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<v Speaker 2>One three, check check one three. Here we go scrubbing

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<v Speaker 2>in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of scrubbing in, Okay, I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 2>notice anything different on my face today.

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<v Speaker 1>What you don't see that? Do it again? The pimple? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that you can see it from there is

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<v Speaker 2>just go.

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<v Speaker 1>She literally lifted it and shine into the light. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of those undergrounders that hurt hell like they

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<v Speaker 2>just hurt being there. It just hurts being there. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I have something inside me and I know

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't touch it. But what as doctor Tilly, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>would you prescribe me this?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't touch it, keep it clean. I'd put a pimple

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<v Speaker 1>patch on it. Really yeah, maybe it like sulfur mass,

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<v Speaker 1>sulfur based mask so it can extract the stuff, But

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<v Speaker 1>don't touch it. It'll create a wound.

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<v Speaker 2>All I want to do is touch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I gotta say thank you for coming in today

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<v Speaker 1>with such.

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<v Speaker 2>A huge You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>But those are the worst. Yeah, I had one on

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<v Speaker 1>my forehead. Oh you saw it last week? Saw it?

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<v Speaker 1>It was, And then I tried what you do with that? Honestly?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I be honest?

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<v Speaker 2>You squeezed it?

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<v Speaker 1>No, well I had squeezed it when I saw you,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was like it was unhappy. I said to myself, Becka,

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<v Speaker 1>you know better than this. So I went home. I

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<v Speaker 1>put a pimple patch on it. Didn't really do anything

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<v Speaker 1>because I had basically created a wound. Yeah, I put

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<v Speaker 1>neasporn on it and then a little band aid. Woke

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<v Speaker 1>up the next day and it was like I would say, healed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna put neosporn on it to night with

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<v Speaker 2>a band aid.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think you should try. I think there's stuff

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<v Speaker 1>in there. Yeah, first I'll go at it. No, don't

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<v Speaker 1>go on it. I'll put a neosporn band aid on

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<v Speaker 1>it and not go at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be very upset if I see you next and

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<v Speaker 1>you have a wound. But I do recommend putting like

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<v Speaker 1>a mask and then a pimble patch on there and

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<v Speaker 1>going to sleep. The Hero Cosmetic ones all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have paid partnership with them coming up, But I

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<v Speaker 1>love those Wow. So do you hope them at your house? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I do. Actually, I might have one in

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<v Speaker 1>my in my bag.

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<v Speaker 2>This is working out anyways, you've been busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. This I was just saying, like booked

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<v Speaker 1>and it was one of those weekends where it was

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<v Speaker 1>so fun, like I had such a great weekend, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like not a RESTful weekend. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>a fun go get them, go get them, you get

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<v Speaker 1>them tigers. So did it start? Well, it started with

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<v Speaker 1>Thursday's episode with Chelsea Cutler, which I loved her so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, such a I just she was a great get.

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<v Speaker 2>She has a really good energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Great she was so I just I was if she

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<v Speaker 1>and Haley wrote a song together, I'd die.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I meant to ask you. So when

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<v Speaker 2>she says something like that, like, oh, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>do a song with Hailey, do you tell Hailey?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she said, Actually, what Chelsea said was that she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted Haley to direct a video, which I think is like, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>writing a song is a compliment, but Hailey shines as

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<v Speaker 1>a director. So like her saying that I told Haley

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<v Speaker 1>and She's like that is so kind, Like she was

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<v Speaker 1>just like very flattered. So do you like make it happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you wheel and deal? I'll do as much as

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<v Speaker 1>I can, but I think I offer the I connect

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs and then it's out of my hands. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would love it. So then Friday, as Ali

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<v Speaker 1>Grant's maid of honor, we drove down to San Diego

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<v Speaker 1>and we tried on dresses. Her first try on dress

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<v Speaker 1>experience was it fun? It was really fun, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what do I do as made of honor?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I haven't done this? So like, what is my role?

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<v Speaker 1>What is my role as the maid of honor for this?

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<v Speaker 1>So I got her sprays hand the night before so

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<v Speaker 1>that she felt you know, spirals, she felt her best ye,

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<v Speaker 1>And then we drove down on Friday morning and she

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<v Speaker 1>tried on dresses and it was so fun, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was so chill, and I think it I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>depends on where you go, but I feel like when

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<v Speaker 1>you go to like when I envision dress try on,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it'd be very intimidating depending on where

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<v Speaker 1>you go, right, because you were like, are they gonna

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<v Speaker 1>judge if I'm not like a super small size? Are

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<v Speaker 1>they gonna you know? You're just like, oh, sorry, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have that size for you, Like that's for a

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<v Speaker 1>different body tie. I don't know. I was just thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>like in my mind, I think could be intimidating. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Ali thought that too. But it was so cute

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<v Speaker 1>and like intimate and cozy. In the place we went

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<v Speaker 1>in San Diego was just like this cute little house

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<v Speaker 1>that had all these beautiful dresses and she was in

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<v Speaker 1>such a it was just every dress looked so beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>on her that it was like easy, breezy. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't stressful because like you know, when you're like

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<v Speaker 1>with someone in I keep trying on dresses and then

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<v Speaker 1>nothing's working and you're like, oh no, it's okay, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we just have it on the one It wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like how are you gonna choose? Really? So

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<v Speaker 1>that was a success. We went and had a cute lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I got I met so I've known Ali since two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and sixteen, I think, yeah, yeah, and uh, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never met her parents, so that's fun. So we went

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<v Speaker 1>to their house and I got to meet her parents

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it was really it was just fun. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we stayed at a hotel, which one it was

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<v Speaker 1>a new one. It was called like Aliyah or something.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a Hyatt hotel, but they just opened it

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<v Speaker 1>and insinitas. It was so beautiful. It's right on the water,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had dinner and then did like a jacuzzi.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like very like girls night, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fun. And then the next morning she.

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<v Speaker 2>Said she tried on ten dresses total. I'm like, that

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<v Speaker 2>seems like a low number to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, it was just like so easy, so easy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like nice to hear because everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Jojo tried one just a few too, Like we went

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<v Speaker 1>to a couple of different spots, but she didn't try

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<v Speaker 1>on a ton.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, yeah, I felt I don't know why I

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<v Speaker 2>envisioned so much chaos, and like so many people have been.

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<v Speaker 2>I was asking people kind of like with wedding planning,

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<v Speaker 2>where do you start? And so many women were saying,

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<v Speaker 2>get your dress asap, and I was like that was

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<v Speaker 2>not even on my mind, Like that was like that's

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<v Speaker 2>on the back burner right now because I thought venue

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<v Speaker 2>and date and all that stuff is more important. And

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, no wedding dresses can be back ordered for

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<v Speaker 2>you know, maybe a year, and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>now that's a whole other stress that I didn't think about.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I think it's fun. That part to

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<v Speaker 1>me feels well, you're so funny about like clothes and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's like it's a little tight. It's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it just fits, it's touching too much of my step.

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<v Speaker 3>According to K and B Bridles, they say most brides

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<v Speaker 3>try on four to seven dresses and they don't recommend

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<v Speaker 3>more than ten because it's just you're gonna start hating.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>Other sites say no more than ten to fifteen. So

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<v Speaker 3>I would say ten is kind of right in the pocket.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe a little high.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's so interesting, I guess. Also I was watching

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<v Speaker 2>Alex Cooper. She was posting her wedding dress trounds and

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<v Speaker 2>she had like it look like she was going through

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<v Speaker 2>so many but maybe it's just a facade.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah maybe. But also I think once you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel like what shape you like, then you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of narrow it down because like you, she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>tried on different shapes, like you know, the classic wedding gown,

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<v Speaker 1>like a more fitted and then you kind of go like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want that, or this is the vibe I want,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, but yeah, so that was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Saturday we went to met Hailey Marla, who's

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<v Speaker 1>one of her she's Hailey's best friend, but I've adopted

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<v Speaker 1>her as one of my best friends. And then Haley

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<v Speaker 1>brother Thatcher and we went to Disneyland. And Disneyland's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny for me because every time I get there, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, there's so many people. It's hot.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it was just so hot this weekend too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it was just like it's crowded. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I like walk in the gates of Disney Street and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I made it. I'm here. Yeah, the most

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<v Speaker 1>magical place on Earth.

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<v Speaker 2>I also love Disneyland around Halloween time.

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<v Speaker 1>This is my first time. Oh I've never been. It's so,

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<v Speaker 1>did you go to the Haunted Mansion? No, well, we

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<v Speaker 1>went by it. We saw it. It was like different.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was the night before Christmas themed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's well, it was really cute on the outside. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we it was really fun though. We went on

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<v Speaker 1>the Okay, so I've been on the Star Wars Resistance

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<v Speaker 1>ried have you been on it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like Star Wars?

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<v Speaker 3>There's two of them. I was on one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>The other one Star Tours, one of them where you

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<v Speaker 2>like walk out and you see all the white soldiers. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that one, I don't know. That's Rise of the Resistance.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a line for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that must be that one. It is crazy. But

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<v Speaker 1>the first time we went on that, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a really cool ride. But I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>think I was expecting like a lot of I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know movement and it was more just like experience. But

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<v Speaker 1>this time I loved it. And I'm not even a

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<v Speaker 1>Star Wars sad. Why did you love it so much?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>You were high, like there's no other right when right.

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<v Speaker 1>When we went on and I was like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the coolest thing ever. I got so paranoid because that

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<v Speaker 1>the casts they're like mean to you. They're like, get hurry,

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<v Speaker 1>you're moving too slow, like they're in character. But I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know, so I was like, they know I'm high,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they're like yelling at me to move faster, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I felt like I was moving fast enough.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so crazy, but it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was gonna say that ride is not not

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<v Speaker 2>my cup of tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, Hayley said she felt like she was in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie so traditional, like I like a coaster. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. Okay. So then we go over to California

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<v Speaker 1>Adventure and we go on the Incredit Coaster, Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>is my favorite roller coaster of all time. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the best roller coaster. Yeah. And we get

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<v Speaker 1>there and the line is you know where the bridges

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<v Speaker 1>when you cross over from uh like where the food is,

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<v Speaker 1>and you cross over the bridge, the line for the

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<v Speaker 1>fast lane was back almost to the bridge. It was

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<v Speaker 1>crazy and you stayed in it. No, we had gotten

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<v Speaker 1>past it, but like once we got off, we saw

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<v Speaker 1>it was but basically we were the last one before

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<v Speaker 1>they had to shut it down, and like towards the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the roller coaster, it abruptly stopped. And I

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<v Speaker 1>looked at Haley and I was like, we're not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to stop right now. We're supposed to be going like

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<v Speaker 1>fast in the last two loops and She's like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they always stop right here, and I'm like, no, they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we got off and they're like, hey, the

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<v Speaker 1>Incredit Coaster is temporarily closed. Did they say why that's

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<v Speaker 1>so scary? I think there was someone getting medical assistance

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<v Speaker 1>in the other so I think they only had one

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<v Speaker 1>going and maybe I don't know, but I got so

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out. It was so scary. That's like my biggest fear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I go on them because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the potential for that to happen, that you get stuck.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get scared on those big places like Disneyland

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff, but like the little fairs around town. How

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<v Speaker 2>many days has this been going because there's a little

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<v Speaker 2>rickety and who.

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<v Speaker 1>Put it up? Yeah? Yeah, let me see their license. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Disney was really fun, but my gosh, like, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what shoes you wear, your feet hurt. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you were probably not in like oh really, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>love them. I mean, like the cutest best shoes. They

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<v Speaker 1>feel like clouds. But like, no matter how long you walk,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean how it's just an abnormal amount of time

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<v Speaker 1>on your feet to be on your feet, on your

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<v Speaker 1>hoobs and a lot of just standing, you know. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was so fun. And then yesterday I

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<v Speaker 1>can't say what are costume is is?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we're going to post it soon. But Haley and

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<v Speaker 1>I took some Halloween photos in a iconic cost couple's costume.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very good. You liked it. I loved it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was very impressed with the photos. Yeah, to show you Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>Will you guys go all out?

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<v Speaker 3>I remember your Grinch one, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The best because it was a Christmas party, so it

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<v Speaker 2>was so unexpected, Like I just thought I was walking

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<v Speaker 2>into like cute dress party town. Right, she may come

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<v Speaker 2>in waddling in like the Grinch and Martha May. One

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<v Speaker 2>of my favorite videos of Becca is her like breathing

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<v Speaker 2>with like the prosthetic nose, like flaring up and down.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so gross like it. It was such a

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing because when I I couldn't breathe while I

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<v Speaker 1>was eating, so I didn't want to eat because it

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<v Speaker 1>was really hard. It was having to like mouth breathe,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't like to do period. But I did

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<v Speaker 1>keep drinking, so the deadly combo of drinking and not

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<v Speaker 1>eating really snuck up to me. Yeah, it tends to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Tends to happen. I saw videos the next day where

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<v Speaker 1>I go, hmmm, don't remember that, mm hmm. But everyone

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was a great time. Yeah, you were a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. And that's tough for me to hear because

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me want to please.

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<v Speaker 2>The people, right yeah, and keep the keep drink drinking, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we did that all yesterday and then here

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<v Speaker 1>we are today. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually a lot of people messaged me because I

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<v Speaker 2>went to a chicken tender festival yesterday and everybody was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is Becca's worst nightmare.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, like, did you have to inspect every

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<v Speaker 1>piece of chicken you ate?

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, swallow a hole, just bid into, bid into it

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<v Speaker 2>and chewed it up and swallowed it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I would do too. It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of fun the way you described it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it was. And you know, so I was

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<v Speaker 2>not gluten free yesterday. I went full gluttonous. But what

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<v Speaker 2>they do is they have these like booths that are

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<v Speaker 2>all set up from different different chicken tender places.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do they have this event? By the way, it's I.

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<v Speaker 2>Forget the name of the venue, but it's it's on

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<v Speaker 2>It's on Santa Monica Boulevard. Oh, it's like it's an Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And so they're like little booths and so you pay

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<v Speaker 2>for like the entry, and you just you can take

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<v Speaker 2>as many samples from however money you want, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>they put them in like those little boats, and we

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<v Speaker 2>took the kids and they love chicken tender, so they

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<v Speaker 2>were like having the best time of their lives. But

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<v Speaker 2>you go and you just try all these I sent

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<v Speaker 2>you a text and you just didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know was in the middle of the Halloween Photer show.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really excited because I was like really into

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<v Speaker 2>the Raisin Canes chicken tender and I think it's because

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<v Speaker 2>it was in the sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna ask you, so do you dip in sauces?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so everybody has like their own sauce, yes, and

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<v Speaker 2>in their sauce, well, Raisin Canes had it in like

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<v Speaker 2>a cup like drinking cups, so they had the sauce

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<v Speaker 2>in the bottom and then they put the chicken tender

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<v Speaker 2>in it, so it was just kind of like floating

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<v Speaker 2>in it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so soggy. It wasn't soggy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was delicious. And then they had different like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like Asian inspired ones, and there was like a gumbo

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<v Speaker 2>one and then Jones on third was there, which was

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<v Speaker 2>like it had almost like a Chinese chicken salad to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so good. So who won? Who won best

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<v Speaker 1>chicken tender? Uh? For you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>For me?

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<v Speaker 2>It was Jones on third Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did raisin canes serve like fries and toast or anything?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was just tender someplaces, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like raising canes without the fries and toast is just canes. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but let me tell you, the chicken tender was good,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but like the toast and the so post

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<v Speaker 1>Malone did this whole opening for Raising Canes in Dallas.

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<v Speaker 1>This's like crazy, like amazing raisin Canes restaurant Dallas. I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to go, like when I went to Vegas. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was going to Vegas. I was supposed to go,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had this genius idea of like for my

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<v Speaker 1>posts with him saying toast Malone because they're known for

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<v Speaker 1>their toe good Anyway, on the cutting room floor, it

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<v Speaker 1>sure is until maybe we meet again maybe yeah, me

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<v Speaker 1>and Posty.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say so this morning I did not

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<v Speaker 2>feel so good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'd only need a whole day of chicken tenders. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was not.

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling my stomach was feeling not happy with me.

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<v Speaker 2>This morning's feeling gluttonous. It was just not feeling good.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't get tummy aches, like I haven't had

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<v Speaker 2>a tummy ache in a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>But did that result in anything if you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, like diarrhea perhaps? No, No, just a lot of pain.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you get past it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm past it now. Yeah, thank you for asking.

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<v Speaker 1>Say it's gas pain. I don't know it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was working out actually, and I like felt it

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<v Speaker 2>and I was going to quit my workout, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, it is, challenge you. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't change you. So I'm going to stick to it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I did and it went away.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. So that was yesterday this morning? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but oh yeah yeah yeah the event. What else did

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<v Speaker 1>you do over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know what's interesting? Time just flies. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't tell you what I did this weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>But your realize today it's one month to Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, it's one month to Thanksgiving today, Your birthday is

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<v Speaker 2>in one week.

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<v Speaker 3>Christmas Eve is two months from tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas Eve is two months from tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, time is going, it's flying.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to do because I don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I have enough hours in the day. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really I'm really like fired up in like you, just

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<v Speaker 2>in general in life. Right now, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>firing at all cylinders. I'm feeling very in tune and

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<v Speaker 2>aware and what's.

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<v Speaker 1>The word motivated?

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<v Speaker 2>Motivated, but also like getting it done efficient productive as

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<v Speaker 2>some may say, I watched the Chiefs game.

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<v Speaker 1>You yep, wait, are you going to unalism productive?

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<v Speaker 2>I booked interviews with wedding planners.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Step one right, that's step one three interviews.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you find the one? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have the interviews as we probably wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be a part of them. So it's a little challenging

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<v Speaker 2>with all of our schedules.

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<v Speaker 1>But doesn't challenge you.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't change It doesn't challenge you. It does not

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<v Speaker 2>change you.

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<v Speaker 3>What is your criteria when you meet these people?

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know. I'm like, I'm gonna say, you

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<v Speaker 2>meet you with three people, you just take one.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they're gonna be like, here's my thing in your

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<v Speaker 1>bi Sure, you're just gonna have to go all personality.

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<v Speaker 2>I want somebody that's like very type A that knows

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<v Speaker 2>like that can handle my energy and also is just

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<v Speaker 2>very buttoned up. That's I guess what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Button up. Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>Are their wedding planners that are not buttoned up? It

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<v Speaker 3>seems like that's a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I would. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I would think not.

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<v Speaker 1>But you should say, what would you rate yourself on

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<v Speaker 1>a buttoned up scale?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'll say ten.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go, can't go wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you'll know. I think it's like it's like

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<v Speaker 3>in life, when you know you know. I think you'll know,

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<v Speaker 3>you think?

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<v Speaker 1>So I do vibe and price.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why Robbie's going to be there, because you

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<v Speaker 2>can hit away. He can handle the logistical questions. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be like, so you had a vision

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<v Speaker 2>board for my wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your favorite Taylor Swift album?

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<v Speaker 1>That's so good? You should be like, can you create

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<v Speaker 1>a vision board into it to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Auditioned to me my wedding?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it works? Want me? I got

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<v Speaker 1>so many? Right? Yeah, talk it through.

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<v Speaker 3>Could you say, Disco, if you were to make a

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<v Speaker 3>vision board for my wedding, what would be on it?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's a question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's as I said it. I was like Damn,

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<v Speaker 2>that was a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so, what do you think of the Chiefs game?

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<v Speaker 2>So they won? Yeah, they did, they won, And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I found it interesting that people were not they're not

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<v Speaker 2>so keen on the Brittany Mahomes friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've noticed that too.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is that? I've seen that too, and I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know why.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If again, I haven't looked into a deep dive. I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't done a deep dive, but apparently there's some slanderous

0:20:27.800 --> 0:20:30.960
<v Speaker 2>remarks that she's made in the Brittany's Mad Yeah, oh okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I should look at that because she seems adorable.

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<v Speaker 3>And also since like high.

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<v Speaker 2>School, I know, oh her and her yeah yeah yeah

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<v Speaker 2>really It's weird but reminded me of like when you're

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<v Speaker 2>newly meeting your significant others wives, you know, like are

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<v Speaker 2>their significant friends, Yeah, but when they're married, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a different level. Like I remember when I was meeting

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<v Speaker 2>all Robbie's married friends and the very beginning, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, it's intimidating.

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<v Speaker 1>You think TAS's intimidated? I think so. You don't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>she feels a certain sense of power when she walks

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<v Speaker 1>into a room. Really yes, but I do think that

0:21:14.520 --> 0:21:17.399
<v Speaker 1>she must have. Yeah, but I do think I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say I do think she tried, probably tries to

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<v Speaker 1>like really make it feel like personable because she is

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<v Speaker 1>so massive that she's probably like, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>be friends that are watching our significant others play. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're chill, we're doing handshakes, We're like living our best life. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I still feel exhausted for her that the camera just

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<v Speaker 1>pants on her and she has to be on for

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<v Speaker 1>her reaction every time she puts on a show.

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<v Speaker 2>She really gives her Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>True, Yeah, it's a lot. But so was that what

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<v Speaker 1>was that a game? Where was that?

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<v Speaker 2>It was at the Chief's Arrowhead Pond.

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<v Speaker 3>Ahead used to be in Orange County, Yes, but Erahead

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<v Speaker 3>Stadiums in Kansas City. Yes, it was a home game

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<v Speaker 3>for the Chiefs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. Oh why did I think it was like an

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<v Speaker 1>overseas game? Is there something about an overseas game that she.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's going to be overseas on tour? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>he's going to come see her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's the conversation that people are having. Yes, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, there's something else I wanted to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you about.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we could take a break.

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<v Speaker 1>And Okay, I think about that. Okay, we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're back. So every year for my birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>I like to do a trip somewhere with all my

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<v Speaker 1>best friends. And it's fun because I don't like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of direct attention on me, but it makes it

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<v Speaker 1>feel very like fun and like everyone like goes and

0:22:59.040 --> 0:23:01.280
<v Speaker 1>is together and it's just like a fun time for everyone.

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:07.080
<v Speaker 1>But it's not like direct birthday attention. It's not I

0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:09.280
<v Speaker 1>prefer it not to be, but it's not. Everyone's just

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:11.720
<v Speaker 1>like hanging out in on vacation kind of, so it

0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:14.800
<v Speaker 1>feels like less like you know. Anyways, I've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>it since twenty seventeen, where that's where client originated. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're going this week to somewhere like cold and cozy

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<v Speaker 1>because either like last year we did Hawaii and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we kind of switch it up if it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be like somehere warm or somewere cozy and cold,

0:23:31.520 --> 0:23:35.720
<v Speaker 1>and so this year we're going to Idaho and it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to get down. I looked at the weather just

0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:40.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of seeing like, oh, like it it's gonna be

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:45.680
<v Speaker 1>like nice like sweater weather, eight degrees low, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what what do you do?

0:23:46.840 --> 0:23:52.879
<v Speaker 3>Like and sweater weather? Sweat Yeah, I used to go

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<v Speaker 3>to football games when it was you know, because I'm

0:23:54.720 --> 0:23:57.040
<v Speaker 3>from Wisconsin. I don't know if I've mentioned that, but

0:23:57.240 --> 0:24:00.119
<v Speaker 3>it's like zero for a good stretch. And so when

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<v Speaker 3>when you go out to a football game and you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be outside for a long period of time,

0:24:03.080 --> 0:24:04.440
<v Speaker 3>you wear like seven layers.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to say, like when you ski, when

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 2>you go ski, it's like in the twenties, right.

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:14.000
<v Speaker 3>Anything when thirty, Yeah, but it can be over thirty.

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:15.040
<v Speaker 3>It's just you know, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't think i've ever seen eight I'm on ski.

0:24:18.240 --> 0:24:19.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sing is tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was shocked. And it just happens to come

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:26.800
<v Speaker 1>like right when we're arriving. But we are going to

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<v Speaker 1>go for the weekend. It's it's I'm really excited. Everyone's

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 1>just gonna have to well we'll just be inside mostly.

0:24:34.520 --> 0:24:35.399
<v Speaker 1>Tanya is not going.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I tend to. She skips out on the birthday,

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<v Speaker 2>the birthdays trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's been on.

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<v Speaker 3>Tend to do it when we're doing the show, right,

0:24:43.200 --> 0:24:45.480
<v Speaker 3>I mean that's what you say, we're doing the morning

0:24:45.560 --> 0:24:48.000
<v Speaker 3>show while you're on your birthday trip usually.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I usually the thing is I always I always have

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<v Speaker 2>to come by myself. So I'm always like the I

0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:55.280
<v Speaker 2>always have to go by myself. So that's fine. And

0:24:55.320 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 2>then but this one, I was like, I actually can

0:24:57.480 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 2>make it because it was a different weekend than you

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:01.760
<v Speaker 2>usually do it, and usually working on that weekend.

0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:03.720
<v Speaker 1>It's normally your anniversary weekend.

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:06.520
<v Speaker 2>That's why our anniversary weekend. But apparently we're not celebrating

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:09.119
<v Speaker 2>celebrating our anniversary this year, which is a whole other topic.

0:25:09.880 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 3>But have yet.

0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we talked about that. He wants to celebrate the

0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:17.760
<v Speaker 1>engage in the proposal. No, it's our wedding date. And

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, but we don't have a wedding date. Yeah,

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that this should be one last who were all?

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:26.240
<v Speaker 3>I think you need one anniversary at all times, That's

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. So you got to do this one

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<v Speaker 3>one more time, That's what I think.

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:32.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, But so our anniversary falls on Sunday's birthday, so

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're gonna have a birthday party for Sunday.

0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Perfect.

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:40.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So anyways, but uh, where were we talking about?

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:40.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 2>And then uh, Sunday, I have to be back Sunday

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:44.800
<v Speaker 2>by eleven. So I was like, I just feel like

0:25:44.800 --> 0:25:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I have to like be the first, the last one

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<v Speaker 2>in and the first one out. And it's a tricky

0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 2>situation because you're not close to the airport.

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:55.199
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're a little bit of a drive. Yeah, so

0:25:55.800 --> 0:26:00.000
<v Speaker 1>it's tough. You can my thirtieth though, that was your thirtieth.

0:26:00.119 --> 0:26:06.000
<v Speaker 1>That was special. Yeah, but that was a big one.

0:26:06.520 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 1>That was that was a big one.

0:26:07.920 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like that was a lot of activities.

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:14.479
<v Speaker 1>Oh we did a activity. Yeah, we did so much.

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:16.960
<v Speaker 1>We did like what do you call those things? The

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 1>hair making things we did. We made like flower crowns.

0:26:20.320 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 2>We did like a boat excurgion, Yeah, like dinners like

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 2>that was all.

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 1>That was literally vacation. Yeah, it was really fun. They're

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:30.320
<v Speaker 1>all really fun. But you've only been on that one,

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>but normally there are. And then this year, like every year,

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<v Speaker 1>for well not every year, the past two years, Ali

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<v Speaker 1>and I have thrown a Halloween party at my house.

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<v Speaker 1>And at first it was like, let's just do a

0:26:42.800 --> 0:26:45.640
<v Speaker 1>fun thing. We'll have like a bartender, it'll be like casual,

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:47.520
<v Speaker 1>and then last year kind of got a little bigger

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:48.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like I don't know if I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do these at my house anymore, like if they're

0:26:50.560 --> 0:26:53.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna be this big because I don't get to it

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 1>was bigger. Last year was bigger. Yeah, how many more

0:26:56.040 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 1>people like fifty what? Yeah? And my thing is like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, my house is a great space to have

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>the party. It's just like I don't get to relax

0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like stress making sure nothing's getting ruined hosting.

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I just want to like not host. So this

0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:15.720
<v Speaker 1>year we were gonna do it somewhere else, and then

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 1>there's just like so Ali's like doing a house remodel,

0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:22.120
<v Speaker 1>She's planning her wedding. I had like all these things happening.

0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 1>So we were like, let's just not do it. We've

0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:27.760
<v Speaker 1>gotten so many messages of people being like, wait, y'all

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:29.879
<v Speaker 1>are doing the Halloween party this year, like those are

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:32.840
<v Speaker 1>my that's my Halloween plan. And I'm like, man, it

0:27:32.880 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 1>makes you feel good, like we're throwing a good party.

0:27:35.720 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 1>But then I realized, like, if you just have a

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:40.560
<v Speaker 1>bartender and people get free alcohol, that's all they care about.

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>They're like, true, it's a I think it's a big

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a big reason. But last year we

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.439
<v Speaker 1>had like the photo booths set up. It was it

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 1>was a good time, and I.

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 2>Was saying, it's funny because my friends are coming to me.

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 2>Like Paulina was like talking about your Halloween party. Is like,

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:56.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't think she's doing it this year. She's like, what,

0:27:56.440 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what I was planning on doing.

0:27:58.600 --> 0:28:01.919
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Sorry, like everyone, no one's getting dressed up this

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 1>year because we're not doing the party.

0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:07.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have no Halloween. I have no costume.

0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 1>You have to like, I have to do something. I

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 1>have nothing, But y'all's past ones have been so good,

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:20.119
<v Speaker 1>him or Courtney and Travis and then Barbie.

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:25.240
<v Speaker 3>Like you you good. I have kind of reputation to uphold.

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:27.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. But now, I mean now it's too late.

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:29.600
<v Speaker 3>It's not a week.

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 1>It was on Prime right there for you. Okay, you

0:28:33.320 --> 0:28:34.919
<v Speaker 1>can do this, all right. You can pull it off.

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Even if you could literally wear what you have and

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:39.040
<v Speaker 1>get a blonde wig. You know, could be Sandy and

0:28:39.120 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>Danny from Greece. That's cute and easy. You're the one

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:47.520
<v Speaker 1>that I want. Yeah, that's cute.

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 3>It is cute. It is pretty cute, and he looks

0:28:51.160 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 3>super handsome.

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>I can't see him in a blonde wig again. So

0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:58.640
<v Speaker 1>he's got to do something with his dark hair because

0:28:58.640 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 1>that was traumatizing everybody that week.

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Was so gross, so bad.

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:05.400
<v Speaker 1>In the way he'd like moved with this man. It

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:06.760
<v Speaker 1>was so creepy.

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 2>It was so creepy, I know, but I love that

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 2>he gets into it.

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I will say one thing about Robbie. He's down.

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 1>He's down for anything.

0:29:16.320 --> 0:29:17.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he is down.

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay. Oh, we were talking about I was going to

0:29:21.720 --> 0:29:23.240
<v Speaker 1>try and do the transition in nice.

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 3>I missed it.

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of Idaho being called conversations back, we were talking

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 1>about ice baths. There's an ice bath dating or speed dating?

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:38.160
<v Speaker 3>Is this in La last week and everyone's talking about

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 3>cold plunges. Everyone's seeing the value in cold plunges. And

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:42.920
<v Speaker 3>now somebody tried this thing where you get into an

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 3>ice bath with a potential partner and you have three

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 3>minutes in the ice bath to get to know each

0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 3>other a little better and decide if you'd like to

0:29:49.560 --> 0:29:52.360
<v Speaker 3>do it, like speed dating, but in a bathtub full

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 3>of ice.

0:29:54.040 --> 0:29:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I just you know how we were talking about was

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Chelsea Cutler, how like you walk away from a conversation

0:29:58.760 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 1>You're like, why did I say that? But I just

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>know you put me in an ice bath and give

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>me three minutes. I'm gonna be like, why did I

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:06.640
<v Speaker 1>bring that up?

0:30:06.840 --> 0:30:09.760
<v Speaker 2>See on its surface, on its face, it sounds like

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 2>something that I would totally be into, like ice bath, yes,

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:14.080
<v Speaker 2>health wellness.

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:19.040
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing about an ice bath that I want on

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:19.720
<v Speaker 2>a first date.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Nothing.

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:26.720
<v Speaker 2>I want alcohol involved, I want clothing involved, like I

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:30.640
<v Speaker 2>just nothing about that sounds like a comfortable first date

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 2>to me.

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a very specific consumer.

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 3>So the first time you see the person, they're in

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 3>a swimsuit. I mean, it's one step away from naked attraction,

0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:41.760
<v Speaker 3>really close to that. But to Becket's point, I think

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 3>it does take down your walls. You know, you're you know,

0:30:44.760 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 3>you're hesitant to you're it's all gone. You're an ice bath.

0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 3>You're just talking like your your true self is coming out.

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 3>Your inhibitions are gone.

0:30:53.720 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of naked attraction, I watched it with Robbie. Oh

0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>what did you record it? You did? I have to

0:30:59.560 --> 0:30:59.959
<v Speaker 1>find it.

0:31:00.160 --> 0:31:03.080
<v Speaker 2>The audio is like he was like, so I'm not

0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 2>watching this and he's like, I don't I'm not watching one?

0:31:06.320 --> 0:31:08.239
<v Speaker 1>Was it one where the woman was looking for a

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 1>man or the man was looking for a woman.

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 2>The woman was looking for a man, and the guy

0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 2>had a wiener with an elephant.

0:31:13.560 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Elephant classic. That was where we started to.

0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:20.720
<v Speaker 2>He was just like, I think we watched not even

0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:21.440
<v Speaker 2>five minutes of it.

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:24.080
<v Speaker 3>So as soon as they bring up the wall and reveal.

0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I'm out, no, thank you?

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 3>Did you say?

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:28.080
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 3>Way? They switch it later and.

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 1>They should have like started with maybe. I think women

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:41.200
<v Speaker 1>are probably more like gasped a gasp by the men.

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I like this. I think that has an elephant tattoo

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:51.360
<v Speaker 1>and the penis is the trunk. Oh that's so real.

0:31:55.440 --> 0:31:59.959
<v Speaker 3>I don't like it, Jess.

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm just watching Instagram now.

0:32:10.720 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Bluster response. Yeah, he like, we didn't even want to.

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, who's just finished the episode? He's like,

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to watch it? Interesting? Yeah, he wasn't

0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>down for it. He is not down.

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:24.800
<v Speaker 2>So I finished the episode myself.

0:32:24.640 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 3>And what are your thoughts on the show in general?

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 2>You know I didn't hate it, Okay, sure, I didn't

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 2>hate it. I didn't see the razor bumps that you

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 2>were speaking of. I don't think my TV is big enough.

0:32:42.760 --> 0:32:44.280
<v Speaker 2>I didn't get that up close to you.

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, like my yuah, really, I didn't notice it's beautiful.

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 3>Well that's okay, beautiful.

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't notice the bumps.

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<v Speaker 2>So I only watched that one. I didn't watch anything else.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel like you want to watch more? Because

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I didn't hate it, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I needed to see anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't feel like I need to.

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:03.760
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I got the idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Also, I feel like the dental care in England

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 3>is a stereotype but also factual. They need better dental

0:33:09.880 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 3>care in England.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is interesting. Yeah, yeah, I agree. Though it's

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>like you see it in you're kind of it's like

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:19.400
<v Speaker 1>shock factor, and then you see two episodes maybe one

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<v Speaker 1>each ender, yeah, and then you're kind of like, yeah,

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm done.

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm good. Yeah.

0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because there's not much depth past That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost wish that they, like, I think, an update

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 2>on where Elephant Man and a spoiler alert fix the

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Elephant Man, like where are they now? You know? Did

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 2>they work out? Are they dating? Like I would like

0:33:40.720 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 2>a little bit more. I feel like it lacks depth.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, well, I'm sure when the mind when the

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<v Speaker 1>US does their version of it, they'll go as a

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<v Speaker 1>full rundown. Did you watch the reunion of that? By

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:56.400
<v Speaker 1>the way, I did. What do you think I've literally

0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 1>thought Stacy and Izzy we're going to be together? Me too.

0:33:58.960 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm shocked.

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this, they make so much sense to me.

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, and even the way they were.

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:06.840
<v Speaker 2>Like catching each other and they still want to be friends.

0:34:06.880 --> 0:34:08.680
<v Speaker 2>She's like, oh, I want her to meet my girlfriend.

0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:11.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what are you doing? This is so weird.

0:34:11.440 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 2>Something feels off. And then the fact that he dated

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 2>Johnny again, I was like, this is getting.

0:34:16.760 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they dated though, I think they.

0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 2>Just went on a date.

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 1>I saw each other out and talked like. I didn't

0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like there.

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Also, did I miss something that they all live in Houston.

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:28.480
<v Speaker 1>That's how they always do the show. They all are

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 1>from the same place.

0:34:29.680 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 2>I've missed that the first however, many seasons, because I

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:34.239
<v Speaker 2>was like, but they're all just romping around the same

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 2>bars in Houston, Texas, Like this is so weird.

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>No, they're all like normally from one city. So weird.

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:41.759
<v Speaker 2>I know. I'm over that show.

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:44.799
<v Speaker 1>Wow, really next season? No thing?

0:34:45.200 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 3>Season six is a hard pass from tierrabye, you don't

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 3>think that absence the time between now and then, we'll

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:50.799
<v Speaker 3>make you.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't watch.

0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:53.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm probably gonna watch it, but I don't know. I

0:34:53.320 --> 0:34:56.480
<v Speaker 2>was very truned off this season me too, Like couples

0:34:56.520 --> 0:34:57.880
<v Speaker 2>made it, and I also feel like the couple that

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 2>made it, Milton and Lydia. They're like living separately right now,

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 2>like one lives in Long Beach and one lives somewhere else.

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what.

0:35:07.520 --> 0:35:11.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I haven't really been into it since the first season.

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>And I told you because the first season they were purist,

0:35:15.480 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 1>they didn't know what they were getting into. It felt

0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>very genuine this I don't know. I'm turned off.

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:25.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that one island UK am I right out hard pass.

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're done with the UK.

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I was I ever never.

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:34.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, they're doing like the Olympic games, Like they're doing

0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:39.279
<v Speaker 2>the games where they bring back old contestants to do games.

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:40.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh see, I'd be done for that.

0:35:41.160 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's coming in general, like the road rules, Yeah things.

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how intense it's going to be, but

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm so into it.

0:35:47.680 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, we'll see stand by. Yeah, should we get

0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 1>into emails?

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:52.800
<v Speaker 3>They're tough ones today.

0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:54.440
<v Speaker 1>Do we take a break and let's do that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be back. All right, let's get into some emails.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark, all right, Becka, thank you very much. This first

0:36:15.560 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 3>one is tough and hoteler Anonymous says, I've been married

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:20.560
<v Speaker 3>to my husband two years. We've been together eleven and

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 3>a half years. That is some runway right there. Anyway,

0:36:25.680 --> 0:36:27.720
<v Speaker 3>I had got feeling he was being sketchy and something

0:36:27.760 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 3>was off, so I looked at his phone. He had

0:36:29.840 --> 0:36:32.040
<v Speaker 3>the Whisper app open. This is an app where you

0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 3>can talk with people locally anonymously. You create posts that

0:36:36.160 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 3>people can comment don and start to chat with you.

0:36:38.400 --> 0:36:39.839
<v Speaker 3>I had never heard of this app till I saw

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:41.840
<v Speaker 3>it on his phone. Well, he's been chatting with women

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 3>in our area, and from what I saw was nothing harmless,

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 3>just making conversation with strangers. But I could tell he

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:51.000
<v Speaker 3>was trying to be flirty. Then I saw his posts,

0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:54.480
<v Speaker 3>which is different than the conversations. Within the last year,

0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 3>he has posted things like maybe getting married was a mistake,

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:01.520
<v Speaker 3>and I'm no longer happy with my wife and I'm

0:37:01.560 --> 0:37:05.959
<v Speaker 3>no longer attracted to my wife. I confronted him. He's apologetic,

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:08.239
<v Speaker 3>he says, he loves me and wants to make it right,

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:10.839
<v Speaker 3>but I don't know how to trust him. He has

0:37:10.880 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 3>struggled with mental health issues for as long as I've

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:14.840
<v Speaker 3>known him, in this last year has not been easy

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:16.400
<v Speaker 3>for either of us. Now, I don't know how to

0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:18.839
<v Speaker 3>move forward. I could use some advice. I don't feel

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 3>like I can tell anyone what's going on without being judged.

