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Speaker 1: Hey, Mikey, how you doing. I'm doing great, Mike.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Have you you were? I think you've stayed in a

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Speaker 1: place where people have died. Yes, I have. Oh see,

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Speaker 1: and were you? Were you horrified?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean I honestly don't really give too much credence

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Speaker 1: Hmm, well so you don't you agree with me?

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Speaker 4: Then you don't think they're just waiting to come and

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Speaker 4: you know, scare people haunt them or something.

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Speaker 5: You don't.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't even think they is even there.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, fair enough, but that's not why you called.

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Speaker 4: You called for Starego. So I just I was just,

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Speaker 4: you know, transitioning here. But I was curious what you thought.

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Speaker 4: I was curious what you thought. You're calling about your girlfriend, Cassandra.

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Speaker 4: And obviously, when you're having an issue in your relationship,

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Speaker 4: the first thing you think is let's call the Fred

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Speaker 4: Show and see what they think. Why wouldn't you think that?

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Speaker 4: Many many, many experts here from all different fields. We

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Speaker 4: have married people, we have engaged people, we have people

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Speaker 4: who are horrible in relationships, t Kiki. We have experts

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Speaker 4: like Calin and I. So go ahead.

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Speaker 1: So what's what's going on, and we're gonna talk about

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Speaker 1: you behind your back. Please.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, me and my girlfriend, we've been together a

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Speaker 3: while now and things are beginning pretty serious. We've talked about,

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Speaker 3: you know, marriage and spending the rest of our lives together,

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Speaker 3: and I definitely see Cassandras.

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Speaker 1: Somebody that I want to marry.

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Speaker 3: But recently she told me something while we were talking about,

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Speaker 3: you know, just future pointing, like I haven't proposed or anything, right,

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Speaker 3: but you know, you have those conversations like you know, hey,

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Speaker 3: I see this going. Things are great, you know it's

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Speaker 3: going the right way. But you know, she said something

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Speaker 3: that kind of was like a red flag to me when.

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Speaker 1: She said it.

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Speaker 3: Uh Basically, she says she could absolutely see herself uh

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Speaker 3: as being my wife in the future, but not living together.

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Speaker 4: Hello time, Yeah, I mean things aren't working out. I

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Speaker 4: mean I think you should break up with it. Frankly,

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Speaker 4: I think I see I say dumper as and then

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Speaker 4: give me her number. So she wants to be married

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Speaker 4: but not live in the same house as you do.

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Speaker 4: And I obviously you don't live in the same house

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Speaker 4: now and things need to be going okay, But in

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Speaker 4: your mind, what are you saying, in your mind, you

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Speaker 4: get married, and that means that we're cohabitating and you know,

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Speaker 4: every day, all the time, that kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I mean isn't that what marriage means

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Speaker 3: to most people?

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Speaker 1: I mean, what she told me was her.

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Speaker 3: Ideal living scenario for being married was being like next

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Speaker 3: door neighbors.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, where is this woman?

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Speaker 4: And oh this is fantastic, this is wonderful, and so

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Speaker 4: what's your objection? I mean, you guys can have sleepovers

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Speaker 4: and stuff, and then and then I don't know, when

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Speaker 4: someone's in a bad mood or someone's a feeling well

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Speaker 4: the other place.

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just think it's I mean, it's I

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Speaker 1: Maybe not how I was raised.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'm more traditional, I don't know. I mean, she says, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, a lot of relationships go bad and stale

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Speaker 6: Just me and her having our own space.

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Speaker 3: But I want to share our space. I want to

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Speaker 3: build a home together and uh, you know, you life together.

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Speaker 1: That way, Well, you can build that home to me.

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Speaker 4: She she'll just only live there occasionally. I mean, so, okay,

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Speaker 4: so this is a major deal breaker for you. Then,

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Speaker 4: like you guys want to be married to each other,

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Speaker 4: but the terms are going to be that she lives

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Speaker 4: are you thinking about me? Would you break up with her?

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Speaker 4: I mean, what what? What are you thinking about?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's why I'm calling I.

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Speaker 1: Uh, you know, I gotta be real.

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Speaker 6: I'm kind of the I love her very much.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I can open my mind a little bit. I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: she says that her parents did this and it worked

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Speaker 3: we're at each other's throats and then they split up

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Speaker 3: and you know, lived in different spaces and stood married.

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Speaker 3: And the thing she said, Gwyneth Paltrow and her husband

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Speaker 7: Oh the new dude, Brad whatever his name is, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know, this is what she said. She was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's it's like, you know, more common than I think.

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Speaker 3: Because I was like, this is you know for me?

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Speaker 3: When she said that, I was like that's that's nuts.

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Speaker 1: She's like, Oh, it's.

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Speaker 3: More common than you think.

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Speaker 6: So maybe I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know, Maybe I need to open my mind more.

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Speaker 3: But hey, you said off the rip, I should just

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Speaker 3: I want to.

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Speaker 1: Be with her. I've never ever seen this woman.

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Speaker 4: I've never even seen her before, but she sounds like

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Speaker 4: a dream. I at least it's two master bedroom situation.

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Speaker 4: I am into, particularly the same house, two bedrooms. I'm

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Speaker 4: into this, and I'm not saying that we wouldn't stay

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Speaker 4: in the same bedroom most of the time. But I

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Speaker 4: believe that people have a need for their own space,

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Speaker 4: and I think sometimes people feel a little claustrophobic when

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Speaker 4: they don't have their own stuff, their own area. And also,

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Speaker 4: but think about the stuff that people fight about in relationships.

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Speaker 4: It's almost never fundamental. It's like, oh, you know, you

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Speaker 4: left all your stuff on the floor, and by the way,

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Speaker 4: I think you're cheating on me, or I don't know,

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Speaker 4: or I don't know. You're dirty, you're clean, you're disorganized,

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Speaker 4: your organized, your type A, you're not I mean, but

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Speaker 4: people can still be they can still love each other

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Speaker 4: and have a functioning relationship. But a lot of times

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Speaker 4: there's a tremendous amount of compromise. And in this situation,

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Speaker 4: think about how much compromise would be saved when it's like,

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Speaker 4: you know what you want stuff all over the place

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Speaker 4: that makes you happy. Then have stuff all over the

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I could two master bedrooms, maybe I

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Speaker 4: Me see what people think about. I think it's a

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Speaker 4: great idea. But here's the thing. If you don't, if

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Speaker 4: it really fundamentally is not what you want, you know,

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Speaker 4: and what would fulfill you is to be to live

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Speaker 4: I mean, it sounds like that's something that she really

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Speaker 4: This is a major disconnect.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe maybe.

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Speaker 3: I'll pitch the two master bedrooms.

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Speaker 8: Like, what's the point of getting married if you're in

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Speaker 8: lives separately? That makes no sense to me because pay

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Speaker 1: So your issue is with the money. You know my issues?

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Speaker 8: Like you you you get married, you're together, you want

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Speaker 8: to be you all get together, but you're not together.

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Speaker 9: You you were tired to your own home at night.

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Speaker 9: That's that's so stupid. Eight five five five nine one

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Speaker 9: three five call us. You can text the same number, Mikey.

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Speaker 9: Good luck to you. We're going to talk about you

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Speaker 9: behind your back. Now I have the radio one and

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Speaker 9: we'll see what happens. A lot of people are texting

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Speaker 9: that they're into this idea again, but you don't have

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Speaker 9: to be convinced, right Like, if it if it's not

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Speaker 9: you just don't connect fundamentally. And if that's the case,

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry, but I don't think for me.

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Speaker 1: You can can Fred have her number? Yeah? If it

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Speaker 1: doesn't work out, hit me up with their contact. You

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Speaker 1: slash slide the contact who's agreeing here? People that are

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Speaker 1: on happy marriages that are like, oh yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: maybe maybe people are who are in very happy marriages, right,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it means you're unhappy.

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Speaker 10: Listen, I live with my fance hobby, but like there

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Speaker 10: are days where I'm like, how sweet would it be

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Speaker 1: Crazy the same crazy. It is crazy.

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Speaker 8: This is you're the person that you love and you

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Speaker 8: oh man, I need to Yeah, you could have your

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Speaker 8: like Okay, I'm gonna go out and do whatever, but

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy.

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Speaker 10: No, We've got into fights before, like you mentioned like

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Speaker 10: oh I really dependent on you to do this.

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Speaker 1: It's like I'd rather not deal with that goal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you couldn't deeply love this and you want

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Speaker 4: to and you want to do life with that.

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Speaker 10: I want to do the life with him through the life,

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Speaker 10: and we have asked him if you want kids?

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Speaker 1: Are you're still here, Mikey? Do you want kids? I

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Speaker 1: thought he went away.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm still here.

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Speaker 1: Do you want children? Because that would change things? I though,

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Speaker 1: Actually no, we both don't want children.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, it's another checkbox in the pro column.

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Speaker 1: What's your girl, Mikey.

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Speaker 4: No, I truly believe that people can be committed to

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Speaker 8: All this stuff. It's like it says who But that's

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Speaker 8: part of marriage. Like what Paulina is saying is part

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Speaker 8: of marriage. The little fights, the little arguments, that's all

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Speaker 8: part of a marriage. You can't just be like, all right,

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Speaker 8: go to your own place because I don't want to

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Speaker 4: You can't just say that. But I don't necessarily know that.

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Speaker 4: That's the reason that we don't know that that's what

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Speaker 4: want to communicate it that maybe they just want their

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Speaker 4: own space. And you see, here's somebody going fred stopped

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Speaker 4: promoting unhealthy relationships, who says it's unhealthy. I mean, there

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Speaker 1: Eye to eye on this.

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Speaker 3: That's the problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, Tyra, Yes, Tyra.

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Speaker 4: So this dude is upset because this woman he wants

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I would absolutely love that.

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Speaker 5: That is living the dream.

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you married?

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Speaker 11: I am married, and I have suggested that.

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Speaker 2: I've even like I was mad at him, and I've

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Speaker 12: She does not know what he is missing.

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Speaker 4: But but you guys are now not healthy, but you're

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm back in I'm back in the room

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Speaker 8: But I mean, yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: But based on what I think.

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Speaker 12: I bought a TV. I got a nice.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, have a good day you too.

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Speaker 4: I just think it's like, because it works for you,

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Speaker 8: The way she made it sound like I went to

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Back now, She left her desk behind. Hey, Tony Uo,

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Speaker 4: it's truly mind blowing. Tony, what does she want to say?

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Speaker 4: Wellome good morning.

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Speaker 12: While I'm listening to this, I'm thinking, I'm gonna call.

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Speaker 5: My wife right now and we're gonna sell the.

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Speaker 12: I won't have to deal with all the other crap.

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Speaker 3: And we've been together for twenty years, so I think

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Speaker 3: it's a fantastic idea.

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Speaker 5: No two mortgages. So you just buy two trailers and

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Speaker 3: And she can go to her space when she needs

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Speaker 4: So, Tony and Ruvio. Married people, if you're being really honest,

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Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with her way, nothing wrong with your way,

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Speaker 4: to do it that way. That's not fundamental to your marriage.

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Speaker 4: That's not the root of why you're together. That's just

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Speaker 4: it's just noise. What if you could block out some

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Speaker 4: of the noise and be like, you know what you want.

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Speaker 1: To be wondering? You want to what do you want

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Speaker 1: to cook for dinner?

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Speaker 6: You can go have your own dinner.

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Speaker 3: I don't have to. We don't have to fight about

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but what he's saying has nothing to do

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Speaker 3: For dinner.

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Speaker 8: Has done single and get out of it.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, feels.

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Speaker 8: Sound like I don't want to deal with it right now.

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Speaker 1: I gotta deal with her.

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Speaker 8: She could go to her own house, she could cook

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Speaker 1: I think he's projecting it because probably would love this.

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Speaker 7: Right now.

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Speaker 1: You have a good day. Look, it's just on the phone.

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Speaker 1: No it j You ain't getting away that easy, homie.

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Speaker 1: That's what she'd say to me.

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Speaker 4: What do you think do you think a two house

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Not a two house I don't know. I mean my

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Speaker 5: they go to the guest room once in a while,

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Speaker 5: that's okay, but stay in the guest room, right.

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Speaker 1: So much? Okay, all right enough?

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Speaker 5: Thank you Jonathan having another house and having two mortgages,

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Speaker 5: that's a little over the top. Yeah yourself got one

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough. Thank you. Have a good day. Get

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Speaker 4: I moved in to come out of the room, your

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Speaker 11: What do you think I think she should? I think

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Speaker 1: Because I'm sorry, Yeah, no, you're good. She should stay. Wide,

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Speaker 1: I think he should stay.

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Speaker 11: I've been married since I was eighteen. I've been married

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Speaker 11: you guys have your fun, but it's better like if

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Speaker 3: I think you guys.

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Speaker 11: You guys can get drunk, have fun together and then

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Speaker 12: Go home answer a while together.

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Speaker 1: All the time stay in a relation.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand why somebody can't get married if they

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Speaker 4: do it? Mister marriage police.

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Speaker 11: I think the best idea ever.

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Speaker 9: Honestly, callbody just everybody haven't been married a long time.

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Speaker 4: That's like, what, why, thank you so much, have a

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Speaker 4: good day, thank you, I'm sorry, yelled at you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that.

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Speaker 8: Every call is like, yeah, oh, just say you hate

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Speaker 4: I don't want to hear that. No, I don't have

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Speaker 4: your definition of healthy. And who's just the look my

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Speaker 4: I mean, twenty two years whatever, but that's three times

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes no sense. You're just how would you you?

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Speaker 8: But how would you feel if you're like your wife

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Speaker 8: friend is just like all right, great, I'll see you later.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, where's the love?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: What is that? I don't understand why people can't love

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Speaker 4: People are in relationships right now that don't even live

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Speaker 1: That them it is. That's the easy part.

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Speaker 8: That's the that's the cop out walk.

