1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 3: Don't given them back a million bussy. 5 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: More listening to to I don't joy? Yeah, Joy? 6 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 2: You know you. 7 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: Gotta turn. 8 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 3: I got to turn about turn. You probably got to 9 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 3: turn mouth water the water up looking at me? Come 10 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: come on, you'll think that. 11 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will. 12 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,919 Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. 13 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: You all listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, 14 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. I 15 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: thank God for it every day. I try to remember 16 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 2: that too, you know. I try to remember to be grateful. 17 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: I think gratitude is one of the things that helps 18 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: keep me grounded. You can go as far as you 19 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: want in life. If you don't mind who gets the credit. 20 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: Well that applies to God too, don't it. I mean, 21 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: you know, really, if you don't mind who gets the credit. 22 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: I'm surrounded by very competent people. I'm surrounded by a 23 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: lot of people who work hard on their jobs on 24 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: their career, who are dedicated employees and also just dedicated 25 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: to their families and you know, dedicated to their own 26 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: set of aspirations. I don't expect anybody to work for 27 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 2: me forever. I always look at my job opportunities as 28 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 2: stepping stones because I want everyone around me really to 29 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: aspire to be more. I mean, that's really the way 30 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: I am. I'm not any other way. I'm not trying 31 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: to hold you to this position. You know, tell you 32 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 2: there's no room for growth, any of that. But even 33 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: though I'm surrounded by these people, I'm grateful that God 34 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: placed them in my path in my life. But in 35 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: my mind, in my spirit, in everything in me, the 36 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: credit still belongs to God. I'm sorry, the credit still 37 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 2: belongs to God. See if you would, just for a moment, 38 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: stop thinking about yourself, just for a moment. I know 39 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: that's hard, but just for a moment, stop thinking about 40 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: yourself and realize that maybe you are who you are 41 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 2: because God is who he is. 42 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 5: Maybe that's the case. Have you ever considered that? 43 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: That's the strongest possibility I can give to you? 44 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: You know, how do. 45 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: You think you the one that made it through? How 46 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 2: you think you the one after all of the ignorant 47 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 2: decisions we have made? And oh my goodness, let's all 48 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 2: be honest. Ain't we made some crazy decisions? I'm talking 49 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 2: about man, I have made decisions so adverse to my 50 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 2: destiny and career, my promises. I've made some decisions man 51 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: knowingly you hear me knowingly do something wrong, and in 52 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: spite of all that, I'm still here standing. Okay, come 53 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: on now, really, really, all the dirt you'd bene done, 54 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: everybody done dirt, all the mistakes you've made, you in 55 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 2: the position you in today because of what? Because you 56 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 2: all that? Because you work harder than anybody else. Look, 57 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 2: I work hard, I'll be I'll tell you in a minute. 58 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: I work hard. But I don't think I'm the hardest 59 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: working person out there. I'm pretty sure somebody done work 60 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:19,799 Speaker 2: way harder than I have. So okay, so you work hard? Okay, cool, 61 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: I got all that. But man, what about his grace 62 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: and his mercy? What about his favor? How many times, 63 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: man you done relied on that, even when you ain't 64 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 2: know you was relying on it? How many times man 65 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 2: God done shown you mercy? You ain't even deserve it? 66 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 2: Do you know how many things I've done wrong? I 67 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 2: just ain't get caught at it? 68 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 6: You know. 69 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: Let me see how simple I can be here? You speed, 70 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:56,239 Speaker 2: you jwall, You lie to police when you get pulled 71 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: over that you wasn't speeding, You go to court and 72 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 2: argue you wasn't speed when you was, You make U turns. 73 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: I'm just doing traffic violations. Now, let's get off traffic 74 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 2: for a second. Let's get on human violations. You talk 75 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: about people when you're not supposed to. You indulge yourself 76 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 2: in gossip even when you don't really have all the facts. 77 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: You pass judgment, You lust for people that don't belong 78 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: to you. You say things to people that you're not 79 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: supposed to say. So look, all of us, we all, 80 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: we're all guilty. Now. See I'm not saying you do 81 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: all of that, but I'm saying I'm pretty sure I 82 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 2: hit you somewhere in there, just somewhere in there. You 83 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: donet lied before, you know you lied recently. I mean, 84 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 2: come on, And I'm just saying so with all that 85 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 2: in mind, See, I'm just looking at the little things 86 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: that we do that we don't get busted for. Not 87 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 2: to mention the chips you stole when you was a 88 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: kid and nobody caught you. 89 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 5: Well, that elevated, didn't it. 90 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 2: And some of y'all just didn't stop stealing, and next 91 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: thing you know, you was in a car. Now you're 92 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: sitting somewhere you don't want to be sitting because of 93 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: a decision you made. But through his grace and mercy, 94 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: couldn't it have been worse? Though? Without his grace and mercy, 95 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: could not it have been worse. I know two dudes 96 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: that got caught in the garage one time, trying to 97 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: break in somebody's house, and the person in the house 98 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 2: they broke into just happened to have a gun and 99 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: held them in the garage, caught them and held them 100 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: to the garage to the police car. That's Grace and 101 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 2: Mercy right there, because they had all full right to 102 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 2: shoot these two people, but they didn't. They're Grace and Mercy. See, 103 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 2: all of us have benefited from his grace and mercy. 104 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 2: All of us have done a wrong, committed a sin, 105 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 2: broken the law, and somehow, through his grace and mercy, 106 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: got by, doing drugs, buying drugs, slanging drugs, doing something, 107 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 2: got by, jumped on somebody for no reason, got by, 108 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: you know. So see how you figure with all that 109 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 2: that can go on in your life? And then hold on, 110 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: let me throw a couple more at you. You can't 111 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: wake yourself up in the morning, mister big shot, you 112 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: don't have the ability to control the breaths that you take. Really, 113 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: mister big shot, really, let's get real basic with it now. 114 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 5: You can't wake yourself up in the morning. 115 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 2: That's favor, that's grace, that's mercy, that's Him allowing you 116 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 2: to wake up just hoping we get it right. You know, 117 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: God spared me through all the dirt I was doing 118 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: just hoping. One day, man, can you just straighten up 119 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: a little bit? When I finally straightened up? And I'm 120 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 2: gonna just say it, straightened up a little bit. See, 121 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: I ain't straightened up all the way. Say I ain't 122 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 2: gonna sit here and tell you that I just straightened 123 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: up a little bit. God blessing me. So the more 124 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: blessings I got start going. Man, maybe I'll try straighten 125 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: up a little bit more. So I straightened up a 126 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 2: little bit more. I still got a long way to go, 127 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: but I'm straighter than I was now. When people judging me, 128 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 2: and as they will, and they do because that ain't right, 129 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: but they do, and I ain't walking just the way 130 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 2: they walk, then here come to criticism. 131 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 5: I get it all the time. 132 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: Stop wanting credit all the time and give out some 133 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: credit where credit is due, instead of having somebody. 134 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 5: Patting you on your back all the time. 135 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: Why don't you tell God, tell people it was really 136 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: was God, man, that you don't really know how you 137 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: made it that really, man, you have no explanation for 138 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: your success or you have no explanation why you still 139 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: exist in today. Why don't you tell somebody it was 140 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 2: God today? Don't be ashamed. It's the truth, ain't it. 141 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: I mean, really, man, Let's give God some credit here. 142 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: Give God the credit and the glory and the honor. 143 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 2: And like that plaque said, you can go as far 144 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 2: as you want in life if you don't mind who 145 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 2: gets the credit. 146 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 7: All right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 147 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, you know what, today has arrived. You 148 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: are still here. That's a blessing, a gift from God. 149 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: I'm so grateful for it. Please tell God before you 150 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 2: get your day rolling too good? What all you are 151 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 2: grateful for? Start your day with gratitude, y'all. I'm telling 152 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 2: you it's a very very effective way. It kind of 153 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: takes you off to doulgence too. If you wake up 154 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 2: on the wrong side of the bed. If you go 155 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: down your gratitude this you'll find out, Hey, it ain't 156 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 2: that bad after all, is it? 157 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:33,719 Speaker 6: No? 158 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 2: Because God is good, Ladies and gentlemen. Steve Harblet Morning Show, 159 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 2: She on the Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica Jr. 160 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 5: And nephew legend is nephew Tommy Jr. 161 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 2: What's on your mind? 162 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 3: Man? 163 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: Hey? 164 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 8: Un, let's talk about this man character, man character and 165 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 8: what does character mean to you? And how important it 166 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 8: is daily no matter what level you want. Because some 167 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 8: people look at other people like I can't believe they 168 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 8: got this, so they did that, and you know they 169 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 8: type of character, how they keep getting blessed like this 170 00:10:59,440 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 8: and that? 171 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: What does character mean for you? 172 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 2: Character? For me are the values and principles that a 173 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 2: person represents of himself. Then that to me determines your character. 174 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 2: Like if you try to be an honorable person, a 175 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: righteous person, if you're trying to do the right thing, 176 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 2: you know, those are morals and values are determined the 177 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 2: character of the person that you are. You know, if 178 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: you see a person who's unscrupulous, always up to no good, 179 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 2: always talking about somebody, that to me is just a 180 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: person not of quality character so you can be You 181 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: get to determine the type of character you have because 182 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: you get to pick the principles and you get to 183 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 2: pick the morals that you live by. You know, uh 184 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 2: and and and the policies and theories and things that 185 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 2: you apply to your life. That's what determines your character, 186 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 2: and each person can pick whatever it is. It's just 187 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 2: a sad state that because of the Internet, we see 188 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: so many people choose to go the other way, and 189 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 2: it's you know, but like I always say, look, man, 190 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: I'll tell you like I've started to really examine myself 191 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: and then be more okay with who I am because 192 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: of the people who do love me. Now the people 193 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 2: that hate me, I'm assuming they've made that their job. 194 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: And I have gotten to the point of caring less 195 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 2: than because if you don't have my cell number, you 196 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 2: don't know me, so why should I care what you 197 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: think of me. The other thing you got to be 198 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 2: careful of is people who have opinion of you that 199 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 2: you take a criticism from a person that you wouldn't 200 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 2: take advice from, So you know, there are a lot 201 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,839 Speaker 2: of low character people out passing out advice. You gotta 202 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: go wait a minute man hold up. So that's how 203 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 2: I do it, and that's how I set my parameters 204 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: for myself. Yeah, I've just decided to be a better 205 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 2: person above it all, you know. I'm I'm gonna try 206 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: not to respond to anybody that's throwing shade and hate 207 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,079 Speaker 2: my way and just keep on going on about my business. 208 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 5: I'm gonna try. 209 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 2: That's what that's I can. But if I see you though, 210 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 2: I'm just trying what I'm trying, just just. 211 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 5: Noting my trying that that day it might not it might. 212 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 2: Be up. 213 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 214 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 9: hear from the nephew as he runs that brank back 215 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. 216 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your 217 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 2: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck 218 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 2: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping 219 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 2: up besides you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features 220 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 2: that can alert you to potential dangers around you. 221 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 10: That's right, because Hendi is always working to ensure the 222 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 10: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one 223 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 10: hundred and twenty iihs Top Safety Awards from two thousand 224 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 10: and six to twenty twenty four. 225 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 2: As of December twenty twenty. 226 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 7: Four, it is time now for the nephew to run 227 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 7: that frank back. What you got for us? 228 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: Nest side job clean? 229 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 6: Let's go Tomers. Jervis is Robbie. 230 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 11: How can I help you? 231 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 6: Robbie, I'm trying to get a order in for some 232 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 6: construction supplies I need to pick up. 233 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 11: That's fine. What's your company? 234 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 6: Roof and Company, Ruth and Company. 235 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 11: Okay, we have we done listening to you this form. 236 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 6: No, no, you have and this is my first time called. 237 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 6: I heard you guys were pretty good. 238 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 11: I appreciate the compliment. 239 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 6: Okay, I know. Listen, I need to get this as 240 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 6: soon as possible. Man, can I possibly pick up these 241 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 6: supplies like in the next couple of hours? 242 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 11: Well, you know, no, they don't work. That fact kind 243 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 11: of a quick turnaround. We got a little bit of 244 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 11: a backup. But I can. I can do my bask 245 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 11: depends on what you need. 246 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 6: Okay, here's here's what I need. Man. I need five 247 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 6: rolls of duct takes. 248 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 11: Okay, that's no problem, that's quick. 249 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 6: Okay, I need plastic. Man, Listen, if you was gonna 250 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 6: wrap up something in plastic that's like about six foot 251 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 6: two in height and two hundred pounds. How much plastic 252 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 6: you think I would need to wrap to wrap that up? 253 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 11: In this is acondre. You're asking for plastic like a 254 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 11: roller plastics. 255 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm talking. I need to wrap up something that's 256 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 6: six foot two and like two hundred and ten pounds. 257 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 11: I probably would get about three yards four yards of plastic. 258 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, I need to get that. Then let me 259 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 6: ask you this here. If you was gonna try to 260 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 6: put some cement on that to hold it down, how 261 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 6: much seamen you think of hold that down? 262 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 11: I'm more confused. You're running a roofing company. 263 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, I'm a roofer company, but I'm doing a 264 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 6: little side work for some friends of mine. 265 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 11: Oh okay, okay, I just got a little confused cause 266 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 11: you told me this is Talish and Company. No problem, 267 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 11: no problem, Want some man waiting. You're you're trying to 268 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 11: hold something down. 269 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 6: I'm trying to I'm trying to hold something down. So 270 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 6: how many bags of cement do you think I need 271 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 6: to hold out something that's two hundred and twenty pounds? Wow? 272 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 11: I don't know, eight. 273 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 6: Bags, eight bags, eight bag. 274 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 11: Eight bags, I would recommend at least. 275 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, give me eight bags the cement. Now just 276 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 6: something else. I want to ask you. Do you have 277 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 6: anything any type of cleaner, man, that can get uh, 278 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 6: that can get blood I mean paint off the floor. 279 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, we got industrial cleaners, some of all kinds of 280 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 11: industrial clean said. Well, when you said paint the paint or. 281 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 6: Blood, uh, paint paint prank. Okay, yeah, I. 282 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 11: Mean I've got industrial cleans a lot of times. And 283 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 11: then you have the preference. 284 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 6: No, just whatever you could throw in there. I need that. Now, 285 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 6: let me ask you this here. Do you have anything 286 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 6: that can like just kill a smell? You know what 287 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 6: I'm saying that if you know, if you don't want 288 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 6: something to smell, you got anything for that? Wait? 289 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 11: Mane something if something something die in your place? 290 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 6: Is this place? 291 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 2: Is something something? 292 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 6: Did you like there? 293 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 11: An animal or something you found? I mean, I mean 294 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 11: I'm kind of confused. You're talking about smell and clean 295 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 11: up to animal. 296 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 6: On a a Robbert. Listen, man, just take the order. 297 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 6: That's all I need you to do. 298 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, No, I'm sorry, I wasn't asking your business 299 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 11: I just was a little concern. 300 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 6: What are we getting? What are we cleaning up? 301 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 11: And what do we I mean, I guess the are 302 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 11: we clean up a tile? Fold to clean up carpet? 303 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 11: I mean, what's the what's the cleaner for? 304 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 6: What's the what? 305 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 11: Where's the odor? 306 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 6: Oh? Sure, all I'm asking you? Do you have something 307 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 6: strong enough? Like do you take ammonia? Can can keep 308 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 6: the smell down? What do I need to keep the 309 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 6: smell down? 310 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 11: You're definitely gonna need ammonia. I mean, you gotta get 311 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 11: something to just scrub that right down, because I mean, 312 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 11: wherever that scent is, if it's in your if it's 313 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 11: in the walls, if you got fabrics in that place, 314 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 11: I mean whatever, wherever you got it, you probably gonna 315 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 11: have to have a different type of deodorized or something 316 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 11: for the carpet. 317 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 6: Something for the walls. 318 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 11: I mean, I don't I guess. I guess it's kind 319 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 11: of confused just to as to where the sense coming from. 320 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 6: And I don't worry about all that. Man, Hey man, listen, 321 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 6: just just right down what the order is, Okay. 322 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 11: I got it? You I got the five rolls of 323 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 11: duct tap, I got to that's the four yards of 324 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 11: plast I got to hate back of cement, I got 325 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 11: the industrial clean, I got the ammonia. I'm I'm I'm 326 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 11: typing it all in. I got I've got your order. 327 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 6: Okay, let me man, Do y'all have any type of machete? 328 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 6: Anything that's real? Shop that can? 329 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 12: But what? 330 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 6: Oh? 331 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 11: Okay, hold on second, and now now you're completely off face. 332 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 11: You do realize you call a hardware store, right. 333 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 6: I'm calling the hardway store because I need some supplies. Man, 334 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 6: I'm doing the job on the side. I need some supply. 335 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 6: I get that. 336 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 11: You tell you said that already, but I'm confused about it. 337 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 11: Now you're asking for a weapon. What what what would 338 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 11: you do a machete for? I mean, you're you're talking about, 339 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 11: uh what you you're gonna chop down some some some brush. 340 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 11: I don't, I don't, I don't get it. What's some 341 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 11: schedy for? 342 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 6: Hey? Man, listen, listen. Your job is to take the order, man, 343 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 6: that's your job, Robbie. 344 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 11: Don't tell me about my job is. I know what 345 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 11: my job is. This is my store, man, Okay. I've 346 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 11: been working here a lot longer than you even can imagine. 347 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 11: And people don't call up asking for ammonia and and 348 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 11: cleaner and and and trying to get a smell out. 349 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 11: I mean what I just I'm trying to figure out 350 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 11: how best to help you. 351 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 6: I'm sorry I'm doing Robbie. Is you being nosy? You 352 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 6: being no All you gotta do is feel the order? 353 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 6: And haven't haven't done in two whiles when I get 354 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 6: to that's all you gotta do. 355 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 11: I can't do that in two hours. I can't even 356 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 11: I we'll backed up with this point. I'm not even 357 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 11: sure I can get this done. Maybe tomorrow morning. Does 358 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 11: tomorrow morning work for you? O? 359 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 6: Man, I got to get rid of this body. I 360 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 6: got to get rid of this pay today. 361 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 11: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. I need to call Listen, 362 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 11: I need to call the policeman. 363 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 6: You can say, body, you're right there. That's about white 364 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 6: people always want to call the police when it ain't 365 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 6: got nothing to do with them. Listen. All you need 366 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 6: to do is fill the order. 367 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, you're listen. I need to tell you something. Okay. 368 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 11: And I don't know if you if you found a body, 369 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 11: I don't know if you're responsible for the body. Either way, 370 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 11: I don't want to be in any part of this business. Okay. 371 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 11: I don't know why you're planning or where you're trying 372 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 11: to bury this thing, but you're basically asking me to 373 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 11: be accomplished to something that's none of my business. Hey, 374 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 11: I need your name right now. 375 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 6: Okay, what I'm not giving you my name? 376 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 11: You said you oh grouping? Hey hey, listen to me. 377 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 11: You said you call from company? 378 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 6: Are you? I'm not? 379 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 11: I'm not. 380 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 6: Hey man, let me tell you something. Why your white 381 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 6: folks always trying to be authority? Why you want like 382 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 6: white folks? 383 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 11: What's your problem some some of the white folks some 384 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 11: about purple green, black blue walk. It's not about White's 385 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 11: what you asking for? That sounds like trying to bury 386 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,400 Speaker 11: your body. Okay, that's what I'm trying to figure out. 387 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 2: Are you? 388 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 11: And if you're not? What is your name? I need 389 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 11: your name? I'm your name right now? 390 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 6: Hey man? Why first of all, you at work? You're not? 391 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 6: You can't. You ain't want to be talking to me 392 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 6: like this. 393 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 11: I don't care if I'm swearing at work. My my 394 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 11: co workers, the people here, they all know who I am, 395 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 11: and they know if I was talking to someone some people. 396 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 11: You not just talking like this too. Okay, I'm gonna 397 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 11: trace this call. Do you hear me? I'm gonna trace 398 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 11: this call. I'm gonna get the cops on your and 399 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 11: figure out. 400 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 6: Who the you are? Okay, okay, well let me let 401 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,239 Speaker 6: me ask you this. Since you want to know who 402 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 6: I am? Do you know Marcus? 403 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 11: I don't want no Marcus. He works here, man, I 404 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 11: ain't knowing him. 405 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 6: Okay, Marcus is who got me to call you? This 406 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 6: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Alby Morning Show. Robbie, 407 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 6: you just got prank by your coworker, Marcus. 408 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 11: You have got to be kidding me, Marcus, Marco, I 409 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 11: see you over there. I can't believe that. Who son 410 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 11: of a Marcus? Why don't you tell me this? 411 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 6: Hey? I gotta ask you, rabber. You gotta tell me 412 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 6: this man. What is the baddest and I mean the 413 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 6: baddest radio show in the land. 414 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 11: That's easy, as Steve Harvey Morning Show. 415 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 2: There you have it, go ahead, sir, all right? 416 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 7: Thank you that you coming up next? 417 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 9: It is as the Celo, our Chief love Officer Steve 418 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 9: Harvey and the building. 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We'll talk about all of these stories 437 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 9: at the top of the hour, but right now it 438 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 9: is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, 439 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey. 440 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 7: Here we go. 441 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 9: This is from Kadija in Baltimore. Kadija writes, my coworker 442 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 9: sent me set me up with a man that barely 443 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 9: speaks English. He speaks French fluently and it's hard to 444 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 9: understand him. But we managed to have sex after our 445 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 9: first date and it was quite rightsive. 446 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 7: How important is communication? 447 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 2: Wow, here's a person who is clearly finn to go 448 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:14,199 Speaker 2: back and do this again. Yeah, because her question was 449 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 2: after the first date of barely understanding this man important 450 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: this communication? But all I've ever heard a woman say 451 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 2: one of the most important things in the relationship is communication. 452 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: You've obviously put that aside. Polyvo sa weed jenif vic 453 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 2: mar Yes, come on, I say what your mind, don't 454 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 2: buck to the door? Yes? 455 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 7: Yes, so you know? 456 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 2: You know you can go on and keep dating Jacques 457 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 2: Cousteau if you want to. It ain't gonna go to 458 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 2: Jacques Cousteau. Ah, yeah it Luke at the shop. I 459 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 2: used to love that dude. 460 00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 5: All right. 461 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 7: This one's from Joe and Richardson. 462 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 9: Joe Lee writes that the married couple next to me 463 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 9: fight all the time, and I mind my business. My 464 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 9: wife asked me, why, as a man, don't I ever 465 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 9: try to calm her husband down if they're fussing outside. 466 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 7: I barely know them, so am I supposed to step 467 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 7: in there? 468 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 2: No? Now, if he hitting her, you gotta do your handle, 469 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 2: you bid. But if they are in talking loud, it 470 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 2: ain't your business. Though, That ain't your business. 471 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 7: Is that satisfactory to his wife? Though she's gonna be 472 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 7: satisfied with that? 473 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 2: Well, what you want your husband to do? Ladies, you 474 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 2: got to be careful putting your husband in these crazy 475 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 2: situations now, because that happens all the time. I was 476 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 2: just watching a crime show. 477 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: Here we go, I'm doing it. 478 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm telling you what. 479 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 2: Guy pulled out in front of this guy and kind 480 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: to cut him off. The guy pulled up next to 481 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 2: her and his girlfriend was in the car cussing the 482 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 2: man out, flipping the bird set up here and grabbed 483 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 2: a hand full of quarters and threw them up against 484 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 2: the dude's window. Then they got in the traffic light, 485 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 2: and then they pulled in front of the dude. The 486 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 2: dude was back there. He get out of his car 487 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 2: because he got his wife and kid in the car. 488 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,959 Speaker 2: She jump out the car, telling her husband, get him, 489 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 2: get him, get him dead. Reaches in the car, hands 490 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 2: her husband. The dude that was doing all the cussing 491 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 2: and stuff had her husband a knife. Now the dude 492 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 2: that got out the car just happened to have a 493 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 2: knife on him, stabs the man and kills Ah. Now 494 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 2: your husband dead because you're throwing quarters and flipping the 495 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 2: man off because he cuts you off. Rick, You got 496 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 2: to know how to protect your man. That's one of 497 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 2: your jobs as a woman, to protect your king, because 498 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 2: you know if you get in some man's face, he's 499 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 2: gonna have to do something. And you don't know who 500 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: this man. Yeah, little extreme example. 501 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:53,880 Speaker 6: Yes, it was. 502 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: Mind your business, go across the fence and the man 503 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: got a knife. Now where we're at, Yeah, yeah, all right. 504 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 9: Moving on to a mirror in Southfield, Amir says, I 505 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 9: dress nicely and my boss is a hater. 506 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 7: He said all my suits. 507 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 9: Are too small, and I snapped back and said that 508 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 9: I can't help it if I'm in great physical shape. 509 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 7: He's upset, but. 510 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 9: I feel like if he can hate on me, then 511 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 9: I can correct him. Am I right or am I wrong? 512 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? You're right, But you're gonna have your job long. 513 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 6: Now. 514 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: You need to start looking around. You need to take 515 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 2: your lead in shape some point, work at dum the sun. 516 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 2: That's what you need to do. Because you fin you 517 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: could find your little fat ball sending up here, know, 518 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 2: gutt and all this here. See, these dudes can wear 519 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 2: these these slim fit suits because they're in shape. 520 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 5: They look good on some guy. 521 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 2: Now it's some guys that's wearing this slim fit suit wrong. 522 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 2: If you button your coat, fellas and it's tight, crossed 523 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 2: it back, it looked like you got on the home 524 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 2: depot work vest. Then that ain't how to back of 525 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 2: your suit post to look. You can't look like you 526 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 2: got on a copper fit back brace when you button 527 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 2: your jack out. Other than that, gone and rocket. 528 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 7: Fellas, all right, all right, last one, last one? 529 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 2: Feel Oh. 530 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 9: This is from Carmela in Saint Petersburg. Carmela writes, my 531 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 9: boyfriend of four months planned a week long trip to 532 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 9: the Bahamas. Since I'm working from home, he thought it 533 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 9: would be cool. I'm not spontaneous like that, and I 534 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 9: really don't know him well enough yet. 535 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 7: Should I ask him to postpone it? 536 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely? If you're uncomfortable going, don't go. Yeah, I don't understand. 537 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,440 Speaker 2: You know, you're not spontaneous like that for you. That's 538 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 2: moving a little bit too fast. 539 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 7: A week. 540 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know. 541 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 2: If he's spent a night or a week in at 542 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 2: your house. But you need to try I wanted them first. Yeah, 543 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 2: Or going nowhere for no week. 544 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 7: Out of the country with someone you barely know. 545 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, lord, man, I tried to save some money when 546 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 2: I was on the road one time, you know, a 547 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: long time ago. I didn't have enough money for a room, 548 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 2: but I had a little bit, and the other comedian 549 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 2: had money. So we split a room at the red 550 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 2: roof end with two beds, and. 551 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 5: I set up all night. 552 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: Looking at him. 553 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 1: Why you were worried? 554 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 2: Dog, This dude was snoring, scratching, blowing wind, talking, getting up, 555 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: going to the bathroom, moaning, kicking covers on the floor. Dog, 556 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 2: this dude was over there in a full blown wrestling 557 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 2: match with itself. 558 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 7: I couldn't even go to sleep. 559 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 2: I set up all night watching. I said, I'm not 560 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: going to sleep. This dude come over here and stab 561 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 2: me in the middle of the night set up, but 562 00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: he was doing everything else. I mean, just be over 563 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 2: the card. And I woke up. I walk, I said, 564 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 2: hold up up. I set up all night long. 565 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 7: You determine you will never share a room again. 566 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 2: I ain't never been in a room with a person never 567 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 2: but but you got to learn them lessen, and that's 568 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: what she needed to do. You need to see who 569 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 2: this guy is You going a week now you're out 570 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 2: the country. Yeah, yeah, way too many stories about women 571 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: on these islands. 572 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 7: This way it really is. 573 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 2: Knowing them island police, they ain't the same. They ain't 574 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 2: got no toolsday, ain't got. 575 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 5: No forensic science, they ain't got no cameras. 576 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 1: They't they ca talk like y'all friends. 577 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 6: What happen? 578 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 9: So you say she could definitely ask him to postpone 579 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 9: the trip till she gets more comfortable. 580 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: Steve, Yeah, I'm not going. I don't know you well enough. 581 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 2: I can't take a week and do that, you know. 582 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 9: And she has to say that for her own that's 583 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 9: a good warnings. Uh huh for sure. 584 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 7: All right, thank you, Silus. 585 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 5: Staying with nobody that. 586 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 9: Yeah, coming up at the top of the hour, we'll 587 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 9: have some entertainment news for you right after this. 588 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 7: You're listening Hard Morning Show. 589 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 9: According to Black Enterprise, actor Terrence Howard claims that Diddy 590 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 9: try to have sex with him while trying to help 591 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 9: him with some acting lessons during a recent episode of 592 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 9: The p B D Bought podcast. Terrence said that Diddy 593 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 9: wanted him to be his acting coach for a while. 594 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 13: Take a listen, you wanted me to be his acting 595 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 13: coach for a while. Go there and he's sitting around 596 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 13: just looking. I'm like, okay, what's the material you want 597 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 13: to work on? He's just looking at me. Then next thing, 598 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 13: you know, okay, hey we will will you help me? 599 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 13: I want to hear your music. So I come over 600 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 13: there and play the music and he's sitting there just 601 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 13: looking at me, like waiting. 602 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 2: Okay. 603 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 13: So then my assistant was like, you know, he wants 604 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 13: to hang out with you next week, and I was like, 605 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 13: for what He's like, I think he's trying to forge 606 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 13: That's what my assistant said. 607 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 2: I was like, oh. 608 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 13: Okay, now I get it, So now no more communication. 609 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. It does not sound like 610 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 2: a lie at all. It don't. 611 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 10: It don't sound made up or nothing. It sounds like 612 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 10: he's telling the truth. That's what that's just tell me. 613 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 7: It sounds like, yeah, very convinced. 614 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean truth or not. Hell, you know he 615 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 2: in there for something. Yeah. 616 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 7: Yeah. 617 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 2: And you see a whole group of men on TV 618 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 2: crying over something that happened holding each other. You know, man, 619 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 2: I just look, man, look, something happened. I've heard conflicting 620 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 2: things about there's a strong possibility he could get out 621 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,479 Speaker 2: and all of this here. I don't know. I don't know. 622 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 2: I quit, I quit thinking about it. Really, what's gonna 623 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 2: happen to him? 624 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 9: He's in jail waiting for his trial Steve to start 625 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 9: next month as he faces multiple sex trafficking be. 626 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 2: Free, He be free if he gave that girl that money. 627 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 2: If he had gave that girl that money like he 628 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: had promised her, he'd be free. 629 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: Cassie, she's going to be witnessed to. 630 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but when they sent that But when her lawyer 631 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,239 Speaker 2: sent the findings to his lord, we're gonna veew mey 632 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: denial assassination the character. They sent the findings over to him. 633 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 2: The check came out the next day. Now, people ticked off. 634 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 2: And then when that lady from CNN went down there 635 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 2: to that hotel and talked to that lady who who 636 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 2: hated him, and said, let me show you so I 637 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,719 Speaker 2: kept a copy and gave her a copy at ten 638 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 2: o'clue at one o'clock, he was on CNN. And then 639 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 2: that was a wrap. That was it. Yeah, that was it. 640 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: Man. 641 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 2: Put your hands on that girl. 642 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 9: Man, But I would see, right, I lost everything. You know, 643 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 9: I really wasn't expecting. I didn't know what I thought 644 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 9: Terrence Howard was gonna say. But I wasn't expecting that 645 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 9: a kind of case a surprise. Yeah, yeah, switching gears 646 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 9: and trending political news. According to Yahoo dot com, Former 647 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 9: Vice President Kamala Harris spoke at the Leading Women to 648 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 9: Find summit in California on this past Thursday, where she 649 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 9: reminded the audience about her warning to voters about Trump. 650 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 7: Take a listen, because you. 651 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 14: Know, there were many things that we knew what happened anything. 652 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 14: I'm not your SF so, but I'll say this, fear 653 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 14: has a way of being contagious yet intent. When one 654 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 14: person has fear, it has a way of spreading to 655 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 14: those around them and spreading. 656 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 7: And we are witnessing that no doubt. But I say this. 657 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 14: Also, my dear friends, courage is also contagious, all right. 658 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 9: The former Vice president also praised the Hands Off protesters 659 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 9: for using their voices and standing up to the Trump 660 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 9: administration and his Project twenty twenty five agenda. 661 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, ain't no black people in protest. 662 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 7: We already know and quit. 663 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 2: Asking us, right, what could come? No really quite asking 664 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 2: us come out there and protest with you. 665 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 5: Where the black sat? 666 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 2: What we told y'all, yes, where the black sat you 667 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 2: know when we tried to get our point across it. 668 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 5: Don't be nobody out there but black people. 669 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 2: Now, we appreciate the ones that did jump in on 670 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,760 Speaker 2: the Black lives matter, but we had the wrong slogan 671 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 2: for that. We should have had black lives matter also. 672 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 2: Once we didn't do that, that just here come to 673 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,359 Speaker 2: white people. Well, white lives matter too, well, okay, good, well, 674 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 2: now all these you know Latinosa protesting. We told y'all 675 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 2: all these white people that's protested, we told y'all, but 676 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 2: five million more y'all voted for him, and you black 677 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 2: people that was blacks for Trump. Y'all just say, he 678 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 2: ain't got no policy for you. 679 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,399 Speaker 9: So these people that showed up the hands off protesters, 680 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 9: if y'all would have just showed up to the polls, yeah, 681 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 9: bod did comes past weekend, wouldn't be saying I told 682 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,240 Speaker 9: you so moment. 683 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 7: Well yeah, okay. 684 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 9: Finally in entertainment news, according to T and TMZ, NEO 685 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 9: R and B singer Neo. We all know who he is. Yeah, well, 686 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 9: you know he has four girlfriends. He finally brought all 687 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 9: four of his girlfriends to the club for date night 688 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 9: in New York City. Neo and his girls put on 689 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 9: a display of public affection. He performed a few of 690 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 9: his hits at the club. He is not ashamed of 691 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 9: his polyamorous relationship slash lifestyle, and he has no cap 692 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 9: or limit to the number of girlfriends he could be 693 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 9: involved with. 694 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 1: So there you go. 695 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 5: I'm only questioned for the girls. Is what's in it 696 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 5: for you? 697 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 9: Neo? What you're talking about to them? 698 00:36:51,120 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 7: Obviously he ain't no interest. 699 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 2: You are one of four with the only potential is 700 00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 2: that could be more added? 701 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 10: Yeah? 702 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 2: What's yeah? 703 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 10: Yeah? 704 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,280 Speaker 2: For the girls? 705 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 9: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour the most 706 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 9: common mistakes people make on the tax returns. 707 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 7: Get ready, Steve. 708 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 709 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 2: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your 710 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 2: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck 711 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,280 Speaker 2: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping 712 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:42,840 Speaker 2: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features 713 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 2: that can alert you to potential dangers around you. 714 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 10: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 715 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 10: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have one over one 716 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 10: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand 717 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 10: and six to twenty twenty four as of December twenty 718 00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 10: twenty four. 719 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,839 Speaker 9: Taxday is April fifteenth, and it is approaching quickly. And 720 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 9: to make sure you don't get charge penalties or delay 721 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 9: your refund, please avoid these common mistakes and see if 722 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,720 Speaker 9: you can feel free to jump in at any time. Okay, 723 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 9: missing or inaccurate data, that's one of them. We all 724 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,320 Speaker 9: make typos or forget to sign forms from time to time. 725 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 9: Double check those social Security numbers, bank account numbers. Make 726 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,959 Speaker 9: sure names are spelled correctly. You have anything to add 727 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:31,280 Speaker 9: to that, Steve, let. 728 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 2: Me tell you something. You can misspel all the names 729 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 2: you wont You can misspel your bank name. Once they 730 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,720 Speaker 2: got your account information, you ain't got to say another 731 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 2: ding right now. I'm telling you, right now, sit up 732 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 2: in here worrying about make sure you got They know 733 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 2: who you are. They know exactly who you are, They 734 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,800 Speaker 2: know exactly how much you made. 735 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 5: It's all in the computers. Now you can stop all this. 736 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 2: I didn't spell so and so name right, and you 737 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 2: can add a baby if you want to. They know 738 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 2: who you got. Listen, man, I'm telling you listen. Pay 739 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 2: these people eate money. 740 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 7: All right. 741 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 9: Moving on to this when Steve, please, people also tend 742 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 9: to forget to include tax forms like ten ninety nine's 743 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 9: and get deductions wrong. That could result in the IRS 744 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 9: rejecting your return. 745 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:24,400 Speaker 7: Steve, what do you say. 746 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,840 Speaker 2: Listen to me. They got all kinds of ways not 747 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 2: to send you your money. Dot the i's, cross the ts. 748 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 2: Quit doing taxes yourself. Let me just say this right here, 749 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 2: stop them people. 750 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 7: But a lot of people do that. 751 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Then when you don't get your money right 752 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 2: you you ain't got nothing to do. Go down there 753 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 2: to hr Block, Go down there to Jackson Tax, go 754 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: down there to somebody. Let somebody help you. 755 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 5: Let's somebody help you. 756 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 2: H and R. 757 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, okay. 758 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 2: Now, if you just got a part time job, it's simple. 759 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 2: But if you got a business, you need some help. LLC. 760 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 2: You need help. 761 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 6: Now. 762 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 2: If you just filing your taxes as a single person, 763 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 2: you do like you want to do, but don't drag 764 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,720 Speaker 2: your family down and dragged you keep. 765 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:10,280 Speaker 1: Going to lining? 766 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 9: Why do you keep going to Liningty do taxes, lawn 767 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 9: mowers service, and tax repair? 768 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:26,280 Speaker 2: We fix lawnmowers, TVs? Who fixed TVs? Anymore? 769 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:27,280 Speaker 6: Right? 770 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 9: All right, here's the last one, Steve, incorrect deductions. There 771 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 9: are a lot of tax credits and tax reductions for 772 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 9: tax payers, but taking ones that don't apply to you 773 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 9: could lead to the IRS rejecting your return or worse, 774 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 9: putting you up for an audit. The deadline, of course, 775 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,839 Speaker 9: is April fifteenth, and if you miss it and haven't 776 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 9: filed a valid extension, you face failure to file penalties. 777 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 7: So there you go. 778 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 2: Listen, claim all your dependents, claim your spouse, and get 779 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 2: your child child daycare credit. Get all okay? Okay? 780 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 5: Did after that? Send them the. 781 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 9: Money coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, 782 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 9: Thank you, Steve and Case shamisted it. 783 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,280 Speaker 7: This past Friday. 784 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 9: Was National lie Day, l Ie, National lie Day. We'll 785 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 9: give you some tips on how to be a good liar. 786 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,920 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 787 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 9: Case you missed it. This past Friday was National Lie Day. Guys, 788 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,320 Speaker 9: and we all know the consequences of lying and getting 789 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 9: caught can be huge. So Steve, Tommy Junior, here's some 790 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:39,239 Speaker 9: suggested tips from wikiHow dot com on how to be 791 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 9: a good liar. Please feel free to add to this list. Okay, 792 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,240 Speaker 9: First of all, Steve, it says to be a good liar, 793 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,800 Speaker 9: you have to tell a believable lie. You got to 794 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 9: ask yourself if you would believe the lie that you're telling. 795 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 9: Think of questions the other person may ask. 796 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 5: And all lie must believed. 797 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 1: So you agreed, agreed? 798 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,720 Speaker 2: The ain't No. First of all, tell a believable lie. 799 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 2: All your lives must. 800 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 7: Be believable, but some of yours. 801 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 2: See No, all your lives have to be grounded in truth, 802 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:15,360 Speaker 2: in truth. 803 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 7: Okay, all right, you want to add Tommy or junr No. 804 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,399 Speaker 1: No, that's that's the first rule. 805 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,840 Speaker 2: You should. You should You should lie practice though you 806 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 2: know what I mean. 807 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 9: That's what says practice saying the lit It says it's 808 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 9: stand in front of the mirror and practice what you're 809 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:32,879 Speaker 9: going to say. 810 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 2: So you're commit to. 811 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: Well you don't agree, no. 812 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,400 Speaker 2: No, call your boy run it by him. You need 813 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 2: to hear another voice you in the mirror. You ain't 814 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 2: talking to nobody but yourself. You hear you think you right? 815 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 2: You got to run this by somebody else. 816 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 7: Okay. 817 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,239 Speaker 9: Now they seem to disagree with that one, Steve. They say, 818 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,320 Speaker 9: if possible, try not to involve other people. 819 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 5: You don't involve them in the lie. 820 00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,120 Speaker 7: Uh huh. 821 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 5: But but like Tommy said, you got to practice. 822 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 2: You gotta practice with your boy. 823 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 1: So you're saying you need to have a dress rehearsal. 824 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 7: Okay, so you can. 825 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 2: On the magnitude of the line. 826 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 7: Can you and Tommy do a quick dress rehearsal line. 827 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 2: I'll give you an example. If you go into court, 828 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 2: you need you need to press court. 829 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, this is a place where you put your hand 830 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 9: on the Bible. 831 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, 832 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 1: and nothing but your Bible. 833 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 7: You don't make it that like with your partner. Don't 834 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,600 Speaker 7: make it that like with your partner. 835 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 2: If you tell her, skip all that and can we 836 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 2: back to court? But your head, that is not your Bible. 837 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, Bible period. 838 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 5: No, that's not the Bible. That's that you don't know 839 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 5: who had that boy. 840 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 7: You're going to jail, all right. 841 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:54,439 Speaker 9: And here's one It says, keep the life short, Keep 842 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:59,640 Speaker 9: it short, don't add any extra information or anything like that. 843 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,719 Speaker 9: Keep shut what you got, what you got to say 844 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,280 Speaker 9: to that? 845 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 2: That depends. 846 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 10: I mean, you can try to keep it short, but 847 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 10: sometimes a lie gotta have some detail to it. So 848 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,319 Speaker 10: you got to got to have a story with your line. 849 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 10: Your life has to have a story to it has 850 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 10: to have a beginning, middle, and. 851 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,280 Speaker 7: Its Yes, that's what makes it a lie. 852 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, you know what I like to do. 853 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,040 Speaker 8: What I have an activity? As soon as I finished 854 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 8: tell the line, I have something to go do. Right 855 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 8: when I finish line, I can't stand there that you think. 856 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 8: I got to get out of it. 857 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:38,440 Speaker 9: Also, leaving after you tell, I tell you escape, that's 858 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 9: I'm going. 859 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 1: That's another come on. 860 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,960 Speaker 5: Lying in paragraphs. 861 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 2: That's like what like see, because you when you lie, 862 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 2: you gotta have it's got to be based on truth. 863 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,880 Speaker 2: So you got to start with some truth. Every lie 864 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 2: must be laced with some form of truth. 865 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:05,399 Speaker 9: All right, Okay, now here's one. If you stand completely 866 00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 9: still saying that's not a good idea while you're telling 867 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 9: you lie, that person will know you're lying. 868 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 7: You need to move around naturally. Absolutely, are you standing. 869 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 2: Clean? 870 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,640 Speaker 5: My glasses. I do a whole lot of. 871 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 7: Stuff when I'm lying, while you're lying. 872 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,799 Speaker 2: When you're lying, what is it? What do you do? 873 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,239 Speaker 5: I joink coffee, clean my glasses? 874 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 2: You know? Text? 875 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,719 Speaker 7: So are you avoiding icon? 876 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,879 Speaker 2: Look? You dead in you? Yeah? 877 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 7: Well tell me you were an actor. 878 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna look, bit, I'm gonna cry if I got. 879 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 9: You, all right? The last one is cover your tracks. 880 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,960 Speaker 9: Cover your tracks. Don't leave any evidence behind like social media, 881 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 9: don't post any thing and lie about you can't do 882 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,800 Speaker 9: any of that, So cover your tracks. 883 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:05,880 Speaker 2: You got a good enough lie, you ain't got to 884 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 2: cover your tracks. 885 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 9: Coming over next, and it's a prank phone call from 886 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:13,360 Speaker 9: the nephew. 887 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,360 Speaker 1: You guys, right, what's a liar? 888 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 889 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 9: at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes 890 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 9: after this is one of my favorite Strawberry letters. The 891 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:33,640 Speaker 9: subject is I slipped up and went back for more. Okay, 892 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,120 Speaker 9: we'll find out what that's all about just a few 893 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,360 Speaker 9: but right now the nephew you hear me, he's here 894 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 9: with today's prank phone call. 895 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 7: What you got for its. 896 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 2: Neph surely that's right here. 897 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:52,560 Speaker 10: It's called love, deposit, love, deposit. 898 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 7: What's with the voice. 899 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,879 Speaker 10: That's when you're trying to be sexy because you worked 900 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 10: all week. That's what that is. Yeah, but you're always 901 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 10: trying to be sexy. 902 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:07,879 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I am. 903 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 10: I am sexy even when my voice shot, I'm still 904 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,360 Speaker 10: sex I am. 905 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 906 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,479 Speaker 7: I know you ain't correct, but I love it. 907 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 2: Well I am. He's gonna say, is, I'm is. 908 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,399 Speaker 1: Oh, you corrected him to be to worse to worse. 909 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 2: You know, we got callers that listen to your English. 910 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 2: You know that. Yeah, that's why I'm saying that to 911 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,160 Speaker 2: that caller that told me I got to do better, 912 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 2: and he was really no, I'm not. 913 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 6: No. 914 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 2: I'm a role model for inspiration and uplift of young people. 915 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,799 Speaker 2: I changed boys and girls lives. I get people on 916 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 2: track with the way they think. I ain't in here 917 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 2: telling you how to talk. So do you think you 918 00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:57,719 Speaker 2: got a bunch of people, a bunch of kids saying 919 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 2: what if they do? What is? What? What? What? 920 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 6: What is? 921 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 7: I'm gonna do this? 922 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 6: What? You know? 923 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 7: What? 924 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:09,400 Speaker 2: What do the school? Dude? Why y'all over here with 925 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,720 Speaker 2: Now I gotta do that. Now I gotta be their daddy. 926 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,359 Speaker 5: And do what the school do. I can't do all that. 927 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,240 Speaker 5: I have stepped in for your daddy. 928 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 2: Now I'm not. 929 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 7: Saying that's what you're mentoring. 930 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,919 Speaker 9: Camps is a great thing. 931 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 7: Thank you line. 932 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, all is. 933 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,839 Speaker 2: A love devisit? Let's go? 934 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 12: Hello? 935 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 6: Hello, I'm trying to Tiffany. 936 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:40,840 Speaker 12: H This is Tiffany. Who's calling? 937 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 6: This is Karen. How you doing? I don't know, I 938 00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,399 Speaker 6: didn't know what I know we've been. I know we've 939 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 6: been going back and forth on the site talking and 940 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 6: we haven't you know, really talked yet. 941 00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 12: So yeah, I'm gonna expect in a call. But yeah, 942 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 12: it's good to hear from you. It's good to hear 943 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 12: from you all, you know. 944 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 6: I mean we've been we've been talking for well a 945 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 6: long time, well, texting and on the site for at 946 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 6: least what five weeks now. 947 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, So really I'm glad you called a Corell seriously, 948 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 12: Like Anne, I love the voice, So I'm exciting. 949 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 6: Hey, Yeah, you know you got anything going on this weekend? 950 00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,719 Speaker 12: I don't think so I just have to, like, you know, 951 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 12: go grocery shopping or whatever. But like, other than that, 952 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 12: I'm pretty helping. What's up? 953 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,879 Speaker 6: I was thinking maybe we get together, get a get 954 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 6: a drink or two, just you know, kind of yeah, 955 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,279 Speaker 6: got a little bit of feel each other out and 956 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 6: if you if you're feeling that, you know, I don't 957 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 6: want to. 958 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 12: Yeah, that's cool, we can get together. I'm interested, you know, like, 959 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 12: I'm happy you called and I would love to see 960 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 12: this weekend. 961 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 6: You got a place in mind, like I heard you know, 962 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,319 Speaker 6: I was thinking about letting you pick something because you know, 963 00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 6: I'd rather go somewhere where you're comfortable adminisphere that you 964 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 6: used to. Uh, I think that would be the best 965 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 6: thing to do. 966 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 12: Okay, well let me look ill direct you on that. 967 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:09,399 Speaker 12: But yeah, I'm down. 968 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 6: I just want to hang out a little bit. 969 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 7: Cool, I'm excited, good, good. 970 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 6: What's good for you? You know, if you want to do 971 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:25,320 Speaker 6: Friday on Saturday, let's do Let's. 972 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,279 Speaker 12: Do Saturday to give me, you know, some time to like, 973 00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 12: you know, gut myself together. 974 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 6: Six or seven, text me you know the location or 975 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 6: whatever wherever you want me to you know. 976 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 12: Cool, Hey, I can't wait to see you. 977 00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 6: Okay, let's let's do this. Price tell me this what? 978 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 6: What what are we wearing? So I'm not I don't 979 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 6: want to be overdressed. Underdressed. 980 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 12: I don't really trip on that you first take to 981 00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 12: be chill like I'm not. You know, we don't have 982 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,880 Speaker 12: to do like a five hundred dollars dinner or nothing 983 00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 12: like that. You don't need on a touch. This ain't 984 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:53,799 Speaker 12: a Rocky Nation brunch, you. 985 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 6: Know, all right? Right, but if you don't mind, if 986 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,799 Speaker 6: I could get you to do something for him? Could 987 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:05,680 Speaker 6: you could I give you my cash app for what? Well, 988 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:09,000 Speaker 6: what I want to do is, you know, sometimes these 989 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 6: things actually go wrong. You know, I don't see it 990 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 6: going wrong with me and you because we've had you know, 991 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,799 Speaker 6: the way we've been chit chatting and going back and 992 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:17,879 Speaker 6: forth on the site, things have been really really well, 993 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 6: you know, you know I would like to get you know, 994 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 6: like a you know, a love deposit of two hundred 995 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 6: and fifty dollars their way of just going wrong. At 996 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 6: least I haven't wasted my time, you know what I'm saying. 997 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:42,399 Speaker 12: Hold on, I'm just saying, what does happen? You said 998 00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 12: you want me to get your cast apt and send 999 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 12: you a love deposit of two hundred and something dollars. 1000 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 6: Two fifty two fifty like you know that way of this? 1001 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 6: Don't if this don't go right, you know, then at 1002 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,359 Speaker 6: least I haven't you know, it's love. It's like a 1003 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,520 Speaker 6: love deposit, you know, if it go if it goes right, 1004 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,319 Speaker 6: you know, then I give it back to you. If 1005 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 6: it don't go right, you know, at least I haven't 1006 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,319 Speaker 6: wasted my time. You see what I'm saying? 1007 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 12: You serious? 1008 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 15: Right? 1009 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 2: No? 1010 00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:07,279 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1011 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 12: Like yeah, okay, Uh this is super weird and uh yeah, 1012 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:18,160 Speaker 12: this is all weird and uh you know, I'm come. 1013 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,399 Speaker 12: I don't you really know what to say, like, other 1014 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,440 Speaker 12: than you could probably lose my number? Like you what 1015 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 12: we do? Like, don't call me like your corny. I'm 1016 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,799 Speaker 12: not interested, you bum like I'm straight, Like I don't know. 1017 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 6: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I wasn't all 1018 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 6: let I wasn't all talking about We've been talking. We've 1019 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 6: been talking for five weeks. Everything's been good. We've been 1020 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:40,840 Speaker 6: we've been on the site, talking to each other. 1021 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 12: So the two weeks ago, you're trying to ask me 1022 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:46,440 Speaker 12: for a cash app for real, a love deposit? How corny? 1023 00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:46,799 Speaker 6: Are you? 1024 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,560 Speaker 12: Are you serious? Seriously? 1025 00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,799 Speaker 6: If you believe listen tip on the reil, if you 1026 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 6: believe in yourself, you. 1027 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,440 Speaker 12: Know, if I believe in myself. Don't pull out of here. 1028 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:06,360 Speaker 12: You have lost your in mind. Okay, would you please 1029 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 12: like gather your thoughts because I don't know who you 1030 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 12: think you're talking to. Carel you know what I'm saying. 1031 00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 12: So I need to do two things. Lose my number 1032 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,279 Speaker 12: and don't don't look for me for real? Show up 1033 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:22,280 Speaker 12: like this is ridiculous, Like this is stupid, you ignorant? 1034 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 11: For real? 1035 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:23,319 Speaker 12: Shut up? 1036 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,440 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, show me, show me where I'm wrong. If 1037 00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:30,040 Speaker 6: you believe in yourself. 1038 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,400 Speaker 12: If I believe in myself, Jude, what you mean? If 1039 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,120 Speaker 12: I believe in myself, If you believe in yourself, you'll 1040 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:38,120 Speaker 12: We're move around. Get off the phone and stop wasting 1041 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 12: my time for real. I'm about to hang out right 1042 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 12: now for real? 1043 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:46,440 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, straight before you hang up, Joe, Hey, you 1044 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,319 Speaker 6: can go. You could go your way, I can go. 1045 00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,880 Speaker 6: Mind you don't want to carry me the two fifty? Cool? 1046 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 6: Got that? Okay? 1047 00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:56,480 Speaker 12: Okay? 1048 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,799 Speaker 6: You know what? What is? Is this your life test? 1049 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:01,680 Speaker 6: This show? Lady? 1050 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 12: You gotta be out your rabbit's mine. Ain't no lost. 1051 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 12: This here, ain't no lost, This ain't no lost. This 1052 00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:08,840 Speaker 12: is a blessing. 1053 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 6: Okay, you know what, you know what. I knew this 1054 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,759 Speaker 6: was gonna happen. You know, I want a brother. Try 1055 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:13,839 Speaker 6: to be real when a brother. 1056 00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 12: Hey, hey, you might as well, hey, turn around, go 1057 00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,239 Speaker 12: the other direction. Lock yourself up. Seriously, you want to 1058 00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,120 Speaker 12: talk about black black men and brotherhood like it's a 1059 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,359 Speaker 12: wrap for you. We don't need you out here at 1060 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:32,440 Speaker 12: your youthless straight up like, don't call me destroy yourself 1061 00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 12: for real. I'm done with this. 1062 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,279 Speaker 6: Can I tell you something else for you? Lady? Real quick? 1063 00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,799 Speaker 6: What I just want to let you know that This 1064 00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 6: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show, your 1065 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,839 Speaker 6: sister to shave Shave got me to play fall call 1066 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:57,480 Speaker 6: yo yo, Shay said, you gotta get my sister. You've 1067 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:01,160 Speaker 6: been on the right on this dating side, talking to God. 1068 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 12: Where is she at? This is stupid? 1069 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,919 Speaker 6: Oh we got you, baby, We got you good. 1070 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 12: Yeah, this is crazy. I'm gonna get her. I'm gonna 1071 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:14,080 Speaker 12: get her. 1072 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 6: This is I tell you tell me this. What is 1073 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,880 Speaker 6: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 1074 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 6: the land, The. 1075 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:25,959 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1076 00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:35,120 Speaker 2: And there you have it. That's it right, all right? 1077 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 7: Thank you nephew. 1078 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,280 Speaker 9: Coming up next it is my Strawberry letter for today 1079 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,719 Speaker 9: and the subject is slipped up and went back for 1080 00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:43,320 Speaker 9: more right after. 1081 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:46,480 Speaker 15: This, Hey, it's Carla Ferroll kick that old mop and 1082 00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:47,400 Speaker 15: bucket aside. 1083 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,160 Speaker 1: Are you ready for a mop. 1084 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,760 Speaker 15: And bucket clean and half the time make the swap 1085 00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 15: to Swifter Power Mop, the only one. Cleaning Hero has 1086 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,720 Speaker 15: a built in solution that breaks down dirt and grind 1087 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,280 Speaker 15: like magic. 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We could 1095 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 9: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 1096 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 9: we're going to read this one right here, right now, 1097 00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 9: and you never know, it could be yours. 1098 00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on. Tag 1099 00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:40,360 Speaker 2: good guy to. 1100 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 9: Strawb You are so sexy. Subject Thank you No subject 1101 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 9: I slipped up and went back for more. 1102 00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:59,400 Speaker 2: Stephen Shirley, excuse me, shey is slipped up. I slipped 1103 00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:07,200 Speaker 2: up and went for seconds. 1104 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 9: I have asked you, sir, to change it to more. 1105 00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 9: All right, dear Stephen Shirley. I'm married to a great 1106 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 9: man that looked good and had everything going for him 1107 00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,920 Speaker 9: except in the bedroom. I told myself that sex wasn't everything, 1108 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 9: and I managed to make it for three years without cheating. 1109 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 9: Up until our wedding. I was sleeping with my daughter's 1110 00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:33,280 Speaker 9: father because we already had history. I was comfortable with him. 1111 00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 9: Some would say too comfortable because we were not using protection. 1112 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,360 Speaker 9: My husband and I had sex maybe once a week, 1113 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,800 Speaker 9: and that was all for him because he's on the 1114 00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 9: smaller side. I was sleeping with my ex at least 1115 00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:48,360 Speaker 9: three times a week, and then we had a pregnancy 1116 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 9: scare and it scared me half to death. I was 1117 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 9: not going to risk the good life over great sex. 1118 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 9: My ex got married last year, so we'd see each 1119 00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:01,479 Speaker 9: other to pick up to pick up our and drop 1120 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 9: off our daughter. 1121 00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 7: That all changed two days ago. 1122 00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 9: I went to pick up my daughter and my ex 1123 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,200 Speaker 9: set his wife is out of town and he wanted 1124 00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,240 Speaker 9: to show me how they painted my daughter's room. My 1125 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 9: daughter was watching TV in the family room. That man 1126 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 9: did not take me to our daughter's bedroom. He took 1127 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 9: me to this huge storage area by his bedroom and 1128 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 9: he locked the door. My husband called at the very moment, 1129 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 9: and I told him I had something to do first 1130 00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:29,200 Speaker 9: and i'd be home soon. I had to have sex 1131 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 9: real quick. That's what I had to do. It was 1132 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,800 Speaker 9: so so, so so good. I got myself together and 1133 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,960 Speaker 9: my daughter and I left. All the way home, my 1134 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:41,160 Speaker 9: daughter asked why we were locked in the closet. I 1135 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,920 Speaker 9: tried to convince her that she was mistaken. She is 1136 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,040 Speaker 9: a very outspoken eight year old, so I'm sure she'll 1137 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 9: ask again. What do I tell my child? And what 1138 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,760 Speaker 9: if she asked me in front of in front of 1139 00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:57,360 Speaker 9: my husband? Wow, what a conundrum you're in. I'm sorry 1140 00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,200 Speaker 9: you didn't ask us before you went over to your 1141 00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,440 Speaker 9: ex's house and had sex and got locked in a 1142 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 9: storage room with him. You were really gambling with what 1143 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:10,960 Speaker 9: you've described as your good life for sex first and 1144 00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:14,080 Speaker 9: no protection, sex which led to a pregnancy scare. And 1145 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 9: then your eight year old daughter asking questions as kids 1146 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 9: do when they see things or hear things. So as 1147 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:24,040 Speaker 9: I see the problem is you. You're reckless, you're selfish. 1148 00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,120 Speaker 9: You didn't care about your husband. What he was going 1149 00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,920 Speaker 9: to say. What you want from him is a lifestyle 1150 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 9: he provides for you, as you call it, the good life. 1151 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 9: You said your husband is a good man, so why 1152 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,360 Speaker 9: would you risk it over someone who clearly only wants 1153 00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:39,040 Speaker 9: you for sex. 1154 00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:42,840 Speaker 7: Now, your daughter is not mentioning it is a chance. 1155 00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 9: That's a chance you're going to have to take, and 1156 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 9: that might work for you since you're a gambler anyway, 1157 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,640 Speaker 9: or you're going to have to sit her down and 1158 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 9: ask her not to say anything. 1159 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 7: Those are your choices. 1160 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 9: Either you take a chance on her not saying anything, 1161 00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,720 Speaker 9: or you sit her down and ask her not to 1162 00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 9: say anything to a step down period. I hope you've 1163 01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 9: learned something from this experience and you're gonna stop doing 1164 01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,720 Speaker 9: stupid stuff. That's all I have to say to you, Steve. 1165 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 2: I don't think she's learned anything, and I'm a little 1166 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:15,080 Speaker 2: bit confused by the letter. Actually, she says she's married 1167 01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,560 Speaker 2: to a great man that looked good and had everything 1168 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 2: going for him except in the bedroom. I told myself 1169 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 2: sex wasn't everything, and I managed to make it for 1170 01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 2: three years without cheating. So now is she saying that 1171 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 2: she started the cheating after she got married. 1172 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 7: Being married to her husband. Yeah, for three years she 1173 01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:40,560 Speaker 7: was good for her. 1174 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 2: Because what it sounds like, she says, up until our wedding, 1175 01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 2: this is what she says, Up until our wedding, I 1176 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 2: was sleeping with my daughter's. 1177 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,720 Speaker 9: Father, and then they got married, and then for three 1178 01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 9: years she was all good. 1179 01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 7: Then she started again. 1180 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 2: All up until our wedding, I was sleeping with my 1181 01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,440 Speaker 2: daughter's father because we already had history. 1182 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 5: I was comfortable with him. 1183 01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,560 Speaker 2: Some would say too comfortable because we were not using protection. 1184 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:12,880 Speaker 2: My husband and I had sex maybe once a week, 1185 01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 2: and that was all for him because he's on the 1186 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:20,320 Speaker 2: smaller side. Yeah. I was sleeping with my ex three 1187 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 2: times a week, and then we had a little pregnancy. 1188 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 2: Scared That scared her, and I wasn't gonna risk a 1189 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 2: good life over great sex. Then her ex got married 1190 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:34,040 Speaker 2: last year, so I only saw each other for pickup 1191 01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:36,720 Speaker 2: and drop off of our daughter. That all changed two 1192 01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 2: days ago. She went over to the exit and said 1193 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,880 Speaker 2: his wife was out of town and he wanted to 1194 01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 2: show me how they painted my daughter's room. My daughter 1195 01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,200 Speaker 2: was watching TV in the family room room, and that 1196 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 2: man didn't take me to the daughter's bedroom. He took 1197 01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 2: me to a huge storage area by his bedroom. Not 1198 01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,800 Speaker 2: where is that at it? I don't know, a huge 1199 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,000 Speaker 2: storage room. 1200 01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 5: Down there by the bedroom? What? 1201 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:10,920 Speaker 2: What they haven't had a few houses? 1202 01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:12,000 Speaker 6: What? 1203 01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:17,480 Speaker 2: Lady, lady, stop trying to make this like it was 1204 01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 2: some big, huge storage area. 1205 01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:21,840 Speaker 7: Exactly if you. 1206 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:25,080 Speaker 2: Got another huge room in your house, why ain't that 1207 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 2: your master yeah? Or why ain't that the junior sweep? 1208 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 2: Ain't nobody got no huge extra room in the house. 1209 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 2: You was in a closet. Let's make this thing as 1210 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:45,560 Speaker 2: gritty and dirty as it really is. Yeah, huge storage area? 1211 01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 2: What was in the mops buckets? That's a closet, storage stage. 1212 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 7: Gowns to make I would hang on, Steve, We'll have 1213 01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,439 Speaker 7: part two of your response coming up at twenty three 1214 01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 7: minutes after today's title is I slipped up and went 1215 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:08,560 Speaker 7: back for more? Right after this, you're listening to the 1216 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:10,080 Speaker 7: Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1217 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,600 Speaker 2: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your 1218 01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:21,200 Speaker 2: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck 1219 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 2: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping 1220 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:30,080 Speaker 2: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features 1221 01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,720 Speaker 2: that can alert you to potential dangers around you. 1222 01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,440 Speaker 10: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 1223 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 10: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one 1224 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:42,080 Speaker 10: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand 1225 01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 10: and six to twenty twenty four as of December twenty 1226 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:46,000 Speaker 10: twenty four. 1227 01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1228 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 9: The subject I slipped up and went back for more. 1229 01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:56,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you did. You got this great guy, good 1230 01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 2: at everything except in the bedroom, budd he's a great guy. 1231 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:03,200 Speaker 2: Other than that, you was trying to act like sex 1232 01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:06,960 Speaker 2: wasn't that important, and you was doing all. You slept 1233 01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:11,200 Speaker 2: with him up until you got married. But then after 1234 01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 2: you got married, three years went by and you was okay, 1235 01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 2: and you were sleeping with this dude three times a 1236 01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,840 Speaker 2: week and your husband once because he's on the smaller side, 1237 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:28,160 Speaker 2: so that was it for him. And then you said, 1238 01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:31,760 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna risk a good life over great sex. 1239 01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 2: Now your ex got married, so that ended that whole thing. 1240 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,680 Speaker 2: Until recently all you all saw each other was doing 1241 01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,280 Speaker 2: pick up and drop off of y'all's daughter. You went 1242 01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 2: over to the house to pick up the daughter one time. 1243 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:47,680 Speaker 2: He told you that his wife was out of town 1244 01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 2: and wanted to show you how they painted. 1245 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 5: The baby bedroom. That's when he said, he took you back. 1246 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:57,880 Speaker 2: To this huge storage area by his bedroom and locked 1247 01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:02,640 Speaker 2: the door. That's a lie. Let's cheaping this thing right 1248 01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:06,840 Speaker 2: on up. You know, got a house, got a large 1249 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 2: storage air next to their bedroom. That's a hall closet. 1250 01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:18,560 Speaker 2: That's what that is. It wasn't no huge room and 1251 01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:21,680 Speaker 2: all that. Then he locked the door behind you. But 1252 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:28,640 Speaker 2: then your husband called it that very moment. Hell right, 1253 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 2: I'm be right home quick. Wait, I'll be home, but 1254 01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 2: I don't know what these people doing out here in 1255 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:39,439 Speaker 2: this traffic. I'll be home and I'll call you. Let 1256 01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 2: me call you back. I got to just be buy. 1257 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:45,120 Speaker 6: So. 1258 01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:47,000 Speaker 2: I don't know how you played that off, but that 1259 01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:52,400 Speaker 2: sounded like it. I had to have sex real quick. 1260 01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 2: That's what I had to do, and it was so 1261 01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,680 Speaker 2: so so good. I got myself together and my daughter 1262 01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 2: and I left. On the way home, my daughter asked 1263 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:07,200 Speaker 2: me why we were locked in the closet. That's because 1264 01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:11,120 Speaker 2: your daughter knew what it was. Yeah, she heard this 1265 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,360 Speaker 2: huge story room. The daughter said, it's a closet. What 1266 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,720 Speaker 2: room down the hallway next to the bedroom. That's a 1267 01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 2: huge extra lady bye. I tried to convince her. My 1268 01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 2: daughter asked why we were locked in the closet. I 1269 01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,440 Speaker 2: tried to convince her that she was mistaken. She's a 1270 01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,920 Speaker 2: very outspoken eight year old, so I'm sure she'll ask again. 1271 01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,120 Speaker 2: What do I tell my child? And what if she 1272 01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 2: ask in front of my husband? Well, this is how 1273 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:41,840 Speaker 2: you had an eight year old. 1274 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 1: Okay. 1275 01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:50,280 Speaker 2: You use something that's important to an eight year old 1276 01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:55,040 Speaker 2: and you hang it over the head in the form 1277 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 2: of a threat. 1278 01:06:58,920 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 7: Okay, like you. 1279 01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:04,040 Speaker 2: Oh so I see you don't want nothing for Christmas. 1280 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:10,320 Speaker 2: You're not gonna get no birthday gift this year. Now 1281 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:12,960 Speaker 2: you go in this house running your mouth and asking 1282 01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:16,400 Speaker 2: about it. Because I was not in that room. I 1283 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 2: was in there looking at your bedroom, and we came 1284 01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,160 Speaker 2: right out. You was watching TV. That's why I got 1285 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:23,040 Speaker 2: you and we came home. 1286 01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:25,920 Speaker 7: Well where were those noises? 1287 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:26,400 Speaker 12: I heard? 1288 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,160 Speaker 7: Mommy? 1289 01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:32,880 Speaker 2: You keep on home, do listen to me. You keep 1290 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,120 Speaker 2: on and you finish find out that it ain't either 1291 01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:41,040 Speaker 2: one of them your reds, dady. She's only eight st Well, 1292 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:43,880 Speaker 2: you're gonna need therapy playing with me. What you're gonna need? 1293 01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,880 Speaker 7: I heard so much noise and you were hollering Mommy. 1294 01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:53,560 Speaker 2: Stop calling me that, because I ain't you real mama. 1295 01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,560 Speaker 2: Now get in the car. See, I'm gonna put something 1296 01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:58,800 Speaker 2: else on that eight year old head. I'm gonna twist 1297 01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 2: their little brain up so bad. We'll be talking about 1298 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:01,760 Speaker 2: the closet. 1299 01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 5: Mama. What you mean You ain't my mama. 1300 01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:04,439 Speaker 2: I ain't your mama. 1301 01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:06,240 Speaker 5: And that made your daddies. Now let's get in the. 1302 01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:07,480 Speaker 2: Car and go to school. 1303 01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 1: Baby. 1304 01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 2: You have a quandary, lady, because you did something in 1305 01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:17,080 Speaker 2: front of the child. 1306 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,600 Speaker 5: Kids nowadays are not stupid. 1307 01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:21,400 Speaker 7: They are not. 1308 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:27,320 Speaker 2: They are over exposed to everything. Everything that's right. 1309 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:29,240 Speaker 5: Every single thing. 1310 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:34,679 Speaker 2: So know that, be aware, make the adjustments and now 1311 01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:36,920 Speaker 2: all you can do. And you raised this little girl, 1312 01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:39,639 Speaker 2: so you know she's outspoken, and you know she gonna 1313 01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,719 Speaker 2: ask again one more question, because mammy, you never cleared 1314 01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:43,240 Speaker 2: this up. 1315 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,919 Speaker 7: Yeah, one more question. Why were your clothes all wrinkled 1316 01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:47,519 Speaker 7: and stuff? 1317 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:51,639 Speaker 5: Why was my clothes rinking? 1318 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:52,200 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1319 01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:56,240 Speaker 2: Because I went to the bathroom and David didn't have 1320 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:58,639 Speaker 2: no toilet, titian. I was thinking about using my blog, 1321 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:02,360 Speaker 2: but I found a toilet. Really really, don't ask me nothing. 1322 01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:04,080 Speaker 2: I say stuff like. 1323 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:08,720 Speaker 7: Mommy, what about your hair? It was messed up? 1324 01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:11,439 Speaker 2: My hair was You weren't looking at me when we 1325 01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:13,439 Speaker 2: came in here because you're so busy watching that TV. 1326 01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 2: My hair was messed up when we came in here 1327 01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:17,880 Speaker 2: having a baddy. 1328 01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:21,720 Speaker 9: It was it was no, it was straight on that side. 1329 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,640 Speaker 5: My head on b straight on that side. That's my 1330 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:26,320 Speaker 5: other wig. 1331 01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,000 Speaker 7: You've traumatized this poor child. 1332 01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:36,360 Speaker 2: And all that you think is your mama had them 1333 01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:38,920 Speaker 2: is weediday. 1334 01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 9: Boast your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Barbi 1335 01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:47,120 Speaker 9: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 1336 01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,880 Speaker 9: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app for it never 1337 01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:51,800 Speaker 9: sounded so good. 1338 01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,560 Speaker 2: You can Santa Claus, don't come to nose kids. 1339 01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:58,200 Speaker 9: Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour, we 1340 01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 9: got junior and sports talk. After this, you're listening to 1341 01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:06,599 Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1342 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,040 Speaker 1: Hey, is Carla. 1343 01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:11,720 Speaker 15: Ferroll kick that old mop and bucket aside? Are you 1344 01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,640 Speaker 15: ready for a mop and bucket clean? And half the 1345 01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:18,840 Speaker 15: time make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop, the only one. 1346 01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,759 Speaker 15: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1347 01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:23,839 Speaker 15: dirt and grime like magic. 1348 01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 1: With hundreds of. 1349 01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:29,799 Speaker 15: Scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. 1350 01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:33,639 Speaker 15: Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1351 01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:37,679 Speaker 15: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1352 01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:42,120 Speaker 7: It is time now for junior and sports talk. What 1353 01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:42,960 Speaker 7: you got, Junior? 1354 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:44,960 Speaker 1: Why we even got to do this today? 1355 01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:46,880 Speaker 10: I no? 1356 01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:47,519 Speaker 6: Why? 1357 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,040 Speaker 2: Sorry that? 1358 01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:55,120 Speaker 9: First of all, congratulations floor, pull yourself together, Junior. 1359 01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:56,759 Speaker 2: I'm trying to call. 1360 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:03,920 Speaker 8: The Autumn's national champions. They are University of Florida gat US. 1361 01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:09,240 Speaker 8: They beat it my Houston, Google's sixty five sixty If 1362 01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:09,759 Speaker 8: you're wanting. 1363 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:13,839 Speaker 1: To add junior for yourself together, sixty three. 1364 01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 9: Quite frankly, Temmy, we was up the whole first half. 1365 01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:23,760 Speaker 2: I know, we was dominating. 1366 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:25,320 Speaker 1: We had a twelve point lead. 1367 01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 2: I remember that. Then it started, you would it was. 1368 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:31,200 Speaker 2: It was. 1369 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:36,240 Speaker 9: All down to Florida. Tommy, don't you start. Don't you 1370 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:37,439 Speaker 9: don't make me cried? 1371 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:39,040 Speaker 2: You know? 1372 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:43,599 Speaker 8: I told him the Google's didn't bitch y'all to turn around. 1373 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:44,719 Speaker 1: We got bit by gat. 1374 01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:53,160 Speaker 9: Them they chump they did chump us. 1375 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 10: Wow, oh we got it was a good game, though, ju. 1376 01:11:57,160 --> 01:11:58,640 Speaker 10: You gotta give it to him, man, it was a 1377 01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:02,360 Speaker 10: good game. Hard, it was, it was, it was. It 1378 01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:02,840 Speaker 10: was a game. 1379 01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:04,280 Speaker 2: You know what. I wanted the full time. 1380 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:06,280 Speaker 1: I really wanted it for fly Slamma jama. 1381 01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:08,800 Speaker 2: I want to want to see. 1382 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:12,240 Speaker 10: I know, I know, but you know what, I'm still 1383 01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 10: happy back. We beat the hell out of Duke. 1384 01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:15,479 Speaker 2: That's all. 1385 01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:19,479 Speaker 8: They can't take that you asked about the only thing 1386 01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:21,200 Speaker 8: they can't take that from you. 1387 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:22,719 Speaker 2: Ain't that away. 1388 01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:26,240 Speaker 8: No, you cannot take that away from us. Only team 1389 01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:27,520 Speaker 8: that can really talk crazy. 1390 01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 5: To us is Florida. 1391 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:32,519 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, that's that's And you know what, man, we 1392 01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,600 Speaker 8: got such a great head coach at university used to. 1393 01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,280 Speaker 1: I mean, let's just give it up for Kevin SAMs. 1394 01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:39,760 Speaker 1: Kevin class class a guy. 1395 01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 8: Yes, you know, Todd Golden congratulations, a head coach for Florida. 1396 01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:46,639 Speaker 8: You know, the second youngest coach to win the national 1397 01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:48,720 Speaker 8: championship at thirty eight years old. 1398 01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,759 Speaker 10: Any are these are all seniors for Houston? 1399 01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:52,120 Speaker 7: No? 1400 01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,679 Speaker 2: Not allon No, no, no, no, not all of them. Okay, 1401 01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 2: so a lot of these kids are coming back. 1402 01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 8: Yeah, some of the young ones. Yeah, like you know 1403 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,559 Speaker 8: you had you know, Robertson's senior. You had choir who 1404 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 8: was a senior. Yes, the mother guys a senior's grad students. 1405 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 8: But for the most part, man, I think we still 1406 01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:07,760 Speaker 8: have a good team. 1407 01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:09,559 Speaker 1: Next year, you know, we're gonna have a good team. 1408 01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:13,519 Speaker 1: They have a good chance of coming back. You know, portal, y'all. 1409 01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:16,760 Speaker 9: Don't don't end at the portal. Come on back now. Yeah, 1410 01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,640 Speaker 9: just please stay out the portal. You don't even know 1411 01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:20,280 Speaker 9: where that goes. 1412 01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:23,800 Speaker 10: Yeah, this ain't got nothing. This ain't got nothing to 1413 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,479 Speaker 10: do with none of that. I am gonna go down 1414 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:26,600 Speaker 10: there in the u of A and cut some of 1415 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:28,839 Speaker 10: the hat. We finished shaped this sometime. 1416 01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:31,679 Speaker 2: Don't get the yes, I am. 1417 01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:33,400 Speaker 12: Up. 1418 01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 1: All right, let's gonna cut some. 1419 01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 2: Of the hair. 1420 01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:39,400 Speaker 7: Thank you, Junior. 1421 01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:41,639 Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, a woman 1422 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:44,719 Speaker 9: on social media needs some advice. She says, great guy, 1423 01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,040 Speaker 9: terrible sex life. We'll talk about it right after this. 1424 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:50,920 Speaker 2: Look like you got your hair on baccles. What are 1425 01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:51,439 Speaker 2: you doing? 1426 01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:55,120 Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1427 01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:03,320 Speaker 9: I Steve here. This is from Jaquela on Steve Harvey FM. 1428 01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:07,000 Speaker 9: Jaquyla says, I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years, 1429 01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:11,759 Speaker 9: and emotionally he's everything I've ever hoped for. He's kind, loyal, 1430 01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:14,960 Speaker 9: and thoughtful. But the sex has never been that good. 1431 01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 9: It's not for lack of communication. He just doesn't seem 1432 01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:22,360 Speaker 9: to care or want to get better. I hate that 1433 01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,280 Speaker 9: this matters so much to me, but it does. Can 1434 01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:28,400 Speaker 9: I really commit to a lifelong relationship with someone who 1435 01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:29,679 Speaker 9: is bad in bed? 1436 01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:34,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all he bad, you know, all his bad 1437 01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:36,920 Speaker 2: sex and this come that's just no practice. 1438 01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:40,519 Speaker 7: But he doesn't seem to care, she says, or. 1439 01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:44,559 Speaker 5: His call of me is he's having it for himself 1440 01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:45,400 Speaker 5: and not for her. 1441 01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:50,800 Speaker 2: If a man could understand, yeah that if you put 1442 01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:54,280 Speaker 2: the focus on her, your return is even. 1443 01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:57,479 Speaker 7: Greater in every aspect of life. 1444 01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:01,320 Speaker 2: You just got to put the focus on her her first. 1445 01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:09,479 Speaker 2: Take your time. Full play is critical. What full play 1446 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:18,920 Speaker 2: is critical? You need that because it extends the time spent. Okay, 1447 01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:23,560 Speaker 2: and you're gonna have to learn some things. The precession 1448 01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:27,000 Speaker 2: is just as important and can be critical to the 1449 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:29,400 Speaker 2: outcome of the main event. 1450 01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:32,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, because a woman has to get her in the 1451 01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:33,320 Speaker 7: right head space. 1452 01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:36,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, here's a deal. I think that's the best 1453 01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:38,000 Speaker 2: way to put it. For fellas, It's like when you 1454 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,160 Speaker 2: go to the fight. You got the pre liums, you 1455 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:44,680 Speaker 2: got the bouts that start before before the main call 1456 01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 2: on the car. 1457 01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:47,080 Speaker 7: Now they can understand it. 1458 01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:52,639 Speaker 2: You've got to have an outstanding under card. The pre 1459 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:57,200 Speaker 2: limns have got to be outstanding. You better preach because 1460 01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:00,479 Speaker 2: the main card is everything. 1461 01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:06,080 Speaker 1: Your work, yes, work, yeah, that's. 1462 01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:07,040 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. 1463 01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:14,280 Speaker 2: And then word get out. Well watch see see see 1464 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:16,599 Speaker 2: see here the part that you don't know this why 1465 01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,400 Speaker 2: this young boy struggling over here and she won't know 1466 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:24,320 Speaker 2: word get out about your fight car. 1467 01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:27,519 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, uh. 1468 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,559 Speaker 2: Next thing you know, word is out talking about man. 1469 01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:34,320 Speaker 2: You got to get a ticket to see this. 1470 01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:37,240 Speaker 7: Hill the main event. 1471 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:44,400 Speaker 15: Yeah okay, all right, all right, you ap preached that thing, 1472 01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:46,439 Speaker 15: so we have time. 1473 01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:55,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. 1474 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:55,439 Speaker 2: Steve. 1475 01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,560 Speaker 7: This is from Layla on Steve Harvey f M. 1476 01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,040 Speaker 9: Layla says, so I had a bad relationship with this 1477 01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:05,240 Speaker 9: guy and we broke up. However, I just found out 1478 01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:07,920 Speaker 9: that my friend who was cool with me and my ex, 1479 01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:10,640 Speaker 9: knew what my ex was was up to, and he 1480 01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:12,680 Speaker 9: was up to no good and he didn't tell me, 1481 01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:17,760 Speaker 9: which is okay, his choice. However, now my friend just 1482 01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:20,439 Speaker 9: got hired at my job and he's just chopping it 1483 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:21,840 Speaker 9: up with me like we're cool. 1484 01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:22,920 Speaker 7: We're not. 1485 01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 9: Is there a way I can tell him don't talk 1486 01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:29,240 Speaker 9: to me without making myself look like I'm mean at work? 1487 01:17:30,040 --> 01:17:31,280 Speaker 2: She's done? 1488 01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:33,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's done with him. 1489 01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:35,679 Speaker 5: And her friend was a guy. 1490 01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:39,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, uh huh tell you all this. 1491 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:44,800 Speaker 9: She and the guy that's her friend was also friend 1492 01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:46,640 Speaker 9: with her ex boyfriend. 1493 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:49,800 Speaker 2: And his loyalty. His loyalty is to. 1494 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 7: His boy Yep. 1495 01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:55,040 Speaker 5: First, that's manhood cold. 1496 01:17:56,360 --> 01:18:00,280 Speaker 2: Okay. I know I know a lot of couples that 1497 01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:03,720 Speaker 2: I'm cool with, but it we probably cool cause of 1498 01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:06,400 Speaker 2: that due I ain't never been cool with a woman. 1499 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:08,200 Speaker 2: And then she introduced me to a boyfriend. 1500 01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:08,800 Speaker 5: What is that. 1501 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:12,800 Speaker 2: I ain't never had that? I'm cool with the doe 1502 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,559 Speaker 2: because I told you already. If you find me and 1503 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:18,439 Speaker 2: you not really Finn to be cool, I'm just gonna 1504 01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:21,479 Speaker 2: let you know that, right, were not really finn to 1505 01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:25,479 Speaker 2: be cool. Okay, it might look like. 1506 01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:31,800 Speaker 10: It, but I'm working on something looking upside your head though, 1507 01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:33,200 Speaker 10: don't slip. 1508 01:18:33,880 --> 01:18:35,599 Speaker 1: I'm a hall all right. 1509 01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:39,439 Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1510 01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:42,519 Speaker 9: up at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 1511 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:44,400 Speaker 9: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1512 01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:50,200 Speaker 7: Have you ever heard of the fire movement? 1513 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:54,280 Speaker 9: Fire stands for a financially independent retire early, and it's 1514 01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,280 Speaker 9: a trend growing in popularity with gen zers. 1515 01:18:57,880 --> 01:18:58,920 Speaker 7: It's all about. 1516 01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,000 Speaker 9: Being frugal now so they don't have to work into 1517 01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:04,320 Speaker 9: their sixties or even seventies. Twenty four year old shared 1518 01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:07,760 Speaker 9: in a TikTok video that she skips salon visits and 1519 01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 9: other non essentials and has already saved ninety thousand dollars 1520 01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:16,120 Speaker 9: her goal. She wants to retire by forty So here's 1521 01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:20,919 Speaker 9: the question. If you guys set that magic retirement number 1522 01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:24,360 Speaker 9: and how much money do you need to save to retire? 1523 01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:29,000 Speaker 9: Fire stands for what financially independent, retire early? 1524 01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:30,040 Speaker 1: I like it. 1525 01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, they didn't have that when I was coming. 1526 01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:34,960 Speaker 7: Up, they did not, So what's your number? 1527 01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:39,840 Speaker 2: I got a new program, my mon It's. 1528 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:45,559 Speaker 7: Called I Won I won w o en And what 1529 01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:47,400 Speaker 7: does that stand for? What does that stay? 1530 01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:52,439 Speaker 2: It stands for? I won't out now. I ain't get 1531 01:19:52,439 --> 01:19:54,479 Speaker 2: a chance to do the five thing with y'all, I 1532 01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 2: just won't out. So what y'all got for that? 1533 01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:57,519 Speaker 10: I won? 1534 01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:01,480 Speaker 1: What's the the whole program? 1535 01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:02,400 Speaker 2: Hey? Junior? 1536 01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:06,600 Speaker 5: What's your number? Junior? What's your number? Come on, you 1537 01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:07,200 Speaker 5: gotta give me. 1538 01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:08,120 Speaker 1: One about thirty million? 1539 01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 5: Thirty Tommy, what's your number? 1540 01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,120 Speaker 2: I ain't gotta be there twenty and you? 1541 01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:16,759 Speaker 7: He wants out now? 1542 01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 1: So say what's the number? 1543 01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:20,120 Speaker 6: Uh? 1544 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:23,719 Speaker 2: You got Junior telling me about what? What need about? 1545 01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:25,600 Speaker 2: I need about two hundred. 1546 01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:29,920 Speaker 7: Million coming up? We'll play around you. Would you rather? 1547 01:20:30,320 --> 01:20:33,719 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1548 01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:40,639 Speaker 2: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your 1549 01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:44,240 Speaker 2: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck 1550 01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:48,599 Speaker 2: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping 1551 01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:53,160 Speaker 2: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features 1552 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:55,800 Speaker 2: that can alert you to potential dangers around you. 1553 01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 10: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 1554 01:20:58,600 --> 01:21:01,680 Speaker 10: road doesn't get you. Vehicles of one over one D 1555 01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:05,200 Speaker 10: and twenty IIHS top Safety Awards from two thousand and 1556 01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:10,000 Speaker 10: six to twenty twenty four. As of December twenty twenty four, it. 1557 01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:11,679 Speaker 7: Is time now for would you rather? 1558 01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:16,320 Speaker 9: Would you rather be the prom king or would you 1559 01:21:16,400 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 9: rather be the star quarterback? 1560 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:20,760 Speaker 7: Prom king or star quarterback? 1561 01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:22,960 Speaker 2: I'll be, yeah, star quarterback. 1562 01:21:23,520 --> 01:21:24,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to be no pro. I don't want 1563 01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:26,479 Speaker 1: no scepter in my hand. I don't look right. 1564 01:21:31,920 --> 01:21:36,559 Speaker 2: I'm going with the sec. I'm prom king all day long. Yeah, 1565 01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:42,320 Speaker 2: I already know I'm prom queen prom king. Cuse I 1566 01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:43,960 Speaker 2: can't throw no football. 1567 01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:48,080 Speaker 9: So if I throw it, it's gonna be high and 1568 01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:49,040 Speaker 9: it's gonna wobble. 1569 01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 7: All right? 1570 01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:59,440 Speaker 9: Would you rather have a permanent unibrow or a receding hairline? 1571 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,519 Speaker 7: Come on, y'all, Sorry, it's sorry. I don't make this up. 1572 01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,759 Speaker 2: I know you can tell when they wrote it before you. 1573 01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,679 Speaker 7: Sorry, you ain't got Tam. 1574 01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:11,720 Speaker 2: Jr. Already got it? 1575 01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,720 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna go with me. I already got it. Hey, 1576 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay with what I know. 1577 01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:20,799 Speaker 2: Finally, boy, but if you had both though. 1578 01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:30,920 Speaker 5: The time I would be having Junior, you probably couldn't 1579 01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:31,439 Speaker 5: even come work. 1580 01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:38,519 Speaker 2: Man brought up up? 1581 01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 9: All right, tell me what's yours? Receding hairline or unibrow? 1582 01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:46,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to receive headline. I can't do this. That's 1583 01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:48,160 Speaker 2: going straight across my face. 1584 01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:57,559 Speaker 9: Like, would you rather live a peaceful life in an 1585 01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:59,760 Speaker 9: r V or would you rather live in a man 1586 01:23:00,400 --> 01:23:01,280 Speaker 9: with drama? 1587 01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:02,960 Speaker 6: R V? 1588 01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:10,840 Speaker 2: Mm peacefully I'm every day and then I'm gonna argue every. 1589 01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:14,120 Speaker 7: Day in your mansion. 1590 01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,920 Speaker 2: Okay, he's gonna get tight. M hm. 1591 01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:22,240 Speaker 7: I know what you're gonna say, but just say it anyway. 1592 01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get in that r V. I'm not sure 1593 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:27,880 Speaker 2: I already lived in a mansion and drama. I'm gonna 1594 01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:28,360 Speaker 2: get off. 1595 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:30,720 Speaker 15: Why s. 1596 01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:35,400 Speaker 2: Drive off? Pullover? P in the back, don't back up? 1597 01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:36,320 Speaker 2: Dry some more. 1598 01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:38,439 Speaker 1: You think you know a person? 1599 01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, I've lived in a mansion with drama. 1600 01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:47,200 Speaker 2: The Bible says it is better for a man to 1601 01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:49,799 Speaker 2: live on the rooftop on the corner of a house 1602 01:23:49,840 --> 01:23:54,960 Speaker 2: than inside of it with a quelsome woman. You don't know. 1603 01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:56,960 Speaker 6: God? 1604 01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:57,360 Speaker 2: All right? 1605 01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:00,439 Speaker 9: Last one, guys, Would you rather give up curse for 1606 01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,280 Speaker 9: the next five years or ice cream? 1607 01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:09,320 Speaker 2: I can't? Yeah, ice cream? Well no, I'm not gonna 1608 01:24:09,320 --> 01:24:11,439 Speaker 2: give a cussing because I'm gonna be cussing if I'll 1609 01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:12,280 Speaker 2: getting no ice cream. 1610 01:24:13,080 --> 01:24:18,200 Speaker 9: Right, all right, guys, thank you. That's today's roundup. Would 1611 01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,800 Speaker 9: you rather coming up at forty nine? Minutes after. It's 1612 01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:22,720 Speaker 9: our last break of the day. We'll close out the 1613 01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:26,240 Speaker 9: show with the one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, 1614 01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:33,320 Speaker 9: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1615 01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:35,720 Speaker 2: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your 1616 01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:39,360 Speaker 2: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck 1617 01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:43,679 Speaker 2: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting vikar creeping 1618 01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:48,200 Speaker 2: up beside you. Fortunately, every Hunday offers advanced safety features 1619 01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:50,880 Speaker 2: that can alert you to potential dangers around you. 1620 01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,600 Speaker 10: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 1621 01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:56,400 Speaker 10: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have one over one 1622 01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:59,920 Speaker 10: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thous 1623 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:03,080 Speaker 10: I was six to twenty twenty four as of December 1624 01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:04,160 Speaker 10: twenty four. 1625 01:25:05,040 --> 01:25:07,200 Speaker 9: All right, guys, this is our last break of the 1626 01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:10,200 Speaker 9: day and Steve you ready to close out the show. 1627 01:25:10,880 --> 01:25:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, man, it's something personal. I'm really 1628 01:25:16,080 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 2: really learning more and more and more about forgiveness. I'm 1629 01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:23,680 Speaker 2: just learning more and more and more about it. You know, 1630 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:28,840 Speaker 2: I've always known that forgiveness is for you, not so 1631 01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:33,519 Speaker 2: much the other person. Bishop Jake said it best one time. 1632 01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:37,719 Speaker 2: He say not forgiving a person. It's like you drinking 1633 01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:43,400 Speaker 2: a poison hoping that they die. And that's really what 1634 01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:46,800 Speaker 2: it is when you forgive somebody. Well, first of all, 1635 01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:50,880 Speaker 2: let me start with when you don't forgive somebody. Let 1636 01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,080 Speaker 2: me tell you what happens when you don't forgive a person. 1637 01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:58,040 Speaker 2: Every time they name come up, it stirs up something 1638 01:25:58,080 --> 01:26:02,920 Speaker 2: in you, don't it. Every time you hear they name mention, 1639 01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:06,360 Speaker 2: it does something to you. Every time you run across 1640 01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:10,639 Speaker 2: a picture, it brings up something, don't it. Every time 1641 01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:13,800 Speaker 2: you hear another story about this person, blah blah blah, 1642 01:26:13,960 --> 01:26:16,880 Speaker 2: every time you hear some news about them, every time 1643 01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:20,040 Speaker 2: you hear they said something else about you. It just 1644 01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:25,000 Speaker 2: keeps on bringing stuff up, even when you sitting around 1645 01:26:25,120 --> 01:26:28,760 Speaker 2: on your own. You imagine what you gonna say to 1646 01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:32,519 Speaker 2: them when you see them. Oh, I know you do, 1647 01:26:34,040 --> 01:26:40,160 Speaker 2: because I've been through it the exact same way. Oh man, 1648 01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:45,040 Speaker 2: Especially man, when somebody somebody do something to you that 1649 01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:50,800 Speaker 2: ain't right and you know it ain't right. That's hard, man. 1650 01:26:51,080 --> 01:26:55,080 Speaker 2: When somebody's sitting around lying on you and you know 1651 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:59,879 Speaker 2: the truth, but you, for whatever the reason, can't defend yourself. 1652 01:27:00,479 --> 01:27:04,679 Speaker 2: There wasn't available or nobody asked you about it. Hey, man, 1653 01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:08,719 Speaker 2: that's tough. And you sit up and you're talking about 1654 01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 2: man when I see so and so, this is what 1655 01:27:11,240 --> 01:27:12,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say. 1656 01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:13,599 Speaker 5: I can't tell you. 1657 01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:21,960 Speaker 2: The hours I've wasted wishing I could run up into somebody, 1658 01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:28,040 Speaker 2: hoping I see them somewhere. I mean, and I'm miles 1659 01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:31,599 Speaker 2: and miles and miles away from this person I'm talking about. Man, 1660 01:27:31,720 --> 01:27:36,080 Speaker 2: really got no chance of running up into him at all. 1661 01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:36,479 Speaker 10: All. 1662 01:27:36,640 --> 01:27:40,240 Speaker 2: Then they pop up again and they do it to you. 1663 01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 2: Here's the one that really hurts your feelings. Have you 1664 01:27:42,840 --> 01:27:48,160 Speaker 2: ever had somebody do something to you publicly, then see 1665 01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:50,439 Speaker 2: you privately, you know, do something to you down on 1666 01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:53,080 Speaker 2: your job or something like that, or at your little 1667 01:27:53,080 --> 01:27:58,280 Speaker 2: club or your bowling night, And then privately they apologize 1668 01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:02,960 Speaker 2: to you and you say okay, And then a little 1669 01:28:02,960 --> 01:28:05,599 Speaker 2: while later they do the exact same thing again. They 1670 01:28:05,640 --> 01:28:07,479 Speaker 2: back out in public running their mouth. You gonna wait 1671 01:28:07,520 --> 01:28:11,920 Speaker 2: a minute, man, I know the truth about you. I 1672 01:28:12,000 --> 01:28:13,960 Speaker 2: really know. When you see me face to face, you 1673 01:28:14,040 --> 01:28:17,200 Speaker 2: a coward. I know that about you. But soon as 1674 01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,880 Speaker 2: you get in front of somebody, soon as the spotlight 1675 01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:21,920 Speaker 2: on you, here you come with a brand new has 1676 01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:25,760 Speaker 2: that ever happened to you? Yes, it has. Somebody says 1677 01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:28,200 Speaker 2: something to you down at the church, talked about you. 1678 01:28:28,280 --> 01:28:31,519 Speaker 2: Then you confronted them, forgive me, sister, forgive me brother, 1679 01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:33,360 Speaker 2: and you do it, and then a little later on 1680 01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:35,559 Speaker 2: they do it again. Okay, cool, I got all that. 1681 01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:40,800 Speaker 2: You gotta forgive them? Oh no, no, Steve, I'm gonna 1682 01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:43,200 Speaker 2: tighten them up. No, man, let me tell you what 1683 01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,360 Speaker 2: you're doing. You're doing the same thing I was doing 1684 01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:53,000 Speaker 2: to myself. You wasting energy because guess what, what did 1685 01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:57,120 Speaker 2: it really change? The stuff they said about you? What 1686 01:28:57,240 --> 01:29:02,639 Speaker 2: did it really change? You've been moving on and rolling 1687 01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:06,000 Speaker 2: on and just going on about your day. You really 1688 01:29:06,080 --> 01:29:09,439 Speaker 2: man ain't lost a step because of that lie, that rumor, 1689 01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:13,639 Speaker 2: that untruth, that falsehood. You really didn't lose a step 1690 01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:21,719 Speaker 2: at all. But you keep prohibiting the next step because 1691 01:29:21,760 --> 01:29:24,960 Speaker 2: you won't let go of something somebody did to you. 1692 01:29:25,800 --> 01:29:29,760 Speaker 2: The Lord's prayer says, forgive us our trust passes, as 1693 01:29:29,840 --> 01:29:33,679 Speaker 2: we forgive those who truspass against us, because we gonna 1694 01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:35,920 Speaker 2: make a mistake too. Now it may not be that one, 1695 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:38,320 Speaker 2: but we're gonna have to go to God for something. Now, 1696 01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:42,320 Speaker 2: God gonna reward us and give us something the same 1697 01:29:42,360 --> 01:29:43,839 Speaker 2: way we give it out to other people. 1698 01:29:43,960 --> 01:29:45,600 Speaker 5: Plus, let me tell you what I really had to 1699 01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:48,839 Speaker 5: learn about it. When you don't. 1700 01:29:48,640 --> 01:29:54,800 Speaker 2: Forgive a person, you're blocking your blessings. You blocking your blessings. 1701 01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:01,200 Speaker 2: A woman, an old woman that I know who I 1702 01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:05,719 Speaker 2: just happened to be talking to a relative, as she says, Steve, 1703 01:30:07,240 --> 01:30:12,200 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. I have watched you. I 1704 01:30:12,280 --> 01:30:15,839 Speaker 2: have watched God bless you. I have watched God change 1705 01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:19,240 Speaker 2: your life. I have watched you develop into a better person. 1706 01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:23,240 Speaker 2: I'm so happy you met Marjorie. I can see so 1707 01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:26,519 Speaker 2: many things in your life. She said. But let me 1708 01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:30,160 Speaker 2: tell you something, young man. If you're holding on to 1709 01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:34,760 Speaker 2: anything that anybody has done to you, let it go, 1710 01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:39,880 Speaker 2: because you're blocking your blessings. As blessed as you are, 1711 01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:42,880 Speaker 2: she said, I bet you there's something you can't figure 1712 01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:45,040 Speaker 2: out why you just can't get this next one to 1713 01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:48,439 Speaker 2: go through. And I said, you know what, You're right. 1714 01:30:49,880 --> 01:30:52,639 Speaker 2: I've been wondering why something taking so long, she said, 1715 01:30:52,680 --> 01:30:55,000 Speaker 2: Because God ain't gonna give it to you and to 1716 01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:59,280 Speaker 2: you forgive that person, he said, because he don't want 1717 01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:01,200 Speaker 2: you to carry that with you into the new level. 1718 01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:04,760 Speaker 2: He gonna take you too. In order to get to 1719 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:08,160 Speaker 2: the next level, you gotta let some stuff go. In 1720 01:31:08,280 --> 01:31:10,760 Speaker 2: order to reach your full orbit in life, you can't 1721 01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:13,679 Speaker 2: carry all the gas tanks. Some of them gas tanks 1722 01:31:13,760 --> 01:31:15,679 Speaker 2: is empty and out of gas. They got to fall 1723 01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:19,080 Speaker 2: off so the ship can get into full orbit. Let 1724 01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:23,360 Speaker 2: it go so God can move you forward. That's the 1725 01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:27,120 Speaker 2: best thing I've learned about forgiveness, And it's really for 1726 01:31:27,240 --> 01:31:32,400 Speaker 2: you because that person right there really ain't about lotted now. 1727 01:31:33,240 --> 01:31:36,200 Speaker 2: They really ain't, So why would you allow them to 1728 01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:39,400 Speaker 2: affect you that way? Just think about it, y'all. 1729 01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:40,000 Speaker 6: I have. 1730 01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:44,080 Speaker 5: For myself, y'all, have a great day. 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