1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: I'm Tamika d Mallory and it's. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 2: Your boy my son. 3 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: In general, we are your host of t M. 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 3: I Tamika and my Son's Information, Truth, motivation and inspiration. 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: New name, New Energy. What's up my son? Lenon? What's 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: up to Mallory? How you today? I'm doing good? You 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: got my water? 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: Smith you keep you some just Wood. 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: I love just water. 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 2: I don't got no water today, but I got my 11 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 2: actively Black. 12 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I actively black need too. 13 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: Shout out to my boy is smith Man. 14 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: Look, it's so good. I love this sweat. 15 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 3: Listen, make sure that you get you some actively black. Yeah, 16 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 3: I'm black from the head to the total. 17 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: We support actively Black. 18 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 4: You know I I wear First of all, I don't 19 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 4: wear Nike, let's be clear about that. But I wear 20 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 4: some of the other brands. 21 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: For workout clothes. 22 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 4: And by the way, I wear workout clothes every day, 23 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 4: every day that I don't have something special to do 24 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 4: or a reason that I have have to actually dress up. 25 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 4: And you know, I find that those those are cool. 26 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 4: All the other brands, y'all know the names. We ain't 27 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 4: giving them free advertising. But I feel proud when I 28 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 4: wear actively Black, So it still feels good. I still 29 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 4: got some sexy leggings. I got the whole thing, my 30 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 4: Prolates body and my Pilates clothes. I'm a little bigger 31 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 4: than Pilate's body. I need to work on that. But 32 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: I still feel you know, I feel good. I still 33 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 4: feel good, good, still feel sexy. But I feel proud 34 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: because this is a black owned company. We support Actively 35 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 4: Black one hundred percent, and right now, go and click 36 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 4: on the links and go get you some actively Black 37 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 4: support them, and also support until Freedom. We need the 38 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 4: support we have merch. You can go pick up sweatsuits 39 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 4: from us. They cool, they look good, they feel good. 40 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: You can wear them with shoes. 41 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 4: You can dress them up, dress them down, do your thing, 42 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 4: but not men. Men cannot wear them with shoes. Are 43 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 4: women can wear. 44 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: Them with you? 45 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: That would actually be done. 46 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 2: We're gonna hit you up until Freedom. 47 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: Listen. 48 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 4: So we gotta move quickly today because we have the 49 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 4: guests coming up that's gonna educate us, and you know 50 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 4: we're gonna learn a little bit or something something. 51 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 1: So I want to talk about my thought of the day. 52 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 4: So there was an interview that I did a while 53 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 4: back where I was talking. I was on TMZ and 54 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 4: Kamala Harris was selected as the vice presidential pick. 55 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: And I remember I was in the car. 56 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 4: I was on my way to Brooklyn to a photo shoot, 57 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 4: and while I was talking to the folks on TMZ, 58 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 4: they asked me, do you think that Kamala Harris can 59 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 4: become president? 60 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 5: Right? 61 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: Do you think she can also be president? 62 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 4: So she's vice presidential pick, but do you think that 63 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 4: she can run and ascend to the presidency? And I said, 64 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: I don't know. I said, because you know, racism is terrible, 65 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 4: so that's already bad enough, and sexism, when you bring 66 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 4: that into the equation, it's even worse. Right, So if 67 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 4: you listen and I and a couple of people started 68 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 4: attacking me. They went crazy. Not a lot of people, 69 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 4: but you know, there's a certain segment. A couple of 70 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 4: people called me up, like, I'm just trying to understand 71 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 4: your perspective because a lot of people are very sensitive 72 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 4: about that racism and then comparing it with sexism, and 73 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 4: it felt like I was including all women, white women, 74 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 4: this woman, that woman or whatever, over black people and 75 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 4: what black people have experienced, and specifically black men. 76 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: And so I was explaining it to a good friend 77 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: and He. 78 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 4: Was like, why are you, Like, are you seriously trying 79 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 4: to explain to me what you meant? Like I'm stupid, 80 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 4: Like I understand exactly what you're talking about. It's not 81 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 4: that I was saying that racism is not the most horrific, horrendous, 82 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 4: disgusting atrocity of American culture. That is not what I 83 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 4: was saying. What I'm saying is when you are black 84 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: and then you had maybe let's just use it another example. 85 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 4: You black and you have a disability, or you're black 86 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 4: and you are I don't know, you're black in you're trans, 87 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 4: you're black in whatever, poor, you're black, and that makes 88 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 4: what you experience already as a black person worse because 89 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 4: you're adding another element onto it that really sort of 90 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 4: deepens the hate and the oppression and the disgust that 91 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 4: a person has to endure. And So when I look 92 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 4: at Kamala Harris at that time, this is prior to 93 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 4: right now, this is years back. Like a lot of times, 94 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 4: we are ahead of ourselves when we speak on issues. 95 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 4: So I'm looking back at that time and I said 96 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,359 Speaker 4: that sexism is even worse. So what I was saying 97 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 4: is that as a black woman, not as a woman 98 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 4: in general, even though you see Hillary Clinton, also more qualified, 99 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 4: didn't win the election. But that's a whole different set 100 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 4: of circumstances. But when you look at Kamala Harris as 101 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 4: a black woman, she's going to deal with being black 102 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 4: and then having on top of that her being a 103 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 4: woman as another way for people to disrespect, discredit and 104 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 4: even our own people, even our own people. 105 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: And let's just keep it. A hundred men. 106 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 4: In our community and women, men and women, but a 107 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 4: lot more men who are unwilling to support her just 108 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 4: because she's a woman, right Like there's some people who 109 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 4: have policy disagreements with her, there's some people who are 110 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 4: They look at it and they're like, listen, I have 111 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 4: issues with Kamala Harris with things that she may have done, 112 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 4: or things she said, or things the positions that she 113 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 4: supports right now, and I'm not arguing with any of those. 114 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: But when I have. 115 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 4: People on my page calling her a thing, calling her 116 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 4: a wench, calling her all these disrespectful names, and then 117 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 4: I also see that there are people who could be 118 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 4: helping her, But because of the way that you watch 119 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 4: them treat women in general, you know why they are 120 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 4: unwilling to support her because they never when I'm asking 121 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 4: certain people, they like, oh no, I just don't think. 122 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: I just don't. They don't really have a real answer. 123 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 4: Okay, So anyway, I just want to say to myself, 124 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 4: right like how Snoop said, I want to thank me. 125 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 4: I just want to say to me, I was not 126 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 4: wrong in what I said. And it's playing out for 127 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 4: us to see it happening in real time. 128 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: And I know that. 129 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 4: When I spoke on it, I spoke on it not 130 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 4: just as a black person, but as a black woman 131 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 4: who I even know in spaces where we are doing, 132 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 4: you know, in civil rights spaces and social justice spaces, 133 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 4: in business spaces, I know that I am treated a 134 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 4: different way than some of the black men who are 135 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 4: my counterparts, or black men who may not even be 136 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 4: as effective or as progressive or as whatever as me. 137 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 4: But just because I'm a woman, I deal with another 138 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 4: layer of disrespect and of the sexism that is also 139 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,679 Speaker 4: ingrained in American culture. 140 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 3: Well, I have to agree, man, you know, I've said 141 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 3: the same thing, and I think shout out to applies man. 142 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 3: He had to give apology to black women because he 143 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 3: didn't even understand the level of hate that Black women 144 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 3: have experience, and I've listened to dudes just tell me, yo, 145 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: she's a woman. She just shouldn't be leading you know 146 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, And she's nobody's gonna respect her and 147 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: this and that, and it's like, wow, why I respected 148 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: my mother? My grandmother was one of the strongest people 149 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: I know in my life. So when we have these conversations, 150 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 3: there is definitely a facet of America where men do 151 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 3: not respect women, and nick definitely do not respect Black women. 152 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: Malcolm said it, the most disrespected, unprotected, and neglected woman 153 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: in the world is the black woman. So person in 154 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 3: the world, not just the woman, the most neglected person 155 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: in the world is a black women. So we are 156 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: able to see this in real time. So like, when 157 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 3: you said it to me, I understood. 158 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: Exactly what I was. 159 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: It was Mark Thomson. He was like, like, why are 160 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: you explaining it? 161 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 4: Anybody with good sense knows exactly what you're saying. They 162 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 4: are trying not to know, or they're emotion. And it's 163 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 4: funny because some of these same people. 164 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: Always are like, oh, let's not move with emotion. 165 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 4: And then when I speak to something that is my 166 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 4: experience as a woman then it's emotional. That's cute. But anyway, 167 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 4: let us move on. This is a point we're not 168 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 4: going to do t because we gotta go. So you 169 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 4: go see a music segment, all right, So. 170 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 3: We're gonna go to my music segment. Shout out to 171 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,239 Speaker 3: Marvin Being. You know, we was out. 172 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: In Detroit, super organized. 173 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 3: Marvin King Being Man, he put us all together. You know, 174 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: you had a panel in Detroit with Ice Wear, Vessel Killer, 175 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 3: Mike Push your T, Beanie C. 176 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: Freeway. You know, it was so many. 177 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 4: Different Nipsey Hustle's brother. The brother's name, it always escapes me, 178 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 4: but I love. 179 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: Him so much, Black Sam, Black Sam, and we had 180 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,719 Speaker 3: a beautiful panel shadow. 181 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 1: To take the eating. We can't be leaving people out. 182 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 4: Since you want a name, pastor, Mike mc Mike McBride, 183 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 4: what's our other brother's name? 184 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: Oh lord, but. 185 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: Listen, it was a dope panel. 186 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: And there's a soundtrack and the first song off the 187 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 3: soundtrack is called still Here and it's the Vote or 188 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 3: Else soundtrack and it's featuring Benny the Butcher, is featuring 189 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 3: Jae Electronica, Freeway, Black Thought, Metal Feet, and Joe taking Eadie. 190 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: Shout out to Joe Taker. 191 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: You know she wasn't singing on this, but you know 192 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: she she out here. She thinks she a singer. 193 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: Yes, she definitely thinks she can sign. 194 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 3: She's actually the song is dope and it's really touching, 195 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 3: so make sure you go. 196 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 2: It's on all platforms. 197 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 3: Still here, his vote or else and is featuring all 198 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 3: all this side this name and shout out to. 199 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: Phil Agnew was Agnew? 200 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 4: See I knew it was somebody important and feel is 201 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 4: our brother. 202 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: That is yellow pain Yellow. It was a powerful it 203 00:09:58,559 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: was a. 204 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 2: Very very powerful discussion. My boy Smoke Dizzer was on there. 205 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 4: And so much music came out. I mean, music is 206 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 4: coming out of here. 207 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 2: It's going to be a dope. I'm going to be 208 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: on the soundtrack, so it's gonna be on the. 209 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: S king bing king bing ing, not me king. 210 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 2: Make sure that you go and listen to that song. 211 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 2: Still here. The soundtrack would be out very soon. 212 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: And still here, Still here. That's what's up. That's what's up. 213 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 4: And today we are joined by a super friend who 214 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 4: has some information. I mean, as we've been saying, this 215 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 4: election is really important for us. 216 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: We don't really care who doesn't like it, right, We don't. 217 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 4: Care who is not interested and who's mad at us, 218 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 4: and who said we shouldn't be and don't this and that, 219 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 4: go talk to somebody else, because we we're really deeply 220 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 4: into this thing. And tm I has really been turned 221 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 4: into a show to discuss all the elements of the 222 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 4: election for the next several weeks. And so in our 223 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 4: super friend world, l Joy Williams, who's joining us today 224 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: is somebody who of course is very special to me, 225 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 4: and now you know, over the years she's become special 226 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:16,239 Speaker 4: to you as well, President of the NUBACP Brooklyn Network 227 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 4: and also she and I serve on the board of 228 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 4: Higher Heights, which is an organization that does a lot 229 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 4: of political education and raising funds for black women candidates. 230 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: We do so many things. 231 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 4: She's a consultant, super brilliant, you got all the things 232 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: in this one woman. But what's important for why she 233 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 4: comes here today is because Joy has created. Joy is 234 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 4: an educator, an educator, and so she's created a guide 235 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 4: for the it says, a journal for the empowered voter, 236 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 4: call Get Vote Ready, Get Vote Ready. And so today 237 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 4: we're gonna be hearing from our sister l Joy Williams 238 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 4: and I'm excited about that, just. 239 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 2: Her story, just when we're talking about the kids, Like. 240 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 4: Even though she's doing all this leadership in the community, 241 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 4: she also is fostering several children at the same time. 242 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 3: That's why I love doing this podcast, right, because we 243 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 3: get an opportunity to interview and highlight our friends who 244 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: are doing so many dope things. So shout out to 245 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 3: el Joy for educating us about civics and about what 246 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 3: it looks like to vote in which we need to 247 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 3: know about voting. And they're also educating us about humanity. 248 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 4: You know, right, it is humanity when you like, I'm 249 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 4: gonna take Not only am I out here fighting for 250 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 4: our rights, but then I learned that children needed help, 251 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 4: and like she said, out of a. 252 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: Personal situation came her story. 253 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 4: So when people asked me, well, what's the first thing 254 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 4: that I should do, I'm like, look at your life, 255 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 4: look at the things that are near and dear to you, 256 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 4: and make decisions about how you can get active based 257 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 4: upon that. Because people who jump into stuff that has 258 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 4: nothing to do with what they're really interested in, or 259 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: because they get in it because they're like, oh there's 260 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 4: a check, or oh there's you know, or everybody else 261 00:12:59,040 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 4: is doing it. 262 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: I think I do it better. 263 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 4: Then you're in an area that does not really really 264 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: make you feel like you're you're getting to your passion, 265 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 4: like you're serving your purpose. 266 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: So there's that. 267 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 3: Yes, we definitely do have our sister el Joye. She 268 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: is an educator, she is a friend. She is one 269 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: of those individuals that when you think of her, she's 270 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 3: always smiling, but you know, she's about business. So we 271 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:29,719 Speaker 3: have our sister, the one, the only El joy in 272 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 3: the building. 273 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, man, I love that, and I gotta come here 274 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 5: more often. 275 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 1: That's it. 276 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 5: Thank you for both of you for inviting me today. 277 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 5: I appreciate it. 278 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,839 Speaker 1: Thank you for being with us. 279 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 4: Joy tell us you know, first of all, let's just 280 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 4: get straight on in DOUAA CP Networks Chapters branch French. 281 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Okay, listen, we did not have a rivalry. 282 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: If nan right. 283 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 5: You know, it's just you know, we birthed everybody. 284 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: You see shade and shot already. That's what I love 285 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 1: so much about you, Joy, Like I think so. 286 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 4: Many people feel like in the movement we are just 287 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 4: stoic and boring and we're not like we enjoyed one another. 288 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 4: We make jokes. We snacked like we did at the 289 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 4: house back in the days when we were kids, and 290 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 4: we have a good time. And you know, you're one 291 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 4: of those people who, like my son says, you're always smiling, 292 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 4: but you'd be serious as hell. 293 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: You'd be scaring me. 294 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 5: You say that in the elected say that too. Sometimes 295 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 5: they don't know the difference between if I'm coming and 296 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 5: being like, hey, how you doing, and like hang out 297 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 5: to like, oh no, what did I do? 298 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 1: Well? 299 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 4: You're coming in the tradition of our queen mother, which 300 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 4: is Mama Duke's Hazel and Dukes. Who is the president 301 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 4: or the former? I saw somewhere the other data. I 302 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 4: guess she's kind of like kind of she's cheat. 303 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: She's ninety two. 304 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, she said that she's not going to 305 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 5: do it anymore. State NAACP Conference President. 306 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: Chargeah okay, got it. 307 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 4: So tell us about your book, This guide for you said, 308 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 4: a journal for the empowered voter. Yeah, and I love 309 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 4: the fact that you're speaking into people because I don't 310 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 4: be feeling like people that empowered. So, you know, but 311 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 4: talk about what your journal is all about. 312 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 5: Well, you know, one of the missions of what I 313 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 5: do sure with Sunday Civics, which is every week, I 314 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 5: sort of use what's happening in the political landscape to 315 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 5: empower people with the knowledge to get involved and engaged 316 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 5: in politics, because, as you know, part of our work 317 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 5: as organizers, the first thing we do, particularly when we're 318 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 5: going into spaces, is helping people understand how the system 319 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 5: has worked, where you know who the decision makers are 320 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 5: and then what you can demand, what you can do. 321 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 5: And in starting Sunday Civics, I realized that was a 322 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 5: lot of Even in working inside government, I would still 323 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 5: go into spaces, whether it was in the Controllers office 324 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 5: or the city hall or whatever, and I would do 325 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 5: the back door and I'm like, Okay, this is what 326 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 5: you need to ask for, this is what is possible, 327 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 5: this is what can happen. You know who, this is 328 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 5: the person you need to push. And I realized that 329 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 5: that is something we take for granted a lot that 330 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 5: everybody knows like who the decision maker is what I 331 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 5: should be asking for. And that's why I started Sunday 332 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 5: Civics with the Get Vote Ready Journal. You know, notice 333 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 5: as we go through the journal, there's nothing, there's no 334 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 5: emotion in it, there's no you know, you know, one 335 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 5: party over another party. It is helping you make a 336 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 5: strategic decision for you to prepare yourself and make sure 337 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 5: you have the information to engage in the election. And 338 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,479 Speaker 5: then too, starting with yourself and not with the candidates. 339 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 5: You start with in the book, what what are the 340 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 5: issues that matter to me? You know what moves me? 341 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 5: What is the you know, kitchen table issue that I'm 342 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 5: most concerned about. Then you go to the candidates based 343 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 5: upon those issues to determine okay, now which one most aligned? 344 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 3: So based on this book, you know what was like 345 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 3: the what made you say, you know what, I really 346 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 3: need to make this book? 347 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 2: What made you sit down and say that? 348 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 5: Two reasons. One, you can always go to family. So 349 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 5: this is for my cousin who call and text me 350 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 5: on election day to ask me who were voting for 351 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 5: or to ask me when is the election again? Or 352 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 5: oh they got there. They may know okay, I know 353 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 5: who I'm going to vote for mayor I know who 354 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 5: I'm going to vote for president. But then they get 355 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 5: there and they be like, it's some questions look like 356 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,479 Speaker 5: that I don't know nothing about. And to my dad, 357 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 5: you know, God bless his soul. Who literally he would 358 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 5: call me to me from the voting book, right, And 359 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 5: I'm like, Dad, you can't call you. 360 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 1: That's actually illegal, right. 361 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 5: And then I hear him arguing with the people in 362 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 5: the like the pope. But I'm like, because they're doing 363 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 5: this job, right, you're not supposed to do that. So 364 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 5: this is for them. 365 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 4: I sent it to somebody. Is that I'm waiting, like, 366 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 4: text me back what I'm supposed to do, and that's 367 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 4: like illegal. 368 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: You'll take a picture of the ballance. I bet you 369 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: you didn't know that. 370 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,479 Speaker 5: This is for them. This is for you know, my 371 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 5: cousin Candae and them, you know, so that they have Okay, 372 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 5: this is my journal. This is my guy to prepare 373 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 5: myself before I go into the voting booth. And it's 374 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 5: designed and meant not for me telling you what to do, 375 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 5: but for you to put together's prompts and questions and 376 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 5: spaces there for you to contemplate. You know, what matters 377 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 5: to me might be different than what matters to you, right, 378 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 5: and so it's space for you to put that and 379 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 5: to you know, teach you. This is how I should 380 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 5: engage in a political process, in the election process, you know, 381 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 5: not so much to be swayed by celebrities, and I 382 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 5: know that's the thing that everybody, well my favorite celebrity 383 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 5: endorsed this person or did not write. But no, they're 384 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 5: voting their own interests. They're voting their own money in 385 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 5: their own pocketbook, Like this is how you vote and 386 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 5: make your decisions for you. 387 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 4: I had to really get into the book. As soon 388 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 4: as I saw you promote that it was ready, I 389 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 4: called immediately got listen because I know it's necessary. Because 390 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 4: even though this is a very contentious time. And let 391 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 4: me tell you, I am so ready for November fifth 392 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 4: to come and go. My spirit and my stomach and 393 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 4: literally my body cannot sustain two or three more months 394 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 4: of all this arguing and people right and crazy, and 395 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 4: you're fallen out with friends and family. My cousin and 396 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 4: I was in a big blow up about at a 397 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 4: family occasion. We end up being back love, but still 398 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 4: we had to go through this like really difficult conversation. 399 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 4: And the one thing I've realized is that civics one 400 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 4: oh one, like basic understanding of politics and electoral politics 401 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 4: and all of that, a lot of our people don't 402 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 4: have it. And it was done on purpose to us 403 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 4: and we have to really understand that it's not that 404 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 4: you don't know just because you weren't paying attention or 405 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 4: you're not smart or whatever. It's literally that it has 406 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 4: been designed that we would not know. And that, for 407 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 4: me is it almost makes this moment, while it is 408 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 4: incredibly stressful, it makes it like, I'm glad that we 409 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 4: have this type of race where people get to pay 410 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 4: attention and start asking the questions, even if it's the 411 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 4: most ignorant conversation you've ever been involved in. 412 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I know you had to be like. 413 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 4: Oh, no, we're not gonna do this, we gonna learn 414 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 4: something because this ridiculous. 415 00:20:58,720 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 416 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 5: Well, not only that, and that this shouldn't be the 417 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,719 Speaker 5: only one that you do, because the work that you 418 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 5: all do right and until freedom and talking about the 419 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,439 Speaker 5: district attorneys, talking about governor's races and things, those are 420 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 5: where we need to get engaged. And that's one of 421 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 5: you know, I said to someone recently, it's something I 422 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 5: say all the time. When we throw back to the 423 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 5: modern civil rights movement and talk about the right to vote, 424 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 5: particularly in the South, you know, people just like, oh, 425 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 5: we got the right to vote, and you know, that's 426 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 5: it That's what our ancestors died for the right, and 427 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 5: I think we do a disservice by not following that, 428 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 5: not giving contexts and qualifying them and saying they weren't 429 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 5: just dying to be able to go in the boot, 430 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 5: that's right. 431 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 1: Right. 432 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:46,199 Speaker 5: They wanted to elect sheriffs, district attorneys that would protect 433 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 5: their communities that they were building, that weren't members of 434 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 5: the KKK, that weren't members of the White Citizens Council, 435 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 5: and would actually prosecute people if someone came through and 436 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 5: lynched their brother or their cousin. 437 00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: Right. 438 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 5: They wanted you know, just think about Brown v. Void 439 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 5: and the original cases that led up to that. They 440 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 5: wanted they were paying into a system that weren't properly 441 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 5: providing resources for their children's education, and so they wanted 442 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 5: the ability to be on the school board to say, okay, 443 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 5: our district, our schools need a bus, our schools need 444 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 5: proper books and materials. Right, And so they knew that 445 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 5: generation knew that it was tied to their vote to 446 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 5: be able to elect people that were making those decisions. 447 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 5: And we lost that, as you said, it was deliberate. 448 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,919 Speaker 5: We lost that knowledge that these things of depressing. Our 449 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 5: communities were tied to these elected positions, that we needed 450 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 5: to be in those rooms, and we needed to have 451 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 5: our voice in those rooms, even if we weren't the 452 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 5: ones elected. And so that's what I try to do 453 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 5: with Sunday Civics is so to remind our communities, right 454 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 5: that this isn't just about electing somebody popular that looks 455 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 5: like you. This is electing someone that will listen to you, 456 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 5: that is responsive to your advocacy efforts, that has the 457 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,199 Speaker 5: wherewithal to come back and engage with the community or 458 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 5: be within the community, and understanding those tools and how 459 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 5: to exercise right that civic bone that we all need. 460 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 5: I think it's really really important. 461 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 3: So I want to ask you this just based on 462 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 3: local levels, right, Like, what do you think the most 463 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 3: important elections that people don't even really focus on, because 464 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 3: I know there are certain elected officials that control so 465 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 3: many different things financially, the resources within the community, the programs, 466 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 3: all those things. What do you think just on a 467 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 3: local level, because everybody's going to talk about the president, Like, 468 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 3: what do you think as a person that just goes 469 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: to work every day, that lives inside the community, what 470 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 3: are those jobs that. 471 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 2: You think civics that we should be focusing on voting for. 472 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 5: I'd like that you brought up that point, because it 473 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 5: depends on where you live and that you know, and 474 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 5: that's the and why I provided the space for that, 475 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 5: because you know, in some places, depending on how your town, 476 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 5: how your citory is incorporated or structured, the power of 477 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 5: the budget, you know, may be with the county executive, right, 478 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 5: not the not the city council or the you know, 479 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 5: or the mayor. The mayor may be a ceremonial and 480 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 5: he sell carpets on the weekend right right, right, or 481 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 5: you know, right, and so that that he's just there 482 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 5: as an administrator or she's just there as an administrator. 483 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 5: So part of that education is also understanding that you 484 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 5: start local, don't start at the top, don't start at president, 485 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 5: don't start at governor, start local. How is my town incorporated? 486 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 5: And where is the seat of power? 487 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: You know? 488 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 5: Is it the city council? Is it the state legislature? 489 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 5: Who has control over the issues that I care about 490 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,479 Speaker 5: and about my budget? Like who makes those decisions? My 491 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 5: brother lives in an area over in the Poconos incorporated 492 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 5: a little differently than like us here in New York City, 493 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 5: and he sits on a board that makes decisions about 494 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 5: the town's you know, money, on whether or not they're 495 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 5: going to do sidewalks or they're going to invest or whatever. 496 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 5: Those things are important. And once he got on there, 497 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 5: he was like, Oh, I guess the. 498 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 4: Way the rue like something really has. This is not 499 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 4: rules that does come from the sky. 500 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 5: They're people, right, And there's regular people that are my 501 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 5: neighbors that are sitting around the table making a decision 502 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 5: and no one's ever there, right, but they're making a decision. 503 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 5: And he may be at a barbecue or something and 504 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 5: hear people complain about something and not realize that, oh, 505 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 5: that is a decision I made, you know, or didn't make. 506 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 5: And so that's I think what's important is looking at 507 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 5: how your town, how your area is incorporated. And I 508 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 5: provide examples of that in the book of like how 509 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 5: you can find that, how you can find that out, 510 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 5: and learning what what is the seed of power in 511 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 5: that instance, because particularly nationally, everybody focuses on the big 512 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 5: cities Chicago or New York, the top one hundred cities, 513 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 5: and more than likely a lot of them are incorporated 514 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 5: the same or organized the same there's a mayor, there's 515 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 5: a city council, or there's you know, some balance or whatever. 516 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 5: But people live in a lot of different things, and 517 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 5: you could work in one area that's a town or 518 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 5: a county and live in another one that's rural, and 519 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 5: it's a group of your neighbors who are making those decisions. 520 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 5: And so that's why I think it's important for you 521 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 5: to understand. And it may not be that you're gonna 522 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 5: engage daily, right, You're not gonna be me and Tamika, 523 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 5: and you're gonna be like every event, every protest and 524 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 5: things like that and every town meeting. But at least 525 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 5: the issues that you care about and things that you 526 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 5: care about, and understanding who makes those decisions, where the 527 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 5: money comes from, who's it directed to, is important. And 528 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 5: you can look at some of our poor estates, like 529 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 5: Missis be a place like that. If you look at 530 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 5: how money and contracts bounce back and forth, it's like 531 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,439 Speaker 5: the same people just it's like, oh, you got it 532 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 5: for two three years and then we're gonna vote for it. 533 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:14,120 Speaker 5: Like over here. Meanwhile, you have some of the worst 534 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 5: education outcomes, you have some of the you know, most violility, 535 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 5: all of that kind of stuff that are depressed, and 536 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 5: so that's why it's important for people to understand that. 537 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 4: So what is there a portion of the guide that 538 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 4: the journal I want to call it a guide so much, 539 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 4: but the journal that because I guess the journal the 540 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 4: guide tells you what to do. The journal gives you 541 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 4: the opportunity to like write things and think through the process. 542 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 4: So I got it, trying to get it right so 543 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 4: it sticks. Is there a part in there or at 544 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 4: least can you speak to when you don't like either candidate, right, 545 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 4: and you're like, I don't want to vote for none 546 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 4: of these folks, but yet somebody gonna be in charge. 547 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: So what what would you say to that? Or is 548 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 1: that in the book? 549 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a very very important part. And it's something 550 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 5: I just talked about on Sunday because that's one of 551 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 5: the things that people give pushback, Right they both crooks, 552 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 5: Like I'm not voted for neither one of them. Right, 553 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 5: But elections and if again, you take the emotion out 554 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 5: of it, and even those of us who are celebrating 555 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 5: you know that it's the first black candidate or the 556 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 5: first black woman or whatever. Let people experience that that's right. 557 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 5: You don't need to. Yeah, it's not okay, let them experience. 558 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 5: That's perfect time. If you're on another wavelength, that's cool, right, 559 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 5: But then it's what candidate and I lay out for 560 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 5: ways to decide to pick a candidate for yourself. But 561 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 5: ultimately you're deciding where can I push progress forward and 562 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 5: do the least harms. 563 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: In my community harm reduction? 564 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 4: Right? 565 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 5: Like that is the that is the thing. But I 566 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 5: lay out my four steps of picking a candidate. One again, 567 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 5: you start with yourself, what are issues that matter to me? 568 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 5: And then looking at that the candidate's records, not who 569 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 5: you want to be on the ballot, but who's the. 570 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: Actual is actually on the back right and who can 571 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: really win? 572 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, and then decide, okay, which of these candidates you 573 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 5: know most aligned with my values because nobody is going 574 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 5: to align one hundred percent unless you run it. 575 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: That was that was. 576 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 4: Nobody align And even then you might have disagreement with self, 577 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 4: especially when you realize that a big part of politics 578 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 4: is about compromise. 579 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 5: Exactly, and that's knowing that it is important. So after 580 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 5: you you know, right, you say, okay, based upon what 581 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 5: this person said, what their track record, is this is 582 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 5: who most aligns, this is what their record is on 583 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 5: the issue. The other thing is who are you more 584 00:29:54,840 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 5: likely to move or your advocacy efforts be receptive, like 585 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 5: are you going to elect someone that's just like I 586 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 5: don't care, I double down, right, like, this is what I. 587 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: Believe the access to anything? 