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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shaky. I am just a Bryant's what's so?

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Speaker 1: What's up? My people's this is robbing Dixon. It's so

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Speaker 1: good to talk to you should just say it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's so good to see you know, let's go put

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Speaker 1: you talk to you. Yes it is, Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: And thank you all so much for like continuing to

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Speaker 1: like listen to us talk every Monday, because we're just

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Speaker 1: talking crazy over here. We talked about random stuff. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm eating a cookie. It's going to be gone in

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Speaker 1: a second. Yeah, I mean, and she's she's killing the cookie.

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Speaker 1: She's like eating a cookie. She's the Wagman's chocolate chip

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Speaker 1: cookies the best ever. They don't have a crunch to it.

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Speaker 1: I need a little crunch crunch. I need a little

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Speaker 1: crunch on the edges. Yes, how do y'all like y'all

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Speaker 1: chocolate chip cookies? Do you need a little crunch on

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Speaker 1: the edges or you just need it soft? Mm? I

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Speaker 1: don't want to crunch. I want to crunch. Anyway. We

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Speaker 1: have a reasonably Shady moment of the week. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I want to go first, all right, because I'm a

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Speaker 1: little perturbed what happened? Okay. So I have a daughter

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Speaker 1: named Angel, and Angel now, for the first time ever,

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Speaker 1: is running track. Okay. I'm very happy for her. She

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Speaker 1: even came home the other day and said she wanted

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Speaker 1: to run hurdles. I'm like, what the world? What in

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Speaker 1: the world? Yes, what in the flow Jackson is happening

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Speaker 1: over here? Okay. So anyway, I was like, this is

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Speaker 1: this is amazing. So the coach sends out maybe like

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Speaker 1: a seven paragraph email, which is very long an email world, okay,

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Speaker 1: actually for a coach, yes, about like this season, what

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Speaker 1: was going to be happening the dudes, and don't the

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Speaker 1: schedule everything. I was like cool, and I read the

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Speaker 1: whole thing because you know, normally I check out sentence

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Speaker 1: number two and at the end of this sixth paragraph email,

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Speaker 1: it says at the bottom there will be a parent

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Speaker 1: meeting next Tuesday at six o'clock. So I was like, wow, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, this is this is my child's first year

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Speaker 1: doing this. I don't know what track moms do. I

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Speaker 1: don't know nothing about a track mom. So I gotta

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Speaker 1: go to this dumbass meeting. Okay, I get to the meeting.

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Speaker 1: It's six o'clock and like, they already had a two

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Speaker 1: hour track practice. So the girls are tired. They want

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Speaker 1: to go home, and a door is there because she

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Speaker 1: plays the cross so she finished her practice. We're all

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Speaker 1: sitting there waiting for this man. He comes in. Can

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Speaker 1: I tell you what he does? He goes over to

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Speaker 1: email that he sent us. The email. Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: He goes over the email and nothing more, nothing more, nothings.

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Speaker 1: I was living what so? And then he says at

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Speaker 1: the end, So I say to Angel, it's a packed room.

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Speaker 1: I say to Angel, and we're sitting not near the door.

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Speaker 1: I said, Angel, were out of here. Come on. She

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Speaker 1: was like, Mommy, we can't leave. That would be like crazy.

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Speaker 1: We just walked out and left. We can't do You're

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Speaker 1: out the door win while he's reading the email. Yes

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Speaker 1: I want to leave. He printed out his own email.

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Speaker 1: Yes he's read. I was pissed. So long story short,

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Speaker 1: I don't leave because then I would have been like

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Speaker 1: that mom that left in the middle of the meeting

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Speaker 1: that I already read, and so I stayed. Um And

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Speaker 1: then at the end he was like, well, guys, you know,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming. I just want you

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Speaker 1: to know, you all to know that I'm a rambler.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I ramble, and um, if you never catch me

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Speaker 1: in the parking lot and I stop you, you know,

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Speaker 1: just before warned I'm a rambler, I'm like you never

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Speaker 1: you will never stop me. Forget you met me, dude.

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Speaker 1: So I got my children and we got the hell

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Speaker 1: out of there. But sir, I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: your name is. Track coach. You are shady, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: and you are the shady man of the week. Yes, oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's annoying. Yes, okay, I'm sorry. It's gonna be real

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Speaker 1: quick and simple. The dad gonna shaker bottle that I

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Speaker 1: told you about, the shaker two weeks ago, shaker bottle,

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Speaker 1: the shaker bottle that's in my sink, that's still in

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Speaker 1: my sink, the shaker bottle. Who has the shaker want? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remember I told you one so first it went

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Speaker 1: from my my brother in law with the baby. But

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Speaker 1: remember that the shaker bottle that I talked about, that's

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Speaker 1: his like his prochein shake. But the same one, yes,

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Speaker 1: the same one from a few weeks it's still in

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Speaker 1: the same still there. This is disgusting. Yeah, who's gonna

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Speaker 1: rent this thing out? Who's gonna clean it? It's going

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Speaker 1: a minute, okay. And I know this because I know

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Speaker 1: why he has missed a clean okay, and he has

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Speaker 1: not cleaned this bottle. No, No, he's just forgotten about.

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Speaker 1: It's just there and he wants you to do it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know it's going in the trash. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But this was like weeks ago that I mentioned this

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Speaker 1: shaker bottle. This isn't shady. This is disgusting. Okay, for

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Speaker 1: the record, this is disgusting. And by the way, guys,

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Speaker 1: if you guys hear a bunch of like noise in

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Speaker 1: the back. We're at Robin's house. She has construction going on.

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Speaker 1: I know. We went from Gazelle's house with all the

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Speaker 1: construction to my house with all the constructions. Yes, so

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Speaker 1: just bear with us. And it's so crazy because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, Jael, now I know how you felt,

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Speaker 1: yes when you had all those people in your house

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Speaker 1: all the time, people in my house noise. I was

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Speaker 1: just dust everywhere it's just bad. It is, and I'm

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Speaker 1: so like, oh my gosh, I feel like I'm like

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Speaker 1: like like I'm hot. I'm trying to like hide in

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Speaker 1: my house. Yes, you're right now, y'all don't know this,

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Speaker 1: but there's a construction all over Robin's house, whereas mine

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Speaker 1: was kind of like in areas, so when they weren't

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Speaker 1: in that area, I was like able to live right. Um.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's just a whole lot going on in

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Speaker 1: Robin's house that you might may or may not see

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Speaker 1: on season seven of The Real Housewine, which may or

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Speaker 1: may not be coming on. Okay, fine, that was a teaser,

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Speaker 1: all right. So I do want to talk about Russell

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Speaker 1: Wilson really quickly before we get into some other things,

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Speaker 1: because he said he spends a million dollars on his body,

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Speaker 1: oh nutrition, just in total, just because his body is

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Speaker 1: a machine and he needs to be ready to perform.

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Speaker 1: But it's a million dollars a bit much. That sounds extreme?

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Speaker 1: What what how much money does he make a year?

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Speaker 1: Because he's a good and he's probably you know, he's

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Speaker 1: got to be like he's a quarterback. Um, he's a

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Speaker 1: he's a very good quarterback. He's probably at least fifteen millions. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so he's fifteen mates, So this is what this is?

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Speaker 1: What what's one million? What's the percentage? So that's fifteen million.

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Speaker 1: That's more than ten percent? No, no, no, one million

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Speaker 1: just made a number up. Let's let's let's google. That's

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Speaker 1: just some fact checking. But I'm telling you he makes

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Speaker 1: lot of money, yeah, because I mean, you know, I

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Speaker 1: mean it's probably similar to um, like Tom Brady. Tom

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Speaker 1: Brady probably spend that much money on himself. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: we're finding out how much wrestle. So all right, so

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Speaker 1: if if he made um fifteen million, now is it okay?

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Speaker 1: If he's making fifteen oh even better? Well, see football

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Speaker 1: is so confusing. But he's got some something. This thing

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Speaker 1: said thirty two million. Oh yeah, go on, spend million

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Speaker 1: on your body, sir, but at two But I don't

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Speaker 1: just because football, you know, and they have all these

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Speaker 1: like bonuses and R Wilson has a one cap charge

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Speaker 1: of eight okay, he has a nineteen million dollars salary

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Speaker 1: this year. This was last year with another thirteen million

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Speaker 1: thirty something million, yes, and he wants to continue making

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Speaker 1: that much money. Yeah, he's gotta he's gotta put in

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Speaker 1: one million on his body. I'm not mad at that.

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Speaker 1: So I'm assuming that one million is trainers, Yes, that's

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Speaker 1: um nutritionist, diet Yeah, that's chefs, Toby, yeah, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: even surgery therapists. Like that's that's a lot. That stuff

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Speaker 1: people don't really realize what goes into being a professional athlete.

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Speaker 1: Your body is texting. Yes, yes, I wonder if he

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Speaker 1: hasn't insured maybe probably Yeah, that insurance probably be really high,

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Speaker 1: like really really high. Right, Okay, alright, So Russell, I

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Speaker 1: was gonna trash you, but I'm not because Robin has

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Speaker 1: broken it down and now that I know the numbers,

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Speaker 1: going to spend spending money, think he was spending that

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Speaker 1: on like pedicures and stuff, haircre stuff, a haircut, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I would. Would you just see a headline? I did?

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Speaker 1: I did, said Russell because someone he was in an

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Speaker 1: interview and someone asked him if that was true, because

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Speaker 1: that was a rumor, and he was like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and at his age, especially because he's like a little

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Speaker 1: so I believe it. I mean, I don't like if

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Speaker 1: he's implying on his training and health and nutrition. And

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Speaker 1: if I'm Sierra, I'm like, well, if you're gonna spend

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Speaker 1: on mine because I can drop it like a hat

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Speaker 1: and twirk that thing. You don't need to spend nothing

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Speaker 1: on her body. Her body has always been amazing. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: she's she's a beautiful woman for sure. I mean her

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Speaker 1: like like she she just has nice, lean, trim, muscular tone, secure,

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Speaker 1: And it's always been like I heard that she got

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Speaker 1: the muscles like injected into her body. You heard that.

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Speaker 1: I'm being a hater. I'm just being a hater. Never

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Speaker 1: I've never heard that. Okay, there's a show on that

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about called The Courtship. Okay, because

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen it yet, but I've seen so many

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Speaker 1: um ads for it and teasers for it and all

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Speaker 1: uh okay. So we just had a guest appear and

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Speaker 1: his miss Carter haboo hey, and Carter has is that

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Speaker 1: marker on your head? Is that blood? When Carter came

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Speaker 1: his forehead? Confused, we need an explanation, Okay, hit me

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Speaker 1: with their head, was going back, Oh wow, this is today.

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Speaker 1: You got busted today. Recess Okay, oh my gosh, recess. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but he's still cute, y'all even with a busted lip.

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Speaker 1: He you okay, sticking out though. Oh yeah. And then

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Speaker 1: but you have marker on your forehead. We did an explanation.

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Speaker 1: What happened? Like red marker guys on his forehead? What happened?

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Speaker 1: My brother? He drew marker on my forehead at the

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Speaker 1: bus on the bus and away I've got falling like

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Speaker 1: like like right in a little little bus. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: the marker on your head came from Corey, your brother.

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Speaker 1: This is amazing. So no one hurt you at school,

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Speaker 1: but she was leaving school trying to get on the

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Speaker 1: bus and your brother came for you with a red

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Speaker 1: marker like for no reason, he just out here, he he,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna mark Carter's face up. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but I just want for the record, I want everybody know,

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Speaker 1: red marker on your forehead and busted up you still cute,

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Speaker 1: Still a CUTEI pie, still very cute. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: hopefully it comes out, but it's a rough day. Chow. Alright. So,

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Speaker 1: what you got? All right? Um? So let's see this

417
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 1: is a we got a long one. Okay. So greetings.

418
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: My name is Angelica. I met my boyfriend during the

419
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 1: start of the pandemic in He finally came to visit

420
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: me on my birthday, which was September four. He is

421
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: from North Carolina and knew we would be in a

422
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: long distance relationship since I live in Maryland. Also, him

423
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,439
Speaker 1: coming to my birthday was a first date. He had

424
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: to get a hotel. He stayed there for three days.

425
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: He also paid for all meals. When he took me

426
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: out before Christmas, I got him a gift and I

427
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: really wasn't expecting anything in return because I did it

428
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: from the kindness of my heart. However, on Christmas, he

429
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: made a sarcastic comment, he said, did you get me

430
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 1: a gift? I found the comment strange because I got

431
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: him a gift three days before Christmas to make sure

432
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: he would get it at a decent time. At that point,

433
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: after he made his comment, I felt unappreciated because he

434
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 1: also complained about how much money he spent when he

435
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: came to Maryland, and because of that, I knew why

436
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: I didn't received a gift from him. I decided to

437
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: text him and told him that we need to just

438
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: be friends. I just didn't think he would make a

439
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 1: good boyfriend. Well, he's mad because he spent money coming

440
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 1: to see her. Yeah, right, he came to see her,

441
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: and he figured all that money he spent to come

442
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 1: see her was her gift, was her gift, and then

443
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 1: didn't get her a gift. And when she got him

444
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: a gift, he's like, oh, like, did you give me

445
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: a gift? Now, boy, by that that's not a good boyfriend. Okay, Yeah,

446
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: he got to go. No, he got to go. Okay,

447
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: this one, this one right here, says I knew you

448
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: weren't the one when he stole my credit card and

449
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: tried to use to pay to get his car out

450
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: of the towing o. No he's not. Not only he's

451
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: not the one, he's a criminal. He's a thing. Yeah. Okay,

452
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: has any has that ever happened to you? No? I

453
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: mean okay, so I knew this guy wasn't the one.

454
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell what he did. He this is me personally.

455
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: He came over and um, he was like, I'm gonna

456
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: make you a lobster dinner. So I was like, okay.

457
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: So he he brought legitimately live lobsters to my house. Okay,

458
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: and he he got a pot, he cooked up the lobsters,

459
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 1: he cracked it open. He did his thing right. It

460
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: was amazing. We had lobster in my house. Got the

461
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: butter all that, so we ate afterwards. He was like

462
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 1: thinking he was gonna gonna get some booty and I

463
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 1: was like, so all I'm good for is a lobster.

464
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,719
Speaker 1: It was a lobster tail and some drawing butter I

465
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: got and he was mad. He like I was like,

466
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: wait a minute. And he even said it out of

467
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: his money. He's like, wait a minute, So you mean

468
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: like you ain't gonna get me note, I mean I

469
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 1: brought lobster over here. I was like, bro, if you

470
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: don't get the hell out of my house, the hell

471
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: out of my house. Okay. So that's when I knew

472
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 1: he wasn't the one. But the food was good. The

473
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: food was good, Okay, but yes, he wasn't worth the lobster.

474
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: Don like, who does that? Well, I guess he thought

475
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: he was like charming you and he was winding and died.

476
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: He he charmed my stomach, not my panties coming off. Okay,

477
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: there's two different things the effort. Now, look he made lobster.

478
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: Who says that, though who says I did? This is

479
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: not transaction actual, so he was basically making it transactional.

480
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,199
Speaker 1: And that's I didn't like, Look, how long were you

481
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: dating him? Okay? So this was not long, maybe like

482
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: two weeks. I was like, buddy, get out of here.

483
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: And this is when I was like a straight up

484
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,719
Speaker 1: hot girl. I had like men's from everywhere, Like like

485
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,719
Speaker 1: back in the day, it was good if you had

486
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: a millionaire, not a billionaire. Okay, I had all kinds

487
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: of millionaires coming at me, and all you can bring

488
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: me is a lobster Like, no, you weren't impressed. No,

489
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: I was not impressed, and you were not getting you

490
00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 1: were not getting the booty? All right? You got one

491
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: that is Oh wait a minute, where this is a

492
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 1: good one. He wasn't the one. This girl knew he

493
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: wasn't the one when he called out mom during sex?

494
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: What what her ears weren't clean? Ain't no mom, ain't

495
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: no it. Okay, w have you ever called out somebody's

496
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 1: the wrong name? I have? Really? Yes? Okay, So what happened?

497
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: I was bad? It was so bad. So was it

498
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 1: like a person that you were like in a relationship

499
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: with kind of sort of and so okay, we were

500
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: done right. We were just like into bed chilling and

501
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: I called him, I like looked him dead in his face.

502
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 1: I'm the worst. So I was like, oh shit, so

503
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: you know how you know? You you messed up like

504
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 1: a name that he was like familiar with. H God.

505
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: So he got up and he left the bed, and

506
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: he like went and tinkered around in the kitchen or

507
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: something and came back. And then I was just I

508
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: didn't say anything right, And I remember the next day

509
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 1: I had to get on the flight and come and

510
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: come home. So I sat down on my little flight

511
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: and there was a white guy sitting next to me.

512
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 1: I said, let me ask you a question. So I

513
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: called the dude the wrong name. Should I bring it

514
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: up and apologize? He said no, really, He told me,

515
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: do not bring it up. If he's mad about it,

516
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: he will bring it up and don't say nothing. And

517
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: I did that, and then like a week later he

518
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: brought he brought it up. Yes, he was like, don't

519
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: you ever call me that name again? Oh my god.

520
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: But he didn't bring it up in that moment. I

521
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: would think he would have just no, He like, let

522
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: it go. I think he didn't know how to respond.

523
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, So thank you, miss Lane's white man on

524
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: the plane who helped me out in that. Why do

525
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: I have too many stories about this? You have time

526
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: because you because you do with lots today eating. Yes,

527
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: I do, and I know when they're not right. You

528
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 1: do lots of dating. Okay, Okay, let's say, um, I

529
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: remember read this one. She starts off with some praise

530
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: for us. I'm gonna read that too, because we appreciate.

531
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: Oh yes, high ladies. I just want to start off

532
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: by saying, I'm a huge fan of you two and

533
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: I just beend your podcast. I love both of you all,

534
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: but I really relate to robbing. She's so chill, cater No,

535
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. Yes, Robin is amazing.

536
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: She's so chill, but pops off when her chill energy

537
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: and peace is disturbed. I am very much like that,

538
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: but Giselle has my mouth piece. She's very blunt, honest

539
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: and opinionated and stands on it every time. She says

540
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: what people are afraid to say. Yeah, she's saying what

541
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,479
Speaker 1: y'all thinking in y'all head chicken to say it right?

542
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: All right? We love you, Thank you Nissy for that.

543
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: So she tells me that I knew my person was

544
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: not the one when I realized they were a narcissist

545
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: and manipulating me to think I wasn't valuable and couldn't

546
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: do anything right. So I left and divorced them nine

547
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: years ago rediscovered my value to know the new men

548
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: have peace again. So Nisy, congratulations to you. You know

549
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: it's never too late, you know. So it sounds like

550
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: you were married to this person. They did not value you.

551
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: They made you feel less than But congrats, hats off

552
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: to you for knowing your worth, knowing who you are,

553
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: making that change, and and putting one ft in front

554
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: of the other. Okay, so let I want to talk.

555
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: Everybody uses the word narcissist, like what is exactly? Like?

556
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: I do understand that it means like you can only

557
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: think of yourself, right, but I mean, hey, why are

558
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: we're on the topic. Let me just let me Okay, good,

559
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to speak out of you know, I

560
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: don't want to be incorey, yes, but because I mean

561
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: I feel like a little narcissism and everyone isn't bad, right,

562
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: Like you do need to think about yourself and think

563
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,479
Speaker 1: about what makes you happy and make sure that you

564
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: think about like yeah, but it's more like these are

565
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: more toxic traits. So yeah, so narcissism um personality qualities

566
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:14,719
Speaker 1: include thinking very highly of oneself, needing admiration, believing others

567
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: are inferior, and lacking empathy for others. Okay, so the

568
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: first two things I'm not mad at thinking highly of

569
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: oneself and needing admiration. Well, every now and again, give

570
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: me a little clap plan. But the third one, right,

571
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: believing others are inferiors, that's the problem. And lacking empathy

572
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: for others. Yeah, those two, those last two are a problem.

573
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: They also are self centered. They have arrogant thinking and behavior.

574
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Um again, a lack of empathy

575
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: and consideration for other people, and and excessive need for admiration. Okay, yeah.

576
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: Others often describe people with narcissistic personality disorder as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing,

577
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: and demanding. So do we know anyone like that? Um? Yeah,

578
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: we know. Yeah, problem, but she just caught herself real quick. No, no,

579
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: but no, Like, so a narcissist, it's really like the

580
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: world revolves around them and they think that they are

581
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: They either think that they're like the best thing on

582
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: earth or they want to be perceived as the best

583
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: thing on earth. And I believe that they feel like

584
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: if it's not their way, it ain't right. Right. Yeah,

585
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: that's that's unfortunate. So being with a narcissist someone and

586
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: it's just like it's just it's like an extreme personality

587
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: where they're like so stubborn you can't even like, you know,

588
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: rationalize with that person because they think so highly of

589
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: themselves and they think the world like when they think

590
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: the world revolves around them. Right, Okay, So one thing

591
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: I knew side note two things. One, I knew that

592
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: this dude was not for me when we would get

593
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: on elevators and he would talk to people just I

594
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: think you said this one I mentioned that before he

595
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: would like have conversations with other people an elevator. That

596
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: drove me crazy. That's because you're a narcissist and you

597
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: wanted the only talk to you. Yes, talk to me,

598
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: all right, all right, we got another one. Okay, so

599
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: this woman said she knew he wasn't the one when

600
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: he bought me a kid's meal. Listen, if, first of all,

601
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: if you're taking my to McDonald's and we want to

602
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: drive through right once we get there, if you don't

603
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: even ask me if I want from a meal from

604
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: the grown folks section, that's a problem. Now. Was that

605
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: because he was trying to send a message and say

606
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: you only need to eat a kid's meal, you don't

607
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 1: need all this value big meal or is it because

608
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: he was cheap? I don't know. She did not give

609
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: that information, but either one is not good. If either

610
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: one you you were not a friend of mine, You've

611
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: got to go behind you fast food. Yes, yes, okay,

612
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: So this one, she says, she's told this dude, I

613
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: lost my aunt. She had just passed away. She said,

614
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: I lost my aunt. And he said, I hope you

615
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: found her. He said, I hope you find her. Listen,

616
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,879
Speaker 1: some people are just air heads. He didn't really mean that.

617
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: He just was confused to the terminology. He's dumbest ship. No,

618
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: that there's like, you don't have to be a rocket scientists,

619
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: you don't have to be you know, lawyer, nothing, but

620
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: that dude was dumb as ship. Oh my god. Now

621
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: I hope you find her. Unless he's like, you know,

622
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: not from America, and that's like our terminology. I don't know, Yes,

623
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. But that's definitely like,

624
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: oh no, you can't be with me anymore. You're out

625
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: of here, buddy, You're out of here. Okay, who child? Okay,

626
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Speaker 1: I have I had one more? Do you have any more?

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Speaker 1: You keep going okay, So this is this is okay?

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Speaker 1: The one I have is just he cheated on me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, is that a deal breaker? I have

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Speaker 1: we talked. We've talked about that and we said, oh lifestyle,

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Speaker 1: we we I mean it was it's like you said

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Speaker 1: you would give them a second chance, right, And it

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Speaker 1: depends on like, okay, is it like just physical as

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Speaker 1: an emotional is it whatever? Blah blah blah. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of factors involved. But it's funny. I'll just say

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Speaker 1: this one I read so this person was pledging for

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Speaker 1: her sorority and he was cheating. And I'm just tell

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Speaker 1: you this that happened to me too. Uh not robbing

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Speaker 1: was pledged. Doubts the wines, I get the streets because

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Speaker 1: but it was because all of a sudden, like he's

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Speaker 1: used to just having me, you know, to himself, and

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Speaker 1: I'm there all the time. And when you pledge, like

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Speaker 1: you gone, they don't you. First of all, you have

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Speaker 1: to be so discreet, you're not telling them what's going on,

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Speaker 1: and you're gone, and they're like, oh, come, you can

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Speaker 1: come over, and you're like, oh, I can't. I don't

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Speaker 1: know when I can come. I mean it was just

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Speaker 1: like you know, like for him, it was a lot

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Speaker 1: to adjust to andy lonely and I'm not making expenses,

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Speaker 1: but I was pledging it. He cheated. That ain't new listen,

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Speaker 1: Robin said, that's what they all do. Okay, so you

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00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: should have kept it. They can't handle it. They can't Okay,

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Speaker 1: the new found the time. All this time you have

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Speaker 1: you spending away from him, right, okay, this this is

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Speaker 1: my last one. When she knew he was not the one,

656
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: when he got mad because I cooked my bacon in

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Speaker 1: the oven instead it on the stove. Mad. He was hot,

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Speaker 1: he said, he said, I want my bakon, I want

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Speaker 1: my baking. I want to I want to cook. Right

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Speaker 1: he wanted. He wanted it on the stove. We didn't

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Speaker 1: want it in the oven. Now, mind you, I cooked

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Speaker 1: my bacon in the oven. Yeah, I'll do it both ways.

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Speaker 1: It just takes so long in the oven because well,

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Speaker 1: first of all, it takes long for the oven to

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Speaker 1: heat up. That's the part. Like I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: waiting for the oven. Okay, but I mean I feel

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Speaker 1: like bacon on the stove it like smokes up the

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Speaker 1: whole house. But I feel like the oven can smoke

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Speaker 1: up the house too. No, it's like contained to the oven. Okay,

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Speaker 1: maybe you got a bad oven. It's like I don't

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Speaker 1: have a bad oven. One time I cooked bacon in

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Speaker 1: the oven and my whole house was smoky. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: get something wrong. Something something happened right, Okay, But I

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Speaker 1: like it both ways. I just don't like waiting for

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Speaker 1: the oven to heat up. I kind of put it

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Speaker 1: in there. Okay. So let's say I put the oven

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Speaker 1: on fift. The oven could be on two hundred. I'm

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Speaker 1: throwing that bacon in and it's just gonna heat up

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Speaker 1: as the You know it's gonna cook as the oven

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Speaker 1: heats up. Yes, um, But but I get it like

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00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: little things I remember, um. So I would make waffles

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Speaker 1: or pancakes all the time, and I can't say this

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Speaker 1: about this Jamal Bryant. We do love Jamal Bran for

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Speaker 1: who he is. But he was like, where where the meat?

685
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Speaker 1: He was like, I can't eat pancakes with i't meat?

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Speaker 1: Oh God. I'm like, well I don't. I didn't cook

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Speaker 1: any meat that because if you don't cook the bacon

688
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: way before, like the pancakes on the waffles, it's the timing.

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00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: So I had forgotten. So I was like, well, we

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00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: don't have no meat today. It's me. It's meatless. So

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Speaker 1: he felt he felt he felt like the pancakes weren't

692
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Speaker 1: gonna be good. That's why they're right. But some people

693
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Speaker 1: are like they have to have certain things with certain things.

694
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: That is true. But but yeah, I mean the he

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Speaker 1: but he got mad. I mean like, oh, but you know,

696
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Speaker 1: it's expand your horizons. Horizons. Yes, for the love of God,

697
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Speaker 1: you know. I had a UM dude and he remember

698
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Speaker 1: back in the day when UM guys started like twisting

699
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Speaker 1: the top of their hair. Yeah, I didn't like that.

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Speaker 1: He had to go, wait, do you have a grown man?

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Speaker 1: What's doing that? Like what Corey does? Wait? Wait not no, now,

702
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Speaker 1: now the kids do the sponge thing, right, This was

703
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Speaker 1: like it was like glue and not glue. It was um,

704
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Speaker 1: what do you call Gael? It was Jael, You're just

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Speaker 1: sitting in the dry air. It was. It was a

706
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Speaker 1: whole lot going on. I said, no, that's like that

707
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Speaker 1: was too much. Yeah, that's just just cut it, just

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Speaker 1: keep it low, just keep it like this is in

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Speaker 1: my twenties. I was I was all over the place

710
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Speaker 1: this one dude. Okay, never mind, I'm done. I'm really okay. Fine,

711
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: So I get to the club. He's in there with

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Speaker 1: his um, his boys and he knew I was coming.

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Speaker 1: That's you had the story be from. He knew I

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Speaker 1: was coming with my girlfriend. I walk in and he's like,

715
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: has a girl like on his lap, and so I

716
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: was like, hi, Gezelle's here, and he was like, no,

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Speaker 1: that's just my friend, Like she's not anybody. So I

718
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well you can date her now because

719
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Speaker 1: you're not dating me because somebody was sitting on your

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Speaker 1: lap when I walked into the WASO. Yes, yes, he's

721
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: still apiologizing to that, to this. Really, he regrets it.

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Speaker 1: He regrets the one that got away. I'm oh, I

723
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Speaker 1: have famously the one that got away from like so

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Speaker 1: many dudes because I broke up with them too fast. Wait,

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Speaker 1: all right, we gotta go ro look at dr episode

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Speaker 1: is over. Okay, okay, listen. We truly appreciate y'all listening

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Speaker 1: to us. And let me just say this, live your

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Speaker 1: life either reasonable or shady. Pick one no, fine, okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: or just vote see y'all next week. Okay bye. By

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