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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for joining us again. We're so excited to

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Speaker 2: out our past episode. Susan, how many great guests have

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Speaker 1: Countless. I'm having a ball.

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Speaker 2: We're having so much fun answering your questions and giving

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Speaker 2: our opinion, because Susan and I are not short of opinions,

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Speaker 2: so keep those coming to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: We have some great questions today and we're gonna get

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Speaker 2: to those soon.

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Speaker 3: But first we have some special.

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Speaker 1: Guests, and I have the pleasure of introducing those special

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Speaker 1: guests two of my most favorite people, Bachelor Nations couple

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Speaker 1: and soon to be married Christina and Branden. Yes, they're

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Speaker 1: here with us today.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: How are you hello?

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Speaker 4: How are you good? Good to see you again.

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Speaker 5: I gotta say, both your voices are made to be

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Speaker 5: on like a podcast for radio or something.

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Speaker 3: Wait, I thought you were going to say made to

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Speaker 3: be on television.

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Speaker 4: Don't even get us started.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I was just I was just sitting there

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Speaker 5: and I was just like I was encapsulated by a

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Speaker 5: guys talking and I was like wow, I was like

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Speaker 5: I could listen to this all day.

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Speaker 1: So, Biden, the last time I saw you, you told

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Speaker 1: me the story about her nails not being painted in

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Speaker 1: the Day of the Golden.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 2: You remember that he took you for a for a manicure.

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Speaker 3: A look at those things? See it? And the ring?

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Speaker 2: It's so speaking of rings, you guys, spill what are

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Speaker 2: the details? I want details, wedding details.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 5: So we're kind of taking we're taking a second real

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Speaker 5: quick for the wedding, for the wedding planning. I have

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Speaker 5: some family stuff that we're kind of just trying to

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Speaker 5: get that's trying to get situated before we go and

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Speaker 5: set a date so within the next year.

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Speaker 6: We'll have a better understanding of that.

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Speaker 4: That's a lot you guys.

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Speaker 3: Trust me.

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Speaker 2: I gave my daughter the choice of a big wedding

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Speaker 2: or a down payment for a house, and she foolishly

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Speaker 2: chose the big wedding.

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Speaker 3: It's just most of them do yeah, yeah, And I'm.

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Speaker 6: Just gonna want to give me.

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Speaker 3: I'll marry you.

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Speaker 2: I was just going to say, here's the p S announcement, Susan,

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Speaker 2: make your bids to marry them right now.

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Speaker 1: They know already.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you marry us right now?

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Speaker 3: I could do that.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, we go back and forth like there's been there's

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Speaker 5: been moments where we've all been together in the car,

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Speaker 5: just met her and Blakely and we're like, let's go

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Speaker 5: to the courthouse right now, right now, let's do this.

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Speaker 6: And I think the I think the biggest thing that's.

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Speaker 5: Been kind of just uh, keeping us back is just

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Speaker 5: like wanting our wanting all our families.

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Speaker 6: To be there.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can always just have the party. That's why

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Speaker 1: I get married, And that's where's the balance because wait,

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Speaker 1: I've got it. Wait, I've got it, Susan. Yes, you're

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Speaker 1: going to marry them on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Then right here on Golden Hour you're going to do it,

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Speaker 2: and then Brandon and Christina you're going to have a

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Speaker 2: blowout wedding celebration where of course Susan and I will

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Speaker 3: What do you think are you in commitment? Let's go.

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Speaker 7: I mean, as long as Blakely's here. Also, that's our

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Speaker 7: that's our thing. We're like every time we have the opportunity,

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Speaker 7: she's seven. She is really dead set on having a

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Speaker 7: miniature same virgin dress that I do. And she wants

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Speaker 7: to walk out after me. And so I'm trying to

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Speaker 7: tell her, you know, you have.

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Speaker 1: To go before me, honey.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, say honey, your time will come. Yeah, her time

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Speaker 2: will come in you know whatever, forty years, thirty years.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's got to wait, she's got to wait

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Speaker 2: a hot minute.

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Speaker 1: Well, Tessy and I just can fly on down. We'll

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Speaker 1: come to the house. We'll do the ceremony there, nobody

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Speaker 1: will know, and then you can make your announcement in

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Speaker 1: your party.

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Speaker 4: I mean think I love that. That's an idea.

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Speaker 3: It's a great idea.

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Speaker 6: I mean, well, definitely definitely think about that.

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Speaker 3: Braiden's like, what did I just sign up for?

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Speaker 6: Here?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 5: I just I would love it, Like there's so much

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Speaker 5: there's such a big part, and that would love that.

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Speaker 6: Like I'm a very like spur the Phone kind of guy.

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Speaker 6: I love that.

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Speaker 2: But you know, oh, really, because you got married on

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Speaker 2: the at the Golden Wedding really.

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Speaker 1: Heay, wait, why don't they throw a wedding for you even?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I mean there's another idea.

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Speaker 6: There's another idea. There's so much idea.

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Speaker 2: Now, I mean, I just I mean, listen, we're really

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Speaker 2: going out there. Why don't you have Susan and I

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Speaker 2: be your matrons of honor?

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Speaker 1: No, I have to perform.

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Speaker 4: You just yeah, you go both.

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Speaker 5: You have to wear you have to wear half a

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Speaker 5: dress half like half of the I've seen that.

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Speaker 1: There's some good artists out there that can handle that.

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Speaker 1: For us. We're just at week the Big c m As,

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Speaker 1: and you saw a lot of other people that you

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Speaker 3: I was there.

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Speaker 2: It was so great seeing you guys in Nashville and all.

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Speaker 3: Did you just have a great time?

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Speaker 4: Oh, we had an amazing time.

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Speaker 7: Unfortunately he was only able to come the one day,

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Speaker 7: but that was like the day to be there, and

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Speaker 7: that's when you were there, and I mean you, I

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Speaker 7: didn't expect anything less, but oh my gosh, I was

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Speaker 7: trying to keep up with you. And like people say

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Speaker 7: that we have a lot of energy, and I'm like,

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Speaker 7: oh my goodness, like she doesn't have a party.

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Speaker 4: I ever doubted it, but still.

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Speaker 2: I mean, well, you do only go around one, so

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Speaker 2: you know, you gotta get it your best bet. Did

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Speaker 2: you like seeing all your other vatsor nation folks.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I mean that was the first time I

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Speaker 5: actually got to meet Kelsey I think, and uh, and

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Speaker 6: And I got to meet Jen for the first time.

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Speaker 6: So I mean it was all.

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Speaker 5: It was all really cool to get to hang out

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Speaker 2: Did you guys go down? Did you guys go down?

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Speaker 2: I can't remember for the you know, for the front

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Speaker 4: The yes, yes, yes, yes.

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Speaker 3: Was that just incredible?

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Speaker 4: I mean you know, you took like so many photos

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Speaker 4: for us. I know, I mean we were there at

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Speaker 4: the front. We were at the front and it was

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Speaker 4: so sweet.

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Speaker 2: You're just like, I mean I may have had a

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Speaker 4: No, we were dancing with you. We had a great time.

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Speaker 6: I remember it.

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Speaker 5: I literally I have to say, like Jelly Roll came

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Speaker 5: on and when he started playing, I actually started crying

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Speaker 5: like that was I'm okay, just the message of this.

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Speaker 5: So I've I just relate to it a lot with

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Speaker 5: just my personal life and you know, things going on

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Speaker 5: that I've experienced with family and loved ones, and it's

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Speaker 5: just like when you hear the message he has, it

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Speaker 5: just had such it was so much love.

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Speaker 6: Involved in you know.

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Speaker 3: Just that is like I said.

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Speaker 6: And it's just beautiful. And so I was just like, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, did you know his story, Brandon? Did you know

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Speaker 5: So I've been a fan of Jelly I mean me

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Speaker 5: and my family. It was crazy like we went to

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Speaker 5: like he came to play in this uh, this big

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Speaker 5: It was like one of those warehouses type thing. And

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Speaker 5: there was probably like two three hundred people at this

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Speaker 5: It was like a very small like standing shoulders shoulder

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Speaker 5: was just such a beautiful experience then, and his message

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Speaker 5: and his music meant so much to me then, and

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Speaker 5: then you know, being able to see him now and

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Speaker 5: how he's grown was just it was beautiful.

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Speaker 2: So I love life can change for anybody. That's his message.

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Speaker 2: Anybody can improve their life and turn it around.

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Speaker 5: And I love the fact that he never lost sight

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Speaker 5: of who he was the entiresign too, you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean, because fame changes people, it does, and it's

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Speaker 5: just like he stayed, he stayed true to.

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Speaker 6: Himself, and it was like, I think that's beautiful.

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Speaker 5: It's like he's about he's about what he's about and

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Speaker 5: he loves people and that's beautiful.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's always been I mean, he's from my neck

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Speaker 7: of the woods and he's around all the time and

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Speaker 7: for years and I was actually like a head caterer,

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Speaker 7: almost a decade ago now like forever ago. And he

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Speaker 7: and so I catered at his wedding and I just

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Speaker 7: remember like he would be uh, he would always like

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Speaker 7: be vlogging. He had his little whole video and he

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Speaker 7: was just so nice, Like you know, I was there

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Speaker 7: a staff and he's just like goes above and beyond

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Speaker 7: to just help out and moving chairs at his own wedding.

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Speaker 3: And I'm does what show you though?

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Speaker 2: That is what you just said Christina to me, When

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Speaker 2: people show you who they really are and if the

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Speaker 2: fame changes them, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, it says something I think authentic. That's right, and

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Speaker 1: your journey will be a lot more fun. Yes, So

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Speaker 1: I have a big question, guys. Is there one in

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation a couple that you guys would double date with?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 8: Of course, is that us.

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Speaker 1: Stop there? There's another part but or that you would

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Speaker 1: consider relationship goals? Like who do you admire? Who would

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Speaker 7: Far as like wanting to go on a double date,

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Speaker 2: Because you know, in Nashville, don't think it was it

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Speaker 5: So my little sister and my mom came into town

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Speaker 6: And I'm telling you God that you would love this.

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Speaker 2: Hey, listen, I've got my I've got my boots and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I got the boots.

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Speaker 6: Next time.

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Speaker 5: Next time will plan and we'll get you on the stage.

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Speaker 4: What did I do?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: We listen, We we always do, Susan, I always do

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Speaker 3: Will you guys join us on it?

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Speaker 2: Even if they didn't accept the date.

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Speaker 1: They better not accept the date, but you want to know?

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Speaker 6: I mean we'd have a whole other issues.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, makes it different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, So let's just assume they said no.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, Brady, have you told Christina yet that I

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 7: I was wondering whenever I'd forgotten that you were actually

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Speaker 4: I'm like, excuse me, what did I mean?

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Speaker 3: No, I was in bed.

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Speaker 2: I love it when you guys go live, and so

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Speaker 2: I tuned in that thought, Oh shit, I'm in my

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Speaker 2: hell no, hell no.

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Speaker 1: You never looked like something that you looked.

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Speaker 7: Amazing, And I am just I was so excited that

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Speaker 6: I would want to know. I mean, I I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's weird for me, like I tell her, like sometimes

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Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, maybe I know you got it. I

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Speaker 2: Can look the men you all you want, as long

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, hey, and I just I mean for me,

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Speaker 1: To try somebody bred if somebody asked her out, would

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Speaker 7: I mean, you know, I think at this point, it's

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Speaker 4: How is it happening?

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Speaker 7: Because if it's online or something, I think we both

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Speaker 3: Isn't there a thing not with you? Guys? But isn't

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Speaker 4: We're not doing that, but I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: And I believe it.

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Speaker 4: It's always like running the block. And he was working.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like can I get your number?

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Speaker 7: And I'm just like, no, I just told you how

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Speaker 6: I no, no, I don't really get offended by it.

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Speaker 5: I like, for me, like on top of it all too,

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Speaker 1: Like is your dad alive?

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's what I want to know, Christina.

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Speaker 2: I want to know what was it like dating, uh,

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: They both know.

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Speaker 4: So that's a good question.

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Speaker 7: He's very he's I yeah, and you said earlier you

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm meaning I, yeah, I was.

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Speaker 4: So I think I missed a lot.

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Speaker 7: Luckily, and in my you know, from the stories that

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Speaker 7: fair share of dates. I think, I don't know, it

450
00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,920
Speaker 7: would always be like online, so it wasn't any kind of.

451
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Speaker 4: Like blind dates or anything like that.

452
00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: And what does green have that some of those men

453
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Speaker 1: that you met or dated.

454
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Speaker 3: Or your ex husband or your ex partner. I want

455
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Speaker 3: to know how.

456
00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:41,359
Speaker 4: Night and day.

457
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Speaker 3: I mean, keep it, you know, keep.

458
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Speaker 4: I got married at nineteen. Yeah, oh you didn't, Okay,

459
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:55,520
Speaker 4: well hm hmm. There. I think I think the whole.

460
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Speaker 7: So I'm from Nashville, I'm Southern, and I think that

461
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Speaker 7: that is something I don't look for a man now

462
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,199
Speaker 7: like that. I realized that would be the difference. And

463
00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,919
Speaker 7: so I think, like the whole, like just the energy

464
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,199
Speaker 7: that we had, like from the start, is really what

465
00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,040
Speaker 7: just I was attracted to, Like the energy that we

466
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,400
Speaker 7: had together, and I think that you know, you can

467
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 7: you can look at someone and think that they'd be

468
00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,919
Speaker 7: a great partner and a great husband or whatever, but

469
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:21,760
Speaker 7: maybe not for you.

470
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Speaker 4: And I think us together was what was so different.

471
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Speaker 1: I don't know that wasn't And how's it feel being

472
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:34,119
Speaker 1: a step in? You come right in and you're a dad.

473
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Speaker 6: It's been one of the hardest, hardest things I've ever

474
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Speaker 6: had to do in my life. I love it. I

475
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:39,240
Speaker 6: absolutely love it.

476
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Speaker 5: I absolutely love Blakely, but it's it's insane because it's

477
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,439
Speaker 5: there's no break.

478
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Speaker 9: I how old is She's seven and she's a bit

479
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 9: of twenty or every bit of thirteen, And it is.

480
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Speaker 6: Like, I mean everything is just why why, oh, you

481
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:02,159
Speaker 6: don't have to do that?

482
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Speaker 3: But you know why, yeah, why should you get to

483
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,159
Speaker 3: tell her what to do? Like? Why no?

484
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 5: I And and the thing is, I mean she but

485
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 5: I want to cut her some slack too though, because

486
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 5: she she really does like accommodate well, like she has

487
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,000
Speaker 5: been like she listens very well. I Mean, there's been

488
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 5: some growing pains and some stuff that we've had to

489
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Speaker 5: navigate and go through.

490
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Speaker 4: It's adjustment.

491
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Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, at the end

492
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 5: of the day when it comes to me and her,

493
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 5: it's like I want to show her that like for me,

494
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Speaker 5: like I mean, just in general, my biggest love of

495
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,080
Speaker 5: language is hanging hanging out and spending time together. And

496
00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 5: so it's like quality time is my biggest love language.

497
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Speaker 5: And it's like I want to show her that. It's like, hey,

498
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 5: like I will always be here for you to hang out.

499
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,399
Speaker 5: I'll always be here to like listen, I'll always be

500
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Speaker 5: here to spend time with you. Yeah, and like show

501
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Speaker 5: her that I'll be consistent in that area. And so

502
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Speaker 5: like I've tried to be consistent in those areas and.

503
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Speaker 3: Just okay, I'm going to cry. I'm going to cry.

504
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Speaker 3: What you're saying for her?

505
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Speaker 1: Has she chilled with you? Has she comfortable?

506
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 5: Now?

507
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Speaker 1: Do you see a difference then from the beginning when

508
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Speaker 1: you first.

509
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Speaker 6: Art undred percent?

510
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Speaker 5: I mean it's like I can have a conversation with

511
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 5: her and I mean she'll give me sass and she's

512
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Speaker 5: not she's not going to humans.

513
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 4: Yeah's and she's my offspring.

514
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 2: But what you said is so true because I know

515
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: you know this. Susan married my son and his wife

516
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 2: back in March, and she has his wife has three

517
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 2: sons from a from another marriage. Yeah, so they have

518
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 2: four between them, his daughter, my granddaughter who's five, and

519
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 2: and then these other three. So I'm a step grandmother now,

520
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 2: you know, I just inherited three more. But what you

521
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 2: said is so true, and I don't think I learned

522
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 2: it early enough. Children learn by what they see you do,

523
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: not by what you tell them. And I mean, really,

524
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Speaker 2: it gives me goosebumps what you just said. The fact

525
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 2: that you spend quality time with her and she's going

526
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 2: to see that you're there. It doesn't matter if you

527
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 2: tell her you're going to be there, it's what you're doing.

528
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 2: And that just I mean, you just get an A

529
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Speaker 2: on your forehead for stepdad. That is amazing.

530
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Speaker 3: I mean I loved you before, now I even love

531
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Speaker 3: you more.

532
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: Now what are we going to do with them?

533
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 3: What are you going to do with them?

534
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: How's it feel's relationship being so public? Like do you

535
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: wish you had some privacy as far as your family life?

536
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 6: And well, Blakely, Blakely can't stand it. It's so funny.

537
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 4: It's new to learn. Actually from her, I'm still not sold.

538
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 7: That's how she's all like, you know, she thinks she

539
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 7: has a YouTube channel since she's for she anytime there's cammeras,

540
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 7: she's like hey guys and just I'm like who She's like, she's.

541
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Speaker 1: Learning from what she sees.

542
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 5: She loves the attention, so she loves attention.

543
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 4: But when it's it'll be out and about.

544
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,239
Speaker 5: When people will come up to us and be like

545
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Speaker 5: oh Bread and Christina like hi, nice to meet you,

546
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Speaker 5: and it's like, Blake, it's like why I was coming

547
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 5: up to you?

548
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 6: Why can't we have family?

549
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 4: She's jealous.

550
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 1: I don't think that she's it's not about her.

551
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 7: She's like okay, and she'll like hop into Like for

552
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,239
Speaker 7: a while, she would grab the camera like I'll take it,

553
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 7: and everyone's like, thank you.

554
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 4: So much, and so you take it. You take one,

555
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 4: and people are I'm.

556
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 7: Like, okay, you can get your friend to take it also.

557
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 7: But now you know she's I think she's likely not

558
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 7: coming up to me.

559
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: Do you guys like bring her in and say and

560
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: this is like yeah.

561
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 7: Absolutely yeah, And I'm like, well she wants to. I

562
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 7: don't want to make it, you know, push it on it.

563
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 7: But I'm like, if you want to hop in, do it.

564
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 7: And I don't really ask the people I'm like, you

565
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 7: know you might, all right, so I have I.

566
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Speaker 2: Have another question you guys. Obviously you know Bachelor in

567
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,400
Speaker 2: Paradise and then that was over and you all reached out,

568
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: and but I'm curious because Susan and I talk about this,

569
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 2: I think people I don't think people misjudge me and

570
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: have different opinion of me than who I really am.

571
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 2: What about you, guys, Branden, do you feel like you've

572
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 2: been you know, misunderstood the things that people read online?

573
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 2: Like has that affected you? What do you think about

574
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 2: what people say or do not even pay attention.

575
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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, at the end of the day, people

576
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 5: can make people make their opinions based off the information

577
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 5: they have. And so it's like when I look at

578
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 5: the information they had of you know, what they saw me.

579
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,719
Speaker 5: I mean, you only see such a small part of us.

580
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 5: You only see such a small part of any of us.

581
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 5: And so it's like people aren't going to see my

582
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 5: day to day interactions. They're not going to see how I,

583
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 5: you know, treat people on the daily. They're not going

584
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 5: to see how I am with my family. They're not

585
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 5: going to see all those things that are important factors

586
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 5: in determining who a person is. So it's like for me,

587
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 5: I think people are quick to make make like full

588
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 5: opinions on our character and like stuff like that. But

589
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 5: it's like, I mean, it's but you know, that's that's

590
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 5: part of the fun of the show. And so I mean,

591
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 5: by all, by all means power to them if they

592
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 5: want to do that, Like I like, you know, they

593
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 5: can do it, but I don't really think it has

594
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 5: any sort of weight with me, just because it's like

595
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 5: I know who I am, Like I know all the

596
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 5: aspects of myself. I just saw which watched this movie

597
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 5: last night, The Inside Out to or a couple of

598
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 5: nights ago, and it's just like it's like inside out too,

599
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 5: do you know what I'm talking about.

600
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Speaker 6: It's like the emotions.

601
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: Another inside out, because I feel like I.

602
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 4: Just came to the new one just came out.

603
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 3: I saw the first one, not the second one.

604
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 4: There. Yeah, they're they're both good the same thing.

