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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, what's up y'all? Welcome back to the show.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited today. This is a very special Maybe

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Speaker 1: I've said it before, but I think this might be

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Speaker 1: our specialist episode. They just get more and more special

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Speaker 1: every time we can improve, stop getting special. Thank you

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Speaker 1: all for tuning in. We're talking today with two of

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Speaker 1: our brand new best friends. Uh from the I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio podcast Tossed Popcorn. We have Leanna and Sienna here today. Hello, hello,

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Speaker 1: new best friends. Thank you for joining us. So honored

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Speaker 1: time here. Oh yeah, we love We love expanding our

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Speaker 1: little romantic circle over here. We like to invite new

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Speaker 1: people and keep it fresh. You know what I meant

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Speaker 1: interesting sound you know? Um? Will you tell us a

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Speaker 1: little about your show and yourselves? That is I'm just

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Speaker 1: throwing this at you like I was born and I

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Speaker 1: was born to we both we are two women, both

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Speaker 1: were birth. We have so much in comment. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're very We have a movie podcast where we are

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Speaker 1: going down the A f I S one hundred Greatest

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Speaker 1: American Movies of all Time, the tant Anniversary edition. Um,

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Speaker 1: and we both don't really get a lot of movies,

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Speaker 1: nor have we enjoyed a lot before doing this, so

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Speaker 1: we thought, we're going to go through all the classics,

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Speaker 1: see what we think, see what we get from them

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Speaker 1: as people who don't really get the medium. Yes, we're

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Speaker 1: taking them off their pedestal and given them a blunt

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Speaker 1: and honest Look. I love Marvel films just by the way,

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Speaker 1: that's us. I like movies with good colors and things,

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Speaker 1: so not the blue tone or whatever of Marvel. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what marble colors are, but mustard colors now,

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Speaker 1: I also love them. Muppets. Yeah, between the two of you,

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Speaker 1: these are those are pretty much our two favorit kinds

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Speaker 1: of movies. So beautiful. I'll also say this is the

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Speaker 1: second recording in two hours in which Sianna has mentioned Muppets.

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Speaker 1: She's a big Muppets should be mentioned often. Guilty, I

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Speaker 1: can't talk about them too much. But no more Muppets

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Speaker 1: please now, more than ever, Yes, more than ever. Read Muppets.

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Speaker 1: That's actually true, because they're so pure and friendly and

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Speaker 1: wholesome and kind. We could use more of that. And

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Speaker 1: flustered and hilarious and frustrated. Ermit frustration as someone who

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Speaker 1: kermits flustered backstage, like the challenge just keeping his ship

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Speaker 1: together is definitely something I relate to. Yes, y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: have some theater background too, isn't that right? Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, I was a theater major in college

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Speaker 1: and then do comedy stuff here in l A. Awesome.

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Speaker 1: We met on our improv team, and I hear in

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Speaker 1: That's a very good insight into dating in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: How much Nightmare did well. It is so awesome to

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Speaker 1: have you guys on Ridiculous Romance. I think we came

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Speaker 1: up with a really good crossover type episode for our

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Speaker 1: two podcasts um where we're going to talk about the

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Speaker 1: real story behind the Adam Sandler Drew Barrymore hit movie.

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Speaker 1: We can go on a hit Yeah, sure, yeah, hit

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Speaker 1: movie something fifty first dates. Yeah, it hit somebody, somebody

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Speaker 1: loved you know somebody. I heard somebody got hit in

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Speaker 1: Schneider getting hit by a bat alright, Leanna has Leona

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Speaker 1: So this can slide right in today. If I lose this, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it would change the tone. It would change the tone. Well,

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Speaker 1: I know that everyone's been waiting for someone to do it.

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Speaker 1: A nice hour long review of the movie fifty first Dates. Um,

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Speaker 1: and that's the best place to do it. Yeah, everybody's

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Speaker 1: saying it. It's trending. It's constantly trending, pinged about it

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Speaker 1: every day. When I saw your email that you were

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Speaker 1: Is this the right one to use it on? I

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Speaker 1: It's time. Well, we found this woman, Michelle Philip Potts

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Speaker 1: Fifty First States. And it must be said that fifty

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Speaker 1: Any neuropsychologist would tell you that the movie is an

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Speaker 1: the theme song? Yeah, let's do it all right, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Hey the French, come listen. Well, Eli and Diana got

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Speaker 1: some stories to tell. There's no match making a romantic

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Speaker 1: So Michelle Philpotts is a year old woman in the

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Speaker 1: We dug up some information about this because we like

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Speaker 1: So some memories are stored in a different part of

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00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: that he's gotten no business. There's no place of origin

424
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: for that accent. It is from all over the world. Yeah, yeah,

425
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: that's uncomfortable. It was weird. And then he had these

426
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: pineapple like leaves or banana leaves, and he was doing

427
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: some weird dance that I feel like he shouldn't be

428
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: allowed to do right. Yeah, I don't know. In every

429
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: two thousan four film there's a character who now watching it,

430
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I don't think this should be allowed,

431
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:43,959
Speaker 1: like the whole person. Yeah, today sixty of those characters

432
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: are played by Rob Schneider. Yeah, he seems to really

433
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: take to those roles. Yeah. I wonder what that says anything.

434
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: Um So Yeah, so she she does end up kind

435
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: of falling for him. Day after day. He decides to

436
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: make her a video help her every morning wake up

437
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 1: and watch it and understand what has happened to her

438
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 1: her life catch up. Yeah, but she doesn't remember. Some

439
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: days she reacts well to it. Others she reacts less

440
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: well because every day she learns that a year of

441
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: her life has gone by and she doesn't know any

442
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: of it. Um And they end up. It works out.

443
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 1: It's a rom com. It works out, it works out,

444
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: it's all great. Yeah, although it's so weird when she

445
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: wakes up to watch a tape and finds out that

446
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: yesterday you were in Hawaii, today and you're in the

447
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: Arctic and you have a five year old child. If

448
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: I woke up and that would just I would I

449
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 1: don't know what I could. I would have to. I

450
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: would need some time like ninety minutes to myself on clothing,

451
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: just like waking up on a boat. That alone would

452
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: be that alone, shocking, terrifying. Right in my own neighborhood

453
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: on a boat, I would shock a different surprise to

454
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: wake up on a boat in West Hollywood. Yeah, it

455
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: would really throw me for a little and weirder in Atlanta, Atlanta,

456
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 1: I would like, what wait, what be on the lake somewhere? Um?

457
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, and he wins over her dad and brother

458
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: as well, because at first they're like, don't come near her.

459
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: She's got this this memory thing and all you're gonna

460
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: do is be a creep. And then they find out, Okay,

461
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: he's not a creep. He's a cool guy. She clearly

462
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: cares about him, so he wins them over. And that's

463
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: kind of cute too that it's sort of almost the

464
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: long term relationship is almost with her family rather than

465
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: her because she can't remember, so I thought that was

466
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 1: kind of an interesting angle for that. But yeah, he

467
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 1: does sort of date her dad and her brother more

468
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: than he dates her, and it has to Yeah, be

469
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: like I brought flowers, give them to her how it goes.

470
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: It goes you're dating their dad and their brother and

471
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: you know best, and then you choose which one you

472
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: like the best, and you married up and you marry

473
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: that one. You'll see all of them family reunions. It's

474
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: going to be right. It's not weird, not weird at all.

475
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: It's the what was that movie? River runs through it?

476
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why is that Brad Pitt movie where

477
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: she basically is every single brother just allegen queenship. He

478
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: got them all all not bad. The only other thing

479
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: I remember about the film that really stuck with me

480
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: was waffles. There's waffles in that movie that looks so good.

481
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: I remember that you only saw part of it. This

482
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: is Sienna brains. Sienna, My brains are very much like

483
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: a ven diagram, and in the middle is waffles. And

484
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: like Smash the NBC show, that's great good venn diagram,

485
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: Waffles is a good thing to fixate on. I feel safe,

486
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: delicious breakfast food. I'll say I'll do a little uh

487
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: inside baseball here because it gave me a little PTSD

488
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: because I used to work props on movies and um

489
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: watching and a breakfast scene is just going to be

490
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: the worst day of your year. And watching her with

491
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: those little waffle houses, I'm like, you know, they had

492
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: sixteen to those waffle houses off camera and somebody spent

493
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: the whole night making them. And it's I don't know

494
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: how Drew Barrymore is, but some actors would be like,

495
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: these waffles need to be hot. I'm not doing this

496
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: scene if they're not, even if she's not eating them. Uh,

497
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 1: lots of stuff like that. But but you know, they

498
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: did a good job with it. In perspective, it was amazing.

499
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: So whatever ever suffered for it, it was worth it.

500
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly whoever it sucked for, thank you, Thank you

501
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: for your service. And I will say they were she

502
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: They were pretty much dry waffles, which is a huge help.

503
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: And that might have been Adam Sandler, I've heard is

504
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: like one of the best people to work for in Hollywood.

505
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: Takes care of everyone. Apparently this movie itself was originally

506
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: written to take place in Seattle, and he said let's

507
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: go to Hawaii instead, and writing movies that take place

508
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: in Hawaii just so he can bring all his friends

509
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: out there and have fun making a movie. Maybe maybe

510
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: he was like, no Syrup that's too hard in the

511
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 1: props people. Whenever there's somebody who's kind of like they

512
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: have weird characters or there, their stuff could be obnoxious.

513
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: I haven't seen a lot of his stuff. I know

514
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: it's like people like it. But since he plays a

515
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: lot of screaming little boys, I'm like, he must be

516
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: really good to work with because he's made a lot

517
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: of movies, and so there are people who could be

518
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: screaming little boys on screen and then also screaming little

519
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,239
Speaker 1: boys off screen, and the successful ones, You're like, I

520
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: bet they're great. Yeah, I bet they call for dry

521
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: waffles on set. Absolutely, Like, don't suck this up too much,

522
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: because I don't want to make the props guy make

523
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: a whole other one tired. Let him goes someone shaking

524
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: in the corner, surrounded by waffle scraps. Ye've been there.

525
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: Don't make another house a tower this time. Why. I'm

526
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: not an architect. I'm just a waffle maker. I'm just

527
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: a humble studio waffle maker. The script we found out

528
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: was originally called fifty Feet Kisses. That's where Drew Barrymore

529
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: says several times in the movie, can we have another

530
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: first kiss? Um? Oh, there's nothing like a first kiss

531
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: every time. Um. I read two things. One I AMDB

532
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: Trivia said they changed it because they didn't want to

533
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: confuse people with Drew Barrymore's movie Never Been Kissed. Um,

534
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: But the director said that the marketing department found that

535
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: the word kisses was turning off male audiences. Men don't kissing.

536
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: From my experience one time, I mean, I'll share it

537
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: on the pot. This is a romantic policy, bring it.

538
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: I went on a hinge date last summer and the

539
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: only thing really that we did was kiss And then

540
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: later he was like, I'm just not feeling it romantically

541
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: all the kissing, and I was like what My friend

542
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: was like, Yeah, I love kissing non romantically. What what

543
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: are you saying? Professional kissing? Very business like? Would have

544
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: hated that title. Yeah, first dates. I'm in tender men

545
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: kissing right, fascinating? Well, I guess what are we? Three

546
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: to one women to men? Is that the gender ratio

547
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: of this current zoom? Yeah? Okay, so Eli as a man, Yeah,

548
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: could you see fifty kisses? I mean technically I didn't

549
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: see fifty first dates for a long time. I my

550
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: choice the title wasn't what was maybe the group was

551
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 1: not being asked the right questions, right, yea, yeah, I

552
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: need more information about what was being asked to the room,

553
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: what was being showed in the room. But I will

554
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: say I never saw, never been kissed. Um what kissed

555
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: movies have I seen? I saw? Um? No, I'm trying

556
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: to I didn't see kissed the girls. I didn't see.

557
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: I can't think of other movies that have kissed in

558
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: the title. Maybe maybe you do hate maybe I do

559
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: hate kisses I have. Do you think more men would

560
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 1: have seen it? This is allowed to ask the women

561
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: would have seen it if it was fifty first six,

562
00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: first six, probably right waiting into it because kisses, they're like,

563
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: oh oh sex, no kissing, very pretty woman about it,

564
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:21,879
Speaker 1: kissing sex all met first bang bang, Yes, well that's

565
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 1: weirst experience that on our podcast. We both got bangs. Yes,

566
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: I have to clarify. Yeah, oh, and yes, you can

567
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: say anything in this podcast. We're explicit every episode. So

568
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: oh great, great, Yeah, get ready say your favorite curse

569
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: for now. She's been holding onto that for a while

570
00:35:51,080 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: every hour. Fair, that's her weird anything she forgets if

571
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: she said it, yeah, I better go for it. Just

572
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: she'll forget everything. If she doesn't say asked once an hour,

573
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: let's make that movie. If we could just be making

574
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: shut up, let's do it. So okay, So at the

575
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 1: end of the day, this movie is about a sweet couple.

576
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: A woman who can't remember who wakes up every day

577
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: realizing that she's spend dating Adam Sandler for a while. Um,

578
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: and one day wakes up and realizes that she has

579
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: a five year old son with him or daughter is

580
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:40,720
Speaker 1: a daughter? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. There is a horror movie

581
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: version of this out there, which she points out in

582
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: the movie, but we don't see. Is the while she

583
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: was pregnant. Can you imagine waking up pregnant and have

584
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: to like watch a freaking videotape that's explaining to you,

585
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: oh why you are suddenly have alien like aliens have

586
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: a trauma. The day you give birth would be the

587
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: most horrifying. Bay you wake up and they have to

588
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,479
Speaker 1: take you to the hospital and you were like, what,

589
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, don't don't worry, You'll forget it

590
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: tomorrow your boat and are pregnant, Like that's too much? Yeah,

591
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: and what if, like, are you sure I signed up

592
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: for this? Show me a tape of me saying yesterday,

593
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: that is what I need to say of consent going on.

594
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: What if it's one of those multi day labors too, Yeah,

595
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: she could forget after she falls asleep, wake up and

596
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: you're already in labor. Does it is her? Is her

597
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: memory thing? It resets when she goes to bed, right roughly? Yeah,

598
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: and after she went to sleep, Yeah, she would wake

599
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: up the next day. Just keep her awake. I wondered,

600
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: what happens? What about naps? She forgets a little, she

601
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 1: forgets that morning she remembers going down for the nap,

602
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: right right? Um, I will say I think the Walrus

603
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: stole the show. The Wals name his name Jacko, and

604
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: it's Adam Sandler's best friend. Besides because his other best

605
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: friends Rob Schneiders. Anyway, Jackie's best friend. He's a better listener,

606
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: gives great so you might there here is a world

607
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: in which Drew Barrymore wakes up nine months pregnant, married

608
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: to a man whose best friend is a Walrus exactly

609
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: and Rob Schneider problematic person of Rob Schneider. Things you say,

610
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: the worst it gets. That is a horror right there? Yeah,

611
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: happen to me. I really don't want the don't want that.

612
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: I'll be the first to say please. Well. Fortunately, the

613
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: near psychologist Sally Backs and Deli mentioned earlier, says the

614
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 1: movie falls into Hollywood traditions of pretty much picking up

615
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: an amnesia condition in the plot device. She also says,

616
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,760
Speaker 1: quote some viewers might envy Miss Barrymore's ability to forget

617
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: her romantic encounters with Mr Sandler. You know, you were

618
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 1: a critic of Diana asked me while we were watching it,

619
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: because I had said, I you know, it must be

620
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: really shocking to you know, your true Barrymore and you

621
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 1: wake up and you realize that your long term boyfriend

622
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: that you didn't know about is Adam Sandler. And she said,

623
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: would you you know, would you be upset if you

624
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,240
Speaker 1: woke up and found out that I was your wife

625
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: and you had no idea? Oh my god, you're not.

626
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: You're not Adam's risky game to play. I know, Well

627
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 1: we've been together for a while, so you gotta again

628
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: keep the risk, you know. Yeah, you got to give

629
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: somebody an opportunity to say something that's really gonna upset you.

630
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 1: If I woke up next to you and it was

631
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 1: just a strange man in my bed. I would freak out.

632
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: I think I would freak out. And then also we've

633
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: moved a few times. It would be a new house.

634
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: Would I remember my dog? That's very upsetting. But we

635
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: might finally watch our wedding video, which we've never watched.

636
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,760
Speaker 1: So that's right. We're very bad at that. We haven't forgetting.

637
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: We just didn't get cooked together as like a narrative

638
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 1: or what happens in a wedding video. Great, I don't

639
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: know video. We have no idea. Hopefully with me on

640
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: top of the piano, but I doubt I think he

641
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: was gone by then. No, I saw you on the

642
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: top of the piano. No, the videographer rapher. But we

643
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: did ask a friend of ours, so he might have.

644
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 1: Actually he did actually actually reach out, was like, did

645
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: you watch it? Is a good I hope it's good.

646
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: And we're like, oh, yeah, it's great. I never did

647
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: watch it, So I'm like, what if he did something special?

