1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Second, with dating, people always like to talk about passion 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: and soulmates finding true love. That'd be great, but sometimes 3 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: you don't date for love. You date for food. Oh seriously, 4 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: is there anything more romantic in this world that can 5 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: bond two people together than a good burrito bowl with 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: a kale smoothie, especially when you're not paying You kind 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: of lost me at kale smovie. I dare with something 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: hotter than kale smoothies and burrito bowls, very fibrous. Apparently 9 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: that's what happened with one of our listeners, Amanda the 10 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: other day. Amanda claims that she bonded with a guy 11 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: over some delivery food. So, Amanda, welcome to the show. Hi, 12 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: thank you. It's actually just Amanda. Oh just oh the 13 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: first a is silent. Oh my god. That must be 14 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: really annoying your entire life. It's okay, it's always that 15 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: conversation starter. Yeah, that's a good point, all right. I 16 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: apologize a Manda for that just butchering of your name. 17 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: But tell us about the guy that you went out with. 18 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is Ritchie, not itchy. Yeah 19 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: you pronounced that first art. Yeah, okay, she doesn't find 20 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: it funny. Okay, that's fine. I'm sure you've heard it 21 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: your whole life. I get it. I get what you 22 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: guys are going. That's funny. Okay, Yeah, we like to 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: have a little bit of fun before we get into 24 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: the details of the date. But you met with Ritchie 25 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: over delivery food. How did that happen? Yeah? So I 26 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: live in a really big apartment complex, and when you 27 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: order food on one of the food apps, you go 28 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: pick it up downstairs, and then the area of usually 29 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: is like a little bit of a hangout kind of 30 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: becomes like a social gathering. Yeah. Yeah, I guess people 31 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: are waiting for their food or or that's just how 32 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: you get into the building. A lot of times I 33 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: feel like it'd be a bunch of really hungry people 34 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: down there waiting for food, all bitter, glaring at each other. 35 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: It's okay, you met him there. Yeah, So when I 36 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: was waiting for my food, he was there, and we 37 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: just kind of started having some small talk, and he 38 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: asked what I ordered, and then he was bragging that 39 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: he got the best tacos, and then he ended up 40 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: getting Taco Bell. So I thought that was really funny. 41 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: It was Taco Bell, was it? A joke when he 42 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: was saying it, or was he being legit? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, 43 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: good sense of humor. I mean, taco bell is delicious. 44 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: I don't see the joke, and it just doesn't ever 45 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: make sense to people get taco bell delivery because you 46 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: were literally paying three times what it would cost in 47 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: the restaurant. Like the whole point of taco bell is 48 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: also that it's cheap. Yeah. Usually the state I'm in 49 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 1: eating it, I can't get to taco Okay, what was 50 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 1: this guy sober? Um? Yeah? She was sober? I think. Yeah. 51 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: What happened after that? After you met? Well, we ran 52 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: into each other a couple of other times, you know, 53 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: have to know each other a little bit. And eventually 54 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 1: he was like, instead of just meeting in the lobby, 55 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: we should go get food. That's cute. So he asked 56 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: you out. He did ask me out. Did he take 57 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: you to his favorite taco place? That would ye? No, 58 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 1: we just went to um kind of like an American 59 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: cuisine kind of spot that was pretty close. Yet and 60 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: how did that go? It was great? We hung out. 61 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: You know, I really liked him, We really got to 62 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: know each other. It was lovely. I thought, Okay, what'd 63 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: you guys talk about? Like work? Family? Um, he has 64 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: a cat named Joe and the food was good. It 65 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: sounds like it all sounds normal. Were there any any 66 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: issues that came up during the date. No issues that 67 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: I can really think of. I mean, we were talking 68 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: a lot. So at one point a waiter and cleared 69 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: our table like before we were done, which is a 70 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: big pet peep of mind. But so you threw a 71 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: fork at him? Yeah? No, I just kind of lightly 72 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: asked him that he didn't need to take our main 73 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: plate because we're still eating, you know. Okay, Okay, how 74 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: did it end? The bill came? Um, he paid. I 75 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 1: offered a venmo him. He turned it down. Oh good offer. 76 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: I feel like you should always offer, Yeah, even if 77 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: you don't mean it. I do fake offer, but I'm 78 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: never gonna okay, like, oh my apps. So he covered 79 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: the whole bill. Yeah, he covered the whole bill. Okay. 80 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: I thought things were going really well and I thought 81 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: he was going to kiss me, but then he just 82 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: hugged me. Oh, I mean maybe he got scared. Yeah, 83 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: so like tough and scary. And did you feel like 84 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 1: you guys had chemistry? Yeah? I mean I really liked him. 85 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe he just didn't like me as 86 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: much as I liked him. Oh, it is a rational 87 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: thing to say, my friend, kay, responsible and mature. Thought 88 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: it was hard to admit that sometimes. Yeah, but so 89 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: it's kind of weird though, because you live in the 90 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: same building. You haven't seen him again since that happened. 91 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: Or have you run into him down at the delivery 92 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: food hangout? No, I haven't. Huh. It's a pretty big building, 93 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: so it's not necessarily going to run into someone all 94 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,559 Speaker 1: the time. But yeah, I had seen him there please 95 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: frequently before we had hung out, and now I haven't 96 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: seen him at all. And he didn't mention like going 97 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: out a town or anything. No, or the day was 98 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: so bad he moved. Yeah, it's like, you know what, 99 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm breaking the leaves. I'm out of here. But we're 100 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: going to play a song and then we're gonna do 101 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: the very practical thing and ask rich for you if 102 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: there's a legitimate reason why he's not calling you back. Okay, 103 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: sounds good, but also, his name is Richie not Oh god, 104 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: did I releast grew up both names in one segment? Yeah, 105 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: part for the course for me he se, I'm gonna 106 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: quote Manda, not Amanda, but Manda without that first day, 107 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: because she's our second data. Today she said, quote, I 108 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: really liked him, but like maybe he didn't like me 109 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: as much as I liked him. Yeah. Yeah, And even 110 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: though she said like four times in a single sentence, 111 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: Professor brook Fox still gave her a gold star for 112 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: being practical and having a well thought out explanation for 113 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: her ghost stud some emotional intelligence right there that she 114 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: displayed Brook any other clinical pragmatic commentary you'd like to 115 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: have us document on the podcast for posterity reasons, but 116 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: I am taking notes for later, so next to me 117 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: and we can review at a later time. Sounds fun 118 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: for everybody? A right? Yes, why do you even give 119 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: it opportunity regret it? Yeah? So, Amanda, how are you 120 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: feeling before we call Richie for you? Here? You're doing okay? Yeah, 121 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm a little nervous, but I'm interested to hear what 122 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: he has to say. Yeah, and have you been like 123 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: nervous to run into him because you know, like when 124 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: so much time has passed and it gets awkward and 125 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: then yeah, of course, you know, I've kind of guess 126 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: been rehearsing what to say if I run into him. 127 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we all do that in our minds, right, yeah. 128 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: And she totally hasn't been camping out down at the 129 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: bottom of the elevators, just like accidentally waiting to put 130 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: like a key into the mailbox hole, just like, oops, 131 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: what are you doing here? That's funny. I haven't done 132 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: anything like that. Good, Okay, that's very practical of you. 133 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: Let's just call Ritchie though and see what he has 134 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: to say. Here we go, Oh, you got the name right. 135 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: Oh hey, look at you, jeff You remembered something. Oh way, 136 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: you wrote it down? Well, yeah, I practiced it seven 137 00:07:51,880 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: times before. Here we go. See what Richie has to say? Hello, Hello, 138 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: is this Richie? Uh? This is Ez? Who was this? 139 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: This is Jeffrey with a why at the end. You 140 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: would start with a J. I mean you would always 141 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: spell it with a why. Some people spell it with 142 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: a G. I don't know. Some people get confused on 143 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: these things. Words, words and names we found are very 144 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: difficult today. So there's also two ease. There's also two 145 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,559 Speaker 1: F Hi Richie, Hello Richie. Hi. Right, So you're you're 146 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: Jeffrey from a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey. Oh, say, so, 147 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: why are you guys telling me? Very astute question there, Richie. 148 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: We're calling because we're trying to dig a little bit 149 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: into your dating life. What what are you talking about? 