588 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 5: Right, And when we say access, we're not saying like 589 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 5: going to the White House right, right, Like we're not 590 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 5: talking about that. 591 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 3: We have people inside the administration that actually got hired 592 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 3: to do jobs that you can have a communication with 593 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 3: and say hey, that's close inside of that administration and 594 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 3: say hey, look these are the issues that we're dealing 595 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 3: with our community, right and they know you, and it 596 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 3: can relay that message to your elected officials and probably 597 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 3: gets you some type of meat or get something to 598 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 3: actually materialize from you know, you actually making this vote. 599 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 600 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 4: Well, and sometimes because you're speaking as a person who's 601 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 4: very close to the top of the food chain, so 602 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,479 Speaker 4: you can make the call. But if you're Johnny and 603 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 4: you live in a certain community, you might not be 604 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 4: able to make a call ever that gets to the 605 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 4: people you want. But you can be a part of 606 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 4: joining with others that have that power. 607 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: And pushing because there's power in numbers. 608 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 4: So when we say we going to Washington about gun violence, 609 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 4: or women's rights or whatever, whatever cease fire, whatever the 610 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 4: issue may be, you need to be able to say, 611 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 4: I can send out tweet, texts, a mail, chimp, whatever, 612 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 4: all the different things, phone calls, and there's gonna be 613 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 4: one hundred, two hundred, one thousand or more Johnnies from 614 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 4: a particular community that. 615 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: Will be there. That's how we build power. 616 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 4: And a lot of people because they don't see themselves 617 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 4: being able to call Kamala or call whoever Joe Biden, 618 00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 4: whoever you know, even if it's your mayor, because they 619 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 4: can't make those phone calls, they feel very detached. Now, 620 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 4: one phone call you can make, and one place that 621 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 4: you can walk into any time you want is the 622 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 4: campaign office and or the district office of your city. 623 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 1: Council person in your state, your state legislator exactly. 624 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 5: The congressional member. 625 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 4: You can walk right in the door, and the squeaky 626 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 4: whell gets the oil because we know you go in 627 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 4: there every other day, send letters, write. They will have 628 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 4: to respond to you because you are a constituent in 629 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 4: their district versus you trying to talk to President Soul 630 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 4: and self. 631 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 5: And I think that's important because you're evaluating is this 632 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 5: person responsive to those rights? Yes? Are they doing a 633 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 5: press conference and they're saying, I don't care how many 634 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 5: people come to my office, I'm voting this way, or 635 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 5: are they like after set deliberation with constituents in my community, 636 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 5: you know. 637 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: After I got my ass kick right, got barrassed or. 638 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 5: Even you know, or even got better understanding of right, 639 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 5: because we assume that politicians know everything about the issue, 640 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 5: and they do not. 641 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 4: They we went to Washington, you know, we walked two 642 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 4: hundred and fifty miles from New York City to Washington, 643 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 4: d C. Where Carma pres and our family at the 644 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 4: gathering for justice Justice League And. 645 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: Why did you join us? You did? 646 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 4: You came somewhere You was at the beginning that no 647 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 4: stat No no no stat. Nyland is where most people 648 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 4: met us. Okay, So when we got to Washington, the 649 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 4: last part of the march was to do our advocacy Day, 650 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 4: where we went and talked to all the legislators and 651 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 4: these are congressional members. 652 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about. We went down, like you said, 653 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: to Alabama to talk to no no, no, no. We 654 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: were in Washington, D C. And the Congression. 655 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 4: Baby, we were having to tell congressional members what their 656 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 4: colleagues in Congress have on the table in terms of bills. 657 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: They did not know. 658 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,719 Speaker 4: They had to be educated. They were like, oh, we 659 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 4: were bringing them together. 660 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: We've done that. I know you've done it in Albany, 661 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: in the state capitol of New York. 662 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 4: Especially around for us it was around raised the age. 663 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 4: Well we had to go shut it down, like completely 664 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 4: busting to the meat and like, what is the problem 665 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:04,239 Speaker 4: up here? 666 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 2: Two in the morning. 667 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so people think, I mean you were basically living 668 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 4: up there dealing with these issues. People really think that 669 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 4: these folks know and that they're smarter than you, or 670 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:20,240 Speaker 4: that they know. They just had the courage to go run. Yeah, 671 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 4: and they could raise the money. 672 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 5: And if there and if they're experts on an issue, 673 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 5: it's probably one or two that's not on it. 674 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 4: It's not all of us are in that situation. Although 675 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,520 Speaker 4: the Internet would have you thinking you know everything, you have. 676 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 2: Everything right, That's what I want to ask you. 677 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 3: Does it frustrate you just watching misinformation, just being secivically 678 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,800 Speaker 3: engaged in knowledgeable does it frustrate you on the internet, 679 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 3: just seeing people just say things that are so outlanded 680 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 3: and seeing people grab onto it like it's actually fat. 681 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 5: Let me tell you something, This is when I feel 682 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 5: the most old. Yeah, because I scrolled through and I'll 683 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 5: see stuff and the old woman responses come out of me. 684 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 5: Now you know that don't make me Benny, you saw it? 685 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 1: Sound like. 686 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 5: Right, and you know I'll tell again my cousins or 687 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 5: other people calling me and I'm like, use your comments comments, now, 688 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,879 Speaker 5: why would that? Like now, why would some why would 689 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 5: that happen? 690 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: Just think like, just let's think that through what you're saying. 691 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 5: Right, And you know, it's the same thing I use 692 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,839 Speaker 5: on my kids, you know, And I'm like, let's think 693 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 5: about this a little bit, you know, and play it 694 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 5: out and see how So that kind of thing does 695 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,439 Speaker 5: absolutely frustrate me. 696 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 4: But it's also for you a person that you can't 697 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 4: take stupidity. It's like it really doesn't. It aggravates you 698 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 4: to the point who. 699 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,360 Speaker 5: Knows, And it's I'm come from a long line people 700 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,479 Speaker 5: that my grandmother who I'm actually named after, Joyce, would 701 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 5: say that, like you say something or whatever, just why 702 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 5: would you just bring stupid into. 703 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: The house. 704 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 5: Like it was and it was a cancer or something. 705 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 5: And so that it makes it extremely difficult too, because 706 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 5: it's there's so much things that are true to fight against, 707 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 5: to like to engage that when you make up stuff, 708 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,879 Speaker 5: it's just like you don't even got to make. 709 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 6: It, have to make because that all the time, Like 710 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 6: I could find you five things that's true that we 711 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 6: should be challenging about, which at the candidate, including kam 712 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 6: La Harris, I got five or six things, and you 713 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 6: want to make up some story about you talked about 714 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 6: celebrities and their impact. 715 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 4: We just finished talking on the show about Janet Jackson 716 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 4: and like how she's like, well, I heard you had 717 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 4: our daddy's white like this, what right? 718 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 1: What are you? 719 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 4: We heard some things about you and your family too, 720 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,959 Speaker 4: and we still wrack with you, and we also try 721 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,399 Speaker 4: not to spread it as intelligent people who have the 722 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 4: best interest of all of us in mind. Yeah, And 723 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 4: you know one thing I say about you know, uh 724 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,720 Speaker 4: as you're seeing issues that you even want to address 725 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 4: with a candidate that you support, you know, and. 726 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,240 Speaker 5: I always say, you know, I say it to lectus 727 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 5: today face. I look forward to protesting you. 728 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 2: Right like. 729 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 5: You're visiting right, because it's part of and literally I 730 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 5: have said that's a common land. She was like, come on, 731 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 5: because that is your role, right, Like, that is your 732 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 5: role to educate me on the process. Every photo line 733 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 5: that I've been in, I've talked to her about like 734 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 5: something else, and she has said she's like, every time 735 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,879 Speaker 5: you come in here, she got something else. Some other 736 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 5: people so so whatever. And to people like her that 737 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 5: are committed to public service in that way, it's just like, 738 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 5: that's your job, that's your role, right, Like I understand 739 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,800 Speaker 5: where you are coming from where, and it's not coming 740 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 5: from a malicious place, it's coming from That is your role. 741 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 5: My role is here and often we intersect and we 742 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,399 Speaker 5: may be on different sides on different issues, and then 743 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 5: we can come together on you know, on different things. Absolutely, 744 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 5: and I think that that's we have to think about 745 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 5: those we elect as our utility players, right and that 746 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 5: you know, you pull them in when you need to, 747 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,879 Speaker 5: you rally against them if you need to. But going 748 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 5: back to that harm reduction as you mentioned, is really important, 749 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 5: and the last one is thinking about the political landscape. 750 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 5: What is happening in the country, what is happening in 751 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 5: your state, what is happening in society, and based upon 752 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 5: who's running their record, their disposition, is this the person 753 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 5: I want to lead during this time. 754 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 3: That's the realist thing. And I want to just say 755 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,320 Speaker 3: we always say that, we say we're not fighting for allies, 756 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 3: We're fighting for a better opponent. 757 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 2: Right, that's what we elected. 758 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,760 Speaker 3: We want to elect the best appointed because we understand 759 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,800 Speaker 3: that in government, you're going to make decisions. The government 760 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 3: is gonna have different you know, ideologies and understands and 761 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 3: have different point of views and needs that they think, 762 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 3: and we represent the people will have to make sure 763 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 3: that we argue on behalf of the people all of 764 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 3: the time. So if we understand that process, then we 765 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 3: should always feel like we have to challenge our government 766 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 3: officials always. But what I want to say is this 767 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 3: this whole ideology, Like you know, I've I've just become 768 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 3: civically engaged in like the last ten years. You know, 769 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 3: I'm from the hood, so I really didn't pay that 770 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 3: much attention. But there's this ideology in the streets that 771 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,840 Speaker 3: either we shouldn't vote, right, we shouldn't vote, or you know, 772 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 3: just mainly we shouldn't vte. I'm not even gonna say 773 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 3: to all, because that is that makes actlutely no sense, 774 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 3: even though shouldn't vote makes. 775 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:46,400 Speaker 2: No sense to me. 776 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 3: But what do you tell the person that says they're 777 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 3: gonna sit home and just not vote. 778 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:55,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're not gonna vote for the third party? 779 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 3: Because there was a whole thing, like the was a 780 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 3: thing today where you know it's been. It was on 781 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 3: a breakfast club when Angela Roe I was talking to 782 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,759 Speaker 3: Jill Stine and she asks her a lot of questions and. 783 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 2: There was both pushed back. 784 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 3: So I want to hear your perspective on another party, 785 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,880 Speaker 3: you know. And then the people that say don't vote. 786 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 5: Okay, this is where I might get a little nerdy. 787 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 5: So you know, I mean in community all the time, 788 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 5: you know, in Brooklyn, and I get that question all 789 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 5: the time either I don't do politics or voting doesn't matter, 790 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,759 Speaker 5: the system's rigged and all that kind of stuff. And 791 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 5: it's something that I address all the time out in 792 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 5: the street. One I never start with as an organizer, 793 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,439 Speaker 5: I need you to come out and vote. I never 794 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 5: started that way. I always started where people are like, 795 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 5: what you know, what do you need? What's you know? Like, 796 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 5: what's what's your concern? In that way. But even when 797 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 5: I do get to the point where someone says, I 798 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 5: don't do politics, we shouldn't vote anyway because it's you know, 799 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 5: all raised, then I asked the question, then. 800 00:40:58,800 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 1: What do you do? 801 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 5: Like, you know, what do you do right? And more 802 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 5: often than not, you know, people might say, oh, I 803 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 5: volunteer here or things or whatever, and I was like, 804 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 5: what is the reason you have to volunteer for kids 805 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 5: to have food for lunchtime? Because there isn't someone making 806 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 5: a decision that those kids don't need the resources for 807 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 5: them not to eat. So you not doing politics, meaning 808 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 5: those kids don't have another advocate to make sure that 809 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 5: they are eating and their bellies are full for them 810 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 5: to learn. So you're depriving those kids of your voice. 811 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're actually you're actually going against what it is 812 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 3: that you actually want to do right. 813 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 5: And then talking to people, which is I think you 814 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 5: talk about, is deliberate of taking civic education. It's also 815 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:57,720 Speaker 5: deliberate that we took the word power and political power 816 00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 5: out of civic because civic is like, oh, let's go 817 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 5: like volunteer at the library or pick up trash or 818 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:10,920 Speaker 5: like it's like these passive actions rather than it's about 819 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 5: control and wielding your political power, right, me, you and 820 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,720 Speaker 5: others in our community coming together are a powerful voice 821 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:26,879 Speaker 5: to push back against money grabbing landlords, right like us. 822 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 5: So they diminished right, So local we're diminishing because people 823 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 5: are afraid of the power. And that's what you're doing 824 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 5: with voting, that is what you're doing with organizing. You 825 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:44,040 Speaker 5: are collectively coming together to wield your political power. And 826 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 5: in Brooklyn and DOAACP, I go a step further where 827 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 5: I tell people we're doing an action in Brownsville and 828 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 5: stuff like that. I was like, come with me, let's 829 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 5: build black political power, right and see what we can 830 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:59,280 Speaker 5: do with that collectively in the state, in the city, 831 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 5: on the city level, and then you know, on the 832 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 5: national level that is scary to people that people would 833 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 5: come together to build back black political power. We've seen 834 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 5: that all throughout history. And so helping people to understand 835 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 5: that that this is about power and part of your vote. 836 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 5: That's why when I talk about that political landscape is 837 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 5: where will I have the most power? Right not only 838 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 5: in pushing this elected this you know, advocacy or what 839 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 5: have you. So then when you get to the third party, 840 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 5: will I have power if I vote for a party 841 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 5: that can't get the two hundred and seventy electoral votes. 842 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,400 Speaker 4: Do you believe like we do, that it's time to 843 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:46,879 Speaker 4: create other options, like viable options, to open up our This. 844 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 5: Is where I get a bit nerdy because this is 845 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 5: part of the problem. I don't have a problem with 846 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 5: like folks like Joe Sein and others or whatever running 847 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 5: like like you know, do you whatever. What I have 848 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 5: a problem with is that there are because these are 849 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 5: state by state processes in terms of ballot access getting 850 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:11,280 Speaker 5: on the ballot, and we have defaulted to two parties 851 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 5: not only on the national level, but on the state 852 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 5: wide level, and so you have to break that stronghold 853 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:24,360 Speaker 5: of two parties in order to get to more viable options. 854 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 5: There's absolutely no reason why Hillary Clinton and AOC should 855 00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 5: be in the same political party. There's absolutely no like 856 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 5: like from a political idea. 857 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 1: Depends on how you're feeling, you might want either one 858 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 1: of them. 859 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,760 Speaker 5: Depending on whatever. But there's no reason why Bernie Sanders right, 860 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 5: and you know, Barack Obama are in the same political party. 861 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 5: It does it's like it doesn't work, like. 862 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,800 Speaker 4: It really turns people off because the messaging is mixed, 863 00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,840 Speaker 4: and it seems like there's a fight going on like internally. 864 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 5: Right, And that is because we've defaulted as a country 865 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 5: to a two party system, and in order to get 866 00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:12,280 Speaker 5: to a more representative thing, we do need to break 867 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 5: that stronghold and that comes with changing state laws and 868 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,280 Speaker 5: changing the national process. And that's hard work that people 869 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 5: don't want to, you know, accept. So you know, you 870 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 5: could say the third party option, but that is hard 871 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,279 Speaker 5: to do. That takes much more money. And the person 872 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 5: that got the closest was Bernie Sanders, right, but he 873 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,640 Speaker 5: also did it using a two party, using one of 874 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,320 Speaker 5: the major political parties. He didn't use the third. 875 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 1: Party because we know that. 876 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,359 Speaker 4: Listen, I know we have to wrap up. We could 877 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 4: do this for a while because it's so much. Yeah, 878 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 4: there's so much to learn. When I want you to 879 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 4: tell folks where they can get your book, But when 880 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,879 Speaker 4: you do that, the next thing I want to ask 881 00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 4: you about is your own advocacy. Like your personal advocacy 882 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 4: with your husband has been to take children into your 883 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 4: home who are in the force se care system and 884 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 4: all of us. That's why I always tell people we 885 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,879 Speaker 4: don't have to do things the same way you don't 886 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 4: have to sit in your home right now and say, well, 887 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do what Tomik Mallory does. 888 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna do it. Aljoy and MASANDU. You 889 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: can figure out. 890 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 4: Your own ways to impact so much of people's lives 891 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 4: who need help. And you all have taken on children 892 00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 4: who who need homes, and I just want you to 893 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 4: talk a little bit about that process and why you 894 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 4: all decided to do that. 895 00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. 896 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, So, first of all, you can get get Vote 897 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 5: Ready on Amazon journal, the journal for the empowered voter, 898 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,960 Speaker 5: And I say empower voter because you are already empowered, right, 899 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 5: you have to give you power. You already have it. 900 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,880 Speaker 5: You just have to learn how to harness it and 901 00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 5: use it for yourself, your family, and your community. So 902 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,240 Speaker 5: you go to Amazon and search get Vote Ready Journal. 903 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,720 Speaker 5: It's actually number two right down and it just debuts 904 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 5: the number advocate. It's a great thing for someone who 905 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 5: may be voting for the first time or not a 906 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,400 Speaker 5: regular voter or even a prime voter, you know, like it. 907 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:13,719 Speaker 5: It's a really good exercise I think into Okay, let 908 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 5: me go through the process of making sure. 909 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 1: That I'm engaged. 910 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,319 Speaker 5: And it's for any election, not just this one, you know, 911 00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 5: so it's something that you can use for that. The 912 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 5: second piece, in terms of what my husband and I do, 913 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 5: it started from a personal space. It started from, you know, 914 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 5: a family member needing care and the government, you know, 915 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,600 Speaker 5: acs showing up saying we're taking a baby, and I 916 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,279 Speaker 5: was like, taking who baby? Like not like you know, 917 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 5: and it's said, no, you know, we're gonna take care. 918 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,400 Speaker 5: And then, you know, once my husband and I started 919 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,439 Speaker 5: that process and realized how many other you know, young 920 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,399 Speaker 5: people are caught up, particularly black and brown children right 921 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 5: are in the system. And a lot of it is 922 00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 5: because of poverty. A lot of people children are taking 923 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 5: because of privy, because I love the child, because of 924 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 5: and they classified neglect as oh, you don't have enough 925 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 5: food in a refrigerator, or do you have a stable 926 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:10,440 Speaker 5: place that just because you're CouchSurfing or it's something like that. Like, 927 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 5: there's so many different reasons why children end up in 928 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,600 Speaker 5: the system. And it's not to say that there aren't 929 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 5: very real cases of neglect and abuse, because there are, 930 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 5: but for there's a large portion of it it is 931 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 5: because of issues of poverty. And then after that family member, 932 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,960 Speaker 5: who's now you know permanently with us, we kept our 933 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:37,279 Speaker 5: license open and so far we have fostered children their 934 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 5: parents are under twenty five or twenty. 935 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 1: Five, And so you chose that area what it just so. 936 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 5: Happened to be. And you know when I talked about 937 00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 5: like one of the things I say in a photo 938 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 5: line to the Vice President every time I talk to 939 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 5: her about foster care. Right, and even though it is 940 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 5: a process that is governed by states, it is a 941 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:04,239 Speaker 5: national crisis certainly that was exasperated by COVID that needs 942 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,960 Speaker 5: to be addressed in terms of the resources because it's 943 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 5: an ongoing cycle. Just our brief time of ten years 944 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 5: doing it, we've seen the vicious cycle of a young 945 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 5: person in care, they not having the adequate supports or resources, 946 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 5: They then become parents sooner than they need to be, 947 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 5: and then they don't have basic supports to be able support, 948 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 5: so now their children are taken and it's so sort 949 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 5: of an ongoing cycle from that standpoint, And so we 950 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 5: really have to focus not only as a state, but 951 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:42,280 Speaker 5: as a nation and how we are addressing the needs 952 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:47,400 Speaker 5: of people twenty five and under in this country. Because 953 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 5: we for a lot of things, we leave it up 954 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 5: to just the parents. And what happens when those there 955 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,360 Speaker 5: are are no supports or the parents need additional supports 956 00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,840 Speaker 5: in order to continue to raise them and engage for 957 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:01,839 Speaker 5: their livelihoods. 958 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 3: Well, Donald Trump said, you just need a day to 959 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,799 Speaker 3: purge and just beat them up when they still, you know, 960 00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,440 Speaker 3: just beat the kids up they still, You rough them 961 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 3: up real, real violently, and then everything go back to normal. 962 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 2: So that's how you do that. 963 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,120 Speaker 1: That's not you know, I wrote on your page how 964 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 1: I feel about that. 965 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,799 Speaker 2: Definitely, there was definitely some what we call explotives. 966 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 4: Because I'm just so tired of it. But I I 967 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,760 Speaker 4: just want to thank you, el joy who are coming 968 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 4: to be with us today. Get this book. It is 969 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:36,719 Speaker 4: the get Vote Ready Journal, the journeys you got to do, 970 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:38,760 Speaker 4: the empowered Voter. 971 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: And I hope that everybody who's like, what do I do? 972 00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 1: How do I do it? 973 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 4: With a instead of us becoming so anxious that we 974 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:49,759 Speaker 4: disengage because you just overstimulated. There are actual tools and 975 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 4: I believe that your book is a tool. Let me 976 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 4: touch it so I can feel it and put a 977 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:55,919 Speaker 4: little bit of a blessing that I. 978 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 1: Have on it. 979 00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,839 Speaker 4: You know that there are real people who have sat 980 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 4: down out and said, let me help you so that 981 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:07,640 Speaker 4: you are not anxious, but you're actually ready, ready to go. Well, 982 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,360 Speaker 4: you know, she's a super friend, a super friend, l 983 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:16,920 Speaker 4: Joy Williams, the president of the NAACP Brooklyn branch, but 984 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:21,400 Speaker 4: also so so so much more and also an author here. Okay, 985 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 4: that's what I'm talking about. Thank you, thank you so 986 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,720 Speaker 4: much for thanks. 987 00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 3: So with that said, we're going to go into my 988 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,960 Speaker 3: I don't get it since we're talking about civics, you know, 989 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 3: and I haven't really said anything about the Eric Adams 990 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 3: charges because I don't really know a lot of it 991 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,480 Speaker 3: about it, right, But I read the indictment and then 992 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,120 Speaker 3: I read the article that I read today just talking 993 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 3: about you know what there he's being accused of and 994 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 3: just getting a breakdown. 995 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 2: And I don't get how. 996 00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 3: Someone who is an elected official, right, and they have lobbyists. 997 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,919 Speaker 3: I've heard about having lobbyists, and they lobby for certain things, 998 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 3: and they lobby on behalf of certain things. And you know, 999 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:11,680 Speaker 3: the elected officials, the campaigns are funded, they have dinners, 1000 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 3: they raise money, and all of these things are supposed 1001 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 3: to be that you build a relationship with the elected 1002 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 3: official that you know that you advocate on behalf of yourself. 1003 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,879 Speaker 3: And now when it seems to me, right because I've 1004 00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,920 Speaker 3: heard this a few times that every time there's a 1005 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 3: black elected official, those things become criminal, right, And I'm 1006 00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:33,640 Speaker 3: not saying it is because I don't know all of 1007 00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,080 Speaker 3: the intricate things, like we don't know all of the evidence, 1008 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,880 Speaker 3: we don't know all the things, but it actually it 1009 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 3: seems to me as if you being close to an 1010 00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,400 Speaker 3: elected official, you know, raising money on behalf because you 1011 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 3: want to see that person in power, that you believe 1012 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,839 Speaker 3: in that person, and you having a relationship which puts 1013 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,560 Speaker 3: you in a position to where you could say, hey, 1014 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,399 Speaker 3: these things are wrong in our community or these things 1015 00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 3: we need in our community, and him be able to 1016 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,240 Speaker 3: advocate on behalf of you now with something that's ilegal, 1017 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 3: it's it's a bribe. 1018 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,439 Speaker 1: So I'm glad you're being vulnerable and. 1019 00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 3: I'm not listen to me and I don't know, and 1020 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 3: I don't agree with Eric Adams on a lot of things. 1021 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 3: And we, like we just said, we pushed back and 1022 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 3: I've had you know, if you look at I would 1023 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 3: drink Champs interview. 1024 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,720 Speaker 2: I sat down and I explained him to things. 1025 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 3: I didn't agree with, but as a man and as 1026 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 3: a black man, I understand that it's hard, especially in politics. 1027 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 2: I've watched this situation happen. This is not the first. 1028 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,440 Speaker 3: Time, this is not the second these this same situation 1029 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 3: I've seen happen to like four elected officials black elected officials. 1030 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 2: Right right. 1031 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 3: So I'm really don't get why the you know, the 1032 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:46,320 Speaker 3: the threshold right right, Why the criteria for advocacy and 1033 00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:51,160 Speaker 3: in fundraising and things seem to change when black officials are. 1034 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,920 Speaker 1: In Yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't change. 1035 00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,839 Speaker 4: And that's why I said, I'm glad that you asked, 1036 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,040 Speaker 4: because I think, as you said, that TMI is a 1037 00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,920 Speaker 4: forum and should be for us to educate people. 1038 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: But also sometimes we just don't know. 1039 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,319 Speaker 4: And when we don't know, we should not feel like, oh, 1040 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 4: we can't talk about that because we don't know. No, 1041 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 4: it's okay for us to say I don't know. And 1042 00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 4: so here's the thing. First of all, yes, there is 1043 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,440 Speaker 4: an attack on black elected officials. 1044 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,440 Speaker 1: We see it happening all over the country. 1045 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 4: What's our sister's name in Maryland, in Baltimore, and Marilyn Moseby, 1046 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 4: she is on. 1047 00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:26,319 Speaker 1: House arrest right now. 1048 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,760 Speaker 4: For something that is completely asinine, right, using her own 1049 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:34,320 Speaker 4: money in the purchase of a home, her own money, 1050 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 4: not stealing from the taxpayers, and making a mistake on 1051 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 4: the application. Even if the mistake was something that some 1052 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,799 Speaker 4: people will say it's intentional, she says that it wasn't. 1053 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,400 Speaker 4: In fact, she says that it did not even happen 1054 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 4: the way in which it has been portrayed, especially in 1055 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 4: the media. But now she's on house arrest, and you know, 1056 00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:59,680 Speaker 4: I think it's asinine. You now see that Angela Asselbrooks, 1057 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 4: who's running for senate in also in Maryland, she is 1058 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 4: being accused of not registering her grandmother's property the right way, 1059 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 4: which looks very to me as an oversight. But nonetheless 1060 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:22,000 Speaker 4: she's also experiencing this. You see Brian Benjamin, who has 1061 00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 4: never even purchased marijuana. Okay, this is a man who 1062 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 4: Brian as our friend. He's probably the cleanest clean person 1063 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,760 Speaker 4: I've ever ever ever met. 1064 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:32,120 Speaker 1: In my life. 1065 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 4: I know Brian, and you know Brian, and we've looked 1066 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 4: at his evidence, and we've looked at all of that, 1067 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,399 Speaker 4: and this young man's life has been destroyed, even though 1068 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 4: he's rebuilding it. 1069 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:42,240 Speaker 1: He will be fine. 1070 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:47,839 Speaker 4: Before the moment, Brian as the lieutenant governor of New 1071 00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 4: York State who was about to go on and become 1072 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 4: the governor. Right, he was definitely going to be the governor, 1073 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,120 Speaker 4: There's no question about it. He could raise the money, 1074 00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 4: he had, the relationships, he had the posture of not 1075 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,359 Speaker 4: being like a He'll say I'm a black capitalist, right, 1076 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 4: and that's something that he and I have gone back 1077 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 4: and forth on. Nonetheless, when he says I'm a black capitalist, 1078 00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:12,719 Speaker 4: I know there's some people who like to, you know, 1079 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,480 Speaker 4: who are looking at more their interests in politics. 1080 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:18,479 Speaker 1: They're like, okay, I could get with him. He's not the. 1081 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 4: Liberal, super progressive, you know, against people making money type 1082 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:24,880 Speaker 4: of person. So he did all the things right, he 1083 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:28,840 Speaker 4: checked all the boxes, and still they took him down 1084 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 4: over something that when you look at the evidence, first 1085 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:33,480 Speaker 4: of all, they've had to walk back some of it, 1086 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,960 Speaker 4: and second of all, the individual who was accusing him 1087 00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 4: was a white man who's deceased now. But also he 1088 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,000 Speaker 4: was somebody who was a criminal already in charge in 1089 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 4: trouble for some other things. And Brian seemed to become 1090 00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 4: the fish that he could give to the prosecutors and 1091 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,680 Speaker 4: to the United States. 1092 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,760 Speaker 1: The FEDS basically to why can't. 1093 00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:01,400 Speaker 4: I get the US Attorneys Office to get them to 1094 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:06,000 Speaker 4: maybe back down off of him, or just to ingratiate 1095 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,520 Speaker 4: himself with the system. So this goes on and on 1096 00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 4: and on, and we could keep going, Kim Fox this 1097 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:15,200 Speaker 4: people running for office and people in elected office all 1098 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,640 Speaker 4: over this nation, black people, so cool. 1099 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,920 Speaker 1: The charges for Eric. 1100 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 4: Adams, if there is evidence for those charges, real evidence 1101 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 4: that sticks on him, they are charges that are serious 1102 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 4: because number one, it's not that it's just people advocating 1103 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,880 Speaker 4: for themselves the way that you and I do. 1104 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,000 Speaker 1: These are business folks. These are not. 1105 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,919 Speaker 4: Community advocates who are like, oh, you know, I want 1106 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 4: to see more community centers and whatever. 1107 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: These are people who are making a lot of money. 1108 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 4: And by the way, Turkey specifically is not on a 1109 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,840 Speaker 4: good list with America. I don't want to give the 1110 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,600 Speaker 4: wrong title, but I know they're on some list of 1111 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,320 Speaker 4: like not being our friend or not being a nation 1112 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 4: that America has a strong relationship with. So when you're 1113 00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:04,800 Speaker 4: in relationship with them, and then they are able to 1114 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,040 Speaker 4: do business with the city. And then they said that 1115 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 4: the fire codes in the building that they wanted were 1116 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:15,760 Speaker 4: not up to par and it was like ninety different issues, 1117 00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 4: and they claimed that Mayor Adams called the fire department 1118 00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 4: over and over even after they declined to give them 1119 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,400 Speaker 4: the building, and they made it happen. This is what 1120 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 4: they This is what they're saying. I'm just you know, 1121 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,400 Speaker 4: so if there's evidence to prove that, if there's evidence 1122 00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:32,720 Speaker 4: to prove it, then we will be able to see 1123 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 4: whether he was actually involved in these things that they 1124 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 4: say happened for ten years or a longer period of time. 1125 00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 4: The main thing, though, which is the same kind of 1126 00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:47,960 Speaker 4: issue or the same charges that they bought against Brian Benjamin, 1127 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,720 Speaker 4: is the Straw donations, which is the ten million dollars 1128 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 4: that they speak about where they say he stole ten 1129 00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 4: million dollars, and it's also the way that the media 1130 00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 4: talks about these things. It stole ten men million dollars 1131 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 4: makes you think that he siphoned it off or put 1132 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 4: it in his bank account and spent it on his 1133 00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,040 Speaker 4: family and friends and was out partying with it. But 1134 00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 4: what they're saying is that these connects that he had 1135 00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 4: in Turkey, they had relationships, they took their relationships with 1136 00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,400 Speaker 4: other people, gave them money, and then those people made 1137 00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 4: donations on their behalf to boost their support. 1138 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,880 Speaker 1: For him, so that he would be indebted to them. 1139 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 4: And so I look at that, and if there's, like 1140 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:32,640 Speaker 4: I said, real evidence for it, I can. 1141 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,840 Speaker 1: See why he would be in real trouble. 1142 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 4: Now he says that the allegations are lies and it's 1143 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,400 Speaker 4: a bunch of slander and things that's being made up 1144 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,520 Speaker 4: or that is being blown up to make it look 1145 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,320 Speaker 4: like he's running some type of criminal enterprise, which, by 1146 00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:48,920 Speaker 4: the way, it is all kinds of investigations flying around 1147 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:52,440 Speaker 4: his office for different things. A couple of things I 1148 00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:55,960 Speaker 4: know is when I look at people who are also 1149 00:59:56,000 --> 01:00:00,120 Speaker 4: in the administration, like David Banks, who's the chancellor of 1150 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,520 Speaker 4: New York City Public Schools, and also sheen or right, 1151 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 4: and just a bunch of people there. 1152 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,240 Speaker 1: I could go on with the names. These are people 1153 01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 1: that I know. 1154 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 4: I know, especially the two that I named, I know 1155 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 4: that they would never be involved in a criminal enterprise. 1156 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 4: I know that there are many people within that administration 1157 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 4: that they would never. Ever, that's just not their character, 1158 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 4: it's not who they are. And I could say that, 1159 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,480 Speaker 4: and if I was ever proven wrong, I would have 1160 01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:28,080 Speaker 4: to come back and say I apologize, But I know, 1161 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 4: I know that these are people who just that that's 1162 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 4: just not with it. That's not what they do. The 1163 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 4: bank's family is just not what they do. So with 1164 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,520 Speaker 4: that being said, we have to before we start talking 1165 01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 4: about step down, resign all of this, we really do 1166 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,280 Speaker 4: have to be able to see whether or not this 1167 01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:48,600 Speaker 4: evidence is true and is tried and tested in the court. 1168 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:53,040 Speaker 4: Because my perspective on this is, even though Eric and 1169 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,200 Speaker 4: I have many, many different things that we disagree on 1170 01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 4: many his support for Israel and unfortunately the way in 1171 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,120 Speaker 4: which he either will not even address the palace in 1172 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,000 Speaker 4: their community or the way in which it's almost like 1173 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 4: he mocks it. I don't like that. I don't support that. 1174 01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,920 Speaker 4: I don't like his consistent support for police officers that 1175 01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,760 Speaker 4: we believe are rogue and disrespectful and harmful, very dangerous 1176 01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 4: in our communities. 1177 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 1: So there's enough. 1178 01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 4: There's a list of things that I could sit here, 1179 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 4: like we said, you don't got to make anything up 1180 01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 4: because there's a list of things. But I also want 1181 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,480 Speaker 4: to challenge those people who jump up and they're like, oh, 1182 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 4: that's it, you out. 1183 01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,400 Speaker 1: I want to challenge those people. 1184 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 4: You want poky though, who goes through who gets arrested 1185 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,520 Speaker 4: and all of that to be able to go before 1186 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 4: a court a law. 1187 01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: And for the evidence to prove they're wrong. 1188 01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 4: But then when it comes to him, we want to 1189 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 4: have a different standard, And I just that's something that 1190 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:50,680 Speaker 4: you can be mad or you want with me, but 1191 01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 4: I just don't support it. I'm not mad at anybody 1192 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,040 Speaker 4: who says we don't like Eric Adams. 1193 01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 1: Never did and therefore we. 1194 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 4: Feel that this is a moment when his leadership has 1195 01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 4: been shown to be like ineffective and he needs to 1196 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:02,959 Speaker 4: step down. 1197 01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 1: But I do think that there is something to be said. 1198 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 4: About these investigations that happen to be going on all 1199 01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 4: across the country to our or black elected officials. 1200 01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 1: I just I'm not with it. 1201 01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 4: So there's a side of me that understands what you're saying. 1202 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 4: But then there's also a side that we have to 1203 01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:21,480 Speaker 4: be very clear that the charges against him are not 1204 01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 4: a joke. 1205 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 1: They are serious charges. 1206 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 3: No, And I understand what you're saying. I'm just saying 1207 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,720 Speaker 3: based on what I was reading when I read the article. 1208 01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 4: The article you're talking about, you're talking about an article 1209 01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,960 Speaker 4: that says that the charge like it's an overcharge, like 1210 01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 4: it's an overread, which is the same thing they did 1211 01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 4: to Brian. 1212 01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:42,640 Speaker 3: And because it basically described what exactly happened to Brian Benjamin. 1213 01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:44,760 Speaker 3: So when I'm listening, I'm like, well, this is the 1214 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,240 Speaker 3: same thing that happened to Brian Benjamin. 1215 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:48,800 Speaker 2: And it's like, how do in what they say? 1216 01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,440 Speaker 3: The main thing that they say about these cases that 1217 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,560 Speaker 3: there has to be quid quote pro. 1218 01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 4: Quid pro pro quote fault. I can't never say quote 1219 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 4: quid pro quote, quit. 1220 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,240 Speaker 2: Quit pro quote. 1221 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:06,600 Speaker 3: The main thing they say about these cases they have 1222 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 3: to be quit pro quote. And that means that there 1223 01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:14,680 Speaker 3: has to be an established agreement between two parties that 1224 01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 3: if you do this, then I'll do that, right, And 1225 01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 3: that's what has to be established and. 1226 01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 1: Based on this, and they couldn't establish it for Briant And. 1227 01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:26,400 Speaker 2: There was no not really at all. 1228 01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,480 Speaker 3: All they had him doing was actually just given the 1229 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 3: grant organization for him to do what he does with 1230 01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,400 Speaker 3: the kids. There was nothing that you do this and 1231 01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna do that, right. So, and what I'm saying 1232 01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:40,040 Speaker 3: is this. 1233 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,360 Speaker 4: And the judge said that, let's just be clear judgment 1234 01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 4: qui pro quo. 1235 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, That's what I'm when I'm reading this article, they're 1236 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:49,440 Speaker 3: saying the same thing. 1237 01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 2: It's okay. 1238 01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,160 Speaker 3: Most of the time people do things for elected officials. 1239 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,120 Speaker 3: This is the elect official that you're trying to get 1240 01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,280 Speaker 3: in that you're going to try to get But the law, 1241 01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:00,480 Speaker 3: the law said that you would. 1242 01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:00,840 Speaker 2: Have to know. 1243 01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:04,200 Speaker 3: That's that's where quid quote pro quote comes in. Well, 1244 01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:06,760 Speaker 3: I would have to be aware that something's happening. If 1245 01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 3: you decide you you're one of my constituents, right, you 1246 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,720 Speaker 3: want to make sure I'm running for men, you want 1247 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:14,040 Speaker 3: to make sure that I get it, And you go 1248 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,560 Speaker 3: to all the whole block, like, listen, we need to 1249 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,440 Speaker 3: donate to my songs, and you get everybody and you 1250 01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,600 Speaker 3: rallying off and they all donate and they come from 1251 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 3: you and this and that right, and you decide I 1252 01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:24,920 Speaker 3: don't have any well. 1253 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:26,240 Speaker 1: Like the promise. 1254 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 4: But the problem is, well, I mean, but still again, 1255 01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 4: it's all about evidence, because if you alleged that someone 1256 01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 4: knew or that there was conversations between a staff and 1257 01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,439 Speaker 4: team members where they were coordinating, that it's one thing 1258 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,400 Speaker 4: to rally up your community. 1259 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,120 Speaker 1: I remember one time I said to an elected official. 1260 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,520 Speaker 4: I can't remember who it was, but I said, oh, okay, 1261 01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:49,200 Speaker 4: you want my mom and dad. I didn't know. I 1262 01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:51,000 Speaker 4: was very I didn't know. So they said, oh, my 1263 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,240 Speaker 4: mom and dad. I said, oh, well, I'm not going 1264 01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 4: to make them spend their money to donate for you. 1265 01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:56,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to give them money. And the elected official, 1266 01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: I can't remember. 1267 01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:58,760 Speaker 4: I know it was a man, but I cannot remember 1268 01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,440 Speaker 4: who it was stop me immediately and said it might 1269 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,280 Speaker 4: have been Jamiani. Stopped me immediately and said that is illegal. 1270 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 4: You cannot do that, absolutely not. And if your parents 1271 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 4: are to give me, it has to come from them. 1272 01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 4: You can ask them to donate to me, but that's fundraising, 1273 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:16,320 Speaker 4: but you cannot fund them giving me money. So again, 1274 01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:18,040 Speaker 4: that would be something where they would have to be 1275 01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,040 Speaker 4: evidence of it. Now we can speak to it as 1276 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,040 Speaker 4: it relates to Brian, because we with Brian we know 1277 01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,000 Speaker 4: from talking to him directly. We ain't talk to Eric 1278 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,800 Speaker 4: about this. Eric Adams, the mayor, but we have talked 1279 01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,640 Speaker 4: to Brian. We know that he had if it was done, 1280 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,080 Speaker 4: he don't know a dang one thing about it, was 1281 01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:36,000 Speaker 4: never involved in anything like that. 1282 01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:37,640 Speaker 1: So I'm sure that that is this. 1283 01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 4: Maybe maybe that's I don't know where Eric's I'm not 1284 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 4: going to try to deliberate his faith. But that would 1285 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 4: be a problem that you cannot give people money to 1286 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:52,600 Speaker 4: give And it's not just being around somebody my son, 1287 01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:55,480 Speaker 4: it's also a person. Like one of the things I 1288 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 4: saw in the evidence is they're saying, like, Okay, you 1289 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:00,360 Speaker 4: wanted to get you want to go to on a 1290 01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:04,200 Speaker 4: plane a plane and instead of you paying fifteen thousand dollars, 1291 01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 4: which is the cost of the ticket, you're paying one 1292 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:07,760 Speaker 4: thousand dollars. 1293 01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:11,000 Speaker 1: Now should people And it's a lot of people that don't. 1294 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,600 Speaker 4: Even care about that because I don't care about that, 1295 01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,000 Speaker 4: Like that doesn't move me at all, because I do 1296 01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:17,280 Speaker 4: understand it. If I'm in relationship with you and you 1297 01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,120 Speaker 4: have the ability to give me a deal on a 1298 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,280 Speaker 4: plane ticket, I don't see anything wrong with that. 1299 01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:23,440 Speaker 1: But the law says that that is illegal. 1300 01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:24,960 Speaker 2: See I didn't know that. I didn't know that the 1301 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,160 Speaker 2: law you take on somebody funding you. 1302 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 4: Affair, yes, you can't do it. And if you no, no, 1303 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 4: now you can. Like you can't even go out to dinner, 1304 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,200 Speaker 4: I cannot take you know, we have many friends in 1305 01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 4: their administration. 1306 01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:40,680 Speaker 1: When we go out to dinner, they have to pay 1307 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:41,440 Speaker 1: for themselves. 1308 01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 4: They cannot even take a dinner from us, if then 1309 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:46,840 Speaker 4: they could take it from me as a friend. But 1310 01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:50,320 Speaker 4: you know, you applied to the city for which ultimately 1311 01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:52,600 Speaker 4: puts me in it. But you applied to the city 1312 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:56,160 Speaker 4: for the youth centers and all of the youth operations 1313 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,040 Speaker 4: that you do in Newark. You're trying to do it 1314 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 4: here in New York. Well, when you as soon as 1315 01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 4: that application is in, you no longer because now that 1316 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:09,240 Speaker 4: would mean that you are providing favors for something in return. Now, 1317 01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,920 Speaker 4: because I'm friends with these people and there's clear evidence 1318 01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:14,760 Speaker 4: of us partying together YouTube, hanging out. They know we 1319 01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:18,560 Speaker 4: are friends, I might pay the bill at dinner and 1320 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:19,240 Speaker 4: that's okay. 1321 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:21,280 Speaker 1: But even then, depending on when. 1322 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:24,120 Speaker 4: It is what the conversation at the table was. Cause 1323 01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:27,200 Speaker 4: if the next person who's sitting at the production crew, 1324 01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:30,160 Speaker 4: this gentleman is sitting there and he said, oh, they're 1325 01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,840 Speaker 4: over there talking about whatever, you can't even do that. 1326 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,040 Speaker 4: So it has to be very very You could be 1327 01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:39,320 Speaker 4: talking about twerking and whatever you think, and that's cool. 1328 01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:41,600 Speaker 1: But soon as you say, well, you know, we put 1329 01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:42,840 Speaker 1: this application in for the city. 1330 01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:44,560 Speaker 4: Da da da da da, and we're trying to figure 1331 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,760 Speaker 4: out the dada that becomes that that elected official has 1332 01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 4: to pay for it, and then the reason why they 1333 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 4: do that is to cut back on people being able 1334 01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:53,240 Speaker 4: to pay the play. 1335 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 2: So well, that makes sense, you know. 1336 01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 3: So what I what I will say is that that's I'm. 1337 01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:00,880 Speaker 1: With you with the everybody black, but. 1338 01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:02,880 Speaker 3: It's it's definitely everybody black. I said, I said this 1339 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,560 Speaker 3: the other day. Black man got bad black man, damn 1340 01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:07,760 Speaker 3: bad man. It's like when when we look at the news, 1341 01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 3: it's just being from were just being taken down from 1342 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,639 Speaker 3: all angles man. And I want to give the benefit 1343 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 3: of the doubt, right, I want I want everybody's case 1344 01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:22,519 Speaker 3: to try out in court. Right, I'm not convicting anybody. 