WEBVTT - Second Date Update: All In The Family

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<v Speaker 1>He found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Finally, it's pretty easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, thanks for being here.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>And hey, just a reminder, if you want to endure

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<v Speaker 1>or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a full show, whole hour. Dare you to try it

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<v Speaker 1>at the Brook and Jeffrey feed. But for now, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get into some questionable relationship advice.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date up Date. We've done these second date calls

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<v Speaker 2>for a long, long while.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I think half my lifetime.

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<v Speaker 2>No joke, but most of the time we really focus

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<v Speaker 2>a lot on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well that's not sure why we do that's.

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<v Speaker 2>The Yeah, what do you mean, indead you're not very successful?

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<v Speaker 1>Are talking about their childhood?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one of our listeners, Thomas, wants us to hone

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<v Speaker 2>in not on the date so much. He's more focused

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<v Speaker 2>on the text messages that were sent between them afterwards,

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<v Speaker 2>the juicy stuff we're dissecting the after test. Okay, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thank you, guys, I appreciate your help.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well say that, don't thank us until we actually

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<v Speaker 2>follow through with that. But we're going to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>your date after we hear about these text messages first,

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<v Speaker 2>because your email definitely intrigued me. What's the name of

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<v Speaker 2>this girl?

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, so this girl, her name is Amanda?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Amanda? And I mean it's always a positive if

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<v Speaker 1>you have text messages after a date. It means that

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<v Speaker 1>you're both still interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you would think if she's communicating with you, unless

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, don't text me anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we'll just read stop over and over again.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you and Amanda saying to each other?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she might as well have said on the subscribed but.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you say?

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<v Speaker 4>I reached out and I said, hey, how are you?

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<v Speaker 4>That's it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Like the next day after the date or something, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The next day.

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<v Speaker 4>And her response was a picture of her with another guy. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>and she says, we are good.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, we're good?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you? We are good?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the photo? Does it look like a dad? Brother?

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<v Speaker 1>But even then, what would like would it be a

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<v Speaker 1>joke at that? Is it a picture? Did you ask?

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't know? It's just some dude. I didn't ask because

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<v Speaker 4>I maybe naively thought that must be a message for

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<v Speaker 4>somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh wow, forgiving you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Think that was a clear message to you that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. Leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it looked like they could have been friends,

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<v Speaker 4>but they went well enough. I thought, there's no way

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<v Speaker 4>she wouldn't have told me that she's you know, as

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<v Speaker 4>a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Right right, because it's the next morning. It's like not

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<v Speaker 1>even enough time for her to go out with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and establish another a relationship, like she may have been

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<v Speaker 1>a cheater.

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<v Speaker 2>What else was said?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, then I texted her back and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>when am I going to see you again?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay that the boyfriend has her phone and is the

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<v Speaker 2>one being like we're good. Well what did she say

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<v Speaker 2>to that?

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<v Speaker 4>She said, the next time I post a picture on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll see me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so she wants you to follow her heart.

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<v Speaker 2>Clearly something happened that made her upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are we calling her then? Like, do you like her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because she doesn't sound she either sounds like she's in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship or she's not nice. I feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>mad at you and it's like not a boyfriend, like

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<v Speaker 1>she's just pretending.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I don't get why that's it's killing me.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not even it's almost not even about I just

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<v Speaker 4>gotta know what.

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<v Speaker 3>Happened because it seemed like it went really well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well take us to the date. Now, let's figure

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<v Speaker 2>out if something did happen. What did you get? How'd

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<v Speaker 2>you guys meet? What you guys do?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we met on the bus, started talking to her.

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<v Speaker 3>I ripped her up, I got her number.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes sad to people do the same outs every day. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And what did you do for your date?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I took it a red lobster and okay, you can.

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<v Speaker 4>You can do a lotter a little there. And they

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<v Speaker 4>have that shrimp your way thirty for twenty deal.

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<v Speaker 3>So we got some garlic shrimps. We gotten them.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that was going on.

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<v Speaker 4>We want to go to lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, those Cheddarbay biscuits.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but so good.

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<v Speaker 1>But what was her reaction about red lobster? What if

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<v Speaker 1>she's allergic to shellfish? You need to check with her

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<v Speaker 1>before you do something like this. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's very sexy to exchange food out.

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<v Speaker 1>Or someone like me who will only eat the biscuits.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, that's one of the first things you ask a

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<v Speaker 2>girl before you take her out or do you have

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<v Speaker 2>any allergies? Do you like or hate anything? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>get her medical rundown before you took her out on

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<v Speaker 2>a date?

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<v Speaker 3>I did not check with her doctor, but she was

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<v Speaker 3>trying everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everything okay? And the conversation sounds good. What'd you

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<v Speaker 1>connect on?

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<v Speaker 3>We laughed a lot, we talked about places we've gone.

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<v Speaker 4>On vacation, and I'm I guess there was one awkward

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<v Speaker 4>moment where I had to take a phone call and

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<v Speaker 4>I did have to tell her to be quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yike, Oh, I hate being told to quiet too.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 3>It was almost half joking, but I was like, be quiet?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, no, you need to cut your hand over

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<v Speaker 2>her mouth and say, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>That is yeah, that's a polite way. Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>take a phone call at the table? That's yeah. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't step away.

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<v Speaker 3>It was important and I needed to handle some business.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, I know that some people have a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty hard line on that type of you know, phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls at the table. Maybe that's her whole Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying that could be something that made you look bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That it would explain her angry reaction to your texts.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you thought of that?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe? But I mean I paid for everything.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't seem put off at the end, and I

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<v Speaker 3>did everything else.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, did you pay for it with money from your

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<v Speaker 2>wallet or did you take money out of her wallet

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<v Speaker 2>and pay that?

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<v Speaker 4>Was it? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? And after that, what happened after the dinner date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well after the date then I walked into a cars

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<v Speaker 4>we hugged it out, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Hugged it out, and then you sent the text. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's where we are now, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still not picking up anything specifically that would justify

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<v Speaker 2>those like really angry, straightforward rude tests.

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<v Speaker 1>Quiet Jeff, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to cut my mouth when you do that, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 2>be quiet. I mean, that's the one thing that we

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<v Speaker 2>have to go off of, is the telling her to

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<v Speaker 2>be quiet while taking a phone call. We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>find out when we reach out to Amanda for you

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<v Speaker 2>and get you your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, guys, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Manners, they're important. Okay, hold on second date update, you're

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<v Speaker 2>just joining us. Quick recap. Thomas met a girl named

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<v Speaker 2>Amanda on the bus riz Dur and swung that into

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<v Speaker 2>a dinner date a red lobster. Yeah he did, where

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<v Speaker 2>they shared thirty pieces of garlic butter shrimp, and he

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<v Speaker 2>thinks his one potential downfall may have been when he

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<v Speaker 2>took a phone call mid meal and Amanda kept talking,

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<v Speaker 2>so he said, hey, be quiet, yeah, which Brook tells

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<v Speaker 2>Jose to do that all the time. So I don't think,

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<v Speaker 2>really think it's that disrespectful. And the attention between Brooke

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<v Speaker 2>and I still really but maybe she took it in

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<v Speaker 2>a disrespectful way. We really don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But Brooke's answering the phone at the table, you know, Yeah, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>what is your take?

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<v Speaker 5>God?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Man. That text she sent you afterwards

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<v Speaker 1>with a picture of her and a random guy is

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<v Speaker 1>just jarring. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if anyone else caught it, but at

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning he mentioned like I was laying it on

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<v Speaker 2>pretty thick, so I was thinking maybe he did one

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<v Speaker 2>compliment that was too far or didn't hit right.

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<v Speaker 1>Spent the whole night making shrimp puns, which would have

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<v Speaker 1>really turned a photo with five if I needed to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas.

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<v Speaker 4>Is any of that possible, I guess, But it still

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<v Speaker 4>feels like bringing a gun to a knife fight.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was so hard, but.

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't you weren't making shrimp puns, were you?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, okay, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Made some jokes, but no pungea.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean shellfish at the table?

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<v Speaker 2>Alright, Before Alexis leaves, we have to reach out to Amanda.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, Hello, Hey, is this Amanda speaking? Hey?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean Jeff is the name of the person speaking.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's a whole room of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Amanda, welcome to the show, She asked, he was speaking, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be rid.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what's this regarding?

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<v Speaker 2>This is regarding a radio show segment that you're currently

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<v Speaker 2>on called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You may have seen him on TikTok. They're going wildly

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<v Speaker 1>viral right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, I mean, like, wait, how.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. Some random people keep

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<v Speaker 1>posting them and stealing our audience.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't think they're even very funny. We're just trying

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<v Speaker 2>to help people, and that's what we're doing. With a

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<v Speaker 2>guy named Thomas that you went on a date with recently.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, are yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Or scared?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Wait a minute, Oh no, I'm trying to avoid him.

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<v Speaker 1>Why he just like, is he pestering you or something?

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<v Speaker 4>Dude?

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<v Speaker 6>He is not a good guy. Like, seriously, okay, he put.

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<v Speaker 1>On a front for us.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the deal, Amanda. We heard about your guys's date.

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<v Speaker 2>We also learned that there were some text messages exchanged

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<v Speaker 2>between the two of you. He was a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>uncertain if they were meant to be hostile towards him

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<v Speaker 2>or not.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, they were definitely freaking meant to be hostile.

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<v Speaker 2>We read them that way, the one with the pick

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<v Speaker 2>with another dude saying we're good and the next time

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<v Speaker 2>you'll see me. He's when I post on insta.

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<v Speaker 4>Flip and loosely.

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<v Speaker 6>He needs to know that he is not the only

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<v Speaker 6>one on my radar after that night.

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<v Speaker 1>What okay, So that was he I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you he is totally in the dark. He has no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what he did wrong. Is he just that clueless?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it that obvious?

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<v Speaker 6>There is no way he can be that freaking clus.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, okay, us guys can be very clueless, that is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so curious.

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<v Speaker 2>The one thing that he brought up that he mentions

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<v Speaker 2>may have been a bad move was when he took

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<v Speaker 2>a business call during the meal and told you to

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<v Speaker 2>be quiet. He thinks that's probably a turn off.

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<v Speaker 6>The turn off, the turn off, Yes, tell us that

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<v Speaker 6>he had kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids. Yeah, he's a dad. And he didn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't tell He didn't mention.

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<v Speaker 4>It does.

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<v Speaker 6>No, honey, let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, how do you go out with a woman and.

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<v Speaker 6>Not even mention that you have kids? And on top

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<v Speaker 6>of that, oh, they're going to be there at the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say he brought his kids to dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>no way on a day.

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<v Speaker 6>No, he didn't bring them. There was four of them,

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<v Speaker 6>like he had four kids. One was our blessed boy,

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<v Speaker 6>a teenager.

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<v Speaker 2>And wait, his work at Red Lobster.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, he's getting daddy discounts at Red Lobster

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<v Speaker 1>because his kids work there.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what was going on, but seriously, like

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<v Speaker 6>I am not trying to get with anyone who has

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<v Speaker 6>like a bunch of secret kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but they weren't secret if you knew who they were.

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<v Speaker 6>He never mentioned anything about having kids, and all of

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<v Speaker 6>a sudden we're at the restaurant and they're all around

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<v Speaker 6>us at dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Now, we did not know about the kid

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<v Speaker 2>aspect of this. We just heard about the date part.

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<v Speaker 2>Although on some level it is flattering that he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>you to meet the family so soon, So I would

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<v Speaker 2>keep that in mind when I tell you that Thomas

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<v Speaker 2>is on the other line right now listening, possibly with

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<v Speaker 2>all of his children too, So be careful with what

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<v Speaker 2>you said. No, seriously, Thomas, are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Do not have kids? Those aren't my kids?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you lying out?

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<v Speaker 1>You said?

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<v Speaker 6>Literally, those are my kids? Like you have said that chicken.

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<v Speaker 4>I said they're my kids, but I didn't mean like

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<v Speaker 4>my kids. They're my students. I gym at a high school.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>How does one family have four it? I'll work at

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<v Speaker 1>Red Lobster together, and that's such a perfect high school job.

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<v Speaker 3>Too real?

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<v Speaker 6>Really, I find that funny. They look just like you?

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<v Speaker 4>How you know they're in my class? What do you

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<v Speaker 4>mean they look like me?

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<v Speaker 6>Come the freaking bus boy looked like you twenty five

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<v Speaker 6>years ago. What do you think about?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what to tell you, that's the answer.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a teacher. Sorry, I wouldn't just casually introduce my

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<v Speaker 4>son the bus boy and that.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, what if teacher goes around just claiming kids like seriously,

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<v Speaker 6>I think that's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes total sense. Mean he should have chose a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant they don't want to work out, you think, but

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<v Speaker 1>true throughout the city a discount. Come on, you met

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<v Speaker 1>the man on a bus. He's taking you to Red

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<v Speaker 1>Lobstery obviously has a teacher's salary.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't care. I was telling the truth. And honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>now that you know the fact that you still don't

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<v Speaker 4>believe me and you're accusing me of something that isn't true,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's bonker.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like Thomas on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't telling the truth because that wasn't a business

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<v Speaker 4>call I was on the phone with and that was

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<v Speaker 4>somebody else that I'm setting up a date with for tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>So the business call, how could you say that?

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, Thomas, you were telling the truth about the

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<v Speaker 2>kids at the restaurant just being your students, but you

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<v Speaker 2>weren't telling the truth about the phone call from your

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<v Speaker 2>quote business partners.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes sense. There's not all gym teachers that are

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<v Speaker 1>taken after hour calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there was got a new telorball in, I got

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<v Speaker 2>a rope climbing, you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>She can send pics of other guys to whoever she wants.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fine. I'm just saying I've got options. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a lot of other girls on the bus you

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<v Speaker 4>tell of.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make you want him more? Because if it does,

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<v Speaker 2>we will offer to send you guys out on another

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<v Speaker 2>date that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the no, I don't want to be ten feat

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<v Speaker 6>with an ex faces.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys, that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a dramatic response. You have to get a new

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<v Speaker 1>bus to a gym teacher.

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<v Speaker 2>You and Jeff not allowed within ten feet of a school. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my god, you honestly sound more alike than not alike.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are literally responding and clapping back the same

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<v Speaker 2>way at each other.

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<v Speaker 6>I am nothing like him, I am not a liar,

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<v Speaker 6>and yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No big loss to me. I'm gonna go back to

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<v Speaker 4>Red Lobster with my twenty eight kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait now they are your kids, Jeff, Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, than me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't forget one of those teenagers has to have

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<v Speaker 1>a single mom. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>And do you think I'm not working that angle?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, Red Lobster Daddy back in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you know, I'm really disappointed that those two didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go out.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, are you Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not for like any romantic reasons, but if they

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<v Speaker 2>loved Red Lobster, they would have been all about our

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<v Speaker 2>restaurant gift card options.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good people.

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<v Speaker 2>We got all the best chain restaurants from mall parking lots.

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<v Speaker 2>We got Chili's, we got Olive Garden, and I've even

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<v Speaker 2>got one to an abandoned outback steakhouse. But it's just

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<v Speaker 2>not running any There are guys still in there and

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<v Speaker 2>they are making steak. It's just not technically for the company.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring your own steak first. Again, I'm disappointed if she.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't believe that those were his actual children, that was

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<v Speaker 1>so weird, Like are we that jaded in life that

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<v Speaker 1>we can't even get over that she.

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<v Speaker 2>Saw them like they must have looked exactly alike that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no way.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It just wasn't meant to be today, But I guess

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<v Speaker 2>we'll find out tomorrow. Who gets the next chance at

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<v Speaker 2>a Chili's to go gift card with your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you want to get a second date update

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<v Speaker 2>for yourself and your own love life, email the show.

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<v Speaker 2>We can call that person who's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Make sure you go check out all of our second

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<v Speaker 2>day podcasts wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,