Speaker 1: He found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Finally, it's pretty easy.
Speaker 1: Actually, thanks for being here.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: And hey, just a reminder, if you want to endure
Speaker 1: or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got
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Speaker 1: at the Brook and Jeffrey feed. But for now, we'll
Speaker 1: get into some questionable relationship advice.
Speaker 2: Second Date up Date. We've done these second date calls
Speaker 2: for a long, long while.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think half my lifetime.
Speaker 2: No joke, but most of the time we really focus
Speaker 2: a lot on the date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's not sure why we do that's.
Speaker 2: The Yeah, what do you mean, indead you're not very successful?
Speaker 1: Are talking about their childhood?
Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners, Thomas, wants us to hone
Speaker 2: in not on the date so much. He's more focused
Speaker 2: on the text messages that were sent between them afterwards,
Speaker 2: the juicy stuff we're dissecting the after test. Okay, Thomas,
Speaker 2: first of all, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hey, thank you, guys, I appreciate your help.
Speaker 2: Okay, well say that, don't thank us until we actually
Speaker 2: follow through with that. But we're going to talk about
Speaker 2: your date after we hear about these text messages first,
Speaker 2: because your email definitely intrigued me. What's the name of
Speaker 2: this girl?
Speaker 4: First of all, so this girl, her name is Amanda?
Speaker 1: Okay, Amanda? And I mean it's always a positive if
Speaker 1: you have text messages after a date. It means that
Speaker 1: you're both still interested.
Speaker 2: Right, you would think if she's communicating with you, unless
Speaker 2: they're like, don't text me anymore.
Speaker 4: Stop.
Speaker 1: Well, we'll just read stop over and over again.
Speaker 2: What were you and Amanda saying to each other?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she might as well have said on the subscribed but.
Speaker 2: What did you say?
Speaker 4: I reached out and I said, hey, how are you?
Speaker 4: That's it?
Speaker 1: Okay? Like the next day after the date or something, Yeah.
Speaker 3: The next day.
Speaker 4: And her response was a picture of her with another guy. Oh,
Speaker 4: and she says, we are good.
Speaker 1: Thanks, we're good?
Speaker 2: How are you? We are good?
Speaker 1: What's the photo? Does it look like a dad? Brother?
Speaker 1: But even then, what would like would it be a
Speaker 1: joke at that? Is it a picture? Did you ask?
Speaker 4: Didn't know? It's just some dude. I didn't ask because
Speaker 4: I maybe naively thought that must be a message for
Speaker 4: somebody else.
Speaker 2: Oh oh wow, forgiving you don't.
Speaker 1: Think that was a clear message to you that I'm
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Leave me alone.
Speaker 4: You know, it looked like they could have been friends,
Speaker 4: but they went well enough. I thought, there's no way
Speaker 4: she wouldn't have told me that she's you know, as
Speaker 4: a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Right right, because it's the next morning. It's like not
Speaker 1: even enough time for her to go out with somebody
Speaker 1: and establish another a relationship, like she may have been
Speaker 1: a cheater.
Speaker 2: What else was said?
Speaker 4: Well, then I texted her back and I said, hey,
Speaker 4: when am I going to see you again?
Speaker 2: Okay that the boyfriend has her phone and is the
Speaker 2: one being like we're good. Well what did she say
Speaker 2: to that?
Speaker 4: She said, the next time I post a picture on Instagram,
Speaker 4: you'll see me.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so she wants you to follow her heart.
Speaker 2: Clearly something happened that made her upset.
Speaker 1: Why are we calling her then? Like, do you like her?
Speaker 1: Because she doesn't sound she either sounds like she's in
Speaker 1: a relationship or she's not nice. I feel like she's
Speaker 1: mad at you and it's like not a boyfriend, like
Speaker 1: she's just pretending.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't get why that's it's killing me.
Speaker 4: It's not even it's almost not even about I just
Speaker 4: gotta know what.
Speaker 3: Happened because it seemed like it went really well.
Speaker 2: Okay, well take us to the date. Now, let's figure
Speaker 2: out if something did happen. What did you get? How'd
Speaker 2: you guys meet? What you guys do?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on the bus, started talking to her.
Speaker 3: I ripped her up, I got her number.
Speaker 1: It makes sad to people do the same outs every day. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And what did you do for your date?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 3: I took it a red lobster and okay, you can.
Speaker 4: You can do a lotter a little there. And they
Speaker 4: have that shrimp your way thirty for twenty deal.
Speaker 3: So we got some garlic shrimps. We gotten them.
Speaker 2: I know that was going on.
Speaker 4: We want to go to lunch.
Speaker 1: Honestly, those Cheddarbay biscuits.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but so good.
Speaker 1: But what was her reaction about red lobster? What if
Speaker 1: she's allergic to shellfish? You need to check with her
Speaker 1: before you do something like this. That's a good point.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's very sexy to exchange food out.
Speaker 1: Or someone like me who will only eat the biscuits.
Speaker 2: Now, that's one of the first things you ask a
Speaker 2: girl before you take her out or do you have
Speaker 2: any allergies? Do you like or hate anything? Did you
Speaker 2: get her medical rundown before you took her out on
Speaker 2: a date?
Speaker 3: I did not check with her doctor, but she was
Speaker 3: trying everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everything okay? And the conversation sounds good. What'd you
Speaker 1: connect on?
Speaker 3: We laughed a lot, we talked about places we've gone.
Speaker 4: On vacation, and I'm I guess there was one awkward
Speaker 4: moment where I had to take a phone call and
Speaker 4: I did have to tell her to be quiet.
Speaker 1: Yike, Oh, I hate being told to quiet too.
Speaker 2: How did you tell her?
Speaker 3: It was almost half joking, but I was like, be quiet?
Speaker 2: You know, no, you need to cut your hand over
Speaker 2: her mouth and say, oh my god.
Speaker 1: That is yeah, that's a polite way. Why would you
Speaker 1: take a phone call at the table? That's yeah. You
Speaker 1: didn't step away.
Speaker 3: It was important and I needed to handle some business.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I know that some people have a
Speaker 1: pretty hard line on that type of you know, phone
Speaker 1: calls at the table. Maybe that's her whole Yeah.
Speaker 2: Saying that could be something that made you look bad.
Speaker 2: That it would explain her angry reaction to your texts.
Speaker 2: Have you thought of that?
Speaker 4: Maybe? But I mean I paid for everything.
Speaker 3: She didn't seem put off at the end, and I
Speaker 3: did everything else.
Speaker 2: Right, did you pay for it with money from your
Speaker 2: wallet or did you take money out of her wallet
Speaker 2: and pay that?
Speaker 4: Was it? No?
Speaker 2: Okay? And after that, what happened after the dinner date?
Speaker 4: Well after the date then I walked into a cars
Speaker 4: we hugged it out, you know.
Speaker 1: Hugged it out, and then you sent the text. And
Speaker 1: that's where we are now, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2: I'm still not picking up anything specifically that would justify
Speaker 2: those like really angry, straightforward rude tests.
Speaker 1: Quiet Jeff, Oh.
Speaker 2: Need to cut my mouth when you do that, Jeff,
Speaker 2: be quiet. I mean, that's the one thing that we
Speaker 2: have to go off of, is the telling her to
Speaker 2: be quiet while taking a phone call. We're going to
Speaker 2: find out when we reach out to Amanda for you
Speaker 2: and get you your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: Thank you, guys, Yes.
Speaker 2: Manners, they're important. Okay, hold on second date update, you're
Speaker 2: just joining us. Quick recap. Thomas met a girl named
Speaker 2: Amanda on the bus riz Dur and swung that into
Speaker 2: a dinner date a red lobster. Yeah he did, where
Speaker 2: they shared thirty pieces of garlic butter shrimp, and he
Speaker 2: thinks his one potential downfall may have been when he
Speaker 2: took a phone call mid meal and Amanda kept talking,
Speaker 2: so he said, hey, be quiet, yeah, which Brook tells
Speaker 2: Jose to do that all the time. So I don't think,
Speaker 2: really think it's that disrespectful. And the attention between Brooke
Speaker 2: and I still really but maybe she took it in
Speaker 2: a disrespectful way. We really don't know.
Speaker 1: But Brooke's answering the phone at the table, you know, Yeah, Brook,
Speaker 1: what is your take?
Speaker 5: God?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Man. That text she sent you afterwards
Speaker 1: with a picture of her and a random guy is
Speaker 1: just jarring. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone else caught it, but at
Speaker 2: the beginning he mentioned like I was laying it on
Speaker 2: pretty thick, so I was thinking maybe he did one
Speaker 2: compliment that was too far or didn't hit right.
Speaker 1: Spent the whole night making shrimp puns, which would have
Speaker 1: really turned a photo with five if I needed to go.
Speaker 2: Thomas.
Speaker 4: Is any of that possible, I guess, But it still
Speaker 4: feels like bringing a gun to a knife fight.
Speaker 3: I mean, it was so hard, but.
Speaker 2: You weren't you weren't making shrimp puns, were you?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I.
Speaker 4: Made some jokes, but no pungea.
Speaker 1: You mean shellfish at the table?
Speaker 2: Alright, Before Alexis leaves, we have to reach out to Amanda.
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Now, Hello, Hey, is this Amanda speaking? Hey?
Speaker 2: I mean Jeff is the name of the person speaking.
Speaker 2: And there's a whole room of people.
Speaker 1: Hey, Amanda, welcome to the show, She asked, he was speaking, Jeff,
Speaker 1: don't be rid.
Speaker 6: Okay, what's this regarding?
Speaker 2: This is regarding a radio show segment that you're currently
Speaker 2: on called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You may have seen him on TikTok. They're going wildly
Speaker 1: viral right now.
Speaker 6: Really, I mean, like, wait, how.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Some random people keep
Speaker 1: posting them and stealing our audience.
Speaker 2: You don't think they're even very funny. We're just trying
Speaker 2: to help people, and that's what we're doing. With a
Speaker 2: guy named Thomas that you went on a date with recently.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, are yeah.
Speaker 1: Or scared?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Wait a minute, Oh no, I'm trying to avoid him.
Speaker 1: Why he just like, is he pestering you or something?
Speaker 4: Dude?
Speaker 6: He is not a good guy. Like, seriously, okay, he put.
Speaker 1: On a front for us.
Speaker 2: Here's the deal, Amanda. We heard about your guys's date.
Speaker 2: We also learned that there were some text messages exchanged
Speaker 2: between the two of you. He was a little bit
Speaker 2: uncertain if they were meant to be hostile towards him
Speaker 2: or not.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, they were definitely freaking meant to be hostile.
Speaker 2: We read them that way, the one with the pick
Speaker 2: with another dude saying we're good and the next time
Speaker 2: you'll see me. He's when I post on insta.
Speaker 4: Flip and loosely.
Speaker 6: He needs to know that he is not the only
Speaker 6: one on my radar after that night.
Speaker 1: What okay, So that was he I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you he is totally in the dark. He has no
Speaker 1: idea what he did wrong. Is he just that clueless?
Speaker 1: Is it that obvious?
Speaker 6: There is no way he can be that freaking clus.
Speaker 2: Really, okay, us guys can be very clueless, that is true.
Speaker 1: I am so curious.
Speaker 2: The one thing that he brought up that he mentions
Speaker 2: may have been a bad move was when he took
Speaker 2: a business call during the meal and told you to
Speaker 2: be quiet. He thinks that's probably a turn off.
Speaker 6: The turn off, the turn off, Yes, tell us that
Speaker 6: he had kids.
Speaker 1: Kids. Yeah, he's a dad. And he didn't tell you.
Speaker 1: He didn't tell He didn't mention.
Speaker 4: It does.
Speaker 6: No, honey, let me tell you.
Speaker 4: Okay, how do you go out with a woman and.
Speaker 6: Not even mention that you have kids? And on top
Speaker 6: of that, oh, they're going to be there at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Did you say he brought his kids to dinner with
Speaker 1: no way on a day.
Speaker 6: No, he didn't bring them. There was four of them,
Speaker 6: like he had four kids. One was our blessed boy,
Speaker 6: a teenager.
Speaker 2: And wait, his work at Red Lobster.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's getting daddy discounts at Red Lobster
Speaker 1: because his kids work there.
Speaker 6: I don't know what was going on, but seriously, like
Speaker 6: I am not trying to get with anyone who has
Speaker 6: like a bunch of secret kids.
Speaker 1: Okay, but they weren't secret if you knew who they were.
Speaker 6: He never mentioned anything about having kids, and all of
Speaker 6: a sudden we're at the restaurant and they're all around
Speaker 6: us at dinner.
Speaker 2: All right, Now, we did not know about the kid
Speaker 2: aspect of this. We just heard about the date part.
Speaker 2: Although on some level it is flattering that he wanted
Speaker 2: you to meet the family so soon, So I would
Speaker 2: keep that in mind when I tell you that Thomas
Speaker 2: is on the other line right now listening, possibly with
Speaker 2: all of his children too, So be careful with what
Speaker 2: you said. No, seriously, Thomas, are you there?
Speaker 4: Do not have kids? Those aren't my kids?
Speaker 2: What are you lying out?
Speaker 1: You said?
Speaker 6: Literally, those are my kids? Like you have said that chicken.
Speaker 4: I said they're my kids, but I didn't mean like
Speaker 4: my kids. They're my students. I gym at a high school.
Speaker 4: Now I get it.
Speaker 1: How does one family have four it? I'll work at
Speaker 1: Red Lobster together, and that's such a perfect high school job.
Speaker 3: Too real?
Speaker 6: Really, I find that funny. They look just like you?
Speaker 4: How you know they're in my class? What do you
Speaker 4: mean they look like me?
Speaker 6: Come the freaking bus boy looked like you twenty five
Speaker 6: years ago. What do you think about?
Speaker 4: I don't know what to tell you, that's the answer.
Speaker 4: I'm a teacher. Sorry, I wouldn't just casually introduce my
Speaker 4: son the bus boy and that.
Speaker 6: Really, what if teacher goes around just claiming kids like seriously,
Speaker 6: I think that's so weird.
Speaker 1: That makes total sense. Mean he should have chose a
Speaker 1: restaurant they don't want to work out, you think, but
Speaker 1: true throughout the city a discount. Come on, you met
Speaker 1: the man on a bus. He's taking you to Red
Speaker 1: Lobstery obviously has a teacher's salary.
Speaker 4: I don't care. I was telling the truth. And honestly,
Speaker 4: now that you know the fact that you still don't
Speaker 4: believe me and you're accusing me of something that isn't true,
Speaker 4: I mean it's bonker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like Thomas on this one.
Speaker 4: I wasn't telling the truth because that wasn't a business
Speaker 4: call I was on the phone with and that was
Speaker 4: somebody else that I'm setting up a date with for tomorrow.
Speaker 1: So the business call, how could you say that?
Speaker 2: So wait, Thomas, you were telling the truth about the
Speaker 2: kids at the restaurant just being your students, but you
Speaker 2: weren't telling the truth about the phone call from your
Speaker 2: quote business partners.
Speaker 1: It makes sense. There's not all gym teachers that are
Speaker 1: taken after hour calls.
Speaker 2: Maybe there was got a new telorball in, I got
Speaker 2: a rope climbing, you know what.
Speaker 4: She can send pics of other guys to whoever she wants.
Speaker 4: That's fine. I'm just saying I've got options. You know,
Speaker 4: there's a lot of other girls on the bus you
Speaker 4: tell of.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Speaker 2: Does that make you want him more? Because if it does,
Speaker 2: we will offer to send you guys out on another
Speaker 2: date that we would pay for.
Speaker 6: Well, the no, I don't want to be ten feat
Speaker 6: with an ex faces.
Speaker 4: Guys, that is.
Speaker 1: Such a dramatic response. You have to get a new
Speaker 1: bus to a gym teacher.
Speaker 2: You and Jeff not allowed within ten feet of a school. Yeah,
Speaker 2: my god, you honestly sound more alike than not alike.
Speaker 2: You guys are literally responding and clapping back the same
Speaker 2: way at each other.
Speaker 6: I am nothing like him, I am not a liar,
Speaker 6: and yeah.
Speaker 4: No big loss to me. I'm gonna go back to
Speaker 4: Red Lobster with my twenty eight kids.
Speaker 2: Wait wait now they are your kids, Jeff, Oh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, than me.
Speaker 1: I don't forget one of those teenagers has to have
Speaker 1: a single mom. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: And do you think I'm not working that angle?
Speaker 2: Of course, Red Lobster Daddy back in the house.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh you know, I'm really disappointed that those two didn't
Speaker 2: go out.
Speaker 1: Really, are you Jeffy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not for like any romantic reasons, but if they
Speaker 2: loved Red Lobster, they would have been all about our
Speaker 2: restaurant gift card options.
Speaker 1: That's a good people.
Speaker 2: We got all the best chain restaurants from mall parking lots.
Speaker 2: We got Chili's, we got Olive Garden, and I've even
Speaker 2: got one to an abandoned outback steakhouse. But it's just
Speaker 2: not running any There are guys still in there and
Speaker 2: they are making steak. It's just not technically for the company.
Speaker 2: Bring your own steak first. Again, I'm disappointed if she.
Speaker 1: Didn't believe that those were his actual children, that was
Speaker 1: so weird, Like are we that jaded in life that
Speaker 1: we can't even get over that she.
Speaker 2: Saw them like they must have looked exactly alike that.
Speaker 1: There's no way.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It just wasn't meant to be today, But I guess
Speaker 2: we'll find out tomorrow. Who gets the next chance at
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