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Speaker 1: It's the Friend Show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: So we did a waiting by the phone a little

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Speaker 1: while ago. This is I guess a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: If you remember, a dude named Eric was ghosting a

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Speaker 1: woman named Charlotte after their date because when he dropped

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Speaker 1: her off, he realized that he had dated Charlotte's roommate

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Speaker 1: roommate at one point, and it was kind of weird,

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Speaker 1: and there were so many questions after that. It would

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Speaker 1: did the roommates talk about it? What was the interaction like,

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Speaker 1: what was going on? Why was it so weird? How

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Speaker 1: did nobody know? And so we had to get everybody

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Speaker 1: together because you guys had so many questions, so we

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Speaker 1: had to we had to do it. So let me

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Speaker 1: get Charlotte. Charlotte is here and Eric, welcome back you guys,

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Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Okay, so we just recapped everybody on

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Speaker 1: your appearance on the show previously. What's the aftermath, Eric, Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: you didn't go out again, Charlotte, your roommate Beth dated

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Speaker 1: this guy? Did Did did we get to the bottom

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Speaker 1: of what really going on here?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It's yeah. So she said that she that they dated,

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Speaker 2: and since it has just been kind of weird at home,

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Speaker 2: and so we haven't really talked about it. I feel

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Speaker 2: like she's kind of avoiding me.

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Speaker 4: A little bit.

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Speaker 2: And uh yeah, so that's pretty much all I know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Eric's not saying much. But here, guys, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm Maury or Springer or something, because we also

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Speaker 1: have the roommate. Beth agreed to talk to us. Oh say,

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Speaker 1: now Eric is talking. Let's welcome Beth the roommate. Hi Bath,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, how are you guys? Very well, Beth,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. So again recapping here, Charlotte and Eric,

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Speaker 1: they met, they went out, they went back to your

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Speaker 1: place where you and Charlotte lived together, and Eric realizes

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Speaker 1: that he'd been out with you before, and so it

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Speaker 1: got we Yeah, Beth, he realized he'd been out with you.

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Speaker 1: It got weird, and so he left. We found all

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Speaker 1: this out on the radio and then you, Beth and

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Speaker 1: Charlotte apparently, according to Cherl, would have not discussed sort

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Speaker 1: of the why here. So what did happen Beth with

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Speaker 1: you and Eric? And why haven't you talked to Charlotte

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Speaker 1: about it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I you know, I just want her

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Speaker 3: to make her own decision.

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Speaker 4: About him and like not judge him based on wherever

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Speaker 4: you know happened between me and him or like I

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Speaker 4: didn't want her to be like pictured us together and

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Speaker 4: she looked at him and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but she doesn't she know that you guys went out,

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Speaker 1: So what, like, will you tell us all of us

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Speaker 1: now together? Like what did happen between you and Eric?

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Speaker 1: Eric is saying nothing, by the way, which is what

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Speaker 1: did happen?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just okay, I didn't want to talk

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Speaker 3: about this, but so when I was seeing Eric, he

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Speaker 3: also had a girlfriend, and but she knew they were

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Speaker 3: like slingers, Y're like Pollie or whatever, and like so

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Speaker 3: I actually used to like go out with them as

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Speaker 3: a couple, like the three of us, and it just got.

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Speaker 4: To be like too weird for me, and like I

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Speaker 4: knew they were going to end up being like her

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Speaker 4: feelings and the way he ended.

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Speaker 1: It, did you did? If I may ask, did the

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Speaker 1: three of you engage in more than just socializing?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you did? So you joined in on this

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Speaker 1: consensual Eric.

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Speaker 4: Like you damn right?

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Speaker 1: She did? Okay, So you guys, Okay, so I know, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: Charlotte is like not really like that.

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Speaker 2: I was so embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: I knew she was gonna judge me if I said anything,

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Speaker 4: and I just I didn't want.

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Speaker 3: To put myself in that position.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Eric is confirming that he in the roommate

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Speaker 1: and Eric's then girlfriend all got it on, Rawaz. Did

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Speaker 1: you know about any of this?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I did not, So then, Eric, Eric, are you single

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Speaker 1: or are you not single? Because I think straw WA's

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Speaker 1: under the impression that you were a single, available man.

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Speaker 1: Did you get rid of the girlfriend? Well?

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Speaker 2: No, I think the single is really like.

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Speaker 3: A it's very it's a very monogamous way of thinking

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you so wait, do you still have a girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: Eric?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's the same one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And Charlotte, you didn't know any of this when you

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Speaker 1: went out with him, Like, you didn't realize he's looking

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Speaker 1: for a third.

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Speaker 3: I sure didn't, huh.

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Speaker 1: And you didn't know you was engaged in that, You didn't, Eric,

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Speaker 1: don't you don't you feel you have an obligation to

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Speaker 1: tell people that you have a girlfriend and that the

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Speaker 1: intention is to bring them into a non monogamous situation,

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Speaker 1: Like isn't that because I mean, don't people go on

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Speaker 1: dates typically with the standard assumption that the other person

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Speaker 1: isn't in a relationship, like if it's going to be

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Speaker 1: something else, don't you sort of don't you feel a

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Speaker 1: need to let everybody know up front that that's what

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Speaker 1: you're trying to do, because it doesn't sound like that's

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Speaker 1: what Charlotte was signing up for.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can see that now.

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Speaker 3: The I think, Yes, it's usually like a.

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Speaker 4: Second date thing. The first day is sort of like, hey,

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Speaker 4: we have chemistry, do we hit it off? You know,

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Speaker 4: and then it's kind of hard to broach that topic.

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Speaker 1: Does your girlfriend have you out there like recruiting thirds? Like?

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Speaker 1: Is that what this is about? Is she out there

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Speaker 1: recruiting people too, like going on dates and trying to

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Speaker 1: bring people back? Is that sort of the system?

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Speaker 4: Well, we sort of yes and no.

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Speaker 2: We sort of both go on our own dates and

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Speaker 2: then we try to figure out, you know, we're sort

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Speaker 2: of free to we have a sort of.

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Speaker 4: An open relationship to go on.

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Speaker 2: A date sort of running by each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with any

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Speaker 1: of this, except it doesn't sound like Charlotte knew it

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Speaker 1: or was into it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but like, can you send me a picture of

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Speaker 4: your girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Over here?

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Speaker 1: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Fine? I mean, see, Eric, this is why maybe it's

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Speaker 1: better off just whoa, whoa, Eric, I think I figure

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Speaker 1: up right on the line. I think I think Jesus

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Speaker 1: is trying. Yeah, he's trying to get in on this

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Speaker 1: right now. This is why maybe it's better just for

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Speaker 1: full disclosure up front, because I don't know. Maybe now

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Speaker 1: Charlotte is interested, Like maybe maybe this is an opportunity

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Speaker 1: for people to experiment or whatever, as opposed to feeling duped. Yeah, no, definitely, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I gotta leave. So Beth is

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Speaker 1: Beth is out. Eric is still interested in Charlotte. Charlotte

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Speaker 1: now wants to see some some photographs. Let's say for

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Speaker 1: a second day, let's go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I bet you want to Why you

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Speaker 3: want to be invited?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you what if you guys, if the

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Speaker 1: three of you guys decide to go out, we'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it. That's on you. You'll have to just let

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Speaker 1: us know. I mean, Charlotte, are you considering it? I mean, wow, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll yeah, I bet you will.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Eric's backy. This is the most engaged Eric has been

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Speaker 1: now in the whole come wow. Okay, well, hey Beth,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time and for full disclosure Eric

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Speaker 1: and Charlotte and Eric's girlfriend, whoever that is. I wish

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Speaker 1: you all a great time. Let us know if we

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Speaker 1: have to reimburse you

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