WEBVTT - Second Date Update: In The Air Up There

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to day. Grand romantic gestures on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date good or bad idea, I'm gonna go bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I love romantic. I think maybe it does depend on

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<v Speaker 1>the gesture. Like carving your initials into a tree. Sweet, no,

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<v Speaker 1>terrible for the tree. Just stop to nature, tree just

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<v Speaker 1>for the relationship, plant seeds and you're okay. Maybe carving

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<v Speaker 1>initials of all your former victims into the tree, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that one's not sow why the tree is also a

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<v Speaker 1>victim at that point you have to remember them somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>But one of our listeners, Patrick, says he's worried that

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<v Speaker 1>his grand romantic gesture may have accidentally backfired on We'll

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<v Speaker 1>get to that in just a second, but first Patrick,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Hey guys, how are you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always like kind of cringe you waiting to hear

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<v Speaker 1>what you did. Why. I don't know. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>outside of maybe even flowers feels like pushing it on

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<v Speaker 1>a fast day Brook. You're already hating on all romantic

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<v Speaker 1>gestures in any form. We haven't even heard what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Something really really nice. A firm handshake and an eye contact. Hello, there,

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<v Speaker 1>be careful with the eye contact. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be What did you do? Actually, who did you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with? That's where we should start, right, Yeah, what's

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<v Speaker 1>her name? So her name's Ashley. We met up online. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you she's so beautiful. Like she had the

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<v Speaker 1>most insane smile. Oh that's sweet, an insane smile, like

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<v Speaker 1>a joker, kind of joker. Small, but then with the tattoos,

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<v Speaker 1>it really did it for me. Are you being serious

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<v Speaker 1>or totally kidding? Okay, I mean insane in that, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't see this smile every day? Oh that's really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a great smile. Can I do ask you on

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<v Speaker 1>your dating profile? Did did she have any inkling that

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<v Speaker 1>you were some sort of romantic person? Would you describe

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<v Speaker 1>yourself that way? I can't people describe themselves that way.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't. I just don't swipe to them. But maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she would like it, you know, No, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like describe myself as a romantic or anything like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so she didn't know it's coming anither. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>key to a grand romantic gesture is to be surprising

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<v Speaker 1>someone with it, not telling people. I'm going to surprise you,

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<v Speaker 1>yetic gesture. Yeah, that's a good point. How many surprises

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date have we heard that end? Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're coming to us there, yeah, there's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be a good one. Though. One tell us that you

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<v Speaker 1>came up with a good one, Patrick, Well, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically we talked for a few days, right, we

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<v Speaker 1>go out to this like mom and pop pizza shot

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<v Speaker 1>because our chemistry seemed like it was really good. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>invite her out to this place? Right, literally the best

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<v Speaker 1>pizza I've ever had. Guys, nice dude, So what was

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<v Speaker 1>it like when you first saw all Right? Well, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, her smile was insane. It made me want

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<v Speaker 1>to go crazy. Oh that's that's a sweet comment to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds a little psychotic because he keeps using the

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<v Speaker 1>word insane. I know what he means, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's nice, like a welcoming, beautiful smile. Her beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>eyes made me want to have a mental breakdown. Truly,

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<v Speaker 1>that is gesture. Okay, what was the great romantic gesture? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know. So, as we're like walking into

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<v Speaker 1>this piece of place, there's this guy that's selling flowers

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<v Speaker 1>on the corner, and like I said, I'm not really

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<v Speaker 1>one to be romantic, but it felt right. When you're

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<v Speaker 1>walking by, You're like, that seems like a nice idea. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get her some flowers. Yeah, yeah, so he's selling these

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<v Speaker 1>bucase like twenty bucks. That's a lot of money. I

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<v Speaker 1>only had fifteen bucks. Would you do? Ask you to

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<v Speaker 1>spot your five bucks so she could get her on

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<v Speaker 1>your flowers? Hey, broddy, why don't you take like sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>pedals off? So she even offered to like give me

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<v Speaker 1>the other five bucks. I can't help wait, you openly

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<v Speaker 1>said no, she offered, first of all. Second of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, no, okay, okay, what it's like, I will

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<v Speaker 1>give you one red rose for fifteen bucks, which feels

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<v Speaker 1>like an even worse idea on a first date. Red

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<v Speaker 1>roses or like love. And I'm not trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>weird about it. I just thought it was nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. So you did it. You spent the fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on one red rose twenty minutes later into haggling

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<v Speaker 1>for some flowers. Friendship. I think we need to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to the definition of grand romantic. Yeah, because this

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't it doesn't fall under what did you end up

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<v Speaker 1>doing so clearly this is going really really well so far.

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<v Speaker 1>So the deal we ended up doing was uh ten

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<v Speaker 1>bucks for this wilted bouquet, and the flowers did not

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<v Speaker 1>look great. I will this counterflower? Did she laugh? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys make it a joke? How did she react?

