1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time to 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: y'all don't know, y'all a suit on giving them like 3 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: the milking things and it's not good. Steve, Steve, I 4 00:00:38,760 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: don't join me. You gotta do that. Turn you turn 5 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: to turn them out, turn, got to turn them out 6 00:01:46,880 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: of water, the water go. Come come on your thing, huh, 7 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: I say, well, okay, martying everybody you're listening to the voice, 8 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey 9 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Okay, I got something for you today. 10 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a conversation this morning about my understanding 11 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: of grace now that I've gotten older and I've come 12 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: in to a better understanding of a lot of things 13 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know about when I was younger. This is 14 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: just my interpretation of grace. Now once again, y'all listen 15 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: to me. I ain't nobody's pastor, I ain't nobody's minister. 16 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: So you know, I'm pretty sure you can go to 17 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: church and get a far more extensive definition of one 18 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm giving you. I'm just talking to people. You know, 19 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: Grace is this thing that that God provides for us. 20 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: And Grace's just things that you get that's really undeserving, 21 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I look at my life as 22 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 1: it is today. You now, look, I work hard and 23 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: I have faith in God that I do so things 24 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: are going to happen in my life. But the way 25 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: my life is now, I don't. I don't. I don't 26 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: deserve all of this. I don't don't. I don't look 27 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: at it that way. I have been the beneficiary of 28 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: God's grace. I have aligned myself in a position to 29 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: accept whatever grace God has for me, and it will 30 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: be far abundant and exceedingly in anything you could think of. 31 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: His grace supersedes anything you could possibly imagine. You know, 32 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: the goals that I set and the aspirations that I 33 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: shoot for, and the things that I have on my 34 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: dream board. I have the faith that God will give 35 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: it to me. But what He does with grace, he 36 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: gives you far more than that. He gives you what 37 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: He has for you, not what you can see. You 38 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: can't see all he has for you. It's impossible. Who 39 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: are you? How can you possibly imagine what he can imagine? 40 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: How can you possibly think, how he can think? How 41 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: can you possibly do what he can do? How can 42 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: it be that isn't a single mind living or a 43 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: collection of minds that could have thought of Earth. What 44 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: in your wildest imagination could have made you think of Earth? 45 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 1: The stars, the heavens, the oceans, the galaxy, the constellations. 46 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: What in your mind? What in any man's mind. We 47 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: can point at it and analyze it, but we show 48 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: it couldn't have thought of it. So come on now, 49 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: I'm talking about lining yourself up with God's grace, which 50 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: he will give to you if you if you want 51 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: some of it now. But now, his thing about grace, 52 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: it can't be bought. If it could, if it could 53 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: be bought, I'm telling you I would pour all the 54 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: money I have and dump it into grace, because, after 55 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: discovering what it is, it's this goodness that God shines 56 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: on you simply as a reward of some type for 57 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: his love for you and for you attempting for you, 58 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: attempting to do right, not because you get it right. 59 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: Because if He judged us purely on how we are 60 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: the right and wrong of it, we would all be doomed, 61 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,799 Speaker 1: all of us, every last one of us, would be doomed, 62 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: because we all fall short, we all make mistakes, We 63 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: all sin. We all get it wrong from time to time. 64 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 1: Nobody's perfect. Man. Now I understand what my mother was 65 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: saying about cleaning the house. All I want is a 66 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: little more grace. All I need is a little more 67 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: grace when the last time you ask God for some grace. 68 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm not talking to you like I know everything. If 69 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: you just benefit from His grace, which you already have, 70 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: but if you're not aware of it, you don't know 71 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: what's going on. Become aware of grace, Get aware of 72 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,679 Speaker 1: the fact that God does things for you simply because 73 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: He loves you. He does things for you that you 74 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: don't even deserve. Somehow, you just wonder how you just 75 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: got over when you didn't even do the things to 76 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: get over. Sometimes you don't even know how you got 77 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: that job you got when you ain't even really do 78 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: the things to get your job. How you end up 79 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: where you are all the education you thought you went 80 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: and got it, and hey, how you end up where 81 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: you are today in a much better position than your 82 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: education could have ever gotten you. That's grace. How I 83 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: get every place I am today. I didn't plan this, Man, 84 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: If I could have planned my life the way it is, 85 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: don't you know how to have have done it when I 86 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: was living in that car, if I knew how to 87 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: do it, No, I benefited from his grace. I'm just 88 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: a beneficiary of his grace, of his goodness and his mercy. 89 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: God's goodness is better than your goodness. God's goodness is 90 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: better than your mother's goodness. It's better than your wife's 91 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: or your husband or your booze goodness. God's goodness is different. 92 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: His goodness man covers some stuff you can't even imagine. 93 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: So why are you trying to put your life together 94 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: when the last time you asked him for just a 95 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: little bit of grace? When have you thought of your 96 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: life in terms of the grace that it has already 97 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: benefited from? Have you ever done that? Man? Just thought 98 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: about you know? You hear songs like my soul looked 99 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 1: back and wonder how I got over? How's grace? That's 100 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: all I can call it. Now. Like I said, you 101 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: can go at church or somewhere ever you want to 102 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: and ministers that the wind at school to teach this 103 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: thing way better than me. I'm just giving you from 104 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: a layman standpoint. Man, have you thought about his grace? 105 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: Would you not bewall to be a beneficiary of his grace, 106 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: would it not say? Now, check this out. The better 107 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: you try to do, the more grace he'll give to you. 108 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,679 Speaker 1: And that grace can't be bought, Like I said, it's free. 109 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: You can't purchase grace. But the better you try to become, 110 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: the more the more grace he gets to put your way. 111 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: So man, just try, why don't you just try to 112 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: do better? Look man, quicktop mind, I'm gonna start next week. 113 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna start at the new year. Now you naw, 114 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: you don't do that every year, you know, the embras 115 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: at the new Year. I'm gonna eat better at the 116 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: new Year. I'm gonna I'm gonna gonna get in here 117 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: and the new year. If you're gonna do it, you're 118 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: gonna do it now. Man, you're gonna do not stop 119 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 1: trying to do something, do it, stop talking about it, 120 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: do it now. The best way to benefit from his 121 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: grace is starting action now in old w now right 122 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: now today. What you're waiting on. All you're doing is 123 00:08:56,320 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: delaying his opportunity to bless you. You know, man, you know, 124 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: do you know how many times we do that? We 125 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: delay his opportunity to bless us by not starting now. 126 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: If you're gonna get healthy, why don't you start now? 127 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: Now You're gonna trip a little bit called to holidays coming, 128 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: But you ain't got to eat bad all the time. 129 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: You could start eating correct today, you could. You could, 130 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: and then guess what that could be? Some grace on 131 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: the end of that. I'm just giving you a little 132 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: cheap analogy. But do you feel what I'm saying to you? 133 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: Start thinking in terms of grace, what He has done 134 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: for you and provided for you that you ain't even 135 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: see coming that you know, you keep calling them blessings, 136 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: and I got that A lot of it house all 137 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: it is. But man, have you thought about the stuff 138 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: that didn't happen to you? You can't account for I. 139 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: For me, that's been grace and I'm beneficiary of it. 140 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: And that's available to everybody that wants some. Next time 141 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: you're talking to him, just check in with grace. See 142 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: what that is. That's that's better than money. You're listening, 143 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, fist. I was gonna do Earl of Aldingham, 144 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: but I changed my mind, and so I just I 145 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: just allowed you to hear the mind change man it, boys, 146 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: something else. This best your radio brilliance when I allow 147 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 1: you to not only hear what I'm thinking, but hear 148 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: what I'm thinking as I changed my mind while I'm thinking, boy, boy, 149 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: shallow mind. That's that's a quote right there. That's that's 150 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: too much for early morning radio. Almost Yeah, you gotta 151 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: put that on like a news chandow of some see 152 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 1: it again. I can't tell me you don't remember just 153 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: that fast, even for him. Hey dog, Hey dog, hey dog. 154 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: Them deep moments be fleeting. You gotta catch it. Ladies 155 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: and gentleman. Welcome to the Steve Harvey More the Show. 156 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: Sherley Strawberry calling for real my third of South Junior Government, 157 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: name kills space and the legend of Nephew Tommy. Your 158 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, I mean is who I mean? Is? 159 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: Come on you and your yes Sarah? What is it today? Today? Man? 160 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: I got I got some mesues, uncle, I just want 161 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: to just talk and pop. Somebody else out here got 162 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: the same issue up quitting man quitting, it's not an option. 163 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: You got a lot be wrong with you, Yeah, duncan yeah, 164 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: every day every day. Yeah, hey, Junior and dark I'm 165 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: trying to convince somebody. You saw. I called you yesterday 166 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 1: because I need you to talk to somebody for me. 167 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: But quinning is not an option. Yeah, it's not an option. 168 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: You had called and then I needed you to talk 169 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: to somebody and I don't, and then I didn't have 170 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 1: time for that yet. I saw that dumb my plate food, 171 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 1: And let me ask you a question. Person you wanted 172 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: to talk to, who would they to you? Who is 173 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: my son? And what my son? Yeah? Yeah, don't see 174 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: I got kids and grandkids now see me? Hold up, man, 175 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:34,119 Speaker 1: y'all just being made too much. September. It's mark I okay, 176 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: go ahead, okay, okay, So she has a son, So 177 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: tell me what conituation is because he's he don't know 178 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: what to do. It's life. He quitting, man, he quitting. 