Speaker 1: Find Downey and Michael and I have her radio podcast.
Speaker 1: Sarah looks real cute right now. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you guys are joking or not practicing to be a
Speaker 1: mom already? You really are? You got like the cute
Speaker 1: like Beverly Hills Hotel, like cute little white hat on. No,
Speaker 1: this is what happens with your Nike easy little leggings
Speaker 1: and your oversized sweater kind of like mom already over
Speaker 1: the shoulders. So this is what mom like. It's ties.
Speaker 1: This is ties a b I woke up five minutes
Speaker 1: before I was. I'm not a morning person, so this
Speaker 1: was just a happy month. Thanks for the Starbucks by
Speaker 1: the way, Oh yeah, thank you. Okay, you guys do
Speaker 1: this every time, like you did? You are you not
Speaker 1: near a Starbucks? You know what I mean? But I
Speaker 1: live an hour away, so if I bring you a Starbucks,
Speaker 1: it's melted. So why would you want to Starbucks from
Speaker 1: an hour away time? Because Janna will wake up at
Speaker 1: the very last minute that she can, so there's no
Speaker 1: time for any extra curriculars in between getting to where
Speaker 1: we need to be. Our day every day, like today
Speaker 1: is we leave here. We have a couple of therapy
Speaker 1: right after, like ten minutes later. Then we have another
Speaker 1: meeting ten minutes after that in Los Angeles, which it
Speaker 1: takes thirty minutes to get anyone. So food in drinks,
Speaker 1: in beverage. That's why Janna has a purse full of
Speaker 1: bars and one water me on in the hand. Who
Speaker 1: eats normal person food? But yesterday, he goes, man, we
Speaker 1: didn't really have lunch yesterday. I go, you mean those
Speaker 1: two burgers you ate at twelve o'clock wasn't lunch. I
Speaker 1: did see you eat those burgers, So I don't know
Speaker 1: why you're saying. I was just like, what else did
Speaker 1: you need? More subsistence? More so, in the midst of
Speaker 1: our busy day to day, I do have like a
Speaker 1: six hour tattoo session, which Jane and I classic conversation
Speaker 1: where we're like save it. We started talking about something
Speaker 1: naturally coming into the studio today and asked you and
Speaker 1: I was like, do you like chess tattoos? I don't.
Speaker 1: I personally don't. She was like, no, I don't. And
Speaker 1: she was like, but I will say this, I like
Speaker 1: chess tattoos more than back tattoos. And I'm like, my
Speaker 1: whole type, my whole back is tattoos. I'm like, you've
Speaker 1: never told me this. She was like yeah when we
Speaker 1: first met. That was the one thing I didn't like
Speaker 1: it that you was like it. I thought, I remember
Speaker 1: seeing it and the like, I've never liked it. But
Speaker 1: I never wanted to tell him, like how good would
Speaker 1: that be? Well, it's a little permanent, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So it's one of those things where I'm
Speaker 1: like okay, and he's like, well and he stayed with me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I'm not gonna not be with you.
Speaker 1: But it was. It was the first date. It was
Speaker 1: when I went and met her in Chicago. Was when
Speaker 1: she you pulled it out. Remember the back of the bus.
Speaker 1: You literally you're asking me like what tattoos? Did you
Speaker 1: have any other tattoos? Like did you have your arms?
Speaker 1: I had my arms, So you were like, oh, he's
Speaker 1: tadded Like he didn't have he didn't have all that.
Speaker 1: But I had the back of my arms, I had
Speaker 1: my side, my ribs done. And she wanted to see
Speaker 1: what else she was signing up for. Yeah, and she
Speaker 1: like we're in the back of her bus and she
Speaker 1: like pulled my shirt up over my head to see
Speaker 1: my back and I didn't see her face a little. Know.
Speaker 1: She's like, I just don't like back tattoos at all.
Speaker 1: I mean, you never never liked it. I love you,
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. It's nothing we do
Speaker 1: about now. But it's just he's like, that's funny because
Speaker 1: because I don't like that, I don't like girls with
Speaker 1: brown eyes either, So actually this works out well. Brown
Speaker 1: eyes are my least favorite. I call it for girls.
Speaker 1: But it's okay, that's what I mean. I love you,
Speaker 1: you know, that's all. It's also funny is Mike's covering
Speaker 1: up my face today. Oh god, it's the sore subject.
Speaker 1: We've been waiting for this. I mean we haven't been waiting,
Speaker 1: but we've been talking about how he's fixing. So he wanted,
Speaker 1: you know, this sleeve tattoo, and you know, we had
Speaker 1: a conversation around it. I'm like, you do whatever you want,
Speaker 1: but like I just want you to be happy. It's
Speaker 1: your thing. You're a sleeve. But he's like, it's really pretty.
Speaker 1: He's like, he's like, he's all about his his thing.
Speaker 1: If you let's talk about it, he can. But you know,
Speaker 1: one of the things on there, he's like, I really
Speaker 1: want to put your face on my arm. And I
Speaker 1: was just like wow, like that's pretty cool, you know,
Speaker 1: you know so, But now he came home a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks ago from the tattoos. This is like a month,
Speaker 1: like two months ago when we talked about two months.
Speaker 1: It's all relative. He goes, so I'm going to cover
Speaker 1: your face up. First of all, I did it on
Speaker 1: the plane and Los Angeles going back to Nashville like
Speaker 1: a month or so ago, like six weeks ago. Strategically,
Speaker 1: so I had witnesses around me, so she she could
Speaker 1: she had to stay somewhat calm about what I was
Speaker 1: proposing to her, like so because she asked me earlier
Speaker 1: that day before we left, because I was like hey,
Speaker 1: because he had one session of the face that he
Speaker 1: wasn't done yet, So I was like, hey, so, like
Speaker 1: what does he say. He's gonna like help do to
Speaker 1: like shade it to look a little, you know, more
Speaker 1: like the INSMA photo you wanted. And he's like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: He's like yeah, I actually didn't get a chance to
Speaker 1: talk to about it. But then he drops it on
Speaker 1: the plane and their whole conversation was him covering it
Speaker 1: with a Spartan. What a Spartan. You're a badass Spartan helmet.
Speaker 1: I don't know what. So basically he's covering my health
Speaker 1: with a helmet. What do you say? Well, I'm just curious,
Speaker 1: thank you. So now my face is like that, Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell jam full story. I'm actually just putting
Speaker 1: a Spartan helmet. Are you keeping her face and then
Speaker 1: her face behind the spart It's like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: so but to me, I was like, again, it's your arm.
Speaker 1: You do whatever you want. It's just how it feels,
Speaker 1: very like I changed my mind. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to my room anymore. But that's not it. That's what
Speaker 1: she and I told her. I explained. I said, look,
Speaker 1: and this is the God's on the truth, the tattoo.
Speaker 1: The first artist I went to did a terrible job,
Speaker 1: and I trusted him too much. It wasn't at all
Speaker 1: what I wanted. And so I told and I was like,
Speaker 1: look for me to be proud of a piece of
Speaker 1: your portrait on me. I wanted to. I wanted it
Speaker 1: to be like this beautiful, Like people see it and
Speaker 1: they're like, damn, that is stunning. This guy did not
Speaker 1: do that. So my new artist. I've seen his portfolio.
Speaker 1: He's he can do portraits, like it's like the best
Speaker 1: thing he does. So I told her, I was like, look,
Speaker 1: here's the deal. I want to be proud of your
Speaker 1: face on me right now. I'm not. It's not it
Speaker 1: doesn't look like I wanted to. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm laughing. I think she looks pretty, but I get
Speaker 1: how you don't. It's not what I wanted. I wanted
Speaker 1: to be this like just breathtaking peace. And so I
Speaker 1: was like, she's it doesn't know like it doesn't. I'm
Speaker 1: just like imagining myself on Tie's arm and it's just
Speaker 1: not there. I'm just like, it's just kind of face
Speaker 1: you would have on Tim. I don't even want to know.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm just like laughing. But I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying, Um, you're you're pretty. I would want
Speaker 1: to look at myself if I was like on someone's own.
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. I never I never even said I
Speaker 1: was like you do with everyone on that arm. So
Speaker 1: it's the fact that he said he wanted to, which
Speaker 1: I never would have ever said, like put my face
Speaker 1: on your arm, you know, But he had this image,
Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, that's really cool that he
Speaker 1: even wanted to. But now I'm like, like bad part
Speaker 1: of me is like is he covering up? Oh? I know,
Speaker 1: I know, I know you know her name. I'm going
Speaker 1: to say, even though you're fully branded up from like
Speaker 1: this by anything, I'm just saying, it just feels like
Speaker 1: a you know, you put me on there. Now You're like, well,
Speaker 1: it's about it for me to have tie wear a
Speaker 1: wedding rings. So if that makes you feel like he
Speaker 1: doesn't want to wear wedding well, he's just he's never
Speaker 1: warning jewelry. He's just like is it gonna feel weird?
Speaker 1: Is it going to be clush? You know my buddy Drew.
Speaker 1: My buddy Drew's like that, does he not wear rings seldom?
Speaker 1: I don't like that. No, ties, like I'm gonna wear it,
Speaker 1: but like he'll always like pull my rings and he's
Speaker 1: like they don't come off, Like isn't that crush? And
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I know that's what I told him.
Speaker 1: I was like, I sleep in mind. Let him not
Speaker 1: wear a ring. No, No, He's like I'll get a
Speaker 1: tattoo and I'm like, no, I don't want you to
Speaker 1: get tattooed. I don't know. First of all, you like
Speaker 1: back tattootes, don't. I don't really like like I'm not
Speaker 1: a tattoo kind of gal for guys, Like I don't know.
Speaker 1: But anyways, I was like, just wear a ring. It's
Speaker 1: very simple, it's very easy. So you need to get
Speaker 1: like a rubber black one. He'll be fine. I'm not concerned,
Speaker 1: but I do get what you're saying. You're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you don't want And even as much as I I've
Speaker 1: explained it to Janna very delicately, it's not doing that.
Speaker 1: I'm going to put you elsewhere on my body. But
Speaker 1: but I'm like, you don't have to. It's just I
Speaker 1: just feel like now you're like trying to like it's
Speaker 1: okay if you don't. But now I feel like you're
Speaker 1: trying to be like this is a trap. It's not
Speaker 1: okay if you don't put it on your body. No.
Speaker 1: I do agree, because Janna is like, so are you
Speaker 1: going to say no? You even said the other day
Speaker 1: at the appointment, So are you going to talk about
Speaker 1: like you know, when you're gonna when you're gonna make
Speaker 1: the appointment to put me on you? No? No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying because you that's what you said, So like,
Speaker 1: it's what do you want if you don't want to
Speaker 1: just be honest because you did it first and then
Speaker 1: you changed your mind because now I'm becoming a spartan.
Speaker 1: So I just get when this wait, So is that
Speaker 1: what the appointment is today? Sorry to go, So you're
Speaker 1: going to fix her today or put her somewhere else.
Speaker 1: I'm going to cover her sus This is like harsh,
Speaker 1: but no, I'm just saying, like, do you not want
Speaker 1: like being totally honest, Like no, I do. I want
Speaker 1: the piece that I wanted originally, but you wanted it
Speaker 1: on that arm though, so it'll change because my whole
Speaker 1: thing is like the reason he got the arm is
Speaker 1: because of the meaning of the thing. So I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: it not me. You're just you're making this more complicated
Speaker 1: than it is. Really, yes, it's not that complicated, but
Speaker 1: you wanted your sleeve that like right, but it's still
Speaker 1: it being army, It's still meaningful. Okay, whatever. I mean again,
Speaker 1: it's like whatever, I know what I'm trying to tell
Speaker 1: you that, but you're just not accepting what I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: What am I not accepting because you keep going to it. Well,
Speaker 1: if it's not on that same mornument doesn't mean as much. Well,
Speaker 1: if you don't do me at all. If I'm just
Speaker 1: like I'm telling you, I'm just asking, I think once
Speaker 1: she sees it somewhere else, then it all kind of
Speaker 1: like again, I don't care, I'm just asking. Like he
Speaker 1: gets so defensive and I'm like, I'm not I'm not defensive. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm just like you're saying, like all these things. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm just asking questions. I'm allowed to ask questions, right,
Speaker 1: But you've asked the same questions and I've answered them,
Speaker 1: but you still have the same feelings around it, and
Speaker 1: I've tried to I'm just trying to reassure you. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's not the case, but you keep
Speaker 1: saying but I feel like you're covering me up. You
Speaker 1: don't want me on there. I'm like, I'm that's not
Speaker 1: the cay. How many times you have to tell you
Speaker 1: that is not the case. I just know that sometimes
Speaker 1: you say things to like sugarcoat it where it's like,
Speaker 1: but maybe it's not what you actually want because you're
Speaker 1: like trying to make me happy, and you know, I
Speaker 1: feel like in this instance, he really does want the
Speaker 1: tat like, I think he really does want you something.
Speaker 1: If I didn't want it, I wouldn't have gotten it
Speaker 1: on me to begin with. I know. But now you're
Speaker 1: like it's being covered up. So now I'm like, because
Speaker 1: it doesn't want to just take a look at it.
Speaker 1: Can I get a look at it? It doesn't matter,
Speaker 1: it's going away. I don't feel like it's going away.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. It's going away. All right, let's take
Speaker 1: a break. If you're in southern California and love Cheryl Crow,
Speaker 1: well we have something special for you. Cheryl is doing
Speaker 1: a private performance at the I Heart Radio Theater Monday,
Speaker 1: December two at seven pm. It's free. So you just
Speaker 1: need to email us to r s up and we
Speaker 1: will email you back to confirm. So email Janna Kramer
Speaker 1: and I Heart Media dot com. That's Janna Kramer and
Speaker 1: I Heart Media dot com if you would like tickets
Speaker 1: to see Cheryl Crow in l A. I'm from like
Speaker 1: a healthy conversation. I start off the morning. You know what,
Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. I was in my car for
Speaker 1: like an hour, just like solo, Miss so I'm excited
Speaker 1: to be around. I was listening to the same song
Speaker 1: over and over. Right now, it's stuck in my head.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sing it even though, okay, you want
Speaker 1: me to sing, you know. The new Celina Gomes song
Speaker 1: is up. I love it when she says I needed
Speaker 1: to hate you to love me. Yeah dead. I wish
Speaker 1: I was going through a breakup hate you. I needed
Speaker 1: to Hey, you love me? You love so good? Everyone
Speaker 1: just like turned. Everyone whoever was driving just crashed. Lindsay
Speaker 1: All has a really good new song too. I heard
Speaker 1: it yesterday on the way here. I heard it yesterday
Speaker 1: all my way here. I was going to take a pick,
Speaker 1: but I was It's like, I'm gonna give you a
Speaker 1: little bit right now on Spotify. It's so good. I
Speaker 1: Don't Love You by Lindsay Ella Jam. She played its
Speaker 1: like before they released it, and it's unbelievable. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: if you want to go through a breakfast on Missy
Speaker 1: sometime like I'm like, I have Goosey's again. It's so good.
Speaker 1: So you guys, dreams of a favorite, get that song,
Speaker 1: roll your windows up, crank up the tunes, sit in
Speaker 1: your car and jam jams wry about whoever you want
Speaker 1: to cry about, like still have the children about whoever
Speaker 1: you want? Is there a song that you guys have Like,
Speaker 1: I'm like that, I'm so excited for this conversation. I
Speaker 1: don't know where I know that you still think of
Speaker 1: that one person even every time you sing it. Please,
Speaker 1: Joanna started thought, we wait, we need we need to
Speaker 1: know that this is a safe space. So you no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just asking questions like is there someone
Speaker 1: that you still think about? Like it could be a friend.
Speaker 1: She needs to totally lead this af It could be
Speaker 1: a friend, it could be a parent. Could know for example,
Speaker 1: like I can't listen to Amazed by Lone Star because
Speaker 1: it broke up my parents marriage. Wait, baby, I'm amazed
Speaker 1: by I love that. Wait, that song broke up your parents.
Speaker 1: My mom goes, do you feel this way about me?
Speaker 1: And my dad said no and they got divorced. Oh.
Speaker 1: I just almost all out of my chair. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean granted, I mean things, but yeah, do I make you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: My mom was do you do you feel this way
Speaker 1: about me? And my dad said no. Into this day,
Speaker 1: my mom cannot listen to that song. And I know
Speaker 1: the stories, so now I can't the best part of
Speaker 1: it is I went to I went to Lone Star
Speaker 1: because I did a few songs with them. I was like,
Speaker 1: y'all broke my parents up. Thanks Dick, Thanks. Wow, all right,
Speaker 1: I have a I have a jam and it doesn't
Speaker 1: affect me today, but about Trish, so it did, it
Speaker 1: did for a long time. It's okay, this is a
Speaker 1: safe zone safe yeah. He's like, yeah, yeah, sure, sure bitches. Yeah,
Speaker 1: which we never have. Okay, so we never have. He's
Speaker 1: getting ready to okay, everyone, okay, we're just about don't laugh.
Speaker 1: It was my like college girlfriends, Daniel Daniel. I actually
Speaker 1: love her. We actually have a great conversation. We're friends.
Speaker 1: It's probably a Mike Fashion conversation totally, but I love
Speaker 1: her and I think she's so sweet. She's very sweet.
Speaker 1: She deserved a lot better than me, so didn't we
Speaker 1: all Yeah, okay, let's hear it. Let's hear it all
Speaker 1: right here it is Oh yeah, hey, hey, Daniel, did
Speaker 1: you call it boo boo? That was a jam? Oh well,
Speaker 1: that's like that's like cute. But I feel like, like,
Speaker 1: what about you? You didn't tell us yours? Oh your
Speaker 1: parents yeah, she has another one. That's that's I just
Speaker 1: put myself out there. Okay, I can think of okay,
Speaker 1: like the chair by George Straits, my parents wedding song
Speaker 1: that makes me think of them. No, no, okay, well
Speaker 1: what about like another boy though? Since we're going there
Speaker 1: but you didn't go there, I will. Okay, she makes
Speaker 1: us go first. I know, I'm just gonna like throw
Speaker 1: one out there because her is gonna take the cake.
Speaker 1: Um you mean like not about Thyler Wells to be
Speaker 1: like honestly, like, I'm trying to think it's funny because
Speaker 1: I feel like, come on you before I have five thousand.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm trying to think if I put you
Speaker 1: on to show what the Arizona state, because like like
Speaker 1: the one, the one before Tye, it's all like hate,
Speaker 1: like any hate songs. I'm just trying to think, totally
Speaker 1: make me think of him. But then the one from
Speaker 1: high school I would probably see, like any Taylor Swift song.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know what song? Okay there? Oh
Speaker 1: my god? How did I just remember this? This is crazy? Okay, there,
Speaker 1: I can't remember what song Tory? What song is it?
Speaker 1: I remember driving to your house in the middle of
Speaker 1: the not on Yeah, yeah, okay, you belong with me? Maybe?
Speaker 1: Is that okay? Right? Yeah, okay, yeah, because that every
Speaker 1: and she sings out at every concert, and every time
Speaker 1: she sings it, it makes me think of my high
Speaker 1: school boyfriend because he one. Because it's just me. You know,
Speaker 1: I love Taylor Sliff so much. So every boyfriend I've
Speaker 1: ever had loves her too. And one time he was like,
Speaker 1: we were listening to that song and he was like,
Speaker 1: this song literally makes me think of you every time
Speaker 1: I hear it, because he used to drive to my
Speaker 1: house like every night in the middle of the night,
Speaker 1: like he would sneak in and he would sneak out,
Speaker 1: and he was like, every time I hear this, I
Speaker 1: think of you because she says, what does she say,
Speaker 1: I remember you driving? Yeah, yeah, the nut I'm the
Speaker 1: one who makes you laugh. Yeah that one. And now
Speaker 1: we're singing again, so yeah that one actually, So here's
Speaker 1: my question. But here's my question. So when this conversation,
Speaker 1: is it something where like, is it okay to have
Speaker 1: that memory? Is it okay? That's the time, It's a
Speaker 1: different time, and it's it's because here's the thing I'm like,
Speaker 1: is this disrespectful to each other that we're like, no,
Speaker 1: because none of us existed when this happened, and it's
Speaker 1: not you know what I mean, Like like we all
Speaker 1: were in each other in that moment we thought that
Speaker 1: was it. Yeah for sure, but right, but like, so
Speaker 1: let's say that song comes out, your song the Taylor,
Speaker 1: So like that song comes on and it's like, I
Speaker 1: don't feel thinking about Danielle, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Or that's the thing. It's like, and you're going to
Speaker 1: think the same thing, like are you thinking about this person?
Speaker 1: Because well, if you would tell us, we would know who.
Speaker 1: It goes back to that, like some thing. It depends though,
Speaker 1: because it depends on how recent they're in your life.
Speaker 1: If you get with somebody and it's like, hey, we
Speaker 1: just started dating, you know, six months ago, an a
Speaker 1: year ago, you're with this person and that's the song
Speaker 1: you tell me, then I'm a little too soon. But
Speaker 1: it's been eight years or something to how many songs
Speaker 1: now that I think like you're like missing No, I
Speaker 1: just I'm like, but then, but then why do it's? Um?
Speaker 1: I think it depends. You could definitely be sent down
Speaker 1: a web spiral like feeling now there was different. Like
Speaker 1: when I just heard that, I was like, it's a snap.
Speaker 1: I was like, man, I remember well because almost like
Speaker 1: when I think of that, I actually feel like I
Speaker 1: remember when he told me this story and we were
Speaker 1: like driving. It just takes me back. I'm like, who
Speaker 1: is that? Like I remember her? She was like such
Speaker 1: a little girl, like not so much like. So I
Speaker 1: don't think I can say, oh no, no, no no, no no,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play you this song. Okay, well I wouldn't
Speaker 1: play enough to see as a known person, So just
Speaker 1: go with the song first and let us try and
Speaker 1: just called one moment more. Why Mindy Smith? Who many Smith?
Speaker 1: She's amazing? Oh of course, if y'all gonna just see
Speaker 1: Mike's I rolled to the back of this. Of course.
Speaker 1: It's like borderline love s I'm Gonna kill myself type
Speaker 1: of song. Like it's a multipurpose song. It's like Levin
Speaker 1: or Janet in a bathtub like one. This is it.
Speaker 1: It's all about them not not being able to be together,
Speaker 1: and why weren't y'all able to beat together? Because our
Speaker 1: families did not get along Romeo Juliette. It's just about
Speaker 1: like the one woman more Okay, well, how old were
Speaker 1: you twenty six? Was he a future suitor? What engaged
Speaker 1: were you engaged to this person? Yeah, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think of Jane's I was he's a singer. Yeah, he knows.
Speaker 1: Can we see off their first sure? Yeah? Got it?
Speaker 1: Called it crickets. Crickets you say crickets. I like how
Speaker 1: me and Mike songs were like une boo and it's
Speaker 1: like a tailor swift Bob and Jamie is like if
Speaker 1: you could just come back so dramatic and just arms reaching.
Speaker 1: I know That's what I'm saying. That's why I rolled
Speaker 1: my eyes. I was like, of course this is is
Speaker 1: here that or like it's seven o'clock. I'm then dropped up,
Speaker 1: like if you want to go back there there was
Speaker 1: it was like the high schools, even like Tye n
Speaker 1: I right now, I'm like, we can't even decide on
Speaker 1: the song because I'm like, there's just if you think
Speaker 1: about it every day, you're like, oh this song, this song,
Speaker 1: and especially you know ten years ago that was our
Speaker 1: song like when we left each other. That was just
Speaker 1: like we played were like He's like I can't listen
Speaker 1: to the song anymore. Oh now I'm thinking you can't okay,
Speaker 1: So like I didn't get okay. If we're doing mutual songs,
Speaker 1: the game, this changes the game because that was their
Speaker 1: mutual song? Was that? I mean? For me? Oh my god?
Speaker 1: High school boyfriend and George straight song he would send
Speaker 1: me three years later, drunkn mill and night. He'd send
Speaker 1: me George trade lyrics And I'm like, George is just
Speaker 1: going to casually be at your wedding school. Why can't
Speaker 1: we say who it is? Because he's very private? Aren't
Speaker 1: we all felt the same? But here we are. I
Speaker 1: don't think you guys all know him. You don't listen
Speaker 1: to country to you? Is she kidding? She looking at me.
Speaker 1: I don't listen to country Texas. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just I you think I understand respect. We'll let people
Speaker 1: do their guesses. Yeah, they'll figure it out. In the comments,
Speaker 1: did he see would he sing it to you? Mike
Speaker 1: is going, but you're really going down a rabbitable here?
Speaker 1: See this is what I said. You can either I
Speaker 1: think of a song where you could just go, We're
Speaker 1: going down a rabbit hole. I'm here for a rabb hole. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just would yeah, because he's Yeah, yeah, we got her.
Speaker 1: Normally you're never suspecting, like you know because big country artist.
Speaker 1: Oh she nearrowed it down. God, and it's not Brentley
Speaker 1: All okay, it's not start digging people anyhoo. Oh that
Speaker 1: was a please change the topic. That was funny. That
Speaker 1: was such a that was a good all right, Let's
Speaker 1: take it one more break and then we'll do an email. Okay,
Speaker 1: So during that commercial break, no, we don't need to
Speaker 1: get in. That's so good. Okay, So we have an
Speaker 1: email from Ashley discovery a second little sister that like
Speaker 1: doing that little commercial break. Chams like, so do you
Speaker 1: miss her? Kidding? I'm sure you know what they say, like,
Speaker 1: you know, you'll always have a piece of my heart.
Speaker 1: Maybe people always do have a little piece of your heart.
Speaker 1: Let's just go onto the email. This email is from
Speaker 1: Ashley Janna, Okay, I reading that. Let's have Sarah read
Speaker 1: it since she's neutral to this. After the discovery of
Speaker 1: my husband's sex addiction three weeks ago, my friend basically
Speaker 1: forced me to listen to you. Thank you, Janna, you
Speaker 1: have kept me alive. I have a I have a
Speaker 1: terrible question though, would there have been a limit or
Speaker 1: line you would have drawn to the addiction, like if
Speaker 1: he would have slept with X amount of people or
Speaker 1: did any specific thing that would have been too much
Speaker 1: to bear. That's a really good question because we don't
Speaker 1: get into the specifics of numbers and things. But I
Speaker 1: do remember mm hmm when he was in treatment and
Speaker 1: I just wanted to know. I wanted to know how many.
Speaker 1: I just like you wanted to know everything. I wanted
Speaker 1: to know everything, but I wanted to know how many.
Speaker 1: And then in my head I'd be like, Okay, if
Speaker 1: it's this many, I'm leaving. If it's this many, I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: If it's or if it's this then I'm leaving, Like
Speaker 1: you would justify things. Yeah, But what I realized was
Speaker 1: was whether it was one or a thousand, it's all bad.
Speaker 1: It all sucks, it all feels deceitful in bad. Um. So,
Speaker 1: first of all, Ashley, I'm I'm glad that this show
Speaker 1: is helping you very Yeah. So sorry, UM, here's the deal.
Speaker 1: When someone's an addiction, it doesn't make sense. And that's
Speaker 1: something that I've had to learn because I'd be like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't understand how you could do this and how
Speaker 1: this this person, and like it doesn't make sense when
Speaker 1: you say, like any specific thing, it's all too much
Speaker 1: to bear. It all doesn't make sense. But that's the
Speaker 1: thing we're not it's when you're in an addiction. It
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense to the addict either, right, No, it doesn't.
Speaker 1: So it's like they in their rational mind, now, I
Speaker 1: hope you know, Mike and recovery can be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that that's just it's out of control behavior when you're
Speaker 1: an addict. So it's it's actually it's up to you
Speaker 1: to determine that for yourself. And it's and like Janna said,
Speaker 1: you know, early on, Janna would be questioning why, like
Speaker 1: how this, and a lot of times my answer is
Speaker 1: I don't know, And that was the truth and the
Speaker 1: honest answer because and I think that's the hardest thing
Speaker 1: for these it is to not have an answer exactly,
Speaker 1: to not have an answer. It took Janna a long
Speaker 1: time to accept that kind of as an answer and
Speaker 1: too respect the addictive aspect of this, because it was
Speaker 1: we you know, at the time, especially when Jana was
Speaker 1: asking all those questions, I didn't know because I was
Speaker 1: figuring it all out. I was figuring out where things
Speaker 1: came from what behaviors and when it started and how
Speaker 1: it started and how it manifested and of grew into
Speaker 1: and all of that. So it's it's up to you
Speaker 1: to determine, you know, what you can handle and withstand,
Speaker 1: and the only way you can determine that is over
Speaker 1: a period of time. And the biggest thing, one of
Speaker 1: the biggest things that jan and I've talked about and
Speaker 1: that our couple of therapists told us, and that Janet's
Speaker 1: individual therapist told us or told her, it was set
Speaker 1: yourself a timeline. So it's don't make wasn't no major
Speaker 1: decisions in the first year, which to me sounded crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, are you kidding me? I want to be like, no,
Speaker 1: I need to understand all this and but with but
Speaker 1: within that, within that year, you can make other smaller
Speaker 1: timelines of all right, we're not going to live in
Speaker 1: the same house for the first three months, we're gonna
Speaker 1: be separated or something like that. Um, you can take
Speaker 1: whatever you can take steps to to reconnect so it
Speaker 1: doesn't feel like you have to be thrusted and forced
Speaker 1: into staying together or sleeping in the same room or
Speaker 1: being under the same roof. Right away, because you're hurt,
Speaker 1: you're traumatized, So do what you need to have the
Speaker 1: space that you need. But just take a year or
Speaker 1: even if you if a year just sounds too much,
Speaker 1: to six months, don't make any major decisions and live
Speaker 1: with and sit with everything as you process. And great.
Speaker 1: I love that. And also again I just want because
Speaker 1: it's I think it's hard to because when you're in
Speaker 1: that position, the addict is not your husband. The husband
Speaker 1: is not an addict. So with Mike, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: you're that person. He's not that person. It's the addiction
Speaker 1: that made him that person, and he if he's willing
Speaker 1: to do the work and become his version of himself,
Speaker 1: which yes, absolutely to clarify, is not an excuse, it's
Speaker 1: an explanation. So there's that's completely different. Remember that it's
Speaker 1: not an excuse. It's an explanation to his behaviors. And
Speaker 1: it's his job to dig deep and figure out where
Speaker 1: this came from and how to handle them moving forward.
Speaker 1: And it's your job to take care of your good boundaries,
Speaker 1: but take care of yourself and figure out what you
Speaker 1: need moving forward. Lovely girl hanging there, would you leave tie?
Speaker 1: Do you like I don't see tie everything on you.
Speaker 1: But I mean god, I never I mean yeah, I've
Speaker 1: always said like I don't know, like even to you,
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know how you're so strong.
Speaker 1: I'm just not that strong and I'm not that forgiving.
Speaker 1: And you know me, I'm very like I'm really which
Speaker 1: is not I'm not proud of it. But I can drop, stop,
Speaker 1: drop and roll and leave real quick like relationships. Where
Speaker 1: do you think that? Is that any family of origin
Speaker 1: with you or is that just something I think that
Speaker 1: because I'm one of five, I've just been like something
Speaker 1: that people probably don't realize. I'm really independent, Like I
Speaker 1: love being alone when I try travel so much, I
Speaker 1: like to be alone. And I think that just comes
Speaker 1: from a big family and taking care of myself and
Speaker 1: just you know, doing it myself and not worrying about
Speaker 1: anyone but myself. A And I'm sure i got burned somewhere,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure kindergarten or something. I'm sure I
Speaker 1: got burned somewhere along the way. M hmmm. Actually I know,
Speaker 1: actually I know, I know, I know why I am
Speaker 1: the way I am. Um, I think that go there, girl,
Speaker 1: Well I feel now we're like just totally keep So
Speaker 1: in high school with my boyfriend broke up with me.
Speaker 1: He broke up with me and never talked to me
Speaker 1: again for a year, and I didn't understand why. I
Speaker 1: didn't understand how. I was seventeen, and I was like,
Speaker 1: how how do you do that? Like you know? And
Speaker 1: this is also how do you just shut it off?
Speaker 1: And I literally, oh my god, I cried all the time,
Speaker 1: not a crier. And I remember saying, I will never
Speaker 1: let someone hurt. I will never let someone do this
Speaker 1: to me again. And I'd never have let anyone do
Speaker 1: it to me again ever. And I think that's why
Speaker 1: I just kind of when I'm done, I'm done, and
Speaker 1: I just go because I don't want to feel it again.
Speaker 1: I don't want to go back there, and I don't.
Speaker 1: It's so I can't even imagine hi, But I know
Speaker 1: you're right, you don't ever imagine it. But I don't
Speaker 1: know that would be so. I think kids is different,
Speaker 1: you know, but that would be so that would be
Speaker 1: so hard for me. It amazes me how impactful um
Speaker 1: experiences in high school and the adolescence, how it shapes
Speaker 1: you because you're so impressionable and everything. I was just
Speaker 1: talking to somebody recently, like Nick and Parker and stuff,
Speaker 1: some of my buddies back in Nashville. We're talking about football,
Speaker 1: and it's funny when we had talked about high school
Speaker 1: football memories. Everything in high school seemed larger than life,
Speaker 1: like even people you played with, oh, I remember that,
Speaker 1: they seemed larger than like in my memory. They seem
Speaker 1: bigger than gods I played in the NFL with. And
Speaker 1: it's just everything, it's more pactful and bigger, because that's
Speaker 1: what you think your entire life is is high school
Speaker 1: and emotions are just heightened. I don't know because and
Speaker 1: it's interesting because like as you said that, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm I was the opposite. So he left me too.
Speaker 1: But I then became why don't you love me? Why
Speaker 1: am I not enough? And then that is that is
Speaker 1: the moment in my life when I started. And it
Speaker 1: was also during my parents divorced, so it wasn't good
Speaker 1: to have, like to God, and then my Grandpather died,
Speaker 1: so it's all like boom boom bam, and that was
Speaker 1: like wow, Like here, just hearing you say that, I'm like, yep,
Speaker 1: that's that's also maybe why. I was just like, love me,
Speaker 1: love me, love me? Why are you leaving me? No,
Speaker 1: don't leave me? It's crazy. Yeah, And I'll at this
Speaker 1: on top of it with along with y'all. The first
Speaker 1: I think I touched on this before the first girl
Speaker 1: I can say I ever truly felt I was in
Speaker 1: love with. I was like sixteen, she went to a
Speaker 1: different high school. We had like a summer fling in
Speaker 1: my head. I'm like in my heart, I'm like, I
Speaker 1: love this is the first person I've ever loved. She
Speaker 1: left me, cheat on me with her ex boyfriend, got
Speaker 1: back together together with him, and it's like that moment,
Speaker 1: I felt like I'm never gonna be hurt again, Like
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let someone leave me, like I'm going
Speaker 1: to leave them. That was me I left. It's interesting
Speaker 1: how that shapes you, Isn't it crazy? That just one thing.
Speaker 1: And I think because in that moment, like you probably
Speaker 1: had never hurt that way. You probably had never at
Speaker 1: that time, I had never been hurt that way, and
Speaker 1: I didn't understand it, and so you kind of are
Speaker 1: just like, Okay, how do I make you know? Your
Speaker 1: little mind is like, how do I make sure this
Speaker 1: never happens never you know, always be the strong hand,
Speaker 1: never let you know. And you were probably like, how
Speaker 1: do I make sure this? I just love just I
Speaker 1: just want love crazy insane. Imagine if we were all
Speaker 1: in high school together. I thought we'd all be friends
Speaker 1: each other susan not like that way each other up.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, god, that's just crazy. Do you
Speaker 1: like mostly most voted for something? Because I was remember
Speaker 1: that time Janna cried because Matthew made me cry all
Speaker 1: the time. Wait, so I was always crying? And then um,
Speaker 1: most like then the cover of Glamour, So that's so cute.
Speaker 1: Um okay, I was, we'll see we did it in
Speaker 1: eighth grade, and then we did it. I think my
Speaker 1: senior year. Oh, senior year, I was voted most likely
Speaker 1: to be mistaken for a celebrity. Okay, that's absolutely is
Speaker 1: not random. That's great. But then in eighth grade I
Speaker 1: got like class clown and like the most athletics just
Speaker 1: charmed everybody. I just I kind of worry for our
Speaker 1: kids though, because I know now impressionable that high school age.
Speaker 1: I think about that too anymore. What's that? Oh? I
Speaker 1: think so like best smile Probably not because they don't
Speaker 1: want to just like everyone gets a trophy, so God,
Speaker 1: here we go. But someone's feelings are going to get hurt. Really,
Speaker 1: they're taking away the likes on Instagram. Oh yeah, which
Speaker 1: I'm totally cool with, see because your analytics are still
Speaker 1: going to be there for like, but you know what's
Speaker 1: funny is they're taking away the likes. But it's like
Speaker 1: the likes aren't the trolls are in the comments. So
Speaker 1: you think there are things that there are pictures that
Speaker 1: I don't put on my Instagram because I know they're
Speaker 1: not going to have a good but I would like to,
Speaker 1: but I know they're not going to have a it
Speaker 1: it hurts and that hurts me, like it messes with
Speaker 1: my head when that's why this one's only gonna get
Speaker 1: ten and it's like a hundred thousand. I didn't understand why,
Speaker 1: but now I guess that makes sense. I was like,
Speaker 1: if you like, you can still go to analytics sure
Speaker 1: for like this, you know, sponsored stuff, and they got it.
Speaker 1: Are you heeling your nails on? I just peeled off
Speaker 1: all my jels. Sorry, I was getting like nervous talking
Speaker 1: about my high school self. Clearly. I was just like,
Speaker 1: you are well and they were peeling off some like, no,
Speaker 1: are you kidding? I feel like we had we had
Speaker 1: a nostalgia episode a few weeks ago. I feel like
Speaker 1: this is that that should have been this title. I know, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'll tell you mind if you tell
Speaker 1: me yours? I know, wait, tell you tell me you're what.
Speaker 1: The other one who the song was about, his name
Speaker 1: is John. Oh, good job real, tell us Brian's with rip. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll do that. John's very common names. Thoughts always said it,
Speaker 1: you're dick. What? Oh my god, I said it, Tricia John?
Speaker 1: You know the other one, the high school girl. Now
Speaker 1: she's just making you say any name. We're talking about
Speaker 1: the song. I thought you were talking about the high
Speaker 1: school girl. His high Yeah, we're talking about two so
Speaker 1: many times, guys. Funny. Now look at all of us.
Speaker 1: We're all just married and I know happy. I can't
Speaker 1: wait till Julie Ho's our first boyfriend. M M, like,
Speaker 1: how are you going to handle that? It's I'll be
Speaker 1: better than when Jay says his first girlfriend. We're watching
Speaker 1: it made me. We're watching Crazy Stupid Love Yesterday, I
Speaker 1: love and even It's We're like we started ten minutes
Speaker 1: in and Janna was like, is this what we're gonna watch?
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm not writing in a truck. Ten
Speaker 1: more minutes. Ten more minutes later, she was just like
Speaker 1: I love this movie. I was like, I know, that's
Speaker 1: why we're watching it, but like with his son and
Speaker 1: like being in love at eighth grade and so I'm like,
Speaker 1: I can't imagine, like Janna, I mean Jolie and Jay
Speaker 1: and Ace and like when he said whole a million
Speaker 1: times when they're doing start like Julian Moore had to
Speaker 1: go in to give him. I was like, I'm almost
Speaker 1: excited that for those moments, just to be like on
Speaker 1: the receiving it, because I was just always in trouble life.
Speaker 1: You're like, so just to be the parent to be
Speaker 1: like but it's like do you get attached, Like if
Speaker 1: Julie has a boyfriend and you don't like him, or
Speaker 1: what if you love him so much? And like she's
Speaker 1: heartbroken first heartbreak that dad, that's like, why are you
Speaker 1: going to break up with him? I remember when my
Speaker 1: dad start with me. I was so because it's your dad,
Speaker 1: you don't want to like talk about it. I feel
Speaker 1: like you're going to be like that, like, Jolie, what's
Speaker 1: what's going on? I'm gonna be I'm gonna be like
Speaker 1: this other girl did in high school when I broke
Speaker 1: up with her, her parents, her parents, her parents left
Speaker 1: me so much, and they're kind of like they kind
Speaker 1: of looked at their daughter and they're like, well, you know,
Speaker 1: Mike's a really nice boy and he probably had a reason,
Speaker 1: and you know, but you're sending the fact that I
Speaker 1: did that that's funny. Um so I had. I was
Speaker 1: looking at the reviews of the show. I used to
Speaker 1: love Janna, love her music, but when she talks about
Speaker 1: how much money she spends, I finally had to stop listening.
Speaker 1: I mean, like which episode which was too because I'm
Speaker 1: the most frugal person in the world. At first, I
Speaker 1: was like, what we're discussing what her husband spent on
Speaker 1: video games? Was in poor taste. I don't even make
Speaker 1: that in a year. I'm very sorry, and somehow it's
Speaker 1: not your fault. Society is like this, but please don't
Speaker 1: add to this. I think, look what you did, you
Speaker 1: a little. Janna is ruden all around nasty human. I
Speaker 1: just want to say thank you, mission accomplished. Wait, what
Speaker 1: are you reading yea this podcast reviews um. The last
Speaker 1: few episodes have been very uncomfortable. It seems like the
Speaker 1: episodes are filled pasive aggressive comments towards Mike. It's uncomfortable
Speaker 1: to hear Janet bash Mike so much. Well, listen to
Speaker 1: this episode because we were having fun, and also last
Speaker 1: week's episode we had a lot of fun. So tune in.
Speaker 1: That's so funny. Wait, what I just want to say.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry of the people to think I'm passive aggressive.
Speaker 1: I know that that's something that I'm working on, and
Speaker 1: I love my husband and sometimes for the show we
Speaker 1: have to have, um, we have to have disagreements, because
Speaker 1: that's it would be boring. I think they got All
Speaker 1: they do is agree. All they do is be happy
Speaker 1: and in love. Yeah, this is us. Take her to
Speaker 1: leave it, damn bo. But thanks for having my back
Speaker 1: out there. Oh god, Oh my gosh, it's funny. Because
Speaker 1: we were having this conversation, I was just like, because
Speaker 1: what are you laughing? Are right now? Why are you loving?
Speaker 1: Who just sent that to you? Do you think who's listen? Oh?
Speaker 1: Eastern onlievable. Eastern just sent a photo to Mike of
Speaker 1: my face being covered up with a spartan head. It's
Speaker 1: very funny. Can you just save that because I'm going
Speaker 1: to post it next. That's exactly what I had money
Speaker 1: east than I can take this to my art today.
Speaker 1: I just can we just wrap that up though, because
Speaker 1: I really do want to say, and this is from
Speaker 1: my absolutely, I'm not playing games. I'm not I you
Speaker 1: know I've always and why I'm so sensitive to that
Speaker 1: arm is because you said I want to look down
Speaker 1: in this arm and know that you know this is
Speaker 1: my recovery arm, and this is what this means, and
Speaker 1: this is what this means. So I just want you
Speaker 1: to know. I just want you to be happy with
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing. And I've always said that with your
Speaker 1: with your arm, like it is your arm, you do
Speaker 1: what you want to do. So I just don't want
Speaker 1: you to feel like you had to be like, but
Speaker 1: I'm going to put it on something else or whatever, like,
Speaker 1: don't feel like you have to, because I feel like
Speaker 1: you do that a lot to like save face and
Speaker 1: to be codependent, and like you don't have to say
Speaker 1: that if you don't truly want to, because then it
Speaker 1: makes me feel like you're just doing it to like
Speaker 1: appease me. And I don't. I don't like, I don't
Speaker 1: want that because then I feel like that comes back
Speaker 1: at me and I'm like, but I didn't even say anything. Okay,
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Speaker 1: but she was just like, stay this age forever, like
Speaker 1: stay four, stay seven, whatever age I was. No, I'm
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Speaker 1: just he's just he's the most intentional little kid. He's
Speaker 1: very kind. He is a kind, kind soul, such a
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Speaker 1: talk about hi, I'm gonna cry because he's just like
Speaker 1: he's my boy. The way the way he even plays cars.
Speaker 1: You'all can't see it listening, but he'll just be like this,
Speaker 1: like very delicate, very he's his two fingers and he pushes.
Speaker 1: It's so solid. He's just like staring at it with
Speaker 1: such intent, and that's how he is when he stares
Speaker 1: at people. He's just like intentionally. He just I feel
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Speaker 1: want to have a boy unless he's like that. Honestly, sorry,
Speaker 1: he's the best because I just want like a sweet
Speaker 1: little like like imagine if he was like a wild
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe he will get he'll have he'll have
Speaker 1: those moments. But now that he is standing and like walking,
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Speaker 1: I feel like it was like three new babies because
Speaker 1: they're so close. You had Jason then her birthday was
Speaker 1: a month later. She's such, she's a good she's so cute.
Speaker 1: Nobody can entertain Jace like Jolie. Yeah best. I know.
Speaker 1: He's getting to the age now where if she takes
Speaker 1: his toy, she he he doesn't cry, but when she
Speaker 1: he when she grabs his truck, it's like it sounds
Speaker 1: like he is in so much pain. Like he's understanding now,
Speaker 1: like like when you take something away from it. But
Speaker 1: maybe when he's like when he can walk and he
Speaker 1: can follow her around and he can like he's going
Speaker 1: to be her little doll, like she's going to dress
Speaker 1: him up. Ty has traumatizing stories. He's like plenty used
Speaker 1: to dress me up as snow Why and Cinderella. But
Speaker 1: they were like best friends. They are they That's what
Speaker 1: I loved most when I met Ty. I loved talk.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, you guys are best friends.
Speaker 1: And I love how close there. And I feel like
Speaker 1: that would be good for Jay's to have like a
Speaker 1: big sister who's really close to because then it's like
Speaker 1: he's going to try and date all her friends. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: they're close enough in the age, Yeah, they're all they're
Speaker 1: so cute. So get this real quick though, So for
Speaker 1: all those out there maybe in the Chicago area that
Speaker 1: are going to our Chicago show. So you know how
Speaker 1: like comedians do like a special and they have filmed
Speaker 1: documented We're going to do that for the Chicago show. No, well,
Speaker 1: that's what we want to try to do. We're gonna
Speaker 1: make it happen because now I've just started sweating. No,
Speaker 1: I'm ready rang. Oh yeah, like documentary style, like during
Speaker 1: the day for all of us and then during the
Speaker 1: show walk out. There's gonna be one the audience. So Chicago,
Speaker 1: We're gonna make it happen. Y'all got to bring it.
Speaker 1: Chicago is going to be I don't care if me
Speaker 1: and all however many hundred of you, we need to
Speaker 1: take shots together some wait, how many hundreds are there?
Speaker 1: Several sold out? I know I already have the nervous piece.
Speaker 1: I get the nervous in Michigan is the next day.
Speaker 1: Tickets are still available, and so is UM Louisville. Go
Speaker 1: to UM continue Well, yeah, you go to Jane Cramer
Speaker 1: dot com for the tickets or UM just go to
Speaker 1: like UM Royal Oac Theater for Michigan tickets. So Chicago,
Speaker 1: I know it's sold out, but you guys can easily
Speaker 1: just drive it just easily, just a couple of hours
Speaker 1: drive to Michigan. Is um? Is this your hometown in Michigan?
Speaker 1: Very close? It's not like home hometown, but it's quarters.
Speaker 1: Like like a bunch of people from like high school
Speaker 1: going to be there. I would be all my high
Speaker 1: school girlfriends are coming, which I'm really excited about because
Speaker 1: I haven't seen them in a long time. Do some
Speaker 1: high school enemies? Uh, friend of God, Yeah, I really
Speaker 1: would love to talk to the girl that put me
Speaker 1: at the UM. I was one of the targets for
Speaker 1: the what are those things called when we used to
Speaker 1: play football? But it wasn't called Potter, prof it was
Speaker 1: called UM. I don't know what you'll do. I don't
Speaker 1: remember what was called, but it it wasn't called Potter. But
Speaker 1: I found out there was a list. It was like
Speaker 1: a kill list basically, and I was on it. I
Speaker 1: was on it because you were ready, Okay, you were,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't. I wasn't the pretty girl. I was
Speaker 1: like Lisa and Ashley, those are the pretty girls. There
Speaker 1: are gonna be so many people from your high school.
Speaker 1: I just need you to know. I know you don't
Speaker 1: think so what there are. I don't know. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be fun. And it's going to be my brother's coming,
Speaker 1: my aunt's, uncle's like dad, mom of them. So fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: look at me now, which is that is? It's gonna
Speaker 1: be wild. I'm so excited. Um, and you just turned
Speaker 1: twenty nine. How does it feel. I'm just happy. I
Speaker 1: have a ring. To be honest, thirties the best thirties
Speaker 1: are the best. So I'm so chin to keep saying
Speaker 1: like we're so excited for because like we're getting married,
Speaker 1: We're both going to be turning thirty next year, hopefully
Speaker 1: I'll be working on a baby, and I just feel
Speaker 1: like it's gonna be the best year ever, and I
Speaker 1: like for everyone. Yeah, it's good. And nine is our
Speaker 1: number this year for sure. I'm excited. All right, guys,
Speaker 1: good show show. This is fine. Um, we will wind
Speaker 1: down with you guys later. I need to boom boo,
Speaker 1: boo boo. We have a few minutes. Funny, that's funny.