1345 01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:24,280 Speaker 3: People like, why you don't speak on Diddy? Why you 1346 01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:26,320 Speaker 3: ain't speaking because I don't know what happened with Diddy. 1347 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,679 Speaker 3: I know I spoke when I seen what happened with Casie, 1348 01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 3: I spoke about it. 1349 01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:31,519 Speaker 2: I said that it was Carol culture. I said that 1350 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:32,640 Speaker 2: I didn't condone that. 1351 01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:34,720 Speaker 3: I said, whatever he had to deal with that he's 1352 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:37,880 Speaker 3: needed to be held accountable for everything else I don't 1353 01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 3: know anything about. And I'm gonna let it play out 1354 01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:41,880 Speaker 3: in the court of law. And I would think that's 1355 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,400 Speaker 3: what men supposed to do in this situation. 1356 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 2: Just like with Eric Adams, I don't know what he did. 1357 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 3: I don't and I'm not gonna sit here and pile 1358 01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:51,639 Speaker 3: on another black man who's dealing with whatever he has 1359 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:54,320 Speaker 3: to deal with, because I would want somebody I went 1360 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 3: to trial for my life, right, and I was facing 1361 01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:00,519 Speaker 3: a bunch of time and I blew trial crime I 1362 01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,000 Speaker 3: didn't commit, and I had to deal with that right. 1363 01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:05,840 Speaker 2: So I understand those realities. So don't ask me. 1364 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 3: Don't come to me and ask me to pile up 1365 01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,519 Speaker 3: on another black man about something that I don't know about. 1366 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna let that man have his then court and 1367 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,600 Speaker 3: if he's found guilty, then he'll be held accountable. But 1368 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,519 Speaker 3: he's not gonna be held accountable for me because I'm 1369 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:20,400 Speaker 3: not the judge or the jury in those situations. And 1370 01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:23,320 Speaker 3: that's why I have this segment called I don't get 1371 01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:24,280 Speaker 3: it because I didn't get it. 1372 01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,519 Speaker 2: So you gave me some education about certain things. 1373 01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:28,280 Speaker 4: Well, there are some people who will say, well, what 1374 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:30,679 Speaker 4: about Tory Lanes and why was that different? 1375 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 1: Right? 1376 01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,400 Speaker 4: And what I would say is, first of all, we 1377 01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,800 Speaker 4: had we're looking at the case, or you were looking 1378 01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:38,400 Speaker 4: at the case. So we knew a lot more details 1379 01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:41,439 Speaker 4: than most people knew because we were actually getting We 1380 01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 4: were like out there looking and calling around trying to 1381 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:49,040 Speaker 4: find like because for a woman to like lie on 1382 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,320 Speaker 4: a man and say that he shot her. 1383 01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,439 Speaker 1: That was something that really disturbed me. 1384 01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:56,040 Speaker 4: Like I was really like, Nah, this can't this can't 1385 01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:58,519 Speaker 4: be but what I and so we were looking at it. 1386 01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:00,479 Speaker 4: But one of the things that I I did, if 1387 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,400 Speaker 4: you ever go back and you look, I never said 1388 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 4: he did it or didn't do it. I just said 1389 01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:07,400 Speaker 4: stopped lying and saying that she wasn't shot because she 1390 01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:11,599 Speaker 4: was and she was being antagonized. And after I did 1391 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:14,759 Speaker 4: my due diligence and my research, it became very clear 1392 01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,599 Speaker 4: to me what was going on and what happened to her. 1393 01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,240 Speaker 4: But what I can appreciate about you is that you 1394 01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,479 Speaker 4: did say after you first was like he did it. 1395 01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:23,200 Speaker 1: He did he did it? 1396 01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,440 Speaker 4: Because you know, sometimes we get passionate and over zealous. 1397 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,240 Speaker 4: You said, you know what, actually I'm wrong for posting 1398 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,000 Speaker 4: this that I'm gonna take it down because it was 1399 01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:34,080 Speaker 4: wrong for me to even come out here saying these 1400 01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,479 Speaker 4: things without this man being able to go through his 1401 01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:37,360 Speaker 4: dand court. 1402 01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,840 Speaker 2: Yep, and that's you know, and it was wrong. 1403 01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:42,320 Speaker 3: And I said that as a man, and I learned 1404 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 3: from that situation, even though that's how I felt in 1405 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,639 Speaker 3: my heart, even though I knew certain things about the situation, 1406 01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,479 Speaker 3: and we watched things play on in court. It's like, 1407 01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:52,519 Speaker 3: you know, a man got caught with the gun. He 1408 01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 3: did this, and I heard the videotape, I mean, the 1409 01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 3: audio table was happening. I like, there were certain things, 1410 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,080 Speaker 3: and then I watched when he said a friend did 1411 01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:04,439 Speaker 3: it and then said she didn't do it, like I 1412 01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,960 Speaker 3: literally watched and said to myself this, I've seen this 1413 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:10,559 Speaker 3: behavior before. So I made my decision based on it, 1414 01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 3: and I was willing to stand by, but I still 1415 01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,120 Speaker 3: didn't want to come out publicly and say what I said. 1416 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 2: I was frustrated and I was watching. 1417 01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:19,040 Speaker 3: I felt like the woman was being attagonized and I 1418 01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:21,080 Speaker 3: was trying to stand up for her, and I moved 1419 01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,160 Speaker 3: in a way that I normally. 1420 01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,200 Speaker 2: Wouldn't move, and I apologize for that as a man. 1421 01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:28,400 Speaker 3: So moving forward in this situation, I'm giving everybody the 1422 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 3: same grace because I have way less information about these 1423 01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:33,679 Speaker 3: cases than I even had a boy. 1424 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:37,559 Speaker 4: Because we literally was online digging for a court document, 1425 01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 4: a dialogue with Tori. 1426 01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:43,640 Speaker 3: And just explained to him and just the way, the 1427 01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:45,920 Speaker 3: way that he carried it to me was wrong. And 1428 01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,439 Speaker 3: you know, I don't wish jail on anybody. You know, 1429 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,800 Speaker 3: I'm here a lot of things that he's he's doing 1430 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:54,519 Speaker 3: things for inmates and jail, donating to their funds. You know, 1431 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:59,840 Speaker 3: hopefully he comes home, he's he's more successful, he's learned 1432 01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:02,080 Speaker 3: from whatever mistakes he's made in the past. I do 1433 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 3: not wish jail on anyone in the world, but I 1434 01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:08,680 Speaker 3: understand that there are consequences for your actions, right, and 1435 01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:10,080 Speaker 3: you need to be held accountable. 1436 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,200 Speaker 2: And if you did something, then you got to deal 1437 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:12,439 Speaker 2: with it. 1438 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:16,519 Speaker 3: As men, we fall down, we realize we made mistakes, 1439 01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:18,920 Speaker 3: and we get back up and we move forward. So 1440 01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:21,680 Speaker 3: you know, I just want everybody to just moving up. 1441 01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:24,320 Speaker 3: Just understand, we dealing with a lot of dark forces 1442 01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,160 Speaker 3: right now. There's a lot going on, and black men 1443 01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:29,040 Speaker 3: are under attack, and I keep saying black men are 1444 01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:33,000 Speaker 3: damn bad. So I'm just saying, just hold the complete judgment, right. 1445 01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:35,280 Speaker 3: You cannot like somebody, say that you don't like somebody, 1446 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:38,760 Speaker 3: but just hold off from paling on right, because when 1447 01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:42,759 Speaker 3: you pile on to somebody you know and you don't 1448 01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,519 Speaker 3: know what's going on and you just completely convict, it's 1449 01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:49,640 Speaker 3: hard to eat that crow you. 1450 01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:51,920 Speaker 4: But and I mean, you know what I feel as 1451 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 4: a woman, I feel many different ways. And this is 1452 01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:58,080 Speaker 4: not something that I have not said directly to puff 1453 01:12:58,160 --> 01:13:01,680 Speaker 4: to others that are close to this situation. After not 1454 01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 4: just watching the video or Cassie, but also listening to 1455 01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:07,360 Speaker 4: some of the stories, It's disturbing. That's it. It's nothing else. 1456 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:10,840 Speaker 4: It is disturbing. It's painful. I you know, my heart 1457 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 4: goes out to Cassie because even in the midst of 1458 01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,880 Speaker 4: all of this, while it may seem like, you know, 1459 01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:19,599 Speaker 4: justice is coming, she still suffered and experienced something that 1460 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:23,040 Speaker 4: I watched happen with my eyes on that videotape. 1461 01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 1: That couldn't have been the first time. It just couldn't 1462 01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:25,599 Speaker 1: have been. 1463 01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:27,640 Speaker 4: That's the way I feel about it, and I have 1464 01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:32,680 Speaker 4: no problem saying that in public. Nonetheless, I know how 1465 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,759 Speaker 4: these prosecutors work. When they give you an indictment. Baby, 1466 01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:38,400 Speaker 4: the charges got stuff in it that you're like, WHOA, 1467 01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 4: what is this? 1468 01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:39,800 Speaker 1: How is that? 1469 01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:40,040 Speaker 2: Oh? 1470 01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,680 Speaker 4: And they make it you know, because even having a 1471 01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:46,639 Speaker 4: thousand big bottles of baby oil and lubricant or whatever. Now, 1472 01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:49,759 Speaker 4: while that may give you some type of thought about 1473 01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 4: what could be happening, it's not illegal. And I don't 1474 01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:54,920 Speaker 4: believe that a jury is gonna be like, oh, that's it, 1475 01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:59,240 Speaker 4: that's the convicting thing. So this but that's and that's also. 1476 01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:02,760 Speaker 4: But that's how we know from reading indictments. That's how 1477 01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 4: it works. So when you actually get court documents and 1478 01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,320 Speaker 4: you are in court and you can hear what is 1479 01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:12,000 Speaker 4: being said and how information is being translated, that's when 1480 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:15,000 Speaker 4: you start to understand like what it boils down to 1481 01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,840 Speaker 4: what is the real truth in the end of the day. 1482 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,960 Speaker 4: So that's what we all will see and have to 1483 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,120 Speaker 4: wait to see, not just in that case, but it's 1484 01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:24,120 Speaker 4: a many of them life. 1485 01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:26,000 Speaker 1: We got this case. 1486 01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,040 Speaker 4: It's a lot going on. But anyway, so we out 1487 01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:29,719 Speaker 4: of here today. 1488 01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:32,240 Speaker 3: We out to hear man once again, shout out to 1489 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:35,800 Speaker 3: our TMI family. Make sure you hit us up and 1490 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,800 Speaker 3: DM must let us know about what topics you want, 1491 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 3: who you want us to interview. Tell us we number one. 1492 01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,360 Speaker 3: Tell us you love us the best. Tell me that 1493 01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 3: Tamika is always arguing me and I'm always right. I 1494 01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:49,599 Speaker 3: want to be right all the time, so we appreciate you. 1495 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,280 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna always be right, Tamika is not gonna 1496 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,760 Speaker 3: always be wrong, but we will both always and I 1497 01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:56,000 Speaker 3: mean always. 1498 01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:59,240 Speaker 1: Be author pace Fore, I'm Tamika D. 1499 01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:01,599 Speaker 2: Mallory, your boy, my son in general. 1500 01:15:01,720 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 1: We are your host of tam. 1501 01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 3: I, Tamika and my Son's information, truth, motivation and inspiration. 1502 01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,240 Speaker 1: New name, New Energy SA