1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: All right, So am I Yale for laughing at my 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: cousin after she had an absolute meltdown after her boss 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: started buying toilet paper at Costco? Interesting? What's wrong with 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: buying toilet paper at Costco? Possibly everything? According to this title. Well, 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: let's see first post ever on this sub so using 6 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: a throwaway. Yesterday, I tagged along with my cousin on 7 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: our trip to Costco. She's always been very high strung. 8 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: For the most part. We were having a nice time. 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: As we were in the checkout line, a very pleasant 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: man in his fifties or sixties said hello. My cousin 11 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: introduced him as the man who owns the company she 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: works for. I sort of stood by as they had 13 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 1: a normal small talk conversation, and he even complimented her 14 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: on helping out with a huge sale even though she's 15 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: not in sales and said he said that they were 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: still working out what the bonus was going to be, 17 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: but it was going to be more than they initially thought. 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: I mean, all in all, it seemed like a great 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: interaction to have with a boss when you see them 20 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: out in public. 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: Sounds amazing. Maybe a bonus that wasn't even there to 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: begin with. 23 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: Who knows. Shortly after he left, she started to almost hyperventilate, saying, 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god, I can't believe that 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: just happened. I had no idea what she was talking about. 26 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: And then she started saying, we have to leave, We 27 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,960 Speaker 1: have to get out of here. That was horrible. I said, 28 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: I have three hundred dollars worth of Costco groceries. That's 29 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: like a fucking mountain of food and supplies, and I 30 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: can't come to Costco and just leave. She actually walked 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: away and sat down in the food court, and it 32 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 1: was still so lost, but her leaving caused an even 33 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: bigger scene because I had to go find her because 34 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: we needed to scan her membership card because she has 35 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: the membership card. She was in absolute hysterics at this point, 36 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: and even the cash here asked if she was okay 37 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: and if they could get her some water. Well, we paid, 38 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: walked out, and she appeared to be so basically weak. 39 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: I told her to lay down in the back seat 40 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: and I would load everything and drive. What is happening? 41 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: What do you guess? What's your conspiracy theory? 42 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: I mean, maybe maybe there's some sort of like back 43 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: candid thing, you know, when someone's like being like fake 44 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 2: nice and oh yeah, we're gonna do all these amazing things, 45 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 2: but it's almost like code words and you know that 46 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: they're like actually being awful to you. 47 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: I think it's not the boss being awful. I think 48 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: Ope is potentially gonna get caught in a lie. Interesting. 49 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: I again, I haven't read the stories. I don't know, 50 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: but I think Ope is like worried about, like because 51 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: of this sale coming to Fruition and like going through 52 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: all the details of this commission that she's going to get, 53 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: she's realizing, oh shit, they're gonna find out that it 54 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: was all fake. Oh that it was like why should 55 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: we be in hysterics? Right, you'd be like, oh, that's awesome. Yeah. No, 56 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: I think I think there's some nefarious business going. 57 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: On, right, put it. 58 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: I see you in the comments if you see that, guys. 59 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 1: And also, if you haven't subscribed, I'm hurt. I should 60 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: see you subscribing, yeah, or we'll fire you. So, as 61 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: I was driving, I finally asked her what was going on, 62 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: and she screamed at me, saying, my boss Sabby ply 63 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: toilet paper. Do you know how humiliating that is? I 64 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: actually thought I mishurt her. So I said, wait, this 65 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,399 Speaker 1: whole thing is over toilet paper. She screamed, yes, I'm 66 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: probably going to get fired. Oh no, she screamed, yes, 67 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm probably going to get fired. I asked her if 68 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: she seriously thought she was gonna get fired for buying 69 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: toilet paper. She said yes, and that she can't let 70 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: anyone at work know her private life. What does she 71 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,399 Speaker 1: use to wipe her bottom? We will never know. We'll 72 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: never know, except now we do. I told her, I 73 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 1: doubt he even noticed, and I also dowt he thinks 74 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: about her bathroom habits. But he also probably assumed she 75 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: shits and pisses like everyone else except Kim John Yune. 76 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: Oh what does he do? He doesn't do any of it. Hell, yeah, 77 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: that's awesome. He doesn't shit or piss, No wonder. He's cool, dude, 78 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: He's stars it all in his belly's a little inflated. 79 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: Then she screened back, your job is so easy. You 80 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: can possibly understand how much pressure I'm under at work. 81 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to lose it. At this point, I lost 82 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: it and started laughing harder than I knew it's possible. 83 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: Not only was it ridiculous, but I felt she was 84 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: attacking me instead of going back, Instead of going back 85 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: and forth, I felt finding humor was the way to 86 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: get She said, you're actually laughing at me. You're such 87 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: an asshole. I do you a huge favor, and you're 88 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: laughing at me. She got to my house and dropped 89 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: me off and sped off with my groceries. I called 90 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: my aunt to make sure they got at least put 91 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: in the fridge. But my aunt said, my cousin overreacted. 92 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: But I'll probably need to apologize to be able to 93 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: get my stuff. So am I the apshole? So do 94 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: you think John? I want to know in the chat 95 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: what do you think? Or I want to know the comments? 96 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: Do you think OPI's the apple but John is Ope 97 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 1: the asshole? And two should Opie apologize to get back 98 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: the groceries? 99 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: I do not think that Opie's asshole. I think unless 100 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: there's some other thing going on that we're not aware of, 101 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: Like I think this person is just like completely overly 102 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: obsessed about all the wrong things and like appearance and. 103 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, well it seems like she suffers from anxiety, yes, yes, 104 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: and is overthinking every little thing. But like op said, 105 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: everyone poops and piece. 106 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: That's the thing. And the boss I don't know. Like, again, 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 2: all we have is this story to go off of 108 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 2: as per usual. But the boss did seem like very friendly, 109 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: very like when you run into someone in the grocery store, 110 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: like hey, like chatting it up, you know, saying hey, 111 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 2: we're trying to work on this thing for you. Sounds 112 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 2: like a pretty good boss. Yeah, and not the boss 113 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: that would want to fire you for witnessing you. 114 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: What maybe, But wouldn't he mention it? Would you be like? 115 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: What's that toilet? You? What are you buying over there? 116 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know you wipe? I thought you used podat, 117 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: you disgusted me, discussed me. You're fined, you animal? Yeah? 118 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: Dare you murder trees for your backside? Exactly exactly. He 119 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: didn't even care about the Amazon. He didn't say that though. 120 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: He didn't say that, so I thought it. He thought it. 121 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: I think Op is not the a hole. Yeah, I agree, 122 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 2: And I think what would I do in this situation? 123 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: I would probably apologize just to get my stuff back 124 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 2: and to not have to deal. 125 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: With this mess and potentially distance myself from this friend. Yeah, 126 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a regular thing. But this 127 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: seems is crazy. It is a little bit off kilter. 128 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, no, no, thank you. But you know what 129 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: I always say thank you to what you for subscribing? Wow, thanks, 130 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: thanks for doing that. 131 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: Just now we appreciate you. I know you did and 132 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 2: you wouldn't lie and say you did and have done 133 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: it because if you love us, make sure to subscribe. 134 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 2: We love you and see. 135 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: It at a borrow. This is an episode from Deep 136 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: Within the Archives time for okop Relam. My fiance cheated 137 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: on me. I called up the wedding, but now my 138 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: sister hates me, and I think I know why why. 139 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: So I was supposed to get married two months ago 140 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: to my ex partner of five years. Sadly, we broke 141 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: it off because he cheated on me on his bachelor 142 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 1: party with a stripper. Oh, I had this beautiful dress 143 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: that cost me around two thousand dollars out of pocket. 144 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: I had been very depressed since everything happened because I 145 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: felt like it was somehow my fault for not being 146 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: sexy enough, for not giving him what he wanted. It's 147 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: how your fault would be, it's your cheating a whore 148 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: husband bear. So last weekend I decided I take my 149 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: power back and guess what she did? John, what does 150 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: she do? She began alteringly res So, I've been sewing 151 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 1: for fifteen years, so i know what I am doing. 152 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,559 Speaker 1: I cut it a bit, changed the color to something 153 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: less wedding e and after a week of work, I 154 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: had a beautiful gown that I could use for more stuff. 155 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: I uploaded a picture of the dress to Instagram with 156 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: a caption that said something in the lines of you 157 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: can change the worst memories or some shit like that. 158 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: My sister hits me up and asks me if that's 159 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: my old wedding dress, and I told her, Uh, yes 160 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: it is. She then called me and asked, why have 161 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: you done this? And I asked her, Hey, what's the 162 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: big deal, Like, it's my wedding dress, like whatever I want, 163 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: And she told me that I could have waited till 164 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: after her wedding. I was so confused. Sam, the story 165 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: is crazy. I know it's even crazier. 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So, my sister reminded me 175 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: that when we were staying at the hotel where my 176 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: wedding was supposed to happen, my mom and sister were 177 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: there cheering me up, and my sister said something along 178 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: the lines of, oh, well, if you're not using it, 179 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: I will. We all laughed. So I thought it was 180 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: a joke because it was never brought up again after 181 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: She just asked me once what the material was because 182 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: I thought she wanted something similar. Now my sister is 183 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: mad at me, and my mom says she understands both 184 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: of our povs Switzerland Classics, Switzerland move, but that I 185 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: could have waited five more months till after her wedding 186 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: to take the power back. Am I the a hole? 187 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: An edit? Yes, he fucked the stripper? Please stop asking 188 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: me the edit we all needed. There is an update. 189 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: But first, what do you think? Absolutely not? No, absolutely not. 190 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: It's her wedding, Josh, she bought it. She bought it, 191 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: bro She's going through a rough patch, A bit of 192 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: rough bad. Have some compassion, bro. Yeah, it's not every 193 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: day that your fiance bucks a stripper. It's really not. 194 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: Though it is not well maybe maybe for some people. 195 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: But also there's another edit before we go to the updates. 196 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: Another edit it says, what the fuck is wrong with 197 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: some of you? Suddenly I am the asshole for leaving 198 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: my expert cheating on me because it doesn't count because 199 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: it was his bachelor party. Are people saying that you 200 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: gotta love it? Wait? Wait? There is there? Is it 201 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: like a thing that it doesn't count if it's in 202 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: your bachelor party. 203 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 2: I'm I don't know, honestly, Like I'm sure that I 204 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 2: know that happens. That's like the Trump right I Oh, 205 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: you you have the crazy bachelor party. 206 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: Oh, something happens, you know what I mean? So I 207 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: guess as a former sex worker at a chance to 208 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: accompany a guy, we're getting a story within a story 209 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: from though as a former sex worker, I had the 210 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: chance to accompany a guide to a bachelor party. It 211 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: was a bachelor party of his cousin. All the men 212 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: who attended, besides the one who hired me, were in 213 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: a relationship of some sort. Well, obviously there was flirting, touching, 214 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: and some kissing. Nobody crossed the line of having sex 215 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: with the stripper or an escort. Bachelor parties are kind 216 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: of lame. People usually organize them because they've heard it's 217 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 1: cool and they saw in the movie. Some guys who 218 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: marry the first girl they dated throw the bachelor party 219 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 1: because they are at least subconsciously curious what it's like 220 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: to make your girlfriend future wife jealous for the first time. 221 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: This is something people often underestimate, but it's true. Strippers 222 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 1: who attend bachelor parties are almost always not prostitutes. They 223 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: have boyfriend's husbands and will either decline having sex with 224 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: guests altogether, or we'll ask for a price so high 225 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: that it will turn people off. 226 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's that's that's a great move. Just be like 227 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: three hundred thousand dollars. 228 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, what do you got, work it up, baby. 229 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: That's that's fun. Okay, that makes sense because it's like 230 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: like like I know of not personally, but there's like 231 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: people who go to strip clubs like with their wife 232 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 2: and stuff like that, you know, like like it's just 233 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 2: like a activity to go, like a fun activity. 234 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't. I don't. I don't think the 235 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: whole it's not cheating because it is, like that's very clear. Yeah, 236 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if it is, but it definitely shouldn't 237 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: be a tho, it shouldn't be. 238 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's watch there be like a thousand comments like 239 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 2: samu idiot those cove we're high volume men. 240 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: All right, there's an update though. Okay. I posted this 241 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: approximately five months ago after being assured by all of 242 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: Rereddit I did nothing wrong. I decided to try to 243 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: talk it out with my sister, so I tried calling her, 244 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 1: but she had blocked my number. I was very confused 245 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: and talked to my mother. She was trying to still 246 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 1: stay out of it, and I got a little mad 247 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: and said that it was not fair that my sister 248 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: was not right because she never formally asked me and 249 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: how was I supposed to know and guessed that she 250 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: wanted it. She tried to justify her, but in the 251 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: end also accepted that my sister was wrong. Nonetheless, she 252 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: told me to give her space and that she will 253 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: come to terms with this herself. I waited a few 254 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: days until I met her in the supermarket. At first, 255 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: she tried to act like she didn't see me, but 256 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: I planted myself in front of her. She was just 257 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: rolling saying she had places to be, and I just said, 258 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: you know, I hope you noticed how unfair you're treating me, 259 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: and then left her alone. That night, I received a 260 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: call where I was berated for being selfish for about 261 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 1: twenty minutes by her. I asked her if she was done, 262 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: and asked her if we could talk like adults. She 263 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: came over the next night and we had an exhausting fight, screaming, crying, 264 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 1: and after all it was said and done, she actually 265 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: apologized for everything. Okay, she was kind of jealous of 266 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: my dress and of the wedding I almost had, and 267 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 1: she was embarrassed that she couldn't afford everything I could, 268 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: and she felt like she failed as an adult and 269 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: as a mother. And honestly, I get it, not because 270 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: I think she is a failure, but because I get 271 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: how it feels if your brain tells you you failed 272 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: at life because you don't have the things that other 273 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: people have. Comparison is the thief of joy of people, 274 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: That's right. She apologized also because she was trying to 275 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: blame me for her problems and everything was easier if 276 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: she wasn't the one to blame. We talked a lot 277 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: more until the time came, and I told her that 278 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: she didn't a fancy dress and that we could search 279 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: for something to get and customize a very basic gown 280 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: and we didn't have much time, so not super fancy, 281 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: I sadly do the outbreak. The wedding was supposed to 282 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: appen this month and it was canceled. They had a 283 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: courthouse wedding where she wore one of my dresses, and 284 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: she is celebrating in August if possible, And that's everything. 285 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: So even if I wasn't the a hole and my 286 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: sister seemed like a little bit of a brat, she 287 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: was dealing with some pretty heavy feelings and I still 288 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: love her. Thank you for the judgment and advice. 289 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: Hey, we we love a great wholesome ending. This is 290 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 2: two for two. The first story we read today two 291 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: was was pretty whole, wonderful, beautiful, beautiful, too freaking wholesome. Bro, Yeah, 292 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 2: where's drama, where's the filth? 293 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: Come on? Love? 294 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 295 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to read tea broad and trying to 296 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: spill it all over the place and trying to scald 297 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 1: my ball with some freaking hot hot tea trying to 298 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 1: have a skin bird have a ton out of like 299 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: red hot balls. Oh my god, just tea bagging tea bag, 300 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: but I'm trying to have an English breakfast. Is this wow? Wow? 301 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: Have you liked that story? Check out this one where 302 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: Opi calls the police at her wedding