648
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,439
Speaker 1: He like asked all our friends to say nice things

649
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: about us. Oh, that's very sweet. Is truly funny that

650
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,720
Speaker 1: you've never watched that? Watch it? You watch it sometime

651
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: and it'll feel great. Look at young name. It was

652
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: not that long ago. When we're when we're like hanging

653
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: on by a thread, things aren't going so good, we'll

654
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: be like, let's let's watch this one. Things start going downhill. Yeah,

655
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 1: wake up next to you and don't scream. I'm not

656
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:22,479
Speaker 1: happy about it. As soon as one of your friends

657
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: of Walrus, you've got to turn on that video. There's

658
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 1: a Walrus poly fuel in this movie where because Jacko

659
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: has three girlfriends, you all live together in harmony. And

660
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: I would also watch that movie. It's like more of

661
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:41,359
Speaker 1: more of this love Island, but with Walrus. Oh my gosh,

662
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: that's so like kisses to each other. I mean, that's

663
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: ideas I'm saying at Animal Planet Love hear us out

664
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: Hot British Walrus is go to Mayorka for six weeks.

665
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 1: Amazing idea for you. We're going to make so much money. Well,

666
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: all right, well we've we've we've gone on about fifty

667
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 1: first states. But we do have an actual ridiculous romance

668
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: that we should get to. Um, So let's take a

669
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: little break and then let's come back and talk about

670
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: these true stories. A couple of true stories that kind

671
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: of mirror this movie a little bit. We'll get to

672
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:26,800
Speaker 1: that right after this. All right, everybody, welcome back to

673
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: the show. Alright, So, as we've said, there's a lot

674
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: of info out there. The fifty First Dates is based

675
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 1: on this true story, but it definitely is not actually

676
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: based on this story. Um, There's been a few similar incidents,

677
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: but the movie doesn't parallel like anybody's story directly. They

678
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: definitely took many a liberty with this tale. Most of

679
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: the other stories of this type of MMGIA I found

680
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: a lot of them were in the UK. Um, nobody

681
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 1: Nobody hanging out on the beach in Hawaii, which sounds

682
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: like a way better place. I mean, no no judgment

683
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: to the UK, who we love, but but it's Hawaii,

684
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: Hawaiian beach. If I got to be dealing with some ship,

685
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: it's not not a bad place. It was a nice

686
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 1: lady making the spam and eggs every day crisis in

687
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: the UK and let me kind of deal with it

688
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: in the ring the local cafe and then stopped by

689
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: the pub. Yeah, I should I let the scenery get

690
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: ahead of me there because actually, not that you mentioned it,

691
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: the idea of being trapped on a tiny island dealing

692
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: with a crisis does sound a little worse. Let me

693
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: on a bigger island. Yeah. Um. But there is one

694
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 1: similar story about Michelle Philipotts from Lincolnshire, a region in England,

695
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 1: and Michelle was born in nineteen sixty five, when she

696
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: was twenty years old, she was in a serious motorcycle

697
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 1: accident and hit her head. Then just five years later

698
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: in she was in a serious car accident and she

699
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: sustained more head injuries. I know. I'm like, maybe we

700
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: don't motor around anymore, and maybe we ride a bus.

701
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. But the trauma came on gradually over

702
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: the course of a few years, and by nineteen four

703
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: she was diagnosed with epilepsy as a result of these

704
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: two accidents, so she, you know, is dealing with seizures.

705
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: She started to become more and more forgetful. Eventually she

706
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: even lost her job because she spent an entire day

707
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 1: just photo copying the same document over and over again.

708
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: Damn yeah. Eventually her memory deteriorated where she couldn't remember

709
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: anything passed the year nineteen ninety four. This was interregrade amnesia, which,

710
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: like we said before, affected mostly her episodic declarative memory,

711
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: so she could still remember who she was. Uh, she

712
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 1: remember what her life was like before the accident. She

713
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 1: remembers meeting her husband Ian. They met in the same

714
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 1: year as the motorcycle accident, but they didn't get married

715
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: until after she lost her memory. So she knows who

716
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: he is every day. She knows she's dating him, but

717
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: she doesn't know they're married. Um, do you think a

718
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: wedding video? He says, he's got an album he shows

719
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 1: her every morning. I get some photos. That's pretty close

720
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: to it will eventually have to do when I lose

721
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: my memory. And in her day to day Michelle leaves

722
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: post it notes for herself everywhere, and she's now able

723
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: to leave herself helpful reminders on her cell phone these days, fortunately,

724
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: But yeah, she she must be very I mean, do

725
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: you wake up and think it's and then someone's like,

726
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: look at this magic rectangle, like suddenly going from no

727
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: cell phones to like an iPhone? All right, that's a

728
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: little bit interesting. She just she has to retrain herself

729
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: on it every day or something. I don't know. That's

730
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: got to be so hard. That's like there's a trend

731
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 1: joke online of like if you gave Abraham Lincoln us

732
00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: write he would die instantly. People just can't process today

733
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: from the past like a McDonald immediately. Did you ever

734
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: watch the show Good Omens? Yes? No, read the book there.

735
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: I love the prophet. The witch in that story is

736
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 1: from like the sixteen hundreds or something, and she could

737
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: see the future and they have all her predictions, but

738
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: they don't make any sense because she doesn't know what

739
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: she's looking at. So she's like, I don't know, it

740
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 1: looks like some kind of big metal. She didn't even

741
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: know what metal is, so she would just have to

742
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,400
Speaker 1: describe what she was looking at, and they're trying to

743
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: figure out as time goes on where they belong. I

744
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: just think that's makes so much sense for fortune telling,

745
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: because how would you years in the future and have

746
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: any idea what you were looking at. Like there's something

747
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: called a sprite. I don't know that is, don't drink

748
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: it looks like there's a lot of energy in it.

749
00:46:53,640 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: Energy energy. It's heresy. I do love you know, it's

750
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: very funny. Even now, is such a change? Yeah? Really? Yeah?

751
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: I mean you got to explain to her every day

752
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 1: every day, I don't know, every very day. First things, First,

753
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 1: I know you live in the UK, but this is

754
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: the really most important thing. You start with the Alamo.

755
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: We'll go She hasna the Alamo. She's remember that somebody

756
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: called the doctor. That's all we ask. We had one

757
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: job about the Alamo. Now you can't even do that.

758
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 1: So poor Michelle's trying to tap up on her cell

759
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 1: phone every day, figure that shut out and figure out

760
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: who serious. And she and Ian sat down for an

761
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 1: interview with Matt Lower on Today on the Today Show

762
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: in yeah, you have to tell her about I know

763
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: about Matt Lower, surely wishing everybody still thought. He's like, oh,

764
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: I love this interview subject. She has no idea and

765
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: by the end of the interview she had forgotten Matt

766
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: Lower's name. So hopefully we'll all be there one day.

767
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: Let's all get a little bit of Michelle's energy on

768
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: this one. She wakes up every day thinking Bill Clinton

769
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: is the US president, Ace of Base is hottest music

770
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: on the charts, and everybody is lined up around the

771
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: block to see Forest Gump in theaters. That's a bit

772
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: of a mixed bag for all Michelle. Um. Fortunately she

773
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 1: got a surgery in two thousand five which did stop

774
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: up the seizures for the most part. Um, but the

775
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: memory conditions themselves don't really improve. So at this point

776
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: she has to wake up every day and kind of

777
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,720
Speaker 1: just fill in the last eighteen years of her life.

778
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god. She said that some moments stick better

779
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: than others. Actually that'd be eight years it would. Yeah,

780
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: we all got very young for a second there. She

781
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: says some moments stick better than others. For example, like

782
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: she would go on the Today Show and she said

783
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: she would have a memory of having done that. She's like,

784
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: this will probably stick. I'll have an idea that I

785
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: came to New York and went on this big interview.

786
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: But while she's in New York seeing as individual landmarks,

787
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: they would show her pictures like you were at the

788
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: Madison Square gardens yesterday, and she's like, nah, sure, okay

789
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: if you say so, and doesn't remember that. But is

790
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:56,360
Speaker 1: it like a big event thing maybe or something that

791
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: I guess so enter your long term memory in a

792
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: different way. I don't know. I don't know, because that

793
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: seems like I tried to travel, so it's like a

794
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: big event. So maybe that's it thinks a little better,

795
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: really significant, I don't I know so little about the brain. Yeah,

796
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: just like we should know more about our own. Yeah,

797
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: my brain is not interested in it. It's barely functioning

798
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: and that's all it needs to do. There is. For

799
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: a while she can remember like series of numbers, but

800
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: she has now gotten up to being able to memorize

801
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: six numbers in a row, she said, by picturing punching

802
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: them into a keypad, so she can remember not the numbers,

803
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: but the pattern that that helped her to it. Which

804
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 1: I get that too, because if someone tells me a

805
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: phone number, I have to envision dialing it in on

806
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: a keypad. That's how I remember. It's just the pattern. No,

807
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: that's just me. Yeah, No, I think I'm more of

808
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 1: a rote memorizer. Like I'd have to stay it a

809
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 1: few times and write it down a few times and

810
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: then it might stick. But I couldn't picture of a

811
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: pat that would never work for me like a lot

812
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I was due to do. And then I went off

813
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: to a whole other Has she been able to work?

814
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: She has not been working. And they talked in a

815
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 1: in an interview about uh, the challenges with dealing with

816
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: the UK disability program and how they've you know, kind

817
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 1: of gotten it and then lost it and had to

818
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,359
Speaker 1: fight to get it back again a few times. Um, which,

819
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 1: of course, living here in the US, just even having

820
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 1: the option for it sounds like a right very happy

821
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: for them than this. Uh yeah, yeah, that was something

822
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: I did like about the movie was that he was

823
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: so like, you, you don't have to cut her off

824
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: from a lot of life just because she has a disability.

825
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: She can still get married, she can still have kids,

826
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: she can still have a full life, and we can

827
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: figure it out. Like I did really like that message,

828
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: I guess you could say in the film. And it

829
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: was also very frustrating to be like, well, they got

830
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: married and that's great, but in a mary, actually people

831
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: with disabilities lose their benefits if they get married. Yea, often, yes,

832
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 1: they can't. That's actually there's a lot of there's a

833
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: whole like there's no marriage equality in America yet because

834
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: disabled people cannot get married without losing their benefits there,

835
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: especially if if two disabled people want to marry each other,

836
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 1: they certainly can't because they have no other you know,

837
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: income talk. It's just self fustrated. So yeah, I was like, well,

838
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,800
Speaker 1: that's cool that she got married to him and everything.

839
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: It's just too bad that you might not see that

840
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: in real life in America at least, what does the

841
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: government think happens if you have a disability and then

842
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: get married, right, And I like that that d is

843
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 1: going to do it for you. I guess, I don't know, Yeah,

844
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah, your your spouse's problem. And if you

845
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 1: both have live on disability benefits, you shouldn't be together.

846
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: You're not a whole person. I don't I don't know. Yeah.

847
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 1: I think it's it's like that so dehumanizing to say, like,

848
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't deserve every other, you know, every option that's

849
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 1: available to me. Yeah, I was gonna say though, talking

850
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: about when she she's working in the movie, Drew Barrymore's

851
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: character is working like as an art teacher at the end,

852
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: and Adam Sandler has this idea that she remembers him.