0:37:24.360 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 1>That's so painful, so hurtful to see that.

0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:32.680
<v Speaker 3>Because he's in person, he's going to say no, no, no,

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:35.319
<v Speaker 3>I didn't mean that. But what is when is a

0:37:35.320 --> 0:37:37.759
<v Speaker 3>person being more honest when he's talking to you face

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 3>to face or when he's posting anonymously on the internet.

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:42.640
<v Speaker 3>And I don't know the answer to that question.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think the fact that he's saying it at

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<v Speaker 2>all is like, so especially after eleven and a half years,

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:49.640
<v Speaker 2>that's so sad.

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I think this, to me feels like a great time

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:57.080
<v Speaker 1>to look into couple's therapy, to have someone help navigate

0:37:57.120 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 1>and see if it's even worth like trying to out

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 1>because my thought process is, like, you already saw these

0:38:04.160 --> 0:38:06.760
<v Speaker 1>things that he said, these hurtful words, so he could

0:38:06.840 --> 0:38:08.799
<v Speaker 1>like that's an out for him, right, for him to

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:10.560
<v Speaker 1>be like, you know what, I am having a really

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:12.040
<v Speaker 1>hard time, like I don't know if I want to

0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 1>be in this marriage, but instead he's going like, no, no, no,

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to make it right. So to me, it

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:24.560
<v Speaker 1>feels like he loves you. He's just he's got to me,

0:38:24.680 --> 0:38:27.440
<v Speaker 1>this is just him being very selfish and like seeking

0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:30.600
<v Speaker 1>something from somewhere else. But I think it's up to

0:38:30.640 --> 0:38:32.439
<v Speaker 1>you to decide if you feel like you'll be able

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to trust him again, because it's not fair for you

0:38:34.640 --> 0:38:36.439
<v Speaker 1>to be in a marriage where you're trying to work

0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:39.759
<v Speaker 1>with someone that you can't feel safe with. And I

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:43.560
<v Speaker 1>think that it's up to you of like, do you

0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>want to pursue couples there, but do you want to

0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:47.040
<v Speaker 1>try and make it work, or do you feel like

0:38:47.080 --> 0:38:48.719
<v Speaker 1>you've been hurt and you don't feel like you can

0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:49.439
<v Speaker 1>trust him again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think there's two things at play here. I

0:38:51.600 --> 0:38:55.279
<v Speaker 2>feel like sometimes people stay in relationships like this because

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 2>they fear being single or they fear starting over again

0:38:59.120 --> 0:38:59.880
<v Speaker 2>with somebody else.

0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:01.840
<v Speaker 1>And I think if.

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 2>That's your fear, then you shouldn't. You should step out

0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>of that fear because I think you can find somebody

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:09.879
<v Speaker 2>that you can trust and it's going to be even

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 2>better than you even imagined. But if you want to

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 2>if that's not the case, then you really just want

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 2>to make this relationship work. I think that you can.

0:39:18.960 --> 0:39:22.239
<v Speaker 2>It just depends on you, really, you know, Like I

0:39:22.239 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 2>had a girlfriend whose husband cheated on her and all

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:27.919
<v Speaker 2>of her friends were just like divorce, divorce, get out,

0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 2>and she wanted to try to make it work. And

0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:33.759
<v Speaker 2>they tried. They tried really hard, and they failed. They

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 2>couldn't figure it out, they couldn't make it work, and

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 2>they ended up getting a divorce. But I think the

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 2>fact that she tried made her be able to go

0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:43.640
<v Speaker 2>through with the divorce.

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Feeling better, like I tried everything.

0:39:47.600 --> 0:39:49.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I think you can take that approach, just

0:39:50.000 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 2>try and the worst thing that can happen is like

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:54.120
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't work and you can't get past it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm with you, though. I think I think that

0:39:58.640 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're fearful, because and a half years is a

0:40:01.000 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 1>long time with someone, and I think there's that fear

0:40:03.080 --> 0:40:07.120
<v Speaker 1>of like comfort, stepping out of the comfort, the safety

0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of like being with someone, but he's kind of broken

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:11.360
<v Speaker 1>that safety that you felt with him. So I think

0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:16.360
<v Speaker 1>if that's your fear, then it's important to like sort

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:19.200
<v Speaker 1>that out because that's not a reason to stay with

0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:20.280
<v Speaker 1>someone and be miserable.

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:23.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's two unknowns. One is the mental health issues.

0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:24.880
<v Speaker 3>We don't know much about that. You know more than

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:27.160
<v Speaker 3>we do, so maybe that's a factor in his behavior.

0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:31.160
<v Speaker 3>So that's something to consider. Two is why why does

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 3>a guy posts that on an anonymous site just for attention,

0:40:35.280 --> 0:40:37.879
<v Speaker 3>just to get conversations started, just to meet new people.

0:40:37.920 --> 0:40:39.400
<v Speaker 3>And he's trying to think if there is not an

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 3>innocent explanation, but some sort of a reasonable explanation as

0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 3>to why he would do this, and maybe he can

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 3>give you that and that can make you feel better

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:49.719
<v Speaker 3>about this, because my concern is always going to be

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:51.400
<v Speaker 3>in the back of your head I am no longer

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:53.759
<v Speaker 3>attracted to my wife. Is always going to be in

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:57.840
<v Speaker 3>your brain for the foreseeable future, and so that scares

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 3>me a little bit. And are not going to judge you.

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:02.840
<v Speaker 3>I know you don't want to be judged, and we're not.

0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:07.160
<v Speaker 3>Whatever you decide is what's best for you, But I

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:07.920
<v Speaker 3>am concerned.

0:41:08.920 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I'm regardless of what you decide. I'm really

0:41:13.120 --> 0:41:16.080
<v Speaker 1>sorry that you are navigating having to navigate this and

0:41:16.120 --> 0:41:19.920
<v Speaker 1>that you saw such hurtful things and feel the betrayal

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 1>that you I imagine you're feeling very hard.

0:41:23.600 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 3>Brenda says, I am a Day one listener. How about

0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 3>that for Brenda left here for.

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:32.640
<v Speaker 1>We love you for.

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:37.719
<v Speaker 3>That first time emailing love you all so much. Looking

0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 3>for advice on post breakup social media stuff. So I'm

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:44.000
<v Speaker 3>going to summarize this as best I can. A separated

0:41:44.000 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 3>from my partner ten months ago after a ten year relationship,

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 3>but she's good, right thing to do, much happier now.

0:41:50.280 --> 0:41:52.319
<v Speaker 3>We have two daughters, ages five and eight. They're the

0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 3>best Our co parenting is great. All is good. Question

0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:58.920
<v Speaker 3>what do I do with Instagram and Facebook posts with

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 3>him in them? It feels weird to delete them because

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 3>most of them are family photos? Do I delete them?

0:42:05.560 --> 0:42:06.920
<v Speaker 3>How about the ones that is the two of us?

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:09.120
<v Speaker 3>Do I delete those? I feel like I might hurt

0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:11.240
<v Speaker 3>his feelings. I keep looking to see if he deleted

0:42:11.280 --> 0:42:13.719
<v Speaker 3>his posts of me, but he hasn't, and I would

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:15.480
<v Speaker 3>be give me permission to do it myself, but he

0:42:15.520 --> 0:42:18.880
<v Speaker 3>hasn't done that yet, So I'm stuck. I don't know

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:20.880
<v Speaker 3>what to do. Does this mean I'm not ready? Do

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:23.000
<v Speaker 3>I wait it out? Longer do I leave it there forever.

0:42:23.040 --> 0:42:25.200
<v Speaker 3>People are gonna think I'm cheating on him on dating apps.

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:26.839
<v Speaker 3>If they live it looks like I'm stilling with my axe.

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:30.839
<v Speaker 3>Help me. The first thing I'll say is, as a guy,

0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:33.919
<v Speaker 3>I guarantee you he has never even considered taking those down.

0:42:36.200 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 3>Doesn't even enter his head, doesn't even realize they're still there.

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that.

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:43.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you, I'm a guy. He's a guy. We

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 3>don't think that way. It would never even occur to him.

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 1>But if he met another woman and she was like,

0:42:47.960 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 1>can you take those off?

0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:50.640
<v Speaker 3>She might bring that up and then he might respond yeah,

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:52.439
<v Speaker 3>but that will be the first time he considers taking

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:52.839
<v Speaker 3>them down.

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:54.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that.

0:42:54.480 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm a guy.

0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:58.759
<v Speaker 1>I think Robert took all our foots, like a lot

0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 1>of our foot well, like I think both like I

0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 1>archived all my photos of Robert. I didn't delete them

0:43:02.920 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 1>because they were like good memories, so I didn't want

0:43:04.640 --> 0:43:05.840
<v Speaker 1>them to be like gone forever.

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Side note, we'll get back to this. How do you

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<v Speaker 2>what is an archive? And where do you find it?

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<v Speaker 2>You just go to your archive, but no, I can't

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<v Speaker 2>see your archive. You can just see your archive Oh okay, okay, yeah, okay, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It just like takes away the sting of like deleting

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<v Speaker 1>something forever. And so I think you archive them. And

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<v Speaker 1>if if you're if you're like, oh, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a good relationship with him, and I don't think he'd

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<v Speaker 1>ask you about him, But if he did not going

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about that, I think it's time for

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<v Speaker 1>you to give yourself permission to move on. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think if you archive them, you don't feel the like

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<v Speaker 1>permanent feeling of deleting them forever. Can you archive on Facebook?

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<v Speaker 1>I've never I don't know. Okay, so, but also I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about Facebook, But Instagram, I'll say, I know

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<v Speaker 1>someone who is going through a separation and she created

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<v Speaker 1>just a new account. She created a new account for

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<v Speaker 1>all her new photos and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, so like the single that single person, the single

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<v Speaker 3>version of that person has her own Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>And then her married version lives on. I just think

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted a fresh start that didn't have all her

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<v Speaker 1>old stuff on it, and so I think the other

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<v Speaker 1>one was like private or something, so she just started

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<v Speaker 1>a new one. I think maybe she archived the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing and just started a fresh, new page.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, there's like a whole there's like a

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<v Speaker 2>whole page of like her married life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just like living on the internet. It's kind it's

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<v Speaker 1>very I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know her name, so I just make one up. There's

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<v Speaker 3>about Wilhelmina two point zero, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Wilhelmina.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that is interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Relaunching life.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the thing is too there's no rush, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't you know, you said you're I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you're dating or if you're not. I just feel

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<v Speaker 2>like there's no rush to do it. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>feel uncomfortable, just wait. But I do think once you

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<v Speaker 2>get into a new relationship, like I remember when I

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<v Speaker 2>started dating Robbie, if I saw photos of his ex

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<v Speaker 2>on his Instagram, that would have been so weird, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. Like I'm just saying that as

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that you could be a potential partner in your life,

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<v Speaker 2>if they go on your page and they're just seeing

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<v Speaker 2>all these family photos, so it'd be so that would

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<v Speaker 2>have been so weird to me. Like he had pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of his kids up there, him and his kids, so

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<v Speaker 2>I got to see all of him and his kids,

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<v Speaker 2>But there was no X on there, so like that

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<v Speaker 2>to me would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird if you start dating again, well, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's kind of like wanting to enter that phase.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think I think archive, delete, move on, move forward.

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<v Speaker 1>But we also think you can like archive ones that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe feel very intimate with you and good x, and

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<v Speaker 1>then keep the ones if it's just a family photo

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<v Speaker 1>because y'all are going to interact. I think it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you have this family unit that you were for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, so that's that might give them an idea

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<v Speaker 1>of what they're getting into before. But if it's like

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<v Speaker 1>an intimate photo of like you and your husband X

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<v Speaker 1>husband kissing or something, and it's like you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but also.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy, like I said, guys think differently about this. If

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<v Speaker 3>he goes a deep die on your Instagram and he

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<v Speaker 3>sees you and your husband your ex husband in a

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<v Speaker 3>photo and it says eighty seven weeks ago, he's going

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<v Speaker 3>to understand what's going on here, so you're not cheating

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<v Speaker 3>on him. Obviously that was over almost two years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, right, So my opinion is either archive some of them,

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<v Speaker 1>keep some others up, or just archive them all and

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel like you have to permanently delete them because

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<v Speaker 1>you can bring those babies back if you want, can

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<v Speaker 1>want to archive them, you can unarchive them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unarchive Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>If you give Tanya Lesson in that, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not archiveorial after this. I have not archived anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but people always talk about it. I'm like, what is

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<v Speaker 2>this archive?

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<v Speaker 1>I also wanted to shout out Abby and Kim because

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<v Speaker 1>Abby is Abaca and Kim is a Tania. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of a friend and they're Bagel listeners of

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. It was her birthday, like October fifth. Kim's

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<v Speaker 1>birthday was October fifth. So we love you Abby and Kim.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you Abby and Kim. Happy belated Kim. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being scrubbers. Yes, and that's all for this week.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, I'll be in the cold shivering.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be missing you. And but next week we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna celebrate your birthday right here.

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<v Speaker 1>Next week, my birthday will be our next podcast recording,

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<v Speaker 1>lucky me.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have any requests or what your birthday podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Like, would you like some cake? No? Just to

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<v Speaker 1>show up and record and would you make any attention

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<v Speaker 1>on it?

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<v Speaker 2>And we want nothing, nothing, just another Monday, just manic Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you were Sunday. You want nothing? Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all all right. We love you so much. I

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<v Speaker 1>love you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>By