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Speaker 2: Cheers being innovative, creative, and a design genius.

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Speaker 3: I'm so grateful. It's almost the end of the year.

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Speaker 3: We've had a wonderful year. Take a moment to reflect

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Speaker 3: on all of the obstacles you've overcome, all of the

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Speaker 3: will continue to experience, all of the good fucking, all

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Speaker 3: the good sex, or maybe all that good self fucking.

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Speaker 4: Maybe good, Maybe I had some good self fucking.

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Speaker 3: Some people are celibate, like myself, and it's not really

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Speaker 4: Be, but here I am. For now.

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Speaker 1: It's a nature's celibacy.

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Speaker 3: It's nature's celibacy, and we're just gonna go with it.

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Speaker 1: Intuitive celibacy.

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Speaker 3: But like I said on last week's episode, I've been

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Speaker 3: romanticizing myself and I've been really enjoying that. At some

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Speaker 3: point I am going to need a nigga to do

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Speaker 3: it also, But for now, this is where I'm at

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Speaker 5: Cheers, cheers, mm.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Meela.

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Speaker 4: Happy Wednesday, Happy Wednesday, lovelies. How are you I'm good.

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Speaker 4: I got my feet out. Oh thank you got my

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Speaker 4: feet out. I give you the feet out announcement. Very

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Speaker 4: glad to hear this.

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Speaker 1: I mean your sock over there.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I update the tribe every nine months about my famous

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Speaker 3: wiki feet page, so if any there's always always updating

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Speaker 3: my wiki feed page. If you search wiki feed Erica Dickerson,

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Speaker 3: you will see I have a five star rating.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what made the site called wiki feet.

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Speaker 3: Some nigga who likes feed a lot of he's rich.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he doesn't even like feet. Maybe it's like just it.

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Speaker 4: Literally is a sub website for wiki and they get paid.

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Speaker 3: Like there's there's money. There's an SEO money situation happening.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of ads.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, wow, look at it.

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Speaker 4: Look at the progression. There are corporate monetizing the kink world.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they're associated. This is a rumor,

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Speaker 2: don't You didn't hear it from us first, but.

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Speaker 3: It's a possibility anyway. I was just felt like I

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Speaker 3: need to have my feet out. I just moisturize them

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Speaker 3: with the mango butter in our closet.

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Speaker 1: For someone who doesn't like fee sure.

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Speaker 4: Oh I have really nice fee. I really I have

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Speaker 3: If you're on YouTube right now, go ahead and give

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Speaker 3: my stop the episode at this very moment.

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Speaker 4: Rate my feet in the comments one out of ten.

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Speaker 1: The bottoms.

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Speaker 2: More importantly, what we do have is a part of

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Speaker 2: our holiday drop, our new merch. This is a new

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Speaker 2: holiday colorway. Good Mom's Love Flowers are famous dry.

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Speaker 4: It's so fucking cute.

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Speaker 2: It looks like good And then here on the sleeve,

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Speaker 2: as you can see, there's Sativa Indica hybrid Indica for

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Speaker 4: This is our pumpkin spice drop. I know you don't like.

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Speaker 4: I don't like to hear that this is our mother

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Speaker 4: fucking pumpkin spice drop. We are Starbucks, bitch, now we

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Speaker 2: Am I the only bitch who is not a huge

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with you. I've never had pumpkins spice.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever had a Pumpkins spice?

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Speaker 4: So then how did you decide you didn't like it?

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Speaker 1: It's just not my life thing. I'm not gonna be like,

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Speaker 4: You can't knock it, so you try it.

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Speaker 1: I like apple cider, like hot apple cider, that's my thing.

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Speaker 1: I like how you just switched just that's my season,

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Speaker 4: Well, I think it looks really cute.

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Speaker 3: I cut the shirt because I have one that's long sleeve,

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Speaker 2: And maybe we need to play with like ways we

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Speaker 4: Turtle necks, shirts of my collar.

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Speaker 4: I think about your nipples. It's a weird area.

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Speaker 3: But this is our black as fuck, mom as fuck,

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Speaker 3: We made it in long sleeve. I love this. We

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Speaker 3: also have an Auntie as Fuck tea. We don't have

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Speaker 4: We have a short sleeve too, good tan.

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Speaker 3: We have a short sleep but mostly in plus sizes,

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Speaker 3: so if there's any plus size ladies and mamas, we

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Speaker 3: we're having a sale right now for our Black Friday

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Speaker 3: sale Cyber Monday sale, so if you're want to get

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Speaker 2: This is our way of showing gratitude to our tribe.

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Speaker 2: And no tomorrow is that day we don't speak of.

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Speaker 2: Some of you might be in the kitchen, you know,

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Speaker 2: cooking your collars and your yams. Do you put marshmallows

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Speaker 2: about it. Go ahead and put a reminder to go

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Speaker 2: put some Good Mom's merch in your cart because it's

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Speaker 2: on sale and you're supporting two single moms. And our

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Speaker 2: shit is cute as fuck and it makes a statement.

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Speaker 2: It's a statement piece.

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Speaker 3: It's cute, and it's high quality because we are high

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Speaker 2: We even have an affirmation on the collar. We're very

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Speaker 4: You're also wearing our necklace.

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Speaker 1: I'm also wearing our necklace.

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Speaker 4: And our baby mam the earrings and.

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Speaker 1: Their baby Mament earrings.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you are the creator are bad Choices. I love

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Speaker 2: this fucking necklace. I wear it all the time.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't turn in the water. You can wear and never.

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Speaker 4: Take it off.

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Speaker 2: Our earrings, our baby Moment earrings are cute. I'd like God, So.

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Speaker 3: Go to good Moms Bad Choices dot com and check

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Speaker 3: out our cute shit we have. I feel like like

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Speaker 3: we have an online store, like like all the Instagram bitches.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, I'm finally all the Instagram bitches,

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Speaker 2: I have an online store.

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Speaker 1: I have an online store.

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Speaker 2: I you know how long it took us to finally

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Speaker 1: Look at my shipment.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I wonder if it's fake post office. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You'd be surprised what people will be doing for a ship. Listen,

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Speaker 2: You know what one thing about like being an internet

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Speaker 2: that pole costs about ninety nine nine and nine shat pole?

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Speaker 1: Can you know about my my suppar pole online?

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Speaker 2: So when I was seeing her and her shipment, remember

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Speaker 3: Let's see that entrepreneurial spirit and I know it's it's

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Speaker 2: I'm grateful for uh, our entrepreneurial spirits, just trying everything,

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Speaker 3: Send me the edible Campbell link. Oh you did it

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Speaker 3: No I no, no doesn't speak to us. Let's speaks

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Speaker 1: We'll even survey our audience.

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Speaker 4: You know what.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, like, I am grateful for our like marketing mindset

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Speaker 1: We're kind of crazy, but I'm very proud of our

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Speaker 2: Never forget that we designed our own book cover. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm a fucking book cover designer. So if you have

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Speaker 2: be able to hire us for consulting because we designed everything.

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Speaker 4: We did everything from start to finish. Look at the back.

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Speaker 2: And we did style this fucking cover, including the fonts

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Speaker 3: And you can get a signed copy on our website

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Speaker 3: during the Black Friday sale.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a good gift. Oh my god, I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: And a book is a really nice gift for like

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Speaker 3: In their book. You're grateful for signs for us.

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Speaker 1: I'm like Snoop Dog, I want to thank me.

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Speaker 4: And you.

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Speaker 2: I want to think us, think us for being us,

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Speaker 4: It, we're not We're not going to celebrate Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: So do you want to come to my house? Or

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Speaker 2: Here's my thing with the Indigenous People's Day. I really

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Speaker 4: No, you should make stuffing whenever you want, anytime.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should just go to Benny Hannah for him

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Speaker 3: Get Indigenous people's dead. You know, I'm gonna say something

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Speaker 4: What I mean, it's cool. I know it's I know

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Speaker 4: Niggas love Benny Hannah's. I know I realized this.

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Speaker 2: It is like it's like it's like checking cheese, do

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Speaker 4: List of places you don't take a bitch on the

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you know what if it was, I

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Speaker 2: rebuked that list. She I've taken me to the Cheesecake Factory.

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Speaker 1: They got everything and listened. I don't know wrong.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't mad at the cheesecas.

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Speaker 3: I actually really are, like the bread, every single thing

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Speaker 2: I think Cheesecake Factory is the last of the good

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Speaker 1: They're dead like p F. Shang's done.

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Speaker 4: They're done.

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Speaker 1: They're definitely they're definitely everything I can tell.

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Speaker 2: But Cheesecake Factory. They're still cooking shit back there. And

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Speaker 2: gonna have something. They have good drinks. I mean, they're

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Speaker 3: That was for social medias, that kind of ship that

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 1: That happened when we're in Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember We're like after we did the Honeypot thing.

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Speaker 4: This was a full table. It was four people, no,

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Speaker 6: Well.

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Speaker 2: I realized now when me and Orlando went to Mexico

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Speaker 2: I was looking at them weird, and they were looking

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Speaker 3: This is weird, right, Yeah, And then they were like

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Speaker 2: It's it's one it's one thing too, It's it's we're

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Speaker 2: to just sit there a whole meal with a bunch

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Speaker 2: turning into Ready Player one and I'm scared. What is it?

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Speaker 1: You never seen Ready Player one?

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Speaker 4: No, it's not.

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Speaker 2: It's like this movie where the whole thing like it's

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Speaker 1: You don't really live outside of it.

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Speaker 2: Because they just went to shit because everyone's so busy

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Speaker 1: Mmmmd wow, that's scary.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, we were talking about something else, but that made me.

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Speaker 3: We were talking about food.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about how talented we are with our high

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Speaker 1: Oh and not going to cheesecake factory.

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Speaker 6: Oh.

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Speaker 2: And I was saying it's kind of like it's kind

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Speaker 2: I can deal with some there's a lot of chain

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Speaker 2: I was like, literally, in La, I don't know where

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Speaker 2: one single like chain restaurant is, Like except for Cheesecake Factory,

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Speaker 2: we don't do.

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Speaker 1: Like red Lobsters. We don't have a lot of Like

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Speaker 1: there's no Texas row House.

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Speaker 4: Remember Houston Houston's.

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Speaker 2: Houston's was above she Take Factory. I love there's still

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Speaker 2: one in Atlanta that's popping. Actually, Houston's is like a

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Speaker 1: Is there? Houston's out here.

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Speaker 4: There used to be.

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Speaker 1: There's not anymore because I was gonna say that, but

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Speaker 4: That ship was bomb.

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Speaker 3: I love Houston's, but I feel like they're all kind

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Speaker 3: not Houston's, Houston's had Ben had another family, not another family.

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Speaker 3: Houston's had another sister restaurant.

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Speaker 4: I believe so right.

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Speaker 3: I remember that one, and then Cheesecap Factor had that

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Speaker 3: other spot the Beverly Center, like you said, remember.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: First of all, this is bringing me back to like

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Speaker 3: everyone who doesn't live in I was like, what the

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Speaker 3: flashbacks of all the free dates I went on. I

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Speaker 1: This is how you know I'm a pretty greedy bitch.

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Speaker 3: Well your greedy bitch, your people person, because I would

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Speaker 3: absolutely not do any of those things.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: If I don't want to have to sit with you

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Speaker 3: and eat, I might not be hungry.

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Speaker 1: I like, I can probably talk to anyone.

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Speaker 4: If I'm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's hilarious again what more answer?

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Speaker 4: Never call you again? Pretty much.

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Speaker 1: Someone somewhere is watching this like that fucking dish that

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Speaker 1: was me.

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Speaker 2: Oh anyway, speaking of being gratitude for ourselves.

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Speaker 4: Oh a little look at that little cute little bottle.

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Speaker 2: In spirit of Indigenous People's Day, I was gonna say

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Speaker 1: If I can only open this mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if my mom is just like not

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Speaker 3: gonna order takeout or we're just gonna totally ignore it.

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Speaker 4: But I'm I'm very proud of her and our family.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna come over to my house?

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Speaker 3: I mean I'll come eat yeah, dinner, now, some dinner.

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Speaker 3: I'll come with that mac and cheese.

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Speaker 4: How many cheeses to use?

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Speaker 1: How many cheeses in there?

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Speaker 4: How many cheeses in there?

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Speaker 1: And then let me help you? Oh my god? Oh

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Speaker 1: maybe we should go to a.

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Speaker 4: Soup kitchen to like, don't like to volunteer. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 4: I feel like our.

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Speaker 1: Kids need to go our kids, I think, is it

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Speaker 1: just me?

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Speaker 2: I feel like my kid needs more skills at this age,

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Speaker 2: like she's getting over a little bit. I feel like

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Speaker 2: I was doing more things. Maybe I'm just getting the

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Speaker 2: ages wrong, like dishes.

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Speaker 4: Well, I told Iri that I will give her an allowance.

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Speaker 1: So does she do it?

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Speaker 4: Well, I haven't started yet.

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00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,679
Speaker 3: I keep forgetting, but also I keep saying I've been

449
00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:51,680
Speaker 3: Also she's not really taking it seriously.

450
00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I don't know if I have to give

451
00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:54,080
Speaker 4: her the money first.

452
00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,320
Speaker 1: No, you don't take something away, take wan.

453
00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:58,640
Speaker 4: I'll give her the money for it's like, see, like

454
00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,160
Speaker 4: ten dollars and you clean your go clean your dishes. Okay,

455
00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,000
Speaker 4: here's ten dollars. Now give me agree.

456
00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,359
Speaker 3: Can we agree that from this point on the continued

457
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,159
Speaker 3: Every morning when I make you breakfast, you know immediately

458
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:10,879
Speaker 3: you got to go clean your shit up, put it

459
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,360
Speaker 3: in the dishwasher, and you're gonna get ten dollars a week.

460
00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:14,000
Speaker 4: Get out a day.

461
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,640
Speaker 3: Relax, No, not a day. It's crazy to be rich.

462
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,159
Speaker 3: Although I don't know if she's gonna be impressed with

463
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 3: ten dollars.

464
00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,879
Speaker 4: Like these kids, they don't know the worth of a

465
00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:25,199
Speaker 4: dollar these days. No, not when fucking people from her

466
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,320
Speaker 4: school are giving her one hundred and fifty.

467
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,159
Speaker 3: Dollars just because they gave her They played a game

468
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 3: of poker. I don't know what the fuck kind of

469
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,000
Speaker 3: game they had my kids over there playing, but apparently

470
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 3: Iri won and he gave her one hundred and fifty dollars.

471
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,520
Speaker 3: And then we left the sleepover and I'm on the way,

472
00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,440
Speaker 3: She's like, Mommy, I forgot my one hundred and fifty

473
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,240
Speaker 3: dollars we have to go back and I was like, no,

474
00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:43,760
Speaker 3: we're not.

475
00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 1: Going back to go get money.

476
00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:45,560
Speaker 4: Text him.

477
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not gonna text a grown man that

478
00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,040
Speaker 3: my eight year old fucking lost her one fifty from

479
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:51,960
Speaker 3: the fucking.

480
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,600
Speaker 1: Gag holding you to her her bet.

481
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,080
Speaker 4: So then she took my phone when I wasn't looking

482
00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 4: and text him.

483
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,320
Speaker 3: And then I saw him at school and he gave

484
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 3: it to me and I said, don't.

485
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,640
Speaker 4: Ever do this shit again. I was like, please, don't

486
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 4: do this shit and what did you tell you?

487
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 1: What did you tell him?

488
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 3: Like?

489
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:11,240
Speaker 4: No, I was like, I took it, but like, did

490
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,040
Speaker 4: you try not to? I did? I tried not to.

491
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 3: Any insisted he kept giving it to me, and I said, fine,

492
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 3: she's gonna be like.

493
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 1: Those poor black how do you open this?

494
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:20,359
Speaker 5: Is? That?

495
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 4: Is that what it's giving?

496
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 3: I was considering that and then I was like, I'm hyper,

497
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 3: I'm you know what, I was like, Am I overthinking this?

498
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,199
Speaker 1: When you grow up in.

499
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 2: The valley, when you grew up as a black person

500
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,360
Speaker 2: and predominantly white, What the fuck?

501
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,080
Speaker 4: There was no pop?

502
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,080
Speaker 1: It's a little mini.

503
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 4: I thought I was at least gonna do a little

504
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 4: pop when.

505
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 2: You grew up in as a black person in predominantly

506
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 2: white places, you have to think of things like that.

507
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's paranoia or if there's real

508
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 2: life experiences tied to these certain things, like as black

509
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 2: people in white spaces, there's just certain things you just

510
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,120
Speaker 2: can't do well.

511
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 4: They are spoiling the fuck out of my kit. And

512
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:52,640
Speaker 4: I said to him.

513
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 3: I said, you can't do this because I'm not gonna

514
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:58,399
Speaker 3: do that for you. I'm not giving your daughter one

515
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 3: hundred and fifty dollars. I'm a parent that always forgets

516
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 3: to buy the goddamn birthday gift.

517
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 4: Me too.

518
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna be late. We're gonna miss the

519
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 2: whole fucking party. Oh a fucking little genie is not

520
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 2: getting ship and if I don't make it, then my

521
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 2: daughter's gonna freak out.

522
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,120
Speaker 1: I always mean, well though.

523
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 4: It's it's the extra smile, extra big.

524
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 2: Cheers, my love cheers, being innovative, creative, and a design genius.

525
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: I'm so grateful. It's almost the end of the year.

526
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 3: We've had a wonderful year. Take a moment to reflect

527
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 3: on all of the obstacles you've overcome, all of the fun.

528
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 3: You had, all of the joy you experienced and will

529
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 3: continue to experience all.

530
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 4: Of the good fucking, all the good sex or maybe

531
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 4: all that good self fucking. Maybe good, Maybe I had

532
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 4: some good self fucking.

533
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 3: Some people are celibate, like myself, and it's not really

534
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 3: it's it's not because I want to be.

535
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: But.

536
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 4: Here I am for now.

537
00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 1: It's a nature.

538
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 4: It's nature's sole and we're just gonna go.

539
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 1: With it intuitive celibacy.

540
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,119
Speaker 3: But like I said on last week's episode, I've been

541
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,360
Speaker 3: romanticizing myself and I've been really enjoying that.

542
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 4: At some point I am going to need a nigga to.

543
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 3: Do it also, But for now, this is where I'm

544
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 3: at and I'm grateful for that.

545
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 5: Cheers, cheers, mm hmmm.

546
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: Taste of the sweet life?

547
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 4: Is this our?

548
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 6: Oh?

549
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 5: Yeah?

550
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 2: I love the bubbles of champagne on my tongue. I

551
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: guess it doesn't really work like that. Really, those face

552
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 2: doesn't look like that was really pleasurable.

553
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 4: I love the way the bubbles slide down my throat.

554
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: What is this champagne point?

555
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: I love it. It's so good. Nobody us, Hey, guys,

556
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: you want to see us through ASMR.

557
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 3: Ready I've always wanted to do that.

558
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,239
Speaker 4: Stop this does sound I'm sorry, but they do that.

559
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:16,439
Speaker 4: That's what they do. Maybe I can do.

560
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: Honestly, Podcasting is like I'm right in the middle area

561
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 2: of like I really love no, I really do love

562
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 2: what I do, and it is great because I'm just talking.

563
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 2: But there's also this other part of me that's not embarrassed.

564
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: But it's every time I see podcasters sometimes I'm like,

565
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: who the fuck told you to do this? I'm like scrolling,

566
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 2: like who the fuck asked you? And I realized, like

567
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 2: that's me, and I really mean to be like me,

568
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 2: like nobody podcasters literally reporting live from my living room

569
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: to tell you about some shit you don't even ask about. Guys,

570
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 2: guess what you've been asking me about the new shoes

571
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 2: I've been wearing.

572
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,919
Speaker 1: Like nobody asked you. Stop fucking lying. Hey, guys, So

573
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: I'm back to tell you about my new haircare routine.

574
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 4: This is what I think.

575
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: So nobody asked me.

576
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 2: But politically, this is where I'm at, Like what like

577
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 2: fucking news source that nobody asks for. On the contrary,

578
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 2: like it's nice, I guess it's nice to be in

579
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 2: tune with people in the world, But some things are

580
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: just negative. M you really have to filter the information

581
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 2: we do, including us. Sometimes we be saying some bullshit. Look,

582
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: we had a whole.

583
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: Episode talking about we can't adorse the shit we said.

584
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 3: I stand by that I can't. I can't always endorse

585
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 3: the shit I said. Some shit I said probably last week,

586
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: maybe last month, maybe in twenty eighteen. It's probably not

587
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 3: so great right now. It's probably insensitive.

588
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 4: It is.

589
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 2: Some shit is probably insensitive, and some shit is just

590
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 2: fucking ridiculous. And y'all motherfuckers are too sensitive. And I'm

591
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 2: here to say it. We've come in to as time

592
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: with the world where people have lost their fucking shit.

593
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 2: Some shit, the things that you can't say and the

594
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: people you can't say them about.

595
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: Those are bullies.

596
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 4: Stop bullying us.

597
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: Stop bullying the public with your bulliness.

598
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do feel like you should be like

599
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: you should be able to say where the fucking want.

600
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 2: I don't know if everyone needs to see it on

601
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 2: a microphone and a camera, but you know, here we

602
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 2: are fucking scrolling. But some people, it's true, are just

603
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 2: not smart. Actually I correct that most people are just

604
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: not smart. Unfortunately I wish they were smarter. People but

605
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: it could, rent says Bliss.

606
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 3: I was gonna share something in regards to that, but

607
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 3: because I smoked before this, I've now forgotten what it was.

608
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: Sorry, I throw you off.

609
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 2: No, if you haven't realized, you guys, this is a

610
00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 2: generally random episode where we talk about whatever we want,

611
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: just as podcasters tend to do.

612
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 4: It's true we do.

613
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 3: We do do whatever we want. Guess what, guys, what

614
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 3: We're going on tour. We are going on tour and

615
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 3: it's happening next year, in March twenty twenty four. That's

616
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 3: for repeicens. We're going to be New York, Philly, DC.

617
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 2: Chicago, Charlotte, maybe Chicago, I don't know, Charlotte, Texas, Atlanta, Atlanta,

618
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 2: all those places.

619
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 3: Make sure you go check out our website so you

620
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 3: can find out what city will be in so you

621
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 3: can come get high with us and drink champagne with us.

622
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 3: Although I do have to say I have I think

623
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to grow up this tour. I think I'm

624
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: finally going to a tour and realize I'm going to

625
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 3: be a tour on the tour and realize that I

626
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 3: cannot party like a motherfucking rock star. If you listen

627
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 3: to our episode last year called Rockstar Moms or.

628
00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 4: What the fuck do we say? I don't know what

629
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 4: it is? Called right Good, Mom's Gone Wild.

630
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: Rock Rockster Moms, Rockstar Moms.

631
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was hanging on by a thread.

632
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: Well, I have a better plan this year. My plan

633
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 2: this year, because honestly, I couldn't realize. I couldn't understand

634
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: why I was dreading it so hard. I was like,

635
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:21,199
Speaker 2: why is my body cringing every time I think of this?

636
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 2: Because we fucked ourselves up. We got so drunk and

637
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: we were moving so fast. So I think I'm gonna do, like,

638
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 2: we have to do a lot of self care in

639
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 2: January and February.

640
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 4: We're going to do.

641
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going to We're gonna drink a lot of

642
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 2: water so that by the point when we get to

643
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 2: the tour will be so hydrated it'll be fine. Like

644
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 2: when we take so many VI vitamins, were gonna do

645
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 2: so much like hiking and working out. Our bodies are

646
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 2: going to be like the on the pause, like plus plus.

647
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: Plus yeah, the surplus of health. So when we start

648
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: to like just drink for four hour periods each show

649
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: for a week, it will be able to handle it.

650
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: We get a new regimen.

651
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be taking fake shots. I'm just gonna keep

652
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 3: it rode with y'all. When you see me taking that

653
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 3: shot at tequila and it might be ebby on.

654
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 2: When you see me pouring that fucking tequila in her

655
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: mouth from a bottle, you will know that this bitch

656
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 2: is lying.

657
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 4: She's probably right.

658
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: That's why I love our lives. I'm grateful for the balance.

659
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 2: I'm grateful to be able to go retreat.

660
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: And then go.

661
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 2: Tour and then you know, go be a homebody and

662
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 2: make Thanksgiving dinner.

663
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 4: And all not Thanksgiving dinner.

664
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Indigenous People's Day dinner. Oh my god.

665
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: By the time this comes out, you guys, I will

666
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: officially be a sex therapist.

667
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: No, I'm not a sexologist.

668
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 4: I was like, I cannot say that word.

669
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: I'll be a sexologist and it's tantrica.

670
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can take I don't know. I'm

671
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: thinking about it. I want to do a Tantric retreat.

672
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: I think one of our good vibe retreats to be

673
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: like dedicated to Tantra.

674
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: I definitely want to do some couples stuff.

675
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: I'd be more inclined to doing like small groups of couples,

676
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: maybe like three couples at a time.

677
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm open to doing one on ones.

678
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: But I just feel like that's a forty hour week.

679
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm not really a forty hour week kind of girl.

680
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: I did that before. I'm kind of like apart time

681
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 2: full time. Except for Good Moms, I don't, I can't. Yeah,

682
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: Good Moms is a full time, full time overtime, but leisurely.

683
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: I like Good Moms because it feels leisurely. And even

684
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 2: though it's full time, full time overtime. I've had jobs

685
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: where I was like part time and it felt full

686
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: time or full time. I feel like I was gonna die.

687
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

688
00:29:54,520 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 4: I got it? Yep, what and change your mind? Yeah, okay.

689
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 4: I feel like I had something else to share and

690
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 4: I can't remember what it is. I wonder why crazy.

691
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: I told Orlando today that I'm getting kind of tired

692
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: of weed.

693
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 3: I know you're a lying ass, bit you are a

694
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 3: motherfucking lie. We'll see, Okay, how what's the last time

695
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 3: you went without spiking weed for like one two days?

696
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: I can do it for like two days, but about

697
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: a week.

698
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I've never done no no, No, I've never done

699
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: it since I started, since I started smoking in college,

700
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: because I really didn't smoke really in high school. I

701
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 2: started smoking in college. But since then, I don't think

702
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 2: I've ever stopped. That's been like eighteen years, seventeen years

703
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: of smoking weed. So I like most people have, like

704
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 2: most weed smokers will take it like a hiatus.

705
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't really do that.

706
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 2: So I'm like, maybe finally i'm gonna get forty, I'll

707
00:30:58,520 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: be like, fuck it, I'm gonna.

708
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: Take a hiatus.

709
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can just take short ones.

710
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: I've also come to a conclusion that, like I don't know,

711
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 2: maybe some people are not supposed to take hiatosis from

712
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 2: stuff what Some people just do what they do.

713
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 3: That's true, But I think anything in excess needs breaks

714
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 3: period drinking, smoking, eating certain things periods.

715
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 2: But it's up to the person to discern what's an excess,

716
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 2: you know. So people like me, for instance, I can

717
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: drink like wine at night or like I'm not drinking

718
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: every day, but if I go out socially or from

719
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 2: my you know, like I want to have a glass

720
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: of wine at my house. Yes, I drink wine and

721
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: I'll smoke a joint, but I don't feel like it's

722
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: an excess, even though I've never stopped doing either. I

723
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 2: don't feel like it's like over the top. You know,

724
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 2: I think having a drink a day is normal.

725
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 3: Well, I think I don't think that's unnormal. But I

726
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 3: also think that this perspective, no.

727
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: I think you should take a break from all things

728
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: just to make sure you're not addicted.

729
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 3: But I also think that that's also how the most

730
00:31:55,480 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 3: self aware person talks themselves into just saying I don't

731
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: I don't need a break.

732
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 4: I think I'm one of those people that can.

733
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: I mean, but I just I go back.

734
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 4: I think I could make one cigarette a day. It's fine.

735
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 3: I don't need to break. My body's built for this.

736
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: My grandma was a smoker, so I.

737
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: Imagine how many I would ask Grandma's we've been smoking here?

738
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 2: In this fucking tisons one? Have I ever been fully

739
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: clothed and you'd been tit out?

740
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 4: I know what the fuck is happening here, return.

741
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: Returning into each other.

742
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Erica.

743
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: Oh, so we do have we do have an announcement.

744
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: We have an announcement speaking of gratitude and speaking of

745
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: all the work.

746
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: Blood tears sweat and other bodily fluids that we put

747
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 2: into good mom's bad choices. We have an announcement that

748
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 2: are you ready, drum roll please? Those are my thick thighs,

749
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 2: by the way.

750
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 4: So thick thick.

751
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 2: We are going into seasons next year, twenty twenty.

752
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 4: Four, twenty twenty four.

753
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 2: We're not giving you full our episodes every fucking week

754
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: because bitches need a break.

755
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 4: Bitches need a break.

756
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 3: And but what you can do is you can go

757
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: to Patreon because we still will be active over there.

758
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 3: We still will be putting episodes out over there. But

759
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 3: it's time for our era of rest. It's time for

760
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: our era of id eating and tapping into all of

761
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: our gifts so that we can express them and share

762
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 3: them with our tribe.

763
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we've you know, we've we've grown a lot.

764
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 3: We've thought really hard about this because it's been like

765
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: we've been doing this every single week for almost well

766
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 3: it will be six years next year, and it's been amazing.

767
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 3: It's been such a like a journey, such a blessing.

768
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 4: And it is my therapy.

769
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 3: It is like the of so much of the activation

770
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 3: in my life and how I've progressed as a woman

771
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 3: and how I will continue to And I think it's

772
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: time for us to fucking integrate a.

773
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 4: Lot of the things that we've.

774
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: Call imagine a six year integration, Fuck yeah, a lot.

775
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 3: Of the things that we've learned, that we've shared, that

776
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 3: we've experienced, that we've learned from you, Like, it's time

777
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 3: to integrate and really take space to do that and

778
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 3: also be able to give so that we can give.

779
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 4: What we know we need to give to you guys,

780
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 4: to like just.

781
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:41,959
Speaker 3: The the intention and making sure that all the work

782
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 3: that I do feels intentional and that's really what I want,

783
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 3: That's how I want to live my life, and that's why.

784
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 4: We do what we do. Baby.

785
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like.

786
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 2: We have put so much effort, so much attention, so

787
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: much literally blood, sweat and tears into this over the

788
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: last six years, and we've kind of like wanted to

789
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 2: get to a certain point and we have like we're

790
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: really busy, really so busy, And there was a time

791
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 2: I was like I just want to be busy and

792
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: I'm shited on my calendar, and now I'm like, oh

793
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,879
Speaker 2: my God, like can I can I manage this? And

794
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: it's beautiful and it's great, and I'm really grateful for

795
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 2: all of the opportunities and all the things that we do.

796
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, am I breathing? Am I thinking?

797
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 4: Like?

798
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: Am I creative?

799
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 2: Like it gets when you are chasing every week to

800
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: have a satisfying, entertaining, soul filling, fucking informational conversation conversation,

801
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 2: it becomes like a chase. You know, you want everyone

802
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 2: to enjoy it, you want it to be all those

803
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 2: things that I said, And so I'm really looking forward

804
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 2: to the time to just like there's like less not

805
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: less pressure, but yeah, less pressure. You know, there was

806
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: like a an easefulness that was in the first two

807
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: years of our podcast because we wasn't making nobody know

808
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 2: what We're just like.

809
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: Girl, let me tell you what happened, let me tell you.

810
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: And we have changed and evolved so much. Somebody reached

811
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: out to us and a DM recently she was like,

812
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 2: I found your Mama's den and I've been listening to

813
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: you from the beginning, and I'm always like, really that

814
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 2: always makes me feel really honored, But I'm like, damn,

815
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 2: that's a lot of episodes, and also like I.

816
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: Wonder where you're at right now I wonder who I

817
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: am at? You're at? Who am I in this episode? Like, so,

818
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: what do you think of me? It's like talking to girl.

819
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 2: Literally, it's like talking to yourself in the past through

820
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 2: somebody else.

821
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: I didn't say any of these things, like hey.

822
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 4: Bitch, where are we at?

823
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: But she tells me that she was on the episode

824
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: of like I'm dating a married man. Sh She's like,

825
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 1: what's it?

826
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 4: What's what's why? You asked me? Why would you?

827
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: I should tell her? But I did.

828
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 4: She seem to have the last name too.

829
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: I give the whole thing. Five seconds later she was

830
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 1: like founder.

831
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 4: I was like, how you found the wife? Yes? I

832
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 4: was like, leave the woman alone.

833
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 2: She's not gonna go say anything. I was like, damn

834
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: your Yeah, it looks like it. She don't be posting

835
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: him that much, but it looks like it. That new

836
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: baby is bigger. Now of course, I was just like wow, but.

837
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 4: It's hilarious.

838
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: I forgot.

839
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 4: We really be telling all of our tea to like

840
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 4: strangers there. We really be Oh, girl, do you know

841
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 4: this nigga in North Carolina?

842
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: What's his name? She said, what's his name? And then

843
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: she goes she's still wearing her ring. They might not

844
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 1: be together, but she looked like the type, the type

845
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: to show face.

846
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 2: I was like yeah, but I was like, what this

847
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 2: is got out? But also just like it is so

848
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 2: it's so cool to have it. I haven't gone back

849
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 2: and like listen from the beginning. One day I will,

850
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: but like it's just really dope to see how far

851
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: we've come and like how much change we've made and

852
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: like just progress and the six years goes.

853
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: By really quickly.

854
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: But we are literally different bitches, like quite literally the

855
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: same but different, and you know, like we've embarked on

856
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: different journeys. We've started new businesses, We've been successful at

857
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: those businesses.

858
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: You know, like I'm about to finish school. I have

859
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: a whole new trade.

860
00:37:58,680 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: You know, Like when I started doing this, I was

861
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm still a licensed sitition, but I was doing lashes

862
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 2: and brow tattoo and like you're doing soundles and we're healing.

863
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 2: We're doing healing retreats in the jungle and like touching

864
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,760
Speaker 2: each other's chests and eye gazing.

865
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've given ourselves permission to evolve in whatever the

866
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: fucking form it was and just said, okay, fuck it,

867
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 3: I feel like doing these free form evolve, free form evolution,

868
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 3: not a lot of structure, but somehow it's all going

869
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 3: to make sense in the end.

870
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: And it does, Yeah, it does, and it really does.

871
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: And it's like, but that's the beautiful thing about having

872
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 2: a friend that having friend that friends that feed feed

873
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: that part of you, that creative part, because it is limitless.

874
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 2: And because we've been limitless and allowed ourselves to be

875
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: free form, we've done a lot of cool shit because

876
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: we're like, fuck it, no one's gonna tell us now.

877
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: And and I think we have beat a lot of

878
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: odds because we've said a lot of shit we didn't endorse,

879
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: and we've probably showed a lot of too many titties

880
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: on Instagram. And but we wrote a book and we

881
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 2: designed the cover, and we've open to studio and it's not.

882
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 1: The dining room.

883
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 2: And I think it's just really dope, you know, to

884
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: I don't even know what it ran.

885
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 7: Why when I started talking about I have no idea, Well,

886
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 7: we started talking about just us going into oh season

887
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 7: and taking breaks, yeah, and resting and being able to

888
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 7: recharge and and give back what we know and we

889
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 7: want to do.

890
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 3: And we have so many ideas for the show, and

891
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 3: so many things that need time and need space to

892
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 3: really develop and unwind and grow and blossom, and it's

893
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 3: it is. It's been challenging to do that having a

894
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 3: show every single.

895
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 4: Week, and we still will have episodes.

896
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 3: It's just going to be it's going to be a

897
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 3: little different, but they're going to be on Patreon.

898
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: They're more personal and and I feel like our our audience,

899
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: hopefully you've grown with us and if you're just joining

900
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 2: us that you know, this is the beginning of your

901
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: growing journey, your evolution, and this you know you can

902
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: go back and see, like it's necessary and it's it's hard,

903
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 2: but when you have like a tribe surrounding you, it's good.

904
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: So I'm really excited to be able to like just

905
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: put more of our creativity and our us our souls

906
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: into this again and intent with intention and.

907
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm excited too because I feel like stepping

908
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 3: and creating that space will also give me more space

909
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 3: to even connect with like the tribe on Patreon and

910
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 3: on Discord in a more intentional way, because there's that's

911
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 3: going to be our space, Like I'm not really trying

912
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,959
Speaker 3: to be on social media, like during those three months

913
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 3: either I'm trying to like withdraw hibernate, you know, and

914
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 3: and like I want the time to really be able

915
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 3: to like think through and execute simple ideas that I

916
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 3: have and I don't have the space right now to

917
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 3: do that. And that's been good, and that's one, okay,

918
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: But I'm excited for us to transition into this and

919
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 3: give you guys the bombist fucking seasons you've ever mother

920
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,760
Speaker 3: fucking had, because one thing about us is we always

921
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 3: go and bring the guests and the heat and the conversation.

922
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 3: Like that's just the magic of what happens when people

923
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: sit on this couch, you know, and really being able

924
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,760
Speaker 3: to really focus on who are those people? And also

925
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 3: our friendship because I feel like, honestly, like I'm excited

926
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 3: to do more episodes with just us, Like I feel

927
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: like that also is healing our friendship absolutely, you know,

928
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 3: it created the friendship, I know. And so I think

929
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 3: now that I'm thinking about it, like I'm like, we've

930
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,720
Speaker 3: had a lot of people on this couch lately, a lot,

931
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 3: you know.

932
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: We're in the beginning, there was a lot of just us, Yeah,

933
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 1: and it might be time to revisit that. Yeah, Yeah,

934
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: I think.

935
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: Truly the magic of our PODCAS has started us getting

936
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: to know each other and like kind of falling in

937
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: love with each other sounds okay, falling in love with

938
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 2: each other and falling in love with the freedom that

939
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 2: our friendship provided for one another and the safety and

940
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 2: as we've grown, I think there's this idea that we've

941
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: had to outsource to keep people interested, where in fact,

942
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: like the first like influx of like ride or die,

943
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 2: like our people are the people who fuck with us,

944
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 2: and Lord knows we're not for everybody, but yeah, I'm

945
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 2: excited that, especially because when you're moving so quickly as

946
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 2: friends and as business partners, you're moving quickly, and I think,

947
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 2: you know, us having you know, being moms, having businesses,

948
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 2: chasing a dream together, there's definitely been space for us

949
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 2: to like not grow apart because we're so fucking close,

950
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: but like just for there to be not enough room

951
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 2: to nurture what was like the beginning bones of this

952
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: to begin with. And I am I'm excited to like

953
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,760
Speaker 2: just get back into that and like deep in, deep

954
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: in the relationship because I do realize, like when things

955
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,280
Speaker 2: come up between us, you know, I think just because

956
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 2: it's human we're like, oh my god, like we have

957
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: so much on the line, you know, there's we have

958
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: so many things tied to another. There's like a not

959
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: a fragility around us, like having conflict. But it's delicate,

960
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: and I think we've always known that. And because we

961
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 2: didn't start friends, there's always been this like, oh my god,

962
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: what if we get in a fight, you know, because

963
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 2: we don't really get into a lot of fights, so

964
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 2: there's been you know, when you start to get assets

965
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 2: attached to that friendship, there's even more like it's even

966
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 2: more scary to have differences or go through a time

967
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,240
Speaker 2: and we have to talk about it. So I think

968
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 2: that it's going to provide a different, like a deepening

969
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: of our friendship because I think we now really understand

970
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 2: that no matter what, bitch, we're family, you know, and

971
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: it's like it requires a different.

972
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 3: Well, our only real job is to make sure our

973
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 3: friendship is healthy and everything else willow full flow because

974
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: we have that entity that we've created and that is

975
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 3: karmic that it's like when we feed something like a baby,

976
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 3: like imagine like raising a baby in the most positive

977
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,720
Speaker 3: way in the most positive environment, Like what does.

978
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 4: That look like? And I feel like it could a

979
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:23,919
Speaker 4: lot of times.

980
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 3: Is our relationships with our friends and women, and like

981
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 3: the way we are able to curate that and really

982
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 3: have the conversation and sit down and take care of

983
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 3: each other and take care of it whatever it is,

984
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 3: whether it's a disagreement or uncomfortability, We're going to take

985
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 3: care of it, you know, and not be.

986
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: Afraid of tiptoe around anything.

987
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and be honest and say the things that are

988
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 2: difficult to say and that you don't want to hear,

989
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 2: and you know that the person doesn't want to hear,

990
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 2: and like sit through relationships and sit through like someone

991
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 2: doing something to themselves and you're like, what the fuck

992
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 2: is wrong with you? You know, and still being like

993
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 2: still knowing that overall, the overarching most important thing.

994
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 4: Is so yeah, well, cheers to that. I don't have

995
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 4: no more champagne, but cheers.

996
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: And then it give me some to sixty more years

997
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: of friendship.

998
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 4: Darling, until we die.

999
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: Even then it's a real definition of right to die.

1000
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 3: It's gonna be me, you, Orlando, and whoever I die

1001
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 3: with the children, and whoever I kill on the same

1002
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 3: day I die, he'll be there too.

1003
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: You die, I'll die together. Oh my god, but it

1004
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: is it is we are that tight. Like I know,

1005
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: you think we're our friend group is strangely tight, but

1006
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 2: we are.

1007
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 4: I mean, I love I love our friend group. I

1008
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 4: just know like it is.

1009
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: Most people, it's like a bit much.

1010
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's ours and that's how we nurture that, and

1011
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 3: that's how we care for that. That's how we care

1012
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 3: for each other, and that's how we make sure or

1013
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 3: that were checking it. We're checking in and handling and

1014
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 3: taking care of it, you know. And this month was

1015
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: a confirmation of that for me when we went to

1016
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 3: Joshua Tree, Like, I was like, damn, you know, we

1017
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 3: really take care of one another. Hair.

1018
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 4: This is a fucking family. This is a real family.

1019
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 3: This is not just like some friends hanging out like

1020
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 3: some family shit here, you know, and like the family

1021
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 3: ship that maybe you didn't get from your family.

1022
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 2: Right, it's like it's oh shit, feels like when oh,

1023
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 2: we're caring for you and you can just be yourself

1024
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 2: with people that love you, you know. So I was like,

1025
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: this is the most adult, like most responsible fun I've

1026
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: ever experienced, so.

1027
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: Much responsible fun. But it's wild too, It's wild, it's

1028
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:44,720
Speaker 1: it's responsible wild.

1029
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 3: There's like, yeah, there's not a lot of like, yeah,

1030
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 3: you can do whatever the fuck you want.

1031
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: You can literally do whatever the fuck you want, and

1032
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 2: no one's going to be judging you like that bitch

1033
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 2: is crazy.

1034
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 4: Like we probably just say it to your face.

1035
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: Probably absolutely and behind your back.

1036
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

1037
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,919
Speaker 2: Well, I'm grateful for you, and I'm really looking forward

1038
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 2: to next year and I'm really looking.

1039
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 4: Forward to it.

1040
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: And we have a lot of ship in store, Like

1041
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 2: we are over here always conjuring, and we've been conjuring

1042
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: for a long time.

1043
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 8: If you know, if you just just make things, just

1044
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 8: wait and see, wait and see.

1045
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: There's a lot of there's a lot of beautiful things

1046
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 2: happening for us next year and for good moms.

1047
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: And I'm excited. What about we pulled a cart?

1048
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 3: We did pull a card. Okay, what is the affirmation?

1049
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 3: What is today's affirmation? Be bold with your be bold with.

1050
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 2: Rest before, be free for the ancestorsy and be bold,

1051
00:47:59,440 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 2: be free.

1052
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 3: Wait, god, it was going so well in my brain

1053
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 3: and speaking, and then it all went downhill from there.

1054
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes it doesn't go.

1055
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 8: Okay, you deserve to rest, You deserve to rest, You

1056
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 8: deserve to rest and remember that there's progress in the rest.

1057
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you laughing about?

1058
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 3: If you'all can hear Orlanda, I don't know if you

1059
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 3: can hear him, but he just makes fun of us

1060
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 3: throughout the episode.

1061
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 4: I see him. Well, we'll catch you guys next week.

1062
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 4: Make sure you do the tarot. Oh fuck, sorry, my bad.

1063
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: I'm trying to pull it up. My funds chipping one day.

1064
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 3: You know what, you know what's gonna happen during these

1065
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 3: sea off seasons.

1066
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 4: I'm gonna learn bitty Taro. I am going to have

1067
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 4: the line. I'm going to take a I'm taking me

1068
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 4: a loco Yala's. I'm taking Miyala's tarot class, and I

1069
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 4: why is my phone doing this? This is okay? What

1070
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 4: was it? Biddy? What? Okay?

1071
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four, we're coming back as Taro priestess.

1072
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 3: You're never gonna see these phones again, you mark my words,

1073
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 3: You'll never.

1074
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna be Taro goddesses, were Tearo goddesses.

1075
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 4: Maybe if you learn half the deck. I learned half

1076
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 4: the deck, then we can split.

1077
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: It thirty six thirty six. We can handle that.

1078
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 4: That's more reasonable, right, okay.

1079
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 1: I can only taro with my partner.

1080
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 3: Sorry she's not here. I've gotta call it one sec Damn. Actually,

1081
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:40,720
Speaker 3: I took all those other cards for this reading.

1082
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: I only do it from half a tick.

1083
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 4: It's a special technique. This is my lineage anyway.

1084
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 3: The Night of wands upright energy, passion, inspired action, adventure, impulsiveness.

1085
00:49:58,400 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 4: I like this.

1086
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 3: While the the Age of Ones marks the initial spark

1087
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 3: of a new idea, the Night of Ones shows the

1088
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 3: actual pursuit of that idea. When this card appears in

1089
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 3: a tarot reading, you are charged up with energy, passion, motivation,

1090
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 3: and enthusiasm, and you channel that energy through your inspired action.

1091
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 3: You have a clear vision about what you want to create,

1092
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 3: and fueled and create and fueled by your passion and inspiration,

1093
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 3: you are now moving forward with leaps and bounds, towards

1094
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 3: your vision into reality. This card is your sign to

1095
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 3: go for it. In this light, the Night of Ones

1096
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,720
Speaker 3: gives you the feeling you can take take on the world.

1097
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: You are so committed to your vision and purpose that

1098
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: you will stop at nothing to bring it to life.

1099
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 3: As you pursue your goals, your confidence skyrockets and you

1100
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 3: realize that your potential is limitless.

1101
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 4: You can do anything. Wow?

1102
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 1: Is that what I said today?

1103
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 4: You can do anything anything?

1104
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 1: You can do anything? Literally, what's that?

1105
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