Speaker 1: Rooking jewels second day. Not a lot of things are
Speaker 1: more awkward on a first date than when you're ending
Speaker 1: the night and you're like, hey, you want to come
Speaker 1: up to my place and they're like, hey, I think
Speaker 1: I'll just go home. It's always kind of a letdown.
Speaker 1: And apparently that's what happened to today's second dat or Andrea.
Speaker 1: Who is on the phone. And Andrea, I read your email.
Speaker 1: You met a guy named Tommy at a party and
Speaker 1: dinner went well, according to you, but you also said
Speaker 1: that is how your evening ended, by you inviting him
Speaker 1: up to your place and him turning you down. Oh no, yeah,
Speaker 1: awkward when he said that to you, was it obvious
Speaker 1: that he didn't like you? He said, no, I don't
Speaker 1: think it's a good idea. I don't think it's a
Speaker 1: good idea, A living, breathing woman with a pulse. Right.
Speaker 1: There's some guys who think that that's moving too fast.
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe it was too much for him. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't even get a kiss goodbye or anything, even
Speaker 1: a handshake at least give you a handshake, nothing, no
Speaker 1: hug or anything. So I texted him later and I asked,
Speaker 1: is everything okay? And he responded, yes, period, that's it,
Speaker 1: just a one word yeah. Yeah. Anytime anybody text me
Speaker 1: with a one word something, even if it's like my
Speaker 1: parents and we're just talking about something and I know
Speaker 1: that they don't really know how to text correct, it's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what's wrong? So he just gave you
Speaker 1: the one word yes with a period. Yeah. And then
Speaker 1: I said did I do something wrong? And I never
Speaker 1: got any response. Did it seem like he was enjoying
Speaker 1: the date that you were on when you guys went
Speaker 1: out to dinner? I thought so. I mean I asked
Speaker 1: him up to my apartment, so you thought it was
Speaker 1: going perfect. Was there any moment in the date that
Speaker 1: you think something weird could have happened, something awkward other
Speaker 1: than him turning down your advances? No, I mean the
Speaker 1: only thing I can think of is I took my
Speaker 1: time when he came to my house. He texted me
Speaker 1: and told me that he was air, and I took
Speaker 1: my time coming out of the apartment, you know, like
Speaker 1: I was trying to look cute and just running late.
Speaker 1: Are we talking like five ten minutes or two hours? No,
Speaker 1: it was like fifteen minutes. Maybe I'm not terrible. It
Speaker 1: is annoying when you pull up and you're like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, come on, hurry up being late to the date.
Speaker 1: But at this point guys build that into their schedule.
Speaker 1: I feel like you still this was the beginning of
Speaker 1: the date, though, and everything else seemed to go find
Speaker 1: like I can't imagine. Like finally, at the end, he
Speaker 1: gets upset about it, and I looked good. You know,
Speaker 1: I was taking my time to look good for him,
Speaker 1: and I apologize, but well, if you're going to take
Speaker 1: that long, you better look good. Yeah, that's the rule
Speaker 1: that I have. If you show up fifteen minutes late
Speaker 1: and you're kind of looking pretty basic, then we're not
Speaker 1: going out again. But if you look like Beyonce, then yes,
Speaker 1: you did a good job, and there's that fifteen minute
Speaker 1: grace period where you're okay. At this point, are you
Speaker 1: hoping to get a second date? Do you feel like
Speaker 1: he's gonna want to go out with you again, or
Speaker 1: are you just hoping to find out why I would
Speaker 1: like a second date? But at this point I'm not
Speaker 1: getting my hopes up about it, right. I want to
Speaker 1: know what is going on. I mean, if he respond
Speaker 1: your last conversation was like that where he gave you
Speaker 1: a one word answer and then just never responded if
Speaker 1: you asked if you did something wrong. He's obviously not
Speaker 1: into you for some reason, something good. But maybe maybe
Speaker 1: we can turn whatever it is into a positive and
Speaker 1: get you a second date out of the deal. I
Speaker 1: hope so, or at least you understand what you're doing wrong. Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, well play a song, come back, get him
Speaker 1: on the phone, and get your second date. Update. All right, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hang my Facebook rooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Amanda is on the phone with us, and she wants
Speaker 1: us to call a guy named Tommy. Something very awkward
Speaker 1: happened at the end of her date with Tommy when
Speaker 1: she invited him up to her place. He said, I
Speaker 1: don't think that's a good idea, and then she hasn't
Speaker 1: really heard anything from him. So it's obvious that something
Speaker 1: happened on the date that went wrong and Tommy didn't
Speaker 1: like Andrea very much. We don't know why. That's why
Speaker 1: we're about to get him on the phone. See if
Speaker 1: we can find out what Andrea did on the date.
Speaker 1: And Andrea, I've got a special treat for you. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: this is something never done before in a second Dad update,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try some groundbreaking here when we call him. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to pretend to be you the first second
Speaker 1: day update where I've ever pretended to be the other person,
Speaker 1: and I think it can work out very well if
Speaker 1: I get him on the phone. It's like, hey, what's
Speaker 1: up timing? Don't you remember you want to cend in
Speaker 1: my place? And I was like, hey, come up a
Speaker 1: kissment Sometimes I confused talking to you right now, I know,
Speaker 1: and go for it. You think I've worked out all right, Andrea? Sorry,
Speaker 1: and you're about ready give him a call, see if
Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone. And I'm ready. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Like he wouldn't be able to tell
Speaker 1: a difference at all and probably would score you a date. Andrew,
Speaker 1: I'm a pretty sweet talker. Hey's Tommy. Oh my gosh, Hello,
Speaker 1: hey's Tommy there? Yeah? He Who is this? This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brooklyn, Jewil in the morning. How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Can I help you? I'm calling you today
Speaker 1: because you recently went out on a date with one
Speaker 1: of our listeners and they wanted to see if I
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and talk to you for
Speaker 1: a minute. You serious? Yeah? Her name is Andrea. Huh?
Speaker 1: All right? You remember going out with Andrea? Yes? I do.
Speaker 1: She told us that you guys went out for dinner
Speaker 1: and had a lot of fun. Wow. And she said
Speaker 1: at the end of the night after your date that
Speaker 1: she invited you to her place and you turned her down,
Speaker 1: and then you haven't really talked to her at all
Speaker 1: after so she's wondering why you turned her down. Wow.
Speaker 1: So she called you to ask me that, yes, because
Speaker 1: apparently she couldn't get you on the phone, so her
Speaker 1: last resort was to ask us to call you and
Speaker 1: find out what the reason is. Wow. Okay, I mean
Speaker 1: I think that's pretty pathetic. But I was pretty pissed
Speaker 1: off and I didn't want to really talk to her anymore.
Speaker 1: You were pissed off and you didn't want to talk
Speaker 1: to her anymore. That's right. Do you mind telling us why? Well,
Speaker 1: she's obviously told you everything, right, I'll tell you what
Speaker 1: she told us. She said that you guys went out
Speaker 1: to dinner. She thought you were having a fun time.
Speaker 1: At the end of the night, she asked if you
Speaker 1: want to go up to a place. You said no.
Speaker 1: She had a real quick text exchange with you, and
Speaker 1: that's the last she's heard from you. And the only
Speaker 1: thing she mentioned was that she might have made you
Speaker 1: wait fifteen minutes while she was getting ready for the date.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's the least of her problems. Man, What
Speaker 1: did she do? Why are you so mad at her? Basically?
Speaker 1: I got into a conversation with her over dinner about travel,
Speaker 1: and you know, I just recently came from Nepal and
Speaker 1: we had a really good conversation. And then she told
Speaker 1: me about this trip that she went to in Canada, Okay,
Speaker 1: and she was complaining about Canadian drivers and now they
Speaker 1: she wished that she could just go party in Canada
Speaker 1: without there being such dumb asses in there. So it
Speaker 1: sounds like you're personally insulted that she was making fun
Speaker 1: of Canadians. Well, yeah, I am from Ontario, from Waterloo, Canada.
Speaker 1: So she was railing on Canadians. Did she Did you
Speaker 1: tell her that you're from Canada? No? No, I can't
Speaker 1: talk from her going on and on and on. She
Speaker 1: went on for an hour about how she thinks that
Speaker 1: Obama should infiltrate Canada. So, frankly, home, I'm kind of
Speaker 1: glad that you called me, because then you guys can
Speaker 1: see how much of an idiot she is. I'm not
Speaker 1: taking it on any more dates with her. I'm not
Speaker 1: offended as as you are that she was making fun
Speaker 1: of Canada? Was it that bad? I mean thought that
Speaker 1: it was bad. It's just I don't really want to
Speaker 1: hang out with an idiot. I don't think that. Maybe
Speaker 1: she could have been joky and like she was nervous,
Speaker 1: and you took it the wrong way. Can you switch
Speaker 1: side and come into my place and have somebody make
Speaker 1: fun of where you're from for about an hour? Well
Speaker 1: I get it, but why wouldn't you like defend Canada
Speaker 1: in that moment? Because it's difficult to defend Canada. Okay.
