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Speaker 1: and we are returning to our very beloved and was

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Speaker 1: season two and you know, and I feel like the

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Speaker 1: we are so glad that you are here. Christina is

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Speaker 1: And also, I think this is gonna be really fun

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Speaker 1: like with Sina, No, it would be a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 1: But yes, those are four main characters and we are back.

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Speaker 1: But before we start talking about season two, Annie, can

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Speaker 1: was my college boyfriend, which you know, not too too

424
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Speaker 1: long ago. It was bad because he broke up with

425
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Speaker 1: me over a phone call because I moved to Atlanta

426
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Speaker 1: at that point and he stayed in Pennsylvania and he

427
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't going to come back, but I didn't

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00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: know that. I was like, I could still come back

429
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: and he wasn't. There's no chance he was going to

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Speaker 1: move here. And he ended it in like, yeah, it

431
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: was a few year relationship over a phone call. Not

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Speaker 1: my favorite. I just felt like that was pretty dismissive, Um,

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00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: pretty lazy. But yeah, those were my two sad moments,

434
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: but overall I wasn't even that sad over the college

435
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Speaker 1: boyfriend one. I was just insulted, how how long was

436
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 1: your Like, you know, the recovery process it goes on continually,

437
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 1: but how long would you say you were like? I

438
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: think for high school one. I was definitely like for

439
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: much longer because I was in my small town and

440
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,239
Speaker 1: just in high school, so I didn't have much going on.

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00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: But college one, I was living in a whole another state,

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00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: so it was much easier to get over it. I

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00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: think if I had stayed in Pennsylvania I would be

444
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: worse because he was like all I The only hobby

445
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: I had was visiting him and hanging out with him

446
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 1: and staying at his house and stuff. So, um, I

447
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: think that helps a lot, but that's not always. The

448
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: solution is moving away or having moved away already. That's

449
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: a got pretty lucky there. Yes, yeah, yeah, I think

450
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of I've had a lot of

451
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: breakups that have stuck with me. Probably the last one

452
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Speaker 1: I had. I dated this guy for three years, um,

453
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: and I really thought it was gonna work, and I

454
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: wanted it to work, But it was more because I

455
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: wanted it to work because that's what society told me

456
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: that should work. And so that breakup I have kind

457
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: of come to terms with, but it does haunt me

458
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: in the in the sense that I'm like, this was

459
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: my chance. This was it to be a quote normal

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00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: person and get a house and have kids and all

461
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: that stuff. That was it, Like, I'm not going to

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00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that again. I'm not going to

463
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: find that again. I don't necessarily want to find that again.

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00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: But that was my like, big, I'm going to give

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00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: it a swinging shot and we're gonna do this. And definitely,

466
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: as I said, the breaking up with them was a

467
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: study in it's just the what ifs and the memories

468
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: that are everywhere that you're like, oh, yeah, we could

469
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: have been this. I remember going here and we could

470
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: we talked about this, and uh. That was probably my

471
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: most painful breakup, but it was more of a It

472
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: was painful in the sense that it was like recognizing

473
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: this is never going to be your wife. I think, yeah, yeah,

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00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: I feel that. I feel that too, because if I

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00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: had stayed with mine, my college boyfriend, I would have

476
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: had to have stayed in and lived a whole different life.

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00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be, you know, in Atlanta, I wouldn't be

478
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: working in Sneaky, it wouldn't be on this podcast. Can

479
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: you believe it? Terrible? Yeah? It is because there's like

480
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: such a potential. But you know, sometimes that doesn't the

481
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: potential doesn't have to be all there is. Yeah, I mean,

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00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: of course, at that moment in time, you're like, oh no,

483
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 1: everything's ending and this is the worst place that could be.

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00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: But then it's better and you're like, Okay, I'm fine.

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00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that didn't happen because you were a

486
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: mess and that's always a backtracking. But yeah, I attached

487
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: to people if I let them in, attached to people

488
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: pretty have really, so losing them feels like death, which

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00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: is why I'm like, you can't exist anymore because I've

490
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: warned you at this point and you're done. Um. And

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00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: I've only done that with like, hmm, one or two

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00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: people in my life when it comes to relationships, and

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00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: it's like I would linger for about like six seven months,

494
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: eight months a year and then finally move on, but

495
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: it would be a whole thing, for sure, for sure,

496
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: And I still feel that way. I think I've gotten

497
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: less like because I'm pretty closed off and with things

498
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: like that, that makes me want to be more closed off.

499
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: But you know that's me. So we're taking any quiz

500
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: because I feel like that it needs to be a

501
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: new segment for guests. They have to take quizzes with us.

502
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: Who based on this BuzzFeed quiz which makes no sense

503
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: to me, Who are you in sex in the city?

504
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: Which girl? Are you? All right? I did? I took

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00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: the quiz before I reveal my answer. I would love

506
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: to hear what both of you think I would be. Oh,

507
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with I've been it's gonna say something

508
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: like Carrie. Mm hmmm. I think it might be Samantha. Okay,

509
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: it's Terry. I got Katy. I'm a little surprised by it,

510
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: but it's not a bad character to be a description. Yeah,

511
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: you're go getter and always up for a challenge. You

512
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: like the idea of love, but you value friendship more.

513
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: You feel like men are like accessories, but your friends

514
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: are like shoes, much more fun. I do like my

515
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: friends like your friends are like shoes. I might be offended.

516
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: You guys are like shoes to me. She loves shoes,

517
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: she spends. She spend like a down payments worth of

518
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: money for shoes. We'll talk about that later. But Annie,

519
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: who did you get? I got Samantha. I'm gonna say,

520
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: I bet it's Samantha, didn't it. It says you're one

521
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: wild person. You love to date and have fun, but

522
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: getting serious is really not your style. You'd much refer

523
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: one steady group of friends over one man forever, great

524
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: at giving advice because you're so care free. Yeah, you're

525
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: so care free. You are care free. It's true. Friends

526
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: are above men for sure. That's sure. Yeah, you have

527
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: a guests from mine. I thought you would be a Miranda,

528
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: but you were surprised, so that makes me think you're

529
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: like a Charlottete Miranda. You're correct, I was a Charlotte apparently.

530
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: It says you're incredibly pretty and intelligent. You like to

531
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: stick to the rules because well they're there for a reason.

532
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: That's true. Your biggest dream is having a family, not true.

533
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: You also have an amazing eye for design, not true. Overall,

534
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: your loyal and loving to everyone who deserves it. That's true.

535
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: It's half and half on that one. No, none of

536
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: us have a random which is shocking. I kind of

537
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: was wanting to, don't we all generation like that's the

538
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: icon now, like we'd see her for who she was,

539
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: even though she was seeing it's kind of villain. Not really,

540
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: but you know, like for a while at the least

541
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: desirable character, and I'm like, no, she was a v character.

542
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: Her and Samantha were the characters that we really really

543
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: should be looking at but yeah, thank you so much

544
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: for coming on, Christina. Yeah, thank you for having me.

545
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: It's such a special episode to be on, first of

546
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: a season, so I appreciate the invit and I had

547
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,439
Speaker 1: fun and I'll have to do it again. Yes, please,

548
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: and thank you for all your amazing work. We get

549
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: to say it, but not to your face so often,

550
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: so thank you for all the amazing work you do,

551
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: and they're for making a sound coherent. Thank you, thank you. Yes,

552
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I this was fun and I think keeping

553
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: we should in a future episode because yeah, that was

554
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Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah. In the meantime, listeners, thank you

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00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: so much for listening. If you would like to contact us,

556
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Speaker 1: who is here in the house. Thank you, Christina, You're welcome,

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