WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Big Loads

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<v Speaker 1>second dat Day. The laundry mat is a great place

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<v Speaker 1>to meet women. Great place. Yeah, you don't even really

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<v Speaker 1>have to talk to him. You just walk up, start

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<v Speaker 1>folding their underwear, and there there it's always a conversation starter,

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<v Speaker 1>even if they're not there, like say they left the

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<v Speaker 1>laundrat for a second. You see that their stuffs done,

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<v Speaker 1>you just start folding their undies. That's always good to

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<v Speaker 1>probably sniff them too, that's probably a nice move. Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to make sure they're clean. I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that's what Pete did to meet the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he met at a laundry matt that's not calling him back, Pete.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you use the old I'm gonna fold your undee

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<v Speaker 1>trick or do something different? Um? A little different though,

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<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten to the underwear park yet. Thank god, Pete,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you meet this girl at the laundry mat? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I'm doing the thing. Poured some de turgent

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<v Speaker 1>in the machine. And then I hear this voice, the

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<v Speaker 1>swoan's voice, say, you're using way too much the turgent,

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<v Speaker 1>the disrespect. How upset were you when she said that? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, yeah, no, I've been doing this a while,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm fine. I never have a problem with my laundry.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. And then I turned around and there she is,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's really cute. Okay, because if she wasn't probably like,

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<v Speaker 1>get the hell away from me, lady, tell me how

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<v Speaker 1>to do my laundry. Yeah, you're like, you're cute. You're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you just instruct me slowly how to do it? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't mind it when she was giving me advice.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it occurred to me that she was, maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know, initiating contacted. Maybe that is like

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<v Speaker 1>a definite she's hitting on you, and she's looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a way to get in on the conversation. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the brightest bulb on the tree. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>finally realize, oh, maybe she's flirting with me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be pissed at her for critiquing Yeah. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that i'd start taking notes and if she

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<v Speaker 1>would continue, you know, giving me a lesson. I was all, ears,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a ballsy move on her part. I give her props.

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<v Speaker 1>It was she the one that then asked you out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. No, what happened was we were kind

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<v Speaker 1>of our laundry cycles were on the same you know,

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<v Speaker 1>time frame, and I realized that, hey, rather than sit

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<v Speaker 1>around here and watch the laundry dry, why don't we

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<v Speaker 1>go down the street and grab a drink. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea. Yeah, so you guys, you guys went down

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<v Speaker 1>the street and grabbed a beer or something while you

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<v Speaker 1>waited for your laundry to finish up. Yeah. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of beers each, and it was nice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Um it was easier to talk in a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a more familiar environment for me. So

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys seem to click though? Yeah, totally. We

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hung out there. Then when we went back

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<v Speaker 1>to the laundry, mat um up talking and um I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was going well, Yeah, I don't know. She

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<v Speaker 1>did give me your number, okay, Um, but then, um,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so truth be told. Um, I you stole

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<v Speaker 1>her underwear. You stole her underwear, You start with truth

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<v Speaker 1>be told, and you're around her laundry. I know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what you're about to say. No, I didn't make the

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<v Speaker 1>underwear move, then please tell me at some point you

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<v Speaker 1>got your hands on her underwear. You can't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why you're so hung about, because what guy isn't

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<v Speaker 1>all of us? She did? She did? I did see it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, sweet, Well, anyway, what I was about to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you but that you know, we'd had a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of beers and I thought it'd be funny, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>who knew there was laundry humor actually probably isn't um.

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<v Speaker 1>But I started making jokes about big loads of laundry

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, oversized machines for extra big loads, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you were making like dirty jokes based on laundry terms.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much. The only one I could think of was

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<v Speaker 1>the big loads. Why does that? That sounds even worse?

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds even more creepy than taking her underwear. I

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<v Speaker 1>know I shouldn't have done it, you know, but I

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of beers in me and as a

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<v Speaker 1>little tipsy, and you know, I thought she I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would work. I don't even really get the joke either,

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<v Speaker 1>don't explain to Yeah, okay, loads of laundry, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>big loads. I still all right? Hey text in seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two in graphic detail. If you understand what

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<v Speaker 1>he's joking about, describe it for Brooke otherwise we'll move on.

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<v Speaker 1>So you were making those jokes, Well, yeah, I made

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<v Speaker 1>a few of the jokes, and then you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>gives me this weird lo you know, like are you

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<v Speaker 1>kidding me? And so I stopped, but she still gave

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<v Speaker 1>you her number post bad laundry joke. Um, actually, let

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<v Speaker 1>me see, I can't it might have been before, like

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<v Speaker 1>when we were at the bar. Oh yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>just have her number? How many how many times have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to get ahold of her since your laundry date?

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<v Speaker 1>We've actually talked once over the phone, okay, and that

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<v Speaker 1>went pretty well. So then like a couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her and she didn't reply. Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>have her on the phone and not make plans to

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<v Speaker 1>see each other again? Like, what was the point of

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<v Speaker 1>the phone call. Well, we did try to make plans,

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<v Speaker 1>but she wasn't sure what her schedule was coming up,

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<v Speaker 1>so we decided to hold off and make plans a

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<v Speaker 1>little later. So what do you think the reason is

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not calling you back? Well, I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>say I had no idea, but it's probably the really

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<v Speaker 1>crummy jokes I was trying out. Okay, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and find out why she's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting back to you in your second date date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, sounds great name. All right, man, hang him

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jubil in the morning if you're just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for the second date update. Pete met a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Christy at a laundry Matt. They didn't really like have

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<v Speaker 1>a date scheduled, but they met there while their laundry

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<v Speaker 1>was getting done and everything else. They went and had

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<v Speaker 1>some beers. Pete thinks that she's not calling him back

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<v Speaker 1>because when they got back to the laundry Matt, he

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<v Speaker 1>was a little tipsy and was making jokes about, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>the giant loads in there. Believe that means and disgusting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we explained to Brooke what it means, and so he

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<v Speaker 1>was making jokes like that, and he thinks that that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of turned her off, like maybe it was a

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<v Speaker 1>bit much. Yeah, And I think your problem, Pete isn't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily that you were joking about stuff like that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you went with that instead of like jokes about things

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<v Speaker 1>getting stiff with starch. You know, that's the comedy gold

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to laundry Matt jokes could have gone

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<v Speaker 1>that route. Yeah, and it didn't. What it worked way

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<v Speaker 1>better for you, man, Yeah, exactly, Pete. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>you could be the laundry mat creeper and you're just

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<v Speaker 1>not owning up to it. At this point, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just tipsy. I'm not weird, really, yeah right, trust me.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're making jokes like that at a laundromat to

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<v Speaker 1>a girl you first met, you're creepy. Thank you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna doll the phone him right now. See if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get on the phone and find out if that

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<v Speaker 1>is the reason why though you're ready? Ye, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Whoa ahright? Can I speak to Christy please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Christie. Hey Christy, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry about

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<v Speaker 1>being so spirited and the Hey Christy, I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>to freak you out there. How are you doing? Who

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<v Speaker 1>is this? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show oh, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>calling me? I'm calling you because you recently had an

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<v Speaker 1>interaction with one of our listeners and they emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>to see if we get a hold of you. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say interaction because this is less of a

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<v Speaker 1>date and just more of like, you met a guy

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<v Speaker 1>and he really likes you and is wondering why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling back. His name is Pete. Oh yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>two bonded at a laundry mat. Yeah, he wanted you

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<v Speaker 1>to call me, Yes, he did. He says that since

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met at the laundry mat, you guys clicked

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<v Speaker 1>and had a good time, and you've talked a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but now you're not returning any of his phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>or texts and he would love to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any reason that you're not calling Pete back? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't. I don't think there's a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a nice way to put it, you know. Was

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<v Speaker 1>it let me ask you a question then, so you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think there was a connection. Was it the jokes

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<v Speaker 1>that he was making after you guys got back from

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<v Speaker 1>your little break to go get beers kind of off

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<v Speaker 1>color jokes? I mean, it was definitely like it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>help him. You know, I just got a weird from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he come off as creepy? Because when I found

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<v Speaker 1>out what those jokes were, that's I mean, a guy

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<v Speaker 1>you just met that is nasty. Well, it's more that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know him, you know. I mean, like everybody

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<v Speaker 1>helds dirty Joe and it's like especially when we start drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I went home and I did a search

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<v Speaker 1>for him on my computer and everything changed. Whoa, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>he is creepy, isn't he? What did you find online

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<v Speaker 1>that made you change your mind? Now? I'm really curious. Nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by that? I mean, he's a vapor.

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<v Speaker 1>There is nothing about him. It's weird. You know, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has something about themselves. You're saying, you're like, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>for sure you were going to say, oh, I found

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<v Speaker 1>a record where he's not allowed fifteen feet in near

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<v Speaker 1>schools or something. You're saying that you are upset that

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't find anything at all. I'm saying it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>to not have any presence in social media or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so weird. So he didn't have a Facebook, Twitter, Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>any of that. None, and that weirds you out. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I can't trust a person who has zero

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<v Speaker 1>presence on the Internet, and so I actually asked him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like do you have a Facebook? And he

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<v Speaker 1>said he didn't, and that's when I'm done with him.

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<v Speaker 1>What Wow? That quick? So that's all it takes with

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<v Speaker 1>you is to not have a Facebook and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have a chance. Huh. Somebody who is trying not

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<v Speaker 1>to be found on the Internet has something to hide,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to find out what they're hiding. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I understand. I meet people that always like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do Facebook. I don't, and I'm always like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you a mass murderer? I don't. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>trust you. I think this would be like a godsend

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<v Speaker 1>to find a guy that wasn't on social media at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the two guys I know that have zero social

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<v Speaker 1>media presence are both like construction worker guys who just

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<v Speaker 1>aren't around computers very much. Sketch construction. They're burying bodies.

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<v Speaker 1>They're burying bodies out there. Even construction workers go home

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<v Speaker 1>and get on Facebook. Thinks to do with their time.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not wasting all their time on social media and

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<v Speaker 1>stocking people like I said, burying bodies at the construction site.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they're doing. See, I'd like to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what he's hiding. Aren't you a little curious? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to know at all, and I'm worried about

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<v Speaker 1>it now that we've talked about it. Do you really

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<v Speaker 1>think like he's a killer or something? Like? What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think? He might be a hang out at

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<v Speaker 1>laundry match That is true, he hangs out at He

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<v Speaker 1>hangs out at laundry mats, doesn't have a Facebook. A

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<v Speaker 1>guy clearly cannot be trusted. I do appreciate you telling

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<v Speaker 1>us why you wouldn't call him back, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>need to let you know that Pete is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and would love to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you seriously. Yep, say hi Pete. That's the reason you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call me back. Look, I'm sorry you had to

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<v Speaker 1>hear that, but it's obvious you're hiding something if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even have a Facebook or any I just am

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<v Speaker 1>not interested. If you want to get to know me,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me. That's how you get to know me. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we did hang out, and what I found

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<v Speaker 1>out about was how big a loads you think you have.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think that's why don't you have

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<v Speaker 1>a Facebook? Ten, I don't have one because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe in because you're hiding something. No, I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>think my opinion matters that much in the greater scheme

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<v Speaker 1>of things. So why should I like blab it about

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think your opinion matters? Well, I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you look at most of the stuff on Facebook, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's like people are posting things that really

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter in the big scheme of things. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what people are putting on Facebook? If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have one, you're probably one of those weirdos that,

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<v Speaker 1>as a fake accountant, just watches everybody. Pete, are you

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<v Speaker 1>one of those weirdos that just watches people on the internet? No,

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<v Speaker 1>are you hiding anything? No? Are you married or something? Pete?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you know, No, I'm not married. You're hearing from

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<v Speaker 1>Pete right now. The reason he doesn't have a Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>is he just doesn't like it. It's the twenty first century.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't have a presence online, you're hiding something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done with this. Yeah, hey, Pete, you're still there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still here. That was straight. Yeah, she seems to

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<v Speaker 1>have a little bit of a complex about people not

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<v Speaker 1>on social media. Yeah, so you're not hiding anything. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm not telling everything either. You know, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean by that, Pete? Now it does sound shady.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everybody has secrets, right, Yeah, that's part of

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of being a human being, and not everything

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<v Speaker 1>in my life is everybody's business. Okay, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>sounding creepy again? Many, Pete? Right now, if I was dating, see,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be dating exclusively. Let's put it that way. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still like, Pete, you're not helping your case at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I could you trying to explain why you don't use

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook is sounding creepier and creepier by the minute. See,

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<v Speaker 1>this is why social media is not good. If you

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<v Speaker 1>post anything the other women you're dating, you know, get

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong idea, Yeah, get the idea that you're so

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<v Speaker 1>Christie was right. So Christie was right? Then, Pete, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, what's wrong with dating multiple people? It's but

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're hiding it and then hoping that they

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<v Speaker 1>don't meet the other person. Like, no, if I was

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<v Speaker 1>dating exclusively, i'd tell somebody that, but I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't date exclusively right now. But Chris, he was right,

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<v Speaker 1>you are hiding something. No, I'm not hiding it. Yes

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You just you just admitted to it. Well

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't ask me all right in the morning text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight five nine two, that says right,

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<v Speaker 1>this girl is crazy. Sometimes people don't have Facebook because

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<v Speaker 1>they choose not to be a part of the drama

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<v Speaker 1>that it brings. Wow, broken Jewil in the morning talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the second date update, Pete wanted us to call

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<v Speaker 1>this girl named Christie. He thought he wasn't getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back because of a very bad joke he made

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<v Speaker 1>when they first met at a laundromat. It involved joke

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<v Speaker 1>about having big loads, and he thought that's the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling back. But that's not why she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling back. She wasn't calling back because she looked him

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<v Speaker 1>up online like most people do after they meet somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>and found that he didn't have a Facebook. So she

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<v Speaker 1>knew that something was wrong and he was a serial

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<v Speaker 1>killer or worse. Ye feel like I went through so

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<v Speaker 1>many emotions here because then I was like, well, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy lady. I mean that's ridiculous. But then at

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<v Speaker 1>the end Pete was all weird and like acting like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not telling everything and I wouldn't be dating exclusively. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Pete didn't want to have a Facebook because he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to date around and doesn't want people knowing that he's

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<v Speaker 1>dating around. I guess so he still is hiding something

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<v Speaker 1>by not having a Facebook. That's why I don't trust

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<v Speaker 1>people who aren't on social media these days. I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I don't. Yeah, at least one, at least

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram or Twitter. Even my grandparents are on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they really? Yeah, that's impressive. I know their friend

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<v Speaker 1>requests me and I always deny it. I hope. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to be granny and a bikini on a

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<v Speaker 1>beach taken selfie. So if grandparents are on Facebook and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like young and not on there, then what is

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with you? Why? Mama is like you're hiding something.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the same thing when I meet people who still

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<v Speaker 1>have a flip phone. What are you? What is your deal?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? You feel like it's some sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>throwaway phone and they're making deals on the side. You

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<v Speaker 1>want a second date up da to have to email

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back. Young Jeffrey's song of the Week, just

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<v Speaker 1>a Little Ways Away at eight ten