Speaker 1: See that's what I don't like dealing with. I had
Speaker 1: no idea that you guys got so angry Tommy, just
Speaker 1: in general. I mean I could take it for like
Speaker 1: a minute or two, you know, that's fine, But she
Speaker 1: just went completely off for like a long time. I
Speaker 1: mean after a little bit, I'm fine. She just kept
Speaker 1: making fun of the beer. I like the beer taste
Speaker 1: like kiss It's not it's like kissed you. Hasn't she
Speaker 1: talked about how how she hates her accents, and how
Speaker 1: they keep saying hey this and ay that. You know
Speaker 1: what after after a while. I'm sorry, but she just
Speaker 1: wasn't very attractive to me anymore. Ye all right, Tommy,
Speaker 1: I haven't heard you say ay or a boot or anything.
Speaker 1: You want? None of that. Yeah, let's because it's a
Speaker 1: stupid stereotype. You know. I'm a Practicadian. I love my countries. Okay, Tommy,
Speaker 1: At any point, did you look at her and go hey,
Speaker 1: up about Canada? Did you? Can never do that? Next
Speaker 1: time I run into her, I'll be sure to say that.
Speaker 1: Well then, perfect, Tommy, I'm gonna give you the opportunity
Speaker 1: to say it right now because she's actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening. Are you kidding me? No, I had no
Speaker 1: idea that you were from Canada. You spend an hour
Speaker 1: at dinner making fun of my hold out. Man. I
Speaker 1: was just joking. That's what we do. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: we joke about Canada. Right up? You want to you
Speaker 1: want to hear a joke, Let's go out another date.
Speaker 1: I'll give you prom Are you actually offended about all this?
Speaker 1: I was joking and you could have stuck me at
Speaker 1: any time and told me. I'm actually from Canada. I'm offended.
Speaker 1: If I stopped you, then I wouldn't be able to
Speaker 1: hear all the wonderful things you have to say about
Speaker 1: my country. I was joking. It was a joke. You
Speaker 1: don't have to be an asked about it. You called
Speaker 1: a radio station to figure out why I wasn't calling
Speaker 1: you back, Okay, because you didn't have your balls to
Speaker 1: tell me yourself, well, he's Canadian, Andrea stop. I shouldn't
Speaker 1: have been followed with an A or something to me.
Speaker 1: You know what, you should come up to Canada, all right,
Speaker 1: come up to Canada. I'll show you what some real
Speaker 1: beer tastes like, because your American beer taste like crap.
Speaker 1: I love going to Canada. I enjoy it. It's a
Speaker 1: lot of fun for me, except for that weird money
Speaker 1: that you have. I like it. Yeah, man, jeez, I
Speaker 1: think they honestly think that he deserves an apology from
Speaker 1: your ani Why because like it up tight? No, Listen,
Speaker 1: I am from North Idaho and people make fun of
Speaker 1: me all the time for and it's where it's born
Speaker 1: and raised. And there's something to be said where it
Speaker 1: feels like they're attacking you. Personally because where you're from
Speaker 1: is such a part of who you are. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: from normal and Idaho. I think it's okay to make
Speaker 1: fun of that. Cadians and Idahoan's perfectly fair game of Seattle.
Speaker 1: I make fun of myself all the time, a little
Speaker 1: attacking you for an hour. I don't see Andrea, where
Speaker 1: you going off on him for an hour? Oh, it
Speaker 1: wasn't for an hour, And I would stopped if he
Speaker 1: had said something he's completely exaggerating. But you haven't apologized
Speaker 1: once on this phone call, because I'm not sorry for
Speaker 1: what I was saying. She's only sorry about his sense
Speaker 1: of humor. Yeah, which is weird because normally Canadians have
Speaker 1: a good sense of humor, Like that's the one thing
Speaker 1: that they have going for them up there, because there's
Speaker 1: a lot of funny people that have come from there. Andrew,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we couldn't get you a second date. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm really glad that that's happened, because I don't want
Speaker 1: a second date. What was that app Maybe choose a
Speaker 1: different location to make fun of next time. I mean,
Speaker 1: Organs has plenty of material, or Andrea data Americans, all right,
Speaker 1: stop going out with these weird Canucks. They're strange. Broken
Speaker 1: Juwil in the morning