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Speaker 1: Second date of to day. Grand romantic gestures on a

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Speaker 1: first date good or bad idea, I'm gonna go bad.

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Speaker 1: I love romantic. I think maybe it does depend on

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Speaker 1: the gesture. Like carving your initials into a tree. Sweet, no,

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Speaker 1: terrible for the tree. Just stop to nature, tree just

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Speaker 1: for the relationship, plant seeds and you're okay. Maybe carving

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Speaker 1: initials of all your former victims into the tree, maybe

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Speaker 1: that one's not sow why the tree is also a

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Speaker 1: victim at that point you have to remember them somehow.

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Speaker 1: But one of our listeners, Patrick, says he's worried that

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Speaker 1: his grand romantic gesture may have accidentally backfired on We'll

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Speaker 1: get to that in just a second, but first Patrick,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hey guys, how are you doing.

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Speaker 1: It's always like kind of cringe you waiting to hear

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Speaker 1: what you did. Why. I don't know. It's just like

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Speaker 1: outside of maybe even flowers feels like pushing it on

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Speaker 1: a fast day Brook. You're already hating on all romantic

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Speaker 1: gestures in any form. We haven't even heard what he did.

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Speaker 1: Something really really nice. A firm handshake and an eye contact. Hello, there,

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Speaker 1: be careful with the eye contact. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: be What did you do? Actually, who did you go

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Speaker 1: out with? That's where we should start, right, Yeah, what's

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Speaker 1: her name? So her name's Ashley. We met up online. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you she's so beautiful. Like she had the

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Speaker 1: most insane smile. Oh that's sweet, an insane smile, like

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Speaker 1: a joker, kind of joker. Small, but then with the tattoos,

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Speaker 1: it really did it for me. Are you being serious

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Speaker 1: or totally kidding? Okay, I mean insane in that, Like

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Speaker 1: you don't see this smile every day? Oh that's really nice.

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Speaker 1: I'm a great smile. Can I do ask you on

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Speaker 1: your dating profile? Did did she have any inkling that

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Speaker 1: you were some sort of romantic person? Would you describe

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Speaker 1: yourself that way? I can't people describe themselves that way.

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Speaker 1: They can't. I just don't swipe to them. But maybe

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Speaker 1: she would like it, you know, No, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: so she didn't know it's coming anither. I think the

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Speaker 1: key to a grand romantic gesture is to be surprising

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Speaker 1: someone with it, not telling people. I'm going to surprise you,

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Speaker 1: yetic gesture. Yeah, that's a good point. How many surprises

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Speaker 1: on a first date have we heard that end? Well, well,

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Speaker 1: if they're coming to us there, yeah, there's got to

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Speaker 1: be a good one. Though. One tell us that you

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Speaker 1: came up with a good one, Patrick, Well, I think so.

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Speaker 1: So basically we talked for a few days, right, we

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Speaker 1: go out to this like mom and pop pizza shot

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Speaker 1: because our chemistry seemed like it was really good. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: invite her out to this place? Right, literally the best

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Speaker 1: pizza I've ever had. Guys, nice dude, So what was

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Speaker 1: it like when you first saw all Right? Well, like

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Speaker 1: I said, her smile was insane. It made me want

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Speaker 1: to go crazy. Oh that's that's a sweet comment to you.

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Speaker 1: It sounds a little psychotic because he keeps using the

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Speaker 1: word insane. I know what he means, and I just

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Speaker 1: think it's nice, like a welcoming, beautiful smile. Her beautiful

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Speaker 1: eyes made me want to have a mental breakdown. Truly,

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Speaker 1: that is gesture. Okay, what was the great romantic gesture? Though?

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Speaker 1: I want to know. So, as we're like walking into

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Speaker 1: one to be romantic, but it felt right. When you're

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Speaker 1: walking by, You're like, that seems like a nice idea. Okay,

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Speaker 1: get her some flowers. Yeah, yeah, so he's selling these

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Speaker 1: bucase like twenty bucks. That's a lot of money. I

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Speaker 1: spot your five bucks so she could get her on

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Speaker 1: your flowers? Hey, broddy, why don't you take like sixteen

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Speaker 1: pedals off? So she even offered to like give me

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Speaker 1: said no, she offered, first of all. Second of all,

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Speaker 1: I said, no, okay, okay, what it's like, I will

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Speaker 1: give you one red rose for fifteen bucks, which feels

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Speaker 1: like an even worse idea on a first date. Red

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Speaker 1: roses or like love. And I'm not trying to be

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Speaker 1: weird about it. I just thought it was nice. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. So you did it. You spent the fifteen

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Speaker 1: back to the definition of grand romantic. Yeah, because this

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Speaker 1: doing so clearly this is going really really well so far.

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Speaker 1: So the deal we ended up doing was uh ten

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Speaker 1: I could? I feel like she at least appreciated it.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, the pizza was really the biggest thing.

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Speaker 1: So we still go in have the best pizza that

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Speaker 1: I may have said goodbye. The next morning, those flowers

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Speaker 1: got a lot more wilted because the room is so

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Speaker 1: hot less nobody. Yeah, well it's been three days now.

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Speaker 1: That long but long enough where I'm like, where what happened? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Long enough? That's a good way to put it. And

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Speaker 1: she hasn't texted you back at all, so I'm here. Okay. Well,

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Speaker 1: if the flowers gesture didn't seal the deal, then maybe

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Speaker 1: the gesture of getting a phone call from a radio station,

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Speaker 1: maybe that'll help push her over the edge. That's pretty grand,

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Speaker 1: crossing my fingers, guys, grand. I don't know if it's romantic.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out. We're going to do your second date

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Speaker 1: update right after this second great pizza, twenty dollars, stimulating conversation.

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Speaker 1: Zero dollars and a bushel of badly wilted flowers should

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Speaker 1: be priceless, but they cost ten bucks and Patrick, our listener,

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Speaker 1: paid it and it actually worked out for him because

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Speaker 1: Ashley stayed the night over at his place. But after

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Speaker 1: three days now, she's not calling back. We're calling so soon.

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Speaker 1: I'm just so worried that we're too eager. There's no

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Speaker 1: such thing as being too eager in love. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and find out if there's a solid reason for why

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Speaker 1: Ashley has broke off communication. Patrick, how are you feeling,

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit bummed out. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm confused. I mean, it may not be a

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's just busy. Yeah, but zero nothing not a high.

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Speaker 1: I'm kind and after ten dollars of wilted flowers something

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Speaker 1: are you ready? Yeah? I am ready and you know,

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Speaker 1: I see that she's gotten my text message, so they've

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Speaker 1: they've been delivered. She hasn't blocked me, so like you're saying,

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Speaker 1: it's not completely thought that crossed your mind? Might it's baby?

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Speaker 1: All right? All rights, like that happened to you in

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Speaker 1: the past, now, YEA somewhat concerned. I know when I've

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Speaker 1: been blocked. Dating apps are weird, man, that's what's weird.

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Speaker 1: We can all agree on. Let's see what she has

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Speaker 1: to say though. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Ashley? Yes?

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Speaker 1: It is this all? Sorry. I don't hope we're not

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Speaker 1: interrupting anything. I'm busy, but I'm whoses. We're a radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Wait a

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Speaker 1: radio show, yeah, an English one. Don't worry. We're called

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey and we're doing something called a second

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Speaker 1: Date update. Okay, it's a second that we do where

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Speaker 1: we try and help some of our listeners get in

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Speaker 1: touch with someone after they've gone on a date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's kind of fun. Yeah, we got a guy who's

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Speaker 1: like super eager to see you, but not too eager. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's like right in the middle, just the medium, perfect

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Speaker 1: there was no certain amount of eagerness. That is right.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this is a little freaked out. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's okay. I'm sorry. We're calling about a guy named

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Speaker 1: Patrick that you went to pizza with the other night. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: so confused right now. We heard he fed you the

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Speaker 1: best pizza of your life, so that's got to get points. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we went to this really cute little like kind of

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Speaker 1: I guess mom and pop like pizza shop. Overally was

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Speaker 1: He didn't tell us any any details beyond that. But

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Speaker 1: I've just never been on a rating station about did

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Speaker 1: you plan on getting back to him to set up

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Speaker 1: Patrick is really confused, he's not sure what happened. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I did spend the night over his house, and

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Speaker 1: after non like that. It was more so like musically

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Speaker 1: It's like it's just him. It's it's like something in me.

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Speaker 1: Brooke was with Patrick too. They're an upgrade if they're

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Speaker 1: not sleeping on a futon like that type of that

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Speaker 1: I mean, you weren't that far off, but the futon

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Speaker 1: you were kind of thought on with all the other things.

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Speaker 1: So you just grossed out by him? Yeah? I was

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Speaker 1: grossed not by him, but like the way that I

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Speaker 1: ask you this, how does the air feel to you

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Speaker 1: right now? Clean? Really? But there is Patrick who's on

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Speaker 1: the line. Don't you think the boyfriend air would have

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Speaker 1: don't know how boyfriend air permeates. Yeah, but Patrick, who's there?

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Speaker 1: a really weird conversation to have. I've never been in

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Speaker 1: because you were so sweet. No, I'm just confused. I

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Speaker 1: has bad girlfriend air and she her air into your apartment.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like it at this point. I mean, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like Patrick, your place is just like a stereotypical

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Speaker 1: I know why she scause that's what she described. She

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Speaker 1: apartment was a dump together. Yeah, yeah, saying is like

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Speaker 1: very good judge of how someone lives. It's a radio

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Speaker 1: bit from thirty years ago. Okay, I don't just have condiments.

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Speaker 1: And as far as like in terms of my apartment,

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Speaker 1: it's the nicest of all of my friends. So that's good. Okay.

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Speaker 1: the problem? Well yeah, okay, Well I'm just saying, actually,

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Speaker 1: what I've been like considering, like, how do you say

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Speaker 1: it in heindel growth, Like can you do something? What

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Speaker 1: is he going to do? Move? Like there's nothing, but

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Speaker 1: well there's an idea. Maybe I didn't think about that. Patrick.

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Speaker 1: I'm certainly not going to move after a first date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what things were great, Ashley, But how about this?

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Speaker 1: What if we try your place and see if you

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Speaker 1: still have the greasy feeling? Because if that's the case,

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Speaker 1: then it's me not you. That's true. Her place has

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Speaker 1: her own toothbrush and some face wash. Maybe that's all

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Speaker 1: she actually needs. Do you just ask her for a

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Speaker 1: free hook up over at her place this time just

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Speaker 1: to test the air. I know you're jealous, and that's okay.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome to steal that if you want to. Right here, Actually,

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Speaker 1: what do you think test out the grease and report

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Speaker 1: back to us for a free day. It's just like,

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Speaker 1: the only person that this is going to prove anything

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Speaker 1: to is him, Like, I live in my apartment, so obviously, no,

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Speaker 1: it's clean and not greasy, but I both say that,

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Speaker 1: like you, no, we've ever done anything like this with

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Speaker 1: DAPE could barely understand what you were saying through the laughter.

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Speaker 1: But second day a second day. But I guess the

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Speaker 1: rule is this time you can't hook up because the

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Speaker 1: intimacy could lead to extra greasiness. I read that on

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Speaker 1: Brooks bumper sticker. It was a long one. Yeah, Broke

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning,