WEBVTT - From Cover to Cover 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.399 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:11.280 Hi guys, Hi, Well, if it isn't our little announcement 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:18.040 Queen raining, So we have another announcement today, but I 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:20.599 just have to host chat about something because it's still 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.880 kind of making me a little sick. 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:24.479 Is it gonna make me sick? 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:24.960 No? 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:30.480 Okay, maybe yes? Well escalated quickly. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:38.360 Okay. So Jolie had some birthday parties this past weekend, 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:40.440 and it was one of those things where I'm just 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.360 not good with. I don't even know if I really 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.839 honestly RSVP to half of them. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:45.320 You know, I feel like. 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:48.280 There's like a lull, right, Like it's like six months 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.720 no birthday parties, then all of a sudden there's five 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.599 in a day. Yeah, and she's like coming home with them. 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.520 I'm like, oh my gosh, we've got okay, like this 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.480 wanted to say the one that day, but when it 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:00.360 it's also like I've got two months and then it 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.840 just all of a sudden shows up like oh yeah, 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.200 I'm like, oh this weekend, well I forgot, and so 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:09.360 of course Jolie didn't forget, and so she and I 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.360 have mom the refrigerder. So she's like Mommy, it's so 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:15.199 and so's birthday today, and I'm like, oh my god, 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.640 like what uh crap, Like what time? 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:18.720 And I'm like, do you really want to go? 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:22.480 Like it's it, it's it's raining and it's a splash 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:24.040 party and they've got a splash thing. 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:26.760 I was like, we just took a shower, Like, no, 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.840 we needs a petting dude. That's a horrible idea. So 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:30.920 that was bad. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:32.800 That was a that was a bad mom moment because 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:35.920 I was actually kind of trying to steer her to 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:36.640 not go. 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:38.880 I've done that, you have to Okay, Oh thank goodness. 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:39.760 Oh you guys. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.240 Okay, I'm waddling around my house. So if I can, 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:45.479 I'm I can do anything right now. 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:47.279 Okay, thank goodness. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.200 But also the problem was is I didn't have a 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:54.680 gift for them. So I then tell the kids, Well, 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:56.280 I tell Joela, I'm like, but we don't really have anything. 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:58.920 She's like, oh no, wait, mommy, and she remembers that 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:02.600 I put extra toys that like maybe they had a 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:05.240 double or they didn't. We didn't use it from Christmas. 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:08.240 I put it in nan on Papa's closet for I'm 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:09.679 going to go in there and see gifts that I 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:14.040 gave your game by possibly, but like you know, I 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:17.520 they're they're like to stock up four like parties right 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:21.640 for this exact situation. Well, the only thing that was 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.679 left were like two bad stuffies and they had a 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:26.000 tag on them still, but I'm like totally, it's a 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:27.880 brother sister birthday party that are in her class, and 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.600 like we can't just give like these like stuffies. They're 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.359 like probably two dollars, you know, like just get a 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:39.120 bad stuffies. Whatever they announced me not being named, I 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.239 want this episode to be called do Bad Stuffies? 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:45.160 Okay. So I was just like crap. 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.400 So I'm thinking, like, oh, and I remember I was, 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.240 you know, I was packing because there's just a lot 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:50.079 going on, and so. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:53.160 I was. 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:56.240 I remembered that I saw some gift cards. One was 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:58.520 like I think a half to used one from like Disney. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:00.400 Don't know how much is on that one. And I 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:05.040 was like, d look at Disney card and I'm like, I. 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:12.200 Saw, hey, Oliver, here's your balance of in Orlando. Thirty 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.480 three fifteen is left on this card. If you and 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:18.399 your parents might get to Disney, you're in the ball 0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:19.320 out of control. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:23.600 It was a Disney store. You can go where is 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:27.200 this store? There's not even that Disney can online. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:32.440 DC. Just don't overspend twenty two eighty seven as all 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:34.760 you have left with the post it note. So I 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:37.800 didn't again, like know how much was on there, so 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:39.960 and I already saw that I scratched it off, so 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:44.880 I'm like, boy, that's the regifter dead giveaway. Tell me 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:48.000 you gave that to I didn't, okay, but I was 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:49.960 also too lazy to check the balance, so I just 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:51.480 threw it back in the box like it probably has 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:52.200 nothing on there. 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:55.760 But but I'm also why do I take that Baba's gloset? 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:59.119 I did get that guy out of rotation, But there 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:02.240 was like this crumpl up visa card that was still 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.800 in the packaging, so I was like it was for 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:05.640 fifty dollars. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:07.360 So I'm like, all right, twenty five. 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:09.280 A kid, because I usually like, you know, twenty five 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:12.960 or fifty like for the kid, like fifty max. And 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:16.839 so I was just like, Joey, just take this on 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:18.120 the card and then we put it in the thing. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:20.039 And then I just kind of in my mind was 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.960 like the mom will hopefully forgive me for this really 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:27.520 poor put together present, because it was that's poor, that's lazy. 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:28.560 Well, if it. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:30.440 Was to twenty five dollars gift cards, I think it 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:31.920 looks a little more intentional. 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.040 It's your true Splitsville. 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:38.000 It starts to make it look like but here's the issue. 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.279 So the next day, I think I pulled Bathom bodywork 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:46.320 splosion and you've had like sway pops. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:51.240 Hey, guys, here's some diet. I guess lash lash extension stuff. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:58.720 Great for eight year olds. 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:09.120 So the next day she's like, you know, Sterling's birthday party, 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:12.120 and so I'm like, okay, great, We're going to go 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.800 to Target after church, but like it has to be 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.240 very timed out because you know, there's the jump place. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.320 And so we go to we go to church, we 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.120 go to Jimmy John's and I'm like, all right, guys, 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:24.600 we've got like five minutes in Target. All right, so 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.640 we got to go in get your present. And I 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:28.480 promised you, you know, since you guys have been like 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:30.719 such good kids all weekend and everything, like you didn't 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:32.200 get a toy last time, you can get it like 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:35.080 one small toy this time. So because I don't let 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:39.000 them do it each time, So five minutes, Alan's like 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.000 great during this time, I'm gonna grab it because he's like, 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:41.800 can I drop you on? 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.080 He's like, do I do I have to go to 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:47.960 the birthday party? I was like, yes, you do, welcome allan. 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:50.440 No. I was like, no, you don't have to. I 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:51.800 was like, you know, but right now we're just kind 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.520 of like down to like us then. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:55.000 Yeah. 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:59.160 So yeah, so he's like, all right, well'm gonna I'm 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:02.719 gonna grab a coffee and so I was like, no problem. So, 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.560 you know, we we run to the toy part because again, 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:07.480 Jolie knows she doesn't want to be late. I don't 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.480 like being late, and so we're trying to find a 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:15.520 toy for Stirling. We know that he likes legos, and I, 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.599 you know, she picked up something. I was like, oh no, honey, 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:19.120 that's like only like twenty something. I was like, let's 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:19.440 get him. 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.520 You know. Maybe I was like, oh my goodness. 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:25.440 And on the like ledge of this the aisleway, it 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.920 was just like don da da da, and it's beautiful, 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.560 and I was like, forty nine ninety nine, that's a steal. 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.400 So I was like a Lego set, a Lego set 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:37.680 like a Star Wars, like Big Box go ahead. 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:40.599 I just see where this is going. Keep going. 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:41.560 Yeah. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:44.800 So I'm like, Jolie, grab that one. Thought it was 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.080 a little weird that it had one of those protector 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:54.359 things on it, but but it said forty nine ninety nine. 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:57.840 So side note real fast before you go anywhere with this. 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:00.440 What was the age on this? 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.360 And I don't want. 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:06.800 It has a protector on it. I'm gonna go with 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:07.480 it's pretty old. 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:09.920 Put the kid's turn to gate. He likes legos. 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.040 So I'm like, you know, I think it maybe said 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:16.480 ten or something or I don't know. Level up, sterling. 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.560 We're gonna need you to put this whole spaceship together. 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.840 So we grab it again. I'm like, all right, we've got, 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.240 you know, two minutes left. Let's grab a bag, let's 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.200 grab a car, let's grab some tissue paper, because I'm 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:28.360 not failing on this present. 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.480 Like I just I won't fail on this one. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:37.400 So meanwhile, with a barista Alan, Alan is having a 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.880 relaxing target trip, grabbing himself a hot cup of Joe. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.400 So I met the check out going. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:48.080 Like hey, he's. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.440 Like, there's my American fiance. 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:51.360 I don't think we're engaged then, yeah, I know, I 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:54.400 just wanted to keep saying it yeah the other day 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:56.760 on the phone, just to be like my fiance. It 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.600 was like it made me smile, yeah, yeah, yeah. So 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.600 oh yes, he goes with me his missus. Still, I 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.080 was like, let me in the hear it, len they 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:05.360 hear it you his missus. 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:06.240 This is cute. 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:07.960 Yea, it's cute. So he calls me misses and I 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:12.560 call him fancy. Anyways, back to the story. So we 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.600 then allan over. 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.120 So I'm like a rub my hair aisle three. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:22.040 So he's like, we're like, you know, getting his coffee whatever. 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:25.480 So then we're checking out. I've got, you know, their toys. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.000 I had grabbed a few more things that we needed, 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:28.560 like there are a couple of cereal boxes or whatever 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.040 that you know you grab because the toy all is 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:33.680 toy aisle is quite far from checkout, far far away, 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.319 far far far far away. I just want to preface 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:37.960 it this to make me sound. 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:38.480 A little better. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:43.840 So when all the stuff was checked out, she goes 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:48.200 the price. I can't remember exactly what the price was, 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.680 but I was like, excuse me, like, you're total for 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:51.720 the order, total. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:52.040 For the order. 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.280 It was like three hundred and fifty dollars, and I 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.800 was like, for what you know in my mind is 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:58.760 what I'm thinking, and I. 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:02.680 Target Bermuda Triangle. We all feel this way. How much 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.800 were the Legos two hundred and fifty dollars? No, ma'am. 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.440 I but at this moment, I'm sweating. There are two 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.000 people behind me in line, maybe one with like they 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:13.720 had like a guest. 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:18.719 I guess I just saw two people. So this is 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:20.280 a plus one for check out. 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:23.559 It's not getting coffee, like you're a plus one. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:28.360 So I'm like sweating. I'm also embarrassed, like because I'm like, 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.320 I obviously did not want to spend that much. I 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:33.880 wanted to spend under fifty dollars. But then to send 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:35.920 Jolie back to get a different presence going to take 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.000 more time, and I know she's like stressed about being 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.800 on time. I'm I want to get there on time too, 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:41.440 because I also kind of wanted to leave a little early, 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:43.000 you know. So I'm like, let's get there early so 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.640 we can leave because we had a party that night 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:47.000 as well, and so. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.040 We have a four minute turnaround for us to go 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:52.840 back to that toy aisle. You guys, I bought it. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:58.559 No may'amre. She did creamer. I did that kid got 0:09:58.600 --> 0:09:59.240 a really goo? 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.200 Did you go up to that mom? And did you 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:03.240 tell the mom? Sorry? 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.880 No, because I felt then even I'd be even more embarrassed. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:10.520 Rolling in with her Chris kringled bag on her. 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:15.120 This person is Jolie to the birthday party every year. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.079 I mean, it's like the Halloween House with the big 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:20.040 candy candy, you know, like Jolie and Jase are on 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:22.480 everybody's birthday list in the Try County area. 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.439 Now, well it's not gonna happen again, so. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:26.000 You didn't just walk it. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.360 I would have walked it back with both kids. My 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:29.719 barista fiance. 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:33.400 Is like, hey, Scottish man, I need you to run 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:35.040 and take this and. 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.160 Get another one. That's not with my kids. Happens to 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:37.640 me all the time. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:42.360 I can send Jolian Jason's Scottish Man right, but he 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.920 was still at like he was still foaming his oat milk. 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:46.880 You know what I mean? 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:51.199 I know is the slowest Starbucks on the face of 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.680 the planet inside of that target. So I don't have 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:57.080 help right to say go and I can't like so that. 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:59.280 That, but you can pause transaction. Well, see I didn't 0:10:59.280 --> 0:10:59.960 know that. I didn't. 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:03.439 They can print a little wow, they can print a 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:05.360 little slip and it has like a little barcode at 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.600 the bottom. So all the items you have already rang up, 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:09.719 they delete the one that you're taking back and they 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:11.440 just have it so they don't have to like rebag 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:11.880 and redo. 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.319 I'll see that part would make me nervous. 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:15.480 You guys need to do it a lot of I 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:18.240 mean this is like get I get nervous in those moments. 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.880 Like I'm very i don't like to spend a lot 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.599 of money. I'm like even all on another day was 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:25.920 like you're kind of cheap with things, but then you're 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.360 you know, you'll you'll spend somewhere else, like with this area. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:30.120 Like I would never spend that much on a birthday 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.679 present for a child that's in my daughter's class. 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:36.160 That on my husband for his birthday. No, me neither. 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:37.920 Oh see, I like to give like you were good 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.240 at Yeah, you're you're a baller. 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.040 But around like Mile in Chicago and I was like 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:45.560 trying on his par of jeans and I was like, 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.640 I love these, but I need a minute because they 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:50.640 were like an expensive pair of jeans. Remember, and I 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:52.560 was like, I really love them, but I also just 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:53.880 need a minute and I'll think about it. 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:56.600 You're like, I was like, I'll circle back. Yeah. 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:59.160 But then I have her husband, you know, taking down 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.040 the place set, and I'm hacking my own house because 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:02.560 I don't want to pay for movers. So it's like 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.840 I have like you because I'm like it's too expensive. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:06.520 Well, I know because I own the jeans now because 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:07.560 then you bought them for me. 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:09.920 And I owned several things from that store as well. 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:13.880 She also has more designer purses than I do, all. 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:16.320 From Jana and anytime I will buy them for me. 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.400 Anytime someone compliments me, I like, I cannot just say 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:20.880 thank you. 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.200 I'm like, thank you, Jana got it for me. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:26.880 My friend Gians do it. 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:27.360 I can't. 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:28.959 When people are like those jeans are really cute, I'm like, 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:31.160 I know Jana Gum from the best Friend jeans and 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:33.120 it's not like I'm buying Like people are like, oh, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:34.480 she's she's buying her friends. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.280 But no, I just like I You're like, you called 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:38.360 it my wind down bonus or something cute. You were like, 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.320 you guys deserve it. It's fun. We're in Chicago and 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:41.680 I was like, yeah, you. 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.040 Were so generous with that stuff, and you were so 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:45.960 great with money, but I'm also very stingy. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:49.079 You were very stingy at times, and. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:52.320 I accutely and my jeans are kind of on the 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:55.600 same price points. 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:57.760 Like presence, really shopping you don't even know you don't 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:02.360 spend much. Yeah, I mean maybe wine, Yeah, but you 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:03.760 really don't. 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:07.000 Like, Oh, we all appreciate the extensive wine. 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.160 But I'm like, I would not spend like for movers 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:14.880 because I'm like, that's like three grand movers at all. No, 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:16.640 I already have a storage unit and we're going to 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:22.760 start moving boxes in because I'm like Alan, and I. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:22.840 Like, you don't get movers at all. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:27.800 I don't want to. What about I'm selling those things? 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:29.480 Can I know what you're selling? 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:29.920 Wow? 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.360 Say yeah, I'm selling. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:35.760 A lot actually okay, because I just like I'm ause, 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:37.439 I'm like, I don't, I don't you know what I mean? 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.560 So it's gone. This couch is gone. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.040 Pam is taking this couch, Okay, I don't like the 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:42.880 pam head first tips. 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:45.720 We need to do. This is like an estate. 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:52.119 So I'm only taking my couch, my two chairs, my 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:59.040 my bed, and then like two buffets, so like maybe 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:01.840 I'll hire two eyes, like with a truck, but like 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:02.840 not like an actual move. 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:04.400 They're so expensive, No, they are. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.120 I just cannot imagine moving. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:08.840 And I've been doing it very like so like every 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.120 day I do a closet or I do like you know, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.319 so I love like I love getting rid of stuff. 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.920 I love packing like it's my favorite thing. 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:18.600 Oh no, we're going shopping later. 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:22.120 Yeah, in here right, And a lot of times actually 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.560 attached to that chair next to you. Oh, those are 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:27.440 just getting I was gonna put the mountain stay free. 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:30.040 Oh we're gonna need to talk Gramer. It's got to funny. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.960 You gotta wash it. Let's men. Fine, Yeah, there's a 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:33.520 whole set of those. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.920 There are six, and I was just gonna be like, 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:38.880 whoever wants some's gonna put them out fronting. Yeah, they're 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.160 actually really great chairs anyways. 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:44.440 Okay, so moving no no, no, no, no no no. 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.200 But I'm not But I'm just saying like, but it's 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.440 like there, I get it. There are certain things where 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:52.360 I'm just like, well, manual labor stuff I actually like 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.000 to do myself because I'm like, well I can do 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.960 that myself. Why would I pay somebody is that our 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:00.800 midwestern like we saw like seeing Nick and Alan tear 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:04.600 down that play center together and then sit in you know, 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:07.200 the Toys and Knicks truck, like it was so cute 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:07.800 watching them. 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:10.560 Wait, I have a question. Is my husband moving you? 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:10.720 No? 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.240 Okay, he just said he would do the playhouse. 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.280 I know he loves that shit. I mean, he's always 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.400 here to help. I just can't put it on my calendar, 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.600 so I know when I'm not going to have him 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.600 for a couple of days, he would offer. 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:25.640 He's been very gracious helping with the you know, the 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:27.480 cell and the move of the house, which I can't 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.640 say yet because I'm still like it's still a week 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:36.480 away from play Yeah, and I don't supersticious. Yeah. So anyways, 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:38.840 just for the record, I'm going back to the toy 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:40.760 department and I'm returning that toy. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.600 There's no way I bought that. Yeah, it's it's being 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.960 played with right now. Yeah. I mean it's going to 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:48.240 take him a couple of years, but it's going too 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:50.240 plus Yep. 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.400 Anyways, we're gonna take a break and then we've got 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:54.640 a second announcement that we're about to drop on the 0:15:54.640 --> 0:16:11.560 Today's Show. All right, guys. So you guys already know 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.320 because you guys have been on the journey with me. 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:20.200 So my ex and I were supposed to we got 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:23.040 a second book deal after the Good Fight, and it 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:24.000 was going to be about trust. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:34.560 I remember, scratch that too soon. So when. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:40.520 We got you know, divorced, I had called the editor 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:43.160 and I said, hey, I know we were authors together, 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:47.040 but is there a world where I could potentially write 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:50.960 a book? But I also was very nervous about it 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.200 because during our book process, like I will say, like 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:57.280 my ex was a fantastic writer. He's a really he was. 0:16:57.920 --> 0:17:01.000 I write how I speak a lot of times. I've 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:07.160 gotten better through this process. But I think the things 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:08.680 that I heard when we were writing that book is 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:10.359 that like he was the writer and I was just 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:13.920 the the ones coming with the you know, I still 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:17.080 wrote my parts. But that's interesting to me, to be honest, 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:18.800 what would part that. 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:19.320 He's the writer? 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.359 He was? He wrote most of that book. Now I 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:26.119 wrote all the parts that say Jana was definitely me 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:30.240 that together we voice was him. Wow, Like he wrote 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:36.480 the majority of the book. And I think hearing like 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:38.520 you know that he was the writer. It's just anytime, 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:41.040 like you know, like it just made me feel like, Okay, 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:43.600 maybe I'm not capable of than writing a book, right right, 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:46.840 But something in it was like I had to prove 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:49.280 to myself that I am a writer and that I 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:53.359 can write. And so I called my editor of our 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:54.840 last book and I was just like, is there a 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:57.440 world where I could have a book? And I said, 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.800 but I'm going to fight for not a ghostwriter. It's 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:04.040 really important to me to not have a ghostwriter because 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:06.040 of the things that, like my exit said during the 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:09.720 writing process, so like, I want to have the words 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:12.800 on paper. I really admire this piece because there's not 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:15.160 a lot of people in your shoes that would fight 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:16.840 to not have that right. 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:18.480 That's a really big deal. 0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:24.320 And so at the time she said no, well she's 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:25.400 saying no, I take the back. 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:26.560