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<v Speaker 1>I could? I feel like she at least appreciated it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, the pizza was really the biggest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So we still go in have the best pizza that

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<v Speaker 1>she says she's ever had. I asked her to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to mine because things were going so well. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>I may have said goodbye. The next morning, those flowers

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot more wilted because the room is so

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<v Speaker 1>hot less nobody. Yeah, well it's been three days now.

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<v Speaker 1>That long but long enough where I'm like, where what happened? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Long enough? That's a good way to put it. And

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't texted you back at all, so I'm here. Okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if the flowers gesture didn't seal the deal, then maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the gesture of getting a phone call from a radio station,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that'll help push her over the edge. That's pretty grand,

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<v Speaker 1>crossing my fingers, guys, grand. I don't know if it's romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out. We're going to do your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this second great pizza, twenty dollars, stimulating conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Zero dollars and a bushel of badly wilted flowers should

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<v Speaker 1>be priceless, but they cost ten bucks and Patrick, our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>paid it and it actually worked out for him because

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley stayed the night over at his place. But after

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<v Speaker 1>three days now, she's not calling back. We're calling so soon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so worried that we're too eager. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>such thing as being too eager in love. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't quote me on that, actually, but we're gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>and find out if there's a solid reason for why

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley has broke off communication. Patrick, how are you feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little bit bummed out. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm confused. I mean, it may not be a

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<v Speaker 1>loss yet, like we've talked about, it's only three days.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's just busy. Yeah, but zero nothing not a high.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind and after ten dollars of wilted flowers something

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<v Speaker 1>as an explanation, Let's try and get something out of her. Here,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready? Yeah? I am ready and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I see that she's gotten my text message, so they've

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<v Speaker 1>they've been delivered. She hasn't blocked me, so like you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not completely thought that crossed your mind? Might it's baby?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? All rights, like that happened to you in

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<v Speaker 1>the past, now, YEA somewhat concerned. I know when I've

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<v Speaker 1>been blocked. Dating apps are weird, man, that's what's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We can all agree on. Let's see what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say though. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Ashley? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It is this all? Sorry. I don't hope we're not

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<v Speaker 1>interrupting anything. I'm busy, but I'm whoses. We're a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Wait a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show, yeah, an English one. Don't worry. We're called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey and we're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>Date update. Okay, it's a second that we do where

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<v Speaker 1>we try and help some of our listeners get in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with someone after they've gone on a date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of fun. Yeah, we got a guy who's

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<v Speaker 1>like super eager to see you, but not too eager. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like right in the middle, just the medium, perfect

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<v Speaker 1>amount of thought. I thought you said there wasn't such

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<v Speaker 1>thing as being too eager. I think we agreed that

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<v Speaker 1>there was no certain amount of eagerness. That is right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, this is a little freaked out. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. I'm sorry. We're calling about a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick that you went to pizza with the other night. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>so confused right now. We heard he fed you the

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<v Speaker 1>best pizza of your life, so that's got to get points. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to this really cute little like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I guess mom and pop like pizza shop. Overally was

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<v Speaker 1>very good. I mean he told us all about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we got an idea that it was a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good time because you ended up staying the night

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<v Speaker 1>over at his place. Oh my god. Wow, she's very noticing.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't tell us any any details beyond that. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. I mean, you sound giggly and excited. I will.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm just a little freaked out right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've just never been on a rating station about did

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<v Speaker 1>you plan on getting back to him to set up

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<v Speaker 1>you know something else? You know, I just haven't like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure it out yet. There was just something

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a little bit kind of off. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just haven't had the time to like address it yet. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you mind if we asked what was off? Because

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick is really confused, he's not sure what happened. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I did spend the night over his house, and

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<v Speaker 1>then like I woke up the next morning and I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like disgusting, like we all feel that though

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<v Speaker 1>after non like that. It was more so like musically

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<v Speaker 1>like I had really oily skin and like really greasy, greasy,

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<v Speaker 1>greasy hair and like like not changes sheets in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. I don't know, but it was so weird

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<v Speaker 1>because that first that never has happened to me ever,

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<v Speaker 1>even if I haven't washed my hair in like three days,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't have greasy hair at all. My skin

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<v Speaker 1>is actually quite clear as they take really good care

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<v Speaker 1>of it. But like I came home just so freaked out.