853
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: Now she goes he goes to see her, and she

854
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: doesn't know who he is really, but she takes him

855
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: into a room and she has painted hundreds of paintings

856
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: of Adam Sandler. And what's amazing is that they're all

857
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: in very distinct, different artistic styles. So I'm like, she

858
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: is a master of every made a bust of Adam

859
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 1: Sandler's face and neck and shoulder. There's like, you know,

860
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: classical realism and Cubism and all these things professional. I

861
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: just made a bust of Adam Sandler and I don't

862
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: know why. I don't know why. I think I'm very sick.

863
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: Is happening, something is clear. She also played it really

864
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: cool when he walked in this man that she's been

865
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: mysteriously painting for. There's a bust of you in the band.

866
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:17,439
Speaker 1: I've been expecting you. Did I make you? Didn't dream

867
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:21,280
Speaker 1: you to life? It's another one, well, Michelle. Philip Potts

868
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: is her husband. Ian is kind of the real Adam

869
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: Sandler in the most complimentary way. We didn't say that

870
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,479
Speaker 1: because he did stay with Michelle this whole time, after

871
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 1: both of her accidents and after all of her issues

872
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: with her memory and stuff. He married her despite you know,

873
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: the challenges of her condition, and he said, quote, it

874
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: can be frustrating for me, but I have to be

875
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: patient and understand and accept that she struggles to remember.

876
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: I have to keep calm because I love her. She

877
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: still remembers when we first met, but it's the day

878
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: to day things she struggles to recall. So he's got

879
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: to just constantly be like, you know, yesterday you promised

880
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: to I don't know why I let you promise anything.

881
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,760
Speaker 1: You promised to do that thing today. That's really sweet.

882
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 1: I know, it's nice. They sound like a good couple. Um,

883
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: they've been doing this for a while now, I know.

884
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: And I did wonder that about fifty first dates because

885
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: the first time we see her tape about her condition,

886
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: he's like, I'm gonna fill you in on everything you've

887
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: missed so far, and I'm like, don't doesn't it as

888
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: time goes on, that tapes so long, she's gonna take

889
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 1: all day to watch it and then she's gonna miss

890
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: a day if we're like, but another great thing, you know,

891
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 1: as smartphones show up and you can just take quick videos,

892
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: that's gonna make it so much easier, right, having a

893
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: full on video camera every day, like film myself saying yes,

894
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: you are married to Adam Sandler. It's okay. You like it.

895
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: You like it for some reason. Yeah. Actually that does

896
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: bring me into another couple, this woman, Nicky Pegram and

897
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: her husband Chris dealing with a similar situation, also a

898
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: British couple. Um Nicky slipped and hit her head on

899
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 1: a metal pole and lost her short term memory after that,

900
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: and she did an interview on Good Morning Britain in

901
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: a year later where she discusses the journal that she

902
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 1: has to keep every day, and what's really crazy to

903
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: me is she had to write in that journal on

904
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 1: the first page it says, Chris is not lying to

905
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: you about anything, so she's got to tell herself every day,

906
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: like listen, it's you're gonna think he's manipulating you or something,

907
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 1: but he's not. This is all true whenever he tells you,

908
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 1: which is so scary to me. Well, and even in

909
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: the movie, she has a journal where she's writing to

910
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 1: herself and she says, it's like I'm telling myself instead

911
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: of being told, and I prefer it. But then she

912
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: completely erases their entire relationship by throwing out every part

913
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: of her journal that mentions him. How weird to do

914
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: that to yourself or have the ability to do that

915
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: to somebody. That's crazy. And then he helped her do

916
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: it in the movie, he helped you do it, which

917
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 1: I was like, that's really painful breakup, like you straight

918
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: up to existence from the life. But that movie that also,

919
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: like the movie had a lot of interesting things about

920
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: kind of that sort of consent because she just trusted that.

921
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: She said, if I'm breaking up with you, I'm trusting

922
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,919
Speaker 1: that you're going to agree to that and not show

923
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: up tomorrow and tell me that this never happened, which

924
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: is you know, again that movie only works with everyone

925
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: being a good person because you just sort of no, Okay,

926
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: well he's not going to show up tomorrow and pretend

927
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: that never happened. He asks at one point, what if

928
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: I just do that? And she says, you know, I

929
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: think she just says you won't. He's like, yeah, I won't. Well,

930
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: at least her dad and brother there to like help

931
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: with that a little bit. But if she was alone

932
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: and single and like no family around, yeah, she would

933
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:57,919
Speaker 1: have to really hope for the best situation. Yeah, this woman,

934
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: Nikki in England, she said she has a really hard

935
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: time reading that journal every day. Again, like sometimes it's

936
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: harder than others. She even said during that interview, She's like,

937
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: I only slept a couple of hours last night, so

938
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: I can still kind of remember yesterday, so I guess

939
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: it is like a really hard reset during sleep. Um.

940
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 1: But but they said that their doctors told them there

941
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: is a possibility that she will just be sitting on

942
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 1: the couch one day and suddenly remember everything. It's not likely,

943
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: and it's more likely that she'll it'll never come back,

944
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: but apparently that's they've told her that's a possibility. Now.

945
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: That would be an experience. I would pay like a

946
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: stimulation chamber for We're just sitting there one day and

947
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 1: suddenly a bunch of memories come flooding into your brain.

948
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: That's got to be a very weird. Yeah. I don't

949
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: want it for my real life, but I would do

950
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: it once and like to stimulate. Like I was not

951
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 1: remember a lot of things. I'm like, I think, actually

952
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm good. Yeah, don't love it. I'm going to assume

953
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: my brain decided for a reason memories that one. Unless

954
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: you can pick a genre of memories to come rushing back,

955
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: like real slapper moments from the past where you were

956
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: like this is great. Only those you'll just get hit

957
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 1: by on the couch or what if I don't know

958
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: if you'll ever saw a total recall the Arnold movie

959
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: from the eighties. He uh, there's this that The setup

960
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 1: of that movie is there's a service where you can

961
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: go have memories of a vacation implanted in your head,

962
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: so it feels so you're sort of living it in

963
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: real time during the procedure, and you wake up with

964
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: the memory of the vacation and he chooses a spy

965
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 1: mission on Mars, and then you don't know the whole movie,

966
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: if it's really happening or if it's just a It's great.

967
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: But I think about that. I'm like, what if I

968
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: could just think I have a memory, like a fabricated,

969
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: really cool memory. I spoke to a near a psychologist

970
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 1: once about my clinically shitty memory and she said I.

971
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: I asked her as like, can you work on, you know,

972
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: getting your old memories back? And she said it's we

973
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 1: don't really push for it because you can't trust them.

974
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: So whatever you develop is probably not even what really

975
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: happened anyway. That's the weird strange so because they even

976
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: say if when you do remember something, the more the

977
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: more you tell the story of the memory, the more

978
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 1: you're creating a false memory in place of the real thing.

979
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: High school psychology is rushing back to me right now.

980
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: It's long term, potentially a psychopathic memory. The simulations I'm

981
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: on Mars. Oh my god, you all seen this? Um

982
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: the Snapchat filter that makes it look like you're crying

983
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 1: for the TikTok. It's incredibly funny. I saw that, and

984
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is I can't We can't trust anything anymore.

985
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: We can't trust our memories and video documentation is out

986
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: the window. Nothing is real, So you might as well

987
01:00:58,040 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: just go with whatever your memory, you have the flow

988
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 1: you exactly chill out, put a filter on while the

989
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: world ends. Who my aunt Kathie, who listens to this podcast,

990
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 1: so she'll hear this? Uh they did? Um her my cousin,

991
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: her daughter did a video of her getting her birthday

992
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: cake and it was the first time I'd seen this filter,

993
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: so I genuinely thought it was real. And she is

994
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: just weeping. She answered this store bought in a box

995
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: birthday cake, and I was like, wow, she was really

996
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: touched this cake cake. But she showed the full video

997
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: and just for a second as she turns her head,

998
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: it like cuts back to her real face smiling, laughing. Yeah,

999
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: and it's it's the most haunting thing. Oh yeah, handle it.

1000
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: We are inching so close to just living in a

1001
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: black mirror episode where yes, the thing is real. At

1002
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: least give me a spy mission to Mars or something

1003
01:01:55,800 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: cool right to live in. I'm good to go Buffle

1004
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: apartment waffles after this, I really want to waffle. I

1005
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:10,439
Speaker 1: was just thinking, yeah, they're so good. A Barney's beener

1006
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: Ether shouts out to local Barney's been. It's like you're

1007
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 1: putting in my dress. There's not waffles in there. There's

1008
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: waffles in there. We're gonna get a picture of my

1009
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: l list right now this year. But there's no parking. Ok,

1010
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: I assume there's no You just have to move within

1011
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: walking distance where and they're parking on Apparently there's parking

1012
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,919
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. Are we talking? This is west where I look?

1013
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: So I just walked there. That's because you've never had

1014
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: a car, because I've never parked. That's like I've never

1015
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 1: thought about it. I really don't feel that I have

1016
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: established some object permanence in some ways, where like if

1017
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,439
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it, it's not real, it doesn't exist.

1018
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't believe you. It's great being a co host

1019
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: of someone who, uh, who doesn't really remember anything. I

1020
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: don't know if you feel this way, Diana, right, because

1021
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: when I do remember something, Leanna will be so impressed like,

1022
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 1: how do you know? How are you? How are you

1023
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: sure that we did talk about this in the episode,

1024
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because I remember doing that. I impressed

1025
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 1: myself sometimes because it's like Diana will say, I don't

1026
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 1: think we've seen that movie, and I'm like, no, I

1027
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: know that we have. Actually remember this. It's rare. With

1028
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: some things. I have a very good memory, but with

1029
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: the other thing, like sometimes with movies, I'm like, well, anyway,

1030
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: that was that happened? Putting that somewhere else past. Yeah.

1031
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: I hold onto very little information, just like almost anything

1032
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: that's said to me, I will not. But you're so

1033
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 1: productive and like efficient efficient. I think Sienna remembers everything

1034
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 1: and it takes her two hours to send a team

1035
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:05,959
Speaker 1: do anything. Yeah, remember so he's done in the same

1036
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: email to the same person a hundred times. Documents like

1037
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: you just sent this five minutes ago, had time to respond.

1038
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 1: I could. Information stays pretty well with me, but events

1039
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: are like it never happened. Yeah, it's weird. I can

1040
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: remember lines like if I have to memorize lines for something, yeah,

1041
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 1: I can do. It was super quick, and I can

1042
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: hold onto those. But significant travel moments, family memories, nothing

1043
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: we honeymooned. We had an amazing honeymoon. Honeymoon alert because

1044
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: uh yeah, we were in Europe. We did a whole

1045
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: backpacking thing. We're there for a while and I know

1046
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: that we did, but that, yeah, that is it sucks

1047
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 1: to because it was Europe. Was totally worth remembering. But

1048
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: we did do a lot of musing and they kind

1049
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: of they do kind of smear together in my brain

1050
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: actually tell you you know day we were irritated by

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01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:10,439
Speaker 1: which tour group at which but it definitely happened multiple times. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remember getting kicked out of a loof you got

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Speaker 1: kicked out of It was closing time and without a

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Speaker 1: good story. You know the French, you know how they

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Speaker 1: are to make it so very very closed their businesses.

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Speaker 1: And then yeah, so close to the paintings I wanted

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Speaker 1: to see, and we're like they're right there, and there's

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Speaker 1: these cards shooting us out. No no, no, no no

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Speaker 1: no no no biento. Yeah, yeah exactly. And for me

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Speaker 1: to go home and make love to my wife. That's

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Speaker 1: really hard. I'm so sorry to you when it closed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's we we live a challenged life. Yeah, it wasn't really.

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01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: He had to write about it in his journal, but

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Speaker 1: it got over every day writing a one man show

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Speaker 1: about it. Struggle. We need more than ever's more. One

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Speaker 1: man shows a real dirt about going to hear us.

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Speaker 1: It's a unique experience. My perspective is valuable. People need

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Speaker 1: to hear that straight white male perspective of being in Europe.

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Speaker 1: It's really important. That's okay. I went to the Rob

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Speaker 1: Rob Schneider School of Acting. I'll pert some accents in there.

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Speaker 1: It'll be great. I'll do my own diversity. You're welcome, diversity.

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Speaker 1: Could you try it again, but more diverse. We really

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Speaker 1: care well. We have taken up a lot of your time.

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Speaker 1: We're so glad you guys came on the show today

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Speaker 1: to talk about this movie. This these couples, this crazy situation,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, thank you so much. They're dealing with Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was really fun. We've got to do this again.

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01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: There's gotta be another movie out there. I will say

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Speaker 1: we I mean, I love a movie, but we have

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01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: not seen the top underlist ourselves. You've seen a better

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Speaker 1: experience than any film on the A F I List.

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Speaker 1: I've talked about it on recordings. It's like com We

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01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: definitely slip into our like Marvel tangents a lot on

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01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: this show too. Just have a little segment Marvel Alert

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Speaker 1: Marvel alerts exactly. I did have fun listening to you

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01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 1: guys Tear apart Et. That was the first episode of

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01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 1: years I listened to and I was like, wow, et

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01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: finally getting the treatment. And that guy a little puppets

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Speaker 1: sucked up little he's in my closet. Another Drew Barrymore film,

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Speaker 1: Full Circle. Yeah, she's out there. She's you know what,

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Speaker 1: she was the heart of this. She got me tear.

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01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: She got me tear when she first found out, and

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01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 1: then she had to really do some acting there, and

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01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: I was like, I was pretty good, Drew. You went

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01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 1: to your knees on that dock, and I felt that

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01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: we we briefly saw that scene. Siana was like, I'm

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01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: skipping to exactly the midpoint of that scene. I've seen

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Speaker 1: the beginning. And then, by the way, this movie is

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Speaker 1: free on YouTube. I like to plug that the full movie,

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Speaker 1: the whole thing is out there. I knew i'd seen

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Speaker 1: the beginning in the end, so I just had to

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Speaker 1: check out the middle, and I think I got it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's a story about the beginning? Middle and end,

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01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:54,559
Speaker 1: you've seen it. You don't have to watch in that order.

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Speaker 1: The middle beginning. Now it's like you're watching Memnto, the

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Speaker 1: Memento version of Yeah. Got a friend Jason who's been

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01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 1: on the show before, and he's he's got a philosophy

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01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: that you should be able to watch twenty minutes of

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01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: any movie and get it and at any point in

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01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 1: the movie, any twenty minute chunk, and you should have

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01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 1: seen enough. That feels insane to me. But we sort

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01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:20,800
Speaker 1: of have the opposite take, where about a lot of

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01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: these classics, we feel like you could easily cut forty

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01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: five minutes to an hour and we would still understand

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01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 1: what you're trying to say. Yeah, you would get everything

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01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 1: you were trying to do absolutely done. Or hottest take

1117
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:36,600
Speaker 1: is that The Godfather could have been thirty minutes, and

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01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 1: people get mad about that, But I think that's a compliment.

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Speaker 1: I can't explain how, but I think it is we

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Speaker 1: could honor your movie in a way that people actually

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01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 1: would be able to watch. Yeah, I get it. I

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Speaker 1: get a bit of a less of a time commitment.

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Speaker 1: They still get to os of a director's cut, like

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Speaker 1: viewers two of The Godfather. The task popcorn cut. Remember

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Speaker 1: those illustrated classics versions of classic books. It's just that, yeah, exactly, Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: are indigestible the God Dad, God Dad. I'm ready. I'm

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Speaker 1: ready to watch it. I would also watch it the

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Speaker 1: fifty first States trailer as a horror movie. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: like somebody put the Cats trailer to the music from

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Speaker 1: the trailer for us, like the very slow down, there's

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Speaker 1: five on it. If you just take that music, can

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Speaker 1: put it on the fifty first States trailer verifying, so

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01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: very true, very true. It's like, what is he doing

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Speaker 1: to this woman? Now he's got a guitar. That's the

1135
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 1: true horrors when a man shows up with a guitar. Yeah, anyway,

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01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 1: here's wonder Wall. Well yeah, thanks so much for being here.

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01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: It's just so much fun. Everybody listen to Tossed Popcorn absolutely,

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Speaker 1: for listeners. Our podcast is at Tossed Popcorn all over Instagram, Twitter, TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Sienna Benna on Twitter and at Sienna Jacoble on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: It is what it is, you know. Yeah, just to popcorn.

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01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: I do that more. Yeah. Where I'm at these days,

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Speaker 1: um well, you can find me on Twitter, Instagram, I'm

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Speaker 1: at Oh great, it's Eli Dana Mate Boom and our

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Speaker 1: show is at Raddick Romance on those platforms as well,

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Speaker 1: So check us out, check out Tossed Popcorn. Thank you

1148
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 1: all for tuning in. We hope this episode sticks in

1149
01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:01,720
Speaker 1: your mind, keep keep it, keep it in there worth remembering,

1150
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 1: and remember that we'll have new episodes at next week

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01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 1: and we'll catch it in love you bye, so long friends,

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01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: it's time to go. Thanks for listening to our show.

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