1 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: I know we're having a good time, but let's get 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: it started. It's lip service, I mean, ye, I'm I'm 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Tara Wallace, I'm Algie Smith. Yes, Aljie Smith is our 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: guests and Tyre is our guest host. Yeah you know Tara, 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: of course. I know you probably hate this, but we 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: know Tara from loving hip hop. Listen, It's all right, 7 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: it's all right. Could be worse, for sure. How we 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: know Laura. Y'all also know that was my day job service. 9 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: I have a hustle. First show I've ever been on 10 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: lip service. Yeah right, alright, Algie Smith, we know you 11 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: of course from Detroit, from the New Edition movie as 12 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: Ralph Chresby, and now from the hate You give, and 13 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: from dying in every movie and from being able to 14 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: host your damn they always let me live in Detroit though, 15 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: but the homie died, but I was closer death. You 16 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: you all over the shootings and missing. She tried to 17 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: sneak in that little in your breath holding, you know, 18 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. He did say that he is 19 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: capable of holding his breath for long periods of time. 20 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: So if you want again, that's on seconds. What is 21 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: that equal to did you ever count now, I've never 22 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: counted a couple of minutes. I mean, this is what 23 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: I told him early. It depends on what type of 24 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,839 Speaker 1: holding breath we're talking about. If you're underwater eating pussy, 25 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: how long you're gonna be under their school but diving, 26 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: because you know, we were talking about you and I 27 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: was I was telling him it seems like a great 28 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: situation that you can hold your breath. So before you 29 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: got here, we were talking about why that's good and 30 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: having sex in the shower and things of that nature, 31 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, or sex in the pool and holding your 32 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: breath and being able to do things like that with 33 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: the water. Wait, have you ever tried to eat throwing 34 00:01:53,160 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: out underwater in the figure it out? Like you've never 35 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: finger popped the girl in the pool. I've never ate 36 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 1: a girl out in the pool. That's it's different. That's different. 37 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm putting my whole like you could start someplace and 38 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: then step it up and now and now we know 39 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: you can hold your breath for like sixty seconds, and 40 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: now I can go longer than that. Okay, I can 41 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: do it. You should try. You could come up. It's 42 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: gonna be pride, like you're not holding your breath. If 43 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: you're doing that like you let him bread, you let 44 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: him water in. Now you gotta just hold like you 45 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: have to hold you a finger, Yeah, cut your throat, throf. 46 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: What about in the shower. You never did that in 47 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: the shower. Yeah, that's a different story. Yeah, okay, it's 48 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: not the same as a pool. You can get away 49 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: from the water. You can turn the shower head around 50 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: like I'll say, you tennis and now I'm cold. Yeah cold. 51 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: It's a toasty shower. Now you turn the hour away. 52 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: It's freezing, as he did in his eye, his bath 53 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: from nothing. Let's be what it is. And then we 54 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: started talking about ticket showers with your significant other. And 55 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: guess which one of us has never done that? If 56 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: you had to guess me, Tyra Luria out like a 57 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: sore thumb. Yeah, you're right good. How do you know 58 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: as soon as you said, her eyes gave her the 59 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: way she looked away when you no know what I 60 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: try to trick you look at her like I didn't work, 61 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: never know. I guess it's I'm gonna work on it 62 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: tomorrow though, row quick. But I see the problem is this, right, 63 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: Sometimes our hair is done and we don't want to 64 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: be like not cute in the shower. So it's hard 65 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: to take a shower with your man with a showers 66 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: like worrying about that though, if you're in shower, done 67 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: not think it's not word No, she don't like cheat 68 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: enough right now? You know you know what time it 69 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: is you're in the shower. They feel pointing to want 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: a shower cap when you're in a shower with your man, 71 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: you want to do you wear a shower cap? Why 72 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: you know you've been saying your hair? First of all, 73 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: my shower cap looks like a rubber duck. It's yellow. 74 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: Has a dock hand on your shower. Imagine me trying 75 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: to be sexy with my rubber die shower cap. Shower 76 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: cat me that I'm not gonna lie and I have 77 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: a shower. Yeah, he's mad. Use your bonnet? Do you 78 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: use a bonnet when you go? It's nice? I know 79 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: it's right now, But now what you use like I 80 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: got to use? Do do rack? Low key? Probably work 81 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: better than a bonnet? That would be hard on y'all. 82 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: Just I don't know. Lap it up my dog not 83 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: but not head. You just want to look a I 84 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 1: don't think we look cute. We're talking about the cuteness. 85 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 1: Then don't do the direct relations for a long time. 86 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: You gonna look like a whole neck. Imagine that's in 87 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: the Showow with the Dog on, No maakeup, no jewl 88 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: to come here to. Have you ever taken a girl 89 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: home and she looked completely different than she did when 90 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: you met her, Like she take off her wig, take 91 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: off her makeup, take off her, push her broad take 92 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 1: off her and was unfortunate to not been in that situation. 93 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: Like that's a lot. You ain't even the same person, 94 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: Like what I'm gonna get your sucker? Remember that? Yes, exactly? 95 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: The leg off not that bad. I mean he definitely 96 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: got the lash. You got regular things you feel me, 97 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: like lashes, not no booty buster or no these things 98 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: they have back in the day to the booty pops. 99 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: Was that what it was called? It's like a paddy bird. Yeah, girdle, 100 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: It's like it was really there was really wearing them 101 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: ships out. That's sheet. That's not all right? Really, I 102 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: don't know, like what about wig? Like a girl has 103 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: ever has she ever take our weg off? Like hold 104 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: on around? I mean, as long as it ain't busting 105 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 1: under there, I'm straight. It's always seen me busted under 106 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: A think it's always not always, but yeah, you feel 107 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: you got a forward to the back good. I say, 108 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: I don't have like a I even thought I have 109 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,239 Speaker 1: corn rolls. It's not like a cute head with corn 110 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: you just did the real quick I do. I just 111 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: don't feel like I have the head shape. If a 112 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: thing is like if I think it's turned off about 113 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: you taking off your wig, and it's as long as 114 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: it don't look crazy to there. I don't think in 115 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: my experience, I ain't never been like, oh no, I 116 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: got to go what if her headline is math fire? 117 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: There a time limit, you know what I mean? Yeah, 118 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: you can't just go there and take your wig and wig. 119 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie if I got a wig and 120 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: I'm not having sex, like we're not having sex and 121 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:11,119 Speaker 1: now you're gonna wait but I'm about tom. That's weird. 122 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: Can we could do everything off? And I don't mean 123 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: to mean that kind of girl, but now that's boring though, 124 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: don't touch my hair and not we're we're gonna or 125 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: you just have to ride okay, but you're just not 126 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: gonna get carried away when we have sex. We meaning people, 127 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: you'd be like it's the only position I do. Like, yeah, 128 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: let's just stay right here. Don't touch nothing else that's 129 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: not funny to me, Like I can't have Like this 130 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 1: whole day is making me want to go home and 131 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: evaluate my life. I understand, take your wig off, and 132 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,679 Speaker 1: what about for guys, Like guys have like little tricks 133 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: to write, like they wear certain clothes and my cover up, 134 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: but their body looks like sometimes they take their hat 135 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: off and they look like they call that hat fishing. Yeah, yeah, 136 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: I got years before I get there. Yeahlines good. You 137 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: didn't start with here's my drum, start going on back. 138 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: You got a good shape head too, Yeah, you're good. 139 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: Like I don't know about when I cut it all 140 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: off through my ship might look weird? Is it? You 141 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: have a little a little bad funny. I was gonna 142 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: say something up like a little pea head like right, 143 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: he said he got a little pet. Yeah, we got 144 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: very like a little top. If a dude got to 145 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: go through all that, I think he's just out here tripping. 146 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: You got you wearing extra clothes and make you look 147 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: a certain way, like I mean, I'll get you wear 148 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: clothes and look good. But if you were in a 149 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: shirt to cover up your stommach, then you know, like 150 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: the real things kicking. Like when men hit forty, you know, 151 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: even if they've worked out, or even if they've been 152 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: in shape all their life, are naturally thin. Forty the 153 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: first thing that sets it on a man is the 154 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: waistline just goes out from experience. He was like super skinny, 155 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: and then he's working out and he just got buffed 156 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: and me and I'm like, alright, like him all over again. 157 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: But then it was too late. All the shower and stuff, 158 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: I wasn't doing one thing. He's hide up behind muscles. 159 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: Guys hide behind like their mother chains cars. You know 160 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: what they get out of the car, you know, watch 161 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: I think that's a guy's like way to make himself 162 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: look better. Like women got the wigs and makeup and 163 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: stuff like that, but that's a guy and stuff and yeah, 164 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: and then you guys always say I don't want a 165 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: girl who wants me just for my money, But then 166 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: they always fluss in the fact that they got money 167 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: they do to be like, you know, I play Ralph 168 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: tess Man never said I've never That's one thing I 169 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: can't say I'm never like I approached the girl and 170 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: been like, yo, I've done this, So I've done that. 171 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't never feel comfortable doing this. But if a 172 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: girl asked you like this, say she's meets you, she 173 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: doesn't know who you are, and she's like, so what 174 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 1: do you do? It just depends. Sometimes might be like 175 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: I just work in entertainment, or and then they're like, okay, 176 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: let's have a fake conversation. So what do you do? Uh? 177 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: I work in entertainment, in production, in production, anything we 178 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: know of that you worked on. I don't know if 179 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,599 Speaker 1: you might know of it, but you know, well, you 180 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: know my uncle works in the business, and maybe you 181 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: know him. Yeah, your uncle, um Quincy Jones. Get up. 182 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: It's like that comes with a lot of like if 183 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: I'll just come out and be like, yo, I'm an 184 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 1: actor singer already puts something in somebody's brain. I don't 185 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: like to do that. I'd like to keep it at 186 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: bay until we know and maybe we're like some conversation 187 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: and a couple of days in or something, and I'm like, 188 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: be like, yo, but do you feel like the girl 189 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: has changed once you said that? It depends Some of them, 190 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: do Yeah, for sure, some of them thinking, I mean, 191 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: it's just how many got thirty of them, you know, sixty? No, 192 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: it just depends like it depends spends on the girl, 193 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: for sure. But it can change, and it's like it 194 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: changes for the better or for the worst. So it 195 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: can change the fact that you were like where she's 196 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: like okay, well then I'm gonna move this way and 197 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: not just getting to think I'm just about his bread 198 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: or some of them like okay, well they got the bread, 199 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 1: So what's up. What do you prefer the direct approach 200 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: or the let me not let him think that the 201 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: direct approach? Yeah, like, you know I got bills to pay, 202 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: and I know you got it because they never let 203 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: me know. Because look, I feel like all women have motives, 204 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: whether it's everybody got motives pretty much not to check 205 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: this out. Everybody had just came crazy, straight up, straight up, 206 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: whether whether you know it or not. They guys, I'd 207 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: rather just know upfront what we're doing. But do we 208 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: all have motives? Ladies? Turn you don't. I've been an 209 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: interest for a while. My student loans have only changed 210 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: by what I've paid off every month, and I don't 211 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: even know how to have the conversation. But I guess 212 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: a motive could be like to have a child as 213 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: well get married, or when you had children, you know 214 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: that can't be it because you know what it takes. 215 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: It's so much more than just you know, that sounds 216 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: good in theory, but once you've had children and you 217 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: know what it really takes, and money is such a 218 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: small part of it. It's a big part of it, 219 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: but the day in and day out money is very 220 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: small and year But I do feel like you do 221 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: everything because of a motive, like you wanted me, even 222 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: if it's to be successful or whatever. Motives First, I 223 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: feel like sounds like a negative I think of Kelly 224 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: Roland motivation instead. That's okay, now you flipped it. So 225 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: if we had to say, okay, ladies, what's your motive? 226 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: And when you meet a guy, oh, if you had 227 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: to say, in a non negative way, what's your motive? Well, 228 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: first off, the bat would be like to get to 229 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: know him and see like what kind of person he is, 230 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: like how people treat him, like how he treats himself 231 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,599 Speaker 1: like that would be my My initial motive is to 232 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: just like get to know the person a little better. Okay, 233 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 1: But is it like a end or like this is 234 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: what I want? I mean, it depends on the person, 235 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: like if it's yeah, like if it's somebody that has 236 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 1: everything that I want, then yeah, maybe my motive will 237 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: be to make that person my husband ship. That's what 238 00:13:51,000 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying. My first motive is to find out who 239 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: the person really is. Once you have children and you 240 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: realize that people high behind the life for so long, 241 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: it is it is to try to break that wall down. 242 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: I have to know who the person is. You must 243 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 1: be so jaded from your last I'm so jaded, like 244 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: I really am, and it's so important for me to 245 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: really like the person and start asking the serious questions 246 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: like not the on the surface I want to know, 247 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't know the stuff that you don't want anyone 248 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: to know who you really are? But how do you? 249 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: I just I just say it flat out and and um, 250 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: I e y, I'm so single now. I mean more, 251 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: I felt like afraid of that a lot of them, 252 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: even when I feel like since I've met people, the 253 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: people that I've met since then, um, it's just been 254 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: dead silence, nothing. Once I start asking those questions, because 255 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, people know a lot about what 256 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: you went through too, So guys kind of have to know, 257 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: Like I shouldn't be working around because she's got kids 258 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: and she already has been through a lot with her 259 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: X and I don't want to cause anymore damage, right 260 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: or not? People think that you just want to be 261 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: in a relationship and I don't. I'm like, I really 262 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: have to get to know. I don't know who you 263 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: are right now to be trying to jump on relationships. 264 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: But I think I have experienced since then, like people 265 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: want to get serious and I'm like, I don't know 266 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: who you are, Like I've been throwing are you? Who? 267 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: Are you really? Y'all feel like it's say some time, 268 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: Like I don't know. I'm like one year not enough time, 269 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: Two years not enough time, may not be enough for 270 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: me to really be Like I think maybe I'm comfortable 271 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: with like four we're down for four years, then okay, 272 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: you're sticking around, like you you know a little bit, 273 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: you know more about me. We fully don't even know 274 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: each other after a year, Like that's my thing. Have 275 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: you been with anybody for four years? Where did you 276 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: come up with that? I'm just saying like I feel 277 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: like that's a at least five years is a good 278 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: amount of time to be like, yo, I've been with 279 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: this person for five years. I fully trust them type ship, 280 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: like I can see myself with him. But after like 281 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: you gotta, like you're saying, people just trying to jump 282 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: into a really quick after, like a certain type of months, 283 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: Like I just want to be a relationship with you, 284 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: but people know how to pretend it doesn't matter if 285 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: it's five years. And that's the scary part. But you 286 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: can't dodge that, Like that's just something that you just 287 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: don't have to go through because you can't if you 288 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: walk around like that all the time. You did not, 289 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: or you just have to or you have to trust you, 290 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: or you have to trust your intuition. You have to 291 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: trust your intuition because how you could meet somebody and 292 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: be like it could feel like an instant connection, yeah, 293 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: and it could be it could be a fake one, 294 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: or it could be a real one, you know, and 295 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: you go out. Yeah, and that happens with friendships too, 296 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: Like Laura instantly felt a connection to me, I fell 297 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: in love and because let's be real, alcoholic, even men 298 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: have motivations when it comes to befriending you yeah, just 299 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: want to hit, like, wait a minute of your friendship. 300 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: And it's not a bad thing because as men niggas are, 301 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:08,199 Speaker 1: we're naturally hunters, you know, and like guys shying to 302 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: become your friend. Yeah, you just want to. I don't know, 303 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: he's gonna get out there act like you know. As 304 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: far as because it was a battle, I was like, 305 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: that was blood. I saw that going left. I was 306 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:45,239 Speaker 1: trying to save you. I was like, I don't hear 307 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: that make up. What I was trying to say is 308 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: that I'm sure guys had to be friend to you 309 00:17:55,119 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: because they try to hit damn ocean. No, no, no, 310 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: but you're the same thing. Yeah, a lot of people do. 311 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 1: That's one thing that I really, I mean, I got, 312 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 1: I got good discernment. I just say that I based 313 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 1: it on the way what credit that to the way 314 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: I was brought up. But because all the times I'm 315 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: a good person to it, so a lot of times 316 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: if it messed with me to the like hangers on 317 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: they call them like guys, it was just like kind 318 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 1: of hanging around and try to get the scraps that 319 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: you know, But that's when you gotta look at your 320 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: dogs and just see like okay, like what is he 321 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: doing besides me? You know what I'm saying when he's 322 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: around me, Like what's he doing for itself? Okay? What's 323 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: he doing to help the ship float? Because I look 324 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,360 Speaker 1: at it like I'm not the end all be off 325 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: for everybody on my team, but I'm just the one 326 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: that helps push the ship. You feel me. So if 327 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 1: I can help push the ship, you just gotta man 328 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: your weight and you feel me, and that's whatever you're doing. 329 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 1: And if you can do that, then character good. You're good. 330 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: And it's like if both of y'all is popping and 331 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: doing what y'all supposed to be doing, like hey always 332 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: with you, Like, oh, y'all can come with me, you'll 333 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: could come with me, Like I don't know real one. 334 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: I want to sit there and be as far as 335 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: from me, like I feel like, don't know, I slid. 336 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: They want to sit there and have his home and 337 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: be the one always paying for his homies and like 338 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: it's cool when you got it to do it, but 339 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: you want your homies to be up to like after 340 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: a while, it's like, dude, I'm gonna go broke to 341 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: right like you're dating that nigger, Like insecure not dating 342 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: and noting. She was like, you're thinking me on the shop, 343 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: but she's like, bet you we're not dating, Like, no, 344 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 1: do you feel like there's any girls that you used 345 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,199 Speaker 1: to date that are the one, like somebody that's the 346 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: one who got away? Nah? Well sums that up. So 347 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:44,719 Speaker 1: what's the longest relationship you've been in? Uh? Uh damn. 348 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: I ain't even been in a lengthy relationship. Have you 349 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 1: ever been in love? Uh? Can't. I'm gonna keep it. Well, 350 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: I got somebody in my life right now that I 351 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: feel like that I really cared genuinely about. And we've 352 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: been talking for a good minute, but I still I'm 353 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: still like in my mind, I just got trusted. Shoot, 354 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 1: but I got problems Like I needed to be down 355 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: for like four or five years. Like I'm saying, like 356 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: for me to know, because I just know where I 357 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 1: want to go in life, and I just gotta make 358 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: sure everything around me is at one on one accort 359 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: you feel me. That's not saying that I don't trust it, 360 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: but I just gotta be sure because I always have 361 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: this thing like our biggest fear is our biggest obstacle, 362 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: and that fear is going to show up five years 363 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: or twenty years, that obstacle was going to show up 364 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: in the person that you trust the most, because I 365 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: don't know if it's just like how do you shield 366 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: yourself from that? And then and and live a full 367 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: life and at some point you have to be open. Yeah, 368 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: I think it's like I've seen that, you've seen that 369 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: clip with people. He was like, just commit commit Like, 370 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,880 Speaker 1: I like that, that's a real talk like that. You're 371 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: know you're gonna get hurt, you know, I really think 372 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: so for real, that's crazy. I've been saying that forever. 373 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: But what's up? That's not a common name. I think 374 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 1: that's real though. You gotta go through it. It's life, 375 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 1: but you don't get hurt. You gotta try it out 376 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 1: to so you can know we're not We're not to 377 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: do next time. So I agree with you on it. Wait, 378 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: do you tell the person that you're with that you 379 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: love them? Because that's real. Though, if I got to 380 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: love you, I'm not going to be like nah, I 381 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna say not. At first, I was like nah, 382 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: because you know, you can't say that too early, bro, Like, 383 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: and then when I first said it wasn't even in 384 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: the way, it was like you no, no, no, no, 385 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 1: no, no no, I actually ever come on, let's because that's 386 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: the sype of person I am. I'm not. I'm not 387 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 1: going to say that because people type of personal they are. 388 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: But then certain people bring certain things out of them, 389 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: and it's not the type of person you are. Is 390 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,479 Speaker 1: this that person to bring it out of you? So 391 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 1: she said, I love you? And what did you say? 392 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: The first time? You're saying nothing? You say nothing? You 393 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: just hung up. No, I'm person like I love it. 394 00:21:55,800 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, that's appreciate it. Look, I'm not gonna 395 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: say I love you if I don't mean it. That's 396 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: one thing I don't do. Did you how did you respond? 397 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: I appreciate why you should have asked before you're saying, 398 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 1: how do I love you? You better not tell you 399 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: tell your girl he's gonna say appreciated word passing my 400 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 1: do rag. I'm ad explain, explained why I don't say it, 401 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: and then she realizes that I'm not going to just 402 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: be out here life because that comes with a lot 403 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: no matter what. Even if you tell your dog like 404 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: my nigger, I love you like your dog. But I 405 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: got in love from my homies. That I don't have 406 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: for everybody, so I'm not gonna tell everybody I love you. 407 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,479 Speaker 1: So with a girl, it's even deeper, like when you 408 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 1: say the words my nigger, I feel like when you 409 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 1: say the words you're an actor. Though people always say 410 00:22:55,920 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: that are you so down world? You ain't ship? I 411 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 1: believe that you love you. So wait. So she was like, okay, 412 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: so how did she react when you were just like, 413 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,959 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Um, she wants me to say it, 414 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: but I wasn't saying it. Damn. How long did it 415 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: take you to say a minute? It took me, and 416 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: it took me a's long enough to figure out in 417 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 1: my head and in my heart, like how much I 418 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: really rock with her? And then when I figured that out, 419 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,679 Speaker 1: and then I'm like, all right, I got love for you. 420 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I don't. So you said I 421 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,959 Speaker 1: got love for you or I love you, because those 422 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: are two said that first, I said I got first 423 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: guy that's going to come back up in the therapies. 424 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: All got to understand, like a as man, we can't 425 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: just be running around saying that like if we don't know, 426 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 1: why am not saying it? It's like, how do you 427 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 1: genuinely feel about her, and why is it that she left? 428 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: What have you done? And why don't you back? Why? 429 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 1: Why is it you? I was Yeah, wh wrong with 430 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: showing emotion and expressing it? My thing is like this 431 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: in my site and it's kind of tripped out. But 432 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: in my psyche, I'm like, yo, I don't want to 433 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: I'll put my work super first. You see what I'm saying. 434 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: I put my work all way first, and I try 435 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: to run away from even feeling emotions toward women. And 436 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: that's the problem though, because I did that for a 437 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: long time. It's not trying to get into deep when 438 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: it's like, bro, you gotta live life. And that's what 439 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: I realized, Like if you rock with somebody, you rock 440 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 1: with him. If it grows into something that grows. But 441 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: I can't sit here and be like no, no, I 442 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: don't want to engage with you because I don't want 443 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 1: to you know what I'm saying that happened and make 444 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: you like this because you're like super like guard up 445 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 1: and everything like did you like I think it is? 446 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: I think it's just protect I know when I love, 447 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: I love hard, and so it's protecting myself and it's 448 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: also protecting her as well, like protecting the woman. I 449 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: know that a lot of times, I'm not gonna give 450 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: you the attention that you always want up front, because 451 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be focused on my my stuff and I'm 452 00:24:58,200 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: gonna let you know this comes first in my life 453 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: and love. Women can't handle that. Yeah, And so I 454 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: don't just be I keep myself guarded to protect others 455 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 1: pretty much, that makes any sense? Are you consessive? Like? Yeah, 456 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: he said, that's out. I don't know you like I'm protecting. 457 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: I talked to you, I talked to her. No, I 458 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: don't know if this is if this is a male thing. 459 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,119 Speaker 1: But I talked to a close friend today and he said, 460 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: the moment a woman starts to really love me, I 461 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: started disliking her because we because what is that about? Guy? 462 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: It's scary for it is like once a woman says 463 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,159 Speaker 1: I love you, just know, like when you hear the words, 464 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: just like yo, like damn, like she really in there? 465 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. It's like what is the balance? 466 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? If a woman just if 467 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: she just slept with you off of physicality, then she's 468 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: home if she has emotions. Because I won't say that. 469 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: I want to say, well, if that's what's within her 470 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: is to love someone that she's given herself too, and 471 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know if I can tell her that. 472 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: It's like so it's like, well, we know, what do 473 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: you do? Right? You can't be emotional? And then it's 474 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 1: then he's gonna stop liking you, and then you know, 475 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: and then it's like if I just like say whatever, 476 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm just your like she's saying, it's no win media. 477 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: I think a lot of men just don't know what 478 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: they want. I think that's the point that people don't 479 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: know who they are. People in general don't know what 480 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,239 Speaker 1: they are exactly, are exactly and to be honest, when 481 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: niggas want to hit, like, I'm just keeping always thought 482 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: they do how you know, but that's just been honest. 483 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: But it has to But but it's nothing wrong with 484 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: that initial thought because we're all humans were sexual being. 485 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, I want to hit, but it's gonna take 486 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 1: you to be like, no, I think you're not hitting yet, 487 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: Like you're gonna have to get to and then that's 488 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 1: when the nigga decides, Okay, wow, like no, that's not 489 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 1: true because you're true. Well, some guys you can wait, 490 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: Matt Long have sex with the guy and doing that. 491 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: Trust me, I one of my head back, Yeah, keep 492 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: it because no, no, but to to have sex, no, 493 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not going to sit around 494 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: and just play a game to wait to have sex. 495 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: It's too much sex out here to be playing games 496 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 1: and waiting like game. Isn't that different for women though, 497 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 1: because it's hard for us to just go and lay 498 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: down with someone, you know, without without us without at 499 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: least the idea or the perception or feeling like we're 500 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: going to go somewhere. I mean, it's very a majority 501 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: of y'alls and now there's a lot of y'all all 502 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: here that don't care either. So I think it just 503 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 1: depends on the woman. I don't think. I don't think 504 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: there's no one that doesn't care. It's like we've learned to, 505 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: we have tried to adjust and adapt to the culture 506 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 1: that has been presented to us to protect herself. A 507 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 1: couple of bitches don't care. Just out here. Some girls 508 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 1: want to be there, Algae. But but that's real too, 509 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: Like when you when you when you look at these 510 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: documentaries of Elvis women are like I slept with Elvis. 511 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: I slept with them and they're so excited and excited. 512 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 1: Be quiet. We back guest that said that they've had 513 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: guys lined up out the door to be next, Like 514 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: we there's a judgment free zone here. You know, some 515 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 1: women are just like that porn step. But that's what 516 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 1: I've said. But some people like to have job. Just 517 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: that's what it is. Some people like to have I 518 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: think everyone once you learn to have good sex, everybody 519 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: likes having sex, right, And let's be clear, like there's 520 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: certain people that you connect with physically and some people 521 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: you don't. And that's another thing, because there's some guys, 522 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: like I'm sure all the ladies in here we could 523 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: say we've had sex with certain guys that every time 524 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 1: it's been amazing. But that don't mean that's the person 525 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: you were in love with the most. That the job 526 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: just like oh yeah, yeah, the best. He might really 527 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 1: be the best at sex, but not like the best 528 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: person in my life. You say he's broke, that really great, 529 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: no comment. I gotta have something going for me, a 530 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: real big piece of ship, you know what I mean, 531 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: Like somebody that's a real big piece of ship. How 532 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 1: they make up for it could be with either money, sex, something, 533 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They auld treat you like 534 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: usually very good and batty, extremely amazingly fantastically, she's amazingly beautifully, 535 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: treat you like ship. So you're like sucking I with 536 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: the mediocre because it treats me better. He treats me better. 537 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: But how did you learn how to have sex? Having sex? 538 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: But I mean, like the first time, how did you 539 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: know what to do with it from watching? Like my 540 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 1: first time was a little different. I had sex with 541 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: first and it's sad, really said, I don't condone this, 542 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: But I had sex with the first time when I 543 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm seen years old, so it was different, 544 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 1: like baby, and I wish I wouldn't know. Just a 545 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: girl that lives in my neighborhood, but she was out 546 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 1: there though. She was a couple of years older than me, 547 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: and we used to come on from school at the 548 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 1: same time. Just wasn't at home that day. You know, I 549 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 1: I went over a crib and you gotta popping. I 550 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: wish I would have wait, you gotta popping, but you 551 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: know it right, like you can come marching at seeing 552 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: you sold marching, So you were already. Were you masturbating on? 553 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. Yeah, okay, she was telling me 554 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 1: like yo, like John, like like she was like she 555 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 1: was out there, yo, my bucket. I didn't know that 556 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 1: boys could come that girl, they could cop. It depends 557 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: on the dude. Maybe have a wet dreams and stuff 558 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: that little now you're a man dream get their periods 559 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: like and then they come. Do you remember your first 560 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: wet dream? What was going on? No? I didn't, you know, 561 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 1: I mean the dream lets you know what's going on? 562 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: But no, you think you in there the bed like 563 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: then you weren't like yo, I wasn't having sex, but 564 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 1: you know what come was like? Did you know what 565 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: that was? I was a little miss, a little kid 566 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: as a kid, she said, my son is good. But 567 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: the only reason, I said, because I really protect my children. 568 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: But you know, I was raised like in the South 569 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: and we were just we just had access to a lot, 570 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 1: you know. So I remember, like I had my first 571 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 1: orgasm as a very young age for a girl, but 572 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was. I love with you 573 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: like it's first grade. What were you doing? Man? No? 574 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: Not even like no, no, no, I was I was. 575 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 1: I had learned because I had I had to watch. 576 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: I walked in on some porn and I remember I 577 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: told my grade on some porn was going on. It 578 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: was like first grade. She beat you. What I'm saying 579 00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: is like but what we were like left alone and 580 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: like you know, you know, I was raised around a 581 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: lot of boys, so they would always be watching porn 582 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: or magazines. So I remember like just like what is 583 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,959 Speaker 1: that about? And and and after doing it so long, 584 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: one night, I started shivering and I just remember like 585 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: because it was raising, we were raising the church, like 586 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: praying like please never let that happen again. I feel 587 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: like I did something wrong, but it does. I didn't 588 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: know what. I don't even know what it was. I 589 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: was like, what the fuss was? And when did you 590 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: find out what it was? In my teens she was 591 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: she started praying like I'm sorry, yeah, what was that? 592 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: I'll never touched myself again like that? So you didn't 593 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 1: do it anymore? Well, I know I didn't do it 594 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: anymore after that, but but as I when I thirteen, 595 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 1: then I begin to do it again, like okay, try 596 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: this again. But I remember, like, you know, because I 597 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 1: was raising by all guys, all boys, and then their 598 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: friends and somebody was still some tape from a parent 599 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 1: and put it in the VCR. Remember walking in one 600 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: day and was like, oh ship. And I remember my 601 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: elderly aunt. I told her that night what I saw 602 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: and she was like she just couldn't stop laughing. She 603 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: was like, tell me again what you saw. Say now 604 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: you think about that. Now you think about Algae and 605 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: how old he was when he first had sex, and 606 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: you think about your son's right. But do you tell 607 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 1: them differently? Do you tell them like do you talk 608 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: about sex? Like I feel like I'm in control of 609 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: everything they do, Like you know, I I'm not trying 610 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: to shield them from anything, but to a certain age, 611 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And so I remember last 612 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,239 Speaker 1: year talking to another parent and her son came home. 613 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: I was like, mom, I had a boner. I was like, oh, 614 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 1: he said the word boner and she was like, I 615 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: don't even know where we got there from. So it 616 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: made me after the real son. You know, my mama 617 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: and my dad did a great job of telling me 618 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: what to do, what not to do, keeping it all 619 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: the way a thousand with me, let me know what 620 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: sex was. But my mama was and she's like a 621 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: spiritual warriors. So like even still like she goes hard, 622 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 1: but back then she was really on it, and so 623 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: I don't. But there's still times where she could teach 624 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: me everything I need to hear it. But I'm still 625 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: gonna go and travel myself. So I don't think you 626 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: can really shield, especially with boys, not even shield. It's 627 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 1: like I haven't. I feel like I've been in control 628 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: of their exposure to that. Being at work, there was 629 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: no control of my exposure, Like at my mom been home, 630 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 1: maybe I wouldn't have walked in on you know, guys 631 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 1: like oh my god, look at this tape or look 632 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: at these magazines. So I feel like I've been in 633 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,359 Speaker 1: control of that. But they got phones, tablets, you can 634 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: anything on anything. And mostly it's the friends that be like, 635 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 1: look at this. Let me tell you something. These little 636 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: kids is sending each other new pictures, young little kids, 637 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: because it happened at my niece's school and one of 638 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: the kids got expelled because he forwarded one of the 639 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 1: pictures that the little girl gave me. She was like, 640 00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 1: I saw the pictures. I said, no, no, you didn't 641 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: in middle school. This is something when she was in 642 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 1: middle school. Yeah, and this is like because there's alright, 643 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 1: issues that we had growing up. We didn't help where 644 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 1: we could send text lists to each other and take 645 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 1: pictures on our phone and all that. First of all, 646 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: you can take the phone away, like you know what 647 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 1: I mean, that's something like that. Now it don't matter. 648 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: They got laptops. They use it for school DM. But 649 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: like the thing about it is like sometimes like now 650 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: you can't control that. But you can't control like you 651 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 1: can't see you know what I mean. You can share 652 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 1: the same my cloud and turnd the phones off to 653 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 1: exactly these callings, exactly exactly what they're looking up. So 654 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: you just have to be a little bit more pro active. 655 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: That to you, you know, he's like, you can do that? 656 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 1: How to do that? We're gonna do that. Has you 657 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: ever looked arough your phone? Uh not, to my knowledge, 658 00:35:54,560 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: through her phone? You know if you have not? He look, look, yes, 659 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say this, and I heard it said 660 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 1: once before like that ain't no, that ain't nothing. And 661 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 1: then they need to be proud of like, oh yeah, 662 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,840 Speaker 1: I left the shorty phone. But hey, look guys, I 663 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: didn't know what's sending, so you didn't do it. I 664 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: did it. I ain't that it was like, I ain't 665 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 1: e meant that it was the right thing to do. 666 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 1: It's some punch ship, but hey, look made you do that? 667 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,360 Speaker 1: Hey look, I need to know, Like, but I'm saying this, 668 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 1: something happened or did you just do it out of nowhere? 669 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 1: Because yeah, yeah, something happened. Something happened. Some happened, but 670 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: it didn't want that big of a deal what happened. 671 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 1: But it made me raising, bro, And I'm glad I 672 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 1: raised an eye, bro, because then I figured out what 673 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: I needed up in there. Hey look, let me just 674 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: say I'll figured out Yeah I didn't know, and then 675 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,800 Speaker 1: yeah nah And see, No, guys are really funny because 676 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 1: they'll do it and you won't know, and then they'll 677 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: fucking use the ship against you. But you like how 678 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: to You're like this nigga must be a psychic. You're 679 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 1: cooking to your friends. You happen twice. They let me 680 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: know right away, see nine, And then I'd be like, well, 681 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have been in my phone. I might have 682 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 1: found out a whole year later before I Yeah he 683 00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 1: was Yeah, girls, it could have It's awful, But I 684 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: get going because he has going on, because if they 685 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 1: hate you give coming in there, they can't wait other 686 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 1: things to do, so damn I don't even want to leave. Yeah, 687 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: let's go to your phone, isn't. I've been a situation 688 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: where I'll grab a guy's phone and you know, from 689 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: like what's your password, and immediately they clench up, right 690 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 1: because this is the thing, even though I feel like 691 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: the littlest thing may trigger something that could be going 692 00:37:55,480 --> 00:38:04,400 Speaker 1: through people. Fine, I can unches up, not you, But 693 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 1: I mean it's real though, because we just I'm thinking, 694 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,719 Speaker 1: I just know like how sensitive women or at least 695 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: the women I deal with or the women that I 696 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 1: deal with is. So it's like, I'm not gonna Yeah, 697 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: it's really I ain't gonna There's nothing wrong with that. 698 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: But if I'm in a d M and somebody call 699 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: my d M and they're talking to me and I'm 700 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: not engaging it super far, but I'm like, yo, what's up? 701 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,959 Speaker 1: I appreciate you, and y'all see that Y're not gonna 702 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,839 Speaker 1: like that you feel me? So I'm just like, yo, 703 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: to protect everything going on? Just no, just what I like? 704 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: You know what? And I respond what you like? But 705 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: I know how to get you to leave. We gotta 706 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:57,959 Speaker 1: tell we love him. I ain't gonna leave love y'all. 707 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: When you told her you loved her and my mind 708 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,919 Speaker 1: was a bit for her, was it? Like? Oh my god? 709 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. You can't just be doing 710 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,439 Speaker 1: that because that's what I thought too. Because you can't 711 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 1: do that's cheating. That's cheating, especially as you laying down 712 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,279 Speaker 1: for show. So you can't be like, I love you 713 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:22,239 Speaker 1: crazy love for real? What made you decided? Like I said, 714 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 1: I just wasn't like I felt it, And so I'm like, yo, 715 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 1: like I'll fus with you can't true to yourself and 716 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 1: that's what you really felt and you didn't say it 717 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 1: before you felt it. Yeah, that's real. That's all you 718 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 1: can be. I just can't be out here playing man. 719 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 1: You sure emotions are too serious. Women are too serious. 720 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: Plus your artists. I feel like artists are more in 721 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: touch with their emotions anyway. Yeah. See the thing, I'll 722 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 1: be trying to run for my emotions, but I have 723 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 1: to be in touch with them for what I do, 724 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: which is real. But I've been trying to around like 725 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: you also like side ticks according to your music, so 726 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 1: sideline according to what sideline the question. I'm straight on it. 727 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: I'm good when I got someone ain't trying to mess 728 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 1: it up. He's like, not enough flying in the world, 729 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,399 Speaker 1: all right? When can we expect new music? New music? 730 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,319 Speaker 1: The album A t l A Is coming out after 731 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,640 Speaker 1: the Hate You Give drops. I'm not gonna put a 732 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 1: date on it because they're gonna mattert me if they 733 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: don't come out on that date, but definitely a wintertime. Uh. 734 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 1: To give a little brief preview on A t l A. 735 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 1: The album. When I was I was at the end, 736 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: I was living in Atlanta. I went from Atlanta, gave 737 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 1: myself thirty days to go out to l A to 738 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,279 Speaker 1: make something happen. I was like, Yo, if nothing don't 739 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: happen these thirty days, I just go back to the crib. 740 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: But there was at a point where I was like, 741 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: I feel like I want to be a little further 742 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: my acting, the music. I want to just be further 743 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: in Atlanta wasn't the time for me right now. So 744 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 1: when out to l A, the home girl let me 745 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: sleep on the couch and I was like struggling to 746 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: catch money for uber is, trying to get money to eat, 747 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: just to l a hustle to grind. By the end 748 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,439 Speaker 1: of that thirty days, I end up booking new edition 749 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 1: and I ain't been able to leave l A ever since. 750 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,759 Speaker 1: So the album is just like bringing you into my 751 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: life a little bit. So that could that's coming on 752 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:06,840 Speaker 1: a dope story. I like that give you something. Everybody 753 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 1: saying that guy in a different way, bro, like that's 754 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 1: not enough time, but you know it's really not. That's 755 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 1: That's how I know though, when I feel something, when 756 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 1: I feel a push, it's the creative because it's like 757 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 1: he was pushing me to go out there and everything 758 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 1: met me. So you might not feel the same way. 759 00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:32,200 Speaker 1: You might feel like, no, I needed just more days. 760 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,200 Speaker 1: That should have been sad day thirty one more days, 761 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:41,839 Speaker 1: more days for you? Why are you not answering? All right? Well, 762 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,879 Speaker 1: I'll smith thank you so much. Make sure you check 763 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: out the hate you give A t l A coming soon. 764 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: We can't tell you a day, and um we love you, 765 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 1: don't I feel good? Bob? We hit it on the 766 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: first night I'm talking about You're here held in his dress, 767 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 1: a lot of Niggs trying to hit whoa whoa. I 768 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: was like, Wow, that was not terry honest, that's definitely 769 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 1: the promo Live service.