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<v Speaker 1>It couldn't wait to go home and just get in

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<v Speaker 1>the shower. Isn't that like the TikTok thing right now

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<v Speaker 1>that people are talking about, like the boys hair exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Broommates said that his boyfriend Aaron I never heard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's just him. It's it's like something in me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to explain it, Like it like

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<v Speaker 1>you're living in like a leftover pizza box essentially, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds kind of nice. Yeah, boyfriend, like it's all of

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<v Speaker 1>my call. But then now it's like, okay, if they're cleaner,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right, So it's just being around him. You

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<v Speaker 1>think you walk into apartment and it's like there's maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a poster tacked up on the wall and like a

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<v Speaker 1>black leather couch the bathroom. Yeah, exactly. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke was with Patrick too. They're an upgrade if they're

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<v Speaker 1>not sleeping on a futon like that type of that

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<v Speaker 1>type of dude. So what is that? What was going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you weren't that far off, but the futon

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't on the floor like he had a best so

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<v Speaker 1>you were kind of thought on with all the other things.

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<v Speaker 1>So you just grossed out by him? Yeah? I was

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<v Speaker 1>grossed not by him, but like the way that I

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<v Speaker 1>felt when I left it was his atmosphere. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you this, how does the air feel to you

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Clean? Really? But there is Patrick who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the line. Don't you think the boyfriend air would have

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<v Speaker 1>snuck in if it was something to do with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're on the air through the phone. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how boyfriend air permeates. Yeah, but Patrick, who's there?

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<v Speaker 1>Pat boyfriend nerves sounds like just the most ridiculous thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I've ever heard. I can't believe that that's the

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<v Speaker 1>reason that you're not talking. Not that I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm just like taking a second to like

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<v Speaker 1>process it because it was so weird and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to address it. Second or three days, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. And you pull out your phone every time

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<v Speaker 1>you like look anything up, if you go on maps,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're navigating. I know that you've looked past our

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<v Speaker 1>messages a couple of times. I'm just confused. Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little harsh. I just needed a minute to like

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<v Speaker 1>figure out how it's going to say, because this is

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<v Speaker 1>a really weird conversation to have. I've never been in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation before, so I was surprised by your hostility

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<v Speaker 1>because you were so sweet. No, I'm just confused. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It sounds like this is like the second

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<v Speaker 1>time it's happened. Maybe maybe this is you. Maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>is a you thing, not me. You think that she

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<v Speaker 1>has bad girlfriend air and she her air into your apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like it at this point. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like Patrick, your place is just like a stereotypical

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<v Speaker 1>bachelor pad. Would you agree, I mean, would you agree

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<v Speaker 1>with that state? I've never been there. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know why she scause that's what she described. She

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<v Speaker 1>described it as boyfriend air, which he didn't say his

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<v Speaker 1>apartment was a dump together. Yeah, yeah, saying is like

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<v Speaker 1>what's in your fridge right now? I know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very good judge of how someone lives. It's a radio

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<v Speaker 1>bit from thirty years ago. Okay, I don't just have condiments.

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<v Speaker 1>And as far as like in terms of my apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the nicest of all of my friends. So that's good. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think we're getting too much into the

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<v Speaker 1>nitty gritty of this. The bottom of the pritty was

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<v Speaker 1>the problem? Well yeah, okay, Well I'm just saying, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you said that you felt like you had a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice time, that he had a nice personality and you

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<v Speaker 1>vibe together. Isn't that the most important part? Sure? But

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<v Speaker 1>like the logistics, like I don't want to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a grease ball every time I hang out with him,

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<v Speaker 1>every time I go to his apartment, Like it's That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I've been like considering, like, how do you say

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<v Speaker 1>to someone, Hey, your apartment had a greasy feel about

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<v Speaker 1>it in heindel growth, Like can you do something? What

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<v Speaker 1>is he going to do? Move? Like there's nothing, but

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<v Speaker 1>well there's an idea. Maybe I didn't think about that. Patrick.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm certainly not going to move after a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what things were great, Ashley, But how about this?

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<v Speaker 1>What if we try your place and see if you

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<v Speaker 1>still have the greasy feeling? Because if that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's me not you. That's true. Her place has

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<v Speaker 1>her own toothbrush and some face wash. Maybe that's all

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<v Speaker 1>she actually needs. Do you just ask her for a

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<v Speaker 1>free hook up over at her place this time just

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<v Speaker 1>to test the air. I know you're jealous, and that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome to steal that if you want to. Right here, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think test out the grease and report

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<v Speaker 1>back to us for a free day. It's just like,

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<v Speaker 1>the only person that this is going to prove anything

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<v Speaker 1>to is him, Like, I live in my apartment, so obviously, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's clean and not greasy, but I both say that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you, no, we've ever done anything like this with

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<v Speaker 1>me before ever, and it's totally worthy of a second

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<v Speaker 1>DAPE could barely understand what you were saying through the laughter.

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<v Speaker 1>But second day a second day. But I guess the

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<v Speaker 1>rule is this time you can't hook up because the

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy could lead to extra greasiness. I read that on

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks bumper sticker. It was a long one. Yeah, Broke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning,