1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: Hey, everyone, welcome to a very special episode of the 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: Almost Famous Podcast. I am sitting here and I know 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: Ben's gonna be jealous of this interview because we've separated 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 2: these Bachelor Mansion house interviews and I'm sitting here with 7 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: the Faith Martin, who I thought was the front runner? 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 3: Who I was? 9 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 2: Faith? 10 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 3: Did I make you cry? 11 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 2: I didn't cry, but my jaw was on the floor, like, 12 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 2: and you know people say that as an expression, but 13 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: my jaw really did drop. So we have David Archiletta 14 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: in the house here also because we're doing like a 15 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 2: boy band reunion in the house. And I'm just rambling now, 16 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: but like, it reminded me. Your elimination reminded me of 17 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: an old school American Idle episode where like or Chris 18 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: Daughtry or someone is eliminated. 19 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 3: I watched that season with Chris Daughtry's amazing. 20 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: That's when America watched all together, Yes, and we were 21 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: all shocked together. And that's how I felt like when 22 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 2: he sent you home actually after that hometown, I know you. 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 4: Yes, well you know it's interesting because I think you 24 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: know they say you have a brain in your gut. 25 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 4: And even though logically I felt like I had the 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 4: best home date ever, I was on you know, cloud nine. 27 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 4: I thought it was just amazing. I thought it could 28 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 4: not have gone any better. But it was strange that 29 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 4: in between that and the hometowns, my stomach was telling 30 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 4: me different. It just was telling me something wasn't quite right. 31 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 4: And of course he's going to hometowns with other women, 32 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 4: so I knew that, right, But you know, there was 33 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 4: something that somehow an intuitive sense to me felt like 34 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 4: it could not possibly go my way. You know, that 35 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 4: was an option, and so I was really unsure about 36 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: the whole thing. And I should have felt more confident 37 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 4: if it was right, you know. 38 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: So, but faith, I felt like watching all those three 39 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: hometowns that he was most vocal about his feelings for you. 40 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: So are you annoyed at all at the fact that 41 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: he was so vocal with all three of you women. 42 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: I wasn't at all until I watched him with Life, 43 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 3: you know. 44 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 4: Then I was annoyed for her because I think when 45 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: it got down to that, that was a little harder, 46 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: you know, seeing that she got so far and it 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 4: looked like it was going to be less. 48 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 2: Talking about you, You're saying beyond hometown weeks and when 49 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 2: it's between her. 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 4: So yeah, just looking back on the whole thing, I'm 51 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 4: not annoyed at all. I mean, we know what we 52 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 4: signed up for, and I don't think it's ever a 53 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 4: bad thing to be loved. So if somebody loves you, 54 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 4: whether it's a reason, a season, or a lifetime, they 55 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 4: love you in the moment, I think I think you 56 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 4: can only be grateful that they expressed that, because that's 57 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 4: what the world is about. 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: You know, if you love someone, go ahead and tell 59 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 3: them it. 60 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 4: Mate doesn't mean you know, if we're all so afraid 61 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 4: to say I love you, if it won't last forever. 62 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 3: Nobody would say it, you know. So I think it's okay. 63 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 4: I don't fault Gary for telling people that he loved them. 64 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 4: And that's how I was thinking this whole time. But 65 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 4: then tonight when I was watching and I was seeing 66 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 4: Gary telling Leslie she's the one and you know, all 67 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 4: that stuff, then I was like, okay, wait a minute, 68 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 4: that's not fair. So, you know, when it's about me, 69 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 4: I'm okay with that. When it's about somebody else, I'm 70 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 4: a little bit more protective. I think so it was 71 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 4: a little. 72 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: Bit of leading on And I have mentioned that, like, 73 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 2: it's because it's from sweet, wholesome Gary, who is sweet 74 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 2: and wholesome and a wonderful gentleman. Yeah, but if it 75 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: were somebody who was thirty two on the main show 76 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 2: saying these, he would be like the Bachelor fandom would 77 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: just be ripping him to sah. 78 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: Well, I think too, like nobody knows until you're in 79 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: those shoes just how intensely emotional and how the heightened 80 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 4: emotions of what you're going through is different than anything 81 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 4: you've experienced. So I feel like if you are one 82 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 4: that can stay in the moment and stay present, and 83 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 4: I think Gary did a great job of allowing himself 84 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 4: to be completely engaged in what he was into at 85 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 4: the moment, and he did feel those feelings, and he 86 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 4: did have genuine love for those women, all of us. 87 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 4: And so you can't fault the guy for that, right, 88 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 4: you know, you just can't. I think he led with 89 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 4: his heart, and you know, I think he made the 90 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 4: best choice in the outcome is good. 91 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: But that's the risk we all take, you know. 92 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 2: Tonight we found out that Teresa and he will be 93 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: married yes on January. Course, this is fast fast in September. 94 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: How do you feel about this? 95 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 4: I had a feeling when they said there was going 96 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 4: to be announcement. I was like, oh my gosh, they're 97 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 4: going to announce their wedding date, and I think it 98 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 4: will be right away. And because you know, like Gary said, 99 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 4: at this age, why wait, Like, let's do it now? 100 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: We don't. 101 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 4: They don't really have time to waste. You know, there's 102 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 4: seventy and seventy two years old, seventy one and seventy two, Like, 103 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 4: if they know they want to be together, why not 104 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 4: do it? 105 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: You know? 106 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 4: I had met my husband and we kissed and got 107 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 4: married eight days later and it lasted twenty one years. 108 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 4: So I think, you know kind of what life is 109 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 4: all about. You got to go for it. You know, 110 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 4: why why should they wait? You know? 111 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 3: And were you surprised it was Teresa? 112 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 2: Because no, once really Okay, so I need to know 113 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 2: all this, but I do want you to know that 114 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 2: like once you were eliminated, which I was shockedalke by tonight, 115 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 2: I was spoiler free until tonight. I was again just 116 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 2: mind blown that it was Teresa and not Leslie. And 117 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: I do feel like you and Leslie were a little 118 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: bit more similar, and then Theresa was more of the 119 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: outlier and the top three because I feel like you 120 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: and Leslie carry yourself a little bit more in like 121 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 2: a sexy fashion. 122 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 3: Well, thank you. 123 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 4: No, you know, I was not surprised, because this is 124 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 4: why since day one, I would watch how Gary would 125 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 4: look at all the other women. You know what it's 126 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 4: like to be a woman. You know, you're watching your guy. 127 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 4: You can tell if he thinks somebody else in the 128 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 4: room is attractive. That's kind of how I did. I 129 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 4: was like, I thought, maybe he's going to fall in 130 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 4: love with Ellen. So I'm looking at Ellen and I'm 131 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 4: watching him watch her, and I was like, no. 132 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 3: He doesn't love Ellen, he doesn't love on. 133 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 4: I'm like watching him with The surprise was that I 134 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 4: didn't see a really big connect with him and Leslie ever. 135 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:59,239 Speaker 4: Oh but I totally saw it with Teresa from day one. 136 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 3: And it was weird. We would be at the Rose 137 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 3: ceremony and I'm going. 138 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 4: Oh my god, he's totally googly eyeing Theresa. Every time 139 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: they would look at each other, he'd have this little 140 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 4: googly eye thing going on. I was like, serious, it's Teresa. 141 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 4: So I felt like that all along that she was 142 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 4: going to be either the winner, you know, he would 143 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 4: choose her or she would be right up there clothes. 144 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 4: So and they had so many things in alignment with 145 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 4: their life, with their past relationships, with their going to 146 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 4: help them, their commonalities. They're very traditional. They you know, 147 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 4: they really are a really compatible couple. 148 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 3: I think. 149 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 2: So, why do you think that during hometowns she was 150 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: the one that he didn't. 151 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 3: Say I love you too. I don't know, because that 152 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 3: threw us off. 153 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 4: It did, And I wonder if he I think he 154 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: said I love you to me pretty quickly. And it 155 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 4: was funny because my sister, if you remember, in my hometown, 156 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: my sister goes, you know, Gary was going to have 157 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 4: to leave and go to the other hometowns. 158 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he said. 159 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 4: My sister goes, I know you love Faith and you 160 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 4: want it to be her. And I go, oh, my god, 161 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 4: did you just say that out loud? I was embarrassed, right, 162 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 4: And then he goes, I would say it out loud, 163 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 4: and he goes, would you say it out loud? And 164 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 4: I said, I'd say it out loud and he goes, 165 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 4: I love you, and I go, I love you too. 166 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 4: That was so meaningful to me. And honestly, I was 167 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 4: the first hometown. 168 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so it was a little out of order in 169 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 2: the airing, which I am. 170 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 4: I allowed to say it, but yeah, so and then 171 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 4: I think he kind of thought, oh, I better not 172 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 4: be so quick to say that, and so then he 173 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 4: held off with Teresa, okay, and then I don't know 174 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 4: what you know. I'm just guessing. I really don't know. 175 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 4: But yeah, it shocked me too. I mean, I'm not 176 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 4: gonna lie. It was hard. It was really hard. 177 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: So when you saw Gary again tonight in person, Yeah, 178 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: how did that feel? Because I know this sounds like 179 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: I remember being on the Bachelor, and I knew very 180 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 2: well that Chrystals wasn't my husband as soon as I 181 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: like got on that plane home, you know, I like, yeah, 182 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: that did make sense for a reason. But like when 183 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 2: you see them at the reunion show, your heart still drops. 184 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 4: I still am perplexed at my emotions at the show. 185 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 3: I get teered up. 186 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 4: At lunch today, somebody said something we were talking about 187 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 4: Gary and I get teared up. I don't understand it 188 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 4: why because logically I'm over the moon happy for him 189 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 4: and Teresa, I really am. Logically, I think their lives 190 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 4: are way better aligned. I think he made the right choice. 191 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 4: But I still have times where I get really emotional 192 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 4: about it, and I don't even like I want to 193 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 4: smack myself in the head and go, what is wrong 194 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 4: with you? 195 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: Stop? 196 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 4: But yet I'll see something or somebody will say something, 197 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 4: I'll start talking about it, and I get all choked up. 198 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 4: But it's the weirdest thing. I wouldn't believe it if 199 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 4: I didn't live it. I don't know what is going 200 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 4: on with me? 201 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: What about what you will? Let's play that comparison game. 202 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 2: Do you think that your age plays a role? And 203 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: like you still being a little hung up on it. 204 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: It's also really fresh, like your season was filmed and 205 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 2: aired really quickly, and you know you just broke up 206 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 2: with him in September. Yeah, so I mean, come on, 207 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 2: we have two months under the belt. It's nothing. 208 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 3: But then thank you because that makes me feel a 209 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 3: little better. It's like a lifetime. 210 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes I think there's a Sex in 211 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: the City quote that said it takes half the amount 212 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: of time you're with somebody to get over them. I 213 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 2: actually think it sometimes it takes twice a man of it. 214 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 4: It's always taken me, you know, Like I was with 215 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 4: the guy once for three years. It took me six 216 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 4: years to get over him. I couldn't even tell you 217 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 4: who I went on a date with. I don't remember 218 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 4: their names. I don't remember their faces. I you know, 219 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 4: I just I kind of you know. 220 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, So you think it hurts more of being older 221 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 2: and heartbroken. 222 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 4: I know that when when I hear that he's going 223 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 4: to be happy, when I see him and Teresa together, 224 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 4: it it like heals the hole. 225 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 3: In my heart. 226 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 4: You know, I am really over the moon happy. It 227 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 4: just made my heart full to see that they're both happy, 228 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 4: and I think that's part of the healing, you know, 229 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 4: and to feeling like I can always love Gary and 230 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 4: he'll have a place in my heart, but I can 231 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 4: love him in a different form and just you know, 232 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 4: appreciate him moving forward in his life. And I think 233 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 4: we'll always be friends, you know. I'm friends with Teresa 234 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 4: and friends with Gary. So yeah, I think it'll just 235 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 4: take a little time. It is weird that it all 236 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: happens so quick, and I'm surprised at the deep feelings 237 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 4: that I have for sure, But it'll be okay. 238 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: Will that be weird for Gary or you to continue 239 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 2: a friendship with Teresa? 240 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 4: You know, I thought so at first, but I don't 241 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 4: think so. Gary is a gentleman and he's very kind, 242 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 4: and he wanted to check on me. He called it Thanksgiving. 