1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: A warning. This episode contains depictions of violence and conversations 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: about suicide that may be disturbing and triggering for some listeners. 3 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please fast forward 4 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: to the end of this episode to find out where 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: help is available. In May of two thousand and two, 6 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: Byron Case is convicted of killing Anastasia Whippelsfuchen. As of today, 7 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: he's been incarcerated for more than twenty three years. 8 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 2: People believe what is convenient for them and what feels 9 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: right to them. Blaming me for Stage's death is convenient. 10 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: What is Byron Case's truth? Who is he really? And 11 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: outside of the story he's already told? What am I 12 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: about to learn? I'm Leah Rothman. This is the Real Killer, 13 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: Episode six, The Worst Decision. Starting route to Eastern Reception 14 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: Diagnostic and Correctional Center, proceed to Gammel's Cemetery road, then 15 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: turn right. Okay, it's cold here. It's early February. I'm 16 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: in Missouri today. I'm about four hours east of Kansas City, 17 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: driving to the town of Bontaire to meet Byron Case 18 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: for the first time. How am I feeling? I feel? Okay? 19 00:01:55,640 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 1: I mean going to a prison is always racking. Yeah, 20 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I have a lot of questions for Byron, 21 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 1: and hopefully he'll answer them. His attorney, Nicole Gordon and 22 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: investigator Queen O'Brien are coming for the interview, so they 23 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: will be there. If Queen O'Brien's name sounds familiar, it's 24 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 1: because she was in season one of the podcast. Her father, 25 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 1: renowned innocence lawyer Sean O'Brien, who was in seasons one 26 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: and two, has also taken on Byron's case, along with 27 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: attorneys Nicole Gordon and Brian Russell. Much more about all 28 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 1: of them in a later episode. Yeah, I think I'm 29 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: just like a few miles away. I'm getting a little 30 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: bit more nervous. Now. I have been allowed four hours 31 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: with Byron, and if necessary, I can return the following 32 00:02:56,040 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: day for four more Pretty generous by in media relations standards. 33 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: All Right, I am nervous. Yeah, I was all cool 34 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: a few minutes ago, and now I'm like nervous. 35 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: You've entered the parking lot for your destination. 36 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: All right, shit, I'm here. I'm gonna park, get all 37 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: my equipment together, and then go in more later, I 38 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: go through security, put my phone, keys, and coat in 39 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: a locker. Then I'm buzzed in. A few feet away 40 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: is another security checkpoint. Then I walk down a long 41 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: hallway which leads to the outdoors. It's an outdoor heavily 42 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: fenced walkway that leads to another building. That's where the 43 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: visitors room is and where I'll be conducting Byron's interview. 44 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: Is a small room just off that. It's where they 45 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: do parole hearings via the Internet, but really it looks 46 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: like a storage room. The cinder block walls are painted 47 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: off white. There are several computer monitors on a table, 48 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: and some highchairs stacked for family visits. Byron arrives just 49 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:22,119 Speaker 1: moments after I do. Byron's bald and has pale skin. 50 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: He's wearing gray pants and a white T shirt under 51 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: a gray zip up jacket. I thought he'd be taller 52 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: or bigger. I'm surprised by his slight build. I set 53 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: up the microphones and recorder on a table. I also 54 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 1: set up a video camera. I'll be posting some clips 55 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: from our interview on The Real Killer podcast on Instagram 56 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 1: and on TikTok at TRK podcast. Nicole and Quinn sit 57 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: on a metal bench against the wall as we're about 58 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: to get started, I ask if we can close the 59 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: door to keep out any sounds from the visitor's room, 60 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: but am told the or must stay open. I begin 61 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: the interview by asking about Byron's childhood and growing up 62 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: with his parents, Evelyn and Dale. 63 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: Oh, it's great. I loved my childhood. I had what 64 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: I've heard called a free range childhood. It was like 65 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: the house and the area around it was just free 66 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 2: to be explored. I would go off and just walk 67 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 2: through the woods near our house, and my dog would 68 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: come with me, and sometimes I'd go riding my bike. Yeah, 69 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:43,799 Speaker 2: I was content to play by myself. I preferred it. 70 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: I loved animals and had little collections of stuff. I 71 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 2: played the violin that I read a lot, probably more 72 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 2: than anything else that I did in my childhood. I 73 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: spent my time reading. I had a fantastic time, you know, 74 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: going places with my parents. We traveled a lot, both 75 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: in the States and overseas, and just having that time 76 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 2: with them, bonding and experiencing new things so often new cultures, 77 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 2: new scenery, new surroundings. My dad loved the world. 78 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: Byron is homeschooled, and he says from what he sees 79 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: of regular school kids. He prefers it that. 80 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: Way, and our yard actually abutted an elementary school. If 81 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 2: I was up in my treehouse, I could actually see 82 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 2: down into one of the playgrounds at the school, and 83 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 2: sometimes I'd see a fight, or I'd see just people 84 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: running around and be really loud, which I did not 85 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: care for. I've never liked loud noises. I was like, 86 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 2: that looks like a horrible place to be. I do 87 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 2: not want to be there. I really did dread the 88 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 2: idea I think of going to a so called regular school. 89 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: Describe your mom for me. 90 00:06:55,760 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: My mother was fantastic. She was fun. She was so 91 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 2: encouraging and just always willing to let me sort of 92 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 2: explore whatever weird interest I might have at the time. 93 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: And your mom was originally from Germany? 94 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: Yes? 95 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: Right? Did she speak German mostly in the house? 96 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? We spoke English and German in the household periodically. 97 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. It was probably about fifty to fifty. 98 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: Describe your dad for me. 99 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 2: My dad was like my mother. He was so encouraging 100 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 2: and caring. He was never afraid to talk openly and 101 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: to be vulnerable, and he was creative too. He liked 102 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: to write and he made pottery, mostly like clay bowls 103 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 2: and flower pots and things like that. But he was 104 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: definitely an outdoorsman, liked to be with nature, and just 105 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: a very peaceful guy. In some ways, I think that 106 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: my family was this sort of bubble and we just 107 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: sort of existed in our own little world. It was 108 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: like the house. 109 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: But that seemingly idyllic home life doesn't last forever. 110 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: Okay. So when I was ten, my mother and my 111 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: father called me into the back room of the house 112 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: and they set me down and they said, we're getting 113 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: a divorce, and my mother told me that my dad 114 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 2: was gay. I was a pretty logical kid, and so 115 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: I just kind of took it all in stride, and 116 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 2: I was more concerned about where my parents were going 117 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: to live what that meant for me. 118 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: And Byron's mom decides to move to Australia and Byron 119 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: goes with her there. He attends public school for the 120 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: first time. 121 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 2: No, I think it was cool for a minute, and 122 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: then people started maybe getting to know me a little 123 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: bit better and didn't necessarily like me or just thought 124 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 2: that I was, I don't know, different, and not in 125 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 2: a good way, you know. I was quiet I like 126 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 2: to read. I stayed to myself. Byron says. 127 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: After about a year, he and his mom moved back 128 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: to the States and Byron moves in with his dad 129 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: in Kansas. There, he says, he enrolls in public school 130 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: and things get worse. 131 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: I was bullied and harassed, just generally hated school. And 132 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 2: I would work myself up so badly, you know, might 133 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: just being like a bundle of nerves every single morning 134 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 2: that I would literally make myself sick. And that went 135 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: on for sixth grade and seventh grade, so about a 136 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 2: year and a half. And then as soon as I 137 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 2: had the opportunity, I moved back to Missouri with my 138 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: mother and then so that was a different school district. 139 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: It's there in the eighth grade Byron meets Anastasia and 140 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: what was your first what were some of your first 141 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: impressions of Anna Stasia? 142 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: Anastasia was very intelligent. We were in the National Academic 143 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: League together. We basically competed in academic trivia style competitions. 144 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: We were on that level first and foremost as colleagues 145 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 2: on the team, and then we were in a couple 146 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 2: of classes together. Also, she was in my science class. Oh, 147 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: and I believe we were in the same Latin class 148 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 2: as well, and sometimes we would sit at the same 149 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: table at lunch and just talk about whenever. She loved 150 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 2: to read as well, and so we had a fair 151 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 2: amount to relate with one another on that front, but 152 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 2: we weren't really close, more just casual acquaintances. I guess. 153 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: We ended up going both of us to Lincoln College 154 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 2: Preparatory Academy the following year, so our freshman year in 155 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: high school and had totally different classes then. So basically 156 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: never at. 157 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: Fifteen, Byron says he decides he's done with school altogether. 158 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 2: So I dropped out of school when I was when 159 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: I was fifteen. It was right after my freshman year, 160 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 2: and I immediately went and tested for my GED. I 161 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 2: just didn't want anything else to do with school. It 162 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 2: was sucking the life out of me. It was stressful. 163 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: I just wanted to I just wanted to be independent 164 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 2: and really have that level of autonomy that I felt 165 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 2: like I needed in order to, I guess, thrive, although 166 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: of course at the time I had no idea what 167 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 2: thriving meant. 168 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: So how did your parents feel about you dropping out? 169 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: They tried to talk me out of it. I don't 170 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: think any parent wants that for their kid, but I 171 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: suspect that part of it was a level of maybe 172 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: failure on their own parts that they may have felt 173 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: about me dropping out, Like I know that my mother 174 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,479 Speaker 2: has said in the past, do you think that homeschool 175 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 2: was the best thing for you? And then cited that 176 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 2: as the reason, like, well, you ended up hating school, 177 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: so would it have been better to put you in 178 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 2: school and maybe let you have that experience early on 179 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: where you did you get spoiled by that? And my 180 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 2: answer has always been no, that school would have been 181 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: horrible for me, no matter what age I had entered 182 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: it in. 183 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: By now it's nineteen ninety five. En Byron has nothing 184 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: but time. He's spending a lot of it hanging out 185 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,599 Speaker 1: at the coffeehouses in Westport. 186 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 2: It was just so to me cool because you had 187 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: all of these different people and all of them were creative. 188 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 2: There were so many students from the Kansas City Art 189 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 2: Institute that would go there. There were people who were homeless, 190 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: there were people who were older, just bohemians and young people. 191 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 2: And that was the big thing that I appreciated about it, 192 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 2: really was the fact that nobody gave a shit like 193 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: what you were, like if you had weird hair, or 194 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: if you had piercings, or if you were very short, 195 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 2: or it didn't matter. No one cared. You were there 196 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: because you loved coffee, you loved socializing, maybe you loved 197 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 2: chess or smoking. But the point is there was always 198 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: somebody there that you could talk to. 199 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: But even with having that outlet, Byron says, there are 200 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: some serious issues he's dealing with. 201 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: Like I said, I got into drugs, specifically cocaine. I 202 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: I was hospitalized for a little bit after a suicide attempt. 203 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 2: That was actually before that was after right before I 204 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: dropped out of school. Actually, you know, so that was 205 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 2: really just it was in some ways it was a 206 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 2: really dark phase of my life. 207 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: And on May fifteenth, nineteen ninety six, things get darker. Byron, 208 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: who's now seventeen, decides he wants a new computer monitor 209 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: and remembers his aunt bought a new one a few 210 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: months before. So, Byron says, after staying up all night, 211 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: he and some friends drive to his aunt's home in 212 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: rural Missouri. Byron crawls through a bathroom window that had 213 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: been left open, opens the garage. The dogs run out barking, 214 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: which alerts the neighbor, who calls the police. 215 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: We were arrested and I was charged with stealing. And 216 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: while I was in the county jail, it was just 217 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 2: it was horrible. You know, these people, It was like 218 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 2: it was like public school times five. I think it 219 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: was there for like three weeks. Afterward, the court ordered 220 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: me to take a drug treatment program of some kind, 221 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: and my dad on a really good drug counselor that 222 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: I ended up seeing, and the guy in some ways 223 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 2: changed my life and I actually never used again after that. 224 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: It was sort of the wake up call. It was like, 225 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: this is what this is leading to, this is what 226 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 2: this has taken you to the depths of so. 227 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: Because you were high when you broke into yourance home. 228 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah, and that was like a daily thing 229 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 2: for me at the time. So it was yeah, I 230 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 2: ruined my relationship with my aunt as far as I'm concerned, 231 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 2: and really with the rest of the family, and not 232 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: that we were terribly close to begin with. 233 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: Byron pleads guilty and is given five years probation. It's 234 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: not long after this he meets justin Bruton. 235 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 2: I was by myself and I was sitting with a notebook, 236 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: writing and drinking coffee and smoking, and because that's what 237 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 2: I did at that point, this guy at a table 238 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: next to me, he just like turned around and asked 239 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 2: if he could have a sickte And so little background here. 240 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: I did not like smoking, I guess regular cigarettes, because 241 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: I'm picky like that. So I had this box of 242 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: imported cigarettes that I bought from a tobacconist down the street, 243 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: and they were like three times as much as a 244 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: pack of Marboroughs would have run me. And so I 245 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 2: really hated when people asked me because I'm like, you're 246 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 2: not going to appreciate this the way that you should. 247 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: But I gave this guy a cigarette and he snapped 248 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: it in half and set it on the table and 249 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 2: he said, can I get another one? And I was flabbergassed, 250 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 2: and I didn't know what to think. I was like, what, no, no, 251 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: what the hell? And then he proceeded to give me 252 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: this whole speech about how cigarettes are bad for me, 253 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: I shouldn't smoke, and I was like, who are you? 254 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 2: Like what the fuck? This is ridiculous. So we started somehow, 255 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 2: we started a conversation from that and found out that 256 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 2: this guy was he lived in the area, and he 257 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 2: was really into movies and obscure stuff, and I kind 258 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 2: of fancied myself kind of a I don't know, a cinephile, 259 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: I guess I definitely liked obscure movies, art house movies, 260 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 2: and here was somebody that actually knew about these things. 261 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 2: And so we started talking, and he had a collection 262 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 2: of movies at home. He said that was that I'd 263 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 2: probably be interested in and asked if I wanted to 264 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: come over and, you know, watch a movie sometime, and 265 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 2: I said, yeah, sure, that sounds great. And so that's 266 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 2: how our friendship started. Basically, describe Justin for me? 267 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: What was he? What was he like? 268 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 2: So Justin struck me as just kind of a goofy, eccentric, 269 00:17:55,600 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 2: sort of out of place, slightly awkward, but friends league 270 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 2: guy and engaging and you could talk with him and 271 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 2: he could relate with anybody, it seemed like. And I 272 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 2: kind of envied that, I think a little bit, because 273 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: you know, he he was weird, but he was sociable 274 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 2: and I was weird and anti social, and so I 275 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 2: thought that that was kind of interesting. 276 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: Justin was from Tulsa, Oklahoma, but living in Kansas City, 277 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 1: in a condo near the coffeehouses in Westport, which his 278 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: parents bought for him, supposedly under the condition that he 279 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: stayed in school at the University of Missouri. Does Justin 280 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: become your best friend? 281 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah. Like I said, Justin was so weird that 282 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 2: I couldn't not like him, and I really appreciated the 283 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: fact that he didn't blink an eye, you know, whatever 284 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 2: I said or did something that was strange or that 285 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 2: somebody else might not like or whatever. We were two 286 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: kind of outcasts in a way. Although I didn't realize 287 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 2: it at the time. I just thought of Justin as 288 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 2: being like a really sociable kind of guy. But in reality, 289 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 2: I think he was kind of fighting with whatever it 290 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 2: was the inside of himself that you know, wanted to 291 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 2: stay alone, really, and it was just a way to 292 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 2: overcompensate for that. Yeah, I mean we became we became 293 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 2: friends and talked about what I think was about the 294 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 2: most personal stuff that Justin could ever talk about. Oppression 295 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 2: and you know, and struggling with trying to live up 296 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 2: to your parents' expectations. His not mine. His parents were 297 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 2: pretty rich, his childhood was very different from mine, and 298 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: so it was just interesting to me that somebody who 299 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 2: came from that background could end up like he did, 300 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 2: where he just wanted simplicity. I don't know, it was 301 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 2: it was like we'd come from very different places to 302 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 2: sort of meet on similar ground. 303 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: When does the goth thing happen? 304 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 2: Because yeah, no, that's cool, you know, I don't really know. 305 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 2: I've actually tried to pin this down before, and it 306 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 2: was just such a gradual evolution. I remember, I didn't 307 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 2: even a name for it, for sure. It sort of 308 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,640 Speaker 2: came about, I would say, when I was about thirteen, 309 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 2: I started wearing all black. It grew like by degrees, 310 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 2: I guess, and then of course the question what is 311 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 2: God your air? Quotes there like I think any self 312 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: respecting Goth I would have denied to my dying breath 313 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: that I was in fact Goth, And yet I would 314 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 2: be quick to point to somebody else and go, oh, 315 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 2: look at them trying to be Goth? How ridiculous? 316 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 1: What about it attracted you? 317 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: I was without really knowing it. I was dealing with 318 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: a really intense depression for several years, and I think 319 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 2: part of it was driven by that, you know, just 320 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 2: that my mood sort of sought some kind of external 321 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 2: validation and like this comfort that comes with knowing that 322 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 2: you're not alone this, that there are other people who 323 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 2: feel like this, and that they express it maybe in 324 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 2: music or in art. Although I didn't think about it 325 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 2: in those terms at the time, I think that's probably 326 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: what drove me to that. As far as what it 327 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 2: meant to me, I don't know. I felt comfortable wearing 328 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 2: black clothes. I was overweight for a little while when 329 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 2: I was like a teen, a young teen, and I 330 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 2: was pretty self conscious about that. It didn't help that 331 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 2: my dad was into bodybuilding at the time, and would 332 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,919 Speaker 2: I guess the term now is body shame me a 333 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 2: little bit. But he, you know, in the most loving way. 334 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 2: He could just saying like, hey kid, we got to 335 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 2: get you working out, you know. So it started with that, 336 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 2: this idea that like black is slimming. It just became 337 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: something that I felt really comfortable in. Was justin goth 338 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 2: oh no, justin So there were these gap ads that 339 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 2: ran for a little while around that time, where these 340 00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 2: young twenty somethings would wear like khakis, tea shirt, black 341 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 2: jacket final e. I don't know what that material is, 342 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: but some sort of just zip up simple jacket. That's 343 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 2: how Justin dressed every single day, just a T shirt 344 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 2: and khakis. Justin was definitely not God, and he often 345 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 2: made fun of me for being goth, and I would 346 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 2: argue that I wasn't goth, and then much hilarity would ensue. 347 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: And something else is about to ensue when in late 348 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety six early ninety seven, Byron runs into Anastasia 349 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: at the Westport Coffeehouse. At this point, Byron says he 350 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,199 Speaker 1: hadn't seen her in about three years, since the end 351 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: of their freshman year of high school. 352 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,959 Speaker 2: We've been you know, and we just started catching up. 353 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 2: And I was sitting there with Justin at the time, 354 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: who I think caught her eye, and so she I 355 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 2: invited her to sit down with us, and they did, 356 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 2: and she kind of hit it off with him, so 357 00:22:59,560 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 2: I think. 358 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:04,360 Speaker 1: Then a few months later, Byron, Justin, and Anastasia are 359 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: hanging out at the coffeehouse when Kelly Moffatt walks in 360 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: and says hi to Justin. They had met each other 361 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: there before. Justin introduces Kelly to Byron and Anastasia and 362 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: invites her to join them. They talked for a while, 363 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: then decide to go back to Justin's to watch a movie. 364 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,919 Speaker 1: Later that night, Justin suggests Byron take Kelly home. 365 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 2: I ended up driving her home. She lived about twenty 366 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 2: minutes away maybe, and so I dropped her off and 367 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 2: I asked for her phone number and she gave it 368 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 2: to me. She was eccentric, and she had kind of 369 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 2: a twisted sense of humor. She just seemed like this 370 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 2: kind of devil may care, like suburban punk rock chick, 371 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 2: and I thought she was really cool and so. 372 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: But Byron says, as they get to know each other, 373 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: Kelly shares a disturbing family secret time because. 374 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 2: She would tell me stories about you know, her dad 375 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 2: was an alcoholic, and then at one point he told 376 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: her if she told me that he would like that, 377 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: he would beat her and her mother. She had shown 378 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 2: me Bruce's pretty significant ones. 379 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: Byron says, all he knows after hearing this is that 380 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: he wants Kelly out of that abusive situation. So he 381 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,439 Speaker 1: asks Justin if Kelly can come stay at the condom. 382 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 2: You know, of course, there are authorities and there are 383 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 2: other places that she could have gone, but you know, 384 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 2: to my teenage brain, that was just that was it. 385 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 2: It was just like, oh, no emergency fix it. 386 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 1: Kelly's mom, Deborah Moffatt, tells a different story at Byron's trial. 387 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 1: She testifies that Kelly and Byron had been seeing each 388 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 1: other for a couple of months before she and Kelly's 389 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 1: dad found out about it. Deborah says once they learned 390 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 1: Byron's age, which was eighteen, they forbid Kelly, who was 391 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 1: fourteen and a just finished eighth grade, to continue seeing him. 392 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 1: One day, her dad finds Byron in the basement with Kelly, 393 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: kicks him out of the house and tells him never 394 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 1: to come back. Deborah testifies that a couple of days later, 395 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 1: Kelly runs off. They file a missing person's report with Lenexa, 396 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: Kansas PD. They think she's dead. Byron says, after seven days, 397 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: there's a knock at Justin's door and it. 398 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 2: Was a private investigator who had been tasked with finding her, 399 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 2: and he took her and they left. 400 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: Some time later, Byron says he speaks with Kelly's mom 401 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: and dad and they eventually relent. They say that two 402 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: can continue dating. 403 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 2: And I was relieved, but also because Kelly said that 404 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 2: her dad, this is what she told me, was that 405 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 2: her dad had promised never to lay a hand on 406 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 2: her again. 407 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: Byron says after that he feels welcomed at Kelly's house. 408 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: They have family dinners together, they go to the movies, 409 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: and down the line, he even spends Christmas with them. 410 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 2: Looking back, I can't imagine what that would have been 411 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,640 Speaker 2: like for a parent. But you know, they were making 412 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 2: an effort to try and I guess just appease her. 413 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 2: But also, I mean they really came to like and 414 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 2: trust me. I mean her mother. Her mother would send 415 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 2: me out, like to take Kelly's twelve year old sister 416 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 2: to the mall, and like loan me the car keys 417 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 2: and the debit card so that I could you get 418 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 2: her whatever she needed. You wouldn't do that with somebody 419 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 2: that I think that you thought was just a scumbag. 420 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: On the witness stand, Deborah Moffett says Byron was intelligent, 421 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: soft spoken, very mannerly, and seemingly in love with Kelly. 422 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: Would you say you and Kelly were in love? 423 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: Yes? I felt very attached to her, and yeah, I 424 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 2: absolutely believe that was love. 425 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: And vice versa. When I asked Byron about how Kelly 426 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: was only fourteen when they first started dating, he says 427 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 1: she didn't tell him her age until three months in 428 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: and for Byron that should have been the end of 429 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 1: the relationship, but it wasn't. He kept seeing her. Byron 430 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: also says Kelly's mother later told him that her husband, 431 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: Kelly's dad, was not an abuse of alcoholic, but that. 432 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: Was a lie apparently. Yeah, And so that was, like, 433 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 2: as far as I know, the first thing that she 434 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: lied to me about. And then there were so many 435 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: others and I couldn't even name close to them all. 436 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,919 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously based on how everything turned out, But 437 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 2: I think even for that time, Kelly was I think 438 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:57,119 Speaker 2: the worst decision I ever made. Everything involving her, I 439 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:05,640 Speaker 2: think was the worst decision I ever made. 440 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,479 Speaker 1: In nineteen ninety seven, there are two couples going strong, 441 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: Byron and Kelly, and Justin and Anastasia. Byron says, for 442 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: the first several months, Justin and Anastasia are like two lovebirds. 443 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,959 Speaker 1: They talk about marriage and moving to Europe. Then things change. 444 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it seems like to me that he 445 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: just kind of got bored with her. Probably well, I 446 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: know that he got tired of what he saw is 447 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 2: her neediness, and she was needy. She was very needy. 448 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 2: I think he was more just wanting something that was fun, 449 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 2: something that would you know that that was no work 450 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 2: at all, because he hated putting effort in anything, and 451 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 2: that includes the relationship, and so he was not willing to. 452 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: Do what she Byron says, Anastasia often turns him for help. 453 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 2: And then she would call me and ask, you know, 454 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 2: if I could talk to him, and I'm like, I 455 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 2: don't know what you want from me. I can't make 456 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 2: this guy want to hang out with you. At some 457 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 2: point or other, they broke up and she was devastated 458 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 2: and she called me crying, like sloppy, messy crying, and 459 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 2: I did what I could, you know, to give her 460 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 2: that talk like this is probably for the best. You know, 461 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 2: he was starting to lose interest, and you know, and 462 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: he this is just how Justin is. You know, he'll 463 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 2: be interested in something. 464 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: Byron says, The cycle of them breaking up and getting 465 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:46,719 Speaker 1: back together is constant. So are Anastasia's calls. Talk to 466 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 1: me about your outgoing beeper message. 467 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: I know the one you're talking about. It got to 468 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 2: the point where Stasia called so often. I paid twenty 469 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 2: five cents per page, like this was this was not 470 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 2: a good plan, but I just wanted to be available, 471 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 2: and so I had this pager and expecting that maybe 472 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 2: like three times a week or so, I might have 473 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 2: to pay a quarter for a page, I signed up 474 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 2: for this plan. And then one day after she had 475 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 2: broken up with Justin or he had broken up with 476 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: her and wouldn't take her calls, Stasia like paged me 477 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 2: and I called her back, and I was at home 478 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 2: at the time, I was getting ready for work. Basically, 479 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 2: she was just like, you have to talk with him, 480 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 2: and I was like, I can't. Also, I'm on my 481 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 2: way to work right now, so I don't really have time. 482 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 2: And she just started talking and talking and talking, and 483 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 2: I was just like, Stasia, I really have to go. 484 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 2: And then I ended up just like, look, I have 485 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 2: to go. I'm sorry, and I hung up the phone, 486 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 2: and all the way to work, and for like a 487 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 2: good portion of my shift she was calling and paging 488 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 2: me again and again and again and again and again. 489 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 2: So I turned off my pager and I dialed the 490 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: number to rear ord a new message, and I basically said, 491 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 2: you know, this is byrons my pager. Leave your number 492 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 2: unless this is Anastasia, in which case just stop because 493 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 2: I don't want to talk to you, and if you 494 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 2: keep this up, no one's going to want to talk 495 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 2: to you. And that was that. And then they made 496 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 2: a big deal out of that later on, saying, you 497 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 2: know what a shitty friend I was because I wouldn't, 498 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: you know, take her repeated pages. 499 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 1: Byron says, in the weeks leading up to the murder, 500 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: Justin had dropped out of school and stopped taking his prozac. 501 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: I asked him if anything seemed abnormal at the time 502 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: with Anastasia. 503 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 2: No, And that's the thing is, this was such a 504 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 2: in some ways, and I've described it this way. Before 505 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 2: a normal week from my perspective, Justin went to go 506 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: visit his parents. I guess he was down there for 507 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 2: the weekend. He and Stasia were. She was planning on 508 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 2: getting together with him. She wanted to, I think, try 509 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 2: and get back together. Of course I didn't know that 510 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 2: at the time, but you know, found out later on 511 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 2: that pretty much every conversation which she had with anybody 512 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: that she was even remotely connected with, centered around Justin 513 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 2: for like that whole week. To me, just like I said, 514 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 2: it was just more the same. 515 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 1: I then asked Byron about the afternoon of October twenty second, 516 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: the day Anna station was killed. 517 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 2: We were still sort of just milling around, not doing 518 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 2: much of anything at the condo. Justin got a call 519 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: from Stasia. And I don't remember now if they had 520 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: had these plans previously or if this was something that 521 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 2: like she was pushing for sort of last minute, but 522 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 2: matter of fact, now that I think about it, no, 523 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 2: they had had plans to get together that day, and 524 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 2: he basically was like, yeah, I I don't know, we'll 525 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 2: see what happens. 526 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: Byron says. He and Justin go to Funko Land in 527 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 1: Kansas to trade in some video games. Then they pick 528 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: up Kelly at her home in Lenexa. 529 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 2: Then so Justin's like, well, I better, you know, we 530 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 2: got to stop and I'm going to make this phone 531 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 2: call to just tell her I'm not going to come out. 532 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 2: So we stopped at this gas station in Kansas and 533 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: he called it. I guess talk with Stacia's sister who 534 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 2: said that she had already left, and so Justin and 535 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 2: I guess it was just like whatever, So that sucks, 536 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,320 Speaker 2: nothing to be done. Now, let's go play some games. 537 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: So you're at the Phillip sixty sixth station. Justin uses 538 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: the phone speaks with Francesca. Francisca says, she got a ride. 539 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: She's already left for Mount Washington, right right, because they 540 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: were did they have a plan. 541 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they yeah, had agreed to meet out there, 542 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 2: just the two of them, apparently at Mount Washington. 543 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: Yes, and when so, remember that's not what Kelly testified to. 544 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: She said at the gas station, Byron and Justin had 545 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: her call Anastasia to meet them at the dairy Queen. Okay, 546 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,720 Speaker 1: Byron says. After the gas station, Justin, Kelly and Byron 547 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: go back to the condo. 548 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, And while we were there, a phone call came 549 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 2: in from Stasia, who I guess was at a dairy 550 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 2: queen across the street from the cemetery where they were 551 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:28,799 Speaker 2: supposed to meet, and she, from the sound of his 552 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 2: end of the conversation, she was not happy. And he 553 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 2: basically explained like, yeah, I tried to call Fran and 554 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 2: you know, just Or tried to call you and talked 555 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 2: with Fran and told her what was up. I tried. 556 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 2: They stayed on the phone for a little while, I think, 557 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 2: but he ended up. He got off the phone and 558 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 2: he's like, we are going to have to go out 559 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 2: to Independence, where Stagia lived and pick her up. 560 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 1: Do you remember around what time this was. 561 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 2: It was still like, I don't know, like it was No, 562 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 2: I don't really remember. 563 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: Was that still light up? 564 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 2: No? No, I think it was it was getting dark 565 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 2: at that point. Okay, So, or it was it was 566 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: like right at the end of the. 567 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: Day when you pick her up. What is she wearing? 568 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 1: What's Anastasia wearing? 569 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 2: She had on I believe she had on blue jeans 570 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 2: and I think like a gray sweater. 571 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 1: Now does Byron actually remember what Anastasia was wearing that 572 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,880 Speaker 1: night or did he hear this description of her clothes 573 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: from dairy Queen worker Don Wright when she testified at 574 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 1: his trial. Okay, After the Dairy Queen, Byron Justin, Anastasia 575 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 1: and Kelly drive across the street to Mount Washington Cemetery, 576 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 1: see the caretaker, then leave soon after. Byron says, they 577 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 1: then make a plan to go back to the condo. Supposedly, 578 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 1: Anastasia asks Justin why he doesn't love her anymore, and 579 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: Justin says he doesn't know, he just doesn't. 580 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 2: And so she opened the door to the car and 581 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 2: just slammed it and started walking the direction that we 582 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 2: had just come from. And we sat there for a minute. 583 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 2: I didn't really know what was going on, you know, 584 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 2: and then we just started driving again. He didn't turn around, 585 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 2: he didn't you know, he didn't get out of the 586 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 2: car try to stop. I mean, we just it was 587 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,920 Speaker 2: as though, you know, nothing had happened, and we just 588 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 2: kind of sat in an uncomfortable silence for a little while. 589 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: She go and walk behind you. 590 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, she just she got out of that and the 591 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 2: passenger side door where she was sitting, she got out 592 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 2: and just walked back and I saw her, you know, 593 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: go behind and then I actually my attention focused on 594 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 2: justin to see what he was going to do, so 595 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 2: I didn't see which side of the street, you know, 596 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 2: she went to or anything like that. 597 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: By the way, were you guys drinking that night, doing drugs? 598 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 2: No? 599 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 1: So you drive off, you are in sort of an 600 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: uncomfortable silence, and to take me through what happens. 601 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 2: Next, we drove back to the condo almost in complete silence. 602 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,399 Speaker 2: I think if anything got said, it was just very 603 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 2: small talk, very briefly, and it was just we didn't 604 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 2: know what the hell to say as the bottom line, and. 605 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,760 Speaker 1: It was Byron says, on the way back to the condo, 606 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: his friend Abraham pages him. Byron says, he calls him. 607 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: When they get back to Justin's. Abraham asks if they 608 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 1: can come by to pick up some stuff he has 609 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,400 Speaker 1: of his ex girlfriend Tara's, and then take a tour, 610 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: and would. 611 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 2: You guys do with Justin's Just nothing really, because like 612 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,120 Speaker 2: I said, I made a phone call and that was 613 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 2: pretty much it. I mean, if there was a bathroom break, 614 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 2: that was it. 615 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,760 Speaker 1: So did anyone change clothes? 616 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 2: No? No, So we went over to Terror. Excuse me. 617 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 2: Actually we went to Broms first, who was living nearby, 618 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 2: and picked up some stuff that he had to drop 619 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,800 Speaker 2: off for Tara, and then we only stayed there for 620 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 2: about ten minutes or so, and then we had to 621 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 2: get Kelly home, so we drove and took Kelly back 622 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 2: to her house over in Kansas. 623 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: Byron says. At Kelly's, Justin calls Anastasia's house and gets 624 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: her sister Fran again. 625 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 2: She kind of read him the riot act about having 626 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 2: just let her get out of the car and not 627 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 2: trying to stop her. So he was I don't know. 628 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 2: He got off the phone and he was just like friends, 629 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 2: not abby, So we drove from Kelly's place, we drove 630 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 2: over to Tara's dropped off whatever it was. He had 631 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 2: a bag of stuff, I think a sweater and some stuff, 632 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 2: but dropped that off at her place. Stayed and talked 633 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 2: for a minute, but I was just ready to go 634 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 2: home and call it a day. The evening had not 635 00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 2: been fun and I just kind of, I don't know, 636 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 2: I was, I was done. So Justin dropped me off 637 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 2: at home from there and then I said, I'll talk 638 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:08,399 Speaker 2: to you later. 639 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,760 Speaker 1: And that was that. When you get home, who's there? 640 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 2: My mother and her boyfriend Napoleon, if I remember, they 641 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 2: were just watching TV in the living room, and I 642 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 2: just kind of came in and said hey, and you know, 643 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 2: Mom asked where I've been, what I've been doing, and 644 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know, I saw Justin and 645 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 2: Stasia and Kelly and it's been a night. And that 646 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 2: was pretty much, you know, the end of it. I 647 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,399 Speaker 2: was just I don't know, I didn't want. 648 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 1: This is news to me that Byron's mom's boyfriend Napoleon 649 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:43,720 Speaker 1: was there when he got home that night. Is this true? 650 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: I go back and check the trial transcripts to see 651 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: what Byron's mom, Evelyn said on the stand about that night. 652 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: She said she and Byron had quote idle chit chat 653 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,840 Speaker 1: like you hungry. You know, we're watching a movie. Do 654 00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 1: you want to join us? She says, we and us. 655 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,319 Speaker 1: I wonder if police ever spoke with Napoleon. Come to 656 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: think of it, I don't remember seeing any interviews done 657 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,600 Speaker 1: with Evelyn. I'm going to have to look into this anyway, 658 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: Byron says. After he speaks with his mom and Napoleon, 659 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 1: he goes to his room and gets online. Later he 660 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:24,279 Speaker 1: talks to Kelly, did you ever go back out that night? No? 661 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 1: Where's your car? 662 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,759 Speaker 2: My car was actually in the shop at that time. 663 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,279 Speaker 2: I had a I think a bad water pump was 664 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 2: the problem, but it had been sitting on the mechanics 665 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 2: lot for a while. They were waiting to I don't know, 666 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 2: waiting to get time to get it in a bay 667 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 2: and look at it. 668 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 1: Byron says his car was in the shop that night. 669 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,840 Speaker 1: He also at one point told Sergeant Kilgore it was 670 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 1: parked at his mom's house. I wonder which is true? Okay, 671 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,480 Speaker 1: Byron says. The next morning, his mother wakes him up 672 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,320 Speaker 1: to say he has a phone call. It's Justine. 673 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,440 Speaker 2: He wanted to know if I wanted to go get breakfast, 674 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 2: and I said, absolutely not. It is like nine thirty am, 675 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 2: and I am sleeping because I probably only got to 676 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 2: bed about three hours ago. So I'll talk to you later. 677 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 2: And he that was that, he mentioned, Oh I think 678 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 2: I asked him, Yes, I did. I asked him what 679 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,719 Speaker 2: he was doing awake at that hour, because that was 680 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 2: really weird for him too. And he just said he 681 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 2: had trouble sleeping. And I was like, okay, well I'll 682 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 2: call you when I wake up and maybe we'll go 683 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,800 Speaker 2: get lunch or dinner or whatever. 684 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,160 Speaker 1: To be clear, you said you had only gotten like 685 00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,160 Speaker 1: three hours of sleep. Why what were you up doing. 686 00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,959 Speaker 2: I was just on the computer. That was just my thing. 687 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 2: It probably was more than three hours, but yeah, I 688 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 2: mean I was always up late into the night. 689 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,440 Speaker 1: Did Justin say anything else? Did you hear anything in 690 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 1: his voice? 691 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 2: No? And that's the thing. I mean, it was just 692 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 2: the only thing that was weird about that call was 693 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 2: just that he was awake at nine thirty am. He 694 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:08,280 Speaker 2: sounded perfectly normal and fine. 695 00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: Byron says, he goes back to sleep. Later, he goes 696 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 1: to a friend's house. Then around five point thirty, Abraham 697 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 1: or Brahm pages Byron and shares what he saw in 698 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: the news that Anastasia had been killed. Byron tells Kelly. 699 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,800 Speaker 1: Kelly tries calling Justin but can't get a hold of him. Eventually, 700 00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 1: Byron says his mom, Evelyn, drives him and Kelly to Justin's, 701 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 1: but neither he nor his car are there. 702 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:41,440 Speaker 2: And then at some point, I don't even know what 703 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,760 Speaker 2: time it was. It just kind of in some ways, 704 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,959 Speaker 2: I think time just kind of stopped from the moment 705 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 2: of that first phone call with Bram and then everything 706 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 2: else after that was just like one moment and then 707 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 2: it ended, and then we just kind of broke down 708 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 2: because it was like, Okay, one of our best friends 709 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 2: is dead, the other best friend is missing. We have 710 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 2: no idea what the hell has happened. 711 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: The next day, Kelly and Byron speak with investigators. Are 712 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,839 Speaker 1: you at all concerned like you could be a suspect 713 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: since you were some of the last people who. 714 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 2: No that was? That never entered my mind, you know, 715 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 2: I just like I said, all I wanted. My focus 716 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 2: then was just like, Okay, so stage has gone, but 717 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 2: Justin's still out there somewhere. I just wanted to help. 718 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 2: It led to anything that was going to help them 719 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,759 Speaker 2: find Justin. That was really my biggest thing, I think 720 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,399 Speaker 2: is at that point, you know, wondering where he might 721 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 2: have gone to and what happened after he dropped me off, 722 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 2: and then starting to connect the dots, like, well he 723 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 2: called the next day and he had trouble sleeping. Why 724 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,600 Speaker 2: did he have trouble sleeping? What happened those you know, 725 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 2: eleven hours or whatever since I saw him last? 726 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: How did you? How did you learn that Justin had 727 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:08,879 Speaker 1: taken his life? 728 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 2: You know, it's strange. I don't even remember now. I 729 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 2: don't even remember how I got that news. I think 730 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 2: at a certain point it just turned into just a blur. 731 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 2: The whole the whole thing was just too much. I 732 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 2: you know, I had never lost anybody before, and you know, 733 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 2: so it was unprecedented emotional stuff, and I didn't know 734 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 2: how to deal with it, you know. And and Kelly, 735 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 2: for her part, you know, she was grieving and we 736 00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,160 Speaker 2: could lean on each other as far as that goes, 737 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:50,160 Speaker 2: but I think, you know, she kind of No two 738 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,720 Speaker 2: people are the same, you know, and no two people 739 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 2: grieve same. I do remember we went to the funerals 740 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:02,080 Speaker 2: a few days later. J Ston's was first and we 741 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 2: traveled down to Tulsa. It was ridiculous. It was just 742 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 2: this big, opulent thing and it was not at all 743 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 2: what he would have wanted, you know. Yeah, and then 744 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 2: Stasia's funeral came, I think about a week and week 745 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 2: and a half later, and it was different, Like Stasia's 746 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 2: funeral was much smaller and much more intimate. When we walked. 747 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,160 Speaker 1: Byron says he attends Anastasia's funeral with their mutual friend 748 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:38,400 Speaker 1: Anna Huntsecker. 749 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 2: When we walked in to the funeral home, there was 750 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 2: they were playing a Susie and the Banshee song. It 751 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 2: seemed weird. I was like, wow, they're actually playing stuff 752 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 2: that she would have liked. And they played some cure. 753 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:58,920 Speaker 1: And you know, it was open casket. 754 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 2: And I went with Anna and then I guess the 755 00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 2: last minute that she wanted to go up and say goodbye. 756 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:15,240 Speaker 2: So we walked up to the casket and we stood 757 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:22,880 Speaker 2: there and Anna she was like, she said, she looks 758 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:29,840 Speaker 2: like a doll, doesn't even look like her, And it didn't. 759 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 2: It was so surreal and fucked up. And I know 760 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 2: that later on I read a report and somebody else 761 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:50,439 Speaker 2: who was at the funeral was like, I guess they 762 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:55,719 Speaker 2: saw me standing up there and and even then had 763 00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:01,680 Speaker 2: suspicions about me and and made some comment like I 764 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 2: can't believe he's just standing there staring over And it 765 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 2: was years later when I read that, but but I 766 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:16,080 Speaker 2: was just like, this is like, this is exactly the 767 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 2: thing that I've lived my entire life with where people 768 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:25,440 Speaker 2: just go, oh, he's weird and then just assume the worst. 769 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 2: And I don't know, in that moment, it was just 770 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 2: it was it was just me and Anna and our 771 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 2: friend was gone, and we were like, this isn't even her. 772 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 2: It's like a charade, Like this whole thing is just 773 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 2: an elaborate theatrical performance, and it didn't seem real. 774 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 1: Were you hearing at the coffeehouse or houses. Were you 775 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 1: hearing some of the rumors that were circulating about what 776 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,359 Speaker 1: happened to Anastasia? 777 00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 2: I was not hearing them firsthand. I I kind of, well, 778 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 2: so let me take that back. Yes, I was hearing 779 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 2: that because even at the funeral there was so much 780 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 2: speculation about what could have happened, and so yeah, I 781 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,680 Speaker 2: mean there were no answers. We didn't have anything to 782 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 2: go on. It was just like Sayser's dad, gunshot to 783 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 2: the head cemetery. That was it. That was all we 784 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,800 Speaker 2: had to go on. And of course, you know, everything 785 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 2: else was just myth making. I shut down as much 786 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 2: of it as I could when I was around to 787 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:47,359 Speaker 2: do so, but a lot of it involved me. 788 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: At this point, and this is like, I don't know, 789 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 1: weeks after, do you have any idea, like if there 790 00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,360 Speaker 1: are any suspects or if anybody's been ruled out. 791 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:00,799 Speaker 3: No. 792 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 2: When I talked with I did make a few phone 793 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 2: calls to Sergeant Kilgore and just to see if there 794 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 2: was anything he could tell me, same as I called 795 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 2: Stagia's mom I think once anyway, and asked if she 796 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 2: knew anything, and I know that later actually that got 797 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 2: twisted around too. I had asked if there was any 798 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:30,839 Speaker 2: indication that Stasia had been sexually assaulted, and she said no, 799 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 2: But then later on she reported to the police that 800 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:37,799 Speaker 2: I told her that Stasia hadn't been sexually assaulted. I 801 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 2: found out. 802 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:43,439 Speaker 1: Byron Is referring to Anastasia's mother, Betsy Owens. In episode two, 803 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,800 Speaker 1: we played part of her interview with Sergeant Kilgore, where 804 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 1: she said Byron called her and told her that Anastasia 805 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:56,160 Speaker 1: had not been sexually assaulted. Betsy didn't understand why investigators 806 00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,400 Speaker 1: would share that information with Byron. 807 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,319 Speaker 2: Needless to say, we didn't have any information. They were 808 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 2: pretty tight lived about that stuff. 809 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: Almost two months to the day after Anastasia and Justin's deaths, 810 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 1: Byron experiences the loss of someone even closer to him, 811 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: his dad. 812 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,800 Speaker 2: He had been in New York. He was, as I 813 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 2: said earlier, he was an amateur bodybuilder, and he was 814 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 2: competing in a competition up there. While he was there, 815 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 2: I guess he got some cold like symptoms and didn't 816 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,319 Speaker 2: really think anything of it came back, and they kept 817 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 2: getting worse, and then it got to the point that 818 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:56,279 Speaker 2: apparently he couldn't even breathe. So he finally finally decided 819 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,760 Speaker 2: that he would go to the hospital and see maybe 820 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:02,280 Speaker 2: if something was wrong, and they diagnosed him with pneumonia. 821 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:07,479 Speaker 2: He had been living with HIV for six or seven 822 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,440 Speaker 2: years at that point. I guess he contracted it almost 823 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 2: It was really soon after my parents' divorce, and he 824 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:20,920 Speaker 2: was taking medication for it, and so much medication. But 825 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 2: I hadn't talked with him for a few days, and 826 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:29,760 Speaker 2: then I got a call from my aunt who said 827 00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 2: he was in the hospital and that he was they 828 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,319 Speaker 2: had to intubate him, so he was unconscious. He had 829 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:37,360 Speaker 2: a tube down his throat. 830 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:43,040 Speaker 1: When Byron, Kelly Abraham, and another friend get to the hospital. 831 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,440 Speaker 2: And said that he was in an isolation room and 832 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 2: we could only see him under very limited conditions and 833 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 2: for very short periods of time. It was weird. He 834 00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,080 Speaker 2: was just lying there with this machine that was breathing 835 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 2: for him in this room all by himself, and his 836 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,759 Speaker 2: skin was all puffy because he was retaining fluids, and 837 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:15,279 Speaker 2: it just it was it was almost like what had 838 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:19,839 Speaker 2: happened with Stasia all over because he was just there 839 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 2: and he wasn't moving, and it didn't look like him. 840 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 2: He had great aeros A few. 841 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,359 Speaker 1: Days later, Byron's grandmother asks him to be the one 842 00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,480 Speaker 1: to make the decision to take his dad off life support. 843 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:37,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think he. I think he died that night, 844 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,680 Speaker 2: like three am or something, one day before his fiftieth 845 00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 2: birthday Christmas Eve. I completely shut down at that point. 846 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 2: He was an amazing guy and yeah, and he gave 847 00:52:54,640 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 2: me so much his birthday was Christmas Day, and so 848 00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 2: this was on Christmas Eve, and my family asks like, oh, 849 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 2: do you want to come to the family Christmas gathering 850 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:14,759 Speaker 2: and take his presence? And I did not, but I 851 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:19,960 Speaker 2: went and there was some there was some stuff that 852 00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:24,319 Speaker 2: happened while I was there. I literally overheard someone say 853 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 2: that I was a terrible son. Then I didn't go 854 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,440 Speaker 2: and sit in the waiting room while my dad was 855 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 2: in the hospital, as though as though that in any 856 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,799 Speaker 2: way mattered. I thought about that in a while. You know, 857 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 2: people grieve in different ways, as I said, and to 858 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 2: criticize somebody for you know, the way that they're processing 859 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 2: a situation is just insane to me. I mean, I've 860 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 2: said this exact same thing about you know, how my 861 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,480 Speaker 2: trial went, you know, and you're going to pass judgment 862 00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:08,000 Speaker 2: and say, oh, well he didn't he wasn't animated enough 863 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 2: for oh he was too cold. If somebody wants to 864 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 2: blame you for Zeth, it's just there's nothing you can 865 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:14,920 Speaker 2: do about it. They're going to find a way to 866 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,719 Speaker 2: do it regardless. So I don't know, I don't want 867 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 2: to necessarily draw that parallel there, but it seems natural. 868 00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:29,520 Speaker 1: At the same time, This isn't the greatest place to 869 00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: stop the interview, but that's when I'm told our four 870 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:36,280 Speaker 1: hours are up. I return the following day to continue 871 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: the conversation. This time we're in a glass enclosed area 872 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:46,279 Speaker 1: within the visitor's room. Attorney Nicole Gordon and investigator Quinn 873 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,720 Speaker 1: O'Brien aren't there. They were needed back in Kansas City. 874 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,760 Speaker 1: So today it's just me and Byron. 875 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, it was. It was a lot yesterday. 876 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 2: That was actually the first time that I have cried 877 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 2: in about twenty three years, and so it was it 878 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 2: was a big deal. Even when I was convicted, like 879 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,840 Speaker 2: sentenced and all of that, I just went numb that 880 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 2: whole time. And so even then, like I felt like, 881 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 2: I remember, I wanted to cry. I felt like that's 882 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,920 Speaker 2: what a person is supposed to do, and I just 883 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,320 Speaker 2: it just was in there, but I couldn't. I couldn't 884 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 2: muster the I don't know, I couldn't just let it out. 885 00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 1: We then move on in the timeline. I asked what 886 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,120 Speaker 1: life looked like in early nineteen ninety eight, soon after 887 00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: Byron's dad passed away, Byron says he was bereft. He 888 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,520 Speaker 1: moved into his dad's house, which was full of memories 889 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 1: from his childhood. 890 00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 2: And that was around the time when I needed some 891 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,880 Speaker 2: I had my wisdom teeth pulled and they prescribed some 892 00:55:56,040 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 2: pain meds and those felt pretty okay, so or more specifically, 893 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:06,319 Speaker 2: they helped me not feel bad. And so it wasn't 894 00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,800 Speaker 2: even that it felt good, It was just the absence 895 00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:13,040 Speaker 2: of feeling, which was a big plus, because I was 896 00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 2: just feeling too much. So so, like I said, for 897 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:22,399 Speaker 2: a period of a few months, I kind of, you know, 898 00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,400 Speaker 2: I kind of fell down in that particular hole for 899 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 2: a while. And during that time, I think that, you know, 900 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:33,840 Speaker 2: Kelly felt that I was sort of distant, that I 901 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 2: was drifting away, and I think she was bored. I 902 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:40,200 Speaker 2: know she was, actually because she told me. But that 903 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,440 Speaker 2: was Kelly's thing, is she was always about excitement and 904 00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:50,240 Speaker 2: really having fun and not being too awfully serious about 905 00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:55,840 Speaker 2: anything and looking for you know, however she could whatever 906 00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,759 Speaker 2: way she didn't like, alter her mind, I guess, and 907 00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:03,920 Speaker 2: get out out of reality that way. She was drinking 908 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:08,279 Speaker 2: a lot more around that time. She had always, I mean, 909 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,840 Speaker 2: since I met her, she had always liked to drink. 910 00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,880 Speaker 2: But you know, I think too she was spending a 911 00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 2: lot more time with some other friends that she had. 912 00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,520 Speaker 2: And I don't blame her, you know, I mean, who 913 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:25,280 Speaker 2: would want to be around some super depressive, you know, 914 00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:28,280 Speaker 2: boyfriend that you know, never wanted to go anywhere and 915 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,960 Speaker 2: never wanted to do anything and half the time was 916 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 2: just sort of half awake. But yeah, so that was 917 00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 2: sort of I think the beginning of the end, and 918 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,200 Speaker 2: I came out of it a little bit, and I 919 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,920 Speaker 2: think we were more out of habit than anything. You know, 920 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,800 Speaker 2: we continue to see each other. 921 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 1: Would she want to talk about Anastasia and justin. 922 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,560 Speaker 2: No, that didn't really come up except maybe a couple 923 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 2: of times, and I was just like, I just didn't 924 00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 2: want to talk about it. You know, I was not 925 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,080 Speaker 2: in a place where I was avoiding in my own way, 926 00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 2: and you know, I was still seeing a counselor at 927 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:11,960 Speaker 2: that point and that was really helpful. But yeah, I 928 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 2: just really I didn't want to really talk about anything. 929 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:17,680 Speaker 2: I didn't want to talk about my dad. I didn't 930 00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 2: want to talk about them. 931 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:22,200 Speaker 1: August twenty second of nineteen ninety eight, Kelly meets with 932 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 1: kill Gore. Okay, she tells kil Gore that you two 933 00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 1: had been fighting a lot, you've been acting weird and 934 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 1: that you may know more than what you're saying. She thinks, 935 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 1: based on a lot of rumors and how you were acting, 936 00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:42,400 Speaker 1: maybe you justin Anaesthetia did have a suicide pact, or 937 00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:46,120 Speaker 1: maybe you and Justin watched Anasasia kill herself then freaked out. 938 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: She says, quote, I don't really think it. I don't 939 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 1: think it was really a murder situation. I think one 940 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:55,920 Speaker 1: of them wanted to commit suicide, they couldn't do it, 941 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 1: they helped each other or something like that. What do 942 00:58:58,920 --> 00:58:59,439 Speaker 1: you make of. 943 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,800 Speaker 2: This as far as Yeah, as far as fighting a lot, 944 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:06,800 Speaker 2: I don't think that was the case. I think that 945 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,960 Speaker 2: we were having some disagreements because I know that some 946 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,840 Speaker 2: of the people that she was hanging out with I 947 00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 2: did not like, mostly because they were drug users, and 948 00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,560 Speaker 2: you know, I was very much against that. Other than that, yeah, 949 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't say that other than just kind 950 00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:26,800 Speaker 2: of a distance, that we had any real problems as 951 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 2: far as her going to kill Gore, I mean, yeah, 952 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:34,840 Speaker 2: like all of that was. She never gave me any 953 00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 2: indication that she had any suspicions that she felt or 954 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 2: thought that way any of that. So I was completely 955 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:43,920 Speaker 2: in the dark. 956 00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 1: Byron never answers my question about whether or not there 957 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 1: was a suicide pact. A few months after Kelly speaks 958 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 1: with kil Gore. On December ninth, nineteen ninety eight, by 959 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Bran's probation from the stealing charge is revoked. This is 960 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: when he broke into his aunt's house to steal the 961 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 1: computer monitor. It's revoked for missing meetings with his probation 962 01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:14,440 Speaker 1: officer and failing to report a change of residents. He 963 01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 1: is sentenced to six months in the Clay County Jail, 964 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 1: but they end up giving him five years probation. Byron 965 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 1: claims the missed appointments were a mix up with a 966 01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: probation officer who didn't like him. Supposedly, the PO changed 967 01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:34,320 Speaker 1: Byron's meetings from monthly to weekly, unbeknownst to Byron. Also 968 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 1: in December of nineteen ninety eight, Byron and Kelly call 969 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 1: it quits. Kelly supposedly breaks up with Byron for good, 970 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:46,440 Speaker 1: but then just a few weeks later, on January twenty ninth, 971 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety nine, Byron says he gets a call from 972 01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: Kelly who wants to see. 973 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 2: Him, you know, and this time I put my foot 974 01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,840 Speaker 2: down and I was like, absolutely not, and she didn't 975 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:00,200 Speaker 2: want to get off the phones, so I hung up 976 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 2: on her. I don't know, maybe who knows, maybe twenty 977 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 2: thirty minutes after I'd gotten off the phone with her, 978 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 2: and she had tried to call back several times. But 979 01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:12,400 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, there was a knock at my 980 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:15,919 Speaker 2: door and I went to open it and it's two 981 01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:21,320 Speaker 2: CACPD officers and I'm like, what can I do for you? 982 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 2: And they just sort of push past me and they well, 983 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:27,080 Speaker 2: they said are you Byron Case? And I said yes, 984 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,240 Speaker 2: and they just pushed past me and they kind of 985 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:35,920 Speaker 2: do a cursory look around the area and explained that 986 01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 2: they were looking for any weapons. They asked if I 987 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 2: had a you know, knives or guns in the house, 988 01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,360 Speaker 2: and I was like, kitchen drawers. I mean, what do 989 01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:42,720 Speaker 2: you want? 990 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:45,680 Speaker 1: Are you thinking at this point has anything to do 991 01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:46,680 Speaker 1: with the investigation? 992 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 2: I had no idea what this was about. It was 993 01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 2: just it was so out of the blue. No, I 994 01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 2: never had any inkling that this was anything to do 995 01:01:55,800 --> 01:02:00,880 Speaker 2: with the investigation. It was just like, what the hell? 996 01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,520 Speaker 2: And then one of the officers said, well, we got 997 01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 2: a report that from someone who said she was your girlfriend, 998 01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:09,960 Speaker 2: said she had just talked on you and talked to 999 01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 2: you on the phone and that you were suicidal, that 1000 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,880 Speaker 2: you were threatening to kill yourself. And I was like, no, 1001 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 2: that's absurd, you know. But they said, well, we have 1002 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:21,200 Speaker 2: to take you in for observation, and so they put 1003 01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:26,920 Speaker 2: me in handcuffs. I was very concerned and asked them 1004 01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:28,960 Speaker 2: if they would leave some food for my cat, you know, 1005 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:30,560 Speaker 2: I was. I was worried about her. 1006 01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 1: And Byron says they take him to Western Missouri Medical 1007 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,720 Speaker 1: Health Center and evaluate him for forty seven. 1008 01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:43,160 Speaker 2: Hours basically, and the whole way through I told them 1009 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:46,720 Speaker 2: I am not suicidal. I am fine. Yeah, it was 1010 01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:52,000 Speaker 2: just it was a nightmare. And then and then they 1011 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 2: let me out. They're like, well, you're not suicidal. A done. 1012 01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 1: Although Kelly testified that Byron did threatened to kill himself 1013 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,880 Speaker 1: that day, Byron says after he was released from the 1014 01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 1: hospital and he confronted Kelly about it, she had something 1015 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:10,680 Speaker 1: very different to say. 1016 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,600 Speaker 2: She basically didn't seem particularly concerned about it and was 1017 01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,040 Speaker 2: sort of like, well, you shouldn't have hung up on me. 1018 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 2: And that was that. 1019 01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:35,760 Speaker 1: Early to mid nineteen ninety nine is busy for Byron. 1020 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:39,520 Speaker 1: He says he and Kelly break up. Police take him 1021 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 1: in on a forty seven hour mental healthhold, and he 1022 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,840 Speaker 1: gets a new attorney who negotiates with prosecutors to get 1023 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 1: him limited immunity in exchange for him telling them what 1024 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 1: he knows about the night Anastasia was. 1025 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,439 Speaker 2: Killed by immunity. Where as long as I went in 1026 01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 2: and gave a statement, and as long as nothing that 1027 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:03,200 Speaker 2: I said was determined to be untruthful, that you know, 1028 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 2: they wouldn't use anything against me. And I was satisfied 1029 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:06,960 Speaker 2: with that, and he was satisfied with that. 1030 01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 3: You know. 1031 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 2: My concern I think I had just I had been 1032 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,200 Speaker 2: listening to my friends, you know, just spin all of 1033 01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 2: these horror stories about oh, well, you know, they'll frame 1034 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,600 Speaker 2: they'll frame somebody if they if they haven't found somebody yet, 1035 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 2: they're just looking to close the case, and you know, 1036 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:25,800 Speaker 2: and so I had it in my head like, well, 1037 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:27,800 Speaker 2: you know, maybe I should be careful. And I think 1038 01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,200 Speaker 2: that was really the first time when I started to 1039 01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 2: feel a little uncomfortable about the whole thing, like that 1040 01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:38,200 Speaker 2: maybe I was going to you know, that I was 1041 01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:42,200 Speaker 2: going to be the focus of some kind of you know, 1042 01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,680 Speaker 2: attention in the investigation. 1043 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 1: In any case. On July twenty ninth, nineteen ninety nine, 1044 01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:51,600 Speaker 1: Byron sits down for his second interview with Sergeant Kilgore 1045 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:56,240 Speaker 1: since Anastasia's death almost two years earlier. Byron gives the 1046 01:04:56,280 --> 01:05:00,000 Speaker 1: same basic story he did back on October twenty five, 1047 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven, so he's free to go. Byron says, 1048 01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,080 Speaker 1: after that, things seem to turn around for him. He 1049 01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 1: finds a new group of friends, he gets a job 1050 01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: at a hotel. 1051 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:15,479 Speaker 2: There was a period of time in that year when 1052 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:22,280 Speaker 2: I think I finally was coming into my own to 1053 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:27,720 Speaker 2: some extent. At that point, I was celibate by choice, 1054 01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 2: and I was kind of going through this period of 1055 01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 2: what I felt like was kind of being a more 1056 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 2: purposeful and centered me, and I had moved away from 1057 01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,280 Speaker 2: that kind of that fuck the world attitude that I 1058 01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 2: mentioned earlier. 1059 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,880 Speaker 1: But Byron says, as much as he's trying to move 1060 01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,840 Speaker 1: on with his life, someone from his past keeps popping 1061 01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:55,720 Speaker 1: up Kelly, and he admits to feeling sorry for her. 1062 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 2: No matter what Kelly had done, I was always I 1063 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:04,200 Speaker 2: think she's still a person, you know, she still deserves 1064 01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:08,920 Speaker 2: some basic dignity, even if she's done this to herself. 1065 01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 2: She said she was living in crackhouses, like she had 1066 01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,800 Speaker 2: not been taking care of herself at all. And she 1067 01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 2: would say, you know, she would tell me like that 1068 01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,040 Speaker 2: she had showered in a week, and you know, she 1069 01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:21,840 Speaker 2: hadn't eaten anything. Sometimes I would give her money if 1070 01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 2: she needed like some you know, some spare cash or whatever. 1071 01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 2: Sometimes she just wanted to come over and sleep, so 1072 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,080 Speaker 2: I let her sleep on the couch and you know, 1073 01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:33,600 Speaker 2: and then at some point she'd leave. 1074 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:38,680 Speaker 1: Then one day, Byron says, Kelly comes over with a friend. 1075 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 1: He tells her that he's moving to Saint Louis, about 1076 01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:45,040 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty miles away. Byron says, Kelly is 1077 01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:50,120 Speaker 1: not happy about this. Before leaving town, Byron asks people 1078 01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,920 Speaker 1: not to give Kelly his forwarding information. 1079 01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:57,080 Speaker 2: So, yeah, I mean I was like full on, like 1080 01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,960 Speaker 2: witness protection program with her, Like I do not want to. 1081 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:03,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to knowing where I am. I don't 1082 01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:07,720 Speaker 2: want to knowing like what I'm doing nothing, Byron says. 1083 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,800 Speaker 1: He moves to Saint Louis on September thirteenth, two thousand 1084 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 1: and he gets a job working at a hotel as 1085 01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: a desk clerk. He starts dating a new girl. Then 1086 01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:20,120 Speaker 1: sometime around March two thousand and one, Byron moves back 1087 01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:23,080 Speaker 1: to Kansas City and in with his mom and her 1088 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:28,960 Speaker 1: now husband, Napoleon. Then around eleven PM on June fifth, 1089 01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,120 Speaker 1: the phone rings. 1090 01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 2: I had been sick that week. I was vomiting and 1091 01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 2: I had a fever and just feeling very delirious, and 1092 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,760 Speaker 2: just like I said, lightheaded and dizzy. 1093 01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:50,480 Speaker 1: It's Kelly and this recorded call will become the tacit 1094 01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:52,880 Speaker 1: a mission used against him at. 1095 01:07:52,760 --> 01:08:00,040 Speaker 2: Trial and then whatever the hell we talked about. And 1096 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 2: I know now, but in that moment, I know that 1097 01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 2: I wasn't really completely following the thread. So I just 1098 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,480 Speaker 2: really did not want to be speaking to her or 1099 01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:15,000 Speaker 2: anybody for that matter, but particularly not her, And I 1100 01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:18,840 Speaker 2: was just I do remember having a distinct impression of like, ah, fu, 1101 01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:19,439 Speaker 2: here you're going. 1102 01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:23,720 Speaker 1: Yet she said something like why did you feel the 1103 01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:26,040 Speaker 1: need to kill her? Why did you have to kill her? 1104 01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,920 Speaker 1: And what do you think in that moment when you 1105 01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:30,640 Speaker 1: hear that question from her? 1106 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:33,679 Speaker 2: I don't remember thinking anything, but. 1107 01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:37,040 Speaker 1: One would say, like somebody listening to this might be like, 1108 01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:39,920 Speaker 1: that's crazy. I don't care how sick I am. If 1109 01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,800 Speaker 1: someone asks me why I had to kill someone, I 1110 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,720 Speaker 1: would say, what are you talking about? I didn't do that. 1111 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:51,760 Speaker 2: What do you say to that, Well, I would say 1112 01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:58,840 Speaker 2: that person doesn't really understand the background of what was 1113 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,600 Speaker 2: going on with Kelly and me, the fact that my 1114 01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:05,280 Speaker 2: strategy with her was always basically just avoid, to push away, 1115 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,360 Speaker 2: ignore whatever I had heard. 1116 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,080 Speaker 1: Byron says a few days later, he's arrested while lying 1117 01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:20,920 Speaker 1: in bed, I read that swat comes through the front 1118 01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,080 Speaker 1: door and you tried to barricade yourself in the bedroom. 1119 01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 2: Now that's absolute little shit. I remember reading that though, 1120 01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:32,680 Speaker 2: and going what, No, that did not happen. No, I 1121 01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:36,439 Speaker 2: was absolutely still in bed when they came through that door, 1122 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:39,800 Speaker 2: and that was what woke me up. Was just like 1123 01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:45,080 Speaker 2: a shot out of the blue. It was horrifying. 1124 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:51,000 Speaker 1: That's actually why would Byron deny this? Yes, there's always 1125 01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:54,640 Speaker 1: a chance the report isn't true, But why would the 1126 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:58,759 Speaker 1: arresting officer make up this story, write a detailed report 1127 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:02,439 Speaker 1: about it, and testify to it at trial. It gives 1128 01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:05,679 Speaker 1: me pause. If Byron is not being truthful about this, 1129 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:10,559 Speaker 1: then what else could he be lying about? What is 1130 01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:13,040 Speaker 1: going through you when you realize that you have been 1131 01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:15,920 Speaker 1: arrested for the murder of Anna Station. 1132 01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:21,920 Speaker 2: I was in shock, and then I think there was 1133 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:30,240 Speaker 2: like this sort of grim understanding. It was almost like, well, 1134 01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:34,479 Speaker 2: here it is. This is this is what all of 1135 01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:37,280 Speaker 2: this has come to, Like all of the interviews and 1136 01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 2: all the suspicion and all the rumors and all the 1137 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:42,639 Speaker 2: bullshit that I've had to deal with over all these years, 1138 01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:45,680 Speaker 2: and now here it is, and this is happening, and 1139 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:46,400 Speaker 2: it's finally. 1140 01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:49,840 Speaker 1: When Byron's mom, Evelyn, visits him at the Jackson County jail, 1141 01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:52,160 Speaker 1: she asks him if he did. 1142 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:56,720 Speaker 2: It, and I remember just going like, really, you're going 1143 01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 2: to ask me that, you know? I mean, I saw 1144 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:03,439 Speaker 2: her that I was, I was around her, I lived 1145 01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,719 Speaker 2: with her during that period. I didn't want a gun, 1146 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:11,840 Speaker 2: you know, I never had. She she would have known 1147 01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:17,559 Speaker 2: if I had any kind of murderous tendencies or you 1148 01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:21,479 Speaker 2: know whatever. I mean. Now, of course I didn't, And 1149 01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:25,880 Speaker 2: what the hell I mean if you don't believe me, 1150 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:28,200 Speaker 2: like then I'm fucked. 1151 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,160 Speaker 1: Byron remains in jail for almost a year until he 1152 01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:38,040 Speaker 1: goes to trial. As you sat there watching Kelly testify, 1153 01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 1: first of all, did she look at you? No? 1154 01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:44,080 Speaker 2: Not really, I think she glanced in my direction a 1155 01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:44,880 Speaker 2: few times. 1156 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:52,960 Speaker 1: What was it like sitting there hearing her eyewitness testimony 1157 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:55,600 Speaker 1: to you killing Anastasia? 1158 01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:59,559 Speaker 2: I was just kind of in awe. I think of 1159 01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 2: her months. Maybe part of me kind of halfway expected 1160 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,519 Speaker 2: that she would change tack and just be like, all right, look, guys, 1161 01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,920 Speaker 2: I can't do it anymore. This is he didn't do it. 1162 01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:15,080 Speaker 2: I'm it's bullshit. I made it up. I'm sorry she 1163 01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:15,840 Speaker 2: didn't do that. 1164 01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:19,200 Speaker 1: Why did you choose to take the stand in your 1165 01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:19,759 Speaker 1: own defense? 1166 01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,640 Speaker 2: I think it was really I had no choice but to, 1167 01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:30,080 Speaker 2: because who was going to say what actually happened. Justin 1168 01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:33,599 Speaker 2: was there that night. He couldn't take the stand. Kelly 1169 01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:36,880 Speaker 2: obviously wasn't going to tell the truth, and nobody else 1170 01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:41,040 Speaker 2: could say, you know from beginning to end what had 1171 01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:41,639 Speaker 2: taken place. 1172 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,840 Speaker 1: One of the things she said was that you had 1173 01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:50,120 Speaker 1: said at one point, I wouldn't know what it's like 1174 01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:51,680 Speaker 1: to see someone die, or I want to know what 1175 01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:53,719 Speaker 1: it's like to kill someone. Have you ever said anything 1176 01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 1: like that? 1177 01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,559 Speaker 2: No? No, absolutely not. 1178 01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:57,840 Speaker 1: Did you ever own a gun? 1179 01:12:58,080 --> 01:12:58,240 Speaker 2: No? 1180 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,160 Speaker 1: Did your dad ever own a gun? No? Did he 1181 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:02,320 Speaker 1: ever display a gun? 1182 01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:02,679 Speaker 2: No? 1183 01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:06,600 Speaker 1: Were you and Justin ever romantically involved. 1184 01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:10,360 Speaker 2: No, we were not. There was never No, there was 1185 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:13,280 Speaker 2: never anything even remotely close to that with Justin and me. 1186 01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,000 Speaker 1: Did you Kelly and Justin make up the story about 1187 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:19,280 Speaker 1: Anastasia getting out of the car. 1188 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:20,280 Speaker 2: No? 1189 01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:25,120 Speaker 1: Did you coach Kelly on what to say during that 1190 01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:26,599 Speaker 1: first interview with kil Gore? 1191 01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:28,320 Speaker 2: Oh no? 1192 01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:28,439 Speaker 3: No. 1193 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:34,280 Speaker 1: Did you take Kelly in and around Independence so that 1194 01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,519 Speaker 1: when she went out with kil Gore she could help 1195 01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,680 Speaker 1: tell where Anastasia got out of the car and so on? 1196 01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:43,840 Speaker 2: No, we just as an adenta to that. Though we 1197 01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 2: did go out just not to retrace any route or anything, 1198 01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:51,599 Speaker 2: but we had after talking with a friend of ours 1199 01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:56,320 Speaker 2: who told us that she had been out to Lincoln Cemetery. 1200 01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:01,760 Speaker 2: We were We went out there and wanted to see 1201 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:03,519 Speaker 2: it because we heard there was like a little memorial 1202 01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,600 Speaker 2: or something. So we did go out there, but it 1203 01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:06,639 Speaker 2: was not for that purpose. 1204 01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 1: Did you kill Anastasia Whippelsfugen? 1205 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 2: I definitely did not. 1206 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,040 Speaker 1: Are you capable of murder? 1207 01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:15,600 Speaker 2: I definitely am not. 1208 01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:19,719 Speaker 1: It was justin capable of murder? 1209 01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:28,000 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I No, I don't think so 1210 01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:29,559 Speaker 2: like that. 1211 01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:33,719 Speaker 1: You know, I'm fully aware that Byron would probably answer 1212 01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:37,519 Speaker 1: these questions the same way, whether he's guilty or innocent, 1213 01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,200 Speaker 1: like when I asked him, did you kill Anastasia? If 1214 01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:43,080 Speaker 1: he's guilty, he's not going to all of a sudden 1215 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,880 Speaker 1: say yes, I did it, right. I think I asked 1216 01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:48,839 Speaker 1: these questions because I wanted to see how he looked, 1217 01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:53,040 Speaker 1: how he sounded, how he seemed when he answered them. 1218 01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:57,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to post video clips of this exchange on Instagram. 1219 01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:02,599 Speaker 1: What do you think is Byron convincing or not? Like that? 1220 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:06,400 Speaker 1: Can you imagine why people might look at Kelly and say, well, 1221 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,679 Speaker 1: of course she went deep and dark into her drug addiction. 1222 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:11,120 Speaker 1: She witnessed a murder. 1223 01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:16,640 Speaker 2: So to say that witnessing a murderer was the catalyst 1224 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:21,040 Speaker 2: for her to descend into hard drug use, I'm calling 1225 01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,600 Speaker 2: bullshit because I know for a fact that she was 1226 01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:27,320 Speaker 2: using hard drugs, and maybe not as regularly, but that 1227 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:32,960 Speaker 2: she had at least and long before that, and again 1228 01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:38,800 Speaker 2: I think even before she met me. So right, it 1229 01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:41,200 Speaker 2: is a convenient excuse, though, Yeah, what do. 1230 01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:43,439 Speaker 1: You say to the people out there who think you 1231 01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:44,960 Speaker 1: are murderer? 1232 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:51,480 Speaker 2: I think that it is very easy because I lived 1233 01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:57,040 Speaker 2: I lived a lifestyle and put forth a persona that 1234 01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:05,519 Speaker 2: was easily detestable. I think that was obnoxious and rude 1235 01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:10,840 Speaker 2: and seemed not to take anybody's feelings at all into account. 1236 01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:14,040 Speaker 2: And I think that a person who does that sort 1237 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 2: of thing can easily be seen as being heartless and 1238 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:24,719 Speaker 2: maybe even capable of doing unspeakable things. I a long 1239 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 2: time ago accepted that people aren't going to like me, 1240 01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:34,600 Speaker 2: and people are going to think some terrible things about me, 1241 01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 2: and it isn't my job to make them think otherwise. 1242 01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:47,280 Speaker 2: It's not my job to go out of my way 1243 01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:52,000 Speaker 2: to try and convince anyone. 1244 01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:58,479 Speaker 1: Byron might not think it's his job to convince anyone 1245 01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:02,360 Speaker 1: he's innocent, but his new legal team is working overtime 1246 01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:03,599 Speaker 1: to do just that. 1247 01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:08,200 Speaker 3: Byron's in prison because people made up their minds without 1248 01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:12,799 Speaker 3: looking at the evidence. But I'm now one hundred percent 1249 01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:16,639 Speaker 3: certain that Byron did not do this, didn't have anything 1250 01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:19,439 Speaker 3: to do with it, and did not get a fair 1251 01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:23,200 Speaker 3: trial and has languished in prison for close to twenty 1252 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 3: five years for something he didn't do. 1253 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:32,680 Speaker 1: Next time, on the real killer. 1254 01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 3: There is no physical evidence tying byron case to the 1255 01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:41,320 Speaker 3: murder or the death of Anastasia Whippolsfugen. 1256 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:45,040 Speaker 1: Will A new bombshell in the case change Byron's Fate. 1257 01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:50,400 Speaker 3: I pulled up the audio and I was just listening along, 1258 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:54,160 Speaker 3: and I was like, wait, what it was. It was 1259 01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:55,639 Speaker 3: like a lightning bolt or something. 1260 01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:56,200 Speaker 2: It was great. 1261 01:17:56,240 --> 01:18:04,600 Speaker 3: It was crazy. 1262 01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:09,160 Speaker 1: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are solely 1263 01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:14,240 Speaker 1: those of the individuals participating in the podcast. If you, 1264 01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:18,760 Speaker 1: or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, 1265 01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:23,360 Speaker 1: please no help is available. Call or text nine to 1266 01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:26,879 Speaker 1: eight eight, or chat online at the Suicide and Crisis 1267 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:32,280 Speaker 1: Lifelines website at nine eight eight lifeline dot org. 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