WEBVTT - Farmer Wants A Wife 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:16.000 Hey, everybody, it's I Do Part two. 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:18.200 I am one of your celebrity mentors, Bob Guinney from 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:20.639 the Bachelor and The Today Show and of course the 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.800 podcast I host with the lovely intalent In Trista Sutter 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:27.880 nay Wren, almost famous to ogs. Today we have a 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.400 repeat guest on the podcast, which is very exciting because 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:32.280 you listeners love getting to know him at the beginning 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:34.960 of his love journey. But now he's back because the 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:38.200 season's over and he's chosen his person. I am talking 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:41.519 about Farmer Matt from Fox's Farmer Wants a Wife, and 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:45.160 today we were joined by the wonderful woman he chose, Chelsea. Sorry, guys, 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:46.839 I'm in a hotel room in New York and they 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:48.879 literally didn't have a room for me. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.720 So I'm running around and I just found this place. 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.920 Nice rogue here. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:56.080 Yeah, yeah, totally. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.160 This could be tragic, but I don't know what's going 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.200 to happen. So but before I lose you, guys, I 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:02.800 want to get started so I can actually talk to 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.759 you because I loved I loved watching this show. I 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:10.160 had never watched your Farmer Wants a Wife. I'd never 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:12.800 seen it before, so my first question, actually, Chelsea, is 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:18.160 for you. So did you know that you were interested 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:21.119 in a farmer or was it was it was it 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:24.319 like a generic interest in that lifestyle for you or 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.600 was it more of a thing where you were approached 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:28.000 to be on this show and you were like, well, 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.640 I'm open to being with someone if he's the right guy, 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.960 and if he's a farmer, that's spectacular. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.840 Like how how did that? What was the chicken in 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:35.840 the egg here? For you? 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:40.600 Yeah? So I came from a ranching family. 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:44.080 Both my mom and my dad's side, because I have 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:48.600 ranches our entire life, so I've always had a passion 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:52.520 for agriculture. I never ever thought I would be on 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:55.480 a show trying to find love for with a farmer. 0:01:56.440 --> 0:02:00.480 But I was approached in my DMS on social media 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.800 and I thought, you know what, why not give it 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:07.200 a try. I did try to back out a few times, 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:11.440 but the day before my roommate really just told me 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:13.520 I needed to go help me pack my bags, and 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.560 so I said, let's let's try it out. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.360 I love that and I love that that's how it 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:23.040 happened because it's, you know, truthfully watching the show and 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.519 watching the two of you, it was like that, and 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:27.680 I and I'm you know, I don't know how much 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:29.520 we're allowed to talk about where things are at today, 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:31.680 but to me, you guys made perfect sense. 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:32.160 Right. 0:02:32.200 --> 0:02:36.560 You both had that humble and kind demeanor. Both you 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:38.680 could tell you both are hard workers, you have big 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:41.400 family influence, and then you know you both are a 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:45.640 little bit shy, right, not necessarily, you know, and admittedly 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.320 for both of you guys, you know that this was 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:51.200 your more reserved and I just thought it was interesting, 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.560 you know, especially when your family showed up, Chelsea, just 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.880 you know how Matt. They were both like, oh my god, 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:58.000 this guy, like they are the same person, right, and 0:02:58.120 --> 0:03:00.320 that had to make you feel really good and real. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:02.360 I I would imagine that's a reaffirming feeling. 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:04.920 Most definitely. 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:08.360 Yeah, I think the approval of my mom and sister 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:09.560 was much needed. 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:13.720 Yeah, well, I can imagine that has to feel good, 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.120 and especially I'm sure it didn't hurt to you know, 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:18.799 be watching the show back and find out that you're 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:20.960 the only woman that Matt kissed on the show. 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:22.600 That had to feel pretty good too. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.880 I think, Oh, yeah, don't worry. I asked him at 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:27.720 least fifty times. 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:32.760 I need to. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:33.160 Amen. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.840 Man, Oh my gosh, could you imagine because you wouldn't 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.560 even think about that going into it, right, You go 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.520 into it and you're thinking more about the fact of, Oh, 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:43.240 I just hope I don't look stupid, you know, I 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.800 don't want to embarrass myself, because I mean I was guys, 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:47.840 I was the Bachelor twenty some years ago, right, So 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:51.040 it was so new back then that it was like terrifying, 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:52.240 And all I could think of was I don't want 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:56.000 to embarrass my family, and you know, how do I do. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:57.720 This and navigate this? And especially I would think for 0:03:57.760 --> 0:03:58.320 you too, Matt. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.760 I mean, this is you know, this is your legacy 0:04:00.760 --> 0:04:03.200 and your career, and and so you go on to 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:05.920 this show, and you know, were there any reservations for 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:06.840 you before you went on? 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.040 Or were you kind of gung home and ready to 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:12.240 go oh big time somewhere to Chelsea, I was reached 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:14.720 out to on social media and this is never something 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:16.880 I would do an up until you know this a 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:17.880 handful of years ago. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:22.039 I wasn't involved in farming at all, and so you know, 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:24.880 which I explained on the show. But I you know, 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:27.000 if you told me a couple of years back, I'd 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.880 be on a show, you know, reality dating show about 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.359 being a farmer. I you know, would have thought you 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:36.040 were crazy, but I, you know, I never had planned 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.599 on doing anything like that. And then obviously, you know, 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:42.520 the they kind of just presented itself and it was 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.680 kind of like a why not type of thing, and 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:49.000 I as well, tried to back out several times, but 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.200 at the end of the day, I was like, you know, 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.920 it could just be a neat experience, and you know, 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:54.600 obviously I'm very glad I did it. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.640 Now. Yeah, heck yeah, I mean, you guys both came 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:01.920 off so great. I was very I was telling our 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.799 producer that in watching the show, I'd heard about it obviously, 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:07.799 and I'd seen clips here and there, but I hadn't 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:09.760 been able to watch your guys season. I was just 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:12.360 so captivated by the two of you that they were, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:13.760 you know, They're like, oh, you only really got to 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:16.000 watch these last you know, three or four episodes. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:17.880 I went back, I told them the next day. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:19.040 I'm like, okay, I was up till two in the 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.200 morning last night, guys, I watched the whole thing. 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:24.359 I loved it. I love these two, and you know, 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:25.120 I hope you don't. 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.280 I hope you don't feel like I'm putting pressure on you, guys, 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:29.680 but I do have to ask. I mean, obviously you're 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.960 you're You've got some distance between you right now, right 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.520 I mean, Chelsea's in Texas, Matt, You're in California. 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.039 How has it been navigating that? 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.400 Because that, you know, oftentimes I think the hardest part 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:42.719 about these shows, and I lived it so and I 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:46.280 speak from experience on this one. You're kind of thrust 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:49.479 into all of this stuff that you weren't ever, you know, 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.200 even prepared for, and people are asking you a bunch 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:55.479 of questions and it creates pressure and tension where maybe 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:57.839 there wouldn't necessarily need to be any in the first place, 0:05:57.880 --> 0:05:59.880 but now all of a sudden it's there because every 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:02.000 ones you know, when do you guys, But it's almost 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:03.440 like when you get engaged and like, so when you 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:04.719 finally get engaged in. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:06.600 Now, they're like, so, when do we have a kids? 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.600 You're like, we haven't gotten married yet, Like, you know, 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:11.680 people just get so carried away with that stuff. Have 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.400 you guys felt a lot of that pressure, especially because 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.080 I feel like the two of you really, at least 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.520 from my experience, while watching the show became the darlings 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:22.000 of the show. Do you feel pressure from that? And 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.400 how's the distance been, I'll ask you first, Matt. 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.120 Yeah, it's definitely really tough. And you know I've said 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.960 the same thing and I told Chelsea even on camera. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.680 I think one of the episodes is, yeah, this is 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.279 really fun. This is a cool experience, and it's you know, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:39.440 partially for everyone's entertainment, but between her and I, it's 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:43.280 an actual relationship. And you know, whether it be six months, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:44.919 a year or a few years down the road, like 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.039 people are gonna forget about this show, and it really, 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.440 you know, her and I are more important our relationship. 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:52.600 So there's definitely that pressure, and especially lately, I think 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.720 we both you know, it's coming out finally that it's 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:56.880 her and I. You know, she was the one, so 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:58.720 it's like, all right, we have to like give an answer. 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:00.599 And I said the same thing I think guys I 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.360 did back then. It's like, you know, we can, we 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:05.760 can do what we want because our roast chip comes first, 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:09.039 you know where we're at. So yeah, there's a ton 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:11.400 of that pressure and it's been you know, challenging because 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:14.760 we're distances apart and excuse. 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:16.720 Me one second. Are you guys having your meeting in here? 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:21.160 Okay, guys, this is horrible. I'm getting chicked out of 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:21.560 this room. 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:24.240 Okay, no problem, Yeah, no problem. Let me get out 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:26.680 of your hair. Guys. I swear this isn't normally how 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:27.320 we do this show. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:36.440 That's fine. 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:42.080 I met a very nice lady. Can you guys hear me? Still? Yeah? Okay? 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:43.880 She was awesome? All right? 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.840 So I got to ask you the question, Matt, which 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:47.640 I actually loved your answer and was listening. 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:50.160 By the way, Chelsea, how about for you? 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:53.080 I mean, how's been your reaction to obviously the show 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.840 coming out, everyone knowing it's you, guys, and now you're 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.320 kind of at this point where you know the distance 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.080 might start to feel like something you have to think about. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:07.360 Right right, I will definitely go off of what Matt said. 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:12.360 I think especially I think it's the morning after the finale. 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:16.160 You know, Matt and I have been taking things really slow. 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.880 That's just who we are, that's our personality type, and 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:20.840 I think that's what we both love about each other. 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.720 And so after the finale came out, it's like the 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.880 next morning, you're just reading all this stuff about people's 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:31.400 opinions on your relationships and how it's going. 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.960 And then you know, Matt has. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.720 These pulls up like we're in a boxing ring against 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:43.720 me and Georgia, and so you know, that just added 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:47.120 to it, and so I see, I think on Friday 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:51.080 morning it was a relief that after you know, six seven, 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:54.959 eight months, everything was out, there was no longer a secret. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.840 But it was also you know, there was a little 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:00.360 bit of a clock back and just reading things that 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.480 you know might not be true or that you don't 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:06.280 agree with, and just having to stand firm and in 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.720 who we know that we both are in the relationship. 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:09.760 That we do have. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:11.520 I you know. 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:13.199 So it's funny because I was going to ask you 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.080 about that too, because you know, the oldest editing trick 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.440 in the book on every dating relationship show, by the way, 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:21.920 is we can't let everyone know who the obvious winner is, right, 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.600 so they always make you think And it's a lot 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:26.400 of editing that goes into that, and I can attest 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:29.480 to that from my personal experiences, but they always make 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.680 you think it's the other person, just so that there's 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:33.959 a surprise, right, there's a surprise reveal at the end. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:35.840 So even if everyone's already feeling like, oh, it's got 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:38.320 to be Chelsea, right they then you have that shred 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.960 of doubt that maybe, I don't know, maybe it could 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:43.400 be Jordan. And you know, I wondered how that felt, 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:48.080 because I remember personally when I chose the woman that 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:52.440 I chose on a Bachelor. The next day, getting driving 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.920 to the Today Show and listening to the radio and 0:09:56.160 --> 0:09:58.920 in the car them talking about how it should have 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.319 been the other person, and I'm like, oh my god, 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:04.200 like I hadn't we hadn't had a chance to see 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:05.640 anything because it was kind of in real time. 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:07.600 The finale HA just aired in the next morning. We 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.120 flew through the night. The next morning we're there. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:13.840 And and it was so gut wrenching for me to 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.760 have to listen to that when I'm like, but what 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:17.959 what are they talking about? 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:21.280 This connection was always like really, you know, firm, And 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.040 so I wondered how that felt. 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.160 And I love your honesty about it because I think 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:28.199 for me, I've got twenty years behind me now where 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.199 I can speak so candidly about it, because you know, 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.280 it was twenty years ago, and you know, but I 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.440 would imagine for y'all, it's got to be a little 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:35.720 more fresh and a little more raw. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:37.680 So good for you guys on working through that together. 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:42.280 Yeah, yeah, there's you know, in these days social media, 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:45.000 there's just so much out there, you know, so better 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:46.880 to not read a lot of that stuff. But everyone's 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:48.600 got their opinions on how you should have handled but 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:51.400 not kind of think it's like sure whatever, you know. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.200 Well, I love hearing that you guys are working together 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:58.800 with you know, on the distance, any plans in the process, 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:00.319 not to put any heat on you because I know 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:01.520 I just said that I didn't want to do that, 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.800 but here I am. Any thoughts on that or are 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:07.440 you guys spending some time together like maybe I know 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.880 you were just traveling Chelsea, Like are there things that 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:12.720 you guys can do together to make sure you're keeping 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:14.160 that connection fresh and fun. 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:14.800 Yeah. 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.600 Well, I tried to talk her into buying an RV 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:18.800 and traveling around the country, but she wasn't very into 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.400 that idea. So so for. 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:25.080 Now, maybe a weekend trip. I'm not doing that full time. 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.200 There you go, that's a lot of work. It's a 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:27.760 lot of work. 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.640 Luckily, we have a direct flight from my city to Dallas, 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.559 so that's you know, Mike, it ten times easier to 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.760 see each other. And all the traveling I've been doing 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.720 for press, I try to always put my connection through 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:40.520 Dallas so we can spend. 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:41.080 A little time there. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.760 But you know, it's it's your What I always tell 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:48.680 people is you're starting a relationship long distance. Most people 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.800 that do long distance, you you know, maybe data for 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:52.440 six months and then one person has to move away 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.920 or something. But you know, we're like trying to get 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:58.320 to know each other, you know, off the bat are 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:01.080 you being separated. So it's it's point is tough, but 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:04.960 I think that it goes to show people, you know, 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:06.600 how much we do care about each other. 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:08.360 Just because it's been eight months of that and we're 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:09.679 still till year or so. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:12.199 I'll just say this, it was obvious how much you 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.200 guys cared about each other. It was not It didn't 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:16.040 seem like a one sided thing to me at all. 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.800 In fact, it seemed very mutual. And you know, I 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.560 happened to be part of the legacy of the show 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:23.760 that actually, like from the Bachelor stuff where this did 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.520 work right Tristan and Ryan, where my season I started 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.959 up on Tristan's season of the Bachelorette, and they are 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.200 like the gold standard when it comes to reality show 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:36.240 couples because they put each other first, right, So it 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:38.280 wasn't like one of them's off, you know, chasing a 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.559 you know, trying to be the new extra correspondent or something. 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:43.439 They put each other first made. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.640 Their relationship paramount for them and it really did work. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.000 And I just feel like with your I mean, you're 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:49.880 both incredibly good. 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.320 Look at people. If you wanted to do all that 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:52.719 kind of stuff, I know you could. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:55.600 But I just feel like with your personalities, it strikes 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:57.120 me that you guys will kind of be like that 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.400 where you'll be like, you know what, this was an awesome. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:00.720 Experience, but we're good. 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:02.760 You know, let's get our privacy back, let's have our 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.880 lives back and take advantage of some of those opportunities together. 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:10.040 But you know, not when it's like interfering with you all. 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:15.200 I'm working. Oh no, she just told me I could 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:20.120 just finish this in here. Well, guys, I'm getting kicked out. 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:21.360 It's all right. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:38.840 They freed me from hotel prison guys. Oh no, oh 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:39.840 my gosh. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.080 So you know, I'm also I'm in New York right 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.559 now because i do stuff with the Today Show, and 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:48.040 so they put me in a room that wasn't my room, 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:49.920 which was which is what all I originally asked for. 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:53.160 And now I'm in this incredible suite. So I guess 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:53.880 it all works out. 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:54.880 Who knew? 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:58.040 Oh yeah, I appreciate you guys being patient and sticking 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.480 with me. Thank you very very much for that. Any 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:02.959 anything great happened while we were apart. I mean it's 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:04.280 been about three hours, you know. 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:05.160 Any updates? 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:07.760 Yeah, we got engaged in the last couple of hours. 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.760 Yes, Chelsea made the move. Chelsea's already on our way 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:11.880 to Cali. I love it. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.679 Yeah, let me know where I can send that invoice. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:19.360 Yes, yes, yeah, we get you out of carrots. Oh damn, 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.080 I love it. You know. 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:23.160 I see part of you wants to make a farmer 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.000 joke there about carrots, but I know that that's not 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:26.840 your that's not your produce, that's not what you do. 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:31.400 So yeah, guys, just to recap, I would I had 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.680 never seen the show before, but I'm now big fans, 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:34.240 not only. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:35.640 The show, but also of the two of you and 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:40.760 your relationship. I feel. And again, these podcasts end up 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:41.680 being about what I feel. 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.200 It's not even right for me to do it, but 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:48.520 it is I feel like too oftentimes when shows like 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:51.280 this come along, right, it's not really people that are 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:51.720 looking for. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.000 Love, do you know what I mean. 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:55.160 It's people that are looking for like a tooth whitening 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:57.480 kit deal, or maybe they want to have gummy bears 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.480 that make their hair shine, and so they're looking for 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:00.880 that kind of cra and they want to post it 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:01.720 on Instagram and. 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.360 Then if they fall in love, well, wouldn't that be nice? 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:07.320 But the two of you seem to both obviously in 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.240 Matt's case, obviously I know that to be true, but 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.320 also for you, Chelsea, you both had your own careers 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:14.600 going on, You have your own things going on. This 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.560 was almost like a whimsical let's take a chance and 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:18.920 see what happens for both of you because you both 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.200 tried to bail in the eleventh hour, which I also 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:25.160 love that story. But I just think it's so great 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.880 when you see someone come through something like this and 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:31.760 you know, and I know there's always these haters that exist, 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:33.760 because believe me, I still get it twenty some years later, 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:36.960 but I think it's great when you're comfortable, confident in 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:38.840 who you are you know who you both are. I 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.840 saw that you cannot lie about on television that comes 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:44.280 through people recognize when people are faking it, and you 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:48.920 guys weren't. Your families both confirmed that, and then the 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.080 two of you just find each other and now it's like, yeah, 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.040 you know, it sucks sometimes because we live far apart, 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:54.640 but we're doing everything we can to make it work. 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:58.600 Also honest, also a great answer. Also not bs, and 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:02.200 I love that. So I'm just excited for you guys. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:03.960 I mean, you know, I love that we were just 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.360 talking about an engagement because I do want to say 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:06.680 it is. 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:08.800 Called you know, farmer wants a wife. So I mean, 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:11.080 no one got engaged at the end of the season. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:14.800 You guys were the ones that, obviously, I think America 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.600 wanted to see get engaged. So you have a lot 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:20.960 of people now invested in your relationship. So has that 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.520 conversation had had before we got kicked out of the 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.040 hotel where we were almost getting there? Has this conversation 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.280 started to happen or is it more like, hey, let's 0:16:29.400 --> 0:16:32.280 just keep going the way we're going and maybe we'll 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.400 try to get together more. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:34.840 I mean, where are you guys at with that? 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:36.800 Kind of conversation because I know you're getting asked that 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:38.400 one a lot. Yeah. 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:38.760 Likely. 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.680 I think we're naturally kind of on the same page, 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:45.320 Chelsea and I. You know, we're both at the point 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:47.320 where we have dated in the past. I've been through 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:50.560 multiple relationships and that kind of thing, and so I 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.280 think I can speak for both of us when we're 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.080 really not looking at like, you know, it's easy just 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:57.080 because this whole thing's so hyped up to want to 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.840 like jump it out there and be like, yeah, we're together, 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.240 we're in love, might kind of just go along with 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.000 that narrative, I guess you could say, which I'm not 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:04.560 saying that's. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:04.960 Not the case. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:10.120 But we I think are both just being very careful 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:13.320 and taking it the you know, with the direction that 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:15.680 we're going with this, and making sure we really get 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:17.920 to know each other and in all these details about 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.720 each other that you don't learn on the show. Yeah, 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:23.520 you know, that's kind of stuff that takes time to develop. 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:26.000 And so I think we've both been on that same page. 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:27.880 And in addition to that too, there's just so much 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:31.040 noise going on, especially for me, you know, over the 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:35.240 past however many months, as this show comes out everywhere 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:38.200 you go, everything you hear talk about people are asking 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.920 you about it and talking about it, and yeah, talking 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:42.679