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Speaker 2: in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of scrubbing in, Okay, I don't know if you

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Speaker 2: notice anything different on my face today.

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Speaker 1: What you don't see that? Do it again? The pimple? Yes,

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Speaker 1: uh huh.

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Speaker 2: The fact that you can see it from there is

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Speaker 2: just go.

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Speaker 1: She literally lifted it and shine into the light. But

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: It's one of those undergrounders that hurt hell like they

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Speaker 2: just hurt being there. It just hurts being there. I

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Speaker 2: feel like I have something inside me and I know

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't touch it. But what as doctor Tilly, Well,

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Speaker 2: would you prescribe me this?

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Speaker 1: Don't touch it, keep it clean. I'd put a pimple

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Speaker 1: patch on it. Really yeah, maybe it like sulfur mass,

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Speaker 1: sulfur based mask so it can extract the stuff, But

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Speaker 1: don't touch it. It'll create a wound.

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Speaker 2: All I want to do is touch it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I gotta say thank you for coming in today

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Speaker 1: with such.

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Speaker 2: A huge You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: But those are the worst. Yeah, I had one on

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Speaker 1: my forehead. Oh you saw it last week? Saw it?

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Speaker 1: It was, And then I tried what you do with that? Honestly?

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Speaker 1: Can I be honest?

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Speaker 2: You squeezed it?

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Speaker 1: No, well I had squeezed it when I saw you,

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Speaker 1: so it was like it was unhappy. I said to myself, Becka,

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Speaker 1: you know better than this. So I went home. I

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Speaker 1: put a pimple patch on it. Didn't really do anything

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Speaker 1: because I had basically created a wound. Yeah, I put

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Speaker 1: neasporn on it and then a little band aid. Woke

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Speaker 1: up the next day and it was like I would say, healed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna put neosporn on it to night with

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Speaker 1: But I think you should try. I think there's stuff

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Speaker 1: it and not go at it.

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Speaker 1: I'll be very upset if I see you next and

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Speaker 1: going to sleep. The Hero Cosmetic ones all right, I

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Speaker 1: do have paid partnership with them coming up, But I

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Speaker 1: love those Wow. So do you hope them at your house? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think I do. Actually, I might have one in

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Speaker 1: my in my bag.

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Speaker 2: This is working out anyways, you've been busy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. This I was just saying, like booked

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Speaker 1: it was like not a RESTful weekend. It was like

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Speaker 1: a fun go get them, go get them, you get

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Speaker 1: them tigers. So did it start? Well, it started with

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Speaker 1: Thursday's episode with Chelsea Cutler, which I loved her so fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, such a I just she was a great get.

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Speaker 2: She has a really good energy.

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Speaker 1: Great she was so I just I was if she

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Speaker 2: Said she tried on ten dresses total. I'm like, that

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Speaker 2: That's like nice to hear because everybody.

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Speaker 1: I don't think. I think it's fun. That part to

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Speaker 3: According to K and B Bridles, they say most brides

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Speaker 3: There's two of them. I was on one of them.

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Speaker 1: It was so crazy, but it was so fun.

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Speaker 1: Adventure and we go on the Incredit Coaster, Yeah, which

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Speaker 2: Today, it's one month to Thanksgiving today, Your birthday is

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Speaker 2: Motivated, but also like getting it done efficient productive as

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Speaker 2: some may say, I watched the Chiefs game.

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Speaker 2: I booked interviews with wedding planners.

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Speaker 2: Step one right, that's step one three interviews.

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Speaker 1: Did you find the one? No?

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Speaker 2: It doesn't change It doesn't challenge you. It does not

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Speaker 3: What is your criteria when you meet these people?

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. I'm like, I'm gonna say, you

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Speaker 1: Well, they're gonna be like, here's my thing in your

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Speaker 2: I want somebody that's like very type A that knows

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Speaker 1: Button up. Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'll say ten.

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Speaker 1: There you go, can't go wrong.

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Speaker 3: I think you'll know. I think it's like it's like

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Speaker 1: So I do vibe and price.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why Robbie's going to be there, because you

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Speaker 3: What's your favorite Taylor Swift album?

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Speaker 1: That's so good? You should be like, can you create

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Speaker 2: Auditioned to me my wedding?

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Speaker 1: I don't know how it works? Want me? I got

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Speaker 1: so many? Right? Yeah, talk it through.

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Speaker 3: Could you say, Disco, if you were to make a

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's a question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's as I said it. I was like Damn,

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Speaker 1: Just so, what do you think of the Chiefs game?

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Speaker 2: So they won? Yeah, they did, they won, And you know,

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Speaker 2: If again, I haven't looked into a deep dive. I

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Speaker 2: I should look at that because she seems adorable.

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00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 3: And also since like high.

439
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 2: School, I know, oh her and her yeah yeah yeah

440
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 2: really It's weird but reminded me of like when you're

441
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,719
Speaker 2: newly meeting your significant others wives, you know, like are

442
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 2: their significant friends, Yeah, but when they're married, it's like

443
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 2: a different level. Like I remember when I was meeting

444
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 2: all Robbie's married friends and the very beginning, and I

445
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,920
Speaker 2: was like, it's intimidating.

446
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 1: You think TAS's intimidated? I think so. You don't imagine

447
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 1: she feels a certain sense of power when she walks

448
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 1: into a room. Really yes, but I do think that

449
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,399
Speaker 1: she must have. Yeah, but I do think I was

450
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 1: gonna say I do think she tried, probably tries to

451
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 1: like really make it feel like personable because she is

452
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 1: so massive that she's probably like, I just want to

453
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 1: be friends that are watching our significant others play. Yeah,

454
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 1: we're chill, we're doing handshakes, We're like living our best life. Yeah.

455
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,959
Speaker 1: I still feel exhausted for her that the camera just

456
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 1: pants on her and she has to be on for

457
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 1: her reaction every time she puts on a show.

458
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 2: She really gives her Yeah.

459
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: True, Yeah, it's a lot. But so was that what

460
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 1: was that a game? Where was that?

461
00:21:53,080 --> 00:22:00,199
Speaker 2: It was at the Chief's Arrowhead Pond.

462
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 3: Ahead used to be in Orange County, Yes, but Erahead

463
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 3: Stadiums in Kansas City. Yes, it was a home game

464
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: for the Chiefs.

465
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 1: Yes. Oh why did I think it was like an

466
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 1: overseas game? Is there something about an overseas game that she.

467
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 2: So she's going to be overseas on tour? Yeah, so

468
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 2: he's going to come see her.

469
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,719
Speaker 1: Oh that's the conversation that people are having. Yes, okay, yes,

470
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: all right, there's something else I wanted to talk to

471
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: you about.

472
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 3: You know, we could take a break.

473
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 1: And Okay, I think about that. Okay, we'll be right back.

474
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: All right, we're back. So every year for my birthday,

475
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: I like to do a trip somewhere with all my

476
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: best friends. And it's fun because I don't like a

477
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 1: lot of direct attention on me, but it makes it

478
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: feel very like fun and like everyone like goes and

479
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: is together and it's just like a fun time for everyone.

480
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: But it's not like direct birthday attention. It's not I

481
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: prefer it not to be, but it's not. Everyone's just

482
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: like hanging out in on vacation kind of, so it

483
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 1: feels like less like you know. Anyways, I've been doing

484
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: it since twenty seventeen, where that's where client originated. But

485
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: we're going this week to somewhere like cold and cozy

486
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: because either like last year we did Hawaii and then

487
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: you know, we kind of switch it up if it's

488
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: gonna be like somehere warm or somewere cozy and cold,

489
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: and so this year we're going to Idaho and it's

490
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: supposed to get down. I looked at the weather just

491
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: kind of seeing like, oh, like it it's gonna be

492
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 1: like nice like sweater weather, eight degrees low, I don't

493
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:46,719
Speaker 1: even know what what do you do?

494
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 3: Like and sweater weather? Sweat Yeah, I used to go

495
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 3: to football games when it was you know, because I'm

496
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 3: from Wisconsin. I don't know if I've mentioned that, but

497
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 3: it's like zero for a good stretch. And so when

498
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 3: when you go out to a football game and you're

499
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 3: going to be outside for a long period of time,

500
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 3: you wear like seven layers.

501
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 2: And I want to say, like when you ski, when

502
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: you go ski, it's like in the twenties, right.

503
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: Anything when thirty, Yeah, but it can be over thirty.

504
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 3: It's just you know, I.

505
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 2: Don't think i've ever seen eight I'm on ski.

506
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, sing is tough.

507
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was shocked. And it just happens to come

508
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: like right when we're arriving. But we are going to

509
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 1: go for the weekend. It's it's I'm really excited. Everyone's

510
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: just gonna have to well we'll just be inside mostly.

511
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 1: Tanya is not going.

512
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I tend to. She skips out on the birthday,

513
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: the birthdays trip.

514
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's been on.

515
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 3: Tend to do it when we're doing the show, right,

516
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 3: I mean that's what you say, we're doing the morning

517
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 3: show while you're on your birthday trip usually.

518
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah.

519
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 2: I usually the thing is I always I always have

520
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 2: to come by myself. So I'm always like the I

521
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 2: always have to go by myself. So that's fine. And

522
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 2: then but this one, I was like, I actually can

523
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: make it because it was a different weekend than you

524
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: usually do it, and usually working on that weekend.

525
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: It's normally your anniversary weekend.

526
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: That's why our anniversary weekend. But apparently we're not celebrating

527
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 2: celebrating our anniversary this year, which is a whole other topic.

528
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 3: But have yet.

529
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about that. He wants to celebrate the

530
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: engage in the proposal. No, it's our wedding date. And

531
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, but we don't have a wedding date. Yeah,

532
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: I think that this should be one last who were all?

533
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 3: I think you need one anniversary at all times, That's

534
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So you got to do this one

535
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 3: one more time, That's what I think.

536
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 2: Yes, But so our anniversary falls on Sunday's birthday, so

537
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna have a birthday party for Sunday.

538
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: Perfect.

539
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, So anyways, but uh, where were we talking about?

540
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 3: Oh?

541
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: And then uh, Sunday, I have to be back Sunday

542
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 2: by eleven. So I was like, I just feel like

543
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 2: I have to like be the first, the last one

544
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 2: in and the first one out. And it's a tricky

545
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: situation because you're not close to the airport.

546
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're a little bit of a drive. Yeah, so

547
00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: it's tough. You can my thirtieth though, that was your thirtieth.

548
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: That was special. Yeah, but that was a big one.

549
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: That was that was a big one.

550
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that was a lot of activities.

551
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,479
Speaker 1: Oh we did a activity. Yeah, we did so much.

552
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: We did like what do you call those things? The

553
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: hair making things we did. We made like flower crowns.

554
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 2: We did like a boat excurgion, Yeah, like dinners like

555
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: that was all.

556
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: That was literally vacation. Yeah, it was really fun. They're

557
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: all really fun. But you've only been on that one,

558
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: but normally there are. And then this year, like every year,

559
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: for well not every year, the past two years, Ali

560
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 1: and I have thrown a Halloween party at my house.

561
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: And at first it was like, let's just do a

562
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: fun thing. We'll have like a bartender, it'll be like casual,

563
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: and then last year kind of got a little bigger

564
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: and I was like I don't know if I want

565
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: to do these at my house anymore, like if they're

566
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,239
Speaker 1: gonna be this big because I don't get to it

567
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: was bigger. Last year was bigger. Yeah, how many more

568
00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: people like fifty what? Yeah? And my thing is like

569
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm fine, my house is a great space to have

570
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: the party. It's just like I don't get to relax

571
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: because I'm like stress making sure nothing's getting ruined hosting.

572
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes I just want to like not host. So this

573
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: year we were gonna do it somewhere else, and then

574
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: there's just like so Ali's like doing a house remodel,

575
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: She's planning her wedding. I had like all these things happening.

576
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: So we were like, let's just not do it. We've

577
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: gotten so many messages of people being like, wait, y'all

578
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: are doing the Halloween party this year, like those are

579
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: my that's my Halloween plan. And I'm like, man, it

580
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: makes you feel good, like we're throwing a good party.

581
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: But then I realized, like, if you just have a

582
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: bartender and people get free alcohol, that's all they care about.

583
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 1: They're like, true, it's a I think it's a big

584
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: I think it's a big reason. But last year we

585
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: had like the photo booths set up. It was it

586
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: was a good time, and I.

587
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: Was saying, it's funny because my friends are coming to me.

588
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 2: Like Paulina was like talking about your Halloween party. Is like,

589
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 2: I don't think she's doing it this year. She's like, what,

590
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 2: That's what I was planning on doing.

591
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sorry, like everyone, no one's getting dressed up this

592
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: year because we're not doing the party.

593
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have no Halloween. I have no costume.

594
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: You have to like, I have to do something. I

595
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: have nothing, But y'all's past ones have been so good,

596
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: him or Courtney and Travis and then Barbie.

597
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 3: Like you you good. I have kind of reputation to uphold.

598
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. But now, I mean now it's too late.

599
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: It's not a week.

600
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: It was on Prime right there for you. Okay, you

601
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: can do this, all right. You can pull it off.

602
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: Even if you could literally wear what you have and

603
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: get a blonde wig. You know, could be Sandy and

604
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: Danny from Greece. That's cute and easy. You're the one

605
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: that I want. Yeah, that's cute.

606
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 3: It is cute. It is pretty cute, and he looks

607
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 3: super handsome.

608
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: I can't see him in a blonde wig again. So

609
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: he's got to do something with his dark hair because

610
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: that was traumatizing everybody that week.

611
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: Was so gross, so bad.

612
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: In the way he'd like moved with this man. It

613
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: was so creepy.

614
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: It was so creepy, I know, but I love that

615
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: he gets into it.

616
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I will say one thing about Robbie. He's down.

617
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: He's down for anything.

618
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, he is down.

619
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: Okay. Oh, we were talking about I was going to

620
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: try and do the transition in nice.

621
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 3: I missed it.

622
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: Speaking of Idaho being called conversations back, we were talking

623
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: about ice baths. There's an ice bath dating or speed dating?

624
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 3: Is this in La last week and everyone's talking about

625
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 3: cold plunges. Everyone's seeing the value in cold plunges. And

626
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 3: now somebody tried this thing where you get into an

627
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 3: ice bath with a potential partner and you have three

628
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: minutes in the ice bath to get to know each

629
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 3: other a little better and decide if you'd like to

630
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 3: do it, like speed dating, but in a bathtub full

631
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 3: of ice.

632
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: I just you know how we were talking about was

633
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: Chelsea Cutler, how like you walk away from a conversation

634
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: You're like, why did I say that? But I just

635
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: know you put me in an ice bath and give

636
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: me three minutes. I'm gonna be like, why did I

637
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: bring that up?

638
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: See on its surface, on its face, it sounds like

639
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 2: something that I would totally be into, like ice bath, yes,

640
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 2: health wellness.

641
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: Yes.

642
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: There's nothing about an ice bath that I want on

643
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: a first date.

644
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: Nothing.

645
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: I want alcohol involved, I want clothing involved, like I

646
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 2: just nothing about that sounds like a comfortable first date

647
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 2: to me.

648
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a very specific consumer.

649
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 3: So the first time you see the person, they're in

650
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 3: a swimsuit. I mean, it's one step away from naked attraction,

651
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 3: really close to that. But to Becket's point, I think

652
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 3: it does take down your walls. You know, you're you know,

653
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 3: you're hesitant to you're it's all gone. You're an ice bath.

654
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 3: You're just talking like your your true self is coming out.

655
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 3: Your inhibitions are gone.

656
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: Speaking of naked attraction, I watched it with Robbie. Oh

657
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: what did you record it? You did? I have to

658
00:30:59,560 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 1: find it.

659
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: The audio is like he was like, so I'm not

660
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 2: watching this and he's like, I don't I'm not watching one?

661
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,239
Speaker 1: Was it one where the woman was looking for a

662
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: man or the man was looking for a woman.

663
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: The woman was looking for a man, and the guy

664
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 2: had a wiener with an elephant.

665
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: Elephant classic. That was where we started to.

666
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: He was just like, I think we watched not even

667
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: five minutes of it.

668
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: So as soon as they bring up the wall and reveal.

669
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I'm out, no, thank you?

670
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 3: Did you say?

671
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 2: No?

672
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 3: Way? They switch it later and.

673
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: They should have like started with maybe. I think women

674
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: are probably more like gasped a gasp by the men.

675
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: I like this. I think that has an elephant tattoo

676
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: and the penis is the trunk. Oh that's so real.

677
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,959
Speaker 3: I don't like it, Jess.

678
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just watching Instagram now.

679
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: Bluster response. Yeah, he like, we didn't even want to.

680
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: I was like, who's just finished the episode? He's like,

681
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to watch it? Interesting? Yeah, he wasn't

682
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: down for it. He is not down.

683
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: So I finished the episode myself.

684
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 3: And what are your thoughts on the show in general?

685
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: You know I didn't hate it, Okay, sure, I didn't

686
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 2: hate it. I didn't see the razor bumps that you

687
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 2: were speaking of. I don't think my TV is big enough.

688
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 2: I didn't get that up close to you.

689
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like my yuah, really, I didn't notice it's beautiful.

690
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 3: Well that's okay, beautiful.

691
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't notice the bumps.

692
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: So I only watched that one. I didn't watch anything else.

693
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 3: Do you feel like you want to watch more? Because

694
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: I feel like I didn't hate it, but I didn't

695
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: feel like I needed to see anymore.

696
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: No, I don't feel like I need to.

697
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 3: I feel like I got the idea.

698
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

699
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. Also, I feel like the dental care in England

700
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 3: is a stereotype but also factual. They need better dental

701
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 3: care in England.

702
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is interesting. Yeah, yeah, I agree. Though it's

703
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: like you see it in you're kind of it's like

704
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: shock factor, and then you see two episodes maybe one

705
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: each ender, yeah, and then you're kind of like, yeah,

706
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm done.

707
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 3: I'm good. Yeah.

708
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because there's not much depth past That's what I'm saying.

709
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 2: I almost wish that they, like, I think, an update

710
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: on where Elephant Man and a spoiler alert fix the

711
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 2: Elephant Man, like where are they now? You know? Did

712
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: they work out? Are they dating? Like I would like

713
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 2: a little bit more. I feel like it lacks depth.

714
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: I see, well, I'm sure when the mind when the

715
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: US does their version of it, they'll go as a

716
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: full rundown. Did you watch the reunion of that? By

717
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: the way, I did. What do you think I've literally

718
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: thought Stacy and Izzy we're going to be together? Me too.

719
00:33:58,960 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: I'm shocked.

720
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: I was like, this, they make so much sense to me.

721
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: I was like, and even the way they were.

722
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 2: Like catching each other and they still want to be friends.

723
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I want her to meet my girlfriend.

724
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you doing? This is so weird.

725
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: Something feels off. And then the fact that he dated

726
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: Johnny again, I was like, this is getting.

727
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if they dated though, I think they.

728
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: Just went on a date.

729
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: I saw each other out and talked like. I didn't

730
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: feel like there.

731
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 2: Also, did I miss something that they all live in Houston.

732
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: That's how they always do the show. They all are

733
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: from the same place.

734
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: I've missed that the first however, many seasons, because I

735
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 2: was like, but they're all just romping around the same

736
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: bars in Houston, Texas, Like this is so weird.

737
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: No, they're all like normally from one city. So weird.

738
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 2: I know. I'm over that show.

739
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 1: Wow, really next season? No thing?

740
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: Season six is a hard pass from tierrabye, you don't

741
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 3: think that absence the time between now and then, we'll

742
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 3: make you.

743
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: I can't watch.

744
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm probably gonna watch it, but I don't know. I

745
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: was very truned off this season me too, Like couples

746
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 2: made it, and I also feel like the couple that

747
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 2: made it, Milton and Lydia. They're like living separately right now,

748
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: like one lives in Long Beach and one lives somewhere else.

749
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, what.

750
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't really been into it since the first season.

751
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: And I told you because the first season they were purist,

752
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: they didn't know what they were getting into. It felt

753
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: very genuine this I don't know. I'm turned off.

754
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, that one island UK am I right out hard pass.

755
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're done with the UK.

756
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: I was I ever never.

757
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 2: Well, they're doing like the Olympic games, Like they're doing

758
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 2: the games where they bring back old contestants to do games.

759
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: Oh see, I'd be done for that.

760
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: Okay, that's coming in general, like the road rules, Yeah things.

761
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 2: I don't know how intense it's going to be, but

762
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: I'm so into it.

763
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we'll see stand by. Yeah, should we get

764
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: into emails?

765
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 3: They're tough ones today.

766
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: Do we take a break and let's do that. Okay,

767
00:35:54,480 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: we'll be back. All right, let's get into some emails.

