1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: My own brother cut me out of the wedding without 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: telling me. Am I the a hole. If I don't 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: go home to Thanksgiving because of it. 4 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 2: You cut him out of the wedding. Maybe maybe maybe not? 5 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: Well? What if by cutting him out, he literally cut out? 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: He circumcised him. No children for you, stupid. You thought 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: you were going to. 8 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: Have to have children a circumcision? 9 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: You thought I was thinking the secondary. Yeah, you thought 10 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: you could attend this wedding and have children. Let me 11 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: chop off your testicles. My brother and I are eight 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: years apart. I'm older since he was about twelve. I've 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 1: lived in another state. We aren't close, but we hang 14 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: out a few times a year and it's easy and fun. 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: I recently moved to the same city as he and 16 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 1: my parents. I envisioned us getting closer, but it never 17 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: really happened. He's the king of I'll call you tomorrow, bro, 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: with zero follow up. It hurts my feelings, but I've 19 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: accepted it and I take what I can get now. 20 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: He got married this past September. I was told there 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: was no wedding party because his wife's family is too 22 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: big for her to make a choice and she didn't 23 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: want to leave people out. I was given instructions to 24 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: get a gray suit and then I'd be given a 25 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: blue tie for the family pictures, so you know' coordinating 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: getting the family in the mix. The day of the wedding, 27 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: I was hanging out in the men's dressing room and 28 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: I saw my brother has a gold tie, and that 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: his best friend also has a gold tie. 30 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: Oh shit, they're all part of the wedding party. 31 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: And that his old bandmates has a gold shiny tie. 32 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: No odd, but I didn't think too much of it 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: at the time. Now, the ceremony started and I was 34 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: sitting in the audience. Lo and behold the music starts, 35 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: and there's a procession. My brother's two gold tie friends 36 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: walk in and line up on stage left, and his 37 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: wife's sister and her husband walk in and line up 38 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: on stage rights. Oh no, the non existent wedding party. 39 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: At this point, I was having all almost an out 40 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: of body experience. The ceremony was a blur. After the ceremony, 41 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: we took pictures, which means I took one picture with 42 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: my brother and that was it. I spent the cocktail 43 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: hour in the bathroom stall, embarrassed and hurt. 44 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: Damn that's so sad. 45 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: I made it through dinner, okay, and instead of cake, 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: my brother had made a ton of his specialty cookies 47 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: for dessert. 48 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 2: They're not those cookies I think. 49 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: I don't think they we'd cookie. 50 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: I think special. 51 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: I think. Although I've been to a wedding where they 52 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: had a caake, oh yeah, it was fun. I'm allergic 53 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: to the recipe as is, but with a simple tweak, 54 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: I can have them. He didn't make any for me, 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: or even warned me that this was happening, so I 56 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: could bring my own dessert. Anyways, I left the second 57 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: the dancing started, and a week letter sent the newlyweds 58 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 1: a letter saying, basically, I thought things would improve once 59 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: I moved here, but this wedding has shown me that 60 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: we don't have a relationship outside holidays and moms and 61 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: dad's house. So let's keep it real and I will 62 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: see you there. Being disappointed all the time isn't healthy 63 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: for either of us. The problem is Thanksgiving is upon us, 64 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: and not only will they be at my parents' house, 65 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: but they are bringing a couple of friends with him, 66 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: so I will be outnumbered and uncomfortable. 67 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? I feel? Like with the brothers. 68 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: Definitely the a hole for telling him there's no wedding party. 69 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: I think it's like, I think it's fine to hit 70 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: for the brothers to not be in the wedding party. 71 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: Yeah they're not close, but it's kind of shit to 72 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 2: like not tell them about it. Yeah, just say like, hey, 73 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 2: I'm having a wedding party but not in Yeah, it's 74 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 2: awkward situation. 75 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's kind of crazy. 76 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: I think. 77 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: I think like he brought up the dessert thing of like, 78 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: oh I can't eat his specific cookies. I think that's 79 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: like especially like I don't think that's a big deal 80 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: because it's like Bro is planning an entire wedding, like 81 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: he can't. 82 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: Get everyone's dietary restriction. 83 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: And and remember your special thing and like make a 84 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: bachelors for you. Like there's probably like a lot of 85 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: people at this thing. So but yeah, I think kind. 86 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: Of about the wedding parties kind of shit. 87 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: That's also lying about the wedding. And then it seems 88 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: like there is some sort of I don't know the 89 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: coordination of like the gold Ties with the family. I 90 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: don't know. I would have been like upfront and been like, hey, 91 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: like in all honesty, like since these are people that 92 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: I've like spent a lot of time in my life with, 93 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: they're in this this recession and like whatever, like okay, cool, 94 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: like they could probably like take that. 95 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: I don't think op' is an a hole for not 96 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: going to Thanksgiving. Well, I mean his parents probably want 97 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: to see him. 98 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 1: I think you call the parents, explain the situation, and 99 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: I don't want to cause any drama, like I don't 100 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 1: want to make this you guys mess, but also like 101 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm just not trying to be around him this Thanksgiving 102 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: or you murder him. 103 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, m problem solved, bam every time.