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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion to

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Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: for a new episode of We Talked Back, A show

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Speaker 1: dedicated to you, nigga's and knees hose. That's my new intro.

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Speaker 1: You like it, I like it you nigga's and knees hose. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: it's me Tim. Hey, y'all, I'm a niggah at the

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Speaker 1: same time, So this is all. This show is a

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Speaker 1: hyd it's a hybrid, it's a whole red, It's a

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Speaker 1: me Marie ho. Hey, y'all. I love y'all. Thank y'all

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Speaker 1: for tuning in. Man, Hey, j hey girl, we're going on.

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Ship? What are do this weekend? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god, baby turn one this weekend like such a

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Speaker 1: lit party for her. It was really an adult party, honestly,

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Speaker 1: Like she was sleepy the whole time with the party honestly,

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Speaker 1: and we was just drinking. We had like cocktails, you know,

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Speaker 1: name for her and it was such a good time.

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Speaker 1: We had so much fun. I was all down bad.

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Speaker 1: I stayed in the bed all day Sunday because I

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Speaker 1: had I was lit Saturday for one year, shame party.

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Speaker 1: That's how it be. For the kid's birthdays, sho turned

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Speaker 1: to the adult party after six. Yeah, it was adult

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Speaker 1: party from the time it started. Shame Yeah. What about you?

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Speaker 1: What you do this weekend? Yeah? Remember I told you

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Speaker 1: last he goes into Atlanta this week So that's what

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Speaker 1: I did all weekend. Oh yeah, drinking and smoking and

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Speaker 1: all of all. Had a whole ship you could think of. Okay,

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Speaker 1: no three SOMs and no ship like that, but all

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Speaker 1: around ship, y'all can think of tomato, tomato, all about

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Speaker 1: had the whole ship y'all could think of. I was

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Speaker 1: doing it and my body shut the funk down. On Sunday,

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Speaker 1: y'all noticed. I've been canceling a lot of flights. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if anybody's been flying recently, but about the

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Speaker 1: grace of God, I made it home. My flight was

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Speaker 1: a laid, not canceled, and I just sucked up my day.

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Speaker 1: Atlanta Airport is terrible. First of all, it took me

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Speaker 1: an hour to get through security. Just ruined my whole ship.

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Speaker 1: But all in all, it was a good trip. That's

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Speaker 1: my That was my birthday celebration for the most part.

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Speaker 1: So I hung out with my home girl. We ate

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Speaker 1: a lot of good food. One thing about Atlanta, The

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Speaker 1: motherfucker's got some good food in Atlanta. There's so many restaurants.

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Speaker 1: If you open a business there, that ship is gonna

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Speaker 1: thrive because Nigga is gonna show up. Every place is

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Speaker 1: packed all the time. You haven't you haven't in at

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Speaker 1: the steakhouse called House mhm. They have really good food.

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Speaker 1: It's a vibe. And if you're looking for a white zaddy,

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Speaker 1: that's where you go. Ladies. Okay, the white zaddi's getting

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Speaker 1: off of work, but they button up and slacks there

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Speaker 1: the working girls. Yes, I mean like it's a two

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Speaker 1: floor house. H a l postri apostrophe s it's two

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Speaker 1: floors full of white daddy's. Did you get one? No,

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Speaker 1: because I was in there with a black zaddy, So no,

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Speaker 1: I got no white daddy I was looking for. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was good vibes, great vibes. Yep, that sounds like fun.

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Speaker 1: I might get me a steak and some white meat

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Speaker 1: on the side. Just joking, guys, let's get into stupid

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Speaker 1: internet news child. What we got going on this week.

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Speaker 1: It's a slow week, you don't think, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 1: So apparently the reps from Ripley's Museum is coming for

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Speaker 1: kim K because y'all remember she where she wore um

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Speaker 1: Marilyn Monrose famous tear drop, a little diamond, little number,

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Speaker 1: a little strappy dress for the mat Galla this year,

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Speaker 1: and they posted pictures online and how it had a

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Speaker 1: We're talking about how old is this dress? Fifty years,

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Speaker 1: sixty years old or some ship? Kim K went on

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Speaker 1: a strict diet to lose weight to even fit the dress.

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Speaker 1: First of all, she got in it and it got

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Speaker 1: some damage. You know, That's what happened when you wear

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Speaker 1: ships sometimes, that's what happened when we wear old ship

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Speaker 1: like that, that ship, this drift store at this point,

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Speaker 1: come for her about that ship. Yeah, like, I don't

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Speaker 1: think that's dumb. Like, listen, don't let her wear the

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Speaker 1: trying to do that night? Why do you want it?

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Speaker 1: one episode when the cat I just don't want to

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Speaker 1: give the people a different perspective. This is a wild

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Speaker 1: world we're living in, right, y'all. Don't realize how time

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Speaker 1: speeding up, should is just getting crazy and crazy and

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Speaker 1: dead woman's dress? Is like? To me? So you won't

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Speaker 1: wear a dead woman ship? No? No, I would define

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Speaker 1: Houston's fur right now. I would do a replica like

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't I would? I guess I respect the dead

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Speaker 1: Mail and Meroe or to me, Kim Baby, yeah you

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Speaker 1: you you're not that I fucking conic man comes. No,

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Speaker 1: Kim is iconic now, I don't think so, not for me,

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Speaker 1: not to me as iconic as Marilyn Monroe. Are we

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Speaker 1: going to be having the posters of Kim King on

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Speaker 1: just don't think so okay, she might be then she

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Speaker 1: might be the starlet of our time. I can see Beyonce,

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Speaker 1: but we also know we already know that Kim can't

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Speaker 1: even sit with Beyonce. I can see to some people,

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Speaker 1: Kim Cass said, would Beyonce? You like beyonce new song?

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Speaker 1: I love the lyrics. It's not the beat and all that,

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Speaker 1: but the lyrics of it. I'm not Drake and Beyonce

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Speaker 1: cocus something to be listening to get some Coke sniffed off,

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Speaker 1: asked on the back of a boat, everything right exactly?

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Speaker 1: Every time? I like, I was listening to Drake's album

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Speaker 1: well right now here. WHOA that's was listening to that album?

