1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: We kind of have a big announcement. We are going 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: to be on the Today Show. 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so the nine am slot on Thursday, May fourth. 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: Check your girls out on the motherfucking Today's Show. 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: Okay, definitely also check us out on the Tamron Hall 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: Show that's coming out I think May fourteenth, three. 7 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 2: We will remind you because we're talking about that another episode. 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: I had another episode, and we have a live show, 9 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: our first one in New York to jump off this 10 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: new tour is May fifth. Welcome back to Good Mom's 11 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Meila, and you guys, 12 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: you have some special guests in the studio. Yes, this 13 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: is a very special Wednesday because we have some very 14 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 2: very very very very special guests. 15 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: If you're watching on YouTube, you already know the deal. 16 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: You already know the deal, So make sure you go 17 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: subscribe to your YouTube channel. But i'd like to introduce 18 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: to the show. We're just gonna get straight into it, Okay. 19 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: The most incredible, beautiful, talented, creative, intelligent, best dancer, best drawer, 20 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: best cart wheeler, and what else? 21 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: Best singers, best do it, best impersonators, actresses and best 22 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 2: travel buddies and dance partners Best Gymnastic Superstar Irene and 23 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: Luna are Mini me. Our children are here. Say hello, girls, Hello, 24 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: introduce yourselves. 25 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: Hello. My name is Luna. 26 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: And who are you? 27 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: And I'm my mother's mini me. 28 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 2: Who's your mother? You say my name? 29 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 3: They don't know who they can mamay me? 30 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? And who are you? Irine? You're Iri Shane, I'm Iri. 31 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 2: You're Irine. 32 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: Who's your mama? That's right, girl, wellcome to the show. 33 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: It's been a while you guys haven't been on the 34 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: show in a long time. 35 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 3: I know that. 36 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 2: I know. We just threw this at you. We didn't 37 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: really give you any sort of notice. But that's what. 38 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: We want, because that's that's life. Life will just throw you, 39 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: throw throw things at you. You gotta be ready, you 40 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: gotta stay ready. 41 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 2: Oh, there's just go play. You're not gonna be an actress. 42 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: You're checking yourself out in the in the in the camera. 43 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: Speaking of getting things thrown at you today, Actually we 44 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 2: just got fresh off the plane from Mexico. We just 45 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 2: got back from Part to Nobody got back from Sayulita. 46 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 2: But we had a long journey here. There was a 47 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 2: protos we had to get out a night early. Unexpectedly, 48 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 2: we missed our flight because they printed the wrong time 49 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 2: on our boarding past. I know, crazy, and we said 50 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: in one hour traffic. And now we're here with our 51 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: children because this is mom life. Mom life, So girls, 52 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 2: life gets thrown at you quickly and you got to adjust. 53 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,119 Speaker 2: So I'm happy that you guys were down to join 54 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: us and join the show and hang out with your moms. 55 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 2: Can we ask you some questions? Okay, how old are 56 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: you and what are some of your favorite things right now? 57 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 3: I am eight and my favorite things right now spending 58 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: time with my mama and having fun. 59 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 2: What kind of things you like to do with your mama. 60 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: Is have my dance with her music music I'd like 61 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 3: to do. 62 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: Because your mom's the best answer in the world. 63 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: My favorite thing. My favorite things are doing gymnastics and 64 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: hanging out with my mom. 65 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: I like hanging out with you, tuboo. 66 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 4: What do you like to do when we hang out? 67 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 68 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: What's your favorite move in gymnastics? Right now? Currently? 69 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 3: Backcan spring? 70 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 2: Okay? Well, as you guys know, this is the last 71 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 2: week of plant medicine April, so of course we'll be 72 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: celebrating our favorite plant and talking. What do you guys, 73 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: what do you think is plant medicine? 74 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: I think plant menace. I think plant medicine is everything 75 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 3: because it could be anything, because the forest is a pharmacy, 76 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: and it could be anything in the forest could be 77 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 3: in it. 78 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: Wow. I never heard that the forest is a pharmacy. Wow. 79 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 2: That was profound. That was deeply profound. The forest is 80 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: a pharmacy. You're right. Wow, you're proud. You should be. 81 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 2: That's great. Wow that they're me for a loop. Girls, 82 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 2: We're gonna We're gonna have you guys pull a Tarot 83 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: card for us your mind. Yeah, let's move on. 84 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: Well one, my daughter, my beautiful daughter, just got braces. 85 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 2: I don't think I'm ready. 86 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: I didn't get to say goodbye to her other teeth 87 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: and was in crisis a little bit. 88 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: Okay, you pull one. I repulled the Queen of Pentacles 89 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 2: and the King of Cups. Wow, plentiful. I want you 90 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: guys to tell us your interpretation of those cards. Yeah, 91 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: what do you think that is? Irony? What does it 92 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: look like? Explain the card to the people. What do 93 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: you think it means? Just guess? Yeah, it's just like 94 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 2: an imagination, Like if you had to guess what I 95 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: describe what you're seeing and what you think it means. 96 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: Like who's sitting Is it someone sitting down the holding 97 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 2: let it tell you a story holding a star? Okay? 98 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: And then what is Do you think that's a man 99 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 2: or woman girl? True? 100 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: That's that's that's a fact. And what what is her? 101 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: What color is her robe? 102 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: Red? Where does it look like she's at outside? H 103 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 2: And what about you, Lenna? What does your card look like? 104 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 3: My card looks like it's he's the king of the 105 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 3: world and he just owns cups and he has like 106 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: different kind of cups since his name is King of 107 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 3: King of cups, and I think he loved cups. 108 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 2: Okay. He has one foot in the water cups. Okay, 109 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 2: that's that's probably true. He has one foot in the 110 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 2: water and one foot on his throne, and he is floating. 111 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: And usually water means your emotions and your feelings. And 112 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: it looks like he may be really balanced in both. 113 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 2: Maybe his foot's not in the water, but he looks balanced. 114 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: And then Queen of Pinnacles, it's usually about money, and 115 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 2: you know you're like money, honey, money, money, money, money, money. 116 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: These are powerful cards, you guys, because your mother's. You 117 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: guys know that next week your mothers are officially going 118 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: to be authors. Yes, what do you how do you 119 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: feel about that? Okay? 120 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,559 Speaker 1: Why why is it amazing over here over here? 121 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: Because before this is a little podcast, I got bigger 122 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 3: and bigger and bigger. Now it's amazing your own book, 123 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 3: your merch merch that I think there should be an 124 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 3: e merch but me and I should be designing emergin. 125 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: I already designed to I know, I remember what you 126 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 3: did that I need to have a good mark. 127 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: And then both of us, what would you call your 128 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: merch store if you had your own store, what would 129 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: what would the name of your. 130 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 3: Our own boot I would call the besties the best is. 131 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: That's cute. 132 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 3: And then in the store would be like twin outfits 133 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: for each different sizes. 134 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: Just okay, because it's because if we'd had a bestie store, 135 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: you look, we'd have to have different sizes. 136 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 2: You'd have extra small, I'd have medium to sometimes large. 137 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: We are different sizes. That's the way of the besties. 138 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: The besties are not always the same size. We come 139 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 2: of varieties. Well, I'm gonna read to you guys what 140 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: your cards meant. Wall you didn't tell us how you 141 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: feel about us becoming authors. Are you gonna be like 142 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: bragging to your friends? Yes, okay, I'm gonna read to you. 143 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 2: What the cards mean? So ire had a Queen of Pentacles. 144 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 2: It means nurturing, practical, providing financially, it means a working parent. 145 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 2: That's crazy. You know what. The cards never lie. The 146 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: Queen of Pentacles is the nurturing mother of the material world. 147 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 2: At home, she knows her love for others by cooking 148 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 2: nutritious meals, maintaining a clean and inviting home, and giving 149 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: warm cuddles to those who need it most. She is 150 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 2: also able to work a full time job mmmm and 151 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: make a financial contribution to the household, often as the 152 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 2: primary breadwinner. I'm not that's right. She is masterful at 153 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 2: taking care of the practical needs of work, home, and family, 154 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: while also giving her love and support to those she 155 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: cares about. When the Queen of Pentacles appears in chail reading, 156 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 2: you are imbiting the ultimate working parent archetype. You care 157 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 2: for your family and domestic responsibilities while also making a 158 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: living for yourself and creating financial abundance. You can maintain 159 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 2: a healthy balance between home and work by integrating the 160 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 2: two and finding your place a flow and alignment. Wow. 161 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: We usually went to the end of the episode. But 162 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 2: you know what, I love that. 163 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: I love that our child or my our child. I 164 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: love that my child and you know, our daughter has 165 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: pulled that for us because I think that that's like 166 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: a confirmation for us that we're on the right path, 167 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 1: that we can do this, that we can find balance, 168 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 1: and that we can You know, you believe in us. 169 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: It's an information. You believe in us. You know why 170 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 2: we're busy all the time? You get it. Do you 171 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 2: think we're good moms? Do you think did you were 172 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 2: you in a dream world? Where'd you go there? Like 173 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 2: she was in another another space? Baby? Are we good moms? 174 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 175 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: That is not asking. Are we good moms? Say yes? 176 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: As I pint here under the table. 177 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: I think they're amazing. Moms are amazing. 178 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 2: This is a fact period period, okay. The King of 179 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: Cups taro meaning emotionally balanced, compassionate, and diplomatic. It says 180 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 2: here that the King of Cups represents mastery over the 181 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: realms of emotion, creativity, and the unconscious. When this card 182 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: turns up into charo, reading, you have gained control of 183 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: your feelings and can accept them without allowing them to 184 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 2: get the better of you, even when it throws you 185 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,599 Speaker 2: a curveball. You can draw on your emotional maturity and 186 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 2: stability to help you navigate these challenges. You don't let 187 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 2: things get to you, and you steer clear of the drama, 188 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: instead choosing an emotionally balanced and calm approach. If you're 189 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 2: being challenged personally, the King of Cups suggests you need 190 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 2: to remain emotionally mature when faced with negative energy and others. 191 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 2: Be firm on your personal boundaries, stating what is and 192 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 2: what is and what is and is not acceptable on 193 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 2: an emotional level. This king is level handed and in 194 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: control and in control of his emotions. He uses his 195 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 2: intellect to make smart decisions and does not let other 196 00:11:56,240 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 2: circumstances or whims sway him from his central beliefs and morals. 197 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 2: Stay true to your emotions and feelings and do not 198 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 2: allow others to steer you off your course. That is 199 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: a word. I like that. I hope you ladies know 200 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: to always stay true to you and your intuition. You 201 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 2: guys are very smart girls, obviously, and no matter who 202 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: you come in to, you know contact with in your lifetimes. 203 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: Don't ever let anyone take you away from who you 204 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: know that you are exactly because they will come. 205 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: And we hope that we are instilling the confidence in 206 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: you like you instilled the confidence in us to be 207 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: good moms, and so one day you will be good women. 208 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: Good young women without children a long time. 209 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: Will make great choices. Okay, so now we're gonna save 210 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 2: the rest of this conversation for Patreon. If you want 211 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 2: to hear an interview with our kids about plant medicine, 212 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 2: amongst other things, join Patreon to hear the exclusive drops 213 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 2: with Iri and Luna the minimes of Good Moms. 214 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: Boom boom, boom boom. You know, the kids don't hold back. 215 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: They're honest. I'm scared low ki Hi. So click the 216 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: link in this episode to check out this Patreon miniature 217 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:11,599 Speaker 1: episode with our miniatures. 218 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: They random people we don't know. 219 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: That's my suspicious tourist. That's a tourist for you. 220 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: That's I got a baby. I'm a scorpio. I understand 221 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: how you feel, well, guys, I definitely want to the 222 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: definitely recommend you go tune into the Patreon because there 223 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: was definitely some interesting answers realizations. 224 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: I've had there. I know I love Ourkade, I really do. Wow, 225 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 2: we're very lucky they you know, just what you think, like, 226 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: do they get it? They get it, they know what's 227 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: going on. They're like they're in tune with us. They 228 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 2: really are our children. Well, so now for the rest 229 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 2: of Plant Medicine, April the last episode. Yeah, it is 230 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 2: a week before our book comes out. It is a week. 231 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: And you know, I'm just I'm nervous, but I'm excited. 232 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: We kind of have a big announcement. We are going 233 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: to be on the Today Show. Yeah, your bitches are 234 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: going to be on the Today Show. We're gonna try 235 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 1: really really hard not to say bitches and fuck, we're 236 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: gonna be We can't make we can't let them edit 237 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: us out. 238 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: My nipples will be censored and out and in close 239 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: you hear that. You will be inside for the Today Show. Yeah, 240 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 2: so the nine am slot on Thursday, May fourth, check 241 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 2: your girls out on the motherfucking Today's Show, Okay. 242 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: And then definitely also check us out on the Tamron 243 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: Hall show that's coming out I think May fourteenth, which will. 244 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: Remind you because we're talking about that. 245 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: Another episode, an episode but these are the things that 246 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: are happening. These are things that we've manifested, these are 247 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: things that we've invited in, and like, we're so fucking excited, 248 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: also terrified. 249 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 2: And we have a live show. Our first one in 250 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 2: New York is on Our first show to jump off 251 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: this new tour is May fifth, and we're gonna be high. 252 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 2: We're gonna be like lit, like high on life, high 253 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 2: on the Today Show, high off the book launch, and 254 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 2: really looking forward to connect with our community. The theme 255 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: of the show is Confessions of a Good Mom, So 256 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 2: we'll be spilling all the tea, all the behind the 257 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: scenes of the book, and you know, we're gonna come 258 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: kick it chill. It's gonna be Sinkle to Mayo. We're 259 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 2: gonna drink a little tequila. Damn. I just realized. We 260 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 2: said we're gonna be classy and not drink tequila. But 261 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: then I realized it's Sinkle to Mayo. Yeah, that's not 262 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 2: We're gonna drink tequila in flutes flute glasses. Maybe maybe 263 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 2: not that we're like, maybe now that we're like in 264 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 2: our mid thirties, we should just just do straight tequila 265 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: with a qubavice in like a garnish. We don't need 266 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 2: a lot of mixers. Like, we're straight to the point bites, 267 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 2: twist of orange. Yes, that's the drink. You know. I'm 268 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 2: just like like like very expensive tequila. That's what we 269 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: need to get, a very fine tequila. Dragonis what the 270 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: fuck is druggon fine tequila and dragoness. Druggoness is like 271 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 2: dragon balls. There's no balls. Drag dragons, dragon balls, dragon 272 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 2: balls not to be confused with. 273 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: We're also doing we also have a hotline. So we 274 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: are asking you guys to call in and leave a 275 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: message on our hotline for a chance for your confession 276 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: to be played live at the show. It'll be anonymous. 277 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 2: Don't worry unless she's wanted to be anonymous. But you can. 278 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: You can confess anything, like from something some fantasy you like, 279 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: just some ship that just isn't popular to say out loud. 280 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: You know, anything goes, So you can call our hotline. 281 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: It's the number is eight one eight two one three 282 00:16:56,560 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: one two eight seven. Again that is eight eight two 283 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 1: one three one two eight seven. 284 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 2: He used to call me on myself. 285 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, and I know when that hell I'm playing, 286 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: we would have to play there's so many songs. 287 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 2: There's so many songs about songs about songs about hotlines. 288 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: I mean, that's what he talks about, songs about hotline. 289 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 2: I'm silly, already high, but I think I need to 290 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 2: smoke some more. Light it up, baby, light it up. 291 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys heard our last episode 292 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,479 Speaker 1: with Lizzie Jeff shout out to Lizzie. 293 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm actually wearing her shirt right now. Look how cute 294 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: this shirt is, you, guys? I fucking loveless. It's really dope. 295 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 1: Like if you're watching on our on our on our YouTube, 296 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: then you see this is some flymer's it's I love it. 297 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 1: But we were talking about this, this amazing giveaway we 298 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: have going right now. So basically you're gonna come to 299 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: Mexico for free. Yeah, that's simple. All you have to 300 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: do is enter the giveaway. 301 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 2: And so if you're going to buy the book anyway, 302 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 2: order the book. I know you want to buy it. 303 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 2: You want to see what's in there. There's some tea, 304 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: and once you buy it, you're entered to win. You 305 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 2: just turn in your order number and you're entered to 306 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 2: the raffle to an all expense paid for a trip 307 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 2: to Mexico for the Good Vibra Tree. 308 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: It's a very tiny, small paid price to pay for 309 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: a free ass trip. And also you're going to gain 310 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 1: some knowledge in that purchase. You're going to gain some togetherness, community, understanding, 311 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,439 Speaker 1: and entertainment because I think we're pretty fucking funny in 312 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: this book as well. So click the link of this 313 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,959 Speaker 1: episode description. If you already bought the book, you can 314 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: still enter the giveaway to click the link, upload your receipt, 315 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,360 Speaker 1: let us confirm your order and shit, and then you 316 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: are entered to win a free trip to Mexico in 317 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:54,880 Speaker 1: July at the Good Vibra Tree. We have two dates 318 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: to choose from. That's July fifth, July twelfth. If you 319 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: don't want to leave it to chance and you want 320 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: to just go ahead, preserve your spot at the Good 321 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: Vibe Retreat five hundred dollars. Hold your spot and you 322 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 1: pay as you want up until the retreat. Every room 323 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: is ocean front. We took over this entire property in Mexico. 324 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: It's fucking gorgeous. You've heard us talk about it. You 325 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,919 Speaker 1: already know the vibes. You've seen the pictures, you know 326 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 1: the vibes. So just come to the vibes. Bring your vibes. 327 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: We have the weed and many other Damn bitch, let 328 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: me hit that. 329 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 2: I know, girl, this fucking vanilla Backwoods hit different. I 330 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 2: hear it. 331 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 5: Shit, my bad job. I'm over here just smoking my 332 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 5: backward and it's getting me good. 333 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 4: Here. 334 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 2: Let me pass that. 335 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: You know you you introduced me to these vanilla ones 336 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, and bitch, I'm addicted. 337 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 2: It really tastes so good. Girl. It hits different with 338 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 2: the honey, the vanilla and the honey delicious. 339 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: If you all haven't tried Mila's honey trick with the backwood, bitch, 340 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: what are you doing? And then get the vanilla backwood. 341 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 1: If there was a little honey, you can even add 342 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: a little lavender whatever your little special mixture of weed is. 343 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 2: And anyway, and just in general, support your girls. This 344 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 2: is our first book. We have really poured into this book. 345 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: We've really taken our time. We've really put intimate, intimate, 346 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: intimate personal stories so intimate. I'm scared of shit for 347 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: this ship to come out. And we're really relying on 348 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: our community to help make this the best seller. 349 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: We really are, and you know, we have really poured 350 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: into this community, and I'm gonna just go ahead and say, y'all, 351 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: come on support your girls. We we you know, we 352 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: show up every week. We share our business, we share 353 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: our ship, we share our resources. We just really really 354 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: would appreciate the support in this big moment for us. 355 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: We were so excited to share all that this book 356 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: has to offer you and whoever else you share it with, 357 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: because this book isn't just for mothers, it's for women, 358 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: and it's really a book I swear I wish I 359 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: would have had before I decided to have a kid, 360 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: even just being a young woman and just knowing like 361 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: just being these honest stories that we share, even talk 362 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: sharing some of the stories that our guests have shared, 363 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: and real tools to help you get through these different moments, 364 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: these critical moments in your life where I know, I 365 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: felt lost that I had, I didn't have the resources 366 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: I had, I didn't even know where to begin. 367 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 2: So honestly, like, this is the book I wish I had. 368 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,479 Speaker 2: If you are if you are pregnant, if you just 369 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 2: gave birth, if you're early in motherhood, if you may 370 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 2: be on a verge of a breakup, if you're at 371 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 2: the very beginning of a breakup. If you feel alone 372 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 2: in motherhood, if you feel alone in womanhood, if you 373 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 2: are searching for your tribe, this is the book that 374 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,919 Speaker 2: you need. It's really a book about, you know, finding 375 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 2: yourself and finding your tribe through that. And it's we 376 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 2: got really honest. We wrote a diary and then we 377 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 2: gave it. We handed it over to a publisher, which 378 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 2: is crazy, but it's personal. It's very personal. And if 379 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 2: you've been supporting us or you just started listening, please 380 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 2: please make the small investment and support us. You know, 381 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 2: not that many people become published authors, definitely not that 382 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 2: many black women. So this is a huge this is 383 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 2: my dream. Please support my dream. And Eric is too, 384 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 2: because it's a big deal. I'm proud of you. I'm 385 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: very proud of you. I'm proud of us. Can't believe 386 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: it's here. I can't. 387 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: I can't It's really here now, bitch, we did it. 388 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 2: We manifested. How do you feel about that and not 389 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 2: being able to run? 390 00:22:55,080 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a real confirmation or it's a 391 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: real I don't want to say a challenge, but like 392 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't know why, print feels so much more definite, 393 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 1: Like oh, you're gonna stand on your ship? 394 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 2: Are you really going to stand on it? Because someone 395 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 2: can like pull it up and like highlight it. 396 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 5: Like I'm not. 397 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: We're obviously, like we talk about that, we change at 398 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 1: the time, and this is a timestamp for who we 399 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,120 Speaker 1: are and who we were when we wrote it, who 400 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: we are right now. I know that there's things in 401 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: this book that I have moved on from even too, 402 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: and the book is really responsible for that, for allowing 403 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: me to move on from these places. And how writing 404 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: is so cathartic, it's so healing, just like audio is, 405 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: just like podcasting is. 406 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: It's been it's been that for me. 407 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: And there's still things in this book that I'm still confronting, 408 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 1: that I'm still trying to, that I'm still being challenged with, 409 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: and that I'm still learning from, you know, And I'm 410 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: just I feel like the book is really just like. 411 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: I'm coming. It's like you against you, like you'll stay 412 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 2: on ship? Bit you ready? You said it on page 413 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 2: forty two. 414 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 1: It looks as though you said, like you know, and 415 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,360 Speaker 1: and just the idea too, like you said the other 416 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 1: day that like this book will be will be critiqued, 417 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: will people will write their opinions on it, and as 418 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: someone's opinion of my you know, my account account of 419 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: who I am or what I've experienced or what was 420 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 1: important to me at this time, feels really vulnerable. 421 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: And I'm an artist and I'm sensitive about my ship. 422 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: In the famous words of the Queen Mother herself, Eric 423 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: Abad that you're ready, I'm ready. 424 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 2: I ain't got no other choice. 425 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 1: To be ready, because that's the flights or book. The 426 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 1: Today shows booked, we booked the We're about to book. 427 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: We booked the makeup artist. You know, it's done. We 428 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 1: gotta be cute. We got to show up. You know, 429 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: if we're gonna do it, then we're going for motherfucking 430 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: do it. It's in print, if we're going to do 431 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: a print to do. 432 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 2: It, you know. And so. 433 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm just you know, I've been praying on it and 434 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: just praying to find the right words to say, to 435 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: to get across the message, to impact whoever listens to it, 436 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: to encourage, and you know, I just was like, I 437 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: already have the message. I am the message. I got it, 438 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: you know. And sometimes but I coming up with like 439 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: we were talking about last week, we had our New 440 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: Moon manifestation with Bruna on Zoom with our patrons. It 441 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,199 Speaker 1: was four twenty and we had, you know, a manifestation 442 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,919 Speaker 1: and confidence kept coming up in the reading that she 443 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 1: gave the group, and it was like having this confidence 444 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: and just like, bitch, you did the work, it's already done. 445 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: Trusting and understanding your worthy because I think that sometimes 446 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: people get it twisted like that. 447 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 1: You're just you just show up confident in every space 448 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: that you're in, and like, bitch, I'm not confident in 449 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: every space that I'm in, even in the space I 450 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: created sometimes a lot of times and having to kind 451 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: of get out of the way and not I've been 452 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: like literally envisioning us getting getting our makeup done, like 453 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: going on set. There's cameras like everywhere, and the stranger 454 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: bitch is asking me questions and I need to, you know, 455 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: and I want to be able to deliver exactly how 456 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 1: I feel about this thing that I fucking love so much, 457 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 1: like and represent for the tribe so fucking hard, you know, and. 458 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 2: Represent all of us right, you know. 459 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: And I'm excited to do that and I know that 460 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 1: we have it in us and. 461 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 2: But I'm but I'd be nervous. I'll be scared too, 462 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 2: so because I'm human, be scared. Because I'm human. I 463 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: literally have been giving myself pump up talks like you 464 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 2: got this, You're you got this, so you're built for this. 465 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 2: I'm made like mad running up the stairs. I was like, 466 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 2: I was like, do I need to look up synonyms 467 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 2: for words? Probably? You know my mom's friend. I need 468 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 2: to stop saying like so much. I know. You know, 469 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 2: someone told me like four years ago to read more 470 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 2: books so we could sound smarter than podcast, and I tried, 471 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 2: but I was like, fuck, have I read it? Have 472 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 2: I read enough books? Should I read so many books 473 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 2: in a week now? But for real, I think people. 474 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 2: I think because we do this, and we do tell 475 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 2: a lot of our business, and we've grown comfortable telling 476 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: our business on audio because it feels safe in ways. 477 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 2: But this is a new challenge and a new level 478 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 2: of vulnerability that we are facing, and you know, we're 479 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 2: just having to meet ourselves where ourselves are at. And 480 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 2: I'm I'm not going to say that I'm petrified anymore. 481 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm not claiming that I'm ready. I'm excited. I've done 482 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 2: the work. We've done the work, and we deserve to 483 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: be here. We put in the work. We deserve to 484 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 2: be here, and we wouldn't be here if we weren't intelligent, 485 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 2: if we weren't poised, if we didn't have a message 486 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:03,439 Speaker 2: that was important. And you know, I just want everybody 487 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 2: to know that we've prayed over this the entire time. 488 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: You know, everything we do we pray over, and it's 489 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 2: just like, help us, give us the words, give us 490 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 2: the energy, give us the give us all the things 491 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: that we need to be able to lift up and 492 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 2: reach the women that need to hear our message and 493 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 2: the men, you know. And I think that's why a 494 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,239 Speaker 2: lot of our shit has been successful, because you know, 495 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: where there is a will, there is a way, and 496 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 2: Spirit is very much guided us, and we're supposed to 497 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 2: be here. And I just hope that, like on the 498 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 2: Today Show, on these shows on Taman Hall, like we 499 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: reach the women who need to hear us at that time, 500 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 2: who need to be like, oh shit, I forgot about myself. 501 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 2: These little spicy bitches just reminded me at nine am, 502 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 2: right here on the Today Show. I didn't think that 503 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,479 Speaker 2: would happen. I thought it was my regular routine. But 504 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,479 Speaker 2: now now I get to tap into these girls and 505 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 2: tap into me because they called me out. And that's 506 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 2: what I always hope to be for people, just a 507 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: little bit like hey wake up, m hm, so yeah, 508 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 2: I really help us do that. Tell a friend, buy 509 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 2: a book for a friend who's going through something or not, 510 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 2: you know, just like it doesn't matter how old you are, 511 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 2: no matter of what race you are, do matter if 512 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 2: your mom or not, Like it's there's important ship in 513 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 2: this book. So I'm really really really really really excited 514 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 2: slash nervous but not nervous to share it with the world. 515 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 2: And I'm really happy I get to do it next 516 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 2: to you. I don't think I would be able to 517 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 2: do this this way without you, and and thank you. 518 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 2: I'm glad I'm doing it with you. I know, listen, 519 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 2: let me just yeah, I need sport, need emotional sport. 520 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: You're my emotional support person. Oh my god, for real, 521 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 2: like today like this is like you have no idea 522 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 2: how many flights we have missed and are the five 523 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 2: years together over dumb shit, like like been in the 524 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: airport and missed the flight many to many times, Like 525 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 2: we've missed two flights back to back because we were 526 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 2: eating Indian food, like only two stupid bitches only two 527 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 2: fucking hungry bitches. We've missed two flights in a row. 528 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 2: And the thing is, the beautiful thing is even when 529 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 2: we're agitated, even when the stakes are high, even with 530 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 2: shit is like the dumbest mistakes we could have ever made. 531 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 2: At the end of the day, it's like we find 532 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 2: laughter in it. We can laugh at ourselves. I know, 533 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 2: it's absolutely fucking ridiculous, and you know, push forward. And 534 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 2: we've made a lot of mistakes and not just missing 535 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 2: flights in the airport, but like just bas bad choices, 536 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 2: bad choices. But I'm just so grateful that I have 537 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: a friend that is, you know, who gets it that 538 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: life goes on, Life goes on and even if you 539 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 2: have to, like you know, escape. 540 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: Remind me of that too though all the time, because 541 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: I feel like we both start to spiral and we 542 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: both like have to bring ourselves reel ourselves back in. 543 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,239 Speaker 2: I noticed that, And we spiral differently and perfectly at 544 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 2: different times. Because sometimes you'd be spiraling and I'm like, 545 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 2: wholl you're gonna like spiral everybody. 546 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 5: Like relax, like whoa, whoa bit, We're not gonna die. 547 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 2: And then sometimes like she's like you need to calm dash. 548 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: I can just I just hear and I'm like, oh wait, wait, 549 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 2: it's okay. Everything's okay. We've made it this far. I 550 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 2: can wait twelve minutes in the airport, okay. So yeah, 551 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 2: it's it's it's really it's really cool to be here 552 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 2: with my bestie, and I know what I'd want to 553 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 2: spiral more with. Honestly, when we're at the airport and 554 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 2: we were in front of me and we're like stomping 555 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 2: because we were mad, I was like, I was like, 556 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 2: we staid together. We were like this is stupid. That 557 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 2: was so stupid, Like. 558 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna curse the bitch out that it doesn't even 559 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: work there, Relax her fault. 560 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 2: She's like, I need to understand. I don't fucking understand. 561 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm keeps We're a lot of times trying private investigation situation. 562 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 2: Let's just book another flight. Fuck this one thing about 563 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 2: me and Erica. We are Bonnie and fucking Clyde, right, 564 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 2: and one person turns up like usually we pull each 565 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 2: other down. On the way to this trip, we just 566 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: spent on like two trips back to back, so I 567 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 2: can't remember if this was this trip, but we got 568 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 2: to the airport at five in the morning. We were 569 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 2: on a not so great airline and the fucking airlines 570 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 2: were fucking with this young black girl. First, so we 571 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 2: just heard somebody like crying a little bit, but we 572 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 2: couldn't see you see her, like she was behind a pillar, 573 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 2: but she was talking to some white man. And then 574 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 2: you know, we're nosy. I was like, who was that crying? 575 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: I could tell she was black. Then she came out 576 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 2: and she had two kids, one small, she was carrying 577 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 2: one one year old and like a three year old, 578 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 2: and you could tell like she was young, like, and 579 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 2: they were fucking with her, and she was crying, and 580 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: she was like, they won't let me get on the 581 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: flight because they say I don't have his bar certificate 582 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 2: and I never needed his bar certificate. I don't know 583 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 2: where it is. One he was one, and they were tripping. 584 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: They were tripping like you don't no, no, baby ain't 585 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 2: got no, I d no why the baby got id who? 586 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 2: And she was flying domestic, was on, she was flying international. 587 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: She was going to even then they let you get 588 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 2: in the baby, our kids and last time the Coasta 589 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 2: Rica was not Coasta Rica. I'm sorry. Police was tripping. 590 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: They made me have to get a fucking notarized all 591 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: types of shit. 592 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 2: First of all, we've traveled their kids all the time. 593 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 2: Neither one of them have our last names, so we 594 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 2: could be stealing all types of kids kids all over 595 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 2: the clord. So it was five in the morning. He 596 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 2: was they were being fucking assholes because the ghetto airlines 597 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 2: tend to do that, because they they were being assholes. 598 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 2: Because then he said, all. 599 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 1: I need is a picture of a birthday party, of 600 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,239 Speaker 1: a birthday party on Instagram. I said, nigga, if you 601 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: just need a birthday party picture, I will make one 602 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: on campus. 603 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 2: So first we're like, well, I was like, you know, 604 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 2: my cancer asked. I'm like, should we should we buy 605 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: her ticket? Should we buy it? Because she was saying 606 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 2: like I only have one hundred dollars and this two 607 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 2: hundred dollars for the ticket. I was like, girl, I 608 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 2: was like, that's five in the morning, Like who has 609 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 2: time for this? So I was like, what do you 610 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: need and she's like I need. I was like, we'll 611 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 2: pay for it. And then he's like, I'm sorry, there's 612 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: no tickets. I was like, what is the problem. Like, 613 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 2: we traveled with our kids all the time, and he 614 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 2: was all dumb and young. We started. I was like 615 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 2: listening to Erica. They're not about to listen to us, 616 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 2: and we can't do anything. So we start walking away 617 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 2: and the guy messages because I said, do you have kids? 618 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 2: And he said, yeah, I do this. He the damn no, 619 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 2: goddamn kids. Anyway, I walk I walk away and then 620 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 2: he must have mumbled something. I was ahead of her 621 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:20,760 Speaker 2: all I could hear this, but just say what'd you say? 622 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 2: What you say? Then I start, he can do a 623 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,399 Speaker 2: full one eight. He start going back to the counter, 624 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: my heavy assalungage, and I was like, god, damn, why 625 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 2: you gotta turn around? 626 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 3: Now? 627 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 2: I gotta go turn around. He was trying, he was 628 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,760 Speaker 2: talking shit, So here I go. What do you say? 629 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 2: What do you say? And I was like, let's just 630 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 2: walk away. Let's just walk away like adults before we 631 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 2: get not entring non entried into the air. I literally 632 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 2: been thinking about this woman all week. I think she 633 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 2: made it. I hope she made it. Stop fucking with moms, 634 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 2: stop sucking with black women because you think that you can, yeah, 635 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 2: you know, like I felt like he was taking it. 636 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,279 Speaker 2: Here he was he was because if that was like 637 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 2: some white woman with an infant. He would have never 638 00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:03,760 Speaker 2: done that shit ever. And here's a person of color anyway, 639 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 2: I know, just gives you a personal color. Don't mean 640 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,240 Speaker 2: that anyway. If you see us in the airport or anywhere, 641 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 2: if your mom, we might ride for you too. 642 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,720 Speaker 1: But don't expect us to pay for your airline ticket. 643 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 1: And all the time, that was a special situation. 644 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 2: Bitch. Don't be coming to the dms. Don't be coming 645 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 2: the DMS with your gofundy girl. Don't do that, please, 646 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,399 Speaker 2: There'll be a scammers. There are scammers, mom, scammer mom. 647 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 2: The scammers ruin it for everyone, everyone that actually needs help. 648 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 2: Because we got scammed already one time by a bitch 649 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 2: in our DMS. Remember we bought her diapers and shit, 650 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 2: you can't give me in the DMS. My old cancer asked. 651 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I just I think I sent her 652 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,839 Speaker 1: diapers to toys or rust or some shit. 653 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you did pick up I remember that. 654 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: And then it got weird and it was like another 655 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 1: account started messaging me, but there was the same baby. 656 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, they weren't good at covering up their tracks. 657 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: And I was like, this shit is a scam and 658 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: now I believe no one so Scorpio. 659 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,759 Speaker 2: Anyway, We've had a great trip. Guys. We smoked a 660 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,760 Speaker 2: lot of weed. Oh in Mexico, we did to mescal 661 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 2: ceremony intense. Yeah. 662 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone's ever done a mescal. It 663 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 1: is an amazing experience. It's very you can need to 664 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 1: mentally prepare for it. But I'm excited to bring it 665 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,760 Speaker 1: to the tree and bring it to the group because 666 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 1: I feel like it was immensely like cathartic and like ancestral, 667 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 1: and it was very like no matter where you're from, 668 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 1: whether you are from Mexico or not, like there's something 669 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 1: ancestral about it. 670 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 2: That was just like indigenous. 671 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 1: Primal and Memla did not prepare well for this experience 672 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 1: at all. I really, we really did not. We were 673 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: like on the fence and before we're going to do it, 674 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: and then we're like, we have to do it. 675 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,960 Speaker 2: We have to experience this. Somebody had DMed this like, oh, 676 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 2: you're you're in Sailita, you need to go to the 677 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 2: place that has fried cheese as a tortilla, like go 678 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 2: get a burrito, but that there's no tortilla, it's fried cheese. 679 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 2: So we went to the fried cheese burrito spot before 680 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 2: going to the fat Lodge, which was probably not a 681 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: good idea, but I was so bloated. I after write 682 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 2: those tacos, I was so bloated. 683 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: And then we got into so basically the tmescal without 684 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,359 Speaker 1: giving so much away, and you can look it up, 685 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 1: but you really. 686 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 2: Should come and experience at the retreat. 687 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 1: It's definitely going to be an experience. The ceremony would 688 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: do it. I'm really excited about it. They burn these 689 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,280 Speaker 1: they burn this fire and they have stones in these fires, 690 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:26,919 Speaker 1: and it represents the great great great grandmothers and justine femininity, 691 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: and they have this clay hut and you get inside 692 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: of it. They do this as with communities, like as 693 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: a community as well. But we it was just me 694 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: and Mila, thank god, because the bitch was sprawled the 695 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:44,359 Speaker 1: fuck out. And then they bring in the and then 696 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 1: they bring in the stones. Every they do this beautiful 697 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: ceremony inside of well. 698 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 2: First they light the they light the stones in the 699 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 2: fire for amount of time, it seems like a long 700 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 2: ass time. The fire represents the masculine, so it's the 701 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 2: great grand others on the fire, the masculine grandfathers, the 702 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 2: Grandfather's meeting again, so they're like heating them up. And 703 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 2: then we pulled cards and then you know, we did 704 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 2: a little ceremony, did some rape rape and then we 705 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 2: go inside this little clay hut and in the center 706 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,720 Speaker 2: they put the rocks that have been on the fire, 707 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 2: and then they start pouring water over them. Well then 708 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 2: and then they close the hut. 709 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 1: They close the hut, so it's pitch black, like not 710 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: a wink of light except for the embers of the fire, 711 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 1: and that. 712 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 2: Goes away because they start putting water on them. And 713 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 2: then it starts getting hot, slowly getting hot in there, 714 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 2: and they put like herbs that you know are like 715 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 2: there've remedies for the herbs. Yeah, hot is an understatement. 716 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 1: And the whole point of the ceremony is to help 717 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: release like these are like it's a it's a ceremony 718 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 1: of release, releasing anything that you don't want no longer 719 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: want to hold on to in your life, attachments, relationships, 720 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: and also like replenishing yourself with the things that you want, 721 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: because at the end of this ceremony, you get replenished, 722 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 1: and it's like inviting in the things that you want 723 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: to replace those things that you released. 724 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 2: And. 725 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:09,759 Speaker 1: I didn't think I was gonna make it, and then 726 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm so glad I did, and and and some people don't, 727 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 1: like some people need to leave the to mescal, but 728 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 1: it was so my experience in it, It was the 729 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 1: most intense experience I think I've ever had in that 730 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,360 Speaker 1: kind of realm, like whether it's like heat or release 731 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,600 Speaker 1: like screaming using my voice like or mushrooms or even LSD, 732 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: like it felt like a true remembrance of my like 733 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:39,440 Speaker 1: the first beginning of my lineage. Well that's what it 734 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 1: felt like. It felt like a remembrance. And then I 735 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,439 Speaker 1: felt like this really intense sadness because you know, I'm 736 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: my family's from Mexico on my mom's side, and like 737 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: we don't really have a lot of our true we 738 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: didn't really bring a lot of our traditions back to us. 739 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 1: But I know it's it's crazy when you are so 740 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: that's how detached I am from you know that part 741 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: of me. They I know the language, I know the food, 742 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 1: but like they're there's a richness in tradition that I 743 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:07,400 Speaker 1: have no idea is cellularly in my DNA. And so 744 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 1: when I was in there and I was experiencing that. 745 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,280 Speaker 1: I was reminded of it, and like it was almost 746 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: like a calling of like why did you leave us? 747 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 2: How did you come back? Come back? 748 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 1: And I've been feeling that pole, I've been feeling that 749 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 1: pole energetically, but being there in on the land experiencing 750 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: this ritual that I'm sure many of my ancestors before 751 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,839 Speaker 1: me have experienced, and that's what I felt too, was 752 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: it was profound and it was intense, Like I don't 753 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: know how to process it all the way. 754 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 2: It's definitely ancestral, you know, there's definitely it's very it's 755 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 2: very speaking to the like your ancestors, and you know, 756 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,800 Speaker 2: it's symbolic of going into the womb because it's dark 757 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 2: and it's and it's hot, and there are a lot 758 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 2: of times you were in fact and fetal position because 759 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,879 Speaker 2: it's intense, and there's doors that you go through, so 760 00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 2: it continues to get hotter and hotter until like the 761 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 2: third the fourth door. It's like a ninety minute session. 762 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,879 Speaker 2: So I definitely thought I was gonna have to get 763 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 2: the fuck out of there. But I'm happy I held 764 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,920 Speaker 2: on to the end. You know, I mentioned this to you, 765 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 2: but I felt my ancestors and then they're singing and 766 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 2: it's a dome shape so it's echoing and have these 767 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 2: huge like horns and drums. 768 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: And activation of sound in your body is what is 769 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: awakening that feeling that ancestral that connection. 770 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,359 Speaker 2: It's literally awakening it and shaking it up, Like hey, 771 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 2: the vibrations are that that stuff lives in you. That 772 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 2: like it lives in your body. So like your ancestors 773 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 2: a song, they sang a place they've been like instrument, 774 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 2: and it's like it's a tool that's coming out of you, 775 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 2: you know, but I did. I felt, you know, this 776 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 2: is a really big time for us, Like you know, 777 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 2: we're going through an immense transition and like we just 778 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,799 Speaker 2: talked that it's super vulnerable. They're gonna be people who 779 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 2: are not pleased with like the contents of you know, 780 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 2: the book. But it's like a true releasing and a 781 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 2: true like it's a ceremony for us. And I felt 782 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 2: deep acceptance and happiness from our ancestors, just like there 783 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 2: was times was just beaming like smiling and this hot 784 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 2: ass clay pot because I felt them hugging me. I've 785 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 2: I've literally felt the embrace. I felt like I'm proud 786 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 2: of you. I felt like you're on the right path. 787 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 2: I felt like you're protected and we're guiding you and 788 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,799 Speaker 2: this is not by chance, and I'm happy that you're here. 789 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 2: You know, like I deeply felt embraced by the unknown 790 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 2: and it was really special. 791 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like again, what that like boot confidence boost 792 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 1: that you that like it's necessary remembrance and like a 793 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 1: reminder that you. 794 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 2: And it's like, this is plant medicine, April, And obviously 795 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:45,920 Speaker 2: we're talking about like the obvious plant medicines. But I 796 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 2: think people underestimate. I think people underestimate the the the realms, 797 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,839 Speaker 2: and you can unlock and the spiritual depths you can 798 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 2: unlock just by being present with the earth and present 799 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,920 Speaker 2: with like in in your nudity and present with like 800 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 2: barefoot in like just roaming freely and just being you're 801 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:12,799 Speaker 2: the primalness of screaming of of you know, like just 802 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:19,919 Speaker 2: releasing this, uh, this made up world that we've we've 803 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,839 Speaker 2: domesticated and been inducted to, you know, like just releasing that. 804 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 2: Like just like Lena said, you know, the what is 805 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 2: the pharmacy of the forest. The forest is the pharmacy, 806 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,720 Speaker 2: you know, and it's sometimes just going back to the roots, 807 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:40,320 Speaker 2: your roots, and that's just nature, nature and elements, the elements, 808 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 2: the elements. And then you know, before we went into 809 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 2: the Ta mescal, we we uh we what do we 810 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 2: pray to them? We prayed to the elements. And it's 811 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 2: just the most basic form of plant medicine, just being 812 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 2: aware of them and saying, hi, Hi, I'm a part 813 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 2: of you and you're a part of me, and I 814 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,840 Speaker 2: appreciate you for existing because we're all ecosystem. And it 815 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 2: doesn't really require that you do some big thing all 816 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 2: the time, like take mushrooms or LSD or you know 817 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,879 Speaker 2: the thing, you know, whatever. If you're not someone who gets, 818 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,480 Speaker 2: you know, wants to be like ingest anything. 819 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,880 Speaker 1: No, you can just burn some wood and sit in 820 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,760 Speaker 1: a clayp and sweat it out. There's so many different 821 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 1: ways plant medicine shows up people's lives, you know. And 822 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: I thought about that, like that experience was supported by 823 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: plant medicine as well, because it's using every like it's. 824 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 2: Using all the elements that we have. The energy, the 825 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 2: energy of the elements that create life, which are plants, 826 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 2: which are us, and then the herbs and they're they're toxifying, 827 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,240 Speaker 2: detoxifying us through our skin, and even after they've nourished 828 00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 2: us with like cacaw water and and and fruit, you know, 829 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 2: and like fruit is a plant medicine, and you know, 830 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,600 Speaker 2: we underestimate the basics. So that was like, yeah, it's 831 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,040 Speaker 2: profound and right on time, and I really needed that, 832 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,799 Speaker 2: like that hug from my ancestors. And right before this, 833 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 2: York I got really high one night and I was like, 834 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 2: you're talking real deep shit. And I was like, what 835 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 2: if we were in a line. What if all of 836 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,239 Speaker 2: our ancestors just stood in the line and we can 837 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 2: just walk through and see how we look like them 838 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 2: on each side, and then we start thinking about it 839 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,480 Speaker 2: and they're like, oh shit, And I was like, oh no. 840 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 2: I was like, willing have to step past a few 841 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 2: people before we don't know anybody. Yeah, I was like, 842 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 2: before you and stops looking familiar. Yeah, no, they might. 843 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 2: They might look familiar, but you don't know that. And 844 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,400 Speaker 2: I was like we start getting like really deep, like 845 00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 2: oh shit, this is crazy, it's true. Think about that. Yeah, 846 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 2: like if you could line up all your ancestors and 847 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,040 Speaker 2: just walk down And she was like like me as 848 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 2: a caveman, Yeah, I was like a cave woman. I'm 849 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,400 Speaker 2: a caveman or who knows what I am. But you 850 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 2: are like an evolution. It's like an evolution of like 851 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 2: the people before you that like came of you. Oh, 852 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 2: that's what we think we're talking about, like like the 853 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 2: fucking all the mystics of the land, like like the 854 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 2: pyramids had. What is it to try for me to 855 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,240 Speaker 2: try and me to triangle? 856 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:04,439 Speaker 3: Oh? 857 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,839 Speaker 2: I remember we're talking about like we do some really 858 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 2: tough people to make it this far? Like why can't 859 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 2: we fly over that? We can't fly over Antarctica? Why 860 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 2: what's happening? Why they're lying to us the world flat? 861 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: We can't go to North Pole? Why is there a flat? 862 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,640 Speaker 1: If this must be flat, I don't see it, and 863 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:20,439 Speaker 1: I don't see a curve. 864 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 2: Why can't you take a flat straight through? Why are 865 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 2: the fly the flight passed wrong? Are we the bugs 866 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 2: to something else that's bigger? These are high conversations. 867 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 1: Oh my god, based on the stories is none of 868 00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 1: the ship ever doesn't None of this ship really matters. 869 00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,400 Speaker 1: So just do whatever the fuck you want to do, honestly, 870 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,360 Speaker 1: you know, you know, do live your life all the 871 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:51,960 Speaker 1: way to the maximum. Fullest, like run the ship dry, 872 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: go for it, because. 873 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,760 Speaker 2: Fuck it, what do you have to lose? We literally 874 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,760 Speaker 2: only live in this time, in this space, in this moment. 875 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: It's not this, it's this is not your your lifetime 876 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 1: to play it small, you know, like this is not 877 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: the lifetime. You know, you don't just give up and 878 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,400 Speaker 1: say fuck it. You know, I'm going to just accept 879 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 1: where I'm at. I'm going to just continue to be 880 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,880 Speaker 1: the complacent. I'm going to just do hate what I 881 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 1: do for work. 882 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 2: Living anyway, you know, because because what else am I 883 00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:19,920 Speaker 2: going to do. 884 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm not going to like do not going to just 885 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 1: you know, stay on yourself. Yeah, bet on yourself. You 886 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 1: can you can choose the person you want to show 887 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: up as every day. You have a new opportunity every 888 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 1: fucking day, every fucking day. 889 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 2: Oh that's what you're also saying. 890 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,840 Speaker 1: You're like, every breath, every breath is a new a 891 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 1: new birth, new birth, every but you know where I 892 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 1: got them, And it's like it's true, every breath is 893 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 1: your birth. 894 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 2: Again, you have you can be a new person, like 895 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:53,359 Speaker 2: you could make new choices every single breath, and that 896 00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 2: is profound, Like who the fuck made us so attached 897 00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,120 Speaker 2: to time, time, to what happened five minutes ago or 898 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 2: twenty minutes ago. I mean, it would be createdized if 899 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 2: I was like, fuck you, bitch, what I love you? 900 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,280 Speaker 2: I love you? Just kidding. I mean that we probably 901 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 2: it could work out. But but just overall, like who 902 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 2: made us attached to these things that are not truly 903 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 2: attached to us? So let that shit go. Mm hmmm 904 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,680 Speaker 2: take a few breasts with us. 905 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:45,040 Speaker 4: Mmm mm hmmm mmmm. 906 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 2: Oh my hi, I just got so much better. You 907 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 2: know what that does, Like, go make my high better? 908 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 2: That goes makes the high much better. Wow, it's like 909 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:08,319 Speaker 2: smoke and moan. Bactivate mmm, that sounds good. Anyway, y'all, 910 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 2: we love you. 911 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 1: We got to get out of here because, as you saw, 912 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,280 Speaker 1: we had our kids here and they're still here waiting 913 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 1: for us to be done. 914 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 2: And it's been a long ass motherfucking days. It feels 915 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 2: very nostalgic. Feels like the old days we used recorded 916 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,319 Speaker 2: night yeah, and we were like we had very little 917 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 2: gas in our tank. But that's when we tell the 918 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:32,480 Speaker 2: most truths. We're surviving off of weed and aired vegetables, 919 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:38,760 Speaker 2: so many sautepe vegetables we eat so many vegetarian taco. 920 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 2: We did the Thai food. Welcome to the Valley. 921 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 1: Oh well, we'll catch you guys next week. We'll catch 922 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 1: you guys on tour. 923 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:57,120 Speaker 2: Oh what we did? Affirmation? Oh shit, I have one? Okay, 924 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 2: what is it? Is it from the discord? Oh? Yep, 925 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 2: it is if you are in our discord. If you're 926 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 2: a Patreon member, you're in the discord, which means you're 927 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,040 Speaker 2: basically in the group chat. It's a big tribe chat. 928 00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 2: It's literally the ultimate tribe chat. We're talking all day 929 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:15,360 Speaker 2: long in there, and we have a tab for affirmations. 930 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 2: So come in the tribe chat. Give us your affirmations, 931 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,240 Speaker 2: give us your hories and we'll read them on the show. 932 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 2: Give us, give us everything, everything you got everything? Okay. 933 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 1: Today's affirmation is I am open to the possibility of 934 00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 1: everything working out better than I can imagine. I am 935 00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,959 Speaker 1: open to the possibility of everything working. 936 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 2: Out better than I imagined. Mmm. I'm here for that. 937 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:49,120 Speaker 2: You guys. If you're listening right now, before you get 938 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,360 Speaker 2: off of this ship, go click and order the book. 939 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 2: Do it right now. Maybe order three. I know you 940 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,520 Speaker 2: have some friends that need to hear from. It's also 941 00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 2: an audible form. 942 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 1: So if you want to hear our voices, you're not 943 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: quite not a reader, that you have a solution for you. 944 00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:02,960 Speaker 2: And it's a little bit different than us talking here. 945 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:06,000 Speaker 2: It's very sexy, it's very still true, very cinematic. 946 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 1: I think it really paints the book beautifully as it 947 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,480 Speaker 1: should be told by our voices. So I want, you 948 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 1: know whatever, pick your poison. But the audible is I 949 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 1: it's kind of do both. Do you read along? 950 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 2: That helps? Do you read along? That's a reading hat 951 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 2: guys for those who want to read, but it's hard. 952 00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 2: Get the audible and get the physical books so you 953 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 2: can put it on the person and that person. And also, 954 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 2: if you're in New York, if you're in Philly, if 955 00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,120 Speaker 2: you're in DC, we're coming to a city near you. 956 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:38,120 Speaker 2: Check the link in this episode description in Atlanta and Atlanta. 957 00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 2: And if you are looking for a vacation where you 958 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 2: can get nurtured and pampered and taken care of and 959 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:49,120 Speaker 2: just be lavish and luxury, check out the good Vibrra tree. 960 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:53,800 Speaker 2: We're going to saluat that. It's beautiful. We just got back. Girl. 961 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 2: Go look at the Instagram so you can go see 962 00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:58,160 Speaker 2: the pictures. Go make sure you go follow out the 963 00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 2: good vibra tree. 964 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,040 Speaker 1: You can see all the pictures, you can feel the 965 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,799 Speaker 1: vibes and we'll see you there. 966 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:28,720 Speaker 4: Love you, love you, bye bye yeah So record 967 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 2: Las M