WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Blame Game

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<v Speaker 1>Second, with dating, people always like to talk about passion

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<v Speaker 1>and soulmates finding true love. That'd be great, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you don't date for love. You date for food. Oh seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything more romantic in this world that can

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<v Speaker 1>bond two people together than a good burrito bowl with

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<v Speaker 1>a kale smoothie, especially when you're not paying You kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lost me at kale smovie. I dare with something

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<v Speaker 1>hotter than kale smoothies and burrito bowls, very fibrous. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened with one of our listeners, Amanda the

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<v Speaker 1>other day. Amanda claims that she bonded with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>over some delivery food. So, Amanda, welcome to the show. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. It's actually just Amanda. Oh just oh the

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<v Speaker 1>first a is silent. Oh my god. That must be

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<v Speaker 1>really annoying your entire life. It's okay, it's always that

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<v Speaker 1>conversation starter. Yeah, that's a good point, all right. I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize a Manda for that just butchering of your name.

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<v Speaker 1>But tell us about the guy that you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? His name is Ritchie, not itchy. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you pronounced that first art. Yeah, okay, she doesn't find

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<v Speaker 1>it funny. Okay, that's fine. I'm sure you've heard it

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<v Speaker 1>your whole life. I get it. I get what you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are going. That's funny. Okay, Yeah, we like to

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<v Speaker 1>have a little bit of fun before we get into

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<v Speaker 1>the details of the date. But you met with Ritchie

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<v Speaker 1>over delivery food. How did that happen? Yeah? So I

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<v Speaker 1>live in a really big apartment complex, and when you

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<v Speaker 1>order food on one of the food apps, you go

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<v Speaker 1>pick it up downstairs, and then the area of usually

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<v Speaker 1>is like a little bit of a hangout kind of

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<v Speaker 1>becomes like a social gathering. Yeah. Yeah, I guess people

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<v Speaker 1>are waiting for their food or or that's just how

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<v Speaker 1>you get into the building. A lot of times I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it'd be a bunch of really hungry people

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<v Speaker 1>down there waiting for food, all bitter, glaring at each other.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, you met him there. Yeah, So when I

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting for my food, he was there, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of started having some small talk, and he

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<v Speaker 1>asked what I ordered, and then he was bragging that

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<v Speaker 1>he got the best tacos, and then he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>getting Taco Bell. So I thought that was really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Taco Bell, was it? A joke when he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying it, or was he being legit? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>good sense of humor. I mean, taco bell is delicious.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see the joke, and it just doesn't ever

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<v Speaker 1>make sense to people get taco bell delivery because you

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<v Speaker 1>were literally paying three times what it would cost in

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. Like the whole point of taco bell is

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<v Speaker 1>also that it's cheap. Yeah. Usually the state I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>eating it, I can't get to taco Okay, what was

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<v Speaker 1>this guy sober? Um? Yeah? She was sober? I think. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened after that? After you met? Well, we ran

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<v Speaker 1>into each other a couple of other times, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>have to know each other a little bit. And eventually

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, instead of just meeting in the lobby,

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<v Speaker 1>we should go get food. That's cute. So he asked

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<v Speaker 1>you out. He did ask me out. Did he take

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<v Speaker 1>you to his favorite taco place? That would ye? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we just went to um kind of like an American

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<v Speaker 1>cuisine kind of spot that was pretty close. Yet and

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<v Speaker 1>how did that go? It was great? We hung out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I really liked him, We really got to

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<v Speaker 1>know each other. It was lovely. I thought, Okay, what'd

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talk about? Like work? Family? Um, he has

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<v Speaker 1>a cat named Joe and the food was good. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it all sounds normal. Were there any any

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<v Speaker 1>issues that came up during the date. No issues that

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<v Speaker 1>I can really think of. I mean, we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. So at one point a waiter and cleared

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<v Speaker 1>our table like before we were done, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>big pet peep of mind. But so you threw a

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<v Speaker 1>fork at him? Yeah? No, I just kind of lightly

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<v Speaker 1>asked him that he didn't need to take our main

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<v Speaker 1>plate because we're still eating, you know. Okay, Okay, how

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<v Speaker 1>did it end? The bill came? Um, he paid. I

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<v Speaker 1>offered a venmo him. He turned it down. Oh good offer.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should always offer, Yeah, even if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't mean it. I do fake offer, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never gonna okay, like, oh my apps. So he covered

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<v Speaker 1>the whole bill. Yeah, he covered the whole bill. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought things were going really well and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to kiss me, but then he just

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<v Speaker 1>hugged me. Oh, I mean maybe he got scared. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so like tough and scary. And did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had chemistry? Yeah? I mean I really liked him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe he just didn't like me as

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<v Speaker 1>much as I liked him. Oh, it is a rational

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<v Speaker 1>thing to say, my friend, kay, responsible and mature. Thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was hard to admit that sometimes. Yeah, but so

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of weird though, because you live in the

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<v Speaker 1>same building. You haven't seen him again since that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Or have you run into him down at the delivery

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<v Speaker 1>food hangout? No, I haven't. Huh. It's a pretty big building,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not necessarily going to run into someone all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. But yeah, I had seen him there please

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<v Speaker 1>frequently before we had hung out, and now I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>seen him at all. And he didn't mention like going

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<v Speaker 1>out a town or anything. No, or the day was

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<v Speaker 1>so bad he moved. Yeah, it's like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm breaking the leaves. I'm out of here. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to play a song and then we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>the very practical thing and ask rich for you if

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<v Speaker 1>there's a legitimate reason why he's not calling you back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds good, but also, his name is Richie not Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>did I releast grew up both names in one segment? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>part for the course for me he se, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>quote Manda, not Amanda, but Manda without that first day,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's our second data. Today she said, quote, I

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<v Speaker 1>really liked him, but like maybe he didn't like me

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<v Speaker 1>as much as I liked him. Yeah. Yeah, And even

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<v Speaker 1>though she said like four times in a single sentence,

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<v Speaker 1>Professor brook Fox still gave her a gold star for

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<v Speaker 1>being practical and having a well thought out explanation for

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<v Speaker 1>her ghost stud some emotional intelligence right there that she

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<v Speaker 1>displayed Brook any other clinical pragmatic commentary you'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>have us document on the podcast for posterity reasons, but

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<v Speaker 1>I am taking notes for later, so next to me

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<v Speaker 1>and we can review at a later time. Sounds fun

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody? A right? Yes, why do you even give

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<v Speaker 1>it opportunity regret it? Yeah? So, Amanda, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling before we call Richie for you? Here? You're doing okay? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little nervous, but I'm interested to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>he has to say. Yeah, and have you been like

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<v Speaker 1>nervous to run into him because you know, like when

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<v Speaker 1>so much time has passed and it gets awkward and

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, of course, you know, I've kind of guess

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<v Speaker 1>been rehearsing what to say if I run into him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we all do that in our minds, right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And she totally hasn't been camping out down at the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom of the elevators, just like accidentally waiting to put

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<v Speaker 1>like a key into the mailbox hole, just like, oops,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing here? That's funny. I haven't done

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. Good, Okay, that's very practical of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call Ritchie though and see what he has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Here we go, Oh, you got the name right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hey, look at you, jeff You remembered something. Oh way,

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<v Speaker 1>you wrote it down? Well, yeah, I practiced it seven

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<v Speaker 1>times before. Here we go. See what Richie has to say? Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Richie? Uh? This is Ez? Who was this?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jeffrey with a why at the end. You

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<v Speaker 1>would start with a J. I mean you would always

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<v Speaker 1>spell it with a why. Some people spell it with

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<v Speaker 1>a G. I don't know. Some people get confused on

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<v Speaker 1>these things. Words, words and names we found are very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult today. So there's also two ease. There's also two

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<v Speaker 1>F Hi Richie, Hello Richie. Hi. Right, So you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey from a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey. Oh, say, so,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you guys telling me? Very astute question there, Richie.

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling because we're trying to dig a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>into your dating life. What what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a good thing. Intrusively, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was brought to us. Yeah, I mean just that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a little bit intrusively, but in a nice

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<v Speaker 1>way because one of our listeners named Manda went out

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<v Speaker 1>with you recently and would like to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>you again. How she'd like to go out with me again?

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<v Speaker 1>M Yeah, we'd give you that idea. She told us,

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<v Speaker 1>literally emailed the show saying I would like to see

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<v Speaker 1>Richie again. It was very direct. We read between the

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<v Speaker 1>lines on that one a little bit, but we figured

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<v Speaker 1>out she wants another date. I'm just like totally confused

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I mean, I thought that we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time, but I don't understand, Like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear anything from her, So I'm like just thought she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like me, so I kind of moved going. Wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she tried to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, did she tell us that or did she

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<v Speaker 1>not tell us that? I don't know if I asked

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<v Speaker 1>that question. I was too busy trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>her name. Yeah, no, I don't know how she had

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<v Speaker 1>to contact me, Like, I don't know we got a

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<v Speaker 1>call from her or text or anything after the day. Wait, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>did you text or call her though, Richie? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's one of those girls that was just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be too forward. No, I mean I'm usually

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<v Speaker 1>a girl at least I mean, even though we live

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<v Speaker 1>in the same dud shell at lea say hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>got home safe. It was nice to night, you know something,

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<v Speaker 1>just thought you know, she got into do it nothing

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<v Speaker 1>or even like a thank you for dinner and paying

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<v Speaker 1>for everything, and ask if she got home safe? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you Guys they live a little harder stuck in the

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<v Speaker 1>elevator for a week. It happens, So it does not happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, so you liked her, she liked you, and

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<v Speaker 1>neither of you have texted or called each other. Guess

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<v Speaker 1>not weird? Okay, well, that seems this seems easy. It

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<v Speaker 1>does seem easy because you're in luck. Ritchie. Manda is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line right now wanting to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you how much she likes you and wants to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again Manda, Hey, Ritchie, Hey, Oh this is so

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<v Speaker 1>strange to me. Right now, I'm totally gonna work. Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of interesting to hear your perspective on this

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought that you didn't like me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>absolute relief and kind of funny. But oh, we wasted

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time. I guess, yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I guess I was expecting you to be

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<v Speaker 1>a like as bit of a communicator as you talked

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<v Speaker 1>about and like how that was important, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of confused after. I mean, it's just funny,

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys seem like you're both interested in each other,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's kind and you just didn't realize that it

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<v Speaker 1>was going on. You were both too shy to say it,

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<v Speaker 1>were stubborn whoever it was from what she just said

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<v Speaker 1>that she thinks I'm a pretty bad communicator. Seems like

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<v Speaker 1>you both are. Yeah, like we both liked each other

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<v Speaker 1>and neither one of you reached out. That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying, right, Manda. I'm mean kind of well, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't keep you didn't communicate with him, Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I was pretty clear that I was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from him first that I kind of liked

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<v Speaker 1>the guy taking the initiative first. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I shouldn't expect so much from okay person, What

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<v Speaker 1>where that come from? So now I'm a liar and

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<v Speaker 1>a bad person because they're like cats, right. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just our rhymes. I don't think you can take

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<v Speaker 1>that one back. Yeah, I thought when you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>to us earlier, we said you had he had a

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<v Speaker 1>cute cat named Joe. Yeah. Sure, but I'm just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I didn't think that, rittie. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be so sensitive, So I'm sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>bring that up. Now he's sensitive. I guess being sensitive

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<v Speaker 1>is better than being a total jerk to the waiter.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, what happened with the waiter? Yeah, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to say? Okay, so, but he tried to

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<v Speaker 1>take your plate the other night? You said, in like

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<v Speaker 1>a harsh tone, you know, I'm not done? Right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's as anarchy as you can get back. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I was citty polite. I wasn't done, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just left a wait or no, but it was yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are we are? We forgetting that? You guys both really

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<v Speaker 1>liked each other like two minutes ago. I'm like her

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<v Speaker 1>at all, but I'm just big on like manners and

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<v Speaker 1>just etiquette and there's a polite way to do things,

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<v Speaker 1>and she just did not observe that. Are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>you're not just being defensive right now because she called

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<v Speaker 1>you a pathetic, overly sensitive cat person. Pathetic? Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just reading between the lines. We don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>she meant. You're adding words. The words were there, they

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<v Speaker 1>were just unspoken. So you're saying that I'm not polite

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<v Speaker 1>because I offered to pay for half of the meal.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's emasculating. You gotta know that rights emasculated.

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<v Speaker 1>That's emasculating, Like, I'm a dude on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of dude doesn't pay for the first date? What? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>It true? I'm sorry, in a Manda's defense, you did

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<v Speaker 1>or her taco bell. So maybe she just didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>you had the budget for Amanda's defense, it's a polite

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<v Speaker 1>thing to do, yeah, says money bags brook Over. There

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<v Speaker 1>nice to offer, you know, even if you don't do it,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you know that you have someone who is

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<v Speaker 1>more of a partner and not someone who just wants

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<v Speaker 1>free stuff or is it rude like assuming that he

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<v Speaker 1>can't afford it on his own. That's not what she

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<v Speaker 1>was assuming at all. This is going to come as

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<v Speaker 1>a news Flashbrook, but not everybody in the world agrees

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<v Speaker 1>with you on everything. Oh why are you meaning rude

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden now fighting with each other? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I like you before the call started? That guy? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what you and I don't even know it? Just

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<v Speaker 1>how do you disrespect cats? Yeah, there's nothing wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>having cats, Brook, Well, here's where the show now, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what work. I'm going to offer to pay for

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<v Speaker 1>half of it. How do you like that? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you stop? Stop? Maybe if you got the meal order

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<v Speaker 1>right one time instead of getting me a burrito a bowl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like tortillas around my barrios. Listen to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't need the car Ritchie and man, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still on the far Come on, Richie, Manda, we doing

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<v Speaker 1>this or not? We send you on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna pay for it, and Brook's gonna offer to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for half. Yeah, whether you like it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Green look yeah, okay, Well that and like I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was, you go out of your way. To try

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<v Speaker 1>and help your listeners one time, and this is how

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<v Speaker 1>you get treated growing off when you offer to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for their dates and kind of yelled at them. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a maculating Yeah, used to it? All right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry Manda and Ritchie. Yeah, that kind of got out

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<v Speaker 1>of hand there, you know, Okay, that's offensive to people

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<v Speaker 1>that don't have hands Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we've calmed down a little bit. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest, I wonder why our listeners keep asking

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<v Speaker 1>for our help. Honestly, they keep on asking us to

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<v Speaker 1>help them. You know what's going to happen. Even therapists

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<v Speaker 1>have their own issues, right, they have to work through,

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<v Speaker 1>usually not in front of the clients. But you get

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<v Speaker 1>paid as a therapist. We don't. Some of us on

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<v Speaker 1>the show get paid more than others, and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit unfair. But the whole thing. Admit it got

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<v Speaker 1>out of hand. But I do want everybody to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we got off the air, I graciously offered to

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<v Speaker 1>give both of them restaurant gift cards, even if they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go out with each other, just for

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<v Speaker 1>the trouble. Brooke, what did you offer them you guys

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<v Speaker 1>like scared them away. I offered them that first. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>did you anyway? I don't know why you'd want to,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you ever want us to help you with

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<v Speaker 1>your love life, you can always email the show and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe to fight each other. No, maybe end up helping

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<v Speaker 1>us out in the end. Yeah, there you go. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we should call another show to help with our issues.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good idea. Anyway. You can always find the

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<v Speaker 1>second eight updates on our Brooke and Jeffrey YouTube. Go

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<v Speaker 1>check it out, subscribe. That's it. That's the end. Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning,