Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is to record what makes each day special.
Speaker 1: One of the most common observations I've heard from people
Speaker 1: about this spring's long season of social distancing is that
Speaker 1: life started to feel like the movie Groundhog Day. The
Speaker 1: main character lives the same day over and over again.
Speaker 1: Without the usual markers of time, days can merge into
Speaker 1: each other, each indistinguishable from the last. Quarantines are obviously
Speaker 1: extreme examples of this, but even during normal times, people
Speaker 1: can get caught up in the daily grind. Tuesday's commute
Speaker 1: is indistinguishable from Thursday's commute, and you have to look
Speaker 1: at the calendar as you wonder is it Friday yet?
Speaker 1: But today is not Groundhog Day. Each day can be
Speaker 1: its own little jewel. Noticing and writing down what makes
Speaker 1: each day distinctive helps us value all our days during
Speaker 1: disjointed or normal times. In April, our Jewish friends celebrated
Speaker 1: Passover at the Statar. The youngest person traditionally asks why
Speaker 1: is this night different from all other nights? The response
Speaker 1: focuses on features of the meal that commemorate the deliverance
Speaker 1: of the Israelites from slavery in Egypt. Now, of course,
Speaker 1: Passover is a major holiday, and so of course this
Speaker 1: night is different from other nights. But as I wrote
Speaker 1: in my book Off the Clock, I believe this is
Speaker 1: a worthy question for ordinary days too. What distinguishes this
Speaker 1: day today from all other days of my life? Even
Speaker 1: if you happen to be sheltering in place? What distinguishes
Speaker 1: this day from all other days of sheltering in place?
Speaker 1: We can think of all kinds of distinctions. Today is
Speaker 1: different because we made s'mores around the firepit. Today is
Speaker 1: different because Uncle Rob had a virtual birthday party and
Speaker 1: every family on the call had made their own chocolate cake,
Speaker 1: which is Uncle Rob's favorite. Today is different because I
Speaker 1: rearranged the furniture in the guest room so it's more
Speaker 1: conducive to my working from home. Today is different because
Speaker 1: we hiked a new trail. Today is different because I
Speaker 1: colored my own hair for the first time. Today is
Speaker 1: different because I figured out how to edit a video.
Speaker 1: Today is different because we received our first vegetable delivery
Speaker 1: from a local farm. Today is different because the kids
Speaker 1: taught the dog to shake hands. Today is different because
Speaker 1: the lilacs started blooming. These are not life changing differences,
Speaker 1: but there are enough to make the days special and
Speaker 1: distinct and worthy of notice if we choose to notice them.
Speaker 1: So set a time each day to record what makes
Speaker 1: each day special. Maybe as part of your dinner routine
Speaker 1: you could ask your family to share the day's gems,
Speaker 1: or at bedtime you can jot down these distinctions in
Speaker 1: a journal. Notice them, celebrate them. Because though all time passes,
Speaker 1: when life is ultimately short, it's a miserable bargain to
Speaker 1: wish time away. Each morning we wake up to new possibilities,
Speaker 1: it behooves us to value each day we are given.
Speaker 1: And by the way, there's a sneaky little upside to
Speaker 1: recording what makes each day special. Once you know you'll
Speaker 1: need to write something down, you realize that you can
Speaker 1: engineer special things into your life. You can set an
Speaker 1: intention for something worth remembering. You see nothing particularly promising
Speaker 1: on the calendar, so you elect to cook a new dish,
Speaker 1: go for a walk by the lake, or FaceTime a
Speaker 1: relative you haven't talked with in a while. Or maybe
Speaker 1: today will be different because it's the day you start
Speaker 1: recording what makes each day special. And just like that,
Speaker 1: today is different from all other days, just as you intended.
Speaker 1: In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and
Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,
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