179 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: That's what you wanted. He quitting everything. He just don't 180 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 1: want to do that. I can okay, okay, No, no, 181 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: listen to me, well, no, no, no, no, listen to me. 182 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: People who quit everything soon discover if that ain't a 183 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: good idea, that's a lesson. You don't even have to teach. 184 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: When a person decides to quit everything and do nothing, 185 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: something fitting to happen. Damn near immediate. That's a lesson. 186 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: You don't even have to get in. Trust me, wake 187 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: up tomorrow and say I'm not doing nothing else. The 188 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 1: consequences is immediately. Life got him. Don't he worry about it? Man, 189 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: You take that off your to do list. Oh that's 190 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: gonna come to your real fan. All right, we'll call 191 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 1: him back, Steve, call him back, coming up at thirty 192 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: two minutes after the hour, will here from the nephew 193 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: who will run that frank back right after this you're 194 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: listening to show it is time to start your morning 195 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: off now with the nephew who is back to run 196 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: that frank back. Nephew, what do you have? You know? 197 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 1: Sure not? I have an invitation to the party. An 198 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: invitation to the party. Now that sounds pretty simple, don't 199 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: sounds harmless? And invitation to the party. But this is 200 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: a different type of party. Yes, we are inviting to 201 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: a swinger's party. An invitation to the party at don't 202 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: knock it to you're trying to see you ain't anybody invited? Y'all? 203 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: See anybody might because you got attitude of about okay, okay, cool? 204 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: You know, and do you want to come to the party. 205 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: Do you not want to come to party? I asked 206 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: tsh an invitation to him? No, crazy, let's go catch 207 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: dog an invitation to the party. You know, I'm trying 208 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: to read Danny. Yeah, what's up, hey, Danny? How are 209 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: you doing. My name is Paul Man. How you doing today, Rob? 210 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: I'm good, Man, I'm good. What's up? Hey man? I 211 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: wanted to reach out to you man um about your wife. 212 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: You you married to Nicole, right? I want to make 213 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: sure I got the right person. Yeah, yeah, this again. 214 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: My name is Paul Man. I know Nicolele. Nicole knows 215 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: my wife. My wife is Regina, and uh, you know, 216 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: we know we know Nicole real well. Man. We was 217 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: trying to, uh we trying to actually see about getting 218 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: getting you guys, uh come out and uh maybe maybe 219 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: go out on a double days man, we all go 220 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: out into town. So you know my wife Nicole? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 221 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: she Um, I got your number out of Nicole's phone 222 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: and okay, hold on, wait wait, wait what you mean 223 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: you got my number out of Nicole's phone? You got 224 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: you you you? I'm not understanding what's going on though, Okay, line, 225 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: let me let me, let me try to break this 226 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: down to you man. Uh, myself, my wife, Rigina, and Nicole. 227 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: Uh we we've all actually been hanging out lately, you know, 228 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: in the last last six weeks or two months. You know. Now, 229 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: you ain't hanging up with my wife. Okay, My my 230 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: wife with me all the time, bro, So you know 231 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: you might want to you might have a wrong number. No, no, 232 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: you you you Danny right, I'm Danny, okay, and the 233 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 1: coal is is your wife. Nicole is like about five 234 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: foot four or five foot five, light life. Yeah, my boy, 235 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: my wife, but you ain't. You ain't hanging out would have? Okay, man, 236 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to explain to you what's going on, and 237 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: if you want to listen to the school, I'm just 238 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: trying to Okay, here, here's what's up. Get to your 239 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: point man, Me, Nicole and my wife have been swinging. 240 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: That's some bully. That's some bull. You know what you 241 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: walking up the wrong feet off you? This some buy 242 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: you you you know, just just this some bull. Hey, man, boy, 243 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: I want to go. I wanted to call you and 244 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 1: tell you what was going on and see if you 245 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: wanted to you all my that's the wrong number for show. 246 00:16:56,520 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: Trust me. Let's just break this down. How many Danny? 247 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: He is it? Dog? It ain't that men? So I mean, dude, 248 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: I mean you're gonna be in denial? Are you gonna go? 249 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 1: And except what I'm trying to tell you, I'm trying 250 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: to comfort need. What I'm trying to body you to 251 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: come hang out with me and the girls? You know, 252 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: do you wanna? Do you want to? I mean this 253 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 1: might be something you might like if you tried, man, 254 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: because I mean, we don't have a lot of fun 255 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,479 Speaker 1: with the color? What what the you mean that far 256 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: with it? Ain't no guy fun with the pole? So 257 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: what you trying to tell I mean you trying to 258 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: tell y'all who had fun with Nicold? Explain to you. 259 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: We we're gonna explain my No, that explains man. Listen, 260 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: buy okay, what I know my wife and I know 261 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 1: she ain't a boy like that, and I never heard that. 262 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: I had never heard of you, and you're my wife 263 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: and we've been a cup of a year, so this 264 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: some buy? Okay, Well, here's something you need to understand. Man. 265 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: You know your understand nothing. You need understand your wife. 266 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: But I know what to I know, I know I 267 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: know the Cone now, I mean the oldest you know 268 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: what where you at. I'm rolling through the city right now. 269 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: I got some work I gotta do. But I'm just 270 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: trying to I need to do with my eyes on you. 271 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: I need to put my eyes on your money. Okay, 272 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: A man, do you want to come do what we 273 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: be doing? And so you trying to tell me that 274 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: my wife have been with another woman? Yes, man, it 275 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: is beautiful. Dog. You gotta see it. Man. You know, 276 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to keep it real with you. Dog. 277 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: I was just trying to let you, man, let you 278 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: know what was going on. See, I'm thinking you might 279 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: want to be a you know, you know, try it yourself. 280 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 1: You know. That's all I'm thinking. Man, I ain't. I 281 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: ain't trying to start nothing. You know what. More, I 282 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: don't know know them, got Paul, I don't know them more. 283 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: And I don't know why you calling my phone? And 284 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 1: I tell you what, when my wife get home, I'm fine. 285 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm for this one boys, but this one boys, man 286 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: got problem. Okay, Calm down though, Man, No, you don't 287 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: call my mother your number out here. You're gonna tell 288 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 1: me to calm down. You're telling you get my wife, 289 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: your wife speaking with my another. My wife was another 290 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: one day man, and Timmy is the one that told 291 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: us that Nicole was down the whole Tommy, Hey dog nephew, 292 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve By Morning Show. Hey nephew, tim 293 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: Me man from the Steve Bob Morning Show. You're wife 294 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: and Nicole got me the pray phone call you dog man. 295 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 1: That ain't even funny. Wow, you know right, man, man, 296 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 1: I'm pleaded. I'm glad. I'm glad. This was just the 297 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: border show. Man. Y'all just met me. But look here, man, 298 00:19:54,280 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: somebody or somebody gonna get your You gotta ask you, man, 299 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 300 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: show in the land? Number one? Man, don't even look 301 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: over here. You don't. You don't want to invitation? Nope, 302 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: I don't nobody want, but I want to go all right? 303 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 1: Coming up next it is as the cello, our Chief 304 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building and he's waiting. 305 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 1: You're listening to the same Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 306 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. In National News, Mexican 307 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: cartel's apology after deadly abduction of Americans. Plus in Trending 308 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: Entertainment News, Hollywood's newest it guy, Jonathan Majors is ready 309 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: to fully embody the role of Dennis Rodman in the 310 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: forthcoming biopic, and in sports Entertainment News, Coca Cola pulls 311 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: John mor Ransom Power Aid ad campaign amid suspension. We'll 312 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: talk about all of this at the top of the hour, 313 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: but right now it's time to ask the clo. This 314 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: one is from Lindsay and Jacksonville, who writes, I'm dating 315 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: a man that has a seven year old daughter that 316 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: loves talking slick to grown people. He puts her off 317 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 1: on me when I leave to go shopping or run errands. 318 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: Her behavior is making me reconsider my relationship, and he 319 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: keeps saying she will grow out of it. Do I 320 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: discipline her or take a break from them? Well, see 321 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 1: what I do is my father had a simple all 322 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: motto when we was being raids. Wherever you show out, 323 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,640 Speaker 1: that's where you get worked out. We've all heard disciplined yet, 324 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: so see if you throw attention and fall in the 325 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: flow there we all though, can fall in the floor. 326 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: So since you were at seventh you like to talk slick, 327 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: let me introduce you to real slick talk. I'm gonna 328 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: lean down in your little Samie old ear and what 329 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 1: I'm thinking say in the yolder inside of your little 330 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: samiel head, gonna your ass is gonna be required some therapy. 331 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: So what you're not gonna do? See see, whenever you 332 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: talk slick to me, what I'm thinking my counter slick statement, 333 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 1: it's gonna throw you into something. Example. Okay, surely you 334 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: beat the child and you say something slick cooking. Oh hey, 335 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: what you got on today? I don't like that. I'm 336 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: my head is a whole ass whipping on top of 337 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: you in a second. Daddy, Dad, ain't you real? Daddy? 338 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: Go ahead calling? I don't like your hair. It's ugly. 339 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: I don't is it a wig? It's ugly. I don't 340 00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 1: like your mama's hell, but your daddy huh? And Gabe, 341 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: wish you didn't you daddy? Call you damn daddy already 342 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: he ain't here. We are shopping see right there. See 343 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna stop talking slip to me so she'll have 344 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: no need to discipline her at that. Oh you ain't 345 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 1: got to worry about that slick talk. I'm gonna show 346 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: you how I go. I'm gonna hurt you, all right? 347 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Hailey and London. Haley says, 348 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: I'm working remotely and I have not seen my husband 349 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,640 Speaker 1: since I was home for the holidays. He keeps making 350 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: up excuses for not visiting, and he won't answer my 351 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: FaceTime calls. I want to pop up on him, but 352 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: I'm too far away for that foolishness? Is it bad 353 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 1: if I find a male escort to keep me company? 354 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 1: I have needs? Wow? I don't understand this question at all. Yeah, 355 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: that's she's working from home remotely. I don't understand what 356 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: she's saying. Should Well, she she hasn't seen her husband, 357 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: she's in London. She's in London, Oh, Canada. Yeah, she 358 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: hasn't been home for the holiday. You know, she hasn't 359 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: seen her husband since the holidays. Oh, he won't visit 360 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 1: her in London. Oh. And are you asking me that 361 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: you need a male escort to keep her company because 362 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: she has Well, I don't know what you need, and 363 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about your need, but I know 364 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: he he ain't coming to London and he ain't answering that. 365 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: Damn phone one and one is usually two most of 366 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: the time. Y'all need to quit trying all this new math. Now. 367 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: Some of this stuff is just basic ass a rhythmetic 368 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: carrying that one. Yeah, I know they stopped carrying the one, 369 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: but y'all need to get her two times two is four. 370 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: It's quit trying to make it something else. You ain't 371 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 1: talk to your man since the holidays. It's Marge and 372 00:24:52,040 --> 00:25:00,439 Speaker 1: he don't FaceTime or return call girl. It's over daylight 373 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: saving times. There's a whole lot of happen man. Hell yeah, 374 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: what all right? Moving on to Sabrina in Vegas. Sabrina says, 375 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,360 Speaker 1: I live in a town home community and I heard 376 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: my neighbor making sex sounds this morning, but his wife 377 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 1: was at work. She had just called me to see 378 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: if I wanted to go work out with her later. 379 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 1: I didn't see anyone leave their house, but I saw 380 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: a strange car parked on the street. Should I tell 381 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: the wife what I heard? Oh? You got nothing to 382 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,120 Speaker 1: do with you? Tell tell his wife? What what you're 383 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: gonna tell his wife? I heard some sex sounds coming 384 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:44,679 Speaker 1: from your house? Yeah the TV? You mean? Uh huh? Hello? 385 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: What else? Good? Seas love? He's so good at he's 386 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 1: so good. I'm just trying to call out what you heard, 387 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: or wasn't him and the wife on the phone having 388 00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 1: a phone conversation. See, you don't even know. You're just 389 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: running your mouth. Take your ass to work out with 390 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 1: the lady and shut up and make your own sounds. 391 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: Why don't you get some business at your house? Maybe 392 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 1: that's it sounds coming from your bed room. So now 393 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: you're hearing stuff outside. Oh, she's a hater all day. Okay, 394 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: you're here to saying, don't kill the messenger. My father 395 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: taught me very different. Pay attention to who the messenger is. 396 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: So it's the reason they bring it you bad? Okay, 397 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: all right, I like that, all right? Moving on, last one, Steve, 398 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: Last one. This is a Kimika in East Saint Louis. 399 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 1: Kimika says, I've been living with a man that I 400 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: don't love for three years, but the sex is off 401 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: the chain and he spoils me. My friends say I'm 402 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: crazy to want to leave him, but I think my 403 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: soulmate is out there somewhere. Should I risk everything to 404 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: find true love? Yeah? You should, that you ain't. One 405 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 1: more time you should, but you ain't. And why it's 406 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 1: been three years? First of all. He's failing you with everything. 407 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: And when I say everything, I mean everything. Every time 408 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 1: you think about me. He break out that power drill 409 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: that he got, come down the hold deepot ll. He 410 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 1: pull out that power drill that he got in the 411 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: home deep rolling, and then and then and then and 412 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 1: then sat down on you with that monkey wrench and 413 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: then and then and then go back in there and 414 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: get that that roller that you put the water in 415 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: and smooth your grass out, that that big landscape water pere. 416 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: Then he coming there with that garden holes that do 417 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:59,719 Speaker 1: like this. Uh. He got all the trick. He got 418 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: a yard and hoole he got. He got the rake 419 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: that moved the rocks. He got everything. He got whill barrow, 420 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 1: he got the sled he got he just in that 421 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: doing his yard work. Boy got bolch, he got a 422 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: pie watching. He got everything. He coming to He going 423 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 1: to work. Baby, No way you can leave this man. 424 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: And he spoils you, and he know how to cook. 425 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: Got you laying up in the feeling like cake batter. 426 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: You're just getting will Okay, where him going new? Watch? 427 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: Where's your ass going? Watch? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you better 428 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: stay there. Thank you. Silo coming up at the top 429 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you 430 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show. A Mexican cartel 431 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:12,959 Speaker 1: has taken responsibility and apologized for the kidnapping of four Americans, 432 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: two of whom died. The Gulf Cartel says the perpetrators 433 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: were acting on their own in violation of cartel rules. 434 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: Five men were found tied up near a pickup truck 435 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: Thursday morning, and a note was found on its windshield. 436 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: Law enforcement sources say the letter is legitimate. The note 437 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: says the Gulf Cartel GROUPO strongly condemned the events of Friday, 438 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: March third, in which, unfortunately, an innocent working mother died 439 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: and four American citizens were kidnapped, of which two died. 440 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: For this reason, we have decided to hand over those 441 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: involved and directly responsible for the event, who at all 442 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: times acted under their own determination and in discipline, and 443 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: against the rules in which the cde CDG has already 444 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,719 Speaker 1: operated and has always operated. For Americans drove into Mexico 445 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: a week ago so one of them could undergo a 446 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 1: cosmetic procedure, which is much cheaper south of the border. 447 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: They were abducted by cartel members The two who were 448 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: killed were cousins Shade Woodard and Zendel Brown. And this 449 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: is just a horrible story right here. It's just horrible. Yeah. 450 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 1: I never seen the cartel apologize. Then they turned those guys. Wow. Yeah, well, Steve, 451 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: you know you've heard the code that's honored amongst them. Yeah, 452 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 1: there is, oh, there used to be more prevalently though, 453 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 1: a code that criminals live by that like, for example, snitching. 454 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: Snitching is a criminal code, only it only applies to criminals. 455 00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: What is happening is so many nominals have been incarcerated 456 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: and come out of jail that they bought that same 457 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: principle to the streets. But snitching was if you do 458 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: the dirt, if you can't do the time, don't do 459 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 1: the crime. Snitching is once you get busted, that's you. 460 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: You gotta eat that, don't drag nobody else into it. 461 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 1: That's what it was for. They made snitching a part 462 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: of the hood and the public because so many guys 463 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: was getting out and bought that to the streets. So 464 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: I respect the honor amongst these. I mean, look, man, 465 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: everybody ain't gonna do right. But I think that was 466 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: a great gesture for them to do because I mean 467 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 1: they went, hold up, man, what y'all doing? Just say, 468 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: what we do? What we're messing with these innocent people 469 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,479 Speaker 1: coming down here, mother and all this here, coming down 470 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: here to get a search. Where you get this from? Yeah? 471 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: Who told now you fit to bring all this heat 472 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: on us? Who told you to do that? We do. 473 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 1: We take care of people as in our drug wall. Right. See, 474 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: if you're in the game, then then you in the game. 475 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 1: All that mass that's out. So I mean it's not 476 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: a great thing. I mean I appreciate gon amongst the thieves. Yeah, 477 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: I'll do it. Okay, Now let's switch gears to entertainment news. 478 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: Hollywood's newest it guy, that would be one Jonathan Majors 479 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: is ready to fully embody the role of Dennis Rodman 480 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: and the forthcoming biopic um. Last week, news broke that 481 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: Majors would be taking on the life and career of 482 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 1: the NBA icon UH. In a sit down with the 483 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: Associated Press, Majors confirmed the film was in the works 484 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: and says he wants to meet Dennis Rodman to get 485 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: to know him and hopes of fully engulfing himself and 486 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: all things Rodman to bring the character to life, party 487 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 1: winning for a week, go through it. Yeah, that's the 488 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: only way you're gonna play that role right now. I 489 00:32:55,440 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: played one time in Las Vegas. All I needed the king, 490 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: partying in Vegas and all that. The film will specifically 491 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 1: focus on the infamous forty eight in Vegas incident, where 492 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 1: Rodman went to Vegas for a midseason break during his 493 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: run with the Chicago Bulls. Though for former head coach 494 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 1: Phil Jackson approved, the events of that wild weekend could 495 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: not have been predicted by anyone. The two day break 496 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: turned into four days of intense partying in the city 497 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: with his girlfriend Carmeny Lecture. At the time, Michael Jordan 498 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 1: and Phil Jackson would they had to eventually go down 499 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:44,719 Speaker 1: to Vegas to personally retrieve Rodman. Okay, so here's a question, Tommy, 500 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Of course, Steve, But once you're 501 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: take on it in junior, do you think Jonathan Majors 502 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 1: can play Dennis Rodman? Oh, definitely, they can definitely do it. 503 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 1: But you're gonna have to go kick it with Dennis 504 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: for a good week. You've got to. Yeah, don't do 505 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: a little method. We're gonna do a little method. You 506 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 1: got to go down here and get this. Steve Yes, 507 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure I know who Jonathan 508 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: Majors is. This is the dude and Creed Yeah yeah, yeah, 509 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: What I mean, you know, are you hating because his 510 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,800 Speaker 1: body is perfect? What is going on? I mean, no, 511 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 1: that don't bother me at all. There's a lot of 512 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: people out there with grade six packs. You know. You 513 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: know that bothers you that don't really bother me at all. 514 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, seem like a bather. You molding me. 515 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: You know, well, I cannot lie when I've been called out. 516 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: Well you know what I'm saying, So I like to 517 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: bother you molding bother me. I'm saying, you know, at 518 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:56,360 Speaker 1: least you know it is what it is. Bothersome because 519 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: that I don't really I don't know. I don't think 520 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 1: he can play. You don't know enough about him. I 521 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:07,359 Speaker 1: just don't. I don't think it's a good movie. Oh oh, 522 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: you just the Dennis Robins story. It's gonna it's gonna 523 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 1: take six months to get all these tattoos, tattoos and piercing. 524 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: It's gonna take a while to get all that on 525 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: his body. Do that, but Tommy, But Dennis Romans sixteen. 526 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we missed up right now. I don't really know. 527 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: Both of them have a kind of a rugged look 528 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: at might at might work, coming up at his ass 529 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll talk 530 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: about TV sitcom moments. Right after this you're listening. Oh, 531 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: you know, we love a comedian, Miss Pat. She's been 532 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: a special guest on our show. H we'll get ready 533 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: for season three. It's coming up season three of the 534 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 1: Miss Patch Show on b ET Plus. We all know, yeah, 535 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: we all know this show. Yeah, it's real, it's very raw. 536 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 1: We know that. And the legend herself, ninety one year 537 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 1: old Marla Gibbs, will be a special guest on one 538 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: of the upcoming episodes. In a recent interview with Variety TV, 539 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: the showrunner for The Miss Patch Show said, Marla Gibbs 540 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 1: agreed to say anything because you know, they do a 541 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 1: lot of cussing on that show a lot. So Miss 542 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,800 Speaker 1: Marla Gibbs said, you know, she'll say anything, but she 543 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: would not call black women bees. All right, take a 544 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 1: listen to an upcoming scene with Miss Marla Gibbs. Did 545 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: you see what she just did? Do I look like 546 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 1: I give a. I wasn't ready for Laurence, no at all. 547 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 1: I saw that Clah, that was funny, man, I said, 548 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 1: she just looked her dead, And I said, what what 549 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: is this? Look at me? Look? So see, if here's 550 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 1: a question for you, you you were star of your 551 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: own hit show, the sitcom. You know you were a 552 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 1: star of that. And how has comedy changed? How have 553 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: sitcoms changed from back in the day. There not as 554 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: big as they used to be, and sitcoms used to 555 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: mostly be about relationship and family those have it seems 556 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: to have changed. Even Martin, one of the iconic sitcoms 557 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 1: for us culturally was about a relationship. And he talks 558 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: about a relationship, and you know, even today when he 559 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 1: describes the show, it was really about a relationship between 560 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 1: him and Gina, right, and then all the other side 561 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,959 Speaker 1: pieces played into that sitcoms. Now it was Causby's showed, 562 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,320 Speaker 1: it was my wife and kids, it was me and 563 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 1: the boys, it was you know, even if Steve Harvey 564 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 1: show was a relationship between me and said roommates, and 565 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,720 Speaker 1: and then Regina. The principle that I wanted so deeply, 566 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: you know, okay, okay, talk about you would say it 567 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: could have been cussing back then. Goodness, I'll tell you 568 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: the show that I wanted to do. What said was 569 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: like a remake of The Odd Couple. Oh yeah. It 570 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 1: just seems like in this woke era you can't say things. Yeah, 571 00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 1: and it's just the workload, it's not okay. And then 572 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 1: staying on TV is hard. Like what Timmy's accomplished one 573 00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 1: hundred episodes. That's really hard, man. I don't think people 574 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:49,720 Speaker 1: understand the really the milestone that is. That's that's incredibly difficult, 575 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: very very few two percent of the show has ever 576 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 1: become one hundred episodes. If that you, I'm grateful boy. 577 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, 578 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,800 Speaker 1: we'll check your voicemail Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. 579 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 580 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: it is time now to check Steve's voicemail. If you'd 581 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: like to leave a message for Steve, call him eight 582 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,359 Speaker 1: seven seven twenty ninth Steve eight seven seven twenty ninth, Steve, 583 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: you might just hear your call on the air now, Steve. 584 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 1: This is a twenty seven year old woman named Courtney. 585 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: She has a relationship question for you, how are you doing? Steve? 586 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,120 Speaker 1: My man is Courtney. I'm a twenty seven year old 587 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: married woman. I have a one four year old daughter, 588 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,359 Speaker 1: and me and my husband have been together seven years 589 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: and married for four years. Recently, my husband has been 590 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 1: acting different. He has been really trying to get on 591 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 1: his content creation and just getting into social media a 592 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 1: lot more, getting into such a lot more. And I've 593 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: been a little torn because I feel like, you know, 594 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: he told me twent of times he wants to do 595 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 1: fifty fifty. He doesn't want to wind in diy me. 596 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: He doesn't expect to have to do much more than 597 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,879 Speaker 1: he already is. And to me, you know, I pay 598 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 1: most of my bills. I take care of our daughter. 599 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: I picked her up from school, dropper off at school, 600 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: and all I ask from him, Seeds is just a 601 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: little bit of quality of time, of intimacy and connection. 602 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 1: And I'm slowly but surely started to fall out of 603 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,359 Speaker 1: love with him. So my question to you is, how 604 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: do I know when it's time to walk away from 605 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 1: a marriage? And how do I know when I should 606 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 1: keep fighting? My husband isn't I'm a horrible guy. He 607 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: loved me, but the way he treats me doesn't show 608 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,760 Speaker 1: that he's in love with me. He always wants to space, 609 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: he always wants to do his own thing, and whenever 610 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: we around each other, it's like walking on eggshells. As 611 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 1: a tension is awkward. But he always tells me that 612 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: he wants to be with me and he loved me. 613 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 1: But she's actually so differently. Show Again, the question I 614 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: was asked is how do I know when it's time 615 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: to walk away from a relationship that is no longer 616 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,280 Speaker 1: serving me. I hope this ends up on the radio, 617 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 1: and thank you again for all your advice, and I 618 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: hope you have a great game. Well, she is on 619 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 1: the radio, and so I'm gonna be careful with how 620 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: I say this to you. First of all, if I 621 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 1: were you, I would exhaust all of my attempts at communicating. 622 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: I would sit down with him. I would ask him 623 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: to attend some type of marriage counseling with me. I 624 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: think it's worth that at least that after you've done that, 625 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: if there's no improvement, once you start questioning your marriage 626 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 1: over and over and over and the questions keep coming up, 627 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: then at one point in time, the two of you 628 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: have to think, are we who we were seven years ago? 629 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 1: The answers obviously no. But I would make some attempt 630 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: at therapy, marriage counseling to see what you can get, 631 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,959 Speaker 1: because if he's saying one thing but he's doing something else, 632 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,839 Speaker 1: he's taking the focus away from you all and he's 633 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: putting it on himself. I don't understand. I want everything 634 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,239 Speaker 1: fifty fifty. I don't know what man thinks that you 635 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: getting married and it's fifty fifty. I don't. I don't 636 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 1: know how you think that is. It's not. And the 637 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: reason it can't be fifty fifty is because you don't 638 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:38,399 Speaker 1: have stake in the family. Dude, that's the problem. When 639 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 1: a woman has your child, that's bigger than anything else 640 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: you could ever do. The least you can do is 641 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: take care of them. That's the least dog. I'm sorry, man, 642 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: that's the way I was raised, That's where I was taught. 643 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: Now you can call that old fashioned if you want to, 644 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,320 Speaker 1: but that's really the requirement because seeing it's how you 645 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: can't make a baby. Your job is to protect and 646 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,839 Speaker 1: provide for that family. That's your job. Provision is huge. 647 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm fifty fifty and here are you talking about you 648 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: weren't that baby? Huh right, Dog? You was really dog? 649 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 1: He was about He's about five percent that he was 650 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: about five percent on the making of it. Now, that 651 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: was because I could see her wanting to make it 652 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 1: work and hang on, but she's also feeling to disconnect 653 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: and you know you could hear it. Yeah, I hope 654 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 1: that helps you good. Yeah, yeah, I don't know about 655 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,479 Speaker 1: want to live like that? No, no, all right, thanks 656 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 1: for your calls. Coming up next, we'll hear from the 657 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank phone call right after this you're 658 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: listening morning show coming up at the top of the hour, 659 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after, it's time for my Strawberry 660 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject is the cheater accused me 661 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:17,239 Speaker 1: of cheating. I'm sad what me of cheating? Yeah, we'll 662 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: get into it in just a bit, because right now, 663 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: but it's time for you, nephew to give us today's 664 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 1: prank phone call. What you got for us. I'm gonna 665 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 1: be as stupid as I can. Okay, I'm gonna be 666 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 1: as stupid as I can, going into the stupid roller decks, 667 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what stupid I want to be. 668 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 1: Hold on here, they all there. Yeah, but you know, 669 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: but it's degrees of it though, you know, it's degrees 670 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,439 Speaker 1: of it, So you gotta figure out which you know. Well, 671 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: we only know one. So this is okay, here we go. 672 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: This is a high profile stupid right here. Calvin don 673 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 1: lost his mind. Calvin done the laws. He is man, 674 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,719 Speaker 1: call dog if you would Hello, Hello, I'm trying to 675 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:11,759 Speaker 1: reach a bree Please. This is hi breed. This is 676 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: offers from the Dallas Police Department. Okay, I wanted to 677 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 1: give you a call. Man. We have your husband, mister Calvin. 678 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,440 Speaker 1: Is there any way you can actually come down to 679 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 1: the police station today? Calvin? Is he Calvin? Okay, we 680 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 1: have Calvin. He's been picked up for a Class C 681 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: mister demeanor, and I wanted to see if you're able 682 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 1: to pick him up. We're not going to press charges. 683 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: There is a two hundred and fifty dollars fine that 684 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 1: needs to be paid, but well, I'm giving you a call. 685 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,839 Speaker 1: He asked me to call his wife to see if 686 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 1: you would actually come and pick him up. So it's 687 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 1: a two hundred and fifty dollars fine. Yes, we do 688 00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:59,279 Speaker 1: need two hundred and fifty dollar to five. Oh lord, 689 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: because I don't find heaven. I'm not to call his 690 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 1: mom and get it. What is he there for? Uh? 691 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,600 Speaker 1: He was in decent exposure, ma'am. He was in a park. 692 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: Are you familiar with Lakeside Park? Yeah? Okay, he was 693 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: out at Lakeside Park and he was in decent exposure. 694 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 1: He had no clothes on. He was with another person, 695 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: another female, out there, and they had no clothes on. 696 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,080 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hole, the hell of you. You had 697 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: make a big mistake because Calvin supposed to work. That's 698 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 1: what hell. Calvin's supposed to be park. So you saying 699 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:39,840 Speaker 1: that you saw him, it's not a detective. That was 700 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: actually a police officer man that actually brought them in. 701 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,640 Speaker 1: They're both were brought in here, um about two hours ago. 702 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: He's been processed. He has been processed, but we need 703 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: somebody to actually come pick him up. Now take this 704 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 1: get okay, Well, tell me what are the tool of 705 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:59,319 Speaker 1: the females? What's the female name to him? She has 706 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,399 Speaker 1: been arrested. She's actually on the other side of the jail. 707 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 1: She's on the woman's welling side. Okay, can get that name. 708 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 1: I do not have her name in front of me. 709 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 1: I will be able to have that a little later 710 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,839 Speaker 1: or um, but right now I think more importantly he's 711 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 1: he's actually sitting in a holding tank with with no 712 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,720 Speaker 1: clothes on. So I wait a minute, I mean Calvin 713 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,520 Speaker 1: that lost his gut nine, I'm not coming to pick 714 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 1: him up on. Let me carry you what you need 715 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: to be killing Calvin. You need to tell Calvin that 716 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 1: he need to come up with two hundred and fifty 717 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 1: dollars to get his coming. You just gotta sit over here, 718 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 1: and then you need to come up with some more 719 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 1: money to take for this divorce because I'm handing him 720 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 1: taker and you telling him yea, yeah, I'll do us all. 721 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call Mama and she can come get this. 722 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 1: I know well cavern Ever said walk this clothes down 723 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 1: now when he gets this freak broy to see that. 724 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,839 Speaker 1: You know that's what they're taking now, you know what. Yeah, 725 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: we'll calling this mom and I'm gonna tell she's gonna 726 00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,080 Speaker 1: believe me because I wanted to bring her. Don't know 727 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 1: if she always only try to see she always on 728 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,960 Speaker 1: his so I want to take on a fantigo from 729 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 1: that naked and it didn't. And then she let him 730 00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,360 Speaker 1: explain that yeah, but yet coming you killed perfect and 731 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,760 Speaker 1: make sure you tell him I said, then you getting 732 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,399 Speaker 1: talk about the situation. I'm not coming to get him 733 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:23,960 Speaker 1: and he ain't bringing it, thank you. Okay, Uh, miss 734 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:28,120 Speaker 1: miss Breed, all right, I just got some paperwork in 735 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:33,759 Speaker 1: here about who the actual female he he was arrested with. 736 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,879 Speaker 1: She was also out there at Lakeside Park and uh, 737 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: let's see here. It seems like we gotta miss Francis Francis. 738 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 1: Uh uh, Francis, you shore you found a Francis found niken, Yes, ma'am? 739 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 1: Are you? I'm sorry? Do you know a Francis? Yes, 740 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm not Francis. That's what's up. Okay, Well, can I 741 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 1: say something else about your sister? Can I tell you this? 742 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,320 Speaker 1: Go ahead? Francis got me to prank phone call you, baby. 743 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,400 Speaker 1: This is Nephew till Me from the Steve Harvey Morny Show. Brie, 744 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 1: you just got pranked by your sister, Francis. Oh lord Jesus, 745 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,800 Speaker 1: if I tell you what I just has done on this, 746 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 1: I can't tell you. Francis. I would getting ready to 747 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: come up and all four and I know damn well, 748 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 1: Cavin wasn't up there naked he's not doing it like that. 749 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: I mean they don't even really get along. I mean, 750 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, is that what I'm all about? Really? I 751 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: ain't got time follow this. I'm gonna get thank you though. 752 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,800 Speaker 1: Can I ask you something, Brie Baby? What's what's the 753 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,240 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land? Oh? The Steve Harvey 754 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 1: Morny Show. How about this for a supprise, Francis if 755 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: you listen? Okay, all right? I think everybody ought to 756 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 1: be standing up and clapping right now. Everybody. You want 757 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,759 Speaker 1: some inspected gadget stuff right now? You don't stand you 758 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:23,880 Speaker 1: Me and mine, by me and man? Yeah, all right, 759 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,800 Speaker 1: it's going down April Fools. It is April Fools Comedy 760 00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,360 Speaker 1: Jam number six. This is the number six one you 761 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: got Junior killed boy in the building. Dominique will be 762 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 1: in the building rotting at Perry. It is hosted by 763 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 1: yours true Laking nephew Tommy and the legendary Queen of comedy, 764 00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 1: Miss Monique with the grace in the stage. It is 765 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,880 Speaker 1: the April Fools Comedy Jam number six, Dallas, Texas at 766 00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,880 Speaker 1: the Texas Trust. All right. Tickets on sale right now. 767 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,280 Speaker 1: April fifteen, Bowling Green Kentucky. I've never been there before. 768 00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 1: It is life Jennings, life Jennings and the nephew. That's right, 769 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 1: let's love and laugh and laughing love all that right there, 770 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 1: Southern Kentucky for for Him and God Center. Tickets are 771 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 1: on seal red now all right, April first and then 772 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 1: April fifteen, and there you have it. Stupid is moving 773 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,160 Speaker 1: around the country. Back up, voice working all that, won't 774 00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:16,400 Speaker 1: he do it? Why you switch your voice when you 775 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:20,319 Speaker 1: said bowling Green, bowling green, I've never been down there? 776 00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,239 Speaker 1: Then you the bowling Green Cantucky. Just just feel like 777 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,080 Speaker 1: you gotta say it that way. Bowling Green can tuck 778 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,400 Speaker 1: you don't worry about it. That's how they gonna say it. 779 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:37,319 Speaker 1: Their fare all right, you're looking back, you're looking forward 780 00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: to getting back out there. Huh. I am back out there. 781 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm I'm blessed. Man, my god, I'm blessed 782 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 1: when I look back, Oh my god, looking back over 783 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: your life. You gotta testimony like I gotta showing up testimony. 784 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 1: Bold looks back at wonder, how I got a who? 785 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:08,399 Speaker 1: Yes up over? Oh over? Letting you so looks back 786 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: in wonder, oh over, damn whoa over whover chorus. So 787 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:32,719 Speaker 1: looks back in wonder how I got a whoa who? 788 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: Second the whole word bout you had an over? You've 789 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 1: been here all the syllables made two words to complete 790 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:58,920 Speaker 1: two different words. Old end And it's amazing. No, the 791 00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 1: songs that pop up in different situations. Yeah, it is amazing, 792 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: timeless class. I grew up in a great arrow man 793 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,360 Speaker 1: that knew. I look at Junior. He don't know what Daddy. 794 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: I had no clue. I had no idea. All right, 795 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:20,319 Speaker 1: coming up next, it is a strawberry letter. The subjow 796 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 1: the cheater accused me of cheating. We'll get into that 797 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:29,480 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show click submit strawberry letter. 798 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 799 00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now, 800 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: and you never know. It could be yours. It could 801 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 1: be Buckle up and hold on type. We got it 802 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 1: for you here. It is strong Verry letter, Thank you 803 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: enough for you. Subject the cheater accused me of cheating. 804 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,080 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I have been married 805 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 1: for nineteen years and he has cheated on me multiple times. 806 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: Three years ago, he had a very messy affair, and 807 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:57,960 Speaker 1: I told him I was done and I was filing 808 00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 1: for a divorce. He threw a big party and surprised 809 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 1: me with the public apology, and he asked for my forgiveness. 810 00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:09,320 Speaker 1: I decided that I'd give him one more chance. I 811 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,320 Speaker 1: had become really close friends with a male co worker 812 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,800 Speaker 1: that I confided in. We were just friends, but I 813 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 1: cut him off after I decided to give my marriage 814 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: another chance. My husband knew about my coworker and never 815 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 1: suspected that we were more than friends. Our marriage changed 816 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,560 Speaker 1: for the better, and we were back to having great 817 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,279 Speaker 1: sex and he was spending lots more time with me. 818 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:35,239 Speaker 1: Then I started having problems with my lady parts. I 819 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 1: went to the doctor and found out I had a 820 00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 1: rash that looked like an STI a sexually transmitted infection, 821 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: but the tests were inconclusive. Because of his past unfaithfulness, 822 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,160 Speaker 1: I went home and accused my husband of having an 823 00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:56,320 Speaker 1: affair and giving me an infection. My husband didn't flinch. 824 00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 1: All he said was that he would get tested in 825 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,040 Speaker 1: the morning. I told him he'd better not try to 826 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 1: get in our bed that night. The next day, he 827 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: came home from work and he threw his negative test 828 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 1: results at me. Then he lectured me on how he changed, 829 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 1: but I did not believe in him. He accused me 830 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 1: of messing around with my male coworker and getting whatever 831 00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:23,719 Speaker 1: I had from him. My doctor ended up calling me 832 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,960 Speaker 1: to explain that I could be allergic to my soap 833 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 1: or have a hormonal imbalance, but it was not an STI. 834 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 1: My husband isn't buying it and thinks the doctor is 835 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,879 Speaker 1: part of my life. He thinks I'm a cheater. Now, 836 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 1: how do I prove to my husband that it's just 837 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 1: a misunderstanding. I don't know if you're going to be 838 00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 1: able to prove any of this to your husband. Your 839 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:52,160 Speaker 1: husband does suspect something between you and your co worker. 840 00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,520 Speaker 1: He just didn't say anything because he was cheating himself. 841 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 1: So I'd just say, please, don't get caught up in 842 00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:02,240 Speaker 1: your husband's crazy mess. He's accused you because he was guilty. 843 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 1: He knows how this goes. Now you try to get 844 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,440 Speaker 1: slick with it. You really did. You didn't come right 845 00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:09,920 Speaker 1: out and tell Steve and I that you and your 846 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 1: co worker, your so called co worker, this close co worker, 847 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 1: had slept together. You didn't tell us that, you said 848 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 1: you were just friends at first, then you said you 849 00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,080 Speaker 1: were more than friends, but you cut him off. If 850 00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,239 Speaker 1: you guys weren't doing anything, what would be the need 851 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 1: to cut him off. You cut him off from the 852 00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 1: affair that you didn't tell us about. You stopped so 853 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,880 Speaker 1: that you could focus on your marriage. Now that's a 854 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:35,439 Speaker 1: good thing, okay, But there's a lot of stuff going 855 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 1: on in this letter that's unsaid. But we know what's 856 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:42,480 Speaker 1: going on. Your marriage got back on track. You did 857 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 1: start having personal health issues and it was thought to 858 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 1: be an STI at first, sexually transmitted infection. What a 859 00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,320 Speaker 1: break for your husband to think it was you initially, 860 00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 1: But when your test came back, you had no STI. 861 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,719 Speaker 1: So what is your husband talking about now? Your doctor 862 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:04,360 Speaker 1: can't be part of a lie. That's completely unethical. I 863 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,360 Speaker 1: think your husband is just trying to get some of 864 00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 1: the pressure off him because he's cheated in the past 865 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 1: and he had such a bad reputation. You know, if 866 00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 1: you didn't have an STI, you have proof, and you 867 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,560 Speaker 1: know if you wouldn't keep taking him back after he cheats, 868 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 1: then you know he would stop doing it, or you know, 869 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 1: you guys would break up or whatever. But yeah, I 870 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 1: think he's trying to get some of the pressure off 871 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:31,360 Speaker 1: him by accusing you. Steve. Obviously you don't know how 872 00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 1: to do this, And this is matter because y'all keep 873 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:38,160 Speaker 1: on going about these men the wrong way. You've been 874 00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: married nineteen years, a man that's had several affairs on you. 875 00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,440 Speaker 1: The last fan was really messy. You file for divorce. 876 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 1: He threw your big surprise party with a public apology, 877 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:53,400 Speaker 1: ask for your forget it. You decide I'd give him 878 00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: one more chase. Then you said you'd become really close 879 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: with the mail co worker that I confided and we 880 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,160 Speaker 1: were just friends. But I cut him off after I 881 00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:06,960 Speaker 1: decided to give my marriage another chance. When you said 882 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 1: that line right there, I knew right away how close 883 00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,040 Speaker 1: you and this male co worker had got. What all 884 00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:17,520 Speaker 1: this couldfide? Because I decided to cut him off. Oh, 885 00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 1: you stopped talking to him, You stopped confiding in him. 886 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 1: That's what you cut on. My husband knew about my 887 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:32,680 Speaker 1: coworker and never suspected that we were more than friend. 888 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 1: Of course he didn't. Women are better cheaters. The cheater 889 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:42,000 Speaker 1: accused me of cheating. He was right, he was spot 890 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 1: on the right. Very rarely did we get to bush y'all. 891 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: But when we do, we'd be right. A man changed 892 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 1: for the better. We're back to having great sex than 893 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,280 Speaker 1: the time with me. I started having problems with my 894 00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: lady parts. I went to the doctor and found out 895 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 1: I had a rash that looked like a STI. I 896 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 1: do not know what STI is, surely said, a sexually 897 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:12,120 Speaker 1: transmitted affection. I've only known them STDs, which back in 898 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 1: my day was called VD. We didn't have no or 899 00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:22,800 Speaker 1: the name for it. But now, well, well listening this 900 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 1: sexually transmitted infection sexually transmitted disease, commonly known as VD. 901 00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 1: You went to the clinic for VD. You sat there 902 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 1: in that room, nervous and sweating with everybody else. Everybody 903 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:47,320 Speaker 1: in there has something, all right, hang on trying to 904 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:51,880 Speaker 1: get past this, but listen to no confidentiality. Down after clinic, 905 00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 1: on the computer, you had to feel out this index car. 906 00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:01,520 Speaker 1: You had to write what you had on after the hour, 907 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Today's Joe's symptoms out the cheater accused me of cheating. 908 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening, 909 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 910 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,640 Speaker 1: The subject is the cheater accused me of cheating. This 911 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,720 Speaker 1: lady has been married nineteen years. Husband had several affairs 912 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 1: on the last ones pretty messy. She says. She's follows 913 01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:29,520 Speaker 1: of the divorce. He's surprised her in through a big party, 914 01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry party and publicly apologized. She decided to give 915 01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 1: him another chance. Uh uh. I decided to give him 916 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: one more chance. She had become close with this male 917 01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 1: co worker that she confided in and um after um 918 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,080 Speaker 1: that she confide in. She says they were just friends, 919 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:57,160 Speaker 1: but after they decided to give their marriage another chance, 920 01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:00,280 Speaker 1: she cut him off. You wouldn't have to cut him off, y'all. 921 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,680 Speaker 1: Was just friends, so you was doing him. My husband 922 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,560 Speaker 1: knew about my coworker, but never suspected that we were 923 01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,680 Speaker 1: more than friends, which is another admission that you were 924 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,960 Speaker 1: doing him. I married Shane for the better. We were 925 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,520 Speaker 1: back to having great sas spending time with me, and 926 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,400 Speaker 1: then the ladies said, I started having problems with my 927 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 1: lady parts. That's very personal. So we don't get into 928 01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 1: that on this show because that could be any range 929 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 1: of things. And I know you're not supposed to ask 930 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,560 Speaker 1: no woman what they went to the hospital for, but 931 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:34,360 Speaker 1: They always asked you what you go from me, But 932 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to ask a woman because they would 933 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,040 Speaker 1: say it was some female problems and end. Your ass 934 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:43,760 Speaker 1: is supposed to shut up immediately, don't keep digging deep 935 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 1: into this. Why you in there, because you're not fitting 936 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:50,680 Speaker 1: to understand this right here. And so as she started 937 01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 1: having trouble with her lady parts, which we will leave alone, 938 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:55,960 Speaker 1: I went to the doctor and found out that I 939 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,440 Speaker 1: had a rash that looked like an ST and the 940 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,760 Speaker 1: test were inclusive. Now I didn't know what the STI 941 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: was until I heard Sherley's response, which is sexually transmitted infection. 942 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 1: I only knew STD, which was a sexually transmitted disease. 943 01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:18,440 Speaker 1: And prior to this radio show, it was called VD. 944 01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,400 Speaker 1: That's just that's what you got is VD. Shut it up, 945 01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna just tell you right now, it was 946 01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:28,560 Speaker 1: very different. That's why they had they called it STD 947 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,200 Speaker 1: when they came out with computers. Before computers, it was 948 01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:35,400 Speaker 1: just VD. You went down to the clinic and you 949 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 1: feel out the form and nothing was on computer, and 950 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: the lady if you didn't fill out the form right, 951 01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 1: she would holler at you out there in the waiting 952 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,760 Speaker 1: room to get clarity on the blocks that you checked 953 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 1: or did not check. Mister Harvey is Darren Burden. No, man, okay, 954 01:02:56,160 --> 01:03:00,480 Speaker 1: you didn't check that block. That's because I'm not Who 955 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:06,280 Speaker 1: is Linny Cage? That's me too, man. Stop, I'm in 956 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:11,120 Speaker 1: here with a couple of concerns names. I'm using two names. 957 01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:17,360 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get seen you right now. Told 958 01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:22,760 Speaker 1: me and because I had a rash. Now because of 959 01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:26,080 Speaker 1: his past and all these are fans, I thought he 960 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 1: gave me the infection. I told my husband, you don't 961 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 1: had these fans. You didn't gave me infection. He didn't flinch. 962 01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 1: All he said was he get tested in the morning. 963 01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 1: I told him better now I try to get in 964 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 1: how bad that night? The next day he came home 965 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,800 Speaker 1: work and through his negative tests at me here and 966 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,800 Speaker 1: now there you go. I ain't got nothing. Then he 967 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,520 Speaker 1: lectured me on how he's changed, but I didn't believe him. 968 01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,280 Speaker 1: He I am changing a better man. We have a 969 01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 1: great sex now. I spend time with you, and then 970 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:57,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna get yourself a little STI and then you're 971 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 1: gonna mess around and say it's me when it ain't 972 01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 1: meet and now you know what I think it is. 973 01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 1: I think it's you and that little punk ass dude down, 974 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,160 Speaker 1: your little coworker you've been talking to. Maybe you've been 975 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:10,720 Speaker 1: having sex with him and you got it from him, 976 01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,640 Speaker 1: and now you're trying to blame me. He was right 977 01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:22,520 Speaker 1: dog gone. It's a letter. Listen to me. Your husband 978 01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:26,720 Speaker 1: was right to accuse you because if he knew he 979 01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:30,480 Speaker 1: didn't have nothing and you got an STI, then it 980 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 1: must be wait a minute, from the little punk ass 981 01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:37,600 Speaker 1: dude that worked, but then he so he was right 982 01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:42,320 Speaker 1: jamming you up like that. Then your doctor ended up 983 01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:46,200 Speaker 1: calling you to explain that that could be allergic to 984 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:50,080 Speaker 1: my soul or have a hormonal and balance. See women 985 01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:55,920 Speaker 1: have too many ounts. It's just it's your harmony and balance. 986 01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:58,560 Speaker 1: See a man coming to the house with an STI. 987 01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 1: It ain't nothing else. You You did something with your 988 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,680 Speaker 1: little nasty behind. But no woman couldn't come in here 989 01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 1: talking about her damn soap, her damn hormones and all 990 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 1: this hill fellas a'most start a new thing. Well, isn't 991 01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 1: that good news? But what's their problems? It's great news, 992 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 1: it's great news, but your husband ain't buying it, and 993 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:23,000 Speaker 1: he thinks the doctors a part of my life. Oh 994 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:27,200 Speaker 1: my god, he thinks I'm a cheater. Now the question 995 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:29,440 Speaker 1: is how do I prove to my husband that it's 996 01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:34,680 Speaker 1: just misunderstanding. Lady, you're tripping. Reverse this. This is what 997 01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:38,280 Speaker 1: ladies said. This the lesson I'm gonna teach Lady, reverse it. 998 01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 1: Oh look at the podcalling and cattle block. Then I 999 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:49,400 Speaker 1: want you to start crying. All I've done for you. 1000 01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm taking you back time and time and come and 1001 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,720 Speaker 1: gown again. Bring up the path that ever what I 1002 01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:01,840 Speaker 1: buying out about me? When you was basking with Tammelina. 1003 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 1: I told you, Tameline, you come on Tammelina franchise. Get 1004 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 1: aren't the franchise will see you know what? I can 1005 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,640 Speaker 1: go down all of the list of women he's been 1006 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 1: with every time he bring it up with versit on him. 1007 01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:22,360 Speaker 1: That's right. Post your comments on today's Strawberry letters. Thank 1008 01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 1: god for computers on and Facebook. All the people are 1009 01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 1: digging and talk. Right after this, you're listening to morning show. 1010 01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:39,760 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. K Junior, 1011 01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, what you got? Okay, sir? Here we go. 1012 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,720 Speaker 1: Coca Cola has pulled Memphis really start John Moran's ads 1013 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,479 Speaker 1: for power aid as he remains away from the team. 1014 01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,080 Speaker 1: Joh has been a wave or suspended from the team, 1015 01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:53,960 Speaker 1: the Memphis Grizzlies since he posted a video of him 1016 01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:57,000 Speaker 1: holding a gun in a strip club in Colorado, so 1017 01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:01,120 Speaker 1: he will not have those ads running no more. And also, man, uncle, 1018 01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:03,400 Speaker 1: his whole thing. Man is like with his father. Man, 1019 01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:05,480 Speaker 1: do you do you feel like his dad is trying 1020 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,560 Speaker 1: to be a friend. His father seems to be enjoyed 1021 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 1: the success of it all. I mean, that's our job 1022 01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:14,880 Speaker 1: is to be parents. You know. Look, you gotta understand 1023 01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:19,080 Speaker 1: something about whether in the movie, TV business or then athletics, 1024 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:24,520 Speaker 1: these guys have been coddled the majority of their life. Yeah, 1025 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,240 Speaker 1: a lot of a man and have been allowed to 1026 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 1: do like they want to because they showed so much promise. 1027 01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:35,080 Speaker 1: Then when they turned into these hundred million dollar guys, 1028 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 1: these brands, they got another level of freedom. That are 1029 01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 1: some great examples of how it didn't Kobe Bryant, Shaquille O'Neill, 1030 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:50,760 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan Lebron, James Steph Curry. It's I could go 1031 01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:54,720 Speaker 1: on and on and on. Vince Carter or Dominique Wilkers 1032 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:58,360 Speaker 1: that our prime time down. Some guys who came through 1033 01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,160 Speaker 1: this thing. Now now they didn't come through mistake free. Now, 1034 01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:06,400 Speaker 1: they did not come through mistake free, but they managed 1035 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,640 Speaker 1: to pull it off. J'ah is young, he's making mistakes. 1036 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,640 Speaker 1: He's gonna have to learn from this. He's he could 1037 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:15,200 Speaker 1: have been great, but they will not allow him to 1038 01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:20,599 Speaker 1: be the face of the NBA. That's not twenty three 1039 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:24,240 Speaker 1: with all of this money on. Yeah, you gotta have 1040 01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:27,280 Speaker 1: a good person to guide you. And Daddy want to 1041 01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:33,680 Speaker 1: kick it, so yeah, it don't work. Kick it. What 1042 01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 1: y'all doing to night? What y'all doing I'm coming to 1043 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:40,840 Speaker 1: don't get I want to make sure I'm your plus 1044 01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,479 Speaker 1: one boy. I'm with you, boy. Yeah, yeah, I can't 1045 01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:45,600 Speaker 1: had that. Man, can't had that. But also, man, the 1046 01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:49,559 Speaker 1: tournament starts tomorrow. March Madness starts tomorrow. The number one 1047 01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:52,799 Speaker 1: seeds for the tournament come on you of h University 1048 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:57,240 Speaker 1: of Houston, number one Kansas perdue in Alabama. Man, we 1049 01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,920 Speaker 1: gotta put these bets in up. Who you going with? Up? 1050 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,639 Speaker 1: I haven't even man. I tried to find the bracket 1051 01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:06,280 Speaker 1: this weekend, couldn't find it. Nowhere man, We'll send it 1052 01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,479 Speaker 1: in a bracket. I'm gonna see you the bracket beat 1053 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,160 Speaker 1: dog man. But I've got to go with you a bag. 1054 01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 1: That's where I'm going. You brother, you let it go 1055 01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,880 Speaker 1: back here. We don't play my jam, Come on down. 1056 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:19,160 Speaker 1: We gotta get this thing go. No. Kansas look good, 1057 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: Kansas look real good. Okay, all right? You so wish 1058 01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:27,680 Speaker 1: you washing comic. Hey dog, Hey dog, Ain't neither one 1059 01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:31,280 Speaker 1: of them gonna make you, don't think so ah man 1060 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:33,559 Speaker 1: that march man. It's gonna be different. I'm gonna look 1061 01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 1: at the brackets. I'm gonna tell you're gonna shock everybody. Okay, 1062 01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:38,200 Speaker 1: cool up, We're gonna do the marrow. Kansas and you 1063 01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,080 Speaker 1: abate they're gonna be in the final folks. Trust all right, Junior, 1064 01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:43,160 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1065 01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:46,760 Speaker 1: a woman on social media needs some advice Steve from 1066 01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:53,760 Speaker 1: you right after this you're listening show, all right, So 1067 01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:57,240 Speaker 1: Steve Tracy on Steve Harvey f M Rights. My closest 1068 01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:00,040 Speaker 1: friend is always upbeat, and even though she does and 1069 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,320 Speaker 1: have skills or accomplishments that I have, she seems to 1070 01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:05,840 Speaker 1: have everything going great for her. All of the time. 1071 01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,400 Speaker 1: I try not to show it around her, but it 1072 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,840 Speaker 1: burns me up. How lucky she seems. I wish I 1073 01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:14,439 Speaker 1: could have a fraction of her good luck, but everything 1074 01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:17,280 Speaker 1: always seems to go badly for me. How do I 1075 01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:19,560 Speaker 1: get rid of these jealous feelings and learn to be 1076 01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:25,439 Speaker 1: more like her? No, you just said it. You've spoken 1077 01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:30,560 Speaker 1: into existence, your existence, and she speaks into her existence, 1078 01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:37,519 Speaker 1: her existence. She's lucky. It burns you up. Everything always 1079 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 1: goes her way, nothing goes my way. You're claiming this? 1080 01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,280 Speaker 1: Read it again, Shirley Tracy writes, My closest friend is 1081 01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:55,200 Speaker 1: always upbeat, ma'am right there, always upbeat, optimistic, hope, very positive. 1082 01:10:55,479 --> 01:11:00,880 Speaker 1: So guess where she's going to attract? Upbeat, optimistic, positive result? 1083 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,320 Speaker 1: Go ahead of you, all right? And even though she 1084 01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:07,080 Speaker 1: doesn't have the skills or accomplishments that I have, Stop 1085 01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:11,280 Speaker 1: right there. How do you know that you're so busy 1086 01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,960 Speaker 1: trying to compare. She don't need to have your skill set. 1087 01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,559 Speaker 1: That ain't her walk, that's not her line of that's 1088 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:23,160 Speaker 1: not her gilt. Go ahead, Shirley. She seems to have 1089 01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:28,360 Speaker 1: everything go great for her all the time because she's upbeat, 1090 01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:33,840 Speaker 1: optimistic and has a positive attitude. Go ahead, Shirley. I 1091 01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:36,400 Speaker 1: try not to show it around her, but it burns 1092 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:40,280 Speaker 1: me up. How lucky she seems. First of all, you're 1093 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:46,160 Speaker 1: a hater, and luck is how other people describe other 1094 01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:50,960 Speaker 1: people's success. Everybody, when you want to find out if 1095 01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 1: you're lucky, let somebody else describe your success. You don't 1096 01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:56,519 Speaker 1: look at yourself as lucky. But let me give you 1097 01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,760 Speaker 1: the definition of luck. Luck. It's what hard work but 1098 01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:04,599 Speaker 1: up into opportunity. Then people call it luck. Go ahead, Shirley. 1099 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:07,559 Speaker 1: I wish I could have a fraction of her good luck. 1100 01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:12,479 Speaker 1: You could if you were more upbeat, positive and a 1101 01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:16,679 Speaker 1: more congenial person. But you're a negative hater. Or here, Shirley, 1102 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:21,320 Speaker 1: but everything always seemed to go badly for me, everything 1103 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:24,560 Speaker 1: will go badly for you. Because the Bible says a 1104 01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:28,720 Speaker 1: man is as he thinking, we have thought ourselves exactly 1105 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:30,840 Speaker 1: to where we are today. You have no one to 1106 01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:33,960 Speaker 1: blame but yourself. Go ahead, Shirley, All right, how do 1107 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:36,960 Speaker 1: I get rid of these jealous feelings and learn to 1108 01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:40,519 Speaker 1: be more like her? Hello? John, won't you just do 1109 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: like that? Stop being jealous, stop being a hater, and 1110 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:49,160 Speaker 1: be more like her? Be more upbeat, positive and congenial, 1111 01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:51,559 Speaker 1: and you would be surprised what you would be able 1112 01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:54,800 Speaker 1: to attract. But you're so busy comparing yourself to her, 1113 01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,680 Speaker 1: telling about what she ain't. Clearly, she don't have to 1114 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:01,000 Speaker 1: be what you are because she's doing it at her way. 1115 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: He's positive enough, Bee, Stop being a hater. Next question. 1116 01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:07,960 Speaker 1: That's it. Next question, all right, if we have time 1117 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:11,720 Speaker 1: for one more. This one says, Hey, Steve, I'm one 1118 01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 1: of your blue eyed female listeners and I need your 1119 01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 1: help with this problem. I walked into my twelve year 1120 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,439 Speaker 1: old son's room the other day and he never heard 1121 01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:22,479 Speaker 1: me coming. It might be because he was concentrating on 1122 01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:27,000 Speaker 1: looking through his blinds. I called his name and he jumped, 1123 01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:30,080 Speaker 1: looking guilty. So naturally I took a look at what 1124 01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:33,320 Speaker 1: had his attention. It was our neighbor and she was 1125 01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,880 Speaker 1: getting her wreck some sun, if you get my meanings. 1126 01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:40,519 Speaker 1: Later that day I ran into her outside and politely 1127 01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:43,760 Speaker 1: mentioned that there were kids here, and please consider that 1128 01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:47,760 Speaker 1: the next time she's sunbathed topless. Instead of the apology 1129 01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:51,479 Speaker 1: I was hoping for, she flat out told me her yard, 1130 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:54,479 Speaker 1: her choice, and the next day the same thing. It is, 1131 01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:58,599 Speaker 1: I'm not a longer. Do I call the cops? Can 1132 01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:01,360 Speaker 1: I call the cops? That's my next move here. No, 1133 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,479 Speaker 1: I'll tell you right now. You could call whoever you 1134 01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,600 Speaker 1: want to call. Your boy just don't want you to 1135 01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:11,439 Speaker 1: call him no more? What is you in here? Fault 1136 01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:18,280 Speaker 1: twelve years old? You could call the console you over, 1137 01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:24,760 Speaker 1: she and her y'all, Karen, get out your window. The 1138 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:30,200 Speaker 1: boy the boy needed. Let the boy grow up column. 1139 01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,479 Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at 1140 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:38,960 Speaker 1: twenty minutes after me, right after him. You're listening Harvey 1141 01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:43,040 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right. So the other day it was 1142 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 1: employee Appreciation Day, and according to a recent study, the 1143 01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:51,160 Speaker 1: majority of American workers say gestures of appreciation are in 1144 01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:56,000 Speaker 1: very short supply. The study found that sixty seven percent 1145 01:14:56,080 --> 01:15:00,040 Speaker 1: of employeed Americans say they feel undervalued at work and 1146 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:03,639 Speaker 1: don't feel appreciated. So this question is for you, Tommy. 1147 01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:07,800 Speaker 1: What could your employer aka your uncle do you to 1148 01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:11,000 Speaker 1: make you feel more valued? It's just so much and 1149 01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:15,400 Speaker 1: he doesn't and everybody knows it. Um, you know, let's 1150 01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:19,120 Speaker 1: start with, you know, one day off a week like Friday, 1151 01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:21,439 Speaker 1: only you know, and I worked two and when the 1152 01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,960 Speaker 1: third he could also give me a star on the 1153 01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:26,080 Speaker 1: Walk of Fame. He could get that for me. It's 1154 01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,640 Speaker 1: just a certain appreciation that he could do that he 1155 01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:30,760 Speaker 1: does not do. I mean I could. Why can't my 1156 01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:33,040 Speaker 1: star be right next to his store that's on the 1157 01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:35,439 Speaker 1: Walk Pame, Hollywood Walk of Fame. I don't understand that 1158 01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,600 Speaker 1: that could be done. There's a lot of things that 1159 01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:43,280 Speaker 1: he could do to show him appreciate you. Realize the pain, 1160 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:47,280 Speaker 1: the pay could be double, really to be double. Yeah, 1161 01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:52,479 Speaker 1: realized just about off on Monday though you are off yesterday. Yeah, 1162 01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,960 Speaker 1: especially if you have weekend. You are because I was 1163 01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 1: appreciating myself. That's what I mean. What do you if 1164 01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,160 Speaker 1: he's not going to appreciate me, I'm not gonna let 1165 01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:09,320 Speaker 1: that stut. I'm going to appreciate myself. Why would I? 1166 01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:13,400 Speaker 1: Why would I do that? Work? All right? Coming up 1167 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:16,599 Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play another 1168 01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:18,960 Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this? I think 1169 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:26,360 Speaker 1: got some appreciation back after this. You're listening to Harvey 1170 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:29,519 Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for another round of 1171 01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:34,800 Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather have loud neighbors or 1172 01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:42,760 Speaker 1: nosy neighbors? M m hey he loud names, Yeah, loud yeah, yeah, yeah, 1173 01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:45,720 Speaker 1: get some start. I got to get some sleep now. 1174 01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:48,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to I'm fighting. You could be nosed. 1175 01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:50,080 Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing for you to look at, no way, 1176 01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:52,960 Speaker 1: so I really take the nosy. Maybe nothing for you 1177 01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:57,280 Speaker 1: to see you like loud? Huh yeah, my stars, I'm 1178 01:16:57,360 --> 01:17:01,880 Speaker 1: over here, That's what I'm saying. Well, it don't matter me. 1179 01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:04,400 Speaker 1: You can be a all. Be my house so far 1180 01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:09,679 Speaker 1: away from your you can't see over here. You can't 1181 01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:14,200 Speaker 1: see over and I can't hear you. I might already 1182 01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,640 Speaker 1: have no. I don't give a damn what you do. 1183 01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:22,479 Speaker 1: You better be rich up in here. Guys, women the trees. 1184 01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:27,240 Speaker 1: If you see my house, good luck. This is true. 1185 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:32,080 Speaker 1: It's true. Would you rather get all of your wisdom 1186 01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,040 Speaker 1: teeth pulled out at one time? Or would you rather 1187 01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:39,040 Speaker 1: get your butt cheeks pierced all my wisdom teeth took 1188 01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:44,640 Speaker 1: out at once too? Yeah, okay, I'm not piercing my butt. No, 1189 01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,840 Speaker 1: I'm not going that. I had a pimple on it 1190 01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:53,320 Speaker 1: one time last. It was hard to sit down on 1191 01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:58,559 Speaker 1: that thing right there. It felt like a piercing. Man. 1192 01:17:58,800 --> 01:18:00,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, the pimple, but I 1193 01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:04,360 Speaker 1: thought it was a ball. I don't know what I thought. 1194 01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:08,120 Speaker 1: It was a damn. I didn't know what had happened. 1195 01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:19,800 Speaker 1: What is this my ass right now? It started as 1196 01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 1: a pimple, but it ended up as a big tope. Yeah, 1197 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,200 Speaker 1: I go back down this free clinic. See what they see? 1198 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:39,760 Speaker 1: Didn't get the kid on the left? Man, I'm back 1199 01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:44,680 Speaker 1: down here again. You died here again, nest yesterday? Oh man, 1200 01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:50,280 Speaker 1: he was a busy young man. This damn man, I 1201 01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:57,840 Speaker 1: got another problem, all right, So wisdom teeth it is 1202 01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:06,280 Speaker 1: for you, Steve. Okay, would you rather would you rather 1203 01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:10,599 Speaker 1: um outlive your partner? Would you rather have your partner 1204 01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:20,000 Speaker 1: outlive you? Oh? Yeah, I want Oh I can't live 1205 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:23,559 Speaker 1: without it. I ain't no where in the world but many. 1206 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:28,000 Speaker 1: But you're gonna leave her alone though? Hey, money is 1207 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:36,360 Speaker 1: she gonna have? Fine? That's today rounded Would you rather 1208 01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:38,880 Speaker 1: coming up next? We'll close out the show with our 1209 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:41,479 Speaker 1: last break of the day, and nephew, I think, um, 1210 01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 1: your uncle has some words for you right after this. 1211 01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:52,160 Speaker 1: I hope you're going to appreciate me. You're listening all 1212 01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:54,280 Speaker 1: right here? We are, guys, our last break of the 1213 01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,800 Speaker 1: day on this Tuesday. It's been a good day. Um, 1214 01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:03,559 Speaker 1: Tommy's back from being off yesterday. And we told you yesterday, 1215 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:05,840 Speaker 1: why didn't you come to work any saying nothing, We 1216 01:20:05,880 --> 01:20:09,439 Speaker 1: didn't know where you were. Yeah, it wasn't here. It 1217 01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:13,519 Speaker 1: was employee appreciation Day. But we are employees and we 1218 01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 1: were here. So because y'all don't appreciate y'allselves, Oh you 1219 01:20:18,200 --> 01:20:21,920 Speaker 1: were off because you were appreciating yourself appreciate. Let me 1220 01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:27,479 Speaker 1: respond to his complaints he had. First of all, he 1221 01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:31,559 Speaker 1: only wants to work a full day work week, Yeah, 1222 01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:36,679 Speaker 1: which he does anyway. Yeah, so that ain't got nothing 1223 01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:39,000 Speaker 1: to do with me. You will call in most mondays 1224 01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,880 Speaker 1: and then you always got a hard out, but you 1225 01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 1: just in case people missed it. What what is Tommy 1226 01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:49,599 Speaker 1: talking about? Well, well i'll tell you go ahead. Yeah, 1227 01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:54,080 Speaker 1: it was employee appreciation Day the other day. And according 1228 01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,280 Speaker 1: to a recent study, most Americans say they don't feel 1229 01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:01,600 Speaker 1: appreciated at work. Um, you know, appreciation gestures are just 1230 01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:05,639 Speaker 1: in very short supply. Sixty seven percent of employeed Americans 1231 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:08,040 Speaker 1: say they feel under value at work and they don't 1232 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:10,360 Speaker 1: feel appreciate. Well, and that's cool, And so Tommy went 1233 01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:13,400 Speaker 1: on to talk about how he wants a full day 1234 01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 1: work week. Well, apploy your appreciation day. We would appreciate 1235 01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:22,360 Speaker 1: it if you would come in every day. Yeah, you 1236 01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:26,080 Speaker 1: didn't come in. Appreciate hard to appreciate a person that 1237 01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:32,000 Speaker 1: ain't him. So even if they have employee you appreciation day, 1238 01:21:32,160 --> 01:21:35,760 Speaker 1: your aunts probably ain't gonna be him. The second thing 1239 01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:39,040 Speaker 1: you said was you won't double pay. You want to 1240 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,320 Speaker 1: double your pay. That's why would I give you double 1241 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 1: your pay for less than the time ain't here when 1242 01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:50,160 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be here. Thirdly, you want a star 1243 01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:54,040 Speaker 1: on the Walk of Fame that ain't got nothing to 1244 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:56,519 Speaker 1: do with me that those are not giving out to 1245 01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:01,519 Speaker 1: good employees. And if they was, you'll never get So 1246 01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:05,160 Speaker 1: how you getting start? You gotta be exceptional? Well, no, 1247 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:10,360 Speaker 1: you just gotta be. It's a it's a process. And 1248 01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:14,519 Speaker 1: he getting there. Huh. You know he'll eventually get on. 1249 01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:19,519 Speaker 1: But how all are you right now? Tommy? Oh? Yeah, 1250 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:24,880 Speaker 1: about another ten years? That long that long man just 1251 01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:29,000 Speaker 1: on my driveway to here. With that long you just 1252 01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:34,080 Speaker 1: got the hundred episodes You mean that long? I got 1253 01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:36,880 Speaker 1: my hundred episodes back on the Steve ARKI Show back 1254 01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:41,120 Speaker 1: in ninety seven. I didn't get a star to two 1255 01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:48,160 Speaker 1: thousand and one. I don't know, well what year was it? 1256 01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:51,920 Speaker 1: I forgot one year, two thousand. It had to be 1257 01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:57,960 Speaker 1: in the two twelve, twelve thirteen, like like ten at 1258 01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:02,880 Speaker 1: nine whatever it was. Yeah, all the kids was there, 1259 01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:04,960 Speaker 1: and I remember that because I had to fly the 1260 01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:12,080 Speaker 1: ass out there. So you remember bills you pay? Yeah, 1261 01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:15,960 Speaker 1: so you know that stars on the other people. So 1262 01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:20,519 Speaker 1: other than that, man, you really have no case Tommy, Okay, man, 1263 01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:24,759 Speaker 1: I'll be here tomorrow, thank you. Well, yeah, it's not Monday. 1264 01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:32,800 Speaker 1: Were talking yesterday? Yeah, no, it's okay. I'd like to 1265 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:36,519 Speaker 1: know that too. Yeah we why were you off yesterday? Okay? 1266 01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:39,519 Speaker 1: If you just have to know, I've started filming Ready 1267 01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:43,120 Speaker 1: to Love in Dallas and it just it went a little. 1268 01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:45,840 Speaker 1: It went a lot longer than expected. So that's that's 1269 01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:52,000 Speaker 1: why I was Yeah, ok y'all were recording. Yeah, because 1270 01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:54,240 Speaker 1: you were at five and six in the morning the 1271 01:23:54,320 --> 01:24:05,760 Speaker 1: time we on the air crying Donna cry and they 1272 01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:12,160 Speaker 1: were playing me, we're working later and they were gave 1273 01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:19,320 Speaker 1: me all these check out. I want to keep taking 1274 01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:28,200 Speaker 1: this money for me. People like you welcome gratulations. Yeah, 1275 01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 1: that's awesome than doing big things. You really are Yeah, yeah, 1276 01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:39,800 Speaker 1: you're getting eventually, dog, sir, keep grinding, baby, keep grinding, 1277 01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:44,920 Speaker 1: speaking existence, keep grinding. Would you stay junior, just speaking 1278 01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:47,320 Speaker 1: to existence? Get it? Don't you got? You get a star? 1279 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:50,439 Speaker 1: You got about twenty five more years. I got wild. 1280 01:24:50,920 --> 01:24:54,360 Speaker 1: I got so in the sixties. Okay, yeah, now that 1281 01:24:54,360 --> 01:25:01,920 Speaker 1: ain't bad at sixties. But people age surely, Yeah, that's evil, 1282 01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:18,160 Speaker 1: that's evil. You just gave your age twenty three? What 1283 01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:21,760 Speaker 1: the same for? Dog'll be here for you know it? Yes, 1284 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:26,320 Speaker 1: Christmas is tomorrow. I keep telling you guys because I 1285 01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:32,600 Speaker 1: was just so steven. Some words of encouragement about appreciation 1286 01:25:32,680 --> 01:25:36,880 Speaker 1: before we get out of here. Well, dude, I don't 1287 01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:39,439 Speaker 1: know if this is gonna be appreciation, but you know, 1288 01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:42,920 Speaker 1: I think people have to really concern yourself with what 1289 01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:45,479 Speaker 1: are you doing to be appreciated. There's a lot of 1290 01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:48,760 Speaker 1: people who want to appreciation for no reason. You know. 1291 01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:53,439 Speaker 1: Here's what I heard the other day. Somebody said this 1292 01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:59,919 Speaker 1: is very impact said, if your presence doesn't have an impact, 1293 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:06,040 Speaker 1: then your absence won't make a difference. If your presence 1294 01:26:06,800 --> 01:26:10,879 Speaker 1: doesn't make an impact, your absence won't make a difference. 1295 01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:15,400 Speaker 1: So just try to be an impactful person in more 1296 01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:19,040 Speaker 1: more lives than your home. That's how you grow. It's 1297 01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:22,240 Speaker 1: my clothing remarks a day, very short. They don't even 1298 01:26:22,360 --> 01:26:25,360 Speaker 1: we didn't even bother quitting the music. Have a great day, y'all. 1299 01:26:25,760 --> 01:26:37,120 Speaker 1: God love you for all. Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary, 1300 01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:40,439 Speaker 1: void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residence at 1301 01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:44,599 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1302 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:48,759 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. 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