768
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 3: Mark, all right, Becka, thank you very much. This first

769
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 3: one is tough and hoteler Anonymous says, I've been married

770
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 3: to my husband two years. We've been together eleven and

771
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 3: a half years. That is some runway right there. Anyway,

772
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 3: I had got feeling he was being sketchy and something

773
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 3: was off, so I looked at his phone. He had

774
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 3: the Whisper app open. This is an app where you

775
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 3: can talk with people locally anonymously. You create posts that

776
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 3: people can comment don and start to chat with you.

777
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 3: I had never heard of this app till I saw

778
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 3: it on his phone. Well, he's been chatting with women

779
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 3: in our area, and from what I saw was nothing harmless,

780
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: just making conversation with strangers. But I could tell he

781
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: was trying to be flirty. Then I saw his posts,

782
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 3: which is different than the conversations. Within the last year,

783
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 3: he has posted things like maybe getting married was a mistake,

784
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 3: and I'm no longer happy with my wife and I'm

785
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 3: no longer attracted to my wife. I confronted him. He's apologetic,

786
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 3: he says, he loves me and wants to make it right,

787
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 3: but I don't know how to trust him. He has

788
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: struggled with mental health issues for as long as I've

789
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 3: known him, in this last year has not been easy

790
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 3: for either of us. Now, I don't know how to

791
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 3: move forward. I could use some advice. I don't feel

792
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 3: like I can tell anyone what's going on without being judged.

793
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: That's so painful, so hurtful to see that.

794
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 3: Because he's in person, he's going to say no, no, no,

795
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 3: I didn't mean that. But what is when is a

796
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 3: person being more honest when he's talking to you face

797
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 3: to face or when he's posting anonymously on the internet.

798
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 3: And I don't know the answer to that question.

799
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: Well, I think the fact that he's saying it at

800
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: all is like, so especially after eleven and a half years,

801
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: that's so sad.

802
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: I think this, to me feels like a great time

803
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: to look into couple's therapy, to have someone help navigate

804
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: and see if it's even worth like trying to out

805
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: because my thought process is, like, you already saw these

806
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,760
Speaker 1: things that he said, these hurtful words, so he could

807
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 1: like that's an out for him, right, for him to

808
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I am having a really

809
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: hard time, like I don't know if I want to

810
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: be in this marriage, but instead he's going like, no, no, no,

811
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I want to make it right. So to me, it

812
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: feels like he loves you. He's just he's got to me,

813
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: this is just him being very selfish and like seeking

814
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: something from somewhere else. But I think it's up to

815
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,439
Speaker 1: you to decide if you feel like you'll be able

816
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: to trust him again, because it's not fair for you

817
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: to be in a marriage where you're trying to work

818
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: with someone that you can't feel safe with. And I

819
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: think that it's up to you of like, do you

820
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: want to pursue couples there, but do you want to

821
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: try and make it work, or do you feel like

822
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: you've been hurt and you don't feel like you can

823
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 1: trust him again.

824
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's two things at play here. I

825
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: feel like sometimes people stay in relationships like this because

826
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: they fear being single or they fear starting over again

827
00:38:59,120 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: with somebody else.

828
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: And I think if.

829
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: That's your fear, then you shouldn't. You should step out

830
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: of that fear because I think you can find somebody

831
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,879
Speaker 2: that you can trust and it's going to be even

832
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 2: better than you even imagined. But if you want to

833
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: if that's not the case, then you really just want

834
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: to make this relationship work. I think that you can.

835
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: It just depends on you, really, you know, Like I

836
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: had a girlfriend whose husband cheated on her and all

837
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,919
Speaker 2: of her friends were just like divorce, divorce, get out,

838
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 2: and she wanted to try to make it work. And

839
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 2: they tried. They tried really hard, and they failed. They

840
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 2: couldn't figure it out, they couldn't make it work, and

841
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 2: they ended up getting a divorce. But I think the

842
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 2: fact that she tried made her be able to go

843
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 2: through with the divorce.

844
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 1: Feeling better, like I tried everything.

845
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think you can take that approach, just

846
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: try and the worst thing that can happen is like

847
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 2: it doesn't work and you can't get past it.

848
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you, though. I think I think that

849
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: if you're fearful, because and a half years is a

850
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: long time with someone, and I think there's that fear

851
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: of like comfort, stepping out of the comfort, the safety

852
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: of like being with someone, but he's kind of broken

853
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 1: that safety that you felt with him. So I think

854
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: if that's your fear, then it's important to like sort

855
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: that out because that's not a reason to stay with

856
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 1: someone and be miserable.

857
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's two unknowns. One is the mental health issues.

858
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 3: We don't know much about that. You know more than

859
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 3: we do, so maybe that's a factor in his behavior.

860
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 3: So that's something to consider. Two is why why does

861
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 3: a guy posts that on an anonymous site just for attention,

862
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,879
Speaker 3: just to get conversations started, just to meet new people.

863
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 3: And he's trying to think if there is not an

864
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 3: innocent explanation, but some sort of a reasonable explanation as

865
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 3: to why he would do this, and maybe he can

866
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 3: give you that and that can make you feel better

867
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 3: about this, because my concern is always going to be

868
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 3: in the back of your head I am no longer

869
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 3: attracted to my wife. Is always going to be in

870
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 3: your brain for the foreseeable future, and so that scares

871
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 3: me a little bit. And are not going to judge you.

872
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 3: I know you don't want to be judged, and we're not.

873
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 3: Whatever you decide is what's best for you, But I

874
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 3: am concerned.

875
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm regardless of what you decide. I'm really

876
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: sorry that you are navigating having to navigate this and

877
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: that you saw such hurtful things and feel the betrayal

878
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: that you I imagine you're feeling very hard.

879
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 3: Brenda says, I am a Day one listener. How about

880
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 3: that for Brenda left here for.

881
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: We love you for.

882
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 3: That first time emailing love you all so much. Looking

883
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 3: for advice on post breakup social media stuff. So I'm

884
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 3: going to summarize this as best I can. A separated

885
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 3: from my partner ten months ago after a ten year relationship,

886
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: but she's good, right thing to do, much happier now.

887
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 3: We have two daughters, ages five and eight. They're the

888
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 3: best Our co parenting is great. All is good. Question

889
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 3: what do I do with Instagram and Facebook posts with

890
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 3: him in them? It feels weird to delete them because

891
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 3: most of them are family photos? Do I delete them?

892
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 3: How about the ones that is the two of us?

893
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 3: Do I delete those? I feel like I might hurt

894
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 3: his feelings. I keep looking to see if he deleted

895
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 3: his posts of me, but he hasn't, and I would

896
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 3: be give me permission to do it myself, but he

897
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 3: hasn't done that yet, So I'm stuck. I don't know

898
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 3: what to do. Does this mean I'm not ready? Do

899
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 3: I wait it out? Longer do I leave it there forever.

900
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 3: People are gonna think I'm cheating on him on dating apps.

901
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 3: If they live it looks like I'm stilling with my axe.

902
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 3: Help me. The first thing I'll say is, as a guy,

903
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 3: I guarantee you he has never even considered taking those down.

904
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 3: Doesn't even enter his head, doesn't even realize they're still there.

905
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

906
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I'm a guy. He's a guy. We

907
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 3: don't think that way. It would never even occur to him.

908
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: But if he met another woman and she was like,

909
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: can you take those off?

910
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 3: She might bring that up and then he might respond yeah,

911
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 3: but that will be the first time he considers taking

912
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 3: them down.

913
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

914
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 3: I'm a guy.

915
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: I think Robert took all our foots, like a lot

916
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: of our foot well, like I think both like I

917
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: archived all my photos of Robert. I didn't delete them

918
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: because they were like good memories, so I didn't want

919
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: them to be like gone forever.

920
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 2: Side note, we'll get back to this. How do you

921
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 2: what is an archive? And where do you find it?

922
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 2: You just go to your archive, but no, I can't

923
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: see your archive. You can just see your archive Oh okay, okay, yeah, okay, but.

924
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: It just like takes away the sting of like deleting

925
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: something forever. And so I think you archive them. And

926
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: if if you're if you're like, oh, if you have

927
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 1: a good relationship with him, and I don't think he'd

928
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: ask you about him, But if he did not going

929
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: to ask you about that, I think it's time for

930
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 1: you to give yourself permission to move on. And I

931
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 1: think if you archive them, you don't feel the like

932
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: permanent feeling of deleting them forever. Can you archive on Facebook?

933
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: I've never I don't know. Okay, so, but also I

934
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: don't know about Facebook, But Instagram, I'll say, I know

935
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: someone who is going through a separation and she created

936
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: just a new account. She created a new account for

937
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: all her new photos and stuff.

938
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 3: Wait, so like the single that single person, the single

939
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 3: version of that person has her own Instagram.

940
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: And then her married version lives on. I just think

941
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 1: she wanted a fresh start that didn't have all her

942
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: old stuff on it, and so I think the other

943
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: one was like private or something, so she just started

944
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,439
Speaker 1: a new one. I think maybe she archived the whole

945
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 1: thing and just started a fresh, new page.

946
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, there's like a whole there's like a

947
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 2: whole page of like her married life.

948
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: That's just like living on the internet. It's kind it's

949
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 1: very I don't.

950
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 3: Know her name, so I just make one up. There's

951
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 3: about Wilhelmina two point zero, you know.

952
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Wilhelmina.

953
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is interesting.

954
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 3: Relaunching life.

955
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: I think the thing is too there's no rush, Like

956
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: I don't you know, you said you're I don't know

957
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 2: if you're dating or if you're not. I just feel

958
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: like there's no rush to do it. So if you

959
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 2: feel uncomfortable, just wait. But I do think once you

960
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: get into a new relationship, like I remember when I

961
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 2: started dating Robbie, if I saw photos of his ex

962
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: on his Instagram, that would have been so weird, you

963
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Like I'm just saying that as

964
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 2: somebody that you could be a potential partner in your life,

965
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 2: if they go on your page and they're just seeing

966
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 2: all these family photos, so it'd be so that would

967
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: have been so weird to me. Like he had pictures

968
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 2: of his kids up there, him and his kids, so

969
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 2: I got to see all of him and his kids,

970
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 2: But there was no X on there, so like that

971
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: to me would be.

972
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: Weird if you start dating again, well, yeah, I think

973
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: she's kind of like wanting to enter that phase.

974
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 2: So I think I think archive, delete, move on, move forward.

975
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: But we also think you can like archive ones that

976
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: maybe feel very intimate with you and good x, and

977
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: then keep the ones if it's just a family photo

978
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: because y'all are going to interact. I think it's like

979
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: you have this family unit that you were for a

980
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: long time, so that's that might give them an idea

981
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: of what they're getting into before. But if it's like

982
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: an intimate photo of like you and your husband X

983
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 1: husband kissing or something, and it's like you know, yeah,

984
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: but also.

985
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 3: Guy, like I said, guys think differently about this. If

986
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 3: he goes a deep die on your Instagram and he

987
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 3: sees you and your husband your ex husband in a

988
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 3: photo and it says eighty seven weeks ago, he's going

989
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 3: to understand what's going on here, so you're not cheating

990
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 3: on him. Obviously that was over almost two years.

991
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: Ago, right, So my opinion is either archive some of them,

992
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: keep some others up, or just archive them all and

993
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: don't feel like you have to permanently delete them because

994
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: you can bring those babies back if you want, can

995
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: want to archive them, you can unarchive them.

996
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, unarchive Yeah.

997
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 3: If you give Tanya Lesson in that, Yeah.

998
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have that. Yeah.

999
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 2: I'm not archiveorial after this. I have not archived anything,

1000
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: but people always talk about it. I'm like, what is

1001
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 2: this archive?

1002
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: I also wanted to shout out Abby and Kim because

1003
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: Abby is Abaca and Kim is a Tania. This is

1004
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 1: a friend of a friend and they're Bagel listeners of

1005
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: the podcast. It was her birthday, like October fifth. Kim's

1006
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: birthday was October fifth. So we love you Abby and Kim.

1007
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: We love you Abby and Kim. Happy belated Kim. Thank

1008
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: you for being scrubbers. Yes, and that's all for this week.

1009
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: You guys, I'll be in the cold shivering.

1010
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be missing you. And but next week we're

1011
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 2: gonna celebrate your birthday right here.

1012
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: Next week, my birthday will be our next podcast recording,

1013
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: lucky me.

1014
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 2: Do you have any requests or what your birthday podcast?

1015
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: No? Like, would you like some cake? No? Just to

1016
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: show up and record and would you make any attention

1017
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 1: on it?

1018
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 2: And we want nothing, nothing, just another Monday, just manic Monday.

1019
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: I wish you were Sunday. You want nothing? Yeah, no,

1020
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: that's all all right. We love you so much. I

1021
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: love you so much.

1022
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: By