605
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 5: There was a concept though in there that I thought

606
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 5: was so beautiful and it's like we are like who

607
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 5: we are as an accumulation of like all our experiences,

608
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 5: and it was just like, I mean, that might be

609
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 5: reading a little bit deep to, but I just.

610
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 6: Like it maybe.

611
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 4: Seriously money end of it if it's so funny.

612
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 7: We're all there just like on the couch, were just

613
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 7: like crying and the credits are rolling and we're like

614
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 7: like we go to bed time and they're like, okay,

615
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 7: so let's talk about because you always like, you know,

616
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 7: what was your favorite or what did you learn or whatever.

617
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 4: It is and kind of talk about whatever it is.

618
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 7: But you watched, especially with Blakely, and you know, because

619
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Speaker 7: we have their opinion and apparently I'm not allowed to

620
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 7: talk on the movies on now I realize he's like

621
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Speaker 7: to stop stop explaining it like.

622
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Speaker 2: Doing the movie miss Yeah, Cardinal rule, Cardinal rule, Christine,

623
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Speaker 2: no talking.

624
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Speaker 3: I know that is zip bit.

625
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 4: What we need to do there, but like, okay, we

626
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 4: take a moment. Oh practice, I need some work with it.

627
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 7: But we came upstairs and then we got ready for

628
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,719
Speaker 7: bed and then we both like then we both just

629
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 7: like start spilling our opinions like we didn't even plan

630
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 7: it or anything. We're just like we thought it was

631
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 7: so deep we got and don't even know deeper level.

632
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 7: And he's like, yeah, one hundred percent, I agree, and

633
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 7: I thought about that, but then also think about how

634
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 7: I said, well here like wow, and I'm like, this

635
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 7: is like aim towards five year olds.

636
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 4: But we got deep with it.

637
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 3: And Susan, you know what they're doing.

638
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 2: You know what they're doing with us jealous Well that's

639
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: always I mean she's got her hand on her shoulder.

640
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 2: I can put my hand on my head, uh whatever.

641
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 2: But we we talk all the time about communication and everything.

642
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 3: I can just see you guys.

643
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 2: People can't see you, but you you physically communicate with

644
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 2: each other. You're clearly verbally communicating with each other, and

645
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 2: that's what makes a good strong relationship.

646
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 1: I think you're going to make it.

647
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 4: Yes, we were wondering.

648
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 7: We're gonna ask you No, I absolutely agree and believe

649
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 7: it or not, I in relationships in the past.

650
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 4: I mean you had the question before.

651
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 7: I think I didn't realize you know how important that is.

652
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 4: And I tend to actually bottle up a lot answer.

653
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 4: You can't absolutely notices when I am.

654
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: During the movie Christina, you can bottle it up all right.

655
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 3: So I have a question.

656
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can ask this. Are you

657
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: gonna have do you guys want more kids?

658
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 6: Yeah?

659
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think you know we have to for sure.

660
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 7: Oh no, no, no, excid not that, yeah, no, I

661
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 7: mean the.

662
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: Fact that you guys communicate so well, and Braden, I

663
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: have to hand it to you. You are so open

664
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: with your emotions and that is a quality that women

665
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: adore in the man. Am I right, Christina? I mean

666
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: he shares.

667
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,719
Speaker 5: I'm sure sometimes though, because from the moment, it's like

668
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 5: sometimes I can share how I feel in the moment,

669
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Speaker 5: and I think that like, depending on the moment, it

670
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 5: can change because it's like I feel like we're constantly changing,

671
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 5: and so it'll be like I think that maybe I

672
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 5: don't know, but I appreciate that.

673
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Speaker 6: I do, I really do.

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Speaker 4: I just wouldn't don't change.

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Speaker 2: Both of you don't change. I mean when you told us,

676
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 2: I don't even know if we have time. But but Braiden,

677
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 2: the story of being on the boat, He goes, God,

678
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,479
Speaker 2: I can't die because I haven't told her her being

679
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 2: Christina that I love and want to spend the rest

680
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: of my life with her. When I heard you say that, Braiden,

681
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: I literally I decided, you know what, if he's ever

682
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: online at eleven thirty at night, I'm going to join

683
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 2: his life in my pajamas. It was an amazing thing, though. Honestly,

684
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: I just thought, oh my god, this is an amazing man.

685
00:28:51,200 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're both amazing. This is advice. So

686
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: we want to invite you to help us go through

687
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: some questions and we'll sit here and talk about it

688
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: and give these people some advice. You in, Let's do it.

689
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Speaker 1: I'm in, Kathy, you want to go?

690
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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: This one, the first one, is from Anonymous, who is

692
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: aged twenty six from Miami.

693
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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 3: There.

695
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 2: I am writing in anonymously because, oh my god, I

696
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: am so embarrassed. My boyfriend recently invited me to meet

697
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: his family for the first time, and I was very

698
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: nervous to meet his notoriously stuck up mom. I was

699
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: on my best behavior all day and tried to warm

700
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: her up to me. All the stress got to me, though,

701
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 2: and I had to run to the bathroom in his parents'

702
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 2: house multiple times. Stress always gives me stomach aches. I

703
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: think you know where this is going. Oh, I clogged

704
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: the toilet in your guest bathroom and tried to plunge

705
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: it but had no success. I didn't want to say

706
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 2: anything in the moment because I felt I feel like

707
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 2: that would have been a horrible first impression to make

708
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: on his family. No, calling a plumber from your cell

709
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: phone is good question. So we left that night and

710
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 2: I still haven't said anything. Am I going to take

711
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 2: this to my grave and just hope his family thinks

712
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 2: it was something else or someone else? Or do you

713
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 2: think they know it's me and they're talking about me

714
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: behind my back? I want to crawl into a hole

715
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: just writing this. Thank you for any advice here?

