1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: He found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 2: Finally, it's pretty easy. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Actually, thanks for being here. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 3: I love it. 5 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: I love it. 6 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: And hey, just a reminder, if you want to endure 7 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: or punish yourself for forty five more minutes, we've got 8 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: a full show, whole hour. Dare you to try it 9 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: at the Brook and Jeffrey feed. But for now, we'll 10 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: get into some questionable relationship advice. 11 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 2: Second Date up Date. We've done these second date calls 12 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: for a long, long while. 13 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think half my lifetime. 14 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: No joke, but most of the time we really focus 15 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: a lot on the date. 16 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's not sure why we do that's. 17 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: The Yeah, what do you mean, indead you're not very successful? 18 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 1: Are talking about their childhood? 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners, Thomas, wants us to hone 20 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: in not on the date so much. He's more focused 21 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 2: on the text messages that were sent between them afterwards, 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: the juicy stuff we're dissecting the after test. Okay, Thomas, 23 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 2: first of all, welcome to the show. 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 4: Hey, thank you, guys, I appreciate your help. 25 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 2: Okay, well say that, don't thank us until we actually 26 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: follow through with that. But we're going to talk about 27 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 2: your date after we hear about these text messages first, 28 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: because your email definitely intrigued me. What's the name of 29 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: this girl? 30 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 4: First of all, so this girl, her name is Amanda? 31 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: Okay, Amanda? And I mean it's always a positive if 32 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: you have text messages after a date. It means that 33 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: you're both still interested. 34 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 2: Right, you would think if she's communicating with you, unless 35 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: they're like, don't text me anymore. 36 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: Stop. 37 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: Well, we'll just read stop over and over again. 38 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: What were you and Amanda saying to each other? 39 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, she might as well have said on the subscribed but. 40 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 2: What did you say? 41 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 4: I reached out and I said, hey, how are you? 42 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 4: That's it? 43 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: Okay? Like the next day after the date or something, Yeah. 44 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: The next day. 45 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 4: And her response was a picture of her with another guy. Oh, 46 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 4: and she says, we are good. 47 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: Thanks, we're good? 48 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 2: How are you? We are good? 49 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: What's the photo? Does it look like a dad? Brother? 50 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: But even then, what would like would it be a 51 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: joke at that? Is it a picture? Did you ask? 52 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 4: Didn't know? It's just some dude. I didn't ask because 53 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 4: I maybe naively thought that must be a message for 54 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 4: somebody else. 55 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 2: Oh oh wow, forgiving you don't. 56 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: Think that was a clear message to you that I'm 57 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: in a relationship. Leave me alone. 58 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 4: You know, it looked like they could have been friends, 59 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 4: but they went well enough. I thought, there's no way 60 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 4: she wouldn't have told me that she's you know, as 61 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 4: a boyfriend. 62 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: Right right, because it's the next morning. It's like not 63 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: even enough time for her to go out with somebody 64 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: and establish another a relationship, like she may have been 65 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: a cheater. 66 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: What else was said? 67 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 4: Well, then I texted her back and I said, hey, 68 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 4: when am I going to see you again? 69 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 2: Okay that the boyfriend has her phone and is the 70 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,839 Speaker 2: one being like we're good. Well what did she say 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: to that? 72 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 4: She said, the next time I post a picture on Instagram, 73 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 4: you'll see me. 74 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so she wants you to follow her heart. 75 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: Clearly something happened that made her upset. 76 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: Why are we calling her then? Like, do you like her? 77 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: Because she doesn't sound she either sounds like she's in 78 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: a relationship or she's not nice. I feel like she's 79 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: mad at you and it's like not a boyfriend, like 80 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: she's just pretending. 81 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't get why that's it's killing me. 82 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 4: It's not even it's almost not even about I just 83 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 4: gotta know what. 84 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 3: Happened because it seemed like it went really well. 85 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: Okay, well take us to the date. Now, let's figure 86 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: out if something did happen. What did you get? How'd 87 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: you guys meet? What you guys do? 88 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on the bus, started talking to her. 89 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 3: I ripped her up, I got her number. 90 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: It makes sad to people do the same outs every day. Yeah. 91 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And what did you do for your date? 92 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: So? 93 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 3: I took it a red lobster and okay, you can. 94 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 4: You can do a lotter a little there. And they 95 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 4: have that shrimp your way thirty for twenty deal. 96 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 3: So we got some garlic shrimps. We gotten them. 97 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: I know that was going on. 98 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 4: We want to go to lunch. 99 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: Honestly, those Cheddarbay biscuits. 100 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, but so good. 101 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: But what was her reaction about red lobster? What if 102 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: she's allergic to shellfish? You need to check with her 103 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: before you do something like this. That's a good point. 104 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 2: Yes, it's very sexy to exchange food out. 105 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: Or someone like me who will only eat the biscuits. 106 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 2: Now, that's one of the first things you ask a 107 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 2: girl before you take her out or do you have 108 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 2: any allergies? Do you like or hate anything? Did you 109 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 2: get her medical rundown before you took her out on 110 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: a date? 111 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: I did not check with her doctor, but she was 112 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 3: trying everything. 113 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, everything okay? And the conversation sounds good. What'd you 114 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: connect on? 115 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: We laughed a lot, we talked about places we've gone. 116 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 4: On vacation, and I'm I guess there was one awkward 117 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 4: moment where I had to take a phone call and 118 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 4: I did have to tell her to be quiet. 119 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: Yike, Oh, I hate being told to quiet too. 120 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 2: How did you tell her? 121 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 3: It was almost half joking, but I was like, be quiet? 122 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: You know, no, you need to cut your hand over 123 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: her mouth and say, oh my god. 124 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: That is yeah, that's a polite way. Why would you 125 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: take a phone call at the table? That's yeah. You 126 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: didn't step away. 127 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: It was important and I needed to handle some business. 128 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I know that some people have a 129 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: pretty hard line on that type of you know, phone 130 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: calls at the table. Maybe that's her whole Yeah. 131 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: Saying that could be something that made you look bad. 132 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 2: That it would explain her angry reaction to your texts. 133 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: Have you thought of that? 134 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: Maybe? But I mean I paid for everything. 135 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: She didn't seem put off at the end, and I 136 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 3: did everything else. 137 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: Right, did you pay for it with money from your 138 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 2: wallet or did you take money out of her wallet 139 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: and pay that? 140 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 4: Was it? No? 141 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 2: Okay? And after that, what happened after the dinner date? 142 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 4: Well after the date then I walked into a cars 143 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: we hugged it out, you know. 144 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: Hugged it out, and then you sent the text. And 145 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 1: that's where we are now, right. 146 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, that's it. 147 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: I'm still not picking up anything specifically that would justify 148 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 2: those like really angry, straightforward rude tests. 149 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: Quiet Jeff, Oh. 150 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 2: Need to cut my mouth when you do that, Jeff, 151 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 2: be quiet. I mean, that's the one thing that we 152 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 2: have to go off of, is the telling her to 153 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: be quiet while taking a phone call. We're going to 154 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: find out when we reach out to Amanda for you 155 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: and get you your second date update right after this. 156 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 3: Thank you, guys, Yes. 157 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 2: Manners, they're important. Okay, hold on second date update, you're 158 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: just joining us. Quick recap. Thomas met a girl named 159 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:59,239 Speaker 2: Amanda on the bus riz Dur and swung that into 160 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: a dinner date a red lobster. Yeah he did, where 161 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: they shared thirty pieces of garlic butter shrimp, and he 162 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 2: thinks his one potential downfall may have been when he 163 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: took a phone call mid meal and Amanda kept talking, 164 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: so he said, hey, be quiet, yeah, which Brook tells 165 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: Jose to do that all the time. So I don't think, 166 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: really think it's that disrespectful. And the attention between Brooke 167 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: and I still really but maybe she took it in 168 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 2: a disrespectful way. We really don't know. 169 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: But Brooke's answering the phone at the table, you know, Yeah, Brook, 170 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: what is your take? 171 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 5: God? 172 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. Man. That text she sent you afterwards 173 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: with a picture of her and a random guy is 174 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: just jarring. Yeah. 175 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone else caught it, but at 176 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: the beginning he mentioned like I was laying it on 177 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 2: pretty thick, so I was thinking maybe he did one 178 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 2: compliment that was too far or didn't hit right. 179 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: Spent the whole night making shrimp puns, which would have 180 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: really turned a photo with five if I needed to go. 181 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: Thomas. 182 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 4: Is any of that possible, I guess, But it still 183 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 4: feels like bringing a gun to a knife fight. 184 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 3: I mean, it was so hard, but. 185 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 2: You weren't you weren't making shrimp puns, were you? 186 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:16,239 Speaker 4: No? 187 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I. 188 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 4: Made some jokes, but no pungea. 189 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: You mean shellfish at the table? 190 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 2: Alright, Before Alexis leaves, we have to reach out to Amanda. 191 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 2: Here we go. 192 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 5: Now, Hello, Hey, is this Amanda speaking? Hey? 193 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: I mean Jeff is the name of the person speaking. 194 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 2: And there's a whole room of people. 195 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: Hey, Amanda, welcome to the show, She asked, he was speaking, Jeff, 196 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: don't be rid. 197 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 6: Okay, what's this regarding? 198 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 2: This is regarding a radio show segment that you're currently 199 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: on called the Second Date Update. 200 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: You may have seen him on TikTok. They're going wildly 201 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: viral right now. 202 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 6: Really, I mean, like, wait, how. 203 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Some random people keep 204 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: posting them and stealing our audience. 205 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: You don't think they're even very funny. We're just trying 206 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 2: to help people, and that's what we're doing. With a 207 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: guy named Thomas that you went on a date with recently. 208 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, are yeah. 209 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: Or scared? 210 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? 211 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 6: Wait a minute, Oh no, I'm trying to avoid him. 212 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: Why he just like, is he pestering you or something? 213 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 4: Dude? 214 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 6: He is not a good guy. Like, seriously, okay, he put. 215 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: On a front for us. 216 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 2: Here's the deal, Amanda. We heard about your guys's date. 217 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 2: We also learned that there were some text messages exchanged 218 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 2: between the two of you. He was a little bit 219 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: uncertain if they were meant to be hostile towards him 220 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: or not. 221 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, they were definitely freaking meant to be hostile. 222 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: We read them that way, the one with the pick 223 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: with another dude saying we're good and the next time 224 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 2: you'll see me. He's when I post on insta. 225 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 4: Flip and loosely. 226 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 6: He needs to know that he is not the only 227 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 6: one on my radar after that night. 228 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: What okay, So that was he I'm going to tell 229 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: you he is totally in the dark. He has no 230 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: idea what he did wrong. Is he just that clueless? 231 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: Is it that obvious? 232 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 6: There is no way he can be that freaking clus. 233 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:46,439 Speaker 2: Really, okay, us guys can be very clueless, that is true. 234 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: I am so curious. 235 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: The one thing that he brought up that he mentions 236 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 2: may have been a bad move was when he took 237 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: a business call during the meal and told you to 238 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 2: be quiet. He thinks that's probably a turn off. 239 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 6: The turn off, the turn off, Yes, tell us that 240 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 6: he had kids. 241 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: Kids. Yeah, he's a dad. And he didn't tell you. 242 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: He didn't tell He didn't mention. 243 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 4: It does. 244 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 6: No, honey, let me tell you. 245 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 4: Okay, how do you go out with a woman and. 246 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 6: Not even mention that you have kids? And on top 247 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 6: of that, oh, they're going to be there at the restaurant. 248 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: Did you say he brought his kids to dinner with 249 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: no way on a day. 250 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 6: No, he didn't bring them. There was four of them, 251 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 6: like he had four kids. One was our blessed boy, 252 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 6: a teenager. 253 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: And wait, his work at Red Lobster. 254 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's getting daddy discounts at Red Lobster 255 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: because his kids work there. 256 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 6: I don't know what was going on, but seriously, like 257 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 6: I am not trying to get with anyone who has 258 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 6: like a bunch of secret kids. 259 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: Okay, but they weren't secret if you knew who they were. 260 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 6: He never mentioned anything about having kids, and all of 261 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 6: a sudden we're at the restaurant and they're all around 262 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 6: us at dinner. 263 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 2: All right, Now, we did not know about the kid 264 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 2: aspect of this. We just heard about the date part. 265 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 2: Although on some level it is flattering that he wanted 266 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: you to meet the family so soon, So I would 267 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: keep that in mind when I tell you that Thomas 268 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: is on the other line right now listening, possibly with 269 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 2: all of his children too, So be careful with what 270 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 2: you said. No, seriously, Thomas, are you there? 271 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 4: Do not have kids? Those aren't my kids? 272 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 2: What are you lying out? 273 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: You said? 274 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 6: Literally, those are my kids? Like you have said that chicken. 275 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 4: I said they're my kids, but I didn't mean like 276 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 4: my kids. They're my students. I gym at a high school. 277 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 4: Now I get it. 278 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 1: How does one family have four it? I'll work at 279 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: Red Lobster together, and that's such a perfect high school job. 280 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 3: Too real? 281 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 6: Really, I find that funny. They look just like you? 282 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 4: How you know they're in my class? What do you 283 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 4: mean they look like me? 284 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 6: Come the freaking bus boy looked like you twenty five 285 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 6: years ago. What do you think about? 286 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 4: I don't know what to tell you, that's the answer. 287 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 4: I'm a teacher. Sorry, I wouldn't just casually introduce my 288 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 4: son the bus boy and that. 289 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 6: Really, what if teacher goes around just claiming kids like seriously, 290 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 6: I think that's so weird. 291 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: That makes total sense. Mean he should have chose a 292 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: restaurant they don't want to work out, you think, but 293 00:13:55,200 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: true throughout the city a discount. Come on, you met 294 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: the man on a bus. He's taking you to Red 295 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: Lobstery obviously has a teacher's salary. 296 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 4: I don't care. I was telling the truth. And honestly, 297 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 4: now that you know the fact that you still don't 298 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 4: believe me and you're accusing me of something that isn't true, 299 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 4: I mean it's bonker. 300 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like Thomas on this one. 301 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 4: I wasn't telling the truth because that wasn't a business 302 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 4: call I was on the phone with and that was 303 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 4: somebody else that I'm setting up a date with for tomorrow. 304 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: So the business call, how could you say that? 305 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 2: So wait, Thomas, you were telling the truth about the 306 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 2: kids at the restaurant just being your students, but you 307 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: weren't telling the truth about the phone call from your 308 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 2: quote business partners. 309 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: It makes sense. There's not all gym teachers that are 310 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: taken after hour calls. 311 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: Maybe there was got a new telorball in, I got 312 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 2: a rope climbing, you know what. 313 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 4: She can send pics of other guys to whoever she wants. 314 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 4: That's fine. I'm just saying I've got options. You know, 315 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 4: there's a lot of other girls on the bus you 316 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 4: tell of. 317 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: That's right. 318 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 2: Does that make you want him more? Because if it does, 319 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 2: we will offer to send you guys out on another 320 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 2: date that we would pay for. 321 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 6: Well, the no, I don't want to be ten feat 322 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 6: with an ex faces. 323 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 4: Guys, that is. 324 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: Such a dramatic response. You have to get a new 325 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: bus to a gym teacher. 326 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 2: You and Jeff not allowed within ten feet of a school. Yeah, 327 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: my god, you honestly sound more alike than not alike. 328 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 2: You guys are literally responding and clapping back the same 329 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: way at each other. 330 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 6: I am nothing like him, I am not a liar, 331 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 6: and yeah. 332 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 4: No big loss to me. I'm gonna go back to 333 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 4: Red Lobster with my twenty eight kids. 334 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: Wait wait now they are your kids, Jeff, Oh. 335 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, than me. 336 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: I don't forget one of those teenagers has to have 337 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: a single mom. You know what I'm saying. 338 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 4: And do you think I'm not working that angle? 339 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:02,359 Speaker 2: Of course, Red Lobster Daddy back in the house. 340 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 341 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: Oh you know, I'm really disappointed that those two didn't 342 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 2: go out. 343 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: Really, are you Jeffy. 344 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, not for like any romantic reasons, but if they 345 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: loved Red Lobster, they would have been all about our 346 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 2: restaurant gift card options. 347 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: That's a good people. 348 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 2: We got all the best chain restaurants from mall parking lots. 349 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 2: We got Chili's, we got Olive Garden, and I've even 350 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 2: got one to an abandoned outback steakhouse. But it's just 351 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: not running any There are guys still in there and 352 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 2: they are making steak. It's just not technically for the company. 353 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 2: Bring your own steak first. Again, I'm disappointed if she. 354 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: Didn't believe that those were his actual children, that was 355 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 1: so weird, Like are we that jaded in life that 356 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: we can't even get over that she. 357 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 2: Saw them like they must have looked exactly alike that. 358 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: There's no way. 359 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. 360 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 2: It just wasn't meant to be today, But I guess 361 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: we'll find out tomorrow. Who gets the next chance at 362 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 2: a Chili's to go gift card with your second date update. 363 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: And if you want to get a second date update 364 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: for yourself and your own love life, email the show. 365 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 2: We can call that person who's not calling you back. 366 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 2: Make sure you go check out all of our second 367 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: day podcasts wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey 368 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,