243 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 4: He wanted to make sure I was okay. He's called 244 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 4: me a number of times. Teresa has called me, you know, 245 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 4: we talk all the time. I think I have so 246 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 4: much love for both of them, and I really am 247 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 4: just over the moon for them. And I feel like, 248 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 4: like Teresa goes, I know Gary loves you, and I 249 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 4: know you love Gary, and like, yeah, yeah, no, she 250 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 4: really is a lovely person. And the other thing is, 251 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 4: you know, you can love a person in so many 252 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 4: different forms. And I think the connection that I had 253 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 4: with Gary all along was more of kind of a heartfelt, 254 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 4: soulful connection, not a chemistry type of connection, where my 255 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 4: past relationships were maybe more chemistry ish. And so I 256 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 4: think it really is just a long standing friendship. And 257 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 4: I think Teresa knows that I would never be inappropriate, 258 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 4: I would never want anything more. I am thrilled over 259 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 4: the moon for both of them, and I feel like 260 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 4: all three of us could be friends and it shouldn't 261 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 4: feel weird at all. 262 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: Oh, that's so nice, that's really nice. She seems like 263 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: a really sweet. 264 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 4: She's lovely, she's lovely. And the thing, you know, when 265 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 4: we talk about those traditional things, Teresa's very traditional, and 266 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 4: you know she will really dote over him and make 267 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 4: him a very lovely wife. Where I'm off roading my 268 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 4: motorcycle and my horse and I'm singing in a bandit 269 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 4: you know, right, So it wasn't really a very good alignment. 270 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: He used to always say. 271 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 4: He used to always say, like, we've been together for years, 272 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: but he would say, you're so fiercely independent, and I 273 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 4: kept thinking, well, I don't have to be. I would 274 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 4: hang out with you more. But then I thought, if 275 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 4: I'm in a recording session recording a song, is he 276 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 4: going to be okay that I'm gone for nine hours 277 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 4: while he sits at home waiting for dinner? 278 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: You know, I mean, so our lives. 279 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,599 Speaker 2: Maybe you also want to move, and it seemed a 280 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 2: little bit more open to moving. 281 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love to move to California or Arizona 282 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 4: or someplace warm, you know, I know, because it's a 283 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: plane ride that's pretty quick. But Indiana oh hell no, Okay, 284 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 4: I don't want to be there. I really don't want 285 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 4: to be in Indiana. 286 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: Can you blame me? 287 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 2: That is where you need to have Ben come into 288 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 2: the conversation because he's from Indiana. Oh no, and he's 289 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 2: from a very close place from where it was. 290 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 4: So and maybe I'm judging too harshly because I mean, 291 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 4: it's a flyover state. Yeah, nobody stops Sarah goes there 292 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 4: for any good reason, I imagine. 293 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 3: But maybe it's nicer than I thought. I don't know. 294 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 2: Apparently they have a good lake life going, and we 295 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 2: heard it there was like there's some there's a lot 296 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 2: of crazy things that happened behind doors at the lakes 297 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 2: of Indiana. We'll talk about some other time. Yeah, but 298 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 2: I do want to I want to end with one question. 299 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: You are like kind of like you're singer, you're a 300 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: radio host. You definitely come across as like a badass woman, 301 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: and now people want you to possibly be the Golden Bachelorette. 302 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: What was your reaction when you were getting all of 303 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 2: those I felt like, since you finished third place, you 304 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: probably kind of expected that could be the chatter. 305 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 3: I had no idea. 306 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 4: What makes them choose whoever, I always thought it was 307 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 4: the runner up, so I didn't think that I would 308 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 4: even be not really see, I don't know. 309 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 3: I was too busy to watch the show. 310 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 4: I have watched The Bachelorette though, and oh my god, 311 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 4: I love charity so much. But anyway, Yeah, no, I 312 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 4: think it's a I think it would be an amazing 313 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 4: thing if they did the Bachelorette. 314 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 3: And who would say no to that? Because the process works. 315 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 3: I've lived it. 316 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 4: I know how you can fall in love in a 317 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 4: short time. I would, you know, I really don't know 318 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 4: how that goes, but it would be an amazing experience. 319 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 4: So you know I'm open to it for sure. 320 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 2: Well, we are rooting for you for that, I know. 321 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 2: I told you I was the most shocked about your 322 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 2: elimination and the one who I felt like I was 323 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 2: rooting for the most. 324 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: Sweet. 325 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 2: Well, we'll see where the road leads. 326 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, thank you. 327 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 2: So much for being here. 328 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: Yes, appreciate it. 329 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: I followed the Nashley I Almost Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio 330 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.