716
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: Wow, didn't flow nobody?

717
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, I honestly, I mean I would own know to it.

718
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 5: I mean I'd be telling everybody everyone get the story.

719
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 7: That you're gonna tell it Thanksgiving in ten years. Yeah,

720
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 7: and then and then no, yeah, you can't get rid

721
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 7: of me now, and the embarrassment. You know, it's still

722
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 7: it's gonna be a good story. And you're like, hey,

723
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 7: you know, I'm what are you thankful for? I'm thankful

724
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 7: for you guys never finding out about the time, and

725
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 7: then it probably is, you know, they're like, we knew

726
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Speaker 7: the entire time.

727
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Speaker 4: We love doing.

728
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Speaker 1: What if the mother in law was still a little

729
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: wait a minute, exactly.

730
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: I want to go back to that part of this question.

731
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Speaker 2: This poor this child that gets diarrhea at the thought

732
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Speaker 2: of meeting her mother or sooner your mother in.

733
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: Law, Clod wouldn't be diarrhea.

734
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 2: Excuse me this big toilet paper, toilet paper courtesy.

735
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: Flush next time, honey, flush while you're.

736
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Speaker 6: Doing That's good advice.

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Speaker 4: I would that's the advice courtesy.

738
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 3: But stuck up mom like problems in the marriage here?

739
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 7: Well, I think she you know, she said it though

740
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 7: she hadn't even met her yet, and she had been

741
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 7: you know, warned, and it's you know, notorious.

742
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 4: Everyone's knowing that and.

743
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 7: Talking about it, and so I think, yeah, I mean,

744
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 7: there's obviously, you know, stomach issues, getting nervous, that's gonna happen.

745
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 7: But like, you know, were you acting like is that yourself?

746
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 7: Would you normally tell people if that happened?

747
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: Would would I'd be calling Susan from the bathroom, Hey,

748
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 2: I didn't flush.

749
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Speaker 1: Believe what's happening here?

750
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Speaker 4: I would have been I would, but I would have

751
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 4: been mortified, I think.

752
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I don't know because you're nervous

753
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: meeting them for the first time.

754
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've had a situation like that happened and I

755
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 5: just come out and I was like, uh so guys,

756
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 5: we might not want to use that, not literally, and

757
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 5: I think because I mean it's real, like that's real life,

758
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 5: I'd say.

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00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 6: I think sometimes we get caught up.

760
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 5: With everything needing to be perfect, and like we want everything.

761
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 5: We want everyone to love us, we want everything, Like

762
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 5: there's gonna be people that don't like you, there's gonna

763
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 5: be people you can't please, and it's like I would

764
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 5: encourage you to not spend, you know, spend so much

765
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 5: of your energys trying to trying to please her, and

766
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 5: it's like, be yourself and if she doesn't love you,

767
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 5: that that's okay.

768
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,479
Speaker 6: As long as your boyfriend loves you, that's all that matters.

769
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Speaker 2: Because yeah, I gotta say though, my mother in law,

770
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: my mother in law did not like me, and I

771
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: don't know why, but she didn't, but I do know why.

772
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: She had one son and I married him.

773
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 4: Right, Well, here's my advice.

774
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 7: I think on the situation, I think she should reach

775
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 7: out to the mother in law one on one, whether

776
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 7: it's or anything, and tell her and then that's like,

777
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 7: you know, hell, Mary, like, look, I respect you and

778
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 7: I just couldn't keep this in any longer. I was

779
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 7: embarrassed the moment maybe and be human to her and

780
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 7: then it's a hail Mary.

781
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 4: Maybe.

782
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 7: You know, then it's gonna be confronting her and it

783
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 7: could go either way.

784
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Speaker 4: I think that's my advice. I'm walking away.

785
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Speaker 3: I love it.

786
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: I love Christina. That is a southern bell's advice. The

787
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: Northern Yankee right here me. I would buy her a

788
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: bowl of Lifesolt pullet bowl cleaner and wrap it up

789
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Speaker 2: and give it to her for Christmas sake, just not

790
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: you might need this some time a wait.

791
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: For Christmas dinner and share the story. Okay, moving right along.

792
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Speaker 1: Good luck, honey, do courtesy flage. Have a conversation with her.

793
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: If you think she has any kind of a sense

794
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: of humor, she'll enjoy it. Yes, yeah, she might remember

795
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: when she was embarrassed once. You know, you never know, right, Okay.

796
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Speaker 1: This one's from Tory, age forty nine, from Scottsdale. Hello, ladies,

797
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: hope you're having a nice week. My friends and I

798
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: adore your podcast. Thank you. I wanted to write in

799
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: about my teenage daughters and my new husband. My ex

800
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: husband and I got a divorced five years ago and

801
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: I remarried a wonderful guy. Last year. It's all been lovely,

802
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: except that my teen daughters are not taking to him

803
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: at all. They hardly wanted to come to our wedding.

804
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: He has tried getting involved in their interest and spending

805
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: time with them, but they completely write him off because

806
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: he is not their dad. The girls still have a

807
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: relationship with their dad, and he and I are on

808
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: decent terms. I'm not sure how to get them to

809
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: welcome my husband into our family. Do you guys have

810
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: any advice for me on how to get teenage girls

811
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: to accept my new husband. Teen girls can be so tough,

812
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: and I just want them to hopefully be happy that

813
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: I am so much happier now. Thank you so much,

814
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: Love you, ladies.

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Speaker 7: You can't question Yeah, exactly, that's what I mean. I

816
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 7: think you probably have a lot to say about this,

817
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 7: and I think going the route of how we've talked

818
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 7: about with Blakely, like it's not about her liking you

819
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 7: and I And I mean, I think you could definitely

820
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 7: go that route and then you know, oh we're gonna go,

821
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 7: you know, suck up to her and all this, But

822
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 7: that's not what you want to You're going to It's

823
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 7: a little bit different, I guess with the teen girls.

824
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Speaker 7: But I think just what I've loved so much that

825
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 7: you've said so much like about Blakely, is like you're

826
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 7: gonna show her that you are there and you're going

827
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 7: to keep your not going anywhere, and that's ultimately you know,

828
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 7: the situation, and so like, you know, not to you know,

829
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 7: he's already done the things to go out of his way.

830
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 4: It seems to be nice and sweet, and I see room.

831
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 7: I mean maybe, and this is my personal experience to

832
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,800
Speaker 7: like growing up and stuff, like there's room for maybe

833
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 7: arguments within the relationship with her and her husband that

834
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 7: she you know, I think she needs to preserve that too, Yeah,

835
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 7: because she's probably filling like a bridge in between the daughters.

836
00:35:58,560 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 4: And but what would you.

837
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 1: Say when they're teenagers, they have a whole different time.

838
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: It just takes time, That's what I was going to say.

839
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 3: It just takes time.

840
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: And I mean my dad married my stepmom was great,

841
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: and we were teenagers. It just takes time. And the

842
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 2: you know, talking to the kids and saying this this,

843
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 2: you know, Joe whatever his name is, is not replacing

844
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: your dad. It's it's just And but I think I

845
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:27,240
Speaker 2: think the mom has to demand respect from the kids.

846
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 2: You will You don't have to like him. I think

847
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: I hope you'll grow to. Let you know, they have

848
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: to had that conversation. I hope you'll grow to like him.

849
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 2: I love him. He makes me happy. I hope, I

850
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 2: hope that you see that. But you will respect him,

851
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: because that is just an expectation in my mind that has.

852
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 3: To be made.

853
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 1: She said it was a year, so maybe they were

854
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: upset that their parents divorced to begin with, and then

855
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: mom falls in love and gets married. In the well

856
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: for them, yeah, till dad gets a girlfriend, then maybe

857
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: they'll come around a little bit.

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Speaker 7: That's a good It's a hard satuation, but I think

859
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 7: just sticking to like this is the situation. I'm not

860
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 7: choosing him over you girls, and I'm not you know,

861
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 7: And you're also not going to get me on your

862
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 7: side against him either.

863
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 4: There's no one you know, we're gonna situation. Yeah, yes,

864
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 4: what do you think?

865
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 3: What do you think?

866
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 6: Brak?

867
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I would say, I mean, you guys

868
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 5: already you guys already hit the nail on ned with

869
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 5: all of it, so you can't force it. I mean,

870
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 5: And the thing is, it's about it's kind of like

871
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 5: what we're talking about before, it's about showing up. It's

872
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 5: like keep showing up. And it's like be there for them,

873
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 5: show them that you love them, and show them that

874
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 5: you care. I mean, one of the biggest things I've

875
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 5: told Christina is it's like I love Blakely, Like Blakely

876
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 5: is a part of you, and I love you. And

877
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 5: so because of how much I love you and how

878
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 5: much of that, like I care, life, just.

879
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 3: Keep going, just keep it. You know, we don't have

880
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 3: we got Yeah, you're.

881
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: Killing us, but no, but anyway, I'm just glad that

882
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: she's only seven and you're not dealing with a fourteen

883
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: year old with Yes, you know, get your period and

884
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: going through emotional I'll have that depth to come. But

885
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: you're already been in our life for seven years.

886
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 4: So yes, we do have that advantage for Yeah.

887
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 6: And I definitely get that.

888
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 5: And I mean I would just say that, like, I mean,

889
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 5: you can't like you can't change people's feelings.

890
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 6: People are gonna have to come to come to you.

891
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 5: It's like, you know, and I would just like I said,

892
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 5: I just encourage them to show up, demand respect, give respect,

893
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 5: you know. Yeah, the biggest thing is It's like, it's

894
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 5: not just about respecting you because you know you're her stepfather.

895
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 5: It's not just respecting it. It's respecting it because you're

896
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 5: another human being. Like you offer me the common decency

897
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 5: you would offer a stranger. I'll give you the same

898
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 5: respect and then from there, see if you can have

899
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,760
Speaker 5: a relationship beyond that. And it's like, you know, sometimes

900
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 5: you can't. You can't force someone to have a friendship

901
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 5: or relationship with me.

902
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: I write a book, Christine. Say you were in this

903
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: okay and your daughter was doing that? What would you

904
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: how would you handle it?

905
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 4: Yeah?

906
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 7: So I think I think it's meant so much like

907
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 7: like I mentioned, like him just saying like the goal

908
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 7: isn't for her to like me. And I I try

909
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 7: to always check myself and make sure because I do

910
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 7: a lot of like bridging of explaining, like I think

911
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 7: he means this and she means that, and I think,

912
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 7: you know, I need.

913
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 4: To zip it. I need to zip it.

914
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 3: For one second. Zip it not the best phrase.

915
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 4: World makes it.

916
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 3: You could use it.

917
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: See, you can use it for anything out there, y'all

918
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 2: listen to that. Zip it is useful, Okay, carry on.

919
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 4: Yes, putting it on your pants, you're like every day something.

920
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 7: Yes, but no, I think for me, just I think

921
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 7: you're always gonna need to stay check yourself, stay true

922
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 7: to yourself, no matter who you are in the situation.

923
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 7: You're the daughters, you're the stepdad, you're the mom.

924
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 4: Are you staying true to yourself?

925
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 7: Because if not, and you're trying to overly accommodate other people,

926
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 7: that might be okay, it whears and then it's going okay.

927
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 7: Then let's say everything works out and it's all you know,

928
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 7: best case scenario and everyone's have been the best time

929
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 7: having a party, and then you're like, well wait a minute,

930
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 7: I'm not even I'm running around and now let me explode.

931
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 7: So I think time keeps showing up as yourself, and

932
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 7: I mean it's I think there's a feeling of guilt

933
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,320
Speaker 7: probably for everyone involved, and even maybe the mom for

934
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 7: you know, the their dad not being there and her

935
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 7: being happy and stuff. Now, but like you can't, you

936
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 7: can't give that away, like you're you're a human and

937
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 7: just keep showing up and you like know you're doing what.

938
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: You that's how old are you? Guys?

939
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 4: How how older than him?

940
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 6: How to folks?

941
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: I cannot we had Daisy on, we had Kelsey on.

942
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: You guys, forgive me for saying young, but from where

943
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: I sit, you know you're young.

944
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 3: But you're so ma sure, you guys are.

945
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 2: Your thoughts are and your your interpretation of life and

946
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: your viewpoints are just amazing. I'm so impressed.

947
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 4: Thank you, and I wish you luck.

948
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: I think you should just can continue loving your new

949
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: husband and loving your daughters. That's that's all we could say.

950
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 6: That's all you can't do, ye.

951
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 8: Do it?

952
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 4: The situation?

953
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 1: Well, you guys you have been fabulous and I'm so

954
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: glad I got to see you again. I'd like to

955
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: go out to dinner and have a few drinks with you.

956
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 2: But this was They are so fun and Braiden, they

957
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 2: can dance, both of them.

958
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,760
Speaker 3: They can. Oh yeah, they can dance.

959
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 4: We always, we always people. Here is dangling earring. You

960
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 4: know we don't have the dangles on it.

961
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 2: I know I was, Braiden. I was looking at you

962
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 2: going like, why does he look different his hairs back?

963
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 2: Oh no, you don't have the airrings on the.

964
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: Noticed immediately to dangle in the ear pod.

965
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you, if you like, if you liked

966
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 2: older women, Braiden, I have thousands of pairs of tanks.

967
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: I think I told you that before we could have

968
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: I mean, if earrings were we all it took and

969
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 2: you didn't care about age or anything else.

970
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 4: Well, you mentioned the thing earlier. Is this one.

971
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 8: She's just stepping in quietly. They wait, got the zipp its.

972
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 8: I beg you guys to get.

973
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 6: You need to get with the zip blocks. You need

974
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 6: to give it like the ziplock.

975
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: I told her that.

976
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 7: I know we're wrapping up stuff, but are you ladies

977
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 7: looking forward to the for lack of better word, leftovers

978
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 7: from the season.

979
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: Coming nobody sloppy seconds.

980
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: I want to go over to pick Wait a minute,

981
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 2: I thought you and I were going to say we're

982
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 2: going to tramp each other getting to see who gets

983
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 2: there first. But since you just but since Susan, y'all

984
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 2: heard it, she's not taking sloppy seconds. I'm not taking

985
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 2: sloppy seconds. Joan can only take one and you know

986
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: what they're going to be. However, many other fabulous guys,

987
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: so reach out to me. I'm available few you as

988
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: slaughter exactly.

989
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: Hopefully they'll come up with men the show with the

990
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: leftovers from both shows.

991
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 4: Aren't we all left guys?

992
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 3: Yeah?

993
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:07,720
Speaker 1: Right, I love me a leftover Okay.

994
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 8: Okay, yes, I love leftovers.

995
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 3: I don't know anything about.

996
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 6: Left left leftover pizza, you know what I'm saying.

997
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, right out of the refrigerator. Okay, Well, why y'all

998
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 2: thinking about what you're eating. We've had a great time

999
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 2: chatting with y'all and it's been so much from We

1000
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 2: hope that y'all follow Bachelor Happy Hour because if you

1001
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: had fun today listening to Christina and Branden our fun

1002
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: that we had, we have this much fun every time,

1003
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: so please follow our podcast. You just don't want to

1004
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 2: miss a single episode.

1005
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,680
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1006
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: to submit your questions to us, because you see how

1007
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,759
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1008
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: Captain and I, but we will give you our honest opinions.

1009
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,160
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1010
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: or hit us up on social media at Bachelor Happy Hour.

1011
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:06,800
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1012
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1013
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