150 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: I think it's a good thing. Intrusively, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 151 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,599 Speaker 1: it was brought to us. Yeah, I mean just that, 152 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: I mean a little bit intrusively, but in a nice 153 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: way because one of our listeners named Manda went out 154 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: with you recently and would like to go out with 155 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,839 Speaker 1: you again. How she'd like to go out with me again? 156 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: M Yeah, we'd give you that idea. She told us, 157 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: literally emailed the show saying I would like to see 158 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: Richie again. It was very direct. We read between the 159 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: lines on that one a little bit, but we figured 160 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: out she wants another date. I'm just like totally confused 161 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: right now. I mean, I thought that we had a 162 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: really good time, but I don't understand, Like I didn't 163 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: hear anything from her, So I'm like just thought she 164 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: didn't like me, so I kind of moved going. Wait, wait, 165 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: she said she tried to get a hold of you. 166 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: I thought, did she tell us that or did she 167 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: not tell us that? I don't know if I asked 168 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: that question. I was too busy trying to figure out 169 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: her name. Yeah, no, I don't know how she had 170 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 1: to contact me, Like, I don't know we got a 171 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: call from her or text or anything after the day. Wait, wow, 172 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 1: did you text or call her though, Richie? I mean 173 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: maybe she's one of those girls that was just doesn't 174 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: want to be too forward. No, I mean I'm usually 175 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: a girl at least I mean, even though we live 176 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: in the same dud shell at lea say hey, I 177 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: got home safe. It was nice to night, you know something, 178 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: just thought you know, she got into do it nothing 179 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: or even like a thank you for dinner and paying 180 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: for everything, and ask if she got home safe? Do 181 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: you Guys they live a little harder stuck in the 182 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: elevator for a week. It happens, So it does not happen. 183 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: So wait, so you liked her, she liked you, and 184 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: neither of you have texted or called each other. Guess 185 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: not weird? Okay, well, that seems this seems easy. It 186 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: does seem easy because you're in luck. Ritchie. Manda is 187 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: actually on the other line right now wanting to tell 188 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: you how much she likes you and wants to see 189 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: you again Manda, Hey, Ritchie, Hey, Oh this is so 190 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: strange to me. Right now, I'm totally gonna work. Oh well, 191 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: it's kind of interesting to hear your perspective on this 192 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: because I thought that you didn't like me. I mean, 193 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: absolute relief and kind of funny. But oh, we wasted 194 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: a lot of time. I guess, yeah, I mean, I 195 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I guess I was expecting you to be 196 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: a like as bit of a communicator as you talked 197 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: about and like how that was important, and then I 198 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: was kind of confused after. I mean, it's just funny, 199 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: like you guys seem like you're both interested in each other, 200 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: so it's kind and you just didn't realize that it 201 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: was going on. You were both too shy to say it, 202 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: were stubborn whoever it was from what she just said 203 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 1: that she thinks I'm a pretty bad communicator. Seems like 204 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: you both are. Yeah, like we both liked each other 205 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: and neither one of you reached out. That's not what 206 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: you're saying, right, Manda. I'm mean kind of well, you 207 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: didn't keep you didn't communicate with him, Well, I mean 208 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: I did. I was pretty clear that I was waiting 209 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: to hear from him first that I kind of liked 210 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: the guy taking the initiative first. I don't know. I 211 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: guess I shouldn't expect so much from okay person, What 212 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: where that come from? So now I'm a liar and 213 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: a bad person because they're like cats, right. Oh no, 214 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: it's just our rhymes. I don't think you can take 215 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: that one back. Yeah, I thought when you were talking 216 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: to us earlier, we said you had he had a 217 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: cute cat named Joe. Yeah. Sure, but I'm just you know, 218 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't think that, rittie. I didn't think 219 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 1: you're going to be so sensitive, So I'm sorry to 220 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: bring that up. Now he's sensitive. I guess being sensitive 221 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: is better than being a total jerk to the waiter. 222 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 1: So wait, what happened with the waiter? Yeah, what are 223 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: you trying to say? Okay, so, but he tried to 224 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: take your plate the other night? You said, in like 225 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: a harsh tone, you know, I'm not done? Right, Like, 226 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: that's as anarchy as you can get back. I feel 227 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: like I was citty polite. I wasn't done, so I 228 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: just left a wait or no, but it was yeah, 229 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: are we are? We forgetting that? You guys both really 230 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: liked each other like two minutes ago. I'm like her 231 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: at all, but I'm just big on like manners and 232 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: just etiquette and there's a polite way to do things, 233 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: and she just did not observe that. Are you sure 234 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: you're not just being defensive right now because she called 235 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: you a pathetic, overly sensitive cat person. Pathetic? Okay, well, 236 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm just reading between the lines. We don't know what 237 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: she meant. You're adding words. The words were there, they 238 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: were just unspoken. So you're saying that I'm not polite 239 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: because I offered to pay for half of the meal. 240 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: I mean, that's emasculating. You gotta know that rights emasculated. 241 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 1: That's emasculating, Like, I'm a dude on the first date. 242 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: What kind of dude doesn't pay for the first date? What? Well? 243 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: It true? I'm sorry, in a Manda's defense, you did 244 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: or her taco bell. So maybe she just didn't think 245 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: you had the budget for Amanda's defense, it's a polite 246 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: thing to do, yeah, says money bags brook Over. There 247 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: nice to offer, you know, even if you don't do it, 248 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: at least you know that you have someone who is 249 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 1: more of a partner and not someone who just wants 250 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 1: free stuff or is it rude like assuming that he 251 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: can't afford it on his own. That's not what she 252 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: was assuming at all. This is going to come as 253 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: a news Flashbrook, but not everybody in the world agrees 254 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: with you on everything. Oh why are you meaning rude 255 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: all of a sudden now fighting with each other? Because 256 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: I like you before the call started? That guy? Is 257 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: that what you and I don't even know it? Just 258 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: how do you disrespect cats? Yeah, there's nothing wrong with 259 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: having cats, Brook, Well, here's where the show now, you 260 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: know what work. I'm going to offer to pay for 261 00:14:56,280 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: half of it. How do you like that? Oh? Yeah, 262 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: you stop? Stop? Maybe if you got the meal order 263 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: right one time instead of getting me a burrito a bowl. 264 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't like tortillas around my barrios. Listen to me. 265 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: You didn't need the car Ritchie and man, are you 266 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: still on the far Come on, Richie, Manda, we doing 267 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: this or not? We send you on a second date. 268 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna pay for it, and Brook's gonna offer to 269 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: pay for half. Yeah, whether you like it or not. 270 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 1: Green look yeah, okay, Well that and like I thought 271 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: it was, you go out of your way. To try 272 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: and help your listeners one time, and this is how 273 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: you get treated growing off when you offer to pay 274 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: for their dates and kind of yelled at them. I 275 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: think it's a maculating Yeah, used to it? All right? Well, 276 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: sorry Manda and Ritchie. Yeah, that kind of got out 277 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: of hand there, you know, Okay, that's offensive to people 278 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: that don't have hands Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. 279 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: All right, we've calmed down a little bit. And sometimes 280 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I wonder why our listeners keep asking 281 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: for our help. Honestly, they keep on asking us to 282 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: help them. You know what's going to happen. Even therapists 283 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: have their own issues, right, they have to work through, 284 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 1: usually not in front of the clients. But you get 285 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: paid as a therapist. We don't. Some of us on 286 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: the show get paid more than others, and it's a 287 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: little bit unfair. But the whole thing. Admit it got 288 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: out of hand. But I do want everybody to know. 289 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: Once we got off the air, I graciously offered to 290 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: give both of them restaurant gift cards, even if they 291 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: didn't want to go out with each other, just for 292 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: the trouble. Brooke, what did you offer them you guys 293 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: like scared them away. I offered them that first. Oh 294 00:16:54,800 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: did you anyway? I don't know why you'd want to, 295 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: but if you ever want us to help you with 296 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: your love life, you can always email the show and 297 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: maybe to fight each other. No, maybe end up helping 298 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: us out in the end. Yeah, there you go. Actually, 299 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 1: maybe we should call another show to help with our issues. 300 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 1: That's a good idea. Anyway. You can always find the 301 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: second eight updates on our Brooke and Jeffrey YouTube. Go 302 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 1: check it out, subscribe. That's it. That's the end. Brooke 303 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning,