1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Y. I am Jaselle, 4 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: but what's what's up? 5 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 3: I'm Robin Dixon. 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: Thank you for being here with us once again. Yes, 7 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: we appreciate you. 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,159 Speaker 3: Yes we in these podcasts we are. You could be 9 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: anywhere in the world, but you're here with us. But 10 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: you're here listening to us. I appreciate that. 11 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, hope everyone is safe and happy and 12 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 2: healthy and all the things. 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 3: Yes, indeed yours. Yes, what's popping? Okay, I got something 14 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 3: to say. 15 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: Okay, because this is my shady moment. You have to 16 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 2: go back to a couple of maybe a month or 17 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 2: so ago. 18 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: This. Okay, remember when when I said to you, Robin, 19 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: I and then a chocoal over t I's new song. 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: Yes, let them know? Yes? Okay? Are you over it now? No? Okay. 21 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: It is to the point where if I'm driving down 22 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: the street and I hear that song, I then feel 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: like I can run stop signs. 24 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: I can do whatever I want. My head is definitely 25 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 2: talked to the side. I have an attitude. Just something 26 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: overtakes my body. It's like okay, let them know. 27 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: It's okay, Okay. 28 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's my theme song because even 29 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: when like the light turns green, I'm just still sitting 30 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 1: there listening to the song. 31 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: D I has done something I do. 32 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: It doesn't do anything. I mean, I like it, but 33 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: it doesn't do that to me. 34 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: It doesn't. 35 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: It doesn't make you feel like everything on the road 36 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 2: you need to do opposite if it stop signing driving, 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: if it's a green light, sit there like that's how 38 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 2: I feel. 39 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 3: Really yeah, okay. 40 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: You no, No, it definitely does not have that effect 41 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: on I'm gonna let TI I know you didn't done something. Yeah, 42 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: and I don't appreciate it, and I need to go 43 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: back to how I normally drive, okay, which is following 44 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: all the rules and regulation. 45 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: No, you already told us you don't. I know. So 46 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: I now have someone to blame. It's called t I. 47 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: So when you get pulled over, I'm gonna blame TA 48 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 3: to the car. Let them know. 49 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna let him know, let him know he was 50 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: listening to TI. Yes, and he did this to me. 51 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: Something overcame my body. That's funny, Yeah, that is funny. 52 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: That's your shady moment. 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: That's my shady yes, because it keeps happening, Like every 54 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: time I hear the song, I'm like, oh, you forget, Yes, 55 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: I forget that I'm driving and I should not be 56 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: driving crazy, Yeah, totally, And I just start talking to 57 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: my kids different. I have like an Atlanta accent. I 58 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: don't have an Atlanta accent from Atlanta. 59 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 3: Let them know. Oh my goodness. 60 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: Okay, what's your shady moment? Hold on, I just said 61 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: it in my head. Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, Okay. 62 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: So this is more of a warning to everyone else 63 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: because I didn't fall for it. Oh you didn't, right, However, 64 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: had I fallen for it, it would have been an 65 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: incredibly shady moment. So I got an email from a 66 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: person that I know but I'm not friendly with. He 67 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: works for Truly Original, a production company that produces the 68 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: real households of Potomac and he more so, he's not 69 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: an employee. I guess he's more of like a contractor. 70 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: When they have events or something going on, they bring 71 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: him in to help out with stuff. 72 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 3: Do I know this guy Devon? 73 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: No? 74 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, so. 75 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: He's emailed before, like he'll handle a lot of logistics 76 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: surrounding maybe the reunion or something like, oh that guy, yes, yeah, yeah. 77 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: So I got an email from him and it was 78 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: a paperless post invitation and it was celebrate let me 79 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: actually I should probably pull it up. The subject was 80 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: was celebrate this important milestone and you click on it. 81 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: And so when I saw his name and I saw 82 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: a paperless post, I'm like, what is what is truly product? 83 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 3: What kind of event is truly? Perfection invited me to? 84 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: Like? 85 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 3: What is happening? Okay? 86 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: The subject is a special invitation from Devon and then 87 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: the card says, cheers to this moment, celebrate with us 88 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: and unforgettable experience awaits paperless post. So when you click 89 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: on it to view the card, please RCP before March seventh, 90 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: it takes you to a screen that asked you to. 91 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 3: Put your email addressing. 92 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: Oh so I put my email addressing, okay, And then 93 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: it takes you another screen that asked you for your password. 94 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 3: And that's when I said, hmmm, hold up, wait a minute, 95 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: they about to get me, right, that's saying right. 96 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I've never received a paperless post invitation where 97 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: when you click on it, it doesn't automatically go to 98 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: the invite. Okay, it makes you put your email address in, 99 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: so I ignored it, and then I got another one, same. 100 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: Thing, okay from him? Right, okay, right, because I got 101 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 2: this also from Jamaine. 102 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 3: Oh really? Yes? Oh okay, So did you get it 103 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 3: from Jamaine? No? Okay, all right, go ahead? Did it? 104 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: So I ignored it and another one came and I'm like, okay, well, 105 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 3: let me look at this again, same thing. 106 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: So I decided to email him and I said, hey, 107 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: I just received a paperless post invite from you. It 108 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: seemed kind of kind of fishy because it's asking for 109 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: my password. 110 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 3: And he said, oh no, I've been hacked and a 111 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: lot of people have fallen for this. 112 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: So then okay, so then if you put your path, 113 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: if you get where would you get the password from 114 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: to fall for the hack? 115 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: They're they're they're getting email password. Oh, the hackers. 116 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: So it's a phishing scam, fishing email scam. They're phishing 117 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: for your information. It would have gotten my email password. 118 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 119 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So I same thing happened with Jermaine. So I 120 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: got the first one, but I was traveling or whatever, 121 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 2: so I was like, I'll just deal with this later, 122 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 2: and then I got another one from her, same thing, 123 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: and then I said to her, I emailed her director no, 124 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: I texted her. I was like, hey girl, I I 125 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 2: can't open your your invitation. 126 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 3: And she was like, oh no, I've been hacked. Don't 127 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 3: try it. 128 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, So yeah, first of all, 129 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 2: it was too many steps. 130 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 3: It's not even a good way. 131 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 2: It's too many steps, right right, yeah, so everyone should 132 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 2: figure out this. 133 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 3: Saying this is not right. Right. 134 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: So so I'm this is a warning because he said 135 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: a lot of people fell for it. 136 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 3: Oh damn. 137 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: And I just it made me pause because I was like, 138 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: first of all, I didn't expect to get an invitation 139 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: from him. Yeah, and then and then anytime you gotta, 140 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: it's asking you for your email address and then the 141 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: password to your email address. 142 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 3: I said, oh yeah, yeah. 143 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: So there's about to be a clash action suit about this, 144 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: So you're about to get some money for it at Okay, 145 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: So you know Fat Joe yeah and his he has 146 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 2: a podcast with Jadakiss. Yeah, okay, so have you ever 147 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: seen that podcast? You've seen clips, I've seen clips, yeah, okay, 148 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: So Fat Joe was talking on this clip that I'm 149 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: about to pull up. Okay, And the way Jadakiss was 150 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 2: responding to Fat Joe is how I feel Robin. You 151 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: should respond to me. Oh okay, okay, okay, Now what's. 152 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 4: Ninety million dollars? Because a girl who's the most famous 153 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 4: girl in the world he was with growing a girl 154 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 4: with him, another famous girl is saying, Yo, we're gonna manage. 155 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: So that's all I want our relationship to be. Robert, 156 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: you don't give me that kind of feet back. Okay 157 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: if I say something, you're not screaming. 158 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 3: Oh? Is he for real? He's that serious? 159 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: He needs well, I need all that Jadakus knows who 160 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 2: he just wanted to Fat Joe to save to the people. 161 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: But I'm gonna need that kind of energy. Yeah. 162 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: But I thought I was like, oh, this is amazing, yes, 163 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: like because it wasn't even really what they were talking about. 164 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: It was like the energy that jadak has had about 165 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: the conversation. He was like, I loved every second. All right, that's. 166 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 3: Hilarious, very funny, very funny. 167 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:55,359 Speaker 1: Okay, have you ever stumbled across Eric Beneze Instagram? 168 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 3: Yes? I stumbled. Who knew that he was so funny? 169 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: Number One he's funny number two. Who knew that he 170 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: knew how to string sentences together. I know that that's 171 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: mean and I'm judging the man, but I didn't. 172 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 3: Know he was smart. 173 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: He's very smart, yes, very he expresses himself very well. 174 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 3: Yeahy clearly funniest shit. Yeah. Also like Savage, yes, savage. 175 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: He's like you to the All the podcast bros. 176 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 3: So you Joe Rogan? What the other guy? I don't know. 177 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 3: He's going down the list. Yeah, but he's funny as hell, right, 178 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: I just I had to follow him. Well he was good? 179 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: What what? What? 180 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: Why did him and Holly Berry break up because he 181 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: was a sex addage or something? 182 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah? 183 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: Or she made him say he was a sex addict 184 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 1: because she didn't want to admit that he just cheating 185 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: just because he was just the man out here cheating? 186 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 2: Is that the story that I made that part up? 187 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 2: But like the story he was and he was a 188 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 2: sex addict. Yeah, I just felt like he was just. 189 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: Cheating right right, right, right right, and she had to 190 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: make it seem like, yeah, it was more than what 191 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: it was. 192 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 3: Right because we had to appease Hollywood. Yeah okay, and 193 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 3: that was back in the day. Yeah, but no, I 194 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: is he currently married. I know he remarried. I don't 195 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 3: know if he's Oh that's a good question. I don't 196 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,479 Speaker 3: know he married. 197 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: One of the women that Oh yeah, there one of 198 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: the women. 199 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 3: They used to date, prince. Oh really, yeah, they used 200 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 3: to date, like I was married to prince or my 201 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: ta was that her name? 202 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:38,959 Speaker 1: My Tai? 203 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 3: I know what you're talking about. I don't not her. 204 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: Yeah she's still pretty. Yeah no, but he's funny. So 205 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: his he's been cracking me up. Yeah, Manuela Tesstalini. 206 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 3: That's who he married. Are they still married? 207 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: I believe so because it doesn't have an end date. 208 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: It just married in twenty eleven, so I guess. 209 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 3: So can they have a nice family? I don't know 210 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 3: how this is probably, Oh, but I'll there a bunch 211 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: of kids. 212 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so wait a minute, where's the where's the wife 213 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 2: on the left? 214 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 3: Okay, wife is on the left. Okay, So who is 215 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 3: this child? 216 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: This would be an older like a maybe a child 217 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: from like another relationship. 218 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 3: Okay, beautiful, they look beautiful together. Okay, So wait, and 219 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 3: I stumbled upon Trader Joe's. 220 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: Okay, and I used to go to Trader Joe's all 221 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: the time because my kids would do this little program 222 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 2: and there's a Trader Joe's in the complex. 223 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 3: So I'd be in Trader Joe's like three times ago. 224 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so I've pretty much gotten everything that they sell, right, Okay, 225 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 2: four times over. 226 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 3: Okay. 227 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 2: But by the way, there was a recall on the 228 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 2: chicken fried rice there was glass in it. That's a 229 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 2: whole other story, and that's not the point of why 230 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: I'm bringing the Trader Joe's. 231 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: So Trader Joe's has these alo te corn chips. Okay 232 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 3: have you ever had them? What change yo light? Really? Yes? 233 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 3: So corn chips like free doos corn chips like like 234 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 3: tortilla chips, just tortilla chips. 235 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 2: Kind of like it's kind of like a free though, 236 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 2: but not a free though. It's like it's it's like 237 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: way better. It's like kind of buttery a little bit 238 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 2: with the elote aloite. 239 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 3: Is that what I'm saying that right? I think it's 240 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 3: a lot. 241 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, spices on it. Grace turned me onto it amazing. 242 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: So I was near one and I was like, let 243 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 2: me go in there and get these chips that my 244 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: child keep talking about. 245 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 3: I would add. I was like, whoo, these chips are good. 246 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: So then I was buying another Trader Joe's and I 247 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: popped in there and I got all these other things, and. 248 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 3: Then you know, they have the dupes. 249 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 2: They have four dupes of like lip gloss and body lotion. 250 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 3: So I got all of that. You went crazy and 251 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 3: Trader Joe's I went berserk. 252 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: Nuts. So yeah, I'm here for the Trader Joe. Okay, yeah, 253 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: I'll go in Tradero. I haven't been in a while, 254 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: but when I have gone, it's so foreign to me. 255 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 256 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 4: Not. 257 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 3: They're a lot that I don't know what to get. 258 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 2: Right, But I do feel like a kid in the 259 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 2: candy store, Like I get excited because since okay, so 260 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 2: when I was going all the time, that was you know, 261 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe let's say eight years. 262 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 3: Ago, they've changed so many things. Oh really, yes, okay. 263 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 2: So, and Grace gets a lot of her spices and 264 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: stuff and like sauces, and you like sauces from Traders. 265 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 3: Grace cooks for herself. Grace cooks. Let me tell you 266 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 3: all about that. Grace. 267 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: Okay, she'd be calling me and she has her little 268 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: phone set up so I can see what she's doing. 269 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 3: And she is in the kitchen. 270 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 2: She has a spatula, and she has a pan, and 271 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 2: she's got food in that pan and she is whipping 272 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: it up. 273 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 3: Okay, and then she's like, yeah, I had I made 274 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 3: some She's like, mommy, I cook. Oh that's good. 275 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: She's like, I made some chicken, I made tacos. 276 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 3: She makes all kinds of things. Now, the moment she 277 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 3: steps foot back in mind, she don't cook anymore. 278 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: She has lost all of her cooking skill set. It 279 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: has gone out the window. It's gone. Yes, But when 280 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: she she's on her own and she's been cooking all 281 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: the time, she loves it. 282 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 3: She enjoys it. Okay, that's nice. Yeah, that's good. She's 283 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 3: gonna be able to find herself a man. 284 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: That's what it's because my daddy said, if I don't 285 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: know how to cook, I can't I can't find any 286 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: man out here. It's very important, is it. Yes, you 287 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: just told us the man came to your house and. 288 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 3: Was looking over He was like, he's been back several times. 289 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so he hasn't crossed me nowhere, all right, Okay, Well, 290 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: but he has set his expectations because he's like, I know, 291 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: for damn sure, you don't have no food in this house, right, 292 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: and and so he eats accordingly before he. 293 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 3: Gets to my home. Yeah, you gotta set your expectations 294 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 3: out here in the streets. Okay, Well that's good. Yeah. 295 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 2: Oh I wanted to read you something. Yeah, okay, because 296 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 2: you know there's some people out here that be dropping knowledge. 297 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 3: Oh and I need to clear something up. Okay, go ahead. Clear. 298 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: So when we were talking about America's next Top Model, 299 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: I said that ya Ya da Costa, who was one 300 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: of the famous, one of the more famous people to 301 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: come out of Top Model. 302 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 303 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: I said that ya Ya was in Dreamgirls with Beyonce 304 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: and Jenner Hudson. 305 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 3: She was not. I was wrong, Okay, I was close. 306 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 3: I feel like I was close. It was Anika Noni 307 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 3: Rose Yes in dream Girls. Yes, who eventually became Tatiana. No, 308 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 3: wait a minute, Princess. Yeah, Princess Tatiana. Oh, just I 309 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: don't know. So it was not ya Ya. I was 310 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 3: wrong about that. Yeah. 311 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: I didn't feel confident in that, and I had to 312 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: like look it up and say, wait a minute, was 313 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: that ya Ya? No, it was Anika Noni Rose Yaya. However, 314 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: she's in the Lincoln Lawyer well, she was in The 315 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: Lincoln Lawyer season two. 316 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 3: Okay, she's done a lot of other acting. 317 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: But I do want to say, also, we missed a 318 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: really really big America's Next Next Top Model, Oh, contestant 319 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: Winnie Harlowe. 320 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 3: No, we talked about her. I don't think we did. 321 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: I thought we said, oh you know what, you know, 322 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 2: it's so crazy. We might not have talked about her. 323 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 3: Why did they include her in the documentary? Right? 324 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: Well, they skipped it because they want the juicy, they 325 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: want the negative, they want the juicy stuff. Okay, and 326 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: maybe there was nothing negative from her because she did 327 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: come out and have a huge career. Still, right, Yeah, 328 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: So the documentary definitely made you feel like these women 329 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: did not get anything out of this show, which is 330 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: not true because you do have correct a few, not everyone, 331 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: but you do have a probably a handful. Yeah that 332 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: got something out of the show. 333 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 3: But if we had twenty four seasons, Yeah, we should 334 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: have twenty four Next Top Models, I don't agree. I 335 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 3: mean no, no, no, no, that is the premise of the show. 336 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: Well, you have twenty four winners, but you don't have 337 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 1: twenty four people who go on to a strong. 338 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 3: Career and that's the problem. 339 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: Same thing with American Idol, same thing with what's the 340 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: other show? America's Got talent? A lot of these shows, 341 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: some of the people go on to be big stars. 342 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,880 Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson and yeah. 343 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 3: Carrie Underwood. Okay, what numbers Stuttered? 344 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: You just want to say his name, Yes, Ruben Stuttered 345 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: is still looking for his fame, his fifteen minutes. He 346 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: can perform somewhere in sell some tickets. Yeah, Okay, However, 347 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: how many what America what America's got talent? 348 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 3: Are we on now? And I have no clue? 349 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: A lot and how many people have have come out 350 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: of that show that weekend? 351 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: All right, but you shouldn't at least get whatever contract 352 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 2: you were promised. So Adriane Curry was promised what was 353 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 2: it a tw hundred and fifty thousand dollars contract with 354 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 2: Ford I think it was or Wilhelmina. 355 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 3: It was one of those Mideling agencies. And she didn't 356 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: get that. Did she say that she didn't get anything? 357 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 3: That was what they said. She's Tyra Banks said that 358 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 3: in the beginning. Really yes, she was like, and you. 359 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 2: Will win blah blah blah, and you would be amer 360 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 2: I guess next time model. 361 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 3: Yes, Tyra said that. 362 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So were they supposed to get did they win 363 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: a monetary prize and a contract? Just because you have 364 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: a contract. 365 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 3: We know that that doesn't mean you want to get work. 366 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: That just means you're under contract. They're representing you. 367 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 3: This is the problem. Adrianne didn't get either. She didn't 368 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 3: get any money. 369 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 2: No, she didn't get anything. And that's what her issue 370 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: was like she got nothing. Okay, yeah, but I want 371 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 2: to reach to you. What Morgan Freeman said, because he 372 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 2: speaks sometimes forgot. 373 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 3: Right, here's the voice of God. You're right. Yes, he says, 374 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 3: maybe if we underpaid politicians and overpaid teachers, there would 375 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 3: be smarter people and less stupid law. I like that. 376 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 3: I love it and it's the truth. 377 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: Yes, a point, yes, so like let's do that, right, 378 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: how can we do that? 379 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 3: Let's or how about this? 380 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: Just make it equal? Politicians should get the same ass teachers. 381 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: There'd be a whole lot. 382 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: It's not the politicians salaries, it's the kickbacks and the 383 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: stuff that they get from the lobbyists. 384 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 3: Yes that they're not supposed to trading. 385 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 2: Yes, they're not supposed to take the planes, right and 386 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: they're not supposed to take. 387 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 3: All this stuff that that. 388 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 2: Okay, it's that, and but the but there should be 389 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 2: some I do feel like there should be more qualifications 390 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 2: when it comes to people that are making rules and 391 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 2: regulations for the body. 392 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: You would think, but people vote these people into office. 393 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:10,239 Speaker 3: Yes, please, So what can you do? I don't know. 394 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 2: But if we if we make the standards a little higher, 395 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 2: and we say, okay, out of these three bone heads 396 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 2: that we're going to vote for, at least they all 397 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 2: have like a master's degree in politics, right, have finance economics, 398 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 2: something law degree? I don't know, something, Yeah, some basic requirements, 399 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 2: I agree. 400 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: Okay, did you did you? Did you hear about the 401 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: Tampa International Airport? 402 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 3: Yes, new new rule. Listen that they took back. But 403 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 3: let's just talk about the rule. 404 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 2: So they said that no more pajamas are to be 405 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 2: worn if you are traveling to friendly skuys from Tampa Airport. 406 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 3: Correct. Okay, So everybody was all up in. 407 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: Our yes outrage, which I took it as a joke. 408 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 3: I didn't. 409 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 1: I just like Holland Lou because I'm sick of seeing 410 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: all of y'all looking just dishuffled. 411 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 3: I mean, you literally look like you rolled out of 412 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 3: bad Really, I don't. 413 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody wears at the airport or 414 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:13,199 Speaker 1: on an airplane. Okay, well that does not affect me whatsoever. 415 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 2: It does not, however, Okay, so what are your thoughts? Okay, So, 416 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 2: but it was a joke supposedly, Yeah, I think it 417 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 2: was a joke. Once I got the backlash, No, I 418 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 2: think it was a joke to begin with. I mean 419 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: the post itself is like they're like, we've seen enough, 420 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: We've had enough. 421 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: Me too, It's time to ban pajamas at Tampa International Airport. Yes, 422 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 1: after successfully banning crocks and giving everyone the amazing opportunity 423 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: opportunity to experience the world's first CrOx free airport. 424 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 3: This is a joke. But what if you're coming from. 425 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: What if you're coming from Kansas and said you got 426 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: your cracks from land in Tampa? 427 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 3: Send you back. 428 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: They're going to send you back, get back on the plane. 429 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 3: Okay, So wait and I'm gonna drop this. Okay, are 430 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: you done? 431 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: Because I mean, I'm just saying the way that this 432 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: post read is comedy. 433 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 3: It's a joke. So I never took it seriously. I 434 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 3: was never like Oh my god, how dareing the well? 435 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: People were up in arms because they were like, goddamn it, 436 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 2: I would wear my Mickey Mouse pajamas, but I don't. 437 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 3: I don't care what anybody wears to the airport. 438 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: Care they wear a bonnet, crocs, pajamas. Just cover your 439 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: shit up, That's all I want. So recently, as in 440 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,239 Speaker 1: last week, I was at the airport. I was on 441 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: my plane, okay, and I was sitting in my first 442 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: class seat, and I looked over, because you know how 443 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 1: I feel about first class. 444 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: It's very civil up there. There's no confusion and drama, 445 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 2: and everyone is typically very well dressed, not well dressed, 446 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 2: but you know, covered from head to tel except the 447 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: man sitting. 448 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 3: Across from the man. Okay, yep. He my friends had 449 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 3: on socks and slides. What is fine, shorts? 450 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: He had on pants, socks and slies okay, okay. However 451 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: socks had a big fat hole in it. 452 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 3: Oh no, okay, And what I saw was his toe 453 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 3: sticking out that hole. Okay, okay, So. 454 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 1: Sir, I do not want to see the toe ticking 455 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 1: out of your soul, dingy. 456 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: Because this is my thing. If you're gonna wear socks 457 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 3: and sandals. Put some socks on. Right. 458 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 1: That a fit because your your big toe was like 459 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: poking through. You have a hole in it. You're sitting 460 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 1: at first class next to Jaselle Brian, have some dignity. Listen, 461 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: this man don't care he has eight trillion dollars in 462 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 1: the bank. No, that toe is not have eight trillion dollars. 463 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: I samined that that sticking out of his sack. 464 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 3: It does. I'm telling you. 465 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 1: That toe is not eight trillion dollars in the bank. 466 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 1: And he does that on purpose. His new balancaes he 467 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: doesn't want to attract the gold diggers. 468 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 4: Me. 469 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 3: I'm the gold digger. 470 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,239 Speaker 1: So he said, I am gonna wear these socks with 471 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: my hole in it and my toe out. 472 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 3: Listen, if she if these. 473 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: Women or men or whomever want to approach me and 474 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: you know, drum up a conversation and get to know me. 475 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: They want to get to know me for me, not 476 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,919 Speaker 1: because of what I look like. 477 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 2: I want to guess what. He don't have to worry 478 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 2: about me. I want to apply to that man or 479 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 2: his toe. He don't have to worry. So I just 480 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 2: feel like, we know, we just need to. 481 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 3: Be a little bit more respectful. See. 482 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: Okay, So my opinion on that the man with the 483 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: hole in his toe, hole in the sock pajamas. 484 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 3: At the airport, it is great people watching for me. 485 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 3: I love it. 486 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: I never want to put a rule on what people 487 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: can wear at the airport. Is the best people watching 488 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 1: at the airport, very true. 489 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 3: I want to see all the nonsense. 490 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 2: And when I did take a picture of this man, 491 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 2: I thought to myself, I'm getting my Robin Dixon on 492 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 2: right now. Because I took a picture of his feet 493 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 2: and his toe sticking out of his side. I was like, 494 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 2: let me, let me get my and on. But I 495 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 2: should have just spent over like he wouldn't even mind. 496 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 3: He was. 497 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 2: He had his headphones on him and paying me no attention. Okay, 498 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: So this this little post that I came across, spoke 499 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 2: to me. 500 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: He said, I craved a cookie. Okay, so I ate 501 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: a banana, so I know where this is going. Twenty 502 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: five almonds, two apples, yes, five rice skates yes, and 503 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 1: then I ate five cookies. 504 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 3: Yes, I can relate. Do you know how many times 505 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 3: I've done this? Yes? Now, not the two apples, just 506 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 3: probably one apple. So just go ahead on and eat 507 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 3: the cookie. Cookie. 508 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 1: Yes, just eat it and then if you crave it, 509 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: you might just eat one or two to begin with, right, 510 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 1: but by the time you try to trick your craven 511 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: and going away, yeah, five of them, right, I should 512 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 1: have just ate once I started thinking about it, I 513 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: know I'm not going to stop writing about it, So 514 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: just go ahead on it. 515 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 3: Eat eat it. Yeah, just eat it. 516 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: Maybe try to just eat half or whatever, right by something. 517 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: It's because it totally the craven is not going to 518 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: go away now. 519 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 2: So yeah, I try to eat. I don't eat like 520 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 2: the whole cake. I just eat a piece, right, Yeah, 521 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 2: just take a couple of bites. 522 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 523 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 1: Oh, this is information for everyone. I was so happy 524 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 1: when I saw this. Yeah, there's a new iPhone feature. 525 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,120 Speaker 1: I assume you have to update your. 526 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 3: Phone for it. 527 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: Maybe, okay, but now when you go to use your emojis, yeah, 528 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,959 Speaker 1: it tells you what the emoji is. 529 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 2: Oh really, yes, okay, I think that's amazing. Let's let's 530 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 2: let's test it yes out together. Okay, So you're you're sending. 531 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 3: A text, right, So so send a text. Okay, So 532 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,959 Speaker 3: I'm gonna send it to you and then go to 533 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 3: your emojis Okay, oops, okay, now click on an emoji. 534 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,400 Speaker 3: Oh yours? I think you need to update your phone? Dang, 535 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 3: mine don't work. 536 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta, all right, so I'm gonna do it 537 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 1: for mine. Okay, Oh my god, once watching something very loudly. 538 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: All right, So I'm gonna click on this eye rolling. 539 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, how do you have subject? That's tough? 540 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 3: You don't have that? No, you need you need to update. 541 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 2: You guys, I have an iPhone thirteen and it's a 542 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 2: mini and I've discussed it so many times. 543 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 3: I'm very you don't do your software updates, no. 544 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 2: Because then I can't figure out anything on my phone. 545 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so I'll update. Why do I need a 546 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 2: subject for a text? 547 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: Because like, if you want it to be so, then 548 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: it'll be in bold too, so it'll be if you 549 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: just want to say. 550 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 2: Like I really don't like you, and then the text 551 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 2: is why Yes, okay, there you go. 552 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, right. However, I love this feature. 553 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: So when you click on sayah, click on this right okay, 554 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: looking here, it says smiling face with then it went away. 555 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 1: Smiling face with smiling eyes, early face with rolling eyes. Goodness, 556 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: one woozy face okay, face blowing a kiss, surprise, face 557 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: with open mouth. Because there's some emojis, I'm like, I 558 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: don't know what this means. Faced with raised eyebrow. Good, 559 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: this one head shaking horizontally. Who knew that's what that meant? 560 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: Persevering face? 561 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 3: What the hell is that? I don't know, weary face Okay, okay, okay, 562 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 3: so I should face up steam from nose. 563 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: So because I've always a lot of these emojis, I'm 564 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if I'm using them correctly 565 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 1: to express what I'm trying to say. Okay, So where's 566 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: the one I always use. It's one that I always use. Okay, 567 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 1: this one hugging face. So this one I always use, 568 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: and I always interpret it to be it's like the 569 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: one with emoji with the hands like this. Yeah, I 570 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: always interpret it to be excitement, like, oh I'm excited. 571 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: But when I clicked on it, it said hugging face. 572 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 3: So you're hugging somebody? Yeah, okay, okay, I like that. 573 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: I thought it was like more excitement. Yeah, I don't 574 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: see a hug anyway. That's a new feature on the iPhone, 575 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: all right, thank you. I was very excited to see. 576 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I like that. Yeah, I like that. Okay, 577 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: so there's so many Yeah, it's kind of ridiculous. 578 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so this I'm gonna hold the name. This is 579 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 1: from Gossip Girl. 580 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 3: Ooh ooh, did just blame it? Did you ever watch 581 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 3: Gossip Girl? I did not. Oh my gosh, Rob, I 582 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 3: missed out. No, no, no, no, I mean yes. However, okay, 583 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 3: you should go and watch it. Okay. 584 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 2: So it's maybe like six seasons or something. Yeah, five 585 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 2: or six seasons, and it's good, really yeah, and it 586 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 2: you know, at that time, I can't remember if it 587 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 2: was like ten years ago or something. All the fashions 588 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: back then, yeah, all of that. You'll love Blair. 589 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 3: That's is just Blake Lively was in this. Blake was 590 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 3: in it, and then the brown hair girl Blake Well 591 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 3: Blair was her her her character character's name. 592 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, dang, what's her name in real life? I don't know, 593 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 2: but definitely watch it. 594 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 3: Put the list. Okay, all right, it's from the beginning. 595 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 1: I'll try. Okay, all right, so this is hi, Robin 596 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: Inja's out. I'm coming to you both because my love 597 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 1: life has entered what I can only describe as a 598 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: flop era. Oh no, I've been a Day one fan 599 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: since season one of the Real Housewive was a potomac 600 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: and an avid listener of reasonably Shady. So I trust 601 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: that if anyone can help me figure out whether I'm 602 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 1: being played or just need to stand up, it's you. 603 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 3: If you got to ask, you bean played. But go ahead. 604 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So she says, I'm twenty nine turning thirty this year, terrifying. 605 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 3: I remember that feeling, really, yeah. I mean it's whenever 606 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 3: you approach a new new. 607 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 2: Decade you can feel okay, But when you were approaching thirty, 608 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 2: were you married? 609 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: I was married and I was pregnant. Okay, because when 610 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: I I had a thirtieth birthday celebration in Miami and 611 00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 1: I was pregnant with Carter. 612 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 3: Corey was one. Yeah, Corey had just turned one and 613 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 3: I was pregnant with Carters. Okay, who goes to Miami 614 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 3: and pregnant with a one year old? 615 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 4: You? 616 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 3: But weren't you fighting in the club. I was about 617 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 3: to beat a girl's ass. 618 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 2: I ain't nothing but like a pregnant woman in the 619 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 2: club about to fight. That's everything, right, Yes, live your 620 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: best life. 621 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 1: So anyway, I get that, but no, thirties are an 622 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: awesome decade. 623 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 3: Totally. Yeah. Forties two, forties two, yeah, But I. 624 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: Think thirties is cool because it's it's you come into 625 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 1: your own a lot. 626 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 3: Like you go through a lot. You're going to go 627 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 3: through a lot of shit, I promise you that, no question. 628 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: But you're going to grow and like typically you're like working, 629 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: you got a little money in your pocket, you know, ye, yep, 630 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: you're still hanging out, but you're also like enjoying maybe 631 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: just being yourself and staying at home. 632 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 3: Sometimes it's not. 633 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: You don't feel the pressure to always be out with 634 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: your friends and all that. Okay, So she says, I've 635 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: been single for over three years and dating in LA 636 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: has been a war zone thing, but emotionally unavailable men 637 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: who think what are we is a hate crime. After 638 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 1: my last few experiences with professional time wasters, I've taken 639 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 1: a vow of celibacy because access. 640 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 3: To me is now a luxury item. Get it? Yes, 641 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 3: Oh I got excited, which brings me to my current dilemma. 642 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: I have a crush, a real butterflies in my stomach, 643 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: giggling at my phone like I'm in middle school. Crush 644 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: let's call him Chuck and I'm Blair. 645 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 3: Shout out to gossip girl, Please don't use my runname. 646 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Chuck and I love Chuck and Blair, and you're 647 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 2: like rooting for Chuck and Blair the whole time. 648 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 3: Okay, all right. 649 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: Chuck thirty four is a resident in the luxury high 650 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: rise where I work as an as an assistant property manager. 651 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 1: We're friends, but he's my favorite resident and every time 652 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: I see him, I suddenly remember how to smile with 653 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: my eyes. 654 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 3: Oh smice? Is that spice? Okay? Spies? Thanks? 655 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: Now here's why I'm confused. This man has gifted me 656 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: dessert from a French how do you say? Thistiri, bought 657 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: me chocolates and prosecco for Christmas, gone out of his 658 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: way to interact with me every time he comes into 659 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: the office. Okay, waited for me specifically to be present 660 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: so he could hand me my gift directly. 661 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 3: Oh nice, I like this, Okay. 662 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: I invited him to my movie premiere in November. I'm 663 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 1: also an actress girl, yes, okay, not expecting him to 664 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 1: come because it was literally the next day, and within 665 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: an hour he bought a ticket and texted. 666 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 3: Me that he'd be there. 667 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: Mind you, he is painfully shy and does not attend 668 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: red carpet events. 669 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 3: Okay, but he still showed up for me and stayed 670 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 3: the entire night. Love this, I love him? Yes, love it. 671 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: There was ant There was an intense eye contact moment 672 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: where it genuinely felt like we were in a rom 673 00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 1: com montage, and I thought, oh, this is mutual. 674 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 4: Ooh. 675 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 1: We talked all night, discussed doing a movie night together. 676 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 1: Vibes were immaculate, and when I went to kiss his 677 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: cheek goodbye, he moved and I accidentally kissed his neck instead. 678 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: Ew I mean, like, no, that's not gone word awkward. Yes, 679 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 1: so now I've assaulted this man on the red carpet. 680 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,879 Speaker 3: Yes you have. After the premiere, I. 681 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 1: Texted him to thank him for coming, and sent him 682 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: a photo of us from the night, which I'll include 683 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: in this email for reference. He replied saying he loved 684 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: the photo, saved it, and that he had a. 685 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 3: Really great time. 686 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 1: Okay, So naturally I thought this was the start of 687 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 1: our love story. Yes, after that silence, nothing, not even 688 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: a follow up movie night. 689 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 3: Okay, but wait, they live in the same building right 690 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 3: or there? He works in the building. 691 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: He lives in the building that she works at, right, okay, 692 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,959 Speaker 1: so I guess he's not even stopping by to say hi, dang. 693 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 1: Right later I found out he might have had something 694 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: personal going on, and to be fair, he went through 695 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: something really traumatic last year when his cat passed away. 696 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 3: I can't I'm done. Seventeenth floor window. I know what 697 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 3: if the cat jumped out the window? Oh fell ooh 698 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 3: that's awful. Okay, okay, all right, carrying on. 699 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: I made him a care basket and brought him back 700 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: a moonstone cat figurine from Vietnam in remembrance, which he 701 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 1: later texted me about, saying it melted his heart. Oh 702 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 1: love that Fast forward a month please. I run into 703 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,399 Speaker 1: him and it's like no time has passed, chemistry still there. 704 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 1: He gives me the Christmas present, hugs me this week, 705 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 1: saying I haven't seen you in forever, and then he 706 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 1: winked at me before leaving, etc. Okay, but we are 707 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 1: still here in friendship purgatory. So now I need to know. Yeah, 708 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 1: should I tell him how I feel? Should he be 709 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 1: the one pursuing me? 710 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:56,879 Speaker 3: Yes? 711 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: Is he holding back because I both work and live 712 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: in the building and you licked his neck. Have I 713 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: made it obvious enough that I like him? Or am 714 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 1: I just internally screaming? Is he being shady or am 715 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: I being delusional? Please advise before I either confess my 716 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 1: feelings or transferred to another property to escape the embarrassment. 717 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 3: I love you both, and this is so cute. I'm 718 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,320 Speaker 3: not going to show it. They're very cute, so cute, 719 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 3: so cute. I like him. 720 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks like he has kind eyes or a 721 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 2: serial killer, one of the two. 722 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm surprised that he pulled away from the 723 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: kiss on the cheek. 724 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 2: Well, it seemed like they were on the carpet right 725 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 2: when when she was kissing him and she said he's 726 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 2: very shy, So maybe that had something to do. 727 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 3: Okay, that's number one. 728 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 2: Number two, he does need to make more of a move. 729 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 2: He got to like invite her to I don't know, 730 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 2: drinks or tea or something, ice cream something. 731 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not doing that right. 732 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: But why like what is keeping him from doing that? 733 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 1: Why is he dragging his feet? Why is he not 734 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,760 Speaker 1: if he's it's he's sending mixed signals totally? 735 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 3: Did they exchange numbers phone numbers? Yes, because she texted 736 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 3: him and invite to the premiere. Oh that's right. 737 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:10,359 Speaker 2: So, like I think she needs to say, like, are 738 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 2: you interested in me? 739 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 3: What? What's going on? 740 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 1: I think she can say that at this point, really, 741 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: I think so. But she already said dating in LA 742 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: is crazy. In the moment you have that like what 743 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 1: are we conversating? You don't say what are we because 744 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,439 Speaker 1: y'all ain't nothing? 745 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 3: Well they're nothing, No, she don't, So you don't say 746 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:26,879 Speaker 3: what are we? 747 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 1: But I think she's afraid that saying anything is going 748 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: to scare him. 749 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 3: Okay, but but I think with this dude, she can. 750 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 2: She just needs to what do you call it, bite 751 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 2: the butt, bite the bullet, bite the bullet, bite the. 752 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 3: Bullet babe, and just be like, hey, you know you 753 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,000 Speaker 3: want to go out? 754 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe like ask him to go out, you ask 755 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,840 Speaker 1: him to do something or movie. 756 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 3: Maybe follow up on the movie night. 757 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:57,799 Speaker 1: Yes, say hey, you know, I don't know where you 758 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: are right now with him, because she wrote this letter 759 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: on like February twentieth, so last month. 760 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I don't know where they are right now. 761 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: But if you haven't spoken to him or whatever, it's 762 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 1: just email him or not email him, text him, yeah, 763 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 1: or when you see him, Hey, what happened. 764 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 3: To our movie night? 765 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 1: Well he went to the movie No, no, no, he 766 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: went to the premiere of her movie. But they were 767 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 1: talking about doing a movie night. 768 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 3: Oh yes, yes, Hey, can we do our movie night? Yeah? 769 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 3: Or like when are we going to do the movie night? Yeah? Okay, 770 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 3: I like that. 771 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, like real casually, total casual. Don't ask the boy 772 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 2: where are we? 773 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 3: Who are we? What are we doing? Do you like me? 774 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 3: Do you like me? Check this? Check the list? Or no? Yes? No, no? 775 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 2: And I feel like that's her approach. That's why everybody 776 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 2: is running away from her. 777 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 3: I don't know. 778 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 1: I mean this one sounded more natural. It sounded like 779 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 1: he was flirty. Yes, and he was interested, and he 780 00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 1: showed up to her. 781 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:55,360 Speaker 3: I love that. 782 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: The weird part is that he pulled away from the 783 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: kiss on the cheek. But maybe there was some shyness 784 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: being it was in public. 785 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, she should have grabbed her and just slopped her down. 786 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,719 Speaker 3: That would have been a real rom combe. Yes, and 787 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 3: then like we have music. I feel the same way. 788 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 3: I've been waiting for you to say this, I've been 789 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 3: waiting for you to lick my neck. Yes, yes, No, 790 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 3: she's not delusional. 791 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,640 Speaker 1: No, you're not delusional. He's flirty. He probably also is 792 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: feeling the same way that you're feeling. Yeah, probably not 793 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: quite sure how you're feeling, and maybe just a little 794 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,720 Speaker 1: nervous about taking the next step. So I say follow up, Hey, 795 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 1: let's do our movie night, Yeah, what happened to our 796 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 1: movie night? And then see what happens from there? And 797 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,280 Speaker 1: then write us back. 798 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 2: And right, yes, right us back and let us know. 799 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 2: And he's he's a little out of her liga a 800 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 2: little bit. I think she's very pretty, you think so, 801 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, but like he might be intimidated, he 802 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,880 Speaker 2: might not know how to I realized we do we 803 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 2: as women's thirty four years Oh oh he's thirty four Okay, 804 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 2: But I do want to say this, We as women 805 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 2: assume that guys know how to approach women and how to. 806 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 3: Let it be known that they're interested. Right. 807 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: Not every guy knows how to do that. Yeah, yeah 808 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 1: you can one of them. 809 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 3: Yeah we can. You can never assume that he's. 810 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:29,040 Speaker 1: Expressing himself the way that yeah you want him to, right, 811 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: you know, you can never assume that he knows what 812 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: you are thinking, Yeah, what you want from him totally, 813 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,240 Speaker 1: So I say yes, do to movie night. 814 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 3: And the see where it goes from there. 815 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 2: Yes, and let us know, keep us posted because we're 816 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 2: now invested. We didn't talked about this for seven minutes, 817 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 2: so we are investing. 818 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: And then maybe like when you're doing a movie night, 819 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 1: you can have more intimate conversations like hey, yeah, you know, 820 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:49,919 Speaker 1: do you have a girl? 821 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 3: Not do you have a girlfriend, but like no, it'll 822 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 3: come up naturally. 823 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 2: Guys tell guys will tell you typically yeah, but you're 824 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,359 Speaker 2: just not listening. And don't kiss him, don't try to 825 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,480 Speaker 2: kiss us, don't make the move, don't make a move, 826 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,440 Speaker 2: don't lick his neck, don't smell him, let him make 827 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 2: the move. 828 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, sure you heard it here first. Okay, good luck. 829 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 3: You're rooting for you. We are very much rooting for you, 830 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 3: and we really mean it. I'mike Tyra. Okay, so this 831 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 3: is from DJ. It's from DJ. Okay. This is Is 832 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 3: it reasonable or is it shady? Hi? 833 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:28,240 Speaker 2: Jazelle and Robin Giselle, you're my book Virgo's sister. Yeas, 834 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm September eighteenth, woo and Robin, congrats on Glow thirty. 835 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 2: And Robin's about to make By the way, if you 836 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,280 Speaker 2: make a bunch of money from the shoot the botox 837 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 2: and your penis, I need to cut Okay, okay, anyway, 838 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 2: I'm saving my coins to get there soon. 839 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 3: Oh that's so nice. I need to know. Was I 840 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:48,879 Speaker 3: reasonable or shady? 841 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,919 Speaker 2: I recently I was recently dating a guy for about 842 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 2: a month when tickets for a major concert went on sale. 843 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,560 Speaker 2: My best friend and I planned to go long before 844 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 2: I even met this man. On pre sale day, Ticketmaster 845 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 2: did what they do best, and I walked away with 846 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 2: zero tickets. By the way, Ticketmaster is in a class action. 847 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 3: Shoot. Ye, hey, we about to get paid. 848 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm fifteen dollars twenty eight cents. 849 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,839 Speaker 2: I want it now, me and Robin about to get 850 00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 2: paid okay, because I'm joining on that one. Because that, 851 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 2: I mean, Ticketmaster be doing the most all right. When 852 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 2: the guy I was dating asked if I got them, 853 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 2: I told him no, and he immediate his immediate response, 854 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 2: why wasn't I invited? I told him the truth. It 855 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 2: was a pre planned trip with my best d Plus 856 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 2: it's February and the concert is in August. Being a virgo, 857 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 2: I wasn't even sure he's still be in the picture 858 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 2: by then, I know, child, I didn't gotten any trick 859 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 2: back a couple times because okay, he gave me a 860 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,760 Speaker 2: whole lecture on considering others, and even though I thought 861 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,719 Speaker 2: it was a reach, I validated his feelings. Hours later, 862 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:02,360 Speaker 2: he calls me over to break up with me. He 863 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 2: called you over to break up with you. 864 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 1: Damn well, you'd have done that via text, right, and 865 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: that would have been fine, would have been okay, he claimed. 866 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 3: I was avoidant. Is that even a word? I believe? 867 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: So? 868 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 2: Yes, avoidant and didn't give him enough reassurance during the 869 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 2: ticket argument, My goodness, I just laughed and said, okay, 870 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 2: because you're really. 871 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 3: Dumping me over tickets. 872 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 2: I didn't even get who so lady? Was I being 873 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 2: shady by keeping it a bestie trap this time? Or 874 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,120 Speaker 2: was he doing too much? 875 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 3: Thanks? DJ Okay, he's doing too much. 876 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,480 Speaker 2: I hate this guy right, like one thousand percent hate 877 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 2: this guy. 878 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 3: You damn sensitive, hello, like like you don't ever need 879 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 3: to be with him. He is going to drive you bonker. No, 880 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 3: you dodged a bullet. Dodge the bullet. 881 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 2: The beauty and especially Virgos, the beauty of Virgos, was 882 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,240 Speaker 2: leaving us alone, right, you leave us alone. We love you, okay, 883 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 2: we will stay with you for a lot, right, but 884 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 2: you got to leave us alone, and you have to 885 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,319 Speaker 2: act like an adult, right. 886 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,399 Speaker 3: He's acting like a kid. Yes, an immature kid. An 887 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 3: immatur Okay. So wait a minute. So I was dating this. 888 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: Dude, did you know, and I have bought Adele tickets. No, 889 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 2: that's back up. I bought one Adele ticket for myself 890 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,279 Speaker 2: way before I met this dude, or wait, before we 891 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 2: started dating or whatever. So when when the time came 892 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,600 Speaker 2: for me to go to the show, I went to 893 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:31,959 Speaker 2: the show. 894 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 3: I don't even think I. 895 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 2: Mentioned it to him because it was just like, I know, 896 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:38,920 Speaker 2: I was going to the show by myself, and I 897 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 2: was going to enjoy it. I was going to like 898 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 2: live my best adult life. I was so excited. 899 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 3: It was going to be the first time that I 900 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 3: had ever seen her. Way, I meant to say, oh, yeah, 901 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 902 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:58,800 Speaker 1: You're late, You're late, Okay. So anyway, he stopped speaking 903 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 1: to me because he said, well, why didn't you invite me? Like, 904 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 1: why wouldn't you get two tickets? 905 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,360 Speaker 2: So if I went back and got another ticket, mind 906 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 2: you player, you're supposed to be buying the tickets. 907 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 3: But whatever, if I went back, we're not sitting in 908 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 3: the same place. No, so I said, are you be Like? 909 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,239 Speaker 1: He was like mad and like not speaking to me, 910 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,839 Speaker 1: And I was joking, right because I'm just like, you 911 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 1: can't be serious. So after the concept I remembered, dudes 912 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,399 Speaker 1: are so immature. I called him to be like, oh 913 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: my gosh, this show was so good. 914 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 3: She did not want to hear it. 915 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 1: No, I called actually just be like, hey boo. He 916 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: didn't answer the phone all night long. I called him 917 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,320 Speaker 1: like two times. He didn't answer the phone. 918 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 2: The next day, when I talked to him, I was like, 919 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 2: you do know I called you after the show, right, 920 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 2: He said, yeah, I moved the phone to the other 921 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:58,280 Speaker 2: side of the room. Oh so your immature ass knew 922 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,799 Speaker 2: that I was calling you, but you put the phone. 923 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 1: On the other side of the room and was like, yeah, 924 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm not picking it up. Oh, because I don't want 925 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 1: to talk to that Hope. Now that's an immature man. 926 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,959 Speaker 3: I think that's when I would have been like, yeah, 927 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 3: I'm good on you. 928 00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,439 Speaker 1: I continued to date him for a very long time 929 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: after that, and it's a good thing. And it ended okay, 930 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 1: and nothing changed it was more of the same, you 931 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,240 Speaker 1: know he had. 932 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,759 Speaker 2: He had moments of maturity, for sure, but then there 933 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,879 Speaker 2: was like like sparks of just like immaturity, and it's 934 00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 2: and you never knew when it was gonna pop up. 935 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,720 Speaker 2: It's like, I can't do this, Like I'm grown, grown, 936 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 2: and I know that I'm not emotionally astute sometimes and 937 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:38,840 Speaker 2: like things happen and I don't even know how to 938 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 2: handle it. But I'm not petty and I'm not like 939 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:48,759 Speaker 2: trying to make a like an argument over something that's 940 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 2: just dumb. Right if you told me you bought tickets 941 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 2: before you met me the end, no more, what do 942 00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 2: I even care? 943 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:57,280 Speaker 3: No more to the conversation. 944 00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 2: Okay, do you want to go see Adele? Which, by 945 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 2: the way, way, this is a black man. I don't 946 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 2: know how many black men like Adele. 947 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: Let's just start there. I don't even want to go. 948 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: He just didn't want you to go, yes, and without him. 949 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 2: And he thought probably that I was going with someone, right, 950 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,959 Speaker 2: believe I was going by myself that too. 951 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 1: Boy bye, that's that's why. That's that's the real part. 952 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 1: He probably really thought you were going with someone. How like, 953 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 1: how could you go to a concert by yourself? Who 954 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: does that? Who does that? 955 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 3: Mess? Right? Get to know you probably. 956 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: Really thinking once your little hits start spinning. Yeah, and 957 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 1: they just thinking all the scenario and I don't have 958 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: time to convince you in the bathroom in somebody right now. 959 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's it and good. I'm glad you was 960 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 1: thinking all of that. That's why we're not together to 961 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:47,320 Speaker 1: this day. 962 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 3: All right. 963 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 2: Anyway, that is our episode. We love y'all so much. 964 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to live your life either reasonable or. 965 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:55,400 Speaker 3: Shady or both. 966 00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 1: Bye. 967 00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 2: Who Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect 968 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 2: podcast Network. 969 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:15,879 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 970 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,799 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, and you 971 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 1: can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten, 972 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady