1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,279 Speaker 1: I've also got this opinion piece in the New York Times. 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: The problem with saying sex assigned at birth, that is, 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: I think unintentionally hilarious. A lot of this stuff is 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: hilarious until you consider how far it's gone to wit. 5 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: What a pleasure this is to talk to Riley Gaines in. 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:20,159 Speaker 1: Unless you were a college swimmer, you probably didn't know 7 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: her name or a fan of college swimming until fairly recently. 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: But Riley has been crusading bravely, and I won't put 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: words in her mouth but for the simple proposition that 10 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,279 Speaker 1: women's sports are for women and women's private spaces are 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: for women period. Riley is the director of the Riley 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: gains Center at the Leadership Institute and joins us. 13 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 2: Now, Riley, how are you. 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: I am doing great, and let me tell you you 15 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: are always allowed to put those words in my mouth, 16 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 3: because that is exactly what I'm doing. 17 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: Well, excellent. We are big fans of yours and admire 18 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: your courage very much. For folks not familiar with this, 19 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: before we get to the basics of what you're espousing, 20 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: how tough has it been for you personally to stand 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 2: up and say women's sports are for women? 22 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 3: You know what, when I first took that initial public 23 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 3: fand after of course competing at the national Championships against 24 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 3: Leah Thomas, who's formerly Will Thomas, who swam three years 25 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: on the men's team at you Penn before deciding to 26 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 3: switch to the women's team. After seeing all of that firsthand, 27 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 3: after going through sensitivity training and social justice circles and 28 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 3: all the different things, I was terrified. But I could 29 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,279 Speaker 3: not have been more naive to how easy it really 30 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 3: is to say something so simple. Again, all I'm saying 31 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 3: is that there are two sexes. You can't change your sex, 32 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: and each sex is deserving an equal opportunity, privacy and safety. 33 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 3: It's wild that that we live in a time where 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 3: that now requires bravery to say that, But it's easy 35 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 3: saying it for me. 36 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 4: Now it's a hill. I'm willing time. 37 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: So when you how many times did you swim against 38 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: Leah Thomas, the most famous trends athlete too, that once. 39 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 4: Against him at that one national championships. Okay, as I 40 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 4: mentioned competed. 41 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: What was what was it like in the pool of 42 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: the crowd that day? I mean, were was everybody just 43 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: like ignoring the elephant in the room or were people 44 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: talking about it. 45 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 3: It was weird going into the meet, almost ashamedly, I 46 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 3: felt intrigued. I had a lot of questions myself and 47 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: my teammates that that we wanted answered, right, like what 48 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 3: is the locker room going to look like? 49 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:34,839 Speaker 4: Yeah? 50 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: Is he as tall as he seems on Instagram compared 51 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 3: to his teammates. But upon arriving to that meet and 52 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: of course having these questions answered, like I said, I 53 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 3: felt ashamed for feeling intrigued, and those feelings of intriguement 54 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 3: and almost like this, this big circus were we were 55 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: a part of those feelings shifted the heartbreak. I mean, 56 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,519 Speaker 3: I felt like competing against them. I was going into 57 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: the race with my hands tied behind my back. 58 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 2: Well, you don't have anything to apologize for, I mean, 59 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: for gonna sake. You were a young college woman, and 60 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: I don't blame you for thinking, Wow, what the hell 61 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 2: is going to happen? But you were forced to share 62 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: the locker room, or at least Leah Thomas's teammates were 63 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: for a very long time with a six foot four 64 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 2: inch man, fully intact genitals on display, and you were 65 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: being required to look at that human and say, that's 66 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 2: a woman. 67 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 3: Not only that, but when we objected to this, we 68 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 3: were told we were the problem. 69 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 4: Right. We were told that we were. 70 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 3: The ones who should oologize and if we didn't see 71 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: this as a woman, then ultimately it was us who 72 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 3: are who are the biggest, and we should face the repercussions. 73 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 3: Thomas's teammates who objected to this, Granted they keep in mind, 74 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 3: yes I a dressed with him and that at that 75 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 3: national championship, but his teammates did eighteen times every single week. 76 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: And when they objected to this and sit an email 77 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: to their administration, you pan, I swear to you I 78 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 3: have a screenshot of the response. 79 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 4: You' penn responded back with if you. 80 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: Feel uncomfortable seeing managing to tell you, here are some 81 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: counseling resources that you speak in an attempt to re 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: educate yourselves. 83 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: Wow, how did that happen a couple of years after 84 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: Me Too? Where if a guy asked a girl out 85 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: on a date at work, you were Harvey Weinstein. 86 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: That's so crazy, I know it. 87 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 4: And now these same people who advocated for the. 88 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 3: Me Too movement, who claimed to champion and pride themselves 89 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: on championing women's rights it's those same people who are 90 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 3: spearheading this movement to really dismantle our rights as. 91 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 2: Women, well as the father of a couple of daughters 92 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: and a youth sports coach who coached girls. I remember 93 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 2: in boys. I remember remarking on the show years and 94 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 2: years ago, as I was head coach for a boys 95 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: soccer team and assisting with my daughter's soccer team, the 96 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: speed and violence of the boys at the same age 97 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: was shocking compared to the girls. If the girls exit 98 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: deadly knocked each other down, they would say, oh my god, 99 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 2: I'm sorry and pick up their opponent off the turf. Meanwhile, 100 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: the guys are bleeding from the head and covered with 101 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 2: mud and loving it. The idea that oh, no, no, 102 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 2: now that male says she's a female is the sort 103 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 2: of absurdity Voltaire talked about when he said, those who 104 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: can make us believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. 105 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: But anyway, so Riley Gaines, you've got your Riley gain 106 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 2: Center at the Leadership Institute. What are the main things 107 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 2: you're trying to accomplish? What are the basic principles? 108 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 3: The main thing we're trying to accomplish through the center 109 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 3: is it's a training program to help train and develop 110 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 3: and equip and empower leaders, whether that's leaders at the 111 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: national level, the community level of course, within school boards, 112 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 3: college teams, college athletes, whatever it might be. We need 113 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 3: more leaders. I believe that's why our suffering. I have 114 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 3: also been and speaking on several different college campuses through 115 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 3: the Center. 116 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 4: Which has been a big push of mine. 117 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 3: To really help engage the youth people who are my age, 118 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 3: you know, being a recent college graduate myself, I understand. 119 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 4: I understand how how hard it is. 120 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 3: You're essentially equated to a criminal if you say you're 121 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: a conservative on college cases. 122 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 4: Not that this issue. 123 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 3: Should be part of it or should fall along party 124 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: lines in the way that ultimately it has, at least 125 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: in terms of how our elected officials are responding and 126 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 3: how the media portrays this issue. 127 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 4: But we need more truth speakers, truth. 128 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 3: Speakers, So that's what speaking on these college campuses, that's 129 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: the goal there. 130 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 2: Riley Gaines is going to be speaking at You See 131 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: Berkeley not far from the Radio Ranch tomorrow, that's April 132 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: the fourth, at six point thirty, as part of her 133 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: Reclaim Feminism campus tour. Was it you See Berkeley that 134 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,479 Speaker 2: you ran into like violent opposition or like last year 135 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: was it? 136 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 3: Yes, you're exactly right, almost exactly a year ago. It 137 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: was at San Francisco State University. I was met with vitriol, 138 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 3: I was met with violence, I was met with, of course, hatefulness. 139 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 3: And it's so comical, like you, like you mentioned in 140 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: the intro here, it would be comical. This is the 141 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 3: same crowd who claims to be tall and who claims 142 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 3: to be inclusive and welcoming and accepting. But that is 143 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 3: not what I faced at San Francisco, and oftentimes not 144 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: what I faced around the country. This is the least 145 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 3: tolerant group you could possibly imagine. But nonetheless, this is 146 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 3: who needs to hear the message. It's no good preaching 147 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: to the choir all the time. So I'm excited to 148 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 3: be in the Bay Area. I'm excited to be at 149 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: u C. Berkeley, and I'm I'm now, given my experience 150 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 3: last year in San Francisco, I am more than prepared 151 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 3: for what could possibly and most certainly probably will you. 152 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: Got the yeah, probably, will you got the proper security? 153 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: I mean, so you're you're prepared for it to be ugly? 154 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: Possibly, Yes, sir, Unfortunately that's the way it has to go. 155 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: Well, probably actual guys, like big guys with penises that 156 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: are going to protect you. Oh that kind of guy, 157 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: that kind of guy. That's the kind of guy I'm 158 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: talking about you. 159 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:22,559 Speaker 4: Wow. 160 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 2: And if anybody who's working your favorite one guy now 161 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 2: Riley is a good and decent and reasonable person. I 162 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: Joe Getty, on the other hand, have fully empowered anybody 163 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: working security for Riley's event to whoop as much ass 164 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: as you need to to keep her one hundred percent safety. 165 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 2: These people are lunatics. Riley. The point you made about, 166 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: you know, welcomeness and inclusion, that is such a lie. 167 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,359 Speaker 2: It's like the whole diversity thing that doesn't mean diversity, 168 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: that means the people I want. The minute it's the 169 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 2: people I don't want. Suddenly diversity isn't important at all, 170 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: or welcomness or inclusion or whatever the hell else. So 171 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: we are going to have a link at Armstrong in 172 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: getty dot com so folks can access the Riley Gains Center, 173 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: particularly parents of young women, and not just athletes either. 174 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: I mean, because y'all are talking about not only sports 175 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 2: and locker rooms, but women's faces, women's prisons, and bathrooms 176 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 2: and that sort of thing as well. 177 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 4: Right, of course, of course we are. 178 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 3: You're exactly right in saying an extends far beyond just 179 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: women's sports. 180 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: Riley Gaines, you're a hero of ours. We appreciate your 181 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 2: time and your efforts very much. Keep up the good 182 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: fight and let us know how we can help. We 183 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 2: mean that seriously, of course. 184 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 3: Well, I thank you guys so much and appreciate you 185 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 3: for what you do. 186 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 4: So thank you Armstrong. 187 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: Andy