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Speaker 1: Oh ship, I just burnt my bad. What up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Welcome Hi of motherfucking Hoary Blade Deccyons. This your girl,

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Speaker 1: Mandy b a k A pet staying a k A

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Speaker 1: that motherfucking bitch. I'm wheezy, you guys. It may not

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Speaker 1: be our weekend, but we're gonna celebrate Juneteenth weekend in July,

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Speaker 1: because why the funk not if you have this time off,

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Speaker 1: if there's a holiday on your calendar, that maybe it

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Speaker 1: wasn't a holiday for you. Fuck it, Let's just do

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Speaker 1: a repeat Happy June team again. Well, I know everyone

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Speaker 1: is like I guess, I'm not sure people are still

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Speaker 1: celebrating the fourth. I know a lot of y'all are

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Speaker 1: doing the fourth. I mean it's still like a holiday

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Speaker 1: where I think people just want an excuse to get outside.

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Speaker 1: I don't think they're really celebrating it. I just think

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Speaker 1: people are gonna be outside. But we know motherfucking Florida

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be at the beaches though, y'all. Motherfuck girl,

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Speaker 1: they closing the beach, they don't close the beaches and

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Speaker 1: order on that ass. So I won't be going to

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Speaker 1: Florida probably for the rest of the way. The motherfucker's

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Speaker 1: are cutting up out there. So I told my mom,

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Speaker 1: enjoy life, see you next year. Everything is good. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'll be honest with y'all. I'm leaving Mexico this week,

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Speaker 1: as you're listening to it. It will be my last

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Speaker 1: fucking day. But the second we're back on lockdown, Joe Tambien,

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Speaker 1: whatever that means, I'm back in this bitch telling you

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Speaker 1: I already know we're going on lockdown again. Um, I

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Speaker 1: am actually like deep cleaning my apartment. I've been here

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Speaker 1: for like four years now, but like I'm adding wallpaper,

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Speaker 1: I threw everything out. I'm getting like some new furniture.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm looking around right now like I'm redoing everything.

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Speaker 1: So I spent too much money at home goods today. Um,

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Speaker 1: I was talking to my boys science shout out of science.

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Speaker 1: He got me getting the switch. So I'm about to

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Speaker 1: get on some motherfucking video games and ship wants the motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: Can you know, um lockdown happens again. I mean video

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Speaker 1: games are fun as fun, and I feel like I

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Speaker 1: on my phone since Quarantine, like a decorating game. Actually,

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Speaker 1: which is kind of like info for my apartment because

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Speaker 1: is lit. I laid that ship fuck out. I went

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Speaker 1: on Pinterest and like picked one color scheme, chose the

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Speaker 1: photos I wanted on the wall, and he even kept

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Speaker 1: the same photos but just put him in frames. It

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Speaker 1: looks so much better without a fucking thumbtack in it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I hadn't been adulting sucks. I like,

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Speaker 1: what's crazy is like when your mom would be like, bitch,

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Speaker 1: don't put don't put your feet on my couch. You

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Speaker 1: don't really know what it means until you have to

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Speaker 1: fucking expensive furniture. The funck is. Um, I don't really,

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't. I'm not really doing anything for

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Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, I feel like I had jo dicking

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Speaker 1: forever because I'm getting I'm getting absinent dick. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I moved out of my house. I've been in Long

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Speaker 1: Island like because like so a pipe busting. So they

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Speaker 1: which is why I got rid of everything. So I've

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Speaker 1: literally been in Long Island while uh no, I didn't

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Speaker 1: why I'm just like, Okay, well maybe this is the

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Speaker 1: push for the spring cleaning that I needed. Yeah. Sure.

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Speaker 1: And so basically I'm in Long Island and bitch, it's

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Speaker 1: like an over an hour away. So he's already come

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Speaker 1: out there twice. But but she was coming over my

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Speaker 1: crib every motherfucking day. He not coming along island every

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Speaker 1: fucking day. Yeah, that's that's pretty far. What did I buy?

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Speaker 1: Oh my couch? When I was like looking for a

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Speaker 1: you can't really see them. And then I wanted it minimalists,

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Speaker 1: so I picked modular. What is that you mean? It

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Speaker 1: ain't got no legs like my mom with that guy

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Speaker 1: she fucked in the story. If you don't know what

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Speaker 1: we're talking about, go check back and listen to the episode.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let's get into some vanilla ship. And it's

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Speaker 1: vanilla ship that's gonna remind you last week's episode, Like

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Speaker 1: not the same thing. Because oh god, jamaicanishes No, that

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Speaker 1: not going to do this whole thing. And I try

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Speaker 1: to get out, hold on, you're not because I hate it.

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Speaker 1: I hate this motherfucking accent. But I don't even like accent.

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Speaker 1: I don't like accent. So he's been saying he talking

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Speaker 1: what she's saying because I don't. Basically the vanilla ship

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Speaker 1: for this week. UM. I love that we're actually to

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Speaker 1: being able to talk about something current. UM. But I'm

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Speaker 1: also glad that her comments came out since we've done

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Speaker 1: this because I don't believe them. Well I do too,

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Speaker 1: I guess before we get into this, I do want

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Speaker 1: myt So we're going to play a clip from the

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Speaker 1: interview UM that we're about to discuss. It is with

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Speaker 1: august Alsina and Angela Yee shout out Angela Yee for

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Speaker 1: such a dope interview. But we're gonna play the clip

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna let y'all listen to it before we

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Speaker 1: do a deep dit. Here's what I'll say. Uh, people

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Speaker 1: can have whatever ideas that they like, but what I'm

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Speaker 1: not okay with is my character, you know, being in

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Speaker 1: not me, or that I know that I I haven't done.

