I would have

710
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: to be honest. I'll be because I'm so funny. I'll

711
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: be making jokes. I'll be like, oh man, Child's like like,

712
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 1: I mean, if he already got to secure the place

713
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: in my heart, then I would have to figure out

714
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: a way to be tactful about telling him to hang

715
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 1: it up. But I would have to tell him it's

716
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: not like I love you. I think he's dope as hell,

717
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: but I want to see somebody else do that first

718
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: before you be the one to embark on that. I

719
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't feel like you're not gonna hold nothing back from

720
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: the person your day. You don't shut the funk up

721
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: with that rapper. Ship wouldn't say it like that. I

722
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't my word. I have to infuse most stuff with humor.

723
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 1: That's my way of being honest. Like, I have a

724
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: really great sense of humor, so I know how to

725
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: make everything into like if you don't stop with that

726
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: sugar Hill. If you don't have that hip hop pippoty

727
00:40:56,840 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: expected sugar but sugar But I'm just saying style, that's

728
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: your style right now, then you need to do a

729
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 1: little bit of history. Well you got the history part.

730
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: Any we have seen recently that you and Little Kim

731
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 1: have managed to come together and actually finally, like after

732
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: your whole passing history, put all that behind you and

733
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: even take a picture together a y'all, like, cool? Do

734
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: you speak? Kim is on the album right was on

735
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: this album, and um, actually, I mean we speak. I

736
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't say like, oh, I'll call her like what's up? Girl?

737
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: Lives go a hand out? I mean, but um, it is.

738
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm very um happy that she's in a different place

739
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: because for me, when Big died, all of that stuff

740
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: went out the window. And I can honestly say that

741
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: I've always said it and it's the truth. And I

742
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: actually reached out to Kim some years ago to be

743
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: on a record with I remember when didn't happen when

744
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: she was I think dating Scott Storch and I was

745
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: working with him him and my ex husband was trying

746
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: to make it happen. But I probably should have said

747
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: it myself, you know, But um, I know that it's

748
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: something that our fans have been waiting for, you know.

749
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 1: And the funny thing is, I never knew. I would

750
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: have never imagined it would be on this album with

751
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: me and Big that she ends up actually being on

752
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: the right. Like really, I think that's powerful for a

753
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: lot of women too, because sometimes we don't get along

754
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: with each other because of a man, and like maybe

755
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: we other than that would have been cool with each other,

756
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: but then somehow, some way we don't like each other

757
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: because of a situation to the man, Well, the funny

758
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: thing is, in that situation, it was because of him

759
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: that we became cool with each other. And because of him,

760
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: how hard was it for you to become like one

761
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 1: of well both y'all, to become a bigger person and

762
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: the bigger person to work together. Because I know how

763
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: I feel about that, I can't even look at a bit,

764
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 1: so I don't even But yeah, I didn't have knowledge,

765
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: to be clear, because I don't want to refer to

766
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 1: her as that and not bitch. But I mean, that's

767
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: just my situation. That's out of respect because in in

768
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: being real mature and looking at it from the perspective

769
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: of where her mind might have and where he may

770
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:16,439
Speaker 1: have been making her things. Yeah, it's definitely even came

771
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: into his life, right, So, um, you know what, with

772
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: all respect to I get your point, but um, you know,

773
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: I just from like I said, when he passed away,

774
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: all that went out the window for me, there was

775
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: no reason to be bad at her, you know. But

776
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 1: she just wasn't in a place to receive it then.

777
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: And she actually recently did an interview when we were

778
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: on the Bad Boy to where she said, you know,

779
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: faith reach outs to me before, and she you know,

780
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: but I just wasn't ready to receive it, you know.

781
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: But she's in a different place. She's a mom now,

782
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: you know. And when I asked her to be on

783
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: the song, I was actually like, had my fingers crossed.

784
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: I hope she did it. And she was like yeah,

785
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: of course. I was like, Yeah, that's what they're feeling.

786
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 1: That's amazing. And the thing is the song um that

787
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: she's on, it's called Loving You for Life. And when

788
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: I told her about it, I'm like, I'm gonna send

789
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: it to you, but I really want you to talk

790
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: about like how you felt. Wow, I'm not gonna lie

791
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: and that's a that makes a big person out of you.

792
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 1: And I feel like you always like show that in

793
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 1: your character, like you was a bigger person and a

794
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: lot of situations and that's something I've tried to be.

795
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I know I've had my little

796
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: you know, break shout out the Jersey because I'm from

797
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: Jersey too, So you know, we have tried to when

798
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: I realized that it was the better thing to do,

799
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: which I always knew, but you know, I have my moments, right,

800
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 1: you know that, like you knows as women, don't we

801
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: all getting ad at the other women sometimes and that

802
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: you really should be and like what is he saying

803
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: to her? What is he making her thing? We always

804
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: come straight ats like look, we always come share at

805
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: the woman. I feel like because women are sneaky, some

806
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: women want to take every time they see you in

807
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: speaking guys, because these women will see you are you

808
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: were happy with your boyfriend, and just because they see

809
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 1: you happy with your boyfriend, they want to be on

810
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: your boyfriend. So don't sleep. It goes both ways. But

811
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: sometimes these guys are so much at the craziest stories

812
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: from these guys where they convince you and they convince

813
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: the other woman too. And at the end of the day,

814
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:42,879
Speaker 1: it's the man allows another woman to disrespect you, that's

815
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: on him, you know what I mean. And so because

816
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: that's the thing, the woman, a woman could try to

817
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: seduce your man or my my mic is going out,

818
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: but a woman could try to seduce your man, and

819
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 1: your man is the one who's gonna let her go

820
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: bust so far, you know, and we're gonna be like, no,

821
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: I can't, Like what are men really gonna be like? No,

822
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: I can't do that. I have a girlfriend. Everybody about

823
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: my girl never I can't do it. If they could

824
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: juggle both, that's what they're gonna figure out how to deal.

825
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: And it's sad that we do go to the woman

826
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 1: stay with him. I'm not that I'm gonna tell you

827
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: why I ever went to the woman because I know

828
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: I can't beat that nigger, so I'm known whoop her at.

829
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: So that's why I will go to a woman like

830
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: fuck you bet. And it's sad, you know, because at

831
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's him that's doing wrong,

832
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 1: but I can't beat him. Now, another thing we were

833
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: talking about is why do men want women who don't work?

834
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: We're talking about this earlier, right, dating a guy and no,

835
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 1: not even they like women at work, but they don't

836
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: want you to work. Once they get you they're like

837
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: successful women, then they're like, oh no, don't go do that.

838
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: I want you to just hang out with me. Like

839
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: I remember before I dated a guy and he was like,

840
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,839
Speaker 1: I don't understand why you have to go work all

841
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: the time. Why can't you just take care of things

842
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 1: here in the house. Yes, And I was like, damn,

843
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: just like you go to work all the time. Like

844
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be able to go to work all the time.

845
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: And I know a lot of guys that are in relationships,

846
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: are married or whatever, and they don't want their wife

847
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: or their women to work, really like sometimes they look

848
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: for that. They want a woman that's just going to

849
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: kind of like be at their back and call yeah

850
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: until and then they cheat with you with somebody that doesn't.

851
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 1: And that's just to not think of a better way

852
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: to say that. But you can still do that and work.

853
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: But the whole thought of somebody thinking you shouldn't do that,

854
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: it's a little weird to me. Right. A lot of

855
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: these men are like little boys, and they just feel

856
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: like they need you around. It's like a comfort. I'm

857
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: going through that right down with this guy that i'm dating.

858
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 1: What he wants me around him at all times because,

859
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: in his words on his power source like power, yeah,

860
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: like I just need you to keep me in like

861
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: without you, I'm lost, and I'll just be like yeah,

862
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: I just be like I hope that's right. Look, well

863
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: I got to go to work, so I'll see you

864
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: when I get back. But yeah, no, um, he's just like,

865
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: why can't you just be with me forever? I just

866
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: want you on my side at all times, and I

867
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: love you. Guys. Guys have to do eighteen days listen,

868
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 1: and then when you are by his side all the time,

869
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 1: eventually he's going to be over eighteen days, which is nothing,

870
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: not even a fucking month. And after two days he

871
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 1: said he was in love with her. He did, that's crazy.

872
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: Would you believe that? And it was no sex involved

873
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: when he said I love you, It wasn't like crazy

874
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh my god, I love you.

875
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:46,919
Speaker 1: Like no, I probably would. I wouldn't believe that, ship

876
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 1: I believe that I would. I would. I didn't believe

877
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: he was in love, but I believe he loved me,

878
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: believe I would believe days there are things about me

879
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: that he loves, or even the day she's like, I'm popping.

880
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: I love That's how I know I am. And that

881
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: in the third and I love you for that. It

882
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: was really like that because it definitely wasn't nothing else right,

883
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: And then you did have sex with him, and then

884
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: he loved you more. But when I had when I

885
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,879
Speaker 1: had sex with him, which was like maybe after day,

886
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: like twelve, and then he was like, Okay, I'm in

887
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: love with you now, So it went from I love

888
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: you too, now I'm in love with you. Damn long

889
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: did he do? This? Just sounds so awkward right later? Yes,

890
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: but we're just dating, we're not. But so how long

891
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: did he last? What sex? The first time? Um? It

892
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: was it was he did good? Okay, are you in

893
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: love with him? Do you love him? She just shaking

894
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 1: her head and then answers now for everybody, No, I

895
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: did say it back though, Oh my, I can't lie

896
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: to somebody because I felt bad. I just had to

897
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: say it bad. You're saying she's such a cheese. Have

898
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: you ever said that? Have you ever said that you love?

899
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: I love you? Back to somebody, I told you you

900
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: didn't mean it. You can't just say things. Let me

901
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:28,959
Speaker 1: already like you said it. Somebody said times you gotta

902
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 1: be like, oh I love you too, you know fucking

903
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: cold I would. I was married most of my Yeah,

904
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: that's only been single for four years, like it, I

905
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: love it? Uh huh's are you dating anybody? Now? I

906
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't hear about how she lied about how it saying

907
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: I love you to someone. I was gonna say I

908
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: probably did that as a teenager. See that's when I

909
00:50:53,160 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: had moms, you know, I was, you know, around me this.

910
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: So that's why right now, Dick, don't really you know,

911
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 1: I ain't. I'm like, you haven't had enough of that.

912
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: I have any regrets that guys they'd be like, yeah,

913
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: faith back and and you'd be like, oh who runs

914
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: out After a while, you be like, girl, fu man

915
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: niggas because I just wanted to them. And if I

916
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,839
Speaker 1: adn't like it, I didn't him right, Like what's that? Right?

917
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: All the time they even want to speak to me more.

918
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: I'm sure they told they know, but they already knew

919
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: what crazy. And I'm still the same me. It's cool,

920
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: I ain't suck you again because she was because she

921
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: was sorry, I've always in that way. It's not like

922
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't feel the way about it right again, Yeah,

923
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 1: doing there trying to again woke it up in this hell.

924
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: Didn't even add me on Facebook. Get the funk out

925
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: of here, not following you back, don't play. No, I've

926
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: had friends from Jersey be like, yo, you remember such

927
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: and such and it would be a dude, I never

928
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: had sex with that. I that you know, they that

929
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 1: might have had a question on me and they won't

930
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 1: realize that I still have the same exact friends from them.

931
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: And they were like, girl, I saw um, let's say yea,

932
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: like yes, you know Rain got it already. Let's see

933
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 1: your mill name name right there we go Suman he said, yeah,

934
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: faith still on it. And I'm like, girl, I was like,

935
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I never sucked him. She's like, I know,

936
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,479
Speaker 1: but I don't think he realized that I still talked

937
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: to you, telling me like he talked to you all

938
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: the time, Like I ain't talked to the guys really

939
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: be lying on the dick. And I sucked him and

940
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: I didn't like it and I didn't like it, and

941
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: he didn't get it. No, more. But we when I

942
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: see him, But you don't have my number? What are

943
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: you talking about? Like I know, I'm just telling you

944
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 1: this is the stuff that goes down. So to throw

945
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: back to what you said, like yeah, faith that it

946
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 1: might be a few big city niggers out saying that

947
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: maybe you out to all of the moves, shout out

948
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: the move. I still was my They still my homies though,

949
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: I bet you they'd be out there. Your faith hans

950
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: out from my neighborhood, right, But like, yeah, him, but

951
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: I ain't suing no one. I only got it sounds different.

952
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 1: We gotta go to NJ pack one day to No

953
00:53:52,040 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: No Nos ballroom, Robert Tree Hotel, treaty treat they call it.

954
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: They're so fixing it up, like you know, that's a

955
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,479
Speaker 1: that's of Jersey ship. Y'all don't know, y'all quiet because

956
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: y'all know I'm from Jersey. I went to Columbia and

957
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: North Tech and Chad Science, and I went to a

958
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: bunch of schools. I got kicked all out, all out.

959
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: Were you a meme girl with the kid Solomon Salam listen,

960
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: faith and closing? What kind of guy are you looking for? Now?

961
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: If you had to say, like, what is your ideal man? Okay,

962
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: and closing to be clear, I'm not really looking, but

963
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: if you had, this is what I would like? Um,

964
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 1: I would? I would. I definitely want a man who

965
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: has a great sense of humor, who loves their mother

966
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: and you know, just kind of respects the role that

967
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: women play in this world, which typically shows in their

968
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: love for their mother. Um. That's interesting. Um. And someone

969
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 1: who well that's provided that their mom was in the life,

970
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: but just understands that. You know, someone that has a

971
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: connection with God, whoever that God is you know, to them,

972
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: whatever their religion or not, is what that understands that

973
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: you know, that has something like belief that there's we

974
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: ain't in control all of this. So many just kind

975
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 1: of trying to be a good person, and you know,

976
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: somebody that's just a people person and just knows their

977
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: heart just shows you know that they're a good person.

978
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm really into all this a spirit. Do you grew

979
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: up in the church that didn't you? You did? But

980
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I want a church, yeah, not that

981
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: you need somebody that has a belief and belief that

982
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: even outside the higher badge, that knowing that there's a

983
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: reason for all of this that is not because I

984
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: said I want to be you know, there's a reason

985
00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: that I never said I wanted to be a recording

986
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: I never knew I was gonna be recording artists sing

987
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: and ended up you know, getting a record deal and

988
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: being a part of a huge movement in music. I

989
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 1: was a church girl who had a gift a song.

990
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: So I mean, I just know I always recognized that,

991
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: you know, it's bigger than me, and my path was

992
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 1: laid out, you know, for me, whether I realized it

993
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 1: or not. So I just like people that kind of

994
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: just kind of it's a feeling thing. I don't have

995
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: a type. It's not a certain look. You don't have

996
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 1: to have a beard, comsion. They can't win shoes. I

997
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 1: hate to dude that with like wax shoes. They can't

998
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:42,720
Speaker 1: give you fake Rolex sense of man sketchers or something

999
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: about a hairline. Do you need a hairline? Cut it off?

1000
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: You don't have that, you know. But it's a really

1001
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 1: it's an energy thing with me. But some of those

1002
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 1: things would really being and once you know, we meet

1003
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh I felt energy. I can't

1004
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: wait till Faith is back in love again. Me too.

1005
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 1: You don't have guys waiting. I wouldn't see the line.

1006
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't really you know I I wouldn't see that line.

1007
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: Would you want to have any more kids than is

1008
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: it just over? I would never think I would. But

1009
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: if you never know, I wouldn't think I would because

1010
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like a sixty year on

1011
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: with my kids. I just feel like, yes, be the

1012
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,959
Speaker 1: cool mom, so it doesn't matter like my mom's face.

1013
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: That's so funny because I think my kids, at least

1014
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: my um my two boys c J and Josh, who

1015
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,439
Speaker 1: are twenty and eighteen. Wow, they just in their high

1016
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: school years kind of started to feel like like I'm

1017
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: kind of the ship. They gotta d you know, my mom, Faith,

1018
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: if you want to come by that eide because we

1019
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: got you on all the playlists and the juice. They

1020
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: got a lot of faith coming there, like your records.

1021
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: Come on. My kids didn't grow up like I did.

1022
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: I mean not that they out of touch, but they

1023
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: didn't grow up in Jersey in the hood. But although

1024
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: they still have a strong connection with my family. They

1025
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: you know, when I'm up here, we stay in Brooklyn.

1026
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: They spent a lot of time where I grew up.

1027
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: But at the same time, they didn't have the same upbringing.

1028
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: So well, no, they ain't like you know, like we

1029
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 1: ain't very hill spot, ain't got no jobs. I know

1030
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 1: that they Ain't's just be clear, So they don't. It's

1031
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 1: a different it's a pretty normal lifestyle compared to probably

1032
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: what people would think. So they didn't really get it.

1033
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm that mom, which I actually appreciate that I was

1034
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: just a mom. They ain't even really lies like you

1035
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: were in the grand scheme. You know, I kind of

1036
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: had some kind of dope, you know, just say, maybe

1037
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: they just listens in high school like that's your mother,

1038
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: like mom. We pardn't know, don't everyone. Faith Evan, thank

1039
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: you so much for coming through. We really if you guys,

1040
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: thanks for telling me about all these sexual things I

1041
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: didn't know about before. Girl, you would be the first one, honestly,

1042
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:38,320
Speaker 1: not internally either. When you have a wet dream. We'll

1043
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: see now that did we had the wet dream. I

1044
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: may have had one of those, like back in the eighties,

1045
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 1: like grade