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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with on our radio. Hey guys, it's Ashley. I was

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Speaker 1: just waiting there for Ben to say, Hey, what's up,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, that's on me right now.

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Speaker 1: Ben will be joining us later on the show, but

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Speaker 1: right now I have Rachel Lindsay on to talk about

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Speaker 1: this episode Fantasy Suites. Rachel, Hello, Hello, how are you doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I know. I feel like we've already analyzed

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Speaker 1: these guys together. If you guys didn't know, Um, Rachel

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Speaker 1: and I were on access um the YouTube channel last

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Speaker 1: week and we really grilled the guys when it came

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Speaker 1: to hometowns. So I'm glad. You're always a good conversationalist

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Speaker 1: when it comes to the stuff and and basically everything

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Speaker 1: in life. So I'm glad to have you here breakdown

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Speaker 1: this episode with me as well. Okay, Blake was the

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Speaker 1: first guy out there and they weren't allowed to kiss

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Speaker 1: or touch. Did you even't have one of those dates?

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Speaker 1: Did you? What? No? Yeah? Yeah, I think there was

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Speaker 1: a fantasy suite and I don't want to say which

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Speaker 1: from Jojo season or Ben season, and they couldn't kiss

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Speaker 1: or touch because there was somewhere where it was forbidden.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, can you imagine miss Brian and I

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Speaker 1: had that, we probably wouldn't be here today. Do you

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Speaker 1: think you would be almost good? Because we create sexual tension,

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Speaker 1: would create sexual ny. It's actually kind of a really

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Speaker 1: good idea because it's going to make for a good fantasy.

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Speaker 1: I would actually that could be really good. You don't

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Speaker 1: touch until dinner time, and then at dinner time you

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Speaker 1: get to hold hands and peck a little bit, and

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, learning to the room and

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Speaker 1: it's like, boom, I haven't touched you in literally two

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Speaker 1: and a half weeks. Because you know, hometowns, there's a

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Speaker 1: big gap in that. Yeah, Rachel, only you would know

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Speaker 1: hometowns and fantasy suits. So let her everybody, it's about

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. See mine was a little weird because

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Speaker 1: I think that's what Blake was. Yeah, it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: I was like, get it over with. The theme with

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Speaker 1: Blake is that he is just worried that his feelings

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Speaker 1: is your favorite, right, Why is that intimate? It? Well,

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Speaker 1: it will because this is a setting to me, this behavior,

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Speaker 1: because it's like a downward spiral, like you cannot focus

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Speaker 1: on the other man, you have to focus on the lead.

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Speaker 1: Otherwise he's been out of control. But he's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Like it's because I feel like his chemistry just sweeps

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Speaker 1: through the TV. Rebecca, like there's this instant bart you

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Speaker 1: obsessive vibe sometimes. Would that be a turn off for you? Okay,

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Speaker 1: he says he loves Becka even more than he loved

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Speaker 1: going to be a little less PC. No. I promise

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Speaker 1: what his parents said, and the parents put you best.

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Speaker 1: Garrett to me, very sweet, nice guy. Doesn't seem to

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Speaker 1: fluffy to describe Garrett. Mr Manley Man. Nope, I get it,

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Speaker 1: because he's still light and free and that bothers them.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's more to get it. I'm sure it's

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Speaker 1: But you didn't see army, meanful conversations. I remember these first.

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Speaker 1: don't think Blake or Garrett wouldn't necessarily make the girls

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Speaker 1: comment Tobecca about the future together and she knew that

425
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: her future wasn't with him at that point, and it

426
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 1: freaked him out. Did you guys experience similar things? Are

427
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: you both just so sounded that you have no idea?

428
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: Say no, I was gonna wait for rachel response. You know, yeah,

429
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: of course, you know. Actually here's the here's the secret,

430
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: and maybe Rachel, I don't know if you agree disagree.

431
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 1: Coming from Becca's side, there's more times than not that

432
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: I'm in that situation where you're in this process, you're

433
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: trying to discover these new relationships you're working through. Um,

434
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: you know, getting to note the person you're working through.

435
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: If this person right, you're not. You might have really

436
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 1: strong feelings for somebody else, but yet you know that

437
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: there's a certain amount of people that you kind of

438
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: have to keep around, and so you kind of have

439
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: to tiptoe around these relationships all the time. I remember

440
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: like fitting in bed at night thinking, okay, like what's

441
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: the necessary evil. Do I get rid of this person

442
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 1: because I maybe have a strong relationship with them, um

443
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: or I don't have a stronger as a relationship with them,

444
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: Or do I get rid of this person? But yet

445
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: there may be a good trend to me and they're

446
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: easy to be around, Like, even though you might not

447
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: see a future with them, especially at the beginning, you

448
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 1: kind of just keep people around, at least I did,

449
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: because they're easy to hang out with and they're fun

450
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: to hang out with. Um. I mean I feel like

451
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 1: that's why Nick kept me around because I was, Yeah,

452
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 1: we were cool with each other. That's That's what I've

453
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: come to to realize as as I did my own season. Yeah,

454
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: I agree with that, but I don't think I told

455
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: anybody that the same way that Becca told Jason. Don't

456
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 1: if I was like that out right with it. M Yeah,

457
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: I mean I'm wondering, Rachel, even like hearing from you here,

458
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: like Rebecca was very direct, uh, And I think for

459
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: me in life, I was never I had a struggle

460
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: being very direct in relationships, especially when it comes to

461
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: break up with the positives, and even when you're in

462
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: a relationship and you know it's not the you know,

463
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: the conversation is going to break you apart. I could,

464
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: you know, talk honestly and ultimately, But when it comes

465
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: to that like breakup moment, I always kind of skirted

466
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: around it or I had, you know, in college, I

467
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: would do the typical ghosting thing where you know, you

468
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: just disappear, because that that hard conversation when this show

469
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: there there in this process, I became really good at

470
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: the direct breakup because you have to you have to

471
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: you have to allow the person to respect to say

472
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: this is why this is no longer working for me,

473
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: And I felt like that was a good practice to

474
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: get into. And so I can see where Becca at

475
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: this point in the process is really prepared to be

476
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: that honest and open with Jason. Did you feel that way? Um? Well,

477
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm pretty direct naturally, maybe a little too direct. So

478
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 1: I found it easier to be that way in the beginning,

479
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: But as it got towards the end, especially the top three, Um,

480
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: it was harder for me because I was really trying

481
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: to be sensitive to their needs, and I feel like

482
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: when you get to the top three, everybody feels like

483
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: they could be the one. So I was direct, but

484
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 1: I was a lot fofter with it, um a lot

485
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: more gentle then I wouldn't normally be. How frustrating is it?

486
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 1: Do you know who you're going to pick and then

487
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:13,239
Speaker 1: still have to entertain other people? That's hard. I mean,

488
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: I don't, she said, I knew. I really knew in Geneva,

489
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: which was week seven, but I didn't say anything. When

490
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: I was during hometown, I turned to Brian's producer and

491
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: I said, Brian the one, and I walked away, and

492
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: that's how I said it, like I didn't say anything else,

493
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: and I think I just took her by surprise. I

494
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: don't think she really believed me. But I turned her

495
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: and I said that right after hometown, and and I

496
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: hope I said I love you in Spanish, and then

497
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: I told the producers that it really means I like you.

498
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: I like you. Oh my gosh, that's so great because

499
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: I was going to ask you when you told the

500
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: producers that, because that's when I feel like it's real.

501
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: It's documents, I told I told my producer after Fantasy Suite,

502
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: I told his producer at hometown. Then after Fantasy Suite,

503
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: you knew M Yeah, Um, it was interesting. Mine is different.

504
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: You know when I think I've scared this on the

505
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: podcast but it's been a while. But you know, week

506
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: one Lauren like I I might jaw dropped, But this

507
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: show really helped me out because they're like, there's still

508
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: a lot to get to know about Lauren, there's still

509
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: a lot to get to know about these other women.

510
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: And so I was like, you know, when you're on

511
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: this though, you're always kind of waiting for that next

512
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: big thing that's gonna like shock you or surprise you

513
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: or throw you off. And so I thought the whole time, like, oh,

514
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: something's gonna happen that's gonna totally throw my relationship off.

515
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like this woman anymore. She's too good

516
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: to be to that kind of thing. And the show

517
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: definitely helped me feel that way to keep me going

518
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 1: thro the whole process. It was not until I not

519
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: kidding you, it was not until probably after the Fantasy

520
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: Suits that I finally just took a deep breath and

521
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I've actually got something good here.

522
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: I was kind of on guard through the whole process,

523
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: just waiting for that next shocking revelation of oh, this

524
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: isn't the person for me. Never came. It never came.

525
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: I but it was the one thing that got me

526
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: through because if if not, if if that wouldn't have

527
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: been in the back of my head, there's no way

528
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: I could have done the whole show. There's no way

529
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: I could have like perpetuated relationships, continue, get to know people,

530
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: continue to converse with people, because I would have felt

531
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: so guilty the whole time knowing that, oh my future

532
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: fiance is in this room and I'm dating somebody else.

533
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: I could have never gotten through it. So it was

534
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: that idea of something shocking is going to happen, that's

535
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: going to change my mind that kept me going Interesting.

536
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: That is interesting because I have a question for you. Actually,

537
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: So for me, the second date told me everything. That's

538
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: why I slave Geneva and I don't. I'm curious if

539
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: if you thought that I was actually back and forth

540
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 1: until I gave those second days in Geneva, and when

541
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: I went on those those three one on ones, I

542
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: knew it was shocking for me because I knew everything

543
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: I needed to know. About those three people, and that's

544
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: what made up my mind. Isn't it crazy? Two days

545
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: and you feel like you know everything? And now I

546
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: mean the first don't do uh? I think it was.

547
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: I think it was the first, that first initial interaction

548
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: that made me go, oh, this is something really good.

549
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: My second day was something that that made me feel

550
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave this person. But then at

551
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: that point too, my heart had started to open up

552
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: to a couple of other relationships and they had started

553
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: performed because I allowed it to happen. And so that's

554
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: when my like mine kind of got off balance. Was

555
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: I thought I had something really great. But then it

556
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: has been six weeks in between my first day and

557
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: my second day with Lauren, and so in that time

558
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: I had built other relationships that had kind of maybe

559
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: caught up to that first interaction with Warren, and and

560
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: so then from that point forward, it was all right,

561
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: let's get serious, let's start really diving into this relationship.

562
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: Is this real or that not? But I'm with you. Yeah.

563
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,959
Speaker 1: I really felt like after that second day, I knew

564
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: even more that this was going to end in an engagement,

565
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: but for me, because that's how much I felt you guys. Yeah,

566
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: I don't know how you have strong feelings for multiple

567
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: people at the same time. Explain to me, I think, yeah,

568
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: did you? Yeah? I thought I wasn't going to like anyone,

569
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,479
Speaker 1: and then I found myself really struggling with I remember,

570
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: there were six people, and then there were four people,

571
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: and then there were two people that like I had

572
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: like strong feelings for, but I knew. I guess there's

573
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: the thing asked the answer question, I had strong feelings

574
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: for multiple people, not the strongest. Maybe maybe that's what

575
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: you felt with more like I knew, I knew that

576
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: there was one that was separated from the other. By

577
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: this time, I had finished my dates, but still strong feelings.

578
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: But that's necessarily a future. I remember thinking several of

579
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,719
Speaker 1: these people could have been my boyfriend, but that's as

580
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: far as Okay, I guess. I guess I can see

581
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: that where you can have crushes on a couple of

582
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: people but know that one person is yours for life.

583
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: M M, yeah, I definitely crush a lot. Okay, Yeah,

584
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: that boy, there's a listing battle song. I know that.

585
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: You know girl? Yeah that girlfriend. Idea for me was like, yeah,

586
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: these I could definitely date these people. But this isn't

587
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: my forever person. But and the more and more people

588
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: I talked to, you know, becas came out publicly and

589
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: said it. I know Nick had these feelings. I've known

590
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: A you know obviously obviously are A had strong feelings

591
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: for multiple people. Um, the it happens more and more

592
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: when you put yourself in this experience. And I think

593
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 1: it's because people are so beautifully complex and this is

594
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: one of the only environments that you get to explore

595
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: that complexity while at the same time knowing that you're

596
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: on a path to spend a life with somebody possibly

597
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: and so you're very much it's like romantic love stricken mindset,

598
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: and I can see where you open your heart up

599
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: enough magic can happen, I mean real magic. And so yeah,

600
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: in the real life, maybe like it's harder to fall

601
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: from multiple people, but in this environment, you're opening yourself up,

602
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: you're hoping you fall for somebody in general, and then

603
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: all of a sudden you find yourself falling for multiple people.

604
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: And for me and I it was almost a blessing

605
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: that I felt for multiple people because I was so

606
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: nervous that wasn't gonna fall right same on did Brian

607
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: watch your season every a minute? And he was? And

608
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: how many fights did that bring? Only? Okay, so it

609
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: really didn't. I ridiculously under understanding. You know, he's a

610
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: Garret m So I after the show was over with,

611
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: I mean, the day after, I told him everything, everything

612
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: that I could possibly think of, everything that I thought

613
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: that would bother him or that he would have a

614
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 1: problem with. I told him that's the type of person

615
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,439
Speaker 1: he is. He wants to know absolutely everything. But I

616
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: kind of was like Ben, I didn't think I was

617
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: gonna fall for anybody, and then when I did, I

618
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: almost think that that's better because I can say that

619
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: I picked you. It's not like you were the only

620
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: one there. I didn't like anybody, and then it was

621
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: just you. I truly opened myself up to what could happen,

622
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: and I still fell in love with you. And I

623
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: think that that's more special. That's beautiful. Thank you that

624
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: it's true. Though that's really hard. That's a really nice

625
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: way of looking at it. I think people need to

626
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: hear thanks you always you always had. I mean, I

627
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: think one of the things that you did best was

628
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: you kept a very cool and collected um, you know,

629
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: mindset through this whole experience, and even though you know,

630
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: you definitely had some great guys, at the end, I

631
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: really felt like Brian could walk off this show confident

632
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: that you picked the person that you wanted and that

633
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: you knew you were in love with. And so the season,

634
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 1: I think that Brian had every right to be, you know,

635
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: obviously a little jealous of times it could he could

636
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: feel a little insecure. That that makes sense, but I

637
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: really did think you did a good job and something

638
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641
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643
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644
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,960
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647
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651
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656
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Speaker 1: speaking of wedding photos, Lindsay, Lindsay, when are you get

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Speaker 1: to change that name? Oh? You know, I used to

696
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Speaker 1: think I've never changed my name, and now I'm like,

697
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Speaker 1: I absolutely would. Um, I'm a woman here, but brand

698
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Speaker 1: new woman. This show will change you. Let me tell you, Rachel,

699
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Speaker 1: that's nice. Yes, yes, I think it's it's a nice

700
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 1: last day. Are you so sick of people asking when

701
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Speaker 1: you're going to do this? Because it's so unbelievable. How

702
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: Jared and I got engaged five weeks ago and people

703
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: are constantly asking us if we have a date yet.

704
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, what, we have a general time frame, but

705
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: an actual date. No, we haven't got a venue shopping

706
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Speaker 1: in the past month. Yeah oh no, wait, wait a

707
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Speaker 1: couple of more weeks and I'll start asking you about babies.

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Speaker 1: Just wait, just Ben, did you get the same Oh

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Speaker 1: my god? Yeah, I think it's just like I don't

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Speaker 1: think that you neque to the bactor factory. I think

711
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: that's his life. I hear my friends who get engaged

712
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 1: and as soon as they get get as soon as

713
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Speaker 1: you really start dating somebody. I think the fourth two months,

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00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you know some people you side

715
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: and go all right, when you're getting engaged, great, So

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Speaker 1: that step happens, you get engaged, and as soon as

717
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Speaker 1: you get engaged, then the next question, as soon as

718
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: it happens is Wednesday day. You don't have time to breathe,

719
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: and then you know, here's here's the greatest part about it.

720
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: Once you set your date and then wedding happens, then

721
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: as Rachel said, then it's babies. And so it's like

722
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: there's just never this constant, like there's never a contentment or.

723
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: And this is why two years ago I like to

724
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Speaker 1: pick a word for every year and like say, like

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Speaker 1: use that word in my life for the year because

726
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what God's telling me to do.

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00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 1: And and two years ago, when I was still with Lauren,

728
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: it was deliberate that word was celebrate because I felt

729
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: like it was such a constant grind and a constant

730
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 1: what's next, that there was never the moment for us

731
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: to celebrate. And I think as people, we need to

732
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 1: start celebrating those huge accomplishments like actually you're in love,

733
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: you found your person, celebrate that, like, stop looking for

734
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 1: whatever is next. Yeah, now I wish I wish people

735
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: could just celebrate what we have and maybe I'll start

736
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 1: using that as well. I'm gonna say that's my good friend.

737
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: Bi Higgins says, why don't you just celebrate that we

738
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: found each other and what we have because you want

739
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: to save her the time in between all the logistical

740
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: planning of a wedding. Yeah, let me enjoy this. I

741
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: will get to that in another month. No. Yeah, So

742
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 1: the answering your question, I mean, it's the same thing

743
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: that I said, you know what I want here before

744
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: you know, we would of course we would love to

745
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: tell us weddings. Don't know if that's gonna happen or

746
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: if it's It could be that that take too all

747
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: because I don't want to wait, you know, another year

748
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: to get married. So it could be that just a

749
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Speaker 1: sit in our time frame to like, like you have

750
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: wung for yourself. I'm hoping about the spring, to be honest,

751
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: I think it's a small on TV. It's going to

752
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: be a destination wedding, Okay, So to me, a small

753
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: wedding that you get probably throw together in nine months

754
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: or less, Okay, Okay, I want to do it all

755
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: for me. That's part of the beauty of the show.

756
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to plan it. No, I'm not planning

757
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: my own. I mean, I doesn't need to be on

758
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: TV for it to be not planned by me. So

759
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: I asked you that because I know what you said

760
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: two months ago when you were on the show that

761
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: you know would be open to a televised wedding Jared,

762
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 1: and I don't want to rely on that. I only

763
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: even think it's very likely at this point. So I'm

764
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 1: going to really start planning next month. Um. That's basically

765
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: my question for you, was were you going to hold

766
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 1: out for it or were you just gonna really start

767
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: thinking about it on your own. No, I'm definitely not

768
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: going to hold out for it, Like I don't want

769
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: to wait another here to get married. Um. But the

770
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Speaker 1: same time, I like, things are just being so crazy

771
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: and I know you're gonna run in a stay, so

772
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 1: I haven't even started. I never saw I wayls planned

773
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Speaker 1: for a wedding. I thought I was going to a

774
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 1: court out. I'm a couple agrees degrees above the courthouse

775
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: at this point. But I want somebody to do it

776
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: for me. In a destination sore at a destination that

777
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Speaker 1: I have started looking at a dress though, and I've

778
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: and I've switched over to address a compromise, and I

779
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: was compromised that I really have started planning that and

780
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: narrowing down what country we would want it in. It's

781
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: it's destination. Would you ever do it in Spain? Where

782
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: you guys got engaged? I know, I think we've done Spain. Like,

783
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: I really liked the idea of Columbia because um, Brian

784
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: is Columbian and still has family there, so I like

785
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: that it would have a cultural meaning to it that's

786
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: important to me and most people I know. On my side,

787
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: I have never been to Columbia, so I think it

788
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: would be nice for them to go to Rachel can

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Speaker 1: I can I offer you something? Please? Generous? The coffee

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Speaker 1: Columbia that I would love for you to get married at.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is great putting out there. I

793
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Speaker 1: can't wait to celebrate at one of them. That's great.

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Speaker 1: Um well, I'm good friends also rating with the real

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Speaker 1: Hi Wine people who did your final episode, and they've

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Speaker 1: been trying to convince me that Spain. Okay, So so

797
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Speaker 1: if you ever do go to Spain for your way,

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00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: which I know that you just said you probably wouldn't,

799
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 1: I would love and invite to even be like your photographer,

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Speaker 1: so I could just visit this winery you have to

801
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: go though, Okay, maybe maybe we will. It is actually gorgeous,

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00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,959
Speaker 1: not as easy to get to, but it is beautiful

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00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: you have and the people are great. This this wedding

804
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: talk is really sweet from both of you. I think

805
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: I think this is why I was really want to

806
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: hear like and I know that we just talked about Hey,

807
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: they're always moving forward, there's never that contentment. But I

808
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: think our listeners just really want to, Hey, here we

809
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Speaker 1: go again, celebrate with the both of you. I get

810
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: it all the time in my emails and on Twitter.

811
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: I our listeners really just want to and I think

812
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 1: that's why this show is continue to be successful even

813
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 1: is they just really want to see a love story

814
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: play out to the end. And Rachel, I don't want

815
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: to put any pressure on you, but I really think

816
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: that from the moment that you and Brian walked off

817
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: the show and people saw you in public for the

818
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: first time, they thought this is it. This is the

819
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: love story that's going to play out to the end?

820
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Speaker 1: Can can? I don't want I don't want you to

821
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: dispose too much and not to get too personal. But

822
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: are people going to be able to see your love

823
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: story playouts the end? Oh? Yeah, wait, you mean like

824
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: on TV? And I don't know's going on TV? Just

825
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: in life like and just in line. Yeah, Like I

826
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: tell people like we're going together for fifteen much and

827
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: that's thirty three and thirty eight, like we know, we

828
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: know at this point, and so you definitely still be

829
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Speaker 1: in It's it's really nice. It's really refreshing. And that's

830
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 1: what I feel like. We're like we've been o gs

831
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Speaker 1: in the game. It's who's only the fisme up from

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Speaker 1: in that time, what was the right time, right place

834
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Speaker 1: for us to me And it was just it's something

835
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: I never thought that could happen. So we're excrafinitely it's

836
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: the real deal. Well, I'm telling you, Rachel, we're all

837
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: happy for you. Rachel. I know I came on late here.

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00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: I am at an event for Generous in denver Um

839
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Speaker 1: and so I'm running around like crazy, but I had

840
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Speaker 1: to talk to you. Congratulations on a big win with

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Speaker 1: Lifting Battle. Um, I had a blast, you know. I

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00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 1: am competitive. I hate to lose, like really really hate

843
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: to lose. But there was something about Lifting Battle that

844
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: I walked away that night and I said, I just

845
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Speaker 1: had a really good time and I'm glad that I

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Speaker 1: got to defeat against you. UM. Way to kill, a

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Speaker 1: way to make it fun. It was great to meet

848
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Speaker 1: you there. Um, Rachel, thank you for coming on the

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Speaker 1: Famous podcast. We really appreciate you. Thank you Rachel so

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Speaker 1: Now that I have you alone, I would love to

891
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Speaker 1: talk about what you're doing right now in Denver. You're

892
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Speaker 1: finally home. How does it fail? I feel like you're

893
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Speaker 1: never never, I'm never in deavor. It feels really really good,

894
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Speaker 1: as I'm telling you, like being away for months, I'm

895
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Speaker 1: starting to get this uh weird kind of like anxiety

896
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Speaker 1: at times. UM. I don't know what it is, and

897
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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just like or life that

898
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Speaker 1: for me and that I want to I really want

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Speaker 1: to start pursuing like relationships and I really want to

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Speaker 1: find somebody. And I know that it's the more and

901
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: more travel the harder and harder. That will be. Um,

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Speaker 1: that's one thing that's been on my mind and if

903
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Speaker 1: I was like as transparent as possible. The other part

904
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Speaker 1: is friendships. When I'm out of Denver. You know, my

905
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: friendships don't struggle because they understand, but they're they're out hiking,

906
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: they're out camping, they're out doing their thing, and I'm

907
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 1: you know, seeing it on Instagram. That's tough. Um, I've

908
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Speaker 1: gotten this been some amazing time with my family, which

909
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: has been really cool, but UM, I do miss my

910
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: friends and I missed kind of getting in that routine.

911
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: So being back in Denver is awesome, and especially this

912
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Speaker 1: because I'm able to be down at the Denver Outdoor

913
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Speaker 1: Retailer which is the largest outdoor retailer expo in the world.

914
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Speaker 1: And Generous Coffee is actually one of the coffee vendors,

915
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Speaker 1: so there's not many of us we got chosen as uh,

916
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: there's only a select few. So we're out here, UM,

917
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Speaker 1: just hustling coffee, serving coffee, talking about Generous, talking about

918
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Speaker 1: the fact that you can drink the best coffee in

919
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Speaker 1: the world, while at the same time, UM, making the

920
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Speaker 1: world a better place. So that's my job. This week. Um,

921
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Speaker 1: we're just we're just running a vendor booth at the expo.

922
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Speaker 1: But I love it. This is this is really I think,

923
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Speaker 1: actually like this is my passion. I love the podcast

924
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Speaker 1: and I hope we could do the podcast for the

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Speaker 1: next twenty years together. Um. But Generous is Generous really

926
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Speaker 1: is kind of my passion project and it's the one

927
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Speaker 1: thing that keeps me feeling um, you know, really really

928
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Speaker 1: purposeful in life. So people are out there buying fishing

929
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Speaker 1: poles and kayaks, and the few girls that are hanging

930
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Speaker 1: a few single girls that are hanging around that are

931
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Speaker 1: going up to the Generous coffees stand and trying to

932
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Speaker 1: slip their numbers on the receipts. Sometimes you get a

933
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Speaker 1: couple of numbers out there, you know it's uh, it's

934
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Speaker 1: a good move. And sometimes you know a little seat

935
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Speaker 1: slipped to you from it with a number, maybe it's

936
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Speaker 1: a d M or something. Hey there's potential here. But

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Speaker 1: I'm just looking, um, you know, I'm just looking to

938
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Speaker 1: start to get in that routine where I've even open

939
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 1: have the ability to open up to that aspect of

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Speaker 1: my life. It's not I have no time to invest

941
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: into it. And that's that's not fair to anybody, including myself. Yeah,

942
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 1: that's that is That is sad. You really you don't

943
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 1: have enough time to like sit down. Jared and I

944
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: feel the same way. I know it sounds really weird,

945
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: but we have very few nights where we can just

946
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 1: like sit down with a bottle of wine, even binge,

947
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 1: watch a couple episodes of the show. We're just we'll

948
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: get home at ten thirty eleven some nights from who

949
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Speaker 1: knows what, and then we fall asleep watching House Hunters

950
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: and then we'll wake up at one and we're like, okay,

951
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 1: I should probably go wash our you know, brush our

952
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Speaker 1: toeth and wash our face and go to bed. And

953
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Speaker 1: it's just would like a whole couple of days to

954
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:27,760
Speaker 1: dedicate to wine and TV and my fiance. Actually, actually,

955
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Speaker 1: can I ask you some personal questions? How often do

956
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: you and Jared still make out as much, less or

957
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,800
Speaker 1: more than when you know you first start dating again?

958
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: It depends how often we're home. If we're at home

959
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: for a night, then then then fine. But I guess

960
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: it was definitely the first month or so it was

961
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: more making out than ever. Yeah, yeah that makes sense.

962
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: And then, um, do you feel like your hiking has

963
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: picked up now that you're with him, or have you

964
00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 1: gotten even more comfortable and just like your own like nastiness.

965
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: Has my hygiene picked up or I've gotten I've gotten

966
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: to comfortable or nastiness. We make fun of it all

967
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: the time. It's like it should be this is hashtag,

968
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: this is thirty, but it feels like hashtag this is

969
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: forty because because we were friends and know each other,

970
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: and we have been so comfortable with each other for

971
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,439
Speaker 1: three years that now we're at this point where it's

972
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: almost too comfortable sometimes and I should probably ramp up

973
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: the romance. Yeah, yeah, I mean that's that's like a

974
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: slippery slope. I do think it's important, right, I mean,

975
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: it's important to continue to keep like some some flavors,

976
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: the mystery, um, some heat in mope. But you also,

977
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: you're you're living in your house. You don't want to

978
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: have to be on guard all the time. Maybe that's

979
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Speaker 1: a good actually, I think that's a good question for

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Speaker 1: our listeners. Um, any listeners out there, please email ash

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982
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983
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984
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985
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Speaker 1: what needs to go? And how comfortable can you actually

986
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987
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989
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Speaker 1: those are good, that's good. We need um. Speaking of

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991
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Speaker 1: throw up, I'm not really sure why because it's always

992
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: so dramatic. It's never just like, oh loops. I was

993
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: at home and the night they're up, we were on

994
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: our way to a photo shoot. It was our engagement shoot,

995
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't really feel good. And

996
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: I didn't feel good for forty five minutes, and then

997
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Speaker 1: we stopped to get some tums and ginger ale, and

998
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: as soon as I took a sip of ginger ale,

999
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: everything started bubbling even worse than it was, and I

1000
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 1: was like, you're gonna have to pull over to the

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Speaker 1: Shell station because I can't make it. I'm not gonna

1002
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Speaker 1: make it. And then I throw up in the parking

1003
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Speaker 1: lot at the Shell station and Jared just sees this,

1004
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: like lava coming out of my mouth. Poor guy, has

1005
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 1: watched me now'll throw up violently twice. Oh that's bad.

1006
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 1: I mean, that's too bad for you too. It's just

1007
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: so not sexy. It's like, are you gonna kiss me

1008
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: for the next twenty four hours? If you just saw it?

1009
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: Came out of my mouth A bitty yes, and I'm like,

1010
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: how are you so good? You're so sweet? And he

1011
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: took such good care of me, he went on two

1012
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: CBS runs. I don't I don't know how I would

1013
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: have done it without him. Actually, I'm gonna be honest

1014
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: with you. I think I don't know if sweetness. I

1015
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: hope that doesn't equal sweetness, because it would be hard

1016
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: for me to kick anybody after I've watched them puke,

1017
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: like at least for not like right away, but like

1018
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: at least for like a couple of bits, like a

1019
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 1: couple of days. I know. But the fact that he

1020
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,959
Speaker 1: did it right away is like it shows first off

1021
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: that he just loves your Oh not right away, ben like, no,

1022
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 1: like a couple of hours, like after I burst my teeth.

1023
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Speaker 1: Oh fair enough, that works? Oh no, no, No. Have

1024
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Speaker 1: you ever thrown up in front of a significant other? Um? Yeah, definitely,

1025
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1026
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1027
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1028
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Speaker 1: So I'm definitely thrown up in front of the significant other.

1029
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1030
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1031
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1032
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Speaker 1: I know you probably talked to Rachel about it. I

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Speaker 1: need to talk to you about it. Actually, what do

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Speaker 1: you most excit before? Leading out to last few weeks?

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Speaker 1: The facts are at mm hmm, we didn't talk about this.

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Speaker 1: I am well, I'm most excited to see who's going

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Speaker 1: to be the next Bachelor, but I know you won't

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Speaker 1: get that until what's happening now. Oh my goodness, I'm

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Speaker 1: looking for what's next. Okay. I'm excited to see just

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Speaker 1: the proposal and really this sounds weird, but I'm kind

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Speaker 1: of excited to see their post interviews because I want

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Speaker 1: to see how they're doing today. I am too I'm

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01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 1: very interested. I don't huh, you know, I still don't

1084
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: know exactly who she ends up with. I do think

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01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: her final guys are seemed pretty great. They seem pretty solid.

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01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,959
Speaker 1: I think the fans really enjoy them. Um, but these

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01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: last couple months could not have been easy. The one

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01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: thing that has seen to do that we were just

1089
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: talking about earlier, she's kind of skirted around controversy when

1090
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Speaker 1: it comes to the relationships within the show. I don't

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Speaker 1: see whoever she's with being super jealous watching this Deethan back.

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Speaker 1: What do you think? I don't think so either. Yea, No.

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Speaker 1: What would you grade Becca to this point on a

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Speaker 1: scale we did this last year, we've actually done the

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Speaker 1: last two years. I think it's about the week we

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Speaker 1: do it usually. What would be your grade Rebecca as

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Speaker 1: a bachelorette? Well, I'm going to give Becca a nine

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01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: because while she's not the most dramatic, she's done a really,

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Speaker 1: really great job picking good guys. Once we've gotten down

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Speaker 1: to the end, I haven't been like, why is he

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01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: still around? Like? Maybe that's because she has really great guys,

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Speaker 1: or maybe it's because she's got a really great picker

1103
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 1: and she's also been really really sensitive towards them, and

1104
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: she's always thinking about their feelings. Yeah, what about you? Interesting?

1105
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,439
Speaker 1: I mean I think she's done great I do. I mean,

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01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: I think she has done about what we thought. She's

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01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 1: not super dramatic. Um, she's kind of stayed as the

1108
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: leader and the boss of the whole thing, um without

1109
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: coming down as like hey, you know, kind of look

1110
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: like seeing like she's like there's a hierarchy, or that

1111
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: she's um talking down to these people, which happened sometimes

1112
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: on this franchise where the bachelor bachelor atte like we'll

1113
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: talk down to the contestants, and she hasn't done that. Um.

1114
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 1: You know. The one thing I think that I you know,

1115
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: as I judge and I said a couple weeks ago,

1116
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 1: I judge a bachelor bachelort on how they reacted the

1117
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,560
Speaker 1: tough situation. Um, you know, there's always going to be

1118
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: stuff that pops up and and the book makes a

1119
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 1: good bachelor bachelor is is not um if they fall

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Speaker 1: in love or not, because most people will fall for somebody.

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01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: How do they react to really tough situations? And I

1122
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 1: think Becca has done a great job at it. In fact,

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01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 1: he's maybe done two bit of a job at it

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01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: because there isn't a lot of really dramatic storylines, and

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01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 1: there could have been. You know, we have the Colton situation,

1126
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: we had the Garret situation. We had early on some

1127
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: of her crazy guys that seemed to always be causing

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01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,440
Speaker 1: fights an argument, and she stayed up of it and

1129
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: not really made it the main storyline of the show.

1130
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: So so true, So she hasn't been I wouldn't say

1131
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 1: it's been the most entertaining season the Bachelorette, but it

1132
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: could be one of the most successful. I would agree. Yeah,

1133
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 1: it would be surprising to me that if Becca, if

1134
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: Becca and her guy whoever did, don't work out, it

1135
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: would be a surprise to me, like a big shock. Then,

1136
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: so I think this was set up for her. The

1137
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: other part, and I know you and I have kind

1138
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: of felt this way for the last couple of seasons,

1139
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: is I'm I'm into this season, like I'm into the storylines.

1140
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm into the people that are there. I'm into who

1141
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 1: these guys are and who they are to to Becca. Uh,

1142
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: you know, for the last couple of seasons, I felt

1143
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 1: very disconnected. I don't know if that was just because

1144
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: I was getting online and I was too streshed. But

1145
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: I feel pretty connected to this season. I feel I

1146
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: feel you. Actually, I feel like I care about these

1147
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 1: guys a lot. I don't know, Yeah, I think I

1148
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: think we do. Hey, one thing that's interesting. I just

1149
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: got an email. Um rumor has it some of Becca's

1150
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 1: eyes though, cause major controversy on Paradise. But just coming up,

1151
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: very one of our favorite times of the year is

1152
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 1: doing this show when Paradise is happening. And it sounds

1153
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 1: like this year Paradise is gonna be as crazy and

1154
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: dramatic as ever led by. Here's here's what it's the

1155
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: female saying. I don't know if it's true or not.

1156
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 1: Leo from Becca season causes some major sir during Paradise.

1157
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 1: Yeah really, I didn't know that he created a stir,

1158
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: but I may hear that Will's maybe creating a stir?

1159
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: Who's Will? Wills? Oh? Will? Really? Yeah, that's a surprise

1160
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 1: to everybody out there because he was he didn't want

1161
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Speaker 1: to still the top favorite the bachelors. Do you think so?

1162
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I see it all the time on my Twitter.

1163
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: When you know, Mr Fly, who the next guy is

1164
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: going to be in? My name always gets tagged I

1165
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: always hm hmm. Interesting. He's a great guy. I'm at

1166
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 1: him this week, so you like it. You would be

1167
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: surprised if he caused a stir. I'm kind of surprised

1168
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: that he causes a stir because he really stayed out

1169
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 1: of the drama. Um and this season. You know, Wills

1170
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Speaker 1: was like the least dramatic guy this season. He was

1171
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: actually one of the people that Becca would go to

1172
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: when he when she needed to be drama free. Yeah,

1173
01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 1: that is a good point, you know. You know, for

1174
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Speaker 1: a second here, I want to take and kind of

1175
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 1: not go off topic. I think Wills is definitely a

1176
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Speaker 1: fan favorite. I definitely think it would be surprising if

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Speaker 1: if he does cause the drama in Paradise. But Paradise

1178
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Speaker 1: does weird things to a lot of people, you know firsthand. Um, yes, yes,

1179
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Speaker 1: I did. Ben one guy that has stayed above the

1180
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Speaker 1: frame and above approach on every single show he's done

1181
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: in Backlet Franchise is one of my favorite contestants. Michael.

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Speaker 1: G you of Michael, don't you? Yes? Michael, She is

1183
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: like so funny. He never gets a lot of air time,

1184
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 1: but I feel like he's still a fan favorite. He

1185
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 1: is a fan favorite. It's why else that you know

1186
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 1: he doesn't get air time, but yet people seem to

1187
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: know him. Angela. We got an email from one of

1188
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Speaker 1: our listeners named Angela. She definitely knows Michael G. Actually

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Speaker 1: listen to this email. I know you're happy, she goes,

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Speaker 1: but I've had a bit of a hard time getting

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Speaker 1: his attention. I am super interested in Michael G from

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation. I know this sounds like a crazy fan,

1194
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 1: but I promise you I'm not. I saw him on

1195
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Speaker 1: Winner Games and thought he was super cute, and then

1196
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 1: followed him on social media, where he seemed like he

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Speaker 1: had a great personality and made me even more interested.

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Speaker 1: He's also in my city, so I was hoping I

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Speaker 1: tweeted him once his last episode of Winner Games there

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Speaker 1: and he liked it. Since then, I've tried to follow

1202
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: up to make that a reality and haven't heard anything.

1203
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 1: If it's possible, I would absolutely love it if you

1204
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Speaker 1: guys could help a girl out. I always catch his

1205
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Speaker 1: tweets about how dating life stuck, and I'm just trying

1206
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to make his dating life a bit better. Actually,

1207
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Speaker 1: if you always said you wanted your life be a

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Speaker 1: romantic comedy, I hope you can make mine one as well. Angela.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm. Well, Angela, if you liked one of your tweets,

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Speaker 1: why don't you just adam m hm, just go out

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Speaker 1: of Angela, just make it happen. Yeah, you're not going

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Speaker 1: to get anything from a light tweet. I get white.

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Speaker 1: She loves Michael G. I love Michael D. Michael D

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Speaker 1: is one of my favorite people I've ever set Um.

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Speaker 1: It's surprising to me that he's still single. He's you know,

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Speaker 1: he's an a Parny. He's incredibly intelligent, he's good looking,

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Speaker 1: he lives in New York. He's caring and compassionate. Angela,

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Speaker 1: I get it. Um go after Michael D. I would

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01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 1: totally supported. Hey, Angela, how about you send a couple

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Speaker 1: of pictures and you're like a slight bio to Ashley,

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Speaker 1: to Benn and Ashley at I heart media dot com,

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Speaker 1: and we'll check it out and maybe we'll afford it

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Speaker 1: to him. I'm going to be in New York this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Maybe um, I can set some that up. Also, it's

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Speaker 1: worth mentioning that Michael G. When I had a charity

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Speaker 1: event on Valentine's Day in two thousand and sixteen in

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Speaker 1: New York City, we did a man auction and Nick

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Speaker 1: nick Val went for the highest for a mini date,

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Speaker 1: a forty five minute mini date with Nick V. Well,

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Speaker 1: Michael G having as little airtime as he did, but

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Speaker 1: Isn't that nuts? For five minutes with Michael? I bet

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Speaker 1: it was worth every penny. So crazy, but yeah, Angela,

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Speaker 1: You're that's it. Fun Worth supporter. I get it to

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Speaker 1: my house, actually gets this to her house. Their friends

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Speaker 1: get it. Um, you know you want to be like athlete.

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Speaker 1: Let make sure you get it. Stop. But seriously, I

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Speaker 1: love it. I love the box. It's come so amazing

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Speaker 1: over the years. I remember when I used to go

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Speaker 1: to be like, Okay, this is nice, this is nice.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm like, oh my goodness, this is amazing. I

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Speaker 1: got tart makeup every quarter, and and I get my

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Speaker 1: little eye eyebrows things. All right, Hey, Astley, it's been

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Speaker 1: great to join you today. I appreciate you. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Now go serve coffee to all those people buying Kayaks.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get out there. We got a lot of copies.

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Speaker 1: If they're were expecting thirty thousand people, Hey, you haven't

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Speaker 1: gone out and bought Dinners copee. I go to Dinners

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Speaker 1: copy dot com. Um, please by the best copy in

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Speaker 1: the world. It gives back to a great cause. Ashley

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Speaker 1: does it. All of our friends do it. That's why

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Speaker 1: they look so happy and healthy and um alert all

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Speaker 1: the time. So make sure you get a dinner dot com. Hey, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: you're the best bet this podcast, the best listeners. We

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Speaker 1: love you. We're about to uh finalize the fun couple

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Speaker 1: of last episodes of the season's Bachelorrette moving on to

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Paradise, one of our favorite times of the year,

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Speaker 1: and then we will find out very quickly who the

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Speaker 1: next factor is. Is it me that Peter? We'll see

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Speaker 1: very soon actually, and everybody out there, I've been, Been,

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Speaker 1: Been Ashley and goodbye. Follow the Benn and Ashley I

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio or subscribe wherever you

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