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Speaker 1: Why the fund does WHOA go at? Coke would be like, WHOA,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to score some blow? Oh my god, you

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Speaker 1: got any blow? I like those larrics though, for Beyonce

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Speaker 1: that ship, like that motherfucker said, quit that job. Don't

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Speaker 1: that's what our our generation in particular, that's what we're on.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I liked the song, but I'm not just

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Speaker 1: My getto asked, need a bass drum? I need a

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Speaker 1: bass drums? You need them eight o eights? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: need that in the back socket? No that you know,

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Speaker 1: that's no, that's the devil. Right. Oh, here we go. Hey, look,

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Speaker 1: I just want y'all to just be knowing stuff all right,

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Speaker 1: y'all know, like pro tools is what they're using the studios, right.

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Speaker 1: Pro tools was created by the government. Back in the day.

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Speaker 1: All our music was acoustic. We played instruments. It's just

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Speaker 1: a different frequency. So now that eight o eight, that

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Speaker 1: and that's why niggas be Papa pills. Listening to on

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Speaker 1: the Way to kill somebody, our ancestors. You played drune.

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Speaker 1: That that's what I'm saying. They played real drums. They

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Speaker 1: it's real, man changed the music change to people. That's true.

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Speaker 1: So I appreciate this song because I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: a good it's a good frequency here. You guys, you

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Speaker 1: know where I can score some blue. But look, we're

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Speaker 1: listening today, We want to talk about black hair and

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Speaker 1: black women, uh, in relation to their hair. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's a major, it's a big thing. It's a big

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Speaker 1: Y'all can't see me, but I'm about to put my

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Speaker 1: right back and we'll get into it. Okay, Well you're back, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and let's guess what. I got. Two of my very

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Speaker 1: I'm Stacy Mitchell. I've been the hairstyles for twenty one years,

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Speaker 1: but I started way before then, about four years old,

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Speaker 1: playing her Barby's. Um, I love it? Can you think

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Speaker 1: That's smart smart. And then uh to me can introduce yourself. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Tamika down but yeah, um but from Virginia living here

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us a bit. So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: do here because I cannot stand the customer service aspect

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Speaker 1: of dealing with black women, and they fucking here, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So that's the fact. That's a fact. The customer service

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Speaker 1: aspect is trying at times, and sometimes it does make

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Speaker 1: me want to quit, Like, you know what, funk these bitches.

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Speaker 1: I'm sticking y'all cut my hair and make it a

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Speaker 1: little longer, dumb assh it like that, Like how I'm

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Speaker 1: So sometimes it can be like crazy with black women

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Speaker 1: in our expectations for hair stacy, have you do you

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Speaker 1: have any experience with that? Like what your customers like?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? You know? After so many years,

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Speaker 1: I've tried to figure out the best plan for that,

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Speaker 1: and I really just over the liver and under sell it,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to be really upfront about it. But I

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Speaker 1: I promise I have gotten it down to a science

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Speaker 1: where bitches just be happy all the time. Well, they

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Speaker 1: know upfront, like I can't make a miracle, you know,

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Speaker 1: we talked about it before and they're always pleasantly surprised

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Speaker 1: them know you might be a little redhead for a while, right,

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Speaker 1: unless it's a week at we would throw that ship

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Speaker 1: meals at night? If this ship slid off. So if

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00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: you don't like that, that's cool. Maybe I'm not a

422
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: woman for you, but that's me and just gonna personal note.

423
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like a lot of me and need

424
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: to stay out of black woman's business when it comes

425
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: to hair. You know, I have alopecia, y'all my girl,

426
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: so I can let you all know with tam knows.

427
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: So when you speak a lot of times on okay

428
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: wearing weeds and stuff like, shut the funk up. You

429
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 1: don't know I wear weed because I got I have

430
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: to real you know, like you don't even know what

431
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: you're talking about, Like you you're talking about ship, you

432
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 1: don't even got. It's not even your business. You don't

433
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: even know what you're talking about. Be mindful of what

434
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 1: you say so because I'm completely upfront about a lot

435
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: of ship about me. So if I'm not that girl

436
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: for you, then that's okay. Like you said, it's a

437
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: lot of girls out here who are completely natural, who

438
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: don't wear weeds, who you know will be just what

439
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: you like. But don't try to come over here and

440
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: try to switch me up, because I'm good. I'm good

441
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: with what I got corn on. You know. When I

442
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 1: let's say I'm dating an again, I'm wearing a wig

443
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: at the time, and let's say I'm spending the night

444
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: with him for the first time, I'll be like, look,

445
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: ship to get different. My hair, it's gonna be in

446
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: the bathroom, and I'm gonna put my scar phone, and

447
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: I want you to treat that ship like a crown

448
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: when I come out to the bathroom. Okay, you're gonna

449
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 1: be alarmed by my hair. That's gonna still be in

450
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: the bathroom, you know. And if you walk in my room,

451
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: I got a whole Listen, you know how you got

452
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: the hook that you lay your hats on. That's a whole.

453
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: So don't be scared. If you want you see blood

454
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: different on the right right, listen. I have one of

455
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: my niggers all right coming and he saw my wig hanging,

456
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: and you know that episode of Martin ware Pan was

457
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 1: that ain't no goddamn. He started out of my wig

458
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: like shut up, like you beat this out of my

459
00:26:53,400 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: wig like that? Yo. Yeah, y'all, let's take a break

460
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: right quick. We'll be right back. I went to Atlanta

461
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: this weekend and running the streets during ball Head and

462
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: Whole Ship and uh, I went out to lunch one

463
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: of my guy friends, and I've never realized he was

464
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 1: like a super duper Kevin Samuel's supporter. Right anyway, I

465
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 1: thought he'd get bitches, because I feel like half the

466
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 1: time is for niggas who don't get bitches. But I

467
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: thought he'd get bitches. I don't know. So apparently some

468
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: of his friends have divested out the community and they've

469
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: moved to places like, uh, um, the Philippines. They've moved

470
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: to Columbia to get women right because you know, for

471
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: whatever reason, they just can't find a suitable black woman

472
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: in America. Um. And what I was trying to explain

473
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: to him is that these bitches coming from the slums.

474
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: So if you want somebody that you just gotta take

475
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: care of, and they they're not gonna say nothing that. Yeah,

476
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 1: y'all might need to do that. But we know that

477
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: these women are gonna be um, you know, our complexion, darker, lighter, whatever.

478
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: These are gonna be women with naturally long hair, naturally

479
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: curly hair. And this is what the standard of beauty is,

480
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 1: I believe a lot of times for black men. Do

481
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: y'all think that of black women in America? Specifically? If

482
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:24,959
Speaker 1: all of us had long, naturally curly hair where your

483
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 1: man can touch your fucking scalp during sex, would you

484
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: think that men would stay within the community more? Do men?

485
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: Are men really like that? Like, as far as the

486
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: aesthetics of hair, are they that shallow? I think they're

487
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: very shallow? Are I don't know? Some are j I

488
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: just feel like I don't come across that kind of guy. Like,

489
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I see my friends and their boos or

490
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: man or whatever, and they're like, don't can you put

491
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: your bonnet on? Baby? You know, like my nigga, I

492
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: don't wear up on it. I mean I'm locked up

493
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: right now. But I mean I've seen a lot of

494
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: support and love. I mean, there are some men out

495
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: there that are just gonna find a reason to complain. Um,

496
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: because you can also make your hair loose curl. I'm

497
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: atina curl stylens. If anybody's seping for one, um and

498
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: so you know it can be done. I mean lots

499
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: of people walking around with a curl thing is their

500
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: natural hair. I mean, if you want loose curls, you

501
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: can get a song with loose curls. I mean, if

502
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: they're gonna find a reason to complain, if you have it,

503
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: it'll be something else. Yeah, I agree for that type

504
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: of person. A lot of mes just like what do

505
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: ass titties? I don't care right? What about right? Right? Right?

506
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: But we ain't gonna actually once they find out what

507
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: those things do that they don't just start going into

508
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: some other ship. It's like almost an ever. The guys

509
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: talking loud as a small community. That's just a right

510
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: in my minority. Yeah. Um, so apparently black women. I

511
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: don't know who the businesses is, but whatever. Apparently we're

512
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: spending like four hundred and seventy three million dollars annually

513
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: on hair care. Apparently I found this article on Huffington's

514
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 1: Posts or huff was it huff Post My bad? Find

515
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: this article on huff Post. It says, in narrative surrounding

516
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: black beauties specifically here is changing as black women embrace

517
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: their curls, coils, and kinks. Marketing research backs to shift

518
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: as mental reports hair relax ourselves fell thirty eight percent

519
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: between twelve and seventeen. Conversely, the black hair market is

520
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: still growing each year and it's valued at two point

521
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: five billion dollars. So this or this, yeah, this article

522
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: does support that because now more black women are going natural,

523
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: We're spending more money on hair, even women who wear

524
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: We've like because underneath this this wig, underneath these tracks,

525
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: I'm natural, right, So you start spending more money on

526
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: on natural hair care for me. I know, I wished

527
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: I started a company where you can sample some ship

528
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: and send it back if you don't want it. I

529
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: know Sally's. If you use um or less of the product,

530
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: you can return it. So you're just gonna try and

531
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: buy some ship. But I'm a product junkie. I got

532
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: so much fucking hair products it is ridiculous, and I

533
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: feel like if it doesn't if I try, like for

534
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: a month and ain't doing what I thought it was

535
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: gonna do. I'll discard it and go buy some other ship. Right,

536
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: you're discarded my ship goes really throw it out. I

537
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: keep it. I keep it, and it just being there,

538
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, partying with the rest of the ship

539
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: I ain't using. Yeah. I talked to my daughter. She

540
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: knows everything anything about anything with hair, So I'm gonna

541
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: running by her first, and then I'll be like, Okay,

542
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: should I try this? Oh yeah, that's a good one.

543
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: Then I'll try it, you know. But you're right, I

544
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: will trying to send some of that ship back because

545
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: just because it works well for somebody, it doesn't work

546
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: well for all hair types. Even the hair types is

547
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: supposed to work well for they don't always. It's not

548
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: always that case. So they if you could sample, sample

549
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: it and send it back, that's a win win. I'll

550
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: probably got more ship because I do exactly. Because do

551
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: you feel like all the younger generation, I just feel

552
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: like they have a different relationship with their hair than

553
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: we did growing up. Like these young kids will shave

554
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: their head in a minute and don't give a damn.

555
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: Like when we were growing up, our hair was like

556
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: if you lost your hair like she has cancer, something

557
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: is wrong. Why is her hair ball? You know that's

558
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: the only way, right. Do y'all agree that kids like

559
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: what do you think is the dynamic that changed the

560
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: relationship with it? And my mom did? I played if

561
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: she saw a nap, it was getting relaxed. If she

562
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: thought my hair was dry, was getting greased on it.

563
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: Like we couldn't get in the pool. W I mean

564
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: you still did. But you know, it was just a

565
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: completely different aspect. Well, for one, it was um it

566
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: was not called unapologetically black. Back then it was black.

567
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: But be safe and make sure you fit in and

568
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: ferform to the community standards so that others won't be

569
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: worried or think you look different. You know, you want

570
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: to get the job and you know all that. But

571
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: now it's unapologically, unapologetically black. I think that's one of

572
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: the difference. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I definitely love how

573
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,239
Speaker 1: these kids embrace their hair, they embrace their looks. They

574
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: will shave it, they will color it, they will do whatever.

575
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: And if they want to wear color hair, they don't

576
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: care if anybody thinks it's ghetto or whatever. That's me.

577
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: And this is what if I want to wear down

578
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: my ass. I'm gonna do it because that's what I

579
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: want to do. You know, they don't care, They like

580
00:33:55,960 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: just all like their selves. They're out there. I love it,

581
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: I told my kids, and I think that does come

582
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: from us. Because I hated to be sitting on the side.

583
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't get in the pool because I just gotta relax.

584
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: I was like, well, why the hell do you give

585
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: me a relaxing one week before you do? I just

586
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: want to fool I gotta set the side and I

587
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: can't get it. So I didn't do that to my kids,

588
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: you know, like, no, get in the pool. You know,

589
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: I'll figure it out. We'll do something else with your hair,

590
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: you know, over these next couple of months, so that

591
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: you can enjoy. So now they just know that I

592
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: am not my hair. Literally, I'm not my hair. This

593
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: hair gonna come from to what the funk I got

594
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: going on? Not not the other way, It round right round.

595
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: Right when I was a little I accidentally, I don't

596
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: know what happened, didn't get your ass. Yeah, to take

597
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: that as the words, I can admit that I was

598
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: one of those black women who would be going on

599
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: vacation to the beach with am fucking lace front wig

600
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: on for the longest and then I'm like, I really

601
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: enjoy swimming, Like I like, like I'm a fish, you know,

602
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: I like to be in the water. So now I

603
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 1: don't do that ship. I'm getting me some braids. I

604
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: had locks just recently, and it's the most freeing to

605
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: be able to just get up and go do. Yeah,

606
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: I just still gotta deal with some ship and still

607
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: gotta deal with finding the good edge control lodge. So

608
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: you're still spending how much money for some fucking edge control.

609
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: But but funk that too, because when I had my locks,

610
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: I just was letting to do That was the most like,

611
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: to be honest, y'all, when I had those locks, I

612
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: didn't think I would enjoy them as much as I did,

613
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: because typically I'm someone who wears long weave all the time.

614
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: And I put those locks in my hair and I

615
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: was like, I get up in the morning and leaving

616
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: conditioner on that ship and just go that was the

617
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: best ship. I can't wait to get them back there.

618
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: You give your time, your scott, your scalmeratized access to

619
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: the sun. You can oil your ship like this ship

620
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: plastered on my fucking forehead, right and the sun, I

621
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: mean the summertime. I feel like black women we struggle

622
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: the most with our hair in the summer months, especially

623
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: people living in the South, because that he is so

624
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 1: trying with any hairs. I don't give a damn what

625
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: kind of hair is that you got? Like, I'm ready

626
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: to go ahead and like shave my head if I

627
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 1: had a cute haad shape, I promise you I might

628
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:40,439
Speaker 1: shake my head, but at the top. But I don't.

629
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: Took this week off and put it in the front

630
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: seat and put the seatbelt on this ship. Plenty of time,

631
00:36:51,880 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: got just you haven't helped me, all right, y'all. So listen, recently,

632
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: did y'all see Saucy Santana at the There was a

633
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: pride concert, a pride parade or something going on in

634
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: Texas recently. In his his commentary in regards to he

635
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: didn't say black women. He just is saying bitches and holes.

636
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: But we know who usually who they're talking about. So um,

637
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: just let me read his commentary right quick, right, So,

638
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: Santana told the crowd that gaze run the world because

639
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: when them bitches need their hair done, they called the

640
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: gaze when they need a stylist, them holes call the gaze.

641
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: When they need their makeup done, they call the gaze.

642
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: Uh when them niggas when that? What do you say

643
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: when the dog as baby daddy's, um hold on? When

644
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: they need advice about their dog as baby daddy's, they

645
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: call the gaze. He also went on to say that

646
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: how you know gay men are the blueprint? How y'all

647
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: feel about that? M hm h duplicated never originated? No,

648
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely feel like a lot of men

649
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 1: on here swaying hair. But that ship came back from us.

650
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: You know, that came back from us. Get credit where

651
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: it's due. You know, That's how I feel. Growing up,

652
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: it was women doing hair. Don't get me wrong. It

653
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: may have been a couple of men sprinkled in, but

654
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 1: that wasn't That's not my core where I saw where

655
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: men were running the show. Now again, I'll give them

656
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: the male stylists, they're doing that thing, but I feel

657
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,439
Speaker 1: like that's whar I fetched. In my opinion. I've had

658
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: clients tell me that, lots of clients or just people

659
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: in general tell me that their women these are women

660
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: only said that their favorite stylists was a man, gay

661
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: or straight. Um. I think a lot of times for women,

662
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: it just itn't makes you feel better when a man

663
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: does it. I don't know why, but that's just what

664
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: I've seen in the past. Um. I have know plenty

665
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: of one full talented female hair stylists and makeup artists

666
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: that do an amazing job. I think it is a

667
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: minority for um, gay men to be stylist, so it's

668
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: like a trophy, you know, in a sense. But I

669
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: think it's just so many of women doing hair that

670
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: it's just awesome that have a man or I don't know.

671
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: That's my little too, SAMs, I don't know. I think

672
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: it's exaggerated though, Yeah, but I would rather for a woman.

673
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: I feel more comfortable with sister doing my little woman

674
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: doing my hair just me, you know, because I feel

675
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: like she understands my hair and you know, I feel

676
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 1: like we can just relate on hair and not saying

677
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: a man can't do it, but just my preference. I

678
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 1: feel I feel more comfortable coming there looking fucked up

679
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: and you know, a woman do my hair. Yeah, and

680
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,720
Speaker 1: we also know that the salon oftentimes is a damned

681
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: therapy office too, so I can't have the same type

682
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: of conversations with this male stylist that I might have

683
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: with my home girl s ash um female stylist. You

684
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So that's another aspect of it.

685
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: You know what, what sausage santana? You know, I really

686
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: feel like this is like the highest form of patriarchy

687
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 1: possible what we're seeing right now. And I feel like

688
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: a black women need to do a little bit better

689
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: job at fucking gate keeping at this point because we

690
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: empower and we now these people feeling tight and tight

691
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 1: enough take offense by me saying these people are okay, okay,

692
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: it's the highest form of patriarchy because imagine a man

693
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: being able to tell a woman bitch um you because

694
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: I feel like it, right, the funk is that and

695
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: that's what's happening exactly. So how how could you possibly

696
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: be the blueprint of anything when we literally birth you

697
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: Negga's okay, So imagine a grown man getting up there

698
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 1: or whatever he identifies as to me, it's can I

699
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 1: use this word heterophobic? Is that a word? Is that

700
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: you might have made it up just now because it

701
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: seems like are we experiencing something heterophobia? And is it

702
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: possible for a heterosexual person to cancel a gay person

703
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: because we usually see them canceling the funk out our

704
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: ass for one little comment commentary. Can we do that?

705
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: Y'all scared to talk about that? You know, I'm not okay,

706
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: I'm offended. I was offended by what he said. You know,

707
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: I listen, I love my I love my good girls, guys,

708
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: whatever you identify, I love them. I love when they

709
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: do hair they slaves, they do. But but what he

710
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: said was offensive to me as a woman and as

711
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: a hair style. Is like, I mean, come on now,

712
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm still a woman, and we are the blueprint. We

713
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: literally birth y'all. We birth everybody, man or woman, We

714
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: birth everybody. So um, go ahead and drop NICKI Minaj

715
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 1: in there real quick. That you my son, my mom

716
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: step son, right right. So I was offended by what

717
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: he's said. I mean, I get, I get what he's

718
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: trying to say, trying to hit that, but I mean,

719
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: it's a better way to say it because it's not

720
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: it's just not true. You know, that might be the

721
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: fact blueprint that's that's not true. That he grabbed Jesus

722
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: foot all that one and he looked like he didn't apologize.

723
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: He went on to tweet fake woke as bitches. People

724
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: don't care about old tweets. The internet have this weird

725
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: thing with power, thinking they have the power to cancel someone.

726
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: News flash, you don't. You'll be thinking, y'all, have someone about,

727
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 1: have someone by the balls, about situations you don't give

728
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: a damn about. We give a damn about this situation,

729
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: and we need an apologiz as far as I'm concerned.

730
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, you right, It's okay. He can

731
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 1: feel how he he can feel how he wants to

732
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: feel about it. But at the end of the day,

733
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: will always be the blueprint. Stop fucking today. Everybody would

734
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: die if the world would end. I don't know now

735
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: they definitely, they definitely may be kissing the lab but

736
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: they probably AI They ain't no real it will be

737
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: something robots, that's crazy, artificial intelligence all day. But it's

738
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: crazy because you know, he's never I'm not even gonna

739
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:36,399
Speaker 1: go there, but go go there, go there. I can't

740
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: always be the only one going there. I love so

741
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: I think I like his music is fun. I do

742
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: appreciate all the males stylings out there and makeup artist,

743
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: but I mean it's a lot of the time it's

744
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 1: like things mimicking what I do, how I wear my hair,

745
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 1: how I as my eyebrows. You know, so maybe I'm

746
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:05,240
Speaker 1: the blueprint. You are right, you are the blueprint. Every

747
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: every I feel like every mail stylist they look up

748
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: to something idolized, some woman's Mariah Carey Beyonce, Like they

749
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: idolize a woman, you know. So I don't understand how

750
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: you can be the blueprint. The only thing I can

751
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: and the one thing I will give them. Okay, the

752
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: face beat that definitely clean came from the trans community,

753
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: Black women in particular. We're never wearing that much heavy

754
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: ass makeup. My home girl, her daughter, Yeah, my home girl,

755
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: her daughter faced time over the weekend after somebody did

756
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: her makeup and I'm like, who's that? Who is that?

757
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: She looked like a drag queen. That's how heavy this

758
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: the makeup was. That's how I had your contouring wards.

759
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 1: And she's a beautiful ass girl, young woman, Like, you

760
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 1: don't need that much makeup. They need that much makeup

761
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: to look like us. But to be a natural woman,

762
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: you don't make up is it's supposed to like, you know,

763
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: it's just supposed to be like a hand speciment. It's

764
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: not supposed to make you look like a whole another person.

765
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: That's where we can kind of get pictures. But to

766
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: be walking around in real life if what makes you happy, yea,

767
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 1: the whole basis of the But we're we always wearing

768
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: that heavy makeup like that? Where were always wearing heavy

769
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: makeup like that? Or did that come from that community?

770
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like in like the nineties,

771
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: if you go back to early nineties and Eggs, they

772
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: were doing like strips of pink hair and blue and

773
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: that's what I'm talking about. Yeah, But but Whitney was

774
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: more this ship. Whitney was kind of born on the

775
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: other side with the the you know to me with

776
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: the up and stuff lighter. When I looked at us,

777
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: we mainly had on some lip liner, you know, not

778
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: a little fake mole. And then when we spice it up,

779
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: we do a red lip, you know. We that was

780
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: like nineties. I'm talking about like the eighties when they

781
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: were like like hervy blush and their eyes and like

782
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:32,439
Speaker 1: it was hot, it was bright. But I just think

783
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: it just changes with the torn for the face hair

784
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: is to give a higher cheek. Most women naturally have

785
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:42,479
Speaker 1: that cheek phone right, so that lift that doesn't come

786
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: from women, that extra lift that knows on and all

787
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: that ship. That's how we look naturally a lot of y.

788
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: But not if he game right and he needs to

789
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: get it back, because yeah, my ship, if I turned

790
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: to the side, it ain't like that no more. Why

791
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: should ain't ask me like that number I'm listening. I'm

792
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: thankful for that. Yes, yes, me too, because maybe they

793
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: come from um the community that now sometimes like she

794
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: sometimes it can be a bit much, But I do

795
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: appreciate some of those, especially of this part. Yeah, that's

796
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: my favorite. Yes, I don't kind of told my nose

797
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: because keep I keep my nose. But this cham part,

798
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: I thank you, thank you sir for forgetting me white

799
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,240
Speaker 1: with with with the chat. You know, I'm saying, my chicks,

800
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: the second one don't need to be a part of everything.

801
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: You know it don't need to be a part of

802
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: nothing in my life. Honestly, that second chick could go

803
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: to hell. Yeah, I don't know. O goodness, So let

804
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 1: me ask you. All is all right with in the

805
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: black community. All of our most of our products and

806
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: hair it comes from hair stores that are ran by

807
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: Asians in our community where they don't really invest any

808
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: money back into the Black community. After you spend that

809
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: money in that hair store, that money does not recirculate

810
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: in our neighborhoods. How do y'all feel about that? Like?

811
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,959
Speaker 1: I don't like it? Does it make you? It does?

812
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: It's a monopoly, you know, so when you go to

813
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: a black on hairstore, the prices are astronomical, you know,

814
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: and you when you think about you know people who

815
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: are buying that, who don't go to the hair salon

816
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: and buy all their products and do their kids hair

817
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: at home. It can can sometimes it's not affordable to

818
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: always invest in the black hair stores. That's the toughest part.

819
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: Because if we could get more right it cos more

820
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: we could afford it more than we would. But it

821
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: is unfortunate it. I know a lot of people who

822
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: have navigated their life around never going to Asian owned

823
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: businesses because they don't invest that to the black means.

824
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: I try my best, you know. I mean, even if

825
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: you open a shop, you still have to go to

826
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: them for them products because most everything is produced in

827
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: you know, in China. You know, the tools and stuff

828
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: that we use. Maybe not so much the hair products

829
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: because it's like I know, there's a lot of black

830
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: women now have natural hair carolines and it's just from

831
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: natural fruits and berries and roots and ship right, But

832
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: like tools, like homes, all this jury, all this stuff

833
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: they do the kids. Even the music and the god

834
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: damn store a lot. They got gospel music. Then they

835
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,479
Speaker 1: got wrapped going on in a damn hair store. And

836
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: if your total comes out to a dollar and twelve

837
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: cents and you don't have them two pennies, they will

838
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: send your ass to the car. You can't even get

839
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:52,280
Speaker 1: two pennies from the Asians inside their stores. I would

840
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 1: like to challenge more Black women to try and shop black.

841
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: They had there some black online stores which would be

842
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: a little bit cheaper for us to do. Maybe it

843
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: might take a little bit longer for you to get

844
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: your products, but that's something we can do in our community, right.

845
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even I wouldn't even be mad at uh

846
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: the Asian people in the black community. If they put

847
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: some money back into they just did. That money circulated

848
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: more in our community, but it doesn't they take it

849
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 1: to their own like our dollar leaves instantly when we

850
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: when we invested in there, and we spend so much

851
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,879
Speaker 1: money there. They're just so much money as of I'll

852
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: say what the last ten years or so starting to

853
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: hire black women to work inside there um and their stores.

854
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 1: We couldn't even get a job in there. They follow

855
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: you around the store, which I do. People steal, Okay,

856
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: people do steal, so I don't. I can't fault them

857
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,240
Speaker 1: for that. But fighting and putting your hands on people

858
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: for a couple of dollars, no right, I used to.

859
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:57,919
Speaker 1: I used to steal. So your picture was that there?

860
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,240
Speaker 1: You had your picture? Remember them sticks with the balls

861
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: on the back, boy, I used to gonna rob live

862
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: for them little balls. I have most to do whatever,

863
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: don't play with me the show I had a rare ball.

864
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Blue Ball has reparations. So I'm trying to have everything

865
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,720
Speaker 1: that I'm playing to eat in the salon, ruscious cones,

866
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: satin pillowcases, styling products, whatever I use, I sell so

867
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: they don't have to go there. But that's just also

868
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: just business marketing for my own self. But I have

869
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: everything I use so they can get that helps Do

870
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: you not get it from? Do you not go to

871
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: into my products? Are professional or but I can say

872
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,439
Speaker 1: if I order it involke from somewhere, it's probably gonna

873
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: come from China. I mean everything does. So I'm not

874
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: like you should not paying that premium price though from

875
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: having a grown business. You know, I'm rather my clients

876
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,319
Speaker 1: come of my small business and support me than going

877
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: to the Asian hair store buying it, even though we

878
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 1: probably all got it somewhere from the same place somewhat. Um.

879
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: But my products are professional and then do not come

880
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: from China. But bruscious cones. I don't know where they

881
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 1: come from. They probably do. Yeah, y'all know they passed

882
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: that last year. They passed like the it's not called

883
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: the Asian Hate Bill. It's like the COVID the COVID

884
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: uh um anti hate bill, but it's for Asian Island,

885
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: Pacific percific island whatever, right you know, right, so um,

886
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 1: and they paid the narrative that is black people that's

887
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: been attacking you know, the Asian community when we clearly

888
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: see that law came into play after a white man

889
00:52:55,719 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: shot up a massage in Atlanta. Right, if you are

890
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: that afraid of black people, why are y'all still in

891
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:08,439
Speaker 1: our communities? I'm confused if they really if there's really

892
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: a problem between Asians and black people, how are your

893
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: businesses still thriving in black communities. I don't know if

894
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: it's so much them that pay the narrative that is

895
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: black people as it is the media, you know. I

896
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: don't know if it's like Asians and black community is like, oh,

897
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: it's the black folks. No sample sized to see how

898
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: they feel about us by the way they treat us

899
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: in their establishments, y'all don't think so. No, I have,

900
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: I have Asian clients. I feel like I don't think

901
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: that they are afraid of us at all. I think

902
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 1: they look at us deadardars, like regular people. I think

903
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: that that's just something that is a narrative just put

904
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: out white supremacy. I think it's something that people just

905
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: want to push at times to make it another thing

906
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: that we're doing wrong. But no, in general, when I

907
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: walk into the hair so, I never feel like they're

908
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: afraid at all. I mean, sometimes something I feel like

909
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: my business isn't welcomed or wanted or can't or appreciate it.

910
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,720
Speaker 1: That's the word appreciated, appreciate It felt like they were afraid.

911
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: I don't afraid, right, and then I have Asian friends,

912
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: I have Asian home girls, and I don't receive that

913
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,320
Speaker 1: from like the people I go. Obviously a lot of

914
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 1: them like Loki be kind of like. I have an

915
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: Asian friend and she's definitely one of the realists. I

916
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: love her. So I don't know if that's a real narrative.

917
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 1: It's just more than likely definitely something the media is

918
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: pushing a narrative for sure. How do y'all feel about

919
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: Did y'all see this video on Instagram? This white girl,

920
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: her name is Alex von Dutch, and this is something

921
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: that we could have talked about and stupid Internet news child.

922
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: It's a couple of weeks ago, um, But she's seen

923
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: on she's like TikTok. I don't know if she's a

924
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: singer whatever. She has music in her handle on TikTok

925
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: and Instagram, but I don't know what she at, what

926
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: exactly she does, But she's on TikTok mostly and she

927
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: had that video posing a question to black women and

928
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: went viral. She was asking why black women, um don't

929
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: feel supported by black men? Did you guys see that?

930
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: But she's seen she has single ease twisting her head

931
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: like she has like a black hairstyle, right, and she

932
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: was basically posing all these questions. Supposedly she's a Kevin

933
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 1: Samuel supporter. Also, she says he was her mentor. She

934
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: would talk to him often. So it's almost like people

935
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: are creating platforms off of triggering black women about whatever,

936
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: maybe some fucking hair, our relationships with black men, all

937
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: this ship. But how do y'all feel about And she's

938
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: appropriate and playing a black woman while doing this. I

939
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,280
Speaker 1: feel very supportive by a black man, so she's definitely

940
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: not talking to me. Um. I think that people try

941
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: to push America once again. I mean, do y'all feel

942
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: supported by black man? So I don't, Yeah, I do.

943
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: I think that as a collective, maybe there's something there

944
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: as a you know, because you know, there's the whole

945
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: thing where black women are the least, are the most disrespected.

946
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm protected all that that little um you know, Malcolm

947
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 1: X said it right, and people hang onto that till

948
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 1: this day. I'm not. I don't have a victim mentality,

949
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: so to me, that's like victimhood. But I can understand

950
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: where some women may feel that way. I can understand that,

951
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: but it's all it's still some ship that's supposed to

952
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: be discussed in our community, like I don't need a

953
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: white woman um question to me about my relationship with

954
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: black back men. And it was mostly black white women

955
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 1: responding to her, and as Asian woman because she she

956
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: actually did another TikTok and said why are seventy percent

957
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 1: of black children in America praised by single mothers? And

958
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: an Asian woman responded to her ass and said, you

959
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: need to be worried about all the serial killers and

960
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: rapists and mass murderers that are being created in a

961
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:30,439
Speaker 1: two family white homes as opposed to being in black

962
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: people's business. And I felt that I um, I mean

963
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: those are good questions, right, I mean, those are things

964
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 1: that we definitely need to figure out what's going on

965
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: in our communities. But why are you asking that? And

966
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: what you're gonna very like, what are you about to do?

967
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: Get your ass beat up in the street? Those are

968
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: actually true statements sometimes, but that's not your bit. Why

969
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: did you care? And what are you gonna do when

970
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 1: you pick that bone up? What are you gonna carry

971
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: it to? What you're gonna do to help the situation? Nothing?

972
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: So are you just trying to be messy at that point,

973
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: and you're just trying to stare the pot because okay,

974
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: that's that's black problems. Let us worry about our ship.

975
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: You don't, I mean, honestly, what you're gonna do with it? Right? Right?

976
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: It was black thing exactly and got people engaging, and

977
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: that's all they wanted was the engagement. A black man

978
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: commented to her and asked her um if she was black,

979
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: and she responded back to him and she said, uh,

980
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: by heart or by skin color, So clearly she she's identifying.

981
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: That's exactly where I'm going. And in another video, she

982
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: says what does she have to do for the black

983
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: community to trust her? And she says, even though I'm

984
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 1: not black, I identify with you. Again, we need to

985
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: do a better job at gate keeping the motherfucker's feeling

986
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: titled to all things black women. If you want to

987
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 1: get the check on social media, what they do they

988
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: make like caricatures out of out of black women. They

989
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,439
Speaker 1: throw away going on do our head movements, talk about

990
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: like it's they're making fun. But a black woman oftentimes

991
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: can't become a millionaire or get a million follows off

992
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 1: of naturally just being herself. But a white woman pretending

993
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: to be us. We'll get support from the black community

994
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: and a white community. Um, I saw a lot of

995
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: black women got a million follow You don't think, I

996
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: don't think. Uh. Let's take the little catch me outside

997
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 1: a little girl for example. Why should she be famous

998
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: because young people follow her? I don't follow her. I mean,

999
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: you know young people have a million followers easy. But

1000
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: also she's um a character like people want to see

1001
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: someone at the fool and what characters that she does,

1002
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: character of a specific type of black woman? She does,

1003
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 1: she does, she does. But also there are black women

1004
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 1: being themselves. I have a million followers, and that's why

1005
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 1: people do imitate those accounts because they know it generates.

1006
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: You know, people want it. Even on exty, there's a

1007
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: Willian faith. Black owned distance is on emty. They're not

1008
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: black owned bustance. They just have like black found magic.

1009
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: It is something I guess it's flattery, but people are

1010
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: imitating us, right. Yeah, this is very interesting and I

1011
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: feel like we can go all day long with a

1012
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 1: black hair topic because it just goes into all so

1013
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 1: many different things. When you start talking about black women

1014
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: and here relationships growing up natural, we've we gotta stop

1015
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: somewhere right right, So I want us to do a

1016
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: dumb bish story. Dumb story because we've all been a

1017
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: dumb bitch at least once or twice. So you've listened

1018
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: to the show. We always have our guests share a

1019
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: dumbing story. It doesn't have to be about Hair. I mean,

1020
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 1: if you could relate to her, that would be great.

1021
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: But if you could think of a moment you were

1022
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: ever played or somebody tried to play you or ran

1023
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: them up? Can you share a time me? I don't know,

1024
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: you know mine? Do you have one for me? You

1025
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: can look it is what it is. You've been keeping

1026
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 1: tallying her dumb bit activity for her, tam, you know

1027
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: that one time? Now you one time a dumb bitch?

1028
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: Did you remember? I've been smart your whole life? She

1029
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: was smart her whole life, y'all that one time. Um,

1030
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: I can tell you a story about us. Just be

1031
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: a dumb bitches together. Okay, that's a good one ahead. Um.

1032
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 1: It was Easter, all right. This is like in our twenties.

1033
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 1: It is Easter Sunday morning and we had been out

1034
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 1: club and all night. Six am, six am is people

1035
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 1: getting up ready to go praise the Lord and thank

1036
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 1: him for resurrecting and stuff, and we drunk and she

1037
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 1: was like, stop and get gas and I forgot she

1038
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 1: said that, and I wasn't paying the kitchen. I was

1039
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: driving her car and we broke down on the side

1040
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: of the highway with no gas, and some strange white

1041
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 1: people pulled over and picked us up, took us to

1042
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 1: the gas station and we got a gas can. When

1043
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: I was out there smoking a black and mouth filling

1044
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: up the gas came about to blow. My mother fuck

1045
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: herself up. And we got a gallon of gas and

1046
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: people took us back to our car and then we

1047
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: made it home. That was so dumb. It was That

1048
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: was dumb. But let's talk. It wasn't strip club, not

1049
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 1: just a regular club. Yeah, And Tammy asked for twenty

1050
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: on pump one and they're like, it's just one gallon

1051
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: for the can. You can't get twenty. And I was

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01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: so confused. I'm like, why I can't get twenties? I

1053
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: need twenties. It's like it's a gabbling can be like,

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01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: so putting twenty in it? Wake up? Did your car

1055
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: broke down? I was like, did you forget? Yeah? That

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Speaker 1: was that was a fun night. We didn't go to church.

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01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: We did not make it to church. I prayed. I

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01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: prayed on the side of the road before we got

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01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: in the car with those wife folks. That was the would. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But they were so nice. They were so nice, and

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01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: they were young. They were young adults. They were very young. Yeah,

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01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: they were younger than us. I feel like, like, where

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01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 1: y'all coming from this LAG's probably going They're probably going

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01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: to church. You know, that was not going to church.

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01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 1: They didn't look like it. They didn't seem like the

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01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: churchy type. But okay, that was our She got some

1067
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: dumbing stories. She just ain't gonna share that right there.

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Speaker 1: So Tamka, before we close out, do you have a

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01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: dumb bit story to share with us? I just recently

1070
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: was a dumb bit you know what I'm saying. Oh now,

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01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: all my divorcement. So I guess you know that that

1072
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: gul tearing the hair. But I remember it was one

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01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 1: time where you know, basically I and actually A look

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01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 1: a little stupid. This is an older story. Let me

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01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: tell this this. I ain't gonna go to currents. So

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01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: me and I act, you know, we had broken up

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01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 1: or whatever. So he picked me up and we went

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01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: out to eat and me being messy his girlfriend. I

1079
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: was like, I'm out with your nigga. You know what

1080
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We out to eat this and that I'm sending.

1081
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm sending like pictures, I'm sneaking on pictures and all this. Right,

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01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: So she calls him right and basically he was he

1083
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 1: looking at his phone. He didn't ask it, so he

1084
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: comes to text just flood it through. So do you

1085
01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: know this nigga got up and left my ass right

1086
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: there at that restaurant right so rightfully so lightly got

1087
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 1: up and left my ass hit that restaurant down? I

1088
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 1: want do you hear me? I felt so du But

1089
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: I can laugh about that ship down, like I can

1090
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: really laugh about that. Then I went I was it

1091
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: and we was at off not so I got the

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01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: phone at like go with me. She was like, all right,

1093
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: don't go about way. So literally I'm sitting everybody see

1094
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 1: see to me. Everybody knew what was going on. Maybe

1095
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: that would be be guilty. I'm just sitting there in

1096
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: front of a hot with the ride home because he

1097
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:13,439
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's my dumb by stories because I kind

1098
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: of still was messing with him after that, because but

1099
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 1: that told me to stand by then place. I had

1100
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 1: no business texted that girl. I'm telling her what we're

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01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: going on. That's my home, right, You had no business

1102
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: with her? Mad? Did you? Man apologized when she was

1103
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: hunting on him? Now, ma'am good? Oh damn. So I

1104
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 1: was a dumb bit, so stupid bit all that wrapped

1105
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 1: up it was out Luckily it was out hot. But

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01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed. I wouldn't even be I'm sitting

1107
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 1: there eye hoop Ruth christ and more steakhouse like nasty hop.

1108
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 1: In my defense, it didn't matter when we was at

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01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 1: I was in there with her. I didn't needed her

1110
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: to do that. I didn't We could have been at

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01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: Taco Bell and I need to let her know that

1112
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: I got my leap that. But but the laugh was

1113
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: on me. What's your side? What the hell? That's why? Oh? Yeah,

1114
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: both for y'all, Sagittarius, Yeah all right, y'allum. So please, um,

1115
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 1: if you have anything going on that you want people

1116
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 1: to follow, your social media, your businesses, or anything that

1117
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 1: you want to share with everyone, please go ahead and

1118
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 1: plug yourself right now. Okay, Well, thank you guys for

1119
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Speaker 1: having me a jan Town. I am on Instagram, am

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Speaker 1: at Stylista Hair Company dot com as T Y L

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01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: I S T A H J I r CEO. All right, y'all,

1122
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: and she do that Gina curl if y'all want that

1123
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: curly curly hair. What I was doing with curl right

1124
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 1: without the win is nice. Yeah. This has been so

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01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,600
Speaker 1: much fun, guys, And thanks A J and TAM for

1126
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 1: having me so you can on Instagram. Still I had

1127
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: to thank only one this Parker on Instagram. Okay, hey

1128
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 1: with Carker you can follow me on Instagram, you know.

1129
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: So it's been fun. Thank you guys. Yeah, thank y'all

1130
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 1: so much for coming on and talking hair with us.

1131
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: We gotta have y'all back. When it get cold, we're

1132
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: gonna talk about I went to hair, some of hair,

1133
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:59,799
Speaker 1: all this ship all the same. All right, y'all listen

1134
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 1: and enjoyed this episode. Please tune in every Thursday on

1135
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 1: an I Heart Radio Apple wherever the fuck you get

1136
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 1: your podcast at. Y'all, This is a j holiday two

1137
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: point oh. Y'all follow me on Instagram. We got Twitter

1138
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: going as we talked back podcast and he dumb b

1139
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 1: stories ask a black friend. We want to get back

1140
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 1: into that, all right, send us an email at We

1141
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: talked back, p O D at gmail dot com. Y'all

1142
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:26,679
Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram's official tam bam. I love y'all. Listen.

1143
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: I know we do a j gonna scare all the

1144
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 1: white people. I'd be responding, be ready to call them

1145
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,679
Speaker 1: dumb bitches. Get out of here now. I'll be having

1146
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 1: real responses for people if they had dumb mis want

1147
01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: to hear it. You can abusing people on the low down. No,

1148
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 1: I know it's all in love. Listen, So Senor, ask

1149
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: a black friend your dumb bitch story sending that in

1150
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 1: We need that. UM follow me again, I said Instagram

1151
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: official tam bam. And y'all remember to speak now. Never

1152
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: hold your piece