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Speaker 1: You know, contrary to what some people may believe, I'm

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Speaker 1: And I also don't think that it's ever important for

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Speaker 1: who I date, Right, But in this instance, it's very

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Speaker 1: But I've never done anything wrong. I love those people literally,

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Speaker 1: You know, when something starts affecting my life, um, and

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Speaker 1: Right And now we're about to do a deep do

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Speaker 1: what you heard, by the way, just to just sum

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Speaker 1: it up, there's been rumored that he was dating Jada

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Speaker 1: So I don't even know if y'all remember we've had

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Speaker 1: Like even Jada was like, listen, even if we together

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Speaker 1: Word on the street is and y'all this ain't coming

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Speaker 1: There was a clip circulating about um where Will was

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Speaker 1: been a little rumor for a long time. There Will

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Speaker 1: I said, I I tweeted it, I said, I would

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Speaker 1: it's true, I don't want, I don't. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's true, of course, we don't know. But moreover,

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Speaker 1: let's talk about why it kind of relates to Last week.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people were making jokes about how the

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Speaker 1: Throutle episode came just in time, but I didn't take

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Speaker 1: it as something that was happening between the three of them.

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Speaker 1: For me, what they've given off is that they're both

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Speaker 1: is not trouble. It's not, I mean, to me, that's

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Speaker 1: ethical nonmonogamy. Um, I don't even I mean ship Will

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Speaker 1: got with Jada while she was still super fucking in

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Speaker 1: that they haven't understanding going on. But aside from that, UM,

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Speaker 1: I think it's interesting that Will and Jada have come

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Speaker 1: there was any situation at all, and then Jada was like,

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Speaker 1: that that says a lot. I can't here you. Maybe

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Speaker 1: she thinks she didn't have an affair. You're not wait wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: the moment, so I'm having to let my hose. No

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00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 1: kind of got some mad ay. Even one was in

423
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: my life the other day and I started talking about

424
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: him and he's gonna roll his eyes. I'm like, nigga,

425
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: didnt get out my life. How do you know he

426
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: rolled his eyes because he rolled his eyes in front

427
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: of everybody in an emoji. No the emoji, that's what

428
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, a little emoji in more comments. So

429
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,439
Speaker 1: I had to check him, like, wouldn't say off my

430
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: life because it's super contradictory. Like niggas expect girls to

431
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,359
Speaker 1: always be like, okay whatever when they get women in

432
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: their lives, but it's not the same for us, like

433
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: the fun Oh I got a girl, but no nigger. Anyway,

434
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start with number one. I can't believe I'm

435
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 1: about to say it, but here I felt like in

436
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: the beginning of this show, and actually I'll say maybe

437
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: it's recently. A six months ago, I did not appreciate

438
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: casual sex for myself without him you show, did it?

439
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: It used to come for me like I'm my god.

440
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: I could not because I felt like, if you don't

441
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: have a connection with somebody, what's the point in like

442
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 1: wasting your body, Like what the what's the point? And

443
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: like when you have that experience, but it's just not

444
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, like without chemistry. But I will say

445
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 1: this much, and maybe it's because I got a nigga,

446
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: but I realized if I wanted to have a flame,

447
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: I could mainly because my emotions are somewhere else. So

448
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: maybe I really do still need the emotions. But the

449
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 1: more I think about it, you know, I have these

450
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: moments where I'll think about sleeping when people it comes

451
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: across my mind. I'm like why why now? But not

452
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: usually have I felt that way, And I think it's

453
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: because I have my emotional connection, I have my love,

454
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: I have my safety. So now it's like, okay, I

455
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: could fund wouldn't naked just cause I just want you

456
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: all to know that. This is why we have this

457
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: show to say how dumb as women are. Do you

458
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: know I'm in the complete opposite like scenario now, like

459
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: where I finally have feelings for a nigga. So I'm like, nah,

460
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: I don't even want no other dick. I'm good with

461
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: this dick that I got because now I actually liked

462
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: the nigga. What this is I just because I'm in love.

463
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: I just know it's not going nowhere. You know what

464
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We're talking about babies buying property, second homes.

465
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 1: He ain't going nowhere. Neither somebody wants some dick, bitch,

466
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: because I need Miami. I'm gonna get it now. It's crazy.

467
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: And I literally was like, I'm gonna behave in Miami.

468
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: I literally let him know before going to Miami that

469
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: was gonna behave, Like, I don't want no casual dick,

470
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: no extra dick, no other dick. However, and I'm gonna

471
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: say it on the pod because y'all could come and

472
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: check me if y'all need to. But beat you see,

473
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: the sex clubs open here in New York, and so

474
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: I was thinking of taking them the one because they're

475
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: going through COVID like they're gonna you know, they like

476
00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: Daniels be Well, No, I'm I'm down to have people

477
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: watch us and for us to watch others. I don't

478
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: think we'll partake in joining anybody, but I feel like

479
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: in a sex club, bitch, there'll be less people in

480
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 1: there than what wasn't home Goods. Home Goods have a

481
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: capacity of ninety four people, bitch. So I'm like, as

482
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: long as we just watch and don't interact with another couple,

483
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: I think we'll be fine. I don't think, well, yeah,

484
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: voyeurism is a great and safe way to the only

485
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: thing with sex clubs is, and here's where my bouges

486
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: kicks in them beds. I don't care how nice the

487
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: sex club is. I don't fuss in a stairwell. I

488
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: don't give a full I'm not saying that I give

489
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: or don't give a funk. What stairwells are different because

490
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: you're standing up so you can stand up on a bed,

491
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 1: You're only on your head. Like even if you get so,

492
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: just stand on your bitch, just just get from the

493
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,239
Speaker 1: bad because then y'all are on your knees. I need

494
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: to be the first person on the bed, That's all

495
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And if you guys have every just sex club,

496
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: you don't know what I'm talking about, because in my

497
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: drunkest and highest moment, it still kicks in where I'm like,

498
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: oh my god, there's like someone came here and it's

499
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,479
Speaker 1: not time that I've had. And I don't know if

500
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: you fucking hotels, what the fun you think they washed them? Mandy?

501
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: And first of all, you know I'm a stand for

502
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: a bougie hotel. They don't matter. Other people have fucked

503
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: in that bed. I got mattress with clean sheets on

504
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: top of them. You want to tell me that there's

505
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: a difference from a brand new fucking fourth Seasons Hotel

506
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 1: band from the Sex Club bed that Nigga's just I

507
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: think that they changed the same way they changed the

508
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: I've never seen anyone in the sex club change sheets,

509
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: have you bright? Have you saw your may change sheets? No,

510
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: they change it when you leave, and maybe they don't

511
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: even change it. Bit you don't even really know. You

512
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: don't know what Maria doing. Hope. Wow. But anyway, y'all,

513
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something that has changed for me over

514
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: the last three years and something that I've learned from

515
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: this podcast, and it's actually um differentiating between female and woman.

516
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: It's a conversation I actually just recently had with my mom. Um.

517
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: We had the conversation regarding not only Dwyane Wade's son,

518
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: but just like having the conversation, and I want to

519
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: say it was Sam Sam. White people got on it.

520
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: We they got on us because we was like female

521
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: woman women females blocked and we didn't really know the difference.

522
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: And so I guess for those of you who are

523
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: tuning in, there is actually a difference. Female is your

524
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: gender assigned at birth. Woman is how you identify and

525
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: So it's crazy because I also just had this conversation

526
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: with um my toy friend and we had the conversation

527
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 1: between um feminine and masculine and sub and dom and

528
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: we I was basically letting him know that even someone

529
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: who is gay can still be masculine and just how um,

530
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: just because you're gay doesn't mean that you're not masculine

531
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: and presenting or that you don't have masculine traits and

532
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: what you do in the bedroom doesn't make you feminine.

533
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: So we had those conversations, and I think honestly just

534
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: with this, with this podcast, I mean, those are things

535
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: that we've been checked on by guests and we've learned

536
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 1: and we've adjusted our I guess vocabulary since then. So yeah,

537
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: so the use of woman and female, that's something that

538
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: I've definitely um changed in my day to day life

539
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: since started this podcast. Um So, what's your number two?

540
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna side track into this because I learned

541
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: some stuff yesterday and honest to God, really surprised me. Um. So,

542
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: one of the things that I have changed my stance

543
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: on well, not necessarily stands, but uh, just understanding of

544
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: why people do it is the ill culture and it

545
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: recently came up from some conversation on Twitter, but I

546
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: want to particularly say something because you just said masculine presenting.

547
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,479
Speaker 1: So when I think about download culture, I'm like, Okay,

548
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: a dude who's straight or man, right, this is how

549
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: I think from what I know, doue to straight or

550
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: married to a woman, and he's downlow fucking niggas. However,

551
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: I found out a lot about d L being a

552
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: subculture within Grinder and ship like that. So let me

553
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: read you guys what I found. It's obviously obvious to

554
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: me an African Americans laying term black term for men

555
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: who usually identify as hetero but have sex with men. Now,

556
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: there are many cases where it's referred to as a

557
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: sexual identity because men are using it to wipe out

558
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: perceived norms about masculine attributes. So if a man is

559
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: actually gay and saying he's down low, in some cases,

560
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: he is referring to his attitude, how he looks, and

561
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: his behavior, much like saying mask. A lot of black

562
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: men are saying d L as how they come off

563
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: to the world. And I wanted to just share just

564
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: a few things about why black men have done this.

565
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: At of it has to do with the church. UM.

566
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: I did some research and found out that the Black

567
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: Church has been the most unaccepting of Black ay Men,

568
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: which to no surprise, I mean, the most disrespected person

569
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: in the country and America's Malcolm X has said as

570
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: the black woman. But I believe secondary to that is

571
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: black ay men, if not the top of the totem pole.

572
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: It's been a lot, a lot more of a struggle

573
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: for a black a men at work with their families,

574
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: safety reasons, not being beat up where they're from, um

575
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: or from whoever. And I actually just got a little

576
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: bit of a quote from a friend of the show, UM,

577
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: Jerome Trammel, who brought up UM, Marcus Willoughby. If you

578
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: guys remember it's someone who killed themselves over being d

579
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,719
Speaker 1: l and being caught on video and being found out

580
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: in that way, um allegedly And he said, and I quote,

581
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: the reason there has been download men and men who

582
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: cannot disclose they sleep with is because heater black women.

583
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: Men and especially black women do not allow black men

584
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: to express and explore their sexuality without scrutiny. Black men

585
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: are only allowed to be straight or gay if there

586
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: by they date trans women and etcetera are labeled gay,

587
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: which is a trash way of thinking. The narrative of

588
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: men should just be honest is bullshit because when they are,

589
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: they faced backlash and been persecuted. Marcus will would be

590
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: suffered depression, was bullied online a viral video for openly

591
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 1: dating a trans girl and later committed suicide. And I

592
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: think that it's just good to acknowledge, you know, it's obviously.

593
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: I think the thing that we all don't agree with

594
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: is the lying, especially in a partnership where you are

595
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: with a woman and you can't be honest about your

596
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: other side. But we all just as a community have

597
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: to make that open space. And I think that's truly

598
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: what horrible decision is is making a space for people

599
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: to be comfortable about their sexuality. And I just want

600
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: us to recognize that the next time we meet somebody closeted,

601
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 1: especially black men who may not feel safe to come out.

602
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: Um It, It's it's not easy. I mean, little nas X,

603
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: totally young, fun black boy, people still shooting on him

604
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: on fucking Twitter is insane to me for being gay

605
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 1: and who's open and comfortable with being gay. But what

606
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: I will say that I'm impressed by is him not

607
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: coming out until he had that hit single. It's like,

608
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: let me make my way and then you niggas can know,

609
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: because I need to know you already fun with me.

610
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: Same with Frank Ocean, and I just appreciate those men

611
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: out there who have been you know, able to come

612
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: out and also shed my love to those who haven't

613
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: found the way to do it yet. Yeah, I definitely

614
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: think that it's a it's a loaded conversation and I

615
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: don't think that, UM, we would do that conversation justice.

616
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: So if there are any maybe down low men, we

617
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: can find a way to keep you anonymous, but maybe

618
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: to get you on UM across with with a gay man,

619
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: to have that conversation of what it's like and what

620
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: you go through. I would definitely like to have that. UM.

621
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: I have been in relations and and had friends who

622
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: have lived that lifestyle, and I know that it it

623
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: hurts them and hurts everyone involved UM more than anything.

624
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: So that's definitely a conversation I think we should we

625
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,879
Speaker 1: should bring to the podcast. But just also it has

626
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: more so to do with the fact that society doesn't

627
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: accept sexuality. It's the same way children are sexual sexualized

628
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: at an early age. It's the same way. Why if

629
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: a woman wears, you know, skin clad clothes, she asked

630
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 1: to be raped, And for whatever reason, society just has

631
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: this dumb ask almost entitlement to to everyone's sexuality and

632
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: judges someone based on what they like to do behind

633
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: closed doors and who they love. And I think that, um,

634
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: we won't see the you know, the dismantle of the

635
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: del culture until society learns that your sexuality does not

636
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: make you as a person and who you are and

637
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: doesn't change who you are. So again, yeah, it does

638
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: our community more than it is everyone else's. Like it's

639
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: been so hard for black men to come out and

640
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: black women as well. And I feel like, you know,

641
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: I said it to me yesterdays, like white people throw

642
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: you see their coming out parties and black people it's

643
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: not the same energy and um, and a lot of

644
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: cultures that minority written cultures. But mainly, you know, the

645
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 1: thing that I read about the church that I found

646
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: to be so interesting that I didn't even understand really

647
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: was like the bullshit, I mean for real, Like it's

648
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: that this idea of perpetuating that you know, homosexuality is gay,

649
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: and for some reason, the fact that we grow up

650
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: thinking that and being brainwashed to thinking that it's wrong

651
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: or that it's bad and you know. Um, but just

652
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: just to quickly add the other thing that I did

653
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 1: find on gay hook up apps that um, it's saying

654
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: as far as Grinder. Also in Craigslist, when you select

655
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 1: d L, it's a coded went way for men to say,

656
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm looking to have sex with men, but I don't

657
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: talk or act like the stereotype, which to me is

658
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: even more insulting. It's kind of weird. Just use the

659
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 1: word mask if you want to say that. Um, but yeah,

660
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 1: I mean it says here from a few quotes Jeffrey McCune,

661
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: who has done some like scholarly work on the download phenomenon,

662
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: he says, churches technically in essence require black men to

663
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: be on the d L and basically, I mean judges

664
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: is bullshit. Um and and shot if you're a new

665
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: listener to if you would go back and listen to

666
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: UM sex in the church, it was featuring um Corey

667
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: and Pastor Corey and it was just that he had

668
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 1: oh yeah, he discussed it as well. UM. I guess

669
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: so something else that has changed for me from the

670
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 1: beginning of this podcast. So now y'all all know my

671
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: views on feet, and um, I'm gonna say something that

672
00:37:54,520 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: is shocking to me as well. And I like licked

673
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: a big toe of my boyfriend because he had his

674
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: foot up by my face and it was just like

675
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: my leg was on and his foot was just right

676
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: here and his big toe was just right there. And

677
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 1: I was just like, Daniel, big toe look cute, and

678
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: so like, I'm really fully into this foot fetish thing.

679
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: I gave him a foot massage and I licked his

680
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: big toe. Y'all. So Jesus fucking Christ, I don't know

681
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 1: who the funk I am. Yeah, like it was just

682
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: right there not I said, but you didn't know. We're

683
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: at the pool. We were on vacation. It's so ironic

684
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: that I'm saying on vacation in Mexico, but for real,

685
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: we've been living here so long. We went to another

686
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: city to chill out and we're at the top of

687
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: this pool and I'm in the pool. He's sitting at

688
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 1: the top and his feet are up and I was like,

689
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: you've had a bitches suck your feet, like suck on

690
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: your toes and ship and he said with no hesitation. Yeah,

691
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: I like that. I was like, so he telling you

692
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: you need to suck his toes. You hear me something

693
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,439
Speaker 1: like so, why you won't tell me? And he's like, well,

694
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: we never get there. I'm like, you like sucking toes too,

695
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: and he's like, I mean sometimes, but I like it

696
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: on me. I'm like, sometimes you don't like my feet,

697
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,320
Speaker 1: niggas want to suck my feet. So then I'm thinking

698
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: of actually putting putting a foot job on my only

699
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: fans because I got the little red toes now and

700
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: I ain't got the acrylic bitch, because we've been in

701
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: quarantine a big tote and grew a little bit of

702
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't do that. My cylic toe is cute. I

703
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: mean as long as it's like aligned with the other,

704
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: one's fine. I mean all my toe is the same.

705
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: Lengthening no, no, no, the nail like, if it's not

706
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: a long ass acrylics, I don't do the longer cres.

707
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: So what would it be his dick? Yeah? What did

708
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: he say? He the only did he cool with it? Heye?

709
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: Cool with a little fright. Honestly, you're gonna get a

710
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,879
Speaker 1: surge ni because I might have to pay how much

711
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: is your only fans? I gotta know it's only eleven

712
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: ninety nine, but I didn't put it on discount for

713
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: the quarantine or whatever. So nice. And he ain't really

714
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: got no tattoos for real, for real, so it's cool.

715
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: It's just gonna look like a little and it's not

716
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: a little, but it's gonna look like a little black

717
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: dick right there looking at all sexiest though. Why no,

718
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to like what you do.

719
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: One foot job there. Niggas is gonna be like, give

720
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 1: us more. That's fine. I'm about to be like, oh,

721
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 1: now you gotta come on my feet, so I'm gonna

722
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: make them come on. My people are fans right now.

723
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I only got like nineteen

724
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't really be posting, bitch. I had to go

725
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 1: on there because I realized I ain't posting like three weeks.

726
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, let me stop collecting all coins

727
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: and not posted. So I was like, okay, let me post.

728
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: But it has been quarantine and I haven't been able

729
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 1: to get my feet done. I don't want to put them.

730
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: I can understand the sacrifice for like quarantine. You're like,

731
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: what do yall niggas really want me to do? Start

732
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 1: with my hands like ship and look like I told

733
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: you so, my little boo was old, so look at

734
00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: my nails. I don't know who I am. He wanted

735
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: me to go playing because bitch, I've been getting all

736
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: these diamonds and rhymes soon. So he was like, can

737
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: you try plane? And here we are not like it?

738
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: I hate it. I feel like a toddlers back. Well,

739
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm picking off that gail nail polished right now because honestly,

740
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: well you know, I don't wear a crylic, but my

741
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: nail polish does not fucking last and quarantine niggad it

742
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: does because it's nail polished. No no, no, no, like

743
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: a jilt nails. I think it's the dishes. Well, I

744
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: was gonna say that my Crilics wasn't lasting, and I

745
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: was like, it gotta be the hand sanitizer and the dishes.

746
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: It's the dishes. My gil had like four nails days, bitch,

747
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: I have four nails. Pop off. I've been carrying around

748
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 1: my nail glue like hand sanitized and that's pop that ship.

749
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: Pop that ship right back home. But but then I

750
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 1: really can't even like you know, I'll be nervous with

751
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: the with the with the jack off the plane with

752
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: the balls and try to can't slip a finger in

753
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: there or nothing like that with you. And then another

754
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: thing that changed. I would like to quote Andy saying

755
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: she never got shipping the nail and niggas don't mind her.

756
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: Recretly they don't. But it's me now because I've been

757
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 1: getting Ryan stones. I told you, when I get Ryan Stones,

758
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: I'm not putting my finger in a boot hole when

759
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: ye yeah, but if the Rhyan stone gets stuck on

760
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,240
Speaker 1: the Buddha hole walls, I'll feel bad that he's shipping

761
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: out Ryan Stone. That's just, that's just, that's really inconsider

762
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: I got that self, dude. I have to sidetrack my A.

763
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: D D is kicking in. But there's two things that

764
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: just reminded me of you. One. So I've been here

765
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: in to Loom for like two months, right, and now

766
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: a bunch of people are starting to come because Mexico

767
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: is one of the only places you can really travel,

768
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: right because you gots it's the European border just closed.

769
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: Niggas is here in Mexico. So the other day I'm out,

770
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: I'm at this party. It's like, oh no, it was Saturday.

771
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: I was at Rosa. I go to the bathroom. I

772
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: hear some black girls come in Da da da da da,

773
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: and one of them said, uh, should I can see

774
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: your panties, and other girls like, what you want me

775
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: to do? Put in my booty hole? And I was like,

776
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: you're admitting shut anyway, second thing I wanted to tell you, bitch,

777
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: people say Buddha hole. It's a normal, but it was

778
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: with the same inflection. It was like boodle. I think,

779
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,959
Speaker 1: how could you spell the way you say boot hole?

780
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: B o o t Y Benson is the clip and

781
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: w boodha hole booda hole. I like a little buoda hole. Okay,

782
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: So anyway, oh, does this count as an accent because

783
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 1: I wrote my tongue buda bitch? I'm I told you, look,

784
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: I got access to y'all. Oh. So the second thing

785
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to tell you is, I know you're a

786
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: fan of Charmed. You here, bitch, so let me tell

787
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: you how. I'm trying to figure out who she is

788
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: because I'm sucked up. But I'm like, I don't know

789
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: this white bitch. So we out and now she's vault

790
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: and there's this cute little dog running around. So I'm

791
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 1: looking and like everybody's chill, Like motherfucker's ain't got shoes on.

792
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: They got on their hippie vibe or whatever. But a

793
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: lot of wealthy people have been quarantining here because they

794
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: own cribs here. So I'm like, I know, huh so old.

795
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: But his sister was here and she was like she

796
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: so I love jawbreaker. That's how I noticed, bitch. So

797
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying now, I'm trying to look people in the eyes,

798
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: like to confirm, like is that what I think it is?

799
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: So I couldn't figure it out, I go and google

800
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: or no, find her Instagram. There's no post tagging where

801
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: she's at. But the dog was the dog I saw,

802
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: and she talked about like you just but just also

803
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 1: I wanted to like say something, but I feel like

804
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: you can't say Like if I was in the street,

805
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: maybe I'll just said something, but I feel like I

806
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,240
Speaker 1: know you out here hiding this ship, so I can't

807
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: say nothing. It's fucking ships hell. They they they they

808
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: postponed indoor dining in New York City, which I thought

809
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: it was like, no, girl, they postponed it. It was

810
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: supposed to be open, and Cuomo said, we're gonna put

811
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: that on pause. So thank god I'm in Long Island.

812
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 1: Long Island is a little bit right now. No, I

813
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: came back to my house because my friend house so big,

814
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: her WiFi sucks. So I came back to my crib

815
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: just to record house is so big. Her wife, Yeah what,

816
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: but she don't gave me a card. No, because I'm

817
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 1: not in his house. Mind you business asking a lot. Yes,

818
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 1: he's talking about every day. I'm like he'd be over

819
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: here every day. So anyway, she married. Here you go

820
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: with the bullshit. Actually I'm I'm I'm changing a little bit,

821
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 1: just a little bit. You lave me leave, So here's

822
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: my last one dinners and drinks for a side. Lovers.

823
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: If you guys remember when I was seeing lover Boy,

824
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: he was all the way in Europe, and I understood

825
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 1: why he would want to have dinner and drinks with

826
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: certain women because it's like, you know, you missed the

827
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 1: company whatever, blah blah blah. I don't feel that same

828
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: way today, and I can't figure out if it's because

829
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: I'm more invested two if we if it's because we

830
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: live in the same place or three if it's just

831
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: because I am not as free as I was with

832
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 1: lover boy, it's it's a weird thing that I'm going

833
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: through because the other day I really was sitting down

834
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: and thinking about it, right, like we've been having discussions

835
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: like listen, like really deep conversations about like we know

836
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together, So what the fuck does this

837
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: mean for other people? How because we'll say we're open,

838
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: but are we really if we're not sucking other people?

839
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: And if we start in it, what will it look like?

840
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: What's allowed? What we're not allowed? I don't like to

841
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 1: use that word, but more so like what are we

842
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: comfortable with? And he was like, you're way too fucking emotional.

843
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 1: You cannot handle a bad You cannot And I've been

844
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: told you that bullshit. You thought you could, but you

845
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: was lying to the audience. He was lying to yourself.

846
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: He was lying to me. I've had some little one

847
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: off flames that I have not brought up a horrible

848
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: decisions and nobody knows about I could do this, however,

849
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: I just I will say I understand it from the

850
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: point of view of like if I know him with

851
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: a sensitive ass bitch and you think you're about to

852
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 1: be out here cuddling keiki with niggas. But uh yeah,

853
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: for me, dinners and drinks and like doing dates with

854
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: other people I cannot handle. However, sex doesn't bother me

855
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: at all. Oh pu, that's how you sound like me.

856
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: Now that's all you had to say, was Dan, Mandy,

857
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: I agree with you say it? Did I? When you

858
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: talked about your toy friend and lover and behaving on vacation.

859
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: Bitcher me stop. No, you just said you change it

860
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: a little bit when I brought up Mandy. Just because

861
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: I was changing doesn't mean that I'm turning it into you,

862
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: because bitch, you would go down to Orlando and fuck

863
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: I went to Miami and didn't fox. So there's the

864
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: difference is you was fucking because you was free and open.

865
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,959
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's time thanksgiving me that white boy.

866
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: It don't matter, It don't matter. I was sucking because

867
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: these niggas was my son's That's why ship. But now

868
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: I got a little nigga kind of like Anyway, the

869
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: last thing that I learned and I guess that has changed.

870
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: Um from this podcast and by the way to um,

871
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna actually speed this up. It's really just the

872
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: conversations that I'm having with friends more so than anything,

873
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm checking them on things that they're saying wrong. And

874
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: I say that to say that clearly we've been dragged

875
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: through the mud, mostly by people who don't know the

876
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: growth that we've um I guess had publicly over the

877
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,800
Speaker 1: last few years. UM. Of course, there was a clip

878
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: that circulated on social media recently and things were said

879
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: regarding the trans community where WEE THEE and I both

880
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: instead of checking our guests, UM kind of laugh things

881
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,840
Speaker 1: off and ensued in the conversation in which, like I said,

882
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: now we know to check the people if they're saying

883
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: something wrong, and we've done so with that I think

884
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: over the past few years. But also I want to

885
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 1: let you guys know that we're not perfect, we're not experts, UM.

886
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: And although we are part of the community and and

887
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: we do view ourselves as voices for all of these conversations,

888
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: we're learning were vulnerable and we're open to be checked UM.

889
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: And so again I do want to apologize for anyone

890
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: that was offended by the clip that was circulating. It

891
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: was in portaste, it was taken down. But also to

892
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 1: let you guys know that there's been many of times

893
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: on this podcast. I think Wheezy and I have checked

894
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: each other, We've been checked by guests. We've come on

895
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: and apologized if we saw that something was taken out

896
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: of context. I don't think we ever do anything maliciously

897
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: or mean to offend anybody. Um, but also we've been

898
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: vulnerable to learn along this way. So again I do

899
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: just want to apologize to anyone who was offended. And

900
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: I also, aside from that, fucking love the hor hide,

901
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: y'all was rocking for us. In the comments, y'all were

902
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: sticking up for us. And I just appreciate the listeners

903
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: who say that even the conversation with the throuble, They're like,

904
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: had I not listen to horrible decisions, I wouldn't have

905
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,720
Speaker 1: viewed this Will and Jada thing, Um the way I do.

906
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing, you know, the conversation with

907
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: the T word. So if you have no idea what

908
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: we're talking about, it was just a clip where we

909
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: had a guest on and she used that word and

910
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: then um, we didn't check her. We didn't check her

911
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: for it. And I also repeated and said, well if

912
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 1: we hear that word, what does that mean? And then

913
00:50:55,880 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: I googled the difference between trans sexual transgender things like that.

914
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: This was three years ago, which, to a lot of

915
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: your points said, three years ago, y'all should know that

916
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: is a slur, which I agree, I'll be honest with you, though,

917
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: I went back and listened just to the other episodes

918
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: that we had. In my episode with Jamie Harris and Dustin,

919
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: we had that conversation because again I was taking a

920
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: friend of mine to the trans club and on the

921
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: flyer it used remembered with the Jamie episode that I

922
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: remembered and thought about where she necessarily didn't mind the word,

923
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: and then even my episode with she was like, oh, well,

924
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: I know hood niggas say it and they don't understand

925
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: what they're saying behind it. But I think for us,

926
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: if the word is that trivial, much like saying nigga,

927
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to have a well why can't I

928
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: do it? To moment? And I feel like we are

929
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: too much of a learning curve for a lot of

930
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: people when it comes to the l g PTQ community.

931
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: So it's just no reason to say, especially when some

932
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: people do find it to be that much of a slur.

933
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: And another thing that I wanted to bring up to

934
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: is um you know, as far as our growth, I

935
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: think what was great to see in very humbling for

936
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: myself is if three years ago I had to google

937
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: what transgender and transsexual and what different things meant. And

938
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 1: now I'm out here like really sitting having conversations with friends. Damn,

939
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: you are getting mad trying to school everybody and Tahoe included,

940
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: you know, just being like, no, we've got to do this,

941
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: We've got to do this. I really feel like, and

942
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 1: I said recently, like I do feel like I am

943
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: a warrior for the trans and LGBTQ community. It always

944
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: will be. And even though I may have thought I was,

945
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 1: I think it really took personal conversations and friendships for

946
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: for it to hit me. And I'm hoping the same

947
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: for other people as well. I mean, I had a

948
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 1: conversation watching HBO. I was watching Curb Your Enthusiasm. Laverne

949
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 1: Cox came on with Larry David and Monnigu was in

950
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 1: right next to me and he was like, is she

951
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: a And he looked at me and was like, Okay, well,

952
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: I know I can't say that word and it made

953
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: me feel good because it's like, Okay, you're learning from me,

954
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: you know those things, and and not that this is

955
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 1: an ad. But there is a new show on Netflix

956
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: called Disclosure. I think for anyone interested in hearing straight

957
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: from um trans men and women should definitely tune into it.

958
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 1: Laverne Cox is also on it. But they go into

959
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: how UM the system and and art and film has

960
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: kind of directed how we view um transmitting women. UM.

961
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,720
Speaker 1: Laverne Cox even went on there and said UM because

962
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: of because of how they portrayed transman and women on sitcoms.

963
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: In the middle of her transition, she recalls getting on

964
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 1: a New York City subway and people laughing and so

965
00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: the idea that trans women were a joke UM. And

966
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: I mean we see we see Jamie Fox and Martin

967
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: Lawrence and all of them have these women characters, but

968
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,760
Speaker 1: we viewed them as jokes. And so if you guys

969
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 1: have the time, I thought it was a very well

970
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: put together kind of interview slash documentary into the history

971
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: of trans lives. And it's called Disclosure on Netflix. It's

972
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: really good. Also, I wasn't before we get into our

973
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: horrible decisions guys, UM um. Again, for those of you

974
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 1: who have not been able to march, or for those

975
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,280
Speaker 1: of you who can't afford to donate to any causes

976
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: going on. I wanted to UM drop this real quick, UM,

977
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: and this is specifically because my sister has brought so

978
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: much attention to this. My sister is a member of

979
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,360
Speaker 1: the army. She is a sergeant in the U. S. Army. However,

980
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: this is calling calling for justice for Vanessa Guillen. UM.

981
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: For those who of you who don't know, UM, the

982
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: U S. A Army in Fort Hood, Texas needs to

983
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: be held accountable for murdered soldier soldier Vanessa Guillen. They

984
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 1: did actually go ahead and have two suspects, one of

985
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: which was a sergeant who committed suicide once they started

986
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: looking into him, and they're now looking into a woman

987
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: who may have been an accomplice. Story to tell you

988
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 1: what happened, she told her mom or I don't know

989
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: if she texted or called her, that she had been

990
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: sexually assaulted in the next day missing. So it is

991
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: a crazy ass story. But also I mean not to

992
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 1: not to really UM say too much topics regarding it, UM,

993
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: but my sister is actually testifying against a sergeant now

994
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 1: in the army who is being accused of sexual assault

995
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: as well and sexual misconduct. And I just want to say, um,

996
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 1: to the women who go online and she's really in solidarity. Um,

997
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 1: there's a woman that my sister brought to my attention

998
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: who was on Facebook calling Vanessa Gill and her sister

999
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: and seeking justice on Facebook. However, she's actually one of

1000
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: the She's on the defense list for this sergeant for

1001
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 1: sexual assault on other people. So I just want to say,

1002
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: for those of you who are on so social media

1003
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: claiming to be allies for women and justices and wanting

1004
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: to seek justice for those women who have been sexually assaulted,

1005
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: you can't do so while also defending these sexual predators.

1006
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: I just want to say that. And I think you know,

1007
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: I can drop the mic on Nicki Minaj as well.

1008
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: She's out here fucking making music, making songs, fucking married

1009
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: to a sexual predator. Can't Like, I just don't understand

1010
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: it either. So for the women that know what we

1011
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: go through as far as in the business, at the workplace,

1012
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: with our lovers, with our partners, sometimes family members taking

1013
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: advantage of us, it's just really sick that there's also

1014
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: still women who you know. I had a conversation about

1015
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: the Nicki Minaj thing, and it was with I. I

1016
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 1: wasn't a friend, it was like just somebody I was

1017
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: out talking to. We were at a bar with a

1018
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: bunch of people, and I brought up her brother and

1019
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: her boyfriend or now husband, and the girl said to me,

1020
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 1: and I quote, well, you've got to feel bad for

1021
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: the girl. Imagine a year and a half dating someone

1022
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 1: and then finding out they were a sexual predator. And

1023
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: I genuinely thought in that moment, because my day it

1024
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: was next to me. If someone told me right now

1025
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: he had done something with a little girl, it might

1026
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 1: hurt to let him go. But do you think I

1027
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: never planned to have family around you? Do you think

1028
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: I never planned to have children with you? To know

1029
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: that you could do that and trust me, I'm also

1030
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 1: the girl that's been fifteen sixteen hanging. You're out with

1031
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: twenty year old man and not understanding the complexity and

1032
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: how bad it was, and or even lying maybe about

1033
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: my age, but knowing they knew I was a liar.

1034
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, it's just gross, it's gross.

1035
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: It's all just gross. But um, we are going to

1036
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: wrap up, though, guys, I want to thank you all

1037
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: for tuning in so much. Again, Shout out to all

1038
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: of our patrons who rock with us, who support us,

1039
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: who is members of the motherfucking Horrihive. If you guys

1040
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: are all caught up with horrible decisions, be sure to

1041
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: check us out on Horrible Decisions dot com, Oh bitch, Patreon,

1042
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: dot Flash, Horrible We have to fun content on there,

1043
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: you guys. It's like seventy episodes worth a fun ship,

1044
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: a bunch of blogging, tears, crying, just fun ship that

1045
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: we don't necessarily share with you know, the main audience,

1046
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: because y'all get this ship for free anyway. But anyway,

1047
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: for Fact Stake Podcast, it comes out on Tuesday, so

1048
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: tomorrow if you want to listen to it. It's an

1049
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: episode on twins. Eddie and I had a we do

1050
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 1: really weird ship cheese, conspiracy theories, eggs, tiger Kings whatever.

1051
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: We did our sex episode recently, and it's hilarious because

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Speaker 1: to do horrible decisions and then do a sex episode

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Speaker 1: with someone who is not that sexual. He was like, well,

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00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: Stephen travels it this many miles per hour. I was like, oh, Eddie,

1055
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:51,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, what's it tastes like? I'm well, y'all check

1056
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 1: that out. And again, thank you all for supporting us.

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Speaker 1: We are going to leave you all with a five

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00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: minute motherfucking bonus flit. And again this has been yet

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00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 1: another episode of hor Decisions. So it says, hey, ladies,

1060
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for two years and I've

1061
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: never been happier. Plus the dick is bombed. Okay, she

1062
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: really spelled it like, ok I'm a masochist and have

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00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:16,919
Speaker 1: Did I say that right? Because you've become a oh

1064
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: yes bitch. I was gonna say ships, but I knew

1065
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: that wasn't wrong. I hope you'll stomach cur and have

1066
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 1: been to actual domains with my man, where they teach

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00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: and train the true ins and outs of video them.

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Speaker 1: I guess this is like what um N s f

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00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: W was talking about this week. I don't know if

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00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: it's called domains. Maybe it's supposed to be dungeons. I

1071
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: don't know. And it's been so helpful in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: I've been sexually liberated a k A oh since I

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00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: became sexually active and have explored my sexuality from top

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00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: to bottom, including being with women. I'm also a certified

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00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: sex educator and advocate of sexual liberation a k A.

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Speaker 1: Freaky Hope. My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome,

1077
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: but we have a big problem. We don't know how

1078
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: to how to find a willing partist a pen So,

1079
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: so we agreed that I would ask a girl that

1080
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 1: I used to fuck. She thought it would be a

1081
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: good idea to tell me in the moment that she

1082
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: had fallen in love with me and hadn't stopped thinking

1083
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,919
Speaker 1: about me since we stopped talking over two years ago.

1084
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: We were having fun, casual sex with no strings attached,

1085
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: so I thought so that made it awkward. Would it

1086
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: be bad to still have a threesome with her? Sincerely,

1087
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: A seasoned hope. Look, yes, if you say you're going

1088
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: to all these fucking like sex parties and ship like that,

1089
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: like and you're already out there, like you can find

1090
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: someone else. Don't go somewhere just because it's easy. But

1091
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: what's crazy is this kind of relates to the first

1092
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 1: question we got, because this is a girl who's obsessed

1093
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: with with her. It wants to be with her, but

1094
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: she has a nigga. She's in a relationship, So I

1095
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: don't think that she should complicate something because women, as

1096
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: we see, can be possessive and it's drama. It's it's

1097
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: crazy think that we have all of these emails that

1098
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 1: people want to bring that could bring to your dude,

1099
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like he could end up

1100
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 1: like being like, you know what, this was a little

1101
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 1: too much. Actually, when we ran into collect and I

1102
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: was telling you, I was thinking about it, like she's

1103
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: super chilling cool. But even then I was like, oh

1104
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: my god, Like what if that's the thing. There's a

1105
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: secret and it's not a new experience. And part of

1106
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: the fun of a threesome is meeting someone and courting

1107
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: them together. And like, yeah, like I do that for

1108
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: my threesome. No, well, like that's a big that's a

1109
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: big deal. Right, you meet a girl, you'll get to

1110
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: take her out. You having drainks, you don't know if

1111
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna sunk her or not, like what's going on,

1112
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 1: and you you literally like take all of that out

1113
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: to me that when she brings somebody, So you think

1114
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: that for the threesome that they want to introduce into

1115
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: their relationship, they should go out and scout someone completely new.

1116
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: I just kind of think like relationships and threesomes are

1117
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: more sacred than threesomes just to get your rocks off.

1118
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: And I'm not shading you, but like you wouldn't want

1119
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: to fuck bitches and you wouldn't want to suck them

1120
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: with the DUDEU is sucking. That's different. That's why you

1121
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: said seven you were more sent you're sucking him often.

1122
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: That's a different thing. When you have a relationship, whether

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01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: it be serious or casual, it's a little different. I

1124
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:11,439
Speaker 1: think when you're like bringing someone in that the other

1125
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: person knows. If you're a couple making a new experience together,

1126
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be bringing in experiences from the past. I'm

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01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: just I'm not gonna lie because even when I look

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01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: into have threesomes, Um, I don't know. I guess it's

1129
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 1: weird because I do kind of ask the guys to

1130
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: just bring someone in that they already know, But that

1131
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: kind of doesn't because then I don't know their dynamics

1132
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: about me after ship like that. Um. By the way,

1133
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: so I'm going to the sex party night with Jeeves,

1134
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: and this nigga was like, what should I wear? Should

1135
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 1: wear like a button up, like a studio, wear a

1136
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: dress something, dude, like, just wear something chill, and he goes,

1137
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I gotta dress and primp and like

1138
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: get my ship ready. Like it's a third date where

1139
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: you like you're pretty sure you're gonna get it, but

1140
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: you're not exactly sure. And I was like, Yo, that's

1141
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: a great point because the first date you just be

1142
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: like whatever this nigga or he's really cute, right, he

1143
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: kind of goes either way, but a third date, you

1144
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 1: gotta get your ass wax. Like that's how I feel

1145
01:02:57,400 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: every time. I don't. I don't know. I look good

1146
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: the first day. I don't want to see a nigga.

1147
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to look break On Thursday, you do it, bro,

1148
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 1: What is you talking about the third the third day?

1149
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: I think every third day, if there's a third I

1150
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: do a three day rule, not a purpose. So the

1151
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 1: first day, how you So it says, hey, ladies, I've

1152
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: been in a relationship for