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Speaker 1: Business relationships are easy. You don't got to see the

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Speaker 8: But now, even if you live in the same city,

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Speaker 8: you don't live in the same house, that's easy.

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Speaker 1: You go to your separate places.

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Speaker 8: But when you get married, Like, that's the one thing

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Speaker 8: I would say, is like, but if you're gonna get married,

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Speaker 8: I should live together before you get married, because that's

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Speaker 8: a true test is living together before you get married,

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Speaker 8: because people that get married and move in together, they

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Speaker 1: Leads to divorce.

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Speaker 4: Let me say this, Okay, so I get up at

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Speaker 4: So do you Yeah. Let's say that I'm most people

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Speaker 4: I date, they don't go to work until nine, eight

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Speaker 4: nine or whatever, So we're sleeping in the same bed

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Speaker 4: every shingle morning. I wake them up at three forty

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Speaker 4: five out of rem sleep. Sure, they go back to bed.

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Speaker 4: That's great. You do that for years. Now you're on

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Speaker 4: the same schedule as me, except you got to go

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Speaker 4: because it actually is healthier because one person gets the

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Speaker 1: This is a crazy Zamby schedule talking about sleep. That's

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Speaker 1: talking about two different schedules. You're talking about living in

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Speaker 1: master bedroom idea. Who said that?

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Speaker 8: I didn't say that you have that, lady, you no,

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Speaker 8: that caller said, we got an argument, I went to

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Speaker 8: That's two different things. Like Jess and I were on

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Speaker 8: two different schedules. We sleep in the same bed. It's

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Speaker 8: It's that's that's our situation. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: It's I you know.

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Speaker 4: But but maybe other people if other situations work for them.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but two different sleeping places. That's I understand that

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Speaker 8: if you're working two different schedules, but like to say

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Speaker 1: That's a wild shavement of stake because he forced her

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Speaker 8: Ye, two separate houses to different two separate living places,

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Speaker 8: makes no sense. That's not the same as oh I

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Speaker 8: You could go home now, all right, Sarah, different world, Okay,

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Speaker 4: Hi, good morning. What did you want to say?

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Speaker 7: Good morning? I agree with both sides. I know two

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Speaker 7: But then I also have a different friend who his

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Speaker 12: I could never do.

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Speaker 7: That because I want kids with my husband eventually. But

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Speaker 7: if you don't want kids and you don't have those

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: See, that's what I'm saying. And here's the thing, Sarah,

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Speaker 4: he doesn't like it, she likes it. That's a problem. Okay,

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Speaker 4: So they either are going to compromise and come together

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Speaker 4: on this or they're not. And that's a that's a

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Speaker 4: fundamental baseline issue. But I don't know why we're sitting

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Speaker 4: here saying there's only one way to be married, because

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Speaker 4: there's not.

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Speaker 12: I agree.

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Speaker 1: If it works for you.

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Speaker 12: So many yeah, and do it for you both, then

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Speaker 12: that's all. Whatever I work for you healthy. I mean,

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Speaker 12: there's some relationships come in multiple different sheeps and sizes.

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Speaker 1: That's that's all I'm saying. For one person, that's all

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. And it may not.

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Speaker 4: It's probably not going to work for this guy, you know,

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Speaker 4: but but it might work for me and the person

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Speaker 4: I choose to marry.

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Speaker 1: It might not.

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Speaker 4: But if it's not, if you don't agree on it,

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Speaker 4: it won't work. So they probably shouldn't get married. Then

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Speaker 4: if they can't figure out some formal.

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Speaker 8: Company married, I don't understand the marriage.

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Speaker 4: Agreed for them, but not for everybody like you can't.

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Speaker 4: You're speaking to a traditional definition which doesn't apply to everybody.

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Speaker 1: Marriage. For you, marriage is about marriage bringing your lives together.

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Speaker 4: Who is to say you can't do that and sleep

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Speaker 4: in two different bands as we physically have to. We

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Speaker 4: have next to each other, right, skin is in or

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Speaker 4: we're not married. We got her hold hands the whole

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Speaker 4: time I'm here. Thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Thank you wore Yeah, somebody said, broke rufio.

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Speaker 1: We really functioning. This is the most fired up I've

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Speaker 1: seen him in a long time.

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Speaker 8: It's just a wild thing to think of, like to

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Speaker 8: be married to someone and live separately from them, in

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Speaker 8: like the I live next door to my wife, Like

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Speaker 8: of course.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't be happy. We wouldn't work for you, and

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Speaker 1: you have to ask me before you come over, Like,

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Speaker 1: hey you if I.

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Speaker 4: Stop by, you don't get a key either, Right, No,

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Speaker 4: I would have. I would have a key to both houses,

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Speaker 4: but but she would have. Now you want to come

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Speaker 4: out and somebody come after me. We got to move on.